1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:04,720 Chatters. Welcome back to another chit 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:08,600 chat episode with the chatters. I'll let all the songs wow, 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:10,320 where's? That Connor hi the. 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:12,720 Songs tonight, great. Thank you guys so much for 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:14,960 tuning in again today. We appreciate you guys. 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:17,200 We love you guys and thank you all. 7 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:21,200 You have all written into the survey and that was so good and 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,560 we are making some changes based off your feedback. 9 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:27,080 So we want to thank you so much for that because we do what we 10 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,920 do with like, you know, kind of blind, you know, unless we hear 11 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,400 from you guys and we're enjoying what we're doing. 12 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,720 But what we enjoy the most is when we're actually hitting the 13 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,080 mark of what you guys need. So there's a bunch of things 14 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,040 that are coming in. We want to and we want to adapt 15 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:42,720 based off the feedback that you've given us. 16 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,960 So thank you so much for that. That's awesome. 17 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,280 Yeah. So you're gonna be seeing some 18 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,120 changes. Can I tell you what that reminds 19 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:49,720 me of? Well, there's a trend going 20 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,240 around on TikTok right now called eyebrow blindness. 21 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,240 Have you heard of this? You talking about my eyebrows? 22 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:56,600 No, it's not yours. No, no, no, no, no, no. 23 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,720 It's not yours. It's people that intentionally 24 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,680 do their eyebrows in very dramatic ways. 25 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,960 But for some reason, you can't see it. 26 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,400 They can't see it. They get more and more intense 27 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,240 and the videos of them are like, pretty hectic. 28 00:01:09,320 --> 00:01:11,280 And then all of a sudden people will point it out and they'll be 29 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,920 like, Oh my God, how have I not seen this? 30 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,200 And that's what I feel like this is the these surveys are our 31 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,520 little, like, moments of reality to the eyebrow blindness. 32 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,920 The things that we just don't see, we just marinate in. 33 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,480 Yeah, yeah. And we had a couple of 34 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,080 conversations with you guys about like, I don't want to come 35 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,720 across too harsh or I don't want to, you know, all that sort of 36 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,000 stuff. We seriously we have thick skins 37 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,560 for starters, while I've got thicker skin than you. 38 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:40,520 But yeah. I read them all, but again, like 39 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,760 for me, I'm like, I want to know what I need to do different. 40 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,280 So actually your feedback, even if it is blunt, is still 41 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,000 feedback. And that is great for me to be 42 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,120 able to see because I can be like, cool, we can do that, 43 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,520 that, that and that. And I go very much down to 44 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,560 problem, fix it. Yeah, strategy mode and. 45 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,000 There's no point in US doing it if it's not what you guys want. 46 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:00,480 Yeah, exactly. Literally is not. 47 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:02,880 There's no point. Yeah, we love it. 48 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,160 So yeah, anyway, we've got a couple of things we're gonna do 49 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,000 tonight. We're gonna go through our chat 50 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,400 jar, actually, and that's gonna be a lot of our topics for 51 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,440 tonight. And then we're gonna to talk 52 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:15,720 through one of the next questions that was in was one of 53 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,840 you guys actually the chatters that wrote in, and it was a lot 54 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,440 of questions. So I've just broken it down. 55 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,520 We're gonna, yeah, address another one in this episode. 56 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,920 So if you haven't yet listen to the full episode, please do This 57 00:02:25,920 --> 00:02:27,640 is following on from that. You saw us off. 58 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:28,480 I am, yeah. Do it. 59 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,320 Which of us? I know the answer to this. 60 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,600 Which of us is the better secret keeper? 61 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:48,720 Let me just say you, you would be the better secret keeper. 62 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:52,160 The only reason? Where's this guy? 63 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,720 You don't ask for the information. 64 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,800 Yeah, exactly. So I'm probably the better 65 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:01,760 secret ticket, but because I don't remember information and 66 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,400 and I'm literally just repeating what you're saying, don't answer 67 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:06,560 question. You didn't even remember. 68 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,720 Yeah, unless it's Christmas gifts. 69 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:11,320 Then you're the worst secret keeper. 70 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:12,320 Why? You're good at keeping the 71 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,320 secret, but you constantly ask me if I want you to tell me 72 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,400 whatever. Yeah, I'm so excited. 73 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,240 Secrets. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 74 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,120 Because I I do. I kick ass a Christmas. 75 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:22,840 Gift. You do well. 76 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,000 Yeah, you do do well. I'm the Christmas. 77 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,520 King if it's if it's keeping a secret to surprise the other 78 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,200 one, I'm better at that because I. 79 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,880 I'm sorry. I'm sorry, did we just tell our 80 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,960 proposal story? Yeah, we did. 81 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,320 I'm sorry, did I organise a weekend away for you and you 82 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:41,080 had? Zero clue. 83 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:42,320 I doesn't. I know. 84 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:43,880 I'm still very proud of that because. 85 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:45,680 They watched me by Short. Time. 86 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:47,960 Yeah, you did get me that one time. 87 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,640 Let's not list all the times Amy has, but if it's a secret, like 88 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:55,360 someone's told him information, we would never tell each other's 89 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,560 secrets. For one thing, that's a vault. 90 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,400 We don't tell other people secrets either. 91 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:02,280 It's more that I'll often update Blair on things that are 92 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,720 happening in my world and with my friends or my family. 93 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,240 And Blair, just tonight, he's just telling me about somebody. 94 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,840 And I was like, oh, what's this, this and this? 95 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,680 And you're like, I don't know. I didn't ask. 96 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,279 Oh yeah. So it's not about, so you're not 97 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,640 actually answering the question, 'cause it's not a secret thing. 98 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,560 That's true. It's it's literally that I don't 99 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,480 pry into people's personal lives. 100 00:04:25,280 --> 00:04:27,160 That's what it is. I people wanna share. 101 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,560 With me. They can share with me, but I'm 102 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,160 not gonna. Keep It's nice to show 103 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:34,680 curiosity. I do show curiosity and I show 104 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,240 to a point where I feel like it's getting creepy and awkward. 105 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,320 Well, alright, Blason. Mutton with the chat jar chat. 106 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:43,000 Jar just brought out the spice tonight. 107 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,640 What's something you you'd like to try together? 108 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,520 Well. I want to Do you actually have 109 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:50,000 an answer? No. 110 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:51,880 I'm trying to think of something sexy but I've got nothing. 111 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,840 I actually want to try dancing together, not. 112 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,560 I mean, yeah, that sounds great. See, it's so funny because you 113 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,200 say you're the dancer. I used to be the dancer. 114 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,440 I've come to grips that I'm just no longer a dancer. 115 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,800 OK, I used to bust a move on the dance floor at parties, 116 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:11,040 weddings, whatever else, but now I'm like, I don't have my 117 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:12,920 groove. I think you would. 118 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,600 I think you just don't put yourself out there. 119 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,120 But I would love to do like TikTok trends and stuff more on 120 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,800 our socials and Blaze. Just not a keen green bean for 121 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,960 that. So we'll get there. 122 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,480 Something I'd like to do together, Hikes. 123 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,800 So you come with hikes, he'll go and hike with me and I'll do 124 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:30,880 TikTok videos with you. All right. 125 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:36,120 Deal we're never going to get do cool. 126 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,400 Another another one. Do one in one way each. 127 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,440 We're ploughing through these, why can't we do them as fast on 128 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,520 the podcast? This is a podcast. 129 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,240 What's one way we've grown individually that has benefited 130 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,840 our relationship? Oh my gosh, what's one way we 131 00:05:48,840 --> 00:05:51,160 haven't grown? Seriously, I think we've both 132 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:55,160 grown to be more like each other in some ways, so. 133 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,400 How's it individually? What do you mean? 134 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,080 It says how have you grown individually? 135 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,400 I individually, well yeah, I mean I've grown with your input 136 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,480 to be more. Individually, I don't. 137 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,000 Know how are we both grown individually? 138 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,600 Oh, I can't speak to you. I'm asking you for. 139 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:12,320 Me, I've got taller. I would say business like work 140 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,960 wise, professionally, we both grown individually which has 141 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:18,560 made it for a stronger kind of YEAH team. 142 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,360 And in different ways too because you communications and 143 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,560 marketing. And so again, the way that we 144 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,600 communicate has strengthened through the way that you've 145 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:27,760 grown in your professional world and me with my leadership and 146 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,040 management strategy. Strategy. 147 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,000 Has also been how do we bring it into our relationship. 148 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:38,080 It's absolutely, I think our business world last one, open it 149 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:42,120 up and get it up. Josh, you with the songs, baby. 150 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,320 If you if we could take a dream vacation anywhere, where would 151 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,120 it be and why? We're actually talking about 152 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:50,400 this, Yeah. Because. 153 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,920 Yeah, which won't happen. No, we're our 10 year 154 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:58,640 anniversary, next year marriage anniversary and we're broke. 155 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,280 We're broke, but I, I almost feel like doing something not 156 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,560 extravagant but for a longer period of time would be just as 157 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,600 fun for that. Like even going to somewhere 158 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:12,680 like the coast. I mean, we will definitely do 159 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,520 something. But like to the point of the 160 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,720 question. Yeah, going somewhere, if we 161 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,520 could go. We've we've thrown around going 162 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,200 to England because we love England. 163 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,240 I really want to get back to New York because I love New York. 164 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:25,280 Those are the two places that come to. 165 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,760 And we have heritage there too. In England, yeah. 166 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:30,840 So. That's that's part of a like 167 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,160 yeah, a draw more there and stuff. 168 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,000 Yeah. And I've got an Ireland and. 169 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,360 There's not many. I don't have a Europe trip on my 170 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,800 heart like some people do. We've done Europe individually 171 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,280 and together a little bit. So I don't really have a huge 172 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,840 draw to Europe, which obviously if someone took me there I'd be 173 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,800 fine to go. But yeah, we do like the UK. 174 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,120 We've got like quite a keen interest to go to Canada, 175 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:56,520 somewhere we'd love to go. Yeah. 176 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,960 Yeah. We've been to New Zealand, as 177 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,120 you know, but that's beautiful. It's not definitely. 178 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:04,080 I think for us our dream trip would be UK. 179 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,360 UK. Yeah, for just Amy and I 180 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,000 eventually with the kids, like when the kids are teenagers, 181 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,720 that'd be awesome. But like now if we went 182 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,520 tomorrow, it'd be just you and I to the UK for like a month. 183 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,080 Yeah, that'd be. So cool. 184 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,160 Get over jet lag. Yeah, yeah. 185 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,040 And then enjoy it, yeah. And then get jet lag back, yeah. 186 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,360 Yeah, exactly. And then be parenting with jet 187 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:25,000 lag. Amazing. 188 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,760 Cool. Good job chat jar. 189 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,680 All right, down to our chat. A question. 190 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,320 Want to know more about us? All right, want to know our 191 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:37,200 wedding story? So it's a big, I mean, it's a 192 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,760 hard one to say wedding story because it's, I guess there's a 193 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,120 story. It just feels less a proposal 194 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,040 story, feels more like, oh, there's a story and then wedding 195 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:50,080 stories like Big Thing. But yeah, so we got engaged in I 196 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:51,840 think July. We ended up getting married in 197 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,120 March the next year. So we were engaged for about 8 198 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:57,000 months. And I had always wanted dating. 199 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,840 For six months, engaged for eight months. 200 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:00,440 People think we're crazy, and we probably are. 201 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,280 Yeah, well, we're still doing. We're still married, so 202 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:03,080 whatever. Yeah. 203 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:08,160 We've got four kids and a puppy. Anyway, I always wanted a a 204 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:11,920 carnival themed wedding. I was really not keen on sit 205 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,120 down meals and fancy stuff. Like, we're not that type of 206 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:18,080 people, interestingly. Have you put out video out? 207 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:21,760 No, I haven't done that. Interestingly, I get kind of 208 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,400 irritated going to other people's weddings if it's not a 209 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,440 sit down. Yeah, I'm so hypocritical 210 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:32,560 because I'm like just got topless, like going on. 211 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:36,520 You, you keep going because I think ours is different to some 212 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:37,440 of the weddings that we've been to. 213 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,440 True, true, true. Anyway, so we went. 214 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:40,920 We went festival theme. Don't. 215 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:43,560 Be careful not to and really bag at the weddings I have. 216 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,360 Loved every wedding we've gone to. 217 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,160 It's just that I get so tired and sore and I just want to sit 218 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,160 down and have an actual meal that I don't have to fight 219 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:51,760 people for. That's the main thing, yeah. 220 00:09:52,560 --> 00:09:56,680 And I always end up end up super pregnant at when Not anymore. 221 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,000 Shebang. Not anymore anyway. 222 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,760 Yeah, festival theme. I really, we didn't have tonnes 223 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:05,720 of money and I just the idea of spending tonnes of money on 224 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:10,800 food, ironically just was like like, no, I'm going to spend 225 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:15,600 $120 on so much more now. Yeah, per person, Yeah, because 226 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,440 we also had tonnes of people we wanted there. 227 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,480 And I, I feel like we just prioritised having as many 228 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,920 people as we could to the full thing. 229 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:26,840 And we were both working part time too, so we were on a very 230 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:28,200 low wage. Yeah, yeah. 231 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:30,280 So yeah, we decided to go festival theme. 232 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,360 We wrestled a little bit with what to do for food and that 233 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,960 kind of thing, and we landed on food truck, which was so fun. 234 00:10:36,680 --> 00:10:38,680 Such a good meeting. We were the first. 235 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,640 There's been quite a few people that have done that since then. 236 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,720 No one had done that one yet. We were. 237 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,560 People were like, oh, food truck. 238 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,640 They were, really. And Gelato. 239 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,560 Gelato. Gelato, Gelato, Gelato stand, 240 00:10:50,560 --> 00:10:52,920 yeah, we could have done what we could have done better. 241 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:56,720 I think if we had more finances was had a few food trucks 242 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,680 because there was a massive line of a huge. 243 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:02,000 Line to ages. Yeah, the burgers. 244 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,520 Were great, they were so good, although again, in saying that 245 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:07,480 if I'd thought about it, I probably would have chosen 246 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:08,960 something a little bit easier for me to eat. 247 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:10,840 I didn't really eat I. Didn't really eat either. 248 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:14,440 Yeah, we're just so busy. And your wedding and so busy and 249 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:16,480 you just go see everyone. Yeah. 250 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,040 You just want to go and bless the marriage. 251 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,760 Yeah. So we had planned it for apple 252 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,440 orchards, so we had a jumping castle. 253 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,560 So the carnival themes. There was a bunch of different 254 00:11:27,560 --> 00:11:31,000 carnival things, Nothing massive like the jumping castle was the 255 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:32,800 biggest thing that we had. There been a bunch of little, 256 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,720 like, yard games. Yeah. 257 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:40,000 And anyway, the day before or the morning of, we had severe 258 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,880 weather warnings. So our wedding was outside in 259 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:46,800 the park, and it was under these huge trees, I want to say Maple 260 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:47,440 trees. Yeah. 261 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,800 Oak, oak, oak they're. Big trees, big trees. 262 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,480 And so there's three of these three massive trees. 263 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,440 It was beautiful. And then, yeah, So what we 264 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,080 actually did, and we were, again, we've just been so 265 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,000 blessed by the people that have surrounded us. 266 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,720 So we had our wedding and a lot of people didn't actually come 267 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,080 to our ceremony because they were over at the apple orchard 268 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:10,200 because they'd spent, we'd spent the day before setting up the 269 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:11,920 apple orchard with the carnival thing. 270 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,200 And then they went back there during the ceremony, packed it 271 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,120 all down, took it back to our church and put it all inside. 272 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,440 And it was a huge amount of work. 273 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,200 And we're just like, they just gave us such a special day. 274 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:24,760 Yeah. So we had our ceremony. 275 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,120 We did the highs to everyone. And then we went and got photos. 276 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:29,120 Yeah. Came back. 277 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,520 It was all done. We didn't have to worry about it 278 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,400 at all. So we're so blessed by that. 279 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,920 Yeah, that was. Yeah ceremony, like we said 280 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,600 under the trees beautiful outdoor and it didn't actually 281 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:42,200 end up I think it ranged like for like 10 minutes or something 282 00:12:42,560 --> 00:12:46,200 the weather was not severe, but better safe than sorry yeah Amy 283 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,000 on the day didn't feel that way but yeah the. 284 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,120 Morning. The morning of you were I. 285 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,320 Was not struggling. Yeah, I was not. 286 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,320 I was struggling because I was on the phone with Blair. 287 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,320 I was on the phone with the person helping us plan it and I 288 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:58,960 was talking to my mom and everyone's like, it's going to 289 00:12:58,960 --> 00:12:59,920 be fine. It's going to be fine. 290 00:12:59,920 --> 00:13:02,400 And I just really struggled to turn around from something I've 291 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,640 been projecting and planning. And I was like, I know it's 292 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:06,160 going to be fine, but I need to be OK. 293 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:09,640 I need a moment to be not OK. Like that's how I felt and then 294 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:13,040 it's fine by the time. I did. 295 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:17,840 And we're still here anyway. And then, yeah, we went over to 296 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,600 the church, had a really fun reception. 297 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,760 Lots of just just party like just it was just like a big it 298 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:25,280 was. Seriously. 299 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,560 A huge party We. Finished really early, like at 9 300 00:13:27,560 --> 00:13:30,160 we're like we're done. I had the biggest headache, like 301 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,440 I just wanted to get. Yeah, you went to leave earlier 302 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,000 than I did. I was, I was having fun 303 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,440 partying, but we went back and partied. 304 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:41,080 But I mean, but it was it was still, we were so tired by by 305 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,960 the end of it as well. And then we went down to we went 306 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,640 down to Saint Kilda for the night, So down to a hotel down 307 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:49,240 there. And the morning after the 308 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:54,080 wedding is was the best. Oh man, waking up with nothing 309 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,240 to plan, nothing to think about. I was a. 310 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:57,680 Huge holiday in front of us, yeah. 311 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,200 And we had nothing because we were there for two nights that 312 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:02,920 that morning after was the best because we didn't have to get a 313 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:04,720 flight straight away. We went to Hawaii for our 314 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:08,720 honeymoon and and and which my uncle blessed us with and paid 315 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,120 for that trip, which was amazing. 316 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:11,760 Yeah. We we just woke up. 317 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,240 I was like, what do you want to do? 318 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:14,840 I don't know. There's nothing to do. 319 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,840 Like it was just, we're just sorry, relaxing and so peaceful. 320 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:20,760 And yeah, that morning was the best. 321 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:23,880 There's a few things that I've recently, I don't know why I was 322 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,320 looking at wedding stuff recently. 323 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,840 I was getting it or maybe for our our last episode that our 324 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:32,720 story website, I was looking through photos, which I haven't. 325 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,840 We haven't really spent much time looking through our photos 326 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:36,880 and there's a few things that I was like, man, I just wish I'd 327 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,720 just done better at that time. Oh yeah. 328 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:43,160 Well, like, and so things like like I just and as I've said 329 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,520 this on the podcast multiple times, I was not present. 330 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,560 I really feel like I was in a daze for the first however many 331 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:50,320 years my life and including during our wedding. 332 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:52,480 And so wanting to leave early on the night. 333 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,600 There was so many stresses for me. 334 00:14:54,600 --> 00:15:00,120 I was so stressed really leading up to the wedding about I was so 335 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,880 stressed and I just honestly like it wasn't him. 336 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:06,320 It was just me projecting my anxiety that he would flip out 337 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,000 or something like that because I was his oldest kid getting 338 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,160 married and he was quite a defensive, not defensive, 339 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:11,920 protective he. Did really well. 340 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:12,360 He did. Really. 341 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:14,400 Yeah. And his, his speech when he 342 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,680 walked you down the aisle was really not. 343 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,240 It was. Yeah, and I was just but. 344 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:21,720 And that shocked me, yeah. I was tense thinking he's gonna 345 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:24,080 like interrupt the wedding or something, which he never had. 346 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,800 It was so over the top in my head, but because of that, I was 347 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,280 just so stressed. I was so stressed constantly 348 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:33,320 about how people were going and how that was going. 349 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,920 And I feel like I gave myself a migraine and I just wanted to 350 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,360 leave early because I was like so overwhelmed by being with 351 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:42,000 everybody and around everybody. And I wish that I had, I wish I 352 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:45,000 was better at not letting that control me so that I could have 353 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,600 been more present and just enjoyed because when I look at 354 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:50,640 the photos, I love it and I enjoy it and I obviously don't 355 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:54,760 regret it at all, but I did. I also see, hence Amy, like I 356 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:56,240 see the stress that I was feeling. 357 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:59,800 I don't see relaxed Amy. And I wish that I had been more 358 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,680 relaxed. I also wish that I had prepared 359 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:06,360 for the honeymoon and not allowed myself to get a UTI for 360 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:11,440 the full two weeks on. So there's a few things that 361 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:14,560 just, yeah, but it was really beautiful. 362 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:16,240 It was really fun. It was really fun. 363 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:19,520 I just feel like it was a fun wedding vibe which matched us 364 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:22,480 because we didn't want anything fancy, formal and fancy. 365 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:24,600 And it was. A very rustic vibe. 366 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:28,400 So my vest was like a brown rustic key, and some of the 367 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,080 groomsmen was very brown, like brown rustic key. 368 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:32,920 Yeah, yeah. You liked? 369 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,840 There you go, that's our wedding story quick summary. 370 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:37,480 Yeah. Thanks guys. 371 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,720 Yeah, this has been the Chatter episode, guys. 372 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,400 Thanks for your questions. Thanks for your feedback. 373 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,800 We really, really appreciate it. Like Blair said earlier, until 374 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,920 next week. Jack de La Vista, baby. 375 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,280 How do you say that, Chaca? La Vista. 376 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,960 Chaca La Vista. Chaca chilli chaca La Vista 377 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:53,760 baby. Baby.