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Hi, welcome back to the Astral 
Gateway podcast. 

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I'm Marie Twice the Vicioni. 
In the previous episodes, we 

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went through the main steps of 
the process, relaxation, 

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creating focus, and what happens
as you move closer to that 

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transition state. 
And as people start practicing 

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this or even just listening and 
trying to understand it, 

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questions naturally start to 
come up. 

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Sometimes it's small things at 
1st and sometimes it's deeper 

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questions about what's actually 
happening. 

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So in this episode I want to go 
through some of the most common 

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questions just to clear things 
up a little and make the process

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feel more familiar. 
Not to add more information for 

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the sake of it, but to answer 
what people actually tend to 

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experience. 
One of the first questions 

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people often ask is am I doing 
it right? 

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And the honest answer is there 
isn't really a fixed way it's 

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supposed to look, because what 
you're learning here isn't a 

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strict technique with exact 
steps that always produce the 

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same result. 
It's more about becoming 

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familiar with a shift in 
awareness, so if your experience

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doesn't look exactly like what 
someone else describes, that 

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doesn't mean anything is wrong, 
it just means your mind is 

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learning it in its own way. 
Another common question is what 

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if nothing happens? 
And in most cases, something is 

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happening, you just might not 
recognize it at first because a 

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lot of this process is very 
subtle. 

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At the beginning you're learning
to notice the moment the body 

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starts to fall asleep while 
awareness is still there. 

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And at first that could be easy 
to miss. 

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Even falling asleep completely 
is part of it because over time 

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you start becoming aware of how 
that transition actually 

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happens. 
Another question that comes up a

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lot is, should I be trying 
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And usually trying harder 
doesn't help because it creates 

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more mental activity, and that 
tends to pull you back into full

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waking awareness. 
What works better is something 

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softer, staying present but not 
interfering, just allowing the 

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process to unfold. 
Then there's a question, Are 

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vibrations supposed to happen? 
Sometimes they do and sometimes 

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they don't. 
They're not required, they're 

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just one possible part of the 
transition for some people. 

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So it's not something to look 
for or measure progress by. 

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If they come, you let them be 
there, and if they don't, the 

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process is still the same 
underneath. 

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And another one I hear often is 
how do I know it's actually 

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working? 
And usually it's not something 

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dramatic, it's more subtle than 
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You might notice that you stay 
aware a little longer as you 

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drift towards sleep, or that you
recognize the shift more clearly

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than before, or that you don't 
get pulled out of it as easily 

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when something unusual happens. 
That's the progress it builds 

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quietly over time. 
Another question that comes up 

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is about sleep paralysis. 
What if I get sleep paralysis 

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and I can't move? 
What's important to understand 

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here is that sleep paralysis 
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experience. 
It's already part of the sleep 

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process every night. 
The only difference here is that

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awareness becomes active while 
the body is already in that 

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state. 
So it can feel strange because 

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normally the mind isn't present 
for it, but the state itself is 

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neutral. 
It's just the body being offline

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while awareness is still 
slightly awake, and that 

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mismatch is what creates the 
unusual feeling. 

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Another thing people often don't
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is actually one of the signs 
that you're close to the 

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transition point. 
Not because it's required, but 

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because it shows the body has 
fully shifted into sleep mode 

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while awareness is still nearby.
So instead of seeing it as 

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something to deal with, it can 
help to recognize it as a stage 

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of separation. 
Another question is, what if I 

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get scared? 
And fear in that state is not 

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really about danger, it's 
usually about loss of control, 

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because the mind is used to 
relying on movement, on checking

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the environment, on confirming 
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When that ability is removed 
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So fear is often just a nervous 
system interpreting unfamiliar 

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stillness as uncertainty, 
nothing more than that. 

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And the interesting part is fear
only becomes stronger when you 

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engage with it mentally, when 
you start analyzing it, 

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resisting it, or trying to 
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But when you simply allow it to 
exist without building a story 

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around it, it usually peaks and 
passes quite quickly. 

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Another common question is why 
does it only happen sometimes? 

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And this is where people often 
misunderstand the process. 

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Because it isn't a linear skill.
It's not something you achieve 

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and then repeat on command. 
It's a shift in conditions. 

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Your awareness, your body state,
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all of these have to align in a 
certain way, and that alignment 

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doesn't happen the same way 
every night. 

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So inconsistency isn't failure, 
it's just the system 

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recalibrating over time. 
What changes is not that it 

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becomes forced, but that you 
start recognizing the conditions

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more quickly. 
And that recognition is what 

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creates consistency later on. 
Another question is, what if I 

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fall asleep every time? 
And this is actually one of the 

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most important parts of the 
training, because falling asleep

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is not the opposite of success. 
It's part of how the boundary is

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learned. 
What's really happening is that 

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awareness is losing continuity 
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So each time you fall asleep, 
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moment where awareness doesn't 
drop completely, and eventually 

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instead of a full drop, you get 
a partial 1 where the body 

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sleeps but something of you 
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That's the shift you're 
developing, not stopping sleep, 

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but changing how much of 
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it. 
Another thing people often ask 

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about is vibrations. 
What are the vibrations 

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actually? 
And it helps to be clear about 

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this. 
They're not something external 

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happening to you. 
They're not a signal from 

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anywhere else. 
They're more like a byproduct of

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two states overlapping for a 
moment, sleep starting to take 

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over the body while awareness is
still partially anchored. 

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So what you're feeling isn't a 
separate phenomenon, it's the 

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nervous system shifting states 
while consciousness is still 

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present enough to register it. 
That's why it can feel like 

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buzzing, movement, pressure, or 
sound, because different parts 

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of the system are switching off 
at slightly different speeds. 

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Another important thing is that 
vibrations are not one single 

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thing. 
People Group A lot of different 

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transitional sensation under 
that word, so trying to identify

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them too precisely often creates
confusion. 

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What matters more is the 
direction of the experience, not

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the exact sensation. 
Another question that comes up 

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is why do I sometimes get close 
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And this usually happens at the 
point where awareness becomes 

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slightly too engaged. 
Not in a dramatic way, but just 

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enough to restabilize the waking
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It can be curiosity, it could be
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sudden excitement, like it's 
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And that small shift is enough 
to bring you back into full 

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waking awareness. 
So it's not that the state was 

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lost, it's that attention moved.
Another common question is about

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false awakening, where you think
you've woken up but you're still

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in a dream, like Claire. 
And this is actually a very 

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natural part of the transition 
process, because the mind is 

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still using the structure of 
waking reality to organize 

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experience even while the state 
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So it creates a familiar 
environment first, often your 

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room, your bed, your usual 
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But the level of awareness is 
different and that's why it can 

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feel slightly off even when 
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The important thing here is not 
to treat it as an error, it's 

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just the mind stabilizing 
perception while the transition 

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is still active. 
Another question people often 

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ask is why do exit techniques 
sometimes work and sometimes 

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don't? 
And the key point here is that 

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exit techniques don't actually 
create separation, they only 

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give awareness a direction once 
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possible. 
So when they don't work, it's 

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usually not because the 
technique is wrong, it's because

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the state hasn't reached that 
threshold yet, or awareness is 

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still slightly too anchored in 
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When the timing is right, the 
same technique can feel 

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effortless, almost like it's 
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So it's less about finding the 
perfect method, and it's more 

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about recognizing when the shift
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So if we bring everything 
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questions are really pointing to
the same thing. 

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They're not separate problems to
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There are different ways of 
trying to understand the shift 

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in awareness that doesn't behave
the way our normal waking mind 

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expects. 
At the beginning, the mind wants

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clear markers. 
It wants to know what's right, 

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what's wrong, what means 
progress, and what doesn't. 

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But what you start to notice 
over time is that this process 

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doesn't really work in those 
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It's more about conditions 
coming together in the right 

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way. 
Relaxation, reduced mental 

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activity and awareness, staying 
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the transition instead of being 
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And when those conditions are 
there, things like vibration, 

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sleep paralysis, false 
awakening, or exit sensations 

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can appear, but they're not the 
goal. 

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They're just different ways the 
transition can be experienced, 

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and none of them are required 
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What really changes over time is
your relationship to it. 

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At first, everything feels new 
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You analyse it while it's 
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You wonder if you're doing it 
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But as it becomes more familiar,
that layer of questioning starts

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to drop away, and instead of 
trying to control the 

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experience, you begin to 
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You notice the familiar signs 
earlier, you stay calmer when 

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unusual sensations appear, and 
you don't get pulled out of it 

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as easily when the mind reacts. 
The familiarity is really what 

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development looks like here. 
Not intensity, not control, just

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recognition. 
Before we finish, I just want to

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say this, you don't need to get 
everything right in order for 

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this to work. 
Each time you practice, even if 

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nothing seems to happen, you're 
still training awareness in the 

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exact direction it needs to go. 
And over time that builds 

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something very stable in the 
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If you have any more questions, 
you're welcome to add them in 

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the comments and I will answer 
them. 

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And if you like to continue 
learning and connect with other 

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people exploring these 
experiences, you can join the 

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Astral Gateway community on 
Facebook. 

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You'll also find my website and 
my book, Beyond the Edge in the 

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episode description if you'd 
like to go deeper into the work.

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And in the next episode, I'll be
answering specific questions 

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that people have asked me in the
Astral Gateway Facebook group. 

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OK, thank you for listening. 
Until next time, stay present, 

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stay aware, and I'll see you in 
the next episode.