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Ladies and gents, corporate MILF
back with another episode 

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tonight. 
I want to deliver an episode for

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you that talks about how to 
improve your sex. 

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And I'm going to put this in the
context of three different 

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places where people might be 
finding themselves. 

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And I'm going to give you some 
ways to think about it, to shift

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your thinking or to position 
yourself in a way where you are 

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in better sexual relationships. 
I don't want to throw anyone 

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under the bus by saying this 
because I was the one part of it

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too. 
But I have experienced a lot of 

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different sex lives, shall you 
say, over the course of my life.

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And what I mean by that is in my
20s, I lived the single life. 

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I had one night stands. 
I hooked up with people 

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casually. 
And I've had relationships prior

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to marriage that were up to four
years in length where I was with

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someone, you know, for a long 
enough period of time where you 

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would think that you could get 
to a place where everyone's 

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having a good sex life. 
I have lived in the space of 

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having periods of time that were
more sexless. 

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And I've spent a lot of time 
wallowing in like the the grief 

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of that and all the things that 
can come along with with that. 

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Just deep breath for anyone 
who's in that situation. 

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And I'm, I really am with you. 
I got you. 

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This is an episode for you. 
OK. 

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And then the next one that I 
would mention is more of an 

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exploratory space. 
And I'm going to talk about this

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in the way that I have 
experienced this, which has been

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a ladder of growth and then 
trying different things and 

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experimenting to figure out what
actually worked for me. 

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So I'm going to, I'm going to 
talk about this in the sense of 

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my own life experience. 
And also because I've been 

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through all of these 
experiences, I have spoken with 

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so many people in these same 
exact situations. 

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So if you're in a space right 
now where you're not having a 

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good sexual relationship, the 
one that you actually want, you 

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are not alone. 
And that is why I am so 

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passionate about the subject. 
I think it is everyone's 

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God-given opportunity to have an
amazing sexual relationship with

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humans on this earth. 
All right, let's talk about my 

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few 101st scarring incidents of 
being with men. 

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And I for a so long I thought 
maybe it was actually the men's 

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fault until I realized that I 
wasn't asking for what I 

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freaking wanted. 
And so believe me, after having 

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many experiences where no one 
seemed to come up with what I 

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wanted, which isn't really their
fault if they didn't freaking 

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know what I wanted. 
But I always just thought like 

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someone would want to do more of
these different things with me. 

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And I feel like maybe I was 
waiting to see how they would 

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act with me first instead of 
setting up the expectation for 

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what I knew I wanted and how 
they could earn the opportunity 

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to come into my presence. 
Let's start with your most basic

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one night stand fuck buddy like 
some arrangement that you have 

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with somebody who you don't 
really connect with all that 

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often. 
There are so many ways to have 

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this type of relationship that 
are more fulfilling than I know 

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a lot of people are stuck in 
right now. 

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And I know because I was stuck 
in that phase for so long based 

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on my experiences, I'm talking 
about my 20s and 30s. 

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Pretty often the type of sex 
that people would have would be,

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you know, maybe the guy came 
over and was like, there's some 

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hugging and kissing. 
And maybe it's like a little bit

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more aggressive at this point 
because you probably just met 

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this person at some cool BBQ, 
which doesn't even fucking 

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happen anymore. 
But anyway, in your 20s, this 

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shit happens like all the time. 
And so you hook up with, you 

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know, go back to somebody's 
house and have a little fun. 

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And I feel like what typically 
happened or what went down was, 

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you know, maybe there's some 
like, hugging and kissing in the

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beginning. 
Maybe if the girl is lucky, he's

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going to go down on her. 
But it's probably not fulfilling

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for her. 
He's not really doing it long 

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enough. 
He starts too hard. 

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It's like not it's like, oh, 
then she's like, you know, 

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faking it in a way because she's
just like trying to encourage 

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this fucking guy to keep going. 
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It's like I'm fucking moaning 
over here in my 20s, which is 

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basically saying don't fucking 
stop, you idiot. 

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But of course then they stop and
then they might get on top of 

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you have like traditional type 
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Maybe there's like three 
positions that you try, he gets 

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off, everyone rolls over and 
you're like, wow, that fucking 

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sucked. 
Like maybe it was fun because 

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you got to hug this person and 
you got to experience them. 

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But at least in my experience, I
never got off with these fucking

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guys. 
And I didn't know enough to like

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then roll over and be like, 
touch me this way. 

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Or, you know, grab a vibrator 
and have him participate in some

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way, which is something that 
I've augmented on for myself now

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that I am wiser. 
God, I just took the biggest 

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side because that was my 
experience over and over and 

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over. 
That was my evidence of how men 

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were. 
And So what I started to think 

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was I was like, the guys even 
like to go down girls, the guys 

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even like to pleasure them. 
Like they're not really. 

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They're just like doing the act 
and like going home. 

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And I just don't feel like 
worshipped or special at all in 

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this way. 
And at that point, I didn't even

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know what worshipping could be 
like. 

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Right. 
And then you move into, you 

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know, having kids and being 
married and taking on all of the

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responsibility and the absolute 
utter chaos that comes along 

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with that part of life, like 
having kids, going to work, not 

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sleeping ever. 
Everyone's super aggravated. 

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No one knows what the fuck to 
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Like, you just got these kids. 
Like you don't know what to do. 

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It's like there's so many 
different ways to be aggravated 

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and frustrated during this time,
and it's a very, very hard time 

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for a lot of couples to 
navigate. 

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I've talked to so many people 
who are in sexless marriages, 

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which I would define as having 
sex maybe every two to three 

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months. 
And and like, one partner 

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probably isn't really that into 
it. 

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The other one kind of feels like
they have to beg for it when 

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they do it. 
It's like the person's not 

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really that into it. 
And so now you're like locked in

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this space where, yeah, you're 
married to this person. 

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Like maybe you have kids with 
them, but you didn't really sign

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up for a sexless life. 
I certainly didn't. 

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And then the breakthrough 
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The breakthrough is when you 
have a partner who is open to 

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hearing what it is that you 
want, you being interested in 

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hearing what it is that they 
want, and starting to experiment

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and try different things. 
It makes me really sad for 

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people who are in positions 
right now where they're not 

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feeling desired and wanted and 
loved and they don't have a 

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person to be able to share their
intimacy with. 

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And it's definitely my hope for 
everyone who is listening to 

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this, no matter what kind of 
space you're in right now, to 

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consider this as an opportunity 
to realize that you don't have 

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to sit in that space forever. 
You can actually get with what 

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you want. 
And I'm going to go into a later

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episode on all the crazy things 
that people actually do want. 

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And when you realize people's 
desires are far stranger than 

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yours could probably ever be, 
it's going to give you a level 

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of acceptance where you may feel
more comfortable in asking for 

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your for what you want. 
Knowing, knowing for sure that 

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someone else is on the other end
who has been literally praying 

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for you. 
The very first thing and easiest

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thing to do is simply say what 
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And also is there anything that 
I should be aware of that you're

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not comfortable with? 
And a couple of things are going

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to happen during that process. 
You're going to start flirting. 

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So the what do you like 
conversation can really be fun. 

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As you guys are discovering each
other, you can ask them if 

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they've ever thought about what 
their fantasies and kinks are. 

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Everybody has them, but a lot of
people aren't consciously aware 

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that they have them. 
And I can attest that because I,

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I knew what I was turned on by 
when I watched porn, but I 

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didn't understand where that 
desire was coming from and I 

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didn't understand what 
experiencing that was going to 

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actually give me. 
All right, what I want to do is 

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to riff on maybe a couple of 
different ways to make your 

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basic one night stand fuck buddy
or just like basic routine more 

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fun. 
I think I'm going to talk about 

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this from the point of view more
of like someone you just met 

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because there's definitely a 
different vibe that you can play

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with during that time. 
Not to say you can't go do 

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something like this in a a 
marriage, but I'm going to put 

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this in the context of you don't
really know the person that 

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well. 
You're definitely attracted to 

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them. 
You probably met them at the bar

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and you're just stoked that 
you're going to have an 

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opportunity to spend a little 
bit of time with them. 

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Oh boy. 
Now I get to come up with what 

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my fantasy would be if I were to
have a one night stand right 

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now. 
Let me see if I can come up with

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something good for you. 
So I am imagining meeting a 

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cowboy in Texas and Oh my God, 
first of all, I'm already 

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sweating. 
OK, hold on. 

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All right, deep breath. 
What I would expect from this 

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man is the most amazing 
combination of dominance, 

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because he's probably like this 
big dude who's got a ton of 

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muscle and he's like a little 
bit dirty. 

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And you can tell he's a little 
bit scrappy. 

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And you know, he can definitely 
like put his ass back into it, 

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right? 
And not back into it, not like 

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that, but into you, right? 
Anyway, so he's a big strong 

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dude. 
And I definitely want to have 

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rife sex. 
But I can also imagine this type

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of guy being like really gentle 
and sweet and caring like a 

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family first type guy. 
Like putting his woman on a 

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pedestal type guy. 
That's the type of guy I go for.

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Now, if a guy gives me any 
indication that he is not so 

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grateful to be in my presence 
and he is not so incredibly 

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honored to even have the 
opportunity, opportunity to 

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speak with me, like 
automatically like it. 

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It's, it's like the people like 
that with myself, like we don't 

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even connect anymore because my 
vibe puts out a totally 

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different aura. 
My expectation is that someone's

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going to want to earn and earn 
my attention and impress me in 

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order to get it. 
And that whole dynamic by the 

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way of having someone impress 
you is so sexy and hot. 

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And I need to get into that for 
you. 

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But we're going to riff on this 
fantasy a little bit about the 

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cowboy. 
All right. 

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So I mean, definitely I want to 
go back to his place, first of 

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all. 
And this is the type of guy 

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who's like starting gentle 
hugging and kissing, but he's 

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going to grab on to the back of 
your neck like really hard and 

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pull you into him or like pull 
you up by your butt and like 

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bring you close to him. 
I can definitely see an 

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opportunity to be rubbing on top
of him, like basically sitting 

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in his lap. 
But like we're all still closed 

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at this point, like rubbing up 
and down on a couch, kissing 

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him, me being on top of him, 
which gives me like this feeling

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in my heart that like, I just 
got so excited by that thought. 

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Let me see if I can even figure 
out why there's like this teddy 

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bear energy that feels really 
good to sit in and then also an 

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energy of like he can't really 
resist me either. 

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I definitely have a soft spot 
for guys who don't, who like 

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don't come forward right away, 
who kind of like hold back a 

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little little bit. 
Because then I kind of feel that

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like pull towards him, like, you
know, I get to look a little 

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sexy or like make it some eye 
contact or see if I can call him

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in with my energy. 
And that for me is fun 'cause I 

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love that I know I'm a little 
deviant. 

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This is where things get tricky.
This is literally where things 

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fucking go downhill. 
Because what happens is the 

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guy's all excited and he's gonna
like, flip you up on, on on the 

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couch and, like, start fucking 
you. 

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And you know what? 
Hell, yeah. 

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Like, because already I'm like, 
yeah, if I have a fucking cowboy

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fucking me right now like that, 
I'm like, stoked. 

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Like it's not that we don't like
that, but the difference is 

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making it satisfying for the 
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Taking the time to rub her 
gently and get her turned on, 

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stimulate her, go down on her 
for a while, start to use your 

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fingers too. 
If you're watching the camera, I

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just made the motion that you 
know, you can make in that area 

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and get her warmed up so she is 
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I would say that's probably the 
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add. 
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both sides should be kind of 
asking each other what they like

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or you can do that in a way, by 
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You can be like, do you know, do
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And you want, you want to hear 
the reaction, like their 

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reaction when like, yeah, that's
fucking honor. 

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However, whatever they say, I 
don't know. 

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Can't imitate the guy. 
Like, I that's what I'm looking 

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for. 
I'm looking for that desire. 

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I want to see that he wants me 
so bad that he would do anything

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to come a little bit closer. 
He would do anything to have the

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honor and to be able to pleasure
me, which is different from the 

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way I used to think about it. 
The way I used to think about it

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was I don't know if he wants to.
And I, I feel bad for that older

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version, you know, younger 
version of myself who thought 

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that way because now I 
understand like, yes, like the 

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right person for you is going to
want to do that. 

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And if they're not, if you're in
a sexless marriage, the one 

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recommendation I'd have is to 
face your problems directly and 

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see if you can start to 
straighten out where you're 

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placing blame on each other, 
where you're getting frustrated.

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Have like a real division of 
chores. 

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Be able to walk away. 
Have your own life, be able to 

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not walk away, but be able to 
like go out with your friends 

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one night to get some space to 
get a breath. 

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Anyway, I could go on and on 
about that probably for a while.

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But anyway, it's a tough spot to
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And I do feel your pain very 
deeply. 

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I felt your pain for a very 
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And so I definitely recommend 
starting to think about the 

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exploratory phase of sex, which 
is when you imagine what turns 

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you on. 
What I want you to do is to 

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realize you can actually make 
that happen for yourself way 

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easier than you think maybe you 
could. 

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I want you to think about the 
porn that you watch. 

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Like, see what you're actually 
attracted to and think about 

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that a little bit deeper. 
Like what moment in it are you 

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most attracted to? 
Can you start to unwind possibly

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some levels of domination and 
subtle mind games that are going

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on that make you excited? 
Can you take it back to a level 

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within yourself where you can 
identify where your kinks are 

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and start to explore those a 
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Food for thought my dear 
friends. 

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You can find me on TikTok at 
corporate MILF X at phenom Jim 

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Queen. 
Only fans at the real Jim Queen.

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As always, you're not allowed to
get off until I do Peace.