Boys and girls, it is your host corporate MILF AKA Abby in real
life. All right, I promised you guys
some more content around what I think is one of the top female
fantasies all the time from my girlfriends.
For at least 20 years, I have been hearing this theme over and
over. Everybody wants it.
OK, Make sure obviously you ask your partner ahead of time.
But what I'm going to do is I'm going to go into a scenario
played out that has been well executed on when she says she
wants it rough. And I'm also going to explain
this time is I just put out only really short clips for you guys
before, but I'm going to try to give you a little bit more
detail here. What I'm going to attempt to do
is to describe the scenario and exactly how the male is
executing this and also the feeling that it can elicit from
the person experiencing it. So in this situation, it's a
male female exchange, but I would say that this would fall
into a typical domination type scenario.
And there are plenty tons so many guys who want this too by
the way. And so it might be executed a
little bit differently if a female was sort of dominating a
man. But in this scenario, I am going
to talk about it from male dominating female.
OK, so the reason why at least, OK, I'll explain from my point
of view. Now, I'm sure that there's a
million different ways of thinking about this.
And there's some probably a lot of people who when they hear me
say this, they're going to be like, no, that doesn't resonate
with me. So just realize that I'm
explaining it from one point of view.
But you really do need to check with your partner to see how
they feel about different situations.
But in in this scenario, when the female is dominated by the
man, the way it makes her feel is like he is so strong and
powerful and capable and that she is in good hands.
It's almost like he could hurt you, but he's so attracted to
you and he loves you so much that he's going to care for you
like you're a cute little Bunny. So that's kind of this like
predator prey type dynamic that I think can go down within these
domination scenarios. And I'm not going to lie, when
my man is dominating me, I think about him like literally he's
the lion and I'm the lioness and we're out on the Sahara and it's
like 120 years ago. And like that we were literally
partners in a past life. Like to me, that's the type of
stuff I've channel. I think about me being like a
maiden in Scotland and him being like a savage warrior.
And as he comes through the town, he, you know, spots me and
falls in love with me instantly. And like I see us playing out
all these different lifetimes together when he dominates me.
This is like the connection that I feel now.
To bring it back a little bit, I think that a very typical
response to being dominated it it with a partner you trust is
this feeling of finally being able to relax.
So in the scenario of intimacy, I think that this is great for
people who might feel a little bit like nervous around sex in
some ways. Like yes, you might absolutely
love it, but maybe it's a little bit hard for you to like relax
and enjoy it. Or you feel like you're supposed
to rush and you just actually would love to slow down.
Like that kind of a person would love this because what the man
is doing is using subtle body weight to sort of like act as
that captor in a way. So in the scenario of the last
time I had sex with Alpha and he came over and he dominated me.
So in this scenario, he comes in and he says, all right, just lay
on your stomach, just relax. And he starts to massage my
body. But while he's doing this, he
might put his hand on top of my hand and press my hand down.
He might put the weight of one of his hands on the middle of my
back while he's rubbing my Whatever right in this case my
ass and then which proceeded into him going under and with
Lube massaging my clit. Now that's hot.
OK, little little pause and clap for alpha here while I take a
sip of water. Now, what I particularly like is
a really beautiful balance between feeling the power and
weight of a man with knowing that he is putting your pleasure
absolutely first. So he's being, on one hand,
rough, but on the other hand, this is a piece that I think
people might miss that is so good.
Is this like gentle softness? Because that is what creates
that predator prey captor captive type feeling.
It's like, yes, this man is so strong and rough.
He could like really hurt me right now, but he's like so
turned on that he just like has to pleasure me.
Little pause. My God, does that help guys,
Send in your questions and let me know what else.
By the way, that wasn't the end of the SAX.
That was just kind of the beginning.
I would just make a comment, since we're talking about this
right now, that I fully support SAX.
That includes an hour to two hours of foreplay before even
getting into penetration. Just saying.
Maybe it's time to slow it down. Maybe it's time to get into a
little Tantra so that you can get the feelings and sensations
going on within your body before you go full on.
Just saying for me, it is definitely easier to get off
through penetration if I'm fully warmed up ahead of time.
So there's your permission and go have some fun.
Peace.