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Ladies and gents, it is your 
goddess speaking. 

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It is possible that corporate 
MILF may have died on Tiktok 

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because she was penalized and I 
don't think she will be able to 

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reclaim that name. 
So the intro may change here 

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folks. 
Every single one of my accounts 

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blew up like in the last week, 
but you can find me at the real 

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Jim Queen on Instagram on Only 
Fans and loyal fans on XI am 

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still at Fendom Jim Queen, and I
don't know what's happening with

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TikTok right now, so give it a 
week folks. 

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Since getting back from my 
adventure to Miami, I have been 

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sick and sitting in a little bit
more of a contemplative space. 

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If you listened to the last pod,
you will hear the channel and 

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the gift that I received 
symbolically. 

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And as I've been processing that
over the last couple of days, a 

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few more things have unfolded. 
I was given a gift of a new way 

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of thinking about something 
which is helping me to let go of

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a particular craving at the 
moment, and I want to share with

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you how I am thinking about this
right now. 

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Whenever I look to accomplish 
something like getting rid of a 

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vice or starting a new habit, I 
pay really, really close 

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attention to the thought pattern
that I had going into that. 

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In other words, how was it that 
I was able to take steps towards

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the thing that I wanted to do 
this time? 

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Let me give you an example. 
About a year and a half ago, I 

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started down this thought 
process where, you know, at the 

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time I was like, pretty crazy 
going in the gym all the time. 

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And, you know, my friends will 
ask me like, oh, yeah, I wanted 

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to go to the gym with you. 
And I'm like, yeah, that's cool.

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I'm like, all right, let's go 
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But then, like tomorrow would 
come and they wouldn't show up. 

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And so I really started to have 
this question in my mind. 

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I started asking myself, why is 
it that sometimes we say we're 

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going to do something, but like 
when it really comes down to it,

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like there's something internal 
that blocks us from doing it 

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Because like I know my friend 
wanted to go but they didn't and

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why? 
And so in like that scenario, I 

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have somehow worked my mind to 
into a place where like that is 

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a motion that I am able to take 
on a daily basis is going to the

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gym, but there are other motions
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So, so at the time, a couple of 
years ago, I was having a lot of

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trouble executing at work. 
And I was like, OK, I know what 

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tasks I need to take, but like, 
why can't I do this? 

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Like I was having so many 
internal blocks about it. 

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So I started to really 
investigate like this process 

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because every single thing that 
we want to accomplish, like 

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everyone talks about what 
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people, but all the conventional
motivational type stuff, like it

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was not answering my question. 
It wasn't. 

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It wasn't answering the question
for me because I personally was 

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looking at every single bit of 
advice I could freaking find 

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because I was trying to fix 
myself and none of it worked. 

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So I have come up with like 
theory upon theory upon theory 

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here. 
And so I often will try to write

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down the thought process that I 
had going into something when 

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it's working. 
So at this moment I am quitting 

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smoking and I am now three days 
in on no cigarettes. 

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And this is kind of a big deal 
for me because I have quit and 

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then I've started again and I've
quit. 

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So like I know I can quit but I 
haven't been able to hold it. 

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Like so just for reference, I 
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So like it's been 2 years where 
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Now with that situation I 
literally never even think about

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it, never even crosses my mind. 
I'm lucky in that regard. 

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But Lady Nicotine, as my friend 
calls her, has been beckoning to

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me. 
And I do have a theory around 

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this that I'm going to share 
with you. 

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There's an impulsiveness when it
comes to smoking. 

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It's like a hand to mouth type 
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And I find that it's like a 
distraction. 

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It's like something that gets in
between you and really what you 

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needed to do, which might have 
been even to simply rest or do 

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you know 'cause you're taking a 
break or you're disconnecting, 

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You're kind of meditating in 
that moment. 

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But there's something happening 
on the internal side of our body

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too. 
So we, we, we received these 

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cravings. 
We received these cravings from 

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within ourselves. 
So if you are someone who smokes

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or you like to drink alcohol or 
like, maybe you like sugar, 

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right? 
Like you get a craving for 

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something. 
Well, that comes from somewhere.

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Like my theory on sugar is it 
just comes from the gut bacteria

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in your stomach that sort of 
calls to you and says, Hey, I 

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want some more sugar with, you 
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It comes up to you now. 
Think about this in a different 

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context. 
So think about smoking as a sin.

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Let's just say it's a sin. 
Like, let's not get too crazy 

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about it. 
It's really not that big of a 

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deal. 
But I'm putting it in this 

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context for you right now to see
if this kind of helps you. 

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And in this case, I'm calling it
my sin because it's just 

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something that I no longer want 
to do for myself. 

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So I'm trying to put it in a 
certain way so that I can 

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process this to the point where 
I can say no more easily to it. 

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So right now I'm going to call 
smoking a sin. 

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Now as far as the book says, we 
should not sin, right? 

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Or Jesus came here to forgive 
our sins. 

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So what if that sin is actually 
a little dark demon inside you 

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that's kind of clawing at you? 
It's kind of like the dark side.

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It's kind of like the dark side 
clawing at you. 

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So what if you now think about 
these these sins like smoking 

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and think about like this 
craving coming up from inside 

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you, but it's not you. 
The craving isn't coming from 

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you. 
It's coming from the devil. 

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What if the devil's just nipping
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And it's saying given to me. 
And then you say, God, please 

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help me stop smoking, please 
help to forgive my sins. 

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So forgive me for what I've done
before with smoking and also be 

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that thing in between that dark 
demon and me. 

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So you lead here and just dust 
away that demon. 

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So now I don't even have that 
demon beckoning at me. 

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So what if now I don't even have
those cravings because I have 

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asked God to get rid of those 
cravings for me to get rid of 

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the demons. 
Because God can come in at any 

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point. 
Your angels come, come in at any

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point and say, you know, get rid
of all the negative spirits 

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around me. 
You can sage your presence, get 

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rid of that negative energy. 
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just like associated with sort 
of like the dark side and you 

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can ask God to help get in 
between you and that dark side. 

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So now you're left in peace and 
you know that God's helping you 

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do that. 
The very first step in the 

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process is to ask for help 
whenever you are trying to make 

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some movement in your life. 
This is kind of my theory here. 

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First you have to let go of 
something that is tying you 

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energetically to something. 
So this can be anything. 

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This can be letting go of the 
craving, the habit of smoking 

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because energetically that's 
taking up my time. 

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It can be letting go of a 
negative friendship because it's

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negatively taking up some space 
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It can be leaving a toxic job. 
It can be forgiving somebody, it

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could be apologizing to somebody
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take those actions, you're 
getting rid of like that little 

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tiny thought in your brain that 
was tying up that tiny bit of 

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energy. 
So every single time you let go 

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of something, you are creating 
space to let something in. 

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So first step is to ask for 
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Now you can ask God for help, 
which I am doing in this case 

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because I have tried to quit 
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I haven't asked for God, God for
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Now The thing is, when you ask 
for help, you have to actually 

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mean it. 
You know, like in Harry Potter 

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where they're like here, you can
do the spell, but you have to 

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mean it. 
You can ask God for help, but 

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you have to mean it. 
And that goes back into the 

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self. 
That's where the decision lies. 

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This is why it's so hard to 
actually make changes to like 

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improve your diet or whatever, 
because you know, in theory you 

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want to do it, but you have to 
mean it. 

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You got to mean it from the 
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If you can get to the point 
where you can mean it and you 

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can actually decide to do 
something and you ask for help, 

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you ask, you buy, get a personal
trainer, buy a meal plan. 

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I don't know, like literally you
can buy assistance with 

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literally anything you want to 
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So like you want to go learn how
to play the guitar, hire a 

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teacher, hire a teacher, get 
help, ask for help, let go. 

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That creates the space for 
something new. 

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I talked about the void the 
other day. 

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And then you start to move into 
the focus areas and actually 

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being able to take that forward 
progress. 

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But here's the thing with all 
the motivational talks, they all

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talk about the forward progress 
side of it, like building your 

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habits. 
I think that the reason why 

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people can't create change in 
their life is because of the 

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things that are so deeply 
embedded into the subconscious, 

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into the behavior, into the 
thought processes. 

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So I will be speaking with you 
about some different ways to 

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bend your mind to get it to work
for you so that you can create 

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positive change in your life. 
I hope you guys enjoyed that. 

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You can find me at the real Jim 
Queen, which is the handle for 

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Instagram only fans, loyal fans 
and also now TikTok. 

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As always, you're not allowed to
come until I do Peace.