1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:08,000 Ladies and gents, corporate MILF back here with an episode on how 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:14,400 to warm up your lady and get her off during penetrative sex, 3 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:20,040 which I'll just specify that the way I'm going to lay this out is 4 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:24,640 that she gets off with you versus let's say if you were to 5 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:33,320 get her off before penetration. So again, this is something to 6 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:36,760 share with your partner to see if it is something that they 7 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,640 like or not. I'm not saying that it works for 8 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:44,600 everyone, but I'm going to give you a couple of tips that might 9 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:50,960 make it really fun to try. The lead up here is going to 10 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:57,040 make it feel like it is a little less orchestrated or planned 11 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,840 out. I think that when couples are 12 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:05,000 used to being together, oftentimes the lead up can feel 13 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,800 the same and you end up going into the same positions over and 14 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,120 over 'cause you know what's worked for you in the past. 15 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:17,880 But then it kind of loses its lust and fun at some point to 16 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:23,880 make her feel like there is no stress going into the situation. 17 00:01:24,320 --> 00:01:30,240 There is no expectation of her performance. 18 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:36,680 This is going to help her to calm herself and to relax her 19 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:41,840 nerves and just to get into a state where she can really feel 20 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,680 what's going on and enjoy it. So try this. 21 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:51,160 Get in front of the TV, have the girl sit in front of the guy 22 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:58,520 with her back to his chest and he can wrap his arms around her. 23 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:04,320 He can start to massage her. And something that I would 24 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:10,560 recommend is a very tight squeeze. 25 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,040 That's a little bit different than a massage. 26 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:20,040 The tight squeeze penetrates the fascia layer on the body. 27 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,800 That's the defensive layer of the body. 28 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,040 That's also the part that tickles. 29 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,640 It's the part that protects the muscles. 30 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:34,680 When you release the fascia, it signals to the nervous system to 31 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:38,280 relax. So if you are sitting with your 32 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:43,920 arms around your partner, you can either just squeeze her, you 33 00:02:43,920 --> 00:02:48,000 know, shoulders like really tightly or like give her a 34 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:52,920 really, really tight hug because that's going to automatically 35 00:02:52,920 --> 00:02:57,080 her body is going to relax into that grip. 36 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,000 From there, you can try some light touches with your 37 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:05,840 fingernails and this is when you can start to have your hands 38 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,960 wander across her body a little bit more. 39 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,560 Now, when you get to the point where you're ready to start 40 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:19,560 stimulating your partner, try going for it with the lightest, 41 00:03:19,920 --> 00:03:27,120 warmest touch, almost not moving that you can possibly make. 42 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,360 I'll tell you why this is a little extra exciting in an 43 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:36,720 ironic way because normally people think, oh, let's just go 44 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,800 hot and heavy, like go right into it. 45 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,440 You know, all the movies just show people like jumping at each 46 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,960 other, like they're ready to devour each other. 47 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,480 And that's cool, right? Because that's like expressing 48 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,920 this, you know, excitement and passion for each other. 49 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,960 But this is a little bit different because right now what 50 00:03:55,960 --> 00:04:01,600 I'm trying to describe is how to shift the mood into a space 51 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:08,680 where she absolutely wants you so bad to continue to touch her. 52 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:14,320 Like she would do anything to have you stimulate her a little 53 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:20,440 bit more. So to do this, try taking your 54 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:26,880 fingernails and just lightly almost tickle on top of her the 55 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,960 lips of her vagina, like a little bit like on top of the 56 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,520 clit. So you're massaging over the top 57 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,640 of what she's wearing. So assume now that she's not 58 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,560 wearing like leggings or whatever and maybe she has 59 00:04:41,840 --> 00:04:45,600 underwear on. So just lightly with your hand, 60 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:53,320 you can even just lay it flat. Laying it flat is so underrated. 61 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:59,280 It will take the heat from your hand and start to warm up the 62 00:04:59,280 --> 00:05:03,960 entire area of her vagina. And that's like bringing all 63 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,360 this extra blood and stimulation into that area. 64 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:11,040 And it's going to make it so like she is much more ready for 65 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:15,640 the next touch that you make. What I love about this is that 66 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,640 feeling of like, is he, is he going to keep going because I 67 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,520 want him to? And so as you're doing that, you 68 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,840 can slip your finger underneath her underwear and run your 69 00:05:27,840 --> 00:05:33,200 finger down to where you would normally penetrate and take the 70 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:39,920 natural lubrication that her body has and just gently rub it 71 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,040 up on top of the lips of her vagina. 72 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:48,240 And you don't even have to go for the clit yet because she is 73 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,960 going to be begging for you to touch that if you don't go for 74 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:56,000 it first. If it's not really lubed up yet, 75 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,600 definitely take a little bit of Lube and throw that on your 76 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:04,120 finger and then massage it like again, try that flat hand thing 77 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:08,480 because if you start digging your fingers like directly into 78 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:13,760 like her clit area, it like she has to be very stimulated to be 79 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,120 ready for something that intense. 80 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:20,880 The idea here with this particular scenario is to warm 81 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,400 her up so much that she's going to be begging for that a little 82 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,280 bit later on down the line from here. 83 00:06:27,280 --> 00:06:31,720 I think it depends on the person who you're with. 84 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,920 Like this is a great time to stimulate her nipples, to kiss 85 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:39,160 her, to go down on her. If you're going to go down on 86 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,800 her, here is one thing that I would recommend. 87 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,280 Try this. Let's say you're facing her. 88 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:49,240 Take your left hand and lay it kind of across the top of her 89 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:55,240 clit and start rubbing it side to side with your other finger. 90 00:06:55,560 --> 00:07:03,320 Slowly insert it into her vagina and the key here, do not pull it 91 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,080 in and out like you're not fingering her right now. 92 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,920 What you're doing is you're slowly sliding it and make sure 93 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:11,560 it's lubed. You're also massaging the top of 94 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:16,760 her clit in a in a motion that might be not as typical because 95 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,400 I feel like a lot of times the motion is up and down. 96 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,680 So when you go side to side, it offers something that's like a 97 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,720 little bit of a different sensation. 98 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:29,200 So when you put your finger in, you're going to pull it up 99 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,720 towards you, right? Like towards the top of her 100 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,120 vagina and just like gently pull it towards you. 101 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:40,200 And what that's going to do is stimulate the inside at the same 102 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,720 time that you're stimulating the outside. 103 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:47,440 At this point, she's going to be warmed up and feeling very good. 104 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:51,280 So I'm going to move on to two different positions that you can 105 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,840 try. I highly recommend moving from 106 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:58,160 this position into where she is on top. 107 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:04,000 So when she slides down onto you for the female, the position 108 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:07,600 that you want to be in is slightly arched forward. 109 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:11,680 Because when you're sort of locked in like that, then you 110 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:16,080 can kind of rub up and down and you're getting the pleasure and 111 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:21,040 sensation of like your clit rubbing against his skin at the 112 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,400 same time of his penis inside you. 113 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,280 Now for the guy, something that makes it extra good is when you 114 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:32,520 hold her hips, push them down. Because as you push them down, 115 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,880 it kind of gives you like a little extra thrust as well. 116 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:42,679 So you get like a little extra oomph and instead of focusing on 117 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:48,000 like an out and in motion, try to keep your bodies completely 118 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:54,360 connected so her clit is always rubbing up and down on the top 119 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:58,040 of your skin. She will probably get off like 120 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:02,920 this. And for the females, go as slow 121 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:08,560 as you can warming up for this. And then you'll get to a point 122 00:09:08,560 --> 00:09:11,480 where you get those last few thrusts that might be like a 123 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,320 little bit harder and you'll get off that way. 124 00:09:14,680 --> 00:09:19,200 Now, if you are going to try the traditional position of man on 125 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,320 top, I'm going to give you one more variation here. 126 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:29,480 So when he's coming into you, have him lay his stomach and 127 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,680 like his pelvis so it's touching your clit. 128 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,960 And when he's rubbing, he's going to have to use a little 129 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,920 bit of emotion so that he's almost like pushing down and up 130 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,080 into you because when he's pushing down and up, it's like 131 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:49,400 putting pressure on your clit as he is pushing up inside of you. 132 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,440 So if you guys can stay connected and your bodies are 133 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:56,040 rubbing back and forth like that, try that and see if that 134 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:59,080 gets you off. You'll notice that I didn't talk 135 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:03,640 about the female warming up the man in this particular scenario. 136 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:11,320 And part of that is because I want to make it clear that this 137 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,680 warm up is about getting the female to the point where she 138 00:10:14,680 --> 00:10:19,240 wants to absolutely devour you. So there is a timing component 139 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:23,680 here of when you're getting her really excited and everything's 140 00:10:23,680 --> 00:10:26,840 really, really stimulated to take advantage of that moment 141 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:28,960 and to have the penetrative sex then. 142 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,800 So if you go from her being like really warmed up and then maybe 143 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,800 she like gives you a blowjob or something like that, it's going 144 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:39,480 to like completely lose all the momentum that you already 145 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:43,200 created from all the work that you've already done. 146 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:46,760 So I would just say save that for a different part in the 147 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:50,760 process. Now if it's just not happening 148 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,520 and she's just not getting off, then try this. 149 00:10:54,840 --> 00:11:00,160 So if she's on top, then have the man hold a vibrator right on 150 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:04,480 top of her clit. So it's like he's pushing that 151 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,520 sort of into her. Now not too hard because 152 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,560 sometimes it just like pushes right against the bone and it 153 00:11:09,560 --> 00:11:12,600 actually kind of hurts. So like just realize that is 154 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,880 like very sensitive skin down there. 155 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:20,280 And when you push it too hard, it can have an opposite effect 156 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:24,040 to actually not be as stimulative. 157 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,240 Like it can almost dull the senses. 158 00:11:26,560 --> 00:11:29,920 And that can really happen. Like if you have sex that's just 159 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,560 like really rough. It can actually be harder for 160 00:11:32,560 --> 00:11:36,280 the girl to get off in that situation anyway. 161 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,120 So let's just say she's on top. The guy can hold the vibrator 162 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,080 and push that against her. And what's really hot is if the 163 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,560 guy can actually hold on to her hips as well and basically be 164 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:50,640 forcefully thrusting her on his Dick while she's doing that. 165 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:54,280 And there's a little subtle amount of domination that's 166 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,240 happening right there, which is part of why I think that that's 167 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:03,800 really, really hot for the guy to do that because he's pushing 168 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,480 the sensation of the vibe against her, right? 169 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,240 And he's holding her tight enough on top of them. 170 00:12:11,560 --> 00:12:14,720 So it's signaling this thought of, no, you can't move. 171 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:18,720 You have to enjoy this pleasure like I'm going to make you enjoy 172 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,840 this. And like she has, you know, she 173 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:25,560 can just let go in that moment and just be like, Oh my God, 174 00:12:25,560 --> 00:12:28,480 this is fucking amazing and get off in that way. 175 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:35,000 Last thing I'll just mention is that there's nothing hotter than 176 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:39,080 having sex with a woman who is truly enjoying her own pleasure. 177 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:45,920 So with all of these things, I say it in a way that really 178 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:50,840 talks about this a lot because I think for as a female, as if if 179 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,680 you get disconnected from your own pleasure or if you're 180 00:12:53,680 --> 00:12:58,440 focused on his pleasure more than your own, it can really 181 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,480 detract from the whole experience. 182 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:04,680 And I think most people would agree that when you're really 183 00:13:04,680 --> 00:13:07,600 like getting your partner off and you're seeing them like 184 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:11,480 that, it's a huge turn on for both sides. 185 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,920 So I would just encourage a particular females to really go 186 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:19,440 as slow as you feel like you need to in order to sort of 187 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:23,440 build the sensations that you feel you need in order to have 188 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,440 your climax. 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