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Ladies and gents, it's corporate
MILF. 

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Back with another episode. 
Probably one of the questions I 

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get asked the most from younger 
guys. 

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You'd be surprised how many 
younger guys are in my DMS. 

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I'm talking in their 20s. 
I'm not going to talk to 

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somebody younger than that. 
That's fucked up. 

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And yes, I do make everyone age 
verify, Oh my God. 

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Anyway, they often ask me how 
they can approach a MILF such as

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myself. 
I'm crying laughing about this. 

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It's like the whole thing is so 
fucking ironic because. 

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Because at least with my own 
personal journey, I was in a 

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space for a long time of feeling
like very undesired, unwanted, 

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not hot, had like 0 confidence 
around sex. 

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In fact like my whole experience
had basically given me like the 

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most non confident view I could 
possibly have on sex. 

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It was bad. 
So like I was like kind of like 

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the opposite of a goddess, 
whatever that would be. 

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Like very insecure about it in 
so many different ways. 

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The irony of course is that now 
these guys are asking how to get

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with me because I have like 
completely 180 my entire self 

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from a place of not being 
confident to holding queen 

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energy. 
And it's come over the course of

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the last few years as I went 
through a ton of shit in my 

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normal life and had to work 
through it. 

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And at the same time, while 
everything was crashing down 

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around me, the only thing I 
could control was myself. 

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So I was like a psycho about 
working out my nutrition. 

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I was listening to Andy Frisella
like every freaking day. 

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Like listening to 75 hard. 
I was like hardcore. 

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I was like not talking to 
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I was like hermit mode to the 
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I was, like, walking around all 
angry all the time. 

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But, you know, on social media, 
and especially if you're 

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listening and you're, you know, 
on my, you know, family 

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Instagram Stories, you know, all
you would have seen were these 

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pictures of Maine smiling in the
gym. 

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And I was smiling because I was 
so fucking proud of myself for 

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being there and all the shit and
looking so fucking good despite 

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everything around me completely 
crumbling to like literally the 

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fucking ground. 
Anyway, But through this 

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process, Oh my God, I'm kind of 
skimming here, but I did all 

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this stuff to improve my ego. 
Like, I'm not kidding you. 

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For like a year straight, I 
would walk around and I would 

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literally like hype myself up to
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I would be like, you're a 
goddess, like you're a sun 

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goddess. 
Like I would Oh my God. 

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I would say like a lot of things
to myself that were positive. 

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And you know what's crazy is 
like all those thoughts actually

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materialized in real life. 
And that's what's so crazy is 

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like I've done so much inner 
work around processing your 

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thoughts and realizing that what
you think actually does roll out

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within your 3D. 
So what you see as somebody's 

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outward physical is really a 
reflection of what's going on 

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within them. 
So before I was divorced, I was 

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in my angry phase and I got into
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I was like a little having a 
moment because I was kind of 

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just pissed that I never had a 
man like give me anything. 

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You know, like give me money or 
like pay for everything, like 

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pay for my mortgage. 
Like like literally like take 

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care of me financially or like 
even really give me gifts. 

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And you know, part of that, I 
will say, is definitely an 

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internal block that I had around
this because like, I always kind

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of felt uncomfortable with 
myself to give a gift because I 

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was like, oh, I don't know if 
they're going to like it. 

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And then I felt uncomfortable to
receive a gift because I was 

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like, I don't know if I'm 
reacting in a way that's going 

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to make the other person feel 
good because I don't know if I'm

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going to like the gift or not. 
So I released this through this 

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time period of being also angry.
So it was great because I got to

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take out my anger on like a lot 
of men that wanted me to take my

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anger out on them. 
So it was sort of perfect. 

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It was a nice little combo. 
Anyway, I'm only mentioning that

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because it's so interesting how 
I was thinking all this time 

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like you're a goddess and then 
you and like I literally became 

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a goddess online, a financial 
dominatrix. 

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And this is where I have a lot 
of this knowledge now on various

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kinks and fetishes is through 
these conversations that I've 

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had with people. 
So now I'm kind of sitting in 

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this new energy that feels 
really good, which is I'm kind 

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of pulling together all of my 
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bringing them into one space. 
So I'm really working on sort of

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bringing light to my shadow and 
definitely by doing this by 

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speaking my truths through my 
pod here. 

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And anyway, so I'm sitting in 
this energy where I have like, 

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you know, a couple 100 guys on 
only fans rising me up all the 

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time. 
So I'm feeling good about myself

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there. 
I have guys rising me up all the

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time on TikTok. 
I've got guys rising me up on 

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Instagram and in real life, guys
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which by the way, really didn't 
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So I'm in this space where I've 
been with somebody for a couple 

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of years, but we've kind of had 
like these ups and downs and 

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like every time we have these 
downs, I I just always think the

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worst. 
I'm like, all right, well, I 

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better find a new partner like 
immediately because I'm not 

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willing to live a celibate life.
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And so if like he's not going to
be with me, like I'm going to 

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fucking lose my mind and I'm 
going to need to have somebody. 

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So like immediately I go into 
like hunting mode and I'm like, 

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fuck, I need to find a partner 
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So my, my eyes have kind of been
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Like, like when I'm with a 
partner, I'm usually like very 

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consumed by that person. 
But like, if I, there's a 

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glimmer, that's when I kind of 
open my eyes and I see what's 

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happening around me. 
So I want to talk about it in 

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that context of how to approach 
a queen. 

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And if you listen to Part 3 of 
The Ultimate Fantasy, you will 

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know that I recently was swiping
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And so I have sort of an 
interesting perspective to share

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with you. 
So I'm going to run through what

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has worked, what approaches have
worked recently on me, which 

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ones have not, and some 
strategies that you can use to 

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approach the goddess, the queen,
the Princess, the maiden of your

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dreams, whoever that might be. 
Because by the way, I realized 

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that for a long time I wasn't 
going after the people who I 

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found extremely attractive or 
whatever quality that I was like

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looking at because I wasn't 
actually as confident in myself 

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as I thought I was. 
I fucking thought I was 

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confident like I was living 
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Like I, I was killing it at 
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Like I had a lot of, I was doing
Iron Man's like had things to 

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boast about. 
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should be confident. 
But my confidence was broken 

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down, you know, in a number of 
different ways actually over the

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past few years. 
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enlightened me to a few things. 
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when you're putting your webs 
out there, whether you are a man

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listening or a female listening 
or whatever, and you know who 

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you're going after, here are 
some ways that I have found to 

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work recently. 
So on Instagram, like I don't 

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know why it does never freaking 
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until recently that, you know, 
the people on Instagram are 

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actually real. 
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influencers on Instagram, 
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on the universe is on Instagram.
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on there, I could potentially 
see a picture of that person and

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normally swipe past it. 
But now I realize, oh, they're a

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person and maybe maybe they're 
also whatever, single and 

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looking for someone like me. 
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people. 
So that is 1 strategy to 

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actually get serious about what 
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Like really, really, really want
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Admit to yourself what you're 
looking for and have the 

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confidence to go after that 
person even if you think they 

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might be hotter than you. 
And if they are hotter than you,

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I'm going to give you an 
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This gets into receiving gifts. 
So if you look at yourself and 

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you look at like, how desirable 
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OK, there's a few things to look
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The 1st is your physical 
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Are you, I mean, just even 
beyond like short and tall, it's

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like, do you work out? 
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doesn't feel like they're being 
thrown out the bus here, but I 

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think a lot of people listen to 
me or else in the bodybuilding. 

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So this is really big. 
Listen, I guess it's big for me 

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because I lift. 
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and it's such a part of my 
routine, I simply cannot respect

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a man who doesn't lift. 
I can't, no, because physical 

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stature is a very real metric 
when it comes to looking for a 

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mate. 
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financial, of course, and that's
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Obviously that's a huge one. 
And you have to like, really 

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look at what are you actually 
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Are you offering gifts? 
Are you offering to pay for her 

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mortgage? 
Are you just offering to pay for

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dinners and like nights in a 
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within the right circumstance? 
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you're dating a man with money 
and all he's doing is taking you

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out for expensive dinner, then 
what are you really getting out 

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of that? 
Like do you still have to work? 

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Because that takes fucking time.
And like he can't, he needs to 

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like up his game to make it so 
he has access to you, right? 

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So it's like, what is the trade 
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And also, it totally depends on 
what the female is actually 

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looking for. 
Is she at the stage where she's 

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looking for a man to have kids 
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That's a whole different thing 
because you're looking, oh, 

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that's like a whole different 
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I don't want to get into that 
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And then there's other things 
that I do want to mention around

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emotional connection, but I 
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because it's a little bit 
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Fuck it, let's get to that 
later. 

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Let's stick with the fun stuff 
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So I did have an older gentleman
approach me recently with the 

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offer of gifts and this is much 
appreciated on my end. 

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And I said that would be 
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This is what I have been pining 
over for over a year. 

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And I sent him a picture of what
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And anyway, long and short, the 
man made it happen. 

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He fucking made it happen. 
He saw what I wanted and he got 

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it for me. 
He actually got it for me. 

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It was like the sweetest, most 
incredible gift someone has ever

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given me. 
Like sight on scene with no 

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promise of anything. 
By the way, I said as long as 

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you are offering this to impress
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would be really fun for me. 
So if you are someone who has 

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less desirability, I would say 
that the larger the offer is 

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going to be the thing that 
catches her attention. 

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I feel like you kind of, you can
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less when you're really fucking 
hot. 

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But like most people aren't hot,
but most people are like 99% 

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better looking when they're fit.
And even if you have a weird ass

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face, like weird ass faces are 
coming back into style, they 

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really are. 
So all you have to do is 

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actually get fit. 
Like it's completely within your

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control. 
Another tactic that I really do 

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see working well is by putting 
yourself out on Instagram and 

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building awareness with somebody
overtime. 

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And I'll tell you how this 
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Recently. 
I had connected with somebody on

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Instagram I think a long time 
ago, like maybe even a couple 

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years ago. 
I'm not honestly, I don't know. 

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And if someone knows how to find
that out, by the way, how you 

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connect to some in the 
beginning, that would be kind of

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fun to see. 
But I kind of realized, you 

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know, he had like sent me a fire
emoji a couple times on my 

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stories and I was like, and 
like, after a certain number of 

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times you get a fire emoji for 
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Like You will look at their 
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Like I usually, I usually will 
take a look at people's profiles

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if it's like someone I don't 
recognize. 

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So like you take a peek and 
you're like, so you kind of 

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become aware who they are and 
like, that's kind of all like 

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maybe like depending on what 
they look like, you can go and 

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scroll in more. 
So it's like kind of this like 

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online kind of awareness begins 
and that is where it starts. 

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And then at some point you like 
one person will say something 

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and it's like intriguing enough 
where the other person replies. 

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And I feel like that is the 
tactic that I have seen work 

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lately to the point of actually 
giving my number when it was 

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asked of me. 
So that is a tactic that works 

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guys. 
Oh my God, I have to tell you 

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the story. 
This is fucking crazy. 

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So my best friend and I were in 
Italy this summer and we went to

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Ari Enzo Beach club and it's 
like an all day like Euro style 

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beach club where everyone is 
like absolutely freaking 

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stunning and rich and like 
bringing their absolute best 

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vibe. 
And this one guy is there and 

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like you can see like he's 
clearly American. 

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Like he's got like the accent. 
I'm like a guy from New York, 

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you know, or whatever. 
And anyway, so we're going back 

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on the boat and he's like, he 
pitched. 

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I'm going to tell you his pitch 
and he'll appreciate this 

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because he he knows it was good.
He was like, he's like a girl 

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like you. 
He's like, he's like you're like

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an 8. 
I was like, wow, thanks. 

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And he's like, you know, girls 
like you. 

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He's like you're like a 12 at 
home. 

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OK. 
He's like, you know, girls like 

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you. 
You know, you have a roster, 

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like you need to have a roster. 
And I would just be honored to 

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be considered to be a part of 
that team. 

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And I thought that was pretty 
good actually, even though it 

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was like ridiculous because he 
called me an 8. 

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But like, I mean, I don't know, 
who am I to rank myself? 

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I don't know. 
But anyway, he's like, give me 

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your number. 
Give me your number. 

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And I was like, I just like 
looked at him. 

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And I was just like shaking my 
head, just like, I can't believe

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this is fucking happening. 
And he's like, come on, give me 

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your number. 
I'm like, no, he's like give me 

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your Instagram. 
And I was like, OK, yeah, you 

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can have my Instagram. 
And then he like sent me the 

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friend request right away. 
He's like, give me the fall back

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right now. 
Give me the fall back right now.

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And I was like, no, I made him 
wait. 

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I made him wait. 
So anyway, let me get back home 

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and oh, he had told me. 
I don't know what I asked him 

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but he had told me his net worth
and I was like I was like what 

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is it? 
He's like 2 and a half million. 

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I was like all right, it's 
acceptable. 

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So I knew this about him. 
And when we get home, I got 

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pissed at the guy I'm hanging 
out with. 

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And that's when I throw out 
these lines. 

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I just like throw out these 
devious fucking lines, these 

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devious thoughts. 
So I sent him a message and I 

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sent him, I sent him a link to 
Stadium Swim Club in Vegas. 

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And I was like, I want to go 
here. 

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And he responded like in the 
best fucking way possible, where

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like he called me right away. 
He completely pitched me on like

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his dream weekend and I was like
drooling, 'cause I was like, 

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that's exactly what I want to 
do. 

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And he's like, all right, we're 
doing this. 

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And like we, he literally booked
the flights and and like sent 

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them to me like immediately. 
But like we had good combos too.

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It was like really fun. 
So, so so on. 

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A tactic that works guys, 
because he offered to take me on

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a trip. 
That was like super fun 

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experience that I wanted to have
without the expectation of it 

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being and this is like the 
boundary that the female can 

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create, which is like how far do
you want to take this? 

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Like I told him straight up, I 
was like, listen, this is not 

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about us having sex. 
This is about this is about like

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me giving you a shot and you 
getting a chance to go on like a

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really fun weekend with me. 
And like I already knew he had 

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awesome energy. 
So I knew it would be like so 

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much fun. 
And I think I did a pod, I hope 

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I did a pod on the Vegas 
adventures and it would go back 

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into the into the Diaries and 
you can hear a little bit more 

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about that adventure. 
So I will say I do notice the 

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people who comment very 
regularly on my TikTok and I do 

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notice the people who message me
very regularly on only fans. 

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I'm no longer checking X. 
So if you're someone from X you 

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can message me through only 
fans. 

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And really same on TikTok. 
I will look at the comments on 

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TikTok but I don't really like 
to message people there. 

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So if you're any guy who wants 
to message me that you can do 

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through only Fans, which is at 
the real Jim Queen Girls 2 by 

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the way. 
Girls 2. 

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That would be fucking so hot. 
If I have a girl, subscribe to 

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my only fans please. 
I don't have any yet that I know

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of anyway. 
No one's messaged me. 

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Maybe I do have some, but if 
you're interested in me, that 

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would be so hot. 
I would love to do a little 

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drain with you anyway, so I 
think those are all good ways to

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approach people online. 
And I'm going to tell you some 

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ways that people have approached
me in public and how that went 

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down. 
So I did tell you the success 

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story of going to Italy. 
He approached me in public. 

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Now I will tell you some 
declines that have occurred 

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lately. 
So the first thing I want to say

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is guys or girls, you know how 
in fucking frequently you 

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actually run into somebody in 
public who is like really kind 

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of takes your breath away or 
like you're just like, wow. 

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And like that has happened so 
many times in my life and I've 

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never fucking said a word. 
I've never fucking said a word 

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as if I'd run into this person 
at some other point. 

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It's not going to happen. 
So I think if you see somebody 

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in public, you should take your 
shot. 

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Do it. 
OK, that's sad. 

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So a guy, a guy did shoot a shot
at me at the gym the other day. 

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I was honestly like, So I'm 
first of all, I'm always 

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impressed. 
I'm always impressed when 

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somebody asks me out in public 
because I feel like it takes 

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balls to do that. 
I do. 

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And I really, I can't hide 
usually if I'm not interested. 

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And so I do tend to be upfront 
about that. 

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Anyway, so this guy's walking 
around and I did notice him the 

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week before at the gym, but it 
was really just because he was 

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like kind of peacocking around 
the gym. 

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So anyway, I'm in the gym and 
this is the second time now I've

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seen him like a week apart. 
And he's like looking over me, 

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like waving. 
And I'm like, Oh my God, Oh my 

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God, fuck. 
He's going to say something. 

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So he comes over, He's like, 
hey, you know, how you doing? 

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I don't know. 
It was just kind of like very in

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my face. 
It wasn't like very suave at 

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all. 
And it was like very obvious 

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too. 
Like, he wasn't like hiding 

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anything from the different guys
who were like, right there, who 

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definitely could see him doing 
this. 

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And I was just like, hey, like, 
we just had an exchange and I 

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asked him his name, whatever. 
We laughed. 

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And I was like, and he asked me.
And then he went to like, ask me

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another question. 
I'm like, I'm going to get back 

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into my set now, if you don't 
mind. 

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And then he came back over again
and he's like, sorry to 

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interrupt, you know, I just 
thought you were interested. 

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And I gave him like a long stare
because in my head I was like, 

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really? 
And I just can't. 

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I gave him that look and just 
sucked the energy out of the 

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air. 
And I was like, I'm not. 

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And he was like, oh, I was like,
I do appreciate you asking, 

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though. 
Now here's one that sort of 

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worked. 
It sort of worked OK. 

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Another time I was at the gym 
talking with someone. 

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We had a great convo. 
We had a great convo. 

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It was just like good casual, 
cool convo. 

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And I thought he was cool and he
asked me for my number. 

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At the time, I was pissed off at
the guy I was dating. 

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So I was like, OK, you can have 
my number. 

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So I gave him my number and we 
went back and forth a little bit

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and he's like, are you even 
interested in me? 

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And I was like, I don't know, I 
mean, you're kind of like on the

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borderline. 
It's kind of like, well, what is

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exactly like, what are we 
talking about here? 

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You know, because I sort of 
evaluate everything with offers,

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like what are you offering me 
right now? 

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Like what kind of thing we 
talking about? 

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But anyway, he backed down. 
He backed down. 

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He's like, I don't think I am 
what you're looking for. 

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So, so be it. 
I said never up, never in. 

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If you don't give it a try, 
you're never going to find out. 

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I mean, fuck it, sometimes, 
that's the thing. 

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Sometimes guys just slip through
the cracks, like when they just 

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weasel the way in, like at the 
perfect time, you know? 

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But he didn't do it. 
He backed down. 

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So. 
So that's your choice. 

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And there was one more I did 
chat with a guy at a recent 

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influencer event, and he was 
cool. 

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And I was there alone. 
And he was another, you know, 

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social media guy. 
And I appreciated his company. 

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And we did connect on Instagram.
And then he messaged me through 

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Instagram asking me out. 
And at that point, I did 

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decline. 
But I truly appreciate the ask 

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because there are many times in 
my life where I would have said,

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yes, that's the thing. 
That's the thing. 

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It like varies so much on what 
the girl is looking for at that 

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very moment. 
And there's been such a long 

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period of my life where like 
literally fucking nobody hit on 

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me. 
I was like, what the fuck? 

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And I feel like only now I'm 
getting like these sort of like 

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bids and it's making me very 
fucking happy. 

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It's making me actually feel 
wanted. 

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And I like that. 
Wow, that's cathartic. 

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The last thing I will leave you 
with is this. 

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I have resurrected something 
that died a very long time ago. 

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It is my blacklist. 
There's currently only two 

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people on it, maybe 3. 
But listen, this is the way 

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girls work, OK? 
Is we do have in mind people we 

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are vaguely interested in. 
And at least for me, I want to 

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see that someone is interested 
in me over a long period of time

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and I can see their intentions 
and I can see that they're like 

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completely obsessed with me 
specifically. 

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Like me specifically, I want 
someone who wants to be with me.

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So I look for that long term 
presence and someone who's not 

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just going to, like, gas you up 
for like a day and then ghost 

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you. 
Yeah. 

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I'm still healing from one of 
those. 

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OK Yeah. 
So that's the way I'm healing. 

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I'm healing by being very 
interested in people who make me

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feel good about myself on a 
daily basis. 

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I love that for myself. 
And like, getting that feels 

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fucking amazing. 
It feels like sunshine. 

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Aw, that's really sweet. 
Now I really should clarify for 

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people that all offers are not 
offers. 

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Many offers are. 
Lots of offers are scams. 

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By the way, I have been scammed.
I have really good stories about

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that that were actually 
interesting. 

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But anyway, not all offers are 
good offers. 

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And depending on where the 
female is at is going to depend 

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on what kind of offer she's 
looking for. 

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Financial protection, physical 
protection, emotional 

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protection. 
I would say those are my top 

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three pillars. 
So if you can appeal to somebody

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in those areas, just food for 
thought because I'm sure there's

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a million other things that 
people look for. 

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Those just happen to be top of 
mind for me right now at this 

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moment. 
That is what is shining through.

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All right, I'm going to wrap 
there. 

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As always, you can find me on 
TikTok at corporate MILF only 

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fans, at the real Jim Queen 
Instagram, at the real Jim Queen

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X at Fendom Jim Queen. 
As always, you're not allowed to

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come until I do Peace.