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How's it going, Ladies and 
gentlemen, welcome to Realism 

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Talks Podcast episode 66. 
And guys, just to start off the 

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episode, this is something I 
want to try out. 

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That's new. 
It's a little new, but stay 

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tuned because this is an amazing
episode. 

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I already know the Holy Spirit's
going to lead this one. 

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I just prayed to him. 
He's present. 

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But let me tell you a joke 
first. 

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I want to let me tell you a 
Christian joke before each of 

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these episodes for the 
foreseeable future. 

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OK, just one corny little dad 
joke because I am a dad. 

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So here you go. 
You ready? 

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I asked God for a sign. 
He said stop ignoring the last 

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one. 
Oh, come on, that wasn't too 

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bad. 
I thought that was pretty funny 

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because I understand that 
completely. 

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How many times are we asking God
for a sign? 

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And first of all, he gave us 66 
in in the Bible and we ignore 

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him. 
We we want to wait for signs 

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that fit our schedule, fit our 
needs, right? 

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But anyways, I thought we could 
start with a little bit of light

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humor. 
Ha, ha, ha, ha. 

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I know kind of dumb, right? 
All right, let's go to the 

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episode which is entitled today.
This is why you're getting angry

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so much. 
And guys, I felt convicted to 

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make this one because this is 
probably my biggest stronghold 

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in my life and it has been my 
entire life. 

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But God has brought me so far 
the last couple years and I am 

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just have, I just have found so 
much peace and, and, and I've 

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wrote down kind of what I've 
been through and, and kind of 

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what I've seen as I went through
that. 

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And, and you guys are going to 
be able to feel this. 

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And, and with the Holy Spirit 
being present, I'm testifying to

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you guys what God has done in my
life and how you guys can heal 

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in your little personal walks 
with anger. 

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And I know a lot of people go 
through anger. 

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Everyone does. 
And you know, it's not a sin to 

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get angry. 
It's what we do with that anger.

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God tells us that we shouldn't 
sin while we're angry. 

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He definitely wants us to get 
upset about evil, and we're 

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allowed to get angry about evil 
and and disobedience and 

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rebellion and mockery to God, 
yes, but we shouldn't sin while 

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we're doing it. 
So with that being said, let me 

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read this first verse before we 
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And this is kind of what the 
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anger. 
This is Psalm 37, verse 8. 

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Psalm 37, verse 8, stop being 
angry. 

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Turn from your rage, do not lose
your temper. 

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It only leads to harm. 
For the wicked will be 

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destroyed, but those who trust 
in the Lord will possess the 

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land. 
Listen to that. 

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Stop being angry. 
Just stop. 

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He doesn't want us to be angry. 
And I'm going to explain why we 

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get angry in this episode. 
It says turn from your age, from

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your rage. 
Do not lose your temper, it only

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leads to harm. 
So we're allowed to get angry, 

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but when we lose our temper, 
that's what leads to harm and 

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leads to evil. 
So let me tell you a quick story

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about an A time I just got 
angry. 

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And this was just yesterday and 
I just shared it on my socials 

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earlier today. 
If you don't follow already, 

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YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, 
Facebook, I shared it on my 

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socials earlier today. 
But yesterday I I fell in the 

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same guys fell in pretty bad. 
I had an outburst of anger. 

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Not proud about it at all. 
Long story short, this is the 

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second time in the last six 
months that my car has needed a 

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new windshield. 
I mean, my Jeep has been through

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some windshield stress lately 
and I the first first couple 

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times, the first time, the first
time wasn't my fault and the 

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second time wasn't my fault. 
This time there was no impact 

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damage at all. 
I just saw this small crack at 

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the corner of my windshield at 
the top and the bottom slowly 

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starting getting bigger and 
bigger and, and now they're 

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right directly in the line of 
vision while I drive my Jeep. 

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And I was frustrated with that 
because it's like I didn't 

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deserve this. 
Again, it was $600.00 the last 

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time and I was in the car with 
my wife on the way to the 

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airport. 
She was going to see some 

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friends and I was talking to her
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I was complaining, I was getting
aggressive. 

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I was saying some words I should
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I was letting it increase and 
increase my rage to build and 

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build. 
And guys, I'm not even kidding. 

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None of this is a lie. 
Mid rage, mid stubbornness, mid 

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foolishness. 
While I'm talking to my wife, a 

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car pulls out right in front of 
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And this was the, the company of
the glass that installed my 

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windshield, the one I was just 
complaining about. 

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The the the same windshield 
company I was just being rageful

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about and complaining about and 
cursing about. 

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That was why I was angry. 
I was like this, this glass 

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company just put this in. 
They don't know what they're 

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doing. 
I said all this stuff, I gave 

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into anger. 
I gave into this rage and God 

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literally sent their company car
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And this was 15 miles outside of
where this company was small 

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town where I live in. 
This was not a corporation that 

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I didn't even know. 
They had company cars pulled 

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right out in front of me. 
And then guess what? 

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It gets better, gets even better
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Not even 30 seconds later, I 
pull up my phone 'cause I was 

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going to post a video or 
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The daily verse pops up and it 
is First Thessalonians 517, 

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which is give thanks in all 
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And man, I was humbled. 
I was like, are you? 

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I was blown away. 
My wife was like, I guess God's 

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trying to speak to you. 
I was like the odds of that car 

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being right in front of there 
and then the daily verse 

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happening just like that. 
For me to be grateful instead of

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so angry and to be thankful 
instead of so angry was the odds

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of that are astronomical. 
It's a high nose coming from 

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God. 
And I went to God in prayer and 

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I was like, God, I'm sorry that 
I've been ungrateful. 

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I'm grateful for this car, for 
this Jeep that I've worked hard 

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for and that you've blessed me 
with. 

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I'm I'm grateful I'm alive 
today. 

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I like, I'm sorry so many people
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So he didn't want my anger to 
turn into rage and it did guys. 

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And and that's the point. 
I was OK to get angry because it

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was very inconvenient, but not 
to the point where I said, which

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is where I should send because a
lot of times we give in to that 

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sin when we're angry. 
And I'm going to tell you why. 

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So point number one in this 
message today is going to be 

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anger often reveals what's 
ruling in your heart. 

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And I will attest to this. 
This is very true. 

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This is why I say it. 
Anger often reveals what's 

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ruling in your heart. 
When something controls you, 

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anything that threatens it 
triggers anger. 

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I mean, does that not sound 
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If there's something controlling
you, if you, if you got an 

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addiction to video games or 
PORN, it could trigger some 

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anger in you because you want to
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You have an addiction when 
things are revolved around it, 

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when your days revolved around 
it and things don't go according

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to plan, When you have an 
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you're on there for hours and 
your parents tell you to stop, 

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it produces anger. 
I mean all these different 

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things we have when we have an 
addiction to horrible food that 

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we put in our body and drinks 
that we put in our body, alcohol

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leads to anger. 
Food that makes us irritable and

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and preservatives that we put in
our body that don't give us the 

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right nutrients. 
They make us angry. 

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There's so many reasons that we 
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Think about the personal things 
in your in your life that are 

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stronghold in your heart that 
could be leading to all of this 

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anger. 
I want to read some scripture. 

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This isn't James. 
James 4 verses one through 2. 

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Pull out your Bibles please if 
you have them. 

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James 4 verses one through 2 and
listen to this. 

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What is causing the quarrels and
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Don't they come from the evil 
desires at war within you? 

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You want what you don't have, so
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You are wicked. 
You are jealous of what others 

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have but you can't get it, so 
you fight and wage war to take 

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it away from them and to get 
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Wow guys. 
This was New Living translation,

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by the way, guys, for those who 
have different translations, 

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it's a great translation. 
But yeah, he's telling us that 

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there's stuff, there's evil 
within us that's causing this 

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quarrelsome attitude and this, 
and for us wanting to pursue 

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fights and, and aggression and 
arguments and and anger, there's

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something in US deeper, a seed 
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And we have to understand what 
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I mean, quarrels and fights 
among believers are always 

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harmful. 
James explains that these 

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conflicts result from evil 
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We want more possessions, more 
money, higher status, more 

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recognition. 
But when we don't get what we 

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want, we conspire to have it. 
This shows why coveting is 

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forbid forbidden in the 10 
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It can lead people to kill in 
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frustration over unfulfilled 
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It'll lead us to sin. 
It'll lead us to wicked schemes 

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and to evil. 
And we have to understand that. 

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I mean, you're not just having a
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Something in your heart is being
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Examine that. 
And guys, I have a feeling that 

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there are some listening right 
now who are convicted when I say

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that through the Holy Spirit, I 
know there are. 

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I mean, maybe this is the reason
for your anger. 

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And a lot of people that are 
angry, and this was me for 

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years. 
You struggle to find out why 

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you're so angry. 
It's like, why do I act this way

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so often? 
Why am I responding this way 

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instinctively? 
Why, why, why? 

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There could be something deeper 
down that God's trying to fix in

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you that you are preventing Him 
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Let me read Luke 6 verse 45. 
And this is Jesus speaking red 

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ink. 
Luke 645. 

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A good person produces good 
things from the treasury of a 

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good heart, and an evil person 
produces evil things from the 

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treasury of an evil heart. 
What you say flows from what is 

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in your heart, man, that last 
line, right? 

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What you say flows from what is 
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And God tells us this all the 
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This is why people say your 
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Your heart is the one that Jesus
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the last day. 
He's going to read your heart on

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Judgment Day. 
I do not believe it'll be our 

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mouths speaking and we won't 
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I believe. 
I believe that he'll ask us 

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rhetorical questions like why 
did you not do this with what I 

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gave you? 
And he'll know the answer to 

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those questions. 
He'll be reading your heart. 

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I mean, there's nothing that we 
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So what is in your heart that's 
causing you to get angry? 

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That leads me to point #2 point 
#2 is unhealed wounds turn small

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moments into big reactions, 
right? 

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And this was me for years as 
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I had some issues growing up 
that I haven't revealed to you 

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guys in my testimony, some 
traumatic things that have 

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happened to me in my life and it
was unhealed. 

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I never really took it a head 
on. 

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I never really, you know, worked
on it with God. 

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I kind of just ignored it for 
years and it turned into a lot 

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of anger. 
A lot of people who live in 

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anger are usually in pain. 
They look for peace, but in all 

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of the wrong areas. 
And that was me for a long time.

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So let's read a a verse in here.
This is in Hebrew, Hebrews, 

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Hebrews chapter 12 verses 14 
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And guys, I will put these 
verses in the caption of this 

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episode if you guys want to go 
back to them if or if you, or if

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you forget which ones I'm 
talking about. 

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So this is Hebrews chapter 12, 
verses 14 through 15. 

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It says work at living in peace 
with everyone and work at living

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a holy life for those who are 
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Look after each other so that 
none of you fails to receive the

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grace of God. 
Watch out that no poisonous root

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of bitterness grows up to 
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Wow, there's a lot in these 
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There's a lot in here. 
He says look after each other so

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that none of you fails to 
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He's telling us that we can give
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us through the Holy Spirit who 
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So when we are showing 
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heal some things in their life. 
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towards you, if they have some 
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against you, you you also are 
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If you if you don't try and make
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compassionate to their feelings,
you don't listen to what they 

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have to say. 
This will help. 

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This will hurt others and and 
produce a rage in them when 

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we're not supporting each other 
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supposed to show each other the 
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Spirit. 
Does that make sense? 

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And it says right there, watch 
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bitterness grows. 
He says it'll grow in US. 

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It'll start small that somebody 
does something to us or somebody

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doesn't listen to us. 
There's nobody understands. 

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And that's when we say a lot, 
nobody understands what I'm 

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going through. 
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you feel like nobody hears you 
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Well, first of all, God does and
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He'll work through the others, 
but it'll start small and it'll 

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grow and it'll corrupt many. 
It'll be contagious, cancerous. 

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That's what he's talking about 
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And like I said, a lot of people
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usually in pain. 
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Psalm 147, verse three. 
He heals the broken hearted and 

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bandages their wounds. 
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verse a lot because it's so 
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He heals the broken hearted and 
he bandages their bone, their 

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wounds, and that's if we go to 
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If if we're trying to do this on
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you're not going to feel his 
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leaning on him. 
Sin is is what separates us from

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him. 
You go to him with confession. 

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You go to him with surrender. 
He's going to heal your heart. 

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Lord, I, this may have been my 
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This may have not. 
There may have been something in

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your life. 
Somebody passed away, but he 

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will bring peace to you in that 
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understanding that you may have,
according to Philippians 4627. 

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If you have that praise towards 
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knowing that he still has a plan
for you, for your better and for

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your good, he'll get you through
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You'll find the piece that 
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I mean, guys, we have to 
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anger in us is from things, is 
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something that is rooted deeply 
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bring up and expose. 
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world. 
Tell other people so they can 

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keep you accountable so other 
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This anger and it affects 
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to be torn apart. 
It caused mine to almost be torn

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apart. 
My wife handed me divorce papers

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10 months ago. 
God willing, God saved our 

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marriage, healed our marriage. 
We turned to Him. 

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We had faith in Him and a lot of
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anger from both ends and you 
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it ruins it when when marriages 
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they fall apart. 
We need to stop getting so 

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rageful and anger and, and just 
in the moment go to God in 

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prayer. 
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angry. 
Now I go to God in prayer with 

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the Lord. 
Please give me peace. 

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This is even if it's something 
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is something that wasn't I, I 
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please give me peace. 
I know I can get peace. 

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I know Lord, that if I trust you
and I thank you for the things 

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in my life. 
I thank you for this opportunity

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to have patience that'll grow, 
that'll have endurance. 

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Thank him, thank him in the in 
the moment. 

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Praise him in the moment. 
Go to him and ask him in the 

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moment, Lord, I need patience. 
He will, he will honor that he's

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he will love that you're going 
to him before you sin, before 

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you give into rage or before you
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I mean, guys, here's a a few 
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You're trying to control what 
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That's another reason people get
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They try and control everything 
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things don't go the way they 
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angry and they take it out on 
everyone around them. 

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I mean, look at Proverbs 19 
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People ruin their own lives from
their own foolishness. 

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Then they get angry at the Lord.
That's the whole verse. 

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People ruin their lives from 
their own foolishness and then 

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get angry at the Lord. 
We blame God for a lot of things

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in our life, but we don't think 
about what's causing it. 

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We don't think about what we're 
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We don't make an effort to fix 
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We don't get convicted about it 
because we ignore the conviction

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now. 
I mean, even if we're getting 

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convicted, that's great. 
We need to keep going to God. 

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We need to keep staying prayered
up. 

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When you keep going into His 
word, especially Proverbs, the 

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book of Proverbs, will hum, will
humble you. 

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I recommend it tremendously for 
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It's helped me a lot. 
And God's, He doesn't want you 

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to be in that anger. 
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He knew you were going to 
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He knew you were going to have 
moments where you'd give into it

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before you were even born. 
According to Psalm 139, verse 

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16, He wrote down all the days 
in our life before we were born,

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which means He knew what your 
issues were going to be and He 

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knows exactly how to heal them. 
Everyone's got different gifts, 

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everyone's got different 
struggles, but leaning on God 

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through it is how He'll 
personally lead you in your 

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walk. 
Another example is constant 

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anger could mean you're 
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You're not giving God time, 
you're and it in the meantime, 

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it's preventing you from bearing
the fruit of patience. 

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The more we involve the spirit 
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the spirit, not our flesh. 
The more we're involved with the

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word, the more we're involved 
with bearing fruit, the more 

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fruit we will bear if we're 
conscious of our fruit, if we're

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conscious of our relationship 
with Jesus and how we're seeking

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him in the moment, not just in 
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closed doors. 
Your true self is shown when no 

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one's looking. 
Think about that guys. 

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How often are we angry and no 
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You might be thinking, oh, I 
haven't gotten angry and to 

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somebody in a long time, but do 
you get, do you show that in 

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your heart? 
And you know when you're on your

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phone scrolling at night and you
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We got to think, you know, we 
got to think and ask the Lord, 

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why are we getting angry? 
What, what's the root of it? 

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That's what I would ask the Lord
and then I'll show you today. 

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Watch and then another one is if
God corrects you and you ignore 

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it constantly, then frustration 
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It does, it grows. 
It grows as we ignore his 

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conviction because God is 
distant because of our sin, 

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because of us ignoring him. 
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It says whoever stubbornly 
refuses to accept criticism will

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suddenly be destroyed beyond 
recovery. 

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He's telling us here a heart 
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They, they don't know Jesus and 
they'll never end up finding 

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them because they won't make an 
effort to set aside their pride 

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and their defensiveness and be 
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Be willing to accept criticism 
because that's how we grow. 

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God uses us to help us correct 
others and to help us encourage 

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others. 
It's out of love the from the 

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body of Christ. 
It should be out of love. 

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You know, with all being, with 
all that being said, guys, you 

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know a lot. 
I know a lot of y'all struggle 

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with it. 
You know, sometimes I still 

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struggle with it. 
Like I go to God, I get back up 

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and I always seek to improve and
to sanctify. 

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But let me read a verse that 
will encourage you. 

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And I know a lot of you have 
heard of this verse and this is 

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in Matthew. 
Let's see if I have it pulled 

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up. 
This is in Matthew Chapter 11 

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verses 28 through 30. 
And I know a lot of you have 

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heard of this and I'm going to 
read it because it's perfect for

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this. 
Jesus is saying this, and then 

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Jesus said, come to me, all you 
who are weary and carry heavy 

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burdens, and I will give you 
rest. 

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Take my yoke upon you. 
Teach me, let me teach you 

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because I am humble and gentle 
at heart. 

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You will find a rest for your 
souls, for my yoke is easy to 

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bear and the burden I give you 
is light. 

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He's telling you go to Him 
through your anger. 

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Give it to Him. 
It's not your battle to fight. 

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Stop trying to fight it on your 
own. 

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Give it to Him, the battles won 
on the cross. 

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Pray to Him. 
Surrender your anger to Him. 

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I've done that and he completely
changed my life. 

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He sanctified me. 
He's convicted me in ways that I

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used to not feel. 
And so much so to the point 

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where I am so grieved after 
giving into an outburst of 

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anger. 
And He leads me to constantly 

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improve my patience. 
And when you ask for patience, 

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He's going to give you 
situations to test your patience

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and to test your anger. 
But this is how we improve. 

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Keep that in mind. 
His yoke is easy and His burden 

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is light. 
But we have to trust in Him. 

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We have to give Him our issues 
and our habitual sin. 

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And you will find peace. 
He is the only answer. 

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Guys, I hope this has helped 
tremendously. 

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To recap quickly, anger often 
reveals what's ruling in your 

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heart. 
Unhealed wounds turn small 

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moments into big reactions. 
You're trying to control what 

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God never gave you. 
Control of constant anger could 

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mean you're spiritually drained.
You're not giving God time and 

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that's preventing you from 
bearing the fruit of patience. 

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If God corrects you and you 
ignore it constantly, then 

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frustration grows guys. 
So with that being said, I feel 

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called to pray. 
I don't always pray at the end 

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of these episodes because I I 
wanted to be a personal 

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connection with God. 
I want to make sure my mind and 

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spirit are in the right spot and
right now it is. 

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So bow your heads guys. 
Please stay for this prayer. 

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Dear Heavenly Father. 
Lord, thank you so much for this

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opportunity to talk about you 
together, to expose the sin of 

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outbursts of anger into giving 
in to sinful anger. 

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Lord, thank you for the 
conviction and for the guidance 

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and the wisdom you give me and 
all of us to improve and to heal

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from this sin. 
Lord, I ask that you give us 

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patience and in our lives that 
produces more tests from you. 

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Lord, I ask that we don't run 
from these tests, but we endure 

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through them because we'll be 
able to get through these angry 

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occasions in our life much 
easier every single time we get 

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through them with you. 
Lord, I asked specifically today

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that those listening that are 
struggling with anger, you begin

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to to build them in a direction 
where they feel conviction so 

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much so to where they grieve the
way they act and they go to you 

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for healing because conviction 
leads to repentance. 

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And that's what you did for me. 
It's in your son's name. 

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I pray all these things, Jesus 
Christ. 

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Amen, guys. 
Amens Amens in the chat. 

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Love it guys. 
I hope you enjoy this episode. 

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And guys, I have huge news here 
in the next few weeks. 

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I'm doing a podcast episode with
Cliff and Stuart Connectly. 

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No joke. 
I'm going to go out to 

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Connecticut. 
We're going to do an in person 

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podcast. 
We're going to get some footage,

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some film. 
Hopefully it's a long, good 

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episode. 
I'm going to ask them some tough

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questions, get their views on 
some things, God willing. 

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God bless. 
Thank you so much, Lord, for 

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giving me this opportunity to 
grow this ministry and talk to 

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Stuart and Cliff and guys, 
please stay tuned for that. 

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And I cannot wait. 
I absolutely cannot wait guys. 

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I will see you guys next week 
for another episode. 

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I really hope this helped. 
Please share to somebody to help

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this world. 
See you guys next time. 

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Peace out.