1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,800 Don't be left in the dark. Get proper understanding of life 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,920 through the Word of God. My people perish for lack of 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,800 knowledge. The Word of God is an 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,000 illumination which gives direction. 5 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,960 Remember, place as Reverend goes far and illuminates your mind 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,680 with the Word of God with all simplicity and clarity. 7 00:00:23,950 --> 00:00:31,070 Welcome back to The Cave of Truth excavation, because as I 8 00:00:31,070 --> 00:00:36,680 reflect on how the Holy Spirit has been leading us in the last 9 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:45,920 three weeks, we have actually been going beyond just sharing 10 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:51,520 revelation about friendship. Rather we have been doing 11 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:56,800 excavation of eating truth about relationship in general. 12 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:02,440 I don't know whether you took notes of that we have been doing 13 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,200 or what we have been doing in the last six weeks. 14 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:11,240 It's not just sharing revelation about friendship, but rather we 15 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:15,760 have been doing excavation of hidden truth about relationship 16 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,840 in general. So turn to your neighbor NIA of 17 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,680 our Pharaohs say welcome back to The Cave of excavation. 18 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:30,680 And I guarantee you that today promises attaining another 19 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,800 deeper level of excavation of Kingdom mystery. 20 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:41,280 And may the Lord quicken your understanding to receive the 21 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:46,800 hard truth that will help your destiny in the name of Jesus. 22 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:52,040 I have just prayed and I can hear that woman aligning with us 23 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:56,080 in the spirit. I say may the Lord quicken your 24 00:01:56,080 --> 00:02:01,000 understanding to receive the truth that will help your 25 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:07,680 destiny in the name of Jesus. So we are not just digging for 26 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,960 water, we are digging for trails. 27 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:16,120 We are digging for trail and today we are going deeper. 28 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,680 Tell somebody we are going deeper. 29 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:23,600 Now before we lay our finger on the focus for today, it's 30 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:30,360 important that we do equip review of the concluding parts 31 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:36,640 of last week's study. Last week's study, if you 32 00:02:36,640 --> 00:02:41,400 examine it critically, it was a two in one session. 33 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:49,200 The first session we examine our law to inherit enemies and that 34 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:54,920 eventually drove till into the second session where we commence 35 00:02:55,800 --> 00:03:01,440 a study on trust management in friendship, trust management in 36 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:05,600 person. And we have to do that part 37 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:15,960 because a mind that is be clouded with sentiments cannot 38 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:20,880 love correctly. When your mind is be clouded 39 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:27,640 with sentiments, you will not be able to love correctly. 40 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:35,480 So love, which is the adhesive that bind people together in 41 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,240 friendship. Do you know that you know what 42 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:39,960 an adhesive is? Gum. 43 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:44,320 The adhesive that bind people together in friendship is love. 44 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,720 But where your mind is be clouded with sentiment, you will 45 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:53,400 not be able to love correctly. And that was the reason we 46 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:59,200 before we start to look at trust management in friendship, we 47 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:05,920 first examine the subject of you not inheriting your neighbor's 48 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:11,240 enemy. Why love can only thrive and 49 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:15,400 friendship can only flourish where trust is genuine. 50 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:21,079 Where trust is what's genuine in any form of relationship. 51 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,760 Once trust is wounded, love will be damaged. 52 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:31,120 Once trust is wounded. Once trust is affected 53 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,040 negatively, love will be damaged. 54 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:40,160 The way you preserve love is by protecting trust. 55 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:47,640 Once trust is wounded, I said love will be damaged. 56 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:52,200 If you want to preserve love, the assignment you must commit 57 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:58,080 yourself to is to protect trust. So you preserve love by 58 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:03,400 protecting trust. And I did mention very 59 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:10,360 emphatically, and I explained the concept properly, that 60 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,640 friendship is the highest level of interpersonal relationship. 61 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:19,400 Friendship is the highest level of interpersonal relationship 62 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:25,320 OK, when even when you are married are your spouse is not 63 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:30,720 your friend, you don't make it a point of duty to make your 64 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,400 spouse your friend. You will discover that you will 65 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:37,040 see share intimacy with others get that is deeper than the why 66 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,320 you are with your spouse. Am I talking with to somebody? 67 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:45,560 So friendship, been the highest level of interpersonal 68 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,440 relationship, must be built on trust. 69 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:54,600 It must be built awards trust. There is no security for love 70 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:59,520 where trust is missing. When trust is not there, your 71 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:04,160 love is not secure. So there is no security for love 72 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:08,920 where trust is absent. Then, among many other issues 73 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:15,360 that were raised last week for consideration, I equally stated 74 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,040 the following poetic lines for your meditation. 75 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,760 I'll quickly run over them before we start to engage the 76 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,320 focus for today. I did mention that what makes 77 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:31,960 friendship so exceptional among different levels of 78 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,360 interpersonal relationship is trust. 79 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:43,040 You can have an accuters, OK, You just relate at the platonic 80 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:48,640 level and at that, at that platonic level, your mind is 81 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,320 actually not there. Your mind is prepared for any 82 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,360 damage that may come. Are you with me? 83 00:06:55,920 --> 00:07:00,400 But once you call it friendship, trust must be there. 84 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:06,360 So and it is that trust that makes it exceptional, that makes 85 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:12,000 it the chief of all forms of interpersonal relationship. 86 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:19,880 And I did mention that when we talk about this trust thing, OK, 87 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,320 is it a colour thing that we will be able to describe by its 88 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:27,240 colour? Is it a matter that we will be 89 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,320 able to describe it by its weights? 90 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:35,040 Are we able to now put it into calculation? 91 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:40,600 I said this is the mass was you can was it way this particular 92 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:47,160 wait there you'll be able to say it is excellent or less than 93 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,000 excellent. Am I talking to somebody? 94 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:56,560 So trust still exists in the abstract realm. 95 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:03,000 So it's not totally provable empirically. 96 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:09,160 And I think that was what made one of you to ask that question 97 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:18,120 last week, that if we say trust must precede love, for how long 98 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:23,040 will love with until we are sure that trust exists before we dive 99 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,920 into the ocean? Praise the name of the Lord. 100 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:32,559 Yes, trust may not be totally provable, provable empirically, 101 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:37,919 but it must be standing on a rational and reasonable ground. 102 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,159 I will not be able to describe the colour. 103 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,520 I will not be able to describe the texture. 104 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:49,160 OK, but where it exists there are certain characteristics that 105 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:53,440 will be present that will convince you that trust is here 106 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,640 and when it is not there, you will also be able to say trust 107 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:03,400 is absent. So your trust must be standing 108 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:07,200 on the rational and reasonable ground. 109 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,320 You don't assume it. You know what? 110 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,760 Assume it. You must experience it. 111 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:19,120 And I pray in the name of Jesus the Lord will give you faithful 112 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,760 friends. You will not fall into the hand 113 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:28,000 of those who will deceive you and destroy you in the name of 114 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:32,280 Jesus. So love on the other hand, 115 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:37,880 different from trust, may not allow for rational evidence. 116 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:43,560 But trust must be built on rational evidence for love, 117 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:49,640 because it's an emotional thing. It may not allow for rational 118 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:54,920 evidence, but trust must be based on convincing grounds. 119 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:01,360 That can serve as a regulator for over boiling love. 120 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:07,080 Love can over boil Hello. Love can do what it's over boil 121 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:13,520 and we have to be regulated so but we are trust is not does not 122 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,840 precede it. You will not have the capacity 123 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:20,400 to regulate love from over boiling. 124 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,280 So if you're boiling love therefore will not lead to 125 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:28,840 emotional bonds. Trust must be established before 126 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:34,880 love is expended. Trust must be established before 127 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:42,240 you start to expand love. Love is like a capital you bring 128 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:46,800 into your social business. Do you know friendship is the 129 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:51,880 social business. Hello, Friendship is what a 130 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:55,680 social business. So at the capital you bring 131 00:10:55,680 --> 00:11:01,760 there to treat which is love. So before you start to now 132 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:07,600 expand the love, throw in the love, OK, you must be so sure 133 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:13,440 that trust is there. So if you're boiling, love will 134 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:19,600 not lead to emotional bonds. Trust must be established before 135 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:27,320 love is expended in the social capital markets of love. 136 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:33,600 So when we talk about trust, it is the core, It is the essence 137 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,520 of friendship. Love, on the other hand, is the 138 00:11:36,560 --> 00:11:40,200 backbone. Love is providing structure and 139 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,960 supports. Love is providing structure and 140 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,880 supports. But the core, the essence of 141 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:51,040 friendship is what is trust. So it is trust that give 142 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:55,320 friendship its depths. Friendship not built on trust is 143 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:59,760 starting on a shallow ground. Friendship not built on trust is 144 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:05,960 standing on what shallow ground so but when trust is there, the 145 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,800 friendship will be deep. So it is trust that give 146 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,760 friendship its depths. What what? 147 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,960 What love does is to give it stability and strengths. 148 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,240 So you establish the depth of love by trust. 149 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:23,080 Then when you bring in love, it will give it stability and 150 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:28,280 strength. So essentially it is not one 151 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,760 without the order. So they must go hand in hand 152 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:37,160 simultaneously. Of course, the the rhetorical 153 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:42,080 question will always exist which one should precede the order. 154 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:46,160 Sometimes it's a situation of the egg and the chicken. 155 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,560 You see the chicken that comes before the egg or the egg that 156 00:12:50,560 --> 00:12:55,000 comes before the chicken. So by the time you hug you for 157 00:12:55,000 --> 00:13:00,160 the chicken, you eventually discover that without anybody 158 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,960 telling you, you also have to hug you for the egg. 159 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:07,280 Praise the name of the Lord or which one confess the chicken or 160 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,400 the egg. If you say the chicken, you said 161 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:15,880 the chicken come before the the egg, OK, or the egg came before 162 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,480 the chicken. So that's the way trust and love 163 00:13:20,560 --> 00:13:23,600 relates sometimes. So this week we are going to 164 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:30,640 focus on how to manage trust. How to manage trust and regulate 165 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:34,000 love and friendship. Since the two of them must 166 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:39,600 coexist for friendship to be deep and stable. 167 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:44,560 Trust we give its depths, love we give it stability. 168 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:51,120 So for friendship to be deep and stable, both must be present. 169 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:59,320 How do you now manage trust and how do you regulate love and 170 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:06,320 friendship for love? Love is desperately impulsive. 171 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,640 Love will not ask for your permission before it will start 172 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:20,600 to lead you. Affair by a beauty. 173 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,320 Do you understand what I'm talking about? 174 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:30,360 So love is desperately impossible. 175 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:35,240 And that is why I want to argue that trust must precede love, 176 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:41,160 especially when we're talking about friendship that may 177 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:50,640 eventually leave to marriage. So love is desperately 178 00:14:51,720 --> 00:15:00,200 impossible. It is more extremely expensive 179 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:05,800 when it is supported by a form of trust that is merely 180 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:09,040 speculated and not properly calculated. 181 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:16,040 You want me to explain that I said love is desperately 182 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:19,160 impossible? It will not ask for your 183 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:23,520 permission before it starts to drive you gay, sometimes not 184 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:24,800 even wise. You can drive. 185 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:33,200 You can drive you much? Am I talking to somebody there? 186 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:39,080 It will not become more extremely expensive, very 187 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:46,560 costly, when it is supported by a form of trust that is merely 188 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,000 speculated and not properly calculated. 189 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:54,080 Remember, I already established the fact that in friendship both 190 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:57,400 trust and love must cohabit. They must exist. 191 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:01,960 While we give it depth, the other we give it stability. 192 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:08,000 But love will be outside your control. 193 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:18,800 You can control trust and that is why you must not play with 194 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:25,720 the form of love that is supported by a trust that is 195 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:30,800 merely speculated. He, just as you, is honest, is 196 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:36,160 sincere. You don't make deliberate or 197 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:39,560 intentional effort to prove the trust. 198 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:47,200 Am I talking to somebody? So love is extremely expensive 199 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:52,280 when it is supported by a form of trust that is merely 200 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:56,040 speculated and not properly calculated. 201 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:06,920 So nobody should therefore experiments with friendship, 202 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:12,560 with a trust that is merely speculated and not properly 203 00:17:12,599 --> 00:17:17,520 calculated. Even the lover boy King Solomon, 204 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:23,280 you know, King Solomon, the lover boy King Solomon, in spite 205 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:30,040 of his gyration, in spite of his Randy nature, you know he's a 206 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:33,760 very Randy personality. In spite of his Randy 207 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:38,360 personality, he was still careful enough to identify the 208 00:17:38,360 --> 00:17:43,000 dangers associated with the impulsive nature of love. 209 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:49,800 You already agree with me that love could be desperately 210 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:58,160 impulsive and King Solomon so and the man in spite of that was 211 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:03,640 take careful enough to identify the dangers that are associated 212 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:12,640 with the impossible nature of love in Songs of Songs. 213 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:22,080 Songs of Solomon, chapter 2 and 7, chapter 3 and 5, the same 214 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:32,400 verse, I mean the same text was repeated verbatim in those two 215 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:36,400 verses. Chapter 7 of verse 2, Song of 216 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:42,320 Songs, Chapter 5, verse 3 of I mean verse 7 of chapter 2 and 217 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:47,120 verse 5 of chapter 3 said, I charge you, Oh yeah, daughters 218 00:18:47,120 --> 00:18:52,680 of Jerusalem, by the rules and by the ends of the fee that you 219 00:18:52,680 --> 00:19:03,440 steer not all nor awake my love till he please, till the 220 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:09,400 safeguards are put in place, till the boundaries are 221 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:13,040 established. Please don't wake up my love 222 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,200 because once you wake it up it will be outside my control. 223 00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:24,640 I have had Doctor Bob tell young people here severally don't warm 224 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,880 the Oval when you are not ready to big. 225 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,080 Hello. Don't warm the Oval when you are 226 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,600 not ready to do all to big. Because you warm the Oval, you 227 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:41,240 are not ready to big the Oval. You overheats by the time you 228 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:44,240 put in. You do if you get bonds. 229 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:48,800 Am I talking to somebody? So it's almost the same thing 230 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:56,760 that King Solomon was saying in his poem Here I tell you, your 231 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:01,040 daughters of Jerusalem, you daughters of Jerusalem, close 232 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:07,040 your cleavage. You daughters of Jerusalem, stop 233 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:11,840 wearing trousers, OK? That depicts all the contours in 234 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:15,160 your body. Don't wake up, my love, because 235 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:19,840 you may tempt me to rape you. Let's put it wrong that way. 236 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:29,030 Am I talking to somebody because I know myself? 237 00:20:29,030 --> 00:20:32,470 You know, I put myself in the position of Kintulu now because 238 00:20:32,470 --> 00:20:37,560 I know myself by the time I almost go right or now, I can do 239 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:44,040 anything. But today we behave even in 240 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:46,840 church as if these things are not real. 241 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:56,000 Love can be desperately words and proceed until the safeguards 242 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:03,320 are in place. OK don't jump into it until you 243 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:07,240 can trust that brother that he will treat you like his own 244 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:11,560 blood Sister don't start courtship because that's the 245 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:15,680 Bible recommendation. When he was talking to is it 246 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,240 titles or apropos Paul was writing either titles or or 247 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:22,000 Timothy. How is to relate with different 248 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:27,880 age groups in the church. He said for the young women, 249 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:40,200 treat them as your sisters. Love is an is an Oval with 250 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:46,080 emotion as it's fire. You know, an Oval that use for 251 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:50,000 baking. So love is an Oval with emotion 252 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,520 as it's fire. The fire that born in the Oval 253 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:59,840 of love is what emotion so and if that fire is not regulated if 254 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:06,920 we born any food place in it. I pray you will not get your 255 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:12,800 destiny destroyed on the platform of relationship in the 256 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,160 name of Jesus. And so the reason you must put 257 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:20,600 trust ahead of love is because trust is easier managed. 258 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:32,080 Love is difficult to regulate. Trust is easier managed but love 259 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:36,640 is difficult to regulate. Why love is emotional? 260 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:43,800 Why trust is rational? Love is emotional, but trust is 261 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:50,000 what rational You. You can subject trust to 262 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:56,880 intellectual query. We almost that control love will 263 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:02,320 not allow you to be reasonable. That's why they say love is 264 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,760 blind. Hello. 265 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,680 It doesn't mean that love is not seen. 266 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,280 Love is seen, but love will not allow you to reason. 267 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:19,560 Hello, are you with me? The truth about love is that 268 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:26,080 love by Cuba even for parents when you are raising your 269 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:30,440 children, the one that you have emotional attachment to OK, you 270 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:34,640 condo certain things that organization not condo and then 271 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:40,120 all that people will be seen. It's be you do baby or you and 272 00:23:40,120 --> 00:23:43,880 that's why when they tell me Emma kill me I came by gay OK, 273 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,080 they are telling me you fare anything back back go back. 274 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:50,840 Am I talking to somebody? Emma Keo Mauniya came back the 275 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,640 trust of Winnipeg. He failed. 276 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,520 Second, you put him by back Uber. 277 00:23:54,520 --> 00:24:04,520 Because love is emotional. But for trust, trust cannot 278 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,240 happen without a decision to give it. 279 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:18,760 Hello, are you with me? When he trust the one, so you 280 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:24,280 take a deliberate or intentional decision to either give it or 281 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:30,880 not give it. So I'm trying to establish the 282 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:35,560 reason why I continue to advocate that trust must precede 283 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,200 love. Don't throw your love on 284 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:50,360 somebody you cannot trust. Economic Padilla City no any 285 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:59,280 form of scrutiny, no any form of due diligence and then you are 286 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,360 already swimming in the ocean of love or do any will be alone. 287 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:08,240 Lord congestion Abdami or do you feel if, if, if, if, if, if if 288 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,920 we all know it's got talking to somebody. 289 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:20,080 So trust cannot happen without your decision to give it because 290 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,400 its in your, its in your pocket to control. 291 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:28,240 So before trust can happen, you wear the evidence. 292 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:37,120 You want to see the evidence. Before trust can happen, you 293 00:25:37,120 --> 00:25:44,120 consider the risk to reach a conclusion. 294 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:57,320 Love, hello love may not take calculated risk, but trust will 295 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:06,070 not accept all reasonable risk. So what is the biggest 296 00:26:06,070 --> 00:26:09,710 difference there? The biggest difference here is 297 00:26:09,710 --> 00:26:15,190 that you can control trust, but love control you. 298 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:24,120 You can control trust, but love controls you. 299 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:32,320 So for trust, it is something you can choose to give or you 300 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:40,400 can choose to withhold it. Trust Apple under the atmosphere 301 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:45,280 of conscious decision, conscious words. 302 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,480 Decision for love, on the other hand, is awful. 303 00:26:49,480 --> 00:27:00,840 In for lamprey, love can sweep you off your feet to the degree 304 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:06,120 that you can't control who you fall for or how you feel. 305 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:14,080 Love can be that impossible. Love can be that arrogance. 306 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,880 Hello. Are you with me? 307 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:24,200 Love is good, OK? But love does also respect your 308 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:34,080 intellect. It doesn't respect who you fall 309 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,600 for. I mean, doesn't control. 310 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,160 It will control who you fall for. 311 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,040 It will also control how you feel. 312 00:27:45,360 --> 00:27:52,600 So. If you want to put it 313 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:59,480 differently, you will say trust is like a gate that you open or 314 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:04,920 close, but love is the floor that comes to Rossi in I'm 315 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:14,000 pushing the gates and when floor comes, OK except you channel the 316 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:19,920 floors, it will flow everywhere. You can even enter your bedroom. 317 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:28,440 Am I talking to somebody? So you must put trust in place, 318 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:35,040 OK, as the channel, OK, that will control the flood of laws. 319 00:28:42,810 --> 00:28:47,850 So that's why I keep on emphasizing again today the way 320 00:28:47,850 --> 00:28:56,440 I did last week, that law should be invested into where trust is 321 00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:00,440 suspected. The reason I use the word 322 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,280 suspected is because I already told you that it is still 323 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,720 abstract. You cannot empirically prove it 324 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:12,240 please the name of the law, but you must be able to suspect that 325 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:18,760 trust is here. I know the way this one is 326 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:28,000 saying I am. I am in Lagos, OK, And what I'm 327 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:40,040 seeing on my phone is releasing. Am I talking to somebody? 328 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,920 Are you saying it's trustworthy, it's likeable? 329 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,120 It's likeable and it's lying to you. 330 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:58,760 If you allow a man that is lying to you to lie on you, 331 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:15,640 so law, take it and walk by it, run your destiny by it. 332 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:22,920 Love to be invested into only where trust is suspected. 333 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:35,200 So don't expect trust suspected. Lay your hands on the signal 334 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:39,880 that trust is present before you open the lid of your emotion. 335 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:50,760 I'm giving you cost to chew each of the statements I am making. 336 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:55,640 OK can take you weeks if you go back and sit down and meditate 337 00:30:55,640 --> 00:31:05,180 on these matters. So lay your hair on the signal 338 00:31:05,860 --> 00:31:11,420 that trust is present before you open the leads of your emotion. 339 00:31:12,420 --> 00:31:18,140 Why the bottle of love? Once it is opened it does not 340 00:31:18,140 --> 00:31:21,260 have a controlling valve that regulates it. 341 00:31:25,260 --> 00:31:31,600 I like him trust to a gate that you can open and close, and I 342 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,520 lack a love to a floor that will not have respect for the gate 343 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:43,280 and want to push it and enter everywhere, so the bottle of 344 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:47,640 love wants to open it. It does not have a controlling 345 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:52,520 valve that can control it, so love can only flow this way. 346 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,960 In an atmosphere of trust, love can only be profitable. 347 00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:02,080 In an atmosphere of trust, if you put your love where trust is 348 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,560 absent, you will have your fingers to bite later, either 349 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,880 sooner or later. Am I talking to somebody? 350 00:32:14,950 --> 00:32:17,230 Do we have a biblical position for this? 351 00:32:18,990 --> 00:32:22,510 Do we have a contest in the wave of God in late with us to 352 00:32:22,510 --> 00:32:24,190 establish all these that we are seeing? 353 00:32:26,710 --> 00:32:31,120 You have had it said over and over again and properly recorded 354 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:35,200 in the Bible, particularly in the epistle of the apostle of 355 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:42,720 love, John, that God is love. Is that not? 356 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,480 But don't forget this God. That is the crime, as love is 357 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:54,640 also the truth, is also what the truth. 358 00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:03,960 So don't be deceived, anybody who does not have regard for 359 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,840 trust cannot truly love, cannot love. 360 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:13,960 Truly anybody who don't have regard for trust, who don't have 361 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:18,080 regard for integrity, who have been regard for transparency. 362 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,680 Because there's a need for us to also break down this word trust 363 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:26,600 that we are talking about. What are the things, OK, that 364 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,400 you can see? What are the character traits? 365 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,400 What are the elements? What are the kind of heartbeats, 366 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,520 OK, that you see in the pressure? 367 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:47,080 You say this is trustworthy. So yes, God is love, but is also 368 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:51,360 the truth. Jesus reveals himself as the 369 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:56,640 truth that must be trusted, as the way to the Father. 370 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,920 Hello. For God so loved the words, OK? 371 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:09,520 But for us to be able to appreciate the love, respect the 372 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,639 law, and embrace the law, Jesus first reveal himself to us as 373 00:34:13,639 --> 00:34:14,960 what? The truth. 374 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:24,159 So trust me, OK, And after you have trusted me there you enjoy 375 00:34:24,159 --> 00:34:26,800 my love. That's the concept. 376 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:32,080 So Jesus will serve as the truth that must be trusted as the way 377 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:35,480 to the Father. John 14 says Jesus said unto 378 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:40,880 him, I am the way, the truth and the life. 379 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,840 No man comment unto the Father bought by me. 380 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:54,600 So there was a claim made by Jesus, I am going to the Father. 381 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:59,080 If you read from Basuan, I will take you with myself. 382 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:02,800 The way a young man we approach you. 383 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,560 I will say I want to bring you to the bottom of my father. 384 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,120 There will become my beloved wife. 385 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:10,760 Then the disciple were very smart. 386 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:20,120 Can we really trust this claim? So I just did not dismiss them 387 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,800 for asking for a grant to be trusted. 388 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:31,440 You go this Gospel Saint John chapter 14, Jesus was making a 389 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:37,600 claim by the disciples. We're asking for a grant to 390 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:43,200 trust the claim. I just did not dismiss the 391 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:48,240 query. But I said I am the win, the 392 00:35:48,240 --> 00:35:52,360 truth and the life. No man commented to the Father 393 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:59,720 bought by me. So he was saying I am worthy of 394 00:35:59,720 --> 00:36:03,240 your trust. And that was the proof he 395 00:36:03,240 --> 00:36:08,880 presented as the evidence of His love and the basis for the faith 396 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:13,960 that He demands that will fail me to draw the line. 397 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,480 And I said for you the different between trust and faith. 398 00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:28,160 Faith will be difficult to display when trust is not first 399 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:34,560 established. What Jesus was asking for there 400 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:39,280 was their faith. Are you with me? 401 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:45,320 He was asking them to display faith and he was saying is 402 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,320 possible for you to do because I've established the ground for 403 00:36:49,320 --> 00:37:00,250 you to trust me. So friendship. 404 00:37:01,210 --> 00:37:06,930 Is not an exercise of faith OK? It belong to the realm of trust. 405 00:37:06,930 --> 00:37:14,450 Faith may come later. Hello in. 406 00:37:14,450 --> 00:37:21,280 Pura in double dates. Are you with me? 407 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,080 Opera. On double date. 408 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:33,520 With Africa AM. I talking to you daughters. 409 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,920 Of Zion, daughters of Zion. Are you listening to? 410 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:42,000 Me. So don't subject. 411 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:48,520 Friendship don't subject Koshy, don't subject future partnership 412 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:53,280 OK to faith, let trust come first. 413 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,720 Let trust from the background for the faith. 414 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,480 Want to exercise that tomorrow will be good. 415 00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:58,960 We are going to make great couple. 416 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,480 Before you say we are going to make great couple, let there be 417 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,400 trolls. So it's not. 418 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:09,120 It's not an exercise. OK, that is suspended in faith. 419 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:13,880 You build a bedrock of trolls before you bring in faith. 420 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:20,480 Am I talking to somebody? Tomorrow will be great. 421 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,720 I said tomorrow will be great, but if tomorrow will be great, 422 00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:29,480 you must be a serious somebody to be otherwise I'm going. 423 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,760 To be living in. Sad deception. 424 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:42,120 So just was saying. I am worthy of your trust. 425 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,320 And that is the evidence of my love. 426 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,880 And the basis for asking or demanding for your faith. 427 00:38:55,720 --> 00:38:58,240 So he commanded trust. To demand faith. 428 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:06,880 Hello the. Man who we demand your love of 429 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:12,040 faith in Him, that you should go together, must first command 430 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:20,320 your trust. So a man upon. 431 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,320 Or a woman upon you will invest your love must command your 432 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:29,080 trust. The man, the woman. 433 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,200 Upon whom you will invest your love most Force command your 434 00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,600 trust. What is the lesson laws will be. 435 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:41,480 Invested into where? Trust can be tangibly suspected. 436 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:47,840 I have said that before loves to be invested into where trust can 437 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:52,760 be tangibly suspected. So don't throw out your love 438 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,640 carelessly. Don't make. 439 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,960 The issue of trust. And afterthoughts don't. 440 00:39:59,960 --> 00:40:02,680 Make the issue of. Trust and afterthoughts. 441 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:08,680 Never you treat love. Like a mushroom phenomenon. 442 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:16,200 Never you treat love. Like a mushroom, phenomenal love 443 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,800 will want to be treated that way. 444 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,600 It is you that we say no you back and. 445 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,680 When the sun comes. Up it deserves. 446 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,400 Hello. That's the muscle. 447 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,760 Phenomenal. Something that grow 448 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:37,520 spontaneously but cannot stand the test of time Love will want. 449 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,840 To be pampered that. Way OK, it is you that we say 450 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:48,720 no, you're better at me AM. I talking to somebody. 451 00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,640 So don't treat love like a mushroom phenomenon. 452 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:57,840 Yes, it may happen spontaneously, but you must give 453 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:00,240 it through room to grow systematically. 454 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:10,560 Love at four sights The first time you meet you warm. 455 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:15,520 Up to yourself. Something inside you tell you 456 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,000 that this. Is the man Something inside you 457 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,960 tell you this is the woman? You get back home. 458 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,760 You are only on the bed. You cannot sleep. 459 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,480 You close your eyes. You are dreaming about 460 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:32,560 wonderful. That is the spontaneity of. 461 00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:39,920 Love, but please my son, please my daughter, give me time to 462 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:43,880 grow systematically. It must not grow sporadically. 463 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:47,320 It is only allowed to start spontaneously. 464 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:53,040 Let the growth be. Systematic, not sporadic. 465 00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:00,320 And then may I drop this again? With you give it attention. 466 00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,920 Do. Diligence with. 467 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:08,160 It by meditation test love before you taste it. 468 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:16,800 Test love. Before you do what you taste it. 469 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,320 Hello young persons in. The house, Are we together? 470 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,440 Please hear me correctly. The bed is. 471 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:29,640 Not the place to. Taste. 472 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:34,200 Love. Debate is. 473 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:40,240 Not a place to test law sex. Is not an experiment. 474 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,880 It is. An experience reserved for. 475 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:48,080 Marriage. Are we together? 476 00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:52,960 Sex is not an. Experiment. 477 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,200 It is an. Experience reserved. 478 00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:01,720 For marriage. So when I now say test low 479 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,160 before you taste it, this is what I mean. 480 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:12,960 Dive in the head, let the mind. Go in first. 481 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:18,360 Before you put in your hearts. Dive in the head. 482 00:43:18,720 --> 00:43:24,480 Before you submit your hearts into any relationship, what? 483 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,000 Does this means? It means getting to know 484 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:33,080 somewhere. See how the handle. 485 00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:37,640 Challenges. This also means. 486 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:42,200 Engaging in interaction before intimacy sets in. 487 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,120 Many of you don't know the difference between. 488 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:51,960 Interaction and intimacy. Intimacy is a level that. 489 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:55,200 Is deep. Are you with me? 490 00:43:56,040 --> 00:44:06,000 Interaction is a level that is casual and general, so test love 491 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,280 with. One question. 492 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:16,120 Asked differently. One question, but. 493 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:21,160 You asked what differently at different time, at different 494 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:27,440 scenario. Same question you asked. 495 00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:32,360 OK, when he is happy on his birthday, ask the same question 496 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:40,840 when he is angry. So test it with one question 497 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:46,760 asked differently and what the consistency of the answer I. 498 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,440 Am not providing the. Answer to somebody who asked the 499 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:54,480 question that how do we establish trust before we bring 500 00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:59,960 in love? A trustworthy person is. 501 00:44:59,960 --> 00:45:05,680 Known by consistency. A trustworthy person is known 502 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:12,200 by. Words consistency kill a Toto, 503 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:18,480 SU, atomas or me. They speak from the. 504 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,600 Abundance of their hearts. Their mouth is not disconnected 505 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:25,800 from their hearts. A lot of people today, their 506 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:27,920 mouths and their heart, are disconnected. 507 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:35,200 And the government? Principle for communication OK 508 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,400 is that you speak from the abundance of your hearts. 509 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:41,360 Am I? Talking to somebody. 510 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,280 So test. It with. 511 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:49,280 Same question, one question ask differently in different 512 00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,840 situation. And then watch for the 513 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:55,400 consistency, because a trustworthy personality is known 514 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:59,240 by consistency. Probe what? 515 00:45:59,240 --> 00:46:04,840 You already know the. Information. 516 00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:09,640 You have about your. Potential friend. 517 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:14,720 Your will be husband. Quotes and UN. 518 00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:16,760 Quote your will be wife quotes and UN quote. 519 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:24,000 The established facts. You have gotten but not from 520 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:29,000 him. Probe that information and watch 521 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,920 where whether there will be honesty and transparency. 522 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:40,360 You. You have had somewhere OK that 523 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,360 you wrote to a head five times before you could pass English. 524 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:48,520 Hello. And the evidence? 525 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:53,440 Is with you. You are discussing and he said I 526 00:46:53,440 --> 00:47:03,320 passed my wife at First City all 10 years a. 527 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,320 Christian should not lie. But even if. 528 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:11,520 He will lie if. We will lie OK to attack 529 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:13,440 importance to himself among his colleagues. 530 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,760 Should he be lying to you that says you will live your life 531 00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,360 together, the rest of your life together AM. 532 00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:23,840 I talking to somebody so pro what you. 533 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,560 Already know? And what if there would be 534 00:47:26,720 --> 00:47:32,640 honesty and transparency? How again do you test? 535 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,440 Watch for. Harmony. 536 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:40,000 Between presentation and manifestation, these are two 537 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:44,240 different things. Watch for harmony. 538 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:52,520 Watch for synergy between presentation and manifestation. 539 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,760 Presentation is what a man profess about himself. 540 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,760 Manifestation is what you find out he does. 541 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,240 Hello. Presentation. 542 00:48:06,240 --> 00:48:10,000 Is what a man? Claim about himself what a man 543 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:14,440 call himself for you. Are you with me? 544 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:20,400 But manifestation is what you later find out he does, so watch 545 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:25,040 for harmony. Between presentation. 546 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:31,440 And manifestation. I will know the roofer. 547 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:36,200 I will know the back. There are many of them like 548 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,680 that. This we talk you to believing 549 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,400 that they are everything. They should talk you to believe 550 00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:45,040 they are excellent. They should talk to you to 551 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,360 believe that. Oh, they are making millions. 552 00:48:59,920 --> 00:49:04,920 Then what against? Double face actions I will bring 553 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:10,240 We're going to go into character study from next week to begin to 554 00:49:10,240 --> 00:49:14,720 see how this apply in practical life. 555 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:17,320 What against? Double face. 556 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,960 Action. How do I mean by that? 557 00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:26,560 Somebody that is. Presenting himself humble and 558 00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:30,680 and caring. And it is only you that deserve 559 00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:32,400 that. You can slap any of that gate. 560 00:49:47,950 --> 00:49:53,630 You escorted him to. His to his to his home. 561 00:49:54,670 --> 00:50:01,110 OK, you are you are over here. I always talking at the top of 562 00:50:01,110 --> 00:50:06,200 his voice and shouting down his mother and. 563 00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:10,240 Then my time is coming out. To to miss you is is is a 564 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:18,920 perfect gentleman. Hello AM. 565 00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:29,640 I talking to somebody so watch against double. 566 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,560 Faced action. You are not the only one that 567 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:36,280 deserve respect or that people should do so. 568 00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,880 You would disrespect your friend will one day serve you the same 569 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:48,980 meal. So these are the foundations. 570 00:50:49,100 --> 00:50:51,740 For trust, these are the things you watch out for before you 571 00:50:51,780 --> 00:50:55,860 say, oh, I can trust him. I therefore control my destiny. 572 00:50:55,860 --> 00:51:02,260 Into his hand or into our hand? Then do background check. 573 00:51:06,780 --> 00:51:10,600 You will have convictions. Within you it is very 574 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:16,040 subjective, so don't cast such convention in concrete until you 575 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,600 have received confirmation from independent people. 576 00:51:25,190 --> 00:51:29,470 AM I? Talking to somebody. 577 00:51:31,190 --> 00:51:32,750 So you. May have your conviction. 578 00:51:32,750 --> 00:51:38,670 By what you are saying, OK, but also do background check to 579 00:51:38,670 --> 00:51:40,990 receive confirmation from independent people. 580 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:46,040 That is what is called due diligence. 581 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:51,000 Do what? Due diligence, OK, If you meet 582 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:56,680 at University of Illori, OK, The opportunity you now have to meet 583 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,000 with the secondary schoolmates, OK? 584 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:00,480 And they are talking. Listen. 585 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:04,800 Hello. Do what? 586 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:15,400 Listen. You met a master of Villorian 587 00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:16,840 who? Is on Bible church. 588 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:21,040 He has taken up the nickname of only Ghost Dove. 589 00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:29,560 Are you with me? But divine. 590 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:33,360 Providence made it possible. For you to meet. 591 00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,880 Him in the company. Of the secondary schoolmates on 592 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:41,680 the EE, quickly describe that you are there or change the 593 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:49,280 poster. You need to cross check again. 594 00:52:52,240 --> 00:52:55,320 Has there been a time? OK. 595 00:52:55,720 --> 00:53:01,560 When? He made AU turn and he has 596 00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:05,920 abandoned that lifestyle of Echo AM. 597 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:15,640 I talking to somebody, so whatever opinion. 598 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:21,880 Your emotion give you. Treat it as premonition. 599 00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,640 Pending the time of confirmation from independent minds. 600 00:53:28,240 --> 00:53:30,120 So let the confirmation you receive. 601 00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:33,520 From independent mind either prove. 602 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:37,040 You right or prove. You wrong and that's why. 603 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:43,240 I said earlier. That put trust ahead of love. 604 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,080 As I went down today to continue. 605 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:51,160 This week. This is what I am saying. 606 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:58,120 Lay your hand on evidence before you display your confidence. 607 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,160 Before you go in. With your full chairs and 608 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:07,640 confidence, first lay your hand on evidence. 609 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:14,280 I did mention it. And I'm saying it again, suspect 610 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:20,520 trust, don't just expect it. Don't go by premonition, go for 611 00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:25,000 confirmation. Trust should be intentional. 612 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,000 It should be. Invested where? 613 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:28,960 Love. Can grow. 614 00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,480 Don't. Just scatter trust around. 615 00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:40,000 Be mindful of where it lands. And when I said suspect? 616 00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:44,120 Trust before you invest love, don't just expect it. 617 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:49,800 I am in essence saying be designing with your love by 618 00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:54,400 making trust a top priority. Be designing. 619 00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,680 With your love. By making trust a top priority. 620 00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:04,000 Yeah, me again. Daughters of Zion, young men of 621 00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,560 valor, lay your. Hands on. 622 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:13,200 The signals that trust is present before you open the lead 623 00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:17,200 of your emotion. Because like I said earlier, the 624 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:21,360 bottle of love, once it is opened it does not have a 625 00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:23,840 controlling valve that can regulate it. 626 00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:26,760 So be aware. Of the science of. 627 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:32,080 Trust before pouring out your emotions because once love is 628 00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:40,200 out is hard to control. Love like a force of nature. 629 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:46,720 Trust is the foundation. That keep you from getting messy 630 00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:49,960 and by. The grace of God. 631 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:54,480 From next week will commence character study that will 632 00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:57,880 further help you to understand these subjects. 633 00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:05,240 I love you with the love of Jesus, but can I trust you that 634 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,280 you will walk by these teachings? 635 00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:15,640 God bless you. Don't be left in the dark. 636 00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,880 Get proper understanding of life through the Word of God. 637 00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:21,520 My people perish for lack of knowledge. 638 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:24,480 The Word of God is an illumination which gives 639 00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,040 direction. Remember please, as Reverend was 640 00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:30,840 far alone illuminates your mind with the Word of God with all 641 00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:32,720 simplicity and clarity.