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Who is this? 
A Wisdom Bible church? 

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The Church of a distant 
Christian narration. 

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We're turning a probing lens of 
study to the very important 

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subject of friendship, and we 
are taking lessons from 

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different models of friendship 
that were found in the 

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scripture. 
I want you to know and 

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understand very fundamentally 
that life generally, 

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fundamentally is not a journey 
to embark upon as a Lone Ranger.

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Life is not a journey to embark 
upon as a Lone Ranger. 

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God force created Adam by 
himself. 

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He discovered that he must put 
somebody beside him, praise the 

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name of the Lord. 
So from inception it was clear 

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that life is not a journey to be
embarked upon as a Lone Ranger. 

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Not one man, as I always see, 
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alone. 
That is not that man. 

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No matter how super talented he 
may be, no matter how super 

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anointed a man can be, there is 
not that man that can by himself

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in law, do anything of 
significance without requiring 

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the inputs of others. 
Let's take a bearing from 

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Ecclesiastes, the Book of the 
Preacher, chapter 4, and then 

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look at about 5:00 of four 
verses from that scripture. 

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Then I return and I saw vanity 
under the sun. 

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In other words, then I 
readdressed my mind to reality 

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before. 
Now the King Solomon has been 

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addressing his mind to vanity, 
so the things he taught had 

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substance and had future. 
He eventually discover that they

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are nothing. 
I pray that you will not waste 

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your life, your effort, your 
energy, your resources and the 

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pursuit of vanity in the name of
Jesus, he said. 

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Then I return, which means I 
readdress myself to reality as 

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against the pursuit of vanity. 
And every young persons OK 

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always go through that 
temptation to first start out in

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life and spending energy on 
vanity. 

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In the Yoruba palace, it is said
that I call you warmer day Akara

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Lovinge. 
In other words, when a young man

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starts in life and fortune smile
on him with financial resources,

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he end up buying things that are
not necessary. 

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He end up buying things that 
don't have a place in this 

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future. 
Hello, I pray in the name of 

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Jesus, the temptation to waste 
your destiny, the temptation to 

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waste your resources, the 
temptation to waste your 

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capacity, you will not fall for 
it in the name of Jesus. 

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So he said, I return, I think I 
suppose here I'll call somebody 

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who is already heading in the in
the direction of vanity to 

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return. 
Don't go too far before it is 

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too late to return. 
Don't do damage to your destiny 

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to the point that when you 
return you cannot recover. 

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It's the Holy Spirit talking to 
somebody this morning. 

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So the right out of this words 
of wisdom said, then I return 

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and I saw vanity on that the 
storm before that time, these 

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things he was calling vanity, he
regarded them as beauty. 

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Hello. 
There are many vanity today that

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young people are thinking have 
beauty and there's no beauty at 

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all in them. 
Then I return and I saw vanity 

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under the sun. 
And what was the vanity he was 

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referring to here? 
The vanity that he thought 

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because he had energy, he had 
potential, he had opportunity, 

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he can go all out and succeed, 
not requiring the wisdom of 

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elder or the help of colleagues.
You know a man can be so 

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endowed, a man can be so favour,
that you can look down on 

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anybody, because for now thing 
you are calling things and they 

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are answering for you. 
Then I return, and I saw vanity 

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under the sun. 
There is one alone, and there is

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not a second. 
Yeah, he had neither child nor 

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brother, yet is there no end of 
all his labour, Neither is his 

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eyes satisfied with riches. 
You know, a young lady can start

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out so well in life, in the path
of career pursuits. 

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OK. 
And she'll be doing very well. 

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And then you start to speak to 
her that now at your head, OK, 

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you need to settle down and get 
married. 

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And we'll be telling you I don't
need a man in my life. 

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I mean, she'll be telling you I 
don't need a man in my life. 

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It is not because there's any 
biblical conviction for that, 

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OK, all because if I got 
married, OK, what will a man do 

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in my life? 
Give me money? 

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I have it. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

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Said walking. 
Never satisfied with with 

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riches, but no child, no 
brother, no second, no, no, no. 

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Colleague later said, if for 
whom do I label and believe my 

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soul of good? 
This also is vanity. 

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Yeah, is a sore traffic then 
verse 9 Now say 2 are better 

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than one. 
One can never be better than 

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two. 
Two are better than one, for if 

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one chase 1002, we chase 10,000 
because they have a good reward 

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for their labour. 
Yes, you are a resourceful 

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person, but that is still value 
that another person can add to 

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your resourcefulness if you 
learn to choose to keep the 

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right company, not the company 
of vanity. 

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For if before the one we lift up
is fellow now is now addressing 

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the value, the benefits you 
derive from friendship. 

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Friendship is not just about 
you, Ma. 

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Yeah, yeah, yeah. 5555 is beyond
that. 

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For if they fall, the one we 
lift off is fellow. 

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But woe to him that is alone 
when he fallen, for he has not 

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an order to help him. 
Or you see, the topography of 

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life is never a perfect play. 
The topography of life, the 

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topography of destiny is on to 
living. 

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So the possibility that you may 
stumble is there. 

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So when you stumble and fall and
you cannot help yourself up, 

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there must be somebody in your 
life who will see you as his 

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responsibility. 
And that person may not 

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necessarily be your blood 
brother, your blood sister. 

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Am I talking to somebody? 
Again, if to lie together then 

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they have it. 
But how can one be warm alone? 

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That is not that one man that 
can do anything of significance 

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alone. 
You need a confident to do 

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something of significance in 
life. 

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You need what a confidence and 
if one prevail against him too 

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shall withstand him. 
And the reality of life is that 

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you cannot be a friend to 
everybody for no reason. 

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There will be people that are 
against you. 

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So why will you not lend the 
wisdom of friendship so that in 

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those days when some are against
you, you have some that are with

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you. 
AM I talking to somebody? 

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But some people are living their
life like the spirit of Cain is 

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on them. 
Their hand is against everybody 

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and therefore everybody is 
against them. 

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We are not say people will not 
be against you, but it is wrong 

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that everybody will be against 
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And the man that we have a 
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must show himself friendly. 
So there's a way you conduct 

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yourself that we make people 
that will drop people towards 

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you. 
Don't conduct yourself in a way 

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that repairs people. 
Make yourself a magnet of good 

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people. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

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And if one prevail against him? 
So it's a reality of life that 

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this man returned to, to address
that essentially in life. 

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You can't escape it. 
In fact, our Lord Jesus Christ 

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himself said it. 
He said woe unto you if all men 

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speak well of you. 
Hello. 

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So in those days when men will 
choose to blackmail you, are you

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with me? 
There must be people who will 

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speak about your integrity, who 
will fight for your integrity 

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and defend your cause. 
And if one prevail against him, 

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two shall withstand him. 
And a threefold cord is not 

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quickly broken. 
What is that threefold cord? 

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You, your friend, and God. 
Hello, you, your friend, and who

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and God. 
So that's why I often see, which

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I have also said repeatedly 
again today, that nobody, not 

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one man, can do anything of 
significance alone. 

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And if you find anybody 
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the input of others, that man, 
that woman is either ignorant or

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arrogant, or the person is a 
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ignorance and arrogance combine.
So when you find a man 

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attempting to succeed alone 
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that man is either ignorant or 
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Because in life you will require
different kinds of company to 

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make the journey playerable and 
productive. 

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So to make the journey of 
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productive, you will require 
different kinds of company. 

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In the church setting you have 
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Am I talking to somebody? 
You will have like mind study 

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partner in church setting if you
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You will have like mind study 
partner that you do tutorial 

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together if you are a career 
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You have like mind professional 
colleagues that you are climbing

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the ladder of progress together.
You are challenging each other. 

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Am I talking to somebody not 
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So in life you will require 
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make the journey of destiny 
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Do you know that even when you 
engage in hard work and you are 

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sweating, if you have a friend 
with you chatting with you, it 

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may look like I see if you are 
not working hard, but if you are

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the only one that is there, you 
will you will get weary quickly.

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Praise the name of the Lord. 
It is popularly said that 

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problems shared is half soft. 
You have a body and as somebody 

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you can share the body with, the
body is spread, you become 

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lighter. 
The problem has not gone away, 

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but for the fact that you are 
not the only man in need, you 

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are relieved to a degree. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

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So take it and walk by it. 
Make it your life principle that

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as you journey in destiny, you 
will require different kinds of 

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company to make the journey of 
destiny not only playable but 

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also productive. 
And of course, somebody may see 

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I am lucky and alone. 
I have been very productive. 

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The truth is that if you think 
you are achieving much alone, 

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you can achieve much more in the
company of a faithful friend. 

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Hello. 
Because 2 are better than one is

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a natural law, is a divine law. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

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So if you think you are doing 
well in law, you will do better 

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in the company of a faithful 
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So, and of course, in life, what
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enjoyed alone. 
What you label for alone cannot 

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be what enjoy alone. 
So there's a special joy in 

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sharing that eating alone cannot
offer you. 

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So even when you think you don't
need another man, another man 

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needs you. 
When you think you don't need 

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another person, another person 
does what needs you. 

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And there is a special joy in 
sharing with others that eating 

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alone cannot offer you. 
The scriptures say woe to that 

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man that is alone. 
So for destiny fulfillment, a 

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good and godly company is highly
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For destiny fulfillment, a good 
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fundamentally, inevitably 
desirable. 

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But when you want to choose your
company, when you want to choose

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your friend, there are two 
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very essentially #1 is 
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Number 2 is productivity. 
So the kind of friends you 

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choose, you must be compatible 
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Then the result of your 
compatibility must be 

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productivity. 
So one of the way you assess 

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whether my friend and I are 
compatible is what are you 

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producing? 
What's your productivity rates? 

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What's the efficiency rate 
alone? 

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And now that you have come 
together as it reduce you or 

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multiply you, am I talking to 
somebody? 

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So you must be able to track it 
that since brother also came 

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into my life, how efficient have
I become spiritually as it 

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enhance my prayer life or reduce
my prayer life? 

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Are you with me? 
If you are a student, what, what

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was your performance before you 
and that friend came together? 

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Now that you and that friend 
have now I've come together, 

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what is now your performance 
academically? 

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Am I talking to somebody? 
So we are not talking about 

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friendship for friendship sake. 
You will not keep the company 

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that will be a mind loss to your
destiny. 

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I expect a louder Amen. 
Do I have young man in the 

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house? 
I say you will not keep a 

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company that will be a mind loss
to your destiny in the name of 

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Jesus. 
So a good and good company, I 

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said is decidable inevitably for
destiny fulfillment. 

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And I said to achieve that you 
must watch out for compatibility

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and productivity in the kind of 
company that you keep. 

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So fancy is not the primary 
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Hello, Somashi. 
It's not the primary purpose of 

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friendship. 
Social attractions are not the 

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only purpose for friendship, 
fellowship, companionship. 

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These are the irreplaceable 
purpose of friendship. 

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Fellowship. 
Fellowship means heart shake, 

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not just handshake. 
Hello. 

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A friendship that has developed 
and is profitable beyond 

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handshake and as transmitted to 
heart shake. 

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OK, it's what is called 
fellowship. 

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Am I talking to somebody? 
So in such kind of friendship 

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you are climbing the ladder of 
success together. 

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You are not just clubbing 
together to merely on wine. 

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Hello. 
You know the reasons of people 

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who are friends is when they 
have war, OK, Then in the 

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evening time they go to the club
to a wine and that is all to the

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kind of friends they keep. 
They cannot have financial 

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issues and those friends will be
there. 

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They cannot have emotional 
issues and those friends will be

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there. 
Praise the name of the Lord. 

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The friends that keep them in 
the club away from the church 

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where they not have problem, 
those friends will not be there.

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It is then they now turn to the 
church. 

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Yet it is that club that has 
been found them from being 

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church. 
I bet Ponty Monsoni, you don't 

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find them in church, you don't 
find on Sunday, you don't find 

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them in church in Bible study, 
you don't make any contribution 

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to church. 
In fact they don't pay their 

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tithe in church. 
They don't give offering in 

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church. 
But they can buy drinks for 

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friends and club. 
But when real issues of life 

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challenge them, OK, they will 
look around and those friends 

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are not there. 
So when we talk about 

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friendship, we are not talking 
about fancy. 

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We are talking about fellowship.
We are talking about 

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companionship that has gone 
beyond handshake to at hook. 

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Your heart is knitted together 
at knits. 

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So when I say in that level of 
friendship you are climbing the 

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ladder of saucer together, you 
are not just clubbing together 

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to merely on wine, take this and
listen on it. 

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The wise club to climb, you know
to club means to unite to come 

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together. 
So if you are a wise person, you

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club to do what to climb, but 
the foolish club to waste time 

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around the cup of wine and 
skirts of women of easy batches.

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So when you see them together, 
what are they discussing? 

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They are disgusting girlfriend. 
This is the foolish that does 

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that, who club to waste time 
around the Corp of wine and the 

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skirts of women of easy virtue. 
But the wise when the club the 

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club to climb, Tell your friend,
let us club to climb. 

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Tell your neighbor, let us club 
to climb, because that is the 

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way of the wise. 
So essentially friendship must 

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lead to multiplication of 
capacity. 

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So your capacity must be 
multiplied in the areas where 

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you are doing well. 
You start to do to do better if 

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you have a good friend who is 
encouraging you on. 

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So friendship must enhance 
productivity. 

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Descriptor that we read is very 
clear about that 2 are better 

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than one. 
So we all need friend. 

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But take notes, not everybody 
can be a profitable friend. 

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Hello, there's a friend in the 
class of Jonathan and there's a 

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friend in the class of Jonathan.
We're going to explore all of 

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explore all of that and 
consequent teaching. 

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But I pray for you, you will 
choose a Jonathan as friend and 

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not a Jonadab. 
Jonadab Rob Amnon is positioned 

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in Destiny as heir apparent to 
the throne of David. 

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Hello, but Jonathan came into 
the life of David and help David

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to attain the truth. 
Climbing together, clubbing to 

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climb together. 
But for Jonadab and I'm known. 

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Hello Jonadab encourage. 
I'm known OK to go after the 

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skates of Tamar And in the 
process Abnorm was robbed of his

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place in destiny as the heir 
apparent to the throne of David.

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I pray for you again in the name
of Jesus. 

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When you are choosing your 
friend, you will be rightly 

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guided to choose a Jonathan and 
not a Jonathan in the name of 

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Jesus. 
So whereas we all need friends, 

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but not everybody can be your 
friend, not everybody can be a 

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profitable friend. 
So what are you to look for in a

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potential frame? 
I will highlight for you a 

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number of factors to look for in
a profitable frame. 

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OK? 
But let me just pick one for 

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today, discuss it, and then 
we'll continue from there next 

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week. 
So what to look for in a 

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potential frame? 
Number one thing is substance, 

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Substance. 
Substance does not necessarily 

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means material resources, 
neither does it mean aquatic 

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press. 
The name of the laws, are we 

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together? 
So when I say substance, I must 

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define the matter. 
Substance in our contents means 

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possessing the capacity for 
sources. 

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So the man, the woman you will 
choose as a friend, most fitting

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into the description of a man or
a woman of substance. 

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It is a man of substance that 
will eventually become a man of 

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success. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

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If you are not a man or woman of
substance, it become hard for 

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you to become a man of success. 
So being a man or woman of 

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success is about being a value 
added personality. 

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If VAP. 
Evap. 

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Being a man or woman of 
substance is about being 

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resourceful. 
We're talking about 

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resourcefulness. 
We are talking about possessing 

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a sense of responsibility with 
positive attitude to life. 

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That's what it means to be a man
or woman of substance. 

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And I'll give you the example of
David and Jonathan, how the two 

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of them were people of substance
in their own right. 

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So both David and Jonathan were 
men of substance in their 

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respective rights. 
One was coming from a pizza 

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background, the other was coming
from royalty. 

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Yet the one coming from a pizza 
background was a man of 

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substance. 
The one coming from royalty was 

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not a spoilt brats. 
A lot of you hook yourself to 

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children of the affluence who 
are spot brats. 

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And the reason apple gets 
spoiled is with one is spoiled 

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and the other ones are linked to
it and then the jam start to 

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spread. 
The bacteria of damage start to 

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spray. 
Am I talking to somebody you 

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will not hook yourself to, 
somebody who is carrying a 

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bacteria of destiny, destiny 
damage in the name of Jesus? 

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Some people will have will have 
done very well in life except 

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for the wrong friend. 
They choose so. 

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But for David and Jonathan, they
were men of substance in their 

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respective right. 
The one that was of royalty was 

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not a sport brat. 
The one that was coming from a 

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Pisa background also had the 
positive attitude to life with 

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potential to also become 
somebody in life. 

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So their friendship was ID. 
Even though they were from 

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different social backgrounds, 
one was already there the order 

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that was not yet there also 
possess what can get him there. 

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Hello do you have what can get 
you there because there's a 

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place called there you will get 
there. 

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I have pray for somebody who 
will get there in the name of 

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Jesus. 
So we are David was to 

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eventually get to in lie. 
Jonathan was already a Prince 

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there. 
Are you with me? 

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So I said one was already there,
the other one who is not yet 

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there also possessed the 
potential to be there. 

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So you are not wise and I want 
you to take this one also very 

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seriously. 
You are not wise if you are 

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thinking and behaving like those
who are not going to where you 

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are going. 
You have a destination in mind. 

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You have a purpose that you are 
pursuing in destiny. 

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Then from now start to behave 
like somebody that has a purpose

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in life, to be that wise child, 
be that wise brother, be that 

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wise sister, be that wise man, 
be that wise woman who is 

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thinking and behaving like the 
place you are going, because you

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are not wise. 
If you are thinking, you are 

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behaving, you are dressing, you 
are talking, you are grooming, 

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you are clubbing like those who 
are not going to where you are 

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going. 
So where you are going to 

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determine the kind of company 
you will keep. 

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So David, I said was coming from
a piece of background, but he 

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had that potential that 
surpasses his low level 

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background to the decree that 
even though he was in the 

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wilderness with the animals, 
when they needed a man in the 

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palace, he fitted into the 
palace, well fitted for it. 

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Am I talking to somebody? 
Abuelo, are you with me? 

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What a specific open in New York
and is CV OK matches what was 

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needed in New York. 
That's what it means to be a man

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of substance. 
That's what it means to be a man

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that understand destiny and you 
have purpose and you know that 

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you are going somewhere great 
and you don't allow your present

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circumstance to rob you of 
demonstrating your substance. 

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Am I talking to somebody? 
Even as a shepherd boy he was 

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kingly. 
As a shepherd boy, he was what? 

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He was kingly. 
Are you kingly in your conducts?

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Are you kingly in your 
appearance? 

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Police are doing stop and 
search. 

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Are you with me? 
And they can easily club you 

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without? 
Please return like the wise man 

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said from the scripture we read,
he said and I return and I 

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discovered that what I call 
beauty is vanity. 

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I readdress myself to reality as
against possibly vanity. 

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Stop following the category of 
people that are calling evil 

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good. 
Listen and listen good. 

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Royalty is not land on the true.
Royalty is not land on the true.

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It is brought to the true by 
those who understand how Ali 

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that that is where they are 
going. 

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That is where they belong. 
You don't learn reality on the 

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true, you bring royalty to the 
truth if you will discover early

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in life that the throne is 
yours. 

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So Jonathan in his own case was 
of royalty, but it was well 

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cultured to recognize that 
before royalty become heritage, 

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it has first existed as a sense 
of responsibility waiting for 

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opportunity. 
I wanted to understand that 

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before royalty will become your 
heritage, you should understand 

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that royalty force exists as a 
sense of responsibility in you. 

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It is that sense of 
responsibility in you. 

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OK, that we now see opportunity 
and seize opportunity, then 

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you'll become the king. 
So what we enthrone you is your 

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sense of responsibility. 
Hello. 

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It's not just opportunity. 
It's not just luck. 

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What we enthrone you in destiny 
is your sense of responsibility.

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How responsible are you in your 
thinking? 

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How prepare are you to take up 
responsibility? 

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So royalty is not about 
inherited prosperity. 

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That was what real world did not
understand. 

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The son of Solomon. 
You thought once I inherit it, I

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have it. 
You don't have it until you know

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how to keep it. 
Hello. 

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Whatever you are giving is not 
your own. 

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Or to learn how to keep it. 
Or to learn how to manage it. 

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Have you forgotten that Yoruba 
poem on TI Obasi cell phone? 

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Keep Hello. 
Well, a palara. 

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Am I talking to somebody? 
So royalty is not about inerted 

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prosperity, rather it's about 
product. 

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I mean another is a product of 
capacity that is well applied. 

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Royalty is a product of your 
capacity that is well applied, 

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that is properly applied. 
When I say royalty, I mean 

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greatness. 
When I say royalty, I mean 

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fulfillment. 
And I'm saying it's about 

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applying your capacity. 
It's about preparing yourself 

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with a responsibility for the 
opportunity that can come at any

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time. 
Hallelujah. 

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So Jonathan made friendship with
David on the basis of present 

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reality. 
I mean, not on the basis of 

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present reality. 
You know, the present reality of

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David does not look like it. 
I might OK to somebody. 

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I'm trying to expansion for you 
how both of them in their 

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respective life were men of 
substance and that Jonathan who 

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was of royalty was well cultural
and all to make responsible 

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judgment. 
Why keep friendship with the 

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children of affluence and the 
only thing you are gaining from 

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them is that they are 
introducing you to drug because 

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some people as know they are so 
class conscious. 

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Why become friend to your 
pastor's son if your pastor's 

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sons will be recruiting 
girlfriend for you in the 

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church? 
I do occasionally just to move 

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below my job. 
I said yeah, these are serious 

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issues. 
So the friendship of befit to 

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Jonathan was not the friendship 
of a man sourcing as a go digger

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just want to be a friend to 
people of very high class for 

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the mere benefit of what is 
there. 

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Am I talking to somebody? 
Why become a friend to the child

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of an affluent? 
And at the end of the day, he 

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introduced you to drug dealing 
and when eventually you are 

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arrested, he has a way to escape
it. 

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And then they will now use you 
as the scapegoat. 

460
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:19,400
Same old Soros in, you know, 
Polo, Shambo, Aboye. 

461
00:42:25,990 --> 00:42:30,390
So Jonathan made friendship with
David on the basis of present, I

462
00:42:30,390 --> 00:42:34,510
mean not on the basis of present
reality, but on the basis of 

463
00:42:34,830 --> 00:42:39,270
presented or demonstrated 
capacity and future possibility.

464
00:42:40,870 --> 00:42:45,440
You know, David had demonstrated
capacity as a warrior. 

465
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:50,320
He brought down Goliath, he 
killed lion, he killed the bear.

466
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:56,160
But his present reality, the 
capacity was demonstrating, was 

467
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,960
not yet been rewarded. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

468
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:03,880
But it was so clear that 
prosperity in uni capacity of 

469
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:12,280
Yafu. 
But you think the only kind of 

470
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,480
friend you need is the friend I 
can give you money? 

471
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:18,200
That is, you should look for 
more than money in a friend. 

472
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:30,160
I might talk it to somebody. 
What money can you pay that we 

473
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:34,040
reward the amount of value I 
have to you every Sunday? 

474
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:51,400
So he made this judgment of 
choosing David as a friend on 

475
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:58,160
the basis of the capacity David 
has demonstrated and the future 

476
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,240
possibility. 
I'm going to read the Scripture 

477
00:44:00,240 --> 00:44:04,400
to you as we progress in the 
teaching. 

478
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:12,480
When his father Saul wanted 
David eliminated, OK, and 

479
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:18,760
Jonathan stood with David, he 
said for I know this role is of 

480
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:24,520
you from the Lord. 
So present reality of capacity, 

481
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:29,320
future possibility of the fact 
that he will become the king. 

482
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:34,960
So these are things you look 
for. 

483
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,120
The man you are going with, 
where is he going? 

484
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,000
Why are you keeping a mind in 
your life that's not going 

485
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,000
anywhere? 
Why are you keeping a woman in 

486
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,800
your life that's not going 
anywhere? 

487
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:52,880
And don't forget, even bad 
relationship is about 

488
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:56,360
friendship. 
Are you with me? 

489
00:44:57,720 --> 00:45:00,520
Why hook yourself to a man 
that's not going anywhere? 

490
00:45:05,910 --> 00:45:11,400
Why hook yourself to a lady? 
OK, That is a sticker that has 

491
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:16,320
lost its adhesive. 
You know, a sticker that has 

492
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:21,120
lost its adhesive. 
A sticker always have adhesive 

493
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:26,920
at the back come. 
OK, But if we have placed it on 

494
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,560
brother, don't remove it from 
brother, don't place it on 

495
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,000
Brother Luke. 
Remove Brother Luke. 

496
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:32,560
Place it on brother. 
Do that. 

497
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:37,240
Do that. 
Place it on Brother Zachariah. 

498
00:45:37,240 --> 00:45:41,600
Remove from brother Zachariah as
we are talking about now is 

499
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,320
already is on broad. 
I don't know, I hear you have 

500
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:45,120
broad. 
I don't. 

501
00:45:53,130 --> 00:45:57,050
So choose your friends, 
including your life partner on 

502
00:45:57,050 --> 00:46:03,730
the basis of presented capacity 
and future possibility. 

503
00:46:03,850 --> 00:46:09,530
You have no business dealing or 
clubbing with an NFA, no future 

504
00:46:09,530 --> 00:46:16,200
ambition, not even a short 
future ambition, maybe somebody 

505
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:22,240
with a mega future ambition are 
not just people who parade 

506
00:46:22,240 --> 00:46:26,280
wishes but people who are 
matching OK their vision with 

507
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:30,240
action. 
They are not there but the kind 

508
00:46:30,240 --> 00:46:33,280
of thing they are doing is 
showing that they are serious 

509
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:43,560
about getting there. 
So Jonathan knew so well that a 

510
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:48,080
man of capacity that does not 
attend the top is only paying 

511
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:54,360
the bill to be there. 
So whatever you are doing today,

512
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,120
you are paying the bill to be 
there. 

513
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,400
When you read your book very 
well, as a student, you are 

514
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:00,960
paying the bill for your 
greatness. 

515
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,640
When you'll be there to your 
parents, you are paying the bill

516
00:47:05,720 --> 00:47:09,720
for your greatness. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

517
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,840
When you join that cooperative 
society, you are paying the bill

518
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:19,280
for your greatness. 
When you pray, are you? 

519
00:47:19,720 --> 00:47:22,040
Are you fast? 
You are paying the bill for your

520
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,520
greatness. 
When you give yourself to the 

521
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:28,120
reading of the word of God and 
meditation on it, you are paying

522
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:36,920
the bill for your greatness. 
When you get good books and you 

523
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,800
study them, bless the name of 
the Lord you, you listen to 

524
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:45,360
testimonials that come boost 
your courage to go for 

525
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,440
greatness. 
You are paying the bill as 

526
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,120
yourself. 
Are you paying the bill for your

527
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,560
greatness. 
So when you want to choose a 

528
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:57,240
friend, choose a friend that is 
so clear that This is why he's 

529
00:47:57,240 --> 00:48:06,400
paid the bill for his greatness.
Future possibility for summer 

530
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:13,720
1755 to 58 and well saw saw 
David go forth against the 

531
00:48:13,720 --> 00:48:17,280
Philistine demonstrated 
capacity. 

532
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:22,400
Every other man we're running 
away from Goliath. 

533
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:29,120
But David went and he came out 
and stood before Goliath, and 

534
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:34,720
fought Goliath, and saw, saw it,
he said unto Abner, the captain 

535
00:48:34,720 --> 00:48:39,080
of the Oz. 
Abner who saw is this youth. 

536
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:44,000
What bill are you paying 
presently that will reveal you, 

537
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:51,840
that will give you recognition, 
that will make people want to 

538
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,240
invite you to embrace 
opportunity? 

539
00:48:56,240 --> 00:49:01,600
And Abner, say, as thy soul 
lived, O King, I cannot tell. 

540
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,320
So his background was not 
looking like it, but his 

541
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,880
attitude was everything that it 
is. 

542
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:21,520
Hello Atma said I cannot even 
after he has fought Goliath. 

543
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,440
Hello. 
They still they were still 

544
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:32,200
looking for microscope to 
discover where he came from in 

545
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:38,280
Fort Goliath in chapter 17 I'm 
reading for you Chapter 18 I 

546
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:45,840
shall not tell and the king said
inquire down who some this try 

547
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:54,520
please what's on you or don't 
like that you bury. 

548
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,160
They were still looking down on 
him. 

549
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,760
He was looking off to where he 
was going when men are looking 

550
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,880
down on you OK stop bothering 
yourself. 

551
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,920
Start looking off to where you 
are going. 

552
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,320
And as they will return from the
slaughter of the Philistine, 

553
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:16,400
Abner took him and brought him 
the first soul with the head of 

554
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:27,180
the Philistine in his hand. 
Bishop, we always say only fools

555
00:50:27,260 --> 00:50:32,380
doubt proof. 
So is that yes, Tripely. 

556
00:50:32,940 --> 00:50:40,880
OK, but as a Tripely here is the
head of Goliath your the head of

557
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:46,560
Goliath that you need is your 
CV, the accumulated successes 

558
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:50,160
you are recording even in your 
low estate, even when nobody's 

559
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:55,960
looking at you, when nobody sees
you start to kill your Goliath. 

560
00:50:55,960 --> 00:51:02,120
Am I talking to somebody? 
I told you years back when God 

561
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:06,560
sent us to this axis of the 
city, he said go to that 

562
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:09,920
wilderness, kill your bear, kill
your lion. 

563
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:12,400
After all, you are going to be 
invited to the city to come and 

564
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,960
kill your Kolaya. 
And today, for the glory of 

565
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:19,000
God's name, we can say we have 
the head of Kolaya to present as

566
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:26,120
evidence for higher heights. 
Am I talking to somebody or the 

567
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:34,200
Kolaya Abukazai to go see for PT
party when it's all over? 

568
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,680
And brought him before. 
So with the head of the 

569
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:48,200
Philistine in his hand. 
The man who brought him was the 

570
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,280
man that said I cannot tell, I 
don't know him. 

571
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:58,520
Hello. 
And Saul said to him, Whose son 

572
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:01,920
are thou, thou young man? 
And David answer, I am the son 

573
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:05,320
of the servant Jesse the 
Bethlehem. 

574
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:08,880
I you will become that person 
that will introduce your family.

575
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,920
On the account of you, your 
family name will be recognized. 

576
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,120
On the account of you, your 
family name will be respected. 

577
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:21,760
On the account of you, your 
family name will be honored in 

578
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:29,040
the name of Jesus. 
Then chapter 18 from verse one 

579
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,760
to five. 
And it came to pass, when he had

580
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:41,440
made an hand of speaking unto 
soul hello now he now spoke unto

581
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:49,760
soul one-on-one, that the soul 
of Jonathan was neat with the 

582
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:55,880
soul of David, And Jonathan 
loved him as his own soul 

583
00:52:56,480 --> 00:53:02,080
demonstrated capacity, and then 
he seized opportunity. 

584
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:07,200
Then he got a great friend and 
soul took him that day. 

585
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:11,600
I will let him go. 
No more home to this Father's 

586
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:13,560
house. 
You are not going back to that 

587
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,960
low level. 
You are not going back to that 

588
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:21,960
level of disgrace. 
Your capacity will recommend you

589
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:25,280
for greatness in the name of 
Jesus. 

590
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:31,640
So his capacity recommended him 
for a Palacio place in the 

591
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:39,000
palace. 
Then Jonathan and David made a 

592
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,480
covenant, because he loved him 
as his own soul. 

593
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:47,280
And Jonathan sweeps himself of 
the rope that was upon him. 

594
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:59,460
Remember he came into that place
with the rope of a shepherd and 

595
00:53:59,460 --> 00:54:04,840
gave it to David and his 
government, even to his word and

596
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:10,360
to his bow, and to his ghetto. 
Remember, after he killed 

597
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:15,480
Goliath, are you with me? 
He, He was supposed to be giving

598
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,360
the sword of Goliath. 
He was not supposed to come to 

599
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:22,960
that palace without his sword. 
But the sword of Goliath was 

600
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,800
taken from him and kept 
somewhere. 

601
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,760
As you study or you discover 
that that that sword was not 

602
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:35,120
with him, he was endangered. 
One day he ran to a priest. 

603
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:38,600
It was at that place. 
The priest now said, well, we 

604
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:40,800
don't have any reporter we can 
give you except this word of 

605
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:43,440
Goliath. 
They took it away from him, but 

606
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:51,280
a friend gave him his own sword.
You see, a man of capacity 

607
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,320
cannot be completely denied, 
cannot be what? 

608
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:59,560
Because somebody we love you 
because of who you are and 

609
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:01,160
because of what you can 
contribute. 

610
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:08,160
So Jonathan striping and himself
of the rope that was upon him 

611
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:11,240
and gave it to David and his 
garment, even to his ward and to

612
00:55:11,240 --> 00:55:17,040
his bow and to his get to so he 
didn't beg for the friendship of

613
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:21,000
Jonathan. 
Are you with me? 

614
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:30,720
He paid the bill for royalty, so
whatever Jonathan was doing for 

615
00:55:30,720 --> 00:55:36,160
to him was not a favor, was a 
reward was what a reward was 

616
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:43,760
what a favor. 
And David went out wheresoever 

617
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:53,600
saw something, then he behave 
himself wisely, meaning that 

618
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:59,480
truly he was a man of substance 
could misbehave. 

619
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:05,120
Could they are think Oh my, Oh 
my doorberry, am I talking to 

620
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:12,160
somebody? 
That's why I said royalty is not

621
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:15,200
land on the truth. 
It is brought to the truth. 

622
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,280
A shepherd boy. 
He got to the truth and he 

623
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:25,680
behave himself properly. 
He behave himself kindly and so 

624
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:32,320
sent him, and Saul set him over 
the man of war from one level of

625
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:35,000
promotion to another level of 
promotion. 

626
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:40,280
And he was accepted in the sight
of all the people and also in 

627
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:45,920
the sight of Saul Sabbath. 
If he had a rebellious mind to 

628
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:50,640
stake a coup against Saul, he 
would have removed Saul before 

629
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,920
Saul started to run after him. 
Am I talking to somebody? 

630
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:59,320
Receive grace to be a man of 
capacity. 

631
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:05,840
Receive grace to be a man that 
grow in gifts. 

632
00:57:06,240 --> 00:57:10,440
For the gift of a man we bring 
him before great men, not before

633
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,360
men. 
Receive that grace to choose 

634
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,280
your friends wisely in the name 
of Jesus. 

635
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:22,120
Receive the mind of diligent to 
start to pay the B for your 

636
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:29,320
greatness and prayer and saving 
in obedience in study the word 

637
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:35,000
of God in the name of Jesus. 
Everything that is is required 

638
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:39,280
to be great in life will be 
convenient for you to do from 

639
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:46,720
now on in the name of Jesus. 
In Jesus name I pray Hallelujah.

640
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:51,000
Don't be left in the dark. 
Get proper understanding of life

641
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:54,120
through the word of God. 
My people perish for lack of 

642
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,000
knowledge. 
The Word of God is an 

643
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,160
illumination which gives 
direction. 

644
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:02,560
Remain place as Reverend was far
and illuminates your mind with 

645
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,880
the Word of God with all 
simplicity and clarity.

