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Who is this of Wisdom Bible 
Church, The Church of a distant 

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Christian narration? 
When we speak about a peaceful 

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domain, I'm sure once we 
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a location, a place of 
habitation, a place of where you

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really a place of living, and 
then we are able to marry it 

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with peaceful. 
Of course we know what being 

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peaceful means. 
Be peaceful means void of chaos,

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void of confusion, void of 
pains, void of pains. 

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And I, and I want to add that 
intentionally because there's no

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way you can be, you can have 
peace when you are in pain. 

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So if there's if there's, 
there's lack of pain, there's 

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lack of confusion in the house, 
there's clarity, there's peace, 

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there's joy, there's everything 
is in place there. 

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We say that domain, that place 
of habitation is a peaceful one.

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And this is the intention of God
for our lives. 

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That was how he created hidden. 
That was how he created hidden 

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peaceful. 
And that's what he wants us to 

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continue to enjoy, you know, 
even though a lot of things had 

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gone wrong, but Jesus Christ 
came as a redemptive prize to 

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ensure that we are restored back
to that original plan. 

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And I don't want anybody here to
say that it is not possible. 

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It is possible, Amen. 
And I pray God will give it to 

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us in Jesus name. 
Good evening Mummy and our 

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mummies. 
God bless you. 

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It's a privilege to share this 
table with you and good evening 

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everyone. 
Good evening everyone. 

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The Lord will grant all of us 
peaceful domain in Jesus name. 

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Now. 
We've been hearing about the 

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matter of peace and peaceful 
domain since the beginning of 

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Psalm 2026, Solemn Assembly of 
Models 2026. 

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We have heard Mummy preach to 
us, teach us on this subject. 

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As I was coming in this evening,
I was hearing the voice of the 

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servant of the Lord Prophetess 
still addressing the same 

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matter. 
OK, sometimes it is not enough 

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to know what something is. 
You know what something is 

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better by trying to know what it
is not. 

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Because there are times, there 
are times that will will come up

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with a position on a matter, 
right? 

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And the position we actually put
up is not what that thing is. 

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So you know what, something is 
better sometimes when you get 

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somebody to explain to you what 
that thing is not. 

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So therefore, I will like to 
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Mummy's question on what 
peaceful domain is by saying a 

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few things that peaceful domain 
is not. 

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Is that clear? 
All right, So one of the things 

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that peaceful domain is not is 
that it is not mere silence. 

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It is not mere silence, OK? 
Because today we are people who 

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live in homes, who live in 
relationships. 

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We are people who work in 
places, we are people who run 

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businesses. 
And because of the reality of 

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conflicts that most necessary 
come up, because two different 

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personalities from different 
background, having different 

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temperaments, are trying to 
cohabit, are trying to occupy 

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the same space, live together, 
conflict becomes necessary. 

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And because of that, one party 
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anytime I get home, whatever 
this woman does, I will keep 

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quiet whether she's positive to 
me or not. 

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I will just be silent. 
So peaceful domain does not 

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necessarily means mere silence. 
OK. 

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Another thing that peaceful 
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suppression of pressure. 
Is not a suppression of what? 

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Of pressure where things are 
inside of you, OK, but you just 

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deliberately decide to suppress 
it. 

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Now, if you suppress it beyond 
measure, medical practitioners 

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will tell you that that is 
dangerous for your health. 

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Therefore, Mama Demura, Mama 
demura, Mama demura, all right, 

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so that all is actually not 
experiencing peace. 

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Are we together? 
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domain is not is that it is not 
pretense or fake compliance. 

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Amen. 
It's not fake compliance. 

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Where are we together? 
So this when we try to suppress 

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pressure, when we try to fake 
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maintain silence, it does not 
imply that we have peace, Peace 

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of Mind ourselves. 
It does not imply that our 

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domain is peaceful. 
Thank you. 

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With what he has just told us, 
he has, he has, he has gone fine

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to my notes because we are 
coming there. 

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Because where there is peace, 
you will also enjoy good health.

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And so we are coming there. 
But let's try to just continue 

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from that question I asked and I
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little bit, Carlosino reality, 
this is the issue of peace that 

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we are talking about. 
How can it manifest between the 

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husband and wife? 
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What's it called now? 
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extended family members Sheng 
Katimo Soyawa or Ara Lafiatan 

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Soy E Buguia Lafia because this 
peace starts from yourself, 

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Peace within all starts from you
from yourself. 

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Internal peace now extending 
and with disciplines. 

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Precisely siblings and we have 
case studies as I told you 

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because me jealousy man setting 
envy man setting X-ray demand 

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setting cherry. 
And why do attack by most of you

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Alana, We will not just gather 
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We will have time to really sit 
down and talk so that we pray 

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with understanding so that when 
what today we have prayed 

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certain prayers. 
I don't know whether we took 

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notice when we are praying. 
My children will not be against 

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one another. 
Sema, passing back my children 

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will not support the enemy. 
To support your title, let's sit

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down and talk, and then we now 
pray. 

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So 
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house, we meet. 
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our associate professor was 
stuck in the other time once all

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of the suppression of, say, 
emotion. 

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Because I know your your husband
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Her husband is the first born in
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lady. 
She's also the first boy in her 

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own family. 
One year old lady. 

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First born. 
First born. 

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OK, the husband is the first 
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Hallelujah. 
How did you manage? 

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Hallelujah. 
Well, Mommy had actually started

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very well, and I want us to 
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We want to be practical. 
I didn't know she was going to 

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mention that. 
I had it in mind that when I get

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to this table, I am going to say
that we shouldn't be theoretical

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about this evening's discussion.
If we really want to go out, you

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know, with a lot of values from 
this meeting, we must bring it 

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down to being practical. 
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talking, I don't know if I'm 
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said, take note. 
If there's anything that you 

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think what we are saying is 
contrary or what we are saying 

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is not applicable in your case, 
or what we are saying is 

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different from what you think 
can happen, please let us know. 

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Because this is the House of God
and this is a theatre, this kind

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of a meeting is a theatre where 
a lot of operations can happen 

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so that by the time we are going
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And I pray that God will help us
in Jesus name. 

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Now the, this case study you 
sent to us when I was looking at

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the story of Naomi and Ruth, the
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myself also came to me when I 
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when I read scripture, I tried 
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if if I AM here. 
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trying to explain to her that, 
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death is going to separate us, 
there was something that that 

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Lady saw in that woman that made
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Amen. 
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that was in roots that made the 
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manner that she accepted her. 
Toffi dicbey, or I want the 

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oriber lawless in law. 
So in the case of my own 

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mother-in-law, there's no human 
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there's a scripture that came to
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I wanted to say you should help 
me, Sabra. 

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I later found this the book of 
Matthew is a popular scripture. 

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The book of Matthew, chapter 5 
verse 16. 

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He says let your light so shine 
before all men let your light so

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shine. 
Two things description called us

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believers. 
He called us light and salt and 

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see people have pressure 
pressure. 

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See, let me tell you, for 
celebrity there is no perfect 

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mother-in-law and there is no 
perfect wife. 

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But when you are a child of God 
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guide your life, your journey 
will be easy. 

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Incidentally, my mother-in-law 
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My father-in-law is a Muslim. 
When I was coming to marry my 

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husband, they thought I was the 
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But I met my husband as a 
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My husband got converted first 
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I met him third year in school 
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So they were like hey, the 
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is normal. 
Is it not normal? 

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It's normal. 
But my attention when I was 

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getting married to them was that
my husband was the only person 

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that was born again in that 
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My attention was on Jesus, how 
are you going to win in this 

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family? 
Kilo chef win. 

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And I didn't want that to 
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So that means I was going to pay
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tickets. 
I know a sister so I've seen a 

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lot of experiences and I put all
of these experiences together 

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and I said this is what I am 
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God that to say anybody like our
family members me told my wife 

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me told my wife, you are call 
me. 

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That's all they would rather 
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So it was my decision and I was 
praying and I was thanking God 

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and I'm me and I was trusting 
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But my. 
My mother my like I said, my 

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mother-in-law is not perfect, 
but she's the mother of my 

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husband and I want every mother 
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listen to me carefully. 
I your thought Tony Yahoo at 

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Yahoo because of that. 
So when I say whichever one I 

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mentioned. 
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the man, for example, to set 
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the family knows that this is 
this your space. 

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My mother because Tabernacle 25 
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because to fight them with more 
family all teeny life don't live

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and I want my family. 
You cannot come and pluck him 

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out of that family completely 
only work PO nissi peace. 

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Even though I was every woman 
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Yeah, but I know that it's an 
unrealistic target. 

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Me knew that they said yeah if 
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unrealistic target. 
But it's going to be just me and

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my husband in our space. 
Police Shelley. 

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I was speaking to a lady in my 
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I said when I want you to place 
your mother on salary. 

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True or false for those number 
of years, but she was able to 

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send the four of you to 
university. 

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So if a woman or a man had 
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And the woman must know only 
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Are you sorry, Bhagwala? 
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lullaby, praise the name of the 
Lord. 

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My mother-in-law did not have a 
peaceful marriage. 

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She didn't even have any joy. 
I will send it to you, 

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father-in-law. 
And the woman did not run away. 

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She did not die. 
She did not give up. 

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Why? 
Because she was thinking, One 

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day this child will rise. 
Praise the name of the Lord. 

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So boundaries, boundaries 
problem, the principle of 

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accounts and what is what 
applies to the left must apply 

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to work to the left. 
To the right only principle 

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praise the name of the Lord, 
because home. 

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Can you share your colony home 
and your major loony home for 

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the superior That is Bible 
perspective. 

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The Bible said the two of them 
will become one ABI. 

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And the Bible says the man and 
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form a home. 
So if your mother can come to my

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house, my mother can also come. 
If your siblings can come, my 

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siblings can also come. 
Competition, competition. 

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See for example, my 
mother-in-law. 

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My mother was sick. 
She has been with me since June,

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May last year. 
Maybe I told you October, but I 

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know me sick. 
She couldn't even talk to my 

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husband because she knew that my
husband was going to say no. 

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She called me and said one more,
one more. 

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Now the testimony is everybody 
in my family and my husband 

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family is they are now 
Christians. 

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Praise the name of the Lord from
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Those people will now say she 
don't come to their house. 

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So the mother didn't know where 
to go and she was dying and she 

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knew that my mom was with me. 
She couldn't call my husband was

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I was going to say no. 
So the woman called me and I 

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said, and I want the I want the 
lonely praise the name of the 

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law. 
So post your competition. 

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There was a need for her. 
She had to come. 

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There was a need for the first 
person to also come. 

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She came. 
The law will help us in Jesus. 

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Name are we getting some things 
I'm not comfortable with the 

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noise I am hearing from the back
there. 

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Those of you that I think was 
now who better can learn in easy

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and call you because. 
I am the only woman in your 

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life. 
Your mommy will come say. 

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Welcome man. 
Your husband want to send 

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something to his parents? 
You frown your face. 

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So 
that some young girls will say 

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they don't want to meet their 
mother-in-law at home, so they 

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don't want to meet her alive. 
That is the meaning that they 

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don't. 
I don't want a brother that has.

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If if you're a guy and a lady 
sounds like you, for me it's a 

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red flag. 
It's a red flag even when a lady

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tells you that. 
Sonia and Sonia, Animal welfare.

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It's a red flag, yo. 
In fact, if I were you, I will 

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run. 
So a mirror. 

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OK, I'm a man. 
I want my only trouble. 

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Yeah, yeah. 
Woman shaking in trouble. 

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In fact, let me shock you, 
Mommy, me troublesome my own 

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mom. 
But that is why you need to be a

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Christian. 
If you're a Christian, when 

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something is white, you will 
call it white. 

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When something is black, you 
will call it black because 

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somebody is your mother or 
because somebody is not is your 

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father. 
In fact, if I would tell my 

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husband and my husband is also 
like that, he was OK. 

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So I disrespect because we are 
not permitted to disrespect our 

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parents for any reason. 
But like I kept saying, boundary

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my way, my creative boundary 
should not ever tell me. 

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Now she's my mother. 
70 percent of every true of us. 

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So that is the truth. 
OK And another thing I want us 

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to know is that if you are a 
young lady and you are saying 

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you don't want to meet your 
mother-in-law alive, it means 

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you are also praying that you 
yourself will not be alive to 

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reap the fruits of your own 
neighbor too. 

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Indirectly that is what you are 
saying. 

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So that will not be your portion
in Jesus name. 

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If you are a young lady here, 
don't join them to say that that

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Lord bless you in Jesus name 
because whatsoever you sow, you 

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will reap. 
God will help us in Jesus name. 

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Now let's move to siblings and 
we have case study of Esau and 

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Jacob. 
They were giving back to same 

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day same woman raised by the 
same father and mother and I 

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think they sought the same 
breast but one said I am hungry,

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I'm fainting. 
What? 

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Hello fainting. 
It ain't my brother. 

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No, no, no you can't faint. 
I have food but they sell me. 

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Your bad right? 
I get my jealous city 1 bed. 

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Give me what is in your hand 
before I give you food. 

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And in this prayer point, there 
is a prayer point that says I 

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will not be as a parent, I will 
not, I will not 'cause is it 

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conflict between my children, 
something like that. 

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I will not be the reason why my 
children would be against each 

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other or one another as a 
parent. 

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In the family of Jacob and 
Rebecca, Rebecca, that family is

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not a good example to follow. 
Isaiah No Jacob, Isaac and and 

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Rebecca. 
The family of Isaac and Rebecca 

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is not an enviable family. 
You have two children, just two 

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boys. 
The father chose one and the 

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Bible gave us the reason. 
Baba, He loves his soul because 

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the woman to the mother of the 
house can see Jacob. 

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Jacob, she loved Jacob and the 
woman said, I heard your father 

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say he wants to bless today. 
Jacob, let it be upon me. 

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Just do what I say. 
Go, go and do this. 

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Go and do this. 
I know my husband bless you, 

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bless, bless me. 
And if he calls you and. 

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Within siblings. 
How do we do that? 

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Hallelujah. 
I would like to read a verse in 

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the Bible. 
Romans chapter 12, verse 18. 

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Romans 1218 If it be possible as
much as lies in you live 

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peaceably with all men. 
You see this issue of peace of 

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peaceful domain that we are 
talking about. 

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We must understand that anywhere
the domain is, the domain could 

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be the home, the domain could be
at work, the domain could be the

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church, the domain could be your
career, your place of business, 

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right? 
This issue of peaceful domain 

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does not happen automatically. 
You have to intentionally pursue

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it. 
It doesn't happen automatically.

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It must be intentionally 
pursued, right? 

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Why? 
Because we are humans. 

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We have different temperaments, 
we have different expectations, 

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we have different understanding,
we hold different perspective 

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about life. 
And therefore, from that verse 

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that we just read, if we are 
children of God, born again, 

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lovers of God, the Bible is 
very, very clear about it. 

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It is my responsibility to 
intentionally seek peace. 

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It is my responsibility to 
intentionally seek peace. 

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So if we now bring it into the 
relationship of siblings. 

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So I must deliberately work at 
ensuring that there is peace 

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between me and my brothers, 
between me and my sisters. 

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Now, if that is going to happen,
I must have this clear 

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understanding that the 
personality of my brother is 

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different from my personality. 
The way my brother think is 

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different from the way I think. 
The way my brother reasons is 

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different from the way I reason.
I may have my expectation, OK, 

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but I should prepare myself to. 
I should expect I should I 

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should look out for the best I 
should expect the best but 

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prepare for the worst. 
Hello. 

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And at this point, I am telling 
you one of the principles that 

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God helped me to track very 
early in life and apply to my 

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relationship with people is that
I expect the best from you, but 

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I prepare for the worst. 
So if, if you put off an 

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attitude that is very negative, 
a behavior that is very 

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terrible, I don't get 
disappointed because in the 1st 

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place you didn't give me an 
appointment. 

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Are we together? 
So I don't get disappointed. 

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So I, I, I will, I look out for 
the best, I prepare for the 

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best, OK, But I don't get 
disappointed when the wars come,

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All right. 
And therefore, personally, I've 

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learned to live with people no 
matter who you are, even at 

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work, I learn to live with 
people no matter who you are, no

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matter what attitude you put up.
All right, So within, within the

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sphere that we stay together, I 
give, I create, I create my own 

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environment, I create. 
I don't allow anything to tamper

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with my peace. 
I don't allow anything to tamper

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with my with my joy. 
OK, rather than allow anything 

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to tamper with my peace than 
tamper with my joy. 

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Most often than not, I will 
choose. 

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I will, I will choose humility, 
excess, in fact, sometimes 

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excessive humility. 
All right, just to ensure that 

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nothing tampers with my joy, 
with my peace. 

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All right, so I give you your 
space. 

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I create the space of joy for 
myself and maintain it. 

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So between siblings, it is 
normal that conflict will come. 

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One of the things we must 
understand is that conflict is 

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a, is a necessity in 
relationship. 

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Is that OK? 
Conflict is a necessity in 

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relationship, but you must 
prepare your mind to convert 

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that conflict to something 
positive every time, every day 

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as you relate, even among among 
your siblings. 

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So it is normal for siblings to 
have conflict based on different

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reason. 
Sometimes the reason could be 

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what is initiated by the parent,
sometimes it could be carried 

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over over childhood conflicts 
depending on the temperament 

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that individual carries. 
Some some some grown up siblings

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today fights to finish, not 
because of what happened today, 

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but because of what had happened
while they were were children. 

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So at that point we begin to ask
questions about your faith in 

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Christ, your relationship with 
Christ, your ability to forgive 

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and to let go of the past. 
Then things like envy, things 

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like jealousy and stuff like 
that comes primarily down to the

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matter of your relationship with
God. 

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So you build your relationship 
with your siblings from the 

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premise of what the Bible 
dictates should be your life, 

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the characteristics of your life
as a as a Christian, the Lord 

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will help us. 
Praise the Lord. 

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I want to add to this because 
all of us here are potential 

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mothers. 
Whether you very soon you either

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become a mother-in-law or a 
mother to a bride. 

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The mother's role in this 
siblings rivalry is always very 

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heavy. 
You know, at times when the 

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children are growing up, one may
be having money than the other 

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and your comments matters. 
I thank my mom. 

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You know, she's late now, but 
something happened between me 

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and my mom that I had to stop. 
Is this one of my younger 

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brother is having he is OK to 
the glory of God. 

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So when he comes once in a year,
he gives her everything for one 

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year and you know, everything 
for one year is ready. 

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And those of us that are around,
those are our monthly cake is 

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somehow. 
So my mommy, when they now come,

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she will celebrate the one in a 
year. 

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He's just like, ah, oh, mommy, 
do you know all this syndrome? 

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Mommies, you do it. 
Oh, you know, we do it. 

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And the thing was creating 
trouble. 

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So one day as I entered, she now
said to me, Mommy, OK. 

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Yeah. 
One said yeah one one Day 1 day 

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mommy we were commenting we were
Tiki Ibashe Bidemi Timuri as she

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said that statement in the eyes 
of all my siblings more more 

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reaction where we pay you know 
more to see all of the mommy so 

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alone Bawashi what discharge you
one quarter daily mommy effect. 

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1 Because of that statement, 
they told my husband. 

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My husband said I should not say
anything because that's what 

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pastor is saying. 
If you don't go and beg at the 

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end of the day #1 #2 we have to 
be patient with each other. 

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Ah, two weeks ago. 
Oh my. 

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Now to me, you know, I'm, I'm 
speaking reality. 

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Honestly speaking, there are 
some of them like them Cordeni 

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apologize, I want Cotuabe 
washing Cotillo Dalara siblings 

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in what 20 So sorry people by so
sorry one more so sorry. 

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The last thing I want to say on 
it is honestly speaking, respect

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is a tool in Asia. 
Only respect Antiguan Binolawa 

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killer coche because no man 
degenerates. 

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God forbid it for anyone. 20 
people. 10 people. 20 people. 

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Why? 
Because only respect. 

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May the Lord help us in Jesus. 
Once you saw the NEPA, our will 

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be Papa. 
You know our way. 

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Yeah, we come on my dawa la le 
lani and one more cherry allefy 

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Omo woman allu A compa about my 
woman is taking you. 

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Hello compa. 
So we pay. 

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There's something positive to in
the life of that one into 

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positive responsibility in that 
positive traits 

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character. 
Emma Fee Omaki you can lose you 

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around. 
You see, Bola, Ebola was the one

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that that fetch water, but I was
the one that has always helped 

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me. 
Bola is the one that is the one 

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that I've been working, working 
system. 

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But if you can, you can now for 
all siblings. 

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For all siblings. 
We committed shape attacking #1 

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only we pay. 
It is natural with every man, 

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every human being, to always 
look at what you like outside, 

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forgetting what you have inside.
So tell your law school. 

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Tell your exam possible go pass 
it you want to Yeah below the 

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fact you go pass it your lawyer 
for two months we pay you will 

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know me. 
I want catalog to positive. 

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So look inward and look at those
things that are positive about 

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your life. 
Don't behave yours of of him 

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Yeah Coco time of delay delay 
EKG siblings on my image when we

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pay car zoom assumption 
assumption my brother is a 

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reverend reverend cause money 
the 100,000 naira. 

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Not knowing what is going 
through I 10, 1000 liability 1 

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100 and 50, 1000. 
Let us behave maturely in our 

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relationship as siblings. 
Don't assume we pay for me, for 

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me E Monte onala koja E 
montopesias. 

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Praise God next time. 
God bless you. 

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One more thing then we take 
questions. 

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Please get your questions ready.
Now we are going to be talking 

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about how to maintain peace 
between husband and wife. 

453
00:50:55,440 --> 00:51:11,120
Husband and wife So and where 
there is peace, you will enjoy 

454
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:29,240
good health condition so. 
So how do we maintain peace 

455
00:51:29,320 --> 00:52:02,200
between husband and wife? 
Hello. 

456
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:18,680
Praise the Lord, I want to start
Mufer Berry by ako eja kiya woo 

457
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:27,800
Yu jiya woo Yu Anikin Mubadibe 
she was she's a reap Ek beni 

458
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:33,320
nothing. 
Many men lock out their women, 

459
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:45,040
other people no matter what. 
I appreciate. 

460
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,120
Let me give you 3 examples to 
that. 

461
00:52:54,360 --> 00:53:05,920
Number one. 
That's one #2 

462
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:38,960
how do you pick that number? 
One more more family, Toshi 

463
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:49,800
weekly about 20 something years 
now. 

464
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,920
Why am I saying this? 
By the time you allow your wife 

465
00:53:53,920 --> 00:54:07,160
to be your wife, understanding. 
Or join any PCT cocoduro or just

466
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:12,040
I wouldn't about the new year 
weekly or call mitimo Fe yo OE 

467
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:20,760
minani so sorry before que why 
my people No Lori for marriage 

468
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,960
is not separated. 
Husband and wife is not 

469
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,520
separated or just about the new 
understand the alarm open check 

470
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:34,800
for marriage. 
Now I want to say two more 

471
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:36,880
things before I know my time is 
not your hope. 

472
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:41,160
I want to so that's what I'm 
saying me mobile ethic body. 

473
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:52,720
I will bring it to myself. 
I'm not joking. 

474
00:54:52,720 --> 00:55:02,920
No, I'm really like Ketu because
it is whatever you push into her

475
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:07,160
that she comes out to it. 
May you not push nonsense into 

476
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:11,040
your wife. 
So man, that is why they call 

477
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:14,160
you bridegroom. 
It is your responsibility to 

478
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:19,840
groom in the in the in the 
atmosphere of God, not in your 

479
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:25,640
own selfish atmosphere because 
some men are selfish or ASU. 

480
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:32,040
Yahujeto Delhi. 
How do we relate to that? 

481
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,880
Oh, funny, but it is the truth. 
Now let me now say this. 

482
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:42,720
Number one key to having peace 
in marriage between husband and 

483
00:55:42,720 --> 00:55:46,040
wife. 
Number one, study each other. 

484
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,320
Study your wife. 
Study your husband. 

485
00:55:56,360 --> 00:56:03,200
International I'm I'm talking 
about bits in Larson arello MI 

486
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:06,520
ko bakini. 
So you need to study kilo komi 

487
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:12,400
fair in every aspect is even up 
to food. 

488
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:31,680
For example, in our marriage he 
says it and he says it. 

489
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:48,320
That's what is like first 
daughter mean like and the Bible

490
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:53,840
is ever correct. 
You see by the time you study 

491
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:57,680
each other differences Eleni 
differences Eleni even though 

492
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:01,680
she told the assure or she told 
it the way we talk at times man 

493
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:05,240
the way we talk to our husband. 
They don't understand at times 

494
00:57:05,240 --> 00:57:07,880
the way they talk to us. 
We don't understand God open the

495
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:12,040
misunderstanding in war or lower
and that's why the Bible cancels

496
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:15,200
us that we should be seasoned. 
We should let our words be 

497
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:17,720
seasoned with salt. 
Let me tell you a practical 

498
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:22,120
story that happened last week. 
I prepare that this food and I 

499
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:37,320
took it to church. 
Did you say that's what I did? 

500
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:43,920
I said the time I was doing 
that. 

501
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:11,800
If he is not in tune with 
Christ, it is enough for anybody

502
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:22,760
to pick offense and in good 
faith, in good faith. 

503
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:28,160
So at times we talk, our 
utterances may not be seasoned 

504
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,680
and we may not even realize it, 
but immediately he, he was able 

505
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:34,640
to correct me. 
I'm sorry that I, I don't know, 

506
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:38,160
go your kings about me, the 
robot or you don't come in the 

507
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,920
Mefishi and Katimushi. 
Now coming to that, that's my 

508
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,360
practical experience. 
Do you know how many of those 

509
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:44,840
practical experiences that we 
are? 

510
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:49,440
Understanding is a word and I 
want to give us a tip on 

511
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:53,080
understanding. 
Can you pray to God help me to 

512
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:58,440
know my husband help my husband 
to know me coldly because when 

513
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,720
you know your husband and your 
husband know you, you are free. 

514
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:06,400
Thomas your wife said this your 
husband will say no yeah woman 

515
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:11,920
cocaine sorrow Bay because God 
has given you that wisdom to 

516
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:16,640
know him and you know it's it's 
training like King Lehman's 

517
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,120
mother is training is different.
You came from two different 

518
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:25,240
background and how do you cope 
so that understanding is a thing

519
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:28,360
you must yearn for so that your 
marriage can. 

520
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:36,720
Understanding. 
I just want to add something 

521
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:40,360
shortly. 
Sherry problem. 

522
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:50,440
Tell me read you, you know, 
marriage a most people a 

523
00:59:51,200 --> 01:00:03,200
marriage, church marriage. 
I want experiences. 

524
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:36,360
And like she said for example, 
but how do I, but I know my own 

525
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:41,760
mother also be one major 1D14 
our major almost like. 

526
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:05,040
Meanwhile, family OK, because 
this issue of salvation is a big

527
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:09,720
deal to me because at the end of
the day I might give account. 

528
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:16,040
I want account. 
I can't relationship. 

529
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:42,000
I know account leadership. 
Because this is what the 

530
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,320
scripture says. 
The Lord will help us in Jesus 

531
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,960
name. 
So on the marriage table I need 

532
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:52,640
a lot of things. 
I need a lot of things. 

533
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:57,640
Then. 
Oh, Mario, Oh Mario, by the 

534
01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:10,480
grace of God, Amen. 
Thank God for that. 

535
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:28,480
Praise the name of the Lord. 
Why so poor communication 

536
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:52,640
problem? 
And let me tell you the truth, 

537
01:02:53,160 --> 01:03:11,000
whether you like it or not, as 
far as God is concerned, 

538
01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:18,640
marriage, marriage in the 
headquarters of forgiveness. 

539
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:22,040
Forgive for what? 
Last marry. 

540
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:26,200
And I really see some people 
over my dead body. 

541
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:30,720
And you are not ready for 
marriage even if you are 30 

542
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:53,280
years, even if you are 40 years.
Because let me tell you the 

543
01:03:56,240 --> 01:04:19,000
truth Sir, several times then 
drop microphone because that 

544
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:40,960
issue of sibling. 
So I could avoid the careless 

545
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:58,240
talk. 
University primary school. 

546
01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:00,800
Yeah, he called fellowship, 
defensive projects. 

547
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,080
Shame of me. 
Great. 

548
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:11,280
But in the family of masters, my
preferable primary exam, Lola. 

549
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:18,680
And it's because I want more 
money. 

550
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:22,040
And Timmy to Milo. 
I began the country. 

551
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,120
He comes back first. 
He comes back first. 

552
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:28,880
Second to the last. 
That's my child. 

553
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:43,160
That's my boy, let me tell you. 
So you must play your game very 

554
01:05:43,160 --> 01:05:46,080
well. 
My play game more, Rebecca. 

555
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:58,840
Play very well prophecy here. 
I'm not sure why that is how a 

556
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:04,080
mother or a father should behave
and relationship to shape. 

557
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:10,000
At the end of the day, let us 
forgive. 

558
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:14,280
So about forgive. 
Peace is an atmosphere, Peace is

559
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:16,200
not just anything, it's an 
atmosphere. 

560
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:20,160
So by the creates that peaceful 
atmosphere, a lot of things can 

561
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,640
go wrong for for instance, 
prayer will not be answered. 

562
01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:26,680
Who wants to be wasting prayer? 
Who wants to be wasting fasting 

563
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:30,920
30 years ago? 
The Lord will help us in Jesus 

564
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:32,840
name. 
See about the opportunity to 

565
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:35,720
join me Mama sorrow Sherry as 
our family. 

566
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:37,440
I want my own family, all my 
want to blow me. 

567
01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:40,080
It is not the same story, Timoni
fella. 

568
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:48,040
What broke me understanding? 
OK, how will you? 

569
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:51,320
We were going through certain 
things recently. 

570
01:06:53,080 --> 01:07:05,240
You know what the guy did? 
He sent me 50,000. 

571
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:30,720
The guy came to 
learning that was how he started

572
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,960
business. 
Later he travelled to big 

573
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:42,200
business is a confirmed million 
millions of naira new business 

574
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:51,200
500 million. 
So if you are a believer, you 

575
01:07:51,200 --> 01:08:02,040
will know it's a stage anybody 
don't lose hope on anybody, 

576
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:16,760
anybody because. 
One house. 

577
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:43,080
Thank you very much, Ma. 
Let's have it quiet, please. 

578
01:08:45,359 --> 01:08:58,160
Marriage or a marriage Neopolopo
by Oman camelara to do pay apart

579
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:03,640
from BI churches a program maybe
once in a year or twice in a 

580
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:08,479
year discusses you of 
relationship discusses you of of

581
01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:13,800
marriage. 
We don't have a curriculum that 

582
01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:16,800
deliberately prepare us for 
marriage. 

583
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:21,479
Our artwork. 
Our artwork. 

584
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:25,800
Better planning preparation for 
wedding. 

585
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,960
Most often than not, our 
preparation is for wedding, not 

586
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:39,160
for marriage. 
Taba mache wedding by our many 

587
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:43,000
suits. 
Mushima Tony I want bridal train

588
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:49,000
mushima tuni Dubai not to my 
lushi wedding gown cake me can 

589
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:52,160
you know at the Lagos not to my 
shake cake South Africa need 

590
01:09:52,319 --> 01:09:57,040
fashion designer to my design. 
Every thinking, every tuning of 

591
01:09:57,040 --> 01:10:00,640
the mind is is about the 
wedding, not marriage. 

592
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:10,280
And if there is anything we 
learn about marriage, we 

593
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:17,800
formally learn them OK watching 
how our daddy and mommy are 

594
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:24,880
doing marriage or did marriage. 
And often even our parents don't

595
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:31,520
sit us down to educate us in 
fact. 

596
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:55,520
So everything they tell that 
most of our parents will tell us

597
01:10:55,520 --> 01:11:00,280
about marriage, they are from 
the negative angle, never from 

598
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:04,720
the positive constructive angle 
that intentionally prepare us 

599
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:07,920
for marriage. 
I want not one that by one one 

600
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:14,680
hello book preparation wise for 
wedding, not marriage. 

601
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:22,840
So our our daughter Wan BTRT 
Wedge 30 Marie, I want to 

602
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:29,200
encourage you, please 
consciously, intentionally and 

603
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:34,280
deliberately prepare yourself 
for marriage, school yourself 

604
01:11:34,440 --> 01:11:37,760
for marriage. 
And how can you do that? 

605
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:45,560
You have materials to reach. 
You have people to talk to, OK. 

606
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:49,920
You have mentors around in the 
church that you can move closer 

607
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:55,400
to and consciously learn. 
You have models around that you 

608
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:59,920
can approach and talk to and say
on the matter of marriage. 

609
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:04,120
I want an understanding on this 
area, on this issue. 

610
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:12,320
So don't depend on what you hear
people say or what they, what 

611
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:17,360
you see on the television. 
Another gentleman prepare for 

612
01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:22,880
Nollywood me and what you see in
Nollywood are not realities. 

613
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:26,720
Hello. 
They are their physics on 

614
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:29,400
Nollywood. 
They are not the realities. 

615
01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:36,040
Are we together you watch 
Nollywood 11 young man that just

616
01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:43,400
got married wants to go out with
the wife passenger side. 

617
01:12:54,280 --> 01:13:06,640
Hello, I can tell you go into 
into marriage my sister. 

618
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:22,240
Hello delay 5 minutes Are we 
together? 

619
01:13:23,760 --> 01:13:30,520
Are we together? 
So get proper schooling to 

620
01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:39,840
prepare you for marriage. 
Now listen, listen to this and 

621
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:49,400
listen very, very, very well 
because of our time. 

622
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:55,720
Let me leave the the the anger 
of the young people and come to 

623
01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:57,240
those of us that are already 
married. 

624
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:02,520
Tori will pay. 
I want to train you are 

625
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:05,560
consciously, intentionally for 
marriage. 

626
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:11,880
We got into it, We had wrong 
expectations, and because that 

627
01:14:11,880 --> 01:14:17,080
expectation was wrong. 
Hello, at the day one new Walla,

628
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:23,280
Tiberi Walla and the llama 
Magbelo number one thing, the 

629
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:26,000
first thing we must learn is 
that there is what we call the 

630
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:31,480
dynamics of relationship. 
And this is the way I explain 

631
01:14:31,480 --> 01:14:34,560
it. 
The first stage is the stage of 

632
01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:47,320
attraction. 
Stage of attraction, you get it,

633
01:14:47,440 --> 01:14:51,960
you got attracted. 
Everything that she does is 

634
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:53,960
perfect. 
Are we together? 

635
01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:58,880
But the nature of man is such 
that familiarity breeds 

636
01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:03,880
contempt. 
So from distance that respect 

637
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:05,680
will be there, that honor will 
be there. 

638
01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:10,720
But by the time you get closer 
and you continue to relate for a

639
01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:16,600
while, after one, one week, two 
weeks, one, one month, go, go 

640
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:19,720
perfection. 
Yeah, obviously drop percentage 

641
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:21,240
Yammer drop. 
Why? 

642
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:25,000
Because from the stage of 
attraction that brought you 

643
01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:29,160
together, you have stayed 
together enough to begin to move

644
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:33,040
to the stage of discovery. 
So at the stage of discovery, 

645
01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:39,400
you begin to see what are 
positive and most of the things 

646
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:43,320
that are negative because most 
time it is negative that we 

647
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:47,840
amplify as humans. 
So by the time you not begin to 

648
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:51,080
amplify those things that are 
negative, you not begin to enter

649
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:54,200
into the third stage called the 
stage of conflicts. 

650
01:15:55,560 --> 01:16:01,280
All right, That conflict is 
necessary for you to actually 

651
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:06,360
mature together. 
Now what's next thing you will 

652
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:10,560
move to will be determined by 
how well you are able to master 

653
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:13,520
and handle conflicts. 
OK. 

654
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:18,320
If you handle it positively as 
an opportunity to learn and know

655
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:23,200
more about your partner, then 
you move gradually into the 

656
01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:28,000
stage of recovery. 
We resolve the issue with 

657
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:31,720
maturity, with understanding. 
And at that point you have known

658
01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:34,760
more about him, you have known 
more about her. 

659
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:37,040
All right. 
And the cycle continue. 

660
01:16:37,440 --> 01:16:41,360
The conflict got resolved and 
the attraction comes back all 

661
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:44,360
right, and you run the cycle 
again until you begin to see 

662
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:48,200
another reason for conflicts, 
resolve it, recover and come 

663
01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:50,280
back. 
For people that are unable to 

664
01:16:50,280 --> 01:16:54,760
manage conflict very well, OK, 
instead of recovery, they enter 

665
01:16:54,800 --> 01:16:58,960
into crisis. 
And it is at that stage of 

666
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:03,040
crisis if it is at the level of 
caution not about serving a 

667
01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:08,840
breakfast tobacco, any marriage 
at that stage of crisis, not the

668
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:11,720
issue or not the boss into 
divorce. 

669
01:17:12,440 --> 01:17:16,840
So we need to understand the 
dynamics of relationship that it

670
01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:21,240
is a cyclic thing. 
So, and this is the way I also 

671
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:26,280
conclude with it is that when 
you go into marriage, go there 

672
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:31,240
to catch phone. 
Hello, go there to do all. 

673
01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:35,240
So Bukala can also behave like 
this. 

674
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:42,320
Hello, enjoy yourself, catch the
phone, adjust my trolley and 

675
01:17:42,320 --> 01:17:44,520
move on. 
Say another thing, back to your 

676
01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:48,840
Lola, catch the phone, adjust my
trolley and move on. 

677
01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:54,440
Understand this that marriage is
a permanent institution of 

678
01:17:54,440 --> 01:17:58,200
learning and you have a cause to
learn for life. 

679
01:17:58,600 --> 01:18:01,800
That cause is your wife. 
You have a cause to learn for 

680
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:04,880
life. 
That cause is your husband. 

681
01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:10,240
So keep learning that man till 
death do you part, or till Jesus

682
01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:14,920
Christ come catch from when you 
see things that you didn't 

683
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:19,640
expect, mutually handle it, 
discuss it, and move on with 

684
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:21,840
your life. 
God bless you. 

685
01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:29,760
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Hallelujah, Hallelujah. 

686
01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,840
Please can I get somebody that 
can move round with this 

687
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:37,400
microphone? 
It is time to take our 

688
01:18:37,440 --> 01:18:45,960
reactions, questions, addition, 
subtraction. 

689
01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:51,400
OK, I can see one hand here. 
Yes. 

690
01:18:53,040 --> 01:19:08,720
Amen. 2, 2222 3333 OK, Pass on 
Mrs. Bukola fawenu #1, Dickness 

691
01:19:08,720 --> 01:19:21,600
Ruti dohu #2, Brother Daniel #3 
number Oh, OK, number 45. 

692
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:25,680
Thank you. 
Praise the Lord, praise the 

693
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:31,000
living Jesus, please. 
I would like to explain my 

694
01:19:31,000 --> 01:19:35,440
question in Yoruba language, at 
least for better understanding 

695
01:19:35,440 --> 01:19:37,800
from my own end and to the 
listener. 

696
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:44,360
And my question is based on 
siblings, conflicts among 

697
01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:48,680
siblings. 
And in fact, this is not a 

698
01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:53,920
distant story. 
It's not a it's the problem is, 

699
01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:58,400
let me say, in my family, not my
nuclear family, not the 

700
01:19:58,400 --> 01:20:00,520
immediate family, but the 
accident family. 

701
01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:11,760
I have two boys, two brothers. 
I don't know will I call it a 

702
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:21,720
trade? 
Because I don't even know how 

703
01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:32,160
to. 
And this issue is not getting to

704
01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:42,440
the extent pay toba sorrow the 
elderly 1. 

705
01:21:15,160 --> 01:21:36,480
Business. 
I. 

706
01:21:48,480 --> 01:22:11,920
To 
the extent. 

707
01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:42,720
I get 
to know garage. 

708
01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:36,680
Because before then, foresee 
money. 

709
01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:49,400
Are you sure we will forgive? 
See, he had no explanation for 

710
01:23:49,400 --> 01:24:09,840
his reason. 
Condition situation, Next 

711
01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:37,430
message. 
2 Take note of the question #2. 

712
01:24:37,830 --> 01:24:46,720
Praise the Lord, I want to 
direct my question to our daddy,

713
01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:54,840
Professor Bob Fawen, when he was
explaining to us the other time.

714
01:24:55,480 --> 01:25:00,040
He may mention that peaceful to 
me is not a mere silence. 

715
01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:08,480
So I now I now want to ask 
because people do say that that 

716
01:25:09,200 --> 01:25:14,920
we should for peace to reign, 
that we should maintain silent. 

717
01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:20,560
Maybe one person is angry so for
us to allow peace to reign that 

718
01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:25,720
the other should keep silent. 
And our daddy was saying that 

719
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:29,000
peaceful to me is not a mere 
silence. 

720
01:25:29,680 --> 01:25:35,360
So that then I want to revert to
what mummy when our mummy is 

721
01:25:36,160 --> 01:25:41,040
preaching yesterday, mommy cite 
a sample One saw a sample when 

722
01:25:41,040 --> 01:25:47,840
she she was living in a with one
neighbor that misbehave. 

723
01:25:48,640 --> 01:25:51,680
I think mommy cite a sample 
yesterday if we can remember, 

724
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:58,400
but we never wanted to jump in, 
but there was a date that one 

725
01:25:58,440 --> 01:26:02,080
comically, I think I remember. 
I won't call me then, never. 

726
01:26:02,080 --> 01:26:10,320
One day that will call me. 
She just carried all her things,

727
01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:14,640
both the bath and the tray, and 
mommy went inside. 

728
01:26:15,040 --> 01:26:24,640
So mommy was silent, but Daddy 
was said that peaceful domain is

729
01:26:24,640 --> 01:26:29,640
not a mere silence. 
Can we now say that what Mommy 

730
01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:39,640
did is not a peaceful domain? 
Thank you, mark #3 #3. 

731
01:26:44,800 --> 01:26:49,120
Praise the Lord. 
OK, here's my question I want to

732
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:55,920
ask is it good as a as a youth, 
as a single person to pray 

733
01:26:57,600 --> 01:26:59,600
respect of praying for your 
future wife? 

734
01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:02,000
So I used to believe that was 
years ago. 

735
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:06,320
I used to believe that God has 
one person, that Lady, that 

736
01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:08,200
person that you are supposed to 
marry. 

737
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:15,600
So I used to pray that the shape
of the person, like how the 

738
01:27:15,600 --> 01:27:21,360
person should look, the curves, 
the height, the the completion. 

739
01:27:21,840 --> 01:27:23,120
So. 
I used to. 

740
01:27:23,960 --> 01:27:28,840
So. 
So is it good, is it good to 

741
01:27:28,880 --> 01:27:30,800
pray that kind of prayer for 
your future wife? 

742
01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:41,960
Yes, please repeat your 
question. 

743
01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:49,200
OK, I said that is it good? 
Is he advisable to pray for 

744
01:27:49,880 --> 01:27:55,320
pray, like to to pray 
specifically for what you want 

745
01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:58,040
in your life? 
The corpse, the. 

746
01:27:58,280 --> 01:28:04,440
Complexion, the eyes. 
The complexion, the eyes, do you

747
01:28:04,440 --> 01:28:13,560
understand now #4? 
Good evening. 

748
01:28:14,280 --> 01:28:18,560
I have two questions. 
Hello. 

749
01:28:18,760 --> 01:28:24,800
Hello. 
The first one is in a situation 

750
01:28:24,800 --> 01:28:28,960
where the parents they are 
separated and the children they 

751
01:28:29,040 --> 01:28:33,040
are the children are divided 
with different mindsets towards 

752
01:28:33,040 --> 01:28:36,840
each other because the father 
loves the first daughter so and 

753
01:28:36,840 --> 01:28:39,840
it shows it to them In an 
institution whereby they are 

754
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:41,840
separated, the parents they are 
separated. 

755
01:28:42,200 --> 01:28:45,000
So the children they have 
different mindsets towards one 

756
01:28:45,000 --> 01:28:49,840
another because the father loves
the first daughter so how can 

757
01:28:49,840 --> 01:28:53,200
the first daughter change? 
Like how can the first daughter 

758
01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:57,040
made amendments as the as a 
believer? 

759
01:28:57,920 --> 01:29:00,400
So that's the first one. 
The parents are separated. 

760
01:29:00,400 --> 01:29:03,480
They are separated and then 
children. 

761
01:29:03,480 --> 01:29:06,200
Now they have different 
mindsets. 

762
01:29:06,240 --> 01:29:10,360
Towards one another. 
Because the father loves the 

763
01:29:10,400 --> 01:29:12,160
first daughter. 
The first daughter. 

764
01:29:12,160 --> 01:29:15,200
Daughter. 
And the father, he used to show 

765
01:29:15,200 --> 01:29:19,560
it within the children, OK, So 
how can me or the first daughter

766
01:29:19,560 --> 01:29:23,080
as the believer, as the first, 
as the believer, yes. 

767
01:29:23,080 --> 01:29:26,080
How can she reconcile all other 
siblings? 

768
01:29:26,080 --> 01:29:29,680
Yes. 
Then the next one is yesterday 

769
01:29:29,800 --> 01:29:33,160
you, you told us about internal 
peace. 

770
01:29:33,800 --> 01:29:36,440
Internal peace. 
I said an internal peace. 

771
01:29:36,440 --> 01:29:41,040
It start from within, that even 
I am at the midst of chaos, 

772
01:29:41,360 --> 01:29:44,280
still want to remain calm. 
It's a deliberate decision 

773
01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:47,760
within yourself. 
So in a situation where, OK, I'm

774
01:29:47,760 --> 01:29:51,120
this kind of person that if 
there is any issue, if there's 

775
01:29:51,120 --> 01:29:53,800
anything, I want to address it. 
Like I'm this kind of person 

776
01:29:53,800 --> 01:29:58,320
that I always shout. 
I always shout, OK, I have 

777
01:29:58,320 --> 01:30:00,120
there's a there's a 
misunderstanding between me and 

778
01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:02,800
someone, OK? 
And I want to address it. 

779
01:30:02,920 --> 01:30:05,360
I always want to shout and be 
like, why did you? 

780
01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:08,320
I want to shout and every other 
thing. 

781
01:30:08,560 --> 01:30:12,360
But after the shout and all my 
body will calm down and 

782
01:30:12,360 --> 01:30:16,360
everything is settled. 
Does this still mean I'm still 

783
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:19,640
maintaining peaceful domain or I
still need to remain calm? 

784
01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:21,880
I not said anything even at the 
midst of chaos, and we didn't 

785
01:30:21,880 --> 01:30:24,680
mean I'm not at peace unless I 
say it out. 

786
01:30:27,000 --> 01:30:34,080
OK #5. 
Praise the Lord, I want to make 

787
01:30:34,080 --> 01:30:37,520
myself. 
As an example, I actually come 

788
01:30:37,520 --> 01:30:42,320
from a Muslim home and precisely
from Illori, and I don't know if

789
01:30:42,320 --> 01:30:51,000
we know how Illori religion is. 
So OK, I came from Illori and I 

790
01:30:51,000 --> 01:30:55,160
don't know if we have idea on 
how iloring Muslim is so hard 

791
01:30:55,520 --> 01:30:58,440
and if you are the only 
Christian among them seems to be

792
01:30:58,440 --> 01:31:01,920
difficult on all sides. 
And I didn't stay with my 

793
01:31:01,920 --> 01:31:06,360
parents, I stayed with my mom. 
So this iloring people make it 

794
01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:09,800
so difficult that when I gained 
admission they were not ready to

795
01:31:09,800 --> 01:31:13,200
release my citizenship. 
They made me to release 

796
01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:16,240
citizenship for me. 
They made me understand that I 

797
01:31:16,240 --> 01:31:19,680
need to come back home and 
change to a Muslim before they 

798
01:31:19,680 --> 01:31:23,320
can release my citizenship. 
So one way or the other, I had 

799
01:31:23,320 --> 01:31:26,960
to use another citizenship, 
which is Illori West, where they

800
01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:32,080
use mixed name when Illori, 
Illori W use Muslim name when 

801
01:31:32,120 --> 01:31:35,120
Illori E use both Muslim and 
Christian. 

802
01:31:35,120 --> 01:31:38,520
So I did their citizenship. 
So and again, when you go, most 

803
01:31:38,520 --> 01:31:41,320
times I don't go. 
You're not always welcome as a 

804
01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:43,240
believer. 
They see your sieve. 

805
01:31:44,400 --> 01:31:46,200
Who are you? 
You are not welcome at all. 

806
01:31:46,200 --> 01:31:49,520
So in that in that kind of 
situation, what can you do as a 

807
01:31:49,520 --> 01:31:50,200
Christian? 
So. 

808
01:31:55,600 --> 01:31:57,360
Are you are you taking more 
questions? 

809
01:31:58,560 --> 01:32:00,360
From who? 
Some people are still raising 

810
01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:03,320
their hands up, some people are 
still indicating to ask 

811
01:32:03,320 --> 01:32:09,320
questions. 
Let's answer the five questions 

812
01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:13,920
we have on table before we allow
for other questions. 

813
01:32:14,520 --> 01:32:16,360
Now we have listened to the 
questions. 

814
01:32:18,160 --> 01:32:20,480
Some questions are directed to 
some of us. 

815
01:32:21,320 --> 01:32:29,080
So where do we start from #1? 
Praise the Lord for that. 

816
01:32:30,040 --> 01:32:36,360
The first question by my pastor 
Mummy, what that brother did for

817
01:32:36,360 --> 01:32:39,560
him. 
He's full of memories. 

818
01:32:40,520 --> 01:32:44,800
Truth be told, anywhere that 
situation should have been 

819
01:32:44,800 --> 01:32:47,040
prevented. 
We are talking, we, we. 

820
01:32:47,040 --> 01:32:52,560
Now the brother is travelling. 
The younger brother went to the 

821
01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:55,960
garage to remove clothes from 
his body. 

822
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:06,400
Whether he asked him to remove 
his clothes or they removed the 

823
01:33:06,400 --> 01:33:16,080
clothes, the truth is garage 
better not outside. 

824
01:33:25,920 --> 01:33:51,760
Number 2. 
Yes, solution number one. 

825
01:33:53,200 --> 01:34:03,040
In as much as prayers will heal 
his wound, that brother is not 

826
01:34:03,120 --> 01:34:08,280
healed and until he is healed, 
he won't relate to normal. 

827
01:34:08,680 --> 01:34:23,800
In fact, let me tell you 
something, the better than God 

828
01:34:23,800 --> 01:34:30,720
help us to settle. 
It is as bad as that. 

829
01:34:31,040 --> 01:34:34,200
But we can pray if mothers can 
pray. 

830
01:34:35,000 --> 01:34:37,000
Solution number one. 
Number two, you still have 

831
01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:39,080
another work to do with our 
brother. 

832
01:34:44,520 --> 01:34:52,480
But truth be told, if I talk to 
my interest, if we not be able 

833
01:34:52,480 --> 01:35:01,920
to express His pain. 
Have you ever come across people

834
01:35:02,360 --> 01:35:14,360
like that? 
So it will cost you to pay a 

835
01:35:14,360 --> 01:35:20,560
price of praying and getting 
close to him #3 solution. 

836
01:35:33,520 --> 01:35:37,200
So the brother himself should 
learn. 

837
01:35:37,280 --> 01:35:41,160
I don't know how to say it, 
Sherima. 

838
01:35:46,320 --> 01:35:54,680
Truth be told, because there is 
spirit woman, you will have a 

839
01:35:54,680 --> 01:36:01,400
God will tell you. 
The coast is clear, the only one

840
01:36:01,400 --> 01:36:10,760
is so tough but somebody held 
that little one in bed so bad 

841
01:36:10,920 --> 01:36:13,400
baby. 
So no my approval we have to 

842
01:36:13,400 --> 01:36:21,280
assure me no war I understand so
bring them together and the Lord

843
01:36:21,280 --> 01:36:24,960
we handle that in Jesus name. 
Please let me answer one more 

844
01:36:25,360 --> 01:36:30,040
and children that have different
mindsets is similar charity, 

845
01:36:30,040 --> 01:36:38,480
liberty separates, but we can 
pray love into existence. 

846
01:36:58,110 --> 01:37:04,030
That's first daughter. 
Is she a child of God? 

847
01:37:05,310 --> 01:37:07,950
She's a believer. 
Other siblings, are they 

848
01:37:07,950 --> 01:37:12,910
children of God too? 
All of them are born again, OK? 

849
01:37:14,310 --> 01:37:15,710
Actually, I was the one that 
asked her. 

850
01:37:17,040 --> 01:37:18,440
I was the one that owned the 
question. 

851
01:37:19,040 --> 01:37:22,720
The other children, they are not
believer, but they are just 

852
01:37:22,720 --> 01:37:24,360
Christian. 
They are just Christian 

853
01:37:24,840 --> 01:37:32,880
churchgoer, not a believer. 
The other ones they are, they 

854
01:37:32,880 --> 01:37:35,120
are not Christian or. 
They are Christian. 

855
01:37:35,160 --> 01:37:36,800
OK, OK, OK. 
They are churchgoers. 

856
01:37:37,320 --> 01:37:40,720
Yes. 
OK, OK, But the first daughter 

857
01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:45,680
is born again. 
There is nothing in life that 

858
01:37:45,680 --> 01:37:51,400
you cannot pray about. 
There is nothing. 

859
01:37:51,600 --> 01:37:55,040
I think I said it yesterday. 
Pray about everything. 

860
01:37:55,760 --> 01:37:58,320
I told us. 
Don't categorize it. 

861
01:37:58,360 --> 01:37:59,880
OK, this one I will pray about 
it. 

862
01:37:59,880 --> 01:38:03,440
This one we handle it myself. 
This one I will ask people for 

863
01:38:03,480 --> 01:38:06,160
to help me. 
If we are going to ask for help,

864
01:38:06,480 --> 01:38:11,680
you still pray about it. 
So number one thing is take this

865
01:38:11,720 --> 01:38:17,360
case to God and be sincere. 
I hope you did not contribute 

866
01:38:19,600 --> 01:38:22,800
because when the Daddy is by 
your side, I hope you didn't 

867
01:38:22,800 --> 01:38:28,200
contribute to the hatred or envy
or whatever that is now coming 

868
01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:33,400
from other siblings. 
So if you are sincere, are you 

869
01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:36,520
getting me? 
You take it up in prayer and 

870
01:38:36,560 --> 01:38:39,920
pray about it begin to commit 
their heart into God. 

871
01:38:39,920 --> 01:38:43,040
One after mentioned their name 
as you are praying that God. 

872
01:38:43,560 --> 01:38:48,640
I want you to step in into this 
case after the matter of pray 

873
01:38:48,640 --> 01:38:51,240
and you know you have prayed and
you have prayed through. 

874
01:38:52,480 --> 01:38:57,000
You will now start to speak to 
them one after the other in a 

875
01:38:57,040 --> 01:39:04,120
peaceful manner, not to justify 
yourself that you realize that 

876
01:39:04,120 --> 01:39:13,320
what Daddy did was wrong because
I think that was the problem of 

877
01:39:13,440 --> 01:39:19,640
between Jacob and Esau. 
The Bible says because of the 

878
01:39:19,640 --> 01:39:24,440
myth that Esau normally give the
Father. 

879
01:39:50,680 --> 01:40:22,680
Office. 
So you will now begin to after 

880
01:40:22,680 --> 01:40:38,840
prayer, 1 after the other, led 
by the Spirit of God. 

881
01:40:39,000 --> 01:40:50,320
So you need the only ghost to 
live in fact. 

882
01:40:55,400 --> 01:40:58,920
Listen to the Holy Spirit, let 
him lead you, let him guide you,

883
01:40:59,680 --> 01:41:03,800
who to call first, what and what
to say and tobacco. 

884
01:41:04,280 --> 01:41:09,720
Be sincere. 
Don't, don't, don't allow the 

885
01:41:09,920 --> 01:41:22,040
seats or anything. 
Be sincere and let God lead you 

886
01:41:22,080 --> 01:41:27,920
by all means if God is your 
heart that you are sincere and 

887
01:41:27,920 --> 01:41:39,520
you want to allow peace because 
without which no one shall sit 

888
01:41:39,520 --> 01:41:49,480
alone and holiness. 
So not hiding anything. 

889
01:41:50,520 --> 01:41:52,840
Are you getting me? 
And you will see how God will 

890
01:41:52,840 --> 01:42:05,320
step in into the matter, because
it will help you with back you 

891
01:42:06,080 --> 01:42:07,600
and it will make all things 
beautiful. 

892
01:42:08,600 --> 01:42:09,280
Are you OK? 
Sorry. 

893
01:42:11,000 --> 01:42:18,800
Pastor, Sorry Pastor missus, the
question that you asked because 

894
01:42:23,600 --> 01:42:27,560
now I won't play any role I see 
by SCDC what's what is the 

895
01:42:27,560 --> 01:42:36,120
mother's rule. 
Mommy won't share anything 

896
01:42:41,880 --> 01:42:49,840
because. 
Which 

897
01:43:07,280 --> 01:43:25,440
is very profound. 
And don't be sentimental about 

898
01:43:25,440 --> 01:43:28,440
it. 
Individual individual 

899
01:43:29,040 --> 01:43:48,400
differences. 
I. 

900
01:44:13,480 --> 01:44:25,760
Possible 
so. 

901
01:44:51,040 --> 01:45:07,440
1990 9. 
I. 

902
01:45:38,640 --> 01:45:41,040
Everything for me from that 
point, 

903
01:45:57,480 --> 01:46:16,200
I started begging. 
My sister-in-law had two kids. 

904
01:46:30,080 --> 01:46:49,920
And 
I played my role in Victoria 

905
01:46:49,920 --> 01:47:02,800
Island. 
Because. 

906
01:47:22,880 --> 01:47:40,760
Sorry genuinely you have to play
that role. 

907
01:47:42,880 --> 01:47:49,040
The Lord will help you in Jesus 
name. 

908
01:47:53,320 --> 01:48:01,640
Hallelujah, the next question. 
Yes, ma'am. 

909
01:48:03,120 --> 01:48:06,080
Yes. 
Peaceful domain is not mere 

910
01:48:06,560 --> 01:48:10,200
silence. 
Is not mere silence. 

911
01:48:12,040 --> 01:48:20,680
I put response here. 
We use it within context silence

912
01:48:21,000 --> 01:48:26,840
Timomi put put up has a context 
situation. 

913
01:48:27,240 --> 01:48:35,200
Timomi Dacke show you a ghost 
situation and he told the Insinu

914
01:48:37,840 --> 01:48:47,760
educated she was mature to to 
size up that person and let let 

915
01:48:47,760 --> 01:49:03,760
him let her go with her 
character. 

916
01:49:14,920 --> 01:49:20,640
On the attitude to my put up so 
contest is silenced. 

917
01:49:21,360 --> 01:49:30,480
Oh yeah, to Cynthia so so now 
you are in a marriage 

918
01:49:30,480 --> 01:49:41,320
relationship you and your 
husband what's in doing as in 

919
01:49:41,320 --> 01:49:44,800
the morning as a young jail 
Quatiahu a young soon a young 

920
01:49:44,800 --> 01:49:47,520
washing ship a young government 
on me. 

921
01:49:47,880 --> 01:49:53,920
But undoing then to allow peace.
Let me just be quiet. 

922
01:49:54,080 --> 01:49:55,040
To allow peace. 
Let me. 

923
01:49:55,160 --> 01:49:59,680
No, that's not correct. 
It's not LD in time. 

924
01:49:59,680 --> 01:50:02,560
Bomb me Omar. 
Omar backfire to buy, to buy 

925
01:50:02,560 --> 01:50:10,160
explode, any other idea? 
I talk about you. 

926
01:50:11,400 --> 01:50:19,440
So what we are now for the kind 
of peace we are talking about in

927
01:50:19,440 --> 01:50:26,280
that kind of situation is 
communication, communication, 

928
01:50:26,280 --> 01:50:33,080
effective communication and that
kind of communication will be 

929
01:50:33,080 --> 01:50:38,560
effective if you put certain 
things into consideration that 

930
01:50:39,120 --> 01:50:44,920
you don't approach it with 
fights, fire for fire, sodomy, 

931
01:50:45,520 --> 01:50:51,360
then you look for the right 
timing to communicate that issue

932
01:50:51,360 --> 01:50:54,080
to speak out your mind. 
Right. 

933
01:50:54,120 --> 01:50:59,880
Timing, right timing, very, very
important to our members to 

934
01:50:59,880 --> 01:51:23,720
repair Mansoro. 
You must speak, but time you're 

935
01:51:23,720 --> 01:51:30,320
speaking, then you must study 
your partner, time with your 

936
01:51:30,320 --> 01:51:36,320
Roman war lady, time study your 
wife, study your husband to know

937
01:51:36,520 --> 01:51:49,800
the time. 
The peaceful domain is not mere 

938
01:51:50,040 --> 01:51:54,640
silence. 
This will come when you 

939
01:51:54,640 --> 01:51:58,240
communicate, when you speak your
mind, and when you speak your 

940
01:51:58,240 --> 01:52:02,040
mind and communicate at the 
right, at the right time. 

941
01:52:02,320 --> 01:52:19,760
In fact, about communicate in 
fact only best to make you 

942
01:52:19,800 --> 01:52:24,480
happy. 
I am doing my best that I think.

943
01:52:24,520 --> 01:52:29,200
I think I'm showing love to the 
RCP of friends. 

944
01:52:29,920 --> 01:52:50,240
Wouldn't be happy. 
So communication matters a lot, 

945
01:52:50,440 --> 01:52:52,840
and effective communication at 
that matter. 

946
01:52:52,840 --> 01:53:02,840
God bless you. 
I'm sorry. 

947
01:53:10,680 --> 01:53:41,320
Can you imagine? 
So 

948
01:53:57,160 --> 01:53:59,600
everything about family is 
communication. 

949
01:54:00,320 --> 01:54:03,160
Everything is communication 
about communication here. 

950
01:54:03,360 --> 01:54:10,200
Any problem with you, let your 
words be sitting with salt. 

951
01:54:12,000 --> 01:54:20,600
Solution our responses because 
I've called goals. 

952
01:54:21,280 --> 01:54:25,040
Marriage is called goal. 
In fact, when they must score 

953
01:54:25,040 --> 01:54:39,800
any goal or join, they win. 
So for example this thing is not

954
01:54:39,800 --> 01:55:00,720
well placed. 
Because you don't want the thing

955
01:55:00,840 --> 01:55:11,520
to be placed on the table and 
win, but I want partners. 

956
01:55:18,760 --> 01:55:24,320
Praise the name of the Lord. 
Married men, raise your hands. 

957
01:55:25,840 --> 01:55:41,520
Married women, raise your hands.
Don't start once you cannot 

958
01:55:41,880 --> 01:55:52,160
finish influence by the way you 
consistently live. 

959
01:55:52,320 --> 01:56:09,760
The Lord will help us in Jesus 
name and question. 

960
01:56:14,720 --> 01:56:32,040
I have met Mensa as a matter of 
principle. 

961
01:56:38,520 --> 01:56:42,320
If I write, I mean later, six 
months, I read the right 

962
01:56:42,320 --> 01:56:51,320
situation. 
CFLS or or C don't let it just 

963
01:56:51,720 --> 01:57:03,800
go. 
But I know because you must talk

964
01:57:05,160 --> 01:57:19,880
about it, Director number 1, 
because sometimes. 

965
01:57:37,160 --> 01:57:45,560
Muslim comfort OK from the lady 
from Illori Question one year. 

966
01:57:45,720 --> 01:57:51,320
One year Answer a question one. 
You you, you have answered your 

967
01:57:51,480 --> 01:57:53,080
purpose. 
Maybe his mommy that will not 

968
01:57:53,080 --> 01:57:57,720
answer this one. 
I'm referring to the what mommy 

969
01:57:58,440 --> 01:58:03,320
shared yesterday when she was 
preaching what happened where 

970
01:58:03,320 --> 01:58:06,280
she stayed before with that 
their neighbor. 

971
01:58:07,480 --> 01:58:12,960
And I said I said what mommy did
by just carrying about and trade

972
01:58:12,960 --> 01:58:16,680
that the woman threw away. 
Is it a mere silence? 

973
01:58:17,480 --> 01:58:22,240
Silence because mommy did not 
just to allow to allow peace to 

974
01:58:22,240 --> 01:58:26,680
rain because something happened 
yesterday because of what mommy 

975
01:58:26,680 --> 01:58:30,520
shared with us yesterday. 
So something happened when we 

976
01:58:30,520 --> 01:58:37,480
are going home what can happen 
as I am on my on the 1st lane 

977
01:58:38,120 --> 01:58:43,480
maintain my lane and I'm going 
no any car at my front no any 

978
01:58:43,480 --> 01:58:48,080
car at my front. 
I just hear car at the side of 

979
01:58:48,080 --> 01:58:51,160
the my car. 
What happened? 

980
01:58:51,160 --> 01:58:56,920
I see that this Marwah he was 
trying to one one more park 

981
01:58:56,920 --> 01:59:00,320
where he's supposed to. 
So he now tried to maneuver and 

982
01:59:00,920 --> 01:59:03,760
pass the middle. 
So in the course of passing the 

983
01:59:03,760 --> 01:59:10,200
middle, he just touched my car 
so we could I couldn't wait 

984
01:59:10,480 --> 01:59:12,720
because I'm on the first day. 
I don't know, maybe there's any 

985
01:59:12,720 --> 01:59:15,840
car coming at my back so that it
did not cost another thing I was

986
01:59:15,840 --> 01:59:19,200
doing. 
So I sat on the man that why are

987
01:59:19,200 --> 01:59:21,680
you people driving like this? 
He said, are you not the one 

988
01:59:21,680 --> 01:59:23,800
that eats me? 
I say it's you, you are not at 

989
01:59:23,800 --> 01:59:34,320
my front. 
You touch my car I decide so he 

990
01:59:34,920 --> 01:59:36,840
enter his moral and he was 
going. 

991
01:59:37,160 --> 01:59:40,600
I was not sure that whenever he 
stopped to carry passenger. 

992
01:59:40,960 --> 01:59:43,920
I will stop and address him That
what you're supposed to say is 

993
01:59:44,160 --> 01:59:48,720
sorry Madam. 
Once you said sorry, I'm OK, but

994
01:59:48,720 --> 01:59:51,800
you are still trying to claim 
the right that I'm the one that 

995
01:59:51,920 --> 01:59:54,600
eat. 
Where did I eat you Are you at 

996
01:59:54,600 --> 01:59:56,560
my front? 
My car did not have any issue at

997
01:59:56,560 --> 02:00:00,040
the front is I decide that you 
touch my car. 

998
02:00:00,840 --> 02:00:03,840
So my children was now when I 
now meet the man thank God he 

999
02:00:03,840 --> 02:00:08,240
was going along our side and I 
later met him and I stopped him 

1000
02:00:08,400 --> 02:00:12,280
and I tried to explain in the 
cause of explaining my boss was 

1001
02:00:12,560 --> 02:00:16,920
raising I'm not abusing but my 
boss was raising that you see me

1002
02:00:16,920 --> 02:00:18,880
as a lady and you are trying to 
cheat me. 

1003
02:00:20,040 --> 02:00:22,840
And he was. 
Insisted that I'm the one I why 

1004
02:00:23,320 --> 02:00:26,040
did I thank so? 
My neighbor they were around 

1005
02:00:26,320 --> 02:00:29,240
just to call the story. 
Sod my son, I said. 

1006
02:00:29,520 --> 02:00:33,000
Mommy, you have shouted too 
much. 

1007
02:00:34,280 --> 02:00:37,080
Why do you not shout that? 
You know you see what mommy 

1008
02:00:37,080 --> 02:00:41,080
share with us in the church. 
That's the song. 

1009
02:00:41,400 --> 02:00:45,320
As soon I keep quiet and the 
thing will be painting me inside

1010
02:00:45,320 --> 02:00:48,440
that this man is cheating on me,
riding me. 

1011
02:00:49,960 --> 02:00:53,960
So I was trying to explain to 
him, but I want to ask mommy 

1012
02:00:53,960 --> 02:00:56,960
that. 
So what's mom that's neighbor 

1013
02:00:56,960 --> 02:00:59,920
teach to mommy? 
It's pain, mommy, but mommy 

1014
02:00:59,920 --> 02:01:03,240
wants peace to reign and to just
carry about inside. 

1015
02:01:03,240 --> 02:01:07,840
Is that a mere silence? 
That's what. 

1016
02:01:12,440 --> 02:01:16,800
Hallelujah. 
Different cases, but one 

1017
02:01:16,800 --> 02:01:22,560
principle. 
You will be faced with different

1018
02:01:23,120 --> 02:01:26,680
issues. 
One principle. 

1019
02:01:54,280 --> 02:02:03,120
For every other driver that they
are mad Amiko Musawani Rd. safe 

1020
02:02:03,120 --> 02:02:11,320
to lose saw see yourself as the 
only person that is seen on the 

1021
02:02:11,320 --> 02:02:14,400
road. 
The way you will handle issues 

1022
02:02:14,440 --> 02:02:17,120
on the road may be different 
from the way you will handle it 

1023
02:02:17,120 --> 02:02:22,600
from the neighborhood. 
I mean the way you handle that 

1024
02:02:22,600 --> 02:02:24,560
of the neighborhood will be 
different from the way you 

1025
02:02:24,560 --> 02:02:31,480
handle between your yourself and
your spouse and your children. 

1026
02:02:31,640 --> 02:02:46,040
But principal, 
you must be intentional about 

1027
02:02:46,040 --> 02:02:47,480
it. 
Now 

1028
02:03:03,720 --> 02:03:33,760
anything. 
So. 

1029
02:03:46,680 --> 02:04:15,720
Are you getting 
me SO? 

1030
02:04:46,360 --> 02:04:59,320
If 
it's. 

1031
02:05:37,040 --> 02:06:04,080
You know, so when they saw a 
lonely. 

1032
02:06:26,600 --> 02:07:06,720
I. 
20, 1000. 

1033
02:07:34,360 --> 02:08:01,760
So. 
What is the meaning of this? 

1034
02:08:16,160 --> 02:08:48,880
So. 
You continue. 

1035
02:08:59,760 --> 02:09:37,960
To. 15 years ago. 
A sweat. 

1036
02:09:58,160 --> 02:10:39,720
So. 
I want anyone 50, 1000, maybe 15

1037
02:10:40,080 --> 02:10:54,160
years ago. 
I'm sorry to say this in church.

1038
02:11:16,960 --> 02:11:20,520
Every child of God must get to 
that point of intentionality 

1039
02:11:20,760 --> 02:11:24,320
where you will now sit down and 
say this is how I want to live 

1040
02:11:24,320 --> 02:11:29,080
my life and how it is going to 
glorify God while there were my 

1041
02:11:29,080 --> 02:11:30,960
shirts. 
For God will help us in Jesus 

1042
02:11:31,000 --> 02:11:35,560
name, Amen. 
Praise the Lord, I want to react

1043
02:11:35,560 --> 02:11:41,240
to that Muslim sister. 
That Muslim sister, Yeah. 

1044
02:11:42,320 --> 02:11:48,640
You see, the truth of the matter
is what we have said in the 

1045
02:11:48,640 --> 02:11:52,600
whole of the lowering W. 
They don't take, they don't. 

1046
02:11:52,640 --> 02:11:56,960
They always say to us that they 
don't have Christians there. 

1047
02:11:57,520 --> 02:12:00,840
Actually, there are Christians 
there, but the truth is they 

1048
02:12:00,840 --> 02:12:04,720
fail to recognize them. 
This is how you will live. 

1049
02:12:06,040 --> 02:12:09,760
The Bible says when the way of a
man pleases the Lord, he will 

1050
02:12:09,760 --> 02:12:11,920
make his enemies to be at peace 
with him. 

1051
02:12:12,480 --> 02:12:17,120
Pray for their salvation. 
Live correctly at a point in 

1052
02:12:17,120 --> 02:12:21,040
time when you pray well. 
God will pave way and 

1053
02:12:21,040 --> 02:12:26,520
circumstances that we make them 
acknowledge the God that you 

1054
02:12:26,520 --> 02:12:29,960
serve. 
In fact, after a while they will

1055
02:12:29,960 --> 02:12:35,680
be telling you just to see 
calling your Muslim name talk by

1056
02:12:36,120 --> 02:12:40,080
that it is real. 
Do you understand so all you 

1057
02:12:40,080 --> 02:12:44,120
need to do is not to backslide, 
but to pray the more in fact, 

1058
02:12:44,240 --> 02:12:47,920
their hostility towards you 
should challenge you to become 

1059
02:12:47,920 --> 02:12:50,920
an intercessor. 
In fact, whatever they are doing

1060
02:12:50,920 --> 02:12:56,200
to you now, any of them that 
that is she's not this you note 

1061
02:12:56,200 --> 02:12:59,520
their name and keep playing. 
That is also so person must see 

1062
02:12:59,520 --> 02:13:02,880
the light that I have seen. 
I think you are more comfortable

1063
02:13:02,880 --> 02:13:04,680
with that. 
The Lord bless you more in 

1064
02:13:04,760 --> 02:13:08,120
Jesus. 
Please, are you a member of this

1065
02:13:08,240 --> 02:13:11,040
church? 
No, you are invited. 

1066
02:13:13,960 --> 02:13:22,670
You came from school. 
OK Not see. 

1067
02:13:22,910 --> 02:13:30,390
Oh, Claudia be wear one suit. 
Last suit. 

1068
02:13:40,010 --> 02:13:46,320
Sidewall Rd. 
OK, please, I will like you to 

1069
02:13:46,360 --> 02:13:48,600
see me. 
Not today, Abby. 

1070
02:13:49,640 --> 02:13:51,080
I will book an appointment with 
you. 

1071
02:13:51,080 --> 02:13:54,320
You see me today and I will now 
give you an appointment so that 

1072
02:13:54,320 --> 02:13:58,240
we can discuss or I take your 
WhatsApp number and then we'll 

1073
02:13:58,240 --> 02:14:01,640
discuss. 
Praise the Lord. 

1074
02:14:03,160 --> 02:14:11,360
I think we are OK for Daniel. 
Your question Your question I 

1075
02:14:11,360 --> 02:14:17,280
will note it, but go and post 
your question on the app see I 

1076
02:14:17,320 --> 02:14:20,960
want you to see Carly love your 
question is OK, am I down name 

1077
02:14:21,040 --> 02:14:27,360
on the 13th of June during Oasis
Youth Connect program, we have 

1078
02:14:27,360 --> 02:14:29,800
relationships of on the 13th you
know now. 

1079
02:14:30,360 --> 02:14:32,440
So what does it mean because you
call a ton of your question, 

1080
02:14:32,480 --> 02:14:34,640
see. 
So go and upload your question 

1081
02:14:35,120 --> 02:14:37,240
If you want to put your name, if
you want to put that as 

1082
02:14:38,160 --> 02:14:46,240
anonymous, anyone. 
So we handle your because so we 

1083
02:14:46,240 --> 02:14:49,760
handle that question in June by 
the grace of God, praise the 

1084
02:14:49,760 --> 02:15:06,200
Lord. 
The program is 4:00 PM tomorrow 

1085
02:15:06,200 --> 02:15:09,000
brothers and sisters, Mommy's 
and Daddy. 

1086
02:15:09,080 --> 02:15:11,560
Program continues tomorrow 4:00 
PM. 

1087
02:15:11,880 --> 02:15:16,000
God bless you in Jesus name. 
We want to appreciate our 

1088
02:15:16,440 --> 02:15:20,960
ministers, those God has used 
for us this evening. 

1089
02:15:21,400 --> 02:15:24,480
We are so grateful. 
We say thank you for coming, 

1090
02:15:24,960 --> 02:15:31,280
Thank you for using yourself. 
The love will reward you in the 

1091
02:15:31,280 --> 02:15:35,880
mighty name of Jesus, Eshay 
Ghani Adupe. 

1092
02:15:36,720 --> 02:15:44,160
God bless you in Jesus name. 
Who is his of Wisdom Bible 

1093
02:15:44,160 --> 02:15:47,680
Church, The Church of a distant 
Christian narration?