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We're continuing our series of 
sermons on the theme of, I'm a 

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church member what the Bible has
to say about belonging to the 

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body of Christ. 
It's based on this little book, 

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I'm a church member by Tom 
rainy. 

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And the, the ideas, the 
thoughts, the themes that he 

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has. 
They are so solid and rooted in 

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scripture. 
Joe, and I decided pastor Joe 

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didn't. 
I decided we were going to do 

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this as a sermon series. 
And so we continue with this. 

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And so this morning's sermon 
number three, and the title is, 

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It's not about my desires are 
preferences, and I'm not a mind 

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reader and I don't know what 
people's hearts and minds are 

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but few of you might just throw,
okay, I might as well leave 

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because that's what I came for. 
I don't think so, but the fact 

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of the matter is, when people 
look for a church, they look for

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very different things. 
There are people who come to a 

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church that's in there. 
Looking for a church to go skirt

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shopping. 
They look mainly, what's there 

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for my children? 
What does this church offer my 

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children? 
That's the core driving Factor 

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when they look for a church for 
other people. 

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It's what's the music? 
Like that's the core. 

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Driving fact, I don't like the 
music where I came from and it 

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was not good music and it was 
poorly done. 

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I don't like I'm going to church
where there's good music. 

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Music is important to me. 
For some, have somebody else? 

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It's the preaching. 
I want a church that has good 

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preaching. 
I want to church that has this 

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style of preaching, or that 
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less preaching or for others 
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It's I want to feel at home. 
I just want a place where I feel

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welcome people embrace me. 
Are these things wrong? 

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No, they're not, they're not 
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In fact they're good things. 
Most most times. 

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But what are they driven by? 
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And then there are some people 
who've moved away from one 

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Community to another Community, 
maybe for work or whatever. 

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And they just look for a church.
They want to call home. 

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That's it. 
And these things are not sin, 

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are not sin. 
They just are It's surface stuff

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preference based, but there's 
other things that we need to 

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touch on as well. 
Core beliefs practices Doctrine 

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and here, it gets more sensitive
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heavy. 
It's weighty What does this 

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church believed about God for 
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Hell, eternal life for some 
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These are very very big and they
should be and get their slanted 

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or they're tilted, they're not 
even be said that whatever. 

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And then the discussion becomes,
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what's true? 
And Truth should be a 

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preference, right? 
And here, we've become so very 

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different. 
We all know and we all believe 

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this that there are negotiables 
in church and non-negotiables 

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but we can't always decide on 
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It's non-negotiable and we don't
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into detail list every single 
negotiable and every 

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non-negotiable aspect of church.
We just don't have the time but 

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here's a few non-negotiable 
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Jesus is the son of God. 
It's truth. 

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It's really Reality, not some 
good profit, not some good 

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preacher. 
Not some good man. 

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He's Jesus is the son of God. 
Another truth is he died for 

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Sinners. 
He physically gave his life for 

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the sins of the world. 
He lay down his life for his 

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sheep. 
He says he rose from the dead, 

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is another one. 
He came out of the Tomb, he's 

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alive. 
He was seen by numerous people. 

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His ministry was attested to by 
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resurrection. 
Another one is a bit more fluid.

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We would say it's not but people
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This is supposed to love 
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Everybody everybody even my 
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Ever is a Christian allowed to 
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hatred. 
We as Believers say that and 

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another one is moral Integrity. 
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from a foundation of moral 
Integrity, first, honor, God and

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serve Humanity. 
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right? 
And wrong that are not 

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negotiable. 
Reality is not fluid and 

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changeable, according to a 
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to be. 
They're not multiple truths for 

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the same reality and this is 
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how we live life and it gets 
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agree. 
And then there are some very 

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simple basic things. 
Like, how many times a week, 

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should we meet? 
Is that negotiable or 

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non-negotiable? 
Doesn't matter. 

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I think it does but not the same
for everybody. 

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Should we should meet more often
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We should meet more than less. 
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Not prescribed what language 
should Church be hmm depending 

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where you go? 
What kind of song should we sing

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upbeat Lively or kind of slow, 
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The shorter, the better. 
We can just go on and on about 

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this. 
And our sermon this morning want

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to look at a few points to bring
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Point. 
Number one is this, our desires 

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and preferences must be servant.
Based servant focused. the first

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thing we must understand as 
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and more specifically members in
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purpose of serving This is huge 
when it comes to church, no one 

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should have the mindset. 
I will join this place. 

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I will join this group to see 
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For me, will read this passage 
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came to serve not to be served. 
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Something we must understand and
embrace and put into practice In

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scripture, we find a lot of 
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we're told not to deviate 
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Old Testament. 
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people of Israel to stay true to
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They had received and if they 
would deviate, they would suffer

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consequences later on. 
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numerous times. 
But to remember, to hold to the 

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teachings that we have been 
given and of course, not 

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everyone agrees on everything 
and it's not always clear black 

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and white. 
We know that but Nothing is 

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certain my preference cannot be 
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Your preference cannot be you 
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to church shopping, not with the
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What can I bring? 
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What will they do for me? 
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and these things may not in and 
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motive out of which they come 
are self-focused, We should come

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to church like Lord. 
What do you want me to bring? 

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What do you want me to offer? 
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You see folks selfish mindsets 
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You see some people go to church
shopping like to go vehicle 

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shopping has to have a certain 
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and the vehicle shopping. 
Like I want a high-end luxury 

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vehicle for low base model 
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that way too. 
Sometimes customer goes to 

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dealers lot and starts telling 
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What he wants to buy how much 
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starts at an impossible place 
and eventually they negotiate 

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themselves to a what they can 
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Well, I'll throw this and I'll 
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this up the price a bit, now we 
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If that's how we do Church 
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When it comes to where we go to 
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and why we go to church, and why
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has to be servant focused time 
Ray Turner's book puts it this 

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way? 
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motivation should not be to get 
my preferences to the top of the

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list. 
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supposed to be last, not first. 
I'm supposed to be a servant 

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instead of seeking to be served.
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we're Christians, we will not 
try to create a church or shop 

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for a church that will cater to 
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conformed to my image. 
Want to customise design Taylor.

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Make it just for me my 
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seriously ask ourselves this 
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As individual members, what are 
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We must remind ourselves. 
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We do not want to be self, 
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We want to be members, who look 
for ways to connect to serve and

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contribute. 
We want to be members looking to

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where we can add and what was 
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church where we can grow be 
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Point. 
Number two, is our desires and 

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preferences. 
Must be truthful. 

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Focused. 
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named Timothy, some 
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serve as a pastor of the Church 
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I was supposed to lead that 
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second letter to Timothy. 
Paul gets that letter gets quite

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fiery or quite hot. 
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seriousness of scripture and how
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the lines. 
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stay in stay focused on the 
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Destiny Tom Rainer and his book 
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done and he points out how in 
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the real focus of many churches 
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may be on a lot of things, but 
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Christ. 
I'll read some of these, they're

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not in your, in the paper. 
They hand out here, but I'll 

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read some of these. 
He talks about worship Wars, 

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fighting amongst themselves and 
are we should worship this very 

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know. 
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And having just this constant 
meetings about stuff that have 

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no Eternal value at all, and 
then the focus on facilities and

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how we how the facilities look 
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But is that main focus program 
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about events relationships, are 
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then the financial aspect of it 
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And how is it being being 
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And so on, then it extreme 
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I need to be taken care of. 
I want my pastor to take care of

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me. 
This entitlement Minds at all. 

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About my needs, my wants my 
desires and really very little 

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next to no concern about 
spreading the gospel at all, and

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then there's anger and 
hostility, they don't do it my 

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way and they did it wrong. 
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And I don't like it and just 
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apathy doesn't don't really 
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I know this sounds discouraging 
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It can just go to something 
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This is too bad and I'm not 
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it, but there's a real need to 
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On what is Jesus want me to be 
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What's he want me to do? 
Paul's teaching to Timothy in 

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his letter, Paul reminds him, 
that he should stay with, what 

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he learned. 
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with who was in Timothy, had 
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him. 
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Paul warned Timothy of hard 
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last days. 
Paul says, and people would not 

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care about anything except what 
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Just what they wanted, people 
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They would care about their 
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that would rule, that would be 
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would operate, No Matter What 
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We will shape and form this to 
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Let's begin reading, second 
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He says understand this in the 
last days, there will come times

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of difficulty for people. 
Will be lovers of self. 

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Lovers of money, proud, 
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Leading to their parents 
ungrateful. 

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Unholy verse 3, heartless and 
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Let's stop for a second. 
You can never please these 

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people. 
It's always about the next 

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It's always a moving target. 

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Continue reading slanderous 
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Not loving good treacherous. 
Reckless swollen with conceit 

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lovers of pleasure rather than 
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appearance of godliness. 
But denying its power avoid such

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people Paul says better to avoid
such people and when they become

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church members and sometimes 
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He does say they have an 
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not real continuing in verse 6. 
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those who creep into households 
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with sins and let us treat 
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Always learning and never able 
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truth. 
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have education letters behind 
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the truth. 
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By the way, men do this, too. 
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Paul writes, just as Janice and 
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men also opposed the truth. 
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disqualified regarding the 
faith, but they will not get 

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very far for their Folly will be
playing to all as as was that of

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these two men. 
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religiosity driven self-focused 
self, preference driven group of

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people always about them. 
Just look around at our culture.

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Look at social media. 
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high. 
Just look how people behave in 

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all areas of life, even in 
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It's one thing to see 
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whole another level to see in 
the church and people making 

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unreasonable demands on the 
church expecting. 

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They can have the desires of 
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grace will buy them, save them. 
I'm on my way to heaven. 

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That's false. 
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Even worse than everything. 
I've said so far when pastors 

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and Doris and cater to it, 
that's worse. 

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Our job as pastors is to comfort
the broken heal the wounded, 

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preach Grace and kindness and 
love and Generals and the same 

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time call to repentance rebuke. 
The Aryan called to turn back 

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the wavered. 
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find this alarming the number of
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can't change fast enough to keep
up with the ever shifting values

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of culture to accommodate and 
braise and validate and affirm, 

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every besotted sinful lifestyle,
that's out there, and I don't 

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need to go into detail to 
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This is a just come to our 
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We do things here to make you 
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As long as it's legal. 
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the appearance of godliness but 
denying its power avoid such 

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people Had a conversation with a
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He said this, he said when the 
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teaching in the whims and 
preferences desires of Pleasure 

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Seekers, the church is headed 
for trouble. 

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Our conversation. 
This was in essence, what he 

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said. 
Church members. 

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We need to be aware if you're a 
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aware the church exists to bring
glory to God, by living out, the

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Gospel of Jesus Christ in the 
community, in which it finds 

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itself. 
It's never about what can I get 

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out of it. 
Someone once said, what you get 

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them in with. 
You have to keep coming in, 

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increasing measure to keep them.
That's so true. 

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When self-pleasure self desires 
when they're the point of 

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reference. 
It's a sure sign troubles not 

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far away. 
And in the end there's 

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self-driven people and in the 
end they leave anyway because 

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you know what? 
Don't meet my needs. 

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I'm gone. 
Empty and lonely. 

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Sure they need help but they're 
looking in the wrong way, you 

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see? 
And this is why, and I can't say

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this emphatically. 
If this is why Paul focused on 

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nothing but the cross of Jesus 
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And second First Corinthians 
chapter 2 verse 1 and on, 

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because if a person comes to 
these under the cross that 

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person's and then self and all 
its preferences and it's 

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Cravings has crucified and that 
person is a keeper. 

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But if person joins the church 
under the promises of the 

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invitations of we're here to 
make you happy. 

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We're here to please you the old
1990s, Burger, King slogan, your

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way right away. 
If that's the aim, nothing good.

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Can come of it. 
It's a moving goal post and it 

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never stops moving. again the 
self-focus in verse 5 having the

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appearance of godliness, but 
denying its power avoid such 

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people I confess I love looking 
at new cars. 

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What the next new thing is that 
some automaker is producing. 

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I like to window shop online, 
then you have this button, you 

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go to build your own vehicle. 
I love building my own vehicle 

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online. 
Amazing. 

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What you can do, the features 
that are available. 

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I never go to the price or I'll 
never go further because I don't

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want to pay anything so I just 
exit. 

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But you know, that stuff does 
not work in God's Kingdom. 

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We can go window-shopping and 
what's available. 

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Now what new tools of the made? 
What kind of fashion or clothing

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is out there? 
It's not sent to look at that 

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stuff in the sense like, oh, 
they're making this new Gadget 

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or this new device, this new 
car, this new truck, that's 

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fine. 
But Christianity is not like 

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that. 
It's not something that changes 

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all the time. 
It is something continually 

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constant, the message of the 
cross We live in a culture in 

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time where everything is 
changeable to be modified 

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teaching an honesty Integrity 
conditional on the situation at 

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hand. 
People tell lies as easily as 

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talking about the weather 
claiming. 

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They're still Christians, 
immoral lifestyle practice 

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anything. 
You name, / Christians, Changes 

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easy as a set of clothes. 
Selfish personal preference and 

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desires are not the point of 
reference from which Jesus runs 

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this church. 
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that Jesus the head of his 
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The church is Jesus body. 
We're her to serve God by 

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shining as a light for his glory
being assault in our community. 

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If we continue on and and second
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points out to Timothy how heat 
Paul had lived his life and how 

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he wants Timothy to follow him. 
Let's read second Timothy 

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chapter 3, verse 10, you huh? 
However, have followed my 

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teaching, he's talking to 
Timothy, my conduct, my aim, in 

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my, in life, my faith, my 
patience, my love, my 

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steadfastness, my persecutions. 
And sufferings that happened to 

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me at Antioch at Iconium and at 
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I endured yet from them. 
All the Lord rescued me since 

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you Timothy, you know this, you 
followed me, you've been a 

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student and it had shape Timothy
where was self preference and 

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self desire. 
Even Factor in all of this. 

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One thing Timothy knew about 
watching. 

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Paul was, it's not about Paul 
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about God. 
It's about Jesus. 

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Let's read this passage again, 
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My teaching my conduct, my aim 
in life, my faith, my patience, 

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my love, my steadfastness, my 
persecutions, my sufferings. 

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Paul endured so much for the 
sake of the Gospel. 

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Never ever one time, do we find 
Paul trying to wiggle his way 

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around this? 
And although we'll just, we'll 

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just take a shortcut here or 
we'll just modify. 

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This will customize that? 
No. 

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Being a church member is a 
servant matter. 

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It's a truth matter. 
Let's do this is Paul's 

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physical, time-bound Earth 
material. 

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If he's only got one, he's 
giving it up for Christ. 

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Paul's Walk With Jesus had been 
difficult. 

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It had been challenging in real 
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In real place with real people 
that he had not tried to modify 

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and customize to make it easy 
for himself. 

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He endured so much. 
Notice verse 12 on to verse 12. 

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Paul writes, these words indeed.
He says all who desire to live a

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Godly life in Christ, Jesus will
be persecuted while evil people 

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and Impostors Will Go On from 
bad to worse deceiving and being

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deceived. 
See this preference and selfish 

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minded lifestyle there. 
He says in verse 14. 

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But as for you, continue in what
you've learned in a firmly, 

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believed knowing from whom you 
learned it. 

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If you join God's team, don't 
expect an easy ride on cruise 

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control. 
Don't expect it. 

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Paul had given Timothy, a solid 
start under some very good 

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leadership. 
Things Timothy had learned from 

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Paul were things, Paul wanted 
Timothy now to continue in. 

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At this point. 
Some people might think well if 

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that's church membership, count 
me out, you may not be a member 

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here, but if you're believe 
you're the part of the body of 

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Christ and still applies to you,
and you might feel well that's 

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just hardship and pain. 
You're partly correct for the 

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flesh. 
It is not just God has times of 

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rest, and renewal and 
rejuvenation for his Saints. 

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And there's times when the 
persecution eases and there's 

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times of rest and those kinds of
things. 

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But yes, the flesh has to go to 
the cross. 

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That means our desires, our 
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Go on it, too. 
The truth is, we will have peace

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in our hearts and souls and 
Minds. 

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If we follow Jesus, he says, in 
verse 14, let's look at that 

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again. 
But as for you, continue in what

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you've learned and firmly 
believe knowing who from whom 

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you learned it, it's not. 
Hey Timothy. 

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Hi, how would you like to lead? 
How would you like to serve what

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can we do for you? 
What kind of strategy you want 

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to use? 
No, it's not like that at all. 

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It's like the instruction manual
has been written. 

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The direction has been Yet, 
there's no negotiating on the 

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map. 
There's no negotiating. 

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The destiny and no negotiating, 
a message that's been fixed. 

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Verse 15 and on Paul writes and 
how from childhood you Timothy 

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have been acquainted with the 
sacred writings which are able 

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to make you wise for salvation 
through faith in Christ Jesus. 

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All scripture is breathed out by
God and profitable for teaching,

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for reproof, for correction, for
training in righteousness. 

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That the man of God, may be 
complete equipped for every good

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work. 
This kind of rules out every 

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selfish ambition doesn't it? 
The Bible warns us against those

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kinds of things, she scriptures,
not a list of suggestions and 

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preferences and desires which we
can shape and form to our own 

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craving, not some non-negotiable
ideas that we can work around 

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and so on. 
This passage was for Timothy 

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reminder to stay on track, not 
to deviate from what he'd been 

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taught. 
Let me interject here. 

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No, wherever do we find were to 
compromise on the truth. 

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Never truth is not a preference.
It's a reality. 

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We had to recognize to embrace 
and accept and live out. 

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We can adjust our lives to it 
but we can never customize it or

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tailor, make it to fit our 
desires and preferences. 

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Truth cannot be changed to fit 
us, we can change to fit it. 

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And yet, when it comes to truth,
this is exactly where our 

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culture has completely gone off 
the rails. 

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I have my truth. 
You have your truth. 

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They have their truth. 
We have our truth. 

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And when that happens only a 
matter of time in the whole 

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thing falls apart and as I said 
before, is there ever a time of 

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confusion? 
Well, that's now our culture's 

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become like a ship in the night 
adrift at Sea in the fog with no

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GPS. 
No Compass, no sense of 

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direction. 
Just drifting along I don't have

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time to into it but honestly, 
our culture is literally lost 

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What I find interesting is in, 
even in Jesus day, how the 

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people of this time, especially 
religious leaders, they messed 

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with him trying to get him to 
see, you know, what, how about 

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this? 
How about that? 

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At one point in time, the 
Pharisees came to Jesus and I 

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won't read the scriptures. 
Takes too long. 

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Matthew 19, and they had their 
own cultural preferences, their 

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own cultural mechanisms, how 
they work with this and that, 

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and one was the issue of 
marriage and hey, hey, Rabbi is 

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it is, it, is it okay? 
For a man to divorce his wife 

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for any never reason? 
It's Matthew, 19, Jesus, have 

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you not read? 
The one who created the made 

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them male and female. 
What did Jesus do? 

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He was God in human form, yet, 
he focused on scripture on the 

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written word. 
He was truthful focused, not 

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culturally, Focus, not 
preference, Focus, not 

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desirable. 
Well depends what you desire. 

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Well then why did Moses and so 
on and on it goes but sadly they

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had missed the mark and here's 
where it gets and it's I could 

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talk about whole slew of topics 
a whole slew of ideas. 

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And here's the problem us, 
Evangelical Pastors in many 

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cases, embrace it. 
Well, how do you feel about it? 

455
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,200
What would you like? 
No, if scripture is not guiding 

456
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:47,200
us than something shaky is. 
And this teaching, just we 

457
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,700
talked about false teachers some
time ago, the falls into that. 

458
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,700
Again, let me just a personal 
preference and desire driven. 

459
00:25:54,700 --> 00:25:58,100
Involvement is just a moving 
Target, never stops never ends. 

460
00:25:58,100 --> 00:26:01,000
Always shifts to tell moves to 
destruction. 

461
00:26:02,300 --> 00:26:05,100
So what is the way forward that 
leads to, right, living them? 

462
00:26:06,100 --> 00:26:08,900
We must stand on the word of God
and we must go to the Cross. 

463
00:26:08,900 --> 00:26:11,500
We must surrender our life to 
Jesus. 

464
00:26:11,500 --> 00:26:13,900
This includes our desires and 
our preferences. 

465
00:26:15,500 --> 00:26:17,200
And before we look to the other 
while you should change, you 

466
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:18,800
should change. 
Let's look at ourselves. 

467
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,700
How selfish am I? 
How desired driven am I? 

468
00:26:23,100 --> 00:26:26,100
And if you and I surrender to 
Jesus, if we get right with God 

469
00:26:26,700 --> 00:26:29,500
that will not make the culture 
go away, it'll still be there 

470
00:26:29,500 --> 00:26:31,400
but will put us into 
relationship with God and give 

471
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,200
us Direction, destiny. 
It'll give us peace and 

472
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,500
something solid to live by and 
will be a light in the dark and 

473
00:26:37,500 --> 00:26:42,800
faltering world. 
Last Sunday, I ask this 

474
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,900
question, I'll ask it again. 
If everyone would do, is you do 

475
00:26:45,900 --> 00:26:49,700
how would the church be? 
What kind of member am I are you

476
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,700
years ago? 
And I were new in pastoral 

477
00:26:52,700 --> 00:26:56,400
Ministry and there was a couple 
that came to our church. 

478
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,900
They had left a particular 
church and they could no longer 

479
00:26:58,900 --> 00:27:01,500
attend for various reasons and 
it was maybe valid. 

480
00:27:01,500 --> 00:27:05,000
I didn't dig into it too deeply,
but it was very confusing after 

481
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,000
a little while. 
You see. 

482
00:27:07,300 --> 00:27:09,600
They all of a sudden were 
starting to push us to become 

483
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,900
what they had left because it 
was comfortable. 

484
00:27:12,100 --> 00:27:13,900
It was predictable. 
They were used to that but they 

485
00:27:13,908 --> 00:27:16,300
don't like it the way it was 
done, but if you do that thing 

486
00:27:16,300 --> 00:27:18,700
here in our church that would 
work, maybe let's let's change 

487
00:27:18,700 --> 00:27:22,200
this to that so that we can have
at least something that's we're 

488
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,300
familiar with. 
We didn't do that and they moved

489
00:27:25,300 --> 00:27:27,800
on and went elsewhere and I 
don't know where they are today 

490
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:32,100
or anything like that, but it 
was sad to see because Their 

491
00:27:32,100 --> 00:27:34,800
hearts and Minds were yes, we it
doesn't work here, but maybe if 

492
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,400
we go to a different church and 
change that church into this, 

493
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,400
then maybe it'll work again. 
It was all about desire and 

494
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:41,800
preference. 
It was not too much that was 

495
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:46,200
evil as it was totally selfish. 
These desires that they had were

496
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:50,500
important to them. 
But they were culturally based 

497
00:27:50,500 --> 00:27:54,900
and legalistically based and 
basically, hey, we come here and

498
00:27:54,900 --> 00:27:57,900
we want you to become what we 
were and are. 

499
00:27:57,900 --> 00:28:00,700
And so on. 
I remember years ago as a public

500
00:28:00,700 --> 00:28:03,200
event, there was a speaker 
talking about how people move to

501
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,500
Canada their people immigrate to
Canada from different countries.

502
00:28:05,700 --> 00:28:07,100
They want a better life than 
want freedom. 

503
00:28:07,100 --> 00:28:10,800
They want success what Canada 
offers is it but the strange 

504
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,000
thing is then a lot of these 
immigrants that come here and 

505
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,200
they want to change this into 
what they just left, which 

506
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,100
wasn't working, but hopefully we
can Implement that here. 

507
00:28:17,100 --> 00:28:19,800
Hopefully work here is that 
Doesn't work. 

508
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,200
You see the greater the self 
preference factor is the 

509
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,600
greater. 
The self desire factor is the 

510
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,800
harder it is for person to 
change at all. 

511
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:36,900
In any meaningful way. 
This is true everywhere and 

512
00:28:36,900 --> 00:28:39,900
especially in church membership 
in an art. 

513
00:28:40,300 --> 00:28:43,700
And what's strange is our time 
attending church is considered a

514
00:28:43,700 --> 00:28:45,600
right since. 
When is it a right? 

515
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,300
And you have to make me happy 
and if you don't, you're not a 

516
00:28:49,308 --> 00:28:53,600
good church, here's the truth. 
If my desires and my preference 

517
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,400
are not based on the word of God
service to Jesus Christ and if 

518
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,200
they're my desires, my professor
more important than getting 

519
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,700
right with God than 
fellowshipping with Jesus 

520
00:29:02,700 --> 00:29:04,700
Christ. 
Then I need to repent. 

521
00:29:08,900 --> 00:29:11,400
There's many stories as I said 
before and I won't have time to 

522
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,000
go into them. 
But let me tell one story 

523
00:29:13,700 --> 00:29:16,500
Genesis chapter 13 and 19 I have
I won't read the scriptures. 

524
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,500
The Bible tells how Abraham and 
lot live close together. 

525
00:29:19,500 --> 00:29:23,300
God richly bless these two men 
Abraham and nephew lot and 

526
00:29:23,700 --> 00:29:26,800
eventually get the herds got so 
big to have to separate each go 

527
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,100
their own way because just there
were two too many animals to 

528
00:29:30,100 --> 00:29:32,600
feed in one. 
Local area, Abrams says about, 

529
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,400
you choose where you want to go,
and I'll go the other direction.

530
00:29:34,500 --> 00:29:37,700
Lock chose from self. 
The land near the city of Sodom 

531
00:29:37,700 --> 00:29:41,400
and Gomorrah and the Bible says 
it was a beautiful place, Lush 

532
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:47,400
grass green and city of Sodom 
Gomorrah have a very evil lot. 

533
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:52,400
Followed his preferences lot, 
followed his desires, And in 

534
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,900
math and Genesis 19 have the 
story, what happened? 

535
00:29:54,900 --> 00:30:00,400
He lost everything his desires 
and preferences were his ruin. 

536
00:30:01,900 --> 00:30:06,100
How many people do that today? 
And I could go expand. 

537
00:30:06,900 --> 00:30:10,100
And that is why we must be so 
careful when we become a member 

538
00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:12,000
of the church. 
Why am I joining? 

539
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:17,500
Why am I joining He's had a lot 
to say about people put 

540
00:30:17,500 --> 00:30:21,200
themselves first and others. 
Last The last point I want to 

541
00:30:21,208 --> 00:30:23,400
make is our desire. 
And some preferences must be 

542
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:28,600
self-denial focused. 
Am I a person who always has to 

543
00:30:28,608 --> 00:30:31,400
have it about me my way or the 
highway? 

544
00:30:31,700 --> 00:30:35,500
It's my preference. 
It, I'm not comfort with that, 

545
00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:38,800
so I'm not going to do it. 
If it's biblically-based, we 

546
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,500
must serve. 
Jesus disciples were plagued 

547
00:30:42,500 --> 00:30:45,700
with selfish motives and then 
Route 9, verse 46 to 48. 

548
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,300
This little passage here, 
there's an argument Rose among 

549
00:30:48,300 --> 00:30:50,400
them as to, which of them was 
the greatest but Jesus knowing 

550
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,800
the reasoning of their hearts 
took a child and put him beside 

551
00:30:52,900 --> 00:30:56,200
by aside and said to them, 
whoever receives this child in 

552
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,700
my name, receives me and whoever
receives me receives him who 

553
00:30:58,708 --> 00:31:03,900
sent me for, he who is least 
among you as the greatest Jesus.

554
00:31:03,900 --> 00:31:06,300
You want to know the definition 
of greatness forget about 

555
00:31:06,300 --> 00:31:09,000
yourself, it doesn't mean that 
you think nothing of yourself. 

556
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:13,300
It just means don't put yourself
at the top and these disciples 

557
00:31:13,300 --> 00:31:14,500
they were bickering amongst 
themselves. 

558
00:31:14,500 --> 00:31:18,100
Who's the who's the top guy? 
There was Pride involved, they 

559
00:31:18,100 --> 00:31:20,600
were human. 
We're human, they needed to 

560
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,900
repent. 
Maybe we do too, but let's let 

561
00:31:23,900 --> 00:31:27,400
this sink in in God's eyes. 
Who is the greatest person? 

562
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,800
The greatest person is the one 
who at the end of the day. 

563
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,600
It's forgotten about themselves 
and just just focus on serving 

564
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,800
your fellow neighbor. 
Tom returned his book rights. 

565
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,600
No quote this again. 
He says so if we approach church

566
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,600
membership from the perspective 
of entitlement, we have it 

567
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:47,000
upside down. 
You always ask first, what you 

568
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:48,900
doing, you what you can do for 
your church, then you would have

569
00:31:48,900 --> 00:31:52,300
discovered the joy of being 
last. 

570
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,800
And if this is something that 
doesn't taste good, there's 

571
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,100
something wrong with our taste 
buds. 

572
00:32:03,300 --> 00:32:07,400
Jesus himself said, Mark 10:45 
for even the son of man came not

573
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,800
to be served but to not to be 
served but to serve and give his

574
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:14,700
life as a ransom for many nobody
ever served more than he did. 

575
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,700
There were people early on in 
Jesus day on Earth are they? 

576
00:32:19,700 --> 00:32:21,300
Oh here's the Messiah. 
He's gonna he's gonna he's gonna

577
00:32:21,300 --> 00:32:23,700
make the economy great. 
He's going to set the Romans 

578
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:24,800
straight. 
He's going to kick them out of 

579
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,400
our land. 
We're going to be the place we 

580
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,700
were when King David was King 
and Israel. 

581
00:32:28,700 --> 00:32:31,400
Maybe he's going to restore 
everything and they have this 

582
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,600
idea and Jesus said, no, it's 
not what it's about. 

583
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,000
They need more Enlightenment and
the book of Acts chapter 2, we 

584
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,200
find it, we won't go into that 
this morning. 

585
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,200
And today, we know the Church of
Jesus spread in so many 

586
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,300
countries in the world and it's 
not stopping, and it may not 

587
00:32:47,300 --> 00:32:50,700
look exactly the same, but 
there's one core Central truth. 

588
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,100
Jesus is Lord. 
We are his servants. 

589
00:32:53,100 --> 00:32:56,900
The gospel is spreading. 
So are you a member of the body 

590
00:32:56,900 --> 00:32:59,100
of Christ? 
Are you a member of the church 

591
00:32:59,100 --> 00:33:01,400
locally? 
Are you a follower of Jesus? 

592
00:33:02,900 --> 00:33:06,200
How well are you embracing it? 
How well are you serving? 

593
00:33:08,900 --> 00:33:11,500
Let's ask ourselves. 
What kind of numbers are we? 

594
00:33:12,100 --> 00:33:16,100
Are we sell focused, self 
desired driven, our Wee Ones who

595
00:33:16,100 --> 00:33:18,600
say, you know, your if this is 
glorifying to Jesus, I'm going 

596
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:20,300
with it. 
If this is honoring God, I'm 

597
00:33:20,300 --> 00:33:21,600
with it. 
If this lifts up the name of 

598
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,300
Christ, I'm with it. 
Oh no, I want it my way. 

599
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,500
I feel better this way. 
May God help us. 

600
00:33:28,300 --> 00:33:32,300
To be members of his body, who 
in healthy ways, add to the 

601
00:33:32,300 --> 00:33:35,800
value of the body and living 
lives of helping one, another 

602
00:33:35,900 --> 00:33:40,300
living and truth and Grace and 
denying ourselves for the sake 

603
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:43,300
of others. 
Let's pray. 

604
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,700
Lord, we know you're the Creator
and sustainer of the universe. 

605
00:33:48,700 --> 00:33:50,800
We are your creation created for
Glory. 

606
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,900
Help us Lord Jesus in our lives 
to reflect your glory. 

607
00:33:54,900 --> 00:33:59,300
Back to you, help us to do it in
a way that the models what you 

608
00:33:59,300 --> 00:34:00,700
did. 
When you walk this Earth, help 

609
00:34:00,700 --> 00:34:03,300
us to love one. 
Another truly, maybe be 

610
00:34:03,300 --> 00:34:05,800
attentive and careful not to 
follow the world to trap us and 

611
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,500
cause us to stumble. 
If there are people here, Lord, 

612
00:34:08,500 --> 00:34:10,199
have not yet. 
Made that commitment. 

613
00:34:10,300 --> 00:34:12,199
Not just come to you and faith. 
We pray that they will 

614
00:34:13,300 --> 00:34:15,600
experience this. 
Grace, they will sense you 

615
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,100
drawing them and they will 
repent and they will return to 

616
00:34:18,100 --> 00:34:20,900
you and experience New Life, 
Jesus name we pray. 

617
00:34:21,300 --> 00:34:21,600
Amen.
