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Well, good morning. 
Please open your Bibles to 

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Matthew chapter 5. 
I'll be starting at verse 38 and

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going to the end of the chapter.
We're continuing the sermon 

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series through the Sermon on the
Mount. 

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It's a powerful message given by
Jesus to the people of that day,

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including his disciples. 
And as we have seen read so far 

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from what we call the Sermon on 
the Mount, it was an 

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authoritative and it was a bold 
message. 

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It would have shocked the people
that heard it when Jesus spoke, 

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and it shocks people still 
today. 

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And although we don't have the 
privilege of audibly hearing 

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Jesus teach his message, we have
a written account of what he 

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said. 
The message is a call to a 

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higher standard, a practical 
handbook, if you will, for 

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Christian living. 
He juxtaposes the laws that were

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given in what we now call the 
Old Testament, and he builds on 

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them. 
He expands them not to abolish 

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the laws, but to show the intent
behind the laws and ultimately 

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to fulfill the laws. 
And the passage that we will 

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read today is no different. 
From a quick glance, it seems 

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wrong. 
It seems theoretical, or in 

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other words, it seems impossible
to follow. 

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But what I love about the 
Scripture is, unlike my too 

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frequent tendency to soften the 
edges, the Scripture speaks 

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plainly. 
And so with that, let's read 

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Matthew 538 to 48. 
You have heard that it was said 

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an eye for an eye and a tooth 
for a tooth. 

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But I say to you, do not resist 
the one who is evil. 

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But if anyone slaps you on the 
right cheek, turn to him, the 

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other also. 
And if anyone would sue you and 

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take your tunic, let him have 
your cloak as well. 

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And if anyone forces you to go 
one mile, go with him 2 miles. 

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Give to the one who begs from 
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who would borrow from you. 
You have heard that it was said,

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You shall love your neighbor and
hate your enemy. 

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But I say to you, love your 
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persecute you, so that you may 
be sons of your Father who is in

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heaven. 
For he makes the sunrise on the 

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evil and on the good, and sends 
rain on the just and on the 

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unjust. 
For if you love those who love 

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you, what reward do you have? 
Do not even the tax collectors 

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do the same? 
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brothers, what more are you 
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Do not even the Gentiles do the 
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You therefore must be perfect as
your heavenly Father is perfect.

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Before we continue, let's pray. 
Heavenly Father, you are 

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perfect. 
Your word is a lamp for our 

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feet. 
It lights the path that we're to

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follow. 
And I pray as we continue to 

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look into your word today, You 
give us understanding to rightly

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handle the word of truth. 
Lord, may your name be glorified

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by the preaching of this text. 
Amen. 

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What is the most selfless thing 
that you have ever done? 

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Perhaps you let someone cut in 
line during busy traffic. 

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Maybe you've paid for someone's 
groceries when they couldn't 

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afford it. 
Or maybe you went as far as to 

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give your own blood to someone 
that needed it. 

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Those things are good, but over 
the last two years I've had a 

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front row seat to I think is the
most selfless thing a person can

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do. 
I'm talking about being a 

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mother. 
Over the last two years, I've 

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seen my wife go through 
pregnancy, birthing and 

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nurturing our little boy. 
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pregnancy, the woman can already
start to feel sick. 

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They then proceed to carry the 
baby for nine months, being 

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careful about what they do so as
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When the delivery day finally 
comes, they go through intense 

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emotions and physical pain as 
they bring this baby into the 

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world. 
And instead of resting and 

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having a peaceful recovery, they
immediately go into caretaker 

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mode as they feed and support 
this new baby that is literally 

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depending on them for its very 
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And it doesn't stop there. 
Mothers continue to sacrifice 

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their time, their energy, and 
their own body for this baby. 

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They give up their sleep, their 
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so that the baby will be well 
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And as the baby continues to 
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the mother does not go away. 
They continue to sacrifice 

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themselves for the needs of 
their children, with no promise 

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of their work being compensated 
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Whether you're a mother, you're 
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good mother, this probably isn't
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Among the many words you could 
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specifically a good mother, I 
think selfless would be fitting.

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And of course, I think most 
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that the positives outweigh all 
the negatives and that putting 

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away their own desires would be 
worth it when it comes to 

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raising a child. 
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how often do we feel like it's 
worth it to let go of our 

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selfish desires? 
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ourselves, our selfish desires 
often override our Christian 

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duties, sometimes intentionally 
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Our actions show that we want 
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how we want it, and where we 
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We don't want to sacrifice, and 
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far as it benefits us, we want 
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But as we look further into this
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Jesus teaching is in contrast to
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to. 
We'll see that because God is 

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just, we should let go of our 
selfish desires. 

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Not all our desires are 
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We can have desires to do good 
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our desires come from selfish 
motivations, desires that have 

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something in it for us, even if 
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superiority. 
So what are some of the selfish 

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desires that we need to let go 
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We need to let go of our desire 
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and our desire to be passive. 
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the most socially acceptable 
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If someone wrongs you, no one 
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seek retribution. 
And therefore it's often easy to

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sweep it under the rug with 
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coming or what goes around comes
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The idea of karma gets thrown in
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need for deeper thought or 
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And so why should we let go of 
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Well, most importantly, because 
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In Exodus 3235, God says 
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God commands the Israelites to 
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rather to wait on the Lord. 
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where he sees fit. 
Paul reiterates this in his 

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letter to the church in Rome 
saying, Beloved, never avenge 

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yourselves, but leave it to the 
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vengeance is mine, I will repay,
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we weaken our testimony as 
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Paul writes To walk by the 
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the desires of the flesh. 
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that the desires of the flesh 
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versa, and that those who belong
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crucified have crucified the 
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desires. 
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Christ, that is, if we have put 
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should keep in step with the 
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Spirit. 
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Lovejoy, peace, patience, 
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faithfulness, gentleness and 
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When you take revenge into your 
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self-control. 
Going back to our passage verses

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38 and 39. 
You have heard that it was said 

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an eye for an eye and a tooth 
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But I say to you, do not resist 
the one who is evil, but if 

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anyone slaps you on the right 
cheek, turn to him the other 

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also. 
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laws of Moses that were put in 
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retribution to the offended, but
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revenge from being taken by the 
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The laws were given to the 
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proper amount of restitution was
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This would protect all parties 
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needless bloodshed. 
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to justify violence, but to give
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But here Jesus, like he's done 
with so many other laws, he 

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doesn't remove them, rather he 
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The idea of turning the other 
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show humility and that you do 
possess self-control and that 

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culture. 
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was an insult to the receiver. 
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right-handed and so to be hit on
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backhanded slap. 
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blow, but rather a gesture of 
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Jesus is saying not to retaliate
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or evil, but rather to be 
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When you take revenge into your 
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It it also shows a lack of 
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Let's look at verses 40 to 41. 
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take your tunic, let him have 
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Here we get the phrase going the
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No doubt you've heard this one 
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It's a common saying among 
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alike. 
The meaning of this verse, and 

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really the meaning of the 
greater passage, is to sacrifice

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your own time and desires to 
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In those days, the Roman law was
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the Jew would have to take the 
soldiers pack and carry it for a

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mile. 
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imagine, the Jewish people 
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Roman soldiers because of this. 
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But again, Jesus raises the bar 
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He doesn't say go a mile and 
berate them the whole time about

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how evil they are. 
And for the Roman soldiers, this

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would have been a surprise for 
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They would have been aware that 
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them. 
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extra work, extra hard work, 
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So much so that I'm sure the 
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doing this? 
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Later in this book in Chapter 7,
Jesus says you will know them by

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their fruit, meaning that you'll
be able to tell true believers 

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from false ones by their 
actions, by possessing and 

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showing the fruit of the Spirit 
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Rather, it gives you the ability
to share Jesus when you go the 

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extra mile and it confuses the 
person and they ask why are you 

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doing this? 
That is the perfect opening, the

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perfect opportunity to share 
Jesus. 

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Who Jesus is and what he taught 
you switched the roles from 

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being the victim to being in a 
place of power to share the 

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gospel. 
And back to verse 42, Jesus says

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give to the one who begs from 
you and do not refuse the one 

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who would borrow from you. 
When you take revenge into your 

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own hands, it shows a lack of 
kindness. 

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Besides not getting revenge when
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it's tough not to get revenge 
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I don't think this verse is 
saying that as a Christian 

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you're not required to give all 
your money away, or that as 

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Christians we can't have 
possessions. 

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Psalm 1717 to 18 says a friend 
is always loyal and a brother is

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born to help in a time of need. 
But then in the next verse it 

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says it's poor judgement to 
guarantee another person's debt 

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or to put up security for a 
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There's a contrast there. 
As Christians, as fellow 

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brothers and sisters in Christ, 
we should be willing to help, 

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but in the same vein, be 
discerning about what kind of 

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help is actually needed. 
Simply giving money often does 

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less good than giving time and 
attention to address the real 

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problem. 
But the overarching theme here 

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is to be kind, to go out of your
way to help someone else, to not

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be greedy with what God has 
given you, but to hold it with 

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an open hand and to be willing 
to use it to help others again. 

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By doing so, you can be an 
effective witness for Christ and

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share your love for Jesus. 
In Genesis 37, we're given the 

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account of Joseph at the age of 
17. 

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Joseph's brothers, who are 
jealous of him, attempted to 

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kill Joseph by throwing him into
a deep pit. 

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But when a group of traders came
by, they thought to themselves, 

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why kill Joseph when we can get 
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So they pulled him back up and 
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own profit. 
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and being sold to the captain of
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Joseph, being a man of 
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gets put in charge of the guard 
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He then gets wrongfully accused,
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rises the ranks in prison, 
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becomes second in command in all
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comes, Joseph's brothers come to
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Joseph recognizes his brothers, 
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the same brothers that tried to 
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slavery are now at his mercy. 
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kindness to them, but giving 
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Egypt to live and to raise their
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Joseph displayed what Jesus 
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He let go of his desire for 

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revenge and instead he left it 
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weakness. 
When Joseph's brothers apologize

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in fear of Joseph, he tells 
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against me, but God meant it for
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people should be kept alive as 
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It does not condone or endorse 
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is in control of all things. 
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Do we jump to retaliate and so 
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offenders level? 
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worked at at that's constantly 
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making you do work that no one 
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For those of you in school, 
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on you that bullies you or that 
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Whatever the case is, we aren't 
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the situation. 
Don't seek revenge in your 

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suffering and don't waste your 
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If you're going to suffer, it 
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of Christ. 
Walk in the Spirit and live out 

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the fruit of the Spirit. 
Be self controlled, be patient 

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and show kindness wherever you 
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What people mean for evil, God 
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Use those moments to show to 
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and tell them about the hope 
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You may think then, well, I 
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won't show my anger physically, 
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Hate is equally wrong in the 
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everyone who is angry with his 
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Jesus is just concerned about 
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heart as he is about your 
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Speaking to the Pharisees in 
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you scribes and Pharisees, 
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For you are like a whitewashed 
tombs, which outwardly appear 

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beautiful, but within are full 
of dead people's bones and all 

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uncleanliness. 
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you are full of hypocrisy and 
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Jesus harshly rebuked the 
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appearance of righteousness 
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hate. 
Jesus knew their hearts and He 

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knows ours as well. 
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let go of our desire for hate, 
and instead we're called to love

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our enemies, to love our enemies
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them as equals, and by giving 
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Let's go back to the passage, 
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Jesus speaking, you have heard 
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your neighbor and hate your 
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But I say to you, love your 
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persecute you, so that you may 
be sons of your Father who is in

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heaven. 
Jesus is saying to not only love

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your enemies, but pray for them.
It seems to be the climax of the

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sermon. 
Jesus has referenced many old 

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laws and He calls for the higher
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the greatest. 
Loving your enemies, praying for

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them. 
How many world leaders can you 

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think of that have told their 
constituents to pray for their 

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enemies? 
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it puts you in the correct heart
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In Proverbs 16, it says violent 
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leading them down a harmful 
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With narrowed eyes, people plot 
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With a smirk, they plan their 
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Pausing to pray for our enemies 
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by anger and helps us remove the
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Jesus says to love and pray for 
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sons of your Father who is in 
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It points to sacrifice himself 
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God. 
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enemies by treating them as 
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The last part of verse 45 says 
For he makes the his sunrise on 

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the evil and on the good, and 
sends rain on the just and on 

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the unjust. 
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commentary, he points out that 
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blessings from God. 
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the sun or the rain? 
Yet God in all his goodness 

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allows both to fall on the 
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alike. 
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mercy of God. 
If we were in control of the sun

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and the rain, would we be 
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unjust? 
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slandered the name of God, that 
mock in the ridicule His the 

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idea of His existence, do so in 
the loving outpour of the sun in

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the rain and air to breathe from
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James 117 says every good and 
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coming down from the Father of 
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variation or shadow due to 
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It is ironic that those that 
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so because of God. 
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why does God allow evil? 
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topic, I love Frank Turk's 
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He quoting Turk, he says God 
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free choice and that's the only 
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In other words, he doesn't force
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He reveals himself and who he 
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He draws and He calls, and it is
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treating our enemies as equals 
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created in the image of God. 
It removes any potential for 

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pride or for boasting. 
It allows us to see fellow men 

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and women like God sees us 
sinners in need of a Saviour. 

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And then lastly, to let go of 
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We should love our enemies by 
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Verses 46 to 47 For if you love 
those who love you, what reward 

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do you have? 
Do not even the tax collectors 

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do the same? 
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brothers, what more are you 
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Do not even the Gentiles do the 
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Jesus wraps up this idea of 
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how Christians are to act versus
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Jesus saying that if you only do
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love those that love you, if you
only greet those that greet you,

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if you only give to the ones 
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any different? 
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different, not to conform to the
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transformed by the renewal of 
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CS Lewis touches on this subject
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He writes by having great many 
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I do not prove that I have a 
wide appreciation of human 

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excellence. 
You might as well say I proved 

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the width of my literary taste 
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books in my own study. 
The answer is the same in both 

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cases. 
You chose those books, you chose

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those friends. 
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The truly wide taste in humanity
will find something to 

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appreciate in the cross section 
of humanity whom one has to meet

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every day. 
CS Lewis has a large vocabulary 

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and I had to read that. 
Reread that quote like 5 times 

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before it made sense to me. 
But Simply put, how are you 

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treating the people that you 
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life? 
The waitress at the restaurant. 

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The janitor at your workplace, 
the people you pass by in the 

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grocery store, how you love and 
greet those everyday people that

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you don't choose to have in your
life will tell you a lot more 

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about yourself than those that 
you, that are close to you and 

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that you do choose to have in 
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A few weeks ago, I was sitting 
in the in the waiting room as my

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wife was getting ready for her 
ultrasound. 

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And ironically, I was reading 
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And they're sitting next to me 
were what seemed to be two very 

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pleasant elderly ladies. 
And sitting next to them, I 

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could hear their conversation 
well as they went on about the 

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state of the nation, the economy
and all the rest of the stuff 

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that goes along with those 
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And it wasn't until they 
mentioned their great disdain 

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for the American president that 
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There had been, there had been a
public, deadly public shooting 

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in the news recently. 
And one lady mentioned that she 

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wished the shooter that shot at 
the American president had the 

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same aim as this recent shooter.
I put my book down, surprised by

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this bat brash statement from 
this lady. 

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But she didn't skip a beat. 
And in the very next sentence, 

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she lamented how rude the 
president was and of his great 

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disdain towards people and his 
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The irony was palpable. 
In one sentence she wished for a

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man's death and in another she 
demanded kindness and mercy. 

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We don't have Christ if when we 
don't have Christ in our lives. 

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That line of thinking is fair to
the non believer. 

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Yes, it can sound hypocritical, 
but really there's nothing wrong

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with it. 
Death to those I hate and 

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kindness to me and to those I 
love. 

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But through Jesus's words we can
see the fault. 

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In that way of thinking, it 
removes grace and mercy from the

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equation. 
We may think that we always want

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justice, but when it comes to 
our own sins, to our own 

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shortcomings, then we want 
mercy. 

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Yes, we have enemies, and yes, 
they may hate us, but if you 

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were saved here this morning, 
you too were once an enemy of 

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the cross. 
Paul, writing in First 

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Corinthians, says, Do you not 
know that the unrighteous will 

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not inherit the Kingdom of God? 
Do not be the deceived, neither 

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the sexually immoral, nor 
idolaters, nor adulterers, nor 

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men who practice homosexuality, 
nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor

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drunkards, nor revilers, nor 
swindlers will inherit the 

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Kingdom of God. 
And such were some of you. 

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This applies to us today too. 
There is no individual that is 

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too far gone that God cannot 
save. 

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Jesus calls us to love our 
enemies. 

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We should pray for them, treat 
them as equals, as humans made 

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in the image of God, and to show
Christ's love for them. 

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Loving our enemies does not mean
condoning their sin or enabling 

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sin to happen. 
But Paul continues to say, but 

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you were washed, you were 
sanctified, you were justified 

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in the name of the Lord Jesus 
Christ and by the Spirit of our 

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God. 
So if we have been sanctified, 

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if we have been washed and 
justified in Christ, then we 

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have a responsibility to also 
love our enemies and to let go 

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of our desire for hate. 
Lastly, because God is just, we 

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should let go of our desire for 
revenge and our desire for hate,

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and we should also let go of our
desire to be passive. 

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At first glance, this doesn't 
really seem to be an issue, 

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right? 
I've never heard anyone say I 

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desire to be passive. 
It's almost a contradiction. 

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So being passive means to allow 
things to happen to you without 

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taking action, or to allow 
things to happen without taking 

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action. 
So to desire to be passive would

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be to want to allow things to 
happen without being responsible

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to take action. 
Again, you rarely, if ever, hear

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anyone say that they want to be 
passive, but I'm a firm believer

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that behavior is a language. 
Sometimes what we say and what 

453
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,960
we do are two different things. 
I can say I want to grow 

454
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,880
spiritually, but if I don't pray
or if I don't read my Bible, 

455
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,000
then I don't really want it. 
I just want to want it. 

456
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,760
Being a Christian is not just 
about what you believe, but 

457
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:12,040
where is your devotion, where 
are your actions. 

458
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,680
Our faith needs to be put into 
practice and not merely held as 

459
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,840
an intellectual belief. 
The whole Sermon on the Mount is

460
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,640
not a theoretical sermon, it's 
an application for how to live. 

461
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,840
James, the brother of Jesus 
says, but be doers of the word 

462
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:29,720
and not only hears deceiving 
yourself, it's a call to be 

463
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,400
present and active, to not 
desire a life of passivity and 

464
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,600
to let go of that desire. 
To be passive. 

465
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,760
We need to be blameless, bold 
and brave. 

466
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,840
The last verse of this passage, 
verse 48, says you therefore 

467
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:46,480
must be perfect as your heavenly
Father is perfect. 

468
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,840
Talk about a high bar, right? 
It's probably would have been a 

469
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,440
good idea to just start with 
that verse. 

470
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:56,600
That's it, be perfect, done. 
But it's not that simple. 

471
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:01,000
Often we'll hear the phrase no 
one is perfect as an excuse for 

472
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,880
our sins or the sins of someone 
else. 

473
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,160
And even though that's 
technically true, it can be 

474
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,080
misused. 
Christ is calling us to be 

475
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,080
blameless. 
We know on this side of heaven 

476
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,520
we will never truly be blameless
or perfect, but that should be 

477
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,000
the goal. 
That should be what we strive 

478
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:18,360
for. 
Using the excuse. 

479
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,160
Yeah, but no one's perfect. 
To remain in sin is a sign that 

480
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,160
we don't understand Jesus 
teaching. 

481
00:25:25,360 --> 00:25:28,640
As Christians, we have the Holy 
Spirit living inside of us, 

482
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:32,080
guiding and helping us to live a
life that resembles Jesus. 

483
00:25:32,360 --> 00:25:35,920
We are sanctified, set apart, 
and God calls us to a higher 

484
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,040
standard. 
To not stay in the muck, in the 

485
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:42,000
mire of our own sin and so fuel 
our desire, our desire for 

486
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,080
passivity, but to come out and 
live in the light of His Word. 

487
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,800
To let go of our desire to be 
passive means we also need to be

488
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:52,080
bold. 
Bold to protect, love and give. 

489
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,680
And for all you English majors 
out there, you'll recognize 

490
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,800
those as verbs. 
And from what I remember from 

491
00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,840
school, verbs are action words. 
They are the opposite of being 

492
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,320
passive. 
When we read a verse like 

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00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:07,200
Matthew 539 where Jesus tells us
to turn the other cheek, it can 

494
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,800
be easy to apply this to areas 
of our life that it was not 

495
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,120
intended. 
I don't believe that this is a 

496
00:26:13,120 --> 00:26:16,800
call for complete pacifism, but 
rather for proper action. 

497
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:21,200
First Corinthians 13 seven says 
that love always protects. 

498
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,040
The ESV says that it bears all 
things, and the original word 

499
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,960
there means to cover. 
True love protects. 

500
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:33,040
It covers as God protected the 
Israelites in the Old Testament,

501
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,400
as Joseph protected Mary from 
public shame in the New 

502
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,320
Testament. 
True love looks for the 

503
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,880
betterment of others. 
It isn't selfish, but it's a 

504
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,960
shield to the vulnerable. 
Turning the other cheek is a 

505
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,520
response of strength, to show 
that my trust in Jesus is 

506
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:52,120
greater than my own need for 
justice or for retaliation. 

507
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,320
But we aren't told to turn 
someone else's cheek for them. 

508
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,040
Jesus was addressing the 
personal desires for retribution

509
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,960
and revenge, which seeks to 
bring glory to yourself and make

510
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,160
yourself look great. 
And that is a selfish desire, 

511
00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:08,400
and it goes against the 
teachings of Jesus. 

512
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,680
But he wasn't saying that we 
need to be passive when we see 

513
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,640
the victimization of the 
vulnerable. 

514
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,080
Jesus himself wasn't passive 
when He saw the money lenders 

515
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,640
abusing the temple and those 
coming to it. 

516
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,720
He flipped their tables and he 
drove them out with a whip. 

517
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,560
He took action to protect the 
vulnerable. 

518
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,440
It's right and proper to have 
righteous anger when we see the 

519
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,640
mistreatment and the abuse of 
others. 

520
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:36,080
Ephesians 426 says be angry and 
do not sin. 

521
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,360
It shows that it is possible to 
be angry and not sin at the same

522
00:27:40,360 --> 00:27:42,920
time. 
When Canadians landed on Juno 

523
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,440
Beach in 1944, it wasn't a 
hatred of people that led them 

524
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,680
there, but a love of good and a 
hatred of evil. 

525
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,880
Don't hear me wrong, I'm not 
saying that there was no sin 

526
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,920
there or that all the motives 
were pure and right, but that is

527
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,560
where the issue lies. 
What is our heart position? 

528
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,720
I'll share a short story that's 
slightly embarrassing to tell, 

529
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:07,680
but I think it fits here. 
Quite a few years ago my then 

530
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,280
girlfriend and now wife Courtney
and I were standing in line 

531
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,200
outside the Tigers baseball 
stadium with a couple friends 

532
00:28:14,120 --> 00:28:16,600
and not too far away from us. 
There were a few older guys that

533
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,320
were open air preaching using a 
microphone and some portable 

534
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,560
speakers. 
They were handing out Bible 

535
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,800
tracts and from what I heard 
they were sharing the gospel 

536
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:27,360
from those waiting to go inside.
While I was standing there I 

537
00:28:27,360 --> 00:28:30,080
heard a loud commotion with 
people yelling and a man walking

538
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,840
away from the area. 
This man had gone up to the 

539
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,920
Street Preachers and pushed them
and knocked over all of his 

540
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,920
speakers and the different 
resources. 

541
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,200
I immediately got angry and I 
was looking for the guy that did

542
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,600
this. 
I got so wrapped up about it all

543
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,880
that all I could think about was
what I would do if I would see 

544
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,120
this guy or the things I would 
all tell him. 

545
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,320
But I was quickly humbled when I
saw a few people go over to 

546
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,600
these gentlemen, pick up their 
stuff and ask if they were OK. 

547
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,480
I was so focused on my hatred 
for this immature man that I 

548
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,000
didn't even think to help. 
Of the ones that were to help, 

549
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,160
the ones that were abused, for 
all I know, the people that 

550
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,080
helped them that day, they might
not even have been Christians. 

551
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,120
While IA professing Christian 
stood there passively doing 

552
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,280
nothing. 
My words said one thing, but my 

553
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,040
heart and my actions showed 
another. 

554
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:21,400
I was justifiably angry, but in 
my anger I was passive and I 

555
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:25,320
missed an opportunity to show 
kindness on the outside. 

556
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,440
I could have faked moral virtue 
and said how self controlled I 

557
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:32,840
was to not retaliate, but in my 
heart I had already retaliated. 

558
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,760
And that's what Jesus is 
constantly going back to in the 

559
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,560
sermon. 
What's in the heart? 

560
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,680
And that's the source of the 
problem. 

561
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,200
If we don't let go of our 
passivity, we cannot expect to 

562
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,840
become virtuous. 
CS Lewis put it in this way in a

563
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,440
sort of ghastly simplicity. 
Re remove the organ and demand 

564
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,280
the function. 
We make men without chests and 

565
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,640
expect of them virtue and 
enterprise. 

566
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:00,480
Our love for others should not 
remove our boldness, but rather 

567
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,520
it should bring it out. 
Being bold for the faith and 

568
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,680
standing up for the oppressed is
not antithetical to the gospel, 

569
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:11,320
it displays it. 
Finally, we should be blameless,

570
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,960
we should be bold, and we should
be brave. 

571
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,240
When Jesus preached the sermon, 
he knew the effect it would 

572
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,520
have. 
When he rebuked the Pharisees 

573
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,640
for being whitewashed tombs, he 
knew the effect it would have. 

574
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,920
Jesus came to bring love into a 
broken world. 

575
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,960
His message was to come out of 
the darkness and into the light,

576
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,160
to repent and believe, to love 
God and love your neighbor. 

577
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,200
Yet there are still those that 
hated him. 

578
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,240
Looking at the example of Jesus,
we too should not be surprised 

579
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,400
when we are hated for the sake 
of the Gospel. 

580
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,520
Later in the book of Matthew, 
when Jesus sends out the 12 

581
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,840
apostles, he tells them, I am 
sending you out a sheep in the 

582
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:50,280
midst of wolves. 
So be wise as serpent and as 

583
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:54,200
serpents, and innocent as doves.
And he continues to say that you

584
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,720
will be hated by all for my 
name's sake. 

585
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,960
But even if we are hated and 
mocked, Jesus prior words still 

586
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,640
stand firm. 
Through the work of the Spirit. 

587
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,240
We are to be brave and to love 
our enemies as Christ did. 

588
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,160
Being blameless, being bold and 
being brave is a call for all 

589
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,680
Christians, men and women alike.
But for a moment, let me speak 

590
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,360
to the men and I'm speaking to 
myself as well. 

591
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:22,720
You are called to be courageous.
Paul, writing in First in 

592
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,960
Corinthians, says be watchful, 
stand firm in the faith, act 

593
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,680
like men, be strong, let all 
that you do be done in love. 

594
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,840
In a day and age where being a 
man is looked down upon or 

595
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,920
twisted as something to hide 
from, we're still called to be 

596
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,880
godly men. 
Not some dumb caricature as 

597
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:43,440
displayed by social media 
influencers, but as leaders. 

598
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:48,080
Leaders that love like Christ 
did and put others needs before 

599
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,720
our own. 
Letting go of trivial disputes 

600
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,600
and selfish desires and honoring
Christ by loving him and serving

601
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,640
others well. 
To quote Bobby Jameson, 

602
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,080
authority flows from those who 
take responsibility. 

603
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:05,000
So take responsibility. 
Don't wait for others to do it 

604
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,440
first. 
There's plenty of bad leaders 

605
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,800
out there and when we become 
passive to their abuse of others

606
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,880
and when we disguise it and 
turning the other cheek, we 

607
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,400
contribute to that hurt. 
Again. 

608
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:20,080
Quoting Bobby Jameson, he says 
the opposite of selfish ambition

609
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,680
is not passivity, but rather 
selfless ambition. 

610
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,960
As Christians, we all need to 
have a selfless ambition for the

611
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,320
good of others. 
Not only that we that we don't 

612
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,920
prioritize our own needs, but 
that we actively prioritize the 

613
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,880
needs of others, men, women, 
young and old. 

614
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,800
Our duty is to love God and to 
love others, and it's by our 

615
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,120
love that the world will see 
that we are different and 

616
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,200
therefore point to Christ. 
Doug Wilson says that the 

617
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,600
Christian faith does not advance
by the sword, but instead by the

618
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,400
sword of the Spirit. 
By rejecting passivity and 

619
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,440
loving others, we can be a light
in a Dark World. 

620
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,600
About 7-7 weeks ago on September
10th, there was an event that 

621
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,440
happened that shocked the world 
and caught the eyes and ears of 

622
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,000
almost everyone in the world. 
A young man, a husband, and the 

623
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,560
father of two small children was
assassinated in public in front 

624
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,760
of hundreds of students. 
And because of his popularity, 

625
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,040
the event was captured on video 
and spread like wildfire across 

626
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:20,720
the Internet for everyone to 
see. 

627
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,840
I'm sure most of you have heard 
of this man named Charlie Kirk. 

628
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,320
He was a passionate individual 
who had a mission to help young 

629
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,600
people. 
He was bold and sharing his 

630
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,120
faith, and he never shield away 
from sharing the gospel. 

631
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,560
He shared the gospel at every 
university campus he attended 

632
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,040
and online to millions of 
viewers. 

633
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,920
Specifically, he wanted to reach
young men, as his wife put it. 

634
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,120
Specifically to the young men 
who felt like they had no 

635
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,640
direction, no purpose, no faith,
and no reason to live. 

636
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,680
The men wasting their lives on 
distractions and the men 

637
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,200
consumed with resentment, anger,
and hate. 

638
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,800
Charlie wanted to help them, and
in doing that, moments after 

639
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,280
sharing the gospel, his life was
taken. 

640
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:02,040
And since that event, as you 
would expect in the age of the 

641
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,720
Internet, there's been thousands
of conspiracy while the 

642
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,600
accusations and outright lies. 
But amidst of all that chaos, 

643
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,920
there's still a grieving widow 
and two small children whose dad

644
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:17,080
will never come home. 
A mother and a father whose son,

645
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,000
whose son's death is watched, 
analyzed and argued about in 

646
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,679
front of the whole world. 
It's hard to imagine what we 

647
00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:24,719
would do if we were in the place
of Charlie's family. 

648
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,360
And I don't think anyone would 
blame them if they exclaim their

649
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,679
hatred of the killer and 
demanded retaliation. 

650
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,480
But they didn't organize mobs or
protest and riot. 

651
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,239
There was no call for violence 
or payback. 

652
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:39,840
Instead, his wife Erica forgave 
her husband's killer. 

653
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaking at the memorial, she 
said she forgave him because it 

654
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,159
was what Christ did. 
And she continued to say the 

655
00:34:46,159 --> 00:34:49,159
answer to hate is not hate. 
The answer we know from the 

656
00:34:49,159 --> 00:34:52,320
gospel is love. 
Love for our enemies and those 

657
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,360
who persecute us. 
Erica could have let her 

658
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:59,320
desires, could have chosen to 
let her desires and hate for 

659
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,320
hate to override her Christian 
duties, and I don't think many 

660
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:04,960
people would have said 
otherwise. 

661
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,920
But she rejected passivity and 
chose to take action to love her

662
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:13,160
enemy and forgive forgiveness. 
She exemplified Christ and 

663
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,400
forgiving the very one 
responsible for her husband's 

664
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,240
death. 
There was another event, and 

665
00:35:19,240 --> 00:35:22,400
this one took place just over 
2000 years ago that would 

666
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:26,840
forever impact human history. 
An innocent man, a beloved son, 

667
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,720
was killed in front of hundreds 
to see. 

668
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,040
Like Charlie's death, this man 
has also been. 

669
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,840
This man's death has also been 
analysed and argued about in 

670
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,680
front of the whole world. 
But unlike Charlie, and this is 

671
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:41,840
important, this man was perfect,
never committing a sin, never 

672
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,320
saying a single thing wrong. 
This man, Jesus of Nazareth, 

673
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,320
fully God and fully man, went to
the cross willingly and died for

674
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,480
the sins of the world. 
He was beaten, mocked and 

675
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,680
humiliated, and he endured the 
suffering not for anything he 

676
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,400
did, but for my sins and for 
your sins. 

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00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,800
Then after being nailed to the 
cross and put up for all to see 

678
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,520
Jesus dying on the cross, said 
Father, forgive them, for they 

679
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:09,640
know not what they do. 
God and His perfect justice 

680
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:13,040
could not let sin go unpunished,
but being a loving Father 

681
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,360
provided a way for you and me to
go to heaven. 

682
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,880
He gave up His very own Son to 
be abused and mistreated and 

683
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,000
ultimately killed to pray to pay
the price that you and I could 

684
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,800
not. 
He is the ultimate example of 

685
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,760
being a selfless parent. 
God hates sin, but He is not 

686
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,640
passive in His love for sinners.
There will one day be justice 

687
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,440
for all who have put their trust
in Jesus. 

688
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,920
So we need not waste our time 
plotting and wishing for 

689
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,160
revenge, but rather our focus 
should be on God's mercy toward 

690
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,320
us. 
Romans 58 says But God shows his

691
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,480
love for us and that while we 
were still sinners, Christ died 

692
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,840
for us. 
As we read today, we are called 

693
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,760
to be perfect, and it is only 
through perfection that we can 

694
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,240
go to heaven. 
But we don't fit that bill. 

695
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,040
We aren't perfect, not even 
close, but Jesus is. 

696
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,640
Jesus did for us what we could 
never do. 

697
00:37:05,240 --> 00:37:07,360
Jesus died so that you and I 
could live. 

698
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,640
If you haven't put your hope and
trust in Jesus, I would 

699
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,040
encourage you to look at the 
life of Jesus. 

700
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,920
Look at the love He showed and 
continues to show. 

701
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:18,320
He is impartial. 
He isn't selfish. 

702
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,280
He desires all men and women to 
come to faith. 

703
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:25,640
Second, Peter 39 says that the 
Lord is not slow to fulfill His 

704
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:29,720
promise, as some count slowness,
but patient is patient toward 

705
00:37:29,720 --> 00:37:34,200
you, not wishing that any should
perish, but that all should 

706
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:38,200
reach repentance. 
The Lord is patient, but we will

707
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,400
all have to give an account one 
day and on that day there is 

708
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,560
nothing that we can bring to the
table, no good works, nothing we

709
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,480
can point out and say this is 
the reason I deserve it, we 

710
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,400
don't deserve it. 
The only hope we have is in the 

711
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,720
death and resurrection of Jesus.
And that is the beauty of the 

712
00:37:53,720 --> 00:37:57,760
gospel, that a man who knew no 
sin would take the place for you

713
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,880
and me to selflessly lay down 
his life as a ransom for many. 

714
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:06,120
Christ embodied what it means to
love your enemies, so look to 

715
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,560
him. 
Humans are flawed, but Jesus is 

716
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,320
perfect and as Christians, let 
that be our example. 

717
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:16,360
To live a life like Christ, to 
leave vengeance to the Lord, to 

718
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,600
love our enemies, to give of 
ourselves freely and to take 

719
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,280
action to protect the 
vulnerable. 

720
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:26,640
As Micah 6-8 puts it, do 
justice, love kindness and walk 

721
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:33,960
humbly with God. 
Let's pray God there is no one 

722
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,200
else like you. 
There are no words like your 

723
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,160
words. 
You have made everyone in Your 

724
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,000
image worthy of love and 
protection. 

725
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,160
Help us to follow Your words. 
It's easy to read, but it can be

726
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,720
difficult to live out. 
Lord, be patient with us. 

727
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,800
Teach us Your ways that we may 
walk in Your truth and give us 

728
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:57,240
hearts of understanding. 
We thank You and we give praise 

729
00:38:57,240 --> 00:38:59,240
to You because You alone have 
saved us. 

730
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,600
We are sinners, but You are a 
merciful and gracious God, slow 

731
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,560
to anger and abounding in 
steadfast love. 

732
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,120
May we exemplify Christ as we 
live our lives in faith and 

733
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,280
devotion to you. 
All this we pray in Jesus name, 

734
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:14,120
Amen.
