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What does the nanny do? 
 
OK, so we're done. 

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Goodbye. 
 
You shut it off. 

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Do not twist my words. 
 
Do not make me a victim, 

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sweetie. 
 
Just look at the mountain. 

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That's what you saw. 
 
That day, just the knife in the 

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kidneys over all these years and

 the sacrifices that I made to 

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love you. 
 
Brown Family confessions Have 

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you confessed? 
 
Not recently. 

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Have you been down on your knees

 asking for forgiveness lately?

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Probably not since my junior 
 
year of high school. 

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Well, I've been asking for some 
 forgiveness, but not 

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necessarily on my knees. 
 
Season 4, Episode 10, Brown 

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Family Confessions. 
 
It's another Q&A episode now, 

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our first one, I was concerned 

that it was going to be lame and

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suck, and it was not lame and it

 didn't suck. 

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So we'll see where this one 
 
goes. 

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TBD because at the end of the 
 
episode we looked at each other 

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and I was like. 
 
Yeah. 

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Yeah, we show the Browns the 
 
adults are sitting on couches 

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that are like making a triangle.

 

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You've got Robyn. 
You've got Meri Kody and then 
 

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you've got Janelle and 
Christine. 
 

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So they're sitting kind of like 
at an angle together, and then 


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the children are kind of spread 
out and dispersed through them. 

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So Logan's sitting on the couch 

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at the very end, on the left 
 
next to. 

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Robyn, Robyn. 
 
And then the other kids are like

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intermixed between the parents. 
 

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And some on the floor. 
Some on the floor. 
 

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On the couches. 
And it's very odd because 
 

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there's just this weird little, 
it looks like a footstool, a 
 

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wooden footstool with a laptop 
on it. 
 

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And you can see the cords coming
off of the laptop like they 
 

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couldn't even charge it in time 
to have it cordless and sitting 

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 there or pass the tablet around
like they did during the first 


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sit down Q&A, which looked 1000 
times better than whatever this 

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 janky setup was. 
And it's just weird. 
 

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They've it's obviously a MacBook
and they've got a huge black 
 

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sticker over the MacBook like 
logo over the Apple. 
 

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And it just looks thrown 
together, like haphazardly. 
 

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Yeah, there's like a speed up 
thing at the beginning of the 
 

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episode where they're setting up
the room and it's in Janelle's 


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living room. 
Yeah. 
 

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And yeah, they have these two 
couches at an angle. 
 

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And then even later on when 
they're showing the questions 
 

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being asked, there's some video 
questions, there's some text 
 

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questions. 
And they have like an over 
 

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shoulder shot of one of the 
questions being asked and it's 


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literally just a laptop on a 
stool on the coffee table or 
 

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something. 
And it looks even at the 
 

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beginning. 
It's literally just like a 
 

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QuickTime MOV file where you 
play like it's. 
 

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It's definitely not high 
production quality I would say. 

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Like Times New Roman. 

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Yeah, yeah, even the on screens 
 are like. 

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On PowerPoint. 
 
Copy pasted the like tweets or 

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whatever it is directly. 
 
So there's like spelling errors 

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and grammatical errors and all 

sorts of stuff and it's like, 

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cute. 
 
The computer is on a foot stool,

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I would say, because the 
 
children are sitting around it 

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and you need to be able to see 

all of the faces. 

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I don't know what what to say 
 
other than the fact that it 

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looks janky and thrown together 
 and definitely a little 

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ridiculous. 
 
I don't know if they're trying 

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to make it seem more homey by 
 
doing it in Janelle's house 

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other than doing it in a 
 
confessional style interview 

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with the couches like they 
 
normally do, but I just don't 

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understand it. 
 
It went from the first Q&A of 

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seemed very professional to 
 
this. 

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And I don't get it. 
 
I don't know. 

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And this is the second Q&A of 
 
the season. 

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The first one was episode 4, 
 
right? 

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And we were shocked that they 
 
were doing AQ and A so early on 

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in the season. 
 
So to go from that style of Q&A 

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to this is bizarre. 
 
Yeah, it makes our setup look 

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pretty good. 
 
I mean, I'm going like, wow, you

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know, we are on the same level 

as a TLC show over here. 

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We're rocking it. 
 
We are right up there with 

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Puddle Monkey Productions. 
 
TLC could put us on a show right

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now and we'd fit right in with 

the Browns. 

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We'd be better. 
 
Better even, I would say. 

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Yeah, yeah, Pretty tragic. 
 
They give us this little setup 

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and everybody's getting together

 and they're like, oh, we're 

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going to answer some questions, 
 blah, blah, blah. 

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And then the first question 
 
comes to us from Ernesto. 

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Take it, Kimber. 
 
Ernesto has a question for the 

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children. 
 
Is anybody dating yet? 

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Silence. 
 
The teenagers are looking 

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around. 
 
Crickets. 

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Who's going to answer? 
 
Who's going to say anything? 

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Who goes first? 
 
They show Logan looking very 

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coy. 
 
Yeah, and Robyn asks Logan if 

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he's kissed her, so Logan must 

be dating someone. 

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He's been seeing somebody. 
 
Seeing a an attractive, smart, 

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funny, big tittied girl. 
 
Oh, he's quicker to describe her

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than Kody was to describe each 

of the wife's string. 

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Oh God first. 
 
Q&A. 

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Right. 
 
No, and he doesn't describe her 

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at. 
 
All No. 

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He's literally not giving us 
 
anything. 

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What's funny is when Robyn asks 
 him if he's kissed her, he says

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well yes. 
 
And then he I mean and then like

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avoids answering the question. 

Backtracks, kind of teasingly 

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pretends like, Oh, yeah, you 
 
know, I've kissed her. 

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And, you know, it's that thing 

where he's pretending to be 

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funny. 
 
And then he realizes that he's, 

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like, with his family. 
 
And then he has to like, rein it

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back in. 
 
Awkward. 

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I wouldn't want to be talking 
 
about this with my family so. 

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It was odd. 
 
Maddie says no. 

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Just straight up no. 
 
Leon gives the best answer of 

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all here. 
 
Leon says that the last time 

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they were alone with a boy, it 

was on accident. 

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Yeah. 
 
And they'll kind of laugh. 

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And then there's a close up of 

Leon's face and, like, eyes 

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darting side to side and kind of

 just, it's like, OK. 

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I completely believe this too. 

I completely believe this. 

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It's just funny. 
 
Yeah. 

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Absolutely, definitely awkward. 
 

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Meri says that dating can be 
safe, Dates can be safe. 
 

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There's no reason for them not 
to be safe. 
 

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It's like, OK, I love that we're
jumping to safe and Kody says we

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 want to be involved until 
they're 21 years old. 
 

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Kody gets so carried away here. 
And of course, all the kids say 

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 like 1818. 
They're like 1818. 
 

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And then he says that he should 
know if they are dating or 
 

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kissing, and he has a right to 
know. 
 

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Yeah, he has a right to know so 
that he is able to counsel them 

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 with his wisdom. 
What, Sir? 
 

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Oh I had a flashback to in the 
future when he talks about 
 

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passing the hormones back and 
forth between the mouths. 
 

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This is in a future episode. 
Passing hormones. 
 

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Oh, Mylanta. 
Kody says that these things do 


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have consequences, such as 
kissing as a consequence, 
 

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leading to other things that 
they don't want to have happen, 

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 of course and. 
Even minor things can have 
 

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consequences. 
Yes, in this chaste pure family,

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 people have none of that. 
I just the answer that he gives,

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 that he has a right to know. 
Do you? 
 

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Do you? 
Do you, Sir? 
 

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Yeah, I don't know many 
teenagers that are sharing the 


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details of their dating life 
with their parents in the sense 

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 of needing counseling and 
looking for advice from daddy 
 

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dearest. 
Like no. 
 

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This is a big problem with, I 
would say parenting of that time

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 that parents feel entitled to 
know everything about their 
 

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child and the children don't 
have a right to privacy. 
 

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And I struggle with that to an 
extent because I feel like your 

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 child does have a right to 
privacy. 
 

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If if one of my children had 
like a diary for say, like when 

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 they're older, I would not read
that diary. 
 

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To me, that's a violation of 
their privacy. 
 

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And if I want my child to trust 
me and come to me with problems,

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 I need to respect the fact 
that they're their own 

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individual and 
 that they are 
growing and learning and they're

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allowed to 
 make mistakes. 
I don't think that going through

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 their room, if they're getting
into trouble and if you're 
 

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worried about drugs or something
is a problem because they're in 

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 your home. 
And I do think that you have a 


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right to look and see if 
something is going on when it 
 

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comes to that. 
But I struggle with this a bit. 

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Well with the privacy bit, I 

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agree. 
 
I felt like my privacy was 

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violated a lot when I was 
 
growing up. 

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Oh yeah. 
 
Like my mom was a snooper and it

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was annoying because like, I had

 a diary or a journal or 

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whatever. 
 
And I remember in 4th grade, I 

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mean when you're in 4th grade, I

 was writing things like my mom

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is so mean. 
 
She's a prostitute, OK, 

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prostitute. 
 
So I obviously didn't even know 

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what a prostitute was. 
 
OK, I couldn't even tell you 

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now. 
 
Also, the weird thing about 

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being young, and maybe I don't 

want to blame this on being a 

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boy because I was a little 
 
homosexual, but I had a diary or

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something, something that had 
 
like a little lock on it. 

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So it's called a diary. 
 
I wrote a bunch of stuff in it. 

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Couldn't tell you today what I 

wrote. 

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And then I forgot about it. 
 
Kind of like it just that was 

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that it was like a weak phase or

 two weak phase. 

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I don't even know my mom. 
 
Like months later, I remember 

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being at my grandma's house and 
 she was like, no, Christopher, 

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I just want you to know I'm not 
a 
 prostitute. 

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And I was like shocked because I

 knew that she had read it in 

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my diary, but I was like Oh my 
God, 
 like what a how 

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violating. 
But then also I was like, oh 
 

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geez. 
Like am I in trouble for writing

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 this to myself? 
Like it was weird. 
 

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And she was always looking for 
problems. 
 

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And I kind of, I hate to say it,
but I kind of feel like people 


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that hide things and people that
are whatever think everyone 
 

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else's. 
Yes, 1000 percent, 1000 times 
 

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yes. 
It's very strange because I've 


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in general in life been pretty 
open and I don't even know where

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 I would say like, OK, for 
example, maybe don't go snooping

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 through the drawers next to my
bed because you might find 
 

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something you don't want to know
about me, I guess, you know, but

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 I don't have a lot of things 
to. 

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I don't. 
 
I'm kind of just out there. 

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So it also doesn't go well. 
 
If your child is someone who 

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expresses themselves regularly 

and doesn't hide any, like 

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doesn't have a lot to hide. 
 
You feel like, Oh my God, like 

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I'm doing something wrong and 
 
now I've been doing anything 

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wrong. 
 
I think that the parents that 

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violate their children's 
 
privacy, especially at such a 

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young age. 4th grade, you're so 
 young, and that's before you 

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really hit puberty. 
 
And before you what? 

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Would I have even been doing? 
 
Right before you get to the 

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point in your life where there's

 things that could be shame, 

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like make you feel ashamed like 
 around sex or like your body or

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changes that are happening in 
 
your body. 

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So if you're already doing that 
 to your child, that's such a 

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young age, you're basically 
 
teaching them that they should 

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hide things and from you because

 like this weird obsession with

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yeah, oh God, I don't get that. 
 

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It's weird because I understand 
the want to know what's going on

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 with your child. 
It feels weird when there isn't 

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 something to trigger it. 
And that's what's so strange. 
 

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It's like I had friends as well 
in middle school, high school, 


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where their parents would be 
constantly trying to get them in

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 something, catch them in 
something, you're doing 
 

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something horrible. 
And they were the the ones that 

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 ended up being the worst 
behaved or the ones that were 

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hiding 
 things, the ones that 
were being misleading and lying 

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and doing 
 all this stuff where
if you don't have to do that, 

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then you 
 don't have to do 
that. 

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Right, it's a. 
 
Little strange. 

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I would say me and my friends 
 
were super innocent, really 

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good, really good kids. 
 
We did a few things here and 

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there, but they weren't 
 
dangerous. 

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They weren't really that bad. 
 
They weren't anything that would

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cause us to be in harm's way. 
 
And then after, you know, 

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parents crack down on my friend 
 and like they actually you're 

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like you said, acted out and did

 worse things and did things 

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that I never ended up doing. 
 
I don't know. 

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I think that he just saying that

 he should know if they're 

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dating and kissing and he has a 
right 
 to know. 

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And he got like worked up about 
 it. 

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It's just like, Oh my gosh, calm

 down. 

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Yeah. 
 
I don't know. 

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Question #2 comes to us from 
 
Shanna and Shanna asks, compared

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to living in Utah, how does 
 
community in Vegas differ when 

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it comes to accepting your 
 
family choices in religion? 

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Logan says people don't outright

 judge in Utah, but that people

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are more open and accepting in 

Vegas. 

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Yeah, people care less. 
 
It's interesting, I think people

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our last judgy probably because 
 there's not as much like 

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concentrated religion going on. 
 

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When I grew up in a small town 
in rural Minnesota, don't you 
 

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know, And when I moved to the 
big city, I, my eyes were 
 

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definitely open to things. 
And I think there's a parallel 


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there where there's like small 
town judgment and everyone's 
 

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supposed to be uniformed. 
Everyone's supposed to fit in 
 

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and people judge even though 
people might not come out. 
 

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I don't know. 
I feel like people do come out 


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and just judge. 
So I don't know. 
 

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It's small town people are far 
more judgmental than city people

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 in my opinion. 
And maybe it's projection again,

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 like you're saying, like with 
the people that are hiding 
 

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things, it's projection. 
They'd rather have other people 

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 looking at this person and what
they're doing wrong then, you 
 

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know, looking in their closet 
and seeing their skeletons. 
 

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So why not call that person out 
for theirs? 
 

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And a lot of judging over things
that don't matter, which is also

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 strange. 
Like if it's not hurting 
 

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anybody, why do you care? 
But. 
 

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Then again, we are hosting a 
podcast where we judge people 
 

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so. 
But then why put it out there 
 

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too if you care if people judge 
you? 
 

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So I think it kind of goes both 
ways there, You know, like you 


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put your lives out there, then 
expect for people to have 
 

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something to say about it. 
Question #3 Darling. 
 

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Oh, Ashley, she asks what is the
issue topic that the family 
 

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butts heads on the most. 
Madison pipes up very quickly 
 

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and says that she doesn't like 
going to church. 
 

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Right. 
The kids say Kody is either 
 

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cranky or crying at church, 
which I love because he says 
 

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he's cranky because the kids 
talk too much during his church 

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 services that he leads in their
living room. 
 

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And it's funny because I can 
totally imagine a dad like being

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 cranky and irritated because 
he's looking around. 
 

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He's trying to share the gospel.
He's trying to bring his family 

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 up out of the depths of 
wherever they are, into wherever

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they 
 could be the celestial 
Kingdom, and they're yawning and

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they're 
 falling asleep or 
they're talking to each other or

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they 
 don't care because 
they're kids at church. 
 

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And by church I mean their 
living room listening to their 


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dad talk at them. 
How many kids are going to care?

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I mean, whatever. 

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It's different than if you're 
 
sitting in a church and 

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listening to somebody else and 

there's other people around you 

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and you're keeping yourself in 

check because there's other 

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people around and there is 
 
judgment coming from other 

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people. 
 
I feel like I totally would 

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behave better in public than in 
 my own home. 

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Like, come on. 
 
Yeah, there's a comfortability 

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factor. 
 
So of course they're going to 

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talk more than they would in a 

actual church. 

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And even when you go to church, 
 I mean, parents are oftentimes 

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distracted or obligated with 
 
keeping their kids in line. 

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You know, there's oftentimes 
 
like kids server and then kids 

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service or they like leave 
 
halfway through or whatever. 

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It's very much like occupy the 

children, so you know, and 

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brainwash them as well. 
 
So there's the brainwashing in 

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the occupation, and Kody's 
 
probably cranky because he's not

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able to occupy their minds 
 
completely. 

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Well, if you're like me, if you 
 were raised Catholic, there's 

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just so much up and down and 
 
kneeling and sitting and 

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standing that you know you're 
 
constantly paying attention. 

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Because by golly, if you're the 
 only one standing when you're 

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supposed to be kneeling, what 
 
the fuck is wrong with you? 

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Shame. 
 
Absolutely. 

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Absolutely. 
 
Logan says that the teenagers 

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butt heads with the adults, and 
 that's kind of the general 

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consensus. 
 
Yeah, Janelle says that they 

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struggle getting the teenagers 

to do what they want. 

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Yeah, no shit. 
 
Really. 

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That's a first that's definitely

 exclusive to the Brown family.

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I struggle getting my 3 1/2 year

 old to do what I want. 

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Like, come on. 
 
Our next question comes to us 

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from Barbara. 
 
Barbara, please, Barbara, says 

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Kody, realistically, how would 

you feel about your daughter's 

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being in marriages with several 
 wives? 

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I thought this question was odd 
 because it's like he is in a 

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polygamist marriage himself. 
 
So you're making it sound like 

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this would be other or different

 from what they currently have,

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which it's not, so whatever. 
 
But don't think that Kody's not 

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going to give us some ridiculous

 bullshit, because he is going 

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to. 
 
Of course. 

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He has to go on and on and on 
 
about how if they marry the 

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right person, it will be the 
 
single most important decision 

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they make and blah blah blah 
 
blah blah. 

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Kimber, can you say this better 
 than I can? 

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I He goes on and on. 
 
He says if they're the right 

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person and they have the right 

sister wives, they will be very 

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happy. 
 
Who they marry will be the 

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single most important decision 

they have to make in their 

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entire life. 
 
Yes. 

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And then he gives this long 
 
lands of things that they need 

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to have and he's like keeps 
 
saying skills and ability and 

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the skills to do this and the 
 
ability to do that and. 

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They better marry for love and 

for happiness and someone who 

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can take care of them and this 

and that and this and that and 

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he's going on. 
 
They could have done one of 

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those montages where he in and 

out and like everyone was 

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drifting. 
 
It was like being at church that

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Kody was leading. 
 
Christine and Robyn start like 

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cheering. 
 
They all start laughing and 

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applauding because he is going 

on and on and on and nauseam. 

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You get married. 
 
Who says the only reason he 

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stopped was to take a breath? 
 
Yeah, he wasn't done yet. 

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He wasn't done yet. 
 
He would have kept going. 

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And then Kody does end it by 
 
saying that his expectations for

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a son-in-law are very high. 
 
No touché. 

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I would say most fathers would 

say the same thing, but this 

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list that he says is ridiculous.

 

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Yeah, it's all very typical 
things of a wish list, but like 

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 extended version. 
Well like the ability to raise 


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strong and smart and intelligent
children, right? 
 

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Like every parent with their 
first child is a learning for 
 

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the first time. 
So unless your daughter marries 

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 into a plague of his family and
is like the second, third, 
 

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fourth wife, then good luck. 
He's not going to know that yet.

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Like he just had these weird 

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things he was saying and he was 
 just talking to talk. 

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He was definitely filling the 
 
space, filling the room with 

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more of Kody's hot air. 
 
But leave it to Robyn to cheer. 

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And I'm shocked that Christine 

joined in on the cheering. 

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I was actually shocked by that. 
 

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00:21:10,690 --> 00:21:15,727
Yeah, I think they were more 
applauding on the silly side, 
 

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right? 
Like laughing that he was still 

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 going, like he was going and 
going do. 
 

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You think Robyn was 
sarcastically doing it? 
 

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I doubt it. 
Maybe Christine joined in like 


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sarcastically, but I think Robyn
really was like, oh, good 
 

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answer. 
Oh, this list of 47 things we 
 

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hope for our children with their
spouse like good Lord. 
 

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Before we move on to the next 
question, I have to point out 
 

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that Christine has sunglasses on
top of her head. 
 

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The parents kind of look half 
put together. 
 

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The children are wearing kind of
matchy outfits and look very 
 

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nice. 
At one point the children will 


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exit. 
As soon as the children exit, 
 

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the appearance of it being put 
together goes to shit even more 

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 than it already was, and 
Christine's sitting there with 


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sunglasses on her head the 
entire time. 
 

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They all have open toed sandal 
they. 
 

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All have like black open toed 
sandals. 
 

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Maybe like a wedge sandal for 
Robyn and Meri had something and

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 then Meri and Robyn are 
wearing matching jeans with the 

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huge 
 like white stitching. 
On it, down the middle and then 

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 like on the cuff and they're 
sitting right next to each 
 

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other. 
So it's so like, Oh my God, 
 

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they're wearing the same jeans 
with. 
 

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Their like legs kind of in the 
same position and like angled 
 

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the same way like a yearbook 
photo of your like class like so

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 it's just funny and very 
apparent that they're wearing 
 

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the same jeans. 
Yeah, when the kids left your 
 

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00:22:44,028 --> 00:22:45,658
right, it was somehow de 
elevated. 
 

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What would the word be the 
opposite of elevated? 
 

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It was diminished. 
Yeah. 
 

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00:22:49,946 --> 00:22:53,928
It was whatever even more than 
it was when it started, which 
 

402
00:22:53,936 --> 00:22:56,695
was definitely saying something.
Yeah, but the sunglasses on the 

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00:22:56,695 --> 00:22:59,960
 head bit just kind of cracked 
me up because it looks like she 

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 just walked in off the street 
and they were like, oh, by the 


405
00:23:02,593 --> 00:23:06,042
way, we're doing this today. 
Just like the setup with some 
 

406
00:23:06,050 --> 00:23:08,320
weird wooden foot stool and a 
laptop. 
 

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00:23:08,328 --> 00:23:10,640
It definitely felt thrown 
together. 
 

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00:23:10,648 --> 00:23:13,640
So strange. 
Interesting that it made the cut

409
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,465

 too that they decided to film 
this and then make it into an 
 

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episode. 
When that nobody said even 
 

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00:23:18,628 --> 00:23:21,623
halfway through, hey, you should
take your sunglasses off of your

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00:23:21,623 --> 00:23:23,455

 head. 
Like they obviously don't give a

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00:23:23,455 --> 00:23:25,245

 shit about continuity in this 
show. 
 

414
00:23:25,253 --> 00:23:30,330
So it's not like when the kids 
got up and left or at any point 

415
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 between the questions that they
couldn't have have her take her 

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00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,792
 sunglasses off her head. 
It's just so weird. 
 

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There's even a point when the 
kids leave, when they're 
 

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resetting, where Kody starts 
talking and then the director's 

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 like, hold on, hold on. 
And he's like, is everyone 
 

420
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ready? 
And then he's like, OK, we can 


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go. 
And it's like, why was that left

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00:23:46,706 --> 00:23:49,366

 in, like, so weird, so sloppy 
this episode? 
 

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00:23:49,374 --> 00:23:50,824
So it's sloppier than our 
podcast. 
 

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It is so sloppy. 
It's like they're trying to make

425
00:23:53,892 --> 00:23:56,890

 it look that way, like that 
was the aesthetic or style they 

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00:23:56,890 --> 00:23:59,685
were 
 going for, but it was a 
huge swing and a miss. 
 

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00:23:59,693 --> 00:24:05,070
Yeah, very much a miss. 
So Dana asks, how has moving to 

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00:24:05,070 --> 00:24:08,076
 Las Vegas changed the family 
dynamic? 
 

429
00:24:08,084 --> 00:24:13,641
Hey Dana, what I want to know is
do you watch the fucking show? 


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00:24:13,649 --> 00:24:15,835
Because Jesus Christ. 
Probably not. 
 

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00:24:15,843 --> 00:24:18,472
There's some of these interviews
where you could tell they were 


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like in a casino. 
I shouldn't say interviews, 
 

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questions where they're filming 
them. 
 

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00:24:22,094 --> 00:24:24,450
Some of the questions are tweets
or something. 
 

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00:24:24,458 --> 00:24:25,935
Some of them they show us 
nothing. 
 

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00:24:25,943 --> 00:24:28,240
And some of them are video on 
this computer. 
 

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00:24:28,248 --> 00:24:31,220
And the videos do look like 
there was like a camera person 


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at a casino being like. 
Do you have any questions for 
 

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the Browns? 
Some of them appeared to not 
 

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know anything. 
Quite literally, it's like they 

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 had a camera person just 
standing in the lobby of or not 

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00:24:41,176 --> 00:24:43,552
 even the lobby. 
There's like the machines. 
 

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And they were like, Oh yeah, 
have you seen this TLC show? 
 

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Want to ask a question? 
And maybe they got a little blur

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00:24:50,429 --> 00:24:53,320

 before their question, Like, 
Oh, yeah, it's about this 

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polygamous 
 family. 
And he has this many wives. 
 

447
00:24:55,470 --> 00:24:57,748
And they probably even fed him 
the questions. 
 

448
00:24:57,756 --> 00:25:01,428
But gosh, that's like one of the
stupidest questions ever. 
 

449
00:25:01,436 --> 00:25:05,240
How has moving to Las Vegas 
changed the family dynamic? 
 

450
00:25:05,248 --> 00:25:09,192
Well, Christine starts us out 
with her answer, though. 
 

451
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:13,252
Yes, she sure does, she says. 
It's very challenging, very 
 

452
00:25:13,260 --> 00:25:15,987
challenging living in. 
Four separate homes. 
 

453
00:25:15,995 --> 00:25:19,915
As if we haven't been hearing 
that repeatedly on and on and 
 

454
00:25:19,923 --> 00:25:21,602
on. 
Logan says he liked it better 
 

455
00:25:21,610 --> 00:25:24,915
when they were all under one 
roof back in Lehigh, which makes

456
00:25:24,915 --> 00:25:27,170

 sense. 
And this is where we hear from 


457
00:25:27,178 --> 00:25:31,030
Aspen for the first time. 
So little of Aspen in this show 

458
00:25:31,030 --> 00:25:34,320
 up until now, like holistically
from the very beginning, we just

459
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,696

 don't hear much from Aspen. 
And so it was nice to actually 


460
00:25:37,704 --> 00:25:41,182
hear her talk. 
She says that they don't see 
 

461
00:25:41,190 --> 00:25:44,090
Kody nearly as often as they 
used to, so I guess she didn't 


462
00:25:44,098 --> 00:25:47,195
say much. 
Yeah, she's like, we don't 
 

463
00:25:47,203 --> 00:25:54,045
really see our dad much anymore.
And that was kind of sad answer,

464
00:25:54,045 --> 00:25:57,998

 Yeah. 
I thought maybe it would spark a

465
00:25:57,998 --> 00:26:02,672

 little bit more emotion from 
the adults than it did. 
 

466
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:07,610
Robyn surprisingly says kind of 
the most hear about it. 
 

467
00:26:07,618 --> 00:26:12,640
And she just says that what she 
thought she was getting into and

468
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:17,480

 what she wanted out of this 
polygamous family is slipping 
 

469
00:26:17,488 --> 00:26:20,247
away. 
She thinks that it's slipping 
 

470
00:26:20,255 --> 00:26:23,256
away. 
The reason that she thought this

471
00:26:23,256 --> 00:26:25,842

 would be so wonderful? 
Yeah, she sees a big difference 

472
00:26:25,842 --> 00:26:27,620
 from when she first joined the 
family. 
 

473
00:26:27,628 --> 00:26:31,155
It's slipping away through her 
fingertips. 
 

474
00:26:31,163 --> 00:26:37,060
As if she wasn't one of the 
catalysts to the change that 
 

475
00:26:37,068 --> 00:26:40,481
started right the slipping away.
That'd be funny. 
 

476
00:26:40,489 --> 00:26:43,467
She's like, ever since I started
ruining this family I've seen a 

477
00:26:43,467 --> 00:26:47,282
 lot of differences. 
Yeah, well, when I take that 
 

478
00:26:47,290 --> 00:26:50,680
back, she didn't give the most 
heartfelt answer here. 
 

479
00:26:50,688 --> 00:26:55,181
Mckelty actually did. 
And that was it brought a little

480
00:26:55,181 --> 00:27:00,824

 like, not tear to my eye, but 
a little glimpse into the 
 

481
00:27:00,832 --> 00:27:04,096
children's inner working 
relationships with the younger 


482
00:27:04,104 --> 00:27:06,728
ones. 
And she said she feels closer to

483
00:27:06,728 --> 00:27:10,602

 Robyn's kids now and says she 
didn't when they were in Lehigh,

484
00:27:10,602 --> 00:27:13,516

 feel connected to them at all 
and didn't see how they were 
 

485
00:27:13,524 --> 00:27:17,192
going to fit into the family or 
how she was supposed to view 
 

486
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:22,005
Robyn's kids as siblings. 
But now she is very close to the

487
00:27:22,005 --> 00:27:25,184

 Robyn's kids, especially 
Brianna, and they have a 
 

488
00:27:25,192 --> 00:27:27,728
spiritual bond. 
A spiritual connection with 
 

489
00:27:27,736 --> 00:27:28,652
Brianna. 
Yeah. 
 

490
00:27:28,660 --> 00:27:33,020
And she's talking to Robyn when 
answering this question because 

491
00:27:33,020 --> 00:27:34,900
 obviously she's speaking about 
Robyn's children. 
 

492
00:27:34,908 --> 00:27:39,040
And Robyn starts crying and then
Mckelty starts crying. 
 

493
00:27:39,048 --> 00:27:42,870
And I agree with you. 
It didn't touch me personally 
 

494
00:27:42,878 --> 00:27:45,564
very much. 
Like, I wasn't like, but it was 

495
00:27:45,564 --> 00:27:50,004
 a touching moment. 
It was a touching moment in the 

496
00:27:50,004 --> 00:27:54,522
 fact that nobody seemed to have
much of A reaction to Aspens. 
 

497
00:27:54,530 --> 00:27:58,304
The answer about not seeing Kody
too much anymore, which I would 

498
00:27:58,304 --> 00:28:04,780
 have thought that would have 
done more than this, but I think

499
00:28:04,780 --> 00:28:08,920

 that Mckelty, it's interesting
because she comes off very harsh

500
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,645

 at the beginning of her 
answer, saying that she didn't 


501
00:28:11,653 --> 00:28:14,870
understand how Robyn would fit 
into the family or her kids and 

502
00:28:14,870 --> 00:28:18,008
 then get so emotional so 
quickly about Brianna in 

503
00:28:18,008 --> 00:28:21,200
particular. 
 
But it's pretty cool that she 

504
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:26,080
has a close bond with her and 
 
these are as the spiritual 

505
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,480
sister. 
 
And that is very on brand for 

506
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:32,160
Mckelty to start speaking and 
 
sound kind of matter of fact and

507
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,880
kind of almost flippant. 
 
I don't want to say flippant, 

508
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,360
but you know, she was like, 
 
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, 

509
00:28:37,360 --> 00:28:38,920
blah, blah, blah, blah. 
 
And then all of a sudden she's 

510
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,200
crying and it's like, what the 

hell. 

511
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,600
Like she's and the Kelty's a 
 
weirdo. 

512
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,400
Complete 180 as far as the 
 
emotions went. 

513
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,720
She's a strange cookie. 
 
She's an odd tasting cookie. 

514
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,560
She's a cookie that you might 
 
try one in the variety pack and 

515
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,000
they'll be like, I don't need 
 
any more. 

516
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,000
But maybe that's just me. 
 
Take a half a bite of that and 

517
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,120
decide it's not worth the 
 
calories. 

518
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,600
Yes, I'm going to reference 
 
Bethenny Frankel here. 

519
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,440
Mckelty's a little like black 
 
licorice. 

520
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,360
Some people love it, some people

 hate it. 

521
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,840
I happen to not like black 
 
licorice, but some people do. 

522
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:11,040
Fucking hate black licorice. 
 
Next question comes from 

523
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:12,960
Deborah. 
 
Deborah. 

524
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,760
Deborah, Deborah, with all the 

kids being different ages, do 

525
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:20,280
the boys look after the girls 
 
like big older brothers? 

526
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,640
And Logan says that he is 
 
protective for sure. 

527
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,920
And Maddie shares such a cute 
 
story. 

528
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,560
Love this story. 
 
OK, am I going to attempt to try

529
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,160
to tell this story? 
 
You're going to have to correct 

530
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:37,800
me if I get anything wrong. 
 
When they were very little, they

531
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:41,040
were together and there was a 
 
storm happening, like a 

532
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,032
potential tornado, thunderstorm.

 

533
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:48,342
And she was scared and she was 
scared and she asked Logan if he

534
00:29:48,342 --> 00:29:52,772

 was scared of the storm and he
said he would protect her from 


535
00:29:52,780 --> 00:29:57,475
anything. 
And I thought it was so cute. 
 

536
00:29:57,483 --> 00:30:01,152
She said are you scared? 
And he's like, no. 
 

537
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,315
And he said he would protect 
her. 
 

538
00:30:03,323 --> 00:30:06,504
And then she goes even from a 
tornado and he goes, I would 
 

539
00:30:06,512 --> 00:30:09,712
protect you from anything. 
They're showing really cute 
 

540
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:14,098
pictures of them together across
the screen as she's telling the 

541
00:30:14,098 --> 00:30:16,678
 story. 
And it's adorable and makes me 


542
00:30:16,686 --> 00:30:20,600
wish that I had a Big Brother. 
Not. 
 

543
00:30:20,608 --> 00:30:21,984
Really. 
I mean. 
 

544
00:30:21,992 --> 00:30:25,270
No, no and. 
Then Kody, of course, has to 
 

545
00:30:25,278 --> 00:30:28,090
tell us that Logan is like, the 
perfect older brother. 
 

546
00:30:28,098 --> 00:30:32,315
I hope that Logan hasn't 
experienced too much pressure in

547
00:30:32,315 --> 00:30:35,595

 his life about that because he
is the oldest. 
 

548
00:30:35,603 --> 00:30:38,064
They have parentified him in 
many ways. 
 

549
00:30:38,072 --> 00:30:40,866
And then just hearing comments 
like he's the perfect older 
 

550
00:30:40,874 --> 00:30:43,455
brother, it's like it's hard to 
not internalize those things and

551
00:30:43,455 --> 00:30:46,400

 make it feel like even more 
pressure because it does seem 
 

552
00:30:46,408 --> 00:30:50,120
like it's in his nature to be, 
you know, a leader. 
 

553
00:30:50,128 --> 00:30:54,610
And it kind of fits him, But you
know, you don't want to put 
 

554
00:30:54,618 --> 00:30:57,702
extra pressure on your kids. 
Well, that's maybe a little bit 

555
00:30:57,702 --> 00:31:00,750
 why the swearing thing came up 
in the last episode, because 
 

556
00:31:00,758 --> 00:31:03,612
it's one of the things that he 
does that isn't perfect. 
 

557
00:31:03,620 --> 00:31:06,303
And maybe it's his one way of 
being. 
 

558
00:31:06,311 --> 00:31:09,709
Like this is something that I'm 
doing. 
 

559
00:31:09,717 --> 00:31:14,668
That's not what you guys want, 
but it's an innocent thing to be

560
00:31:14,668 --> 00:31:16,369

 doing that's not actually 
harmful. 
 

561
00:31:16,377 --> 00:31:21,915
So it's like a way of him acting
out without really acting out. 


562
00:31:21,923 --> 00:31:26,460
Like in a family that isn't 
super religious like this and 
 

563
00:31:26,468 --> 00:31:29,720
super strict, would that really 
be acting out? 
 

564
00:31:29,728 --> 00:31:32,055
Probably not. 
You'd probably be like watch 
 

565
00:31:32,063 --> 00:31:35,080
your mouth kid. 
But you wouldn't be worried 
 

566
00:31:35,088 --> 00:31:39,170
about it with the little 
children and leaving a bad 
 

567
00:31:39,178 --> 00:31:42,980
example because most people 
wouldn't have a 100 other 
 

568
00:31:42,988 --> 00:31:46,260
younger siblings to think about 
swearing in front of so. 
 

569
00:31:46,268 --> 00:31:49,432
I was to say what? 
It's not to say it's a sign, a 


570
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,246
sign of lack of intelligence. 
Yeah. 
 

571
00:31:51,254 --> 00:31:55,420
So even the ribbing, it's it's 
totally a reasonable thing for a

572
00:31:55,420 --> 00:31:58,223

 senior in high school to, 
like, let out a swear word or 
 

573
00:31:58,231 --> 00:31:59,228
something. 
I mean my God. 
 

574
00:31:59,236 --> 00:32:01,875
I do think that he feels the 
pressure to be perfect though 
 

575
00:32:01,883 --> 00:32:06,228
and have everybody looking up to
him and I can't imagine that he 

576
00:32:06,228 --> 00:32:11,178
 didn't feel that way. 
And I can't speak to now, but it

577
00:32:11,178 --> 00:32:16,212

 also brings me back to Kody's 
older brother that came to visit

578
00:32:16,212 --> 00:32:20,605

 and his stoic personality that
we got like nothing from. 
 

579
00:32:20,613 --> 00:32:25,580
And he was the oldest in the 
entire family and probably had 


580
00:32:25,588 --> 00:32:30,092
to set that standard. 
So I hope that Logan is OK. 
 

581
00:32:30,100 --> 00:32:32,787
Well, KATU, today he seems well 
adjusted. 
 

582
00:32:32,795 --> 00:32:34,750
He's married. 
They didn't have the wedding on 

583
00:32:34,750 --> 00:32:37,143
 the show. 
He has a private life and when 


584
00:32:37,151 --> 00:32:40,840
he was last on the show and 
random appearances, he seemed, 


585
00:32:40,848 --> 00:32:45,400
you know, what can you gather? 
But he seemed pretty normal and 

586
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,484
 well adjusted. 
Are you going to give us our 
 

587
00:32:48,492 --> 00:32:50,699
next question, darling? 
Kathy and Stephanie want to 
 

588
00:32:50,707 --> 00:32:55,161
know, of all the food you make 
for your children, what do they 

589
00:32:55,161 --> 00:33:00,115
 request the most? 
Do we truly, honestly believe 
 

590
00:33:00,123 --> 00:33:03,560
this is one of the questions 
that somebody asked? 
 

591
00:33:03,568 --> 00:33:08,295
I, well, I, I mean, considering 
what the show is, I do believe 


592
00:33:08,303 --> 00:33:08,867
it. 
OK. 
 

593
00:33:08,875 --> 00:33:14,158
And I'm just going to say I am 
shocked that no one said Robyn's

594
00:33:14,158 --> 00:33:18,660

 pasta dish, which is like 
noodles and marinara and a 
 

595
00:33:18,668 --> 00:33:22,060
little melted like slice of 
cheese on the top. 
 

596
00:33:22,068 --> 00:33:26,155
Oh my God, yeah. 
Yeah, Robyn is obviously a bad 


597
00:33:26,163 --> 00:33:28,780
cook. 
There are scenes later in the 
 

598
00:33:28,788 --> 00:33:32,228
show like where she tries to 
make Kody eggs and it's so 
 

599
00:33:32,236 --> 00:33:34,688
bizarre to watch. 
Like I was like, Oh my God. 
 

600
00:33:34,696 --> 00:33:37,575
Like she does manage to cook 
them, but I don't know how. 
 

601
00:33:37,583 --> 00:33:40,440
Anyway, I'm just saying it's 
funny that no one volunteers 
 

602
00:33:40,448 --> 00:33:43,812
Robyn and and and and. 
No one is surprised by this 
 

603
00:33:43,820 --> 00:33:47,564
either. 
I was a little shocked by what 


604
00:33:47,572 --> 00:33:50,240
they said here. 
Christine's tapioca. 
 

605
00:33:50,248 --> 00:33:56,017
Her mock tapioca pudding. 
Yeah, it takes her 1 1/2 hours 


606
00:33:56,025 --> 00:33:58,767
to make this and it's never 
enough. 
 

607
00:33:58,775 --> 00:34:03,765
They make like 2 huge. 
She makes 2 huge pots full and 


608
00:34:03,773 --> 00:34:08,322
it's never enough for everybody.
She describes it as fluffy Cream

609
00:34:08,322 --> 00:34:11,040

 of Wheat cereal, kind of like 
that vibes. 
 

610
00:34:11,047 --> 00:34:15,060
It does remind me a little bit 
of when I was a kid and my mom 


611
00:34:15,067 --> 00:34:18,311
was like, oh, you can have oh, 
what do you make the boys for 
 

612
00:34:18,319 --> 00:34:20,096
breakfast sometimes? 
And it's like healthy. 
 

613
00:34:20,103 --> 00:34:20,692
Oatmeal. 
Oatmeal. 
 

614
00:34:20,699 --> 00:34:23,849
She's like, oh, I'm going to 
make you oatmeal before school. 

615
00:34:23,849 --> 00:34:26,159
 
Turns out I feel like she made 

616
00:34:26,159 --> 00:34:29,520
me some sort of food for like 
 
babies or like infants. 

617
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,600
Like it was like cinnamon sugar 
 knock off of oatmeal. 

618
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,034
I know what you're talking about

 and my God, people are going 

619
00:34:37,034 --> 00:34:42,960
to be screaming it right now, 
but 
 it is like the runny thin 

620
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,897
version of oatmeal and I cannot 
 think of the name of what it 

621
00:34:46,897 --> 00:34:48,536
is. 
People are literally going to be

622
00:34:48,536 --> 00:34:50,148

 screaming. 
We suck at remember. 
 

623
00:34:50,156 --> 00:34:54,560
It's like all the time. 
It is ridiculous of us. 
 

624
00:34:54,567 --> 00:34:58,697
But even like my husband bought 
the last time at the grocery 
 

625
00:34:58,705 --> 00:35:00,710
store, a big thing of the quick 
oats. 
 

626
00:35:00,718 --> 00:35:04,034
And I don't even like the quick 
oats because the texture is 
 

627
00:35:04,042 --> 00:35:05,144
different. 
They're smaller. 
 

628
00:35:05,151 --> 00:35:09,808
It's like chopped up oatmeal. 
No, I love making like a good 
 

629
00:35:09,816 --> 00:35:13,216
hearty like thick oatmeal. 
I even, and this is like a 
 

630
00:35:13,223 --> 00:35:15,645
little pro tip. 
If you want something different 

631
00:35:15,645 --> 00:35:19,042
 with your cookie recipe, if you
even use the cookie recipe out 


632
00:35:19,049 --> 00:35:22,580
in the back of like Nestle 
chocolate chips, take instead of

633
00:35:22,580 --> 00:35:27,450

 like 1 cup of flour, 
substitute it for ground up like

634
00:35:27,450 --> 00:35:31,040
food 
 processed oatmeal. 
And it just adds something to 
 

635
00:35:31,048 --> 00:35:33,022
the cookies. 
I don't even know how to explain

636
00:35:33,022 --> 00:35:35,378

 it, but it adds a little 
texture and something different 

637
00:35:35,378 --> 00:35:38,680
and it's 
 so good. 
Girl, I'm just getting visions 


638
00:35:38,687 --> 00:35:41,934
of you having we can RIP off 
Christines version of cooking 
 

639
00:35:41,942 --> 00:35:44,640
these days. 
No, she has like white people 
 

640
00:35:44,647 --> 00:35:48,479
meals that she puts online, like
her enchilada casserole where it

641
00:35:48,479 --> 00:35:51,472

 was like, why are you even 
doing this? 
 

642
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,820
And it looks terrible. 
You could do cookies and we 
 

643
00:35:54,828 --> 00:35:57,460
could put it on Patreon and 
people could make those recipes.

644
00:35:57,460 --> 00:35:58,960

 
We for sure have to. 

645
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:03,760
Now this fluffy Cream of Wheat 

cereal knockoff is mock tapioca 

646
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,400
pudding I have. 
 
Wheat, that's what it is. 

647
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,560
You just said it. 
 
Cream of Wheat. 

648
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:09,680
Oh, that's what the cereal is 
 
the. 

649
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,320
Cereal is that you're talking 
 
about? 

650
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,080
Oh my God. 
 
Well, that's how she's 

651
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,040
describing her mock tapioca 
 
pudding. 

652
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,360
I have to admit something. 
 
Please don't shame me in the 

653
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,120
synagogue. 
 
I don't know what tapioca 

654
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,720
pudding is. 
 
It just looked to me like a 

655
00:36:24,720 --> 00:36:27,760
breakfast cereal for kids. 
 
Like literally cream of wheat. 

656
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,840
Like something you would make 
 
for a toddler. 

657
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,840
Yeah, I've never had tapioca 
 
because I think it is a texture 

658
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:37,280
thing for me, which is funny 
 
because I love oatmeal, but it's

659
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:41,400
like chunky pudding. 
 
And this when she says mock 

660
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,400
tapioca pudding that makes me 
 
even question it even more 

661
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,760
because I'm like what is 
 
imitation pudding? 

662
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,520
Well, that's what I kept 
 
missing. 

663
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,960
Like I when I was like, what did

 she say? 

664
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,040
I just put tapioca because I'm 

like mock tapioca. 

665
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,080
What the fuck is that? 
 
Yeah, I'm not even sure. 

666
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,240
And the visuals they were 
 
showing on the screen were not 

667
00:36:59,240 --> 00:37:01,240
helping me. 
 
I I literally just look like 

668
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,680
Cream of Wheat cereal. 
 
It looked like tapioca pudding 

669
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:10,080
and they show like a food line 

like from Oliver or the musical 

670
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,415
like Sir could I have some more?

 

671
00:37:12,423 --> 00:37:16,057
The children are going through 
and she's emptying the bottom of

672
00:37:16,057 --> 00:37:20,079

 the pot and Kody as every 
child walks by makes the child 

673
00:37:20,079 --> 00:37:24,031
stop 
 and takes like 2 
spoonfuls of their mock tapioca 

674
00:37:24,031 --> 00:37:29,440
pudding as 
 like his payment 
and they walk by and it's so 

675
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,680
funny. 
 
He's like making each child stop

676
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,280
and give him spoonfuls. 
 
He's like a tax collector, being

677
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:35,600
like, you have to give me my 
 
bite. 

678
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,280
It looked like it. 
 
It reminded me of Oliver. 

679
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,080
Seriously. 
 
The musical? 

680
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,920
Please, Sam, may I have some 
 
more? 

681
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,200
Except for it's Kody Ask. 
 
And it reminded me of Robyn Hood

682
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,880
when the tax collector comes 
 
around and is like, taxes, 

683
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,920
collecting your taxes. 
 
And it's just Kody being like, 

684
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,840
give me a bite of that. 
 
It's probably one of those 

685
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,960
things that if a normal, like if

 a person outside of the family

686
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,840
were to try it, it would be 
 
absolutely disgusting. 

687
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,664
But everybody else in the family

 loves it because it's like 

688
00:38:03,664 --> 00:38:06,656
their childhood thing and like 
it's 
 something that their mom 

689
00:38:06,656 --> 00:38:08,495
made. 
But everyone, it seemed to also 

690
00:38:08,495 --> 00:38:11,699
 be a united kind of everyone 
was backing it up, which is 

691
00:38:11,699 --> 00:38:13,680
funny 
 that everyone was all 
about it. 

692
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:18,440
So yeah, let's say it was good 

for this family that eats bad 

693
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,360
food. 
 
Yeah. 

694
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,680
Our next question comes to us 
 
from Alice. 

695
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,800
No, she is not lost in 
 
Wonderland. 

696
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:31,720
She's here asking questions of 

the Brown family moving from 

697
00:38:31,720 --> 00:38:34,640
Utah to Vegas. 
 
Have the temptations changed the

698
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,040
family at all? 
 
The drinking, the gambling, the 

699
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,440
hookers. 
 
And I wanted to know if any of 

700
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,960
the kids have been tempted to do

 any of these things. 

701
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,400
Now this is one of those video 

questions that came from a 

702
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:50,080
casino floor and the fact that 

she said hookers. 

703
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:51,400
Hookers. 
 
Hookers. 

704
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,440
Hookers. 
 
I love the word hooker. 

705
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,520
It's so good. 
 
Like I just always want to use 

706
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,440
the word hooker like she's a 
 
hooker. 

707
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,880
Nothing to do with prostitution,

 nothing to do with anything, 

708
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,360
just hooker. 
 
I just love it. 

709
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,598
Call me a hooker, I'll take it. 
 

710
00:39:06,606 --> 00:39:09,770
There was a girl in my 
elementary school and her last 


711
00:39:09,778 --> 00:39:11,890
name was Hooker and that poor 
girl. 
 

712
00:39:11,897 --> 00:39:14,181
That poor girl. 
That poor girl. 
 

713
00:39:14,189 --> 00:39:15,675
Yeah, that's, that's 
unfortunate. 
 

714
00:39:15,683 --> 00:39:18,048
But I, I would literally be 
like, what's up, hooker? 
 

715
00:39:18,055 --> 00:39:20,320
But see, then what if she was 
like, no, you're driving me 
 

716
00:39:20,328 --> 00:39:22,600
crazy. 
And I'd be like, but I mean it 


717
00:39:22,607 --> 00:39:26,280
in an affectionate way. 
I love the word hooker. 
 

718
00:39:26,288 --> 00:39:30,952
I love it, Oh my. 
God I need help. 
 

719
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,400
Jesus. 
Who loves the word hooker? 
 

720
00:39:33,408 --> 00:39:35,590
It is kind. 
It is a good word, right? 
 

721
00:39:35,598 --> 00:39:37,547
It's fun. 
Hooker. 
 

722
00:39:37,555 --> 00:39:39,228
Hooker it's. 
Just got this. 
 

723
00:39:39,236 --> 00:39:42,398
I just picture the word being 
like drawn out with two eyes in 

724
00:39:42,398 --> 00:39:44,520
 the middle of the OS, like 
darting back and forth. 
 

725
00:39:44,528 --> 00:39:47,940
I don't know why. 
So good. 
 

726
00:39:47,948 --> 00:39:51,263
Oh boy. 
Well, you know, it is Sin City 


727
00:39:51,270 --> 00:39:54,546
and Logan does tell us that it's
more prevalent here in Vegas 
 

728
00:39:54,553 --> 00:39:56,740
that I don't know what's more 
prevalent. 
 

729
00:39:56,747 --> 00:40:00,380
The bad things are prevalent. 
Yeah, it's weird because Kody 
 

730
00:40:00,388 --> 00:40:05,315
immediately goes to the children
and says if their school has had

731
00:40:05,315 --> 00:40:08,470

 more temptation here than the 
Utah school. 
 

732
00:40:08,477 --> 00:40:11,774
And Logan says he deflects at 
first. 
 

733
00:40:11,781 --> 00:40:14,063
He goes, the kids are 
friendlier. 
 

734
00:40:14,071 --> 00:40:20,180
And then Maddie pipes up and 
says that the kids are more open

735
00:40:20,180 --> 00:40:22,030

 here. 
So there's. 
 

736
00:40:22,038 --> 00:40:26,706
Drugs and alcohol, but it's just
more out in the open and it's 
 

737
00:40:26,714 --> 00:40:29,703
more like black and white if 
you're like a good kid or a bad 

738
00:40:29,703 --> 00:40:33,396
 kid. 
As opposed to in Utah, the lines

739
00:40:33,396 --> 00:40:38,315

 were more blurred, like kids 
hid stuff more and maybe more 

740
00:40:38,315 --> 00:40:43,436
kids 
 were doing stuff and it 
was just under wraps a little 

741
00:40:43,436 --> 00:40:46,480
more. 
 
And well, well, what do we say a

742
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,440
lot that people lie in this 
 
religion a lot. 

743
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,440
They hide things a lot so. 
 
And alcohol and drugs being more

744
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,680
accessible in Vegas is one 
 
thing, but being placed in front

745
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,080
of you happens more in rural 
 
communities. 

746
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,280
And I would agree with that. 
 
I think it's easier. 

747
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:07,720
It could be easier to find drugs

 or to find alcohol or hookers.

748
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:13,960
In the big city you could find 

hookers, but where I'm from, the

749
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:18,760
jocks were popping pills. 
 
The Freako theater kids were 

750
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,040
straight laced like it was the 

the lines were blurred all over 

751
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:23,160
the place. 
 
And, and those are some 

752
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,200
stereotypes, but they play true 
 to a certain extent. 

753
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,480
And then in the city, I think 
 
people are a little bit more 

754
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,720
just open, like you can tell 
 
what people are doing. 

755
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,000
It's probably just a little more

 obvious. 

756
00:41:34,240 --> 00:41:36,440
And then Kody. 
 
Have quite as big of a reason to

757
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,920
hide it. 
 
Right, yes, when Kody asks the 

758
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:44,280
adults if they have any 
 
temptations with gambling, which

759
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:48,480
is quickly dismissed, I think he

 asks about something specific 

760
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,960
and they don't even know what. 

Oh, remember, someone was like, 

761
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,280
I don't even know about gambling

 and they were like, it's the 

762
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,320
three cherries or make. 
 
Healthier. 

763
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,760
One of the kids says something 

about, yeah, it's the three 

764
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:00,240
cherries, and Kody cuts her off 
 and goes, you shouldn't even 

765
00:42:00,240 --> 00:42:01,800
know about that. 
 
I don't even want you to know 

766
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,440
about that. 
 
Ridiculous. 

767
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,080
It's like you'd find that in a 

cartoon. 

768
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,080
Literally they show it like in 

cartoon characters eyes. 

769
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,000
Sometimes they like show the 
 
things. 

770
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:14,560
Totally ridiculous. 
 
Did Janelle say something at 

771
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,320
this point? 
 
I think she kind of laughed and 

772
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:22,000
was like about the gambling and 
 maybe said like a few things, 

773
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,880
but they weren't like 
 
noteworthy. 

774
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:27,520
But it made me think that she 
 
has gambled maybe. 

775
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,600
And then Kody changes it and 
 
they're like done with that 

776
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,680
question quickly. 
 
Yeah, he's he. 

777
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,840
He scurries them along with the 
 gambling. 

778
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,040
Scurries them along with quite a

 few of these questions. 

779
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:45,360
Yeah, well, he's very open. 
 
Speaking of scurrying them along

780
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:52,640
with questions, we get a video 

again of somebody asking this 

781
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,640
question. 
 
Oh God, this one's a doozy. 

782
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,880
Yep, this one's a doozy. 
 
Question #9 comes from Evelyn. 

783
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:02,520
What does that man do to take 
 
care of all those women in the 

784
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:04,640
bedroom? 
 
Because I'd like some of that 

785
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,120
for my husband. 
 
Oh. 

786
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:10,520
My God. 
 
And all the kids are like, what?

787
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,080
Mortified. 
 
There's this amazing. 

788
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,360
So what's great is that they 
 
first give us this question 

789
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,640
before a commercial, and then 
 
they come back from the 

790
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:22,920
commercial and redo it so the 
 
question gets asked. 

791
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,320
There's like an app break, like 
 the commercial break, and 

792
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:29,200
there's this close up of 
 
Mckelty's face and she's 

793
00:43:29,720 --> 00:43:32,880
mortified. 
 
She's just like, stunned. 

794
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,800
The kids are all literally like 
 asking what? 

795
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:41,680
And Kody says kids, kids out. 
 
He kicks the kids out. 

796
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,720
Kids, you need to leave. 
 
And then the parents are like, 

797
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:48,920
so they the kids do get up and 

Logan actually gets up and says 

798
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:54,000
I'm done and like walks off. 
 
And then the other kids do start

799
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,800
getting up and leaving because 

Kody is serious about kicking 

800
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,360
him out. 
 
And all the parents look pissed.

801
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,920
And this is when they kind of 
 
regroup a little bit and then it

802
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,040
it's kind of looks disheveled 
 
after this. 

803
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,120
And I do think that the parents 
 were actually mad. 

804
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,480
I think that Kody was pissed 
 
here. 

805
00:44:13,720 --> 00:44:17,120
And I think it kind of went even

 more downhill after that 

806
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:21,448
question because the reaction of

 the parents being asked that 

807
00:44:21,448 --> 00:44:24,580
in front of their children, I 
think 
 they were very upset 

808
00:44:24,580 --> 00:44:28,560
that they were given that 
question to read 
 out loud. 

809
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:33,720
And like, I think it was given 

as a video to catch them off 

810
00:44:33,720 --> 00:44:37,320
guard so that one of the parents

 wasn't reading it and then 

811
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,880
decided to stop reading the 
 
question. 

812
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:43,560
So they did it for the shock and

 awe of playing the video in 

813
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,160
front of the kids. 
 
And I think the parents are 

814
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,360
really pissed. 
 
That's interesting because I was

815
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,680
not paying too much attention to

 the parents faces. 

816
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,360
I was distracted by the kids 
 
faces because they all look so 

817
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,160
grossed out. 
 
Like they were all literally 

818
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:59,800
like are you effing kidding? 
 
Obviously Logan's like I'm out. 

819
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,800
They quickly move on like they 

exit the room and then they're 

820
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:07,040
setting back up for the adult 
 
only portion of this. 

821
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,600
And adults look very serious at 
 this point. 

822
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:14,840
Like, I think the producers were

 going to try to sneak in, like

823
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,280
these adult questions with the 

kids there to get reactions. 

824
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,640
And I think that the parents 
 
were like, what the fuck? 

825
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,040
Like, we didn't sign up for 
 
this. 

826
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,520
You didn't warn us of this. 
 
Like, I really truly think that 

827
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,080
they were mad and I don't blame 
 them. 

828
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,640
Like come on, that's like an 
 
inappropriate thing to ask in 

829
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,680
front of minor children of their

 parents on ATV. 

830
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,080
Scandalous. 
 
Oh sister wise. 

831
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,360
So R rated. 
 
Well, I just think it's dumb. 

832
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,000
It's like, obviously they're 
 
doing it to get a reaction from 

833
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,600
the kids and you're talking 
 
about this religious family who 

834
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,240
has declined questions like this

 before. 

835
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,880
So it is just kind of shitty to 
 do this to them. 

836
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,480
I don't know. 
 
Well, Kody says he's not willing

837
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:59,280
to discuss it, and Meri says no 
 way that we would discuss that.

838
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,240
They don't even really talk 
 
about it in their family. 

839
00:46:01,240 --> 00:46:03,440
It's like, of course, we've 
 
heard that from Meri before. 

840
00:46:03,720 --> 00:46:07,600
Yeah, they pass. 
 
They literally say we'll pass on

841
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,280
that one. 
 
And I like, have an asterisk. 

842
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,800
All the parents look. 
 
Pushed. 

843
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:15,680
And then we move on quickly. 
 
Thank God. 

844
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,040
And then our next question comes

 to us from Karen. 

845
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:21,600
Here's an opportunity to plug 
 
our Patreon. 

846
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,517
We recently did an episode of Am

 I the Asshole where we 

847
00:46:24,517 --> 00:46:28,200
discussed Karen's and am IA. 
 
Karen, Are you a Karen? 

848
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,840
Are they a Karen? 
 
So go give it a listen. 

849
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,800
And this Karen has another 
 
question that I don't think we 

850
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,840
would classify as a Karen 
 
question, but her name's Karen. 

851
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,120
So I'm going to say Karen one 
 
more time. 

852
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:47,240
Karen. 
 
Karen asks is there a clean the 

853
00:46:47,240 --> 00:46:51,200
toilet wife, a shopping at the 

mall, wife a bringing the kids 

854
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,360
to soccer practice wife and a 
 
wife that's for the bedroom? 

855
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,920
Because I want to be a shopping 
 wife. 

856
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,640
She's got thick white eyeshadow 
 on. 

857
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,160
This is Karen. 
 
This is Karen, Yeah. 

858
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,680
She's definitely of the time and

 of the place. 

859
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:11,920
And Meri says we're all for. 
 
Yeah, Christine goes. 

860
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:15,920
We're all, all of them. 
 
But we don't have to be. 

861
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,360
And then she did not elaborate 

on that. 

862
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,600
Yeah. 
 
But I kind of get it, like we 

863
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,800
all could be all of them, but 
 
like we wouldn't have to be all 

864
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,080
of them if we didn't want to be 
 because there's more of us. 

865
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:30,840
Oh God. 
 
And then Robyn. 

866
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:36,280
Robyn, she says when Christine 

had truly scrumptious, she went 

867
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,960
over to Christine's house to 
 
clean the toilet, to clean the 

868
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,160
bathroom, to clean the a bedroom

 and to clean the bathroom. 

869
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,960
And she says I was the mall 
 
wife, I was the toilet cleaning 

870
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,200
wife. 
 
And then she makes herself 

871
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,160
laugh. 
 
She starts getting really giggly

872
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,960
and she goes, I forget all the 

other ones, Yeah. 

873
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:58,320
And no one else joins in. 
 
And they're all, like, looking 

874
00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,920
at her. 
 
And she puts her head between 

875
00:47:59,920 --> 00:48:03,200
her legs, like, she puts her 
 
head down and she gets all 

876
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,520
giggly. 
 
Like she's trying to be adorable

877
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:09,440
because I can't remember the 
 
rest of the things that the lady

878
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,520
listed off that the Karen listed

 off. 

879
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,160
Which is funny because it's 
 
bedroom wife and shopping wife 

880
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:19,680
so she's pretending to not 
 
remember because she doesn't 

881
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:25,680
want to answer about having sex 
 AKA fucking Kody Brown and 

882
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,680
shopping because she's a 
 
shopping addict. 

883
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:31,200
Well, she did say she was the 
 
mall wife at the beginning, so 

884
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,680
what's the other one? 
 
That she knows. 

885
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:34,480
Never mind. 
 
No, God damn it. 

886
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,120
My Oh no, no, no, no. 
 
What's the other one that she 

887
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:41,400
missed though? 
 
Clean the toilet Shopping at the

888
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,520
mall soccer practice. 
 
Soccer practice, mom and yeah. 

889
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:49,600
So she's not the soccer practice

 mom, Or she didn't remember if

890
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,280
she was a soccer practice mom 
 
and she didn't remember if she 

891
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,080
was a bedroom mom? 
 
Oh yeah. 

892
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,880
Good for her by the way. 
 
She gets all giggly and forgets 

893
00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:02,600
the rest of the labels for the 

wives and then she puts her head

894
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,600
between her legs is just so 
 
ridiculous and you can tell 

895
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:10,040
she's trying to be adorable and 
 funny here but it doesn't land 

896
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,960
no with everyone else. 
 
Yeah, it's so awkward. 

897
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,440
Yeah, I'm surprised they kept it

 in in a sense, because it was 

898
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:20,160
just another moment of weird 
 
space. 

899
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,360
Her trying to be the pick me 
 
girl, get the attention and 

900
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,760
stand out. 
 
Yeah, I would never talk about 

901
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:28,960
being the bedroom wife talking 

Robyn. 

902
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:32,025
Even her saying that after truly

 was born that she went to 

903
00:49:32,025 --> 00:49:35,520
clean Christine's bathroom. 
 
I I was like what like 1 

904
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:36,320
fucking. 
 
Time. 

905
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,760
I know it felt a little like 
 
she's trying to get brownie 

906
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:39,840
points. 
 
Yeah, it did. 

907
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,720
It's like, OK, that's the thing 
 that people do to help people 

908
00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:45,600
that have newborn children. 
 
It's not that big of a deal. 

909
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:49,663
I always say to people if people

 are coming over after you have

910
00:49:49,663 --> 00:49:53,088
a newborn, you don't need 
someone 
 to come and hold your 

911
00:49:53,088 --> 00:49:55,382
baby. 
You need someone to come and 
 

912
00:49:55,390 --> 00:49:57,229
help you with things around the 
house. 
 

913
00:49:57,236 --> 00:49:59,224
Do a load of laundry while 
you're here. 
 

914
00:49:59,232 --> 00:50:02,425
Bring food over. 
You don't even bring something 


915
00:50:02,433 --> 00:50:06,389
for the freezer. 
Help with the dishes, Wash some 

916
00:50:06,389 --> 00:50:08,652
 bottles. 
I don't need you coming over and

917
00:50:08,652 --> 00:50:11,580

 sitting here and holding my 
baby and gushing over my baby. 


918
00:50:11,587 --> 00:50:14,452
Which, yes, my baby's fucking 
adorable, but that's the last 
 

919
00:50:14,460 --> 00:50:17,783
thing that a new mom actually 
really wants you coming over to 

920
00:50:17,783 --> 00:50:19,440
 do. 
You're like, clean a toilet, 
 

921
00:50:19,448 --> 00:50:19,970
bitch. 
Clean. 
 

922
00:50:19,977 --> 00:50:21,962
My toilet bitch. 
I've been bleeding. 
 

923
00:50:21,970 --> 00:50:23,934
I need some help in that 
department. 
 

924
00:50:23,942 --> 00:50:26,463
I keep bleeding, she keeps 
bleeding. 
 

925
00:50:26,471 --> 00:50:28,614
She needs you to clean her 
toilet. 
 

926
00:50:28,622 --> 00:50:31,062
No, boy. 
You could have called Robyn and 

927
00:50:31,062 --> 00:50:33,509
 she could have came over and 
cleaned your toilet honey. 
 

928
00:50:33,517 --> 00:50:35,952
Professional toilet cleaner 
Robyn over here. 
 

929
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,989
But this is something she does a
lot. 
 

930
00:50:37,997 --> 00:50:43,441
She offers up things that she 
has done to help the other wives

931
00:50:43,441 --> 00:50:48,820

 or she she kind of drops these
little hints or these little 
 

932
00:50:48,828 --> 00:50:51,835
tokens of things that she's 
done. 
 

933
00:50:51,843 --> 00:50:55,927
And I've noticed it quite a few 
times in the couch interviews 
 

934
00:50:55,935 --> 00:50:58,720
before. 
And this is another one of those

935
00:50:58,720 --> 00:51:00,477

 moments. 
And I'm trying to think off the 

936
00:51:00,477 --> 00:51:03,300
 top of my head. 
Obviously, she brings up the 
 

937
00:51:03,308 --> 00:51:06,735
surrogacy offer like every 
single chance that she gets. 
 

938
00:51:06,743 --> 00:51:11,502
And there's been a few other 
times where I've clocked it and 

939
00:51:11,502 --> 00:51:15,502
 I'm clocking it now, like, and 
they could have all piped up 
 

940
00:51:15,509 --> 00:51:17,842
here and been like, Oh, yeah, 
like, you know, we've done this 

941
00:51:17,842 --> 00:51:19,330
 and that for each other, but 
they didn't. 
 

942
00:51:19,337 --> 00:51:21,640
For all the years they lived 
together and took care of things

943
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,305

 for each other. 
Like literally these women have 

944
00:51:23,305 --> 00:51:25,145
 done so much for each other and
Robyn's. 
 

945
00:51:25,153 --> 00:51:27,586
Like I can remember one time I 
came over and cleaned your 
 

946
00:51:27,593 --> 00:51:29,470
toilet when you were after you 
gave birth. 
 

947
00:51:29,477 --> 00:51:33,135
That's the whole point of being 
a sister wife, which goes back 


948
00:51:33,143 --> 00:51:36,360
to Christine's answer. 
We are all, all of them, but we 

949
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,660
 don't have to be. 
Yeah, Yeah, that's literally 
 

950
00:51:38,667 --> 00:51:41,979
what Christine was saying, is 
like, we do everything for each 

951
00:51:41,979 --> 00:51:45,437
 other, and when one of us can't
do the one thing, the other ones

952
00:51:45,437 --> 00:51:48,622

 pick up the slack. 
And you hear, you've got Robyn 


953
00:51:48,629 --> 00:51:53,264
being like, but I do this. 
God, she's just so yucky. 
 

954
00:51:53,272 --> 00:51:58,059
You just love her so much. 
Yeah, question 11 from Azar. 
 

955
00:51:58,067 --> 00:52:02,667
How many wives can a man marry 
in your religion? 
 

956
00:52:02,674 --> 00:52:07,872
I'm sorry, I'm not sure what 
exact religion you practice. 
 

957
00:52:07,879 --> 00:52:15,080
Kody has to point out, of 
course, that they are actually 


958
00:52:15,087 --> 00:52:21,360
fundamentalists, and he likens 
them like fundamentalists and 
 

959
00:52:21,368 --> 00:52:24,778
Mormons to Catholics and 
Protestants. 
 

960
00:52:24,785 --> 00:52:28,200
Yes, we does say that they're 
Mormon fundamentalists. 
 

961
00:52:28,207 --> 00:52:30,460
Mormon fundamentalists. 
You know, splitting hairs. 
 

962
00:52:30,468 --> 00:52:32,540
It's not the same as being a 
Mormon. 
 

963
00:52:32,548 --> 00:52:35,020
Period. 
Yep, it's like Catholics and 
 

964
00:52:35,028 --> 00:52:37,549
Protestants. 
And he has to say that Brigham 


965
00:52:37,557 --> 00:52:41,350
Young had 27 plus wives. 
Yeah, I thought you were trying 

966
00:52:41,350 --> 00:52:45,629
 to separate yourself from him. 
You cancelled Christine's 
 

967
00:52:45,636 --> 00:52:49,348
holiday where they celebrated 
his birthday, right? 
 

968
00:52:49,356 --> 00:52:53,550
And now you're bringing him up 
and his 27 plus wives. 
 

969
00:52:53,558 --> 00:52:55,460
All right. 
Yeah, Kody doesn't think there 


970
00:52:55,468 --> 00:52:59,220
is a limit because he's heard so
many fabulous stories of these 


971
00:52:59,227 --> 00:53:04,266
men with many dozens of wives. 
Of course, the wives all laugh 


972
00:53:04,274 --> 00:53:05,455
at his example because it's 
ridiculous. 
 

973
00:53:05,462 --> 00:53:09,907
Yeah, he's like, as long as I 
can nurture my wives, I think 
 

974
00:53:09,915 --> 00:53:14,195
that I'm good. 
So as long as he thinks he has 


975
00:53:14,203 --> 00:53:17,942
enough to give, he's fine. 
Yes, and for anyone who's seen 


976
00:53:17,950 --> 00:53:20,488
this show, he does not have 
enough to give. 
 

977
00:53:20,495 --> 00:53:23,441
No, he can't even keep the four 
wives he has. 
 

978
00:53:23,448 --> 00:53:27,950
Your child just pointed out that
you who aren't even giving them 

979
00:53:27,950 --> 00:53:30,614
 enough FaceTime. 
Yeah, in front of you. 
 

980
00:53:30,622 --> 00:53:33,185
So. 
In the space real time and you 


981
00:53:33,192 --> 00:53:36,382
didn't even have a response. 
And they're so he is so worried 

982
00:53:36,382 --> 00:53:39,322
 about the wives all the time. 
And like, we've brought this up 

983
00:53:39,322 --> 00:53:41,254
 before that it's not about the 
kids really. 
 

984
00:53:41,261 --> 00:53:44,435
It doesn't seem like most of the
time when they talk about the 
 

985
00:53:44,442 --> 00:53:48,075
four houses, he's talking about 
the wives most of the time. 
 

986
00:53:48,082 --> 00:53:51,500
Yeah, for him specifically, he 
doesn't talk about the children.

987
00:53:51,500 --> 00:53:51,800

 
Yes. 

988
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:57,320
So it's like, OK, you might feel

 like you have enough nurturing

989
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,880
left in you to pass around to 
 
another wife, but what about the

990
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,080
children? 
 
What about the fucking children?

991
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:04,760
Would. 
 
Somebody please think of the 

992
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:08,840
children. 
 
Quite literally though, Oh my 

993
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:12,720
God. 
 
Meri talks about how when they 

994
00:54:12,720 --> 00:54:15,080
got married they knew there 
 
would be other wives. 

995
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:17,840
This is one of her classic 
 
tropes She's I was talking 

996
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,520
about. 
 
We got married and we knew we'd 

997
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,600
bring another wife into the 
 
family. 

998
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:27,480
Sorry about that voice. 
 
And Christine says 4 is a lovely

999
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:31,440
number and I'm done. 
 
We complement each other quite 

1000
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:34,080
well and then she kind of trails

 off. 

1001
00:54:34,720 --> 00:54:36,360
Yeah, she's like, we should be 

done now. 

1002
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,640
She's like. 
 
We should have done at 3:00. 

1003
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,800
They use this as an opportunity 
 to mention the previous 

1004
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:49,000
courtship that Kody and Meri had

 before Janelle, and he says it

1005
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:52,000
has to be the right fit. 
 
We'd have gotten really close 

1006
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:56,840
with somebody before Janelle and

 Meri actually got really close

1007
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,360
with this person and was like 
 
best friends with them. 

1008
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,560
And it just didn't work out. 
 
And it wasn't going to be a good

1009
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,000
fit for us and it wasn't going 

to be a good fit for her. 

1010
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:07,000
So we're glad that it didn't 
 
work out. 

1011
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:11,720
And he's trying to use it as an 
 example of how particular you 

1012
00:55:11,720 --> 00:55:15,600
have to be when adding somebody 
 into the family. 

1013
00:55:16,240 --> 00:55:21,160
But it's just kind of felt like 
 a weird opportunity to bring 

1014
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,520
this up for some reason. 
 
Yeah, I don't quite get what 

1015
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:27,560
it's an example of. 
 
I mean, I guess discernment. 

1016
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:33,160
The truth is, is that they, the 
 alleged truth is that they 

1017
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,420
courted someone who is underage.

 

1018
00:55:35,428 --> 00:55:39,922
So like, she was 1617, whatever.
So I don't even know why you 
 

1019
00:55:39,930 --> 00:55:42,655
would even bring it up at all. 
Like I just wouldn't bring it up

1020
00:55:42,655 --> 00:55:44,760

 period. 
I don't know what it's supposed 

1021
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,476
 to prove. 
That's why I was surprised that 

1022
00:55:46,476 --> 00:55:50,360
 they brought it up and it was a
weird just space to bring it up 

1023
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:52,960
 and it didn't need to be 
brought up. 
 

1024
00:55:52,968 --> 00:55:57,582
And they talk about in their 
book about how she was underage.

1025
00:55:57,582 --> 00:55:59,840

 
They had to plan the wedding 

1026
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:01,695
date so that she would be legal.

 

1027
00:56:01,703 --> 00:56:03,908
Yeah. 
And then they called it off 
 

1028
00:56:03,915 --> 00:56:08,070
before the wedding. 
So why would you bring that up 


1029
00:56:08,078 --> 00:56:11,827
out of nowhere when it hasn't 
been mentioned in the show 
 

1030
00:56:11,835 --> 00:56:13,080
before? 
It's been mentioned in their 
 

1031
00:56:13,087 --> 00:56:15,920
book but not in the show as far 
as I can remember. 
 

1032
00:56:15,928 --> 00:56:19,900
I feel like it's a gaffe but I 
don't know why. 
 

1033
00:56:19,908 --> 00:56:21,725
Very. 
Odd you would bring it. 
 

1034
00:56:21,732 --> 00:56:24,372
Yeah, I don't understand. 
Maybe just him talking again. 
 

1035
00:56:24,379 --> 00:56:26,235
He just always has to fucking 
talk. 
 

1036
00:56:26,243 --> 00:56:29,670
Right, like he, he and Robyn 
both throughout the lifetime of 

1037
00:56:29,670 --> 00:56:33,112
 this show do say things that in
the future end up being like, 
 

1038
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:34,940
well, foot in mouth. 
Like, why did you even say that?

1039
00:56:34,940 --> 00:56:35,640

 
Like why are you even 

1040
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,440
volunteering this information? 

Complete foot in mouth moment. 

1041
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,840
Just like the nachos thing. 
 
It's like nachos Sir. 

1042
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,720
Not train it in. 
 
Unbelievable. 

1043
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:48,840
Talk about your underage fiance 
 from back in the day. 

1044
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,400
But we decided not to have that 
 happen. 

1045
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:56,880
OK. 
 
Danny, Danny Boy, Danny Boy has 

1046
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,840
a question for us. 
 
Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny, says

1047
00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:03,880
Kody, Being that you have 4 
 
wives, is there ever a time when

1048
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:10,280
someone isn't mad at you? 
 
I love this question, I love 

1049
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:14,440
this question and I'm sorry to 

all the women in my life but I 

1050
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:18,480
love this question because I 
 
grew up in a home with a mother 

1051
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:22,120
and a father, a loving mother 
 
and a loving father, and I feel 

1052
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,720
like my mom was pissed at my dad

 all the time. 

1053
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,280
So your laughter is cute. 
 
That literally laughter, ha ha. 

1054
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,200
The question gets asked and 
 
there is laughter all around, of

1055
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,400
course. 
 
Yeah, Christine's like kind of 

1056
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:39,760
laughing and she goes, well, I 

kind of am right now, like kind 

1057
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:42,440
of mad at him right now. 
 
Well, it starts with Meri kind 

1058
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:46,160
of does like a a circle bit, 
 
except for Janelle doesn't 

1059
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:48,200
respond. 
 
Meri says, well I'm not mad at 

1060
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,280
you right now. 
 
And then Kody kind of looks at 

1061
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:51,800
Robyn like well, what are you 
 
going to say? 

1062
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:53,120
And she says, well I'm not mad 

at you. 

1063
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,600
And then Christine says, well, 

I'm kind of mad at you right 

1064
00:57:55,600 --> 00:58:00,680
now, sorry. 
 
Is anyone shocked about that? 

1065
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,000
No one is shocked. 
 
No one is shocked. 

1066
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:04,560
Yeah, Christine might be a 
 
little mad. 

1067
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:08,600
I do think that. 
 
I mean, we'll get into what they

1068
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,440
say, But of course, someone's 
 
always mad at him. 

1069
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:15,120
Like give me a break, he says 
 
monogamous men stop caring if a 

1070
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:18,960
wife is mad and I can't because 
 I need harmony. 

1071
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:24,000
Now I'm paraphrasing here. 
 
The stop caring bit is what I 

1072
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:29,360
see plenty of men doing, which 

is when wives are complaining to

1073
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:32,680
them or talking to them about an

 issue, they kind of just get 

1074
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:36,400
glossy or if something's 
 
happening, they're not really 

1075
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,200
listening. 
 
There's just like AI don't want 

1076
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:42,240
to call it a defense mechanism, 
 but it's a mechanism to just 

1077
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,400
stop the I can't, I'm not going 
 to take it in. 

1078
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:49,120
I'm just going to be here. 
 
Well, it's weaponized 

1079
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,880
incompetence. 
 
It's not growing as a human. 

1080
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:55,800
And like listening to your 
 
partner when they are bringing 

1081
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:59,760
things to you that are 
 
concerning or problematic to 

1082
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:04,080
them, and then you're just going

 to choose not to fix it and 

1083
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:08,280
choose to ignore it. 
 
Yeah, I don't know, weaponized 

1084
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,080
incompetence. 
 
If you haven't heard of it, look

1085
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,040
it up. 
 
And if it's happening in your 

1086
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:13,560
marriage, might be time to 
 
leave. 

1087
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:17,320
I don't know. 
 
The drums. 

1088
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:22,920
The drums said. 
 
Like a true uterus holder. 

1089
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:24,720
Or what's another phrase for? 
 
A. 

1090
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,640
Yes, yes, for a female 
 
identified spouse. 

1091
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,080
Let's go with that. 
 
A female identified spouse. 

1092
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:36,680
They say that most women when 
 
they leave a marriage, it's 

1093
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:41,040
unexpected to the husband or it 
 doesn't seem expected because 

1094
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:44,240
they're not angry anymore and 
 
they've slowly fallen out of 

1095
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:47,275
love over a long period of time.

 

1096
00:59:47,283 --> 00:59:50,535
Because it's the small things 
that add up. 
 

1097
00:59:50,542 --> 00:59:55,600
It's the small things that 
aren't being done that are being

1098
00:59:55,600 --> 01:00:00,990

 ignored or that have just 
after years of the spouse not 

1099
01:00:00,990 --> 01:00:05,730
noticing 
 this thing. 
You just kind of get fed up. 
 

1100
01:00:05,738 --> 01:00:09,310
Yeah. 
And so the rest of their answer 

1101
01:00:09,310 --> 01:00:12,670
 is very problematic to me. 
Oh, yeah. 
 

1102
01:00:12,678 --> 01:00:17,212
Because, well, for many reasons,
Robyn's saying that there's less

1103
01:00:17,212 --> 01:00:21,280

 time to fight because they see
each other for a less amount, 
 

1104
01:00:21,288 --> 01:00:27,863
lesser amount of time. 
And Kody says quite a bit of 
 

1105
01:00:27,870 --> 01:00:33,918
word salad, and he ends it with 
saying that they have to exploit

1106
01:00:33,918 --> 01:00:37,132

 the things that are wonderful 
and ignore the things that are 


1107
01:00:37,140 --> 01:00:41,734
not. 
Oh my God, this is just so 
 

1108
01:00:41,741 --> 01:00:44,305
fucking awful. 
Sounds like they're not solving 

1109
01:00:44,305 --> 01:00:47,500
 too many problems. 
No, and you're saying that oh, 


1110
01:00:47,508 --> 01:00:50,725
men with one spouse tend to 
ignore the problems? 
 

1111
01:00:50,732 --> 01:00:54,710
You were literally just fucking 
said that you have to ignore the

1112
01:00:54,710 --> 01:00:57,875

 things that are not wonderful.
What? 
 

1113
01:00:57,883 --> 01:01:02,970
It's true, he's like this is 
what monogamous men do, but not 

1114
01:01:02,970 --> 01:01:08,299
 me because I need harmony. 
I do what I just said other men 

1115
01:01:08,299 --> 01:01:11,882
 do like crazy. 
Now Robyn detail about what she 

1116
01:01:11,882 --> 01:01:15,276
 said that I want to highlight 
for for those of us who are 
 

1117
01:01:15,283 --> 01:01:19,186
little too into the Brown family
and Oh my God, we need help. 
 

1118
01:01:19,194 --> 01:01:23,760
She gives an example about how 
her mom provided a wonderful 
 

1119
01:01:23,768 --> 01:01:26,155
environment for her stepdaddy 
uncle. 
 

1120
01:01:26,163 --> 01:01:29,390
And this is the whole thing with
where Robyn. 
 

1121
01:01:29,397 --> 01:01:34,282
She definitely saw this example,
in my humble opinion, from her 


1122
01:01:34,290 --> 01:01:38,405
mother, where when Dad comes in 
this polygamous environment, you

1123
01:01:38,405 --> 01:01:42,572

 make it like a vacation. 
Yeah. 
 

1124
01:01:42,580 --> 01:01:44,230
He doesn't have to lift a 
finger. 
 

1125
01:01:44,238 --> 01:01:46,360
We love dad. 
We're going to put on a show for

1126
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:47,509

 him. 
We're going to make him so 
 

1127
01:01:47,517 --> 01:01:48,768
happy. 
Life here is wonderful. 
 

1128
01:01:48,776 --> 01:01:51,885
Dad. 
You want to come here and be 
 

1129
01:01:51,893 --> 01:01:55,839
with us, Dad and spouse. 
So Robyn, throughout the show 
 

1130
01:01:55,846 --> 01:01:58,574
and we'll talk about it as it 
goes on. 
 

1131
01:01:58,582 --> 01:02:01,308
You know, she hires out to get 
everything solved. 
 

1132
01:02:01,316 --> 01:02:04,198
She has a nanny. 
She makes sure Kody doesn't have

1133
01:02:04,198 --> 01:02:09,570

 to do a thing in her house. 
And the other spouses, the other

1134
01:02:09,570 --> 01:02:12,730

 sister wives, probably have 
more realistic situations 

1135
01:02:12,730 --> 01:02:17,580
happening 
 where you might have
to depend on your significant 

1136
01:02:17,580 --> 01:02:21,501
other to be 
 available 
emotionally, physically, in so 

1137
01:02:21,501 --> 01:02:24,466
many different 
 ways. 
It's manipulative and it's a way

1138
01:02:24,466 --> 01:02:26,544

 for her to look better than 
the other wives. 
 

1139
01:02:26,551 --> 01:02:28,635
Yeah, 100 more favorable to 
Kody. 
 

1140
01:02:28,643 --> 01:02:32,410
And she learned it from her 
mother, that hooker. 
 

1141
01:02:32,417 --> 01:02:37,120
Hooker. 
She does say, yeah, that when 
 

1142
01:02:37,127 --> 01:02:41,025
her mom was, when her dad was 
there, her mom basically like 
 

1143
01:02:41,033 --> 01:02:44,805
put it on, like lay it on thick 
for him when they're there. 
 

1144
01:02:44,812 --> 01:02:46,910
And it's obvious that she does 
that. 
 

1145
01:02:46,917 --> 01:02:49,876
And then you get to the other 
households and these wives are 


1146
01:02:49,884 --> 01:02:52,605
being realistic and they're 
expecting growth from you and 
 

1147
01:02:52,613 --> 01:02:55,935
they're expecting a partner 
that's with them on things and 


1148
01:02:55,942 --> 01:03:00,072
that they can like talk to and 
not just Playhouse with. 
 

1149
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:04,628
And so of course, that's more 
exhausting, that's more mentally

1150
01:03:04,628 --> 01:03:09,081

 taxing and whatnot to him. 
So why wouldn't he flit off to 


1151
01:03:09,089 --> 01:03:12,682
Robyns all the time where he can
just Playhouse, Yeah. 
 

1152
01:03:12,689 --> 01:03:17,000
Getting Dick wet, barely has to 
pay attention to the children, 


1153
01:03:17,008 --> 01:03:19,452
eats whatever he wants, doesn't 
have to clean up. 
 

1154
01:03:19,460 --> 01:03:22,356
She doesn't lay a problem on him
at all, ever. 
 

1155
01:03:22,364 --> 01:03:26,110
It's just very weird and it is 
very manipulative. 
 

1156
01:03:26,118 --> 01:03:31,584
And that would very quickly sour
you against your other wives. 
 

1157
01:03:31,591 --> 01:03:33,752
If you're like, well, why can't 
you just? 
 

1158
01:03:33,759 --> 01:03:37,252
Yeah, be like. 
Blah blah blah blah, you know? 


1159
01:03:37,259 --> 01:03:38,960
Absolutely. 
But you know what? 
 

1160
01:03:38,968 --> 01:03:41,220
Be careful what you wish for. 
Because Robyn, you know what? 
 

1161
01:03:41,227 --> 01:03:45,350
You might end up spending a lot 
of time with Kody Brown in the 


1162
01:03:45,357 --> 01:03:47,264
future. 
A lot of time. 
 

1163
01:03:47,272 --> 01:03:50,208
And then it gets harder and 
harder to pretend that 
 

1164
01:03:50,216 --> 01:03:53,880
everything is OK because you see
him more and more often. 
 

1165
01:03:53,888 --> 01:03:58,029
And eventually the looks start 
to fade, the body starts to 
 

1166
01:03:58,037 --> 01:04:01,015
decompose. 
Decompose, the children go 
 

1167
01:04:01,022 --> 01:04:06,128
insane, the household is falling
apart, and you're like, I'm just

1168
01:04:06,128 --> 01:04:08,932

 going to pretend everything's 
fine for Makati. 
 

1169
01:04:08,939 --> 01:04:13,620
Oh, jump to Season 20 and you'll
know what we're talking about. 


1170
01:04:13,627 --> 01:04:16,048
It's no wonder why they're at 
where they're at now. 
 

1171
01:04:16,055 --> 01:04:18,916
He just said it all in question 
#12 yeah. 
 

1172
01:04:18,924 --> 01:04:22,706
And notice how the only thing we
get from Christina's a little 
 

1173
01:04:22,714 --> 01:04:25,520
chuckle, a little joke about how
she's kind of mad at him. 
 

1174
01:04:25,528 --> 01:04:28,112
She doesn't provide any details.
Another thing overall, it's 
 

1175
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:31,000
funny because I think we're 
going to talk about Janelle 
 

1176
01:04:31,008 --> 01:04:34,045
here, but very little Janelle. 
Very little from her. 
 

1177
01:04:34,053 --> 01:04:38,783
Very few opinions from Janelle 
so, and I think that's par for 


1178
01:04:38,790 --> 01:04:41,322
the course. 
Meri usually speaks up more, I 


1179
01:04:41,330 --> 01:04:44,255
think, than we get in this 
episode, but Janelle's pretty 
 

1180
01:04:44,263 --> 01:04:47,842
cool with letting things fly 
under the radar In a little bit.

1181
01:04:47,842 --> 01:04:49,760

 
We will see her give some looks 

1182
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:53,280
to Robyn and she's she's not 
 
part of the Robyn fan club and I

1183
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,800
love it. 
 
But yeah, we haven't heard much 

1184
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:58,560
from Janelle at this point. 
 
Now in this next question 

1185
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:04,040
though, we will. 
 
From Lisa With so many kids, how

1186
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:07,680
is college going to be paid for 
 when the show has shown how 

1187
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:10,440
hard finances are for the Brown 
 family? 

1188
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,240
And they do kind of start by 
 
someone, I don't remember who 

1189
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:17,760
says something like, well, 
 
college is hard for everybody 

1190
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:19,560
like that. 
 
This is a consistent, this is 

1191
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:22,120
across the board problem. 
 
Yeah, like a Brown family 

1192
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:24,520
problem. 
 
However, they obviously have a 

1193
01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:27,960
shit ton of kids so. 
 
Janelle and Kody are like all 

1194
01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:30,160
gung ho that the kids are going 
 to go to college. 

1195
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:33,757
They keep going and they're both

 saying the same thing here 

1196
01:05:33,757 --> 01:05:35,600
while the kids are all going to 
go to 
 college. 

1197
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:40,432
Robyn mentions that it's hard to

 pay for even like one kid to 

1198
01:05:40,432 --> 01:05:44,698
go to college, so they're going 
to 
 have to make it work and do

1199
01:05:44,698 --> 01:05:49,280
what they can for the kids. 
 
But she kind of laughs and makes

1200
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:52,360
a comment and says like, well, 

not all the kids are going to go

1201
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:55,760
to college. 
 
And then Janelle and Kody look 

1202
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:59,920
at her and say, no, all the kids

 are going to go to college. 

1203
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:04,760
And they kind of like heaven 
 
hog, both of them saying that 

1204
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:08,200
like on repeat. 
 
And you can tell that Kody is 

1205
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:13,760
irritated with Robyn and he 
 
says, I hope I don't get any 

1206
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:16,120
pushback on that because it's 
 
wise. 

1207
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:18,040
Yeah. 
 
That is awkward. 

1208
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,531
Janelle makes a statement at the

 beginning after being asked 

1209
01:06:20,531 --> 01:06:22,480
this question. 
 
She says, I worked my way 

1210
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:24,440
through college and I paid my 
 
tuition. 

1211
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:28,240
And so she's so I think she's 
 
trying to demonstrate how it's 

1212
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,360
not necessarily parents 
 
obligation to like give their 

1213
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:32,744
children a ride through school. 
 

1214
01:06:32,752 --> 01:06:34,826
At some point someone does say 
something like what? 
 

1215
01:06:34,834 --> 01:06:37,583
We would love to be able to help
as many, as many kids, all of 
 

1216
01:06:37,591 --> 01:06:40,046
our children, as much as we can 
for college. 
 

1217
01:06:40,053 --> 01:06:43,910
It's unrealistic for most people
to put their kids to college, so

1218
01:06:43,910 --> 01:06:45,900

 obviously for this family, 
it's probably impossible. 
 

1219
01:06:45,908 --> 01:06:49,200
And that's where Robyn does this
whole no matter how much we 
 

1220
01:06:49,207 --> 01:06:50,525
push, not everyone will go to 
college. 
 

1221
01:06:50,533 --> 01:06:53,088
And I hate to say it, but 
Robyn's right. 
 

1222
01:06:53,096 --> 01:06:54,535
She is right. 
I. 
 

1223
01:06:54,542 --> 01:06:55,970
Mean they have a whole brewed of
children. 
 

1224
01:06:55,977 --> 01:06:59,911
It's not like every one of them 
is going to go to college just 


1225
01:06:59,919 --> 01:07:02,592
logically, let alone through 
your own dogma. 
 

1226
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:05,145
Forced education. 
Yeah, and then you got Kody and 

1227
01:07:05,145 --> 01:07:07,538
 Janelle, like, very like, Nope,
they're all going to go to 
 

1228
01:07:07,546 --> 01:07:07,930
college. 
Oh. 
 

1229
01:07:07,937 --> 01:07:10,680
Yes they will. 
And Robyn makes another comment 

1230
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,600
 and she's like, well, when 
they're eighteen, you don't 
 

1231
01:07:13,607 --> 01:07:15,629
really get a real say in that. 
Yeah. 
 

1232
01:07:15,636 --> 01:07:20,156
And then, yeah, that's like when
Kody is like, I hope I don't get

1233
01:07:20,156 --> 01:07:23,379

 any pushback on that at the 
camera, not even at Robyn. 
 

1234
01:07:23,386 --> 01:07:27,040
Yeah, he won't even look at her.
No, he's like saying it broadly,

1235
01:07:27,040 --> 01:07:29,252

 as if putting everyone in 
their place. 
 

1236
01:07:29,259 --> 01:07:33,023
He's putting her in her place. 
It's about her and her comments,

1237
01:07:33,023 --> 01:07:35,542

 yeah. 
And it was great to see Janelle 

1238
01:07:35,542 --> 01:07:37,252
 right next to him kind of doing
the same thing. 
 

1239
01:07:37,259 --> 01:07:39,825
Like she didn't have to say it, 
but she was she was doing a 
 

1240
01:07:39,832 --> 01:07:42,162
little bit of the like. 
It reminded me of like how the 


1241
01:07:42,169 --> 01:07:44,010
queen is the neck and turns the 
head vibes. 
 

1242
01:07:44,018 --> 01:07:47,714
Like Kody's saying it, but she 
and he have already discussed 
 

1243
01:07:47,721 --> 01:07:49,812
this. 
It is very important to them. 
 

1244
01:07:49,819 --> 01:07:54,060
And there's no if ands or buts. 
It's very awkward to watch 
 

1245
01:07:54,067 --> 01:07:59,344
because Robbins had a few 
moments in this where she's been

1246
01:07:59,344 --> 01:08:04,160

 snubbed, where she's acting 
like the head between the legs 

1247
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:08,982
and a 
 few other things. 
And then there's this and she 
 

1248
01:08:08,990 --> 01:08:13,820
gets shot down again and there's
something going on right now in 

1249
01:08:13,820 --> 01:08:19,372
 the family. 
This whole Q&A is tense and 
 

1250
01:08:19,380 --> 01:08:21,769
weird. 
There, I think the word that I 


1251
01:08:21,777 --> 01:08:24,774
wrote down many times is 
awkward, like you were saying. 


1252
01:08:24,782 --> 01:08:27,965
Like just awkward. 
Overall, but they don't talk 
 

1253
01:08:27,973 --> 01:08:30,542
about their problems because 
they don't really have any, and 

1254
01:08:30,542 --> 01:08:33,094
 if they do, they don't want to 
talk about them. 
 

1255
01:08:33,102 --> 01:08:36,426
It's best to just ignore things.
It's best to just snub each 
 

1256
01:08:36,434 --> 01:08:39,340
other on camera and try to make 
someone look like a fool. 
 

1257
01:08:39,348 --> 01:08:41,975
Yes. 
Yes, they're literally making 
 

1258
01:08:41,983 --> 01:08:47,836
each other look like fools. 
If my husband did that to me in 

1259
01:08:47,836 --> 01:08:51,740
 front of friends, said a 
comment like what Kody just 

1260
01:08:51,740 --> 01:08:54,548
said, well, 
 I hope I don't get
any pushback on that. 
 

1261
01:08:54,555 --> 01:08:57,120
And it was obviously about me to
our friends. 
 

1262
01:08:57,127 --> 01:09:00,910
You better believe that we'd be 
fucking fighting. 
 

1263
01:09:00,917 --> 01:09:03,537
Later on you'd be giving him 
some pushback. 
 

1264
01:09:03,545 --> 01:09:09,680
Yeah, there is no way that I 
would like, and I know me and my

1265
01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:12,756

 husband have like said shit in
front of you or like argued in 


1266
01:09:12,764 --> 01:09:14,904
front of you and like we're 
comfortable in front of you. 
 

1267
01:09:14,912 --> 01:09:17,721
But if I was like out in public 
or if there was like an 
 

1268
01:09:17,729 --> 01:09:19,904
interview that was going to be 
posted and my husband did 
 

1269
01:09:19,912 --> 01:09:23,743
something like that to kind of 
like snubby and belittle me, I 


1270
01:09:23,751 --> 01:09:27,032
felt like it was belittling 
because you're not acknowledging

1271
01:09:27,032 --> 01:09:28,859

 her. 
You're saying this broad 
 

1272
01:09:28,867 --> 01:09:32,000
statement when everyone knows 
who it's about. 
 

1273
01:09:32,008 --> 01:09:36,694
That wouldn't fly. 
That would not fly with me and I

1274
01:09:36,694 --> 01:09:40,504

 don't think it should with 
anybody like your partner 
 

1275
01:09:40,511 --> 01:09:41,337
should. 
Be. 
 

1276
01:09:41,345 --> 01:09:43,854
A united front in front of 
people. 
 

1277
01:09:43,862 --> 01:09:48,488
It does seem that they're not on
the same page about this in a 
 

1278
01:09:48,496 --> 01:09:51,630
way where it's almost another 
thing about that, another thing 

1279
01:09:51,630 --> 01:09:55,135
 that makes it awkward is almost
like Kody and Janelle are 
 

1280
01:09:55,143 --> 01:09:57,840
adamant about this. 
They're on the same page, 
 

1281
01:09:57,848 --> 01:10:01,360
they're United front, and Robyn 
is talking about it in an 
 

1282
01:10:01,367 --> 01:10:04,450
almost, if you don't recognize 
what I'm saying, like almost 
 

1283
01:10:04,458 --> 01:10:06,630
dismissive, Like it's super 
obvious, like whatever. 
 

1284
01:10:06,638 --> 01:10:10,264
And it's like, oh girl. 
She is, and it's almost like 
 

1285
01:10:10,272 --> 01:10:13,420
they've never had this 
conversation with her before and

1286
01:10:13,420 --> 01:10:18,928

 this is her first time piping 
up about it and she's not really

1287
01:10:18,928 --> 01:10:22,740

 meaning it like in a sense 
that she completely. 
 

1288
01:10:22,748 --> 01:10:26,495
Yes, it's not like she's saying 
like our kids should not go to 


1289
01:10:26,503 --> 01:10:27,320
college. 
I mean. 
 

1290
01:10:27,327 --> 01:10:30,015
But they're acting like that's 
what she's saying. 
 

1291
01:10:30,023 --> 01:10:33,985
And so they're kind of making 
her look, like I said, like an 


1292
01:10:33,992 --> 01:10:36,760
idiot. 
But also Robyn is probably the 


1293
01:10:36,768 --> 01:10:41,622
least educated of all of them. 
And so they almost started like 

1294
01:10:41,622 --> 01:10:45,520
 making her look dumb like well,
Robyn wouldn't get it so. 
 

1295
01:10:45,528 --> 01:10:48,440
Well, did Robyn graduate from 
high school? 
 

1296
01:10:48,447 --> 01:10:50,747
Unknown. 
Did Robyn graduate from middle 


1297
01:10:50,755 --> 01:10:52,730
school? 
No one knows. 
 

1298
01:10:52,737 --> 01:10:56,864
Like she might literally have 
been like an eighth grade. 
 

1299
01:10:56,871 --> 01:10:59,536
I'm not going to cross any 
lines. 
 

1300
01:10:59,544 --> 01:11:02,432
Well, when you're homeschooled, 
you can kind of flub that with 


1301
01:11:02,440 --> 01:11:05,594
your kids. 
Like, I think a lot of these 
 

1302
01:11:05,602 --> 01:11:10,455
very religious, like, strict 
upbringings where the parent is 

1303
01:11:10,455 --> 01:11:14,301
 homeschooling, and I'm putting 
that in quotes. 
 

1304
01:11:14,309 --> 01:11:17,409
Their children, yeah. 
You get to pick and choose what 

1305
01:11:17,409 --> 01:11:19,358
 your kids are learning, and 
you're not going to be teaching 

1306
01:11:19,358 --> 01:11:22,520
 them what you don't think 
they're going to use, like 
 

1307
01:11:22,528 --> 01:11:24,680
arithmetic. 
Arithmetic, I say. 
 

1308
01:11:24,688 --> 01:11:27,984
That wrong, You got arithmetics.
Arithmetics. 
 

1309
01:11:27,992 --> 01:11:32,480
Arithmetics such as arithmetics 
and seance. 
 

1310
01:11:32,487 --> 01:11:35,110
Aerodynamics. 
Aerodynamics and social 
 

1311
01:11:35,117 --> 01:11:38,200
sciences. 
Yeah, Robyn, but she doesn't 
 

1312
01:11:38,208 --> 01:11:41,942
know, could fill a lot of 
football fields the way that she

1313
01:11:41,942 --> 01:11:45,055

 speaks, even the way like 
she's, you know, just looking at

1314
01:11:45,055 --> 01:11:48,304
Desai 
 coming down the Pike 
like she is not a bright girl. 


1315
01:11:48,312 --> 01:11:52,520
She's just not a bright girl. 
Our next question comes to us 
 

1316
01:11:52,528 --> 01:11:56,594
from Rita. 
Rita like making a Margarita. 
 

1317
01:11:56,602 --> 01:11:59,840
Rita. 
And Rita says since there's more

1318
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:01,940

 than one mom, which one pulls 
rank? 
 

1319
01:12:01,947 --> 01:12:04,770
This one kind of seemed like an 
obvious question. 
 

1320
01:12:04,778 --> 01:12:08,960
Like, duh, depends on the child.
And that's what Meri says. 
 

1321
01:12:08,968 --> 01:12:11,472
Yeah, she literally is like 
depends on the child. 
 

1322
01:12:11,480 --> 01:12:14,174
Janelle says she does with her 
bio kids. 
 

1323
01:12:14,182 --> 01:12:16,614
Duh. 
Kody of. 
 

1324
01:12:16,621 --> 01:12:20,715
Course. 
Kody, this question is for the 


1325
01:12:20,723 --> 01:12:22,883
wives. 
Yeah, but of course Kody has to 

1326
01:12:22,883 --> 01:12:24,767
 jump in and say, well, I pull 
rank. 
 

1327
01:12:24,775 --> 01:12:27,229
Of course I do course 
corrections. 
 

1328
01:12:27,237 --> 01:12:31,135
And then they like do flashback 
to Kody reprimanding Gabe and 
 

1329
01:12:31,143 --> 01:12:33,374
from the past that it is so 
funny. 
 

1330
01:12:33,382 --> 01:12:35,566
He's like tormenting Savannah or
something. 
 

1331
01:12:35,574 --> 01:12:39,476
And he's like, I can't remember 
what Gabe says, but something 
 

1332
01:12:39,483 --> 01:12:44,170
like, oh, it's self-defense. 
Kody's like, it's just like, 
 

1333
01:12:44,178 --> 01:12:46,036
it's clearly not self-defense. 
Yeah. 
 

1334
01:12:46,044 --> 01:12:48,810
And I just love it cuz there are
these moments from when Gabe is 

1335
01:12:48,810 --> 01:12:51,640
 really young that they show, 
like with the flushing or the 
 

1336
01:12:51,648 --> 01:12:54,256
like thing in the toilet, the 
dolls in the toilet. 
 

1337
01:12:54,264 --> 01:12:57,184
There's so many things that he 
does that are like, oh, that 
 

1338
01:12:57,192 --> 01:12:58,480
little shit, that little 
troublemaker. 
 

1339
01:12:58,487 --> 01:13:03,570
And you know, I guess as far as 
pulling rank, it's really just 


1340
01:13:03,577 --> 01:13:06,676
about a disciplinarian vibe. 
Like he's the dad, he steps in 


1341
01:13:06,684 --> 01:13:09,200
as a disciplinarian. 
I'm not sure that I would call 


1342
01:13:09,208 --> 01:13:11,022
that pulling rank. 
I don't think he understood that

1343
01:13:11,022 --> 01:13:13,628

 the question was for the wives
because he's so self-centered. 


1344
01:13:13,635 --> 01:13:17,940
Yeah, he's like I pull rank when
they need course correction. 
 

1345
01:13:17,947 --> 01:13:20,065
Like you said, course 
correction. 
 

1346
01:13:20,072 --> 01:13:23,540
I don't think I would ever use 
that term, but OK. 
 

1347
01:13:23,548 --> 01:13:27,380
And they do show a bunch of 
like, like, a montage of clips 


1348
01:13:27,388 --> 01:13:30,600
of him with the kids, and 
they're kind of jokey clips, 
 

1349
01:13:30,608 --> 01:13:34,340
like they're him stepping in, 
but also the kids not listening 

1350
01:13:34,340 --> 01:13:37,249
 to him right in each clip. 
So it's funny because he's 
 

1351
01:13:37,257 --> 01:13:40,172
trying to say I pull rank, but 
then they're kind of clowning 
 

1352
01:13:40,179 --> 01:13:42,818
him by showing clips where the 
kids aren't listening. 
 

1353
01:13:42,826 --> 01:13:46,140
Yeah, it was funny. 
That is funny, and Meri wraps up

1354
01:13:46,140 --> 01:13:49,120

 the question by saying 
ultimately, it's teamwork. 
 

1355
01:13:49,128 --> 01:13:53,872
Teamwork makes the dream work. 
Had to wrap that up with a nice 

1356
01:13:53,872 --> 01:13:56,575
 little bow on the end there, 
didn't you, Mayor? 
 

1357
01:13:56,583 --> 01:14:02,228
Nice little bow from mayor. 3 
college girls sent this video in

1358
01:14:02,228 --> 01:14:06,960

 and they asked. 
We are wondering what kind of 
 

1359
01:14:06,968 --> 01:14:12,142
hair products Kody uses. 
All the parents laugh, all the 


1360
01:14:12,150 --> 01:14:15,960
wives and Kody and I was really 
hoping to hear your 
 

1361
01:14:15,968 --> 01:14:18,894
understanding of his answer. 
Darling, I'm looking forward to 

1362
01:14:18,894 --> 01:14:21,920
 this. 
Kody says that that's an easy 
 

1363
01:14:21,928 --> 01:14:24,289
question. 
Then they show a clip of him 
 

1364
01:14:24,297 --> 01:14:27,164
taking a towel and like, 
aggressively roughing his hair 


1365
01:14:27,172 --> 01:14:32,575
up with a towel and flipping his
head and Oh my gosh. 
 

1366
01:14:32,583 --> 01:14:37,588
He says that he uses a cleanser,
not a shampoo. 
 

1367
01:14:37,596 --> 01:14:42,616
He doesn't call it a shampoo. 
He says I use a cleanser and 
 

1368
01:14:42,624 --> 01:14:49,282
then I use a a scalp therapy and
then I simply use a follicle 
 

1369
01:14:49,290 --> 01:14:53,880
boost that is supposed to keep 
him from going bald. 
 

1370
01:14:53,888 --> 01:14:56,400
Sounds pretty simple follicle. 
Boost. 
 

1371
01:14:56,407 --> 01:15:00,996
And the cleanser instead of a 
shampoo while they're showing 
 

1372
01:15:01,004 --> 01:15:04,488
these flashbacks to him doing 
his hair. 
 

1373
01:15:04,496 --> 01:15:06,525
And you're right. 
And as he calls it, it's pretty 

1374
01:15:06,525 --> 01:15:09,666
 simple. 
And then they show him in this 


1375
01:15:09,674 --> 01:15:11,925
montage of flailing his head all
around and doing all these 
 

1376
01:15:11,933 --> 01:15:13,748
things, and I'm like, he has 
such a showboat. 
 

1377
01:15:13,755 --> 01:15:17,005
Like he literally can't even do 
his hair without drawing the 
 

1378
01:15:17,013 --> 01:15:18,415
attention of everyone around 
him. 
 

1379
01:15:18,423 --> 01:15:21,270
He flips his hair back in the 
clip, too, and he's like, let's 

1380
01:15:21,270 --> 01:15:23,325
 just leave it like that. 
It looks good like that. 
 

1381
01:15:23,333 --> 01:15:26,424
Like trying to be funny, like, 
as if we really would believe 
 

1382
01:15:26,432 --> 01:15:30,423
that's what he's doing. 
I know exactly what he's doing 


1383
01:15:30,431 --> 01:15:32,470
here. 
I know that he's using like a 
 

1384
01:15:32,478 --> 01:15:35,245
system. 
He's probably using like Nioxin 

1385
01:15:35,245 --> 01:15:39,442
 or Bosley shampoo. 
And then there's like a scalp 
 

1386
01:15:39,450 --> 01:15:44,492
spray that you use that is 
supposed to, you know, stimulate

1387
01:15:44,492 --> 01:15:47,710

 the follicle. 
And he can't think of the word 


1388
01:15:47,718 --> 01:15:49,400
boost. 
He kind of like struggles to 
 

1389
01:15:49,407 --> 01:15:52,486
figure out what it is that he's 
saying, even though he says it's

1390
01:15:52,486 --> 01:15:54,925

 simple. 
I know what he's doing. 
 

1391
01:15:54,933 --> 01:15:59,192
But then he's roughing his hair 
up so hard with that towel and I

1392
01:15:59,192 --> 01:16:03,100

 just like, I want to grab the 
towel from him and be like, you 

1393
01:16:03,100 --> 01:16:05,660
 are negating everything that 
you are doing right now to keep 

1394
01:16:05,660 --> 01:16:08,055
your 
 hair because you are not 
supposed to rough your head up 


1395
01:16:08,063 --> 01:16:11,045
like that with your towel, 
especially if you have like 
 

1396
01:16:11,053 --> 01:16:14,220
fragile hair and you're. 
Concerned about losing it. 
 

1397
01:16:14,228 --> 01:16:16,760
Like, don't rough it up. 
Yeah, pretty common sense. 
 

1398
01:16:16,768 --> 01:16:18,687
And then also the convertible 
vibe. 
 

1399
01:16:18,695 --> 01:16:20,715
His hair's constantly blowing in
the. 
 

1400
01:16:20,723 --> 01:16:24,782
Wind he's doing this stuff for 
his hair, but then he's also 
 

1401
01:16:24,790 --> 01:16:26,756
like not really taking care of 
it. 
 

1402
01:16:26,764 --> 01:16:31,170
But I, I will say that if you do
start using something like this 

1403
01:16:31,170 --> 01:16:35,292
 to prevent hair loss, you have 
to continue using it like you 
 

1404
01:16:35,300 --> 01:16:39,100
can't stop using it or you will 
lose the hair because it's 
 

1405
01:16:39,108 --> 01:16:42,255
actually a hormone that comes 
out through the hair follicle 
 

1406
01:16:42,263 --> 01:16:45,580
and it like suffocates the hair.
It's like a whole thing. 
 

1407
01:16:45,588 --> 01:16:49,102
So you're cleansing the follicle
like out when you're using these

1408
01:16:49,102 --> 01:16:53,238

 products and if you stop using
it, you're going to go bald. 
 

1409
01:16:53,246 --> 01:16:56,134
So, oh, I don't know, good to 
know. 
 

1410
01:16:56,142 --> 01:16:59,700
It's interesting that he's like 
pretending that it's like this 


1411
01:16:59,708 --> 01:17:03,120
simple routine and whatnot and. 
It's definitely not a simple 
 

1412
01:17:03,128 --> 01:17:06,530
process, even though he claims 
it is, because he's doing many, 

1413
01:17:06,530 --> 01:17:07,818
 many things. 
Right. 
 

1414
01:17:07,826 --> 01:17:11,921
And Robyn says it's quite the 
process to watch. 
 

1415
01:17:11,929 --> 01:17:15,540
Turner fucking laughs. 
Imagine like watching your 
 

1416
01:17:15,548 --> 01:17:19,760
husband do that every day. 
Oh boy. 
 

1417
01:17:19,768 --> 01:17:21,414
Yeah, it's weird being one of 
those homos. 
 

1418
01:17:21,422 --> 01:17:23,960
Like we've talked about. 
I'm not a hair homo like I am. 


1419
01:17:23,968 --> 01:17:26,710
I have a full head of hair. 
I'm not worried about putting 
 

1420
01:17:26,718 --> 01:17:29,240
anything on it to keep the 
follicules doing whatever 
 

1421
01:17:29,248 --> 01:17:31,960
they're doing, right? 
Follicles doing whatever they're

1422
01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:33,944

 doing. 
Thank God. 
 

1423
01:17:33,952 --> 01:17:37,604
But if I was, then I wouldn't be
like abrasively scrubbing my 
 

1424
01:17:37,612 --> 01:17:42,888
head with a towel and letting it
blow and high, I was gonna say 


1425
01:17:42,896 --> 01:17:45,030
high octane winds. 
High velocity winds. 
 

1426
01:17:45,038 --> 01:17:48,150
Yeah, like in a convertible, 
like, I would be like, you know,

1427
01:17:48,150 --> 01:17:51,912

 taking better care of it. 
But Kody's, Kody's real bright. 

1428
01:17:51,912 --> 01:17:54,080
 
It's his fifth wife. 

1429
01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:56,440
Because it's vain. 
 
It's like vanity when it comes 

1430
01:17:56,440 --> 01:17:59,320
to him. 
 
It's not like just a simple like

1431
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:01,280
I'm trying to look nice for the 
 day and get ready. 

1432
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:04,760
It's like a showboat thing, like

 you said, and like got to do 

1433
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:07,960
that like. 
 
There's a soundtrack to it, like

1434
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:10,951
when he leaves the house and he 
 goes out, he's hoping people 

1435
01:18:10,951 --> 01:18:14,900
see the hair and recognize it's 
Kody 
 Brown, like it's a 

1436
01:18:14,900 --> 01:18:16,960
billboard on his head. 
 
He used to sell signs. 

1437
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:19,120
It's, it's literally look at me,

 look at me, look at me. 

1438
01:18:19,440 --> 01:18:22,520
You, you see it when he's out 
 
and about and he's doing his 

1439
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:25,120
little like toss his little hair

 toss. 

1440
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:27,640
Head toss, Yeah. 
 
And so I think that's why it 

1441
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:30,040
bothers me to like watch him do 
 the hair routine because it is 

1442
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:33,880
like such a the God, OK, like we

 know where you're going with 

1443
01:18:33,880 --> 01:18:35,560
this. 
 
The thing I don't know. 

1444
01:18:35,560 --> 01:18:38,920
Yep, Kody's gross. 
 
Yeah, well, yeah, I do 

1445
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:42,720
appreciate the fact that he does

 care about his appearance 

1446
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:45,240
though. 
 
Like, I don't know, some guys 

1447
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:47,342
don't even wash their butts so. 
 

1448
01:18:47,349 --> 01:18:51,414
Yeah, let's not talk about that.
That's disturbing. 
 

1449
01:18:51,422 --> 01:18:55,570
It is very disturbing, so I will
give him that. 
 

1450
01:18:55,577 --> 01:18:59,680
Yeah, I'll give him that. 
Let's hope he cleans his butt. 


1451
01:18:59,688 --> 01:19:03,900
We fucking hope so. 
The final question for this 
 

1452
01:19:03,907 --> 01:19:05,987
amazing Q&A session with the 
Browns? 
 

1453
01:19:05,995 --> 01:19:10,710
Oh, so titillate at all. 
We're about to end on a high 
 

1454
01:19:10,718 --> 01:19:12,940
note. 
Oh God, get ready everybody, you

1455
01:19:12,940 --> 01:19:17,180

 are going to be so happy, 
Chandra asks. 
 

1456
01:19:17,188 --> 01:19:22,320
Wives, if one of you passed 
away, would another wife assume 

1457
01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:24,040
 parental rights of the 
children? 

1458
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:29,760
So that would be the topic would

 be death. 

1459
01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:36,240
And Meri says absolutely. 
 
And then she starts sharing the 

1460
01:19:36,240 --> 01:19:40,600
story of her sister's passing 
 
away from colon cancer, which 

1461
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:43,520
we've heard a few times. 
 
And it is a sad story. 

1462
01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:45,320
And Meri starts getting 
 
emotional. 

1463
01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:49,400
And as she's telling this story,

 it's I'm thinking, OK, I've 

1464
01:19:49,400 --> 01:19:51,000
heard this story. 
 
I'm familiar. 

1465
01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:55,160
Her sister dies and then her 
 
sister wives raise her children.

1466
01:19:55,160 --> 01:19:57,480
OK. 
 
And of course, it's you bring it

1467
01:19:57,480 --> 01:19:58,734
up and you might get emotional. 
 

1468
01:19:58,742 --> 01:20:00,542
It's your sister. 
And she's, you know, even kind 


1469
01:20:00,550 --> 01:20:02,950
of gives herself a hard time. 
Like, I can't believe this still

1470
01:20:02,950 --> 01:20:05,481

 gets me. 
And it's like, well, we find out

1471
01:20:05,481 --> 01:20:08,672

 why it does get you beyond 
your sister passing away because

1472
01:20:08,672 --> 01:20:12,574

 there's this new detail that 
she shares that is actually 

1473
01:20:12,574 --> 01:20:15,674
really 
 touching. 
It is very touching and I almost

1474
01:20:15,674 --> 01:20:19,584

 like teared up a little bit. 
And then I had to, you know, 
 

1475
01:20:19,592 --> 01:20:21,254
share some information with 
Chris. 
 

1476
01:20:21,262 --> 01:20:25,212
Like she says that her 
brother-in-law went to his other

1477
01:20:25,212 --> 01:20:29,600

 wife and asked her if Meri's 
sister's kids, his other kids 
 

1478
01:20:29,608 --> 01:20:33,980
could move in with her. 
And the sister wife said no, 
 

1479
01:20:33,987 --> 01:20:38,336
that she would move into their 
home and raise them in their 
 

1480
01:20:38,344 --> 01:20:41,801
house because they've been 
through enough already. 
 

1481
01:20:41,809 --> 01:20:48,310
And I thought that was really 
special and a good, you know, 
 

1482
01:20:48,318 --> 01:20:52,408
tidbit to share when somebody 
has small children. 
 

1483
01:20:52,416 --> 01:20:55,094
The tears were welling up in my 
eyes. 
 

1484
01:20:55,102 --> 01:20:57,580
I was. 
Literally very touched by this 


1485
01:20:57,588 --> 01:21:02,140
story, it was very moving. 
She says that, you know, her 
 

1486
01:21:02,148 --> 01:21:05,575
sister had four young kids. 
It's been 6 years since her 
 

1487
01:21:05,583 --> 01:21:08,148
sister passed away. 
And the kids were really young 


1488
01:21:08,156 --> 01:21:12,424
at the time. 
And I just can't even imagine 
 

1489
01:21:12,432 --> 01:21:17,128
the children going through such 
a hard and devastating loss and 

1490
01:21:17,128 --> 01:21:21,306
 then to be taken out of your 
home and move into a new home 
 

1491
01:21:21,313 --> 01:21:24,020
and be put into new family 
dynamic. 
 

1492
01:21:24,028 --> 01:21:29,424
Granted, it's your sister, wife,
other mother, other mom. 
 

1493
01:21:29,432 --> 01:21:34,296
Yeah, it's still a different 
household and different rules. 


1494
01:21:34,304 --> 01:21:39,986
And I just feel like if that 
ever happened to like me or like

1495
01:21:39,986 --> 01:21:44,041

 if anything ever happened to 
me or my husband or both of us, 

1496
01:21:44,041 --> 01:21:48,843
I 
 would want my children to 
stay in our home and be at least

1497
01:21:48,843 --> 01:21:54,045
in 
 one aspect of their life, 
not not having one aspect of 

1498
01:21:54,045 --> 01:21:55,755
their 
 life upended. 
Yeah, yeah. 
 

1499
01:21:55,763 --> 01:21:58,172
I really appreciated that they 
shared that. 
 

1500
01:21:58,179 --> 01:22:01,195
It was actually very touching. 
It really was. 
 

1501
01:22:01,202 --> 01:22:06,020
And Meri reiterates that her 
sister's sister wife is raising 

1502
01:22:06,020 --> 01:22:11,595
 these kids as if in the same 
manner that Meri's sister would 

1503
01:22:11,595 --> 01:22:13,680
 have wanted. 
And that was very important. 
 

1504
01:22:13,688 --> 01:22:17,375
And she's talked, she's touched 
on this before in the show. 
 

1505
01:22:17,383 --> 01:22:21,362
We knew this, but the whole idea
of being like, no, I'm not going

1506
01:22:21,362 --> 01:22:22,915

 to take in her children into 
my home. 
 

1507
01:22:22,923 --> 01:22:24,920
I'm going to move into their 
home. 
 

1508
01:22:24,928 --> 01:22:29,500
It's really, really, really 
beautiful thing. 
 

1509
01:22:29,508 --> 01:22:33,520
It is, and it's not something 
that a lot of people would 
 

1510
01:22:33,528 --> 01:22:36,545
probably think of and you would 
hope that the person that's 
 

1511
01:22:36,553 --> 01:22:40,102
going to be taking care of your 
children would have them in the 

1512
01:22:40,102 --> 01:22:43,640
 forefront of their mind and 
make a decision like that. 
 

1513
01:22:43,648 --> 01:22:47,260
If you didn't offer it up 
yourself before passing that you

1514
01:22:47,260 --> 01:22:51,474

 wanted that to be done. 
It would be a great thing for 
 

1515
01:22:51,482 --> 01:22:55,981
somebody to offer and just do. 
And that just goes to show how 


1516
01:22:55,989 --> 01:22:59,080
good of a person she was to do 
that. 
 

1517
01:22:59,088 --> 01:23:03,300
And hopefully she's raising the 
kids as her sister wife would 
 

1518
01:23:03,308 --> 01:23:06,878
have wanted. 
And it sounds like it just based

1519
01:23:06,878 --> 01:23:11,430

 on that little thing alone 
like that seems like, I don't 

1520
01:23:11,430 --> 01:23:15,533
know, 
 pretty good. 
And I feel like as a human, I, I

1521
01:23:15,533 --> 01:23:17,824

 could totally understand not 
even defaulting to that. 
 

1522
01:23:17,831 --> 01:23:21,580
If you're in the situation of 
your sister, wife died, your 
 

1523
01:23:21,588 --> 01:23:24,640
sister died, a close person, 
you're going to take care of 
 

1524
01:23:24,648 --> 01:23:27,383
their children. 
I feel like I would default to 


1525
01:23:27,391 --> 01:23:29,248
like, I don't want to live in 
their home. 
 

1526
01:23:29,255 --> 01:23:31,712
I don't want to live in my dead 
sister's home. 
 

1527
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:34,612
I don't want to live in my dead 
friend's home because of the 
 

1528
01:23:34,620 --> 01:23:36,895
memories and the things and what
it would mean. 
 

1529
01:23:36,903 --> 01:23:40,120
I mean, clearing out all their 
stuff or keeping their stuff. 
 

1530
01:23:40,128 --> 01:23:45,150
There's just so many things 
where I feel like that doesn't 


1531
01:23:45,157 --> 01:23:50,800
to me strike as selfish to not 
default to doing what you're 
 

1532
01:23:50,808 --> 01:23:54,620
talking about, even though what 
you're talking about is great 
 

1533
01:23:54,628 --> 01:23:57,184
and what Meri's sister's sister 
wife did is great. 
 

1534
01:23:57,192 --> 01:23:59,872
Well, you're still going through
a loss yourself, right? 
 

1535
01:23:59,880 --> 01:24:03,120
But it's not about you. 
It's about the kids. 
 

1536
01:24:03,128 --> 01:24:07,106
And it's about their loss is 
more significant than your loss.

1537
01:24:07,106 --> 01:24:09,440

 
And recognizing that and how can

1538
01:24:09,440 --> 01:24:13,120
you make that loss a little 
 
easier on them? 

1539
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:17,240
And moving into their home would

 make it easier on them. 

1540
01:24:17,440 --> 01:24:23,080
How can you keep life as normal 
 as possible for them? 

1541
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:26,342
And that would be a huge part of

 it, not taking them out of 

1542
01:24:26,342 --> 01:24:29,600
their environment on top of 
everything 
 that's happened. 

1543
01:24:30,000 --> 01:24:34,160
And Meri makes a comment that 
 
it's times like this and it's 

1544
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:37,240
conversations like this that 
 
make her realize what a blessing

1545
01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:40,560
this lifestyle is for reasons 
 
like that. 

1546
01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:44,920
Because she already knows that 

her sister wives would take in 

1547
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:49,240
Leon and she would want them to 
 take in Leon and raise Leon as 

1548
01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:55,200
she would. 
 
And she drew it back to them and

1549
01:24:55,760 --> 01:24:59,600
that's kind of how they wrap it 
 up, is her touching on the fact

1550
01:24:59,600 --> 01:25:01,480
that her sister wives are a 
 
blessing. 

1551
01:25:02,440 --> 01:25:07,520
And why do we end on this 
 
fucking question? 

1552
01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:11,440
I don't know. 
 
Why do they end on the saddest 

1553
01:25:11,440 --> 01:25:14,520
question of all? 
 
I do not know. 

1554
01:25:15,160 --> 01:25:20,240
This whole Q&A was tragic from 

the beginning. 

1555
01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:28,720
The setup, the outfits, the 
 
questions, the obvious tension 

1556
01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:33,840
between them, the. 
 
Inappropriate question with the 

1557
01:25:33,840 --> 01:25:35,480
children in the room. 
 
Yeah. 

1558
01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:39,520
The sloppy editing, the sloppy 

setup, everything was just 

1559
01:25:39,520 --> 01:25:42,120
terrible. 
 
This episode was it's 

1560
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:44,720
interesting because once again, 
 we have talked about it at 

1561
01:25:44,720 --> 01:25:47,080
length, right. 
 
So when we before we started 

1562
01:25:47,080 --> 01:25:48,760
recording, we're like this one 

might be quick. 

1563
01:25:48,760 --> 01:25:50,640
We might be like whatever. 
 
Nope, sorry. 

1564
01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:52,280
You're in for another full 
 
episode here folks. 

1565
01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:55,880
But there's an underlying like 

about. 

1566
01:25:55,880 --> 01:26:00,680
This negativeness, yeah, there 

was a weird negative vibe the 

1567
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:04,240
entire time and I was like, oh 

God. 

1568
01:26:04,720 --> 01:26:06,960
Well, Kimber, now is your time 

to bring some light and love and

1569
01:26:06,960 --> 01:26:10,720
brevity and happiness into 
 
people's lives by providing our 

1570
01:26:10,720 --> 01:26:14,320
listeners with who your mustard 
 seed is for this episode. 

1571
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:18,920
Who really moved you in a 
 
beautiful, positive way. 

1572
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:22,480
That voice was ridiculous. 
 
I've been making some weird 

1573
01:26:22,480 --> 01:26:23,440
voices lately. 
 
I need to. 

1574
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:29,400
I need to chill out. 
 
You know, I'm going to give it 

1575
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:32,760
to Maddie for the cute story 
 
that she shared about Logan and 

1576
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:36,840
her and Logan protecting her 
 
from the tornado. 

1577
01:26:36,840 --> 01:26:41,080
And they gave us that light, 
 
cute moment. 

1578
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:42,760
Yes, that was actually very 
 
cute. 

1579
01:26:42,760 --> 01:26:49,920
So that was kind of the rainbow 
 in this shitstorm for me. 

1580
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:56,480
I'm going to give my mustard 
 
seed to Meri, and any faithful 

1581
01:26:56,480 --> 01:27:01,120
listener of this show will know 
 that it pains me to do so, but 

1582
01:27:01,120 --> 01:27:04,440
I'm giving it to Meri because 
 
it's a very touching story about

1583
01:27:04,440 --> 01:27:08,040
what happened with her sister. 

She shares the story with a 

1584
01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:10,034
transparency that I appreciate. 
 

1585
01:27:10,041 --> 01:27:14,452
And I mean, she almost made me 
cry in this episode. 
 

1586
01:27:14,460 --> 01:27:17,280
So like, I guess that means I 
got to give Meri my mustard 
 

1587
01:27:17,288 --> 01:27:20,540
seed. 
Yeah I agree that was probably 


1588
01:27:20,548 --> 01:27:24,400
the most touching of the 
touching ish moments. 
 

1589
01:27:24,407 --> 01:27:29,183
Now who is going to be your shit
stain? 
 

1590
01:27:29,191 --> 01:27:32,632
My shit stain is going to go to 
Robyn Brown. 
 

1591
01:27:32,639 --> 01:27:37,960
She left a smear in my underwear
that I was not happy about. 
 

1592
01:27:37,968 --> 01:27:39,909
It wasn't my smear, it was 
Robyn's. 
 

1593
01:27:39,916 --> 01:27:44,308
And when she talked about going 
over to scrub Christine's toilet

1594
01:27:44,308 --> 01:27:48,110

 after Truly Scrumptious was 
born, I thought that toilet 
 

1595
01:27:48,117 --> 01:27:51,466
wasn't dirty enough. 
It needed to be more filthy. 
 

1596
01:27:51,474 --> 01:27:54,420
And Christine's house is always 
filthy, so she could have had 
 

1597
01:27:54,428 --> 01:27:57,096
her work cut out for her. 
She needed double time. 
 

1598
01:27:57,103 --> 01:28:00,316
She needed to go to a rest stop.
We should have brought Robyn to 

1599
01:28:00,316 --> 01:28:02,824
 the rest stop on the side of 
the highway and been like clean 

1600
01:28:02,824 --> 01:28:06,862
it 
 with a toothbrush. 
Robyn, you are a shit stain. 
 

1601
01:28:06,870 --> 01:28:10,165
Yeah, she was being real weird 
this entire time. 
 

1602
01:28:10,173 --> 01:28:15,402
She was trying to be so cute and
so funny and coy and flippant 
 

1603
01:28:15,410 --> 01:28:19,909
with her answers, like, oh, just
like flying up the seat of my 
 

1604
01:28:19,916 --> 01:28:23,020
pants trying to be cute. 
And it was not landing. 
 

1605
01:28:23,028 --> 01:28:26,836
And she didn't catch it. 
And then when she finally did 
 

1606
01:28:26,844 --> 01:28:29,715
kind of catch it, it was just so
awkward. 
 

1607
01:28:29,723 --> 01:28:37,471
And that is why I'm going to 
give my shit stain to Kody Brown

1608
01:28:37,471 --> 01:28:42,756

 because he belittled Robyn. 
And as much as I don't like her,

1609
01:28:42,756 --> 01:28:46,824

 there was the moment with the 
education where he belittled 
 

1610
01:28:46,831 --> 01:28:49,212
her. 
And then I feel like he 
 

1611
01:28:49,220 --> 01:28:53,535
belittled like his children a 
few times with some of his 
 

1612
01:28:53,543 --> 01:28:57,028
answers and not maybe treating 
them with respect. 
 

1613
01:28:57,036 --> 01:29:01,111
Like you still need to treat 
your children with respect. 
 

1614
01:29:01,119 --> 01:29:06,782
And some of the answers made me 
question if he really does that,

1615
01:29:06,782 --> 01:29:11,454

 if he looks at them as 
individuals or just like his 
 

1616
01:29:11,462 --> 01:29:12,050
chattel. 
Yeah. 
 

1617
01:29:12,058 --> 01:29:15,498
I don't think he looks at them 
as individuals like real people 

1618
01:29:15,498 --> 01:29:19,541
 like no. 
Yeah, I feel like he had more 
 

1619
01:29:19,549 --> 01:29:26,085
than a few times in this where 
he was angry, like obviously 
 

1620
01:29:26,093 --> 01:29:31,390
upset, and then talked down upon
people. 
 

1621
01:29:31,398 --> 01:29:37,148
It was odd. 
And something is going on here. 

1622
01:29:37,148 --> 01:29:38,720
 
There is tension. 

1623
01:29:39,280 --> 01:29:43,720
There's not a lot of answers 
 
from Janelle and Christine. 

1624
01:29:43,840 --> 01:29:48,000
There's not a lot of depth to 
 
most of their answers that were 

1625
01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:54,960
given, and I don't know why they

 even did this. 

1626
01:29:55,120 --> 01:29:58,200
Yeah, I don't get it. 
 
Yeah, definitely felt like weird

1627
01:29:58,200 --> 01:30:01,360
filler and last minute and 
 
poorly executed. 

1628
01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:04,960
Very strange. 
 
Yeah, our real shit stain is 

1629
01:30:04,960 --> 01:30:07,160
going to go to the producers 
 
because what the fuck? 

1630
01:30:07,160 --> 01:30:08,760
What the? 
 
Fuck was that? 

1631
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:11,600
What was it? 
 
Why? 

1632
01:30:13,440 --> 01:30:18,520
Why Our keep Sweep moment this 

week comes to us from Aunt 

1633
01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:22,160
Carrie 11. 
 
Hi, Aunt Carrie 11 Kimber, say 

1634
01:30:22,160 --> 01:30:22,920
hi. 
 
Hi. 

1635
01:30:25,040 --> 01:30:28,320
And Aunt Carrie 11 says the 
 
commercial broke in for me just 

1636
01:30:28,320 --> 01:30:30,680
as you started to say your kids 
 won't pick up their effing. 

1637
01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:35,440
And it sounded like you were 
 
getting censored and I freaking 

1638
01:30:35,440 --> 01:30:37,800
cracked up. 
 
It was so funny. 

1639
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:42,720
I love you too. 
 
And thank you, Aunt Carrie 11, 

1640
01:30:42,760 --> 01:30:44,720
for the love. 
 
We love you too. 

1641
01:30:45,320 --> 01:30:47,720
That is ironic that it would cut

 in right there. 

1642
01:30:47,800 --> 01:30:50,960
I love it. 
 
Your kids don't pick up their F 

1643
01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:54,880
and bleep. 
 
I hope we don't get any more 

1644
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:57,360
Q&A's in the near future. 
 
Same. 

1645
01:30:58,240 --> 01:31:02,400
Next episode is the final 
 
episode of season 4 and I think 

1646
01:31:02,400 --> 01:31:05,960
it's something about Logan, his 
 next step in life like leaving 

1647
01:31:05,960 --> 01:31:07,720
high school, going to college, 

doing. 

1648
01:31:07,840 --> 01:31:11,800
Something off in a convertible 

in the Sunset Grease style. 

1649
01:31:12,280 --> 01:31:15,000
Oh my gosh, into the. 
 
Sky hang up into the sky and 

1650
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:20,440
code is convertible. 
 
And who's in the car with him? 

1651
01:31:20,440 --> 01:31:22,760
This girlfriend that he doesn't 
 have, that he hasn't kissed 

1652
01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:25,680
them. 
 
And she puffs her hair and turns

1653
01:31:25,680 --> 01:31:27,600
around and gives us a little 
 
wink as they drive off. 

1654
01:31:28,040 --> 01:31:32,720
Yes, and if I could ask for 
 
anything it would be more 

1655
01:31:32,720 --> 01:31:35,320
hookers and less. 
 
Q&A. 

1656
01:31:35,560 --> 01:31:37,262
'S less Q&A's and more hookers. 
 

1657
01:31:37,269 --> 01:31:40,700
Do you hear me puddle monkey? 
More hookers. 
 

1658
01:31:40,708 --> 01:31:41,840
God bless.