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Welcome to Splendid Spirits. 
I'm your host, Gary, along with 

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my nephew John Santa from Santa 
Paranormal, where we try to make

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sense of the question, what are 
spirits? 

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Today we're spending veteran's 
day in the quiet cemetery 

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watching John do something he's 
been doing for years, cleaning 

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the headstones of the forgotten.
This one belongs to a soldier. 

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In his work documenting ghosts 
at cemeteries, John comes across

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the graves of servicemen and 
women, while mainly men because 

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the cemeteries he frequents hold
the remains of Civil and 

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Evolutionary War vets who were 
predominantly male. 

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There's a different dynamic to 
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Duty, sacrifice, the need to 
share their story, but there's 

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also pride and peace. 
As John restores this headstone,

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we'll talk about his process, 
how and why he started doing 

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this, and what he feels when he 
connects with spirits while 

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doing this, especially the 
soldiers. 

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Again, it's Veteran's Day and 
cleaning the headstone is just a

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small service John provides and 
thanks for theirs. 

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Let's dive into the 
conversation. 

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Let's let the spirit box run for
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Make sure it's not drowning out 
the sound. 

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It's going now, is it? 
Is it overpowering or is it 

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good? 
It's OK, I don't mind it. 

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I don't think anybody minds it. 
When the spirit boxes are, we 

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hear ghosts coming through. 
Well, sometimes when we talk it 

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could be conflicting if it's too
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All right, Well, we'll we'll see
how it goes. 

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We have to move the speaker. 
It's fine, Mr. Dave. 

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Hey, John. 
What's up, man? 

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Where? 
Where? 

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Where are you today? 
So we are at a local seminary 

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here in New York in a section 
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down to, which is the veteran 
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And the reason for that is 
there's a lot of newer graves 

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here, but there's also a lot of 
older ones as well. 

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It's a good mix. 
We are currently at the Civil 

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War Monument where a bunch of 
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So there's a lot of, So these 
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the area, Obviously, yes. 
What's what are some of the 

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dates on those? 
So I mean, we're looking at 1913

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nineteen O 9. 
I can't see the one in front of 

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us that we're about to clean. 
What else do we got here? 

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And then some have no dates. 
And I believe the ones that have

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no dates on them were actually 
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War. 
I mean, there's even a couple of

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unknown headstones here. 
So like, you know, people that 

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they couldn't identify. 
So, John, you do a lot of 

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soldiers. 
Yeah, you find a lot of them. 

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Especially, especially here in 
New York, I come across a lot of

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Civil War soldiers, and that's 
because this New York supplied 

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the most men for the Civil War, 
had the most casualties and a 

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lot of these. 
No kidding, I didn't know that. 

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Is that true? 
That's very true. 

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So when we went to Gettysburg, 
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New York monuments to all the 
volunteer, the infantry, the you

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know, all there were just tons 
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many different volunteer groups 
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Gettysburg Gettysburg, PA is 
full of monuments to soldiers 

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from New York. 
That's I, I, I actually didn't 

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know that. 
That's it. 

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That's yeah. 
I didn't realize that either. 

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What made me realize that is 
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War headstones there are. 
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many in New York? 
The war never touched New York, 

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and that's the reason. 
Do you feel you have any sort of

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special connection to to the 
military or to these soldiers 

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when you're out there? 
Did you treat it differently or 

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what's what do you? 
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So I don't, I don't treat them 
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I treat them like every other, 
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with. 
However, it seems that when I do

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come across a soldier, they do 
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me. 
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don't know why. 
Maybe it's because of what 

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they've dealt with and what 
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And you know, they're a little 
more above average than your 

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average spirit in that regards. 
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And what what emotions tend to 
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Like do you find? 
Is it pride or sadness or a 

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sense of duty or confusion? 
Like what? 

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What do you usually? 
Get you know what it is, it's 

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usually them just talking about 
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It's almost like they just want 
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than they're like, you know, 
like being mentally affected by 

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it still. 
It's almost like they've come to

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peace with it, you know, for the
reasons they served and the 

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reasons they went through what 
they went through and they, they

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just want to speak about it in 
my, in my opinion and like from 

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what I've come. 
Across. 

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Sure, of course. 
I mean, yeah, we like, we're 

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talking about your opinion. 
Have you ever felt like a 

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collective energy when you're in
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Like you talk a lot about 
feeling that vibration, that 

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jello feeling when you're in a 
situation where you are going to

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buy a monument like that, Is it 
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Else, Nope, no, no. 
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You know Gettysburg. 
Did. 

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Gettysburg did as a whole, but 
as far as like here, no. 

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Do you, do you feel that they 
that the spirits of soldiers 

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like, seem aware, more aware of 
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No, OK, no, except, except I 
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that I've dealt with, he had one
in one spirit in particular that

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I dealt with. 
Mr. Churchwell seemed to have 

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almost like spirits around him 
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almost like protective if you 
will, so that. 

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But what other ones? 
I haven't noticed that. 

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And Churchwell, see, he's one of
the one of your first right like

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to come through. 
It's. 

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Time in this whole process. 
Yeah, not one of my first, but 

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one of the more popular, yeah. 
So we're going to do, we're 

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going to do a little grave 
cleaning today and. 

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On, on. 
We're going to have to give one 

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second. 
Wait a minute. 

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We're going to be we're this is 
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and then. 
We're going to have to repeat 

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ourselves and I'll explain why, 
OK? 

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Groundskeepers. 
Yeah, yeah, I'm friends with all

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the groundskeepers here and and 
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yeah. 
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No problem. 
We'll cut around it. 

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We'll cut around it. 
So all right, we're going to do 

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a little, We're going to do what
something you've become very 

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popular for which I don't think 
we've really focused on in the 

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podcast yet, which is cleaning 
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Cleaning headstones, Yeah. 
And being, you know, when we're 

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going to do it for one of these 
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you know, you don't just clean 
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Sometimes you repair flags, 
right? 

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You do all that. 
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good. 
I, I make sure they look good. 

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So like, for example, like like 
this one right here, like if you

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look at it, the flags a little 
above, you know, you can see it,

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it's like above and it's 
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So we'll make sure that's as 
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You know, we'll, we'll just make
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We're going to make the whole 
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that. 
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start cleaning headstones in the
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So it was actually just as 
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spirits and go into these same 
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looking at their headstones and 
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And then I just started started 
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That's that's as simple as it 
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It was like, you know what, let 
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Maybe you care, maybe you don't.
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them care. 
That's amazing and I want to 

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hear about that for in a second.
So it's you just so you found a 

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dirty headstone, you decided to 
clean it. 

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Did you do any sort of like 
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Local. 
Prep What preparation did you 

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make to clean a headstone? 
Did you know about how to clean 

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a headstone? 
Did. 

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You like, yeah, I have. 
I have years and years of 

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contracting experience, 
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I've worked for a lot of very 
wealthy, wealthy people that 

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have a lot of wealthy stuff 
outside statues, you know, 

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artwork and things like that. 
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contracted to handle the outdoor
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So I, I've cleaned, I've cleaned
outdoor stuff that is a lot more

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expensive than a headstone. 
Let's just put it that time. 

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So and. 
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This was second nature. 
No, no. 

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OK, so that that's that's just 
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prep for cleaning when you look 
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Do you ever look at a stone and 
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I shouldn't touch this. 
Way it looks too fragile. 

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So for for 1st is the material 
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If it's a sandstone headstone, 
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brown headstones that have like 
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the also school designs. 
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Hollow or like like a lot of old
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Home Depot or whatever, like the
mock props are modeled after 

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these. 
These are sandstone headstones. 

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I don't touch them. 
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Most of the ones you come across
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So if it's a sandstone 
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There are ways to clean those 
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them for the most part All 
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The second thing I look for is 
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to the stone. 
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shake, you know, I see, I see, 
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topple over while I'm cleaning 
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And then if that's good, the 
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hand and I just rub it along 
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And I make sure that my hand 
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to knock off any of the 
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anything. 
Make sure nothing flakes off it 

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that's not supposed to flake. 
And then once it passes those, 

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you know, once that's it, then 
we, we, you know, it passes the 

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test and I can clean the stone. 
And what are your tools to clean

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a stone? 
Just two basic brushes. 

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You know, I don't use any metal 
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They're always like the Poly 
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You know, your regular brush you
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your kitchen with or a bathroom 
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OK, but it's light scrubbing. 
That's the thing. 

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You have to scrub light. 
You can't scrub heavy with 

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these. 
OK, I've heard you say this 100 

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times. 
You just use a little bit of 

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dawn and water. 
That's it, just a little bit 

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dawn and water. 
Because the dog just breaks the 

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oil apart or dirt off and 
that's. 

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Everything. 
It literally is amazing. 

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Like what Dawn does. 
It really is like, yeah, sponsor

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me, Dawn. 
I know, right? 

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I mean, it's true. 
It's not just for baby ducks 

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anymore, you know. 
Oh my God, that's funny. 

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And you know, and here's 
something that's funny too. 

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I've heard people, and I've seen
people in the chat, when you're 

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doing this, comment on this and 
critique it. 

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Why do you clean the stone from 
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down? 
Everybody's instinct is to go 

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top down. 
Everybody's instinct is to go 

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top down. 
So again, going back to my old 

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contracting days and not just 
contracting days when I was a 

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volunteer firefighter, when 
we're when we're cleaning 

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anything, you always want to go 
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because if you start from the 
top, all the suds are going to 

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rush down and you might miss a 
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Cleaning from the bottom up 
ensures that you get every spot 

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on whatever you're cleaning, 
whether it's a fire truck, 

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whether it's a statue, whether 
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That is so, I mean, it's what's 
funny is that it's such a clean 

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explanation that you never 
rethink about, you know, it's 

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OK. 
That makes a lot of sense. 

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That makes a lot of sense. 
So when you're out there, John, 

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and you're doing this and you're
got the spirit box going, do you

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find it? 
Do you feel it more as a ritual 

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in a weird way or a restoration 
project? 

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Both. 
Both and and and a personal 

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ritual. 
I feel very at peace when doing 

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this. 
Like I could have the most 

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stressful day going and then all
the sudden I'll start cleaning a

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headstone and it literally all 
just everything disappears. 

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It's just me and the stone. 
Sometimes I even forget I'm 

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recording or I'm live, you know,
like it's everything just 

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disappears. 
And, and, and you can see this 

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when a spirit says something and
I act shocked about it, like, 

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like, what did you say? 
Because I forget what I'm doing.

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I just get in the zone like 
tunnel vision if you will. 

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Right. 
Sure. 

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And what's the most moving 
headstone you've ever worked on?

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I would have to say it's the 
children that come through that 

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speak about how nobody visits 
them and how they're alone and 

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they can't find their family. 
That's happened to me a couple 

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of times. 
So it's it's it's usually the 

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children got. 
It got it. 

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Have you ever had a spirit be 
ungrateful? 

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Yes. 
I've cleaned I I don't even know

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how many headstones I've cleaned
to date. 

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Like I can't even think about 
the number but I've had two that

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have did not want me cleaning 
their headstone. 

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Funny enough they were uncle and
nephew and I had no idea. 

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I had no idea but they were 
uncle and nephew and night and 

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and months apart. 
We're talking almost a year 

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apart from each other. 
Neither of them wanted me 

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cleaning their headstone like 
this. 

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You mean you mean months apart 
in their death? 

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No, no, months apart from the 
cleaning. 

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Oh, from the cleaning, Yeah, got
it. 

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Got it. 
Months apart from the cleaning. 

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And they they want another. 
What did they say to you? 

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They basically you could start 
to hear it. 

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They, they don't want me there, 
you know, leave, go away, you 

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know, stop doing this, you know,
things like that. 

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And then it's like, OK, you 
know, like. 

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Did you stop or did you clean it
anyway? 

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Well, so no, I stopped each 
time. 

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Oh, well, you know what? 
It depends if you ask the 

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Internet, because if you go to 
those videos that were both of 

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them went viral, you know, 
people were like, you should 

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have stopped immediately. 
And I'm like, so you want me to 

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leave the soapy suds on the 
headstone, You know? 

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No, I'm going to rinse this off 
and then walk away from it. 

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Like, so In my eyes, I stopped. 
In other's eyes, not so much. 

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It depends. 
On you, Yeah, You can't you 

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can't you? 
Can't win them. 

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Off Did it feel different having
spirits not want you there? 

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No. 
No. 

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No, it was just like, OK, the 
only thing, the only thing that 

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that that does suck is I wish I 
didn't waste my time with that 

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one. 
And I and I cleaned and I 

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cleaned one that wanted it, you 
know, like that's the only 

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thing. 
But other than that, no, it 

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doesn't feel any different. 
Do you? 

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Is the act of cleaning a 
headstone business create more 

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dialogue than when you don't? 
Do you feel like when you do 

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that you have a better 
interaction with Spirit? 

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No, no, because there's been 
like, for example, like 

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yesterday I cleaned the 
headstone and nothing came 

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through. 
Just a regular spirit chatter. 

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No, thank you. 
There's no, hey, he's cleaning, 

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you know, nothing like that. 
It was just regular. 

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It's interesting, it's a, it's, 
it's interesting the kind of 

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energy but and do you feel, but 
you feel like children might 

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respond more when you're there 
because you're giving. 

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Attention. 
Versus a soldier. 

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No, so, so it's interesting with
children, with the children, you

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get a, you get a double chance 
that either the child's going to

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come through depending on the 
age of the child and, or the 

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parents. 
So that's another thing. 

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I've had parents come through a 
lot that are that thank me for 

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cleaning their child's head or 
at least make it known, hey, 

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that's my son, that's my 
daughter, you know, like, like, 

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you know, unmistakably make it 
known like they say it, you 

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know, directly. 
I got to tell you the idea of 

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energy and imprinting is real, 
which we like to believe it is. 

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The idea that the energy around 
a child's grave I would feel 

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would be hot, like quote UN 
quote hotter, right? 

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I feel like that is what could 
possibly be worse of a loss than

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a parent, you know, burying 
their child. 

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Let's let's, yeah. 
So let's put it in perspective 

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like this. 
Let's talk about the data. 

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I have a higher chance of 
hearing from a child and, or the

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parents or both then if I were 
to go to an adult's headstone. 

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If I go to an adult's headstone 
and it happens, like I've gone 

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up to some headstones where a, 
a, a, a child, or at least, you 

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know, a grown child is like, 
that's my dad. 

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You know, that's my father. 
And it's like, oh, OK, but it's 

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not as frequent as with a 
child's headstone. 

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So there's definitely more of a 
chance for communicate spirit, 

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communication with a child's 
headstone, whether it's 

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imprinting, whether it's 
something else, they, they, the 

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data is there and shows. 
Have you, have you analyzed the 

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data in a sense of you know of 
the words coming through or the 

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OR the conversation you're 
getting? 

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Do you find that it's more 
emotion based around a child's 

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headstone versus a soldier's 
headstone? 

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That might be more, yes. 
They might be more reserved. 

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Yes, So you know, it's so funny 
you, you, you asked that 

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question. 
I did in one day, literally 

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like, you know, no breaks or 
anything, cleaned a child's 

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headstone and cleaned the 
soldiers headstone. 

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And that day we got more about 
the child's than we did about 

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the soldier. 
Do you find, I guess is it you 

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find more facts with a soldier 
than personality or you or the 

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other way? 
Do you see what I'm saying? 

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Like what? 
I see what? 

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I see what you're saying. 
Both, actually. 

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Because like, Churchwell is 
another great example. 

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Churchwell, before we even 
cleaned his head, some was 

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telling us about the Battle of 
the Wilderness and he was giving

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us details. 
Now we didn't know what he was 

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talking about because they were 
vague details. 

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He was talking about war in his 
backpack and being hurt and and 

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dying in the in from his 
injuries and things like that. 

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And it that could have been 
applied to any war. 

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So we didn't, we didn't know 
exactly what which war he was 

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speaking about. 
And then when he cleaned his 

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headstone, we found out via the 
inscription that he died in the 

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battle, Battle of the 
Wilderness. 

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When we looked up the Battle of 
the Wilderness, he found out 

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that it lasted for three days, 
that a lot of soldiers died 

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after the fact from their 
injuries they received. 

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So a lot of the things that 
Churchwell was saying about the 

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Battle of the Wilderness all 
added up. 

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That's. 
Why It was both, though. 

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It was both. 
He had a personality while he 

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was telling us. 
Yeah, we've taught. 

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Yeah, Church was a good one. 
I mean, he seems to be one that 

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was very. 
And have you spoken to him in a 

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while or is he sort of faded 
off? 

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Yeah, he disappeared for a 
while. 

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Like every time I went to his 
headstone, he wasn't there. 

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And then when he came back, he 
wasn't the same. 

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We don't know why. 
We don't know if wherever he 

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went, he left more of his energy
there and only a fragment of him

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came back. 
You know, I, I, I don't know. 

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I still how they don't know. 
So how long ago was it when you 

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first came in contact with that?
Soldier 2020. 

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The end of 2022. 
Beginning of 2023. 

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OK. 
And then you were so you you 

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started a conversation, you 
started the documenting of that.

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And then? 
And how long before you first 

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started talking, did you first 
clean his head stone? 

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I cleaned his headstone probably
about about four or five months 

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after the initial contact. 
Got it. 

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And then how long after cleaning
his headstone did you remain in 

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contact up in whenever you went 
there? 

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Up until about the beginning or 
maybe a couple months after 

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2024. 
So about a year. 

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About a year, yeah. 
We had a year, a year, a year 

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and a year and a half about. 
And did you go in that year and 

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a half? 
How often did you visit? 

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Was it once a week? 
Was it? 

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Every other day. 
Oh, so wow. 

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So it was a lot. 
It was a lot. 

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You talk and you got a lot of 
contacts. 

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A lot of contact, Yep. 
You have a lot of church walk 

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contact and then all. 
So it's interesting that that 

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that's maybe he had got, maybe 
he got everything out of him 

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that he could get like, you 
know. 

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Everybody we, I told. 
You all that? 

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Yeah, we found. 
All I know is that he left 

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because he didn't come through 
at all, at all. 

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Every time we went and then 
December he came back and when 

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he came back he was just, he was
different. 

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He just doesn't speak like he 
used to. 

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It's almost like he's weak or a 
part of him just isn't there so.

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All right, well, let's see. 
Let's see what we're going to be

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doing today here with this talk.
Talk to us about this specific 

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session. 
You said it was the Civil War 

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Memorial. 
So this is the Civil War 

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Memorial, and this part of the 
cemetery is more dedicated to 

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veterans. 
And this is the beginning. 

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So we have a bunch of different 
headstones scattered throughout 

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this square weekend. 
Again, in this plot. 

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Some of them were unknown. 
Yeah. 

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And others, you know, names. 
Now, I'm pretty sure this one 

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has a name. 
I just can't read his headstone 

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yet. 
All right, Well, shall we get 

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into it? 
You want? 

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Are you ready? 
Yeah. 

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Let's do it. 
Let's, let's see what they, 

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let's see if we can. 
This person would like to speak.

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To us as well All right, so hold
on now. 

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They they recently shut the 
water down here at the cemetery 

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for the season, but it's still 
beautiful. 

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So I brought some water. 
How long when do you have to 

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stop doing this because of the 
weather? 

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When the when the when it starts
to freeze. 

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Got it. 
The last thing, the last thing 

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you want to do, the last thing 
you want to do is dump water on 

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stone that's upright like this 
when it's going to freeze, 

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because then the water gets into
the cracks and crevices freezes 

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and destroys the stone. 
So the second we start getting 

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freezing weather is when I stop 
got. 

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It. 
Yeah, and that's not going to be

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for we got at least another 
month and a half before that 

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before the temperature start 
dripping, dropping, you know, 

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below freezing. 
Right. 

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So and all you need is an hour, 
not even you know, or a flash 

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freeze and that's it. 
And it's done. 

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So like this, I track the 
weather, the second it's going 

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to dip below freezing, that's 
it. 

436
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Done. 
Yeah. 

437
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Nothing happened, you know, not 
during today. 

438
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Nothing. 
Right. 

439
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And convinced play. 
Well, plus it's probably super 

440
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cold. 
Super cold for you to sit out 

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there and scrub with water in 
the freezing. 

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I mean, it doesn't make any 
sense. 

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It, you know what it is because 
it like it's gonna, I'm gonna 

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get cold down because it's, 
it's, it's, it's 50° today and, 

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and with the wind, it dropped it
down to 48. 

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So I'm gonna get wet, I'm gonna 
get cold now. 

447
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But I've been doing that all my 
life, you know, all my life I've

448
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been working muddy and cold. 
So this is actually a treat, you

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know, I'll be wet and clean. 
We're very different. 

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I do not. 
I hate that stuff. 

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I would not do. 
I mean, I would do that in the 

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00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:20,560
summer. 
In the spring. 

453
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,960
I could see it makes sense. 
But yeah, I'm actually get wet 

454
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:25,080
and clean. 
Yeah. 

455
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:26,280
Let's take a look. 
Let's get into it. 

456
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,920
Get into it. 
Let's figure out who this 

457
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:32,760
gentleman is and hopefully find 
out where he served. 

458
00:24:33,120 --> 00:24:33,880
All right. 
Perfect. 

459
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,520
She's. 
Hiding All right so this is in 

460
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:42,120
the this is who we're going to 
get it looks like oh dude I I it

461
00:24:42,120 --> 00:24:46,440
looks like his name is John if 
I'm reading that I don't know 

462
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:53,920
we'll see when it's clean but. 
Good me. 

463
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,000
Yeah, don't let that flag go up 
your ass when you're bending 

464
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,200
over cleaning the thing. 
I don't need the red white like 

465
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:08,960
that. 
No, you don't. 

466
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,440
That's a different kind of 
America. 

467
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,360
It's a different kind of 
American pride. 

468
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,920
Yep, Yep it is. 
Hey, hey, maybe I'll like. 

469
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,920
It all right so you got your 
dawn, you got your water, you 

470
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,040
got your scrubber and we're 
going to get after it here. 

471
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,320
So what do you what can you tell
us about what you're looking at 

472
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:35,840
so far? 
So I think what's going to end 

473
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:40,880
up happening with this one is I 
think this is going to be one of

474
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:45,240
those headstones that a day or 
two is going to look a lot nicer

475
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,720
than it did on the initial 
cleaning day. 

476
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,880
Sweet week day. 
Because there's a lot of rooms 

477
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:56,280
built up on it, OK, Edwards, But
we're going to do our best, get 

478
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,080
it cleaned. 
OK. 

479
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,680
Spirit, I want to say thank you 
for your service. 

480
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,920
If you can hear me, if you're 
here and I'm going to get this 

481
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:10,480
headstone cleaned for you. 
Let's find out who this person 

482
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:11,480
was. 
Does it? 

483
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:15,400
Do these types of headstones 
also say like where they served 

484
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:20,600
or what their rank was? 
Sometimes speculate if I don't 

485
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,840
if I don't respond to you when 
you ask me a question because I 

486
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,600
can't hear you sing something, 
that's OK. 

487
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,560
I I I heard that something true,
it'll say. 

488
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:34,640
OK, I think. 
Do you do you think these 

489
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,960
headstones were given by like 
the government or are we still 

490
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:42,080
just family? 
If I'm going to say the 

491
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:53,760
government just because they're 
all pretty, you know what I 

492
00:26:53,760 --> 00:27:02,280
mean? 
Now, when you start going at it 

493
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,840
like that, can you tell 
immediately like, oh, this is 

494
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,200
going to come out right or no? 
Yeah, like right now in the back

495
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,240
of my head, I'm thinking this 
one actually might come out 

496
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:16,000
really good. 
So what was that sound? 

497
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,000
That might have been my Ring 
doorbell. 

498
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,160
OK. 
Oh, it's like, did a fairy get 

499
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:28,560
his swings? 
Yes, it might have been a train.

500
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,680
I don't know why that's not off.
That's the 10 because you know, 

501
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:38,480
I have where my office is. 
I have a separate plug, you 

502
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,120
know, for the chimes so that I 
know if someone's walking around

503
00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:42,960
the house. 
So it's not like it comes 

504
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,960
through my phone. 
It comes through like the the 

505
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,480
wall. 
Yeah, 'cause if you're in your 

506
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,440
garage, you can't get it. 
Yeah, plausible. 

507
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,760
You know what's going on? 
Yeah, exactly. 

508
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,600
What annoys me is it's usually 
like a squirrel or a table of 

509
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,600
some kind. 
Dude, I'm surprised you've never

510
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,320
built like a catapult for the 
squirrels, you know? 

511
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,160
Oh, well, you know what makes 
it? 

512
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,520
What makes it worse is we have 
the house decorated for 

513
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,360
Halloween right now. 
So there's like a a big hanging 

514
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,080
sort of ghoul from a trellis in 
the front. 

515
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,800
Of my. 
House, so that sets it off the 

516
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,680
camera off constantly. 
Oh yeah, yeah. 

517
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,120
Oh wow, look, so you know, 
looking at this, I mean already 

518
00:28:23,120 --> 00:28:26,480
halfway through you could see 
like the before and after of. 

519
00:28:27,360 --> 00:28:28,760
Yeah, it's pretty wild just to 
start. 

520
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,800
Yeah, it's looking good. 
Face aspect. 

521
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:33,480
Think over here, we're going to 
have a benefit. 

522
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:38,080
You might, you might, you might 
not. 

523
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,840
Maybe I'm not giving myself 
enough credit. 

524
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:54,600
Can you make any words out? 
Yet it says it's a SO 1887 

525
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:59,480
possibly. 
So usually I like to wait to 

526
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,280
read it, but I'll try to read 
it. 

527
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,840
How's the Spirit? 
Chatter, are we getting anything

528
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,320
new or worthy? 
You know, to be honest, I can't 

529
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,840
hear it. 
I can't hear it. 

530
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,480
I I usually don't clean 
headstones this close to the 

531
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:37,760
highway and I, I'm down in this 
area, the highway is right 

532
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,400
there. 
So that sounds it's drowning 

533
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,040
everything out on my end. 
All sounds cute. 

534
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,560
So if you hear something, point 
it out. 

535
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,240
The train is. 
Maybe these spirits can hear me 

536
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,880
then much better. 
It's like, come on, my boy's 

537
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:03,280
doing you a service as you've 
done me a service, us a service 

538
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:07,240
that's Once Upon a time. 
We're trying to return a favour.

539
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:21,080
I'm supposed not a tea search is
the. 

540
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,080
From where I'm sitting, it looks
like John Little. 

541
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:33,120
John Little. 
John Little is like the name on 

542
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,360
the headstone. 
Dude I could have swore I heard 

543
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,000
that through box as that. 
Then again it could have been 

544
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,240
audio Paretolia because of the 
highway. 

545
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,640
It's funny, I thought I heard 
that through box. 

546
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,040
Well, I'll check it out later 
too. 

547
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,560
You know, in terms of. 
Like right at right before you 

548
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:58,000
said it, Father, No, it's not a 
lot of work spirit. 

549
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,480
Trust me, it's worth it. 
Hold. 

550
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,480
On and and design. 
Oh man, that might come out 

551
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,800
really good. 
That's looking really good from 

552
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,080
where I'm sitting. 
Back of the United States. 

553
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,360
So much easier than the front 
it's not even funny. 

554
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,960
I have no idea why. 
Well, it's because what? 

555
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,120
There's no texture on it, right?
I mean, in terms of there's no 

556
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,640
lettering, right? 
Flat, but it's just even like 

557
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:35,840
the flat parts of the front, you
know, small doesn't why you 

558
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:48,160
don't need much for the soccer. 
Hey sorry, yes tops are usually 

559
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,480
super dirty because they get the
sun and they develop the most 

560
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,040
growth. 
That's weird, I would think the 

561
00:31:54,040 --> 00:32:00,640
bottom, no? 
Everything we Let's stop with a 

562
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:17,060
free ask 
fly. 

563
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,720
Cry. 
Did that say cry? 

564
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:32,240
That's the case. 
The world. 

565
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,200
Great. 
Very, very sorry. 

566
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,080
I think it's time for The Dirty 
rights. 

567
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:44,920
Respect. 
That sounds like a rich. 

568
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,640
That sounds like a stage. 
He said that as if that's a 

569
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,880
standard thing. 
The Dirty rinse. 

570
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:57,240
The Dirty. 
Rinse Start to get an idea with 

571
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,560
The Dirty rinse position of what
it's going to look like. 

572
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:07,800
Right. 
He can't stage British people to

573
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:11,640
join the club. 
It's like the club all right. 

574
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,840
So I think my original 
assessment was correct. 

575
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,920
Be Nigel. 
To be honest, which was. 

576
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,520
That this is going to be one of 
those stones that are going to 

577
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:27,840
look better in a couple of days.
But I mean, it already looks 

578
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:33,800
great. 
It doesn't come now. 

579
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:39,840
Let's wait for it to dry. 
What can you make out so far? 

580
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:52,800
EEC So hold on, let me it's 
called from OK channel 

581
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:59,680
channeling. 
So I from what I can see is John

582
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:11,120
Little he was a Sergeant in the 
correct correct in the 6th. 

583
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:18,639
I'm guessing infantry. 
Oh no, NYH, what is that NYHA 

584
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,159
for me, I don't know if he was 
in NYHA, whatever that is. 

585
00:34:24,159 --> 00:34:25,400
That's. 
A thing. 

586
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:26,560
That's a thing. 
Look. 

587
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:27,800
It up. 
Let's see if I can look that. 

588
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,400
Up. 
It's NYH, so it's N dot Y dot H 

589
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:35,120
dot a. 
It was a Sergeant. 

590
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:41,920
Oh God, I like that. 
Died August 26th, 1887, aged 66 

591
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:43,040
years old. 
That's the plan. 

592
00:34:43,159 --> 00:34:45,679
So he was, he's, he was a 
veteran. 

593
00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:48,760
He survived the Civil War, the 
converse. 

594
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,000
He did not die in the Civil War.
He he survived and slipped on. 

595
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,200
NYHA. 
So I'm just looking at that line

596
00:34:57,240 --> 00:34:58,280
real quick. 
It's so, yeah, I don't. 

597
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:06,040
See paper. 
New York heavy artillery, maybe?

598
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:12,960
Oh Yup, Yup Yup, that makes 
sense, blah blah blah blah, I 

599
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,280
saw. 
That I heard that New York did 

600
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,440
not have organized military but 
they were structured differently

601
00:35:17,720 --> 00:35:22,960
than the Civil War era volunteer
regiments active in 1887 the 

602
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,200
June general there was an under 
of New York reported the active 

603
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,960
military for organizing 2 
regiments companies under 4 

604
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,200
brigades. 
Many veterans of the Civil War 

605
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,160
were still alive in 1887, 
including members of New York's 

606
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:36,680
numerous volunteer regiments, 
such as. 

607
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,720
The New York. 
Heavy artillery the IT is 

608
00:35:40,720 --> 00:35:43,520
possible that NYHA is a 
transcription. 

609
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:46,360
Unit. 
For for a unit like that, so it 

610
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,360
could be possible that it means 
that the heavy. 

611
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:54,040
Artillery. 
Yeah, well, he was 6th, so 

612
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,240
whatever. 6th. 
Yeah. 

613
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,200
So wait, it says 6th Reg like it
just said. 

614
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:04,200
What does it say exactly again? 
So it says John Little Sergeant 

615
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:17,960
EOE so Co dot E and then 6th N 
dot Y dot H dot a the the P is 

616
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:30,480
what it says exactly so. 
Company Company E of the Sixth 

617
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:35,120
New York Heavy Artillery was a 
Union Army unit that served 

618
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:40,000
during the American Civil War 
Recruited primarily from the 

619
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,160
counties of Westchester, Putnam 
and Rockland and New York, the 

620
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,840
regiment initially served on 
Garrison and guard duty before 

621
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,600
seeing intense combat in the 
final year of the war. 

622
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,800
This is just straight up. 
You know Google search. 

623
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,360
Initial initial thing if I look 
at. 

624
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,440
Wow, that's wild. 
OK. 

625
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,640
So he's from Westchester. 
Yeah, man, let me look. 

626
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:08,920
So this is I'm looking up now. 
DMNA, newyork.gov. 

627
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,320
Six Artillery. 
Oh, wow. 

628
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,040
Wait, this is like a list of 
names. 

629
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:15,720
John Little. 
Let's see if his name pops up. 

630
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,440
Dude, this will. 
Be should if you're on your 

631
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,000
computer, can you F search it or
F search whatever? 

632
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:26,000
John Little So you don't go. 
It pulled up, pulled up APDF and

633
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,880
now I'm just going to like 
hundreds of pages. 

634
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,800
All right, so you could do it 
through the, you could search 

635
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,240
through the PDF with a command 
key. 

636
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,920
I think it's F yeah search. 
I'm almost I'm almost in the 

637
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,520
L's. 
I'm almost in the L's. 

638
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,720
There's a ton of names but hold 
on, this will be wild if I. 

639
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,840
Find Yeah, Holy Christ, you 
might. 

640
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:48,440
It's. 
A lot of Ms. Oh, let's see. 

641
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,600
LULO dude. 
John Little. 

642
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:54,560
All right. 
Is he 40 years old? 

643
00:37:55,280 --> 00:38:00,760
Well, he died and he was 66. 
And you figure if we look at the

644
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,200
years he served, he probably was
in his 40s when he served 

645
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:11,160
because the Civil War ended, 
what, 18, 18? 

646
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,280
Listen to this. 
Listen to this. 

647
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,200
Well, this is where John, 
there's a John Little here is 

648
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:19,480
it? 
Does he have another initial by 

649
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:20,800
his name? 
No. 

650
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,600
Well, this is the one thing I 
found at John Little, age 40 

651
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,680
years and lived in August. 15th 
18 to. 

652
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:32,880
Port Chester Mustard, The 
Mustard in as a Corporal Company

653
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:39,880
E, originally 135th Infantry, 
September 2nd, 1862, to serve 

654
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,800
three years. 
Promoted Sergeant September 

655
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,200
29th, 1863. 
Mustard out with. 

656
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:50,000
Company June 28th, 1865 at 
Petersburg, VA. 

657
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,960
Labor guy. 
It's got to be same guy, you 

658
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,200
know, what are the odds? 
Yeah, it's got to be the same 

659
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,880
guy. 
Yeah, it's definitely the same 

660
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,240
guy. 
While while you were while. 

661
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,240
My name is John and this is Gary
Spirit just asked what what our 

662
00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:12,520
names are. 
I'm John, this is Gary. 

663
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:18,280
And we just cleaned this 
headstone of the Sergeant John 

664
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:22,720
Little. 
Dude on Wikipedia, the 6th 

665
00:39:22,720 --> 00:39:25,640
regiment, New York Heavy 
Artillery, US Volunteers, the 

666
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,520
Anthony Wayne. 
Girl, how old are you? 

667
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:34,560
I'm I'm in my 40s generally. 
In my. 50s and and yeah, I 

668
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:35,880
didn't want to say it. 
I'd like you say it. 

669
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,040
I'm early in my 50s. 
Yeah, you early 50s, I'm early. 

670
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,840
Nah, you look a good, you look a
good hot mid 40s. 

671
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,920
I appreciate that. 
Yeah, you're very. 

672
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,440
Well, with the body of a 48 year
old, there you go. 

673
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,200
The The Anthony Wayne Guard was 
an artillery regiment of the 

674
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,680
Union Army during the American 
Civil War. 

675
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:01,280
Was it originally mustered in AS
100 and 5000 and 35th New York 

676
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,040
Volunteer Infantry Regiment and 
sued? 

677
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,480
Served as both artillery and 
infantry. 

678
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:08,920
Trans Feet. 
Wow. 

679
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,480
It's wild. 
Look at that. 

680
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:18,720
Getting a history lesson here. 
Final was the Sixth New York 

681
00:40:18,720 --> 00:40:21,160
Heavy artillery was at the 
crossroads of many of the Civil 

682
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,280
War's fiercest battles. 
Their first action occurred in 

683
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:27,080
December 1862 in Maryland. 
They guarded the Baltimore and 

684
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,960
Ohio Railroad and occasionally 
skirmished with Confederate 

685
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:33,280
sympathizers. 
They guarded the B&O railroad, 

686
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,000
yes. 
Nice. 

687
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,120
That's one of my favorite pieces
of Monopoly. 

688
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:41,400
Monopoly. 
In the summer of 1863, they 

689
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,200
marched with the Army of the 
Potomac and served as part of 

690
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,800
the reserves at the Battle of 
Gettysburg. 

691
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,720
Wow. 
After the battle was over, 

692
00:40:49,720 --> 00:40:51,920
members of the regiment buried 
the dead. 

693
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:57,160
Wow. 
When General Ulysses said look, 

694
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,280
this is Wikipedia, so you got to
take it with, you know, of 

695
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:00,720
course I don't know how true it 
all is. 

696
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:04,160
When General Ulysses says Grant 
launched his overall his 

697
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:07,560
overland campaign in the spring 
of 1864, the 6th participating 

698
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:11,600
in succession quality battles. 
These included the Battle of the

699
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:18,760
Wilderness, the Battle of Spots,
Sylvania, Spotsylvania has to be

700
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:21,480
somewhere where in. 
Pennsylvania. 

701
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,600
What should we name this spot? 
What should we name this spot? 

702
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:33,120
Yeah, Spotsylvania. 
The Battle of Cold Harbour. 

703
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:40,000
It's like I found you drink your
daddy products, you know right? 

704
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:44,160
What should we name this spot? 
Spotsylvania. 

705
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,320
Yeah, it's a spa. 
Battle of Cedar Creek, which was

706
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:52,680
fought on October 19th. 
October 16th. 

707
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,200
It could make cellar, Yeah, I 
think. 

708
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,560
They rallied and were able to 
repulse the attack thanks to 

709
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,040
leadership General Sheridan. 
Unfortunately for the 6th, 

710
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,560
Colonel J Howard Kitching was 
wounded and died of his wounds 

711
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,840
on January 10th. 
The 6th also distinguished 

712
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:12,920
themselves at the Battle of 
Harris Farm. 

713
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,200
They held their. 
Ground for over. 

714
00:42:14,240 --> 00:42:16,440
Two hours and repulsed a more. 
Experienced. 

715
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:23,520
General Gordon Mean Mead for 
their gallantry, conduct in this

716
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,120
affair and classing us with the 
veterans of the Army of the 

717
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:30,200
Potomac. 
Wow. 

718
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:36,000
Yeah, that's that's not clean, 
Clean, clean, clean, clean. 

719
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,760
And you know what's? 
And you know what's wild? 

720
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,680
I was just thinking to myself, 
as this headstone dries, it is 

721
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:48,400
looking better and better, 
better and better. 

722
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,040
I agree. 
Spirit clean, clean, clean. 

723
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,920
It's getting there. 
I want to ask the spirits real 

724
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,080
quick what they think of this 
headstone. 

725
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:56,800
We clean. 
They're talking about it now. 

726
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,320
Are any of the spirits that are 
around? 

727
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:02,440
What do you think of this 
headstone you just cleaned of 

728
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:10,200
Sergeant John Microsoft? 
Anya Mercy. 

729
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:22,200
Can I hear it? 
You might need to repeat what 

730
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:23,720
you said, Sphere. 
We didn't hear it the first 

731
00:43:23,720 --> 00:43:25,800
time. 
I know it's hard to communicate.

732
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:27,680
You got to get that right 
frequency. 

733
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,360
So give it another try. 
What do you think of this 

734
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:40,280
headstone that we played today 
that said something? 

735
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,520
You know, I just couldn't make 
out exactly what it said, but it

736
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:48,440
said something, something that 
you guys forever. 

737
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:59,960
Did anyone here serve? 
With John Miller, Amazon, Great 

738
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:03,960
we go. 
You could go spare. 

739
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,920
You don't need to stick around. 
John, do you see any other 

740
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,360
company E headstones in that 
area? 

741
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:16,080
We'll see Company B, Company B, 
company a lot of company BS 

742
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,720
where? 
Is the bugle boy from. 

743
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:24,320
The bugle boy. 
Where are we that civil war in 

744
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:30,240
general, all all the Civil War 
regiments used bugle boys 

745
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,800
because that's how they 
communicated commands on the on 

746
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,840
the battlefields. 
Right. 

747
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:38,280
But they the the famous photos 
from Company B. 

748
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:39,640
That's what they wrote the song 
about. 

749
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,080
Oh, is it the BA ba ba? 
No. 

750
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,320
No, no, the boogie woogie bugle 
boy of company. 

751
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:47,880
BI don't think I've ever heard 
that song. 

752
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,840
What? 
Yeah, or I did. 

753
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,760
I just, you know, can't think of
50s tunes to 50s. 

754
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:57,240
I I know, I know some 50s tunes.
It's interesting. 

755
00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,760
Yeah. 
I'd probably have to get it. 

756
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:06,080
Yeah, no, I'm booking right now.
Company BA, lot of company BS, 

757
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:10,200
Company A. 
There's another one that's right

758
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,880
next to this one, but it's 
leaning and it's not in the back

759
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,640
tape, so I'm not going to touch 
that one. 

760
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,960
John, have you ever cleaned the 
headstones and a fan it's going 

761
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:23,920
viral or something in the fan of
ancestor or family member has? 

762
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,000
Kind of. 
I've had. 

763
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:27,640
Or reached out. 
Yes. 

764
00:45:27,720 --> 00:45:30,480
And obviously they're actually 
not related. 

765
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,680
They just have the same last 
name and they assume. 

766
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,880
And then it's like, Oh no, you 
know, wait a minute. 

767
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,640
No, I'm not related to this 
person. 

768
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:40,520
And it's like, that's OK, It 
happens. 

769
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,760
Sure. 
So yeah, that happens quite a 

770
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,920
bit. 
Do you know any littles? 

771
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:52,400
Just Chicken Little. 
Oh, it just wouldn't work. 

772
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:53,840
Right. 
I don't know. 

773
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,000
I don't remember growing up with
any. 

774
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,520
Littles either. 
Yeah, right. 

775
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,080
No, no Littles. 
Rosary beads. 

776
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,800
Rosary beads. 
I don't have any rosary beads. 

777
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:06,680
Spirit, I don't have any rosary 
beads. 

778
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,240
Wow. 
This is looking better and 

779
00:46:08,240 --> 00:46:11,680
better with the first as it 
dries. 

780
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,360
I mean, that's, that's always 
the case. 

781
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:19,880
There is like a very big black 
spot on the stone that I thought

782
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:24,760
was going to take days to fade, 
but that's disappearing as as we

783
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,880
talk. 
Judge you fine. 

784
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:33,080
Is it in this area? 
Is are these stones, these older

785
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,880
ones primarily soldiers and or 
children? 

786
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:40,360
I Yes, there will be. 
Yes, definitely. 

787
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,720
There's a lot of them. 
There's a lot of soldiers and a 

788
00:46:43,720 --> 00:46:46,840
lot of children help me. 
And also also a lot of 

789
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:50,000
volunteers, like a lot of 
volunteer firefighters and 

790
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,960
things like that. 
Spirit just said help me, but it

791
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,600
sounded like it was a female. 
What do you need help with 

792
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,240
physically? 
Are you related to any of the 

793
00:47:03,240 --> 00:47:08,360
people here? 
Wow, you can really read that 

794
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:12,400
it's going to be. 
Yeah, it's not even done drying 

795
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:18,360
yet. 
Yeah, we're not even in the sun 

796
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,480
anymore. 
We're in the sun now. 

797
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,600
We got a decent amount of shade 
here. 

798
00:47:27,240 --> 00:47:31,720
Sun makes it dry a lot faster, 
like most things you know I 

799
00:47:31,720 --> 00:47:32,720
mean. 
Yeah. 

800
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:37,960
Like most like right? 
In case for anybody in the 

801
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:41,360
audience who is unaware of how 
the sun looks, hey, Please note.

802
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,000
You'd be surprised. 
Some of the stuff that I have 

803
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,920
to, some of the common sense 
things that I have to say. 

804
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,560
Oh. 
I'm not surprised at all after 

805
00:47:49,720 --> 00:47:52,600
getting into this with you. 
I'm not surprised by it, Yeah. 

806
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:58,040
It is. 
It is like the, the, I will say 

807
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:02,920
this, the worst part about it is
when I'm mentally drained and 

808
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,880
then, you know, I'm in the chat 
and, and somebody says something

809
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:10,640
just so ridiculous and it's I, I
don't even know if my brain just

810
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,160
melts. 
Well, it's, you know, I have to 

811
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:17,080
wonder sometimes if I think the 
real problem. 

812
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,920
I I want to give people the 
benefit and I think the real 

813
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:24,560
problem is that they don't think
about what they're asking and 

814
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:29,200
they say something stupid and 
they don't realize what like we 

815
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,120
can't read their minds. 
Yes, it's like that's not, 

816
00:48:32,240 --> 00:48:34,160
that's not the question you're 
asking, right? 

817
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,760
You're, you're not actually 
asking me if the sun dries 

818
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:39,520
things more than the shade, are 
you? 

819
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,760
Is that what the question is 
right? 

820
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:45,960
Not the thing that anybody has 
done that, but it's it's usually

821
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,800
you find out what. 
They oh, I've gotten that, oh, 

822
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,600
I've gotten that question. 
I've gotten that like, like, 

823
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,400
hey, why do you, why do you 
prefer being in the sun while 

824
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:56,640
you're cleaning a headstone? 
Like I've gotten those types of 

825
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:01,280
questions, like why, why would 
like being in the sun, like make

826
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:02,920
the headstone Dr. I've gotten 
those. 

827
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,760
That's, you know, I've gotten. 
Then I stand. 

828
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,080
Then I stand. 
Corrected that. 

829
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:11,160
Person is a clear and then so I,
I, I call, I call people like 

830
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:12,840
that the sacrificial lambs, 
right? 

831
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,760
And that's when I use them for a
comedy opportunity to make the 

832
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,600
rest of the community laugh. 
Sure, I might lose them as a 

833
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,280
fan, but you know what? 
It was worth the laugh. 

834
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,920
Yeah, it's really, it's really 
hard. 

835
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:30,600
I mean, you know, intelligence 
is a bell curve, you know, with 

836
00:49:30,720 --> 00:49:33,520
the majority of people being, 
you know, somewhat. 

837
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,200
All. 
Right, but then there's idiots 

838
00:49:36,240 --> 00:49:38,880
and then exceptionally smart. 
No matter what group you have, 

839
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:40,600
it will always turn out to be a 
bell. 

840
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,120
Yeah, there'll. 
Be some people the. 

841
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,240
Majority will be OK and then 
they'll have a lot of idiots on 

842
00:49:45,240 --> 00:49:47,280
one side and a lot of extremely 
intelligent on the other. 

843
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,400
Right on the other. 
Yeah. 

844
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,720
So it's. 
Helps. 

845
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:54,240
Having nothing to do with 
anything. 

846
00:49:54,240 --> 00:49:57,760
I deal with a lot of the parents
at my kids school because I, you

847
00:49:57,760 --> 00:49:58,960
know, I just, I'm, I'm part of 
that. 

848
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:01,320
Whole. 
System and some of the questions

849
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:05,080
they ask about how school works 
or what they expect it to work 

850
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:12,400
are so phenomenally stupid that 
I mean, I, I can't it's it's 

851
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:18,280
almost as if do do you not know 
what's did you not go to school 

852
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:19,720
yourself? 
Fly? 

853
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,360
Did you not? 
Do you not understand? 

854
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,880
How the world works, it's 
difficult. 

855
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:29,720
And, and we're like, you're, 
you're sending your kid to this 

856
00:50:29,720 --> 00:50:30,920
private school. 
It's it's. 

857
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,080
I don't understand. 
Well, national how? 

858
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:35,360
You don't understand this. 
And then I have to remind myself

859
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,320
like, oh, right, intelligence is
a bell curve. 

860
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:39,960
Yeah, some people are going to 
be extra. 

861
00:50:41,240 --> 00:50:43,160
Some people are going to be very
smart and some people are. 

862
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:44,480
And most people are just going 
to get. 

863
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,520
It I'll be a cool football. 
No matter how you how you slice 

864
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:49,200
it. 
So when I, when I used to do 

865
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,200
contracting work and I was 
running my own jobs and I had my

866
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,360
own little company, I dealt with
a lot of people with a lot of 

867
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:59,720
money. 
And maybe 1% of them were 

868
00:50:59,720 --> 00:51:02,160
actually had any sort of 
intelligence. 

869
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,880
But you could tell that money 
came from old money. 

870
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,480
And you know, they don't even 
know how to turn off, right. 

871
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,480
So I would get questions like 
they sign up about like stuff 

872
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:15,880
that has nothing to do with what
I work on, just like, you know, 

873
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:19,360
but I don't know, like, like, 
like just random things that 

874
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:23,080
would take like where you like. 
Well, I, I can't. 

875
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:26,200
This is a everyday decision that
you should be able to make. 

876
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:28,560
Why do you need your contractor 
input? 

877
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:33,280
Like I'm here, dude, I'm here to
tell you why this plant is dying

878
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,040
and what, where these 
rhododendrons would look good, 

879
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,240
you know, and I'm here to tell 
you how to get that patio clean,

880
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,360
you know, or where you should 
put drainage in. 

881
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:45,600
Not, you know, if your kids 
should go and, you know, do this

882
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:50,600
instead of this Like what, dude?
Like I, I'm serious. 

883
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,760
It's it's why? 
I was I, I remember when I was, 

884
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,640
you know, I caddied some 
summers, you know, when I was at

885
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,440
a high school like, and a high 
school, early college, I was a 

886
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,120
caddy. 
I would do it over at Braeburn, 

887
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,040
you know, over. 
At and what's the? 

888
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:04,320
Braeburn Country Club and 
purchase. 

889
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:04,880
Over there? 
Yep. 

890
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:06,840
Yep, I remember once it started 
to. 

891
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,520
You know, light. 
It started to Thunder, which 

892
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:14,040
means everybody off the golf and
one of these guys is a private 

893
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:17,120
exclusive Country Club and one 
of these guys is like, I don't 

894
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,040
understand why I have. 
To leave this is Thunder. 

895
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,320
It's not the lightning, it's not
the same. 

896
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,640
And it was almost, I'm, I'm 
sitting there and I'm a kid, I'm

897
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,960
a teenager and I'm just 
thinking, how does this? 

898
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,800
Person say money than me. 
How does he have more money than

899
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:32,800
me? 
It's. 

900
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:38,600
I mean, yeah. 
And if someone's out there and 

901
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:43,080
they don't know what Thunder and
lightning are, then I'll. 

902
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,720
Explain to you briefly. 
You're right, they're not the 

903
00:52:45,720 --> 00:52:48,800
same, but you don't have Thunder
without lightning. 

904
00:52:49,720 --> 00:52:51,200
True. 
Well, that's. 

905
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:55,840
Just and you don't stand on a 
golf course when you hear 

906
00:52:55,840 --> 00:53:00,200
Thunder carrying a bag full of 
lightning rods. 

907
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,440
Yes, yes. 
It's just absurd. 

908
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:10,880
How stupid anyway. 
You know it really is from, have

909
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:11,960
you? 
Ever come across a stupid 

910
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:16,560
spirit? 
Oh, all the time, All the time. 

911
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,680
What's the stupidest thing 
you've ever heard from a spirit?

912
00:53:20,240 --> 00:53:24,960
So I would, I would have to, I 
would I'm I'm trying to think, 

913
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:29,040
but I think one time I came 
across the spirit, if I remember

914
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:34,080
correctly, that was at it was 
what was it at? 

915
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:38,680
It was asking me something. 
It asked to be a very, very 

916
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,320
stupid. 
I'm trying to remember exactly 

917
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,680
what it was. 
I block out a lot of stuff. 

918
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:45,080
You know, my brain can't handle 
it. 

919
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:49,320
I got to think on that one. 
That's a question for another, 

920
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:52,640
another. 
I got to think about it, but I 

921
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:55,400
know I have. 
Maybe that's an episode we can 

922
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,040
do, Which is stupid Spirits. 
Stupid spirit instead of 

923
00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,600
splintered spirits. 
Stupid. 

924
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,360
Spirits. 
Stupid spirits. 

925
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,080
This week we're going to cover 
the dumbest spirits we've ever 

926
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:05,560
come across. 
Yeah. 

927
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,240
Oh, oh, OK. 
No, I remember. 

928
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:14,920
I remember I came across the 
spirit once that I was trying to

929
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,080
talk to and the Spirit wanted to
talk to me but didn't want to 

930
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,080
talk to me. 
So I messed up. 

931
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,880
I messed up to say, you know, 
I'm not going to pull your leg 

932
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:26,400
about it or, you know, whatever 
it is, you know, like, you know,

933
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,280
and, and I said, all right, 
spirit, I'm not going to pull 

934
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:31,480
your arm about it. 
You know, I'll leave you alone. 

935
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:36,160
And the Spirit's like, you're 
going to, you're not going to 

936
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:39,320
pull my arm, you know, like, 
like one of those like. 

937
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:41,680
Almost like understand. 
Yeah, right. 

938
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:44,080
Didn't understand the idiom at 
all that you used. 

939
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,160
You know, it's like maybe that 
that the idea of, you know, pull

940
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,040
your leg came. 
I don't know when that was. 

941
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:50,600
Let's see. 
Pull your leg. 

942
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:52,520
Yeah, yeah, I'm not pulling your
leg. 

943
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:57,160
I said I almost got confused 
with it, almost like, you know, 

944
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,080
I'm not going to pull you 
towards the conversation. 

945
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:00,840
I'm not going to lead you into 
the conversation. 

946
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,760
We don't got to talk. 
But I said pull your arm instead

947
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:07,000
of leg. 
And yeah, yeah. 

948
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,560
And it said that back to me. 
And I noticed that about a lot 

949
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,040
of spirits. 
They're very literal. 

950
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,760
Sure, there, there. 
I I describe it almost like Drax

951
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,200
from Guardians of the Galaxy. 
Sure, sure. 

952
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,880
You can't say things to them 
because it go like if you say, 

953
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,360
hey, that one over your head, 
it'll say, no, it didn't. 

954
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,160
I'd catch it if it did. 
You know, like like they say 

955
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,520
something like that. 
I've noticed that with some 

956
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:32,120
spirit. 
So, oh, that's interesting, 

957
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,400
right? 
Yeah. 

958
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:36,720
Yeah. 
It's like the phrase pulling 

959
00:55:36,720 --> 00:55:38,440
your leg. 
You can almost trace it back to 

960
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:42,880
the early 1900s. 
I need to. 

961
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:47,280
Evidenced by a 1984 article in a
New York magazine, which is 

962
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,840
obviously an idiom and a a. 
Turn of phrase. 

963
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:51,400
Right. 
That means something different 

964
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,400
than what what it is. 
So maybe a lot of things you're 

965
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:57,560
saying to them is just slang. 
It's like talking to a middle 

966
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:58,960
school kid and they say 
Skippity. 

967
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,960
Yeah, or 6/7. 
Yeah, right. 

968
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:04,880
That's the newest one. 
Yeah, it's the newest one. 

969
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:05,920
Yeah. 
They don't, They don't, they 

970
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:07,040
don't go. 
You're right. 

971
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,360
That's probably going to find 
that. 

972
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,520
They're so literal about it. 
They don't understand what I'm 

973
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:14,360
saying to them. 
Because I don't, I don't, you 

974
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,960
know, I deal with a lot of 
spirits from the early 1800s to 

975
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:22,200
early 1900s rather than later. 
Well, it's like, you know, and I

976
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,080
guess maybe a lot of people 
aren't talking to them and they 

977
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,720
haven't been picking up on the 
latest lingo or keeping tabs on 

978
00:56:26,720 --> 00:56:29,240
it. 
You know, I have to say this 

979
00:56:29,240 --> 00:56:34,360
about this headstone. 
It's very weathered, like it is 

980
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:37,080
very weathered and we can still 
read it pretty good. 

981
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:40,200
But like you could see like 
where the John is is good. 

982
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:42,840
But then as it gets to the 
little, it starts to fade. 

983
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:46,960
The beginning of the Sergeant is
starting to go. 

984
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:50,360
You can still see the company, 
the E starting to go. 

985
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,480
Can you help me? 
I can try female spirit. 

986
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:57,920
This is the second time you came
about, you know what do you 

987
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:59,640
need? 
I need your name. 

988
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:06,960
We need to know what you need 
help with things at the well all

989
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:08,240
we know this could be a 
relatively. 

990
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:09,840
God, that's what I was about to 
say. 

991
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,480
I was about to ask. 
Maybe that's like a family 

992
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:12,240
member. 
Or something. 

993
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,600
Of another spirit like can you 
clean my family's? 

994
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,560
Yeah, or it could be a spirit 
asking you if you help me, can 

995
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,040
you clean my headstone too? 
I don't know. 

996
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:23,560
They have to be a little more 
specific about it. 

997
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:27,160
Very different argument. 
You know, it's funny. 

998
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,080
I don't recognize any of these 
last names either. 

999
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,320
I'm looking around and I'm 
guessing they're all from 

1000
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:35,400
Westchester, even though one of 
them, we have a William Monroe 

1001
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:38,520
here, Company B, but they were 
from Massachusetts. 

1002
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:44,920
The rest are all of you. 
I'm not recognizing any of these

1003
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:46,400
names. 
Reynolds Little. 

1004
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,480
Why are you asking? 
Monroe? 

1005
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,320
Why am I asking? 
I'm just curious. 

1006
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:52,280
We're all from the same area. 
Thank you, Sophie. 

1007
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:56,720
We'll drive. 
Well, that the headstone right 

1008
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:58,160
next to Littles looks like it's 
bent. 

1009
00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,480
Over. 
Yeah, that one. 

1010
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:01,200
That's why we're not touching 
that one. 

1011
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:02,560
Yeah. 
It's bent over. 

1012
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,120
It's loose. 
I can't read it at all. 

1013
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:08,000
Curious. 
I'm a little curious, spirit, 

1014
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:09,840
but not enough to damage the 
headstone further. 

1015
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:11,560
Thank you. 
Jay is it? 

1016
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:13,240
Oh, I just heard it. 
Heard it. 

1017
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:16,040
Thank you. 
You're very welcome. 

1018
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:25,200
Spirit. 
Is this spirit related to John 

1019
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:31,120
over here or was that John 
himself? 

1020
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,920
I said hello. 
See what? 

1021
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:42,080
They've given you permission to 
do this, of course, you know, in

1022
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,960
the cemeteries. 
Do they? 

1023
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:50,160
What are the rules for you, one 
of the guys out there that they 

1024
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:53,440
don't want you to do? 
Or so I'm not allowed to clean 

1025
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,520
anything. 
That's oh, I just heard clean 

1026
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,600
again. 
They just said clean again. 

1027
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:02,000
I just heard it again. 
So now we just heard clean from 

1028
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:07,600
both Vox and Go Super original. 
So that's why two different apps

1029
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:11,880
just said clean anyway. 
So yeah, I have certain 

1030
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:15,160
stipulations. 
I'm not allowed on a ladder, I'm

1031
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,680
not allowed to clean any 
headstone that's bigger than any

1032
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:23,480
monument that's bigger than me, 
and I'm not allowed to use any 

1033
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:27,600
chemicals other than dawn. 
Dawn is the only thing I'm 

1034
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:32,520
allowed to use Dawn and water. 
Oh and like things like D2 or 

1035
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,920
wet and forget, I'm allowed to 
use those as well. 

1036
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,480
OK. 
What? 

1037
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,240
They're just afraid you're going
to damage something. 

1038
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:41,880
Yes. 
Yes. 

1039
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:45,280
Well, the and, and the, the 
height thing is insurance. 

1040
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,680
I'm walking. 
You're walking. 

1041
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:53,480
Where are you walking from? 
So yeah, that's like if I'm 

1042
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:55,600
cleaning a stone, all of a 
sudden it toppled over on me, 

1043
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:58,080
you know, like, right. 
Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. 

1044
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:00,240
But you didn't have to show them
cash. 

1045
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,920
News Men. 
Any sort of license like. 

1046
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:08,400
My business No, no. 
Oh, and that and they do have a 

1047
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:12,800
company that that professionally
cleans headstones, but they 

1048
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,480
they're they're they offer their
services obviously to people 

1049
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:19,000
that can pay. 
So older headstones, the 

1050
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,200
families aren't around anymore. 
No one's paying. 

1051
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:25,520
So I'm also not, I'm not allowed
to go into the newer part of the

1052
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:28,840
cemetery and fleet headstones, 
which is fine because I 

1053
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:32,760
wouldn't, right? 
Right, right. 

1054
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,160
So those are those are the only 
stipulations, you know, all 

1055
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:45,920
right. 
Oh, that was weird, John, is 

1056
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:53,200
that you? 
And basically too, that was 

1057
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:56,800
weird. 
Gonna swore I heard like a deep 

1058
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,000
raspy voice say, you know, I'm 
John. 

1059
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,200
But then again, I got wind and I
got the highway right next to 

1060
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:03,720
me, so. 
Right. 

1061
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:06,160
Things that are lower, it's 
harder to hear. 

1062
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:08,920
What can help? 
You know well, I don't need any 

1063
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:10,360
help, Spirit. 
We took care of it already. 

1064
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,200
Thank you. 
Leveled up my business. 

1065
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:14,960
Live in a world. 
Leveled up I. 

1066
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,720
Just say level up my business. 
It always does that. 

1067
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,760
That's So what Vox does is it 
takes snippets of radio and puts

1068
01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:24,480
them in a sound bank and that is
one of their. 

1069
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:29,160
Dude, I literally walk around in
my live streams going level up 

1070
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:31,640
my business. 
You know, it's like that. 

1071
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:36,080
From. 
It's from a I'm Kiana and I 

1072
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:39,880
levelled up my business. 
It's, it's a oh man, I'm not 

1073
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,560
sure exactly what it's from, but
it's, it's, it's from a 

1074
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:48,120
advertisement of some sort. 
Oh, OK. 

1075
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:50,560
Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's funny. 
Yeah. 

1076
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:53,520
So yeah, it is funny. 
We all use it all the time. 

1077
01:01:53,520 --> 01:02:00,880
Dude, it's great traffic. 
I levelled up my business, so 

1078
01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:03,840
yeah, it's pretty interesting. 
Yeah, we hear that all the time.

1079
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:09,000
All. 
Right, dude. 

1080
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:13,840
Well, I think, you know, it's a 
kind of an amazing thing that 

1081
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:17,720
you do and it's, I haven't seen 
many people do it, you know, so 

1082
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,960
it's really interesting and it, 
it allows for a different sort 

1083
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:26,840
of approach to spirit 
communication that many don't, 

1084
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:31,320
haven't been able to capitalize 
on like you have for sure. 

1085
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:34,280
Well, it what, what it, what it 
is, what it is, is that there 

1086
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:38,160
are so many people that clean 
headstones out there like you. 

1087
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:44,200
You can almost now especially 
stroll on TikTok alone and just 

1088
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:48,720
find people cleaning headstones.
Very few of them will run a 

1089
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:52,400
spirit box while doing it. 
And the ones that do don't 

1090
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,680
nearly get the evidence that I 
so you're not going to. 

1091
01:02:55,680 --> 01:03:00,080
It's rare you find somebody 
actually using a spirit box 

1092
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,640
while cleaning a headstone. 
There's tons of people that 

1093
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,240
clean headstones there. 
I mean, there's tons of them 

1094
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:06,720
I've. 
Seen a couple, they don't. 

1095
01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:07,960
I'm surprised they don't really 
pop up in my. 

1096
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:10,080
Face but. 
It's surprisingly. 

1097
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:13,080
And, and, you know, and, and 
what else is surprising is 

1098
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:17,000
they're very, it's a, it's a 
niche, you know, and it's like, 

1099
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:21,320
it's like an exclusive club, you
know, which I'm not in, right. 

1100
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:25,360
Like I, I, I am not, I am not in
that club because they hate the 

1101
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:28,600
fact that I use Dawn. 
You know, they claim Dawn 

1102
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:32,880
destroys A headstone, which I 
mean, I've proven time and time 

1103
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,840
again that it does not that. 
And, and I've done headstones 

1104
01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:39,760
years ago that still look 
Immaculate with Dawn. 

1105
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:43,480
They claim it's the salt content
in Dawn, right? 

1106
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:47,840
And I'm, I'm from Westchester, 
I'm right near, I'm right near 

1107
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:50,200
the Long Island Sound. 
There's more, there's more salt 

1108
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:51,600
content in the air. 
I. 

1109
01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:54,800
Know it's so ridiculous. 
There's more pollution in the 

1110
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:56,720
air. 
That's what destroys these 

1111
01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:01,640
headstones in this area is the 
pollution in the air and in the 

1112
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:05,360
in the acidity of the water 
because of it and the salt 

1113
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:07,600
content coming from the Long 
Island Sound. 

1114
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:10,880
Yeah, I mean, it's ridiculous. 
It's, yeah, it's, it's, yeah. 

1115
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,960
They, and they say that Dawn 
destroys headstones. 

1116
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:18,000
It's Dawn, you know, and I use a
drop of it, but that was like 

1117
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,400
literally a drop. 
So it's, it's really so I'm not 

1118
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:24,920
in that club, you know, they, 
they, they look at and the fact 

1119
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:26,680
that I use the spirit box, 
forget it. 

1120
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:31,000
It's like, why not? 
I, I want to, I, I walk around 

1121
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:32,840
cemeteries. 
I might as well clean the 

1122
01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:35,880
headstone and see what the 
spirits have to say about it by.

1123
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:37,400
Yourself, you want to have 
somebody to talk to. 

1124
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:39,200
Yeah, exactly. 
Because I'm not. 

1125
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:42,800
Yeah, I'm back at that. 
So it's interesting, but I love 

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it. 
I think it's, I think it's 

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amazing. 
And don't worry guys, once 

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everything's all said and done, 
I'll put the flag back. 

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If you notice, I haven't put the
flag back yet. 

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That'll happen. 
So I want to reposition that 

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flag nicer. 
It's a little weathered and 

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damaged so I might replace it. 
Well, that's it for another 

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episode of Splintered Spirits. 
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subscribe to our YouTube 
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