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You have your Bible, go and make
your way to Genesis chapter 23, 

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Genesis 23 as we continue in our
series in the book of Genesis. 

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If you're new to the Bible, 
Genesis is the very first book, 

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so it's the easiest to find. 
Find your way to chapter 23, the

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big numbers, and we're going to 
work through the entire chapter 

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this morning. 
We are close to the end of our 

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series that we've been in for 
several months now in the book 

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of Genesis. 
We'll return to the where we 

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left off at some point, but for 
the month of July, for four 

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Sundays. 
Where we're headed is on a short

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series just to examine and 
celebrate and look through the 

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lens of Scripture at such a time
as we are like this at the 250th

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anniversary of our nation. 
And just to see what guidance 

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the Word of God would have for 
us as citizens of our nation, as

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stewards of such blessings from 
God, and how God's Word would 

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guide us to live in these days 
that we've been given as a gift 

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to stewards. 
I'm really excited about that. 

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Before we turn to the New 
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short series out of the book of 
Titus, I'd also just like to say

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happy Father's Day to the dads 
in the room, the grandfathers or

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those watching online. 
What a privilege it is to be a 

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father. 
And guys, may we remember the 

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stewardship from God that we 
have. 

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We had this incredible 
opportunity. 

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All people, every human being is
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But dads, when you think about 
it, our Father, our God is a 

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good, good father. 
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fathers in so many ways and 
mothers, but it is through the 

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earthly father in so many ways 
that we get a privilege of 

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seeking to steward and to 
translate in an earthly way the 

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goodness of God through an 
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The reality is in a world of sin
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experienced that, some have not.
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this earth. 
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experience has been is that you 
would know the love of God the 

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Father for you, who has a plan 
for your life, has given you 

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life, longs for you to know Him 
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If you don't. 
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privilege of being one, I pray 
you're reminded today of the 

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amazing stewardship that you 
have to image the Heavenly 

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Father in the life of your 
children and grandchildren so 

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they get a small taste of heaven
on earth through you before they

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get to see and stand before 
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Genesis 23 would not make a list
of the most popular chapters in 

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the Bible. 
You might call it one of those 

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fly over chapters. 
You know, we have 50 states in 

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our United States and many of 
them are referred to as fly over

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states, those states that 
airplanes typically fly over 

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more often than they land in. 
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considered one of those 
chapters. 

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In fact, I'd be honest with you,
I'd not be telling the truth if 

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I didn't tell you that I was 
tempted to fly over it myself. 

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I honestly thought, God, it's 
Father's Day. 

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I really, this is really the 
text that lands on Father's Day.

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This is really what we're going 
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And I'll tell you that God just 
gave me some confirmations along

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the way. 
And already even the first 

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service has given confirmations 
that this, this message is for 

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some somebody and more than one.
And I, I know that, but quite 

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honestly, when it comes to 
topics that are not easy with 

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truth, that is hard. 
You just don't naturally want to

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embrace or talk about those 
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But I feel like we've known each
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And I love you and I think you 
love me. 

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And about seven years in now 
that you trust me enough that we

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would love the word of God, that
we're going to just press 

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forward, know that God uses his 
word even on things that deal 

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with difficult things that are 
good for us. 

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And I think you're going to 
discover that as we walk through

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this chapter today. 
We're going to begin by reading 

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the first two chapters. 
This is the first. 

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This is the first death and 
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This is the first funeral in the
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And so we're going to begin by 
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from there. 
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These were the years of the life
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And Sarah died at Kiriath Arba. 
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Canaan. 
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Sarah and to weep for her. 
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there's no way to possibly 
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death would have had on Abraham.
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to the call of God on their 
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in that call for over 60 years 
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I just want you to get this. 
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for over 100 years. 
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you, well, I won't go there 
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We'll keep going. 
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how to do life without his bride
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through. 
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yes to God and His call on her 
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She was a woman of great and 
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And oh she she definitely had 
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She definitely had her times 
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She definitely had things she 
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But haven't we all? 
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a life of faith following God's 
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Listen to how the book of 
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and other chapters describes 
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Chapter 11 verse 11 and 12 says 
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power to conceive even when she 
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considered, since she considered
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therefore from one man. 
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described and him as good as 
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He was that old we're born 
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stars of heaven and as many as 
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by the seashore. 
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real life living illustration of
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specifically verses 11 through 
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this. 
These, including Sarah, all died

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in keyword faith, not having 
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but having seen them and greeted
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acknowledged that they were 
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earth. 
For people who speak thus, make 

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it clear that they are seeking a
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That is a heavenly 1. 
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be called their God, for He has 
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Hence the title of the sermon, 
The Cave before the city. 

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When Sarah dies, the son that 
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conceive was approximately 36 to
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By God's grace, God had allowed 
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Y'all remember that sermon I 
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life? 
You've never let me live that 

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one down. 
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quarter. 
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The one that she was able to 
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God's grace. 
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woman in the Bible who dies that
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I think all the rest of them are
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So anyway, she was miraculously 
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live to see her child to 
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And yet, when she died, she'd 
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She had only seen the tiniest 
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promises that she had heard God 
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Kyle, what do you mean? 
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God promise them land. 
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Sarah own to their name right 
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Not one inch. 
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offspring as numerous as the 
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Uno. 
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that they would become a nation.
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sojourners and as foreigners in 
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She heard God say to them that 
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to bring blessing to all the 
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To be honest, there's days Sarah
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her own family. 
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days we've read about? 
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haven't we? 
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Sarah has said yes to God and 
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knowing the best was yet to 
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Sarah died in faith and friends,
here it is. 

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These are hard but true truths 
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You eat some things, probably 
not because you love the way 

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they taste, but because they do 
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God is going to call, Danny 
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I don't do that. 
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I'm trying. 
That's all I can say. 

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Just like God calls Sarah to die
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should Jesus Terry. 
God is going to call you and I 

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to do the same thing. 
Point #1 is this God calls us to

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die by faith. 
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die by faith, but I thought that
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I just extended it to God calls 
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Terry, what kind of faith do you
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Should we die in faith that 
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Faith that we are only strangers
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Faith that in this life we only 
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God has promised us. 
That God has prepared for us a 

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place forever with him. 
A faith that the best is yet to 

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come. 
This is the kind of fate that at

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the time of our death, whenever 
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lives, it should be the time, 
one of the times of the greatest

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demonstrations of faith in our 
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promises are beyond the grave, 
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I'm going to say that again, the
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beyond the grave, not before it.
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should Jesus, Terry, when we are
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kind of faith into practice. 
So this begs the question, how 

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should we as Christians think 
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We don't want to really talk 
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quite honest. 
Everyone thinks about it. 

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In fact, if you want to have a 
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pocket to pull out whenever 
you're looking to have a gospel 

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conversation with somebody and 
share your faith and to try to 

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share your testimony and the 
good news of Jesus with 

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somebody, maybe they're a 
stranger, maybe they're not. 

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But one of the best questions 
you could ask is, hey, you ever 

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think about life after death? 
No, I realize that's not 

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typically what people ask, but 
quite honestly, that's not that 

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of a confrontational 
conversation. 

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You ever think about life after 
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If anybody has a stitch of 
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They're going to say yes. 
Because ever since sin entered 

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the garden and death followed 
it, mankind has thought about 

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death and life after. 
You can go back and study every 

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form of civilization you can, 
and mankind just thought about 

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death. 
Ancient Viking warriors thought 

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about death. 
They thought about it in this 

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way, and they desired to die 
valiantly in battle so they 

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would live their eternity. 
And Valhalla, one of the gods of

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the Norse gods, they followed 
Odin in Asgard so they can fight

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all day, have their wounds 
healed by night, feast and drink

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all night, and be served by 
female Valkyries for the rest of

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their eternity. 
They thought about life after 

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death. 
Did you know that the ultra rich

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in our day you can read about 
our thinking about life after 

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death. 
You know why? 

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Because they are pouring 
billions. 

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As we speak into longevity 
startups, biological 

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reprogramming and cellular 
rejuvenation tech, founders and 

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investors are backing high 
stakes research aimed at halting

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the human aging process. 
Now there's probably some good 

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in that that may benefit us all 
to help our fourth quarter go 

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better. 
All right, Amen. 

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But let's just be honest, what's
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don't believe there's any life 
after death, but you're thinking

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about death, guess what you're 
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this is all there is? 
You're going to try to make all 

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there is last as long as you as 
long as you can with as much 

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money as you can. 
People are thinking about life 

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after death. 
The question I'm asking is, how 

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should we as Christians think 
about life after death? 

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I'm struggling with the Lord 
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God, do you really want to 
preach this? 

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And I'm just reading a book for 
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story in it is the story of a 
man by the name of Dag 

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Hammerschold. 
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just one of the ways God 
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This is exactly what I was 
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Why? 
Because his story is exactly how

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Christians ought to think about 
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This guy was a Swedish diplomat.
He served as the Secretary 

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General of the United Nations 
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his death in September 18th of 
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What we know about DAG, we know 
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that he kept. 
I love the title of his journal.

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He titled it My Negotiations 
with Myself and with God. 

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You ever negotiate with yourself
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This is how he titled his 
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man of faith by what he wrote 
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And when his nomination came for
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in his journal that he had 
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insufficiency. 
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could not refuse to accept the 
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him. 
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know about him and what most of 
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know about him, was that Dag had
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him some life defining task. 
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call him to something 
significant that would mark his 

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life. 
Confident confiding privately in

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his journal at the time of his 
nomination, he wrote and I love 

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this statement. 
When the hour strikes, he takes 

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what is his Speaking of himself.
What have I to say your prayer? 

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He's Speaking of himself. 
Your prayer Dag has been 

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answered. 
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you. 
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I love this. 
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doesn't happen to suit you at 
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You ever had God ask you to do 
something that didn't suit you 

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at the moment? 
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following the leadership of the 
Holy Spirit because those so 

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often he doesn't ask you. 
He doesn't show up money like 

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Kyle what you want to do today. 
That's never the way it's rolled

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for me. 
But he's often brought me to the

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brink of things that I really 
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my choice that I had to trust. 
That's what he's saying. 

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Two days later he wrote not I 
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He was 47 years old. 
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reelected for a second five year
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He writes this. 
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He says the best and most 
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to you in this life is that you 
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work and speak. 
That'll preach right there. 

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Dag would never finish his 
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Dag indicated in his journal 
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feeling a sense of impending 
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end to be avoided, provided it 
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He then wrote this line that 
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should think about death. 
Listen to it closely, he says. 

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Do not seek death. 
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the road, which makes death a 
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your life. 
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Christian should think about 
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In some ways not even to really 
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Because we've said yes to God's 
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breathe our last. 
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to know beyond a shadow of a 
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going to be smack dab in the 
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And it will be the day that is 
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to God when it comes. 
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September the 18th, 1961 Dags 
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board crashed in the forest 7 
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Northern Rhodesia, now Zambia. 
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gathered to mourn his death. 
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thought about death as the final
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lives. 
You see, the deal is, by faith 

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we as Christians should say yes 
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as Christians say yes to God in 
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And did not Jesus, the Son of 
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Was his death not the final 
fulfillment of exactly what God 

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had called him to to do? 
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Expressing that in three words, 
It is finished. 

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What was finished? 
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him, the call of God on his 
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earth in our shoes. 
It is finished. 

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And then how does he die In 
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Into your hands I commit my 
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thing that we learned from 
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The way we should think about 
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faith. 
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9, And Abraham rose up from 
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Hittites, I am a sojourner and 
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Give me property among you for a
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my dead out of my sight. 
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hear us, my Lord, you are a 
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Bury your dead and the choices 
of our tombs. 

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None of us will withhold from 
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burying your dead. 
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the Hittites, the people of the 
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you are willing that I should 
bury my dead out of my sight, 

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hear me. 
Entreat for me Efron the son of 

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Zohar, that he may give me The 
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It is at the end of his field 
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Let him give it to me in your 
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His property for a burying 
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As you would expect, Abraham is 
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of his wife. 
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not what Abraham does, but what 
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Because what you've had expected
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camels to the hearse and make 
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home. 
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do, right? 
We tend to go back to that place

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where we have our lives most 
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home, that place that maybe we 
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That's not what Abraham does. 
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from going back. 
He continues forward in the call

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of God, the same call that Sarah
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in now for over 60 years. 
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This is Abraham saying yes to 
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times and the bad times. 
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God in life and in death. 
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If you missed it when I read it 
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again because this describes the
mentality Abraham could have 

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had. 
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If they even Speaking of Abraham
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from which they had gone out, 
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opportunity to return. 
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better country. 
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God is not ashamed to be called 
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for them a city. 
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heart been stuck on the past, on
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if Abraham's mind and thinking, 
if his longings, if his living, 

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if his heart's greatest desires 
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behind instead of what God 
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turned and done a 180. 
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He continues forward in the call
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and living by the promises of 
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What? 
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God, You called me to this land.
You promised to give it to me 

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and my descendants. 
That would be like stars of the 

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sky. 
You promised to make me a 

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nation. 
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I'm without my bride. 
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God, to bury my bride. 
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surely you'd have thought it's 
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That's not what Abraham does. 
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kept trusting the promises of 
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This is the second thing I think
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calls us to die by faith, but 
listen closely #2 God calls us 

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to mourn the death of loved ones
by faith. 

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God calls us to mourn the death 
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You know, the truth is, and as 
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I've already spoken to a number 
after the first service that are

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going through this very thing. 
You know, and I know and some of

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you even experienced right now, 
the fact that times of sadness 

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and loss and grief come our way.
This is part of life in a sin 

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cursed world. 
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Christian from despair? 
What keeps a Christian from 

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plummeting into depression? 
What keeps us from spiraling 

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into emotional dysfunction? 
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It's one and only thing. 
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This is why the Bible says we 
must have a living hope in the 

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promises of God, because when 
facing death, only a living 

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hope, a living faith in the 
eternal promises of God, will 

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keep us from despair. 
You see, a living hope is 

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expressed like this in Paul, 
from Paul in First Thessalonians

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4 or 13 through 18. 
You know this, but I read it 

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again to remind you. 
But we do not want you to be 

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uninformed. 
Brothers and sisters, church 

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family, about those who have 
died, those who are asleep, that

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you may not grieve. 
He doesn't say don't grieve. 

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He says don't grieve as others 
who have no what no hope for. 

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Since we believe Jesus died and 
rose again, Even so through 

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Jesus God will bring with him 
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How can Jesus bring with him 
those who have fallen to sleep 

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asleep? 
Because to be absent from the 

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body is to be present with the 
the Lord, because they're with 

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him as we speak, those who've 
gone on before us. 

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For this we declare to you by 
word from the Lord, that we who 

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are alive, who are left until 
the coming of the Lord will not 

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proceed. 
Those who have died. 

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For the Lord himself would 
descend from heaven with a cry 

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of command, with the voice of an
Archangel and the sound of the 

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trumpet of God. 
And the dead in Christ will rise

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first. 
Then we who are alive who are 

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left, we call up together with 
them in the clouds to meet the 

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Lord in the air. 
And so we will always be with 

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the Lord. 
Therefore encourage one another 

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with these words. 
That's how we don't spiral into 

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the lies of the enemy, that this
world and this life is all there

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is because of the promises of 
God and His plan for those who 

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love Him. 
I thought this week about 

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examples that I was aware of 
that have gone before us and 

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have mourned the loss of loved 
ones and mourned and grieved, 

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and yet not without hope and 
done so under some extreme 

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circumstances. 
I've mentioned to you one of my 

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favorite missionary biographies 
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And in his story, one of the 
things I love about all the 

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stories of those who have faced 
incredible things and walked 

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before us is it. 
Again, it just puts steel in our

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spiritual spine. 
It reminds us we're not alone 

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and that there are faithful 
shoulders of those we stand upon

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as we seek to do life and living
for Jesus Christ. 

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In fact, there was a time in 
America when almost every 

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Christian home had two books in 
it. 

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Number one was the Bible. 
Number 2 was John Fox's book of 

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how people died for their 
testimony following Jesus. 

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You know why that book was in 
the home? 

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Because that's like spiritual 
Wheaties every morning right 

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there. 
Because it it it, it puts a 

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little fearlessness in you when 
you realize people have gone 

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before me and given their all 
for Jesus. 

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And parents would raise their 
kids hearing the stories of 

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those who had died for the honor
and glory of Jesus Christ. 

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Why? 
Because it was worth it. 

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Adnaram's story is pretty 
similar. 

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Let me just tell you a little 
bit about how they grieve, but 

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not without hope. 
His ministry was marked by 

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unimaginable sacrifice. 
If you remember, Adnaram was the

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first America's first foreign 
missionary and he's poured 

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nearly 40 years of his life 
sharing the gospel, translating 

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the Bible into Burmese and 
planting churches in Burma, 

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modern day Myanmar. 
And as he did so, he mourned the

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loss of six of his thirteen 
children died on the mission 

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field. 
Six and two out of the three 

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women that he married all at one
time, not at one time in in that

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came out wrong, one at a time, 
two died on the mischief. 

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00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,800
And I just want to tell you 
about these ladies for a second.

453
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:13,160
Number one, Ann Nancy Haseltine 
Judson, married in 1812. 

454
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,760
She died in 1826. 
She was the first American woman

455
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,080
to serve as a foreign 
missionary. 

456
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,760
She was a brilliant linguist, A 
fearless advocate for her 

457
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,600
husband. 
When Adnaram watched this was 

458
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:30,760
falsely accused by being a 
British spy and thrown into an 

459
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,600
infamous Burmese death prison 
for 17 months, where he was 

460
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:40,600
often hung by his ankles from 
the ceiling and lived in a tiny 

461
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:45,320
shack outside the prison walls 
to bribe the guards, beg for his

462
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,880
life and tend to him. 
Shortly after Adeniram was 

463
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,200
freed, she contracted severe 
tropical fever and smallpox and 

464
00:27:52,200 --> 00:28:00,520
died at the age of 36. 
He then married eight years 

465
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,600
later, Sarah Hall Boardman 
Judson. 

466
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,160
He was immersed in Bible 
translation. 

467
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,440
The widow of a fellow missionary
named George. 

468
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,520
Her name was Sarah. 
She was a gifted writer and 

469
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,000
translator who quickly learned 
the Burmese and Penguin 

470
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,320
languages. 
She bore 8 children in 11 years.

471
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,560
But her health broke under the 
harsh climate and while 

472
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,840
attempting to sail back to the 
United States, she trying to 

473
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,680
recover. 
She passed away aboard ship and 

474
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,960
was buried in a remote island in
the South Atlantic. 

475
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:43,000
His third wife would live to see
Adiniram pass away at sea. 

476
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:48,200
After his death, she her own 
health deteriorated and returned

477
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:52,280
to America, where she died of 
tuberculosis at age 36. 

478
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:59,480
How do people do that? 
How do people do that? 

479
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:08,120
Unless you believe that the best
of God's promises don't come 

480
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:13,800
before the grave, they come 
after you. 

481
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,800
Don't do that. 
Unless you believe that we only 

482
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,640
get to taste and see the tiniest
fraction of the promises of God 

483
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:24,000
in this life, that the best is 
yet to come, that no eye is seen

484
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,080
and no ear is heard, nor the 
heart of man. 

485
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:30,520
Imagine what God has in store 
for those who love him. 

486
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,360
Unless you really believe that 
God works all things together 

487
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:38,160
for our good, for those who love
Him and are called according to 

488
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,800
His. 
Unless you truly believe that 

489
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:46,160
the gospel is worth giving 
everything you got for people to

490
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,880
hear it. 
Unless you really believe 

491
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,960
there's a heaven and there's a 
hell, you don't live like that. 

492
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,280
Unless you believe the promises 
of God. 

493
00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,440
And they, because they did their
collective legacy watch this 

494
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:04,400
became a foundational pillar for
American Protestant missions, 

495
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,520
establishing thousands of 
believers in Myanmar. 

496
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,040
The first overseas mission trip 
I ever went on. 

497
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,600
I wanted to go to Burma, and God
gave me a chance to go to those 

498
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,000
golden shores. 
And I watched and saw churches 

499
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,720
and met Christians. 
Why? 

500
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,680
Because some people were willing
to give their all so those 

501
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,240
people could know Jesus. 
Unbelievable, right? 

502
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,080
God calls us y'all to die by 
faith, and God calls us to mourn

503
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,320
the death of loved ones by 
faith. 

504
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,000
God calls us to mourn the death 
of loved ones by faith. 

505
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:44,640
I want to pick up in our next 
set of verses, 10 through 20. 

506
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:50,560
Now Efron was sitting among the 
Hittites, and Efron the Hittite 

507
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:54,160
answered Abraham in the hearing 
of the Hittites, of all who went

508
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,280
to the gate of the city. 
No, my Lord, hear me. 

509
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:01,320
I give you the feel, and I give 
you The Cave that is in it, in 

510
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,000
the sight of the sons of my 
people. 

511
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,520
I give it to you. 
Bury your dead. 

512
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,440
Then Abraham bowed down before 
the people of the land, and he 

513
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,040
said to Efron in the hearing of 
the people of the land. 

514
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:15,200
But if you will hear me, I give 
the price of the feel. 

515
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,480
Accept it from me, that I may 
bury my dead there. 

516
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,360
Efron answered. 
Abraham, my Lord listened to me,

517
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,880
a piece of land worth 400 
shekels of silver. 

518
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,520
What is that between you and me?
Bury your dead. 

519
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,680
Abraham listened to Efron. 
And Abraham weighed out for 

520
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,320
Efron the silver that he had 
named in the hearing of the 

521
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,000
Hittites, 400 shekels of silver 
according to the weights current

522
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,560
among the merchants. 
So the field of Efron in 

523
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:42,440
Makpala, which was to the east 
of Monterey, the field with The 

524
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,720
Cave that was in it, and all the
trees that were in the field 

525
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:49,160
throughout its whole area, was 
made over to Abraham as a 

526
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,800
possession in the presence of 
the Hittites before all who went

527
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,960
in at the gate of the city. 
After this, Abraham buried 

528
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,400
Sarah's wife in The Cave of the 
field of Makpala, east of Mamre,

529
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,360
that is, Hebron in the land of 
Canaan. 

530
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,520
The field in The Cave that is in
it were made over to Abraham's 

531
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,520
property for a bearing place by 
the Hittites. 

532
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,520
On the surface. 
What we have here is an ancient 

533
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,880
real estate transaction. 
Abraham has voiced his desire 

534
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,240
for a piece of property in which
to bury his wife. 

535
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,960
When he asked for a plot, 
Everyone who hears him basically

536
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,640
responds to him is like, man, 
you're such an honorable 

537
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,240
resident among us, pick out 
which one you want. 

538
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,280
Feel free to borrow it. 
But Abraham's not looking to 

539
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:38,280
borrow a burial plot. 
The locals, of course, don't see

540
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:42,040
Abraham as a permanent resident.
He doesn't own any land. 

541
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,760
But Abraham knows something 
these locals don't know. 

542
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,760
That is that God has promised 
him this whole land. 

543
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:54,280
He's not going anywhere. 
And so Abraham goes about this 

544
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,960
real estate deal for the long 
haul. 

545
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,840
Abraham already has the burial 
spot he desires picked out. 

546
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,200
He just needs to purchase it, 
which he offers to do. 

547
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:08,360
But when Efron hears the offer, 
Efron responds in what you might

548
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,800
think was this Oh man, Efron 
must be a wonderful, generous 

549
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,240
guy. 
He just says, hey, just just 

550
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,480
take it. 
Well, that's kind of a little 

551
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:21,880
bit of some surface level 
hospitality that is veiling 

552
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,560
something that's a little 
different. 

553
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:27,000
What's a little different is 
this, number one, had Abraham 

554
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,360
just borrowed the plot legally, 
he would have never owned it and

555
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:34,160
it would have always remained in
Efron's possession for his 

556
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,200
descendants and not Abraham's 
descendants. 

557
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,720
And Abraham's looking for the 
long haul here, not the short 

558
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:39,600
haul. 
OK. 

559
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,280
But it would have sounded really
generous for Efron to just say, 

560
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,200
hey, use it. 
You're not long term among us. 

561
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,800
If you're going to be moving on,
which he probably thought he 

562
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,400
would be, use it. 
That's not the plan. 

563
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,360
But then when he realizes 
Abraham really wants to buy it, 

564
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,840
it's kind of like he sees here 
an opportunity to kind of make 

565
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,960
more bang for his buck, right? 
Maybe he thinks, well, if I sell

566
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,360
The Cave, I can't really sell 
the field. 

567
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,200
Nobody's going to want the field
unless they get The Cave. 

568
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,280
So I better just go all in and 
ask for as much as I can. 

569
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,120
And he puts it out there as if 
Abraham's a, you know, wealthy 

570
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,840
man, which he is. 
And Efron's a wealthy man, which

571
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:10,960
he is. 
And he's like, hey, just what's?

572
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,560
What's 400 shekels of silver 
between wealthy men? 

573
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,840
That's kind of what he slyly 
names his price, but you get the

574
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,120
idea. 
If you study the worth of a 

575
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,320
shekel and the price of land at 
this time, it's pretty obvious 

576
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,239
that Abraham is not getting a 
steal. 

577
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:27,040
In a way, Abraham is getting 
price gouged a little bit, which

578
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,679
begs the question, why would 
Abraham be willing to pay such a

579
00:34:29,679 --> 00:34:34,159
high price? 
Well, think about it like this. 

580
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:39,120
Efren says, hey, what's 400 
shekels between two wealthy men?

581
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:43,679
Who can pay it but Abraham's 
thinking, What's 400 shekels as 

582
00:34:43,679 --> 00:34:45,120
a down payment on the whole 
thing? 

583
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:48,080
God has promised me, I think 
I'll pay it. 

584
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:56,120
You don't know it, but this is a
good deal for me #3 Y'all, God 

585
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:57,440
calls us. 
This is what we learned, I 

586
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,560
think, practically here. 
God calls us to press on in this

587
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:07,800
life by faith. 
God calls us to die by faith, to

588
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,040
mourn the death of loved ones by
faith. 

589
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:15,680
And then to press on in life by 
faith y'all? 

590
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,880
My guess is Abraham. 
Just just think about this. 

591
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,040
I guarantee you when God called 
Abraham and Abraham said yes to 

592
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:29,120
God, Abraham never thought that 
he would be in a spot after 

593
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,640
hearing the promises of God. 
He never thought he'd be in a 

594
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:36,160
spot where he would be a widower
and the only piece of land he 

595
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,800
owned was the cemetery where his
wife would be buried. 

596
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,360
I guarantee you that scenario 
never crossed his mind. 

597
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,720
But let's be honest, did God 
ever say, hey Abe man, this is 

598
00:35:50,720 --> 00:35:55,640
going to be easy? 
God never said Sarah wouldn't 

599
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,640
die one day. 
God never said Abraham wouldn't 

600
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:02,960
die one day. 
God just told him his promises 

601
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,880
were true and could be trusted. 
And that's what they did. 

602
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:12,920
What God's call made clear was 
that death would not be the end 

603
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,000
of his promises. 
The question for Abraham when he

604
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,640
found himself in that scenario, 
in those circumstances, is did 

605
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:25,200
he believe God or not? 
And this is where this gets very

606
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,360
practical, not very fun, but 
very practical. 

607
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:30,120
There's going to come a day when
life is going to look you in the

608
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,200
eye and it's going to ask you 
point blank, do you believe the 

609
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:41,040
promises of God, or do you want 
to go back home or do you want 

610
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:47,800
to move forward by faith? 
Are the promises of God truly, 

611
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,280
truly true? 
Is the best to come beyond the 

612
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,280
grave? 
Is God really going to work all 

613
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,720
things out for my good, for 
those who love him? 

614
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,960
Even though it doesn't seem like
I never imagined God, I'd be 

615
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,400
here. 
I never imagined I would go 

616
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,640
through this. 
I never imagined I would 

617
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,160
experience this. 
But there you are, there He is. 

618
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,080
And the question is, do you 
believe that the life is going 

619
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,440
to ask you? 
Do you believe the promises of 

620
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,120
God? 
And you will give an answer one 

621
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,560
day, and you won't have the 
right answer unless you have a 

622
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:24,240
living hope, which only comes to
trusting the Son of God, who is 

623
00:37:24,240 --> 00:37:28,080
alive, who's conquered death, 
who's defeated sin, who paid for

624
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,080
your debt, hung on the cross for
you, went to the grave for you, 

625
00:37:31,240 --> 00:37:32,280
defeated death. 
For you. 

626
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,720
Offer salvation and hope and 
life to you, if you'd receive it

627
00:37:35,720 --> 00:37:38,800
by faith calling on His name. 
So no matter what comes your 

628
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:44,000
way, you know and have the 
promises of God anchoring your 

629
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:48,000
soul deeper than any earthly 
circumstance could ever cause 

630
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,560
you to question the promises of 
the truth of God. 

631
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,600
The question is, do you believe 
them? 

632
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,640
Abraham presses on because he 
believes the promises of God 

633
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:01,080
even when he only owns a tiny 
sliver of lamb. 

634
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,400
Here's the deal in this Put it 
all together. 

635
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,400
You ready? 
This is what this chapter is all

636
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,520
about. 
Success in the Christian life 

637
00:38:07,720 --> 00:38:13,120
looks like faithfulness in life 
and in death, knowing the best 

638
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,560
is yet to come. 
That's what faithfulness looks 

639
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,880
like. 
It looks like fate. 

640
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:17,920
That's what successful looks 
like. 

641
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:22,480
It is faithfulness, y'all in 
life and in death, in the 

642
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:28,760
promises of God, knowing the 
best is yet to come. 

643
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,960
You say, Kyle, what do you mean 
the best is yet to come? 

644
00:38:31,720 --> 00:38:35,800
You remember how Paul puts it. 
If we are living only for this 

645
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:43,400
life, he says as Christians, if 
we are living only for this 

646
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:47,760
life, are living for the next, 
Rather, the way he puts it, we 

647
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,360
are of all people, most to be 
what? 

648
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,960
Most to be pitied. 
In other words, if God's 

649
00:38:55,960 --> 00:39:00,280
promises are not bigger and 
better beyond the grave, we're 

650
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:05,280
in trouble. 
We're in trouble but because 

651
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,960
they are. 
Here's the honest truth. 

652
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:12,440
Your life and mine ought to look
different in light of the fact 

653
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,720
that the promises of God are 
bigger and better beyond the 

654
00:39:15,720 --> 00:39:19,200
grave than they are before it. 
In this way, we ought to live in

655
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,120
such a way that our lives don't 
make sense to those who watch 

656
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:26,600
us, to those who witness the way
we talk, the way we spend our 

657
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,960
money, the way we spend our 
time, the risk we take on what 

658
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,560
we choose to value, how we 
choose to respond when 

659
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,520
mistreated, and how we live our 
week, how we go about our work 

660
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,360
and how we raise our kids. 
And all the things ought to look

661
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:42,280
strange and light to someone who
doesn't know Christ, right? 

662
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,760
Because that doesn't make sense 
because we're living for 

663
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,480
eternity. 
I've heard eternity described as

664
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:51,600
a if it was laid out as a rope. 
If we could roll out a rope this

665
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,440
morning, and that rope 
represented eternity, how long 

666
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:58,280
would that rope be? 
Longer than you can imagine. 

667
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,560
Now, if you just imagine marking
on the front of that rope what 

668
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,280
this tiny, short earthly life 
would look like physically 

669
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,640
represented on that rope 
representing eternity, how much,

670
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,560
how big a spot on that rope 
would you mark as an accurate 

671
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:15,000
representation of how short this
life is compared to how long 

672
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,640
eternity is? 
You'd have to try to mark it in 

673
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,120
a spot where you could barely 
even see that you've made a 

674
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,480
mark. 
That's how small a mark you'd 

675
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,280
have to be in light of how long 
eternity is. 

676
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:32,400
And This is why no matter what 
happens in this life, we can 

677
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,600
live it by faith, we can die by 
faith. 

678
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:38,000
We can mourn those who go ahead 
of us by faith, and we can press

679
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:42,720
on in faith, knowing the best is
yet to come. 

680
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,320
You know, I can just imagine a 
conversation maybe that Abraham 

681
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,120
had with his family that went 
like this. 

682
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:53,120
They buried Sarah and maybe 
somebody asked Abraham, Abraham,

683
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,520
did you think you'd be in this 
spot? 

684
00:40:56,240 --> 00:40:58,840
And maybe he looked over at The 
Cave and he said, do you see 

685
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,760
that cave over there? 
Do you see that tomb? 

686
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,680
You see where Sarah's laid? 
Every day I look at that cave 

687
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:11,440
and I remember that's the 
evidence right there that God's 

688
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,360
given me a down payment on all 
that's to come. 

689
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,760
That's evidence to me. 
Every day I wake up that the 

690
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,320
best is yet to come, that God 
has bigger and better promises. 

691
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,800
I may not live to see them all, 
but he's promised. 

692
00:41:22,720 --> 00:41:24,000
And he started with that right 
there. 

693
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,680
And Can you imagine God the 
Father maybe? 

694
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,080
And when life looks at us and 
ask us, do we believe the 

695
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,040
promises of God? 
What do you think God the Father

696
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,800
might point us to? 
Do you see that tomb? 

697
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,280
Not the one where Sarah was 
laid, but to see the tomb where 

698
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:44,160
my son was laid, that tomb 
that's not occupied, but that 

699
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,840
tomb, that's what that's tomb 
that's empty. 

700
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,400
Everyday evidence for over 2000 
years that the best ladies and 

701
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,800
gentlemen is yet to the guts. 
Promises are bigger and better 

702
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,520
beyond the grave than they are 
before it. 

703
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,160
And that's how you can live 
different. 

704
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,400
Knowing every day is worth it, 
no matter if it's 36 years, 12 

705
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:04,080
years, or 127 years. 
Because eternity is long and 

706
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,120
life is short. 
The gospel is worth it. 

707
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,720
And every day God gives you. 
If you say yes to God when you 

708
00:42:08,720 --> 00:42:11,320
die, it'll be the final 
fulfillment of God's call on 

709
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:12,480
your life. 
That's the way I want to live. 

710
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,400
That's the way we want to die. 
And that's how we can press for 

711
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,320
knowing one day we'll be 
gathered around the throne 

712
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:22,360
together forever with Jesus our 
Savior. 

713
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,600
Do you believe the promises of 
God? 

714
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,880
These are not truths we want to 
talk about, but these are truths

715
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:33,600
when you're alone, when life 
asks you the hardest questions, 

716
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:39,400
you need to have an answer. 
And God's Word gives us that 

717
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,360
answer. 
Heavenly Father God, I ask that 

718
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:46,400
in His our as we have heard your
word that you would give us 

719
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,920
faith to receive and believe 
that it would penetrate our 

720
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:51,480
hearts, that you would have your
weight. 

721
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,240
And I pray for anyone today who 
doesn't have that living hope in

722
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,880
Jesus Christ that had ever 
called on you for salvation, 

723
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,360
that today would be the day that
even right now they'd feel 

724
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:02,440
confident and unashamed to step 
out from where they are and just

725
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,320
come tell us, I need to trust 
Jesus. 

726
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,960
Maybe someone's here and it's 
been living for the things of 

727
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,400
the world and needs to let them 
go and live for the things of 

728
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,520
eternity. 
Maybe somebody's here who needs 

729
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,720
to grieve, but not without hope,
or someone here needs to believe

730
00:43:14,720 --> 00:43:16,840
the promises of God. 
God help them with all their 

731
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:21,880
heart to say yes to you, to know
your goodness, Father, to have 

732
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,840
you give them the peace that 
passes understanding that comes 

733
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,080
from a living hope in Jesus 
Christ. 

734
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,640
Help us say yes. 
Help us trust you. 

735
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,480
In Jesus name I pray, Amen. 
Would you stand with me? 

736
00:43:32,720 --> 00:43:34,480
I'm going to stand here if you 
need to come and talk with me 

737
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:38,000
about salvation, trusting Jesus.
If you need prayer, this altar 

738
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:39,720
is open. 
Our encouragers will be close. 

739
00:43:39,720 --> 00:43:41,960
You come as we sing and worship 
together.

