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John has been writing to answer 
the question, How do you know? 

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How do you know Christianity's 
true and how do you know that 

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you're a true Christian? 
How do you know what's dangerous

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to you as a Christian? 
How do you live in light of the 

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last days? 
How do you live ready for 

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Christ's return? 
All these are questions John has

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answered so far in this little 
New Testament letter of first 

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John. 
If you missed any of the answers

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to those, you can go back and 
catch those on previous 

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messages. 
John answering how do you know? 

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As practical as practical can 
be, The Bible is so practical to

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life. 
Amen. 

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Basic. 
How do you know questions. 

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And now the question we turn to 
in first John 3 verses 11 

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through 18 is how do we know how
we are to relate one to another?

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How does God want us living as 
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How do we know what that looks 
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How do we know what to do? 
I want you to think about your 

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answer to these questions, and I
want you to try to think in one 

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word answers. 
I've titled the message today, 

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One Word for a Reason. 
Now, as you think about your 

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answer, don't answer out loud, 
but I want you to think in one 

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word. 
And the only word you can't use 

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is Jesus. 
All right, so that's the Sunday 

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school answer. 
Why don't you think in other 

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answers? 
But when you think of one word 

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that comes to your mind when you
think about who a Christian is 

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or what a Christian supposed to 
be, what one word comes to your 

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mind when you think about what 
the Christian life is all about?

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What one word comes to your mind
when you think about how a 

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Christian is supposed to live? 
What one word comes to your 

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mind? 
I think if we were to answer out

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loud and take a survey, I bet 
that the one word we would hear 

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to all of those questions, more 
than any other one word would be

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the one word. 
Good. 

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I think people would say, hey, I
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be a good person. 
I think the Christian life is 

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about doing good. 
I think what living as a 

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Christian should look like ought
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We, we would probably hear most 
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And good's not necessarily a, a,
a, a bad answer. 

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It's not a bad thing. 
Good is a wonderful thing. 

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And yet I think the Bible would 
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word, a more accurate word, a 
more radical word, but a more 

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Christian and more biblical 
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I want you to listen for that 
one word as we read the Word of 

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God, as it jumps off the page. 
You're ready. 

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First, John 311 through 18. 
For this is the message that you

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have heard from the beginning, 
that we should love one another.

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We should not be like Cain who 
was of the evil 1 and murdered 

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his brother. 
And why did he murder him? 

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Because his own deeds were evil 
and his brothers righteous. 

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Do not be surprised brothers, 
that the world hates you. 

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We know that we have passed out 
of death into life because we 

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love the brothers. 
Whoever does not love abides in 

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death. 
Everyone who hates his brother 

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is a murderer, and you know that
no murderer has eternal life 

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abiding in him. 
By this we know love, that he 

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laid down his life for us, and 
we ought to lay down our lives 

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for the brothers. 
But if anyone has the world's 

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goods and sees his brother in 
need and yet closes his heart 

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against him, how does God's love
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Little children, let us not love
in Word or talk, but in deed and

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in truth. 
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Christian life is love. 
It's love. 

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The Christian life, mark it 
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You want one word for what it's 
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You want one word for what? 
Living as a Christian what being

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a Christian, what doing the 
Christian life. 

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Good is not a bad word. 
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The biblical word is love. 
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between good and love? 
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You know, when we think about 
something good, we can sometimes

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think about ourselves, right? 
Maybe we think we're pretty 

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good, but the moment you think 
about love, you got to quit 

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thinking about you and you got 
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There's a big difference between
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word is love. 
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love. 
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first thing I want you to see 
here is the one word for the 

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Christian life is love in your 
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friends to love. 
This is verse 11 through 13. 

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You know, in one sense he says 
this is the message you have 

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heard from the beginning. 
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they have heard from the 
beginning is the message of the 

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love of God. 
That's the message of the good 

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news of the gospel summarized so
well in John chapter 3 and verse

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16 for God. 
So loved the world that he gave 

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his one and only Son, that 
whosoever would believe in him 

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should not perish but have 
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That message is the love of God,
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That's the good news that Jesus 
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single one of you, every single 
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God so loves you that He did 
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He number one, lived a sinless 
life for you because you haven't

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lived a sinless life. 
The Bible says all have sinned 

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and fallen short of the glory of
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That's a problem because it 
separates you now and forever 

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from God unless something is 
done about your sin that 

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separates you from God. 
Jesus lived a sinless life so 

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that he can #2 go to the cross 
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substitute sacrifice in your 
place for your sin and my sin. 

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The Bible says without the 
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forgiveness of sin. 
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problem unless blood is shed. 
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for the sins of the world had to
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lived a sinless life. 
And Jesus is the only one who's 

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done that. 
He's lived a sinless life for 

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you. 
He's died a sinless substitute 

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sacrifice for you. 
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Jesus could defeat death for 
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The ultimate result of sin in 
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and destruction. 
It is both the separation from 

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God forever and all the curse it
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And Jesus defeated it when he 
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Why? 
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the love of God for you and 
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on Jesus to save you. 
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responded to the love of God to 
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If you've not, right now is the 
moment to do so, like literally 

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right now in your heart of 
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for loving me. 
I want to love you. 

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Would you forgive me of my sin? 
Make me your own. 

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I'm giving my life you. 
I'm surrendering my life. 

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You call out to him now this is 
the response, the right response

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to the love of God. 
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And out of that message, John 
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beginning, is the result or the 
application he's bringing out in

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here that we should love one 
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God first loved us, then what 
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result? 
Love one another. 

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He says, now that you've 
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heard from the beginning is we 
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This here is the call, the one 
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love that captures both who we 
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I want you to think about how 
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Christian life. 
Loved is our identity in Christ.

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Like there's no word that 
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If you're a Christian then 
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there's no one word that 
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a Christian, then to and the 
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This is both your identity and 
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The one word friend of the 
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When we talk about the Christian
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When the Bible talks about the 
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love and there's a big 
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Now in order for us to see what 
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John paints 2 pictures for us 
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picture of Cain. 
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Christ. 
Cain obviously is the negative 

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picture of what love doesn't 
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Christ is going to be the 
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does look like. 
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negative picture of Cain, the 
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Notice here it says he was of 
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Now let me just stop right there
and say that's a fascinating 

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statement, is it not? 
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We need to be clear and 
understand that every human 

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being can only belong to one of 
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You belong to one of two masters
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You either belong to Jesus 
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Kyle did not say that. 
The Bible says that there's only

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two masters because if you're 
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are outside the family of God 
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Kingdom of darkness, belonging 
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of Christ himself, the devil he 
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He does not belong to, to, to 
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He's of the evil. 1 Here. 
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can belong to in this life. 
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this is sometimes we tend to 
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or bad people when there's only 
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people. 
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He was the oldest of Adam and 
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This is one of the earliest 
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Cain and Abel both offered a 
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Why? 
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And so the sacrificial system 
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beginning after sin entered the 
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And ultimately, Jesus would be 
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sacrificial system with no one 
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Praise God. 
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sacrifice to God. 
Abel offered a sacrifice in a 

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manner that pleased God. 
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sacrifice in a manner that 
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And as a result of his 
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the way God called him to do it,
Cain reacted with hatred towards

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Abel and murdered him. 
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Why? 
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exposed Cain's wickedness. 
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Righteousness makes evil 
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Light makes darkness obvious. 
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for God undeniable. 
So evil, you know, this doesn't 

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like to be revealed for what it 
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Unrighteousness does not like to
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right? 
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point blank here that those who 
belong to the evil 1 and there's

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only two masters to belong to, 
God or the enemy, those who 

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belong to the evil one naturally
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Holy One. 
This is why John says do not be 

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surprised brothers, that the 
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In other words, John says if you
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it shines light in the darkness 
and righteousness reigns in your

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life, and you shine that in an 
unrighteous world, in a Dark 

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World, guess what? 
Don't be surprised if you're not

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loved back. 
We've seen an instance of that 

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in the last couple weeks, as 
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possible. 
I want to share with you today 

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something that may be a little 
closer to home because the 

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couple you're about to hear from
is one of our own members of 

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Cartersville First Baptist, who 
experienced this exact thing of 

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First John 313, Doctor Lynn and 
Carla De Dasi. 

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I want you to hear their 
testimony for a few minutes. 

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Hello CFTC family, we are the 
DDEC's and we're here to share 

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with you today our experience 
based off of first John 3 verse 

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13 where the Bible says that the
world is going to hate you 

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because of your Christian 
beliefs and our story really 

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starts in 2012. 
In 2012, when I was 

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homeschooling my daughters, God 
called me to write conservative 

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Christian children's books. 
I was writing books that taught 

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my children that we were to 
defend the unborn as followers 

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of Jesus Christ. 
The Lord gave me a more public 

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platform when I was asked and 
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radio show in the Philadelphia 
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This God morphed into a national
platform where I was picked up 

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in Pennsylvania and drove into 
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Friends regularly for quite a 
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I was speaking about protecting 
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I was speaking about biblical 
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important to our communities and
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And I was also in 2016 beginning
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meaning XX and XY chromosomes. 
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and female. 
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to speak biblical truth. 
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2012 until 2020, but then in 
2020, my husband who was a 

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surgeon, very well known in our 
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Pennsylvania, one of the busiest
in our area, he was persecuted 

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for our Christian beliefs. 
Yes, we, I went to work on June 

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1st, 2020 and there was a 
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There was a lot of hate that was
porn into the office about me 

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calling all kinds of names 
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And within five days I was 
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was terminated from my job. 
Really struggled to find a job 

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and work and I, we really had 
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Plus we had an incredible amount
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Just trying to defend ourselves 
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And worst of all, they even 
attacked my medical license to 

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try and strip that away from me 
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surgeon again. 
So there was a tremendous amount

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of downfall to all this. 
And, and this was a prime 

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example of how the world is 
going to hate us because of our 

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Christian views. 
We were strong defenders of the 

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faith. 
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Christianity and we truly 
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mandate and trying to raise 
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So how were we persecuted? 
In a nutshell, We had our 

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livelihood stolen from us. 
We had our reputation stolen 

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from us. 
We had safety stolen from us. 

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The devil wanted our marriage. 
He wanted our children. 

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He wanted our grandchildren. 
I remember sitting around our 

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kitchen table in Pennsylvania 
and just praying against, just 

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praying against the enemy that 
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he would not have our children 
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would stand firm in the faith. 
Jesus does promise you that 

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there would. 
There will be persecution and 

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you will be hated by the world 
if you stand up and proclaim the

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name of Jesus. 
We are so thankful that God 

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brought us to a state where He 
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loves and what He studied to do 
for 12 years before He went into

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private practice. 
You can pray for me that God 

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returns to me a voice that has 
been silenced for the last five 

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years and that if He doesn't 
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will be very content and happy 
and find the joy of the Lord and

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just being a voice for truth in 
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family. 
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this. 
Matthew 7 I is one of the 

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scariest verses in the Bible and
it's the the verses where God 

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is, you know, that Jesus is 
presenting people as an example 

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of who is not getting into 
heaven. 

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And these are people that look 
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They walk the walk, they talk to
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But yet there was something 
about their faith, something 

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about their Christianity that 
Jesus said to them, you know, 

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get away from me. 
I never knew you. 

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Don't be that person. 
Stand up for Jesus. 

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Let your voice be heard. 
Love God, love Jesus, and we 

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pray for you as a church that 
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principles and the Word of God. 
Amen. 

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Bible says don't be surprised. 
Don't be surprised. 

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You know, I think one of the 
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now in our times is getting our 
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to stand and be bold. 
There's a lot of a lot of 

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Christians. 
I think the church in general. 

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I even think about my own life 
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standing clearly and flat 
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Have I lived under the radar in 
any way or have I been putting 

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the truth out there, standing 
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You know you probably can avoid 
what they experienced if you 

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just let your convictions remain
anonymous may be just with you. 

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But the moment you go public 
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neighborhood and your job in the
classroom and on the team as 

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Jesus calls you to do, he simply
says don't be surprised if they 

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don't love you back. 
But the Bible also prepares us 

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for that moment. 
First Peter chapter 4 says it 

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like this verse 14. 
If you're insulted for the name 

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of Christ, you are blessed. 
There is a blessing for standing

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even when it costs you. 
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blessed, the spirit of glory and
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But let none of you suffer as a 
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evildoer, as a meddler. 
Yet if anyone suffers as a 

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Christian, let him not be 
ashamed, but let him glorify God

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in that name. 
There is glory to God for him to

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be, for him to be lifted up and 
exalted, and blessings for you 

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to have when you stand boldly 
for your faith no matter what 

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comes. 
And this is what God calls his 

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people to. 
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The one word for the Christian 
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called to love. 
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The one word for the Christian 
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identified. 
We're identified by love here, 

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John says. 
One of the ways, y'all, that we 

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can know we've been saved. 
Talk about assurance of 

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salvation. 
Not the only way, but one of the

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ways John says we can know we've
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That is that we've passed from 
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That's a description of 
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When you get saved, you go from 
the camp of the enemy dead, 

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separated from God to the family
of God, made alive, born again, 

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joined with him, made, made, 
made, made one with with God 

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through Christ. 
So there's again, there's only 

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two masters to belong to. 
If you've passed from death to 

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life, you've been saved. 
That word for past there in the 

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New Testament in the Greek word 
is this idea of a a migration of

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like an ancient people moving 
from one location to another 

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permanent location, never to 
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It says here this is how you 
know you've made that spiritual 

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trip, if you will. 
How do you know that you've made

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that migration? 
John says one way we can know 

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we've been saved, we've been 
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He says if we what love the 
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that is if we love our brothers 
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love those who've made the trip 
as well, if we love the family 

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of God. 
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something that we forget as we 
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Then that is that your greatest,
your deepest, your biggest bond 

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with people in this life. 
It's not by physical blood. 

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It's not by marriage. 
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deepest bond that you as an 
individual human being can have 

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is with the family of God, with 
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Christ. 
The question is, do you love the

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family of God? 
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By your love for the family of 
God, you can know one of the 

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ways you can know if you've 
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Now I was just having a 
conversation with somebody 

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yesterday, met with a young man.
The young man actually got saved

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last night. 
We had dinner. 

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I got to share the gospel with 
him. 

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He walked the aisle during the 
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because last night he gave his 
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20 years old. 
And I was telling me about his 

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family. 
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of the things I challenged him 
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He talked about how just in 
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he knows claim to love God, but 
they don't, they don't go to 

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church. 
This is a, this is a pretty 

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common scenario, right? 
The Bible says you can't do 

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that. 
The Bible says you can't love 

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God and not love the family of 
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Does that make sense? 
One of the ways you can know you

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truly are saved, one of the ways
you can know you really love God

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is if there's a love for you, 
for the family God. 

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There's no love for the family 
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The Bible would have you 
question seriously whether you 

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truly love God. 
In fact, it just, it basically 

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says it's not possible. 
Just it's one of the ways we 

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know we've made the trip from 
death to life from outside of 

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Christ to in Christ is if we 
love the family of God. 

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That doesn't mean you like 
everybody that comes to church 

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with you. 
I didn't say that. 

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All right, don't be confused, 
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different things. 
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Do you love your brothers and 
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He says verse into verse 14. 
Whoever does not love abides in 

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death. 
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Everyone who hates his brother 
is a murderer and you know that 

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no murder has eternal life in 
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John says if love if the actions
and lifestyle of love is not 

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somewhat typical, normal or 
common in your life, he's not 

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saying you got to be perfect. 
Nobody's going to be perfect 

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until we see Jesus. 
But if these actions aren't 

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normal in your life, he's saying
you probably lived at 101 

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spiritual dead end Dr. That's 
your location spiritually 

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speaking. 
John here says there's no such 

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thing as a Christian who does 
not love verse 15 look back at 

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it. 
Everyone who hates his brother 

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is a murderer. 
It verse 15 makes it sound like 

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hatred is always as extreme as 
murder, all right, but that's 

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not always the case, all right. 
What John wants to wants us to 

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see here is that any action that
is not love is actually hate. 

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Again, you either belong to God 
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And every action you take and 
thought towards other people is 

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either in the category of love 
or the category of hate. 

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John's saying there is no in 
between. 

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And yes, hate can ultimately 
lead to murder, but it doesn't 

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have to. 
Failure to love is hate, John is

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saying, if it's not acting 
towards the good of another at 

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your own expense or what could 
be your own expense, John is 

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saying that's less than love. 
And that falls in the category 

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of hate. 
So you can think about it like 

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this. 
Hate could be as mild as I don't

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care or as intense as murder. 
Let me try to see if I can make 

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it even more clear. 
Of course, hatred ultimately can

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lead to murder, but you don't 
have to murder in order to hate.

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You don't have to murder in 
order to act at the expense of 

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others for yourself. 
You see, let me put it like 

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this. 
The same stuff that leads to 

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murder is the same stuff that 
makes you want to be first in 

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line when food is served. 
It's the same stuff. 

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Different degree of expression, 
but it's the same stuff. 

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The same stuff that leads to 
murder is the same stuff that 

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makes you want to reveal a 
confidence someone has entrusted

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to you. 
The same stuff that leads to 

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murder is the same stuff that 
makes you want to highlight your

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success at work and downplay 
your coworkers. 

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It's the same stuff. 
The same stuff John says that 

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makes you hesitant to share your
stuff with others and be 

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generous. 
It's the same stuff that leads 

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to murder. 
The same stuff that leads to 

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murder is the same stuff that 
makes you not want to forgive 

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someone who sinned against you. 
It's all refusing to act for the

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good of someone else at your own
expense. 

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It's all the same stuff. 
And John is saying any act 

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towards someone else is either 
in the category of love or hate.

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There is no Gray that John gives
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The person who lives this way 
that doesn't love, John says, 

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doesn't have eternal life. 
John is making things extremely 

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clear. 
You're either a child of God or 

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a child of the devil. 
You're either spiritually alive 

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or you're spiritually dead. 
Your actions are either actions 

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of love or actions of hate. 
The one word for the Christian 

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life is love because we're 
called to love friends and we're

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identified by our love. 3rd and 
finally, the one word for the 

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Christian life is love because 
Jesus showed us how to love. 

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Jesus showed us how to love. 
This is verses 16 through 18. 

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By this John says we know love, 
that he laid down his life for 

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us. 
He is not Cain, he is Christ. 

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He did the exact opposite of 
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Think about it like this. 
Cain sacrificed someone else's 

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life to benefit his own. 
Jesus sacrificed his life for 

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the benefit of others. 
Cain acted for his own 

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self-interest at the expense of 
another. 

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Jesus acted at his own expense 
for the good of others. 

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Do you see the difference? 
Cain acted in selfishness. 

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Christ acted in selflessness. 
Cain acted in hate. 

454
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:43,440
Christ acted in love. 
Do you see the difference in the

455
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:47,800
two pictures? 
Love is simply acting for the 

456
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:52,160
good of others, even at your own
expense. 

457
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,680
That's love. 
Love is not a feeling. 

458
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,320
Love is not a warm fuzzy. 
Love is not a like. 

459
00:28:01,360 --> 00:28:04,960
Love is an action. 
Love is a sacrifice. 

460
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,360
Love is a choice. 
And this kind of love, let me 

461
00:28:09,360 --> 00:28:14,080
remind you, is not dependent on 
it being reciprocated back to 

462
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:18,240
you. 
So this means this kind of love 

463
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:23,800
you as a Christian do to people 
who are unlovely to you, you're 

464
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,560
to act this way. 
And this kind of love to people 

465
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:32,160
who are difficult towards you, 
who don't love you back, who are

466
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:36,440
selfish towards you, who are 
mean, angry, harsh, or whatever 

467
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,960
you want to name it. 
This love loves. 

468
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,440
Anyway, to the degree that an 
extent Jesus loved us, we ought 

469
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,920
to love one another. 
And Jesus loved us big, did he 

470
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,040
not? 
Laying down his what? 

471
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,120
His life. 
So therefore, even to the extent

472
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,360
that Jesus loved us, we're 
called to love big in the same 

473
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,280
extent, the same way as Christ 
has loved us. 

474
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,520
But here's a real practical 
daily application question John 

475
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,440
knows and anticipates we're 
going to ask it. 

476
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,560
How often do we really get the 
chance to love in the big way 

477
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:08,560
Jesus loved us by laying down 
our life ultimately for someone 

478
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:09,600
else. 
How often do you get that 

479
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:15,240
chance? 
I don't know that I've ever had 

480
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,480
that chance to die for someone 
like literally give my life. 

481
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,920
Now some people have, but that 
that's probably not going to 

482
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,480
come along most days in your 
life. 

483
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:32,800
So John's question then, yes, 
Jesus calls you to love big, But

484
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,840
John says Jesus also calls you 
if you claim to know Jesus to 

485
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,760
love small. 
In fact, listen to verse 17 

486
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,560
again. 
He says this, but if anyone has 

487
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:48,200
the world's goods and sees his 
brother in need and yet closes 

488
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:52,240
his heart against him, how does 
God's love abide in him? 

489
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,400
John says this. 
Hey, you claim to be a follower 

490
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,240
of Christ. 
You claim to have received the 

491
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,880
love of God, you claim to love 
God, and you claim to be willing

492
00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:02,200
to lay down your life in love 
for someone else. 

493
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,880
But Hey, Monday morning comes 
and in class you have two 

494
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,760
pencils and your friend has 
none. 

495
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,920
Or you're going on your way to 
work and you see your Co worker 

496
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:14,680
over there with a, you know, 
Jack in his hand and a flat tire

497
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,840
and you have 4 full tires and 
he's got 3. 

498
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,400
All right, you've got groceries 
but your neighbor doesn't. 

499
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,240
Or you're well and can take care
of yourself but your neighbor 

500
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,440
can't. 
But I could go on and on. 

501
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:32,240
You see someone that doesn't 
have what they need to live in 

502
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,240
the daily basic necessities of 
life that you have, and if your 

503
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:40,400
choice is in that moment to 
close off the valves of 

504
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:44,520
compassion in your heart and 
look the other way and do 

505
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,440
nothing. 
John's question for you is, if 

506
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,000
you don't love small, how do you
have love at all? 

507
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:52,920
How does the love of God abide 
in Him? 

508
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,840
The question, ladies and 
gentlemen, is rhetorical. 

509
00:30:56,000 --> 00:31:01,240
That means it doesn't need an 
answer because it's obvious, 

510
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:08,440
John says If you refuse to love 
small, you probably don't have 

511
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:14,240
love at all. 
How does the love of God abide 

512
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:22,120
in that person? 
We're called to love big, but 

513
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,320
the opportunities on a daily 
basis that come along, friends 

514
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:27,920
are often going to look much 
smaller. 

515
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,240
A word of encouragement to 
someone who's discouraged. 

516
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,400
A prayer for someone who's 
bearing a burden. 

517
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,120
Something that someone is 
missing that you know you could 

518
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,720
supply. 
Meeting a basic need. 

519
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,640
Going out of your way to make 
life easier for someone else. 

520
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:55,520
The simple things in life, the 
small things, it's where the 

521
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,600
love of Christ is most often 
going to be shown in our life. 

522
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:03,320
You see, just like hate, love 
doesn't have to be extreme to be

523
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,240
loved as hate doesn't have to be
extreme to be hate. 

524
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,760
And every action we're doing is 
either for the good of others at

525
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,360
our own expense or for our good 
at the expense of others. 

526
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,280
And by the way, the New 
Testament is slammed full of 

527
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,480
specific ways we're called to 
love one another. 

528
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,040
I just want to give you these 
ideas again, because if if 

529
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,720
you've never read your New 
Testament and just look for the 

530
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:28,600
one another's the instructions 
for how we're to relate to one 

531
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:32,520
another, they're all expressions
of ordinary ways we're to love. 

532
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,600
Let me give you a few. 
Romans 1210. 

533
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,720
Be devoted to one another. 
Give preference to one another. 

534
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:44,640
Romans 15-7 accept one another. 
Galatians 513 through love serve

535
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,560
one another. 
Galatians 62 bear one another's 

536
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:51,200
burdens. 
Ephesians 4 two show tolerance 

537
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,640
of one another. 
Ephesians 425 speak truth, each 

538
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:58,600
of you with his neighbor. 
Ephesians 432 be kind to one 

539
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,440
another, tender hearted, 
forgiving each other. 

540
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,080
First Thessalonians 511 
encourage one another. 

541
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:07,360
And I could go on, right? 
There's about 35 of these basic 

542
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,960
ordinary daily one another's 
that we're to live out towards 

543
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,240
one another in the family of 
God, right? 

544
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,040
John says, by the way, you can 
know you've passed out of death 

545
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,560
to life. 
If this is characterizing your 

546
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:23,640
life, that's you love the family
of God and your neighbor. 

547
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,560
You ought to be a Christian is 
to follow Christ and what did 

548
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,560
Christ do? 
He laid down his life for us and

549
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,640
these are the basic, daily, 
ordinary ways we lay down our 

550
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:39,080
lives for one another. 
Love is a primary evidence of 

551
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:42,400
your salvation, that you've 
truly been made alive. 

552
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:48,080
Verse 18 says this, little 
children, let us not love in 

553
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:54,800
Word or deed, rather in Word or 
talk, but in deed and in truth. 

554
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,160
Let us not love in Word or talk,
but indeed and in truth. 

555
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:05,600
I read about a man and he said 
out loud to his girlfriend, 

556
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,679
Sweetie, I would climb the 
highest mountain for you. 

557
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,159
Real original, I know. 
I would swim the deepest ocean 

558
00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:19,239
for you. 
I'd fight a jungle full of lions

559
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,320
for you. 
And if it doesn't rain, I'll be 

560
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:27,679
over to see you tonight. 
First service. 

561
00:34:27,679 --> 00:34:33,800
Didn't get it that quickly. 
But love is not a feeling. 

562
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:40,000
Love is not a claim. 
Love is an action. 

563
00:34:41,639 --> 00:34:44,840
And if it's not an action, it's 
not real. 

564
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,960
It's not in truth, it's not in 
reality. 

565
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:56,400
Love is an action, and when you 
do it, it's probably not going 

566
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,360
to feel good. 
If it costs you. 

567
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,480
If you wait when you feel good 
to love, you won't love if when 

568
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,600
you do it and you do it to 
someone that might not love you 

569
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,080
back, when you do it to someone 
who doesn't belong to Christ, 

570
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:17,200
especially potentially, But this
is how the world's going to know

571
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:21,800
that we truly belong to who? 
Jesus, he says in John 1335. 

572
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:27,120
If we have not that we're good 
to each other, not that we're 

573
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,920
good people, not that we're good
citizens. 

574
00:35:30,240 --> 00:35:33,200
All those things are wonderful, 
but there's a difference between

575
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,640
good and love. 
You can go, you can go home and 

576
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:41,480
shut yourself in your house and 
be good people, but you want to 

577
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,640
love the world that way. 
Moment you start thinking about 

578
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,240
love, you got to start thinking 
about who's around you. 

579
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,880
The one word for the Christian 
life is love. 

580
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,680
I just want to ask you and 
challenge you with this 

581
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,320
question, what one word best 
describes your life? 

582
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:05,680
If it was all over and all said 
and done today and everybody had

583
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:12,840
one word for you, one word, what
word would it be? 

584
00:36:14,240 --> 00:36:17,160
He was a good man, she was a 
good woman. 

585
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,680
They were great. 
Would the word love be in there 

586
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,080
at all? 
Maybe. 

587
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:32,520
Maybe there's certain areas of 
your life that love might be 

588
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,640
true, but others that are not 
that you need to surrender to 

589
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,280
Jesus. 
Maybe Love's really not in there

590
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:43,840
at all because you've never 
received by faith Jesus Christ, 

591
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,960
the one who laid down his life 
and love for you. 

592
00:36:46,240 --> 00:36:50,240
And today, now is the time to 
receive the love of God, calling

593
00:36:50,240 --> 00:36:54,120
on him to receive forgiveness of
sin and salvation so you can be 

594
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,160
experiencing the love of God, so
you can show you can't give what

595
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,080
you've never received. 
And this kind of love is not 

596
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,200
natural. 
You're not going to muster it 

597
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,560
up. 
You're not going to decide one 

598
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,720
day, Oh my goodness, I'm just 
going to change my heart and 

599
00:37:05,720 --> 00:37:07,360
start loving. 
Only Jesus can do that. 

600
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,240
That's why John says you can 
know you've passed from death to

601
00:37:10,240 --> 00:37:12,800
life if this is happening 
because this is not of you. 

602
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,040
This is supernatural. 
This is from heaven. 

603
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:21,000
This is from Jesus. 
Maybe you need to receive 

604
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,360
Christ. 
Maybe maybe when we sing and 

605
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:28,760
respond in this next song, you 
just want to come and kneel at 

606
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:33,000
this altar and say King Jesus. 
I'm not sure what my word, one 

607
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,000
word would be, but I'm not sure 
it's love. 

608
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,960
And I want to ask you to make 
whatever adjustment in my life 

609
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:42,720
you need to make from my life to
be aligned with what you say 

610
00:37:42,720 --> 00:37:46,080
should be true of me because 
it's true of you and I want it 

611
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,440
to be true of me. 
Maybe some things you need to 

612
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,640
let go of. 
Maybe there's some things you 

613
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,760
need to trust Him for. 
Maybe there's some things you 

614
00:37:55,760 --> 00:38:00,840
need to ask Him to change in 
order for love to be Your one 

615
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:04,400
word. 
Heavenly Father, I want to ask 

616
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:09,360
right now that as we respond to 
You, as we've been instructed 

617
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:13,160
from Your word on how we should 
live towards one another, 

618
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:17,960
Father, that love truly would be
the description of our lives. 

619
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,400
I pray Lord, that the world 
would see something so different

620
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:25,240
and so supernatural in US. 
They know they can't explain it 

621
00:38:25,240 --> 00:38:29,120
outside of Jesus Christ. 
God, I pray that you, we as your

622
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,960
church, would be raised up. 
That we would stand up, that we 

623
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,840
would love, that we would share,
that we would show and shine no 

624
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,600
matter what, even if the world 
hates in return. 

625
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,960
That we would consider ourselves
blessed knowing that Father, 

626
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:47,160
this is how you plan to use us, 
even if we're not loved back as 

627
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,040
you were not loved back, but put
on the cross. 

628
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:53,040
Lord Jesus, help us to take up 
our cross to love as you loved 

629
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:58,560
so the world can see there's a 
God who loves them so that we 

630
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,760
can be difference makers for all
of eternity. 

631
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,600
God, if someone needs to receive
your love today for the first 

632
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,960
time, would they be bold enough 
to step out from where they are 

633
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,640
and come tell me and let them go
from death to life today? 

634
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,360
In Jesus name I pray, Amen. 
Would you stand with me, church 

635
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:12,800
family?
