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Welcome back to another episode of Licking Like a Lollipop, The
Fucking Podcast. We have a lot of new listeners.
I have been out there networking with everyone, giving cards and
stickers out. So we're going to have a lot of
new guests coming on. A lot of cool people that are in
the works right now, some returning guest as well.
So it's a lot Gemini. What are you doing, Boo Boo?
Chilling. I just cleaned out the podcast
room. It needed it so fucking bad.
And I just, I don't know. I get lost in like the hustle
and bustle of it all. And then I come in here and I do
witchcraft things and then I like move on with life.
And tonight I was like absolutely not.
I've been in here for like 4 hours, just like moving things
around, cleaning things, getting things in order.
It feels nice to have an organized space to be in like I
can. I can not do chaos for very long
and especially if I'm going to be in a spot for a hot second, I
I have to have a little bit of cleanliness.
We both have a red spaghetti shrimp tanks up on with no roll
right now. So if you're not watching the
Gemini's titties bounce up and down right now, I don't even
know what you're doing. But this was unplanned.
The, the, the, the sweaty, sweaty chagrat the.
Sweaty chagrat. I can't even say it's so funny
that that were both. So I joined.
OK, so first of all, my friend Tonya, she does house cleaning
and she got super and like she showed me about trading your
services with other people who offer services.
So like, she cleans my house in exchange for readings.
And she's like, oh, so she got me involved in this group on
Facebook and it's like business babes of Boise or something
because that's where I'm at and people will legit post in there
and be like, this is what I do. If you ever want to trade
services, just like, let me know.
So I posted about tarot reading the other day.
It was my first post I'd ever made in there, A girl reached
out to me about being my esthetician in exchange for
readings. And she was like all like free
skin care services from me. Like if you wanted to, like, if
we need to do, like, needling or like whatever you need, it's on
me. And I was like, oh shit, OK.
And then a girl reached out to me today and was like, hey,
would you be interested in getting your nails done in
exchange for readings? And I've been waiting to go and
get my nails done. I keep on looking at people and
I'm like, no, it's not like quite what I want or whatever.
This girl literally does the styles that I want and
everything and it's like, she's like, absolutely she does.
There's this one picture she has of these nails and she did like,
like diamond, like black diamond crosses on them, like upside
down crosses on them. And it was just gorgeous.
And so I'm out here trading my fucking services.
So come Sunday, I'm about to have new hands.
Well, I absolutely love that For you.
It sounds like you're becoming a brand new lady.
You're getting skin care, elevation, getting your nails
done. Sounds.
Like, I've been dropping this weight.
Like, I'm about this right now. I have been really stressed and
like, not like when you're stressed you like, don't really
like eat or drink. So I'm like trying to remember
to take care of myself. But I'm also like, is this the
diet plan I've needed? I don't care if it's unhealthy.
Get me. Get my.
Skinny Gemini, you better be taking care of yourself in your
little red tank top. I put a blanket over so that
because I feel like like I'm one move away from a nip slip.
Well, it's good for ratings. I really.
If I show my I can show my nipple on my Patreon.
I got hang on, like nobody wants to see a boobie that doesn't
have hard Nippies. You always.
Got even this lady. She's lost her mind.
Y'all lost her mind. I feel like the energy really
shifted this weekend though. We had that New moon and the
Lunar New Year like back-to-back in 24 hours and I just feel like
such a lighter energy with this shift.
Like the most stressful 48 hours since the weekend.
You're like, I'm so calm. I'm like, I'm not calm.
No, the weekend was like the the shift, the Lunar New Year.
I feel like spring is in the air.
I feel so optimistic. I.
Feel that? I thought you meant like you.
You're fucking all like bubbly and happy and shit.
You're always bubbly and happy. This energy feels good.
It's shifting. It's like really shaking loose.
There's like a whole ending to winter coming and I feel it's
shaking loose. I feel the grass and the plants,
like speaking to me, that's what I'm talking about.
I'm talking about my inner Pocahontas has now drifted to
the surface and I hear the birds calling me.
You're inner Pocahontas. That was fun fact.
Pocahontas and Cinderella were my two favorite Disney movies.
And that's like the only two movies I ever had.
Like a bunch of memorabilia. Like I had a Pocahontas
bedspread and like bedroom suit, like don't come for me.
See, my thing about Pocahontas is like because there's, you
know, there's such a movement against that movie because it's
not historically correct and accurate.
And I wish that there would like, I wish that we could
appreciate that movie for what it is and know that like it's
not historically accurate. But I wish that they would.
But it's still a great movie and and I wish that they would do
something that is historically accurate.
Obviously, it's not going to be a Disney movie, right?
But I wish that they would do something that's a
representation of the true story and gives, you know, credit to
Pocahontas where it's due. Yeah, for sure.
I mean, obviously, like, that was in the 90s.
You know what I mean? Like, that was my, that was my
jam. And it's a fictional movie.
I see all those movies as fictional movies.
They may have, like, some truth to them, but I see everything as
a fictional movie. Even movies that they say are
true, like the Elvis story or random shit, I just still see it
as fictional. Like some of those parts are
true. And then you've weaved and like,
fabricated the other parts to make them interesting.
You know, like, I don't believe a lot of things, but I'm never
looking at a Disney movie thinking that it's gonna be
politically correct, 'cause every Disney movie is literally
like, you need a man. You are worthless without a man.
You should have a man. Why don't you have a man?
Here's a man. Like, they literally keep
frozen. They literally teach little
girls that you are nothing without validation from men or
validation from other people. And I feel like a lot of those
movies are like brainwashed around.
Like you need this, you need this, you need this.
Like, you know, like Cinderella, for example, like living at
that, the castle, being like, you know, tortured by the evil
stepmom and all that. And it's like you need this man
to save you. You need this man to save you.
You need this man to be happy. Like, there's just so much
concept in that. And so, like, I'm not a huge
Disney fan in general whatsoever.
But obviously, like, there's those movies that when we were
kids, like, you know, I'm just sentimentally attached.
But as far as like, setting down and Disney Plus and like
watching those old movies, no. I tried to have Mac watch
Country Bears tonight. Do you remember that movie?
Yeah, I liked it when I was a kid.
I did too. That was my jam.
So I tried to get him to watch Country Bears and he was the
opening thing goes, and he goes, I know that this is an old movie
because this video quality is awful.
And I was like. I'm like, it's not that old.
And I go and look, and it was 2002.
I was like, I was 8 years old. I was your age.
And he comes back up and he's like a little while later and
he's like, this movie has an hour left.
And this is the most boring movie I've ever seen.
Can we change it? He's been watching.
That's The Raven. Banger.
That kid. He watched the entire Lizzie
McGuire series and the movies and then he watched all of the
Suite Life of Zack and Cody and their little spin off show, The
Suite Life on Deck or whatever. And now he is on.
That's so, Raven, All right. I just don't know.
A lot of things that we used to watch are really subjective.
Some things are good, but some things I'm like, what in the
world? But I you know what I do wish
and they maybe already do this. Where can you watch the
Nickelodeon stuff on Paramount or something?
I have no idea. I haven't.
Seen. Nickelodeon stuff.
I know because, like, I remember watching like Kenan and Kel and
like all that. Like the Amanda Show.
Shit, the Amanda. Show You know what?
That's crazy. You talk about Amanda Bynes
because and Nickelodeon because I was doing a call today with
one of the girls who does mentorship with me and she was
talking about Nickelodeon. I guess there's a show on, I
think it's Netflix, about like the child actor stories from
Nickelodeon and the guy, I think his name is Dan Schneider.
I want to say I could be wrong, but I think that's his name.
He was like the executive and there are a bunch of childhood
stars that are coming out and talking about like ways that he
assaulted them. And Kristy Carlson Romano from
Even Steven and she played Kim Possible, has a podcast called
the Vulnerability Podcast. And she brings on like childhood
stars and stuff. And she's had tons of
Nickelodeon people who have talked out about being assaulted
by him. And Amanda Bynes lived with him,
went and moved in with him when she was 18 years old.
And that was right when she fell off of everything.
And now she's, you know, she disappeared forever and
everybody talked about her mental health and then she's
just so different now. Yeah, I mean, I can't imagine.
I know that a lot of people don't realize what those child
stars go through. But there is a movie that Shia
LaBeouf is in and he directed it about his life story and it's
called Honey Boy. And I'm pretty sure it's on
Amazon Prom still, but it's a prequel to another movie he
wrote called Honey or American Honey.
I think one or the other. But Honey Boy is about his life
and he plays his father. And for the majority of like
him, being on even Stevens as a small child, he lived in and out
of hotels that he paid for with his dad.
And like, it's some deep, really, really twisted stuff
that like his own dad was putting him through.
So, you know, I can't imagine what it's like as parents who
don't have their shit together for your kid to be making all
this money and now you're managing them, or now you're a
drug addict or whatever. But it was kind of like the rise
and fall of, like, his dad and like the access to like, all the
things. And like, there's just different
times that he was talking about. Like he didn't have anywhere to
sleep. So he would sleep on set
somewhere and just try to like blend in and like, you know,
then he became like a big star, kind of, I don't know, And his
dad was just like milking it for everything.
And I I can't really remember all about his mom.
It's been a while since I saw it.
But I just know that he plays his dad and it's like a really
fucked up story. Like, it really is.
And honestly, like he's done a lot with his mental health, been
in the public eye like that, Like like anyone in the public
eye. You think you want that, You
think you want all of those things.
And then one day you wake up and you're like, I just really wish
I could go to fucking Walmart and like, just go to Walmart and
like, come home. Is that here?
Yeah, well, and too like when you're in the public eye,
everybody has an opinion on everything that you're doing,
and everybody around you is wanting you to succeed because
then they get something out of it.
So you've constantly got people around you who don't really care
if the choices that you're making are right or wrong
choices, but it's whatever is going to be the most financially
lucrative. Take the scripts that you don't
want and whatever. And when you're living your life
constantly for other people, you want to do things that make you
feel in control. So I feel like that's why people
get like addictions and things like that when they're inside of
that Hollywood circle. First of all, it's around you
all the time. But second of all, like the way
that you treat your body is something that you're in control
of, and it makes you feel like you're powerful.
And I feel like a lot of people get into that out of control
outer body experience with that because it's like sometimes that
happens quickly and especially for those childhood stars, it's
like even the fucking bitches from Teen Mom are still famous.
Like, Y'all really blew that out of proportion.
Like, I really don't realize. Or I don't realize.
I don't realize anything about these people except the fact
that, like, they got pregnant at fucking 15 or 16 years old and
got accepted on this MTV show. Like, why the fuck are we still
like Farrah Abraham and her boyfriend from her only fins
and, like, just dumbass shit? Like, why do I know that Farrah
Abraham has a fucking ONLY fans? No clue.
I mean, you could have totally predicted that she would do
something crazy because she was never a good mom.
She always treated her kids like shit and acted like this is my
world. But it was weird and I just feel
like, why do we idolize people like that?
You know, like. So, so for me, I stopped
watching the like Teen Mom thing like years ago and I think that
they like still have active like show or whatever.
But there are there are three girls that I've just like kept
tabs on over the years. One of them is Kale Lowry.
And the my reason for her is that I listened to the audibles
of her autobiographies and like just what she went through in
life and as a kid and like growing up as a mom and stuff.
And there's I don't know. I just the the way that she's
built herself through what she's been through and the way that
she she's always stuck to. If she's going to be on MTV and
she's going to do the TV thing, this is the expectation in the
way that she needs to be respected and her children need
to be respected. And how it she's very publicly
had like her fallouts with her baby daddies or whatever and has
always tried to. I feel like be honest and
authentic about things without dragging people and even on like
her podcasts and stuff and so I really like her.
Janelle, I just feel bad for the girl.
I feel like Janelle. I feel I feel bad for Janelle
because I I don't know how anybody ever sides with her mom.
But I feel like if you watched that show and you saw how her
mom treated her was really crazy and yes, she was rebelling and
whatever, but she had, she was. People don't think about
postpartum. And as somebody who's had a baby
and who had postpartum, postpartum shows itself in all
types of crazy ways. And if you have somebody who has
a controlling or like bark at you type of personality, when
you're going through that, you're already feeling like
you're, at least for me, I already felt like I was really
shitty at what I was doing and I didn't really know and I felt
like everybody's eyes were on me and that I was always doing
something wrong. So I can only imagine how it
feels to then have your mom barking at you all the time and
telling you that you're not good enough and taking you to court.
And then now I just think that she's married to a fucking crazy
person. So she's got that.
And then I really like, oh, what's her name?
The girl, Macy. I Macy's.
All right. I don't follow Macy.
It's the it's the other girl. She has colored hair.
She was the esthetician. Her daughter's name is or she
was a makeup artist. Her or hair stylist or some
shit. Her daughter's name is Aubrey.
Yeah, I know you're talking about, but I don't remember her
name. Chelsea.
Chelsea these are the. Team I love Chelsea these.
Are she has these? Are.
Oh geez, she has her own HPTV show.
Her husband is fine as. So obviously guys very invested
in the Teen Mom OGI think that we should just completely stop
idolizing people and start putting ourselves on the
pedestal, because these bitches didn't do nothing but get picked
for a teenager. And.
We have lived vicariously through the Teen Mom OG for like
20 years. I It's crazy how many people are
still to this day, obsessed with them.
Not saying you're obsessed, but I'm saying I'll see it.
I know, but I don't think it's, I don't know if it's idolization
as much as like, I don't think it's idolization.
I think it for me it's like appreciating the journey that
people have been through and I think it's a fucking crazy that
they did that on TV. And at least, you know, Hale and
Chelsea are doing their own things now, and they launched
off of like the Teen Mom brand, and they have like their own
everything going on. And I just like to see that
they're thriving. After all the bullshit, Kale
just had a set of twins, by the way.
I'm like, Oh my God. Update We're going to call this
episode Teen Mom KA, but I don't know.
I mean, I watch those shows just like Jersey Shore.
I mean, just silly shows that we watch that, like those people
are still in the public eye. It's like, I don't what the
whole point of that was, is like, I don't think people know
what they're signing up for. Like they don't know what's
going to happen. And like, I think that like a
lot of child stars or people, I mean, they were children.
They were fucking teenagers, you know, like.
A lot of people don't realize the long term of that and like
what that does to your life and yourself esteem and like who you
are. Like, you know, we all have
those people in our lives that are watching us, but imagine
everyone watching you and judging you and projecting onto
you too. And I'll see that a lot.
Like, there's definitely a lot of just online drama, just like
in general. And I think that they just feed
it to us. Like, I've just taken a step
back from just watching tik Toks because sometimes like Tik toks,
educational and exciting and sometimes it's just so fear
based. And like, I don't know, it was
starting to really drain me. And I've talked to a lot of
clients about this too, that also feel like that.
And I just feel like there's so much clickbait, you know, just
things that are just like clickbait, whether it's a
tabloid or like a video. It's just the same thing.
Like, pay attention to this bullshit, you know what I mean?
Yeah, yeah, I agree with that. I I mean, things are click bait.
Yeah, the Internet has became a lot of click bait and propaganda
bullshit. Just like fear, fear, fear,
fear. You know?
And honestly, my favorite thing about like the Internet is like
the way that you can make connections with people and
like, sustain them. You know what I mean?
Like before, like you maybe couldn't sustain new connections
or you couldn't sustain friendships or bonds.
But like, seriously, with the Internet, there's no no excuse.
Like if you want to build a connection with someone like, it
is literally more than ever easy to have like a long distance
friendship or relationship or business with literally anyone.
So I love when people are like, oh, I just don't have time for
XYZ when it's like you just don't want to do that.
You know what I mean? It's not that you don't have
time, you just don't want to because everybody, no matter who
we are, set and scroll probably for at least 20 minutes at
minimum to like maximum. Some people scroll 67812 hours a
day, 15 hours a day, the whole day, you know, But I would say
every average person that uses social media in some form takes
at least 20 to 30 minutes out of their day to check messages,
emails, scroll or whatever. You know what I mean?
And that's light. That's me just giving y'all a
light sentence. Most of y'all at minimum,
probably. I'm sure at minimum I'm I'm like
up to an hour to two hours on just scrolling and looking and
posting and you know, whatever it is like checking messages and
stuff like people are like why did you?
Yeah, but but also too, like, yes, you at least, Yeah, I think
for you 2, when you're scrolling and shit like that, you're also
on your phone doing posts about things.
You're on your phone because you're talking to other people
and you have like clients reaching out or friends, you
know, whatever. And so I feel like the time that
we're actually scrolling versus when we're going back and forth
in our phone and then have to go back to scrolling because we had
something come in. I bet you you are on your phone
a lot because you're actually like working and being
productive in between And you're probably just so used to that
routine that you don't realize. And so it seems like you're like
deep in rabbit holes, but you're probably just going back to the
same activity. I mean, we all pick up our phone
a lot. Yeah.
I mean, I work. I mean, having a business that
you run online is like going to take online time.
You know what I mean? Like, I have a lot of energy
that comes across the screen too, though, of things that are
just like, I don't want to even entertain that anymore.
Like, I don't know, there's just been so much, I don't know what
it is. It's like the holidays, tax
time, people just get in these modes and like when summer hits
and it's like everybody's drinking and swimming and
partying or whatever, it's like a little different.
But like, I don't know the beginning part of the year, the
holidays beyond to like mid March.
I feel like people's energy is just so fucking weird and I
don't know why, but it's like it's been, it's been like I
don't want to talk to nobody. I'm just like some.
Pisces. Time swear something.
It's something, man, I don't know.
It's the fishy season. It's fishy out here.
Good morning, ladies. Don't. 45 Two Zig Zags.
I've been listening to that song a lot.
Oh my God, all the classics just coming up in rotation.
Literally, I love using Spotify. For those who are listening,
listen to us on Spotify. I don't care if you use Apple
Music. Download Spotify and and try to
look at its options, and then you will slowly but surely begin
making your switch over to Spotify.
I have to been an Amazon, an Apple user, Pandora and all the
above. But I'm telling you, ain't
nothing hidden like Spotify for one has so many options that
they curate. Like they have this DJ feature
that like when I'm in the car, I can just click DJ and it
literally is like a God. It's like you've been playing
these lately. One of them the other day, he
said This song's got your name all over it and it was like a
banger song that I really do like and it was just really
funny how you said that. But it he'll do like little
segments and then that's really cool.
And then when you share something and it just looks
cool, that's cool too. Like, I love how Spotify has
those those features that like show the music video or whatever
when you share it sometimes. And then my favorite thing is
the day list. Earlier mine said like college
emo, spring break. I was like, fuck is that but
like. The titles of.
The day list, they change like 3 * a day and that's like my
favorite fucking thing. Like Spotify.
I'm going to see what my day list is right now and it's going
to encourage you all to go create Spotify and at least
listen to us on Spotify. It says the Banjo Campfire
Night. The Banjo Campfire Night and the
first song is Something in the Orange by Zach Bryant.
Banger. Banger.
All of it. I love Spotify.
It took me a while to jump on the bandwagon, but now that I'm
there, I don't want to go anywhere else.
I've done the YouTube whatever premium thing that was annoying.
I've done Pandora and and Apple, whatever, all the things.
Spotify fucking is where it's at.
And everything's in one spot, like for I for Apple or for
iTunes or whatever. It's like you have to go to
Apple Podcasts and then you have to go to the music separately
and whatever. And Spotify has it all there.
Plus they have a bunch of stuff that people have put on YouTube,
like meditations and children's stories and all the things that
you like on that you used to stream on YouTube.
Spotify has all of that, too. The thing I love about.
Spotify is it literally curates so many random playlists that
just are like an algorithm based on your music taste like not
just the day list and like the DJ but they have other just like
random playlists that will pop up in like 52% of the songs are
like I love them show me your. Mouth.
And then there's Other. Ones those.
Are cute. I'm obsessed with.
These all Diamond savvy. Yeah, those are super cute.
I haven't seen you. Have I?
I've had these for a little bit, no.
I haven't seen you in forever, honestly.
I've been running thin a little bit, so I've been trying to take
a step back and get off my phone and not text and not be on it,
just like relax. And I've been blocking out just
days for relaxation. Like today I didn't have a bunch
but I had some and then tomorrow I just block the day off just
cause like. I want to be vibe and I'm.
Going to do a nice love and attraction spell on Valentine's
Day for myself and our podcast drops and it's Valentine's Day.
You all so do a love and attraction spell today and quit
playing games because our podcast is aligned to a lot of
really significant days like 111 and different things.
And now it's on fucking Valentine's Day, because yes.
Not to mention the. Fact.
Oh fuck. What?
Was I going to say something about it being Wednesday?
Motherfuck, mother motherfuck, mother motherfuck.
Fuck. I don't remember at all.
It was super important in my head.
I'll come back to it. The Divine.
Alignment of Valentine's Day is the message.
Always love yourself and we both got read on.
Oh, I was. Going to say that I'm also doing
self love and attracting healthy love spell in the spell working
tomorrow. Yes.
Beautiful. We have a spell work level you
all that you get monthly group spells and it's really special
place here on Earth where we all come together and have a magical
moment. Check it out, no detail.
To anything but sound so enchanting at the same time I
wanted it to be. Commercialized.
No. We have a really good circle
though. I really like it a lot.
I am excited for the full moon ritual though this.
Month. I'm excited too.
It's. On my mom's birthday.
It is on. The 25th of February and it's
going to be a beautiful night. So if you all want to join our
Full Moon Circle, join either one of our Patreons and it's
going to be cool because it's actually on the full moon this
month. I'm so excited.
I feel like, I don't know. I feel like so much comfortable
energy inside of our circle and inside of our space.
Like, I feel like everybody who's been attending the circles
has just been, like, exuding the most.
Like. Comfortable.
Energy and they're just wanting to contribute to the space and
give reciprocated energy and like really be there on that
journey with us and it's been such a nice vibe when we are
doing things. You know the universe.
Always aligns you into the space where like you can truly
elevate. I think sometimes it's trial and
error, like you have to learn what you don't want in order to
get to that elevated space where you do know what you want, you
do know what kind of energies that you want to be around you
and to be a part of. And I think that the more that
we can be clear on what we want and be like, that isn't for me,
I've learned this lesson or whatever to just really go next
level. It's like sometimes the
environment is calling for a rotation shift and you're being
called out of your comfort zone or out of your element in order
to rise to that occasion. And I think that our group and
the community that we are building has evolved over the
last couple years. It, excuse me, In the beginning
it was like an incubator, but it wasn't like fully built, right?
Like it wasn't like fully ready. It was like it was being
cultivated. But we still didn't know exactly
like the ground rules or like what we wanted and how we wanted
to do it and different things. And like what I think really
helped with the Community Circle is like not making it a public
event where anyone can just buy a one time ticket and come enjoy
the Circle. But it's more of like a intimate
space where you're doing your monthly subscription in order to
get this link. Like, it doesn't just go out to
everyone. Like you already have a
commitment. You already have put an
energetic exchange forward. And like, this is more of a perk
or more of an additional thing that you're receiving.
And I think that a lot of people really look forward to it every
month for that reason, because it's like they're already
getting the other perks of their membership.
But then this is just like that added value.
And I think that when you look at things as like added value
rather than just like I want to sell this or I want people to
join this or I want people so to be a part of this, it's more of
just like I'm adding value to the people and the lives that
see value in this. Like, I'm not out convincing
everyone with a sign like this is valuable, but it's like they
are ready so they've chosen that past.
Yes, you. Are out there the fucking sign
anytime you see somebody you're like, hi, can I give you a
podcast sticker? No.
I anytime people interact with me, engage with me, compliment
me, say hello to me. I'm like, I have a podcast and
then we talk and we exchange and I give them a sticker or a card
or whatever. But I don't just walk up to
strangers. I literally like people approach
me and then I give them the information that they're seeking
because like, they approach me. Or if like someone compliments
me, like, hey, I like your outfit.
I'm like, thanks. I have a podcast like it's like
I'm learning from VIP each how she like, plugs herself into
every conversation that she wants to.
And like I I really do try to do that now with the Cards.
Because the worst thing anyone can say is like, no, like, I've
had people be like. You know, like.
Oh, I don't listen to podcasts or whatever, like, and it
doesn't really like affect me. Like, that's very rare.
Like most people just take the card and the sticker.
Like, I'll just be honest with anyone business advice.
If you have a business, make some really badass stickers and
then give them away to everyone that you meet because they are
so receptive to taking a card. If you give them a sticker and
like, you know they're going to stick that sticker somewhere.
Like, I'm literally like given so many stickers out.
Like Car Town where they are, like they're on dumpsters in Las
Vegas, there's there's one on a sign in Mexico.
Like literally. Like stickers are everywhere for
contrary cherry and look at like a lollipop.
So I feel like they're definitely living, living their
glory somewhere in the world. When we went to.
A concert like I think it was like 2 months ago.
I went into the bathroom and I put a sticker.
Was it just stickers? No, it was stickers in our
podcast card on. They had like seats on in like
the waiting area and whatever. And then a bunch of stalls.
And so I put a sticker and a business card on all the seats.
And then I put them in the stalls on top of, like the
little toilet paper thing where you set your phone down.
So that when you go to pick your phone up, our stickers and stuff
are there and you got to pick it up with it.
And you're going to be like, oh, why the fuck is this in there?
And you're like, oh, podcast. I put it in the sinks.
I put it on top of the paper towel dispenser.
And he was. Out there, Yeah, we went back
in. And they were all gone.
I was like, fuck yeah. I love that I.
Don't stick them like everywhere random like that.
But I do give them to random people.
Like literally. It's the best way to like, plug
yourself in if you have memorabilia, stickers and cards.
And like what's crazy to me is like people will sell stickers
for their brand. It would be like me being like
the contrary cherry stickers are $2.00 like.
No, like I've. Never understood.
That either. That should be like a marketing
tool. Yeah, I don't get it.
At all. It makes no sense to me.
Like, I don't know why more people don't print stickers and
that like festivals or Expos, like give them away.
When we were at the Expo and I would give people like the big
contrary cherry, 'cause I have like, big ones, they were like,
Oh my God, you can pick some of my stickers off the table that
they were, like, selling. Like a couple people gave me
stickers, 'cause they were like, damn, like I ran out of those so
quickly. Every time I pulled one of those
out, people were like, wow, this is so cool, Like, 'cause
holographic and whatever. Which reminds me, I need to get
some more holographic ones. But those are my favorite kind.
I love them. I love.
That I really need to get a business card for myself.
And I think I talked to you about this recently where like,
I looked down at your business card that you'd sent in a
package and I was like, why the fuck don't I have one of these?
I'm like, I'm so confused. I don't know.
I just want to. I just want to meet somebody and
be like, here's my card. I do.
I know I. I want to be that bitch, my
nails done, my skin on fleek. Here's my card.
I mean, you're literally. Missing 1000% of those shots
that you don't take. And I think that's the most
important lesson that any of us can have in our life is like, if
I don't shoot this shot, no one will.
If I don't do what I'm supposed to do, I'm not going to get
there. I'm not going to get to where I
was going. And I think that when we just
shoot our shot, it doesn't matter where you end up because
you're betting on yourself. You know what I mean?
Like you're putting intention towards something and betting on
yourself. So like investing in your brand,
whether it's whatever it is, anyone, even your brand is like
yourself. Like how you show up, how you
present yourself, how you're dressing, how you're smelling,
how you're looking, all that it adds to your your points or
takes away. And I think a lot of people just
need to up their presentation and their true self.
Like, who are you really? Who do you really want to be?
How can you actually bring that energy to fruition?
Like, how can you actually elevate your thinking about your
situation so that you can transform?
And that's what I love about spiritual growth is like, you
can look back and be like I was afraid to take that chance.
And then I did and everything changed.
Like I was afraid to tap into my spiritual gifts or to take time
out for meditation or to do a past life regression or whatever
it is to get a reading, even you know, And then like, you do it
and everything changes and shifts for you.
And I think that's my favorite part about like being able to
talk through things on the podcast or just being able to
share our story through the podcast with strangers and other
people is because a lot of people will write me.
And they're like the more I listen to you on your podcast,
the more I realize that we're a lot alike or that you have a lot
of beliefs that I have or that you have a lot of like,
perceptions that I never considered.
Like this is really eye opening and I think that's what's really
cool is like you never know what the thing that you end up doing,
how it's going to actually help people, whether you know it's
just a daily thing or something that becomes like your life is
something that you really evolve into.
But I think so many people are just afraid of taking that first
step towards it. Yeah, I just like watching.
You talk sometimes and I just like, listen to you go off on a
tangent and I'm like, I don't have anything to say about this
topic, but you're really pretty when you talk.
Thank you. Thank you Gemini.
Gemini So. We have a returning.
Guest coming Our next episode, Lord willing, should be with
this guest. Hopefully it all aligns.
It should, but we're really excited to have this person
back. It's going to be a surprise.
And then after that we have another returning guest.
So I know a lot of people have given us.
Really great feedback on everything with the guests and
we love giving you all that versatility.
We always want to remind you like if there's a guest or
someone that you would like to see us shoot our shot with, no
matter who it is, send us their info.
You know, we will definitely, we will slide in.
Anybody's DMS, yes, we will, definitely.
E-mail, text, call, send an SOS, whatever we need to do.
But Jim and I, you should pull the card.
Oh shit. I forgot we were doing that.
Well, we've. Only done it the last 29.
Episodes. You know what sometimes you.
Really can suck my whole Dick. Why?
Why do you look so confused? Because someone.
Just sent me this snap, this long ass snap about tickets that
are free and they don't know who the comedian is.
And I was just reading it because I was trying to zoom in
on the comedian. And I mean, if it's free, I was
feeling a little skeptical. I was like, is there, you know,
there a reason dude's doing 5 shows for free?
A good question. All right.
What card is this? We got the well card 48.
I was just talking about how Brigid.
Was the Celtic goddess of Wells? Shut up.
I was just I. Just when I just did my smoke
and zoom, I went on this whole tangent about the goddess
Bridget. And she's also also depicted as
the Hulu goddess Mamon Bridgette.
So she's in multiple different cultures.
Yeah, I just. Gave Juber a Bridget necklace
for Valentine's Day with her Valentine's presents.
Because Juber was my Valentine. I want to be your Valentine.
We just say Valentine. Big gifts, big gifts, baby.
Whatever. Listen.
The sign is Libra. I don't want to hear I'm getting
jealous, OK? The sign is Libra.
The gift is depth and the shadow is inadequacy.
The gift is dubbed the well for the great depth it holds within
you. The bottom of the well can be
very dark, but within the darkness lies nourishment, life,
and light. How do you access this gift?
Trust. Trust in divine timing.
Trust in the unfolding, however daunting.
Trust in yourself. There is no amount of knowledge
or structure that can adequate to the infinite wisdom you
possess within you. Move through your fears.
You have to go through the darkness of the well to gain its
water. When you honor your innate gifts
and talents and your intuition, know that the right answers will
arrive right as you need them. Along the way, your shadow is
inadequacy. You have an incredible ability
to correct, which means that you can identify ways that the
collective could change, transform, and improve.
We need correctors for the betterment of our world When
this is a detriment, when this is a detriment is when you
instead might focus this correction inwardly to dissect
all of your flaws, your pitfalls, and your reasons for
not pursuing an interest or dream.
This is the undercut of inadequacy.
And so, in an effort to suppress the uncomfortable feeling, you
may attempt to organize or control your world in hopes of
creating a formidable structure of security that cannot be
undermined. This is a trap.
Why? Because life is full of mystery,
and there will always be forces beyond your control to elevate
beyond this fear or through the fear.
Rather, follow your inner guidance system, your infallible
intuition or guts. Make a plan of action, execute
and leave some room for flexibility for the times when
you will undoubtedly have to pivot.
The leap of faith is critical. Jump in Your themes are Trust,
Wisdom, Leap of Faith, and Correction, Yes?
That's what I got for you. I really want a Polly Pocket
reading. I need a reading from you.
OK? My life is in shambles.
I need you, OK. I'll give you a I'll.
Give you your emotional support, Polly Pocket to chew on in the
meantime, That's what I need have.
You seen those memes or it's like?
Which one you chewing on? And it was like a Poly pocket
shoe or or an eraser. It's.
Like which that's so funny. It is funny how everyone has.
Shoot a Poly pocket at some point, like, have you?
Have you? Yeah.
Like I was like. This is a real question, no.
For I have, I have. You know what's really cool
about us pulling those cards is I feel like their theme plays
out for like the whole week, kind of like really circling
through. So I just love that.
I love that little theme we're doing.
And I love to see your beautiful face.
I love to. See yours?
That card. Hit me really hard because I
always and I I feel like us being healers and trying to help
other people like get all these different perspectives on things
for their healing. We also can over apply that to
ourselves sometimes and always be trying to find the answer to
something and like the healing inside of something or whatever
when sometimes we need to just feel the things.
Because when you start over criticizing things, then you do
really start to focus on like yourself and dissecting things
and how do I change it and and whatever.
And there has to be a balance between self improvement and and
knowing when you have to take responsibility for yourself and
then when you're being over critical and that's a really
hard line to walk. Yeah.
And like, honestly. A lot of us are so submerged in
our own experience that we are extremely critical on our own
experience. But then we're giving other
people grace and we're giving other people like tools and
things to use. But you know, I've I've tried to
adopt this new mantra of like work and grow through it.
But like no more working on yourself like you're you're not
the project. You have to elevate your mindset
to know that you're not a project, that you're not like
broken or you don't need fixing or whatever it is.
I think so many people get caught up on like, well, I have
to heal all of this or I have to clear all of this or all these
things, When really what we need to do is be thinking more
elevated about the experiences that we are having and be
thinking more elevated about what that experience and its
core value is showing us. And like what we're here to
learn and grow from that, rather than playing like this, this
song. And dance where?
Like everything sucks. You know what I mean?
It's like everything's not the way it should be or whatever.
Like, a lot of the healing energy that people really need
is to like, give them give their self some grace and some like
consistency. And knowing that, like, Rome
wasn't built in a day, you can't do everything you want to do
today or tomorrow or this month. You have to be realistic but
also idealistic and actually project into the future what it
is that you really want. Like if you want to be
financially free and abundant, like, yeah, you're going to have
to put in work. It's not just like, here's your
talent, here's your gift, here's your abundance.
And you didn't do anything to work towards that.
Like, I think so many people are caught up on like this magic
dragon or something. Like, you know, like
everything's just going to fix itself if I ignore it long
enough. You know, like.
And I think that's what, like a lot of people don't realize that
when you choose to wake up and heal, it does feel like this
ever long journey of like healing and healing and like,
wow, there's so much to heal here.
But you're going to have to give yourself some grace and like,
settle into like, the changes that you've already made, like
and not be so crucial and judgmental of your own journey
and your own story. While meanwhile you're trying to
give everyone else grace. Well, and the thing.
Is too like. If you if you are letting things
go, or you're suppressing things, or you're in situations
that aren't making you happy and then you suddenly tap out of
that and decide to change direction.
Now all of a sudden you have all of this stuff that you've
suppressed emotion, thought processes, whatever honesty with
yourself that you've suppressed for so long that now you have to
go through those things. And for some reason the human
brain is a majority of the time going to try and tell you how
everything is your fault and and have you.
If you're a a healer or a fixer, it'll make you want to fix
things instead of putting. Instead of letting yourself.
Go through things without needing to see the outcome right
then. Just going like day by day.
And that's something I'm working on because I realize that I get
situational anxiety about things because I don't know what the
outcome is going to be. And so then I can't think
anymore because I don't know how to plan for this.
Whereas if you just go day by day, then putting small effort
into things eventually gets you to the finish line a lot quicker
than planning things out. Because planning isn't putting
action behind something, it's planning what action you'll do.
And usually the plan doesn't fucking work anyways.
Yeah, I think. Just making.
A consistent effort, being consistent with anything,
whatever it is, whether you know you want to be more consistent
in your daily life and your home life and your relationships and
your work life, Like you have to be the one that's initiating
that you know, like, no one can make you do what you need to do
if you're not ready to do it. And that's like, I love
community growth and community transformation, 'cause you can
really watch people work together and we do work better
in groups if you can learn to like, grow and evolve.
You know what I mean? I feel like it's the people that
want to say the same that have the most issues 'cause they're
trying to rewrite yesterday and trying to change the past and
trying to change shit that can't be changed instead of just being
open to what needs to be elevated.
But I don't know. I think so many people are stuck
in their ways and stuck in that same like conversation with
others. Like there's no one there that's
pushing them to grow. And normally if they're not
ready, they're just going to push that person away and not be
aware of what they're doing because they're self sabotaging.
And that's where taking accountability and being open in
your boundaries and communication and really looking
at, you know, each scenario through an elevated perspective
rather than like this is happening to me, more of like
this is happening for me and then this is going to show me
what I need to see. Yeah, sometimes that's easier.
Said than, done. But that is like the mindset to
at least be working to. If you're not already doing
that, Amen. I'm so sleepy.
Y'all I'm going to have to see y'all on the flip side here.
It'll see on the flip side. We will.
Have more to talk about next week?
Our candle collection is dropping on February 24th.
We're going to have all of the links for that in I guess maybe
next episode. I'm not sure if there's a
pre-order or not. I'm not sure.
I don't think there's a pre-order.
Option it's It's launching the 24th of February.
There are five cents, five different candles and six, isn't
there? I don't think so.
I think we were. Thinking about if there was five
or six, 'cause I think that we were thinking there was a
lollipop and a Candyland. There is.
Oh. Well then there's six.
Guys, that's why I. Bought what I bought.
Oh shit. OK.
So there's six, there's two for that, and.
Then the one for me and the other one and I've got 2. 6.
Oh shit. OK, guys, there's. 6 candles.
She's going to be doing 3445 and then she's got an option for
free shipping on there when you spend a certain amount on her
website and whatever. And we've said this before, but
Brooke from Its Pitt and Pendulum is her candle company,
and she's keeping 100% of the profits from these candles.
So she approached us with the idea she wanted to make it, and
we just told her it's her time, her supply that she's using to
put this all together. She sent us so many samples and
everything while we were like being picky about our scents.
And so she's keeping it all. So support a small business that
is supporting us. Thank you.
You know, please go support her. They're really cute.
Every candle comes with a keepsake.
They're in like glass jars. They're soy, she's used like
mica powders or they're like glitter E They're really cool
and they're all Woodwick and I think Woodwick is the best.
So I'm really, really excited for you all to get the Woodwick
versions cause obviously the samples were just little sample
candles, like these are pretty elaborate and like nice black
jars. So I'm really excited for
everyone to go order. And sell her.
Out. So we can start our next
collaboration. Thank you.
Love you. We'll see you next time in
Candyland. Bye, bye.