1 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:16,400 Welcome to Fucking Candy Land, hosted by Rampage and Gemini. 2 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,000 We are so excited that you're listening to us. 3 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,680 If you want to elevate the experience and see these 4 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:38,320 interviews on video, you can join either one of our Patreons. 5 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,840 They are LinkedIn the description wherever you're 6 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:42,760 listening to this podcast episode. 7 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,000 In addition to getting to watch the full length video 8 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:52,200 interviews, we also both have tons of additional content and 9 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,080 support for the spiritual community. 10 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,160 So go ahead and check those out and then if you're ever 11 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:01,360 interested in readings with us or personally connecting with 12 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,560 us, we also have our websites and social medias, LinkedIn the 13 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,120 description as well. Feel free to share this episode 14 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:13,360 with everybody that you know. Get the look it like a lollipop 15 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:17,480 name spread around and we hope you love this episode. 16 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:25,760 Welcome back to another episode of Licking Like a Lollipop, The 17 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,920 Fucking Podcast. We have a lot of new listeners. 18 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:33,360 I have been out there networking with everyone, giving cards and 19 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,640 stickers out. So we're going to have a lot of 20 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:38,920 new guests coming on. A lot of cool people that are in 21 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,520 the works right now, some returning guest as well. 22 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,640 So it's a lot Gemini. What are you doing, Boo Boo? 23 00:01:46,960 --> 00:01:49,880 Chilling. I just cleaned out the podcast 24 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:52,200 room. It needed it so fucking bad. 25 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,880 And I just, I don't know. I get lost in like the hustle 26 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,920 and bustle of it all. And then I come in here and I do 27 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,520 witchcraft things and then I like move on with life. 28 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,880 And tonight I was like absolutely not. 29 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:07,000 I've been in here for like 4 hours, just like moving things 30 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,840 around, cleaning things, getting things in order. 31 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:16,400 It feels nice to have an organized space to be in like I 32 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,560 can. I can not do chaos for very long 33 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,360 and especially if I'm going to be in a spot for a hot second, I 34 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,320 I have to have a little bit of cleanliness. 35 00:02:27,920 --> 00:02:31,360 We both have a red spaghetti shrimp tanks up on with no roll 36 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,960 right now. So if you're not watching the 37 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,640 Gemini's titties bounce up and down right now, I don't even 38 00:02:37,640 --> 00:02:39,880 know what you're doing. But this was unplanned. 39 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,240 The, the, the, the sweaty, sweaty chagrat the. 40 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,360 Sweaty chagrat. I can't even say it's so funny 41 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,160 that that were both. So I joined. 42 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,920 OK, so first of all, my friend Tonya, she does house cleaning 43 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:58,960 and she got super and like she showed me about trading your 44 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,760 services with other people who offer services. 45 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,080 So like, she cleans my house in exchange for readings. 46 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,800 And she's like, oh, so she got me involved in this group on 47 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,720 Facebook and it's like business babes of Boise or something 48 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:16,280 because that's where I'm at and people will legit post in there 49 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,640 and be like, this is what I do. If you ever want to trade 50 00:03:18,640 --> 00:03:20,600 services, just like, let me know. 51 00:03:20,920 --> 00:03:23,040 So I posted about tarot reading the other day. 52 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,000 It was my first post I'd ever made in there, A girl reached 53 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,960 out to me about being my esthetician in exchange for 54 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,880 readings. And she was like all like free 55 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,880 skin care services from me. Like if you wanted to, like, if 56 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,760 we need to do, like, needling or like whatever you need, it's on 57 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:39,720 me. And I was like, oh shit, OK. 58 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,400 And then a girl reached out to me today and was like, hey, 59 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,080 would you be interested in getting your nails done in 60 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:50,440 exchange for readings? And I've been waiting to go and 61 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,680 get my nails done. I keep on looking at people and 62 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,080 I'm like, no, it's not like quite what I want or whatever. 63 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,920 This girl literally does the styles that I want and 64 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,960 everything and it's like, she's like, absolutely she does. 65 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,400 There's this one picture she has of these nails and she did like, 66 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:13,080 like diamond, like black diamond crosses on them, like upside 67 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,760 down crosses on them. And it was just gorgeous. 68 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:20,279 And so I'm out here trading my fucking services. 69 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:24,160 So come Sunday, I'm about to have new hands. 70 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,320 Well, I absolutely love that For you. 71 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,400 It sounds like you're becoming a brand new lady. 72 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:34,160 You're getting skin care, elevation, getting your nails 73 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:34,960 done. Sounds. 74 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:37,080 Like, I've been dropping this weight. 75 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:42,320 Like, I'm about this right now. I have been really stressed and 76 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,360 like, not like when you're stressed you like, don't really 77 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,640 like eat or drink. So I'm like trying to remember 78 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,560 to take care of myself. But I'm also like, is this the 79 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,400 diet plan I've needed? I don't care if it's unhealthy. 80 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,680 Get me. Get my. 81 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:03,360 Skinny Gemini, you better be taking care of yourself in your 82 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:08,320 little red tank top. I put a blanket over so that 83 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:12,440 because I feel like like I'm one move away from a nip slip. 84 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:17,920 Well, it's good for ratings. I really. 85 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,320 If I show my I can show my nipple on my Patreon. 86 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,400 I got hang on, like nobody wants to see a boobie that doesn't 87 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,440 have hard Nippies. You always. 88 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,280 Got even this lady. She's lost her mind. 89 00:05:31,280 --> 00:05:35,560 Y'all lost her mind. I feel like the energy really 90 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,600 shifted this weekend though. We had that New moon and the 91 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:42,840 Lunar New Year like back-to-back in 24 hours and I just feel like 92 00:05:42,840 --> 00:05:47,080 such a lighter energy with this shift. 93 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:53,160 Like the most stressful 48 hours since the weekend. 94 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,320 You're like, I'm so calm. I'm like, I'm not calm. 95 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:03,120 No, the weekend was like the the shift, the Lunar New Year. 96 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,440 I feel like spring is in the air. 97 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,000 I feel so optimistic. I. 98 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,600 Feel that? I thought you meant like you. 99 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,880 You're fucking all like bubbly and happy and shit. 100 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,080 You're always bubbly and happy. This energy feels good. 101 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:18,000 It's shifting. It's like really shaking loose. 102 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:22,560 There's like a whole ending to winter coming and I feel it's 103 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:26,160 shaking loose. I feel the grass and the plants, 104 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,480 like speaking to me, that's what I'm talking about. 105 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,320 I'm talking about my inner Pocahontas has now drifted to 106 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:33,880 the surface and I hear the birds calling me. 107 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,840 You're inner Pocahontas. That was fun fact. 108 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,120 Pocahontas and Cinderella were my two favorite Disney movies. 109 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,520 And that's like the only two movies I ever had. 110 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:48,120 Like a bunch of memorabilia. Like I had a Pocahontas 111 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:52,520 bedspread and like bedroom suit, like don't come for me. 112 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:57,600 See, my thing about Pocahontas is like because there's, you 113 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,400 know, there's such a movement against that movie because it's 114 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,640 not historically correct and accurate. 115 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,760 And I wish that there would like, I wish that we could 116 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,360 appreciate that movie for what it is and know that like it's 117 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,280 not historically accurate. But I wish that they would. 118 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:17,560 But it's still a great movie and and I wish that they would do 119 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,720 something that is historically accurate. 120 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,800 Obviously, it's not going to be a Disney movie, right? 121 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:26,400 But I wish that they would do something that's a 122 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:31,920 representation of the true story and gives, you know, credit to 123 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,280 Pocahontas where it's due. Yeah, for sure. 124 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:39,840 I mean, obviously, like, that was in the 90s. 125 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,640 You know what I mean? Like, that was my, that was my 126 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,680 jam. And it's a fictional movie. 127 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,480 I see all those movies as fictional movies. 128 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,840 They may have, like, some truth to them, but I see everything as 129 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,760 a fictional movie. Even movies that they say are 130 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,000 true, like the Elvis story or random shit, I just still see it 131 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:57,680 as fictional. Like some of those parts are 132 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,680 true. And then you've weaved and like, 133 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,280 fabricated the other parts to make them interesting. 134 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:07,560 You know, like, I don't believe a lot of things, but I'm never 135 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,840 looking at a Disney movie thinking that it's gonna be 136 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,880 politically correct, 'cause every Disney movie is literally 137 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,880 like, you need a man. You are worthless without a man. 138 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,040 You should have a man. Why don't you have a man? 139 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:20,840 Here's a man. Like, they literally keep 140 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,800 frozen. They literally teach little 141 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:28,720 girls that you are nothing without validation from men or 142 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:33,120 validation from other people. And I feel like a lot of those 143 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,200 movies are like brainwashed around. 144 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:38,919 Like you need this, you need this, you need this. 145 00:08:38,919 --> 00:08:42,760 Like, you know, like Cinderella, for example, like living at 146 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,840 that, the castle, being like, you know, tortured by the evil 147 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:49,040 stepmom and all that. And it's like you need this man 148 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,280 to save you. You need this man to save you. 149 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,640 You need this man to be happy. Like, there's just so much 150 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,040 concept in that. And so, like, I'm not a huge 151 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,880 Disney fan in general whatsoever. 152 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,160 But obviously, like, there's those movies that when we were 153 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,160 kids, like, you know, I'm just sentimentally attached. 154 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,480 But as far as like, setting down and Disney Plus and like 155 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:13,480 watching those old movies, no. I tried to have Mac watch 156 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,520 Country Bears tonight. Do you remember that movie? 157 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,560 Yeah, I liked it when I was a kid. 158 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:19,080 I did too. That was my jam. 159 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,400 So I tried to get him to watch Country Bears and he was the 160 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:26,560 opening thing goes, and he goes, I know that this is an old movie 161 00:09:26,560 --> 00:09:29,480 because this video quality is awful. 162 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:33,400 And I was like. I'm like, it's not that old. 163 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,280 And I go and look, and it was 2002. 164 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,520 I was like, I was 8 years old. I was your age. 165 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:42,440 And he comes back up and he's like a little while later and 166 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,240 he's like, this movie has an hour left. 167 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,080 And this is the most boring movie I've ever seen. 168 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,720 Can we change it? He's been watching. 169 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:54,360 That's The Raven. Banger. 170 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,280 That kid. He watched the entire Lizzie 171 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:04,880 McGuire series and the movies and then he watched all of the 172 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:09,880 Suite Life of Zack and Cody and their little spin off show, The 173 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:13,680 Suite Life on Deck or whatever. And now he is on. 174 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:21,760 That's so, Raven, All right. I just don't know. 175 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:26,680 A lot of things that we used to watch are really subjective. 176 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,240 Some things are good, but some things I'm like, what in the 177 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:32,920 world? But I you know what I do wish 178 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,000 and they maybe already do this. Where can you watch the 179 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,560 Nickelodeon stuff on Paramount or something? 180 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,240 I have no idea. I haven't. 181 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:42,280 Seen. Nickelodeon stuff. 182 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,720 I know because, like, I remember watching like Kenan and Kel and 183 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:49,240 like all that. Like the Amanda Show. 184 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,240 Shit, the Amanda. Show You know what? 185 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,720 That's crazy. You talk about Amanda Bynes 186 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:58,880 because and Nickelodeon because I was doing a call today with 187 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,080 one of the girls who does mentorship with me and she was 188 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,440 talking about Nickelodeon. I guess there's a show on, I 189 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:11,080 think it's Netflix, about like the child actor stories from 190 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,640 Nickelodeon and the guy, I think his name is Dan Schneider. 191 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,200 I want to say I could be wrong, but I think that's his name. 192 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:21,920 He was like the executive and there are a bunch of childhood 193 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,360 stars that are coming out and talking about like ways that he 194 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,920 assaulted them. And Kristy Carlson Romano from 195 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:31,760 Even Steven and she played Kim Possible, has a podcast called 196 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,240 the Vulnerability Podcast. And she brings on like childhood 197 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,240 stars and stuff. And she's had tons of 198 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:43,200 Nickelodeon people who have talked out about being assaulted 199 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:47,080 by him. And Amanda Bynes lived with him, 200 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:49,880 went and moved in with him when she was 18 years old. 201 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:54,240 And that was right when she fell off of everything. 202 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,240 And now she's, you know, she disappeared forever and 203 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:00,160 everybody talked about her mental health and then she's 204 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:05,720 just so different now. Yeah, I mean, I can't imagine. 205 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:09,840 I know that a lot of people don't realize what those child 206 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,160 stars go through. But there is a movie that Shia 207 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:18,480 LaBeouf is in and he directed it about his life story and it's 208 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,080 called Honey Boy. And I'm pretty sure it's on 209 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:25,640 Amazon Prom still, but it's a prequel to another movie he 210 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:30,120 wrote called Honey or American Honey. 211 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,920 I think one or the other. But Honey Boy is about his life 212 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,800 and he plays his father. And for the majority of like 213 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,960 him, being on even Stevens as a small child, he lived in and out 214 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,640 of hotels that he paid for with his dad. 215 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,000 And like, it's some deep, really, really twisted stuff 216 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:49,920 that like his own dad was putting him through. 217 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,480 So, you know, I can't imagine what it's like as parents who 218 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,800 don't have their shit together for your kid to be making all 219 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,800 this money and now you're managing them, or now you're a 220 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:02,200 drug addict or whatever. But it was kind of like the rise 221 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:06,160 and fall of, like, his dad and like the access to like, all the 222 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,800 things. And like, there's just different 223 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:10,160 times that he was talking about. Like he didn't have anywhere to 224 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,160 sleep. So he would sleep on set 225 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,560 somewhere and just try to like blend in and like, you know, 226 00:13:15,560 --> 00:13:21,200 then he became like a big star, kind of, I don't know, And his 227 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,880 dad was just like milking it for everything. 228 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,440 And I I can't really remember all about his mom. 229 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:27,440 It's been a while since I saw it. 230 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,920 But I just know that he plays his dad and it's like a really 231 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:31,760 fucked up story. Like, it really is. 232 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:35,600 And honestly, like he's done a lot with his mental health, been 233 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,840 in the public eye like that, Like like anyone in the public 234 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,920 eye. You think you want that, You 235 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:42,720 think you want all of those things. 236 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:45,080 And then one day you wake up and you're like, I just really wish 237 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,080 I could go to fucking Walmart and like, just go to Walmart and 238 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:49,840 like, come home. Is that here? 239 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,360 Yeah, well, and too like when you're in the public eye, 240 00:13:54,680 --> 00:13:57,520 everybody has an opinion on everything that you're doing, 241 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:02,160 and everybody around you is wanting you to succeed because 242 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:03,640 then they get something out of it. 243 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:07,280 So you've constantly got people around you who don't really care 244 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,360 if the choices that you're making are right or wrong 245 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,240 choices, but it's whatever is going to be the most financially 246 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,000 lucrative. Take the scripts that you don't 247 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,720 want and whatever. And when you're living your life 248 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,760 constantly for other people, you want to do things that make you 249 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,440 feel in control. So I feel like that's why people 250 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:29,680 get like addictions and things like that when they're inside of 251 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,120 that Hollywood circle. First of all, it's around you 252 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,880 all the time. But second of all, like the way 253 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,440 that you treat your body is something that you're in control 254 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,080 of, and it makes you feel like you're powerful. 255 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:47,720 And I feel like a lot of people get into that out of control 256 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,480 outer body experience with that because it's like sometimes that 257 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:55,480 happens quickly and especially for those childhood stars, it's 258 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:58,680 like even the fucking bitches from Teen Mom are still famous. 259 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:01,360 Like, Y'all really blew that out of proportion. 260 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:05,840 Like, I really don't realize. Or I don't realize. 261 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,600 I don't realize anything about these people except the fact 262 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,960 that, like, they got pregnant at fucking 15 or 16 years old and 263 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,680 got accepted on this MTV show. Like, why the fuck are we still 264 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:22,120 like Farrah Abraham and her boyfriend from her only fins 265 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,400 and, like, just dumbass shit? Like, why do I know that Farrah 266 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,160 Abraham has a fucking ONLY fans? No clue. 267 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:30,600 I mean, you could have totally predicted that she would do 268 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,720 something crazy because she was never a good mom. 269 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,440 She always treated her kids like shit and acted like this is my 270 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,640 world. But it was weird and I just feel 271 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:40,320 like, why do we idolize people like that? 272 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,920 You know, like. So, so for me, I stopped 273 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,520 watching the like Teen Mom thing like years ago and I think that 274 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,000 they like still have active like show or whatever. 275 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:59,200 But there are there are three girls that I've just like kept 276 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,240 tabs on over the years. One of them is Kale Lowry. 277 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:08,640 And the my reason for her is that I listened to the audibles 278 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:12,960 of her autobiographies and like just what she went through in 279 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:16,920 life and as a kid and like growing up as a mom and stuff. 280 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:22,000 And there's I don't know. I just the the way that she's 281 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:28,680 built herself through what she's been through and the way that 282 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:33,160 she she's always stuck to. If she's going to be on MTV and 283 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,280 she's going to do the TV thing, this is the expectation in the 284 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,600 way that she needs to be respected and her children need 285 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,840 to be respected. And how it she's very publicly 286 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:48,920 had like her fallouts with her baby daddies or whatever and has 287 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:54,360 always tried to. I feel like be honest and 288 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:58,120 authentic about things without dragging people and even on like 289 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:02,840 her podcasts and stuff and so I really like her. 290 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:05,520 Janelle, I just feel bad for the girl. 291 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:09,960 I feel like Janelle. I feel I feel bad for Janelle 292 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:14,839 because I I don't know how anybody ever sides with her mom. 293 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:18,040 But I feel like if you watched that show and you saw how her 294 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:23,240 mom treated her was really crazy and yes, she was rebelling and 295 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,680 whatever, but she had, she was. People don't think about 296 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:28,760 postpartum. And as somebody who's had a baby 297 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:32,480 and who had postpartum, postpartum shows itself in all 298 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:36,560 types of crazy ways. And if you have somebody who has 299 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:43,400 a controlling or like bark at you type of personality, when 300 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,360 you're going through that, you're already feeling like 301 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:50,040 you're, at least for me, I already felt like I was really 302 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,120 shitty at what I was doing and I didn't really know and I felt 303 00:17:53,120 --> 00:17:55,640 like everybody's eyes were on me and that I was always doing 304 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,280 something wrong. So I can only imagine how it 305 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,360 feels to then have your mom barking at you all the time and 306 00:18:01,360 --> 00:18:03,960 telling you that you're not good enough and taking you to court. 307 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,640 And then now I just think that she's married to a fucking crazy 308 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:08,760 person. So she's got that. 309 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:15,280 And then I really like, oh, what's her name? 310 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:19,880 The girl, Macy. I Macy's. 311 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:21,280 All right. I don't follow Macy. 312 00:18:21,360 --> 00:18:24,040 It's the it's the other girl. She has colored hair. 313 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,280 She was the esthetician. Her daughter's name is or she 314 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:29,720 was a makeup artist. Her or hair stylist or some 315 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:31,800 shit. Her daughter's name is Aubrey. 316 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,360 Yeah, I know you're talking about, but I don't remember her 317 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:35,360 name. Chelsea. 318 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,120 Chelsea these are the. Team I love Chelsea these. 319 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,760 Are she has these? Are. 320 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,440 Oh geez, she has her own HPTV show. 321 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:50,520 Her husband is fine as. So obviously guys very invested 322 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:55,680 in the Teen Mom OGI think that we should just completely stop 323 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:59,040 idolizing people and start putting ourselves on the 324 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,600 pedestal, because these bitches didn't do nothing but get picked 325 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:03,560 for a teenager. And. 326 00:19:04,360 --> 00:19:07,280 We have lived vicariously through the Teen Mom OG for like 327 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,000 20 years. I It's crazy how many people are 328 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,040 still to this day, obsessed with them. 329 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,360 Not saying you're obsessed, but I'm saying I'll see it. 330 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:18,280 I know, but I don't think it's, I don't know if it's idolization 331 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:23,720 as much as like, I don't think it's idolization. 332 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,720 I think it for me it's like appreciating the journey that 333 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,360 people have been through and I think it's a fucking crazy that 334 00:19:29,360 --> 00:19:34,640 they did that on TV. And at least, you know, Hale and 335 00:19:35,120 --> 00:19:38,440 Chelsea are doing their own things now, and they launched 336 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:42,040 off of like the Teen Mom brand, and they have like their own 337 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,760 everything going on. And I just like to see that 338 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,160 they're thriving. After all the bullshit, Kale 339 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,520 just had a set of twins, by the way. 340 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:54,360 I'm like, Oh my God. Update We're going to call this 341 00:19:54,360 --> 00:20:00,280 episode Teen Mom KA, but I don't know. 342 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,120 I mean, I watch those shows just like Jersey Shore. 343 00:20:03,120 --> 00:20:05,720 I mean, just silly shows that we watch that, like those people 344 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:08,680 are still in the public eye. It's like, I don't what the 345 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,560 whole point of that was, is like, I don't think people know 346 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,120 what they're signing up for. Like they don't know what's 347 00:20:13,120 --> 00:20:15,840 going to happen. And like, I think that like a 348 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:18,280 lot of child stars or people, I mean, they were children. 349 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,240 They were fucking teenagers, you know, like. 350 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:24,480 A lot of people don't realize the long term of that and like 351 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,200 what that does to your life and yourself esteem and like who you 352 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,000 are. Like, you know, we all have 353 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,520 those people in our lives that are watching us, but imagine 354 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:35,280 everyone watching you and judging you and projecting onto 355 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,600 you too. And I'll see that a lot. 356 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:41,800 Like, there's definitely a lot of just online drama, just like 357 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,520 in general. And I think that they just feed 358 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,040 it to us. Like, I've just taken a step 359 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:50,920 back from just watching tik Toks because sometimes like Tik toks, 360 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,640 educational and exciting and sometimes it's just so fear 361 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,720 based. And like, I don't know, it was 362 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,240 starting to really drain me. And I've talked to a lot of 363 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,440 clients about this too, that also feel like that. 364 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,800 And I just feel like there's so much clickbait, you know, just 365 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,320 things that are just like clickbait, whether it's a 366 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,760 tabloid or like a video. It's just the same thing. 367 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,960 Like, pay attention to this bullshit, you know what I mean? 368 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:19,760 Yeah, yeah, I agree with that. I I mean, things are click bait. 369 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:27,280 Yeah, the Internet has became a lot of click bait and propaganda 370 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:31,000 bullshit. Just like fear, fear, fear, 371 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:31,880 fear. You know? 372 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:36,640 And honestly, my favorite thing about like the Internet is like 373 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,840 the way that you can make connections with people and 374 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,560 like, sustain them. You know what I mean? 375 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,880 Like before, like you maybe couldn't sustain new connections 376 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,200 or you couldn't sustain friendships or bonds. 377 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,520 But like, seriously, with the Internet, there's no no excuse. 378 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,320 Like if you want to build a connection with someone like, it 379 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:56,440 is literally more than ever easy to have like a long distance 380 00:21:56,440 --> 00:22:00,280 friendship or relationship or business with literally anyone. 381 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,160 So I love when people are like, oh, I just don't have time for 382 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,520 XYZ when it's like you just don't want to do that. 383 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:07,240 You know what I mean? It's not that you don't have 384 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,800 time, you just don't want to because everybody, no matter who 385 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:15,640 we are, set and scroll probably for at least 20 minutes at 386 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,640 minimum to like maximum. Some people scroll 67812 hours a 387 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:23,480 day, 15 hours a day, the whole day, you know, But I would say 388 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:27,400 every average person that uses social media in some form takes 389 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,200 at least 20 to 30 minutes out of their day to check messages, 390 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,920 emails, scroll or whatever. You know what I mean? 391 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,160 And that's light. That's me just giving y'all a 392 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,680 light sentence. Most of y'all at minimum, 393 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,400 probably. I'm sure at minimum I'm I'm like 394 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,680 up to an hour to two hours on just scrolling and looking and 395 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,720 posting and you know, whatever it is like checking messages and 396 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,520 stuff like people are like why did you? 397 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:59,320 Yeah, but but also too, like, yes, you at least, Yeah, I think 398 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:03,800 for you 2, when you're scrolling and shit like that, you're also 399 00:23:04,120 --> 00:23:07,120 on your phone doing posts about things. 400 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,080 You're on your phone because you're talking to other people 401 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,200 and you have like clients reaching out or friends, you 402 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,080 know, whatever. And so I feel like the time that 403 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,360 we're actually scrolling versus when we're going back and forth 404 00:23:19,360 --> 00:23:22,600 in our phone and then have to go back to scrolling because we had 405 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,640 something come in. I bet you you are on your phone 406 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,440 a lot because you're actually like working and being 407 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,880 productive in between And you're probably just so used to that 408 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,240 routine that you don't realize. And so it seems like you're like 409 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,640 deep in rabbit holes, but you're probably just going back to the 410 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:42,520 same activity. I mean, we all pick up our phone 411 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,120 a lot. Yeah. 412 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,040 I mean, I work. I mean, having a business that 413 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,200 you run online is like going to take online time. 414 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,600 You know what I mean? Like, I have a lot of energy 415 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:58,000 that comes across the screen too, though, of things that are 416 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,960 just like, I don't want to even entertain that anymore. 417 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:05,160 Like, I don't know, there's just been so much, I don't know what 418 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,600 it is. It's like the holidays, tax 419 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,760 time, people just get in these modes and like when summer hits 420 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,160 and it's like everybody's drinking and swimming and 421 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,240 partying or whatever, it's like a little different. 422 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,000 But like, I don't know the beginning part of the year, the 423 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,200 holidays beyond to like mid March. 424 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:25,120 I feel like people's energy is just so fucking weird and I 425 00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:30,480 don't know why, but it's like it's been, it's been like I 426 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,560 don't want to talk to nobody. I'm just like some. 427 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,680 Pisces. Time swear something. 428 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:39,640 It's something, man, I don't know. 429 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,760 It's the fishy season. It's fishy out here. 430 00:24:45,120 --> 00:24:50,600 Good morning, ladies. Don't. 45 Two Zig Zags. 431 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,280 I've been listening to that song a lot. 432 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,160 Oh my God, all the classics just coming up in rotation. 433 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,880 Literally, I love using Spotify. For those who are listening, 434 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,240 listen to us on Spotify. I don't care if you use Apple 435 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,720 Music. Download Spotify and and try to 436 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:11,600 look at its options, and then you will slowly but surely begin 437 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,280 making your switch over to Spotify. 438 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:19,400 I have to been an Amazon, an Apple user, Pandora and all the 439 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,160 above. But I'm telling you, ain't 440 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:26,600 nothing hidden like Spotify for one has so many options that 441 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,080 they curate. Like they have this DJ feature 442 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:32,640 that like when I'm in the car, I can just click DJ and it 443 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,800 literally is like a God. It's like you've been playing 444 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,920 these lately. One of them the other day, he 445 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:41,280 said This song's got your name all over it and it was like a 446 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,800 banger song that I really do like and it was just really 447 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:48,200 funny how you said that. But it he'll do like little 448 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,080 segments and then that's really cool. 449 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,040 And then when you share something and it just looks 450 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,240 cool, that's cool too. Like, I love how Spotify has 451 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,480 those those features that like show the music video or whatever 452 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,600 when you share it sometimes. And then my favorite thing is 453 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,160 the day list. Earlier mine said like college 454 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:11,440 emo, spring break. I was like, fuck is that but 455 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,160 like. The titles of. 456 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,040 The day list, they change like 3 * a day and that's like my 457 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,320 favorite fucking thing. Like Spotify. 458 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,720 I'm going to see what my day list is right now and it's going 459 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,360 to encourage you all to go create Spotify and at least 460 00:26:25,360 --> 00:26:31,040 listen to us on Spotify. It says the Banjo Campfire 461 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,000 Night. The Banjo Campfire Night and the 462 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,320 first song is Something in the Orange by Zach Bryant. 463 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,200 Banger. Banger. 464 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,240 All of it. I love Spotify. 465 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,280 It took me a while to jump on the bandwagon, but now that I'm 466 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,040 there, I don't want to go anywhere else. 467 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:58,240 I've done the YouTube whatever premium thing that was annoying. 468 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:03,320 I've done Pandora and and Apple, whatever, all the things. 469 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,440 Spotify fucking is where it's at. 470 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:10,520 And everything's in one spot, like for I for Apple or for 471 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,320 iTunes or whatever. It's like you have to go to 472 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,280 Apple Podcasts and then you have to go to the music separately 473 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,920 and whatever. And Spotify has it all there. 474 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,360 Plus they have a bunch of stuff that people have put on YouTube, 475 00:27:22,360 --> 00:27:26,320 like meditations and children's stories and all the things that 476 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,960 you like on that you used to stream on YouTube. 477 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:34,000 Spotify has all of that, too. The thing I love about. 478 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:39,880 Spotify is it literally curates so many random playlists that 479 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,760 just are like an algorithm based on your music taste like not 480 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:47,880 just the day list and like the DJ but they have other just like 481 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,680 random playlists that will pop up in like 52% of the songs are 482 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:55,520 like I love them show me your. Mouth. 483 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:56,840 And then there's Other. Ones those. 484 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,040 Are cute. I'm obsessed with. 485 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,200 These all Diamond savvy. Yeah, those are super cute. 486 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:06,680 I haven't seen you. Have I? 487 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,560 I've had these for a little bit, no. 488 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,880 I haven't seen you in forever, honestly. 489 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,480 I've been running thin a little bit, so I've been trying to take 490 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:20,440 a step back and get off my phone and not text and not be on it, 491 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:24,280 just like relax. And I've been blocking out just 492 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:28,760 days for relaxation. Like today I didn't have a bunch 493 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,560 but I had some and then tomorrow I just block the day off just 494 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,640 cause like. I want to be vibe and I'm. 495 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,480 Going to do a nice love and attraction spell on Valentine's 496 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:41,400 Day for myself and our podcast drops and it's Valentine's Day. 497 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:45,520 You all so do a love and attraction spell today and quit 498 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:49,120 playing games because our podcast is aligned to a lot of 499 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,880 really significant days like 111 and different things. 500 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,320 And now it's on fucking Valentine's Day, because yes. 501 00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:58,720 Not to mention the. Fact. 502 00:28:58,800 --> 00:28:59,520 Oh fuck. What? 503 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:05,600 Was I going to say something about it being Wednesday? 504 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:10,000 Motherfuck, mother motherfuck, mother motherfuck. 505 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,520 Fuck. I don't remember at all. 506 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,080 It was super important in my head. 507 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,400 I'll come back to it. The Divine. 508 00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:21,000 Alignment of Valentine's Day is the message. 509 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,040 Always love yourself and we both got read on. 510 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:28,280 Oh, I was. Going to say that I'm also doing 511 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:33,800 self love and attracting healthy love spell in the spell working 512 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,240 tomorrow. Yes. 513 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,600 Beautiful. We have a spell work level you 514 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:45,000 all that you get monthly group spells and it's really special 515 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,920 place here on Earth where we all come together and have a magical 516 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:53,760 moment. Check it out, no detail. 517 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,000 To anything but sound so enchanting at the same time I 518 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,720 wanted it to be. Commercialized. 519 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,880 No. We have a really good circle 520 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,400 though. I really like it a lot. 521 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:08,800 I am excited for the full moon ritual though this. 522 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,600 Month. I'm excited too. 523 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,680 It's. On my mom's birthday. 524 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,080 It is on. The 25th of February and it's 525 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,720 going to be a beautiful night. So if you all want to join our 526 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:26,200 Full Moon Circle, join either one of our Patreons and it's 527 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,720 going to be cool because it's actually on the full moon this 528 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:32,160 month. I'm so excited. 529 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:40,160 I feel like, I don't know. I feel like so much comfortable 530 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,040 energy inside of our circle and inside of our space. 531 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,120 Like, I feel like everybody who's been attending the circles 532 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,480 has just been, like, exuding the most. 533 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,120 Like. Comfortable. 534 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:57,400 Energy and they're just wanting to contribute to the space and 535 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:03,000 give reciprocated energy and like really be there on that 536 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,960 journey with us and it's been such a nice vibe when we are 537 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,960 doing things. You know the universe. 538 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:13,600 Always aligns you into the space where like you can truly 539 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,640 elevate. I think sometimes it's trial and 540 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,720 error, like you have to learn what you don't want in order to 541 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,520 get to that elevated space where you do know what you want, you 542 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:25,000 do know what kind of energies that you want to be around you 543 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:29,040 and to be a part of. And I think that the more that 544 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,720 we can be clear on what we want and be like, that isn't for me, 545 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:36,880 I've learned this lesson or whatever to just really go next 546 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,560 level. It's like sometimes the 547 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:43,320 environment is calling for a rotation shift and you're being 548 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:47,240 called out of your comfort zone or out of your element in order 549 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,600 to rise to that occasion. And I think that our group and 550 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,760 the community that we are building has evolved over the 551 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,280 last couple years. It, excuse me, In the beginning 552 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:02,680 it was like an incubator, but it wasn't like fully built, right? 553 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,560 Like it wasn't like fully ready. It was like it was being 554 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,760 cultivated. But we still didn't know exactly 555 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,320 like the ground rules or like what we wanted and how we wanted 556 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,160 to do it and different things. And like what I think really 557 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:18,320 helped with the Community Circle is like not making it a public 558 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:22,000 event where anyone can just buy a one time ticket and come enjoy 559 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,720 the Circle. But it's more of like a intimate 560 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:29,240 space where you're doing your monthly subscription in order to 561 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:31,440 get this link. Like, it doesn't just go out to 562 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,400 everyone. Like you already have a 563 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,680 commitment. You already have put an 564 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,880 energetic exchange forward. And like, this is more of a perk 565 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:42,040 or more of an additional thing that you're receiving. 566 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,360 And I think that a lot of people really look forward to it every 567 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,320 month for that reason, because it's like they're already 568 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,400 getting the other perks of their membership. 569 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,080 But then this is just like that added value. 570 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,240 And I think that when you look at things as like added value 571 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,360 rather than just like I want to sell this or I want people to 572 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,320 join this or I want people so to be a part of this, it's more of 573 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:05,080 just like I'm adding value to the people and the lives that 574 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,800 see value in this. Like, I'm not out convincing 575 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:11,720 everyone with a sign like this is valuable, but it's like they 576 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,720 are ready so they've chosen that past. 577 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,600 Yes, you. Are out there the fucking sign 578 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,240 anytime you see somebody you're like, hi, can I give you a 579 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,760 podcast sticker? No. 580 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,960 I anytime people interact with me, engage with me, compliment 581 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:34,600 me, say hello to me. I'm like, I have a podcast and 582 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:40,560 then we talk and we exchange and I give them a sticker or a card 583 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,160 or whatever. But I don't just walk up to 584 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,000 strangers. I literally like people approach 585 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,680 me and then I give them the information that they're seeking 586 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,280 because like, they approach me. Or if like someone compliments 587 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:53,560 me, like, hey, I like your outfit. 588 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,040 I'm like, thanks. I have a podcast like it's like 589 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:01,360 I'm learning from VIP each how she like, plugs herself into 590 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,640 every conversation that she wants to. 591 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,720 And like I I really do try to do that now with the Cards. 592 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,400 Because the worst thing anyone can say is like, no, like, I've 593 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,159 had people be like. You know, like. 594 00:34:14,199 --> 00:34:16,880 Oh, I don't listen to podcasts or whatever, like, and it 595 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:20,000 doesn't really like affect me. Like, that's very rare. 596 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,960 Like most people just take the card and the sticker. 597 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,080 Like, I'll just be honest with anyone business advice. 598 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:28,920 If you have a business, make some really badass stickers and 599 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:33,080 then give them away to everyone that you meet because they are 600 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,760 so receptive to taking a card. If you give them a sticker and 601 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,840 like, you know they're going to stick that sticker somewhere. 602 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:43,000 Like, I'm literally like given so many stickers out. 603 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,679 Like Car Town where they are, like they're on dumpsters in Las 604 00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:48,080 Vegas, there's there's one on a sign in Mexico. 605 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:51,120 Like literally. Like stickers are everywhere for 606 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,320 contrary cherry and look at like a lollipop. 607 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:57,560 So I feel like they're definitely living, living their 608 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:02,360 glory somewhere in the world. When we went to. 609 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,280 A concert like I think it was like 2 months ago. 610 00:35:06,720 --> 00:35:10,200 I went into the bathroom and I put a sticker. 611 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,640 Was it just stickers? No, it was stickers in our 612 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:17,440 podcast card on. They had like seats on in like 613 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,960 the waiting area and whatever. And then a bunch of stalls. 614 00:35:20,240 --> 00:35:24,000 And so I put a sticker and a business card on all the seats. 615 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,720 And then I put them in the stalls on top of, like the 616 00:35:26,720 --> 00:35:29,200 little toilet paper thing where you set your phone down. 617 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,640 So that when you go to pick your phone up, our stickers and stuff 618 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,080 are there and you got to pick it up with it. 619 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,600 And you're going to be like, oh, why the fuck is this in there? 620 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,280 And you're like, oh, podcast. I put it in the sinks. 621 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,400 I put it on top of the paper towel dispenser. 622 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,040 And he was. Out there, Yeah, we went back 623 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:45,000 in. And they were all gone. 624 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,280 I was like, fuck yeah. I love that I. 625 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,960 Don't stick them like everywhere random like that. 626 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:52,640 But I do give them to random people. 627 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:57,440 Like literally. It's the best way to like, plug 628 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:02,200 yourself in if you have memorabilia, stickers and cards. 629 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,560 And like what's crazy to me is like people will sell stickers 630 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,080 for their brand. It would be like me being like 631 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,080 the contrary cherry stickers are $2.00 like. 632 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:12,960 No, like I've. Never understood. 633 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,560 That either. That should be like a marketing 634 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,800 tool. Yeah, I don't get it. 635 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:18,200 At all. It makes no sense to me. 636 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,200 Like, I don't know why more people don't print stickers and 637 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,320 that like festivals or Expos, like give them away. 638 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,520 When we were at the Expo and I would give people like the big 639 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,920 contrary cherry, 'cause I have like, big ones, they were like, 640 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,600 Oh my God, you can pick some of my stickers off the table that 641 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,800 they were, like, selling. Like a couple people gave me 642 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:40,040 stickers, 'cause they were like, damn, like I ran out of those so 643 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,400 quickly. Every time I pulled one of those 644 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:44,000 out, people were like, wow, this is so cool, Like, 'cause 645 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:47,680 holographic and whatever. Which reminds me, I need to get 646 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,560 some more holographic ones. But those are my favorite kind. 647 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,280 I love them. I love. 648 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:57,680 That I really need to get a business card for myself. 649 00:36:57,720 --> 00:37:00,360 And I think I talked to you about this recently where like, 650 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,600 I looked down at your business card that you'd sent in a 651 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,920 package and I was like, why the fuck don't I have one of these? 652 00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:10,440 I'm like, I'm so confused. I don't know. 653 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,200 I just want to. I just want to meet somebody and 654 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,280 be like, here's my card. I do. 655 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,400 I know I. I want to be that bitch, my 656 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:24,000 nails done, my skin on fleek. Here's my card. 657 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,920 I mean, you're literally. Missing 1000% of those shots 658 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,080 that you don't take. And I think that's the most 659 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:34,960 important lesson that any of us can have in our life is like, if 660 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,240 I don't shoot this shot, no one will. 661 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:42,920 If I don't do what I'm supposed to do, I'm not going to get 662 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:44,480 there. I'm not going to get to where I 663 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,960 was going. And I think that when we just 664 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,360 shoot our shot, it doesn't matter where you end up because 665 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,680 you're betting on yourself. You know what I mean? 666 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,640 Like you're putting intention towards something and betting on 667 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,400 yourself. So like investing in your brand, 668 00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:02,240 whether it's whatever it is, anyone, even your brand is like 669 00:38:02,240 --> 00:38:04,000 yourself. Like how you show up, how you 670 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,320 present yourself, how you're dressing, how you're smelling, 671 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:10,560 how you're looking, all that it adds to your your points or 672 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,840 takes away. And I think a lot of people just 673 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,760 need to up their presentation and their true self. 674 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:19,200 Like, who are you really? Who do you really want to be? 675 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:23,160 How can you actually bring that energy to fruition? 676 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,920 Like, how can you actually elevate your thinking about your 677 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,840 situation so that you can transform? 678 00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,120 And that's what I love about spiritual growth is like, you 679 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,480 can look back and be like I was afraid to take that chance. 680 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,400 And then I did and everything changed. 681 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:42,240 Like I was afraid to tap into my spiritual gifts or to take time 682 00:38:42,240 --> 00:38:45,360 out for meditation or to do a past life regression or whatever 683 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,920 it is to get a reading, even you know, And then like, you do it 684 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,080 and everything changes and shifts for you. 685 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:54,800 And I think that's my favorite part about like being able to 686 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,160 talk through things on the podcast or just being able to 687 00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:00,840 share our story through the podcast with strangers and other 688 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,240 people is because a lot of people will write me. 689 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,840 And they're like the more I listen to you on your podcast, 690 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,080 the more I realize that we're a lot alike or that you have a lot 691 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,240 of beliefs that I have or that you have a lot of like, 692 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,200 perceptions that I never considered. 693 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,200 Like this is really eye opening and I think that's what's really 694 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,880 cool is like you never know what the thing that you end up doing, 695 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,120 how it's going to actually help people, whether you know it's 696 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:28,360 just a daily thing or something that becomes like your life is 697 00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,320 something that you really evolve into. 698 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,240 But I think so many people are just afraid of taking that first 699 00:39:33,240 --> 00:39:39,480 step towards it. Yeah, I just like watching. 700 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,680 You talk sometimes and I just like, listen to you go off on a 701 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,920 tangent and I'm like, I don't have anything to say about this 702 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,800 topic, but you're really pretty when you talk. 703 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,840 Thank you. Thank you Gemini. 704 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:56,000 Gemini So. We have a returning. 705 00:39:56,000 --> 00:40:01,280 Guest coming Our next episode, Lord willing, should be with 706 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,640 this guest. Hopefully it all aligns. 707 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,840 It should, but we're really excited to have this person 708 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,320 back. It's going to be a surprise. 709 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,560 And then after that we have another returning guest. 710 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,120 So I know a lot of people have given us. 711 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,880 Really great feedback on everything with the guests and 712 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,920 we love giving you all that versatility. 713 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,960 We always want to remind you like if there's a guest or 714 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,520 someone that you would like to see us shoot our shot with, no 715 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,560 matter who it is, send us their info. 716 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,440 You know, we will definitely, we will slide in. 717 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,960 Anybody's DMS, yes, we will, definitely. 718 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:40,280 E-mail, text, call, send an SOS, whatever we need to do. 719 00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:43,160 But Jim and I, you should pull the card. 720 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,320 Oh shit. I forgot we were doing that. 721 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:47,720 Well, we've. Only done it the last 29. 722 00:40:47,720 --> 00:40:52,560 Episodes. You know what sometimes you. 723 00:40:52,560 --> 00:41:08,030 Really can suck my whole Dick. Why? 724 00:41:08,390 --> 00:41:12,710 Why do you look so confused? Because someone. 725 00:41:12,710 --> 00:41:17,590 Just sent me this snap, this long ass snap about tickets that 726 00:41:17,590 --> 00:41:20,190 are free and they don't know who the comedian is. 727 00:41:20,190 --> 00:41:22,990 And I was just reading it because I was trying to zoom in 728 00:41:22,990 --> 00:41:25,840 on the comedian. And I mean, if it's free, I was 729 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,240 feeling a little skeptical. I was like, is there, you know, 730 00:41:29,240 --> 00:41:33,000 there a reason dude's doing 5 shows for free? 731 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,160 A good question. All right. 732 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:40,880 What card is this? We got the well card 48. 733 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,480 I was just talking about how Brigid. 734 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,720 Was the Celtic goddess of Wells? Shut up. 735 00:41:46,720 --> 00:41:49,360 I was just I. Just when I just did my smoke 736 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:53,320 and zoom, I went on this whole tangent about the goddess 737 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:59,920 Bridget. And she's also also depicted as 738 00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:05,360 the Hulu goddess Mamon Bridgette. 739 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,440 So she's in multiple different cultures. 740 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:12,240 Yeah, I just. Gave Juber a Bridget necklace 741 00:42:12,240 --> 00:42:14,160 for Valentine's Day with her Valentine's presents. 742 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:18,280 Because Juber was my Valentine. I want to be your Valentine. 743 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:22,480 We just say Valentine. Big gifts, big gifts, baby. 744 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:24,480 Whatever. Listen. 745 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:26,920 The sign is Libra. I don't want to hear I'm getting 746 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:30,840 jealous, OK? The sign is Libra. 747 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,600 The gift is depth and the shadow is inadequacy. 748 00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:39,160 The gift is dubbed the well for the great depth it holds within 749 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,400 you. The bottom of the well can be 750 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,760 very dark, but within the darkness lies nourishment, life, 751 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,960 and light. How do you access this gift? 752 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,920 Trust. Trust in divine timing. 753 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,640 Trust in the unfolding, however daunting. 754 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:57,040 Trust in yourself. There is no amount of knowledge 755 00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,760 or structure that can adequate to the infinite wisdom you 756 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,200 possess within you. Move through your fears. 757 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,360 You have to go through the darkness of the well to gain its 758 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,880 water. When you honor your innate gifts 759 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:13,520 and talents and your intuition, know that the right answers will 760 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:17,640 arrive right as you need them. Along the way, your shadow is 761 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,600 inadequacy. You have an incredible ability 762 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,520 to correct, which means that you can identify ways that the 763 00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,480 collective could change, transform, and improve. 764 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,560 We need correctors for the betterment of our world When 765 00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:34,800 this is a detriment, when this is a detriment is when you 766 00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:38,640 instead might focus this correction inwardly to dissect 767 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,520 all of your flaws, your pitfalls, and your reasons for 768 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,320 not pursuing an interest or dream. 769 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,320 This is the undercut of inadequacy. 770 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,160 And so, in an effort to suppress the uncomfortable feeling, you 771 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:53,440 may attempt to organize or control your world in hopes of 772 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,440 creating a formidable structure of security that cannot be 773 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,600 undermined. This is a trap. 774 00:43:59,240 --> 00:44:01,840 Why? Because life is full of mystery, 775 00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:05,800 and there will always be forces beyond your control to elevate 776 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,000 beyond this fear or through the fear. 777 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:12,040 Rather, follow your inner guidance system, your infallible 778 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:16,240 intuition or guts. Make a plan of action, execute 779 00:44:16,240 --> 00:44:19,320 and leave some room for flexibility for the times when 780 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,400 you will undoubtedly have to pivot. 781 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,760 The leap of faith is critical. Jump in Your themes are Trust, 782 00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:29,680 Wisdom, Leap of Faith, and Correction, Yes? 783 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:34,800 That's what I got for you. I really want a Polly Pocket 784 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,360 reading. I need a reading from you. 785 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:38,760 OK? My life is in shambles. 786 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:44,280 I need you, OK. I'll give you a I'll. 787 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,120 Give you your emotional support, Polly Pocket to chew on in the 788 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,440 meantime, That's what I need have. 789 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,280 You seen those memes or it's like? 790 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,520 Which one you chewing on? And it was like a Poly pocket 791 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:59,360 shoe or or an eraser. It's. 792 00:44:59,720 --> 00:45:03,160 Like which that's so funny. It is funny how everyone has. 793 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,880 Shoot a Poly pocket at some point, like, have you? 794 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,480 Have you? Yeah. 795 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,280 Like I was like. This is a real question, no. 796 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,720 For I have, I have. You know what's really cool 797 00:45:15,720 --> 00:45:19,680 about us pulling those cards is I feel like their theme plays 798 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:23,560 out for like the whole week, kind of like really circling 799 00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,520 through. So I just love that. 800 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,280 I love that little theme we're doing. 801 00:45:28,720 --> 00:45:30,960 And I love to see your beautiful face. 802 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,080 I love to. See yours? 803 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:36,920 That card. Hit me really hard because I 804 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:41,120 always and I I feel like us being healers and trying to help 805 00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,720 other people like get all these different perspectives on things 806 00:45:44,720 --> 00:45:48,160 for their healing. We also can over apply that to 807 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:53,400 ourselves sometimes and always be trying to find the answer to 808 00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,040 something and like the healing inside of something or whatever 809 00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,640 when sometimes we need to just feel the things. 810 00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,440 Because when you start over criticizing things, then you do 811 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:08,120 really start to focus on like yourself and dissecting things 812 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,320 and how do I change it and and whatever. 813 00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:15,920 And there has to be a balance between self improvement and and 814 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,640 knowing when you have to take responsibility for yourself and 815 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:21,680 then when you're being over critical and that's a really 816 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,760 hard line to walk. Yeah. 817 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,000 And like, honestly. A lot of us are so submerged in 818 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:32,080 our own experience that we are extremely critical on our own 819 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:33,760 experience. But then we're giving other 820 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:37,760 people grace and we're giving other people like tools and 821 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,440 things to use. But you know, I've I've tried to 822 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:45,040 adopt this new mantra of like work and grow through it. 823 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,560 But like no more working on yourself like you're you're not 824 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,840 the project. You have to elevate your mindset 825 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:55,560 to know that you're not a project, that you're not like 826 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,960 broken or you don't need fixing or whatever it is. 827 00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,800 I think so many people get caught up on like, well, I have 828 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:06,120 to heal all of this or I have to clear all of this or all these 829 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,640 things, When really what we need to do is be thinking more 830 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:12,280 elevated about the experiences that we are having and be 831 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,120 thinking more elevated about what that experience and its 832 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,520 core value is showing us. And like what we're here to 833 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:25,480 learn and grow from that, rather than playing like this, this 834 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:26,720 song. And dance where? 835 00:47:26,720 --> 00:47:29,480 Like everything sucks. You know what I mean? 836 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:33,480 It's like everything's not the way it should be or whatever. 837 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:37,640 Like, a lot of the healing energy that people really need 838 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:42,440 is to like, give them give their self some grace and some like 839 00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,680 consistency. And knowing that, like, Rome 840 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:47,840 wasn't built in a day, you can't do everything you want to do 841 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,640 today or tomorrow or this month. You have to be realistic but 842 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,920 also idealistic and actually project into the future what it 843 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,280 is that you really want. Like if you want to be 844 00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,600 financially free and abundant, like, yeah, you're going to have 845 00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,920 to put in work. It's not just like, here's your 846 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,920 talent, here's your gift, here's your abundance. 847 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:08,400 And you didn't do anything to work towards that. 848 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,840 Like, I think so many people are caught up on like this magic 849 00:48:12,720 --> 00:48:14,760 dragon or something. Like, you know, like 850 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:18,120 everything's just going to fix itself if I ignore it long 851 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:19,320 enough. You know, like. 852 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,360 And I think that's what, like a lot of people don't realize that 853 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,760 when you choose to wake up and heal, it does feel like this 854 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:30,000 ever long journey of like healing and healing and like, 855 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,800 wow, there's so much to heal here. 856 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,760 But you're going to have to give yourself some grace and like, 857 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,120 settle into like, the changes that you've already made, like 858 00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:42,720 and not be so crucial and judgmental of your own journey 859 00:48:42,720 --> 00:48:45,040 and your own story. While meanwhile you're trying to 860 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,920 give everyone else grace. Well, and the thing. 861 00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:51,680 Is too like. If you if you are letting things 862 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:55,720 go, or you're suppressing things, or you're in situations 863 00:48:55,720 --> 00:48:59,600 that aren't making you happy and then you suddenly tap out of 864 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,840 that and decide to change direction. 865 00:49:02,240 --> 00:49:05,840 Now all of a sudden you have all of this stuff that you've 866 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:10,120 suppressed emotion, thought processes, whatever honesty with 867 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,680 yourself that you've suppressed for so long that now you have to 868 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:18,600 go through those things. And for some reason the human 869 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:23,320 brain is a majority of the time going to try and tell you how 870 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,840 everything is your fault and and have you. 871 00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:31,200 If you're a a healer or a fixer, it'll make you want to fix 872 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:36,760 things instead of putting. Instead of letting yourself. 873 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:40,640 Go through things without needing to see the outcome right 874 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,000 then. Just going like day by day. 875 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,080 And that's something I'm working on because I realize that I get 876 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:50,880 situational anxiety about things because I don't know what the 877 00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,440 outcome is going to be. And so then I can't think 878 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:55,840 anymore because I don't know how to plan for this. 879 00:49:56,160 --> 00:50:00,120 Whereas if you just go day by day, then putting small effort 880 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,400 into things eventually gets you to the finish line a lot quicker 881 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,240 than planning things out. Because planning isn't putting 882 00:50:07,240 --> 00:50:10,280 action behind something, it's planning what action you'll do. 883 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,040 And usually the plan doesn't fucking work anyways. 884 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,560 Yeah, I think. Just making. 885 00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,920 A consistent effort, being consistent with anything, 886 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,560 whatever it is, whether you know you want to be more consistent 887 00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,680 in your daily life and your home life and your relationships and 888 00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,760 your work life, Like you have to be the one that's initiating 889 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,760 that you know, like, no one can make you do what you need to do 890 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,080 if you're not ready to do it. And that's like, I love 891 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:39,640 community growth and community transformation, 'cause you can 892 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:43,440 really watch people work together and we do work better 893 00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:47,680 in groups if you can learn to like, grow and evolve. 894 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,440 You know what I mean? I feel like it's the people that 895 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:52,280 want to say the same that have the most issues 'cause they're 896 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:56,360 trying to rewrite yesterday and trying to change the past and 897 00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,760 trying to change shit that can't be changed instead of just being 898 00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:01,840 open to what needs to be elevated. 899 00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,360 But I don't know. I think so many people are stuck 900 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:09,920 in their ways and stuck in that same like conversation with 901 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:11,680 others. Like there's no one there that's 902 00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:14,480 pushing them to grow. And normally if they're not 903 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,080 ready, they're just going to push that person away and not be 904 00:51:18,240 --> 00:51:21,560 aware of what they're doing because they're self sabotaging. 905 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,920 And that's where taking accountability and being open in 906 00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,240 your boundaries and communication and really looking 907 00:51:28,240 --> 00:51:33,560 at, you know, each scenario through an elevated perspective 908 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,600 rather than like this is happening to me, more of like 909 00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:40,080 this is happening for me and then this is going to show me 910 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:45,000 what I need to see. Yeah, sometimes that's easier. 911 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:51,000 Said than, done. But that is like the mindset to 912 00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,360 at least be working to. If you're not already doing 913 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:57,760 that, Amen. I'm so sleepy. 914 00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:01,960 Y'all I'm going to have to see y'all on the flip side here. 915 00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:05,440 It'll see on the flip side. We will. 916 00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,720 Have more to talk about next week? 917 00:52:08,720 --> 00:52:12,640 Our candle collection is dropping on February 24th. 918 00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:19,280 We're going to have all of the links for that in I guess maybe 919 00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,040 next episode. I'm not sure if there's a 920 00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:24,560 pre-order or not. I'm not sure. 921 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:25,920 I don't think there's a pre-order. 922 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:29,960 Option it's It's launching the 24th of February. 923 00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:37,440 There are five cents, five different candles and six, isn't 924 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,120 there? I don't think so. 925 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,360 I think we were. Thinking about if there was five 926 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:44,880 or six, 'cause I think that we were thinking there was a 927 00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,360 lollipop and a Candyland. There is. 928 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:49,160 Oh. Well then there's six. 929 00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,880 Guys, that's why I. Bought what I bought. 930 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,080 Oh shit. OK. 931 00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,720 So there's six, there's two for that, and. 932 00:52:57,720 --> 00:53:04,320 Then the one for me and the other one and I've got 2. 6. 933 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,440 Oh shit. OK, guys, there's. 6 candles. 934 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:14,760 She's going to be doing 3445 and then she's got an option for 935 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,360 free shipping on there when you spend a certain amount on her 936 00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:21,240 website and whatever. And we've said this before, but 937 00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:28,080 Brooke from Its Pitt and Pendulum is her candle company, 938 00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:32,120 and she's keeping 100% of the profits from these candles. 939 00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:36,240 So she approached us with the idea she wanted to make it, and 940 00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:41,080 we just told her it's her time, her supply that she's using to 941 00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:44,920 put this all together. She sent us so many samples and 942 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,920 everything while we were like being picky about our scents. 943 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:54,320 And so she's keeping it all. So support a small business that 944 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:55,560 is supporting us. Thank you. 945 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,120 You know, please go support her. They're really cute. 946 00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,120 Every candle comes with a keepsake. 947 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:05,080 They're in like glass jars. They're soy, she's used like 948 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,920 mica powders or they're like glitter E They're really cool 949 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,800 and they're all Woodwick and I think Woodwick is the best. 950 00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,600 So I'm really, really excited for you all to get the Woodwick 951 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:17,360 versions cause obviously the samples were just little sample 952 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:21,280 candles, like these are pretty elaborate and like nice black 953 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:23,880 jars. So I'm really excited for 954 00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:28,200 everyone to go order. And sell her. 955 00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:29,880 Out. So we can start our next 956 00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:31,480 collaboration. Thank you. 957 00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,680 Love you. We'll see you next time in 958 00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,880 Candyland. Bye, bye.