Welcome to fucking Dandy land hosted by Rampage and Gemini.
What's up everybody? Welcome back to Candyland.
So we are about to get it popping and it really start
trying to drop a weekly episode. We would love if you all would
email us any ideas or recommendations that maybe you
have of stuff that you would like us to talk about.
I know that we touch on different things in each
episode, but we would love to know things that maybe you want
to know more in depth on. I feel like we're always trying
to think about the people who are going to be listening and
what they're going to be wanting to hear, what kind of things you
guys have going on and that you guys work through and stuff that
we can. I don't know.
I feel like we give really good advice on shit.
I feel like if you just sent us questions, things that you're
like, how would you maneuver this situation?
You're going to get two completely different viewpoints.
And right now, one thing that I do want to talk about today is
just staying grounded during the Holidays, the collective energy
is very tense, it's very rooted in lack mentality because you
see other people doing things for their kids or doing things
in general, that maybe makes you feel envious or jealous.
And it's okay to be jealous of a system that really wants to keep
you down and keep you in that broken cycle, but it's not okay
to project that insecurities onto other people.
So, this is really about being grounded and being mindful of
your Shadow. It's really a human experience
to be jealous or envious of others.
But it's just about how you're going to work with that energy
and not project that energy on to other people and also with
the feeling of lack especially when you're talking about
holidays and you're watching people make these like huge
elaborate meals and get like these crazy presents for their
family and things, I think it's important to keep in mind also
not letting yourself get Overrun with the fact that you don't
have a certain amount, like financially and letting that
Rune you, appreciating and being able to celebrate the things
that you already do have in your life and when you come from an
attitude of lacking something in general, you never actually
bring that abundance to you. If you're focused on I don't
have money for this. Then you completely Overlook the
fact that you may not have money for one thing over here, but
you've got money for all these other things.
Maybe Be, you're not able to buy your kids, these crazy elaborate
Christmas presents but you're able to keep a roof over their
head, this holiday, you know, and there's somebody wishing
they could do just that. I think really, we have just
been taught to feel lack and I talked about this a lot with my
clients. Abundance is a frequency,
abundance can be Health, it can be opportunities, it could be a
motivation, it could be peace, you know, abundance.
Comes in many forms that a lot of people just think about
dollar signs or think about physical items.
But abundance is a frequency and a lot of us are blocking our own
frequency by thinking in terms of lack like well if I spend
this, then I'm without it. And I think that that's where a
lot of people are afraid to invest in readings or invest in
things that are on the spiritual side of life and Bravo to
everyone who is listening that is showing up for themselves.
That is invested. Twenty Thirty fifty five hundred
dollars into their healing because it is a process.
It's not linear its up and down and the more that you tell the
universe that you are abundant and that you are not afraid to
do something for yourself. The more the energy is able to
respond to that frequency. Yeah, absolutely.
And I was just thinking about shit.
I lost my train of thought but you would taught me something.
Pick up the conversation page, let me think about it, but I was
thinking on. Well, I know that from my
family, every time they spend money, they look at it in terms
as like, well, now I'm without that.
And so something that I shifted for myself was looking at things
as spreading the money and then it comes back to me.
So, everyone who, you know, shops with me on my website.
I have literally set an intention spell for every person
who spends money with me. That money to find them again,
times 10. And I know a lot of people
especially they are on the monthly patreon Mentor program.
They will tell me like when I first started this, I was afraid
to invest the fifty dollars a month but now I just got a new
job, I'm making twenty thousand dollars more a year and that's
been like a really theme that's been happening for a lot of my
monthly clients is that after three to six months of doing the
work and not really maybe seeing those Physical manifestations,
then, out of nowhere. Everything is knocking on your
door. Every opportunity, all the
limiting energy has now been removed.
You're moving with faith, you're moving with freedom, you're not
boxing yourself in thinking. Well, if I spend $50 on this,
then I can't spend it on that. And I just think that, you know,
people are more than willing to, you know, buy concert tickets or
makeup or shoes or whatever makes them happy.
But when it comes to Healing, It's like oh well that's too
expensive. And I just want to go ahead and
let everyone know if you've been wanting to get a reading with
me, you should say that because prices are going up, prices are
going up and I don't know what the new price is going to be,
but I'm really getting out of my own way with trying to set my
prices based on other people's budgets, trying to make myself.
Affordable is draining me because I am so booked out
because so many people they're willing to spend 20 or 30
dollars but anything over that. That they're not ready.
So I will say that things are going to go up into making the
patreon the best and most cost-efficient offering that I
have. Yeah, and I remember what I was
going to say, I was going to talk about how you are the
person who taught me that, like, investing in the classes, and
not just taking the classes that are like, oh, that's like super
budget-friendly for me. So, I'm going to take this.
But like really investing in the classes that cost more because
the people no more and because it's worth more.
You that that comes back and that it doesn't end up being a
lack. And I noticed that when I've
been investing in these classes and doing these things, I make
that money literally immediately, back like the next
day, if it's not through Reading, it's through something
else. I found money in my pocket, I
found like three hundred dollars in my pocket and I'm like, I
can't tell you when I've ever had $300 that I could just
misplace and not give a fuck. So So, wherever it came from,
whenever I clearly didn't need it then and got it right back
after investing. So, I think that that also goes
into, you know, when we're talking about manifesting and
we're talking about making things happen, it's putting
certain energy into things and when we're putting energy into,
you know, expanding our own knowledge and investing in
things so that we can turn that around because the abundance
isn't just financially that comes back.
It is spiritually or whatnot. And then And so by you, and I
investing in the various ways that we do, we turn around and
we do give that back to patreon members in mentorship or or
whatnot. And so were able to keep that
abundance going. So they get those tools to be
able to go and teach that to other people.
And it's always just this like domino effect and cycle.
I want to read some feedback from a new Mentor client.
They got their video reading this morning.
I won't read the whole thing, but they said for sure your
energy Is just really positive and to have that as your
occupation to just help people probably makes you feel higher
as well. Or at least, I would imagine
thanks again and people don't realize, it's a ripple effect
because I chose to heal or because Jim and I chose to heal
and invest in ourselves. We then Ripple that energy
outward and that's a new client that has never worked with me
before on a mentor basis. And they literally are like,
wow, I know exactly what I need to do now.
And I think, That's where it's not about the money or the
physical representation. It's the energy and intention
that you're putting into stuff if you sign up for a class.
But the whole time you're thinking like, wow, now that I'm
in this class, I can't buy Starbucks this week or I can't
do XYZ. You're not seeing it as a
trade-off and a balance, you're seeing this as well.
It's this or that and I think that's one thing with energy.
It's not this or that it's not good or bad, or high or low It
is a frequency that is best energetic matched to you.
And what you're putting out and that's what people don't get.
Like if you're stingy and weird with people especially children
or whoever that comes back to you, that comes back into every
reflection of your life. And I just think so many people
are not willing to get out of their own way to be like, you
know what, I am blocking my self because I will go spend money on
alcohol or eating or whatever, but I won't take a class on a
Saturday or I won't go to the gym or go to yoga.
And that's what I hear for. A lot of people is they're like,
well, I just want to know how you do it.
It starts with making your needs and priority because then that
sends a clear frequency to the universe that you're putting the
effort and the energy in Yeah, absolutely.
I just fuck I keep forgetting what I'm trying to stay while
I'm in the middle and I'm driving my own self knots over
here. No, like the podcast Queen,
all's you do is record podcasts. All I do is record podcast.
Well, I think that for me, like my brain is just racing while
we're having this conversation, because this is just something
that I'm always talking with my own self about about not coming
from an energy of having lock. And they think that if you are
like, raised where you don't really have anything, like, for
me, when I was, Growing up. The only time that we ever went
out like to eat or get food or anything was on our birthdays.
And I knew that that was because we only had the money that we
had for bills. We didn't have money for extras
and so I still always have this guilt when it comes into.
I don't have guilt anymore about investing it in myself and
classes and things, but I always have guilt.
If we go out and we like, eat somewhere, we go and do
something because I'm always like, I should be putting that
away because Like, I don't have that in the future and I really
need it. And I just spent $40 at Panda
Express that. Like, I didn't need to go and
spend, and so I'm constantly having to do this like, checking
my own self and coming from a place of being like, no, I'm
grateful that everything is paid.
And I have this extra money right now and I've never gone
without because I've done something, you know, like I,
it's hard to get out of a mindset of coming from lack.
Well, one thing that I've noticed, Noticed with, like, a
lot of people that I grew up around, it doesn't really matter
what it is. They always want to know how
much it costs like, hey, I'm going on a trip.
Well, how much was it? Hey, I'm doing a reading.
Well, how much are you getting paid?
Hey, I'm doing this. Well, how much is it, like
before they even embody the vision of like, wow, that sounds
exciting or I can't wait for you to do that or I can't wait for
you to see that artist in concert there.
Just automatically how much is it?
And I know concert tickets are like at an all-time record high
and I think But people don't realize that it's the luxury of
the experience. It's not the concert ticket.
It's the experience that you're paying for.
Its everyone on that tour, whether it's the person that
drives the bus or that sets up the stage, it's every single
person's livelihood. And so when you really start
dividing out a two hundred dollar ticket, it really isn't
that much because there's over 200 people that make the show,
go on, and I just really appreciate entertainers.
And people in spotlights that have to, you know, No set those
prices and raise things so that people can be paid a living wage
and that people are there to support the tour.
And, you know, recently, I got to meet jelly roll at his
concert in Kentucky, and it was just so humbling seeing a
sold-out show from the other side, like from the side of the
stage and being knocked up on the stage.
But, you know, on the side stage, where you could just see.
And it really was humbling to me because it's like if you put the
engine into the universe and you show up and you put in that work
because you know, Jelly's had to fight many battles with
addiction and you know the law and everything under the sun and
it's like if you don't put in that work you don't get the
reimbursement from the universe or whatever and I just that
there's so much time and energy that goes on behind the scenes
and people may Wonder well why do they charge this or why does
it cost that whether it's a small business or a major, you
know, distribution Annie. There's a reason for everything
and I do think that the problem right now is that in the
capitalistic society that were in is a lot of billionaires.
I companies are raising their prices to absurd amounts, that
then trickles down into like the lower and middle classes.
So, yes, the reality in this Matrix right now is to keep you
in lack and keep you, you know, like how do you go to the
grocery store and a bag of Doritos at seven dollars.
And you're telling me that the living minimum wage 725.
So I worked a whole hour and I can't even afford a bag of
Doritos that are filled halfway up, that's a problem.
And so I just think that people need a quit looking at other
people's successes and their stories and quit comparing.
I know a lot of people, you know, think to themselves like,
wow, there gives keep me that special for them to charge this
or charge that, and I just want to make it known.
There's people who literally charge double then what I
charge. I know a girl that charges $150
for a Ten minute video reading ten minutes $150.
So don't even come for me when my prices start going up because
you weren't there, when I was doing free readings for a whole
year, you weren't there when my readings for $12 you weren't
there when I was begging to give people readings and now that
you're I'm starting to get recognition from outward
Outlets. It feels like so many people are
projecting that onto me because they feel like they will never
be able to afford it. And again it's not really my
problem. problem because I've invested more energy and time
into my craft Been anything else?
Well, not even just that, but we've mentioned it before, but
we do a whole lot of like free content free reads.
I know that you go live and you do readings for people and I do
flash readings now where it's like a couple of cards for a
certain amount so that it's not a full reading.
So that people who fall on a budget can do it, like we are
always giving out in different ways and doing it freely and
genuinely doing it freely and wanting nothing back.
So people having a complaint who literally don't do anything with
their time energy or resources can suck my fucking dick.
Also you talking about people raising their prices on shit.
It's because people are willing to spend money on it.
You've got Kim Kardashian out here.
Literally making you sweat pants that look exactly the same as
the fucking sweatpants that you can get in prison, and they're
big and bad. He and have a boyfriend look to
in her all distressed, it makes no sense to me.
Then you have, you know, the marketing is inside of the gas
station, you know? Goddamn well Kim K, doesn't pump
your own gas, but people are willing to go out here and spend
all that money because it looks a certain way.
And it's not that people don't have the money to invest in
themselves and and do all these other things in place it here
and there. It's the fact that they would
rather be able to look good on the outside, then fix and all on
the inside because it takes a whole lot longer for it to
reflect outwardly than it does, for you to put on a pair of 200
dollar, Kim K, punk-ass sweatpants and that's my TED
talk. A lot of the celebrities try to
sell us back, poor people stuff, they call it poor people Chic,
they literally try to sell you the stuff that you could get at
Walmart, but put a label on it because people are that stupid
and I'm fine with literally any and everything that I can get
that. Cute.
Like I don't care. I have expensive taste but I
also can go to Walmart and literally find an entire outfit
and they get fire. So I don't know.
I just I don't get his caught up but I know that when I was a
teenager that's like back in like the Ugg Boot and Coach
purse era of the high school and like that was such a big deal to
me. And I remember at times being
like, wow, I can't afford a real Coach purse.
So I have this little fake one and like it's not good enough or
whatever. Like and I just remember feeling
like 14 years old that I needed this to be cool.
And I just think that that's what the internet does, is a lot
of these influencers and celebrities literally get the
stuff for free and they act like it's their favorite thing and
and whatever. And I just don't buy anything
based on what other people like. And I think that in the
spiritual Arena, there's only a handful of people that I would
even trust with readings. So that's why we're always
letting you all know to be mindful of the person that Are
connecting with because a lot of these readers are making shit up
like they're still trying to solicit are and Carter spirit
and I'm just going to be honest when I Spirit goes to crossover
Point. Like they don't just come back
and just start doing human work again.
Like their soul is in transition.
Their soul is in review. Like so for all these mediums on
Tick, Tock to pretend, like they're talking to Aaron Carter.
It's so weird because he doesn't even know who you are and like
he never even associated with you.
Like, Like I, it makes my stomach hurt and there's one
person I think they're on part 5 or part 6 of their Aaron Carter
series and I'm like, I just watched the views per video, you
know, you can see the views or the likes or whatever, to the
point that, like, I just have to, like, have this person off
of my page, because I can't i-it's so scammy to me one that
people actually repeat these things.
Like if you're talking with Aaron, Carter.
You're having some experience and it's whatever, okay cool
that whatever. But you going out and putting it
on the internet and then doing updates, I talk to his manager
and then I did this and then I did that like it's all a cloud
Chase and I that's the thing for me.
I'm not going to get readings from people that I can tell or
just doing shit on clout. Chase, if I go onto your page
and all I see, like you don't have anything that ever shares
your personality outside of your readings on.
On any of your social medias. It's fucking weird to me.
I don't I don't like that. But I'm also so careful about
the people that I do readings from because there are so many
fear-based people who they want to do the reading because they
want to be liked and you have this Trauma from your childhood
and you know it affects you in all these negative ways then you
need to work on it. No I want to have a reading
where yeah you point stuff out. But then you also point out all
the Areas that are going well and where to put energy and how
to like, you know what, different paths are up ahead.
And that's what I love about, like, readings with you.
Literally my reading with you, is the whole reason that I have
an entire fucking brand. And yeah, sure, I put all this
time and energy into it. But I didn't know what path to
go to, or what strengths that I had to put into play.
And so, there was always this confusion of like, I'm supposed
to be doing something but I don't know.
No, I've been through all of this shit and it was you in a
reading with you where you're like going through all of this
shit gives you this gift and these are your different paths
and choose how you go from there and that's what I want out of a
reading. Yeah.
Whenever I give a reading, I do, it's more like I've said before,
an experience, like I would never go to someone's Shadow and
just be like, wow, you're really in low-energy.
Like and you know, a lot of people want to kick up the dust
and then just kind of Leave You Hangin in readings.
And I've even had Meetings that were I feel like projections
from the reader. But I think that's why you have
to be in tune with your own energy and kind of know who you
are and know what resonates with you because some people will
just take whatever a psychic or medium, says for face value.
And, you know, we've had issues with plenty of people in the
past that we were going to have on the podcast and among talking
to them. We realized that they're not the
same person they pretend to be on there.
Internet. And even though there's millions
of people following them, I'm not going to associate myself
with Heckle and jaw or what is it?
Heckle and Jekyll and Hyde. I always mix it up Jekyll and
Hyde, two different split personalities of people and it's
like, yeah, for the internet you're putting on this type of
show, but then you show up on the zoom meeting for this
interview and you're in your car, whatever, you know, like
cleaning out your glove box or some shit like, you know, so I
Just think that it's really easy to look at people on a surface
level and be like, wow, I resonate with them or wow.
I really connect with them but it's like among really digging
deeper when you uncover those layers like what's actually
beneath there. And I'm just going to be honest,
like I practice what I preach. I would never tell a client or a
person to do something that I myself have not done and or
don't already do. And so, you know, when you get
readings from people, And they want you to need them.
That's a red flag because I want my clients to be empowered on
their own, to have the tools and the resources they need, but I
can't do it for them and I'm not gonna do it for them.
And I think some people are like no you need a reading every week
or they like want to like use your vulnerability or the parts
of you that are filling wall sore alone.
They want to like harp on that. And so that's why we're always
really observant of the people that We're connecting with, on
all the platforms that we have, because their energy and
intentions linger over. yeah, I'm literally just listening to
what you're saying and I'm thinking that I really love the
way that we are able to have conversations in, the way that
we've set this podcast at because we don't do that like,
frou-frou, spirituality like positive bullshit.
All the time, like we talked about so many different things
and the way that we shift our mindset to be able to handle
those situations or we push through, and we talked about
having firm boundaries with things and having like going
into things with the best intention and Then when somebody
else can't match that moving on, not wasting your time.
And I think that to so many people in life, moving on from
people is considered rude or letting people know that, like I
presented myself in this way, and I was set up for this and
you came way less with less energy than I had.
And I'm just not going to accept that.
I got a move on you, do you? I do mean no hard feelings.
And every time that you and I come on here and we Awk.
We always point out all these different situations and
scenarios. But then we always talk about
like the lesson that we learned from it and something that we
learn and moved on. Like, for us we did encounter so
many people who were just not authentically showing up and
whose energy we didn't Vibe with to the point that we're like
maybe we just talk with each other more, you know, like and
and figure out how to how to do that and and connect with people
who are going to be Authentic, we don't are fucking episodes
with people that we don't align with even no matter who it is.
How many followers? Like you just said, we had
people who've had millions of followers that we've talked to.
And we're like, we're not airing that because we don't stand
behind any of that. Yeah, what's crazy is like it's
the people that seem to have this engaging bubbly energy on
the internet are the ones that are staging their videos, it's
not raw, it's not authentic. They record it fucking 29 times
to get Right? And I just can't rock with those
people. Like, I'm not person and I
literally never rehearse hardly anything we hardly ever know
what we're about to talk about, and I think that that's what
keeps it very raw. And genuine is, we're not trying
to Stage it. We don't have a to-do list.
We're not here trying to sell you all something.
Where does here to expose you to either the tools?
The resources are the ideas that were working with, but you can
totally disagree in any way that you want.
But, you know, around the holidays, especially a lot of
people's family will start projecting negativity and lack
on to you. So, this is about being Mindful
and aware of the people that you're talking to the people,
and their energy, how much time, they actually invest into their
own happiness, or all major indicators on whether or not you
want to take money advice from those people.
Or any advice at all. Because I know that around the
holidays. You know, you start having your
parents and your house or your nosy, Aunt Nellie, or whoever
and everybody, all I don't know about everybody else.
So I'll just speak from like my personal but when I have certain
family over, I literally feel like exhausted when they leave.
And I'm second guessing like all of my life choices for about
five minutes because they've made me think that like I'm not
doing anything right? And I feel so unproductive and I
always have to tell myself All of these people get to live
their life however they want, they were also given a life,
they can make whatever choices they want and that's in their
control and I was given that same exact thing and I'm
choosing to do something completely different.
And they wouldn't understand that because they, they don't
want to walk the path that I'm walking.
So, other people having an opinion on something is
literally irrelevant because it's so easy to say something.
When you're on a different Journey.
Ernie. Like you can look over across a
hill and be like, wow, that looks like it's a super smooth
path, but then you get over there and it's got all these
rocks and boulders and you don't know how to rock climb, you
know, I just want to encourage everyone, listening to stop
thinking that something else is going to make you happy, whether
that's money or a job or relationship, like stop putting
power outside of yourself. Quit telling yourself that it's
going to be next month. Next year.
Five years, down the road, when you're happy because Happiness
is a choice, some of the most happy people in the world.
Don't have a pot to piss in and they have no worries and no
concerns and they live their life.
Freely were so tracked in our own head.
Most of the time that we can't even see how we are limiting
ourselves. And I just feel like if you
surround yourself with people who inspire you, rather than
people who drag you down and keep you the same, your energy
will shift. I've watched it happen time and
time again, when people Letting go of those toxic friendships
relationships and family Dynamics, they make space for
more community, and more enlightening energy to come in.
And I just see a lot of people wishing they had that Community
but they're doing nothing about it.
They're still going to the same bar, hanging out the same person
and I know I say that a lot, but I'm just going to say bars are
just toxic a Synergy, and if that's one of your favorite
pastimes, you really need to check what you're running from
on the Inside because bars are toxic depressing energy, no
matter what they just are because alcohol is a depressant
that lowers your vibration. Not to say that.
I don't have a drink every once in a while.
But if that's your favorite pastime is partying and
drinking, you really need to look deep Inward and know
yourself a little more. I always get uncomfortable, just
because, maybe it's because I'm not a big drinker or something.
But everybody everybody around me drinking and being
intoxicated is never fun for me, even if I am drinking, I always
feel like people aren't being themselves.
So everybody is super unpredictable.
I feel like I have to be more on guard.
I always feel like somebody is crying and complaining about
their life when I am around them and they drink and I don't know
if I don't No. What about me is like, hey, I
want you to cry on my shoulder but please don't and so yeah, I
don't like being at bars. Honestly.
I don't like being around people who just waste time for fun.
Like every once in a while it's cool to let loose and do
something whatever but I just would rather be in my own energy
than be absorbing all of that. Like if I'm going to do nothing,
I'm going to take a nap at home. I'm going to do something here
for myself. Go to a park, go to the gym,
whatever. Like I'm not gonna just Unwind
with the Press depressed people. And that's why I like the
holidays, people get real depressed because the energy and
the collective is very much, I would be happy if I had a
family, I would be happy if I had presence, I would be happy.
If I had a PS5, I'd be happy if my husband did for me, what her
husband does for her. Like you're always giving that
power to something outside of yourself and that's why we
wanted to record and really start trying to drop more
content around. And the holidays because I know
people have free time. I know people are off work and
we don't want to see you falling into Old cycles and doing things
that are really detrimental to your health and your happiness.
I also want to say to like if you are somebody who listens and
like you genuinely are like the holidays are so fucking
depressing and I don't have anybody.
I'm always here for you to message and just like have a
person and not feel like you're completely by.
Self. I mean like I don't want to hear
like all your life problems, but if you need like if you like
need friends and you need support or whatever, I know that
my DMs are always open for you to just slide into and talk to
and I don't want anybody to feel like they don't have anybody who
is going to get them or understand them or that you want
to change you know your atmosphere for the holidays and
you would be by yourself doing it.
I'm here. And another thing I think that
That once you open that door to community more people just
trickle in a lot of us are closed off from like new friends
and new connections because we've been burned in the past.
And that's why we have to make sure that we're working to
rewire our subconscious thoughts about things because you could
have all the opportunity to make new friends and do nothing with
it and do nothing about it. But in order to get good
friends, you have to be a good friend and I know that in the
past I wasn't a good friend so I didn't have good friends.
You know, we just have to look at our own actions and ways that
we've been limiting ourselves and our connections, just
because you've known someone forever.
Doesn't mean they have good intentions for you at all.
Yeah. And being friends with somebody
also does it mean that like, your trauma dumping and that
they have to know everything about that's ever happened in
your life? And you have to be like
Inseparable and they have to know while your deep dark
secrets. You can literally just have
acquaintances friends who are people that you've Vibe with
their energy doesn't have to mean that it's like superficial
and fake. But you can Vibe with people at
surface levels and get along in certain ways.
And then never have to have, like, deep vulnerable
relationships with people. And I think that that's where
people go. I don't have friends or they get
caught up in this. Like, I don't have this.
A lot of people who look like they have best friends have
people that keep their secrets to use against them later or
that they are. Trauma dumping because trauma,
bonds are so common, just in friendships like platonic
friendships to. So when you're going out there
and you're finding friends, you don't have to find some like
forever person. You can just find somebody who
you occasionally like to go get coffee or smoke a blunt with.
Yeah. And I think that we put so much
pressure on people like to show up for us like wow they didn't
text me back but they're posting on the internet and I just feel
like try approaching friendships without conditions and Rules and
expectations and see how people naturally show up in the world,
how they naturally move without outside influence and then
decide how you're going to come accordingly to that.
How are you going to match that how you're going to, you know,
be self-aware in that situation? I think a lot of people reject
their insecurities onto platonic relationships but then allow
dumpster fires from romantic relationships.
Like, oh, that's fine that he did all that.
But my friend did Text me back and post it on her story.
So I'm done like calm down. Well, and that's people like
taking things personally, right? So if you have this like selfish
mindset, where you're only thinking about yourself and
things, and what you're expecting from other people
instead of how you're giving up, or how you're giving for other
people, then you're just going to be sitting there being like
she didn't text me back because she probably doesn't like me.
But if you were coming from a mindset where you didn't have,
you weren't taking things personally, then it would be.
She's probably busy Paige. I know 100% of the time when she
does Don't text me back for longer than 30 minutes, she's
asleep. Like, I can't take that
personally. You like I really miss her and I
want to talk to her and she doesn't want to be my friend
anymore. No, that bitch is napping.
A lot of people, just take everything personal and I try to
really remove myself in my emotions from other people's
actions, especially when people say they're going to do
something and then they drop the ball completely and pretend like
they've never said that in their life, instead of taking it
personal and getting worked up and getting mine.
Shins involved. I'm just like, wow.
Wow, you know, I just like, I'm just like, okay, like that's
you, that's who you are. And I have to imagine that.
If you can't even show up and do what you say, you're going to
do, look at all the things internally that they're probably
avoiding and not doing just because they feel like no one
knows about it or something. I think who you are behind
closed doors when no one's looking, what you're going to do
with the right or wrong thing is what is the energy?
He that you put out, it is the ripple effect.
If you have pure intentions, you won't lose.
But if the little party you, every time, someone announces
they're engaged or pregnant or promoted a little part of you
gets upset on the inside, then you need to check yourself.
You need to check yourself and why you can't clap for other
people at their times of glory. And wait, your turn.
That's real weird energy to me. I just, I can't imagine seeing
somebody doing something successfully and being like
well, fuck them. I mean, I think a lot of people
now want to know how I started a podcast and they want to know,
all these details and all this stuff and I'm just, like, have
any of you even researched how to start a podcast?
Because we started looking into it.
You would realize why there's millions of podcast because it's
not rocket science, but you don't want to take the time to
put in the work and I have plenty of people like I'd love
to do an interview with you. Okay, I'm sure you would like, I
don't know, I just think so many people want people to lead them
to the successes that they dream of, but what they do behind
closed doors is Netflix and drink and ignore their problems.
And, you know, Scroll online or whatever.
And I just think that right now, especially during the holidays,
if you know, things are going to start triggering you.
It's time to remove yourself from those platforms and Use
them for a more educational and transformational project like
progress instead of letting them keep you in those same cycles of
lack because I'm going to tell you every time I follow car TV,
I feel like every time when I see she spent half a million
dollars on her kids, fourth birthday party.
I feel in like every single time but in like jealous.
No, I just think like, wow, this four-year-old would have been
happy with the Chuck E Cheese party, but instead it's turned
into a production. And that I feel like that ends
up being more for the parent than it is for the kid because
your kid doesn't give a fuck that you did.
That plenty of kids are happy going to Chuck E cheese.
I just think we always are looking at these like people in
the spotlight and we're like wow like and we feel so different or
in lack but it's like what did that person do to get there?
All the work behind the scenes, you know, an overnight success
story. Put in work for 10 years or
more. And I just really don't care
what cardi B does. I'm still going to support the
areas of her life that I like but I'm not going to follow her
on Instagram because I feel extremely triggered by her and
her lack of concept of money and how it actually works.
No, she doesn't drive. But she owns like 12 cars.
How's that even make sense? Why would you need to have cars
if you don't even drive? So, I don't know, I just think,
you know, being human being spiritually aware and healing
doesn't mean that. You're exempt from those very
normal human lower emotions but since I know that I'm not going
to go looking for it, not going to follow it.
I'm not gonna share it to my story you know I even unfollowed
Machine Gun Kelly because half the shit he does now gets on my
nerves and I'm still a fan, I still listen to his music but I
could care less about him and Megan Fox having sex on any
table of any nature. I don't care about cutting holes
in the leotard to have sex. Like I don't care and I know
maybe other people do. And that's cool.
I'm not going to shame people for what they're interested in,
but I just don't care. And I just know that instead of
being triggered by stupid things on the internet, I just don't
follow those things. I follow things that are of
motivational nature and enlightening, nature things that
I can learn from people that teach me stuff.
Like, I do not care about people who are in their ego flaunting
material items because it's a low as vibration.
Okay, well tell me how you really feel.
Listen, I love when when you go off on like your rants of your
boundaries and your liking this is why we're not going to do and
how I'm not going to do. It seemed to always just
thinking back when we are like first two episodes.
I literally was so nervous to speak because I was like she's
always so happy and like positive and like I'm going to
say something and she's gonna be like who is this like - bitch
and or whatever you know like going off and then now when I
hear you going on On rancer things I'm like you tell people
yes. I think that we should keep this
episode kind of short since we're going to drop a bunch back
to back, but I do want people that are listening to messages
to email us, topics ideas. I think one day we made you like
a blooper funny episode where we just read really crazy messages
and DM's from people, whether it's the scammers or people
trauma I'm being or whatever. So, that should be fun.
I haven't really went too deep into a lot of my personal
beliefs, but I do think that maybe we'll get there like and
get kind of more into, like, what we actually believe about
heaven or hell or Incarnation or reincarnation.
Yes, that kind of stuff. So we do have some more serious
conversations coming through. But, you know, this is an open
community space here free to believe whatever you believe we.
We can still be friends. We can still, you know, all
Vibe. We don't have to believe the
same thing, and I think that's what the beautiful part of
spirituality is as everyone does it differently?
Yeah. And I think that, that's really
what we wanted to be able to have as our foundation with the
podcast. And so we've wanted to get into
like more serious things, but we really want to set.
I feel like the foundation for like, what energy we have going
into things. Our friendship works, the kind
of energy that we want to keep moving forward even when we're
talking about these other topics.
And I think a lot of times when people start telling their
opinions on things, all of a sudden, their whole personality
is judged off of one thing that they've said instead of seeing
them as a complete, you know, human being with all of these
different facets, we may have difference of opinions on one
thing and then you see that we have the same opinions on all of
these other things and that regardless of our different
communication ways or our different opinions, we still
have the same like core foundations in our friendship
and US establishing that. And then establishing that with
you guys, I think has been important.
Yes. And I think that we've all
really been open to new information coming into changing
our mind to elevating together. And you know what you believe
the year ago may not believe Be what you believe next year and
that's okay. Like you're not set in stone and
you don't have to be the same person that you've always been.
So today we will leave you with. Go be whoever you want to be and
worry about the details later because when you're passionate
and you're engaged, and you're excited about something the
energy speaks for itself. That's why when people book are
reading, they never once in their mind, think about how much
they've spent on that reading because once they get that
energy and they have that experience, it lingers into
every area of Of their life. And I know we've made a lot of
progress as a collective sense covid.
And now it's time to keep our foot on the gas and not not
deter when things get difficult or when things slow down but to
keep going. Yes.
Well on that, I will leave you guys and we'll see you next
time. All right, love you all.
Bye, bye.