1 00:00:10,700 --> 00:00:16,600 Welcome to fucking Dandy land hosted by Rampage and Gemini. 2 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,300 What's up everybody? Welcome back to Candyland. 3 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,500 So we are about to get it popping and it really start 4 00:00:38,500 --> 00:00:44,000 trying to drop a weekly episode. We would love if you all would 5 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,700 email us any ideas or recommendations that maybe you 6 00:00:48,700 --> 00:00:51,600 have of stuff that you would like us to talk about. 7 00:00:51,700 --> 00:00:54,100 I know that we touch on different things in each 8 00:00:54,100 --> 00:00:57,400 episode, but we would love to know things that maybe you want 9 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:02,500 to know more in depth on. I feel like we're always trying 10 00:01:02,500 --> 00:01:05,800 to think about the people who are going to be listening and 11 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,100 what they're going to be wanting to hear, what kind of things you 12 00:01:08,100 --> 00:01:10,900 guys have going on and that you guys work through and stuff that 13 00:01:10,908 --> 00:01:12,000 we can. I don't know. 14 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,700 I feel like we give really good advice on shit. 15 00:01:15,700 --> 00:01:19,000 I feel like if you just sent us questions, things that you're 16 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,300 like, how would you maneuver this situation? 17 00:01:21,300 --> 00:01:23,700 You're going to get two completely different viewpoints. 18 00:01:23,700 --> 00:01:28,800 And right now, one thing that I do want to talk about today is 19 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,500 just staying grounded during the Holidays, the collective energy 20 00:01:32,500 --> 00:01:37,800 is very tense, it's very rooted in lack mentality because you 21 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,000 see other people doing things for their kids or doing things 22 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,300 in general, that maybe makes you feel envious or jealous. 23 00:01:44,300 --> 00:01:48,800 And it's okay to be jealous of a system that really wants to keep 24 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:54,300 you down and keep you in that broken cycle, but it's not okay 25 00:01:54,300 --> 00:01:58,100 to project that insecurities onto other people. 26 00:01:58,100 --> 00:02:00,800 So, this is really about being grounded and being mindful of 27 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:04,900 your Shadow. It's really a human experience 28 00:02:04,900 --> 00:02:07,100 to be jealous or envious of others. 29 00:02:07,300 --> 00:02:10,300 But it's just about how you're going to work with that energy 30 00:02:10,300 --> 00:02:15,200 and not project that energy on to other people and also with 31 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:17,800 the feeling of lack especially when you're talking about 32 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,100 holidays and you're watching people make these like huge 33 00:02:21,100 --> 00:02:24,100 elaborate meals and get like these crazy presents for their 34 00:02:24,100 --> 00:02:28,000 family and things, I think it's important to keep in mind also 35 00:02:29,100 --> 00:02:33,000 not letting yourself get Overrun with the fact that you don't 36 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,400 have a certain amount, like financially and letting that 37 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,700 Rune you, appreciating and being able to celebrate the things 38 00:02:39,700 --> 00:02:44,200 that you already do have in your life and when you come from an 39 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:48,500 attitude of lacking something in general, you never actually 40 00:02:48,500 --> 00:02:52,200 bring that abundance to you. If you're focused on I don't 41 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,500 have money for this. Then you completely Overlook the 42 00:02:55,500 --> 00:02:58,900 fact that you may not have money for one thing over here, but 43 00:02:58,900 --> 00:03:00,800 you've got money for all these other things. 44 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,100 Maybe Be, you're not able to buy your kids, these crazy elaborate 45 00:03:04,100 --> 00:03:07,100 Christmas presents but you're able to keep a roof over their 46 00:03:07,100 --> 00:03:09,300 head, this holiday, you know, and there's somebody wishing 47 00:03:09,300 --> 00:03:14,000 they could do just that. I think really, we have just 48 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:19,700 been taught to feel lack and I talked about this a lot with my 49 00:03:19,700 --> 00:03:23,300 clients. Abundance is a frequency, 50 00:03:23,300 --> 00:03:27,100 abundance can be Health, it can be opportunities, it could be a 51 00:03:27,100 --> 00:03:30,800 motivation, it could be peace, you know, abundance. 52 00:03:30,900 --> 00:03:33,800 Comes in many forms that a lot of people just think about 53 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:37,600 dollar signs or think about physical items. 54 00:03:37,700 --> 00:03:41,100 But abundance is a frequency and a lot of us are blocking our own 55 00:03:41,100 --> 00:03:46,000 frequency by thinking in terms of lack like well if I spend 56 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,800 this, then I'm without it. And I think that that's where a 57 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,500 lot of people are afraid to invest in readings or invest in 58 00:03:53,500 --> 00:03:58,100 things that are on the spiritual side of life and Bravo to 59 00:03:58,100 --> 00:04:00,800 everyone who is listening that is showing up for themselves. 60 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:04,400 That is invested. Twenty Thirty fifty five hundred 61 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,700 dollars into their healing because it is a process. 62 00:04:07,900 --> 00:04:13,200 It's not linear its up and down and the more that you tell the 63 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:17,000 universe that you are abundant and that you are not afraid to 64 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,800 do something for yourself. The more the energy is able to 65 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:25,100 respond to that frequency. Yeah, absolutely. 66 00:04:25,300 --> 00:04:29,100 And I was just thinking about shit. 67 00:04:29,100 --> 00:04:32,300 I lost my train of thought but you would taught me something. 68 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,700 Pick up the conversation page, let me think about it, but I was 69 00:04:38,700 --> 00:04:42,100 thinking on. Well, I know that from my 70 00:04:42,100 --> 00:04:46,400 family, every time they spend money, they look at it in terms 71 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,700 as like, well, now I'm without that. 72 00:04:48,700 --> 00:04:52,000 And so something that I shifted for myself was looking at things 73 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,200 as spreading the money and then it comes back to me. 74 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:59,800 So, everyone who, you know, shops with me on my website. 75 00:04:59,900 --> 00:05:04,000 I have literally set an intention spell for every person 76 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,100 who spends money with me. That money to find them again, 77 00:05:07,100 --> 00:05:09,600 times 10. And I know a lot of people 78 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:14,200 especially they are on the monthly patreon Mentor program. 79 00:05:14,500 --> 00:05:17,400 They will tell me like when I first started this, I was afraid 80 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:21,600 to invest the fifty dollars a month but now I just got a new 81 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:25,000 job, I'm making twenty thousand dollars more a year and that's 82 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:29,300 been like a really theme that's been happening for a lot of my 83 00:05:29,300 --> 00:05:32,500 monthly clients is that after three to six months of doing the 84 00:05:32,500 --> 00:05:36,700 work and not really maybe seeing those Physical manifestations, 85 00:05:36,900 --> 00:05:39,500 then, out of nowhere. Everything is knocking on your 86 00:05:39,500 --> 00:05:41,900 door. Every opportunity, all the 87 00:05:41,900 --> 00:05:44,400 limiting energy has now been removed. 88 00:05:44,500 --> 00:05:47,900 You're moving with faith, you're moving with freedom, you're not 89 00:05:47,900 --> 00:05:51,900 boxing yourself in thinking. Well, if I spend $50 on this, 90 00:05:51,900 --> 00:05:55,900 then I can't spend it on that. And I just think that, you know, 91 00:05:56,100 --> 00:06:00,400 people are more than willing to, you know, buy concert tickets or 92 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,600 makeup or shoes or whatever makes them happy. 93 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,500 But when it comes to Healing, It's like oh well that's too 94 00:06:06,500 --> 00:06:08,500 expensive. And I just want to go ahead and 95 00:06:08,500 --> 00:06:11,100 let everyone know if you've been wanting to get a reading with 96 00:06:11,100 --> 00:06:14,000 me, you should say that because prices are going up, prices are 97 00:06:14,008 --> 00:06:16,700 going up and I don't know what the new price is going to be, 98 00:06:16,700 --> 00:06:22,100 but I'm really getting out of my own way with trying to set my 99 00:06:22,100 --> 00:06:25,700 prices based on other people's budgets, trying to make myself. 100 00:06:25,700 --> 00:06:29,300 Affordable is draining me because I am so booked out 101 00:06:29,300 --> 00:06:33,700 because so many people they're willing to spend 20 or 30 102 00:06:33,700 --> 00:06:36,100 dollars but anything over that. That they're not ready. 103 00:06:36,100 --> 00:06:40,900 So I will say that things are going to go up into making the 104 00:06:40,900 --> 00:06:44,600 patreon the best and most cost-efficient offering that I 105 00:06:44,608 --> 00:06:47,100 have. Yeah, and I remember what I was 106 00:06:47,100 --> 00:06:50,200 going to say, I was going to talk about how you are the 107 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,600 person who taught me that, like, investing in the classes, and 108 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,700 not just taking the classes that are like, oh, that's like super 109 00:06:56,700 --> 00:06:58,700 budget-friendly for me. So, I'm going to take this. 110 00:06:58,700 --> 00:07:02,200 But like really investing in the classes that cost more because 111 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:05,000 the people no more and because it's worth more. 112 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:08,600 You that that comes back and that it doesn't end up being a 113 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:12,300 lack. And I noticed that when I've 114 00:07:12,300 --> 00:07:16,800 been investing in these classes and doing these things, I make 115 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:21,200 that money literally immediately, back like the next 116 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,500 day, if it's not through Reading, it's through something 117 00:07:23,500 --> 00:07:25,800 else. I found money in my pocket, I 118 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,100 found like three hundred dollars in my pocket and I'm like, I 119 00:07:29,100 --> 00:07:32,300 can't tell you when I've ever had $300 that I could just 120 00:07:32,300 --> 00:07:36,400 misplace and not give a fuck. So So, wherever it came from, 121 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,800 whenever I clearly didn't need it then and got it right back 122 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,600 after investing. So, I think that that also goes 123 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,800 into, you know, when we're talking about manifesting and 124 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,000 we're talking about making things happen, it's putting 125 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,700 certain energy into things and when we're putting energy into, 126 00:07:53,100 --> 00:07:55,500 you know, expanding our own knowledge and investing in 127 00:07:55,500 --> 00:07:59,200 things so that we can turn that around because the abundance 128 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,500 isn't just financially that comes back. 129 00:08:01,500 --> 00:08:07,100 It is spiritually or whatnot. And then And so by you, and I 130 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,400 investing in the various ways that we do, we turn around and 131 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:14,200 we do give that back to patreon members in mentorship or or 132 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,100 whatnot. And so were able to keep that 133 00:08:16,100 --> 00:08:18,700 abundance going. So they get those tools to be 134 00:08:18,700 --> 00:08:21,000 able to go and teach that to other people. 135 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:24,400 And it's always just this like domino effect and cycle. 136 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,700 I want to read some feedback from a new Mentor client. 137 00:08:28,700 --> 00:08:30,800 They got their video reading this morning. 138 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:34,500 I won't read the whole thing, but they said for sure your 139 00:08:34,500 --> 00:08:37,700 energy Is just really positive and to have that as your 140 00:08:37,700 --> 00:08:41,299 occupation to just help people probably makes you feel higher 141 00:08:41,299 --> 00:08:43,799 as well. Or at least, I would imagine 142 00:08:43,799 --> 00:08:46,700 thanks again and people don't realize, it's a ripple effect 143 00:08:46,700 --> 00:08:50,000 because I chose to heal or because Jim and I chose to heal 144 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,700 and invest in ourselves. We then Ripple that energy 145 00:08:53,700 --> 00:08:57,200 outward and that's a new client that has never worked with me 146 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:01,800 before on a mentor basis. And they literally are like, 147 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,200 wow, I know exactly what I need to do now. 148 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:08,200 And I think, That's where it's not about the money or the 149 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:11,500 physical representation. It's the energy and intention 150 00:09:11,500 --> 00:09:14,800 that you're putting into stuff if you sign up for a class. 151 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,600 But the whole time you're thinking like, wow, now that I'm 152 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,700 in this class, I can't buy Starbucks this week or I can't 153 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,200 do XYZ. You're not seeing it as a 154 00:09:23,208 --> 00:09:26,000 trade-off and a balance, you're seeing this as well. 155 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:30,000 It's this or that and I think that's one thing with energy. 156 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:35,300 It's not this or that it's not good or bad, or high or low It 157 00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:39,900 is a frequency that is best energetic matched to you. 158 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,900 And what you're putting out and that's what people don't get. 159 00:09:42,900 --> 00:09:47,600 Like if you're stingy and weird with people especially children 160 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:51,200 or whoever that comes back to you, that comes back into every 161 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:55,100 reflection of your life. And I just think so many people 162 00:09:55,100 --> 00:09:58,500 are not willing to get out of their own way to be like, you 163 00:09:58,500 --> 00:10:03,300 know what, I am blocking my self because I will go spend money on 164 00:10:03,300 --> 00:10:07,700 alcohol or eating or whatever, but I won't take a class on a 165 00:10:07,708 --> 00:10:10,800 Saturday or I won't go to the gym or go to yoga. 166 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:13,300 And that's what I hear for. A lot of people is they're like, 167 00:10:13,300 --> 00:10:15,100 well, I just want to know how you do it. 168 00:10:15,300 --> 00:10:18,700 It starts with making your needs and priority because then that 169 00:10:18,700 --> 00:10:22,300 sends a clear frequency to the universe that you're putting the 170 00:10:22,300 --> 00:10:26,800 effort and the energy in Yeah, absolutely. 171 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:32,200 I just fuck I keep forgetting what I'm trying to stay while 172 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:36,800 I'm in the middle and I'm driving my own self knots over 173 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,100 here. No, like the podcast Queen, 174 00:10:40,100 --> 00:10:44,000 all's you do is record podcasts. All I do is record podcast. 175 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:48,500 Well, I think that for me, like my brain is just racing while 176 00:10:48,500 --> 00:10:53,000 we're having this conversation, because this is just something 177 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,400 that I'm always talking with my own self about about not coming 178 00:10:56,400 --> 00:11:00,600 from an energy of having lock. And they think that if you are 179 00:11:00,900 --> 00:11:03,900 like, raised where you don't really have anything, like, for 180 00:11:03,900 --> 00:11:06,900 me, when I was, Growing up. The only time that we ever went 181 00:11:06,900 --> 00:11:10,500 out like to eat or get food or anything was on our birthdays. 182 00:11:10,500 --> 00:11:14,700 And I knew that that was because we only had the money that we 183 00:11:14,700 --> 00:11:16,800 had for bills. We didn't have money for extras 184 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:21,900 and so I still always have this guilt when it comes into. 185 00:11:21,900 --> 00:11:24,900 I don't have guilt anymore about investing it in myself and 186 00:11:24,900 --> 00:11:27,100 classes and things, but I always have guilt. 187 00:11:27,100 --> 00:11:30,800 If we go out and we like, eat somewhere, we go and do 188 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,600 something because I'm always like, I should be putting that 189 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,900 away because Like, I don't have that in the future and I really 190 00:11:36,900 --> 00:11:39,100 need it. And I just spent $40 at Panda 191 00:11:39,100 --> 00:11:40,700 Express that. Like, I didn't need to go and 192 00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:46,400 spend, and so I'm constantly having to do this like, checking 193 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:50,100 my own self and coming from a place of being like, no, I'm 194 00:11:50,100 --> 00:11:51,900 grateful that everything is paid. 195 00:11:51,900 --> 00:11:55,100 And I have this extra money right now and I've never gone 196 00:11:55,100 --> 00:11:59,100 without because I've done something, you know, like I, 197 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,900 it's hard to get out of a mindset of coming from lack. 198 00:12:03,500 --> 00:12:05,600 Well, one thing that I've noticed, Noticed with, like, a 199 00:12:05,608 --> 00:12:09,100 lot of people that I grew up around, it doesn't really matter 200 00:12:09,100 --> 00:12:11,500 what it is. They always want to know how 201 00:12:11,500 --> 00:12:13,400 much it costs like, hey, I'm going on a trip. 202 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,400 Well, how much was it? Hey, I'm doing a reading. 203 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:16,800 Well, how much are you getting paid? 204 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,000 Hey, I'm doing this. Well, how much is it, like 205 00:12:19,300 --> 00:12:22,700 before they even embody the vision of like, wow, that sounds 206 00:12:22,700 --> 00:12:26,200 exciting or I can't wait for you to do that or I can't wait for 207 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:28,000 you to see that artist in concert there. 208 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:29,900 Just automatically how much is it? 209 00:12:30,100 --> 00:12:33,900 And I know concert tickets are like at an all-time record high 210 00:12:34,300 --> 00:12:37,900 and I think But people don't realize that it's the luxury of 211 00:12:37,900 --> 00:12:40,400 the experience. It's not the concert ticket. 212 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:42,200 It's the experience that you're paying for. 213 00:12:42,300 --> 00:12:45,200 Its everyone on that tour, whether it's the person that 214 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:48,200 drives the bus or that sets up the stage, it's every single 215 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:51,800 person's livelihood. And so when you really start 216 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,500 dividing out a two hundred dollar ticket, it really isn't 217 00:12:54,500 --> 00:12:57,200 that much because there's over 200 people that make the show, 218 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:01,400 go on, and I just really appreciate entertainers. 219 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:05,800 And people in spotlights that have to, you know, No set those 220 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:09,700 prices and raise things so that people can be paid a living wage 221 00:13:09,700 --> 00:13:12,700 and that people are there to support the tour. 222 00:13:12,700 --> 00:13:16,800 And, you know, recently, I got to meet jelly roll at his 223 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:20,700 concert in Kentucky, and it was just so humbling seeing a 224 00:13:20,700 --> 00:13:24,000 sold-out show from the other side, like from the side of the 225 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,600 stage and being knocked up on the stage. 226 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:29,700 But, you know, on the side stage, where you could just see. 227 00:13:29,900 --> 00:13:34,800 And it really was humbling to me because it's like if you put the 228 00:13:34,900 --> 00:13:38,300 engine into the universe and you show up and you put in that work 229 00:13:38,500 --> 00:13:40,800 because you know, Jelly's had to fight many battles with 230 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:44,600 addiction and you know the law and everything under the sun and 231 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:48,000 it's like if you don't put in that work you don't get the 232 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,100 reimbursement from the universe or whatever and I just that 233 00:13:52,100 --> 00:13:55,400 there's so much time and energy that goes on behind the scenes 234 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,600 and people may Wonder well why do they charge this or why does 235 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:03,100 it cost that whether it's a small business or a major, you 236 00:14:03,100 --> 00:14:07,000 know, distribution Annie. There's a reason for everything 237 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,800 and I do think that the problem right now is that in the 238 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:15,300 capitalistic society that were in is a lot of billionaires. 239 00:14:15,300 --> 00:14:19,600 I companies are raising their prices to absurd amounts, that 240 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,000 then trickles down into like the lower and middle classes. 241 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:27,100 So, yes, the reality in this Matrix right now is to keep you 242 00:14:27,100 --> 00:14:30,400 in lack and keep you, you know, like how do you go to the 243 00:14:30,408 --> 00:14:32,700 grocery store and a bag of Doritos at seven dollars. 244 00:14:32,700 --> 00:14:35,800 And you're telling me that the living minimum wage 725. 245 00:14:36,100 --> 00:14:38,100 So I worked a whole hour and I can't even afford a bag of 246 00:14:38,100 --> 00:14:41,000 Doritos that are filled halfway up, that's a problem. 247 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,600 And so I just think that people need a quit looking at other 248 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:48,400 people's successes and their stories and quit comparing. 249 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,500 I know a lot of people, you know, think to themselves like, 250 00:14:51,900 --> 00:14:56,100 wow, there gives keep me that special for them to charge this 251 00:14:56,100 --> 00:14:58,300 or charge that, and I just want to make it known. 252 00:14:58,500 --> 00:15:00,900 There's people who literally charge double then what I 253 00:15:00,900 --> 00:15:04,400 charge. I know a girl that charges $150 254 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:09,000 for a Ten minute video reading ten minutes $150. 255 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,600 So don't even come for me when my prices start going up because 256 00:15:12,900 --> 00:15:15,300 you weren't there, when I was doing free readings for a whole 257 00:15:15,300 --> 00:15:18,400 year, you weren't there when my readings for $12 you weren't 258 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:21,600 there when I was begging to give people readings and now that 259 00:15:21,700 --> 00:15:24,800 you're I'm starting to get recognition from outward 260 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,900 Outlets. It feels like so many people are 261 00:15:26,900 --> 00:15:31,500 projecting that onto me because they feel like they will never 262 00:15:31,500 --> 00:15:34,600 be able to afford it. And again it's not really my 263 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:37,200 problem. problem because I've invested more energy and time 264 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:40,300 into my craft Been anything else? 265 00:15:40,900 --> 00:15:43,800 Well, not even just that, but we've mentioned it before, but 266 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:49,100 we do a whole lot of like free content free reads. 267 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:53,500 I know that you go live and you do readings for people and I do 268 00:15:53,500 --> 00:15:57,200 flash readings now where it's like a couple of cards for a 269 00:15:57,208 --> 00:16:00,100 certain amount so that it's not a full reading. 270 00:16:00,100 --> 00:16:03,900 So that people who fall on a budget can do it, like we are 271 00:16:03,900 --> 00:16:08,500 always giving out in different ways and doing it freely and 272 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,500 genuinely doing it freely and wanting nothing back. 273 00:16:11,500 --> 00:16:15,600 So people having a complaint who literally don't do anything with 274 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:20,300 their time energy or resources can suck my fucking dick. 275 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:25,700 Also you talking about people raising their prices on shit. 276 00:16:26,100 --> 00:16:28,700 It's because people are willing to spend money on it. 277 00:16:28,700 --> 00:16:30,300 You've got Kim Kardashian out here. 278 00:16:30,300 --> 00:16:34,100 Literally making you sweat pants that look exactly the same as 279 00:16:34,100 --> 00:16:37,900 the fucking sweatpants that you can get in prison, and they're 280 00:16:37,900 --> 00:16:40,200 big and bad. He and have a boyfriend look to 281 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,900 in her all distressed, it makes no sense to me. 282 00:16:43,100 --> 00:16:46,100 Then you have, you know, the marketing is inside of the gas 283 00:16:46,100 --> 00:16:48,600 station, you know? Goddamn well Kim K, doesn't pump 284 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:52,400 your own gas, but people are willing to go out here and spend 285 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,800 all that money because it looks a certain way. 286 00:16:55,100 --> 00:16:59,600 And it's not that people don't have the money to invest in 287 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,700 themselves and and do all these other things in place it here 288 00:17:02,700 --> 00:17:04,599 and there. It's the fact that they would 289 00:17:04,599 --> 00:17:08,800 rather be able to look good on the outside, then fix and all on 290 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:12,000 the inside because it takes a whole lot longer for it to 291 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:15,000 reflect outwardly than it does, for you to put on a pair of 200 292 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:19,300 dollar, Kim K, punk-ass sweatpants and that's my TED 293 00:17:19,300 --> 00:17:21,700 talk. A lot of the celebrities try to 294 00:17:21,700 --> 00:17:24,900 sell us back, poor people stuff, they call it poor people Chic, 295 00:17:24,900 --> 00:17:27,500 they literally try to sell you the stuff that you could get at 296 00:17:27,500 --> 00:17:31,300 Walmart, but put a label on it because people are that stupid 297 00:17:31,300 --> 00:17:38,300 and I'm fine with literally any and everything that I can get 298 00:17:38,300 --> 00:17:39,000 that. Cute. 299 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,000 Like I don't care. I have expensive taste but I 300 00:17:42,008 --> 00:17:45,100 also can go to Walmart and literally find an entire outfit 301 00:17:45,100 --> 00:17:47,400 and they get fire. So I don't know. 302 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,400 I just I don't get his caught up but I know that when I was a 303 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:54,100 teenager that's like back in like the Ugg Boot and Coach 304 00:17:54,100 --> 00:17:58,000 purse era of the high school and like that was such a big deal to 305 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,100 me. And I remember at times being 306 00:18:00,100 --> 00:18:02,100 like, wow, I can't afford a real Coach purse. 307 00:18:02,100 --> 00:18:04,900 So I have this little fake one and like it's not good enough or 308 00:18:04,900 --> 00:18:07,400 whatever. Like and I just remember feeling 309 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:11,900 like 14 years old that I needed this to be cool. 310 00:18:11,900 --> 00:18:15,800 And I just think that that's what the internet does, is a lot 311 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,400 of these influencers and celebrities literally get the 312 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,800 stuff for free and they act like it's their favorite thing and 313 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:25,100 and whatever. And I just don't buy anything 314 00:18:25,100 --> 00:18:29,200 based on what other people like. And I think that in the 315 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:32,200 spiritual Arena, there's only a handful of people that I would 316 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:35,000 even trust with readings. So that's why we're always 317 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:38,700 letting you all know to be mindful of the person that Are 318 00:18:38,700 --> 00:18:43,100 connecting with because a lot of these readers are making shit up 319 00:18:43,100 --> 00:18:46,900 like they're still trying to solicit are and Carter spirit 320 00:18:46,900 --> 00:18:50,600 and I'm just going to be honest when I Spirit goes to crossover 321 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,400 Point. Like they don't just come back 322 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,800 and just start doing human work again. 323 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,500 Like their soul is in transition. 324 00:18:57,500 --> 00:19:00,800 Their soul is in review. Like so for all these mediums on 325 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,900 Tick, Tock to pretend, like they're talking to Aaron Carter. 326 00:19:02,900 --> 00:19:06,300 It's so weird because he doesn't even know who you are and like 327 00:19:06,300 --> 00:19:08,000 he never even associated with you. 328 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:13,000 Like, Like I, it makes my stomach hurt and there's one 329 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:16,500 person I think they're on part 5 or part 6 of their Aaron Carter 330 00:19:16,500 --> 00:19:21,700 series and I'm like, I just watched the views per video, you 331 00:19:21,700 --> 00:19:24,100 know, you can see the views or the likes or whatever, to the 332 00:19:24,100 --> 00:19:26,400 point that, like, I just have to, like, have this person off 333 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:32,100 of my page, because I can't i-it's so scammy to me one that 334 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:36,700 people actually repeat these things. 335 00:19:36,700 --> 00:19:38,400 Like if you're talking with Aaron, Carter. 336 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:42,200 You're having some experience and it's whatever, okay cool 337 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,900 that whatever. But you going out and putting it 338 00:19:44,900 --> 00:19:47,800 on the internet and then doing updates, I talk to his manager 339 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:51,000 and then I did this and then I did that like it's all a cloud 340 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:55,100 Chase and I that's the thing for me. 341 00:19:55,100 --> 00:19:57,900 I'm not going to get readings from people that I can tell or 342 00:19:57,900 --> 00:20:00,900 just doing shit on clout. Chase, if I go onto your page 343 00:20:00,900 --> 00:20:05,400 and all I see, like you don't have anything that ever shares 344 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,400 your personality outside of your readings on. 345 00:20:08,500 --> 00:20:11,600 On any of your social medias. It's fucking weird to me. 346 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:16,800 I don't I don't like that. But I'm also so careful about 347 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:21,400 the people that I do readings from because there are so many 348 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,700 fear-based people who they want to do the reading because they 349 00:20:24,700 --> 00:20:28,800 want to be liked and you have this Trauma from your childhood 350 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,100 and you know it affects you in all these negative ways then you 351 00:20:32,108 --> 00:20:35,200 need to work on it. No I want to have a reading 352 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:38,200 where yeah you point stuff out. But then you also point out all 353 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:41,800 the Areas that are going well and where to put energy and how 354 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:44,700 to like, you know what, different paths are up ahead. 355 00:20:44,700 --> 00:20:48,300 And that's what I love about, like, readings with you. 356 00:20:48,500 --> 00:20:51,600 Literally my reading with you, is the whole reason that I have 357 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:56,300 an entire fucking brand. And yeah, sure, I put all this 358 00:20:56,300 --> 00:20:59,400 time and energy into it. But I didn't know what path to 359 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:04,100 go to, or what strengths that I had to put into play. 360 00:21:04,100 --> 00:21:06,800 And so, there was always this confusion of like, I'm supposed 361 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,400 to be doing something but I don't know. 362 00:21:08,500 --> 00:21:11,900 No, I've been through all of this shit and it was you in a 363 00:21:11,908 --> 00:21:15,500 reading with you where you're like going through all of this 364 00:21:15,500 --> 00:21:19,000 shit gives you this gift and these are your different paths 365 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,100 and choose how you go from there and that's what I want out of a 366 00:21:22,100 --> 00:21:23,200 reading. Yeah. 367 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,300 Whenever I give a reading, I do, it's more like I've said before, 368 00:21:26,300 --> 00:21:29,800 an experience, like I would never go to someone's Shadow and 369 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:33,100 just be like, wow, you're really in low-energy. 370 00:21:33,100 --> 00:21:35,500 Like and you know, a lot of people want to kick up the dust 371 00:21:35,500 --> 00:21:37,700 and then just kind of Leave You Hangin in readings. 372 00:21:37,700 --> 00:21:42,100 And I've even had Meetings that were I feel like projections 373 00:21:42,100 --> 00:21:45,700 from the reader. But I think that's why you have 374 00:21:45,700 --> 00:21:49,700 to be in tune with your own energy and kind of know who you 375 00:21:49,700 --> 00:21:53,100 are and know what resonates with you because some people will 376 00:21:53,100 --> 00:21:57,200 just take whatever a psychic or medium, says for face value. 377 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:01,400 And, you know, we've had issues with plenty of people in the 378 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:05,200 past that we were going to have on the podcast and among talking 379 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:06,800 to them. We realized that they're not the 380 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,300 same person they pretend to be on there. 381 00:22:08,500 --> 00:22:10,400 Internet. And even though there's millions 382 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,400 of people following them, I'm not going to associate myself 383 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,500 with Heckle and jaw or what is it? 384 00:22:16,300 --> 00:22:19,700 Heckle and Jekyll and Hyde. I always mix it up Jekyll and 385 00:22:19,700 --> 00:22:24,100 Hyde, two different split personalities of people and it's 386 00:22:24,100 --> 00:22:26,600 like, yeah, for the internet you're putting on this type of 387 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,500 show, but then you show up on the zoom meeting for this 388 00:22:29,700 --> 00:22:34,800 interview and you're in your car, whatever, you know, like 389 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,300 cleaning out your glove box or some shit like, you know, so I 390 00:22:38,500 --> 00:22:42,600 Just think that it's really easy to look at people on a surface 391 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,500 level and be like, wow, I resonate with them or wow. 392 00:22:45,500 --> 00:22:49,100 I really connect with them but it's like among really digging 393 00:22:49,100 --> 00:22:53,600 deeper when you uncover those layers like what's actually 394 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,900 beneath there. And I'm just going to be honest, 395 00:22:55,900 --> 00:22:58,800 like I practice what I preach. I would never tell a client or a 396 00:22:58,808 --> 00:23:02,800 person to do something that I myself have not done and or 397 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,800 don't already do. And so, you know, when you get 398 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:10,600 readings from people, And they want you to need them. 399 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,800 That's a red flag because I want my clients to be empowered on 400 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:18,100 their own, to have the tools and the resources they need, but I 401 00:23:18,100 --> 00:23:20,800 can't do it for them and I'm not gonna do it for them. 402 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,100 And I think some people are like no you need a reading every week 403 00:23:24,100 --> 00:23:28,600 or they like want to like use your vulnerability or the parts 404 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,000 of you that are filling wall sore alone. 405 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:35,900 They want to like harp on that. And so that's why we're always 406 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,000 really observant of the people that We're connecting with, on 407 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:43,600 all the platforms that we have, because their energy and 408 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:51,100 intentions linger over. yeah, I'm literally just listening to 409 00:23:51,100 --> 00:23:56,500 what you're saying and I'm thinking that I really love the 410 00:23:56,500 --> 00:23:59,600 way that we are able to have conversations in, the way that 411 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,100 we've set this podcast at because we don't do that like, 412 00:24:03,100 --> 00:24:06,700 frou-frou, spirituality like positive bullshit. 413 00:24:06,700 --> 00:24:10,800 All the time, like we talked about so many different things 414 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:15,800 and the way that we shift our mindset to be able to handle 415 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:19,000 those situations or we push through, and we talked about 416 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,900 having firm boundaries with things and having like going 417 00:24:21,900 --> 00:24:25,000 into things with the best intention and Then when somebody 418 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,300 else can't match that moving on, not wasting your time. 419 00:24:28,500 --> 00:24:33,600 And I think that to so many people in life, moving on from 420 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:38,600 people is considered rude or letting people know that, like I 421 00:24:38,700 --> 00:24:41,600 presented myself in this way, and I was set up for this and 422 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:46,100 you came way less with less energy than I had. 423 00:24:46,100 --> 00:24:47,400 And I'm just not going to accept that. 424 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,100 I got a move on you, do you? I do mean no hard feelings. 425 00:24:50,500 --> 00:24:54,400 And every time that you and I come on here and we Awk. 426 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,000 We always point out all these different situations and 427 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,400 scenarios. But then we always talk about 428 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,100 like the lesson that we learned from it and something that we 429 00:25:02,100 --> 00:25:05,700 learn and moved on. Like, for us we did encounter so 430 00:25:05,700 --> 00:25:08,600 many people who were just not authentically showing up and 431 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,600 whose energy we didn't Vibe with to the point that we're like 432 00:25:12,500 --> 00:25:16,400 maybe we just talk with each other more, you know, like and 433 00:25:16,500 --> 00:25:22,500 and figure out how to how to do that and and connect with people 434 00:25:22,700 --> 00:25:26,100 who are going to be Authentic, we don't are fucking episodes 435 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,600 with people that we don't align with even no matter who it is. 436 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,900 How many followers? Like you just said, we had 437 00:25:31,900 --> 00:25:34,500 people who've had millions of followers that we've talked to. 438 00:25:34,500 --> 00:25:36,800 And we're like, we're not airing that because we don't stand 439 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,600 behind any of that. Yeah, what's crazy is like it's 440 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:46,000 the people that seem to have this engaging bubbly energy on 441 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,500 the internet are the ones that are staging their videos, it's 442 00:25:49,500 --> 00:25:53,600 not raw, it's not authentic. They record it fucking 29 times 443 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,500 to get Right? And I just can't rock with those 444 00:25:56,500 --> 00:25:58,500 people. Like, I'm not person and I 445 00:25:58,500 --> 00:26:03,100 literally never rehearse hardly anything we hardly ever know 446 00:26:03,100 --> 00:26:05,500 what we're about to talk about, and I think that that's what 447 00:26:05,500 --> 00:26:08,600 keeps it very raw. And genuine is, we're not trying 448 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,000 to Stage it. We don't have a to-do list. 449 00:26:11,100 --> 00:26:13,000 We're not here trying to sell you all something. 450 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,100 Where does here to expose you to either the tools? 451 00:26:16,100 --> 00:26:20,500 The resources are the ideas that were working with, but you can 452 00:26:20,500 --> 00:26:22,900 totally disagree in any way that you want. 453 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,400 But, you know, around the holidays, especially a lot of 454 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,800 people's family will start projecting negativity and lack 455 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,600 on to you. So, this is about being Mindful 456 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,900 and aware of the people that you're talking to the people, 457 00:26:35,900 --> 00:26:40,000 and their energy, how much time, they actually invest into their 458 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:44,400 own happiness, or all major indicators on whether or not you 459 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,300 want to take money advice from those people. 460 00:26:47,500 --> 00:26:50,400 Or any advice at all. Because I know that around the 461 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,100 holidays. You know, you start having your 462 00:26:52,100 --> 00:26:55,700 parents and your house or your nosy, Aunt Nellie, or whoever 463 00:26:55,700 --> 00:26:58,000 and everybody, all I don't know about everybody else. 464 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,800 So I'll just speak from like my personal but when I have certain 465 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:06,400 family over, I literally feel like exhausted when they leave. 466 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,600 And I'm second guessing like all of my life choices for about 467 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,200 five minutes because they've made me think that like I'm not 468 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,600 doing anything right? And I feel so unproductive and I 469 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,600 always have to tell myself All of these people get to live 470 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,200 their life however they want, they were also given a life, 471 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,500 they can make whatever choices they want and that's in their 472 00:27:25,500 --> 00:27:28,400 control and I was given that same exact thing and I'm 473 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,200 choosing to do something completely different. 474 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:35,600 And they wouldn't understand that because they, they don't 475 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,200 want to walk the path that I'm walking. 476 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,300 So, other people having an opinion on something is 477 00:27:41,300 --> 00:27:45,100 literally irrelevant because it's so easy to say something. 478 00:27:45,100 --> 00:27:46,900 When you're on a different Journey. 479 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,900 Ernie. Like you can look over across a 480 00:27:48,908 --> 00:27:51,900 hill and be like, wow, that looks like it's a super smooth 481 00:27:51,900 --> 00:27:53,900 path, but then you get over there and it's got all these 482 00:27:53,900 --> 00:27:56,200 rocks and boulders and you don't know how to rock climb, you 483 00:27:56,200 --> 00:28:01,200 know, I just want to encourage everyone, listening to stop 484 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,300 thinking that something else is going to make you happy, whether 485 00:28:04,300 --> 00:28:08,400 that's money or a job or relationship, like stop putting 486 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,000 power outside of yourself. Quit telling yourself that it's 487 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,300 going to be next month. Next year. 488 00:28:14,300 --> 00:28:17,400 Five years, down the road, when you're happy because Happiness 489 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,700 is a choice, some of the most happy people in the world. 490 00:28:20,700 --> 00:28:23,900 Don't have a pot to piss in and they have no worries and no 491 00:28:23,900 --> 00:28:25,800 concerns and they live their life. 492 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:30,100 Freely were so tracked in our own head. 493 00:28:30,100 --> 00:28:33,300 Most of the time that we can't even see how we are limiting 494 00:28:33,300 --> 00:28:36,400 ourselves. And I just feel like if you 495 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,200 surround yourself with people who inspire you, rather than 496 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,800 people who drag you down and keep you the same, your energy 497 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,200 will shift. I've watched it happen time and 498 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,700 time again, when people Letting go of those toxic friendships 499 00:28:48,700 --> 00:28:52,500 relationships and family Dynamics, they make space for 500 00:28:52,500 --> 00:28:56,600 more community, and more enlightening energy to come in. 501 00:28:56,900 --> 00:29:01,700 And I just see a lot of people wishing they had that Community 502 00:29:01,700 --> 00:29:04,400 but they're doing nothing about it. 503 00:29:04,500 --> 00:29:07,600 They're still going to the same bar, hanging out the same person 504 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,900 and I know I say that a lot, but I'm just going to say bars are 505 00:29:10,900 --> 00:29:13,500 just toxic a Synergy, and if that's one of your favorite 506 00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:16,500 pastimes, you really need to check what you're running from 507 00:29:16,500 --> 00:29:20,900 on the Inside because bars are toxic depressing energy, no 508 00:29:20,900 --> 00:29:25,300 matter what they just are because alcohol is a depressant 509 00:29:25,300 --> 00:29:27,600 that lowers your vibration. Not to say that. 510 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,400 I don't have a drink every once in a while. 511 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,000 But if that's your favorite pastime is partying and 512 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,300 drinking, you really need to look deep Inward and know 513 00:29:36,300 --> 00:29:41,100 yourself a little more. I always get uncomfortable, just 514 00:29:41,100 --> 00:29:44,500 because, maybe it's because I'm not a big drinker or something. 515 00:29:44,500 --> 00:29:48,800 But everybody everybody around me drinking and being 516 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,700 intoxicated is never fun for me, even if I am drinking, I always 517 00:29:52,700 --> 00:29:55,100 feel like people aren't being themselves. 518 00:29:55,100 --> 00:29:57,100 So everybody is super unpredictable. 519 00:29:57,100 --> 00:29:59,400 I feel like I have to be more on guard. 520 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,800 I always feel like somebody is crying and complaining about 521 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:07,000 their life when I am around them and they drink and I don't know 522 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,300 if I don't No. What about me is like, hey, I 523 00:30:09,300 --> 00:30:13,700 want you to cry on my shoulder but please don't and so yeah, I 524 00:30:13,700 --> 00:30:16,400 don't like being at bars. Honestly. 525 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,300 I don't like being around people who just waste time for fun. 526 00:30:19,300 --> 00:30:21,500 Like every once in a while it's cool to let loose and do 527 00:30:21,500 --> 00:30:26,500 something whatever but I just would rather be in my own energy 528 00:30:26,500 --> 00:30:29,100 than be absorbing all of that. Like if I'm going to do nothing, 529 00:30:29,100 --> 00:30:33,400 I'm going to take a nap at home. I'm going to do something here 530 00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:35,700 for myself. Go to a park, go to the gym, 531 00:30:35,700 --> 00:30:39,100 whatever. Like I'm not gonna just Unwind 532 00:30:39,100 --> 00:30:42,100 with the Press depressed people. And that's why I like the 533 00:30:42,100 --> 00:30:44,900 holidays, people get real depressed because the energy and 534 00:30:44,900 --> 00:30:48,200 the collective is very much, I would be happy if I had a 535 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,600 family, I would be happy if I had presence, I would be happy. 536 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:56,700 If I had a PS5, I'd be happy if my husband did for me, what her 537 00:30:56,700 --> 00:30:59,600 husband does for her. Like you're always giving that 538 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,900 power to something outside of yourself and that's why we 539 00:31:02,900 --> 00:31:06,900 wanted to record and really start trying to drop more 540 00:31:06,900 --> 00:31:09,400 content around. And the holidays because I know 541 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,200 people have free time. I know people are off work and 542 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:17,100 we don't want to see you falling into Old cycles and doing things 543 00:31:17,100 --> 00:31:20,200 that are really detrimental to your health and your happiness. 544 00:31:21,300 --> 00:31:25,300 I also want to say to like if you are somebody who listens and 545 00:31:25,300 --> 00:31:28,400 like you genuinely are like the holidays are so fucking 546 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,300 depressing and I don't have anybody. 547 00:31:31,700 --> 00:31:34,800 I'm always here for you to message and just like have a 548 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,800 person and not feel like you're completely by. 549 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,400 Self. I mean like I don't want to hear 550 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,300 like all your life problems, but if you need like if you like 551 00:31:43,300 --> 00:31:46,300 need friends and you need support or whatever, I know that 552 00:31:46,300 --> 00:31:49,900 my DMs are always open for you to just slide into and talk to 553 00:31:49,900 --> 00:31:54,200 and I don't want anybody to feel like they don't have anybody who 554 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,700 is going to get them or understand them or that you want 555 00:31:57,700 --> 00:32:01,300 to change you know your atmosphere for the holidays and 556 00:32:01,300 --> 00:32:04,500 you would be by yourself doing it. 557 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,800 I'm here. And another thing I think that 558 00:32:07,900 --> 00:32:11,400 That once you open that door to community more people just 559 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:15,100 trickle in a lot of us are closed off from like new friends 560 00:32:15,100 --> 00:32:18,200 and new connections because we've been burned in the past. 561 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,700 And that's why we have to make sure that we're working to 562 00:32:20,700 --> 00:32:24,700 rewire our subconscious thoughts about things because you could 563 00:32:24,700 --> 00:32:27,800 have all the opportunity to make new friends and do nothing with 564 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,800 it and do nothing about it. But in order to get good 565 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,600 friends, you have to be a good friend and I know that in the 566 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,800 past I wasn't a good friend so I didn't have good friends. 567 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,400 You know, we just have to look at our own actions and ways that 568 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,700 we've been limiting ourselves and our connections, just 569 00:32:44,700 --> 00:32:46,100 because you've known someone forever. 570 00:32:46,100 --> 00:32:49,300 Doesn't mean they have good intentions for you at all. 571 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,700 Yeah. And being friends with somebody 572 00:32:53,700 --> 00:32:56,400 also does it mean that like, your trauma dumping and that 573 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,800 they have to know everything about that's ever happened in 574 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,700 your life? And you have to be like 575 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,200 Inseparable and they have to know while your deep dark 576 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:04,900 secrets. You can literally just have 577 00:33:04,900 --> 00:33:08,300 acquaintances friends who are people that you've Vibe with 578 00:33:08,300 --> 00:33:11,300 their energy doesn't have to mean that it's like superficial 579 00:33:11,300 --> 00:33:13,400 and fake. But you can Vibe with people at 580 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,500 surface levels and get along in certain ways. 581 00:33:16,500 --> 00:33:20,200 And then never have to have, like, deep vulnerable 582 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,700 relationships with people. And I think that that's where 583 00:33:23,700 --> 00:33:25,700 people go. I don't have friends or they get 584 00:33:25,700 --> 00:33:28,700 caught up in this. Like, I don't have this. 585 00:33:28,900 --> 00:33:31,800 A lot of people who look like they have best friends have 586 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:36,500 people that keep their secrets to use against them later or 587 00:33:36,500 --> 00:33:39,800 that they are. Trauma dumping because trauma, 588 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:44,000 bonds are so common, just in friendships like platonic 589 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,900 friendships to. So when you're going out there 590 00:33:46,900 --> 00:33:49,200 and you're finding friends, you don't have to find some like 591 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,500 forever person. You can just find somebody who 592 00:33:51,500 --> 00:33:54,200 you occasionally like to go get coffee or smoke a blunt with. 593 00:33:54,900 --> 00:33:56,700 Yeah. And I think that we put so much 594 00:33:56,700 --> 00:33:59,900 pressure on people like to show up for us like wow they didn't 595 00:33:59,900 --> 00:34:03,100 text me back but they're posting on the internet and I just feel 596 00:34:03,100 --> 00:34:08,500 like try approaching friendships without conditions and Rules and 597 00:34:08,500 --> 00:34:12,600 expectations and see how people naturally show up in the world, 598 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:16,699 how they naturally move without outside influence and then 599 00:34:16,699 --> 00:34:20,300 decide how you're going to come accordingly to that. 600 00:34:20,500 --> 00:34:24,500 How are you going to match that how you're going to, you know, 601 00:34:24,500 --> 00:34:28,300 be self-aware in that situation? I think a lot of people reject 602 00:34:28,300 --> 00:34:31,900 their insecurities onto platonic relationships but then allow 603 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,500 dumpster fires from romantic relationships. 604 00:34:34,500 --> 00:34:37,000 Like, oh, that's fine that he did all that. 605 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,600 But my friend did Text me back and post it on her story. 606 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:45,000 So I'm done like calm down. Well, and that's people like 607 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:49,000 taking things personally, right? So if you have this like selfish 608 00:34:49,300 --> 00:34:52,000 mindset, where you're only thinking about yourself and 609 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,300 things, and what you're expecting from other people 610 00:34:54,300 --> 00:34:57,500 instead of how you're giving up, or how you're giving for other 611 00:34:57,500 --> 00:35:00,300 people, then you're just going to be sitting there being like 612 00:35:00,300 --> 00:35:02,700 she didn't text me back because she probably doesn't like me. 613 00:35:02,900 --> 00:35:06,500 But if you were coming from a mindset where you didn't have, 614 00:35:06,500 --> 00:35:09,300 you weren't taking things personally, then it would be. 615 00:35:09,300 --> 00:35:12,900 She's probably busy Paige. I know 100% of the time when she 616 00:35:12,900 --> 00:35:15,500 does Don't text me back for longer than 30 minutes, she's 617 00:35:15,500 --> 00:35:18,700 asleep. Like, I can't take that 618 00:35:18,700 --> 00:35:20,500 personally. You like I really miss her and I 619 00:35:20,500 --> 00:35:22,100 want to talk to her and she doesn't want to be my friend 620 00:35:22,100 --> 00:35:23,900 anymore. No, that bitch is napping. 621 00:35:24,500 --> 00:35:27,600 A lot of people, just take everything personal and I try to 622 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:31,300 really remove myself in my emotions from other people's 623 00:35:31,300 --> 00:35:34,500 actions, especially when people say they're going to do 624 00:35:34,500 --> 00:35:37,300 something and then they drop the ball completely and pretend like 625 00:35:37,300 --> 00:35:41,100 they've never said that in their life, instead of taking it 626 00:35:41,100 --> 00:35:43,100 personal and getting worked up and getting mine. 627 00:35:43,300 --> 00:35:45,500 Shins involved. I'm just like, wow. 628 00:35:46,500 --> 00:35:49,400 Wow, you know, I just like, I'm just like, okay, like that's 629 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,700 you, that's who you are. And I have to imagine that. 630 00:35:52,700 --> 00:35:55,400 If you can't even show up and do what you say, you're going to 631 00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:59,300 do, look at all the things internally that they're probably 632 00:35:59,300 --> 00:36:03,600 avoiding and not doing just because they feel like no one 633 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,900 knows about it or something. I think who you are behind 634 00:36:06,900 --> 00:36:09,100 closed doors when no one's looking, what you're going to do 635 00:36:09,100 --> 00:36:13,100 with the right or wrong thing is what is the energy? 636 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,300 He that you put out, it is the ripple effect. 637 00:36:15,300 --> 00:36:17,800 If you have pure intentions, you won't lose. 638 00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,800 But if the little party you, every time, someone announces 639 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:25,300 they're engaged or pregnant or promoted a little part of you 640 00:36:25,300 --> 00:36:27,900 gets upset on the inside, then you need to check yourself. 641 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,500 You need to check yourself and why you can't clap for other 642 00:36:30,500 --> 00:36:35,000 people at their times of glory. And wait, your turn. 643 00:36:36,300 --> 00:36:40,400 That's real weird energy to me. I just, I can't imagine seeing 644 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,900 somebody doing something successfully and being like 645 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:48,900 well, fuck them. I mean, I think a lot of people 646 00:36:48,900 --> 00:36:52,700 now want to know how I started a podcast and they want to know, 647 00:36:52,700 --> 00:36:55,800 all these details and all this stuff and I'm just, like, have 648 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,400 any of you even researched how to start a podcast? 649 00:36:58,400 --> 00:36:59,900 Because we started looking into it. 650 00:36:59,900 --> 00:37:03,900 You would realize why there's millions of podcast because it's 651 00:37:03,900 --> 00:37:06,900 not rocket science, but you don't want to take the time to 652 00:37:06,900 --> 00:37:09,900 put in the work and I have plenty of people like I'd love 653 00:37:09,900 --> 00:37:15,500 to do an interview with you. Okay, I'm sure you would like, I 654 00:37:15,500 --> 00:37:18,700 don't know, I just think so many people want people to lead them 655 00:37:18,700 --> 00:37:23,400 to the successes that they dream of, but what they do behind 656 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:28,600 closed doors is Netflix and drink and ignore their problems. 657 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,900 And, you know, Scroll online or whatever. 658 00:37:31,900 --> 00:37:36,300 And I just think that right now, especially during the holidays, 659 00:37:36,300 --> 00:37:38,500 if you know, things are going to start triggering you. 660 00:37:38,700 --> 00:37:41,800 It's time to remove yourself from those platforms and Use 661 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:45,500 them for a more educational and transformational project like 662 00:37:45,500 --> 00:37:49,700 progress instead of letting them keep you in those same cycles of 663 00:37:49,700 --> 00:37:53,100 lack because I'm going to tell you every time I follow car TV, 664 00:37:53,100 --> 00:37:56,600 I feel like every time when I see she spent half a million 665 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,400 dollars on her kids, fourth birthday party. 666 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,500 I feel in like every single time but in like jealous. 667 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,200 No, I just think like, wow, this four-year-old would have been 668 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:07,000 happy with the Chuck E Cheese party, but instead it's turned 669 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:11,100 into a production. And that I feel like that ends 670 00:38:11,100 --> 00:38:13,600 up being more for the parent than it is for the kid because 671 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,500 your kid doesn't give a fuck that you did. 672 00:38:15,500 --> 00:38:18,000 That plenty of kids are happy going to Chuck E cheese. 673 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:23,600 I just think we always are looking at these like people in 674 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:29,600 the spotlight and we're like wow like and we feel so different or 675 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,400 in lack but it's like what did that person do to get there? 676 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,200 All the work behind the scenes, you know, an overnight success 677 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,300 story. Put in work for 10 years or 678 00:38:38,300 --> 00:38:42,000 more. And I just really don't care 679 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,600 what cardi B does. I'm still going to support the 680 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,600 areas of her life that I like but I'm not going to follow her 681 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:52,200 on Instagram because I feel extremely triggered by her and 682 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:56,900 her lack of concept of money and how it actually works. 683 00:38:57,100 --> 00:38:59,400 No, she doesn't drive. But she owns like 12 cars. 684 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,300 How's that even make sense? Why would you need to have cars 685 00:39:02,300 --> 00:39:05,100 if you don't even drive? So, I don't know, I just think, 686 00:39:05,100 --> 00:39:08,100 you know, being human being spiritually aware and healing 687 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,400 doesn't mean that. You're exempt from those very 688 00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:14,700 normal human lower emotions but since I know that I'm not going 689 00:39:14,700 --> 00:39:16,800 to go looking for it, not going to follow it. 690 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:20,300 I'm not gonna share it to my story you know I even unfollowed 691 00:39:20,300 --> 00:39:22,800 Machine Gun Kelly because half the shit he does now gets on my 692 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,900 nerves and I'm still a fan, I still listen to his music but I 693 00:39:25,900 --> 00:39:30,100 could care less about him and Megan Fox having sex on any 694 00:39:30,100 --> 00:39:34,100 table of any nature. I don't care about cutting holes 695 00:39:34,100 --> 00:39:37,300 in the leotard to have sex. Like I don't care and I know 696 00:39:37,300 --> 00:39:39,800 maybe other people do. And that's cool. 697 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,300 I'm not going to shame people for what they're interested in, 698 00:39:42,300 --> 00:39:46,000 but I just don't care. And I just know that instead of 699 00:39:46,008 --> 00:39:49,800 being triggered by stupid things on the internet, I just don't 700 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,800 follow those things. I follow things that are of 701 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,400 motivational nature and enlightening, nature things that 702 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,800 I can learn from people that teach me stuff. 703 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:02,500 Like, I do not care about people who are in their ego flaunting 704 00:40:02,500 --> 00:40:05,500 material items because it's a low as vibration. 705 00:40:07,700 --> 00:40:09,700 Okay, well tell me how you really feel. 706 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,800 Listen, I love when when you go off on like your rants of your 707 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,500 boundaries and your liking this is why we're not going to do and 708 00:40:16,500 --> 00:40:18,400 how I'm not going to do. It seemed to always just 709 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,900 thinking back when we are like first two episodes. 710 00:40:21,900 --> 00:40:25,400 I literally was so nervous to speak because I was like she's 711 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,200 always so happy and like positive and like I'm going to 712 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:32,300 say something and she's gonna be like who is this like - bitch 713 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:36,100 and or whatever you know like going off and then now when I 714 00:40:36,100 --> 00:40:39,500 hear you going on On rancer things I'm like you tell people 715 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:44,000 yes. I think that we should keep this 716 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,900 episode kind of short since we're going to drop a bunch back 717 00:40:46,900 --> 00:40:52,300 to back, but I do want people that are listening to messages 718 00:40:52,300 --> 00:40:58,000 to email us, topics ideas. I think one day we made you like 719 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,400 a blooper funny episode where we just read really crazy messages 720 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:06,600 and DM's from people, whether it's the scammers or people 721 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:10,200 trauma I'm being or whatever. So, that should be fun. 722 00:41:11,900 --> 00:41:16,100 I haven't really went too deep into a lot of my personal 723 00:41:16,100 --> 00:41:19,800 beliefs, but I do think that maybe we'll get there like and 724 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,900 get kind of more into, like, what we actually believe about 725 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,900 heaven or hell or Incarnation or reincarnation. 726 00:41:26,900 --> 00:41:30,600 Yes, that kind of stuff. So we do have some more serious 727 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:34,200 conversations coming through. But, you know, this is an open 728 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,900 community space here free to believe whatever you believe we. 729 00:41:37,100 --> 00:41:40,000 We can still be friends. We can still, you know, all 730 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:41,800 Vibe. We don't have to believe the 731 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,000 same thing, and I think that's what the beautiful part of 732 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:48,100 spirituality is as everyone does it differently? 733 00:41:49,100 --> 00:41:51,900 Yeah. And I think that, that's really 734 00:41:51,900 --> 00:41:56,000 what we wanted to be able to have as our foundation with the 735 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,000 podcast. And so we've wanted to get into 736 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,500 like more serious things, but we really want to set. 737 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:06,300 I feel like the foundation for like, what energy we have going 738 00:42:06,300 --> 00:42:09,000 into things. Our friendship works, the kind 739 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:13,400 of energy that we want to keep moving forward even when we're 740 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,200 talking about these other topics. 741 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,400 And I think a lot of times when people start telling their 742 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,900 opinions on things, all of a sudden, their whole personality 743 00:42:22,100 --> 00:42:25,700 is judged off of one thing that they've said instead of seeing 744 00:42:25,700 --> 00:42:30,000 them as a complete, you know, human being with all of these 745 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:34,300 different facets, we may have difference of opinions on one 746 00:42:34,300 --> 00:42:38,600 thing and then you see that we have the same opinions on all of 747 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,300 these other things and that regardless of our different 748 00:42:41,300 --> 00:42:44,700 communication ways or our different opinions, we still 749 00:42:44,700 --> 00:42:47,900 have the same like core foundations in our friendship 750 00:42:47,900 --> 00:42:51,000 and US establishing that. And then establishing that with 751 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,800 you guys, I think has been important. 752 00:42:53,100 --> 00:42:56,400 Yes. And I think that we've all 753 00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:01,800 really been open to new information coming into changing 754 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,500 our mind to elevating together. And you know what you believe 755 00:43:05,500 --> 00:43:08,500 the year ago may not believe Be what you believe next year and 756 00:43:08,500 --> 00:43:11,700 that's okay. Like you're not set in stone and 757 00:43:11,700 --> 00:43:14,300 you don't have to be the same person that you've always been. 758 00:43:14,500 --> 00:43:18,900 So today we will leave you with. Go be whoever you want to be and 759 00:43:18,900 --> 00:43:22,100 worry about the details later because when you're passionate 760 00:43:22,100 --> 00:43:25,100 and you're engaged, and you're excited about something the 761 00:43:25,100 --> 00:43:27,900 energy speaks for itself. That's why when people book are 762 00:43:27,900 --> 00:43:31,100 reading, they never once in their mind, think about how much 763 00:43:31,100 --> 00:43:33,300 they've spent on that reading because once they get that 764 00:43:33,300 --> 00:43:36,000 energy and they have that experience, it lingers into 765 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:41,000 every area of Of their life. And I know we've made a lot of 766 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,600 progress as a collective sense covid. 767 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:47,600 And now it's time to keep our foot on the gas and not not 768 00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,500 deter when things get difficult or when things slow down but to 769 00:43:51,500 --> 00:43:53,800 keep going. Yes. 770 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:57,500 Well on that, I will leave you guys and we'll see you next 771 00:43:57,508 --> 00:44:00,000 time. All right, love you all. 772 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:00,400 Bye, bye.