Welcome to fucking Dandy land hosted by Rampage and Gemini.
What's up everybody? Welcome back to Candyland.
Yes, we are in the month of February, February 1st.
Well, we have to start off immediately.
Because right before we record, you literally send me the link.
I hop on your like I have so much to tell you, let's do this.
So let's go. Okay, so the other night, I went
to a concert with my dad and I have been holding this story
hostage because I really wanted your reaction.
I'm the I guess. But so I was at this concert
with my dad and this band is called Lucero and they've been
around for, like, 25 years. It's kind of like a, like a
drinking beer, kind of like country.
Rock Vibe. And so it into Quentin my best
friend and tattoo artist ran into him.
There, he's there with some friends.
My Dad's friend is like a groupie for this band.
So basically, like his friend was like, when 2nd was going to
Georgia went to Nashville Solomon.
Louisville was going to go see him in Florida.
So it's kind of like you know this little small venue and
everyone there is pretty hammered and obviously I'm not
drinking because I don't really drink but my dad is having a
good time and this lady just like started verbally attacking
my dad. Like my Dad tried to like get
around her. After going to get a drink and
coming back, and she like looked at my dad and was like, my
boyfriend is coming back. My dad was like, okay cool.
My daughter was Jesus next. Yeah, like she's a he was like
my daughter and my friends are right there.
I just need to get right there. So excuse me.
And she was like, you can back up and was just like, saying all
this stuff and my dad was like, I'm literally just trying to get
around you lady. Like I have nothing but good
like Vibes for you like do you? I don't care about your
boyfriend. Like, I don't care about you,
like he was not even like hitting on her because like,
when all this happened, I turned around and like kind of sauce.
Of it. So this lady literally like,
kept being like so weird that every time we would turn around
and look behind us, she would be like flipping us off and stuff
and with her sanity, honey, you know that kind of gives me
anxiety because like she's behind me.
So I kept kind of looking back at her.
She kept giving me dirty as look, she wasn't like saying
shit to me, but then when my dad would like go get a drink this
one time, she bent down and booty bumps.
My dad and his like groin area twice hard, Bit down to like
swing her hips and booty bump him.
So then the third time that he goes back to get the drink.
Her boyfriend is standing there with her at this point and he's
like do you know that guy like what you're doing bitch?
Like What's your deal? Because I do you know that man
like and she's like just doing all this stuff like the hand
motions of like sucking dick like like the tongue on the side
of the jaw. I'm not going to do it.
But you know, every time we turn around and my dad look, At me
dead in the eyes and goes, do I have a sign on my forehead?
That attracts crazy bitches and I kept asking him like, do you
know that girl because it was like, she knew him or was like
mad at him, like, the way she was acting was like, so bizarre,
because, like my dad doesn't use social media.
Like, he doesn't get on dating apps.
Like, I don't know how he would know this woman and he was like,
I'm literally so confused, but every time we would turn around,
she would be flicking him off. Yelling.
Fuck you. You're You're an asshole and my
dad would just look at all of us like this confused look.
And we would all just laugh but she just kept doing it.
That's fucking. I wonder if he was mistaken for
somebody else. This one time when I lived in
Montana, I went with my dad's girlfriend of the moment and we
went out to this bar and this girl legit was like, kept on
looking over, like she wanted to fight me and stuff.
And my dad's girlfriend walked over there and was like, what's
your problem? And she's like, she slept with
my husband and my dad's girlfriend was like, no, she
just got in town. Like Like and so the whole night
girl had beef because she thought I fucked her husband
because I look like some broad. I wonder if like that girl.
Yes, thanks that your dad looks like somebody.
Yeah, that's what you're so, calm page, I did knocked a bitch
out for being like honestly. I think my dad was like trying
to make sure that I was like safe like he, you know what I
mean, they can share like she, yeah, we nothing or whatever.
But like, I don't know, like, it's funny because when I go
places with my dad, people really stare at us.
Hard fucking core. And my dad's one of those like
happy drunks, he's like, put his arms around people, he's like a
hugger and so like or Out Swinging his arm around me like
Pat me on my shoulder and just like just being silly and
whatever. And like, so people look at us
like and one day my dad was like, I'm going to get a shirt
that says, this is my daughter is like because he will be
looking at me. Like I'm the old part, that's
what he always says. He's my people are looking at
me, like, we're like a couple or like together because like my
dad. Doesn't look really old, you
know what I mean? But it also kind of just looks
like I don't know. Like people are just paying
attention to us and my dad's a real like social butterfly kind
of like me. It's Holly where I get it from
but this lady was like harassing him and like it was the weirdest
thing. This is why I don't go out in
public, like, it was so weird and like honestly, I was just so
confused and then my Dad's friend, like his son was there
with his girlfriend, why I ended up knowing a bunch of people
Mutual with these people. Like they went to the same high
school that I went to but graduated like eight years after
me, so, you know, whatever. But it was really crazy because
they were just laughing like we were all just cracking up.
It was just like, what is going on?
You're influencing the younger generation to what you said,
that they graduated eight years after you and over there.
I wasn't there with them. They were just like, that's my
dad's friends. I was just kidding.
That could be in Lonesome to go live their best life.
So right before we got on here, somebody that is on both of our
patreons was like I love that you and Paige tag team me every
month and with our readings because she was talking about
how they're always just like like they're aligned.
Like, they both just we say different things and fill in
different parts of the same message.
And so, she's like, I love getting tag-teamed by you guys
every month. And I was like, we love
tag-teaming you and I put An Eiffel Tower and then I sent her
the three-way song by Lonely Island and Justin Timberlake and
Lady Gaga. It's so good.
Well well but now that's in my she's like sending laugh
reactions. I'm really glad that we were
able to do what we're doing with some of the same people because
I feel like that's really just like grounding our message
together even further like how we're so connected and like the
similar types of people that are Attracted to both of us.
Like, are they? Like both of us together?
You know what I mean? And it's crazy.
How many people are still like, hey, can we do an interview on
your podcast? And we literally said it like,
every episode that we're not doing any interviews until the
third season and that will be down the road and that will
probably still only be like VI Peach, and that's it.
I was just gonna say, probably just going to be, you know what
though? I would one day.
They like drop their podcast and everything.
I'd love to do something next season with Justin Peach and
talking about what they're doing, because they're like,
pretty influential with what they're going to be doing 20.
For sure. I'm really excited about that.
I don't really want to do a photoshoot with Peach.
Dude her she always just looks fire.
Like everything is always like like a professional and she's so
cute. I am, she did this post and she
was like if anybody is like wanting ideas whatever like I'll
do a like basically you pay her and she'll like if you business
advice and you'll talk or whatever.
So I reached out to her and I'm like I'm always looking for
tips. Like I I'm always about like
figuring out what somebody else is doing and she's like oh let's
just pick a time. And I'll just talk to you on
FaceTime and we'll talk some ideas.
She's just so sweet. Well I want to be on that call
three-way three-way threesome there any sign of attack teams
of each. I don't know.
Like I'm really glad I passed Title 18 by Beach.
I'm really glad that were able to connect with like just really
Empower powerful and empowering people.
In every way, shape or form. Like, I love it, like,
especially, because a lot of the people that I feel like I'm
connecting with on a deep level now is like, so deep, like I'll
reach out to one of my friends who's an artist and I was like,
would you want to trade some artwork for like, you know,
reading or like some merch or something?
And she was like, yeah, I'd love a reading.
I was like, okay, cool. I was expecting her to take a
couple weeks, literally, like two days later.
She sends you the finished painting of what I wanted, which
is Like an Alice in Wonderland theme with, like the cat and
like the clock and wow, Borden stuff, it's like done.
And it's so far and I'm like, okay, well, you need to be
patient with me. Like, give me a little bit of
time. I was not expecting her to just
be like wham bam. Thank you ma'am.
She was like I was so inspired to do it.
I'm just like yes. So it's really that is so joke.
It looks so cool. Do you already have it?
No, no. It was just literally like four
days ago. I've suggested this.
And then two days ago, she sent me the finished painting and
it's like an 8 by 10 because that's what size I wanted and
it's amazing. It's can't wait to see it.
It's so cute. Honestly, she sent me just like
a video and a screenshot it, but it's so cute in like, It's just
cool like how like aligned people are in like how we all
just have this connection in different ways.
I was thinking earlier how we have this connection with like
different women and like strong personalities and like hardcore
like in their business and stuff and we have never had a like an
issue with somebody. Like there's never been any kind
of like weird drama thing inside that Circle.
Do people that like we both Vibe with are now like getting in
contact and like, you know, Jessica and peach or now
starting a podcast together. And it's because of you that
like, I met Peach. And that's how she met Jess.
And like, I just, I just think that it's so dope.
That that, yeah, we have all of these people that, like, are
here for both of us and like the energy, but they're strong
personalities. And like, we, I feel like we all
learn things from each other along the way.
My cat is true. Show his strong personality
right now. He's like trying to swat at me
and like I can barely see you. It's like it looks like you're
in the comfiest darkest cave and I wish.
I really like, I told you I was ready to record but like on
chill mode. It's been icing here, snow and
ice. Well then I'm turning my lights
down so that I can match your Vibe.
I just don't even have really any lights on.
It's just a movie in here but I just can't I just can't right
now. Like honestly one of Of my
readings canceled tonight. And it was because she said she
had like, a weird reaction to something.
She sent me a picture of her face is like swollen poor thing,
and she was like, I'll pay a fee.
I was like, don't worry about that.
Don't worry about none of that. Like you were good with a poor
girl like was hurting. Like she was like her.
I was like swollen shut. So, yes.
I know. So, that's really why I'm in
like this chill mode because I had other things To do that.
We're going to keep me busy but now that I can kind of chill and
relax a little bit. I'm like, Well, and I was like,
dang I'm gonna have to stay up late if we're going to be
recording late. So us getting to record earlier
is bomb as fuck, for me. I, I interviewed Shannon today
for coven rejects. I love her.
She's so cute. Oh, he's so fucking cute.
She is. So, like, when I, and I've told
you like, I have to write down notes when I'm interviewing,
because I'll get sidetracked or whatever, all hyper fixate on
one thing. And so after we were done, she
sent me a message and she's like, would you mind telling me
What you were writing down while we were talking.
I was like, I should, I should probably.
Yeah, she did. She was, she likes that hearts
and whatever but I was like, I should probably tell people that
like oh, by the way, I'm really nervous doing these interviews
and I have to write down thoughts, or I get sidetracked.
I'm really excited about how the podcast for you like is able to
network with our podcasts because that's cool, I like
that. And that that like that Shannon
girl. And I literally found her from
Other person. I just feel like if I Vibe with
you, I just need sound and people that I Vibe with and then
follow them and then they become like my sister, my brother.
Like I know, I feel related to them now.
Like, no, I'm like, okay, well, I'll see you on Christmas
honestly. I really want Sean and gold to
come visit because she was talking about it, but she's
like, super busy. But when it warms up, I'm
literally going to push the envelope for her to come visit
to because she's like, I've never been to Kentucky.
That's so funny that you say that because when I was on live
earlier, someone was talking about being neurodivergent and I
was like oh we actually talked about that on like it like a
lollipop. We had Sean angle on and then I
pulled out her mushroom magic book and I was like she wrote
this like super cute book and so a couple people said that they
went to Amazon and bought it all of that you know.
She's so like 10,000 of those like in the first couple months
she's really about so dope sheet Forbes wrote about her like
she's pretty late. Honestly that girl like is going
places and then this isn't like Arena.
I feel like her potential is just so Limitless the way that
she does her stuff because she is neurodivergent.
I guess. It's so like unique.
We talked about that before. So yeah, I'm like I get obsessed
with people in their journey and I have emotional connection to
it and it's cool that people feel like that towards us as
well. And it's also cool how like were
doing readings for people and then they join our communities.
And then they Bob with both of us.
So then they join both of our communities and then they
they're like oh, by being the sleazy, then they joined his
community. It's like Christmas.
I get messages from and this is just so funny to me.
But every time that I ever dropped a podcast episode with
him, anytime that like anything, I'm getting messages from girls
being like, Oh my God, he sounds so sexy.
Oh my God, he's so hot and I'm like okay so go and his Yeah,
he's single as a pringle. It's crazy, it's crazy, it's
crazy. How his girlfriend that he had
was like jealous of the Wolfpack text.
Y'all, we have a group chat. It's just us three, and we
talked, and send goofy stuff back and forth.
Sometimes and sleazy, was dating this girl who is not with it.
She was always hating on the Wolfpack.
That's why I, he had a cycle her out hating on the Wolfpack for
no reason, Into like, I don't know.
I just I just think it's so weird when people are like
you're not allowed to be friends, like it's not weird.
It's a group text to. So like I don't know what you
think is I mean menage a trois but like no thank you this think
so many people are insecure. And honestly I like people who
don't try to control other people and try to like dictate
their happiness in life like so anytime I see people in
relationships Unfortunately, I hate that when they're in
relationships, like that, that's just like constant drama for no
reason. Like, if you are upfront about
your feelings and emotions, I feel like that's where a
relationship has like security. And there isn't a bunch of like,
needing to argue about a bunch of stuff that doesn't matter.
Like, I don't know. I saw it takes off the other day
and it said me when my girlfriend would say.
I bet you probably deleted it and he said, Yeah, I did the
hitch, be quicker next time and I want people have that like
mentality type deal and like I laughed about it because at the
end of the day, like people are going to do what they want to
do, regardless of what you want them to do.
And the more that you try to control them, manipulate them,
tell them what to do, the more they're going to resent you and
then the more they're going to feel rebellious to do exactly
what you didn't want them to do. And it just makes it worse.
And that's where you need to stand on your boundaries.
I'm also just one of those people who, like, I don't go
Husband's phone, he doesn't go through my phone, like not
because like, hey, I'm hiding something but just like, that's
your space where like I have conversations with like my
friends about shit that I don't necessarily want somebody
reading and like I would assume that there's vice-versa about
his life and you know like I just for me if I have to look
through your phone because I don't trust you, I'm not going
to be with you because I could be going and doing something
else. And if you don't trust me then
you should be going and doing Doing something else too,
because neither one of us is done anything to Warrant that
literally, I feel like so many people don't trust their partner
though. And that's what I was talking to
someone else about recently about, like, I hate how people
compete within their relationships and I know we but
like the intimate ones because I've dated people who like
wanted to compete with me or wanted it to be like a
competition. And I just don't see why anyone
would do that. Like what's good for you is good
for me. Like if you're winning and I'm
Austin, and then vice versa down the road, then like I'm with it.
You know what I mean? It's balance.
Like I would love the opportunity to like be with
someone who sees that. Like, it isn't a race against
your partner, or your friends or like whatever.
And I know that, we talked about that a lot, so clearly like
super important because like being authentic and just being
yourself is so key to actually being around the right people
because most of the time you're settling in your relationships
because you're watering yourself down and if you actually stepped
in To who you really were. Maybe you and that person really
wouldn't get along or maybe they actually wouldn't really like
you. But when you Dim yourself down
and you act like mousy or like, you know, you bite your tongue
or hide from what you really want whether it's like in the
bedroom or in your real life like at any time.
Like some people keep like even personal stuff super private
from their partner and it's like, how is that supposed to be
your partner? Like if you can't talk about
vulnerable things with them, Yeah, I think that like from a
married perspective, I think that there are times that come
up that like jealousy gets in your relationship or like you
have like an insecure moment because you're projecting or
something. But there's a difference between
being able to have a healthy relationship Dynamic, where then
you communicate about those things and you're like, yo, like
I'm not happy here because of this and like we need to work on
that and being able to have those conversations instead of
being a nun. Healthy Dynamic and going well
you're not allowed to go do that and let me see exactly what
you're doing to prove my point and belittling somebody and then
taking away like their freedom and something.
So I think that that's important to say to because there is a lot
of people have like, a trait of just like walking away.
And there are certain times that things are healthy.
That you can like talk your way through that.
And also like being vulnerable and talking through it before,
it becomes like a major issue is soaking, most things could be
solved. Rather like rather quickly, but
people like bottle up and they let it like kind of boil under
the surface, where it feels like, there's definitely some
type of energy lingering at all times, like your relationship is
always going to feel unsafe or uncertain or you'll have more
insecurities, if you're not grounded in life.
Your own voice and like what you want and what your boundaries
are and like, you know, you can approach boundaries for my nice
and compassionate way. If you know, your partner is
going to take it as an attack. But at some given point, your
partner may not be on the same chapter as you and either y'all
need to get each other up to speed or like, you need to be
firm and what you're about to do.
And I think I see so many people that just water them self down
for so long, that you lose yourself.
If you lose yourself in the connection, you lose yourself in
the friendship. In the bond, whatever it is.
And then whenever it's gone, you feel empty?
You're grieving at you feel like without something but really the
whole time it's probably for your best.
Yep. Yes, to all of that.
But who wants to let go of the comfort zone?
Like not a lot of people. I don't know.
I just I feel like for me I had to get to a spot where I knew
that I'm comfortable always walking away regardless of why,
and like for me, it took being in an abusive relationship to be
that person because I used to be very like people, please e, and
I just want, I don't want to step on your toes.
I just want you to be happy. Like, I'll be whatever.
And it took having an abusive relationship for me to be.
Like I will always be willing to walk away if it Doesn't deserve
me anymore. If I if if like I'm if it's
continuing to be a problem, I will be okay walking away.
And so for me, that's helped me be able to be in an odd way.
Helped me to be able to be, like, trusting in my
relationship to because I feel like that's okay.
I'll I don't mind walking if you would treat me like that.
And so I don't feel the need to like, control everything and
that has led to their been fucking crazy fucking things.
That like my husband has done. And if you're honest with me, I
don't like, I don't care. I'm not you know, don't cheat on
me, fucking go Buckwild be Farrell in these streets.
I mean at this thing honesty and communication is key and like
not looking at other people's relationships to judge what your
relationship should be. Like is probably more important
too. Because like if it works for you
in your person or like whatever, then like it works for you all,
you know what I mean? And I think that's what's
important as well in relationships is really
learning. What is the fundamentals of your
connection? Not what?
Other people want your connection to be, and I'll see a
lot of people that, like, have relationships under the surface,
like keep it real hush-hush and sometimes I wonder like, what
does that actually stand from? Like are they just a private
person or is there some type of discomfort or like discontent
image? Something like some kind of
image that you're not keeping up or like whatever.
Like some people keep their Partners like a fucking secret.
Like, you know what I mean? And I'm like I don't want to say
all those people are cheaters because Maybe they're not.
But like I just wonder what that stems from.
I don't know. Sometimes I wonder like because
I don't post like my family on my social media really.
Like if we go out on like a date night or something, I'll post a
picture of me and Brian. But for the most part like I
don't have pictures of us up on social media and things and a
part of that is just like my family is really private.
Like my husband doesn't want to be on social media, he doesn't
do that and I don't want my kids online because people are
fucking perverts. So Sometimes I do wonder what
like, you know, doing content and like being like, where
people are watching you sometimes I do.
Wonder, how much do I have to share to?
Like, let people be in and how much do I am?
I supposed to keep to the side? No.
Yeah, and I'm just genuinely curious, like, I'm not judging
either way because, like, I want to like feel like a lot of my
life is pretty profit as well. And like, normally, whenever I
am in a relationship, it's extremely private.
And so we In like exclusive for like, at least a six months to a
year, you know, I mean, like, I don't just get into a
relationship or start talking to someone and then be like,
blasting them all over my socials, but I eventually like
would post them if it came to that point, you know what I
mean? But like, I just think
sometimes, like, when people are too vocal on social media,
they're like absent in their relationship to, you know, like,
I don't know. I have my thoughts and opinions
on different things, but I just am genuinely curious.
What motivates people to keep like there?
R Prophet like are there dating life?
So private but like you know some people don't fuck with
social media like they don't want their whole life out there
and like I respect that I just love to like kind of I don't
know, I guess like people's brains, you know what I mean?
And kind of like see what other people think about just
different concepts with dating because dating is such a fucking
like, interesting concept. I think that it's really cool
that you and I have Different Dynamics with things.
Like we honestly live such different lives.
Like you don't have kids or like a husband or anything like that.
You can go do what you're wanting to do.
Like it's just so different and so I do think that that's why we
have this like duality of audience and things too because
we speak to both of those experiences.
And the way that like, you talk about dating sometimes and like
like what you want I'm like I hope that you get that, but also
I know how fucking frustrating it is to see the same person
every day, like, no matter how much you love them.
And, like, working through all of the, there's so many
different things that have come up being married and like being
around other people that are married, that I wouldn't have
imagined coming up before I was married.
Well, I think, like you said though, it's just such a
parallel existence to be like with a person every single day,
like, you know, you're about to be with that.
And every single day for me it's like I don't know if people are
coming or going, I don't know, I don't know day-to-day like how
people are going to act because you've already watched it in the
last six months. How people like ride this roller
coaster and they get on this adrenaline how and they first
meet me and then that plummets out like later and then they're
like, whoa, I'm ground zero right now.
Like I need to go do me and it's not like I don't even think that
people mean for it to be anything personal because I
don't take it personal. I think it's like I Don't want
to embarrass myself or I don't want to like promise something I
can't do. I don't want to like create some
kind of like Grudge because I think some people in their mind
or like I'm going to go you know do me and then maybe in the
future I could like hit her up and she wouldn't be mad or like
we'd be cool. You know what I mean?
I think some people like their reasoning is like I'm not at the
level that she's at. So I don't want to embarrass
myself. I'm just going to exit stage and
like I don't take it personal but like the dating World
itself, people are so possessive and like controlling like If we
are not in an exclusive relationship, the expectation of
thinking that you're just not going to talk to anyone.
Elses so weird to me, I could see like if you're in an
intimate relationship and you're having sex with someone and then
maybe asking them like hey like what's up are you know what I
mean? Because that's like safety and
sanitary issues. Like if you're fucking someone
else I would at least just like want to know so that I can make
my decision on that. Not like you telling me Oh
you're the only person but I don't know that.
If I like being celibate and dating has been so easy because
like taking the intimacy portion out of it, it's like, do I like
you like, can I sit with you and watch TV and not say a fucking
word can page. If you would slept with anybody
that we just had the fuckery over the last, what happened?
How long he's better than the last?
Yeah, if you had slept with any of these people, I would have
flown to Kentucky to shake you because I would have been like
what is going on because homie, who like could you imagine You
know, if you had slept with homie who had his either, he
messaged you or his mom a message or whatever happened
there the post, or like any of these people, I could I could
list but we've already dog them. We don't need to give them any
more back there. But what I'm saying is like, I
think the dating world needs a fucking reality.
Check it needs like some soap, its mouth, we need a scrub, we
need a scrub around here. Like, it's not healthy the way
people act as so unhinged. And that's why Why?
I'm just like, so over the people who like lead One Life
online or lead one life and then like that's not really them.
I also have to correct myself because I was out here rooting
for you to be a hoe in these streets.
I did not say, hey, I don't think that's the person for you.
I was just like, oh, if you want to go do that, you totally
should. So, let's just let me just be
honest with that and good behavior.
I Listen, I'm your friend and I support you getting some but
also I think that none of these people are like worth anything.
But like if you want some in your trying to get some have a
nice time. Yeah.
So like I said, taking taking that factory, y'all don't stand
a chance unless you actually have a personality because I am
not attracted to people that I cannot actually connect with
like I don't care. It just doesn't work for me
anymore. It's just like I can't do
surface level. Like I don't know.
I'd rather you be like a hot mess Express and like be
vulnerable about like whatever whoever you really are then like
hide that and try to act like some fucking watered-down
version of yourself and be like, I'm normal, even though you go
home and you hate yourself like, you know what I mean?
Like just air out the dirty laundry are out the skeletons.
Like that's what I like. I like when people are real with
themselves and they can be like, yes.
Yes, I'm working on this or yes, I need to work on this or you
know what I mean, are just be accountable for where they're
holding their self back because like that's some energy that I
can grow with that's energy that you grow with that.
You can learn with that, you can actually build a bond with.
I'm like not real big on like jumping into anything.
I feel like it's going to have to be like a longevity of like
actually going through some different seasons together
without actually dating like exclusively.
Just kind of like hanging out. Not rushing people, not rushing
myself because y'all be showing us your colors around 3 months
at my at Max, Phi 3 months, you already done it.
So, but three months in, you're embarrassing yourself.
And we're talking about you, honestly, I don't mind because
it really is kept things, you see.
Juicy juicy. It's a good candy store.
Today aka the Dollar Tree and they had big lollipops.
I got three of them. The big Rhino I was looking for,
I was like, oh we could have come here and I could have
gotten the lollipops for the photo shoot.
I didn't realize that they had those there, but I bought a
bunch of candy. I bought like nerds and Snickers
and Junior Mints and the shape of Hearts.
I found out that you can get big boxes of, well, not big but you
can get boxes of fruit snacks there and thing.
They're always so fucking expensive when you go and get
them other places. So I was like, oh, this is a
steal, you know, it's crazy. We were just talking about Five
Below and then they made a whole, I know they've been going
live, every single night, and I've been like, oh, this must be
a part of their life. They're like new.
Because they're always like, switching up what they're doing.
It's their content and getting views and things.
And so Mimi, and Haley each. Go live on their pages and Bunny
Goes live on her page and they're all live in each other's
videos. And I've been noticing, they've
been doing that every night since they've been in Vegas.
Not that I'm like, stalking. But I, you know, I absolutely
love it because the Vegas house is fucking gorgeous, like that
bathtub is just everything that they've missed serving
everything. Like, I'm happy to know someone
who could just upgrade there. Bathroom like that because
that's totally me in five years. I'm gonna have a bathroom like
that. Like so yeah I'm really excited
for bunny because getting this TV show and being able to film
it in Vegas is going to be so vital for her because it's just
like giving her so much Publicity just things that she
deserves and she's doing it. Herself first.
She's like, We're going to she's doing it herself.
Her production company is putting it on.
She's gonna have it on patreon and then they'll bid to sell it
to a network after they've already been doing it.
So she's already like building up her audience even further
herself because I see people in her comments all the time, how
do I get to watch the show and whatever and she tells him to
join patreon and they say they will.
So she's getting all these new People.
And I've noticed that there's so much less that's jelly rolls,
husband and their wife, and there's more, that's funny,
that's funny. And y'all better take note of
it, she's actually about to hit a million followers on
Instagram. I mean, she's already hit like 5
million on Tick Tock, but she's not said a million on Instagram
and I'm really pumped for it because when I saw it went up to
900,000, I was like she's in the home stretch and she's going to
be grinding it in said, hit that Millie.
And I love that because she's such a good person and she
really does deserve it because it's like she doesn't put people
down to get where she is, you know.
Like she's just so kind and like, oh, we'll take care of it
or oh, like no problem. Let me know.
Like, she's just like, I don't know, she's not one of those
people. It's like, oh, I'm famous do
this for me for free. She's like, okay, how much you
charge and I'll pay you double like and that's what I fuck with
her about because like that's how I feel about things is like
I don't want people to feel like I'm trying to take advantage of
them or You know, I like that real bitch energy and that's why
I mean, her connect on like a soul level because I don't I
don't want to take advantage of someone who's on the come up,
were on the rise or even someone who's hit their arise and then
try to get something for free from them.
Like that's just not me. And I know a lot of people are,
always trying to get Brands to sponsor them or writing people
because they have followers, like, oh, send me free stuff,
like, that's icky and energy. Like, you know, if you want to
collab with someone and it makes sense like, do you.
But people think Think like, oh, I have a lot of followers.
You should have send me free shit, or you should just
whatever it gets on my nerves and Bunny does like the quite
opposite. She's like, let me show you why
you should do this. Like let me show you what I'm
doing. Like you know instead of like
all talk and not doing shit. She also is always if someone is
end because I've listened to her podcast from the very beginning
and any time that anybody was ever talking about their come
up, and then wanting to do something that she knows how to
do. She's always like, oh I can help
you with that. We can help you with that.
Me and Mimi will give you tips after we're done recording like
I have ideas for you and she's consistently been that person
and has continued to be that person.
No matter how much she's doing. Like she also is so she's always
showing gratitude and saying thanks to her audience and the
people supporting her and she Being somebody who's like, been
there from the beginning. And like, what?
Like, I remember when she was doing post, sending people money
for like doing Raffles and spending money, like, spell this
out so many times in the comments.
And like, if I notice you, I'll send you money.
She sent me money for hot wings one time, and, like, she's just,
I've watched her hustle to build her platforms.
And it's so fucking cool to see somebody put in energy on
everything that they've been saying they were going to
manifest and fuck. He make that shit happen and I'm
watching her is such an inspiration to me.
Like, I'm so glad that I found her like four and a half years
ago and like just started connecting with her journey at
that point because watching her on the rise like from being
sober and just like really hustling and all that.
It's like damn like I love that the other day when she wrecked
the Mercedes and jelly was like I mean you bought it and she's
like I don't like I bought it for you and no I feel bad and
they're like he's like do Let her drive without her glasses.
I was cracking up. I was like a sofa.
Like that's how this happened. She didn't have her glasses on.
I know. And I could see that because she
always talks about how she's blind.
So, I mean, obviously, you should be backing out the
G-Wagen if you don't know where the rocks are because those are
pretty stationary like those are.
Those were Boulders. They really were.
He's so close were calder's. We have Boulders so to keep you
in the Driveway. I don't know.
I think people that do what they say they're going to do good,
things always happen to them because you're not stepping on
people to get there you're not hurting people to get there like
you're you're staying true to you.
You're not selling yourself short, you're not selling
yourself out. You're not selling your soul.
You're not changing who you are to get people to like you, but
you're just showing up in your Ross form.
You know, being the wildest version of yourself and people
just will either like that or not and I know that people are
always wanting to throw shade on.
Ever, but it's like the way that you respond and stay in your
powers, most important thing because people are not always
going to support you well enough you know that you're putting
yourself out authentically and that you're like you're showing
exactly who you are, act like that also helps you to give less
of a fuck when people try and pull you out of your power and
say things about your name that are untrue because you know that
you've already showed yourself. Like you don't have to defend
yourself because your actions consistently in your character.
You've already proved that. Yeah, and that's the thing is
like a lot of people want to tell everyone what they're going
to do, but it's like, you got to show people.
You got to, you got to lead by example, because if you're just
saying it, you're never actually making that change or making
those moves. Like, it's just talk and I think
that's why bunny was able to do what she's been able to do is
because like, you know, whenever she met jelly, she did whatever
she could to make sure that he had what he needed.
So, he could do what he needs to do, because she believed in him
and then look. So it's just like, she deserves
Everything is. It's the most wildest story.
I can't wait for like these documentaries and like these
movies to start coming out about them because like the story in
itself, like the world really does need to hear because it's
inspiring. It's inspiring to watch people
that like, were in prison or like, wherever doing whatever,
like, come up and be able to help people on the way they
didn't have to step on nobody. They didn't have to sell
yourself out and I think that that's what's so cool about
like, owning your own production company operating from your own
record label. Well, you know, not having to
answer to anyone and that's ultimate goals.
Like, that's Altima goals right there.
I don't know for sure that it was the war that he was in but
jellyroll went and did a concert at the prison that he had been
at. And I think that he did it in
his old Ward, but he brought struggle and Adam, Calhoun was
him and literally set up a stage there and did a performance for
the inmates that were There. Okay.
Johnny Cash, calm down. Yeah, it was fun.
It was fucking dodos. So cool.
And that's like, giving back to, I don't know.
I feel like he is spending so much money getting like youth
programs, and to juvie and stuff like that.
Like, he's really doing something with the stuff that he
has, and he actually donated the all the proceeds, from the
concert in Nashville, To the juvie down there.
Yeah. That's what I'm saying.
Like Okay. So crazy, you know, life can
really change and I think if anybody wants to learn anything
from this episode is like your mindset, your energy, your
intentions matter, and it's the reason that you're either
getting what you want or not getting what you want.
Period. And unfortunately, we are taught
to do well in to fear into like, you know, anticipate the
timeline or anticipated. But like at any given rate like
I know, Know that like what is for me is going to happen and
like, I'm just so in that power that's like even if it is five
years down the road, or even if it is 10 years, like I will get
it period. Like it'll happen and so I think
that's exactly what they did. But both of them were I'm gonna
do this and then they did and now you can watch it from the
sidelines because some people never thought it would happen.
You know what I mean? And I think that's why I'm like
so attached to Bunny at the hip like She could do no wrong in my
eyes. I know should we call her our
godmother? But she really does inspire so
many people and thanks to her like I'm able to connect with so
many of you know their fans like that also have like connected
with both of us and like she brought us together.
It's just like this woman is leaving this path for so many
people and it's so inspiring whenever you see the path for
yourself, start to open up because you get out of your own
way and you start believing that you know what, I can have that
too. Dude, that is my godmother.
I say all the time. One day I'm just one day just I
don't know I just remember finding her page and starting to
follow her and I never would have imagined that following
somebody would lead to everything.
Like I wouldn't have had that reading that I had with you.
I wouldn't have probably started the podcast.
I wouldn't have You know, like it literally and and nothing
that she even did other than being herself.
And so it's it's also a weird concept that to then think that
now people listen to us. When I don't know.
It's like this whole round about circle of like healing and
sharing and I just think it's dope.
I'm grateful. I'm really grateful for everyone
that I'm crossing paths with right now.
I know that there's like a lot of Change and uncertainty.
So it's cool to like see people even come and go because like
people even impression and some people don't like, that's why
you like, remember some people. And you don't I want to be one
of those people that people remember regardless like if we
like our friends or we are we staying each other's lives are
not like I don't want to be like, you know, I didn't like
her or like you know I want to be that person is like leaving a
good impression on the world and like trying to create that
ripple effect. And I think like when you show
up as yourself and you With that energy, like doors, open
miraculously for you. Like you starting the podcast
and stuff. It's like you have to be in the
energy or the frequency of like what you're looking for to like
are you up to see it? Anyway, it's your to be able to
see it. And like someone said, one time,
you know, when you see people healing growing not only
touching other people's life but then like maybe making money as
well or like creating art or doing something that makes them.
Really happy weather like and all levels and forms of
abundance. You can't unsee it.
Like you want that for yourself, whether you're making money or
you're just happy doing it either way.
It's the same thing. And I think that a lot of us
search for that outside of ourselves, but really the whole
time. It's like within you, it's
within you to find that like, who are you?
So then you can then surround yourself with people that match
that vibration, or that are in that frequency or in that Arena.
And even if it's just like, wow, I want to be like that person.
And having people who inspire you, even from a distance that
you may never talk to is still so important.
Yeah, following gray people that inspire you.
Like if I hear that like, Beyonce inspires you, I'm just
like, you need to check yourself but like, no offense, I think a
lot of celebrities like Our trash.
I like the things I do is trash. So like when people idolize
them, I'm like, wow, like your life has almost no meeting.
It couldn't have that much, it's because they idolize the things
that they're able to do. They idolize the way that they
aesthetically look. And the life that they portray
that they have, they don't have to.
They don't actually idolize like how the person is and treats
other people and whatever. / and that's what's crazy is like we
don't have that many good role models and Society of people
that have good character and that behind the scenes are like
good people, like all the way down to like Bill Cosby, you
know what I mean? Like people idolize that man
forever and then all this craziness came out, you know.
I just think that deep down like so many people are sick and
twisted but they put on a good show so you just need to be
careful of what shows you're watching in general, whether
like in real life or on TV or whatever like just what you
actually absorb really does affect your mindset because
you're picking up that vibration regardless.
Yep, maintaining your vibration is key.
But right now, everything is really rapidly manifesting
because we had all those portals and we are like, approaching the
two, two, two portals. So, like, it's really been a big
portal since last year when it was 22. 22, 22.
You know. So it's like this past year has
been hitting different. I have been in this energy of
being organized and like setting myself up for like longevity
success and not being overwhelmed because I make
myself organized now. So that as things keep growing,
they expand in a healthy way and I don't feel overwhelmed.
And I feel like if I lay those foundations out while Things Are
You know, before things are crazy busy because as soon as
things just started, getting busier for me, I just kind of
was like, in shock mode real quick and didn't know what to
do. And I want that and I want that
long term without being stressful.
So it's just been a season of organization for me.
Well, I need to organize some stuff last year, I was feeling
real organized but this year like I did organize for a while.
That was kind of like the goal but I could definitely organize
something. Paperwork and go through some
stuff and probably get rid of some stuff.
I like cord different papers and stuff.
I don't need really like, I don't need to keep up with all
that we all have something. Yeah, yes we do.
We all got something, but I am just grateful for you grateful,
grateful for the opportunity, the podcast, the friendship that
everything. Yes.
And I think, To be here in Candyland and we're grateful
that we have been able to connect with everyone and
different ways. Especially recently, I feel like
it's more and more people are coming out of the woodwork out
of the spiritual closet. Yes!
Open up getting it poppin. And yeah, I'm looking forward to
next time, I'm grateful, it's all just going to get better and
bigger. Yes, baby.
So we will see you all next week.
Bye.