1 00:00:10,700 --> 00:00:16,600 Welcome to fucking Dandy land hosted by Rampage and Gemini. 2 00:00:30,300 --> 00:00:34,000 What's up everybody? Welcome back to Candyland. 3 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:41,400 Yes, we are in the month of February, February 1st. 4 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,100 Well, we have to start off immediately. 5 00:00:44,100 --> 00:00:46,900 Because right before we record, you literally send me the link. 6 00:00:46,900 --> 00:00:49,400 I hop on your like I have so much to tell you, let's do this. 7 00:00:49,500 --> 00:00:52,900 So let's go. Okay, so the other night, I went 8 00:00:52,900 --> 00:00:56,200 to a concert with my dad and I have been holding this story 9 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,100 hostage because I really wanted your reaction. 10 00:00:59,500 --> 00:01:03,100 I'm the I guess. But so I was at this concert 11 00:01:03,100 --> 00:01:07,700 with my dad and this band is called Lucero and they've been 12 00:01:07,700 --> 00:01:10,100 around for, like, 25 years. It's kind of like a, like a 13 00:01:10,100 --> 00:01:12,900 drinking beer, kind of like country. 14 00:01:12,900 --> 00:01:16,700 Rock Vibe. And so it into Quentin my best 15 00:01:16,700 --> 00:01:18,400 friend and tattoo artist ran into him. 16 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,100 There, he's there with some friends. 17 00:01:20,500 --> 00:01:23,100 My Dad's friend is like a groupie for this band. 18 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,700 So basically, like his friend was like, when 2nd was going to 19 00:01:27,700 --> 00:01:29,900 Georgia went to Nashville Solomon. 20 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,300 Louisville was going to go see him in Florida. 21 00:01:32,700 --> 00:01:36,500 So it's kind of like you know this little small venue and 22 00:01:36,500 --> 00:01:39,000 everyone there is pretty hammered and obviously I'm not 23 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,800 drinking because I don't really drink but my dad is having a 24 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:49,300 good time and this lady just like started verbally attacking 25 00:01:49,300 --> 00:01:51,200 my dad. Like my Dad tried to like get 26 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,600 around her. After going to get a drink and 27 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:57,700 coming back, and she like looked at my dad and was like, my 28 00:01:57,700 --> 00:02:01,900 boyfriend is coming back. My dad was like, okay cool. 29 00:02:02,100 --> 00:02:05,600 My daughter was Jesus next. Yeah, like she's a he was like 30 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,300 my daughter and my friends are right there. 31 00:02:07,300 --> 00:02:09,400 I just need to get right there. So excuse me. 32 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,200 And she was like, you can back up and was just like, saying all 33 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:15,300 this stuff and my dad was like, I'm literally just trying to get 34 00:02:15,300 --> 00:02:18,600 around you lady. Like I have nothing but good 35 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,400 like Vibes for you like do you? I don't care about your 36 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:22,800 boyfriend. Like, I don't care about you, 37 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,400 like he was not even like hitting on her because like, 38 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:29,900 when all this happened, I turned around and like kind of sauce. 39 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,600 Of it. So this lady literally like, 40 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:37,300 kept being like so weird that every time we would turn around 41 00:02:37,300 --> 00:02:40,200 and look behind us, she would be like flipping us off and stuff 42 00:02:40,700 --> 00:02:43,100 and with her sanity, honey, you know that kind of gives me 43 00:02:43,100 --> 00:02:44,900 anxiety because like she's behind me. 44 00:02:44,900 --> 00:02:46,500 So I kept kind of looking back at her. 45 00:02:46,900 --> 00:02:49,100 She kept giving me dirty as look, she wasn't like saying 46 00:02:49,100 --> 00:02:52,900 shit to me, but then when my dad would like go get a drink this 47 00:02:52,900 --> 00:02:55,100 one time, she bent down and booty bumps. 48 00:02:55,100 --> 00:03:02,200 My dad and his like groin area twice hard, Bit down to like 49 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,700 swing her hips and booty bump him. 50 00:03:05,100 --> 00:03:07,900 So then the third time that he goes back to get the drink. 51 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,500 Her boyfriend is standing there with her at this point and he's 52 00:03:11,500 --> 00:03:14,600 like do you know that guy like what you're doing bitch? 53 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,300 Like What's your deal? Because I do you know that man 54 00:03:17,300 --> 00:03:20,500 like and she's like just doing all this stuff like the hand 55 00:03:20,500 --> 00:03:24,900 motions of like sucking dick like like the tongue on the side 56 00:03:24,900 --> 00:03:26,600 of the jaw. I'm not going to do it. 57 00:03:26,700 --> 00:03:30,400 But you know, every time we turn around and my dad look, At me 58 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,900 dead in the eyes and goes, do I have a sign on my forehead? 59 00:03:33,900 --> 00:03:37,500 That attracts crazy bitches and I kept asking him like, do you 60 00:03:37,500 --> 00:03:41,600 know that girl because it was like, she knew him or was like 61 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:45,800 mad at him, like, the way she was acting was like, so bizarre, 62 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,300 because, like my dad doesn't use social media. 63 00:03:48,300 --> 00:03:49,600 Like, he doesn't get on dating apps. 64 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:53,400 Like, I don't know how he would know this woman and he was like, 65 00:03:53,700 --> 00:03:57,200 I'm literally so confused, but every time we would turn around, 66 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,900 she would be flicking him off. Yelling. 67 00:03:58,900 --> 00:04:01,800 Fuck you. You're You're an asshole and my 68 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,300 dad would just look at all of us like this confused look. 69 00:04:04,300 --> 00:04:07,800 And we would all just laugh but she just kept doing it. 70 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,700 That's fucking. I wonder if he was mistaken for 71 00:04:12,700 --> 00:04:15,800 somebody else. This one time when I lived in 72 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:22,000 Montana, I went with my dad's girlfriend of the moment and we 73 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,600 went out to this bar and this girl legit was like, kept on 74 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,400 looking over, like she wanted to fight me and stuff. 75 00:04:28,500 --> 00:04:30,900 And my dad's girlfriend walked over there and was like, what's 76 00:04:30,900 --> 00:04:32,600 your problem? And she's like, she slept with 77 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,500 my husband and my dad's girlfriend was like, no, she 78 00:04:36,500 --> 00:04:39,600 just got in town. Like Like and so the whole night 79 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,500 girl had beef because she thought I fucked her husband 80 00:04:41,500 --> 00:04:45,400 because I look like some broad. I wonder if like that girl. 81 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,400 Yes, thanks that your dad looks like somebody. 82 00:04:47,900 --> 00:04:51,300 Yeah, that's what you're so, calm page, I did knocked a bitch 83 00:04:51,300 --> 00:04:55,700 out for being like honestly. I think my dad was like trying 84 00:04:55,700 --> 00:04:58,700 to make sure that I was like safe like he, you know what I 85 00:04:58,700 --> 00:05:01,900 mean, they can share like she, yeah, we nothing or whatever. 86 00:05:01,900 --> 00:05:05,400 But like, I don't know, like, it's funny because when I go 87 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,000 places with my dad, people really stare at us. 88 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,000 Hard fucking core. And my dad's one of those like 89 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,600 happy drunks, he's like, put his arms around people, he's like a 90 00:05:13,608 --> 00:05:17,800 hugger and so like or Out Swinging his arm around me like 91 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,300 Pat me on my shoulder and just like just being silly and 92 00:05:21,300 --> 00:05:23,200 whatever. And like, so people look at us 93 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,200 like and one day my dad was like, I'm going to get a shirt 94 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:30,100 that says, this is my daughter is like because he will be 95 00:05:30,100 --> 00:05:32,400 looking at me. Like I'm the old part, that's 96 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,300 what he always says. He's my people are looking at 97 00:05:34,300 --> 00:05:37,800 me, like, we're like a couple or like together because like my 98 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,400 dad. Doesn't look really old, you 99 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,300 know what I mean? But it also kind of just looks 100 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:43,700 like I don't know. Like people are just paying 101 00:05:43,700 --> 00:05:47,000 attention to us and my dad's a real like social butterfly kind 102 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:48,700 of like me. It's Holly where I get it from 103 00:05:49,100 --> 00:05:53,600 but this lady was like harassing him and like it was the weirdest 104 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:58,000 thing. This is why I don't go out in 105 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:03,000 public, like, it was so weird and like honestly, I was just so 106 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:07,600 confused and then my Dad's friend, like his son was there 107 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,200 with his girlfriend, why I ended up knowing a bunch of people 108 00:06:10,500 --> 00:06:12,900 Mutual with these people. Like they went to the same high 109 00:06:12,900 --> 00:06:15,700 school that I went to but graduated like eight years after 110 00:06:15,700 --> 00:06:20,800 me, so, you know, whatever. But it was really crazy because 111 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,400 they were just laughing like we were all just cracking up. 112 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,200 It was just like, what is going on? 113 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:33,300 You're influencing the younger generation to what you said, 114 00:06:33,300 --> 00:06:35,900 that they graduated eight years after you and over there. 115 00:06:35,900 --> 00:06:37,800 I wasn't there with them. They were just like, that's my 116 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,400 dad's friends. I was just kidding. 117 00:06:40,900 --> 00:06:44,900 That could be in Lonesome to go live their best life. 118 00:06:45,900 --> 00:06:52,500 So right before we got on here, somebody that is on both of our 119 00:06:52,500 --> 00:06:57,900 patreons was like I love that you and Paige tag team me every 120 00:06:57,900 --> 00:07:02,200 month and with our readings because she was talking about 121 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:05,600 how they're always just like like they're aligned. 122 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,000 Like, they both just we say different things and fill in 123 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:09,900 different parts of the same message. 124 00:07:09,900 --> 00:07:12,800 And so, she's like, I love getting tag-teamed by you guys 125 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:14,500 every month. And I was like, we love 126 00:07:14,500 --> 00:07:17,800 tag-teaming you and I put An Eiffel Tower and then I sent her 127 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:22,200 the three-way song by Lonely Island and Justin Timberlake and 128 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:23,700 Lady Gaga. It's so good. 129 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:27,400 Well well but now that's in my she's like sending laugh 130 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:31,100 reactions. I'm really glad that we were 131 00:07:31,100 --> 00:07:36,300 able to do what we're doing with some of the same people because 132 00:07:36,300 --> 00:07:39,400 I feel like that's really just like grounding our message 133 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:43,700 together even further like how we're so connected and like the 134 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,300 similar types of people that are Attracted to both of us. 135 00:07:47,300 --> 00:07:50,400 Like, are they? Like both of us together? 136 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,200 You know what I mean? And it's crazy. 137 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,800 How many people are still like, hey, can we do an interview on 138 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,800 your podcast? And we literally said it like, 139 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,700 every episode that we're not doing any interviews until the 140 00:08:01,700 --> 00:08:05,600 third season and that will be down the road and that will 141 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:09,800 probably still only be like VI Peach, and that's it. 142 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,100 I was just gonna say, probably just going to be, you know what 143 00:08:13,100 --> 00:08:15,600 though? I would one day. 144 00:08:15,700 --> 00:08:18,100 They like drop their podcast and everything. 145 00:08:18,100 --> 00:08:21,800 I'd love to do something next season with Justin Peach and 146 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,100 talking about what they're doing, because they're like, 147 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,700 pretty influential with what they're going to be doing 20. 148 00:08:26,900 --> 00:08:28,800 For sure. I'm really excited about that. 149 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,800 I don't really want to do a photoshoot with Peach. 150 00:08:33,900 --> 00:08:36,100 Dude her she always just looks fire. 151 00:08:36,100 --> 00:08:42,799 Like everything is always like like a professional and she's so 152 00:08:42,799 --> 00:08:44,900 cute. I am, she did this post and she 153 00:08:44,900 --> 00:08:49,500 was like if anybody is like wanting ideas whatever like I'll 154 00:08:49,500 --> 00:08:53,100 do a like basically you pay her and she'll like if you business 155 00:08:53,100 --> 00:08:54,300 advice and you'll talk or whatever. 156 00:08:54,300 --> 00:08:57,500 So I reached out to her and I'm like I'm always looking for 157 00:08:57,500 --> 00:09:00,100 tips. Like I I'm always about like 158 00:09:00,100 --> 00:09:02,800 figuring out what somebody else is doing and she's like oh let's 159 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,500 just pick a time. And I'll just talk to you on 160 00:09:04,500 --> 00:09:06,300 FaceTime and we'll talk some ideas. 161 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,200 She's just so sweet. Well I want to be on that call 162 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:15,900 three-way three-way threesome there any sign of attack teams 163 00:09:15,900 --> 00:09:19,300 of each. I don't know. 164 00:09:19,300 --> 00:09:23,400 Like I'm really glad I passed Title 18 by Beach. 165 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,900 I'm really glad that were able to connect with like just really 166 00:09:26,900 --> 00:09:30,700 Empower powerful and empowering people. 167 00:09:31,700 --> 00:09:35,300 In every way, shape or form. Like, I love it, like, 168 00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:38,800 especially, because a lot of the people that I feel like I'm 169 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:42,600 connecting with on a deep level now is like, so deep, like I'll 170 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,900 reach out to one of my friends who's an artist and I was like, 171 00:09:45,900 --> 00:09:49,600 would you want to trade some artwork for like, you know, 172 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,600 reading or like some merch or something? 173 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,200 And she was like, yeah, I'd love a reading. 174 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,300 I was like, okay, cool. I was expecting her to take a 175 00:09:56,300 --> 00:09:58,400 couple weeks, literally, like two days later. 176 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,600 She sends you the finished painting of what I wanted, which 177 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,300 is Like an Alice in Wonderland theme with, like the cat and 178 00:10:04,300 --> 00:10:07,600 like the clock and wow, Borden stuff, it's like done. 179 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,500 And it's so far and I'm like, okay, well, you need to be 180 00:10:09,500 --> 00:10:12,100 patient with me. Like, give me a little bit of 181 00:10:12,100 --> 00:10:14,000 time. I was not expecting her to just 182 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,600 be like wham bam. Thank you ma'am. 183 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,500 She was like I was so inspired to do it. 184 00:10:18,500 --> 00:10:22,200 I'm just like yes. So it's really that is so joke. 185 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,600 It looks so cool. Do you already have it? 186 00:10:25,700 --> 00:10:27,800 No, no. It was just literally like four 187 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:29,200 days ago. I've suggested this. 188 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,600 And then two days ago, she sent me the finished painting and 189 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:35,300 it's like an 8 by 10 because that's what size I wanted and 190 00:10:36,700 --> 00:10:39,300 it's amazing. It's can't wait to see it. 191 00:10:39,300 --> 00:10:41,500 It's so cute. Honestly, she sent me just like 192 00:10:41,500 --> 00:10:47,400 a video and a screenshot it, but it's so cute in like, It's just 193 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:51,700 cool like how like aligned people are in like how we all 194 00:10:51,700 --> 00:10:53,800 just have this connection in different ways. 195 00:10:54,900 --> 00:11:00,100 I was thinking earlier how we have this connection with like 196 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:06,300 different women and like strong personalities and like hardcore 197 00:11:06,300 --> 00:11:11,600 like in their business and stuff and we have never had a like an 198 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,500 issue with somebody. Like there's never been any kind 199 00:11:14,500 --> 00:11:16,700 of like weird drama thing inside that Circle. 200 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:20,700 Do people that like we both Vibe with are now like getting in 201 00:11:20,700 --> 00:11:24,000 contact and like, you know, Jessica and peach or now 202 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,500 starting a podcast together. And it's because of you that 203 00:11:26,500 --> 00:11:29,000 like, I met Peach. And that's how she met Jess. 204 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:32,800 And like, I just, I just think that it's so dope. 205 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:36,000 That that, yeah, we have all of these people that, like, are 206 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,200 here for both of us and like the energy, but they're strong 207 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:42,900 personalities. And like, we, I feel like we all 208 00:11:42,900 --> 00:11:44,800 learn things from each other along the way. 209 00:11:45,900 --> 00:11:48,200 My cat is true. Show his strong personality 210 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:50,600 right now. He's like trying to swat at me 211 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,700 and like I can barely see you. It's like it looks like you're 212 00:11:53,700 --> 00:11:56,000 in the comfiest darkest cave and I wish. 213 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:00,500 I really like, I told you I was ready to record but like on 214 00:12:00,500 --> 00:12:04,300 chill mode. It's been icing here, snow and 215 00:12:04,300 --> 00:12:06,600 ice. Well then I'm turning my lights 216 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,300 down so that I can match your Vibe. 217 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:10,800 I just don't even have really any lights on. 218 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:15,000 It's just a movie in here but I just can't I just can't right 219 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,000 now. Like honestly one of Of my 220 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:21,500 readings canceled tonight. And it was because she said she 221 00:12:21,500 --> 00:12:22,900 had like, a weird reaction to something. 222 00:12:22,900 --> 00:12:25,700 She sent me a picture of her face is like swollen poor thing, 223 00:12:25,900 --> 00:12:27,300 and she was like, I'll pay a fee. 224 00:12:27,300 --> 00:12:28,700 I was like, don't worry about that. 225 00:12:28,700 --> 00:12:31,800 Don't worry about none of that. Like you were good with a poor 226 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:35,400 girl like was hurting. Like she was like her. 227 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:39,600 I was like swollen shut. So, yes. 228 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:42,900 I know. So, that's really why I'm in 229 00:12:42,900 --> 00:12:47,900 like this chill mode because I had other things To do that. 230 00:12:47,900 --> 00:12:50,400 We're going to keep me busy but now that I can kind of chill and 231 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:54,300 relax a little bit. I'm like, Well, and I was like, 232 00:12:54,300 --> 00:12:56,300 dang I'm gonna have to stay up late if we're going to be 233 00:12:56,300 --> 00:12:59,400 recording late. So us getting to record earlier 234 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:04,100 is bomb as fuck, for me. I, I interviewed Shannon today 235 00:13:04,100 --> 00:13:06,200 for coven rejects. I love her. 236 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,100 She's so cute. Oh, he's so fucking cute. 237 00:13:09,100 --> 00:13:11,800 She is. So, like, when I, and I've told 238 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,300 you like, I have to write down notes when I'm interviewing, 239 00:13:14,300 --> 00:13:17,900 because I'll get sidetracked or whatever, all hyper fixate on 240 00:13:17,900 --> 00:13:20,500 one thing. And so after we were done, she 241 00:13:20,500 --> 00:13:22,600 sent me a message and she's like, would you mind telling me 242 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:24,800 What you were writing down while we were talking. 243 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,100 I was like, I should, I should probably. 244 00:13:27,100 --> 00:13:29,100 Yeah, she did. She was, she likes that hearts 245 00:13:29,100 --> 00:13:32,700 and whatever but I was like, I should probably tell people that 246 00:13:32,700 --> 00:13:35,400 like oh, by the way, I'm really nervous doing these interviews 247 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,900 and I have to write down thoughts, or I get sidetracked. 248 00:13:39,700 --> 00:13:45,000 I'm really excited about how the podcast for you like is able to 249 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:48,500 network with our podcasts because that's cool, I like 250 00:13:48,500 --> 00:13:50,100 that. And that that like that Shannon 251 00:13:50,100 --> 00:13:52,100 girl. And I literally found her from 252 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,700 Other person. I just feel like if I Vibe with 253 00:13:55,700 --> 00:13:58,400 you, I just need sound and people that I Vibe with and then 254 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:02,800 follow them and then they become like my sister, my brother. 255 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:06,300 Like I know, I feel related to them now. 256 00:14:06,300 --> 00:14:08,900 Like, no, I'm like, okay, well, I'll see you on Christmas 257 00:14:09,700 --> 00:14:12,400 honestly. I really want Sean and gold to 258 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:14,900 come visit because she was talking about it, but she's 259 00:14:14,900 --> 00:14:17,500 like, super busy. But when it warms up, I'm 260 00:14:17,500 --> 00:14:19,500 literally going to push the envelope for her to come visit 261 00:14:19,500 --> 00:14:21,900 to because she's like, I've never been to Kentucky. 262 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:25,600 That's so funny that you say that because when I was on live 263 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:29,700 earlier, someone was talking about being neurodivergent and I 264 00:14:29,700 --> 00:14:32,800 was like oh we actually talked about that on like it like a 265 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,800 lollipop. We had Sean angle on and then I 266 00:14:35,808 --> 00:14:39,300 pulled out her mushroom magic book and I was like she wrote 267 00:14:39,300 --> 00:14:42,300 this like super cute book and so a couple people said that they 268 00:14:42,300 --> 00:14:45,000 went to Amazon and bought it all of that you know. 269 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,200 She's so like 10,000 of those like in the first couple months 270 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:51,700 she's really about so dope sheet Forbes wrote about her like 271 00:14:51,700 --> 00:14:54,700 she's pretty late. Honestly that girl like is going 272 00:14:54,700 --> 00:14:57,100 places and then this isn't like Arena. 273 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,000 I feel like her potential is just so Limitless the way that 274 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,700 she does her stuff because she is neurodivergent. 275 00:15:03,700 --> 00:15:06,500 I guess. It's so like unique. 276 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,400 We talked about that before. So yeah, I'm like I get obsessed 277 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,900 with people in their journey and I have emotional connection to 278 00:15:12,900 --> 00:15:16,000 it and it's cool that people feel like that towards us as 279 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,700 well. And it's also cool how like were 280 00:15:18,700 --> 00:15:22,700 doing readings for people and then they join our communities. 281 00:15:22,900 --> 00:15:24,200 And then they Bob with both of us. 282 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,500 So then they join both of our communities and then they 283 00:15:26,900 --> 00:15:29,900 they're like oh, by being the sleazy, then they joined his 284 00:15:29,900 --> 00:15:33,100 community. It's like Christmas. 285 00:15:33,100 --> 00:15:37,100 I get messages from and this is just so funny to me. 286 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:40,600 But every time that I ever dropped a podcast episode with 287 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:45,600 him, anytime that like anything, I'm getting messages from girls 288 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,700 being like, Oh my God, he sounds so sexy. 289 00:15:48,700 --> 00:15:53,500 Oh my God, he's so hot and I'm like okay so go and his Yeah, 290 00:15:55,100 --> 00:15:59,800 he's single as a pringle. It's crazy, it's crazy, it's 291 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,200 crazy. How his girlfriend that he had 292 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:05,600 was like jealous of the Wolfpack text. 293 00:16:05,700 --> 00:16:07,900 Y'all, we have a group chat. It's just us three, and we 294 00:16:07,900 --> 00:16:10,300 talked, and send goofy stuff back and forth. 295 00:16:10,300 --> 00:16:14,700 Sometimes and sleazy, was dating this girl who is not with it. 296 00:16:14,700 --> 00:16:17,100 She was always hating on the Wolfpack. 297 00:16:17,500 --> 00:16:22,000 That's why I, he had a cycle her out hating on the Wolfpack for 298 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,200 no reason, Into like, I don't know. 299 00:16:25,300 --> 00:16:28,100 I just I just think it's so weird when people are like 300 00:16:28,100 --> 00:16:31,900 you're not allowed to be friends, like it's not weird. 301 00:16:31,900 --> 00:16:36,000 It's a group text to. So like I don't know what you 302 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:42,300 think is I mean menage a trois but like no thank you this think 303 00:16:42,300 --> 00:16:45,500 so many people are insecure. And honestly I like people who 304 00:16:45,500 --> 00:16:48,900 don't try to control other people and try to like dictate 305 00:16:48,900 --> 00:16:52,000 their happiness in life like so anytime I see people in 306 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:57,200 relationships Unfortunately, I hate that when they're in 307 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:00,400 relationships, like that, that's just like constant drama for no 308 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:04,099 reason. Like, if you are upfront about 309 00:17:04,099 --> 00:17:06,700 your feelings and emotions, I feel like that's where a 310 00:17:06,700 --> 00:17:11,400 relationship has like security. And there isn't a bunch of like, 311 00:17:11,700 --> 00:17:14,599 needing to argue about a bunch of stuff that doesn't matter. 312 00:17:14,599 --> 00:17:17,099 Like, I don't know. I saw it takes off the other day 313 00:17:17,099 --> 00:17:20,400 and it said me when my girlfriend would say. 314 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:23,599 I bet you probably deleted it and he said, Yeah, I did the 315 00:17:23,599 --> 00:17:27,599 hitch, be quicker next time and I want people have that like 316 00:17:27,599 --> 00:17:30,700 mentality type deal and like I laughed about it because at the 317 00:17:30,700 --> 00:17:32,800 end of the day, like people are going to do what they want to 318 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:34,600 do, regardless of what you want them to do. 319 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,400 And the more that you try to control them, manipulate them, 320 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,300 tell them what to do, the more they're going to resent you and 321 00:17:40,300 --> 00:17:42,700 then the more they're going to feel rebellious to do exactly 322 00:17:42,700 --> 00:17:45,400 what you didn't want them to do. And it just makes it worse. 323 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,700 And that's where you need to stand on your boundaries. 324 00:17:49,700 --> 00:17:52,700 I'm also just one of those people who, like, I don't go 325 00:17:52,900 --> 00:17:57,800 Husband's phone, he doesn't go through my phone, like not 326 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:00,800 because like, hey, I'm hiding something but just like, that's 327 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:04,200 your space where like I have conversations with like my 328 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,400 friends about shit that I don't necessarily want somebody 329 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:09,100 reading and like I would assume that there's vice-versa about 330 00:18:09,100 --> 00:18:15,100 his life and you know like I just for me if I have to look 331 00:18:15,100 --> 00:18:16,800 through your phone because I don't trust you, I'm not going 332 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:18,900 to be with you because I could be going and doing something 333 00:18:18,900 --> 00:18:21,800 else. And if you don't trust me then 334 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,700 you should be going and doing Doing something else too, 335 00:18:23,700 --> 00:18:26,200 because neither one of us is done anything to Warrant that 336 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:30,400 literally, I feel like so many people don't trust their partner 337 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,200 though. And that's what I was talking to 338 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:36,200 someone else about recently about, like, I hate how people 339 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,400 compete within their relationships and I know we but 340 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:43,400 like the intimate ones because I've dated people who like 341 00:18:43,500 --> 00:18:45,900 wanted to compete with me or wanted it to be like a 342 00:18:45,908 --> 00:18:48,500 competition. And I just don't see why anyone 343 00:18:48,500 --> 00:18:50,900 would do that. Like what's good for you is good 344 00:18:50,900 --> 00:18:52,600 for me. Like if you're winning and I'm 345 00:18:52,900 --> 00:18:56,500 Austin, and then vice versa down the road, then like I'm with it. 346 00:18:56,500 --> 00:18:57,700 You know what I mean? It's balance. 347 00:18:57,700 --> 00:19:01,100 Like I would love the opportunity to like be with 348 00:19:01,100 --> 00:19:05,500 someone who sees that. Like, it isn't a race against 349 00:19:05,500 --> 00:19:07,800 your partner, or your friends or like whatever. 350 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,600 And I know that, we talked about that a lot, so clearly like 351 00:19:10,900 --> 00:19:13,700 super important because like being authentic and just being 352 00:19:13,700 --> 00:19:17,300 yourself is so key to actually being around the right people 353 00:19:17,500 --> 00:19:20,300 because most of the time you're settling in your relationships 354 00:19:20,300 --> 00:19:22,600 because you're watering yourself down and if you actually stepped 355 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,300 in To who you really were. Maybe you and that person really 356 00:19:25,300 --> 00:19:27,700 wouldn't get along or maybe they actually wouldn't really like 357 00:19:27,700 --> 00:19:29,400 you. But when you Dim yourself down 358 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:33,000 and you act like mousy or like, you know, you bite your tongue 359 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:36,300 or hide from what you really want whether it's like in the 360 00:19:36,300 --> 00:19:39,100 bedroom or in your real life like at any time. 361 00:19:39,100 --> 00:19:43,100 Like some people keep like even personal stuff super private 362 00:19:43,100 --> 00:19:46,200 from their partner and it's like, how is that supposed to be 363 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,900 your partner? Like if you can't talk about 364 00:19:48,900 --> 00:19:56,300 vulnerable things with them, Yeah, I think that like from a 365 00:19:56,308 --> 00:19:59,200 married perspective, I think that there are times that come 366 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,100 up that like jealousy gets in your relationship or like you 367 00:20:03,100 --> 00:20:05,400 have like an insecure moment because you're projecting or 368 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,000 something. But there's a difference between 369 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,800 being able to have a healthy relationship Dynamic, where then 370 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,400 you communicate about those things and you're like, yo, like 371 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:17,200 I'm not happy here because of this and like we need to work on 372 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,600 that and being able to have those conversations instead of 373 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:24,100 being a nun. Healthy Dynamic and going well 374 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,000 you're not allowed to go do that and let me see exactly what 375 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:31,000 you're doing to prove my point and belittling somebody and then 376 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,000 taking away like their freedom and something. 377 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:39,800 So I think that that's important to say to because there is a lot 378 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,600 of people have like, a trait of just like walking away. 379 00:20:43,900 --> 00:20:45,800 And there are certain times that things are healthy. 380 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,100 That you can like talk your way through that. 381 00:20:49,500 --> 00:20:53,900 And also like being vulnerable and talking through it before, 382 00:20:53,900 --> 00:20:57,600 it becomes like a major issue is soaking, most things could be 383 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:00,000 solved. Rather like rather quickly, but 384 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:03,700 people like bottle up and they let it like kind of boil under 385 00:21:03,700 --> 00:21:08,700 the surface, where it feels like, there's definitely some 386 00:21:08,700 --> 00:21:12,500 type of energy lingering at all times, like your relationship is 387 00:21:12,500 --> 00:21:17,200 always going to feel unsafe or uncertain or you'll have more 388 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,100 insecurities, if you're not grounded in life. 389 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,800 Your own voice and like what you want and what your boundaries 390 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,700 are and like, you know, you can approach boundaries for my nice 391 00:21:25,700 --> 00:21:28,500 and compassionate way. If you know, your partner is 392 00:21:28,500 --> 00:21:32,600 going to take it as an attack. But at some given point, your 393 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:36,200 partner may not be on the same chapter as you and either y'all 394 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,900 need to get each other up to speed or like, you need to be 395 00:21:38,900 --> 00:21:40,400 firm and what you're about to do. 396 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,800 And I think I see so many people that just water them self down 397 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,800 for so long, that you lose yourself. 398 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,300 If you lose yourself in the connection, you lose yourself in 399 00:21:48,308 --> 00:21:50,700 the friendship. In the bond, whatever it is. 400 00:21:50,700 --> 00:21:52,600 And then whenever it's gone, you feel empty? 401 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:56,300 You're grieving at you feel like without something but really the 402 00:21:56,300 --> 00:21:58,100 whole time it's probably for your best. 403 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,600 Yep. Yes, to all of that. 404 00:22:03,300 --> 00:22:05,400 But who wants to let go of the comfort zone? 405 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:09,900 Like not a lot of people. I don't know. 406 00:22:09,900 --> 00:22:15,600 I just I feel like for me I had to get to a spot where I knew 407 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:19,700 that I'm comfortable always walking away regardless of why, 408 00:22:19,700 --> 00:22:22,700 and like for me, it took being in an abusive relationship to be 409 00:22:22,700 --> 00:22:27,200 that person because I used to be very like people, please e, and 410 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,500 I just want, I don't want to step on your toes. 411 00:22:29,500 --> 00:22:32,800 I just want you to be happy. Like, I'll be whatever. 412 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,400 And it took having an abusive relationship for me to be. 413 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,700 Like I will always be willing to walk away if it Doesn't deserve 414 00:22:39,700 --> 00:22:43,200 me anymore. If I if if like I'm if it's 415 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,200 continuing to be a problem, I will be okay walking away. 416 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,500 And so for me, that's helped me be able to be in an odd way. 417 00:22:50,500 --> 00:22:52,900 Helped me to be able to be, like, trusting in my 418 00:22:52,900 --> 00:22:56,800 relationship to because I feel like that's okay. 419 00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:00,000 I'll I don't mind walking if you would treat me like that. 420 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:03,500 And so I don't feel the need to like, control everything and 421 00:23:03,500 --> 00:23:07,400 that has led to their been fucking crazy fucking things. 422 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,000 That like my husband has done. And if you're honest with me, I 423 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,300 don't like, I don't care. I'm not you know, don't cheat on 424 00:23:13,300 --> 00:23:15,700 me, fucking go Buckwild be Farrell in these streets. 425 00:23:15,700 --> 00:23:20,300 I mean at this thing honesty and communication is key and like 426 00:23:20,300 --> 00:23:23,300 not looking at other people's relationships to judge what your 427 00:23:23,300 --> 00:23:25,500 relationship should be. Like is probably more important 428 00:23:25,500 --> 00:23:27,500 too. Because like if it works for you 429 00:23:27,500 --> 00:23:31,400 in your person or like whatever, then like it works for you all, 430 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:32,900 you know what I mean? And I think that's what's 431 00:23:32,900 --> 00:23:34,900 important as well in relationships is really 432 00:23:34,900 --> 00:23:37,700 learning. What is the fundamentals of your 433 00:23:37,700 --> 00:23:38,900 connection? Not what? 434 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,300 Other people want your connection to be, and I'll see a 435 00:23:41,308 --> 00:23:45,200 lot of people that, like, have relationships under the surface, 436 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,500 like keep it real hush-hush and sometimes I wonder like, what 437 00:23:49,500 --> 00:23:52,200 does that actually stand from? Like are they just a private 438 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:56,800 person or is there some type of discomfort or like discontent 439 00:23:57,100 --> 00:23:59,200 image? Something like some kind of 440 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,400 image that you're not keeping up or like whatever. 441 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,700 Like some people keep their Partners like a fucking secret. 442 00:24:04,700 --> 00:24:07,700 Like, you know what I mean? And I'm like I don't want to say 443 00:24:07,700 --> 00:24:09,800 all those people are cheaters because Maybe they're not. 444 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,200 But like I just wonder what that stems from. 445 00:24:13,300 --> 00:24:15,600 I don't know. Sometimes I wonder like because 446 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,700 I don't post like my family on my social media really. 447 00:24:18,700 --> 00:24:21,800 Like if we go out on like a date night or something, I'll post a 448 00:24:21,808 --> 00:24:24,200 picture of me and Brian. But for the most part like I 449 00:24:24,208 --> 00:24:27,500 don't have pictures of us up on social media and things and a 450 00:24:27,500 --> 00:24:31,300 part of that is just like my family is really private. 451 00:24:31,300 --> 00:24:33,800 Like my husband doesn't want to be on social media, he doesn't 452 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:37,500 do that and I don't want my kids online because people are 453 00:24:37,500 --> 00:24:40,600 fucking perverts. So Sometimes I do wonder what 454 00:24:40,900 --> 00:24:44,500 like, you know, doing content and like being like, where 455 00:24:44,500 --> 00:24:46,900 people are watching you sometimes I do. 456 00:24:46,900 --> 00:24:49,900 Wonder, how much do I have to share to? 457 00:24:49,900 --> 00:24:53,700 Like, let people be in and how much do I am? 458 00:24:53,700 --> 00:24:56,000 I supposed to keep to the side? No. 459 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:59,200 Yeah, and I'm just genuinely curious, like, I'm not judging 460 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,900 either way because, like, I want to like feel like a lot of my 461 00:25:01,900 --> 00:25:05,900 life is pretty profit as well. And like, normally, whenever I 462 00:25:06,100 --> 00:25:08,500 am in a relationship, it's extremely private. 463 00:25:08,500 --> 00:25:12,800 And so we In like exclusive for like, at least a six months to a 464 00:25:12,808 --> 00:25:14,900 year, you know, I mean, like, I don't just get into a 465 00:25:14,900 --> 00:25:16,900 relationship or start talking to someone and then be like, 466 00:25:16,900 --> 00:25:20,600 blasting them all over my socials, but I eventually like 467 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,800 would post them if it came to that point, you know what I 468 00:25:23,808 --> 00:25:25,200 mean? But like, I just think 469 00:25:25,300 --> 00:25:30,100 sometimes, like, when people are too vocal on social media, 470 00:25:30,100 --> 00:25:33,200 they're like absent in their relationship to, you know, like, 471 00:25:33,500 --> 00:25:35,100 I don't know. I have my thoughts and opinions 472 00:25:35,100 --> 00:25:37,200 on different things, but I just am genuinely curious. 473 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:38,900 What motivates people to keep like there? 474 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,600 R Prophet like are there dating life? 475 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,900 So private but like you know some people don't fuck with 476 00:25:44,900 --> 00:25:47,200 social media like they don't want their whole life out there 477 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:52,500 and like I respect that I just love to like kind of I don't 478 00:25:52,500 --> 00:25:54,900 know, I guess like people's brains, you know what I mean? 479 00:25:54,900 --> 00:25:58,500 And kind of like see what other people think about just 480 00:25:58,500 --> 00:26:01,400 different concepts with dating because dating is such a fucking 481 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:07,700 like, interesting concept. I think that it's really cool 482 00:26:07,700 --> 00:26:10,700 that you and I have Different Dynamics with things. 483 00:26:10,700 --> 00:26:13,200 Like we honestly live such different lives. 484 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,700 Like you don't have kids or like a husband or anything like that. 485 00:26:17,700 --> 00:26:19,300 You can go do what you're wanting to do. 486 00:26:19,300 --> 00:26:24,500 Like it's just so different and so I do think that that's why we 487 00:26:24,500 --> 00:26:28,500 have this like duality of audience and things too because 488 00:26:28,500 --> 00:26:32,300 we speak to both of those experiences. 489 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,700 And the way that like, you talk about dating sometimes and like 490 00:26:36,700 --> 00:26:40,800 like what you want I'm like I hope that you get that, but also 491 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,400 I know how fucking frustrating it is to see the same person 492 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,000 every day, like, no matter how much you love them. 493 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,200 And, like, working through all of the, there's so many 494 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:54,700 different things that have come up being married and like being 495 00:26:54,700 --> 00:26:57,600 around other people that are married, that I wouldn't have 496 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,100 imagined coming up before I was married. 497 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,500 Well, I think, like you said though, it's just such a 498 00:27:04,508 --> 00:27:07,600 parallel existence to be like with a person every single day, 499 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:08,800 like, you know, you're about to be with that. 500 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,900 And every single day for me it's like I don't know if people are 501 00:27:11,900 --> 00:27:15,700 coming or going, I don't know, I don't know day-to-day like how 502 00:27:15,700 --> 00:27:18,700 people are going to act because you've already watched it in the 503 00:27:18,708 --> 00:27:21,000 last six months. How people like ride this roller 504 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,800 coaster and they get on this adrenaline how and they first 505 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,900 meet me and then that plummets out like later and then they're 506 00:27:26,900 --> 00:27:30,200 like, whoa, I'm ground zero right now. 507 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,300 Like I need to go do me and it's not like I don't even think that 508 00:27:33,300 --> 00:27:36,200 people mean for it to be anything personal because I 509 00:27:36,208 --> 00:27:39,200 don't take it personal. I think it's like I Don't want 510 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,100 to embarrass myself or I don't want to like promise something I 511 00:27:42,100 --> 00:27:45,100 can't do. I don't want to like create some 512 00:27:45,100 --> 00:27:47,400 kind of like Grudge because I think some people in their mind 513 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,700 or like I'm going to go you know do me and then maybe in the 514 00:27:50,700 --> 00:27:54,000 future I could like hit her up and she wouldn't be mad or like 515 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,200 we'd be cool. You know what I mean? 516 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,400 I think some people like their reasoning is like I'm not at the 517 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,200 level that she's at. So I don't want to embarrass 518 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,600 myself. I'm just going to exit stage and 519 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,000 like I don't take it personal but like the dating World 520 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:09,900 itself, people are so possessive and like controlling like If we 521 00:28:09,900 --> 00:28:13,500 are not in an exclusive relationship, the expectation of 522 00:28:13,500 --> 00:28:15,700 thinking that you're just not going to talk to anyone. 523 00:28:15,700 --> 00:28:18,600 Elses so weird to me, I could see like if you're in an 524 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,300 intimate relationship and you're having sex with someone and then 525 00:28:21,300 --> 00:28:25,700 maybe asking them like hey like what's up are you know what I 526 00:28:25,700 --> 00:28:27,700 mean? Because that's like safety and 527 00:28:27,700 --> 00:28:29,500 sanitary issues. Like if you're fucking someone 528 00:28:29,500 --> 00:28:32,900 else I would at least just like want to know so that I can make 529 00:28:32,900 --> 00:28:36,400 my decision on that. Not like you telling me Oh 530 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,800 you're the only person but I don't know that. 531 00:28:38,900 --> 00:28:41,900 If I like being celibate and dating has been so easy because 532 00:28:41,900 --> 00:28:45,300 like taking the intimacy portion out of it, it's like, do I like 533 00:28:45,300 --> 00:28:48,300 you like, can I sit with you and watch TV and not say a fucking 534 00:28:48,300 --> 00:28:51,200 word can page. If you would slept with anybody 535 00:28:51,700 --> 00:28:55,000 that we just had the fuckery over the last, what happened? 536 00:28:55,100 --> 00:28:56,600 How long he's better than the last? 537 00:28:57,300 --> 00:29:00,800 Yeah, if you had slept with any of these people, I would have 538 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:05,300 flown to Kentucky to shake you because I would have been like 539 00:29:05,300 --> 00:29:09,100 what is going on because homie, who like could you imagine You 540 00:29:09,100 --> 00:29:12,300 know, if you had slept with homie who had his either, he 541 00:29:12,300 --> 00:29:14,700 messaged you or his mom a message or whatever happened 542 00:29:14,700 --> 00:29:19,800 there the post, or like any of these people, I could I could 543 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,100 list but we've already dog them. We don't need to give them any 544 00:29:22,100 --> 00:29:25,500 more back there. But what I'm saying is like, I 545 00:29:25,500 --> 00:29:29,300 think the dating world needs a fucking reality. 546 00:29:29,300 --> 00:29:32,800 Check it needs like some soap, its mouth, we need a scrub, we 547 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,100 need a scrub around here. Like, it's not healthy the way 548 00:29:36,100 --> 00:29:39,000 people act as so unhinged. And that's why Why? 549 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:44,700 I'm just like, so over the people who like lead One Life 550 00:29:44,700 --> 00:29:48,000 online or lead one life and then like that's not really them. 551 00:29:49,300 --> 00:29:52,900 I also have to correct myself because I was out here rooting 552 00:29:52,900 --> 00:29:55,700 for you to be a hoe in these streets. 553 00:29:55,700 --> 00:29:59,000 I did not say, hey, I don't think that's the person for you. 554 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,000 I was just like, oh, if you want to go do that, you totally 555 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,200 should. So, let's just let me just be 556 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:07,000 honest with that and good behavior. 557 00:30:08,100 --> 00:30:12,000 I Listen, I'm your friend and I support you getting some but 558 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:17,600 also I think that none of these people are like worth anything. 559 00:30:17,700 --> 00:30:19,600 But like if you want some in your trying to get some have a 560 00:30:19,608 --> 00:30:21,600 nice time. Yeah. 561 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,700 So like I said, taking taking that factory, y'all don't stand 562 00:30:25,700 --> 00:30:29,800 a chance unless you actually have a personality because I am 563 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,700 not attracted to people that I cannot actually connect with 564 00:30:32,700 --> 00:30:36,300 like I don't care. It just doesn't work for me 565 00:30:36,300 --> 00:30:37,900 anymore. It's just like I can't do 566 00:30:37,900 --> 00:30:40,000 surface level. Like I don't know. 567 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,700 I'd rather you be like a hot mess Express and like be 568 00:30:42,700 --> 00:30:47,300 vulnerable about like whatever whoever you really are then like 569 00:30:47,300 --> 00:30:49,800 hide that and try to act like some fucking watered-down 570 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:53,800 version of yourself and be like, I'm normal, even though you go 571 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,800 home and you hate yourself like, you know what I mean? 572 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,300 Like just air out the dirty laundry are out the skeletons. 573 00:30:59,300 --> 00:31:02,300 Like that's what I like. I like when people are real with 574 00:31:02,300 --> 00:31:04,000 themselves and they can be like, yes. 575 00:31:04,100 --> 00:31:07,500 Yes, I'm working on this or yes, I need to work on this or you 576 00:31:07,500 --> 00:31:10,600 know what I mean, are just be accountable for where they're 577 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,900 holding their self back because like that's some energy that I 578 00:31:13,900 --> 00:31:16,300 can grow with that's energy that you grow with that. 579 00:31:16,300 --> 00:31:19,600 You can learn with that, you can actually build a bond with. 580 00:31:19,700 --> 00:31:22,600 I'm like not real big on like jumping into anything. 581 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,500 I feel like it's going to have to be like a longevity of like 582 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,400 actually going through some different seasons together 583 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,400 without actually dating like exclusively. 584 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:36,200 Just kind of like hanging out. Not rushing people, not rushing 585 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:41,300 myself because y'all be showing us your colors around 3 months 586 00:31:41,300 --> 00:31:44,200 at my at Max, Phi 3 months, you already done it. 587 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:48,500 So, but three months in, you're embarrassing yourself. 588 00:31:48,500 --> 00:31:53,200 And we're talking about you, honestly, I don't mind because 589 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,300 it really is kept things, you see. 590 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,300 Juicy juicy. It's a good candy store. 591 00:32:03,300 --> 00:32:08,500 Today aka the Dollar Tree and they had big lollipops. 592 00:32:08,500 --> 00:32:12,200 I got three of them. The big Rhino I was looking for, 593 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,000 I was like, oh we could have come here and I could have 594 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,900 gotten the lollipops for the photo shoot. 595 00:32:18,700 --> 00:32:23,000 I didn't realize that they had those there, but I bought a 596 00:32:23,008 --> 00:32:27,400 bunch of candy. I bought like nerds and Snickers 597 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,800 and Junior Mints and the shape of Hearts. 598 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,500 I found out that you can get big boxes of, well, not big but you 599 00:32:34,500 --> 00:32:38,000 can get boxes of fruit snacks there and thing. 600 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,000 They're always so fucking expensive when you go and get 601 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,500 them other places. So I was like, oh, this is a 602 00:32:42,500 --> 00:32:46,500 steal, you know, it's crazy. We were just talking about Five 603 00:32:46,500 --> 00:32:50,700 Below and then they made a whole, I know they've been going 604 00:32:50,700 --> 00:32:53,600 live, every single night, and I've been like, oh, this must be 605 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,000 a part of their life. They're like new. 606 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,300 Because they're always like, switching up what they're doing. 607 00:32:58,500 --> 00:33:01,000 It's their content and getting views and things. 608 00:33:01,300 --> 00:33:07,100 And so Mimi, and Haley each. Go live on their pages and Bunny 609 00:33:07,100 --> 00:33:09,500 Goes live on her page and they're all live in each other's 610 00:33:09,500 --> 00:33:12,000 videos. And I've been noticing, they've 611 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,300 been doing that every night since they've been in Vegas. 612 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,800 Not that I'm like, stalking. But I, you know, I absolutely 613 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,100 love it because the Vegas house is fucking gorgeous, like that 614 00:33:21,100 --> 00:33:24,200 bathtub is just everything that they've missed serving 615 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,700 everything. Like, I'm happy to know someone 616 00:33:26,700 --> 00:33:29,400 who could just upgrade there. Bathroom like that because 617 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,300 that's totally me in five years. I'm gonna have a bathroom like 618 00:33:32,300 --> 00:33:35,200 that. Like so yeah I'm really excited 619 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,400 for bunny because getting this TV show and being able to film 620 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,000 it in Vegas is going to be so vital for her because it's just 621 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:48,100 like giving her so much Publicity just things that she 622 00:33:48,100 --> 00:33:51,500 deserves and she's doing it. Herself first. 623 00:33:51,500 --> 00:33:53,800 She's like, We're going to she's doing it herself. 624 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:55,800 Her production company is putting it on. 625 00:33:56,100 --> 00:34:00,300 She's gonna have it on patreon and then they'll bid to sell it 626 00:34:00,300 --> 00:34:02,600 to a network after they've already been doing it. 627 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,800 So she's already like building up her audience even further 628 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,800 herself because I see people in her comments all the time, how 629 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,500 do I get to watch the show and whatever and she tells him to 630 00:34:12,500 --> 00:34:13,900 join patreon and they say they will. 631 00:34:13,900 --> 00:34:17,100 So she's getting all these new People. 632 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:24,400 And I've noticed that there's so much less that's jelly rolls, 633 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:28,500 husband and their wife, and there's more, that's funny, 634 00:34:29,699 --> 00:34:31,699 that's funny. And y'all better take note of 635 00:34:31,699 --> 00:34:33,800 it, she's actually about to hit a million followers on 636 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,600 Instagram. I mean, she's already hit like 5 637 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,000 million on Tick Tock, but she's not said a million on Instagram 638 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,300 and I'm really pumped for it because when I saw it went up to 639 00:34:40,300 --> 00:34:43,100 900,000, I was like she's in the home stretch and she's going to 640 00:34:43,107 --> 00:34:46,100 be grinding it in said, hit that Millie. 641 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,900 And I love that because she's such a good person and she 642 00:34:49,900 --> 00:34:53,800 really does deserve it because it's like she doesn't put people 643 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,300 down to get where she is, you know. 644 00:34:55,300 --> 00:34:58,800 Like she's just so kind and like, oh, we'll take care of it 645 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,900 or oh, like no problem. Let me know. 646 00:35:00,900 --> 00:35:03,300 Like, she's just like, I don't know, she's not one of those 647 00:35:03,300 --> 00:35:04,600 people. It's like, oh, I'm famous do 648 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,800 this for me for free. She's like, okay, how much you 649 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,400 charge and I'll pay you double like and that's what I fuck with 650 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,200 her about because like that's how I feel about things is like 651 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,500 I don't want people to feel like I'm trying to take advantage of 652 00:35:15,500 --> 00:35:18,100 them or You know, I like that real bitch energy and that's why 653 00:35:18,100 --> 00:35:21,000 I mean, her connect on like a soul level because I don't I 654 00:35:21,008 --> 00:35:23,600 don't want to take advantage of someone who's on the come up, 655 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,200 were on the rise or even someone who's hit their arise and then 656 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:28,900 try to get something for free from them. 657 00:35:28,900 --> 00:35:31,800 Like that's just not me. And I know a lot of people are, 658 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,300 always trying to get Brands to sponsor them or writing people 659 00:35:35,300 --> 00:35:38,200 because they have followers, like, oh, send me free stuff, 660 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:42,600 like, that's icky and energy. Like, you know, if you want to 661 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:45,300 collab with someone and it makes sense like, do you. 662 00:35:45,500 --> 00:35:47,700 But people think Think like, oh, I have a lot of followers. 663 00:35:47,700 --> 00:35:49,800 You should have send me free shit, or you should just 664 00:35:50,100 --> 00:35:52,900 whatever it gets on my nerves and Bunny does like the quite 665 00:35:52,900 --> 00:35:55,500 opposite. She's like, let me show you why 666 00:35:55,500 --> 00:35:58,400 you should do this. Like let me show you what I'm 667 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,400 doing. Like you know instead of like 668 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:06,700 all talk and not doing shit. She also is always if someone is 669 00:36:06,700 --> 00:36:10,300 end because I've listened to her podcast from the very beginning 670 00:36:10,500 --> 00:36:13,500 and any time that anybody was ever talking about their come 671 00:36:13,500 --> 00:36:16,000 up, and then wanting to do something that she knows how to 672 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,000 do. She's always like, oh I can help 673 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,300 you with that. We can help you with that. 674 00:36:20,300 --> 00:36:23,200 Me and Mimi will give you tips after we're done recording like 675 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:27,200 I have ideas for you and she's consistently been that person 676 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,900 and has continued to be that person. 677 00:36:29,900 --> 00:36:37,100 No matter how much she's doing. Like she also is so she's always 678 00:36:37,100 --> 00:36:41,400 showing gratitude and saying thanks to her audience and the 679 00:36:41,408 --> 00:36:47,200 people supporting her and she Being somebody who's like, been 680 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,900 there from the beginning. And like, what? 681 00:36:48,900 --> 00:36:53,100 Like, I remember when she was doing post, sending people money 682 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:57,000 for like doing Raffles and spending money, like, spell this 683 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,000 out so many times in the comments. 684 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,600 And like, if I notice you, I'll send you money. 685 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:06,100 She sent me money for hot wings one time, and, like, she's just, 686 00:37:06,300 --> 00:37:08,500 I've watched her hustle to build her platforms. 687 00:37:08,500 --> 00:37:13,000 And it's so fucking cool to see somebody put in energy on 688 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,500 everything that they've been saying they were going to 689 00:37:14,500 --> 00:37:17,400 manifest and fuck. He make that shit happen and I'm 690 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,200 watching her is such an inspiration to me. 691 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,900 Like, I'm so glad that I found her like four and a half years 692 00:37:23,900 --> 00:37:26,500 ago and like just started connecting with her journey at 693 00:37:26,500 --> 00:37:30,300 that point because watching her on the rise like from being 694 00:37:30,300 --> 00:37:33,200 sober and just like really hustling and all that. 695 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,800 It's like damn like I love that the other day when she wrecked 696 00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:40,600 the Mercedes and jelly was like I mean you bought it and she's 697 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:44,100 like I don't like I bought it for you and no I feel bad and 698 00:37:44,100 --> 00:37:47,700 they're like he's like do Let her drive without her glasses. 699 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,100 I was cracking up. I was like a sofa. 700 00:37:50,100 --> 00:37:53,200 Like that's how this happened. She didn't have her glasses on. 701 00:37:53,500 --> 00:37:56,300 I know. And I could see that because she 702 00:37:56,300 --> 00:37:57,500 always talks about how she's blind. 703 00:37:57,500 --> 00:37:59,900 So, I mean, obviously, you should be backing out the 704 00:37:59,900 --> 00:38:04,700 G-Wagen if you don't know where the rocks are because those are 705 00:38:04,700 --> 00:38:06,400 pretty stationary like those are. 706 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,400 Those were Boulders. They really were. 707 00:38:08,500 --> 00:38:15,000 He's so close were calder's. We have Boulders so to keep you 708 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,700 in the Driveway. I don't know. 709 00:38:17,700 --> 00:38:20,500 I think people that do what they say they're going to do good, 710 00:38:20,500 --> 00:38:22,600 things always happen to them because you're not stepping on 711 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,500 people to get there you're not hurting people to get there like 712 00:38:25,500 --> 00:38:27,200 you're you're staying true to you. 713 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,400 You're not selling yourself short, you're not selling 714 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,200 yourself out. You're not selling your soul. 715 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,400 You're not changing who you are to get people to like you, but 716 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,000 you're just showing up in your Ross form. 717 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,500 You know, being the wildest version of yourself and people 718 00:38:39,500 --> 00:38:44,100 just will either like that or not and I know that people are 719 00:38:44,100 --> 00:38:45,400 always wanting to throw shade on. 720 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,800 Ever, but it's like the way that you respond and stay in your 721 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,400 powers, most important thing because people are not always 722 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,500 going to support you well enough you know that you're putting 723 00:38:54,500 --> 00:38:58,400 yourself out authentically and that you're like you're showing 724 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,700 exactly who you are, act like that also helps you to give less 725 00:39:01,700 --> 00:39:05,400 of a fuck when people try and pull you out of your power and 726 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:09,200 say things about your name that are untrue because you know that 727 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:11,800 you've already showed yourself. Like you don't have to defend 728 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:15,100 yourself because your actions consistently in your character. 729 00:39:15,500 --> 00:39:18,300 You've already proved that. Yeah, and that's the thing is 730 00:39:18,300 --> 00:39:20,300 like a lot of people want to tell everyone what they're going 731 00:39:20,300 --> 00:39:22,000 to do, but it's like, you got to show people. 732 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,600 You got to, you got to lead by example, because if you're just 733 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,100 saying it, you're never actually making that change or making 734 00:39:28,100 --> 00:39:30,700 those moves. Like, it's just talk and I think 735 00:39:30,700 --> 00:39:33,600 that's why bunny was able to do what she's been able to do is 736 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:38,800 because like, you know, whenever she met jelly, she did whatever 737 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,800 she could to make sure that he had what he needed. 738 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,900 So, he could do what he needs to do, because she believed in him 739 00:39:42,900 --> 00:39:45,400 and then look. So it's just like, she deserves 740 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,700 Everything is. It's the most wildest story. 741 00:39:48,700 --> 00:39:51,100 I can't wait for like these documentaries and like these 742 00:39:51,100 --> 00:39:54,400 movies to start coming out about them because like the story in 743 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,600 itself, like the world really does need to hear because it's 744 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,900 inspiring. It's inspiring to watch people 745 00:39:58,900 --> 00:40:02,600 that like, were in prison or like, wherever doing whatever, 746 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,100 like, come up and be able to help people on the way they 747 00:40:05,100 --> 00:40:07,500 didn't have to step on nobody. They didn't have to sell 748 00:40:07,500 --> 00:40:10,700 yourself out and I think that that's what's so cool about 749 00:40:10,700 --> 00:40:14,500 like, owning your own production company operating from your own 750 00:40:14,500 --> 00:40:18,100 record label. Well, you know, not having to 751 00:40:18,100 --> 00:40:20,900 answer to anyone and that's ultimate goals. 752 00:40:20,900 --> 00:40:22,700 Like, that's Altima goals right there. 753 00:40:25,100 --> 00:40:30,100 I don't know for sure that it was the war that he was in but 754 00:40:30,100 --> 00:40:33,800 jellyroll went and did a concert at the prison that he had been 755 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,800 at. And I think that he did it in 756 00:40:35,808 --> 00:40:40,300 his old Ward, but he brought struggle and Adam, Calhoun was 757 00:40:40,300 --> 00:40:44,500 him and literally set up a stage there and did a performance for 758 00:40:44,500 --> 00:40:46,500 the inmates that were There. Okay. 759 00:40:46,500 --> 00:40:49,200 Johnny Cash, calm down. Yeah, it was fun. 760 00:40:49,300 --> 00:40:51,300 It was fucking dodos. So cool. 761 00:40:54,100 --> 00:40:56,900 And that's like, giving back to, I don't know. 762 00:40:56,900 --> 00:41:01,800 I feel like he is spending so much money getting like youth 763 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,800 programs, and to juvie and stuff like that. 764 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,700 Like, he's really doing something with the stuff that he 765 00:41:07,700 --> 00:41:11,900 has, and he actually donated the all the proceeds, from the 766 00:41:11,900 --> 00:41:18,300 concert in Nashville, To the juvie down there. 767 00:41:18,300 --> 00:41:19,600 Yeah. That's what I'm saying. 768 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:24,900 Like Okay. So crazy, you know, life can 769 00:41:24,900 --> 00:41:28,200 really change and I think if anybody wants to learn anything 770 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,600 from this episode is like your mindset, your energy, your 771 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:37,400 intentions matter, and it's the reason that you're either 772 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,800 getting what you want or not getting what you want. 773 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,400 Period. And unfortunately, we are taught 774 00:41:43,500 --> 00:41:47,600 to do well in to fear into like, you know, anticipate the 775 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:51,600 timeline or anticipated. But like at any given rate like 776 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:55,400 I know, Know that like what is for me is going to happen and 777 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,600 like, I'm just so in that power that's like even if it is five 778 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,500 years down the road, or even if it is 10 years, like I will get 779 00:42:02,500 --> 00:42:05,500 it period. Like it'll happen and so I think 780 00:42:05,700 --> 00:42:09,600 that's exactly what they did. But both of them were I'm gonna 781 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,400 do this and then they did and now you can watch it from the 782 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,200 sidelines because some people never thought it would happen. 783 00:42:16,300 --> 00:42:20,000 You know what I mean? And I think that's why I'm like 784 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,500 so attached to Bunny at the hip like She could do no wrong in my 785 00:42:23,500 --> 00:42:25,000 eyes. I know should we call her our 786 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,900 godmother? But she really does inspire so 787 00:42:27,900 --> 00:42:31,200 many people and thanks to her like I'm able to connect with so 788 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:36,100 many of you know their fans like that also have like connected 789 00:42:36,100 --> 00:42:38,200 with both of us and like she brought us together. 790 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:41,900 It's just like this woman is leaving this path for so many 791 00:42:41,900 --> 00:42:45,200 people and it's so inspiring whenever you see the path for 792 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,600 yourself, start to open up because you get out of your own 793 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,500 way and you start believing that you know what, I can have that 794 00:42:51,500 --> 00:42:55,400 too. Dude, that is my godmother. 795 00:42:55,400 --> 00:43:03,800 I say all the time. One day I'm just one day just I 796 00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:13,300 don't know I just remember finding her page and starting to 797 00:43:13,300 --> 00:43:16,200 follow her and I never would have imagined that following 798 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:20,500 somebody would lead to everything. 799 00:43:20,900 --> 00:43:24,100 Like I wouldn't have had that reading that I had with you. 800 00:43:24,100 --> 00:43:26,500 I wouldn't have probably started the podcast. 801 00:43:26,500 --> 00:43:31,700 I wouldn't have You know, like it literally and and nothing 802 00:43:31,700 --> 00:43:34,400 that she even did other than being herself. 803 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:40,300 And so it's it's also a weird concept that to then think that 804 00:43:40,300 --> 00:43:43,700 now people listen to us. When I don't know. 805 00:43:43,700 --> 00:43:46,900 It's like this whole round about circle of like healing and 806 00:43:46,900 --> 00:43:50,100 sharing and I just think it's dope. 807 00:43:50,100 --> 00:43:53,600 I'm grateful. I'm really grateful for everyone 808 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,700 that I'm crossing paths with right now. 809 00:43:55,700 --> 00:43:58,600 I know that there's like a lot of Change and uncertainty. 810 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:02,400 So it's cool to like see people even come and go because like 811 00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,900 people even impression and some people don't like, that's why 812 00:44:04,900 --> 00:44:07,100 you like, remember some people. And you don't I want to be one 813 00:44:07,100 --> 00:44:10,200 of those people that people remember regardless like if we 814 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,100 like our friends or we are we staying each other's lives are 815 00:44:14,100 --> 00:44:18,000 not like I don't want to be like, you know, I didn't like 816 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,400 her or like you know I want to be that person is like leaving a 817 00:44:20,408 --> 00:44:22,600 good impression on the world and like trying to create that 818 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,100 ripple effect. And I think like when you show 819 00:44:25,100 --> 00:44:29,900 up as yourself and you With that energy, like doors, open 820 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,000 miraculously for you. Like you starting the podcast 821 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:37,500 and stuff. It's like you have to be in the 822 00:44:37,500 --> 00:44:41,100 energy or the frequency of like what you're looking for to like 823 00:44:41,100 --> 00:44:43,100 are you up to see it? Anyway, it's your to be able to 824 00:44:43,100 --> 00:44:45,900 see it. And like someone said, one time, 825 00:44:46,900 --> 00:44:51,200 you know, when you see people healing growing not only 826 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:54,100 touching other people's life but then like maybe making money as 827 00:44:54,100 --> 00:44:57,500 well or like creating art or doing something that makes them. 828 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,400 Really happy weather like and all levels and forms of 829 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,600 abundance. You can't unsee it. 830 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,300 Like you want that for yourself, whether you're making money or 831 00:45:05,300 --> 00:45:07,500 you're just happy doing it either way. 832 00:45:07,500 --> 00:45:10,500 It's the same thing. And I think that a lot of us 833 00:45:10,500 --> 00:45:13,900 search for that outside of ourselves, but really the whole 834 00:45:13,900 --> 00:45:15,500 time. It's like within you, it's 835 00:45:15,500 --> 00:45:18,000 within you to find that like, who are you? 836 00:45:18,300 --> 00:45:21,500 So then you can then surround yourself with people that match 837 00:45:21,500 --> 00:45:25,000 that vibration, or that are in that frequency or in that Arena. 838 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,500 And even if it's just like, wow, I want to be like that person. 839 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:31,400 And having people who inspire you, even from a distance that 840 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,500 you may never talk to is still so important. 841 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,900 Yeah, following gray people that inspire you. 842 00:45:37,900 --> 00:45:40,600 Like if I hear that like, Beyonce inspires you, I'm just 843 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,900 like, you need to check yourself but like, no offense, I think a 844 00:45:44,900 --> 00:45:48,800 lot of celebrities like Our trash. 845 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,900 I like the things I do is trash. So like when people idolize 846 00:45:51,900 --> 00:45:55,200 them, I'm like, wow, like your life has almost no meeting. 847 00:45:55,300 --> 00:45:59,100 It couldn't have that much, it's because they idolize the things 848 00:45:59,100 --> 00:46:02,800 that they're able to do. They idolize the way that they 849 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:07,400 aesthetically look. And the life that they portray 850 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,800 that they have, they don't have to. 851 00:46:10,500 --> 00:46:15,300 They don't actually idolize like how the person is and treats 852 00:46:15,300 --> 00:46:20,100 other people and whatever. / and that's what's crazy is like we 853 00:46:20,107 --> 00:46:23,300 don't have that many good role models and Society of people 854 00:46:23,300 --> 00:46:26,100 that have good character and that behind the scenes are like 855 00:46:26,100 --> 00:46:29,000 good people, like all the way down to like Bill Cosby, you 856 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,100 know what I mean? Like people idolize that man 857 00:46:31,100 --> 00:46:34,000 forever and then all this craziness came out, you know. 858 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,400 I just think that deep down like so many people are sick and 859 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,600 twisted but they put on a good show so you just need to be 860 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:43,000 careful of what shows you're watching in general, whether 861 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,800 like in real life or on TV or whatever like just what you 862 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,900 actually absorb really does affect your mindset because 863 00:46:49,900 --> 00:46:52,600 you're picking up that vibration regardless. 864 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:58,300 Yep, maintaining your vibration is key. 865 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:02,400 But right now, everything is really rapidly manifesting 866 00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,800 because we had all those portals and we are like, approaching the 867 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:09,800 two, two, two portals. So, like, it's really been a big 868 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,800 portal since last year when it was 22. 22, 22. 869 00:47:12,900 --> 00:47:15,200 You know. So it's like this past year has 870 00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:20,900 been hitting different. I have been in this energy of 871 00:47:20,900 --> 00:47:26,400 being organized and like setting myself up for like longevity 872 00:47:26,700 --> 00:47:30,700 success and not being overwhelmed because I make 873 00:47:30,700 --> 00:47:34,500 myself organized now. So that as things keep growing, 874 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:38,000 they expand in a healthy way and I don't feel overwhelmed. 875 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:42,700 And I feel like if I lay those foundations out while Things Are 876 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,600 You know, before things are crazy busy because as soon as 877 00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,700 things just started, getting busier for me, I just kind of 878 00:47:50,700 --> 00:47:52,900 was like, in shock mode real quick and didn't know what to 879 00:47:52,900 --> 00:47:56,100 do. And I want that and I want that 880 00:47:56,100 --> 00:47:58,200 long term without being stressful. 881 00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:00,900 So it's just been a season of organization for me. 882 00:48:01,500 --> 00:48:05,600 Well, I need to organize some stuff last year, I was feeling 883 00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:09,800 real organized but this year like I did organize for a while. 884 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,800 That was kind of like the goal but I could definitely organize 885 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,300 something. Paperwork and go through some 886 00:48:15,300 --> 00:48:17,300 stuff and probably get rid of some stuff. 887 00:48:17,900 --> 00:48:20,300 I like cord different papers and stuff. 888 00:48:20,300 --> 00:48:22,900 I don't need really like, I don't need to keep up with all 889 00:48:22,900 --> 00:48:28,300 that we all have something. Yeah, yes we do. 890 00:48:28,300 --> 00:48:36,700 We all got something, but I am just grateful for you grateful, 891 00:48:36,700 --> 00:48:40,700 grateful for the opportunity, the podcast, the friendship that 892 00:48:40,700 --> 00:48:42,700 everything. Yes. 893 00:48:42,700 --> 00:48:46,400 And I think, To be here in Candyland and we're grateful 894 00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:51,500 that we have been able to connect with everyone and 895 00:48:51,500 --> 00:48:54,200 different ways. Especially recently, I feel like 896 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,700 it's more and more people are coming out of the woodwork out 897 00:48:57,700 --> 00:49:01,600 of the spiritual closet. Yes! 898 00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:06,500 Open up getting it poppin. And yeah, I'm looking forward to 899 00:49:06,500 --> 00:49:09,300 next time, I'm grateful, it's all just going to get better and 900 00:49:09,300 --> 00:49:12,200 bigger. Yes, baby. 901 00:49:12,500 --> 00:49:15,100 So we will see you all next week. 902 00:49:15,700 --> 00:49:16,400 Bye.