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Welcome back to Candyland, You Beautiful people.
It is Jim and I and myself today.
We hope that you enjoyed our latest and greatest guest, but
now it's just us. So what's up, baby?
What's up? I feel like that popped off so
many new topics for us to discuss though, and now I'm
like, I have so many things I want to talk to you about in the
world. Honestly, I love episodes where,
like, we do less interviewing on like the guest themselves, but
more of like, hey, I like your energy.
I feel like we resonate with your energy.
Now let's talk about controversial topics or taboo
topics, because it's always nice to bring in so many different
people's energies. But sometimes, like, people
don't care about someone's childhood or what they did and
all this stuff. Like, not always.
I mean, not that people don't care, but you know what I mean?
Like sometimes to know who you are on a core level.
Like what drives you, what motivates you, what scares you.
That type of energy is like what I love.
Yeah. And then you get to also learn
how they process through things too, like we talked about so
many different topics the last time.
And you get to just see how somebody processes through maybe
information they don't agree with or communicating their
different, their different opinion and their different
thought. And it gives you like a
different respect and understanding of that person.
Yes, because a lot of people can, like, show you their best
side on like Instagram or Facebook or like the Internet.
But like, I want to know who you are when things are not puppies
and rainbows, or like when you don't agree with something or
when you're triggered by something.
And I love to talk about spiritual topics with people
because there's literally so much under the surface from what
you see on someone's social media or what they portray to
the world. And like we discussed with
Samantha, we would have been burned at the stake for talking
about some of this shit. And I love that She was like, I
know I've been burned at the stake.
And like, I personally resonate with that as well.
Just the fact of like, I know I have been persecuted and pushed
into hiding because I constantly get that message of like come
out of The Cave, you don't have to fear persecution, like come
out, come out and like spread that energy and it's just a
beautiful thing. I wonder too, like how many
people who are now mentors or supporters inside of like
spiritual community and and talking about like taboo topics
and helping like bring light to other people.
I wonder how many of us did experience being silenced, being
persecuted for things, and then this time or like we're all
fucking coming back, we're all going to keep doing what we were
doing. Like what did we contract
together? How many of us, like know each
other from past like lifetimes or whatever and are like, Oh no,
we're going to be going through this.
Yeah. And I feel like also something
that we signed up for because my ancestors are always like
emphasizing, like you are safe and you are protected.
And like, you don't need to worry, You need to just push
forward like lead people to the golden age, like lead people
through this change. And I just feel like the more
that I help awaken people, the more exempt that I am to fucking
suffering or fear or any of those energies.
Like, I just don't consent to it and it's not a part of my
reality. And I love to help people
expand. And it's like a ripple effect
because there's so much under the surface at times that maybe
we don't even realize that's under that surface.
And it's just kind of like, we've all known in our soul that
we would come back and that the time would be available, I
guess. And it is beautiful, 'cause I do
feel like a lot of star seeds and a lot of people,
lightworkers and just healers and witches, and everyone has
came back into this dimension at this time.
And so I love whenever you hear people say, like, I'm only 30
and I've lived through like all these life events and all these
life changes, whether it was like the Millennium to like, you
know, 911 to like fucking COVID. And like we just went through so
many, like major changes in society, like being on the cusp
of like the Internet, like before the Internet, after the
Internet. And so I just really, really
love coming together with people and like and like shedding light
on that darkness. That is so interesting that we
have lived through so many things because you're right, so
many of us that are younger do feel like we have already lived
all of these lifetimes and already have all of this
experience and things to teach other people.
Somebody on my TikTok made a video yesterday and was like I
can't wait till I'm 40 so that I can be like the old Wise Crown.
And I'm like, I'm 29 years old and I already feel this way.
Like I already feel like there's so much advices to give on
things and dynamics to be learned and and shared.
And it used to be that you were only seen as having wisdom and
having had experiences if you were an older person and you
were just kind of shooed to the side as being like young, dumb
and ignorant if you were younger.
And there is so much more I think respect and listening to
now that we have social media and you're able to share so many
things that you do know and information that you do have
where now we're being able to be seen as like intelligent human
beings with experiences at younger ages.
And it'll be really interesting as we do get older to see if
people our age nurture the people that are younger and
coming up, or if it's going to be a similar thing where we're
like, you haven't been through anything, you're only 20.
I mean, I personally will never become like the bitter boomer.
That's like just work harder and like even though someone told me
that like the house their parents live in, it's like a
massive house that's worth like 500 K they were like my parents
paid $38,000 for their house in the 80s, like $38,000.
You cannot even go get a small sedan car for 38K in this
energy. So it's like I don't resonate
with telling people how to live their experience because as a
healer and as a light worker, I know that we all have soul
contracts, We all have things that we personally signed up for
that maybe don't make sense to other people.
And I think that our generation, people between like 25 and 35
currently are here to break that mold because things are going in
a different direction. And it is authentic expression
and it is elevation and it is lighting the path for others to
follow. And I feel like older
generations were just fucking gatekeepers.
They were gatekeepers. They're Bible thumpers, you
know, Especially like, I live in the Bible Bell.
And you know, my Nana literally sends me a Bible every year.
And I'm like, I really love you, but like, I don't need 45 Bibles
at my house, you know, like, whatever.
But, you know, that's very, very common to like project limiting
beliefs on the people in these older generations.
So I do feel like a lot of people in our generation are,
like, moving towards, like, conscious parenting and, you
know, not gentle parenting and not enabling their kids, but in
a sense being conscious. Like, I know my kid has these
issues or these development things, and I'm going to nurture
them so that they don't feel alienated or exiled or judged
because of that. Like, you know, previous
generations were just, like, not even worried about mental
health. They were like, oh, you've been
sexually abused. Get over it.
Or you've had this happen, Get over it.
Or you watched your mom, you know, take shots of vodka at
9:00 AM and take you to school, get over it, You know, like
there was just, like, no accountability in some of the
older generations. And I think that us being
awakened and being enlightened at a young age is going to shift
that. Like I know that the shift is
here, whether people like that or not, whether they're going
kicking or screaming or not. I think that's why so many
people have throat chakra blockages too, is that they were
told growing up that like, you need to be quiet.
This just is what it is. Don't repeat anything that
happens inside of this home. Everybody has issues.
Nobody cares about what issues you have, whatever.
And that created people that don't want to ask for help.
You have high egos and a lot of I think mental health things
stem from that because you're constantly being told that your
experience doesn't matter, that everybody has problems, just put
it down and deal with it. It's the same thing as like the
boys aren't supposed to cry, like man up type of mentality.
And it's like, oh, so you're just making a whole bunch of men
who don't have the ability to have emotional understanding
consciousness and be able to responsibly communicate and work
through things. And we've talked about it
before, but there are a lot of people who they don't care to
recognize those patterns that they were raised with and they
don't care to work on it. And so then they just keep
putting that on to people inside of society and want to silence
those people and whatever. And then you go to church and
you're still told the same thing.
And I think I find so much safety inside of like our
spiritual community because even if the people aren't quote UN
quote healed and understanding that they have these certain
traits, at least they're in a space where they're wanting to
learn and expand and can Start learning some tips to be able to
develop on that. And I'm going forward this year
with the mindset that people who do fucked up unhealed things are
still learning the tips and tools that they are learning
from us or learning inside of other communities.
And they will one day be able to apply those and learn from the
ways that they treated other people or whatever.
And it just may not be their time to do it now.
And that has like shifted my perspective on being frustrated
or holding on to what's the fucking like a grudge.
Because it may be shocking, but I can hold the fucking grudge.
And if I've seen it in you, then fuck you.
But I've learned that I can see it in you.
I can know that about you as in this moment, but then I can also
know that you can heal. I may not ever talk to you
again, but you could heal and you could do better for somebody
else along the way. And you had to fuck me over in
order for you to learn that lesson.
And it's fine. And I think that the moment I
stopped taking other people's actions personal, that's for
super big. And like I talk about the book,
it's called the Four Agreements. And one of the Four Agreements
is to not take things personal. And the moment that you remove,
like, why is this person not treating me with respect?
And you don't see that as a personal attack towards you?
It shifts your whole freaking reality.
That's really difficult to do though, because you do feel like
how could you not see that you are doing this thing to me and I
I saw something recently that said you're not contradicting to
what we're saying. It says you're not that special.
People are not going out of their way to be vindictive
towards you. It's just their character and
who they are. And when you sit there and you,
this is something that I have, I have done and I'm working really
hard on not sitting there and picking apart the situation and
wondering how you don't understand my feelings and going
back and forth about how I feel versus you.
Whatever you waste so much energy doing that, it doesn't
help anybody come into healing on situations.
It just makes you sit there and be like, well, you're an awful
person because I have looked at this from every angle that I
possibly can and you still done fucked up.
Yeah. And I think so many people see,
like other people's lack of awareness or lack of
accountability as a personal attack or like you said,
vindictive towards them. And I love using the term, like
you don't owe me anything. Like you don't owe me respect,
but I demand and require respect.
So the moment I'm not getting that, I'm just going to remove
myself. Like, you don't owe that to me,
but I demand and I require that. So the moment that you stop
taking other people's actions personal and you just realize
that you only are in control of the way you're perceiving that
situation and you can let them disrupt your peace.
You can be laying up in bed like, why am I not good enough?
Why does this person not respect me or care about my feelings?
Or you can be like that person is projecting and reflecting how
they treat themselves back to me.
Because a lot of people that treat you like shit or talk to
you like shit, talk to themselves like shit and beat
themselves up on the inside and lay in bed all night like you're
a piece of shit and you fucking suck.
So many people have negative self relationships, whether that
was taught to them like you're not pretty enough, you're not
skinny enough, you're not rich enough, or whether that was
embedded from, you know, peers, relationships, work
environments. You know, I always say that
really, a lot of people stay in environments that are not
conducive to their growth because it feels comfortable.
And when you remove yourself, you may sit in quiet and empty
energy for quite some time. And a lot of people are like, I
don't want to be an empty energy.
I would rather fill it up with a bunch of shit that doesn't serve
me so I can be distracted from my own accountability and my own
healing. Because if you're blaming your
partner or your mother or your neighbor for your unhappiness,
you're never actually taking accountability for how you're
playing a role in your own suffering.
And that's what I think healing and spirituality has really
helped for me is it wasn't other people that made my life bad, it
was me allowing those people to bring their state Gucci energy
into my fucking life and bring me down.
Whether it was like, hey, I've got free drugs, do you want
some? Or hey, I'm having a party.
Or hey XYZ. Like I was allowing that by
creating an energetic relationship with that.
It's not their fault. It was my fault and I needed to
realize that I was just allowing them to have space in my life.
I was allowing those situations to manifest because I was
allowing it. Period.
Like that's just point blank period.
I let it happen. And also when you're so focused
on what everybody else is doing that you don't like or that's
bothering you or whatever, it ends up changing the way that
you treat those people and the way that your energy is around
them. So then it just keeps on
festering this. I don't like what you're doing.
I don't like what you're doing thing.
Whereas if you were to put your energy and time into you doing
what it is that you're wanting to do or communicating the way
that you do regardless of that person.
So many situations would like find more healing think that
inside of like relationship dynamics a lot too.
It'll be like, well, I don't like that they talk to me that
way. And so I talk to them this way.
And so then you keep on going in these cycles of
miscommunications and being disrespectful with each other.
Or you know, I'm a really affectionate person and this
person isn't being affectionate. So now I'm not an affectionate
person. No, because that person loved
that about you and that's why they're with you.
They loved that you were an affectionate person.
And so now you're changing something about yourself that
made your dynamic work and now everything is different.
But you're going to sit there and keep on blaming the other
person as being the problem. And so often we'll be like,
well, this person has changed or this has changed.
But people don't want to do the self reflection and the
evaluation to see what areas they've changed in and how
they're responsible for that dynamic shifting too.
And that's been also a big thing I've been learning and really
like really working on. And that goes back into the that
like 4 agreements thing of not taking things personal, like you
not liking to do this thing doesn't mean that you don't like
when I do it. That's me now, personalizing
something that's about you and putting it on myself.
And that also ties into when we were talking a couple weeks ago
about your love languages and how your love language will
shift based on somebody else's love language and what they do
or don't give you. And that you can mold yourself
and think that, oh, this is what I like or this is what I don't
like anymore. No, you're just living in a
world where you're trying to make other people comfortable,
whether that be your friends or your family members or, you
know, whatever. My favorite thing about
relationships right now is you can feel like you're healed and
that you're prosperous and that things are really shifting for
you. But I have learned that a lot of
the times that we feel that we're healed, it's because we're
absent of triggers. Like you can feel like you have
grown and you've elevated and you've really went next level.
But are you just absent of triggers?
Are you just isolated in your own comfort zone or in your
newfound comfort zone? And that's what I've learned
recently is that I. Had taken a step back from
dating, had taken a step back from mingling and going out and
being around people, being around family even.
And then the holidays rolls around and it's time of like,
community, and it's time of healing and it's time to come
together. And then you find out like,
whoa, like this is still triggering me.
This person is still triggering me.
This situation is still triggering me.
Like, you go home and people are commenting on your weight or
your sobriety or your lack of XYZ, like where's your partner,
what happened with you and blah blah blah, like, you know, like,
are you healed or are you just absent of triggers is a big
question to ask. Because I can send all of the
good vibrations out into the world and then go into an
environment and instantly be brought down to their level and
instantly be brought back down to where I started.
Or Ground Zero if you will. And that can be a huge wake up
call, because it's like, are you healed or are you just isolated?
And a lot of the times you will find that you've been isolated.
You've been hanging around your new spiritual friends, or your
new sober friends or your partner, or whatever, and you're
just absent of triggers. With the moment that you go into
an environment that's not conducive of your healing and
it's the same box that you escaped from, you're going to be
brought back down to square one where you have to face the noise
that maybe you're not as healed as you think you are.
That's so fucking real. Also.
Like the generation before us, too was still in the perfect
body, perfect image that you're projecting, that you're showing
other people and whatever. And I know that like my we've
talked about our grandmothers being very similar.
As in the sense of, like, you wake up, you get ready, you put
your makeup on, you look like you're ready for the fucking day
because you never know who you're going to meet.
What's going to happen? My Nana, you know, if her house
catches on fire, she'll just fucking stay in there if she
doesn't have her makeup on, because there's no goddamn way
that she's going to let the neighbors see her, you know,
disheveled. And so growing up, there was a
lot of, and I didn't realize this until a couple of years
ago, but there was a lot of perfectionism that was put on
the rest of her family. A big part of that being
religiously based, but a lot of it being your personal
appearance. And I remember she would be
like, you can be poor, but you don't have to look poor, Like
you can make yourself look expensive even if you know
you're not whatever. And so that was always, like
really drilled into us. And I saw her also.
Your body. Like for years her and my aunts
and my mom have been doing, you know, this weight loss thing and
that weight loss thing and this diet thing and and whatever.
And I didn't realize until a couple years ago how much that
mindset had, like, been transferred onto me and how much
of my personal thinking had been because of the way that their
perfectionism, her perfectionism had been projected onto me.
I'll never forget I she was really sick.
And so I flew down to California to go and take care of her.
And she was telling me that once I get back, what did she say?
Once you get back to the size that you should be your true
size, I'll take you clothes shopping and we'll go and we'll
get you a new wardrobe. And so I was sitting there that
night and I was like, I need to lose this weight because, like,
she's commenting on it. And like, I do want new clothes
that, like, make me feel comfortable, whatever.
Like, I do need to lose this weight.
And I felt so embarrassed that we were talking about it and
that it was so like, I shouldn't go and buy new clothes for
myself because I'm overweight. And it made me think of when I
had first had Mac and, you know, I had AC section and stuff.
So it was a little bit more difficult for me to bounce back.
And she took me postpartum clothes shopping.
And she was like, you need to get leggings and big shirts
because you need to hide the fact that you're very overweight
right now. And I didn't think about it in
the moment. I was just like, yeah, you're
right, Nana. Like I need to wear a burlap
sack because I am overweight right now.
And that sometimes that stuff, even though it's something that
like I'm working on or the other people, you know, you work on
things that people have said to you and projected to you in the
back of your mind. Sometimes you're still like, is
other people thinking this thing that this person is thinking
about me, Whether it be your weight or whether it be you're
told that you're too loud or you're too woo woo with the
spirituality or, you know, you don't talk enough or you cuss
too much or just whatever little thing it may be sometimes that
just sits there in the back of your brain and it just picks at
you. And it is those times you're
saying, like it is those moments where you know you're by
yourself and you don't have a trigger going on inside of your
world. And so your brain is like,
what's something bad that somebody said about you so that
you can work on this thing in your downtime?
Yeah. And I think that a lot of
children are in programmed with, like those limiting beliefs and
those projections. And a lot of parents want to
live vicariously through their child or very vicariously
through whoever. And, you know, for the longest I
was being influenced by unhealed parts of my parents, like their
fears and projections. Like my dad made a comment
probably like four years ago when I started my business.
And he was like, you'll never make that much money doing that.
Like, you'll never make that much money.
And then, you know, I look at it and I'm like, you know, when my
dad retired, he's making like 40 something dollars an hour.
And now on average, I make over 100 an hour for my services.
So it's like, OK, I would never make as much, but I'm making
triple what you made in one hour.
And you did this your whole fucking life.
But I think that the moment that you don't want to be spiteful
towards those people, you're really healing from those
triggers. Cause instead of trying to
justify or feel like I needed to be accepted by him or accepted
and what I was doing, I was just like, OK, cool, I'll, I'll show
you that. Like I'll show you what I'm
going to do instead of tell you instead of project that
insecurity back on to you, right.
Like I was just like, OK, you can send that my way and I'll be
your punching bag because you never chased your dreams and you
never broke the matrix on your life and you never actually
elevated and healed your insecurities, you know, But a
lot of people, especially in the capitalism type society, they
have been programmed to keep everyone on the same hamster
wheel that they're on no matter what.
And that's how the cycle stays alive, as if everyone is on the
hamster wheel. Everyone is going in the motions
of life and never questioning why we're all on the same ride.
That just keeps restarting. Like you never get ahead.
It just restarts and restarts. And that's why I hear people say
like that they don't have a savings account or that they're
one, like disaster or one, you know, emergency away from being
evicted. I was reading this thing and it
was saying like, a single mother may bring in $1800 in a month.
Her rent is 1100. Her car payment is 180.
Her insurance is 75. She's still got to have a phone
bill, electric, water and food for the month, but the
government says that she doesn't qualify for food stamps because
she's making 1800 a month. So they basically said like, OK,
on average the most her electric bill could be is like $150.00
and all that she's going to need is a bill that's 300 in one
month for her to get evicted. And they were like, well, why
would she get evicted? Because in her contract lease it
says that she has to have her services turned on so the moment
water or electric gets shut off, she's up for eviction because
she's voiding the contract that she signed when she signed her
lease. So they were basically saying
like even though she works for 45 hours a week and and does all
these things, it doesn't really matter because working harder
lost her government assistance for food.
So now she's actually behind because that 1800 plus food
stamps could have really allowed her to have a little wiggle room
on those bills. But basically they were saying,
like in the summer, she completely turns her air off and
sets in heat because she's afraid that she could end up
with like a $300.00 bill and that's all it's going to take
for her to get evicted. And they were like, I don't get
it. And they were like, this is the
reality for like 95% of single moms in America.
And you all are so worried about them getting food stamps or
getting insurance or getting some type of assistance, but yet
the cycle is broken because when you average out 1800 a month for
the year, like that's less than $30,000.
Like, it's not a lot of money, but her rent is 14,000.
Of that thirty, you know what I mean?
And like, I think they were saying like 1800 after taxes,
but still like the more majority of this is basically saying, oh,
you don't qualify, but you are one.
Like your car breaking down or needing a new tire or one
electric bill from literally being evicted because of those
circumstances. And like that's how broken the
hamster wheel is. But there will be people that
look you dead ass in your eyes when you start a business, or
you start a side hustle, or you trying to make a bet on yourself
and make a lateral move upward that will knock you down and
tell you that that's stupid. That you're investing in the
wrong thing. That it's not good.
You know, just like the 12 year olds who had Bitcoin and they
bought it for $12.00 and then at four years later it's worth
$40,000. Like I know someone personally
who had a Bitcoin and in its peak sold it for 28 K and they
were like I bought it for a couple 100 bucks when everyone
else was saying it was crazy. I basically lost my ass on
crypto. Like I've invested like 1000 and
I think it says I have 150 U.S. dollars like I could cash out.
So I haven't done great, but I still have the the same amount
of crypto I bought. So as long as you don't sell it,
you don't actually lose it. But you know, the system is
basically designed for your parents and grandparents to keep
you influenced to stay on the hamster wheel because that's
what keeps the machine going. And I always say that during
COVID, the machine begins to idle.
And when things idle, they get condensation, they get water in
the system, they get air bubbles in the in the pipes, in the
pockets, and that's what halted the whole machine.
That's why now they are really going after small businesses.
Like we said earlier on another episode about how it used to be
a $20,000 threshold that you didn't have to claim and now
it's $600.00 because they don't give a fuck if you're having a
yard sale or you sold some shit on eBay.
They want their cut because you're not going to get ahead.
This machine is not going to idle on their time.
You're going to get back on the machine.
You're going to make it work and you're going to keep going to
work and that's that's that. That's why I like so many
businesses. Businesses have made people go
back to the office now when that's absolutely not productive
for most businesses. But they didn't like that you
could do a little laundry on the clock and not be stressed 24/7.
And then now, because you were able to do a few things on the
clock and still get your job done, you have time in the
evening to heal, to meditate, to start a side business, to try to
get out of the corporate world. And they were like, hell, no,
you're going back to the office, you're going to commute 2 hours
a day and you're going to sit in traffic and eat shitty food,
'cause we don't want you getting healthy.
We don't want you to think you have broke free of this machine
'cause you haven't. So there's two things that I
wanted to touch on. So one of them the whole like
machine breaking down thing. So I don't know if you've heard
about this, but in Texas they basically are saying fuck the
federal government. They've kicked the federal
government out of their state because of the border.
So basically they're like the federal government isn't doing
anything to prevent migration over the border, undocumented
migration over the border. And so Texas is like, get the
fuck out of here. We're not doing that.
We're not going to keep having illegal migration through our
borders. And they now are discussing not
paying federal taxes to the government because we're not
needing you guys here. You're not doing anything for
us. You're not doing anything that's
benefiting our state. And so we're going to kick you
out and that's going to, if that ends up being something that
passes, that's going to have such like a domino effect on
other states because then all of a sudden other states are going
to be like, yeah, the federal government's not doing anything
for us. We're ruling ourselves.
And so that's going to cause its own shift, I think as that
starts to happen. But then, and I say that because
there's so many different pieces of the machine where, you know,
even higher ups, like even individual states, even people
leading individual states are like, y'all are fucked and we
don't like the policies that you're doing and you're not
looking out for the people. And we'll just take this into
our own hands. And that's where there's going
to start being even more separations, I think, because
you're still going to be 1 country, but you're going to
have all of these individual states like governing
themselves. Colorado tried doing it with
making it so that you couldn't vote for Trump on their ballot
and like, just removing him and saying you can't do that.
And then Texas is doing that with like their border or
whatever. So it'll just be interesting to
see what happens with that. I refuse to have like a fear
based mentality about it. And I just, I'm like, you know
what? It's going to end Like we we're
already surviving through like no toilet paper.
We can do anything. We lived through that.
Like we can make it happen and then what you said.
About that. I want to say something about
that so I don't forget if that happens, all of the government
assistance, food stamps, insurance, Social Security,
everything that comes from the federal government will be cut.
So them states better be ready. And what will happen is those
states will up their personal taxes.
So it's not just going to be like we're not paying Fed taxes
anymore. Everything's going to go down.
No, it's going to drive everything up.
And if the government exile you because you've chose to do that,
then when something does happen or there needs to be border
control or you know there's a natural disaster, you're not
getting FEMA, you're not getting federal aid, none of that.
So that could actually not be good for some states.
Texas would be fine because Texas is like its own United
States. It's so fucking huge.
There's more people in Texas than in like 5 other states
combined. So Texas would probably be fine,
but let a small state like fucking South Carolina or
somebody do that and they're going to be fucked as soon as a
hurricane rolls in. Just saying.
See, and that's so important to talk about too, because you see
only one aspect of something and you see a solution for this one
problem, but you don't think about how many different ways
that's going to affect things and to what you were saying
about like the single mother thing.
I also, it's always so interesting to me because I am
with somebody who has like a a kid that they share right, Who
like pays child support, who who like has a shared responsibility
over another human. And it's so interesting to me
that examples will always be given of like single mothers or
them not having money or whatever.
But for some reason, fathers always get kind of left out of
the equation. And the solution made by the
government for women, you know, raising children or whatever,
is, oh, well, we'll just make sure that the dad pays the
mother money, but the father has the same amount of things and
the same amount of bills and the same amount of expenses and
whatever as a mother does. So then you think about the fact
that a man is working hard to be able to have all of these things
too, and is maybe, you know, he also has to keep his power and
and his water on or whatever, because he also has that child
at his house and he needs to make sure that he's able to
provide for them. But then also there's this
additional stress because, well, now I have to give her a couple
$100 a month or whatever so that she can afford to keep her stuff
on so that she can afford to have that done.
And I always think that sending things through the government
for controlling things for you, like making sure that like,
you're getting financed from somebody or whatever.
To me it's always been such, it always seems like such a
disservice to the kid. Whereas if you were like, hey,
if this parent wants to be involved and they want to
contribute, they're going to. If they don't want to be
involved and they don't want to contribute, then don't have that
fucking parent involved. Because if you don't have that
other parent involved because they're not wanting to, you
qualify for different things, for different helps, for
different aids, different ways to help.
But if you're forcing somebody who is trying to be a partner in
raising a human being, you force them to give out of their
pocket. They actually can only provide
less for the kid. And I just, I I think that
whether it because there are mothers who receive child
support, their fathers who receive child support, you know,
whatever. And I've always thought it was
such a fucking disservice for the government to allot a
certain amount of money that you have to pay so that you're then
struggling for you to be able to provide anything when they're
with you because you've given it all to this other this other
person. And but also this is just a
little thing. I think that parents calling
themselves single parents when they're not actually you're not
a single parent. You are a parent who is single.
Like there's a difference between being a single parent
and having absolutely nobody that helps you with anything and
everything is on your shoulders. You do everything a fucking
loan. There is nobody who is backup.
There is nobody who wants to help you who wants to be
involved. That is very different than you
have broken up with somebody and this child has another parental
unit that is inside of their life that cares for them.
If something happens to you, this person will jump in.
That is so fucking different than saying that you're a single
parent. And that is just a tangent all
on its own. Thank you for listening to my
Ted talk. I honestly.
Grew up in a split household. My mom had child support from my
dad, and a lot of my limiting beliefs around money was because
of them arguing over money. Because even though my dad would
pay child support, my mom would still be like she needs school
clothes or she needs this or she needs that or he always like
covered insurance on me. So at a very young age, my dad
always made it very clear, like I paid for your braces and I
paid for this and I did these things.
And it was very, very detrimental to my development in
my home. Because not only was I in a
split household where people didn't like each other, I then
had to hear about finances. I then had to hear, well, I
bought that for you and I did that for you.
Not her, not him. I did that.
And just like the facts is if a kid is literally 16 years or
less, you should not be letting them know about child support or
food stamps or any of that, because it basically makes them
feel like a burden no matter who it's coming from.
Because we didn't ask to be birthed into your fucking life.
Like I didn't ask to be brought in and like my parents had me at
like 26 and 27, so they still didn't have a good grip on their
own reality, even though back then my dad bought a house for
fucking $50,000 or whatever, you know what I mean?
So it's like they still, no matter what the government said,
fought over fucking money. And I just think that if you're
going to have a kid, so last thing you should do is involve
the government. Like you should be civil and
grown enough to work it out. Like I'm going to buy school
clothes in the fall and you buy them in the spring or I'm going
to pay for this. I will carry insurance on them
and you provide for their food or whatever it is.
Or let's split custody and I get them this amount of time and you
get them this amount of time. And whatever we do for them in
those split times is what we do for them.
I'm not giving you money. You're not giving me money.
But in my opinion, a lot of people are not mature enough.
A lot of people think children are just a tax deductible write
off. And I've made that joke before,
like I need a kid to deduct off my taxes.
Like that would really help me. But it's fucked up that, like,
single people like me who go to work, bust my ass, don't use
public schools, don't get government assistance, never had
government insurance, get fucked on my taxes because I don't have
a kid. And it's like that kid would be
utilizing all these resources that I'm paying for regardless.
Why do I have to pay more? Because I don't have one?
Like, it's a broken cycle and the government keeps people
having kids they can't afford because of the broken cycle.
Like, a lot of people don't have the capacity to have more than
one child and yet they have four or five.
Like, a girl I went to high school with just posted that
she's pregnant with her boyfriend who literally just got
out of prison. This dude looks like a fucking
crackhead. And this was like, one of my
best friends growing up. And I sent the picture to my mom
and my dad and they were like, that guy's on meth.
Like, that guy does meth. And I'm like, you can tell,
like, she's over here. Like, I'm 20 weeks pregnant and
I didn't even know. Yeah, 'cause when you do drugs
and shit, bitch, you don't gain weight.
Like, yeah, we know why you didn't know.
Because when you do drugs, your period's fucked up anyways.
But it's like people like her, who already have several kids
they've lost custody of, are now having another one.
And that's OK That's endorsed. That's check the box for the
machine and it just bothers me because the more kids you grow
up in a broken cycle, the more kids you get on the hamster
wheel and do the same dumb shit and repeat the cycle.
But it's like they don't educate people on Co parenting.
They don't educate people because like we said earlier, in
the previous times, it was sit down and shut up.
I don't care if your grandpa raped you.
Sit down, shut up. Don't tell anyone.
Keep that in the home or whatever.
And that's just so fucked up. Like, our generation's the first
generation to really address mental health.
But there's two ends of that spectrum, one side hella on
drugs and the other side trying to heal.
And it's like constant, like trying to figure that out.
And you know, I just personally believe that they should put a
program, and I'm not saying force people to be sterilized,
but I'm saying give people money, whether it's 10 or
$15,000. If you want to get a vasectomy
or you want to get a hysterectomy, why not endorse
that? Because I promise you there
would be a bunch of 20 year olds.
Obviously it would be 18 and older, but there would be all
kinds of 20 year olds that would be like, you know what I could
do? I could do this, Get 15,000,
invest that into school, and make something of myself.
Not utilize government assistance.
Not utilize public education. Not utilize all these resources
that other people may need more than me and fucking break the
cycle. Yes.
So when you go in, I think it's if you're under 30, if you go in
for a vasectomy or a hysterectomy, they won't give it
to you because they say that you're too young to like make
that decision yourself. It ends up, I won't say they
won't give it to you. It's extremely difficult for you
to get, especially for insurance to cover it because they say
that you're too young to make that choice for your body at
that time. Like it can be irreversible or
whatever. And I think that if somebody is
of legal age telling you what they want to do with their body,
let them do it. But that goes into the whole
like women don't get autonomy over their body in so many
places now because it's the government's fucking business
whether or not you decide to keep a child for XY and Z
reasons. But why don't you go ahead and
put it into the system so that it can be abused in foster care?
You can get me started on that and going back to what you were
saying about like when you were growing up and you know, your
parents being like you know, I I have, you know, I I do your
insurance, whatever. When it comes to child support,
I have learned this. Unfortunately, even if you are
providing health insurance, whatever, that's not something
that's considered when it comes into you paying child support.
So that's an additional cost that comes out of your check
that is not considered as you providing financially for the
kid. Even though your insurance
costs, you know $700,000 a month or whatever, that is not counted
as you providing anything for that child, which I think has
just been fucking crazy. And that's why so many people
will put their children on government insurance and will
make under the threshold and and it creates this population of
people who they're not ever going to work harder for
anything. Because when you work harder you
have to pay more and it's not seen that you know you're you're
paying all this money for insurance or whatever and that's
coming out of your check. Now you've additionally got the
Child Support or whatever that comes out of your check too.
And so and it financially makes more sense for you to not work
hard and for you to make under this certain amount of money and
be in poverty and have all of these government assistances.
Because then you're actually able to provide to your children
in a way that you can't. Because even if you have that
insurance, you have deductibles and co-pays.
So you may have an insurance plan that you pay.
You know, let's say you pay $1000 a month for this insurance
plan. That's just for you to be able
to say that you have insurance. Now when you go to the doctor's
office, you still have to pay, you know, 35 to $50.00 for a
normal plan in order to see the doctor.
Then you have your co-pay when you go to the pharmacy and you
have to pick up the medication. So you're, you know, $150.00 or
whatever in the hole there. Plus now you have an out of
pocket maximum, so your insurance isn't even going to
pay above 20% for you until you've met this, you know, 10 to
$20,000 out of pocket that you're required to meet in order
for insurance to do anything. And so it's, you know, a system
that's in so many ways designed to keep you limited and and to
keep you down. And unfortunately, people don't
always have the ability to see things as this is a temporary
thing when you're living inside of it.
So you're not able to see I'm doing this and I'm struggling
through this or whatever for the next five years because my kid
is 13. And when they're 18, they won't
be, you know, I I won't be in this struggle because then
they're going to start being responsible to to figure these
things out for themselves. And so they don't.
You're not spending your energy teaching your kids how to
navigate the system and how to get your own insurance and the
importance of that and how to pick an insurance plan and do
these things. Because you're so stressed out
in the moment and putting yourself down and into poverty
so that you can have this certain way of life.
And so that you don't have to struggle so much.
And so then you keep that generational struggle going
instead of showing them that even though there is, that this
isn't easy and that it's a really difficult path, that you
keep on fucking doing it and you keep working and whatever,
because eventually you will overcome that.
And that's like a, I think an instant gratification thing.
Like it, it solves the problem in the moment, but it doesn't
solve a problem later on. Because when you're putting
yourself down in order to be able to have, like the
government assistances or whatever it may be, then when
your kid is grown up and now you're not having to do that,
now you don't have a retirement, now you don't have a savings,
now you don't have this and that.
You didn't think about that because you were so programmed
in the moment to make sure that your kid had free healthcare.
And to add to that, I think there should be a fucking
limitation to how many kids can be on government assistance.
Like healthcare, food. I think like over over two kids,
baby. I don't know what to tell you.
You know like I'm just saying like I know it's not the child's
fault but also the system endorses have more kids and will
give you more food stamps. And then I recently saw on my
Facebook this girl posted her refrigerator that was like full
and she was like shout out to my client for the stamps.
So your client came and got her eyelashes done, which is $150.00
and fucking gave you probably $300.00 of food stamps cause.
Which is fraud. As much food as she had in that
fridge, it was more than $150.00.
Or she may be traded the whole month for the fill in and the
the upkeep because you can't just go get your eyelashes done
and not keep that up. It's the same thing with like
nails and whatever. So like that's where the shit
really blows me off the fucking ledge that I just want to
scream. Because that girl probably has
three kids who are suffering so she can have eyelashes.
And I know there's a TikTok that floats around every Christmas
where the girl has long ass nails and she's like crying and
like wiping her face and she's like, I just don't know how I'm
going to provide for my kids for Christmas.
And someone said show them your nails, they'll understand.
And that's true. Like, I have no fucking sympathy
for people who milk the system to their benefit.
Yes, I think food stamps, I think government healthcare.
I think some of those programs are necessary, and I think that
after three years of being on them, you should be cut the fuck
off. Because there should be an
incentive to grow and to elevate and then to pay back in to the
system that you're taking from that you're robbing, basically.
Because when you're out here trading them for eyelashes and
fucking shoes and shit like that, that's a problem for me.
And I have less and less sympathy for people who have two
3-4 kids and don't try to break that cycle because they're
perpetuating the cycle. They're teaching the cycle.
Like, I understand, like, Oh my gosh, I'm 19, I'm pregnant.
I don't know what I'm going to do.
I need to figure this out. But if the incentive is to wait
until you're 21 and just have another kid so you can get more,
and then by 23 and 25 you've got more, and then you marry a guy
that comes out of prison who doesn't have anything anyways,
and you keep that cycle going, It's just like, it disgusts me.
And a lot of people are taught that from their mom and their
grandparents and whoever. And I don't think food stamps
itself is the problem. I think there's no limitation to
it. Whether you have 4 kids or 14
kids, they just keep giving you more.
And that's the problem because now I know if I have another
kid, I get an extra $500 a month that I can sell and go get my
eyelashes done and go get my nails done and whatever.
And that's what bothers me. I grew up in a A1 sided
household where we did get government assistance at times.
So I look at all the money I pay in now as the karma from us
taking from that system and I'm so cool to give that money back.
I went to public schools like I've utilized the system.
I've been on an Angel tree like I've received things throughout
my life, and you know, I see the balance in giving back to that
system. But at the same fucking time,
there is no incentive to break that cycle.
Like you said, there's just none.
The incentive is do your own thing and you get screwed and
you get cut off. And whereas, like that story I
gave about bringing home 1800 seems like a lot.
But technically, if she brought home 15 instead she'd get $700
in food stamps. So now she's technically behind.
And I just don't like it. I just don't like the broken
cycle. That's like, my biggest thing is
that I always knew I wanted a kid, but I wanted to wait until
I was 1000 financially dependent, where I never would
have to introduce my kid to that cycle.
Because I grew up in that cycle. I grew up with parents fighting
over money. And that's why I know that all
of this healing and all of this transformation has helped me
break that, that I will never promote that fucking cycle.
If you can't afford it, you don't get it.
You don't get to be entitled. If you can't afford eyelashes or
nails or to get your hair done, you don't get to get it.
It's not oh, I'll just make it happen.
No, you don't get to get it. And I think that the Internet
creates this illusion that this shit is OK and it's not.
It's never going to be OK. I'm never going to be OK with
it. And I think we should pull our
card. I pulled our card a minute ago
and on that topic too, I wanted. I before we like switch gears, I
wanted to say that it's something that like I as a
parent, I'm so familiar with like this dynamic.
Because when we when we lived in California, there was a time
when we had to like go to a food bank and I had to get like
government assistance. Because where we lived in
California was on top of. We lived in the mountains and we
would get hit with like crazy snowstorms and we had like 2
weeks where we didn't have any power and we literally had to
spend like hundreds of dollars on gas for a generator in order
to like heat space heaters in our house or whatever.
And I remember I had to like go down to the food bank and I had
to use like government like assistance and stuff because all
of the money that we had had we had to use on literally running
space heaters, running a generator.
And so there are times when like utilizing these things is super
helpful and you know you're you're doing everything that you
can and that's why it's an assistance.
It's supposed to assist you. It's not supposed to support
you. It's not government support.
It's government assistance. And you know in in the parenting
dynamic you're you're so right about like conversations that
you know can happen with kids or whatever.
And and my husband and I have worked really hard on that.
We've battled really hard on that because, you know, on the
I'm going to try and say what I want to say without giving like
too much personal information, 'cause I don't want to like
shame anybody. But on on our end, we've worked
really hard to provide without having to have the assistance.
And so we're really, you know, careful with our money.
And like I don't, we don't go on trips and we don't go and do all
of these other things because it's important for us to make
sure that like we can have sustainable life for our kids
and everything we don't. That's something important to
us. And so that's how we've utilized
our money is we are going to get health insurance and we are
going to get groceries and we're going to do these other things.
And I'm not going to have my nails done and I'm going to
color my own hair and I'm going to do all these things that we
can make sure they're provided for in these ways.
And for my daughter, her experience with her mother is
very different. Where it's it's the opposite.
It's I'm going to have assistance for everything so
that the money that I have coming in, we can go on trips
and we can go and we can do these things.
And so she's always traveling. She's always buying her
something new. She's always, you know, paying
for experiences or whatever. And so for a for a lot of years,
I would have this like, resentment or this grudge where
I'm like, you look like you're doing better and you're able to
provide all of these things. And it's because you're so
irresponsible with your finances.
And I would get angry because I'm like, why are we paying
child support that you're using so that you can buy sushi and
everything else and not actually, like, spend it on her.
And I had to really work on breaking from that mindset and
being like I can't control how somebody else is utilizing their
finances or what is financial responsibility to them and what
is important to them. All that we can do is do our
best to make sure that there's a different example when she's
here. And so when she's younger, I
felt like there was so much more conversation about how do I say
that. I feel like there was like,
well, we, we choose not to spend our money on that type of
energy. As opposed to the last couple of
years where now, you know, when she talks about, well, how come
we don't do this or we don't do that?
We're like, oh, because we're saving for a house because we're
doing this? Because to us this is, this is
what our goals are. This is what a priority is.
And leaving her mother completely out of the equation
when there's conversations. Because what she's doing, it
doesn't fucking matter. What the other parent is doing
has zero to do with what we're doing.
It doesn't play into why we do things, how we do things.
This is just what our goals are. And so then when she's 11 right
now, right, So now you pay attention to the thing going on
trips and going to fancy restaurants and doing all these
experiences and whatever. But as she's an adult, she's
going to be able to see, I didn't have those things with
mom and dad over here because they were always working on
being able to buy a house and being able to do these things.
And as she's an adult, she's going to see that, you know, and
one side of things is a homeowner and has been in a
stable, committed relationship all this time and hasn't, you
know, flip-flopped and done all these things and we can get so
caught up in trying to. Prove why we're doing better and
and have to put somebody else out in order to do that.
Or we can just keep on our grind and doing what we're doing and
we can show through our actions instead of having to put
somebody else down to make ourselves feel better.
And I think that's the responsibility that parents have
is maybe you are frustrated and overwhelmed inside of situations
or whatever, but it's teaching your your kids different ways of
viewing that and navigating through that instead of forcing
those thoughts and whatever on your kids. 1000% and growing up
as an only child, I never want to put my kid through the this
or that. They're wrong.
I'm right energy. So I respect that because a lot
of parents do that. Like my dad always made my mom
the bad guy always said that the Child Support he sent her was
for beer money or for bingo money.
And like to insinuate my mom is using her child support to
gamble and drink wasn't healthy because I never went without.
It wasn't like I didn't have food or didn't have nice stuff.
I mean, my mom maxed out credit cards and got me anything I
wanted. But again, that was not
realistic. Like, how are we getting food
stamps and government assistance?
And meanwhile you're only like developing this connection with
money based on what the government is giving you because
you're able to spend all your extra on whatever.
So all the money that her husband made, they never were
legally married. They were just married by law
after a certain point. Because if they did get legally
married, she lose all that assistance.
And I know people nowadays, which it really bothers me to
know that you're in A2 come income household with your
partner, but you're not getting legally married.
So you can keep your government assistance and insurance.
And there's a girl that I know personally, It's a friend of a
friend. They had a wedding.
They had a honeymoon. They had a fucking bridal party.
They had a huge ass wedding. Not just like a ceremony, they
had a huge ass wedding, but did not get legally married because
they didn't want her to lose her food stamps and government
assistance. Which is taking away from a
single mom who literally is single with no support because
the dad is dead or on drugs or wherever.
They're getting denied and having to work hard, meanwhile
leaving their kids with people who are abusing them or
whatever. And here we are.
You are in a 2 income household with your fucking partner that
has these two children with you, but yet you're not legally
married because you want to act like he's not in the picture.
That's fucking fraud. And I think that women should be
able to be sued and put in jail for that in my opinion.
Because why the fuck are you taking government assistance
when technically if you put his income into the equation, you
would not qualify? Well, and it isn't, It is
insurance fraud or not insurance fraud, but it is, it is benefit
fraud. Like if you have the situation
that you said where she got her nails done and she bought
groceries or whatever, it that is fraud.
And when you get food stamps, they tell you that you're not
allowed to do that. Like you not only can you get
arrested, but you can have to pay all of that money back.
It's basically the same thing as like evading your taxes where
like you're lying on government forms.
You're saying because you have to do like your your income,
your all this stuff like where you're where the benefits are
going and all types of shit and you are not allowed to trade
your benefits. You're not allowed to do any of
that. You're And if you're getting
them, then I don't know if you actually need them and then
you're trading them. That's fucked.
But it's even more fucked to not need them and be getting them
anyways, just so that you can give them to somebody else who
clearly the money would have benefited this person, right?
So, like, anyways, let me read this card because we could talk
about this all day and we've already been here for an hour.
The card is Psycho Pump. It's card number 41.
It's got a disco ball. The sign is Aquarius, the Gift
is clairvoyance and the Shadow is fantasyland.
The Gift level is truly mystical and otherworldly and higher
frequency states you are able to tune into a sort of psychic
genius transcendent of time. It is through this channel that
you can sense or anticipate an emerging way forward for the
collective based on your particular set of circumstances.
Your code for the future will be uniquely applied to your
specific lens of experience. This is precious and a rare gift
that increases in clarity as your consciousness expands.
Your shadow is fantasyland and a lower frequency.
This comes up as a pure hope and lust for the future.
It's the image of a dream in your mind, which doesn't seem so
bad after all, but deviates into the shadowy corridor when it
only stays in the mind. That is when the dream does not
outwardly come to fruition, but takes up a real estate in your
brain space. Dreams are lovely.
Never stop dreaming, but also make sure to capitalize on your
wildest fantasies and allow for their real and tangible
actualization. In contrast, the overemphasis of
this shadow leads to too much action and eventual burnout.
Your themes are psychic powers, forward thinking, and clarity.
I love the cards that we pull. It never seems like we pull the
same one either. And I love that.
And I think that, you know, we can have our opinions about
things and we can tell you all how we feel.
But ultimately, it's up to you to decide what what resonates
with you and what doesn't resonate with you, which is what
We always encourage everyone to use their intuition to focus on
what resonates with them. But if you look at it from its
core value, you may find that what you've been taught, what
you've been told, and what you've consented to actually
isn't resonant with, like, the true value of what you feel.
So never be afraid to be like, you know what?
I've done that and I I need to re evaluate what I believe and
take accountability. Like we're not judging people,
but we're encouraging you to be introspective of yourself and
your family and the dynamics that you've been brought up in.
Because if we all, Aquarius is the collective and we're in the
age of Aquarius, if we all can collectively look at this and be
like this is fucking wrong. This is wrong for me to have 72
children and have the government pay for them and then I neglect
them because I'm out here trading my food stamps for
eyelashes, like and then for the girl to brag about it.
I almost wanted to write that girl and be like that's illegal,
but I didn't want to be that person because I try to just
stay in the lane and let people do their own thing.
But definitely, definitely recommend everyone to explore
things from their own perspective, but also know when
to look around and be like yo. Just because I've always done
this doesn't mean it's right, doesn't mean that it's wrong,
but it does mean that you should re evaluate why you do what you
do. Yeah.
And also too, like, we never expect people to have the same
opinions that we do either just because like we share strong
opinions or strong stances on certain things from our
perspectives and things that we've personally experienced
doesn't mean that we're expecting that everybody's going
to have the same mindset on things either.
And I think that a part of the like growth journey is hearing
topics that can be triggering or cause you to be frustrated
because then you're actually thinking things through.
And if this episode or other episodes that we have because we
constantly have new people coming into our rotation, if you
hear topics like this and you feel triggered about it, you
should be having inner dialogue with yourself and you should be
figuring out why is that frustrating to you And then
thinking how you can take self accountability inside of a
situation. And maybe nothing changes
because as you evaluate you're like, no, I'm doing the highest
sense of good for me. This makes total sense to me.
But at least be aware and be conscious and be making choices
because you have thought through and heard all of the different
opinions and viewpoints on it, and this is the conclusion that
you've come to from that. If you're like, Nah, I've been
fucking the system and I want to keep fucking the system even
after hearing them, that's your fucking prerogative and your
place to do so. But don't be mad at us because
we discussed it and we bring a topic to light and we, you know,
share different vantage points on it.
I think that's our role as healers, as mentors, as breaking
cycles is just like that card last week when we pulled
Rebellion. It is about talking about these
controversial things and bringing things to light that
maybe don't usually get discussed or or people don't
want to discuss because there is cancel culture and there is
well, you hurt somebody's feelings because you said you
know what your personal experience was.
And unfortunately, motherfuckers, you can't cancel
our podcast. Suck on that.
And also, I'm not saying anything to try to hurt people's
feelings or like target people. But when I see something that's
wrong, that's affecting a child who has a little to no say in
the situation, I'm going to air it out every time.
Because I've been that child. And it creates trauma and it
creates fucking just crazy energy within that child.
To think like, wow, my parents are fighting over me at tax
time. Like my parents used to do that
at tax time. Like one time my dad, it was his
year to claim me and like, he went and claimed, and then my
mom filed like an amendment and then claimed me on hers and my
dad had to, like pay all this extra money back in.
And, I mean, it was just like a hot fucking mess.
Like the agreement was verbal and so clearly, like, it wasn't
in stone. But you know, I grew up in that
environment and I broke that cycle myself.
And I know it's possible and I know it's possible to get out of
those cycles that you have been placed into.
And it's not like it's not treating yourself like a victim,
but it's like realizing that maybe you have been put into a
victim mindset. Yeah, 1000%, yeah, I I
completely agree with everything that you're saying.
I think this was a really important episode for us to have
and topic for us to discuss for sure.
So we will see you all next time in Candy Land.
Bye. Bye.