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Welcome back to another episode 
of Lick it Like a Lollipop to 

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this week. 
You all have a really big treat.

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I have my friend Shane coming in
to talk to us about some crazy 

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stories that they post on their 
Facebook. 

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And so welcome Shane. 
Thank you so much for having me.

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I really appreciate it. 
I'm very happy that I get to be 

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in the space right now with you.
It's kind of cool. 

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Private, so I always see your 
post on Facebook. 

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So he's like a property manager 
you all. 

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And some of the stories that he 
has for us today is great. 

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So recently there was a woman 
that called like Immigration 

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Services and he was posting 
about it. 

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So I just want you to dive right
into that story. 

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Oh my gosh. 
And I wish on so many different 

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occasions, but some of these 
instances were just purely for 

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satire because it would mean 
that like, I wouldn't actually 

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have to deal with it. 
And I could just be like, oh, 

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this was a skit or this was 
that. 

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But it's just so many different 
things happen on so many 

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different levels where I 
constantly live in a state of 

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like, did that really just 
happen? 

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Like did I did I have to live 
through that? 

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And one of them being the lady 
that had called Immigration 

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Services. 
So for people that live in an 

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apartment and for people who 
don't live in an apartment, I'm 

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just going to like go over a 
broad spectrum of like what 

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basically happens when you need 
something done in your 

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apartment, It's your landlord's 
responsibility. 

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Like you don't own that. 
It's not a condo, it's not a 

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home. 
So that means that we have to 

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come in and we have to fix 
whatever's the issue, regardless

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if it's your fault or not. 
That's neither here nor there, 

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but this women had put in a 
maintenance request. 

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And so if it's like air 
conditioning and plumbing and 

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electrical that goes to the top,
like that's a high priority. 

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Like you can't be without 
electricity, You can't be 

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without air conditioning. 
Your plumbing has to work. 

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There's different codes and 
regulations that protect renters

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on a different level from like, 
you know, a home owner. 

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Obviously if your AC goes out 
and you own your home, that's 

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kind of crappy because you got 
to fix that. 

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But in an apartment complex, we 
have to fix it and we only have 

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a certain amount of time. 
She put in one of those 

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emergency work orders for her 
air conditioning and she was 

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like, my AC is not working. 
It's busted. 

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Come to find out the detail that
I did not release to social 

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media. 
They had pulled her air filter 

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out of her AC unit and that 
thing had never been changed. 

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You're supposed to change it 
like once a month. 

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She lived there at that point 
for like a year and four months.

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And that was like the original 
air filter. 

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It looked like it just, it 
looked like a giant hairball 

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with dust inside of it. 
And if you would have seen, if 

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you would have seen her, you 
would have been like, you know 

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what, that makes sense. 
That makes total sense. 

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And normally I don't go after 
people's physical appearances, 

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but when you're racist, you get 
what you deserve, so. 

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So my favorite part of the story
that like when you shared, so 

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when she called Immigration 
Services, you all come to find 

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out she's actually an illegal 
immigrant herself, right? 

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No, no, no, no. 
So basically what ended up 

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happening is she did get in 
trouble, but what happened was 

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is she had called the police and
she had alleged that somebody 

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like my maintenance tech had 
went in and stole something from

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her. 
And so she gets the police over 

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there and she gives the police a
fake name because she is unable 

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to produce her ID. 
Oh, I don't have my ID. 

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My wallet was stolen. 
Blase, Blase, I don't have my 

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identification on. 
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that point is they come back to 
me to get my office's side of 

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the story. 
And when I had heard that she 

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was talking to the maintenance 
man the way she was and she was 

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like, oh, I'm going to call 
Immigration Services, blah, 

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blah, blah, blah, blah. 
I immediately texted everyone 

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because the people that I work 
with and the company that I work

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for, you do there's a legal 
process in order to work there. 

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It's not anything under the 
table. 

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We make sure that they have 
insurance. 

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We make sure that they can get 
their tax documents so they can 

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get their tax returns. 
They do get healthcare coverage 

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and everything. 
So it's a great company to work 

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for. 
But she had alleged that and me 

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being me, like I always go into 
like high gear. 

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I texted all of my maintenance 
guys and I was like, everyone 

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leave the property. 
I was like, I don't know where 

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you're going to go, like what's 
going to happen. 

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Just I want you to leave the 
property because I don't even 

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want to deal with this right 
now. 

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But I gave them the day off, 
paid from that point on and was 

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like, we're not even going to 
mess with that. 

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You just got to go. 
You need to be safe. 

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I want you out of here. 
I'll pay you for the day. 

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So they come to me, The police 
officers do, in order to get my 

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side of events. 
And mind you, I've only spoken 

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to this woman maybe twice, and I
give out her real name. 

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And they're like, what do you 
mean? 

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And I'm like, no. 
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we'll call her Barbara. 
So I'm like, yeah, Barbara over,

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over Yonder, right? 
Like that's who you're talking 

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about. 
And they were like, she said her

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name was Erica. 
I was like, well, it's 

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definitely not Erica. 
I said, hold on, give me a 

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minute. 
Let's make sure we're talking 

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about the same person. 
So I go and I pull the photo ID 

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from when you apply, you have to
leave a copy of your driver's 

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license, right, girl? 
She gave the police officers a 

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fake name because they leave the
police officers. 

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Do they take that ID photo with 
her? 

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Because we scan the front and 
the back. 

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So I was able to produce both so
on and I thought they had left. 

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I thought they were off the 
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Little did I know they were 
sitting right outside my office 

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for like 35 minutes. 
They go to run her information. 

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She has one felony warrant and 
one misdemeanor warrant out for 

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her arrest. 
She calls the cops on herself 

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essentially because nothing was 
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They completely disregarded that
police report and they went over

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to arrest her. 
The felony that she had caught 

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was a felony auto theft and it 
was like aggravated or 

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something. 
Essentially it was like armed 

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robbery of a motor vehicle is 
like the intensity of what that 

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warrant was. 
Apparently from what the cop was

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saying from the notes, it was 
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You could tell clearly it was 
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He could tell it was her. 
He had to get the video evidence

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from the the detective that was 
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So that's why he was out in the 
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And I was like, there's no way. 
I was like, this is great right 

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now. 
Like, you end up being racist 

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and say you're going to call 
Immigration Services and call 

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the cops and you have a felony 
warrant out for your arrest. 

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I think, you know, that should 
have been the last phone call 

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she made is to the police. 
Who calls the cops for one? 

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The thing about it is who lies 
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I think that that's like the one
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That's a bigger issue. 
Optional, but lying to the cops 

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is not optional to me. 
Like I'm not going to lie to a 

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cop. 
Like I'm not going to be a 

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snitch, but I'm also not going 
to lie. 

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And it makes sense why you would
pretend someone stole something 

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from you because it sounds like 
she was trying to like finesse 

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something against your company 
and like try to get money or try

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to do something like get a free 
month rent or. 

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Whatever, That's how I think it 
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Like, Oh, well, my iPad went 
missing and it was a $900 

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something I've had. 
And it's like, first of all, if 

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you're paying full price for an 
iPad, like I, I, you got money 

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like that, then you don't need 
to finesse your rent. 

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But I, I think that, that you're
fully correct on that. 

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That's, that's where we were 
heading was, Oh, I need a free 

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month of rent. 
And so after that she had not 

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ended up paying her rent. 
And I was like, I have a feeling

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like she's not going to pay her 
rent and I'm going to have to 

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file an eviction. 
And so that's the avenue that we

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went on. 
I had to file an eviction on her

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because she wasn't paying her 
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And then she didn't go to her 
court date or anything like 

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that. 
And then she just skipped out on

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the apartment after getting 
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So did. 
She take her stuff with her. 

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She took some of it but like the
apartment itself it was. 

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It was so bad and so disgusting.
She literally owes my company 

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thousands of dollars at this 
point because we basically had 

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to do a full trash out. 
All of her carpeting had to get 

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completely ripped up. 
They had to completely sacrifice

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the bathtub. 
There was no even resurfacing 

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and painting the bathtub. 
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It looked like, you know, there 
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oil, like black oil all the way 
around the bottom of the 

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bathtub, so. 
Basically moved in, never 

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fucking changed a filter, never 
swept the floor, never even 

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washed the bathtub. 
You know, you have to be getting

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into your bathtub really fucking
dirty for it to get like that 

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because like, I don't get it. 
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ending up dirtier after the 
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Like, because that's what I feel
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It makes no sense to me when 
people think that like owning 

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property or renting to people is
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I bet it is a straight probably 
5050 with with situations like 

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this isn't it? 
So my gosh, like probably even 

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6040, like I, I think the whole 
time I've been at this company, 

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there have been 3 apartments 
that I can count that I've 

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walked into after they moved out
and was like, wow, this looks 

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great. 
And like I didn't have to do 

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anything like didn't have to 
hire a cleaner. 

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I didn't have to replace 
anything. 

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Like I think one lady, she, it 
was in her lease and she got us 

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on this and it was so funny. 
I walked in and I was like, Oh 

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no, the electricity's off. 
This woman paid for all of her 

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light bulbs. 
So she took all of them with 

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her. 
So myself I'm trying to turn the

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lights on around the apartment 
and I was like the AC is running

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why? 
Why is the lights not working? 

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And it's because she took all 
the light bulbs. 

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I kind of feel that though, like
renter, I don't rent anymore, 

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but when I did rent, I paid out 
the wazoo and I rented pre COVID

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like and what's funny is like 
the very first house that I've 

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rented, it was like 600 a month.
But now that I look back on it, 

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it did not have central air. 
It like shrink had window units 

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and I but I even I mean I was 
renting it from like a family 

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member, but I mean 16 hours 2 
bedroom, 1 bathroom. 

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It wasn't a bathroom spot but I 
lived there for like a month and

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the fucking front door got 
kicked in and all my shit got 

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stolen like that's. 
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God, yeah. 
It was like off Dixie Highway, 

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not in the best area, but you 
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Oh my God, I've lived off Dixie 
Highway too. 

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I used to live off Wellsworth 
Ave. where it was behind where 

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the Speedway was over. 
Dixie, probably. 

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Yes. 
In Shively, yes. 

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That's where I live over in 
Shively. 

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Oh my God Lord want to hear 
something crazy? 

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Yes one night when I was at work
it was my ex at the time and two

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of my roommates and some dude 
that my roommate was dating at 

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the time. 
So it was a total of like 4 of 

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them. 
And one of the roommates at the 

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time was a straight up neat 
freak. 

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Like always beneficial because 
we had dogs and stuff. 

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So like, I really appreciated 
it, but I also didn't grow up in

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the best part of town. 
So one thing that she did was 

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she kept taking everyone's car 
keys and she kept putting them 

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in a bowl because we didn't have
like a thing by the front door 

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or like a key rack or anything. 
And I was like, hey, please stop

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putting keys like in a bowl. 
Like if someone breaks in, it's 

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right next to the front door. 
Lo and behold, two months later,

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not even kidding you, somebody 
breaks in, they start rounding 

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up. 
You can see the thought process 

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when we looked at the house 
afterwards. 

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The TV was by the front door, 
the stereo system was by the 

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front door. 
Literally everything was by the 

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front door. 
And then you could tell someone 

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found the bowl with all the car 
keys, right? 

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So instead of stealing all the 
stuff, they stole all the cars. 

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They stole four cars out of the 
driveway while everyone was at 

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the bar. 
You know, out on Dixie you have 

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to really be a special breed of 
person because I used to work by

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the Walmart that they closed 
down out there and the one off. 

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Over in Riverport so. 
I used to go to that Walmart, 

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like that's close to where I 
lived at the time and I'm not 

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going to lie, there was a man 
straight masturbating at the 

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stop sign right by the Sonic on 
like a regular day. 

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I remember I was dating this guy
and I just ran. 

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Yeah. 
And I called him and I'm like, 

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Oh my God, this just happened. 
He's like, what? 

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What do you mean? 
Like he he just like couldn't 

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even process what? 
Happened and then another like 

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what did you? 
Just see, like another crazy 

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memory I have about that house 
is across the street, there was 

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like straight crackheads, like 
they were constantly on the go. 

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But I remember. 
No Gray area like they were. 

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Crackheads. 
You knew they were crackheads 

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and like, they come over and ask
if they could, like, use the 

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water hose or like, just random 
shit. 

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Yeah, it's like the randomness 
thing. 

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But I use your water hose. 
What? 

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We were sitting on the Porsche 
and it was probably about 

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midnight, 1:00 in the morning 
and it was like dark over there.

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Like it was like those 
neighborhoods you all that have 

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like street lights. 
So it's like back hell and we're

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just sitting on the porch and no
one can really see us. 

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Two people, one person pulls up 
to the stop sign, another person

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pulls up running on foot. 
Also. 

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I scream is get back here you 
bitch. 

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He keeps screaming. 
He gets up to the car and he 

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goes give me my dope por so 
crazy. 

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Oh my God. 
So funny all the time. 

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That's crazy because like, it 
really doesn't matter where you 

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live in the city because it's 
everything is next to something.

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It's how I put it in 
terminology. 

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Like you can be in Say Matthews,
but there's a lot in Say 

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Matthews even like out here in 
Middletown. 

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Like I see the most random shit 
ever and I'm like, huh, Like 

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we're in Middletown. 
Like a lot of people, they move 

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to those more populated areas 
because more than likely 

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someone's going to give them 5 
or $10.00. 

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But have you heard about like 
the homeless people who like get

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handed like a $10.00 bill and 
they're like, that ain't enough?

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Have you been hearing about 
that? 

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I have and I can actually speak 
on that because I also bartend 

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downtown, like near the Yum 
center and there is a few 

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homeless people that they'll 
walk straight into our building 

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and they're like, I'm homeless. 
You have to give me food. 

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And I'm like, oh, try that 
again. 

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Like ask and say hey, like I'm 
I'm really hungry. 

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Could I get a meal? 
Yes, all day every day. 

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I'll give you meals. 
I'll whatever you want. 

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But some of them are like only 
one order of chicken wings. 

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Like, like I don't have a house 
and I'm like, what? 

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I didn't have to give you the 
first one. 

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So like, I'm so confused. 
He looked right at me and he 

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goes, yeah, man, like you didn't
even put French fries in here. 

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You want wings and French fries?
My God. 

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Like that book when you give a 
mouse a cookie, like it's just 

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like that were playing in my 
head. 

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I was like, damn something. 
About whatever city, like they 

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are ruthless. 
They're like, no, that's not 

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enough. 
You like literally what is so 

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crazy work is I was in 
Cincinnati. 

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That's where I'm from. 
No, no, no, I was, no. 

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I was in downtown Louisville and
I had just left the Mercury 

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Ballroom and I went to a concert
and we were hanging outside 

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after the concert, like kind of 
waiting for the band to come out

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to see if we could get an 
autograph. 

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And there was this gentleman 
that came up to me and my 

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cousin. 
And they give you that bus 

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ticket story. 
Like they need a ticket to the 

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bus, but literally. 
Yeah, 'cause I don't have I got 

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to go over here and yeah. 
So far from where we are. 

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So I know you're fucking lying 
because you're so you're like 10

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miles from the Greyhound stall. 
But not even close. 

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Right, like so he was talking 
and he was telling us and he was

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like giving all the soft story. 
So my cousin patiently just like

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listen to the dude and I know 
the guy. 

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I thought like, I got him. 
I got this motherfucker. 

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He's he's in. 
Isn't that the best? 

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Then at the end my cousin goes 
damn man, I don't got any money 

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on me after like a 10 minute 
story and then the guy goes, he 

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goes what do you mean you don't 
got no money on you? 

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He goes, I don't got, I don't 
got shit on me brother. 

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And he goes, he got a card and 
he goes, yeah, I got a card. 

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He goes, well, this pizza place 
down here's got an ATM and he 

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was talking about Spinelli's 
like down on the corner, like 

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down the road. 
He literally said this pizza 

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place down here as an ATM and my
cousin looked at me and looked 

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at him and he goes I'm not 
fucking walking down there. 

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And the guy goes damn man, you 
can't help me out. 

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And he's like. 
That is crazy work to direct 

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someone to an ATM to get their 
money like that hustle at that 

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point. 
That's that's real. 

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I know that took me out. 
That's like whenever I, that was

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actually just like a month ago 
like that. 

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And then I was in Cincinnati and
one of the homeless people was 

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like, what am I going to do with
$5? 

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Well, back in the day we used to
give you like $0.50 and you were

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fine like. 
Right, I get that inflation is 

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hurting, but guess what? 
Some of us are hurting too. 

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I just feel like I ain't got it.
If somebody's going to give you 

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anything like I would just like 
I would never be like, damn, 

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man, this ain't enough to go get
what I need. 

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But I did see that like 
cigarettes are going up like 2 

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or $3 a pack and I don't smoke 
but someone posted a sign and 

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like a pack of Marlboros is like
$10. 

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I know and then they already 
made a lot of people angry a few

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years ago when they took the 
tobacco law from 18 years of age

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to purchase to 21. 
And that was like, I've never 

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seen more 19 and 20 year olds 
turn into like little like 

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friends. 
They were just like, oh, can you

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on your way into work? 
Can you stop and buy me 

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cigarettes? 
Like my whole entire group chat 

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for both bars at the time I was 
working at was just going off 

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like Shane, I'll demo you right 
now. 

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Buy me a pack of cigarettes. 
And I was like, when did I 

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become a plug for everyone under
21 to get cigarettes? 

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Like when did when did that 
flash over? 

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Because that just, and it 
happened like that. 

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It happened so quick. 
And what's crazy is then 

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Kentucky decided, you know what?
We'll just let everyone at the 

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age of 15 get their permit. 
Like what the fuck? 

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And then these kids don't even 
pay attention. 

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Like that is not a good thing to
do. 

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No, because I'll tell you what, 
at 15 years old, if you put me 

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in charge of a car, oh, I'm 
hitting every curb. 

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I'm going to find every curb 
everywhere. 

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No one's safe. 
I think back of like when we 

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were younger and we got our 
license. 

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I just remember driving around 
forever and ever and ever, like 

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never stopping. 
Like you could never Get Me Out 

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of the car until my dad was 
like, you're gonna park that 

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car, You're keeping the streets 
hot. 

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Like all not. 
Keeping the streets hot. 

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Yeah, that's what he would say. 
Like you keeping the. 

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Street. 
You're keeping the streets hot. 

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I've never heard that before, 
but that's cute. 

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That's really cute. 
All them young, them young 

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bloods. 
You're keeping the streets hot, 

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smoking them cigarettes. 
Literally. 

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Oh my God, pigs. 
Yeah, I don't know they you all 

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like everyone listening. 
Our bars used to be open till 

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4:00 in the morning and then 
maybe like a month ago there was

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this. 
Wild word. 

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Like street riot that happened 
and now they've like decided to 

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make a curfew of 2:00 AM. 
Honestly I don't understand why 

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the bars were ever 4:00 AM. 
Like anyone that's at a bar 

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after 2:00 in the morning to 
begin with has real problems. 

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Yeah, because I'll tell you 
what, when I first moved down 

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here, I'm from Cincinnati, and 
last call up there was always 

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2:00 AM, like had to be out by 
2:00 AM, like, no grace period, 

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nothing like that. 
And when I came down here, I had

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to really relearn how to drink. 
And I know that sounds so crazy,

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but like I would sit there and 
like my pregaming in Cincinnati 

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would start at 9:30 ten O clock.
You couldn't do that down here 

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because I was pregaming at 9:30 
ten O clock. 

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And then I was done by 1. 
And it happened so consecutively

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where I was like, you know what?
I'm not going to pregame 

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anymore. 
And then eventually it came to, 

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you know what? 
I'm tired of this. 

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I don't want to be out anymore. 
I don't even know how I used to 

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go out. 
We would wait until midnight to 

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leave the house. 
Isn't that wild work? 

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Because I do that. 
If I was to do that now, three 

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days, I'm down for three days. 
Yeah, I don't even know how I 

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used to do that. 
Like now if I go to a bar and 

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they don't have food, count me 
out I don't even want to go. 

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What do you mean they don't have
jalapeno poppers and fucking 

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like what? 
Do you mean the ranch isn't 

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house made? 
Like what do you mean by someone

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who's been working here for 17 
years? 

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Like that's, that's the bar. 
You know, I really do feel like 

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kids these days though, Like 
they've just like skipped that 

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like going out phase. 
And now like I think a lot of 

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kids don't even have like 
socialized because I was talking

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to parents and they're like, Oh 
yeah, the kids like they don't 

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ever want to go to each others 
houses. 

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They just want to set it home 
and FaceTime each other. 

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Yeah, and because I'll tell you 
what, another thing to add to 

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that, I don't know what's been 
happening recently with like 

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what's been in the food after 
our generation because like I 

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get that I look like I'm in my 
30s. 

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That's totally fine. 
Aging gracefully is a OK, but I 

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have met some 1920 and like up 
to like 21 year olds that look 

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like full grown men and full 
grown women with a four O 1K in 

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a retirement plan. 
And I'm like, what do you mean 

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in 19? 
Like I some dude had the fake 

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ID, the Hawaii ID, the ones that
are like easily fakeable. 

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And I, I looked at it and the 
second I bent it, the corner 

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popped up on it and I looked at 
him. 

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I was like friend. 
And like, I just call everyone 

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friends. 
I'm like friend. 

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And he starts panicking 
immediately. 

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Like just you could tell he's 
like unseasoned. 

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This is probably his first time 
ever going out and he had the 

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misfortune to run into our bar 
where, you know, you might not 

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get ID if you're not going to 
the comedy show, but you 2 get 

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ID coming up to the bar to order
something. 

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And I looked at him and I was 
like, how old are you? 

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And he was like, I'm 19. 
And I was like, well, thank you 

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for being honest. 
I'm going to give that back. 

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I said don't use it here, but 
you do have to leave now. 

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And he was like 6 foot three 
with a full beard and he was 

440
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just like, he looked like an 
adult, like you could tell in 

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the face he he looked a little 
younger. 

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But I was just like, what is 
happening nowadays to where 

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these kids look so old? 
It's the damn growth hormones 

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and. 
I'm telling. 

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00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:02,600
You. 
You know I. 

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Really do think that these 
people around us have no idea. 

447
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:11,800
But you know, when we were 
younger, I don't ever remember 

448
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,160
there being like super obese 
kids. 

449
00:24:14,360 --> 00:24:16,720
And I'm not being a hater. 
I'm just saying like. 

450
00:24:17,120 --> 00:24:19,040
No, not at all. 
Something which we know they've 

451
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,480
like really fucked the food up, 
but they have really done 

452
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,600
something not only to make kids 
like super lazy, but like 

453
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,640
they've like changed their DNA 
or something because like it's 

454
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,880
rare that you see kids it's 
these days like outside riding a

455
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:38,200
bike like or outside at all. 
Like you would not know that 

456
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,720
there's kids that live around me
because like I hardly ever see 

457
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,480
them ever. 
Like I think a lot of times like

458
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,800
parents are literally like, I'm 
going to buy you a dog, so you 

459
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,600
have to walk it and go outside 
with it, you know, like they. 

460
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,400
Yeah, get some fresh air, get 
some sunshine. 

461
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,760
Right, like I know that we 
started having like you know, 

462
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:03,480
Nintendo DSS and like games like
more handheld stuff. 

463
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,280
We. 
Sure did that Game Cube, that, 

464
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,080
that was something else. 
Yeah, it was a. 

465
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,080
Work hard. 
Yeah. 

466
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:09,760
I always wanted one. 
No one would get me one. 

467
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,320
There's so many things I wanted 
as a kid that like, my parents 

468
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,560
were like, no. 
And now, like you see people on 

469
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:19,920
Facebook like I work 7 1/2 jobs 
to afford this like no, fuck 

470
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,160
that. 
Kids need to be out here cutting

471
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,360
grass. 
They need to go after and get a 

472
00:25:24,360 --> 00:25:28,000
hobby and learn how to a skill. 
You know, these kids like, you 

473
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,920
know, I don't know, I just don't
feel like they're out 

474
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:34,320
experiencing life like we. 
Were correct and then I also 

475
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:38,280
know either from having friends 
that are like, you know, have 

476
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:42,040
children that are growing up to 
be adults and stuff that I don't

477
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,760
think that this generation of 
children that's behind us. 

478
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,280
I really don't think that 
they're ready. 

479
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,520
And there's nothing wrong with 
that because like you got to 

480
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,520
keep in mind if you were in high
school during COVID, yeah, 

481
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,240
obviously that's going to mess 
you up a lot if you were out of 

482
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,680
high school for a whole year and
then had to go back and then 

483
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:00,480
next thing you know your life is
upside down. 

484
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,960
But I just don't think that 
they're like ready. 

485
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,080
Like I had to start working as a
teenager to get like my car 

486
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,960
insurance and then my family did
help me out with my first car, 

487
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:15,360
but like I've just always had 
bills like I've always had 

488
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,000
someone knocking like, hey, 
you're late on that. 

489
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,440
And I'm like, ah, God, OK, fine,
whatever. 

490
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:24,000
So like, I just don't think that
this generation now, I don't 

491
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:25,800
think they're going to know what
to do. 

492
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,280
Because like, if I wanted a 
phone, I had to pay for it. 

493
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,080
If I wanted a car, I had to pay 
for it. 

494
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:36,160
If I wanted, if I wanted like 
something special or whatever it

495
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,240
is, like Ugg boots or whatever, 
I had to pay for them. 

496
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,080
Like these kids now are 
literally getting so many basic 

497
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:47,360
necessities handed to them that 
they don't see as like costing 

498
00:26:47,360 --> 00:26:49,840
money. 
And I had a roommate who 

499
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:53,520
basically had been baby, like 
he's a little older than me. 

500
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:59,680
Like we are into late 20s and we
move in together and because his

501
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:03,600
mom and parents have like 
spoiled him and constantly 

502
00:27:04,120 --> 00:27:06,960
babied him when we when he moved
in with me, he just thought 

503
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:11,360
things like toilet paper, 
laundry detergent, fucking paper

504
00:27:11,360 --> 00:27:13,400
towels, whatever. 
That's just that comes with 

505
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,960
rent. 
Like oh he paid his portion of 

506
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,000
rent so like he's good. 
All this is included. 

507
00:27:19,360 --> 00:27:22,720
I literally had a Red Bull in 
the refrigerator and I told them

508
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,000
do not drink this. 
Do not drink this. 

509
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:29,600
Not yours. 
And do drinks it like I'm sorry,

510
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,000
what? 
And it's not even about like the

511
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,400
fact that it might have been a 
minuscule amount of money. 

512
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,560
It's just like, bro, I'm trying 
to survive. 

513
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,800
I needed that. 
Like that's going to wake me up.

514
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,600
Yeah, it's just like, I feel 
like people who get a lot of 

515
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:48,160
things handed to them, they 
don't see the value and the fact

516
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,120
that like, I bought this one Red
Bull for my freaking self and I 

517
00:27:52,120 --> 00:27:54,520
knew it was. 
The one thing, yeah, the one 

518
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,680
thing I wanted. 
I had it in there and then I go 

519
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,960
to get it and it's gone. 
Like, of course I'm going to be 

520
00:27:59,960 --> 00:28:01,600
upset like. 
How? 

521
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,480
Many people and like you're 
saying like these generations, 

522
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:09,080
they think phone and Internet 
and streaming and Fortnite money

523
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:12,080
and all that that that's just 
like included with existing. 

524
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:17,760
I honestly think parents should 
start getting kids a small like 

525
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:22,080
fucking like the Android that 
comes for free with the plan. 

526
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,560
Like yes. 
Phone. 

527
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,520
No iPhone. 
Rocky, why do you think you get 

528
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,920
an iPhone that you just 
automatically get one? 

529
00:28:31,120 --> 00:28:34,600
Like my dad bought me an iPhone 
4 back when the iPhone 4 first 

530
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,120
came out which was popping. 
I got the white one and then 

531
00:28:37,120 --> 00:28:40,680
after like 6 months he I turned 
18 and he didn't like how I 

532
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,480
thought I was going to be out 
and about popping my shit. 

533
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,560
He took that phone so fucking 
quick it would make your head 

534
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,560
spin. 
He was like, you know what, you 

535
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,760
want to be outside, be outside 
without my phone. 

536
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,200
That's exactly what he did and 
straight took that bitch away 

537
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,600
and took my number. 
Cut it off. 

538
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,920
Cut off your number. 
I took it off your number. 

539
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:02,800
He. 
Was like, yeah, you think these 

540
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,680
motherfuckers are contacting 
you? 

541
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:06,880
Nope. 
Straight cut it off. 

542
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,280
You know it. 
It taught me a yeah, it just 

543
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,080
taught me a lot. 
As you know, I was 18 and I 

544
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,240
thought like, oh, it's going to 
be good. 

545
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,680
No, he was like, hell no. 
If I can make this hard for you,

546
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,040
I will. 
Right. 

547
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,440
But look at you now. 
I know, I know. 

548
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,280
Thriving. 
I think, I think it's the less 

549
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,200
you give a kid, the further 
they'll go because the more 

550
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:34,040
entitled I think anyone is 
adult, child, teenager that. 

551
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,960
Fucks up because you can tell, 
yeah, you can tell the ones that

552
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,200
get everything in life when they
grow up and they grow older and 

553
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,640
stuff like that. 
And like, specifically the older

554
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,480
generation when it's like, you 
know, they're trying to talk to 

555
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,600
us about buying a house or 
buying property. 

556
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,440
Because the way that the world 
is working right now pertaining 

557
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:55,600
to housing is all of these giant
corporations are coming in and 

558
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,360
they're buying these houses 
because they want to keep people

559
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,880
renting. 
That's why interest rates are so

560
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,160
high right now. 
Like a lot of the renters from 

561
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,200
all of the numbers that we've 
pulled privately, they're now 

562
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:13,120
between the ages of 22 and 55 
years old renting because 

563
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,560
everything is so expensive now 
that it just wouldn't, you know,

564
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,640
it's not feasible for a lot of 
people to buy their own home 

565
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,360
financially. 
So it's just there's, there's so

566
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,640
much going into it. 
And the older generation is 

567
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,840
like, well, I bought my house at
24 years old back in the day. 

568
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:34,240
And it's like, OK, well, your 
house also cost you 25 grand. 

569
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,520
And then when you went to sell 
it, it's now worth 450 grand. 

570
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:44,080
So there's apples and oranges. 
Here that's exactly how like my 

571
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:48,800
dad bought his house in the 90s 
and paid like 70 and now he's 

572
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,800
gutted it and redoing it because
if he redoes it he can get like 

573
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:57,360
300 for it like but he is 
gutting it and completely 

574
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,440
redoing everything but still 
like that's a huge fucking jump 

575
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:08,040
if your shit's been paid for for
10-15 years and just stack and 

576
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:12,560
really cash a check. 
But like you're where I saw 

577
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:17,160
something on a breakdown on 
TikTok about how like $25.00 an 

578
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,560
hour is like the new $12.00 an 
hour and older. 

579
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:25,280
Directions like they don't see 
that like they post these jobs 

580
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:30,560
up on marketplace, bring 20 
bucks an hour farmhand or, you 

581
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,520
know, just whatever. 
Yeah, but like, how how are 

582
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,520
people going to live off that? 
Yeah, yeah. 

583
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:36,840
Because that's what they were 
saying. 

584
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,800
Like they averaged it out 
because if someone's paying 

585
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:46,000
around like 1200 to 1400 a month
for rent could be more than 

586
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,440
that. 
That was just like a low 

587
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,880
average. 
That was like AI really do 

588
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,080
think, though, that we're moving
into a recession and that. 

589
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,800
Oh, for sure, 1000% save your 
money. 

590
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,120
Don't buy any shit you don't 
need right now. 

591
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,960
Save it as interest rates are 
about to go back down because 

592
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:07,440
the economy's about to crash. 
So make sure you're an essential

593
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,720
in an essential category of 
work. 

594
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,840
And honest people like our age, 
if they wanted to learn a new 

595
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:17,560
trade, like freaking 
electricians painting, you know,

596
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,840
things like that are so needed. 
Oh, my gosh. 

597
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,200
So we have a guy that does 
maintenance for us at our 

598
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,520
property. 
Absolutely love him. 

599
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:30,040
He's so great at what he does. 
Technically he's labeled as our 

600
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,880
company painter, but he does so 
much more. 

601
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:37,920
He does drywall work and like we
had a like the, the kitchen 

602
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,080
sinks and stuff like that. 
They're all marble. 

603
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,160
And we had somebody how I have 
no clue. 

604
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,320
They ended up moving out. 
Their apartment was so 

605
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:46,960
disgusting. 
And then we go into the kitchen 

606
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:51,160
and they cracked a marble 
countertop, like cracked it like

607
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:55,160
it, it was broken. 
And how that happened, I have no

608
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,880
idea because they're, they're 
made to hold thousands of 

609
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,240
pounds, like appliances and 
stuff like that. 

610
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:05,280
This guy literally pieced back 
and naturally painted the 

611
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,480
granite and resealed it to look 
like it wasn't broken. 

612
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:13,360
And I found out how much money 
he makes a year from being able 

613
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:17,360
to do all of that. 
This dude makes over $600,000 a 

614
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,520
year from not just my property, 
like going around to different 

615
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,240
properties and like doing their 
painting, doing their drywall, 

616
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,560
helping redo their flooring, 
helping like recock their 

617
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,560
windows if something goes wrong 
with the window, swapping out 

618
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,040
windows. 
Like this blue collar dude that 

619
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:37,200
learned a trade and developed 
that trade now makes more than 

620
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:41,440
some doctors do. 
And that to me is like whoa. 

621
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,800
And all it took was him learning
a trade. 

622
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,880
Yes, I grew up in a family that 
owned a drywall business. 

623
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:52,680
And so as a kid, like I know I 
could do, I know I could frame 

624
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,400
drywall. 
I know I could do it. 

625
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,520
I know I can't. 
I know I can get it out. 

626
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,760
I can get it popping. 
But you know, just the skills 

627
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:04,120
that I watched them do over the 
years and the amount of people 

628
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:07,440
like your type of business that 
want to hire them, but then the 

629
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,000
type of side work, the people 
that are wanting to pay them 

630
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,159
thousands of dollars under the 
table as well to come. 

631
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,760
And they get that too. 
Like my maintenance guys, like 

632
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:23,080
one of them he, he works seven 
days a week because he is trying

633
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:28,320
to get the rest of his family 
over here from Cuba because it's

634
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:32,560
just gotten so bad in Cuba. 
Like he was literally saying 

635
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:38,920
that they need at least a dollar
and 25 a day to feed like 3 

636
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,400
people. 
And there's like, not meat 

637
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,480
included in that. 
It's like potatoes, plantains, 

638
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,280
onion and maybe rice every so 
often. 

639
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,800
And like, that's literally what,
like what his family's eating. 

640
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:51,840
So he has to send money over 
there. 

641
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,880
He sends toiletries over there 
and stuff like he gets like this

642
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,760
big giant box and he fills it 
with toilet paper, toothpaste, 

643
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,840
mouthwash, socks, underwear, all
that kind of stuff. 

644
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:06,040
And he ships that over. 
Every other month, he's dropping

645
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,800
like 8 or $900 on like a box of 
toiletries. 

646
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,240
And then it's like 125 to ship 
it. 

647
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,080
So he works every single day. 
But he does painting. 

648
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:19,680
He'll do like gutter cleaning. 
He did like power washing and 

649
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:23,000
stuff like that. 
And when he was asking me a 

650
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,600
question because he wanted to 
apply for a car and he was like,

651
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,440
hey, can you help me get my 
financial documents in order and

652
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,920
stuff like that? 
This man was making triple what 

653
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,800
I make. 
Damn. 

654
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,840
And I was like, yeah, literally,
I'm sitting there going through 

655
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:41,280
his finances. 
I was like, let me get $20, buy 

656
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:42,800
me lunch. 
Yeah. 

657
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:47,920
You know, a lot of especially 
Hispanic people like they can 

658
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,160
fucking build a house on the 
ground up and that's what it 

659
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,400
like, that's what impresses me 
because Oval, there was some 

660
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,240
land back, you know, when every 
house used to sit on three or 

661
00:35:57,240 --> 00:36:01,920
four acres along highways. 
Well, they basically bought a 

662
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,600
house that was in foreclosure 
because it was trashed and then 

663
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,160
it sat on like 4 acres. 
So they pieced it off, made the 

664
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:13,440
house that they fixed up on a 
small lot, sold the whole lot, 

665
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:17,120
and then built a fucking just 
the most beautiful house from 

666
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,960
ground up and did not skimp on 
anything. 

667
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,960
Not the brick, not the colors, 
nothing. 

668
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,400
And it's so beautiful and I 
drive past it every day and you 

669
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,800
know, like they own that shit, 
they own the land. 

670
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,800
I'm sure they financed 
materials, but like they didn't 

671
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:40,880
$450,000 house that probably 
cost them like 150 in material 

672
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,560
period. 
And the fact that they bought 

673
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,920
that other house in foreclosure 
with this huge 4 acre lot. 

674
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,360
They got that for a deal, fixed 
it up and now they got this 

675
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:54,880
$450,000 brand new house that 
they probably moved their mom 

676
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,440
whatever into. 
And now living their best life 

677
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:02,680
because now they have a house 
that they probably paid like 124

678
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,280
that's allotted them all of this
space, it's like. 

679
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,720
That's. 
What they say, a lot of Hispanic

680
00:37:08,720 --> 00:37:11,400
families, the reason they live 
together is because they pull 

681
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,280
all their money together and 
they property off. 

682
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,080
Then they go to the next one and
pay that one off and they buy 

683
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,280
them in foreclosure because they
can do the work. 

684
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,360
And then they fucking flip them.
And honestly, I think that's why

685
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,920
so many Americans are haters on 
other cultures because, like, 

686
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,240
they know how to get shit done. 
Like, they know. 

687
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,640
Yeah, but like, get it done and 
get it done quick. 

688
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,400
Like, quit, quit waiting. 
Stop waiting around. 

689
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,320
Like, go do it. 
Because, like, what I have to 

690
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:41,480
do, part of my job is I handle 
the money moving in and moving 

691
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,200
out of the property. 
So I have to have my hands on 

692
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,120
everything. 
I have to know if you paid your 

693
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,040
rent. 
I have to know if you have a pet

694
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:49,600
so you can get charged 
accordingly. 

695
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:54,720
Like, and when I see big 
Hispanic families coming to 

696
00:37:54,720 --> 00:37:58,200
rent, I'm like, OK, I can almost
guarantee this is what's 

697
00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:59,400
happening. 
They're going to rent for a 

698
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,880
little bit until they save up 
enough money. 

699
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,240
And then once they save up 
enough money, they're going to 

700
00:38:04,240 --> 00:38:06,040
go and they're going to buy a 
plot of land or they're going to

701
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,400
rehab homes and stuff like that.
Because we have one family in 

702
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,800
particular that lives on my site
now and they're in the rehab 

703
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:16,800
business. 
They do stuff like installation 

704
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,320
of stonework, tile work, 
flooring, all that kind of 

705
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,120
stuff. 
And when I have to do what's 

706
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,720
called like income verification,
basically like if you fill out 

707
00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:29,480
an application and you say, oh, 
I make 6 grand a month, I have 

708
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,520
to be able to see that. 
Like whether it's for your bank 

709
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,040
statements, whether it's for 
your paycheck stubs, whatever. 

710
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:39,560
And I thought that this dude 
when he had put down, I thought 

711
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:42,600
that maybe there was like a 0 
malfunction or whatever, like he

712
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,640
added another zero when he 
shouldn't have. 

713
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:53,920
He made 2222 five a month 
consecutively for the past like 

714
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,320
3 months. 
And I like, I kind of looked at 

715
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,480
and I was like, why are you 
renting? 

716
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,680
And like, it's just a question 
of curiosity. 

717
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,600
Like I'm happy that you're here.
Like why are you renting? 

718
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,200
And he goes, oh, all of the 
properties I have right now, 

719
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,240
they're all almost done and I'm 
going to sell all of them at the

720
00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:12,680
same time. 
And so like him and his wife 

721
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:14,880
were sitting there telling me 
they've got like four or five 

722
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,200
different properties that they 
essentially did what you were 

723
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,200
talking about with the one 
family that bought the home in 

724
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,640
foreclosure. 
And he's going to sell them all 

725
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:25,320
at the same time. 
Like the amount of money that 

726
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,320
that man is going to make off of
that. 

727
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,760
And just like, you know, he took
maybe a year, year and a half to

728
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:34,800
do 4 different properties. 
And now he, well, I was going to

729
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,720
say he might take a day off. 
He's definitely not going to 

730
00:39:36,720 --> 00:39:38,240
take a day off. 
No, I've met him. 

731
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,440
He's like go, go, go, go, go all
the time. 

732
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,320
And I'm like, you know what? 
That's that can't do attitude, 

733
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,000
but it got him paid. 
So yeah, yeah. 

734
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,680
And that's kind of like the 
family that I grew up in, they 

735
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,800
owned a, a business that they 
would buy houses in foreclosure.

736
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:57,200
They would remodel them to rent 
them and so forth and then sell 

737
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,920
them or whatever. 
But that's exactly like, I'm 

738
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,000
used to being around people who 
are like, Oh yeah, your 

739
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,280
bathroom's leaking. 
I'll RIP it out and redo it this

740
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,440
weekend. 
Like I was like wait. 

741
00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:12,360
My aunt is definitely one of 
those people that's like because

742
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:16,680
you know, her family has always 
redone anything she wants redone

743
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:20,320
so she can buy a house for 
80,000 and that they'll RIP it 

744
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,240
out and redo it. 
And I'm always like, I'm like, 

745
00:40:23,240 --> 00:40:26,760
yeah, it makes me laugh because 
she's someone is like, yeah, I 

746
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,200
think I want to redo the laundry
room. 

747
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,080
My budget is 7 days. 
Could you get it done by then? 

748
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,000
Because she's just used to 
having family members and people

749
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:36,480
who are going to come work. 
Yeah, that are going to do that,

750
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,760
get it done. 
And she's like, yeah, I forget. 

751
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:43,240
Not everyone can do that, you 
know, like, cuz every time I go 

752
00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:45,440
to her house, something is 
different. 

753
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,280
Something is updated, something 
has changed. 

754
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,560
And she's like, Oh yeah, it 
looks totally different. 

755
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,800
Yeah, it does. 
Like, but because like, when did

756
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,720
that get here? 
Don't realize that skills like 

757
00:40:56,720 --> 00:40:59,400
that are so needed. 
Like that's really what's 

758
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:04,440
lacking because they did this 
poll and they asked like younger

759
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:08,720
generations, I guess, like Gen. 
X and Jen Alfa or whatever, what

760
00:41:08,720 --> 00:41:13,800
their ideal dream job is. 
And like 50% of them were 

761
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:19,320
Internet related jobs like 
streaming, influencing, acting, 

762
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,920
you know, music. 
But like or what? 

763
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,600
Nobody's saying they want to be 
an electrician or a mechanic or 

764
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:31,080
actually need. 
And look, I am all in support of

765
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:35,680
everyone going to get a trade 
and stuff like that because I'm 

766
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,040
really good with numbers and I'm
really good with like the math 

767
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:42,160
acts like the, Oh my God, not 
the aspect of math. 

768
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:46,280
But if you give me a power tool,
guaranteed I'm going to make it 

769
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:47,800
worse. 
I'm not going to help the 

770
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,160
situation. 
I'm actually going to create a 

771
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,440
whole separate problem. 
And so like anytime I grab a 

772
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,320
power tool personally, my 
boyfriend's like, what are you 

773
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,800
doing? 
Why do you have that? 

774
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,600
Where you going with that? 
And I'm like, all right, I won't

775
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,200
do it because when I ask, hey, 
can you do this? 

776
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,080
I'm like, hey, can you do it 
now? 

777
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:09,200
Like I don't say now, but I'm 
implying now. 

778
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,440
And he's like, no, I'll do it in
5 minutes when I want to do it. 

779
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,880
And I'm like, I'll give it a 
shot. 

780
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:15,680
I won't. 
I will never give it a shot 

781
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,640
because I've learned my lesson. 
I've broken furniture. 

782
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,280
It's bad. 
Yeah. 

783
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:27,440
I actually bought one of these 
electric kind of like cutters. 

784
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,520
Like it's like an electric box 
cutter and I fucking love that. 

785
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,160
Thing, but you have to be 
careful. 

786
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:35,240
With it I've told myself that I 
wanted to buy a drill. 

787
00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:38,080
I don't know why. 
Like just so I can drill, put 

788
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,640
things together, I guess with 
Right. 

789
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:44,040
Yeah, you don't need that, but I
do have my own tools. 

790
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:45,800
They're not electric tools 
though. 

791
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:54,080
Well, I mean, my oddly enough, 
my boyfriend, he used to do 

792
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:58,600
apartment maintenance. 
And so when I was thinking of 

793
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:03,680
transitioning into like an 
actual apartment community role,

794
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:07,800
I kind of bounced ideas off of 
him first because he's worked at

795
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,880
like a like a class apartment 
communities where they're like 

796
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,520
stupid expensive and you know, 
like the maintenance team has to

797
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:18,240
be like top tier. 
And it was, it was funny because

798
00:43:18,240 --> 00:43:21,360
I was like, I can bartend. 
I think this will be kind of 

799
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:25,160
easy. 
And he was like, OK, 'cause like

800
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,680
I've done real estate, but I 
just missed the step. 

801
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,560
Typically you go from like 
serving and bartending to 

802
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,400
apartment complexes and then to 
real estate. 

803
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:38,600
And I, I skipped around, I did 
the bartending, then real estate

804
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:40,840
and then came back down to 
property management. 

805
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,880
Because property management, you
get your insurance and your 

806
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:47,720
training and everything else 
through a company, not your own 

807
00:43:47,720 --> 00:43:51,240
self. 
So like, if I ever got sued, 

808
00:43:51,240 --> 00:43:53,760
people aren't actually suing me,
they're suing the company I work

809
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:55,720
for. 
And then the company I work for 

810
00:43:55,720 --> 00:43:58,040
could be like, hey, you're not 
getting sued anymore, but you 

811
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,000
are fired. 
And it's like, oh, well, damn, I

812
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,080
don't have a job anymore, but I 
also am not getting sued. 

813
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:08,040
So, yeah, I think real estate's 
one of those unique things 

814
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,840
where, like, a few years ago 
when the housing market was 

815
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:15,040
booming, there were more 
Realtors than there were houses 

816
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,000
to sell. 
Correct. 

817
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,240
And that was a specific type of 
hell on earth, let me tell you. 

818
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,920
Yeah. 
It's like rotated because 

819
00:44:23,240 --> 00:44:26,200
there's all kinds of houses, but
nobody wants to buy them. 

820
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,520
Like, no one can buy them. 
Not that they don't want to buy 

821
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,000
them. 
They can't buy them, I don't 

822
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:30,400
think. 
Yeah. 

823
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:34,720
And it's crazy because like we 
even considered like, you know, 

824
00:44:34,720 --> 00:44:38,720
renting a house like in like the
Germantown area and the rent on 

825
00:44:38,720 --> 00:44:43,760
that for a two-bedroom, 1 bath 
was $1500 a month with nothing 

826
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,040
included. 
So you're looking at a 

827
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:50,520
two-bedroom, 1 bathroom house 
for right up around after 

828
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:54,440
everything is said and done, 
like water, electric, sewer, 

829
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,240
Internet and everything like 
that. 

830
00:44:56,240 --> 00:44:58,320
Yeah, trash. 
You're going to be at like 

831
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:03,080
probably right around 19 to 2 
grand for a 2 bedroom rental. 

832
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:07,040
And it's like that to me is just
kind of that that made me like 

833
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,080
take a step back and be like, 
you know what, We'll stay put 

834
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:13,600
for a little bit. 
Printing is a game. 

835
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:17,840
Because like I have friends who 
like get amazing places and 

836
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,000
like, they haven't raised their 
rent in years. 

837
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,560
It's been crazy and they're 
loving it. 

838
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,840
But then I have friends who are 
like, Oh my God, it's so awful. 

839
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:29,360
And like coming from me, like 
I've rented an apartment and 

840
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:34,360
I've rented a house and then I 
went on to purchase something. 

841
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:38,040
So like, I don't know. 
I personally think that renting 

842
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:44,600
is such a scam long term. 
It's good initially to like 

843
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,960
money, to learn life skills, 
things like that. 

844
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,880
But I honestly think that anyone
who's going to rent long term 

845
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:57,240
needs to know it's a scam like 
long term because like I said 

846
00:45:57,240 --> 00:46:00,600
earlier, like all these big 
housing companies and stuff like

847
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,000
that that are buying up all the 
local real estate. 

848
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:09,000
When my friend, she moved from 
Saint Pete up here to Louisville

849
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,040
and everyone's like, Oh my God, 
why'd you move from like Florida

850
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:13,880
to Louisville and blah, blah, 
blah, blah, blah. 

851
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,160
Like it seems perfect down 
there. 

852
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,040
It is. 
But both of her jobs got 

853
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:21,480
destroyed by the Hurricanes. 
And this past time I went to 

854
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:25,520
Florida, I accidentally, well, 
you know, you buy tickets so far

855
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,760
in advance, I had no idea there 
was going to be like one, let 

856
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,880
alone 2 hurricanes. 
But I kind of felt her on that 

857
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:34,480
because even though I came in 
after the first hurricane, 

858
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:36,920
everything was shut down. 
There's nothing to do. 

859
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,400
Everyone's panicking. 
There was no groceries anywhere.

860
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,600
It was just miserable. 
So she was like, you know what? 

861
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:42,920
I don't want to deal with this 
anymore. 

862
00:46:43,240 --> 00:46:46,320
I want to come to Kentucky. 
When she came up to Louisville, 

863
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,480
we started looking for houses 
for her. 

864
00:46:48,720 --> 00:46:52,800
And all of these houses were 
bought by these like offshore 

865
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:56,240
entities that didn't have like 
an actual brick and mortar 

866
00:46:56,240 --> 00:47:00,600
office here in the city. 
We were calling people and they 

867
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,720
were people that barely spoke 
English and like, that's neither

868
00:47:03,720 --> 00:47:05,640
here nor there. 
But like when you look up the 

869
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:10,080
company, they're not even here. 
They're not even local, like in 

870
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,080
the city. 
They're just buying these 

871
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,560
properties to get the constant 
cash flow. 

872
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:18,120
In that way, everyone is renting
and everyone's consistently 

873
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:22,400
paying their bills. 
So I just think that that 

874
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,520
particular part of the housing 
crisis is just absolutely 

875
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:29,160
terrible because you're making 
it impossible for people to get 

876
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,640
ahead. 
They're making it like almost 

877
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:35,280
completely impossible for new 
people starting out after their,

878
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,880
you know, college graduation and
stuff like that. 

879
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:40,840
I don't really know any college 
graduates right now that could 

880
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,720
buy a home, you know, And 
honestly, I think a lot of that,

881
00:47:44,720 --> 00:47:49,000
though, is expectation because 
like a lot of people are like, 

882
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,440
Oh my God, brown cabinets and 
carpet. 

883
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:57,440
I can't like, you know, I think 
there are homes in a price range

884
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,440
that people are like, oh, I 
don't like that. 

885
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,920
Like they're not thinking like 
our parents and beyond. 

886
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:08,800
Like they like my dad's house 
had brown carpet and like green 

887
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:13,360
walls when he moved in, you 
know, so also the Internet and 

888
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:17,800
expectation with like Pinterest 
and what people think like, no, 

889
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,960
you're not going to have 
cabinets that are flushed to the

890
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,120
ceiling that have ambient 
lighting under them. 

891
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,800
Like, like what's your 
expectation? 

892
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:30,680
Because, you know, I always see 
those memes that's like me on 

893
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:36,760
Zillow with $12.00 to my name. 
Like, you know, I don't know, I 

894
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:41,280
think that there's not a lot of 
houses that are worth buying. 

895
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:45,360
But when there is, you have to 
tame back your expectations. 

896
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,280
Like, you know, the, the man 
that you talked about was 

897
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,960
flipping the houses and putting 
all that work into them. 

898
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:52,000
He's not. 
Being. 

899
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:53,840
Icky. 
He's rolling up, he's seeing 

900
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:58,680
good foundation, got a solid 
structure, no termites, no lugs.

901
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:03,600
Let's get whereas other people 
are like, I really want 4 acres 

902
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:08,840
and flush cabinets and hardwood 
with a claw foot tub with it, 

903
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,040
right. 
They want it to be completely 

904
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:14,880
turnkey, but they like, it's 
just you don't, you don't have 

905
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,680
the budget for turnkey. 
Like you got to turn the key 

906
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,600
yourself. 
Yeah. 

907
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:23,040
And like, I think, you know, 
5-6, seven years ago, there were

908
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:29,040
more turnkey in reason. 
And now people who bought their 

909
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:33,080
starter house are turning it 
into a more forever space. 

910
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,840
Like kind of like what I bought 
like a condo thinking like, oh, 

911
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,200
I'll just stay here for a few 
years. 

912
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,400
And now it's looking a lot more 
permanent, which I'm very 

913
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,640
blessed that I was able to do 
that. 

914
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:47,600
But you know, you got to think 
like our generations 

915
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,720
expectations are a little far 
fetched. 

916
00:49:49,720 --> 00:49:54,520
Like we're wanting like 
completely on a fucking, you 

917
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,640
know, Michael Kors salary, like 
people are over here, right? 

918
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:03,440
Yes, Prada and why I sell in red
bottoms or whatever the fuck. 

919
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,640
But, you know, obtain your 
expectations. 

920
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:11,720
And plus a lot of people now are
trying to do this solo where 

921
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,840
every other generation 
previously had two incomes, 

922
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,760
Correct. 
Yeah. 

923
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:21,080
And like, I know someone right 
now that was like asking if 

924
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,320
anyone's interested in renting. 
Like I saw numerous Facebook 

925
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,880
posts and stuff like that. 
Because what they did was is 

926
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:32,240
they had funneled their income 
from the husband. 

927
00:50:32,720 --> 00:50:35,360
He has like a really, really 
nice like carpentry job and like

928
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,440
a kind of like Jack of all 
trades job to where he can work 

929
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:43,320
on either driveways or cabinets 
or redo the flooring or do rehab

930
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,160
work and stuff like that. 
So they wanted to get into the 

931
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:49,520
rental market. 
And I specifically remember her 

932
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:53,240
saying something to me way back 
before Nowhere Bar closed 

933
00:50:53,240 --> 00:50:56,720
before, like no one, you know, 
before all of that happened. 

934
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,640
But she looked at me and she 
goes, well, what it like, what 

935
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,640
do you feel about it? 
And I was like, I don't know, 

936
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,640
like you're buying a whole other
different structure for somebody

937
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,120
else to live in. 
Like, I don't know if they're 

938
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,960
going to take care of it. 
And sure enough, that's what's 

939
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:12,960
happened. 
All four of their rental 

940
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:16,040
properties right now are 
completely vacant right now. 

941
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,680
And all four of those tenants 
are under eviction. 

942
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:22,920
So they are like hemorrhaging 
money right now because they're 

943
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,400
not getting the rental income 
and they're also having to go to

944
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,000
court with spending the money to
file evictions. 

945
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,360
So all of them are vacant. 
And I was like. 

946
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:37,920
You know, the only firm thing 
that would make sense is if you 

947
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:41,760
had a really dope destination 
spot that you could do Airbnb 

948
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:46,440
because like we just stayed at 
the gorge and it was 260 a 

949
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:50,920
night, but it was literally had 
its own private pond and, you 

950
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,200
know, and club, it was super 
comfy. 

951
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:58,640
Like, you know, Airbnb is where 
it's literally like cold and 

952
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:02,760
empty and like IKEA or you've 
been like, hell yeah. 

953
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,560
Like this is so cozy and decor 
and everything. 

954
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:08,760
So I don't know. 
I think the only thing that 

955
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:12,960
would make sense is what I want 
to say is like if you found 

956
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:17,640
something that was destination 
worthy where you get 6 to 8 

957
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,200
months of in peak seasonal. 
Rent. 

958
00:52:20,720 --> 00:52:24,760
That could pay your What you 
would do is like say your 

959
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,560
mortgage is 2 grand on the 
place. 

960
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,960
You funnel 6 to 8 grand a month 
into that mortgage and pay it 

961
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:33,560
off. 
So then it's free and clear. 

962
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,960
Like that's what people don't 
understand is like if your 

963
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:42,360
mortgage is 900 but you on 
average spend $1000 a month on 

964
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:46,000
shoes, clothes and eating out, 
you should be paying 1900. 

965
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:52,000
Or. 1700 and then you can spend 
200 you know on some on what 

966
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:55,880
whatever, but people don't 
realize it's like they're like 

967
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,160
oh, I'll never be able to pay 
this off yeah, you're making no 

968
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:02,360
extra payments like renting 
ruins people's brains in the 

969
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:06,360
sense is they don't have this 
the same like plan ahead 

970
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:10,440
forethought and whenever I've 
moved into my spot I needed to 

971
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,400
get like I had the original 
water heater. 

972
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,640
I had the original furnace and I
wanted to replace both before 

973
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:20,280
they went I thought a water 
heater was going to be so 

974
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,720
expensive. 
It was literally $800.00 for 

975
00:53:22,720 --> 00:53:27,160
like a top notch water heater 
and I'm in the amount of people 

976
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:31,040
who rent who end up having 
leaks, water bills out the 

977
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:35,960
wazoo, ruining the subfloor, 
ruining belongings, and it's 

978
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:40,120
$800.00 for the landlord to fix 
to replace that not even fix 

979
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:41,560
Yeah, that's. 
Crazy. 

980
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:43,960
Yeah. 
The crazy part is, like you 

981
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:47,280
said, nobody has that like 
future site everyone's worried 

982
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:50,080
about. 
Like right now, oh, my rent is 

983
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,960
$800 and I have $900 in my 
checking account. 

984
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,640
Rent's cool. 
And then my whole next paycheck 

985
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:59,520
is free. 
No, like if you're using it, 

986
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:02,280
like if you're utilizing 
renting, pay your shit off. 

987
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:05,240
Like pay all of your stuff off. 
Like there's no reason that you 

988
00:54:05,240 --> 00:54:08,000
should have like an astronomical
credit card bill. 

989
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,440
And don't get me wrong, I love 
to shop. 

990
00:54:10,720 --> 00:54:13,320
So coming from me, there's some 
people that are going to see 

991
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:16,200
this and be like, but wait a 
minute, weren't you? 

992
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,520
And it's like, no, no, no, but 
it gets paid off. 

993
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:20,760
There's nothing that goes to 
collections. 

994
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:22,880
There's nothing I put on the 
back burner to where they're 

995
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,800
calling my phone. 
Like I have everything on auto 

996
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,600
pay. 
And the downside to that is that

997
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,040
sometimes I think I'm Bill Gates
and then I open up my phone and 

998
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,800
I'm like, oh, I guess that Amex 
payment was due today. 

999
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,400
So my bad. 
The thing is, is like our 

1000
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:42,120
generation doesn't have a lot of
financial literacy because a lot

1001
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:44,480
of our parents were in struggle 
mindset. 

1002
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:48,320
And that's what I've tried to 
like teach and preach and you 

1003
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:52,160
know, help help people 
understand is that abundance is 

1004
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:55,080
a frequency. 
And when you constantly are in a

1005
00:54:55,080 --> 00:55:00,680
lack mindset, like whatever it 
is, you have to shift that 

1006
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:05,000
narrative into gratitude, into 
resourcefulness, into elevation.

1007
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:08,960
Because so many of us, the 
reason we're trapped is because 

1008
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:10,960
we bash it. 
We don't need, we bash it 

1009
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:13,080
forward. 
We bash it. 

1010
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,400
We have no intentions of wanting
to pay for, you know, it's like,

1011
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:21,440
you know, they, they really do 
mess people's brains up when 

1012
00:55:21,720 --> 00:55:24,840
they give the celebrities who 
have the money to buy the shit, 

1013
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:29,320
the free shit they give them to 
then turn around and sell it to 

1014
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:33,960
you who really can't afford it. 
And like I've been manifesting 

1015
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,960
like cherry stuff like so now 
it's everywhere. 

1016
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,280
It's of course everywhere. 
But now Louis Vuitton is doing 

1017
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,640
their cherry collab again. 
They have not done since like 

1018
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:46,880
the early thousands. 
And I'm like y'all are fucking. 

1019
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:48,400
You did that. 
Thanks. 

1020
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:50,240
Thanks for that, because now 
everyone's going to. 

1021
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:54,080
Everyone yeah I checked it's 
like 5 grand for the bag and I'm

1022
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:57,600
like y'all are crazy. 
Thank you for showing me that my

1023
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:00,160
manifestations are real now. 
Get a dupe. 

1024
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:04,440
Yeah, give me one for free. 
Please right give me a dupe 

1025
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,000
like. 
I love a dupe. 

1026
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,720
I love a dupe. 
That's my favorite thing, 

1027
00:56:10,720 --> 00:56:13,600
honestly, because when you have 
something that's like so 

1028
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,960
expensive you don't want to use 
it, that's no fun. 

1029
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:18,320
No, not at all. 
Yeah. 

1030
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,160
Like, do you remember back when 
Vine was a thing and that girl 

1031
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,160
pranked her mom with the 
Valentino bag? 

1032
00:56:23,240 --> 00:56:26,480
And she was like, I spilled red 
lipstick in your Valentino bag, 

1033
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,760
and the mom was like, my 
Valentino bag. 

1034
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,880
And it's like, why would you 
want to carry around something 

1035
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,800
so expensive that if any little 
thing happened to it, like your 

1036
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:39,440
day's room? 
Yes yeah, I don't remember that,

1037
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:43,960
but I do remember Vine being 
like super cool and honestly I 

1038
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:48,640
kind of miss when TikTok was 
like only shorter videos because

1039
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:53,440
I get my attention span for like
a 10 minute ain't. 

1040
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,640
Got it. 
Ain't got it for you, I really. 

1041
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:57,480
Ain't got it brother. 
It's hard. 

1042
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:00,560
Like I'm like. 
Fuck, what's wrong? 

1043
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,920
I can't focus on this. 
Right, And I have younger 

1044
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,280
siblings so now I get like all 
of like their tik toks and 

1045
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:09,360
stuff. 
And I'm like, I have no idea 

1046
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,480
what's going on here. 
Like none whatsoever. 

1047
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:13,440
I'm going to watch it because 
you sent it. 

1048
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:17,520
So if you ask me about it, I 
don't have to lie, but I don't 

1049
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,080
know what's going on here. 
Like I'm so far removed. 

1050
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:23,280
I really don't either. 
And you know, it's funny because

1051
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:26,120
like, I know the younger 
generations are always making 

1052
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:29,240
fun of millennials, but what's 
crazy is you are literally 

1053
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:31,840
trying to be us. 
Like Y2K trending? 

1054
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,360
All the fucking, literally. 
Like all of the things we used 

1055
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,320
to do trending. 
Like you all even wanted your 

1056
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:41,400
own like version of the Beanie 
Baby with this la Boo Boo 

1057
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,080
bullshit and like. 
Correct. 

1058
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,640
Yeah, and then now you have to 
try and one up us by making a 

1059
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:47,920
hang off of a bag. 
We used to wrap those in 

1060
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:49,840
scarves. 
We were the Ogs. 

1061
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,320
Ogs. 
On that, I feel like the Boo Boo

1062
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:56,040
things are fucking demented. 
I they actually represent this 

1063
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,200
demon. 
There's a demon called like 

1064
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:03,640
Bazuzu, and it's like them and 
he's not a good demon, so. 

1065
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:06,080
I And now he's everywhere. 
Now he's everywhere. 

1066
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,680
Yeah, because I also had someone
talk about like the Elf on the 

1067
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:13,680
Shelf being a demon and like all
of a sudden everyone had Elf on 

1068
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,760
the Shelf in their home. 
But like when we were a kid that

1069
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:19,400
did not even exist. 
Like Elf on the Shelf wasn't a 

1070
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,120
thing. 
No. 

1071
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:25,320
And like I'm super, super, super
spiritual. 

1072
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:30,440
Like, I believe that energies 
and different things can, like, 

1073
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:31,200
follow you. 
Yeah. 

1074
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,760
And if you're in, like, a bad 
mindset, I believe that you do 

1075
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,760
invite certain things in. 
And I have to be like, extremely

1076
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,600
careful because I live literally
across the street from a 

1077
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,960
cemetery. 
People are like, oh, no, it's 

1078
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:45,840
like down the street. 
No, it's the end of my driveway.

1079
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:49,840
Across the street is a cemetery.
And my boyfriend is so morbid 

1080
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,840
and I kind of love it sometimes.
And he's like, Oh my God, we got

1081
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,520
a new neighbor. 
And my dumb self, like the first

1082
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,640
three times he did it, I'm like,
Oh my God, who moved out? 

1083
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:00,520
Who's moving in? 
What's happening? 

1084
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,600
What's going on? 
And someone's getting buried, 

1085
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:06,120
and that's our new neighbor. 
Getting buried. 

1086
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,400
And I'm like. 
Gosh, I love it. 

1087
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,680
That's such a good. 
That's actually a really good 

1088
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,040
statement. 
We got a new neighbor. 

1089
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:15,680
You know, there's this guy. 
I run to the window and I'm 

1090
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,120
like. 
He was talking about how, like, 

1091
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,800
how so many people die every 
day, but there's never like, new

1092
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,440
cemeteries being built. 
So he's like, where do all the 

1093
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:28,120
people go? 
Well. 

1094
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:32,440
I saw that really like really, 
really crazy thing and I can't 

1095
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:35,960
remember which state it happened
in, but it basically was like 

1096
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:39,480
this company, I know both of the
founders, they they're in prison

1097
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:42,160
now, but it was the company that
were like, we'll plant your 

1098
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,280
loved ones in a tree. 
Yeah. 

1099
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,680
That type of thing. 
And they weren't doing it. 

1100
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:51,120
They were like hoarding a mass 
amount of bodies and some bodies

1101
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,760
were like left out 
unrefrigerated and like they 

1102
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:58,480
were like decomposing everywhere
and like the building started to

1103
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:02,120
smell like it. 
And if anyone knows that exact 

1104
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,120
story, I'm going to, I'm 
literally going to have to look 

1105
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:08,080
it up because it was. 
So I was just in shock that I 

1106
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:09,880
read that. 
And I'm like you, I think they 

1107
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:13,640
had over like 30 bodies. 
That they just did not do 

1108
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:18,600
anything with and I could not 
imagine that would be so upset. 

1109
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,640
I like the concept of turning 
people into trees. 

1110
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:23,560
I think that would be a really 
good concept. 

1111
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:25,880
Right. 
But you got to do it. 

1112
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,360
You got to have the follow 
through. 

1113
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:32,640
Yeah, like some some leave your 
Uncle Greg over here in the 

1114
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:33,800
basement. 
So. 

1115
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:38,440
You know, there's probably a 
bunch of people somewhere out 

1116
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,440
there in someone's basement, 
unfortunately, like. 

1117
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:47,200
Yeah, And see, the amount of 
stupidity and stupid things that

1118
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:51,920
I did when I was younger, I'm 
like, that is a miracle that you

1119
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:57,120
did not get trafficked, like 
straight up, because I was just 

1120
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,920
so not with it. 
I would not pay attention to 

1121
01:00:59,960 --> 01:01:03,360
anything. 
I was like, I love life, People 

1122
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:06,040
love me and I love them and 
everything's great. 

1123
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:09,200
And then a few years later, I'd 
look back and be like, why did 

1124
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,880
you do that? 
Why was that a thing? 

1125
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,480
Yeah, the amount of times that I
like lied and said that I was 

1126
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:19,200
staying the night somewhere that
I never even went is crazy 

1127
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:22,840
because like if I did go missing
and you all were literally 

1128
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:26,360
talking about like pre cell 
phones, like they couldn't track

1129
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:28,680
you. 
I told him I was here but I was 

1130
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:30,120
never even there. 
So like. 

1131
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:32,240
Right. 
We didn't have Find my Friends 

1132
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:36,120
or Find My iPhone. 
We literally some of our phones 

1133
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:41,720
had a removable battery pack 
that you had to charge like let 

1134
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:44,160
that sink in. 
You know, I've thought about 

1135
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:47,440
getting the new razor like and 
just getting rid of my iPhone 

1136
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,200
and getting the razor because do
you? 

1137
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:50,840
Know that that's trending right 
now. 

1138
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,840
A bunch of people are getting 
rid of Apple products altogether

1139
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:57,680
because they say that it makes 
their life too conveniently 

1140
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:01,400
inconvenient, meaning that 
they're just sucked in in a mask

1141
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,640
to the iPhone. 
That's honestly how I feel 

1142
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:09,000
because I have two iPhones, two 
Macbooks and an iPad. 

1143
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:12,120
So like I'm constantly 2 
connected. 

1144
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:15,600
And honestly I've just thought 
about because I, I have another 

1145
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:19,000
iPhone for my job and then I 
have my personal iPhone. 

1146
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:22,480
So I'm like, I could just, I 
would still have an iPhone, but 

1147
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:25,240
I could just get rid of this one
and get the razor. 

1148
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:27,200
And right that way you'd still 
have one. 

1149
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:30,240
Yeah, like the razor is actually
pretty dope. 

1150
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:33,040
Like it's touch screen. 
You open it up and it's like a a

1151
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:36,240
big touch screen. 
It's pretty cool. 

1152
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,240
And I'm like, I saw one girl 
that had the BlackBerry, she 

1153
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:44,000
ordered a BlackBerry off of it, 
like a vintage BlackBerry off of

1154
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:47,120
Amazon. 
I loved the BlackBerry. 

1155
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:50,240
I was a BlackBerry girlie. 
I also had the Sidekick. 

1156
01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:52,680
That was like my very first, 
like smartphone was the flip 

1157
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:54,640
around Sidekick. 
I'm so jealous. 

1158
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:56,960
That was part of the nostalgia 
that I never got. 

1159
01:02:57,240 --> 01:03:01,000
I had a BlackBerry and then I 
had an original Razor, but I 

1160
01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:03,800
didn't have a sidekick. 
And sidekicks to me were just 

1161
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:07,400
like, I'm like Oh my God, I want
that so bad. 

1162
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:11,400
Yeah, I was like the first that 
had a sidekick and I remember 

1163
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:14,320
Paris Hilton had one and I 
thought that was so cool. 

1164
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:17,440
She had the pink 1. 
I had, I had the regular Gray 

1165
01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:20,640
and then I did upgrade and get 
the green sidekick when they 

1166
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,720
came out with it. 
And then I spilled Gatorade on 

1167
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:25,920
it and my backpack and like my. 
Spoken bag. 

1168
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:30,160
And it ruined it and I remember 
fighting with insurance over it.

1169
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,360
They didn't want to replace it 
because it was such an expensive

1170
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,080
phone back then, like for 
insurance. 

1171
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:38,160
But then when I tried to claim 
that, they were like, what? 

1172
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:41,120
What do you mean? 
What do you mean you broke it 

1173
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:43,400
like? 
It was. 

1174
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:46,680
It wasn't me, obviously. 
Like, Are you sure? 

1175
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:51,360
Just a girl. 
I mean, I will be honest, I am 

1176
01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:54,640
going to look into the razor. 
I just think that something 

1177
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,240
about sliding that baby down my 
back pocket. 

1178
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:01,520
And then the dramatics, when you
flick it up, you're like, hold 

1179
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,880
on. 
And just like the screen flicks 

1180
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,480
up and you're just like, I am 
that person. 

1181
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:10,480
I'm that person right now. 
I had a Nokia that had a button 

1182
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:13,160
on it that would flip up. 
It would flip the phone up. 

1183
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:17,000
And it was. 
It was like back whenever, like 

1184
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:20,080
the outside of the phone. 
Remember when the outside of the

1185
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:22,760
flip phone didn't have color, 
but then they started having 

1186
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:24,800
color? 
Yes, it was like. 

1187
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,920
Right at that brink. 
And it was when my friend got a 

1188
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:29,920
new phone. 
She let me have that one. 

1189
01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:31,560
I could just put my SIM card in 
it. 

1190
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,960
So I and I remember. 
Isn't that wild that we were 

1191
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:40,160
like SIM card girlies like that?
To me it still is crazy because 

1192
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:42,760
you talk about this to someone 
younger and they legitimately 

1193
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:45,800
don't know like. 
Yeah, yeah. 

1194
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:49,720
And I remember. 
I had Touch My Body by Mariah 

1195
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:54,240
Carey as the ringtone. 
I had Fergal wishes. 

1196
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:57,440
Oh my God. 
I listen to that song all the 

1197
01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,160
time. 
And you know that boom Boom Pow 

1198
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:01,840
song? 
I know, you know, yeah, it's by 

1199
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:05,360
the Black Eyed Peas. 
I listen to that song like, 

1200
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:08,480
regularly. 
Like that is regular rotation 

1201
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,560
for me. 
Like for real. 

1202
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:15,080
Oh my God, I love that. 
And like I said, old school 

1203
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:20,960
Fergie and then Eve Tambourine, 
if that came on, don't speak to 

1204
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:22,960
me like I'm vibing at that 
point. 

1205
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:26,960
I'm already, I'm already not 
locked in anymore for the 

1206
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:28,680
streets at that point. 
I'm outside. 

1207
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:33,000
Oh my gosh. 
I saw this picture earlier and 

1208
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,400
it was of little Kim and it 
said, holy shit. 

1209
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:40,920
Little Kim scared me because her
pictures her, whoever did her 

1210
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,920
facelift really permanently 
locked her in. 

1211
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,800
And it she did not look bad 
before. 

1212
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:51,280
Like that's what's crazy to me. 
There's like so many people that

1213
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:55,160
go on these journeys and then 
like, by all means, if you feel 

1214
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:58,080
the need to do something for you
to feel good about yourself, by 

1215
01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:00,920
all means you go for it. 
Don't let anyone stop you. 

1216
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:04,440
But there should be that one 
group of friends or a friend 

1217
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:08,880
that's like, hey, we should 
maybe maybe not like maybe just 

1218
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:11,720
skip this one. 
Just like doesn't do something 

1219
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:14,600
up, but skip that, you know, 
it's kind of like when you get a

1220
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:18,440
tattoo, which is why I'm so 
lucky that I have the best 

1221
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,400
tattoo artist because I can 
trust whatever. 

1222
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:22,840
I open my eyes and I'm going to 
like what I see. 

1223
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,840
But it's the same thing with a 
tattoo. 

1224
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:29,080
I've literally observed people 
who I know there is no damn way 

1225
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:32,600
they're happy with that fucking 
piece of whatever on their skin,

1226
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:34,520
but. 
Right there now. 

1227
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,000
So you have to kind of be like, 
oh. 

1228
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:38,440
You're locked in at that point. 
I love it. 

1229
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:41,160
You know, like, you can't say 
this is the ugliest fucking 

1230
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:43,960
thing I've ever seen. 
But I just think so many people 

1231
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,440
with plastic surgery because 
when I started my lip filler 

1232
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:51,040
journey, there were sometimes 
where that shit didn't settle 

1233
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:54,760
the way I wanted it to settle. 
And I had to get golfed and then

1234
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,320
I had to do it again. 
So I just think so many and 

1235
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,560
that's painful. 
The dissolved people don't, yes.

1236
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:03,160
It's bad. 
I've only had that happen one 

1237
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:07,520
time and cuz I had like a bump. 
Like I had like a little bump 

1238
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:09,360
and it wasn't like a bump on the
outside. 

1239
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,280
Yeah, it was just like where the
filler got super hard. 

1240
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:16,040
And I remember just sitting 
there like, am I in a fight 

1241
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:19,920
right now? 
Like my whole body, just my face

1242
01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:22,280
specifically, I turned fire 
engine red. 

1243
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:26,240
I started sweating my whole 
bottom lip in my chin was just 

1244
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:29,120
on fire and I was like, Oh my 
God, I'm gonna die. 

1245
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:33,480
But I like I had to do like. 
So basically when I first 

1246
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:38,960
started my lip filler journey, I
like did a bunch over the first 

1247
01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:41,760
couple years and then I didn't 
touch them for a while and it 

1248
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:45,680
migrated upward and inward. 
And when I got involved 

1249
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:48,520
dissolved like up in here and 
inside my lip. 

1250
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:53,520
I think total I did 3 dissolver 
appointments and we did over six

1251
01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:56,720
syringes of dissolver which 
didn't dissolve them fully. 

1252
01:07:56,720 --> 01:07:59,520
It just dissolved all those 
pocketed and then you had to, 

1253
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:02,880
like, massage them. 
And yeah, it was painful. 

1254
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,960
It was awful. 
And you can only do so much 

1255
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:08,760
because as she pumps that in 
there, it's mainly water. 

1256
01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:12,920
So it like swells it up thick. 
Yeah. 

1257
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:16,200
No, it's, I don't recommend. 
Like what's crazy is it's the 

1258
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:19,479
same thing with like a boob job.
They don't tell you that if you 

1259
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:22,640
get this boob job that it's 
going to cost you more to get 

1260
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:26,439
them removed or redone in the 
future than it did to install 

1261
01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:30,680
them, correct? 
Like let me sell you the $5000 

1262
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:34,439
trial run, but you've got at 
least another 30,000 in surgery 

1263
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:36,920
over the course of your that 
will have to be done. 

1264
01:08:37,359 --> 01:08:38,800
And that's what people don't 
get. 

1265
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:42,319
Like there's so much maintenance
that comes with certain things, 

1266
01:08:42,319 --> 01:08:48,279
especially fillers and like, you
know, whatever, regular Botox 

1267
01:08:48,279 --> 01:08:50,520
and stuff like that. 
For people that do get that 

1268
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,319
done, it's something that you're
going to have to keep 

1269
01:08:53,319 --> 01:08:57,359
consistently getting done and 
not everyone budgets for that. 

1270
01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,040
They're like, oh, I have an 
extra. 

1271
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,920
You know, back in the day when I
started getting filler, I think 

1272
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:06,240
it was like 150 verse syringe. 
Like it's not that anymore. 

1273
01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,200
But you know, oh, I have an 
extra this, I have an extra that

1274
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:10,880
I'll go ahead and I'll do this 
or I'll do that. 

1275
01:09:11,319 --> 01:09:15,560
But then I had to keep doing it 
and I was like, ah man, I just 

1276
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:18,279
got myself. 
Now this is an investment now 

1277
01:09:18,279 --> 01:09:22,000
This is Money that I have to 
count leaving every two to three

1278
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:23,319
months, right? 
Right. 

1279
01:09:23,319 --> 01:09:25,640
And that was back when I didn't 
have money every two to three 

1280
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:29,160
months. 
But they keep girls in there or,

1281
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:34,160
or boys, whoever, and they 
finance the shit and you will be

1282
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:36,920
in there financing. 
Like, it's crazy. 

1283
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,920
Like I got used to get really 
bad migraines. 

1284
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:43,359
So I tried Botox and I have not 
had a migraine since. 

1285
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:45,200
So I love that for you. 
Yeah. 

1286
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,720
Like I'm pretty much like only 
forehead. 

1287
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,600
Like I haven't went anywhere. 
Like I've never had filler in my

1288
01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:53,240
face just in my lips, but it is 
an investment. 

1289
01:09:53,399 --> 01:09:57,000
Like if you do enough filler in 
your lips it will last for a 

1290
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:58,760
while. 
Like you can stock it or 

1291
01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:03,240
whatever but people don't think 
like 1/2 a syringe really isn't 

1292
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:04,760
that much. 
Like when you see. 

1293
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:06,920
No. 
And you think in your head that 

1294
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,880
they've overfilled their lips. 
They've done at least four to 

1295
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:13,720
five full syringes, if not more,
to people. 

1296
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:17,400
That way like. 
It's wow how much filler it 

1297
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:20,680
takes to get them that big. 
Like, yeah, and I've had a few 

1298
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:25,760
people comment about my stuff 
before and I'm like, I don't 

1299
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,400
think. 
And like I said, to each their 

1300
01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:33,000
own, but if I don't ask for your
opinion on the way my face looks

1301
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:35,880
or the way my body looks, please
don't give it to me. 

1302
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:37,680
Like we don't need to have that 
conversation. 

1303
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:40,480
Because to me, I think that's 
weird to randomly just start 

1304
01:10:40,480 --> 01:10:42,880
talking about someone. 
Like, I mean, if it's in a 

1305
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:44,400
positive note, like that's 
different. 

1306
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:46,640
Like I love a lot of your 
tattoos. 

1307
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:48,200
I've seen your tattoos on social
media. 

1308
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:51,280
I would feel comfortable being 
like, wow, that tattoo is really

1309
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:54,240
beautifully done. 
But never would I ever walk up 

1310
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:57,520
to you or like anyone in general
and just be like, did you think 

1311
01:10:57,520 --> 01:10:59,880
that that shirt was a good idea 
or did you think that this was a

1312
01:10:59,880 --> 01:11:02,040
good idea? 
Or like, why didn't you do it 

1313
01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:03,400
this way? 
Because at the end of the day, 

1314
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:06,200
I'm not you, so I'm not going to
put myself in that. 

1315
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:09,680
But I've had a few people that 
are like, oh, when they did your

1316
01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:12,480
lips, they should have like gone
out to the corners more or they 

1317
01:11:12,480 --> 01:11:15,240
should have. 
And I was like, some people can 

1318
01:11:15,240 --> 01:11:18,240
barely tell I have my lips done.
And that's the way I wanted it. 

1319
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:22,640
I didn't want like the big giant
lips or anything like that. 

1320
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:26,840
I didn't want like the the 
cartoonish version of what lips 

1321
01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:29,560
should look like or look. 
I didn't want them to look 

1322
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:33,760
overfilled. 
So I thought that aspect of that

1323
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:36,400
whole community was a little 
weird. 

1324
01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:40,200
It was very off putting because 
if I'm in a consultation, yes, 

1325
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:43,720
I'm paying you to tell me what 
you feel, but you're also a 

1326
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:46,800
medical trained professional. 
Like, you're not some girl 

1327
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:49,160
that's wasted off of 11 lemon 
drops at the bar. 

1328
01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:50,920
Like, I'm not going to. 
We're not going to connect. 

1329
01:11:51,480 --> 01:11:54,240
Yeah. 
And I think my opinion, and this

1330
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:58,760
might be kind of like cocky, but
I think the only people who hate

1331
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:01,320
on other people's filler and 
Botox are people who can't 

1332
01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:06,560
afford it All I've ever felt 
like I've never seen somebody 

1333
01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:09,800
complaining about Botox or 
filler on social media that 

1334
01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:14,200
could afford what it cost to get
it and maintain it. 

1335
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:17,280
So, like, I never gave a fuck. 
Like, you know what I mean? 

1336
01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:19,560
Do you, baby? 
Yes. 

1337
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,400
Are there girls in this city 
that are overfilled? 

1338
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:24,000
Yes. 
Do I give a fuck? 

1339
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:26,800
Not really, because when I need,
they're boys too. 

1340
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:28,880
Yeah. 
Yeah. 

1341
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:32,240
And boys too, like there's a lot
of people walking around looking

1342
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:37,120
like, you know, what is the guy 
off SpongeBob that they always 

1343
01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:40,480
talk about? 
The maybe it's not Squidward, 

1344
01:12:40,480 --> 01:12:42,440
it's the other guy. 
I can't think of what his name 

1345
01:12:42,440 --> 01:12:44,640
is. 
Well, I know that episode there 

1346
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:46,320
was Handsome Squidward. 
That one. 

1347
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,280
Like where Squidward, Yeah, 
handsome Squidward is handsome 

1348
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:55,760
Squidward seen girls get things 
dissolved and like, you know, be

1349
01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:58,040
happy with that too. 
But I just feel like, like you 

1350
01:12:58,040 --> 01:13:00,480
said, no one's really asking for
your opinion. 

1351
01:13:00,480 --> 01:13:04,640
And I just like with anything 
though, like especially our 

1352
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:08,240
generation, I feel like we all, 
boys and girls alike, have body 

1353
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:11,920
dysmorphia because we are 
literally the generation where 

1354
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:15,480
Tyra Banks and these people 
would be on TV calling people in

1355
01:13:15,480 --> 01:13:20,400
a 00 fat. 
Like we grew up in the torture. 

1356
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:28,040
So I think people in this age, 
they're like expressing 

1357
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:31,240
themselves in different ways 
because of that. 

1358
01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:34,560
Like our brain is a lot 
different in the way we were 

1359
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:37,760
brought up because now the 
generations, all, everyone's 

1360
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:39,640
included and everyone gets a 
trophy. 

1361
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:43,840
Our generation was like, yeah, 
you're fat next, right? 

1362
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:45,720
Yeah. 
Like, stay cool. 

1363
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:47,160
Why are we still talking about 
it? 

1364
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:48,800
Yeah. 
Really. 

1365
01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:51,520
Like damn, like you're supposed 
to hurt. 

1366
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:55,760
I don't give a fuck next right 
See ya because you know, like my

1367
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:59,800
mom, like growing up, we we 
weren't like completely 

1368
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:04,520
destitute, but we did not have 
like a lot of money in 

1369
01:14:04,520 --> 01:14:06,880
abundance. 
If you know, somebody missed 

1370
01:14:06,880 --> 01:14:11,080
work, that definitely reflected 
on like the monthly. 

1371
01:14:11,440 --> 01:14:14,640
And so now that I'm older, one 
of the things I like to do for 

1372
01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:17,440
my mom because I know that she 
doesn't ever want to spend a 

1373
01:14:17,440 --> 01:14:20,600
vast amount of money on herself 
is I will get her that really 

1374
01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:22,880
nice handbag. 
Like I will call the salon she 

1375
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:26,200
goes to and I'll pay to get her 
hair done, cut and color. 

1376
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:28,080
Like I'll call the nail salon 
she goes to. 

1377
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:31,320
I'll pay for her to go get her 
nails done because she's still 

1378
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:35,760
in that generational mindset of,
well, if I have this money, I 

1379
01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:37,840
should put it towards this and 
not myself. 

1380
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:40,480
And I'm like, no, no, no, it's 
going to you. 

1381
01:14:41,440 --> 01:14:43,280
Like, yeah, you have to at this 
point. 

1382
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:46,160
I already paid for it. 
So do you, do you want to rob me

1383
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:47,560
like that? 
Do you want to take my money 

1384
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:50,480
away like that, mom? 
And like, eventually it all 

1385
01:14:50,480 --> 01:14:52,600
works out. 
And, you know, that's sad 

1386
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:56,800
because a lot of women in those 
age ranges really have neglected

1387
01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:59,680
themselves. 
And that reflects in the 

1388
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:02,680
children they've raised in their
surroundings and in the 

1389
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:06,080
environment and what they've 
allowed in their environment. 

1390
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:09,800
Because when you don't feel good
about yourself, you allow a lot 

1391
01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:12,640
of shit. 
When you don't respect, you 

1392
01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:18,800
accept a lot of you know, like 
where I love your media and your

1393
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:21,400
social media post. 
Because you can tell. 

1394
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:25,080
Like even when it comes to like 
your dog, everything in between 

1395
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:27,160
that you're pretty much like 
fuck around and find out. 

1396
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:30,280
Like correct? 
Like audience is aware. 

1397
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:35,720
So your dog Nala is a fucking 
diva and turns around bro. 

1398
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:40,440
Every like 6 weeks there is some
medical emergency with this dog.

1399
01:15:40,440 --> 01:15:43,560
You got her. 
You got her pegged, popping her 

1400
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:46,040
shit. 
Like wasn't it like happy tail 

1401
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:49,880
syndrome that she had? 
Then you got that was the right.

1402
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:54,400
Yeah, that was the most recent. 
And like, I got so much hatred 

1403
01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:56,400
for that. 
Literally someone threatened, 

1404
01:15:56,760 --> 01:16:00,520
messaged me to beat my ass the 
next time they saw me out and 

1405
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:03,280
they were like, and guess what 
happened by the way I saw them 

1406
01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:04,960
out? 
Not one word was said and I 

1407
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:06,960
stared at them. 
I was like, what's up? 

1408
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:09,320
Here we are. 
And I'm not even like that. 

1409
01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:11,600
I'm I'm grown. 
I'm not going to sit there and 

1410
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:15,160
fight anyone on the sidewalk. 
But I just sat there and was 

1411
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:20,560
like, the vet said to do it, not
me because it was so gross. 

1412
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:25,240
Like this is her tail, right? 
That much of it the, the very 

1413
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:28,480
end of it was dead. 
It was necrotic. 

1414
01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:32,320
Like the bone was there. 
And I was just kind of like, 

1415
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:34,440
well, what do we do? 
And he goes, well, we're not 

1416
01:16:34,440 --> 01:16:36,760
saving it. 
And he said it's got to go. 

1417
01:16:36,760 --> 01:16:40,000
And so even with her tail 
wrapped, we went in to do the 

1418
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:42,560
X-ray beforehand to make sure, 
like, everything was cool. 

1419
01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:46,080
She managed to break her tail 
again while it was wrapped. 

1420
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:50,280
Like there was a fresh break in 
her freshly wrapped tail. 

1421
01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:54,080
And I was just like, at this 
point, yeah, I'm on board. 

1422
01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:55,920
Just go ahead and take it. 
Yeah. 

1423
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:59,320
And like I saw your post because
people didn't realize that this 

1424
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:03,400
was like a history of a 
situation that like I loved 

1425
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:08,880
something you said was like my 
dogs are better cared for than 

1426
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:11,280
you and the things you have. 
Right. 

1427
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,440
You're like, my dogs eat better,
they sleep better, they live 

1428
01:17:14,440 --> 01:17:17,160
better than you. 
Next time you're worried about 

1429
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:19,880
my dogs, you should worry about 
you. 

1430
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:25,000
And this is sending me. 
I love this correct because it's

1431
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:28,400
like, so you step into that 
space where like you overstep 

1432
01:17:28,400 --> 01:17:31,760
your bounds. 
But to me, I've always been 

1433
01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:34,800
confrontational and not in the 
sense of like being 

1434
01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:38,760
confrontationally violent. 
I've never ever like my first 

1435
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:42,000
thought is to never ever put my 
hands on anyone. 

1436
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:45,760
But I want to have an actual sit
down conversation. 

1437
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:48,480
And I don't care if it makes you
feel uncomfortable because you 

1438
01:17:48,480 --> 01:17:51,640
brought that energy to me and 
now instead of me keeping it, 

1439
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:53,360
I'm going to find something to 
do with it. 

1440
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:58,680
And if it has to hash out in a 
public manner or a public forum 

1441
01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:01,560
to where now you're going to 
second guess the way that you 

1442
01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:03,240
speak to me because I'm a firm 
believer. 

1443
01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:05,600
It's not what you say, it's how 
you say it. 

1444
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:09,080
And sometimes you do have to, 
you have to train people how to 

1445
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,680
talk to you. 
Like if I wanted to get a hold 

1446
01:18:11,680 --> 01:18:15,080
of you, the last thing ever I 
would do is be like, hey, are 

1447
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:18,160
you going to pick up your phone?
I wouldn't phrase it that way. 

1448
01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:21,360
I'd be like, hey, whenever you 
get a second, I would like to 

1449
01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:24,120
talk to you. 
If nothing serious, hit me up 

1450
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:27,480
whenever you can. 
Not about what you say, it's how

1451
01:18:27,480 --> 01:18:29,720
you say it. 
You know, I want to talk to you,

1452
01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:33,840
but like what makes me feel like
I have direct access to you like

1453
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:35,880
that. 
It's just, it's weird the way 

1454
01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:39,040
that some adults can't 
effectively communicate what 

1455
01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:41,160
they want and how they want to 
say stuff. 

1456
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:43,960
Oh, my gosh. 
And I think honestly, that's 

1457
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:48,040
kind of like been the goal of 
like, I always like, see this 

1458
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:51,040
system that we're in kind of 
like a computer and we're all 

1459
01:18:51,040 --> 01:18:54,920
into control computers, either 
downloading free programs or 

1460
01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:57,760
free updates or holding. 
It's a really cool way to look 

1461
01:18:57,760 --> 01:18:58,520
at that. 
Yeah. 

1462
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:00,200
Holding on to the old updates 
to. 

1463
01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:04,960
The old programs, but so many 
people in older generations were

1464
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:08,920
taught to just chill. 
Like don't confront the fucking 

1465
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:12,360
pedophile in the family. 
Don't confront the fucking thief

1466
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:14,960
in the family, the fucking drug 
addict family. 

1467
01:19:14,960 --> 01:19:18,240
Let's keep everybody small, keep
everybody safe, make everybody 

1468
01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:20,680
feel comfortable. 
Oh, we know Uncle Steve's a 

1469
01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,560
fucking weirdo, but inviting 
many ways we don't want to. 

1470
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:25,160
We don't want to hurt his 
feelings. 

1471
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:29,800
Like people gave too much fucks 
about other people who didn't 

1472
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:34,160
give a fuck about them. 
And like, our generation is like

1473
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:38,480
hell no, I'm not inviting Uncle 
Steve to my son's birthday 

1474
01:19:38,480 --> 01:19:39,720
party. 
No, fuck that. 

1475
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:42,480
Dude's weird, he's moving weird,
he's acting weird. 

1476
01:19:42,480 --> 01:19:43,800
Guess what? 
Now you don't get to come, 

1477
01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:45,120
right? 
Like how? 

1478
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:49,360
Many people are like deciding 
that like the generational cycle

1479
01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:53,080
ends like right here with us. 
And I think that's what's really

1480
01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:55,600
great about it because like 
you're showing your mom, 

1481
01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:59,480
treating yourself is a priority,
like that's important or like 

1482
01:19:59,760 --> 01:20:01,840
taking care of whatever you have
to take care of. 

1483
01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:04,520
But so many people are just so 
used to neglecting. 

1484
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:07,960
Collecting their own needs that 
they expect everyone else to 

1485
01:20:07,960 --> 01:20:11,720
like, fulfill them. 
And they can't speak up on how 

1486
01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:15,040
they feel like they don't know. 
Yeah, like hate their needs. 

1487
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:17,880
Yeah, no, baby, you got to go to
therapy on that one because I 

1488
01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:21,600
ain't got it for you. 
Like I am a safe space to a 

1489
01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:24,120
degree. 
Like and mind you, the two a 

1490
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:28,560
degree part is watch your mouth.
Like watch how you come across, 

1491
01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:31,320
watch how you present your 
energy towards me. 

1492
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:35,160
Because like I said, being 
confrontational without 

1493
01:20:35,160 --> 01:20:38,560
confrontationally violent, it 
just basically means like I'm a 

1494
01:20:38,560 --> 01:20:43,320
brick wall 95% of the time. 
Like all the little stuff that 

1495
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:46,520
you do, the hoot ha, the rah rah
and everything, the theatrics 

1496
01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:50,360
that ends the second you're in 
my office or in front of me 

1497
01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:53,160
because I don't entertain that. 
I want to have a conversation 

1498
01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:57,160
and I don't care if it makes you
uncomfortable that we talk about

1499
01:20:57,160 --> 01:21:00,880
either your actions, his 
actions, weird uncle's actions 

1500
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:03,880
over here, like you know, we're 
it's going to get talked about. 

1501
01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:08,040
Like there's no sugar coating 
it, There's no throwing a 

1502
01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:09,840
blanket over it. 
There's no putting it in the 

1503
01:21:09,840 --> 01:21:11,480
closet and we don't talk about 
it. 

1504
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:15,080
We we have to talk about it. 
People need to get comfortable 

1505
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:17,720
being uncomfortable. 
That's the only way. 

1506
01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:21,720
Yeah, that's literally the 
newest program for Collective. 

1507
01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:26,640
And I think that's why we're 
seeing so much difficult, like, 

1508
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:31,000
information, a lot of things 
being exposed, a lot of things 

1509
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:35,040
being revealed that were hidden.
Like shit's hit the fan in a 

1510
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:38,360
good way because the only way 
for things to change is for it 

1511
01:21:38,360 --> 01:21:40,440
to crumble. 
People don't realize that we 

1512
01:21:40,440 --> 01:21:42,960
can't, like you said, keep 
putting a blanket over it and 

1513
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:46,680
then wondering why everybody's 
mental health is fucked or 

1514
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:49,200
everyone's struggling. 
Honestly, I do. 

1515
01:21:49,440 --> 01:21:53,360
Our society, if we all stop 
buying shit we don't need to try

1516
01:21:53,360 --> 01:21:57,240
to make ourselves happy. 
We could work out correct. 

1517
01:21:57,400 --> 01:21:59,080
We could work out the details 
like if. 

1518
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:02,440
Everyone. 
In on the page to like boycott 

1519
01:22:02,440 --> 01:22:06,640
Starbucks or boycott Nike or 
boycott fucking Walmart. 

1520
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:09,520
Like we were boycott Target and 
then they're fucking stop 

1521
01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:13,320
dropped a lot. 
Like we have a collective power 

1522
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:16,280
that so many people are 
comfortable giving their power 

1523
01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:20,920
away. 
And it's crazy to me too because

1524
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:24,680
like collectively, like you 
said, we do have a bunch of 

1525
01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:30,200
power, but some people are just 
too lazy to use it or too lazy 

1526
01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:35,920
to find alternatives. 
Because when I stopped going to 

1527
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:39,120
Target and stuff like that, you 
know, I, I go to Kroger because 

1528
01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:41,880
I love me some fuel points. 
I am a fuel points curly. 

1529
01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:46,080
I'll pull up and it'll say $1.10
cents off a gallon and I'm, I'm 

1530
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:48,000
at the gas pump. 
Like I just won the lottery. 

1531
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:49,720
Like I'm high for the rest of 
the night. 

1532
01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:52,800
You can't tell me anything. 
Such an adult thing. 

1533
01:22:53,040 --> 01:22:55,680
But I really didn't notice a 
difference. 

1534
01:22:56,080 --> 01:22:59,600
I wasn't super inconvenienced. 
I didn't have a lot of angst or 

1535
01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:02,320
anything like that. 
But it just, it was one of those

1536
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:04,600
things where I'm like, cool, we 
don't go there anymore. 

1537
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:07,840
And then that was it. 
It was just as simple as just 

1538
01:23:08,160 --> 01:23:11,120
not going legit. 
Like there was no emotional 

1539
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:13,520
trauma. 
There was no like deep 

1540
01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:15,440
contemplation in my car about 
it. 

1541
01:23:15,440 --> 01:23:20,760
I was just kind of like and then
I'm on my way like and it was 

1542
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:23,840
fine. 
I've honestly never been like a 

1543
01:23:23,840 --> 01:23:27,600
target person anyways. 
Like I remember like back in the

1544
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:31,880
day I would go to like Kmart. 
I remember being like the spot. 

1545
01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:35,600
I wish Kmart was still a thing. 
I wish Kmart was still a thing. 

1546
01:23:35,960 --> 01:23:39,040
You know, Kmart used to have 
Little Caesars back before 

1547
01:23:39,040 --> 01:23:41,560
Little Caesars had like their 
own brick and mortar. 

1548
01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:46,360
And I went to the Red River 
Gorge and they had a gas station

1549
01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:50,000
that was like Co branded with 
Little Caesars. 

1550
01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:54,520
Oh my God, all the nostalgia. 
Yeah, I was like, they are 

1551
01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:57,320
popping. 
But you know, I honestly think 

1552
01:23:57,320 --> 01:24:01,680
there's so many stores over the 
years, but Target has never been

1553
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:06,120
a store that has impacted me. 
Like their prices, their shit 

1554
01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:10,160
half the time looks like 
pilgrimage or like Pentecostal 

1555
01:24:10,160 --> 01:24:12,520
living. 
They used to have put bathing 

1556
01:24:12,520 --> 01:24:17,080
suits, but like who's going to 
pay 40 or $50.00 for half of the

1557
01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:20,360
bathing suit? 
Like you better sell me bang or 

1558
01:24:20,360 --> 01:24:21,880
shut the fuck up. 
You know, like. 

1559
01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:25,040
Literally, and it's crazy to me 
too, because like speaking on 

1560
01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:29,920
their clothing, I have like an 
extremely long torso and all of 

1561
01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:33,400
their stuff shrinks immediately 
and then I look like I shop at 

1562
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:36,120
Baby Gap and I'm like, well, I'm
definitely not going to miss 

1563
01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:38,040
that. 
Like, not going to miss that at 

1564
01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:40,040
all. 
Yeah, honestly, the only thing 

1565
01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:44,680
Target did after their boycott 
started, they sent me an e-mail 

1566
01:24:44,680 --> 01:24:50,360
that said they had 70% off of 
lighting and electronics, and I 

1567
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:53,200
cooked lava lamps, so I hopped 
on their. 

1568
01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:55,280
Shots shut up. 
That's so cool. 

1569
01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:59,880
They literally had lava lamps 2 
of them for 1799 so I ordered 

1570
01:24:59,880 --> 01:25:04,320
them both but to fuck the system
whenever when they arrived I 

1571
01:25:04,320 --> 01:25:08,320
swapped A damaged one in the box
and returned it and got my money

1572
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:12,560
back from 1:00. 
So I was like, well I'm going to

1573
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:15,200
support you, but then I'm going 
to fuck you over on the back 

1574
01:25:15,200 --> 01:25:17,400
end. 
Right, because I have to take a 

1575
01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:19,320
little bit with me. 
You can't get all of it. 

1576
01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:23,440
I have a little piece of it. 
So then I like, I bought the one

1577
01:25:23,440 --> 01:25:25,680
on Marketplace that was like 
dented. 

1578
01:25:25,680 --> 01:25:30,680
I put the dented frame in there,
kept the new globe, put the old 

1579
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:32,520
globe in. 
Yeah. 

1580
01:25:32,960 --> 01:25:35,840
It was about you're, you're 
basically a super spy at this 

1581
01:25:35,840 --> 01:25:37,240
point. 
Like, that's espionage. 

1582
01:25:37,680 --> 01:25:41,000
Like to the highest degree. 
Like target? 

1583
01:25:41,000 --> 01:25:43,480
Fuck you, no. 
Right, exactly. 

1584
01:25:43,960 --> 01:25:47,400
Who doesn't support fucking 
women, people of color, or 

1585
01:25:47,400 --> 01:25:49,560
people with disabilities? 
Like I don't like you. 

1586
01:25:49,560 --> 01:25:53,600
Like I literally cancelled my 
Amazon prime and completely have

1587
01:25:53,600 --> 01:25:57,000
not supported them. 
Except there's like 2 items on 

1588
01:25:57,000 --> 01:25:59,160
there that like you can't find 
anywhere else. 

1589
01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:01,800
But that's it. 
I, I will never buy anything 

1590
01:26:01,800 --> 01:26:05,120
else from there. 
Like I, yeah, personally have 

1591
01:26:05,120 --> 01:26:10,640
swapped convenience for more 
mindful purchases and then get 

1592
01:26:10,640 --> 01:26:13,680
things I actually am going to 
use and I actually like. 

1593
01:26:14,640 --> 01:26:18,360
Yeah, 'cause like, I don't know,
it's just personally the way 

1594
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:22,760
that I grew up, you know, I was 
around people with disabilities.

1595
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:26,040
I came from a strong female ran 
household. 

1596
01:26:26,480 --> 01:26:30,080
All of my lifelong friends, like
from high school and still like 

1597
01:26:30,080 --> 01:26:32,600
friends that I keep near and 
dear to me close to this day. 

1598
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:35,960
It's just, it doesn't really 
matter what color you are. 

1599
01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:38,040
I have friends of every 
different color because my 

1600
01:26:38,040 --> 01:26:41,080
family was just cool. 
They were just cool growing up. 

1601
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:44,400
There wasn't those negative 
awkward conversations. 

1602
01:26:44,400 --> 01:26:46,760
There was no slurs growing up 
around me. 

1603
01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:49,040
And it really just teaches you 
that like, you know, 

1604
01:26:49,280 --> 01:26:52,360
collectively we do have a power 
to shift the narrative. 

1605
01:26:52,600 --> 01:26:56,840
But also all of that hatred 
that's rooted at home first that

1606
01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:59,760
comes straight from the house 
because there's no way. 

1607
01:26:59,760 --> 01:27:04,640
Like my, I have nieces and 
nephews that are biracial and an

1608
01:27:04,640 --> 01:27:08,840
8 year old little boy called my 
niece the Ensler. 

1609
01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:12,840
Where did he learn that from? 
Where where was that learned 

1610
01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:17,480
from? 
And then my, you know, my family

1611
01:27:17,480 --> 01:27:20,040
member who had to go up and deal
with that at the school 

1612
01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:24,000
basically came in and was like, 
it made total sense. 

1613
01:27:24,480 --> 01:27:27,960
Mom and dad were completely 
like, they looked a certain type

1614
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:30,480
of way. 
And they were like, well, you 

1615
01:27:30,480 --> 01:27:33,440
have us here during work. 
They were more concerned with 

1616
01:27:33,440 --> 01:27:36,560
the fact that they had to take 
off work than what actually 

1617
01:27:36,560 --> 01:27:39,720
occurred. 
And then it flipped into, oh, 

1618
01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:42,360
well, I mean, did anyone 
actually hear him say it? 

1619
01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:44,880
Yeah, she did. 
That's why she went into a full 

1620
01:27:44,880 --> 01:27:47,480
blown panic attack and started 
crying and called called my 

1621
01:27:47,480 --> 01:27:50,480
family. 
So it just it's all rooted at 

1622
01:27:50,480 --> 01:27:52,240
home. 
You got to, you got to, you 

1623
01:27:52,440 --> 01:27:56,760
know, you can't be in that 
mindset to just keep dealing 

1624
01:27:56,760 --> 01:27:59,480
with things like this. 
So yeah, if we're going to 

1625
01:27:59,480 --> 01:28:02,600
boycott Target, right? 
That's just it's a done deal. 

1626
01:28:02,880 --> 01:28:09,000
We, our generation, like we'll 
just say like 29 to 39 year olds

1627
01:28:09,000 --> 01:28:10,200
right now. 
Are. 

1628
01:28:10,760 --> 01:28:12,880
No longer sweeping shit under 
the rug. 

1629
01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:15,320
We're no longer doing shit we 
don't want to do. 

1630
01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:17,120
We're no longer tolerating 
things. 

1631
01:28:17,120 --> 01:28:20,600
We're no longer just going into 
spaces where we are tolerated. 

1632
01:28:20,920 --> 01:28:24,040
And that's something that like, 
you know, spirituality has 

1633
01:28:24,040 --> 01:28:27,000
taught me is like a lot of 
people are just tolerated. 

1634
01:28:27,200 --> 01:28:30,240
They're not celebrated, they're 
not welcomed, they're not 

1635
01:28:30,240 --> 01:28:31,840
supported, they're not 
acknowledged. 

1636
01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:34,040
They're just. 
Yeah, they're not included. 

1637
01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:38,080
They're just. 
They move into the world with 

1638
01:28:38,080 --> 01:28:42,240
that attitude and like, I feel 
bad there are so many children 

1639
01:28:42,240 --> 01:28:44,520
and different people out there 
in the world that are not 

1640
01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:47,960
receiving the respect and the 
care and the the guidance and 

1641
01:28:47,960 --> 01:28:50,800
support that they need. 
But you know, something that has

1642
01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:54,680
really changed my perspective is
there's like this quote that 

1643
01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:57,480
kind of floats around and it's 
like you've turned into someone 

1644
01:28:57,480 --> 01:28:59,760
that would have protected you as
a child. 

1645
01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:04,320
And that really resonated with 
has like shared that a few 

1646
01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:09,480
different times in different 
ways about like herself and how 

1647
01:29:09,480 --> 01:29:13,640
she's grown and how she just 
protects and helps and nurtures 

1648
01:29:13,640 --> 01:29:16,720
her children and and others as 
well. 

1649
01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:20,320
And it's just such a beautiful 
place because sometimes when we 

1650
01:29:20,320 --> 01:29:25,840
are handed really difficult 
upbringings, we actually become 

1651
01:29:25,840 --> 01:29:29,880
such a voice in like light for 
others because we have 

1652
01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:34,440
experienced that darkness. 
So is there a message or 

1653
01:29:34,440 --> 01:29:37,360
something that you want to leave
everyone with since we've kind 

1654
01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:41,080
of went all over the place? 
Yeah, basically. 

1655
01:29:41,080 --> 01:29:45,320
You know, I feel like if you 
can, you should. 

1656
01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:48,480
I just feel, and that can be 
translated into so many 

1657
01:29:48,480 --> 01:29:51,360
different things. 
But I just think that if you can

1658
01:29:51,360 --> 01:29:55,160
show kindness and you can show 
support and you can show love, 

1659
01:29:55,360 --> 01:29:58,600
then I really think that, you 
know, our generation 

1660
01:29:58,600 --> 01:30:02,320
specifically because we've had, 
we've had a pretty tumultuous 

1661
01:30:03,080 --> 01:30:05,560
upbringing because we went 
through like, you know, a really

1662
01:30:05,560 --> 01:30:08,000
low point in the economy. 
We went through separate 

1663
01:30:08,000 --> 01:30:10,600
administrations. 
Now the housing market is in 

1664
01:30:10,600 --> 01:30:13,520
chaos. 
I just feel like so many people 

1665
01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:17,240
can benefit from kindness and 
being accepted and being 

1666
01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:20,720
listened to because a lot of 
people from what I like the 

1667
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:24,200
industry that I work in, people 
listen to respond to me. 

1668
01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:28,120
They don't listen to comprehend 
and just think if your one 

1669
01:30:28,120 --> 01:30:31,560
friend needed you or your family
member needed you, that they're 

1670
01:30:31,560 --> 01:30:35,600
going to want you to listen to 
comprehend what's going on 

1671
01:30:35,800 --> 01:30:38,920
versus just having that rapid 
fire back and forth. 

1672
01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:42,640
So if you can, you should in the
best way possible. 

1673
01:30:43,160 --> 01:30:46,240
I love it. 
Thank you so much for joining us

1674
01:30:46,240 --> 01:30:50,800
and just thank you, of course, 
energy and this episode will be 

1675
01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:52,920
anywhere that you listen for 
your podcast. 

1676
01:30:53,280 --> 01:30:56,960
You all can go to the bottom to 
follow my friend here. 

1677
01:30:57,120 --> 01:30:58,720
We'll link all of his social 
media. 

1678
01:30:58,720 --> 01:31:02,760
We'll link everything so that 
you all can find him and see all

1679
01:31:02,760 --> 01:31:06,240
of his funny stories. 
But we will see you next time in

1680
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:08,320
Candyland. 
Bye bye. 

1681
01:31:08,320 --> 01:31:12,760
Thank you. 
To Candy Land spicy and sweet. 

1682
01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:16,880
You're in for a tree. 
You're wildest trees. 

1683
01:31:16,880 --> 01:31:21,120
Got gun drops of knowledge and 
liquors too. 

1684
01:31:21,600 --> 01:31:24,840
I'm fancy picking for me and 
you. 

1685
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:29,080
Candy Land. 
Candy Land a mystery Coldplay 

1686
01:31:29,280 --> 01:31:33,360
here your shadows will meet your
life face to face. 

1687
01:31:33,360 --> 01:31:37,720
That's your imagination Run wild
as stories unfold. 

1688
01:31:38,240 --> 01:31:41,800
May you release anything that 
has a whole. 

1689
01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:47,040
Welcome to Candyland. 
Spicy and sweet, you're in for a

1690
01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:51,200
tree. 
You're wildest streams, Gumtrops

1691
01:31:51,240 --> 01:31:57,840
of knowledge and liquorice too. 
Plums plenty picking for me and 

1692
01:31:57,960 --> 01:32:01,040
you. 
Thank you for joining us. 

1693
01:32:01,080 --> 01:32:05,000
May you find solace and grace. 
Welcome to Candyland.