1 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:16,400 Welcome to Fucking Candy Land, hosted by Rampage and Gemini. 2 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,000 We are so excited that you're listening to us. 3 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,680 If you want to elevate the experience and see these 4 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:38,320 interviews on video, you can join either one of our Patreons. 5 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,840 They are LinkedIn the description wherever you're 6 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:42,760 listening to this podcast episode. 7 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,000 In addition to getting to watch the full length video 8 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:52,200 interviews, we also both have tons of additional content and 9 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,080 support for the spiritual community. 10 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,160 So go ahead and check those out and then if you're ever 11 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:01,360 interested in readings with us or personally connecting with 12 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,560 us, we also have our websites and social medias, LinkedIn the 13 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,120 description as well. Feel free to share this episode 14 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:13,360 with everybody that you know. Get the look it like a lollipop 15 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:17,480 name spread around and we hope you love this episode. 16 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,040 Welcome back to another episode of Candyland. 17 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:28,000 By the time you all hear this episode, our candle collection 18 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,840 is out baby, so tap in. There are a lot of beautiful 19 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,600 scents. We've got Gemini, we've got 20 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:39,600 Rampage, We got Cult Leader, We have an Evil Eye Candle, 21 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:44,960 Candyland, and Beyond beyond all of the things. 22 00:01:44,960 --> 00:01:49,120 So tap in and let us know what you think. 23 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:53,240 Yeah, and every single candle in the collection comes with a 24 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,080 keepsake also. So they're like, super 25 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,320 personalized. And these aren't just like any 26 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:02,040 candles either. We helped build these candles. 27 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:06,160 Like we Our friend Brooke owns a candle company called Pitt and 28 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,199 Pendulum. She put together the candles. 29 00:02:09,199 --> 00:02:12,840 This is all her idea. She gets 100% of the proceeds 30 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,800 and all the money from these candles. 31 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:19,600 But it was super personal. We both smelled all the candles 32 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:24,560 along the way, figured out what we wanted to change. 33 00:02:24,920 --> 00:02:28,920 It was a really in depth process and everything has like a 34 00:02:28,920 --> 00:02:31,040 meaning behind why we chose what we chose. 35 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,640 Yeah, and it was really fun to do. 36 00:02:33,640 --> 00:02:36,640 I'm really excited because they're all Woodwick and they're 37 00:02:36,640 --> 00:02:41,400 in black blast jars, so you could definitely burn it down 38 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:45,160 and keep your jar, but they'll come with stickers and goodies. 39 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,000 And I know that Brooke has other things available on her website, 40 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,200 so we will link that in the description. 41 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,800 You're gonna buy those directly from her website. 42 00:02:55,160 --> 00:03:00,360 But tonight we really wanna talk about 'cause we see it a lot. 43 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,640 Like I started something and no one supports me or you're 44 00:03:04,640 --> 00:03:08,160 supporting someone else who does the same thing as me and 1st off 45 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,720 everybody can do the same thing, that you're not going to do it 46 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,520 the same energetically. So quit looking around at other 47 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,400 people and being like well everyone does lashes or everyone 48 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:23,680 does nails because it does not matter how many people cut hair, 49 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,720 there is another head being born right now that's going to need a 50 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,920 haircut in the future. So don't let that hinder you. 51 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:34,280 And I think that a lot of people are shocked when they see that 52 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:39,400 Gemini and myself don't compete. Like if someone wants a book, a 53 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,520 reading with Gemini, and then later books the reading with me 54 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,840 instead. Like we've never had an issue 55 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,080 where it's like, oh, that was my client or whatever. 56 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:52,120 If you're not energetically blocking your own blessings, the 57 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,640 universe will send you people that want your services. 58 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,120 And we've talked about it before too, where instead of competing 59 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,680 with somebody because you think that they do something better 60 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:06,880 than you, talk to that person about getting tips and ideas and 61 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,640 what did they do in order to get to where they are and how 62 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,800 they're doing things. A perfect example, our girl 63 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,279 Peach, that that bitch is modeling all the time. 64 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,399 She's doing crazy ass poses. She's always got something 65 00:04:19,399 --> 00:04:21,880 different going, she's always got a different photographer. 66 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:26,440 And so instead of being like, she's so good at that, fuck her. 67 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,560 I reached out and was like, hey, I'm trying to like network with 68 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:35,040 local photographers here. I don't know how to do that. 69 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,080 I would like to start setting up my own shoots. 70 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,800 I have ideas, but I don't know how to communicate those. 71 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,560 Can you help me? I traded her taking my 72 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,960 Witchcraft classes for getting tips on modeling for her. 73 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:51,040 She set up a whole like Pinterest board and like 74 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,920 visualization and stuff you guys are losing out on. 75 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,640 I say you guys, but I just mean people who are in like a 76 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,520 competition mode. You're really losing out on 77 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,840 being able to learn and elevate your own experience and to do 78 00:05:03,840 --> 00:05:07,200 things that you're jealous of somebody else doing or that you 79 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:11,200 notice somebody else doing because you're more focused on, 80 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,280 I don't know, thinking that you could never be that or that you 81 00:05:14,280 --> 00:05:17,760 already are the shit instead of like having that personal 82 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,200 evolution moment and seeing where you can grow. 83 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:26,200 Honestly, I feel inspired by people doing the same thing as 84 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,880 me rather than feeling like we're competing, you know? 85 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:33,640 I think it's really amazing that so many people have started 86 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,480 podcast and I love that for you all. 87 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,960 The one thing I don't love is the people in my inbox. 88 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,560 Like, hey, how do you start a podcast? 89 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,080 Hey, what platform do you use? Because if you've even listened 90 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,800 to 1 fucking Episode of Hours, you would know what platform we 91 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,720 use. And I feel like some people see 92 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,480 what other people are doing and they want to cut in line instead 93 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:57,720 of doing the work and building, building it from the ground up. 94 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:02,680 So that's something that I really don't like is the people 95 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:03,840 who are like, hey, I want to do that. 96 00:06:03,840 --> 00:06:07,520 Now tell me how. No, that's not what Jim And I 97 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,120 was saying, like, you can collaborate with someone and be 98 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:14,920 like, hey, how can I compensate you as you're compensating me? 99 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:21,640 How can this be beneficial for both of us rather than, hey, I 100 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,800 want to do what you're doing, tell me how you know. 101 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,600 That's why we both teach classes. 102 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,800 I know Jim and I teaches people how to start a podcast, but it's 103 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,720 like if you're not willing to put that energetic investment 104 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:38,560 into your dreams, who will? Steve, that's the thing too, is 105 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:42,000 there are a lot of people who will be like in the inbox well, 106 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,880 I just, I want to do this or I want to do that or, I don't 107 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,880 know. I'm sure you get this too. 108 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:52,040 I get people who send me these fucking novels about where they 109 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,960 are inside of their spiritual journey and the things that 110 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,120 they're doing and the practice that they're doing. 111 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:01,160 And then at the end it's like it asks me a question and I'm like, 112 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:06,120 so you're going to you sat there and you typed out for an hour or 113 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,240 however long it took you to come up with this long ass message 114 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,680 without asking. Like do you have the space and 115 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,200 time for this Are you open to giving me advice? 116 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:15,960 Hey I'm on this journey right now. 117 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,600 I just need somebody to talk to. Can I reach out? 118 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:24,440 And it's it's like we've talked about that fine line that you 119 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,000 walk, right? Because like, yes, I want you to 120 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,880 feel comfortable coming to me asking questions and like being 121 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:32,320 a friend. Absolutely. 122 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:37,040 But also, you're coming to me asking me questions for free 123 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:42,000 when I have a advice option and then telling me, well, I can't 124 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,360 compensate you energetically or financially because I'm broker, 125 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,800 I don't have the time. And that's where it's like, 126 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:51,440 well, now I'm just not going to respond to you, and I'm possibly 127 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,400 going to block you if you keep repeatingly doing it, because 128 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:58,360 now I'm uncomfortable. I'm a big fan of the Google. 129 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,400 Y'all. Like just go to the Google and 130 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,200 ask it whatever you need to ask it. 131 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:07,600 Like, I literally Google everything before ever asking 132 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,160 anyone. And I understand that, like 133 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,800 we've talked about this before that like people in other 134 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,000 countries don't have access to certain things or and different 135 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,440 energies may not have access to the resources. 136 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:23,080 But I personally feel like the Internet is an open book, and 137 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,080 there are so many people talking about the things that you want 138 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:29,800 to learn about whether you're just on YouTube and you search 139 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,520 cord cutting ritual. There are 100 motherfuckers who 140 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:38,919 have done a cord cutting ritual from step one to step 100 for 141 00:08:38,919 --> 00:08:41,679 you to enjoy and learn and watch. 142 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:46,760 My favorite thing is I needed to replace something in my security 143 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,400 system. I Google it, someone done made a 144 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:52,200 whole video and then in their description they linked all the 145 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:55,680 parts I needed, They linked the batteries that I needed, the 146 00:08:55,680 --> 00:08:58,040 everything. And I'm just like yes. 147 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,200 So I got all of that fixed and squared away from a 3 minute 148 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,840 YouTube video when I could have like aggressively been upset, 149 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,720 called the helpline of the security system, and instead I 150 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,760 just did it on my own and bought the $15 sensor rather than 151 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,520 fighting with them to get it replaced. 152 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,160 I just think, is my time worth more than $15? 153 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:18,880 Yes. So I'm just going to buy it, 154 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,040 save myself an hour on the phone, and go make money 155 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,640 instead. But a lot of people don't look 156 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,920 at their time as valuable, so they don't look at other 157 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:33,080 people's time as valuable. And I always tell myself and I 158 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:37,840 tell other people this, if you have a skill and you can utilize 159 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,840 that skill to generate more abundance in your life, then you 160 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:45,560 should delegate the skills that are not your strong suit. 161 00:09:45,560 --> 00:09:48,600 Like we've talked about it before with house cleaning and 162 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:52,880 you know, things like that. You have so much power in your 163 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,520 hands to create your own reality. 164 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:59,200 But instead people will whine and complain when if laundry 165 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,880 takes you 8 hours a day and you could drop that off somewhere 166 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:05,280 and pick it up and it's done, how much could you generate in 167 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,080 that 8 hours if you didn't have to worry about that, if you 168 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,600 didn't have to do whatever it is? 169 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,240 And you could delegate that, like in a perfect world. 170 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,440 And a lot of people look at it energetically as like, oh, I'm 171 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,960 broke, I can't afford that. I can't do that. 172 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,920 And that is your mindset and that's what you're attracting. 173 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:28,080 And there's so many ways doing things where you're not actually 174 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,600 like having to even financially compensate things. 175 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,240 I've been talking about bartering for the past like, two 176 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:38,080 weeks on my Facebook. You probably have local trade 177 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,400 groups on your Facebook where you can be like, I make 178 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,240 sourdough bread. Is anybody willing to clean my 179 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,520 house for two loaves of sourdough bread every two weeks? 180 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:52,000 Like there are so many different ways that you can barter in 181 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,480 order to get abundance and people are so stuck inside the 182 00:10:55,560 --> 00:10:58,960 abundance has to come one way and I don't have money for this. 183 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,520 So, and then what ends up happening is you end up blocking 184 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,600 all of these different ways that abundance is coming to you. 185 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:09,880 I made a video about this the other day about breaking down 186 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,480 like what you're wanting when you're discussing abundance. 187 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:16,560 Like what is it that you're actually wanting that money for 188 00:11:16,560 --> 00:11:18,920 that you're sitting here like lighting candles for? 189 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:22,200 And when you figure out what those individual things are that 190 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:27,120 you are wanting to manifest that money for, you can actually just 191 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:33,000 manifest those things instead of the financial part to it because 192 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:36,240 you're creating additional steps for yourself that aren't 193 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:40,600 necessary. If you want to make an extra $40 194 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,520 a week because you want to have somebody come and clean your 195 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:47,040 house, OK, what do you have? Instead of the money that can 196 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,680 get somebody coming in to clean your house, what is it that you 197 00:11:49,680 --> 00:11:51,480 can offer? What can you do outside of 198 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,680 finance? And a lot of it is your 199 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,040 intention. Like this would make my life 200 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:02,440 easier is what the universe responds to rather than I don't 201 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,400 like this, I don't want to do this. 202 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,640 I'm not good at this. I hate this. 203 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,400 I can't do this. Whatever it is, like those are 204 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:12,640 the things that keep blocking you because you're putting that 205 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,680 out there and you're attracting it back to you. 206 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:21,640 And recently, I feel like in the last, like, couple years, a lot 207 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,400 of people have started businesses and a lot of people 208 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:28,320 have this mindset on the Internet that no one supports 209 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:32,280 them or that no one invest into their business. 210 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:35,280 And there's something else that circulates a lot, that a 211 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:38,520 stranger will become a customer before a friend will. 212 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,640 And that's somewhat true because a lot of your friends don't see 213 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:46,520 value in you because they see the old version of you. 214 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:48,760 They see the version of you that they've always known. 215 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:52,240 You know, the poor, helpless version of you that's in their 216 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,560 head is only a reflection of how they feel about themselves. 217 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:59,320 So you starting a business and you starting to level up has 218 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:03,760 them in their feelings and has them triggered by your growth. 219 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:09,200 And they it is true that I think that you shake loose the like 220 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:13,880 the rats, you know what I mean? Because over time you and that 221 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:17,200 person were just making poor choices together. 222 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:21,600 But then now in your free time, you're building a brand or 223 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:23,440 building a business or making tik toks. 224 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:28,200 Like I know so many people who are so funny and have so much 225 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:31,120 they could say on TikTok and they refuse. 226 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:35,080 And I know it's deep down because in the beginning of any 227 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,200 journey online, the only people paying attention are people that 228 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,760 know you and they're judging you and they're projecting onto you 229 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,480 their own insecurities, their own fears, their own 230 00:13:44,680 --> 00:13:48,400 self-conscious beliefs. And so many people I know would 231 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:53,840 be able to break that mold and really branch away and create 232 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,440 their own following, but they won't give it a try. 233 00:13:56,680 --> 00:13:59,520 Like they just refuse to get out of that comfort zone. 234 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,640 And it's because the people around you are much more 235 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:04,680 comfortable if you're playing small. 236 00:14:06,560 --> 00:14:10,840 That is true, and also just something that you were talking 237 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:12,720 about with like friends supporting your business. 238 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:17,720 Somebody made a post on Facebook the other day and it was like, I 239 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,640 hate that I shout out my friends businesses and they don't shout 240 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:25,480 out my business. And when I read that, I was 241 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:29,040 like, maybe they're just not interested in the kind of 242 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:32,400 business that you do. And there's a difference. 243 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:38,880 The you can't be super selective at the way that you're wanting 244 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,800 people to support you. Somebody can support you as a 245 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,800 person and they can be proud of you. 246 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:48,120 They can like your posts, whatever, and they can boost you 247 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:51,280 up that way. Maybe you are super interested 248 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,920 in what they do and you're sharing their stuff on your page 249 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,640 because you have a real appreciation for the business 250 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:01,040 that they have and what they do. They may not have an interest in 251 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,040 the thing that you do. If you love that they, you know, 252 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,480 do spiritual readings or whatever, and you share that, 253 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,600 awesome. If they are not wanting to share 254 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,440 the mugs that you make and post that on their page, it doesn't 255 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:16,320 mean they don't support you. There's just not, that's not 256 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,880 what their interest is or what their page is. 257 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:23,760 And I find that to be so annoying because there's plenty 258 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,200 of times when I'm supporting somebody, but I don't 259 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:30,560 necessarily like their craft. Like, I love that you're a 260 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:32,400 singer. I support you being a singer. 261 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,520 Maybe I don't like your music, you know what I mean? 262 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:41,280 The thing for me is, like a lot of people don't realize that 263 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:44,840 maybe the service you're offering, they're already loyal 264 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:46,720 to someone else who has that service. 265 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:48,520 You know, like I have a lot of friends going through 266 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,800 cosmetology school right now. Just because they're graduating 267 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:53,560 and getting out of school doesn't mean I'm going to start 268 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,040 getting my hair dyed again or that I'm going to go sit in 269 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,840 their chair. I don't really get my hair done 270 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,240 anymore. So it's like I can still support 271 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,920 you and like your post. But no, I'm not really going to 272 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:05,480 share it. And I'm not going to be able to 273 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,440 hype it up because I've never embraced or had that service 274 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:11,320 from you. And I am like a strong and firm 275 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:13,680 believer. And you should not be leaving 276 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:17,160 for reviews, for services you have not received because you're 277 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:20,600 putting your name on the line saying I support this service. 278 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:24,360 This service worked for me, but if you actually didn't receive 279 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:27,480 that service, you're endorsing something just 'cause it's your 280 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:31,320 friend, and we all know that we love our friends. 281 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:35,720 But watching and cheering someone on from afar and not 282 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:40,000 actually putting physical abundance into their business is 283 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:45,200 still supporting like the people who like and share my post or 284 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:50,240 just comment or even just put an emoji on a freaking picture that 285 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,480 is helping me in any way, shape and form. 286 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,040 It doesn't mean that they went to my website and booked a 287 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,000 service. I have a lot of people that go 288 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,440 to my website and they're like, I wish I could book a service. 289 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,120 I'm going to save my money for it. 290 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,400 And then there's the other end of the spectrum of the people 291 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:05,560 that are like, hey, do you ever run cells? 292 00:17:05,839 --> 00:17:09,599 And I don't take that as like they're discrediting what my 293 00:17:09,599 --> 00:17:11,839 service is. I mean, even Ulta and Sephora 294 00:17:11,839 --> 00:17:15,280 have sales. And I tell them yes, sometimes I 295 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:18,079 do. I don't do Black Friday or Cyber 296 00:17:18,079 --> 00:17:20,400 Monday because there's other avenues that are trying to get 297 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:23,040 your money. I do a sale on a regular Tuesday 298 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:26,119 in the middle of April because I want to, not because there's 299 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:30,800 some underlying energetic force that's making me want to. 300 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,560 You know, I don't do things for money. 301 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:37,440 I do things that I feel called to do. 302 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:41,760 And so, you know, there's a big difference between supporting 303 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,400 someone and trying to hold them back. 304 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:48,600 And someone liking or sharing your post is not that fine line 305 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:53,640 in my opinion. I feel like you have to be aware 306 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:58,240 that you have to attract your ideal client and not project 307 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:03,480 fear onto them. Yeah, but I I think that so many 308 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:07,120 people operate from a fear based stance. 309 00:18:07,120 --> 00:18:12,000 Like they don't necessarily make changes in life unless they are 310 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,000 scared. And so now they need to do it. 311 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,880 Or they feel a lack like they're, you know, you don't 312 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:21,560 work on, you know, elevating your relationship all the time 313 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,000 until all of a sudden shit's bad. 314 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,960 And then you have to work on it instead of like putting in 315 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,120 energy so that you're able to get back on track. 316 00:18:30,120 --> 00:18:33,480 It's the same thing to me with, like friendships. 317 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,200 People won't be your fucking friend. 318 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,960 And then all of us, you know, they won't reach out whatever 319 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,360 until all of a sudden you're like, listen, I don't fuck with 320 00:18:41,360 --> 00:18:42,520 this. Like I don't feel like I'm a 321 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,800 priority or you even want to like keep this friendship going. 322 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,480 And so, like, I'm going to take a step back and then it's, oh, 323 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:50,240 well, let me throw myself into that. 324 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:53,880 And a lot of people are like in or out. 325 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:59,640 I type of people, I think. I feel like I have grown so much 326 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:03,960 that like my friendship does not come with like a certain 327 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:07,120 standard except that you have to respect me. 328 00:19:07,120 --> 00:19:10,560 I need to be able to trust you and I need to know that your 329 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:13,240 intentions are pure. But that doesn't mean that, 330 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,680 like, I have some role on communication or I texted you on 331 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,880 Tuesday and you didn't reply till Friday. 332 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,120 Like a lot of people are like, they're not answering, but 333 00:19:22,120 --> 00:19:24,960 they're on your phone and or they're on their phone. 334 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,080 OK, cool. Like, just 'cause I'm on my 335 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,840 phone doesn't mean you're entitled to a response at this 336 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,600 moment. I'm not energetically in the 337 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,320 space where I want to reply at this moment. 338 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,600 And I think that a lot of people's friendships, they're 339 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,680 kind of treated like a consolation prize. 340 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:45,640 Like, oh, whenever you're having fun, you have a certain amount 341 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:47,160 of friends. When you're sad, you got a 342 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,360 certain amount of friends. When you're in between. 343 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:52,240 I know a lot of people battle depression and when they are 344 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:56,640 sad, they push everyone away. And then you taking that 345 00:19:56,640 --> 00:20:01,120 personal only makes it worse for them because now not only did 346 00:20:01,120 --> 00:20:04,640 they already feel like shit about unrelated things, you're 347 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,080 taking it personal, you're taking their distance personal. 348 00:20:08,360 --> 00:20:10,880 And I'm talking in like platonic friendships. 349 00:20:11,120 --> 00:20:14,120 Obviously in a romantic relationship, the boundaries and 350 00:20:14,120 --> 00:20:18,240 the rules are different. There are more needs for 351 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,400 consistent communication for me. Friendship. 352 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,120 You want to be platonic and we're cool. 353 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,040 Homies, whatever. We're good. 354 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,200 But if you even think you're pursuing me romantically, I want 355 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,120 to talk to you every day. Or why are we pursuing each 356 00:20:31,120 --> 00:20:33,440 other romantically? Doesn't make sense. 357 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,040 But another thing I want to say about the small business thing 358 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:42,640 is everyone is trying to turn their personal hobby into a 359 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,360 small business, and that's where y'all are fucking up. 360 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:49,560 A hobby is something you do for fun, and you may make money on 361 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,080 it in the future. A business is something that 362 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,520 you're willing to do for absolute free. 363 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,400 You would put your last dollar on the line, your blood, sweat 364 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,720 and tears on the line for this business. 365 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,080 If you're not at that level, you're not necessarily a small 366 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:06,000 business in my opinion. It's a small hobby that could 367 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:10,000 grow and you may be making money or generating income from that 368 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,520 hobby. But not everyone who got like a 369 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:17,280 cricket should be starting a business, stealing designs and 370 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,080 putting them on Etsy cause y'all are stealing those designs. 371 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:25,160 Like, I am always baffled by the amount of stolen designs from 372 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:30,000 the Disney series that you all use and put on Etsy. 373 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:34,360 You could literally be sued at any given point by Disney and I 374 00:21:34,360 --> 00:21:37,360 just feel like people need to keep hobbies, hobbies, things 375 00:21:37,360 --> 00:21:39,280 you're making for friends and family. 376 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,560 Maybe selling at a local farmers market or flea market. 377 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:47,360 But not everything needs to be an online entourage unless you 378 00:21:47,360 --> 00:21:51,000 are truly ready for the consequences of taking other 379 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,160 people's designs. That's my biggest pet peeve with 380 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:57,160 the small business like Rush is the people who are very 381 00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:00,360 unoriginal in their doings and kind of like trying to 382 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:03,560 manipulate the system and then complaining on the Internet that 383 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,960 no one supports them. It makes it frustrating for the 384 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,800 people who are like putting a lot of like time and energy into 385 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:13,280 things and having things be authentic is like you're just 386 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:16,320 going to like take the shortcut route around and you're going to 387 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,440 do it that way. I totally agree with that. 388 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:23,960 I I support everybody having their hustle when you're going 389 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,480 to have your hustle. But I think that legitimately 390 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:32,040 those who have small, those who have businesses in general, 391 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,160 there's so much that's done behind the scenes that we don't 392 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,560 make any profit on like we've taught you and I have talked 393 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:43,280 before about the hours that it takes for us to set things up. 394 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,280 You know that if you even just going into a reading, the years 395 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:51,040 that it takes for studying and doing things and learning things 396 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,160 and working on yourself and growth and whatever. 397 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:58,520 And so it does make it like not a comparison to people around 398 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,280 you, but it does make it frustrating if somebody's like, 399 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:05,720 oh, I just started reading Tarot last month and I'm charging, you 400 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,840 know, $300.00 a reading or whatever. 401 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:13,960 It's almost like a can you pay your dues kind of moment and and 402 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:17,080 that's in every career field. You have that with people who 403 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,520 are like doing roofing and construction and they're like 404 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,960 you're just going to watch a YouTube video and then walk out 405 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:26,000 here and like you're going to give clients bad experiences. 406 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,800 So then we have to go back and like redo the work. 407 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,960 And there have been plenty of times when somebody comes to me 408 00:23:32,360 --> 00:23:36,040 and they're scared when we step into a session because they met 409 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:40,040 Joe Schmo who gave them a reading and said, you know, 410 00:23:40,360 --> 00:23:43,640 you're cursed and the devil is coming and and knocking at your 411 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:48,680 door and you know all this shit. And it's because somebody's not 412 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,280 educated on something and then they're going out and doing 413 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:55,440 things and it's like the same thing if you are, you know, 414 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,360 custom making something for somebody and they get it and 415 00:23:59,360 --> 00:24:04,360 it's just like a regurgitated, like, wish version of something. 416 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,280 And it's, yeah, I find it annoying. 417 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:13,240 And then we have to like, have that balance of, well, I want to 418 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,320 support you because you're doing a small business, but I also 419 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,080 think that you're ethically and morally doing something I don't 420 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,240 agree with. And so like what's the line that 421 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,400 I tote? Yeah, and this is kind of like 422 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,800 my public service announcement and on my feelings about that, 423 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,160 like if you're making designs and you're drawing those up on 424 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,040 procreate and you're popping your shit, do your thing. 425 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,280 I've seen a lot of tattoo artists post their work and then 426 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,320 people steal it and don't give them credit. 427 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,440 And then I've been told by other artists, like, they're cool with 428 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,880 you tattooing their design, but they want you to give credit 429 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,240 where credit's due. They don't care that you use 430 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,840 their design, but don't post that to your gram, get 5000 431 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:55,560 likes and act like you drew it. You know, like that's where I 432 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,880 think a lot of people lack originality and they lack the 433 00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:05,400 unique ideas that it takes to thrive in the business world. 434 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:09,200 Even the people coming straight out of college and doing 435 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:13,480 marketing for a big firm, like, they're like standing on 436 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,800 business. They're bringing their ideas and 437 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,560 someone else is putting the muscle and the money behind it. 438 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,280 But that's their idea. And it's like, one of my things 439 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:26,800 I've heard that the Spotify wrapped was created by an intern 440 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,760 that was working for Spotify, and they didn't pay her for it. 441 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,200 She was an intern. She gave them the idea, they 442 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,960 pitched it, it went next level, and now Spotify wrapped is 443 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,880 something that that's the only reason I switched to Spotify. 444 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,440 It's because I wanted to this past year. 445 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,520 So you know, you got to think like are you pouring into the 446 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:48,120 right places or are you giving really great ideas away for 447 00:25:48,120 --> 00:25:51,000 other people to take? And I think that's where like 448 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:55,960 the creative artistry aspect of things are starting to be lost, 449 00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:00,240 especially with AI and just copy and paste, copy and paste, even 450 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,960 Sheen, you know, stealing designers ideas. 451 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,360 I know there was an uproar. A local girl in Kentucky makes 452 00:26:06,360 --> 00:26:10,400 these wood burned ornaments and some someone took her Taylor 453 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,560 Swift 1, replicated it and started selling it through 454 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,800 Walmart's website because Walmart has like a third party 455 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:21,200 system for their website. Like it's not Walmart but 456 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,600 Walmart's making money and it's opening you up like Amazon to a 457 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,760 mass audience. They literally stole a local 458 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,360 girl's design because it was on the Internet. 459 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,440 And that's where I think so many people are in a creative rut, 460 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,840 because they're on the fine line of oversharing and not wanting 461 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,400 to share it all. See. 462 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,600 And you have to be careful, like the rooms that you're putting 463 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,280 yourself in and the environments that you're putting yourself in. 464 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,720 If you have all of these amazing ideas and you're working for 465 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,360 Spotify and you're pitching things, and then Spotify is 466 00:26:54,360 --> 00:26:57,080 taking that, but you didn't get financially compensated. 467 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,520 Spotify has people like you who joined Spotify because they want 468 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,880 the wrapped and they see other people doing it and think it's 469 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,640 fucking cool. That girl should have made 470 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,880 fucking bank for her idea. And there are people all the 471 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,720 time who are contributing more to their day-to-day jobs than 472 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,280 they're getting out of it. And other people are profiting, 473 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,760 profiting off of their shit. And those are the people, the 474 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:24,960 people who are constantly giving creative ideas and influence and 475 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,400 stuff. Those are the people that I 476 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,400 wanna see doing like consulting, doing their own business where 477 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,960 they're using their creative vision for things. 478 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:39,560 And it's like you have people who have no originality and 479 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,240 creativity but all the audacity. And then you have people who 480 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:48,200 have all the creativity and and all this and all these gifts, 481 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,600 but they don't have the self-confidence or 482 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,120 self-awareness to realize how fucking magical they are and how 483 00:27:54,120 --> 00:27:58,160 much they could do. And when you're, especially if 484 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,200 you're somebody who is a very creative person, but you put 485 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:08,480 yourself inside of groups of people who don't believe in like 486 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:13,640 you manifesting things and and you creating your own reality 487 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,720 and don't appreciate the creativity that you have, you 488 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,440 always feel like you're ordinary and that's because you're having 489 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,680 people around you who don't recognize how to be more than 490 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,560 that. Yeah. 491 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,760 And that's why it's so important that as you're growing that you 492 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,200 allow yourself to outgrow people. 493 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,240 I do not care how long you have known someone. 494 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,880 They could be part of your problem. 495 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,600 They could be part of your lack of confidence. 496 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:45,600 Because there's a lot of women that I used to hang out with 497 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:50,320 that would never tell me how great or how amazing I was. 498 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,040 And then I meet friends that I have now and they're always 499 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,760 hyping me up, telling me like, you deserve better than that, or 500 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,680 you don't deserve someone who's bringing you down or holding you 501 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,800 back or whatever. But you know, I think some 502 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,920 people feel better about themselves if you're not living 503 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,720 up to your potential. And that's why I know a lot of 504 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:13,120 like artists and musicians always talk about like the 505 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,520 moving away from your hometown is the most important part. 506 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,880 And I know VI Peach has moved several times and now that she's 507 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,400 in Florida, her career is popping, She's getting paid 508 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:27,480 gigs, She's working with really amazing engineers and and beat 509 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,600 makers. And it's like a lot of people 510 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:36,840 are so ruffled by your success or the perception that they have 511 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,920 of your success that they would never reach a hand down and try 512 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,440 to help you. And that's why, like, we love to 513 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,640 see other women growing and elevating and supporting that 514 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:51,360 from a distance, because competitions at the bottom and 515 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,880 collaborations at the top. And that's the facts. 516 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,440 I think a lot of people don't know how to collaborate. 517 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,040 I'll say a lot of women, a lot of women don't know how to 518 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,360 collaborate because a lot of women are girls. 519 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,840 Girls, Until it comes down to somebody doing the same thing as 520 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:14,720 you do or you feeling inferior in any way and people will not 521 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:19,760 realize that they're having a projection and will just, well, 522 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:21,680 she thinks she's all that and move away. 523 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,920 No, you think she's all that and you're upset because she's 524 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,960 glowing and you don't know how yet. 525 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:32,000 And instead of you sitting there and again learning a thing or 526 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,560 two and working on your own self and letting your light shine, 527 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,720 you're uncomfortable and so you're going to try and tear her 528 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:43,200 down and then blame it on her own self-confidence. 529 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,640 Yeah, there's a lot of that conversation on the Internet 530 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:51,800 about, like, I'm not watering myself down anymore to fit your 531 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,040 narrative. And I think that over the years, 532 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:58,240 I look back and I can see areas that I had watered myself down 533 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,720 to try to make other people more comfortable. 534 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,120 And there's still times that I won't talk about certain success 535 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,520 and certain things that are happening behind the scenes, 536 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,160 because I don't really know who I can trust with that 537 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:13,520 information a lot of the time. And I don't know if they're just 538 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,400 learning things about me to use them against me later or if 539 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,960 they're genuinely interested. So I love the conversation of, 540 00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:22,480 like, I'm trying to get to know you. 541 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,800 But then again, I'm like, I ain't telling you shit. 542 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,840 Like you're going to have to observe, you're going to have to 543 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,040 put in energy and you're going to have to take your time. 544 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,880 Because I have totally been in relationships where I have told 545 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,000 them what I wanted and then they tried to become that. 546 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:41,040 And then once the veil was lifted, I'm like trauma bonded 547 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,560 with a person that really isn't the person they led me to 548 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,920 believe they were. And that's why I think being 549 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,720 tapped in and having my intuition so strong has really 550 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,000 limited me in the dating scene. Cause a lot of y'all are being 551 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,320 lied to, and a lot of Y'all's partners and even yourself, 552 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,280 you're trying to show them this elevated version of you that 553 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,920 that isn't you really like, that's not who you really are or 554 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,000 that's not who they really are. And then you're intertwined and 555 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:10,680 you're trying to make it fit. But it'll be the last time that 556 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:15,600 I look at potential and try to put someone in that place. 557 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,320 Because potential is for everyone. 558 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,680 Everyone has potential, but are you going to be consistent and 559 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,680 put in the work to get there? Whether it's in a business or 560 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,040 relationship, a career does not matter. 561 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,440 Even if it's just a personal growth in the gym or taking care 562 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,280 of your body and your home. Are you going to put in the 563 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,640 word? Because it sounds good, sounds 564 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,880 pretty, sounds fancy. Like, you can make the words 565 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,000 sound however you want them to sound, but if you're not putting 566 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,880 in that word when no one's looking, you're not going to get 567 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:47,880 anywhere at all. Yeah, and and putting that in 568 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,040 when nobody's looking. Doing things behind the scenes. 569 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,280 And I think that this is what you were talking about too, when 570 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:57,680 you were shit. You were talking earlier about 571 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:02,320 your, your small business being something that you would be 572 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,720 doing for absolutely free regardless. 573 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:08,560 And that's the putting the energy in behind the scenes that 574 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,880 maybe nobody's going to see. But you feel such a passion 575 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,760 about doing something or such a calling about doing it, that 576 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,800 even if this never sees the light of day, I'm going to be 577 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,000 doing this because this is what my soul feels drawn to. 578 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:26,720 I think that so many people and don't realize that the call that 579 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,800 they feel towards doing something different and being 580 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:34,640 something bigger isn't just a depression. 581 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:40,280 And I think that that, like, drive to be doing something 582 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,360 different, feeling like you're unhappy with where your life is 583 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,320 right now. When you want to be growing and 584 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:49,560 you want to be evolving, that is an overwhelming feeling. 585 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,360 If you feel like I'm not doing enough, there's something else 586 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,640 that I need to be doing. And you have to actually put an 587 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:59,880 effort to try and fail and try and fail and figure out what 588 00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:04,280 that thing is that's going to make that calling or what not to 589 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,800 you die down. As opposed to being like, well, 590 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,040 this is just depression and I need to go on medication because 591 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,760 I can't make this inner voice stop telling me that I'm not 592 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,120 doing enough. And that's not to discredit and 593 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,159 say that like mental health isn't a real fucking thing and 594 00:34:21,159 --> 00:34:22,880 that there's not depressive episodes. 595 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:28,360 But there also is situational depression I don't think people 596 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,280 talk about. And that very much can tie into 597 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:36,480 you not living up to your full potential and you dragging your 598 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,960 feet through things and accepting the bare minimum and 599 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,159 then wondering why things aren't better. 600 00:34:42,159 --> 00:34:47,800 If you're in situations where it you're accepting the bare 601 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,639 minimum of things and you think that you can't do something to 602 00:34:51,639 --> 00:34:56,639 change it, you're wrong. And something that I have found, 603 00:34:56,639 --> 00:34:59,760 and I even texted you about this recently, something that I find 604 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:04,000 a lot of comfort in lately, is that it's literally within my 605 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,080 hands to make any choice and change my entire reality. 606 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,840 I could get up any moment from the life that I'm living right 607 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,440 now and I could decide, you know what, I'm going to move to 608 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,400 Texas. Maybe I'm not going to have 609 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,520 money in Texas. Maybe I don't know anybody in 610 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,400 Texas that I'll have shit going on. 611 00:35:20,720 --> 00:35:24,840 But, but I do have it within my means to just pick up and go and 612 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,400 do whatever it is that I want to do. 613 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:31,040 And once you realize that you're not actually trapped inside of 614 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:35,240 your reality, you're just making the choice to not evolve and do 615 00:35:35,240 --> 00:35:38,960 anything and grow from that. That's when I think doors open 616 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:42,000 up for you to start really shifting things and doing what 617 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,240 you want to do without fear. Exactly. 618 00:35:45,240 --> 00:35:50,040 And I feel like one of the most important ways to really put 619 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:54,160 that strength and determination into your reality is to take 620 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,360 better care of your mind, body, and spirit. 621 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:00,160 Like your career, your job, whatever these things out of 622 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,400 your control, they're a reflection of your own energy. 623 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,400 And if you're only getting the bare minimum from your job or 624 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,800 you're struggling, it does not matter. 625 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,240 Every time something goes up, I just make more money. 626 00:36:11,240 --> 00:36:14,240 It's like, OK, it went up, but I made more, so it's like you 627 00:36:14,240 --> 00:36:16,920 could do that too. I just believe that's my 628 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,200 reality. I believe that every time I have 629 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,840 to have something expensive or something happens, like I'm just 630 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,360 going to make more to replace it. 631 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,040 Or every time I do this, I'm just going to level up. 632 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:31,440 I think that most important thing is dedicating your time to 633 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:35,000 yourself. Like whether that's working out, 634 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:39,400 meditating, yoga, stretching, even just very small steps of, 635 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,720 like, watching what you eat, cutting out alcohol, cutting out 636 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,520 extracurricular activities and drugs that you don't really 637 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,360 need. You know, that's the 638 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:49,920 conversation people don't want to have. 639 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,560 They're they're depressed on the Internet, but as soon as Friday 640 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,840 hits, they're getting drunk, they're at the bar. 641 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,080 Then on Sunday night, they're mad at the world. 642 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,000 They're mad at everybody. They're on Facebook saying all 643 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,200 this shit because you need to do laundry. 644 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,840 You needed to wash your sheets, you needed to wash your ass. 645 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,120 But he was at the bar every day. He was at the bar every day. 646 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:13,240 And that's where I look back at the old version of myself, and I 647 00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:16,680 can rightfully say that was my problem. 648 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:21,120 My problem was I utilize my free time to hang out with people who 649 00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,040 really didn't give a fuck about me or themselves. 650 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,560 And they were not trying to help me elevate. 651 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:30,160 They were not trying to encourage me to get sober, to do 652 00:37:30,240 --> 00:37:32,600 better for myself. They wanted me right there 653 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,960 outside, smoking cigs and doing dumb shit with them. 654 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,600 You know what I mean? Like when people say, oh, I'm a 655 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,880 social smoker. No, you just hang out with 656 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,400 people and they influence you to do bad things. 657 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,640 Bad decisions are made when you're in groups of people who 658 00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:50,640 are limited, and that's why the company you keep, the people you 659 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,480 have sex with, the people that you let in your home, the people 660 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,560 that you're around matter. So you know, now on Monday 661 00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:00,200 you're in a bad mood because you really needed to wash your 662 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,960 sheets and do your laundry, but now you had to get clothes out 663 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,760 of the hamper and wear them to work because you didn't have 664 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:09,040 anything clean. And that's on you because you 665 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:13,080 were out all night, every night, doing whatever or even just at 666 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,680 the bar or wherever spending money you don't have. 667 00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:19,240 So now on Monday, you're in the negatives, or now rents to and 668 00:38:19,240 --> 00:38:20,840 you're on Facebook asking for money. 669 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:24,800 It's like, grow up, look at yourself in the mirror and be 670 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,360 like, wow, I'm the fucking problem. 671 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,040 I need to check this. I need to check myself. 672 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:33,840 And a lot of it is that little demon on your shoulder, because 673 00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:37,000 when you drink and you do drugs, you open yourself up to lower 674 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,720 vibrational energies. Instead, when you're clear 675 00:38:40,720 --> 00:38:43,640 minded and in harmony and peace, you're connecting to higher 676 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,840 energies who are going to help you elevate because you're 677 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,240 willing to make a sacrifice and put in that work. 678 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,680 But that's a whole other conversation. 679 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,640 Sometimes I think that people don't recognize when they're 680 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:02,480 needing to put in the work, like like they are doing something 681 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,560 and so well, I'm putting some type of energy into it. 682 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:11,400 So shouldn't this be enough? And the difference is putting 683 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:16,040 effort and energy into something because you are trying to 684 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:20,080 acquire a specific outcome as opposed to you just putting that 685 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,680 energy and work into it because that's what needs to be done. 686 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,080 It's like doing things that you're supposed to do because 687 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,320 you want to treat at the end as opposed to you doing the things 688 00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,400 that you're supposed to do just so that you can get them done. 689 00:39:33,720 --> 00:39:38,720 And society is such like an instant gratification type of 690 00:39:38,720 --> 00:39:41,720 thing. Like I put in, you know, this 691 00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:44,000 hour. And so I'm wanting this, if you 692 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:48,600 want an instant gratification for something, keep working for 693 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,200 somebody else. That way you you know exactly 694 00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,080 what to expect and you're going to be able to get that thing. 695 00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:58,320 Surround yourself with yes people, because they will always 696 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,840 tell you you're doing a wonderful job. 697 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:04,360 You will get instant gratification from them anytime 698 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,440 that you are doing something, they will just tell you that, 699 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,040 that nobody could have done it better than you did it. 700 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:13,240 You can. Continue to put yourself inside 701 00:40:13,240 --> 00:40:17,520 of situations and not elevate and then listen and be like, oh, 702 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,360 that what they're saying makes total sense, but then you forget 703 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,680 all about what we said. And then next week it's the same 704 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:24,960 cycle. And then you love it. 705 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:30,000 And there are people who listen to you and I who check in with 706 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,480 both of us and are like, I took this out of this episode, this 707 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,360 time applying it to my life. And we, like, see them actually 708 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,760 doing those things. And then there are people who 709 00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,520 listen to the episode and they message us and they tell us all 710 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:46,040 the reasons why they can't take any of the advice that's been 711 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:50,000 given in the episode and why it just wouldn't work for them. 712 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,160 And, you know, change the way that you say that or what not, 713 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,240 because that's not going to work for everybody. 714 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,320 We'll never change what we're saying because it doesn't work 715 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:02,600 for you. I just feel like from personal 716 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:07,640 experience this is how I've gotten from low bottom, 717 00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:12,680 depression, sickness, all these things to an elevated version 718 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:16,600 where I can help people. And and I'm not saying it as 719 00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:20,440 like a mean way, but it is some tough love in there. 720 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,640 Like check your shit. Like the only real growth that 721 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,960 will ever happen is when you are tired of making excuses. 722 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,280 When you are finally done wasting your breath with these 723 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:34,280 people in these places and you are ready to bloom and outgrow 724 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,000 them. You were like, well how can I 725 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:37,960 bloom? Everything's a mess because you 726 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:41,240 need to root yourself and you need a bloom wherever you are 727 00:41:41,240 --> 00:41:44,440 planted right now. Because although you may want 728 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:48,120 that five bedroom house with A4 car, garage and all these 729 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,720 things, you need to focus on what you have. 730 00:41:50,720 --> 00:41:53,200 And if you have a roof over your head right now, then you have a 731 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,200 lot more than most people. So instead of thinking about all 732 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:59,440 the shit you don't have and all the ways it's going to take you 733 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,840 10/15/20 years to get there, why don't we look at every single 734 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:08,040 day as the blessing that it is and just try with what we have. 735 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,520 And that is what everyone that I work with personally, that I 736 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,560 mentor, that I'm around, like that's what we're doing. 737 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:18,080 It's not that I have it all figured out, it's that when 738 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,880 something arrives, I see it as a challenge rather than an 739 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,360 obstacle. Like, you can look at it both 740 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,400 ways, The roads closed, but are you going to keep going or are 741 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,400 you just going to sit there and be like, no, the roads closed. 742 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,520 That's where. If everyone was on this path, it 743 00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,720 would be easy. It's the road less travelled for 744 00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:37,600 a reason. You can't be looking around 745 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:41,040 asking all these people in your life for directions because 746 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,960 they're benefiting from your lack of awareness, they're 747 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,000 benefiting from your lack of confidence. 748 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,560 I can literally at least think of five different clients that I 749 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:53,280 have mentored over the years that have straight left their 750 00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:56,840 partner at the end of it, because they realize that their 751 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,760 partner is keeping them down, Their partner is manipulating 752 00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,840 them. The person they're with is 753 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:06,440 gaslighting them, making them feel, not confident, not heard, 754 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,560 and not seen. So the moment they start 755 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,560 listening to themselves and start seeing themselves, they 756 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,560 see the veil's been lifted. This is an illusion. 757 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:18,760 This person is manipulating me. This person is keeping me under 758 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:22,560 their spell for their benefit. Not because they love me, not 759 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:26,680 because they care about me. Because they're comfortable in 760 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,600 abusing me. They're comfortable to 761 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:32,040 manipulate me. Their comfort zone is that I'm 762 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:35,560 OK with all of this. So therefore I've been choosing 763 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,440 this. So instead of being mad at their 764 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,080 partner and projecting that onto their partner, they're like, you 765 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:43,280 know what, we're good here. I've learned my lesson. 766 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,720 I'm going to move on. And then that's normally when 767 00:43:45,720 --> 00:43:49,080 the partner wants to change or wants to do these things, but 768 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,320 it's like you have to be ready for what you're asking for. 769 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,120 I always tell people, if literally the most perfect 770 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,160 opportunity knocked on your door tomorrow and they're like, OK, 771 00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:01,680 you've got to move to Nebraska, you would have 10,000 excuses of 772 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:06,240 why you can't move to Nebraska for this $200,000 a year job. 773 00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:11,080 You would be, oh, my family's here, my kid goes to school 774 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,520 here. I'm under a lease. 775 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,560 Instead, the person who's the go getter is going to be on there, 776 00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,360 finding the schools in the area, asking someone to take over 777 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,800 their lease, cutting their lease, selling everything they 778 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,520 own so they can pack lightly and fucking moving. 779 00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,800 But that goes into the You're asking for abundance. 780 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,640 And what is it that you're actually asking for? 781 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,040 And what are you willing to do for that? 782 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,600 Because you could have lit yourself a little money candle 783 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:38,720 yesterday, and now you have this opportunity reaching out to you. 784 00:44:38,720 --> 00:44:42,400 But I don't want to move to Nebraska, so I'm not going well. 785 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,200 It's not that the magic is not working and that the 786 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,400 opportunities aren't there. It's that you're the you're the 787 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,720 catalyst who's going to be able to drive that thing into 788 00:44:51,720 --> 00:44:55,960 fruition. Or block it completely or. 789 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,280 Block it. And like my other favorite thing 790 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,440 is like, people are like, I wish I could model like you, but my 791 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:05,040 boyfriend won't let me or I don't have the money or, you 792 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,320 know, like they have excuses. And it's like literally that 793 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,680 energy is the reason that you're not doing those things. 794 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,280 Because there's someone out there with a camera that would 795 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:17,040 be willing to take pictures of you if you were confident in 796 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,720 yourself. If you put yourself out there in 797 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:24,440 a way that was exuding confidence and acceptance and 798 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,640 elevation, people would be attracted to you. 799 00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,960 So if something is feeling blocked in your life, really 800 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,800 look at how you're proceeding that because it definitely 801 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,120 starts within. If you don't believe you deserve 802 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:38,960 it, the universe will not serve it. 803 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,920 You will get looked over every time. 804 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:45,760 And then you can claim and really reaffirm that belief 805 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,520 system that you're not good enough, that no one sees you, 806 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,400 that you're not, you're not pretty enough, you're not skinny 807 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,200 enough, Whatever it is, people tell themselves, it's like 808 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:59,200 you're now creating those systems, you're creating those 809 00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,720 energetic contracts. So now that's what you're 810 00:46:01,720 --> 00:46:04,840 getting, that is what you are attracting. 811 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:09,280 Facts. We just want to see all of you 812 00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:10,920 all be the best version of yourself. 813 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,880 We want you all to know that you are capable of breaking these 814 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:18,320 cycles, capable of letting shit go and being the best version of 815 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,040 yourself. But it literally starts with 816 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,760 self accountable accountability and realization. 817 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,760 Just realize where things are blocked and learn to take 818 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,720 accountability for how you play a role in your own suffering. 819 00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:34,000 Do you want to pull a human design card? 820 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:45,160 Yeah. Where's my human design deck? 821 00:46:55,400 --> 00:47:03,400 Oh, yes, hang on. We were doing a raffle on 822 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:09,800 Facebook and it has went all the way out and it's crazy. 823 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:17,240 I forgot that I had packed up my cards because I went and I did a 824 00:47:17,240 --> 00:47:21,000 reading for a local girl in exchange for getting my nails 825 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,120 done. So I was looking around and I 826 00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,680 was like, where the fuck are my cards? 827 00:47:28,720 --> 00:47:32,240 She already sold all 20 spots. Yep, some people. 828 00:47:32,240 --> 00:47:39,800 Want them? I'm going to be doing a I'm 829 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:45,240 going to do a witchcraft box raffle, I think, and put one of 830 00:47:45,240 --> 00:47:51,360 those candles in it, too. All right. 831 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,640 Oh, we have the curator card number 12. 832 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:12,540 Like a chandelier, the sign is Gemini. 833 00:48:13,500 --> 00:48:18,140 Your gift is discrimination, and your shadow is vanity moving 834 00:48:18,140 --> 00:48:21,340 through vanity. A mild obsession for self above 835 00:48:21,340 --> 00:48:25,500 all allows you to apply that love to the world around you. 836 00:48:26,220 --> 00:48:28,260 Here, you are a great discriminator. 837 00:48:28,500 --> 00:48:31,460 You are able to be the best judge of who and what makes you 838 00:48:31,460 --> 00:48:34,060 feel good and then you curate appropriately. 839 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,320 This visceral love extends to life itself and you're able to 840 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,040 cherish the beautiful gift of each passing day. 841 00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:45,120 There is an artistic element often centered on all things 842 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,760 music, language, dance and expression. 843 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,920 You are moved by feelings and emotions. 844 00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:55,120 Let them carry you. You value authenticity and ride. 845 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:59,840 The higher frequency raves waves when you take hold of this 846 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:05,000 precious gift and use it wisely. This may be somewhat surprising 847 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,960 to you, as vanity is seen as a dirty word, but you may not 848 00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:13,040 associate with it at all. The trick with this shadow is 849 00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:16,960 how elusive and sneaky it is. If you try to rid of it, you're 850 00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:21,160 sure to develop even more. Vanity comes from the love of 851 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:25,240 the self, your individuality, your uniqueness, yourself, 852 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:30,920 growth and spiritual nature. To focus on yourself, especially 853 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:35,080 against the backdrop of other people, may keep you isolated 854 00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,120 and vision and ego trip for your higher self. 855 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:42,480 With that being said, don't get too lost in the shadowy vortex. 856 00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:46,560 Your gift awaits you always. Your themes are love, emotion, 857 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:53,080 art and expression. I love it, and I just think 858 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:56,280 everyone has so many creative abilities that we keep tucked 859 00:49:56,280 --> 00:50:00,200 away out of fear of judgement and we want you all to shine 860 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,120 your light for other people to follow. 861 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,880 You may not think people are listening, you may not think 862 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:09,320 they care, but you are inspiring people who will never tell you 863 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,520 that you're inspiring them. Trust me. 864 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:15,080 Happens every day, baby. Happens every day. 865 00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:19,760 So hopefully you all got a lot out of this episode. 866 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,680 Tap in. Our candle collection is out 867 00:50:22,720 --> 00:50:27,760 now, so go to the description box, go order some candles from 868 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:31,800 our girl Brooke and support a small business and we will see 869 00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:35,840 you all next time in Candyland. Bye, bye.