Welcome to fucking Dandy land hosted by Rampage and Gemini.
What's up everybody? Welcome back to Candyland over
here looking at like a lollipop with Rampage.
So many people have been gifting me candy lately, like so many
people have been giving me lollipops little Cherry gummies,
like all that I want someone to just randomly, start handing me
candy. How do I make that happen?
Is that the friends are hanging out with the environments here
on? I don't know, I just know all of
a sudden. Every time I see someone there,
like, I got you something and it's literally candy.
The day they could be handing, you worse things, you get
condoms every time someone sees you, you know, it's pretty late
because honestly like whenever people buy a little packages
from me, I like to send a lollipop with them.
So your Facebook post. I just need to tell you.
I was fucking cracking up. You posted something along the
lines of you. How are you going to sit here
and call me a player? When I'm ignoring all of you
equally? I keep my notifications off to
validate that statement y'all. I just thought that shit was so
funny because I just know the behind-the-scenes of like you
genuinely. Just like not caring and then
people thinking that there's something.
I think a lot of people take that personally.
And so they try to come at me with like nonsense.
So, I get my attention and that just pushes me further away.
I don't know what about you screams.
I really love the fuckery, please come and send it my way,
but that energy, the last, I don't know what it feels like
ever since like. We hit 20 23 but especially the
last week I'm literally noticing so many thankless energy
vampires that are just any possible thing that they can
fucking squeeze out of you. They want to and it's Lee like
more more, more more more, I appreciate that.
You did that thing for me. So can you like, do 10 times
that amount now? I feel like so many people are
starting to realize that the last three years.
Since the collective Awakening really started that they're not
doing any of the work. So now they're looking around at
other people who are living happily or blissfully or in
their power and they're like what about me?
Like give me some of that. Let me have some of that and
it's like baby. Do the fucking work.
I also don't like the energy of assuming that if other people
are like, doing well that then they're entitled to give what
they have to you. Like, if I, if you see that I'm
doing well with my businesses and the I'm making like money
for myself, and I'm not struggling you, then reaching
out and being like, Oh, you're making money.
Can I have some of that? Because I went through this and
I could really use some money. Like the fucking audacity is
unreal and Like I work very hard and you should too people that
have no slyke Hobbies, or goals or Creative, Drive are always
looking around at other people and they want some of that and
it's like sometimes it's not even that people want your
money. It's like they want what you
have from like a energetic standpoint, like your confidence
to chase your dreams or like the driving motivation to get things
done. Like people do.
I know how hard it is to literally have to take care of a
household work, a job, run businesses on the side or
whatever. So that's why most people in the
evening, when they clock out at five, they go get a beer or they
go home and watch TV or fuck off for the next six hours, instead
of building their dreams. And I'm not against that, like,
do your thing baby, that's your souls thing.
But like don't come for me because I spend every night
until literally probably ten o'clock working on my business.
- and then maybe for like an hour before I go to bed.
I look at social media or like chill and maybe turn on TV
sometimes but it's like at the end of the day all of that time
that you're wasting looking and comparing and contrasting your
life to someone else's, you could just be spending like
brainstorming on what you're good at and then start there,
I've seen so many people blow up and their small businesses
lately because they've been putting in that work behind the
scenes. Yeah.
And like, you know, being somebody who like worked
full-time and was getting to their goal.
I'm I was always speaking out loud and making the conscious
thing of like I'm going to make this amount and then I'm going
to work for myself and that's what the fuck I did.
And I that was going to work and then coming home and still doing
readings and recording podcasts stuff.
I can't even tell you guys, I would have.
When I first started the coven of Rejects.
Podcast I would literally interview two to three people
every single day because I was always nervous that it would cap
out and somebody finally wouldn't want to talk to me and
I always had this mindset of like nobody's ever going to say
yes to me and that's how I went into it.
I ended up having such a backlog that I couldn't interview for a
while and that let me like rest and recoup.
But I also noticed that There's people who already have like
creative goals. You already have like drive for
themselves and those people too are like just as as equal to try
and take energy and it literally makes me.
It's that energy of like shout me out, but I won't return that
to you and to me that's so shitty to want to keep on using
the people around you who you're inspired by and who are
supporting you. Because like, I know you go
through it to like me. Rampage sit here and legit hype
up everybody around us and then we sit here and we watch people
not high bust up or send us something privately and say like
congratulations instead of shouting it out on the post and
sharing it to their page like we do.
There's we noticed that shit just because we're very friendly
and like we we genuinely do want to see these people, like, go
ahead and and so we try not to tell them about themselves and
we try to just like step back and support, but it's fucked up.
To watch it keep on happening and to keep going through it.
And the people around you, you'll make a post about
something. And they'll like heart that post
and then you're kind of like it wasn't about you, but like the
boot does fit. So like don't heart react it
what bothers me about all of that is the fact that we are
supporting people who secretly are competing because it is is
like, if you can't share a post or hit the like button or
whatever like cool, do you boo, but then do not be in my inbox.
Like, Wow, congrats love the podcast or like whatever, like
say it in public, say it with your chest own it or don't say
it at all. Like, I don't need weird fake
support. Like, I don't mean, like, hey,
here's a clip of something you can do for me but TTYL, whenever
you're going to need me, you know what I mean?
Like, here's a little 30-second synopsis on everything I need
you to do but I'm not going to do shit for you.
Yeah, reciprocation baby. Literally like, and we were just
talking earlier about how, like, we literally get asked questions
about like, well, how did your friendship work?
Like you guys don't even like know each other you would ever.
We have such like the same foundation and like,
expectations and literally it's just like, hey, words from the
energy that I give to you and that's fucking it.
I mean, mainly just communicate your needs because I think a lot
of the energy could be like, earlier on corrected.
If you were just like, hey this is my needs, this is what I
want. This is what I'm going to do.
This is what I'm not going to do, but what irks me is when
people are like, yeah, baby, that's perfect for me.
And then later, they flake, they don't follow through, they don't
show up, they show up in their, in their car with a brawl on,
you know, it's like baby. Girl.
I need you to do. What you said you were going to
do. That person is never gonna,
we're never gonna let that go. It was funny as hell randomly,
see videos about Person. And I'm just like, bro.
Like, were you on drugs or not? It really blows my mind is that
we were in a group chat with that person did an interview
with that person and they never once followed up, like, hey,
just wondering if you ever dropped her interview.
Hey, just wondering. What's up with the interview?
Hey, hey, hey. But like, that's how once again,
you know how one-sided that interaction was.
Yes, they have a lot of followers.
Yes. They agreed to come on to the
podcast but they were doing it out of like their ego like wow.
Someone wants me on their podcast.
Not! Wow, Let Me Lend a helping hand
to my spiritual sisters people in community.
Let me help them out by showing up and acting like I got some
fucking sense. I have so many emotions because
I literally just feel like why should it on people who
legitimately want to see you succeed, like who are actively
putting energy into help you and watch you succeed and like send
connections and shit like that. It's just, it's mind-boggling to
me. And I guess like this, the topic
we could always fucking talk about because it will never make
sense to me. And I don't understand the
private support energy. Because if I rock with you, I
rock with you publicly, I'll say it with my whole chest, you're
my fucking person. Like I will fucking support that
and then to not get that back. It's just like, stank, coochie
energy. And when you're wondering why
you're staying broke and you're watching other people, not stay
broke. The reason is because like I'm
not focused on taking from somebody else.
I'm focused on fueling my fucking self.
Therefore I get momentum you're welcome for giving you the
blueprint usually follow it exactly.
Because Everything that y'all are taken and taken, and
thinking that that's making you stronger or getting you ahead,
baby. It's not because when you take
and you take and you take and you do not give in balance with
how much you're taking, you will reap the karmic fucking
consequences of that regardless. Like, even if you think like, oh
well, it's fine. Like they never said, it wasn't
fine baby. A lot of people, especially in
your inner circle or people that you care about, like they're not
always going to Tell you, when you're fucking up and that's why
I think that like getting to know your own self, your own
needs your own worth Your Own Foundation is so important,
because then when little instances like this happen, we
don't instantly make it a competition.
It's not like, oh wow, we don't know.
It's just like, fuck that energy.
Like I won't allow that energy into my reality so like I'm not
going to air your interview. I'm not going to go to your
wedding. I'm not going to be your friend
like whatever it is. I just won't entertain it, and I
know that Jim and I on her. Other podcast as had to delete
episodes because people are controversial and they do shady
as shit. And she didn't want people to
think that she was aligned with that shady shit.
So it's like, at the end of the day, your actions, your energy,
your persona, it lingers, whether you think people are
perceiving you a certain way or not, it really will shine
through like over time. Like all's you need to do is
observe I absolutely have deleted episodes.
I've liked unpublished episodes that had been up and the point
being that, if I see that like you're doing shit.
So, like, actually just fuck up, like openly fuck over other
people and like, just be like openly.
Just be like a bad person repeatedly.
I'm not going to lend a voice to that.
I don't give a fuck that I, you know, getting paid per listen or
whatever. I would rather not make the
money and know that I'm not helping you push out that fucked
up agenda. And I've also done interviews
just like you and I have I've done interviews over there where
I just haven't ever aired the episode because I was it was so
uncomfortable for me in the moment that I'm like, I'm not
going to subject to other people to maybe following that person.
I don't want to boost you up on my platforms and my new favorite
thing is when people who literally have never listened to
any of the pod, As maybe two episodes, say things like, I'd
love to be a guest on your podcast or I'd love to do an
interview or people want to know my side of the story.
Like, well my side of the story and I'm like, I don't know who
you are. It's a funny thing about that is
like so many people go into the intention of like oh, I'm doing
a podcast interview. It's about me any time I've ever
been invited on. Someone's podcast like I do
homework on the people, the person, the energy, Like what
type of guess they normally have like you cannot just go into
things blindly because it matters.
Yeah and also getting to know people and their energy first
like I feel like that's a I don't know II.
Can't imagine myself wanting to go into a situation and not
understand the energy of the room.
I want to know like do I need to like the extra grounded that day
do like what do I need to have going on on my end to make sure
that like I can come best prepared for that interaction?
And also, like, just knowing your own power, will really help
you not be swayed by that wishy-washy.
Competitive drama, dramatic type energy, because I think so many
people are easily sucked into it.
Like, they easily are getting their feelings hurt or getting
involved with it and like, honestly, I'm not one to like
really check people anymore, but I am going to pull lightly, tell
you about yourself and do not come for me after that, because
then the like calls will come Out like then you keep coming
for me and I'm going to really check you but I feel like a soft
boundary of just like I don't like the way that makes me feel
or I don't like how you do that or I don't like how you're
projecting that like is important but when people
instantly are going to get offended or take it to the next
level that's when I'm like, okay.
Do not ever come for me again. And I'd like to add for the
people listening. Like we're not people who are
just like, sitting there trying to find like a reason to be like
irritated about like a thing or that are like standoffish when
people approach us like we both are so genuinely, like excited
when people reach out to us and like want to have connection
with people and the only time that you get this personality
from us is when you're repeatedly doing the fuck shit.
And then finally were like, you know, Everybody has their
breaking point, and the reason that we hit that Breaking Point
like we do is because we are so open about shit.
And so like, you know, our podcast, their podcast, where
you have to subscribe to listen to the podcast at all, we don't
do that. We offer the podcast for free,
we do a bunch of free resources and shit like that.
And I don't know I just I just feel some kind of way right now
about it. I think that it's I think it's
super fucked up. I'm tired of people like Like
lying to get things too and that's the same energy as like,
people will lie to try and get you to feel sorry for them and
use your energy for them. Or, you know, they won't care
that it's Valentine's Day and they don't know.
You don't celebrate Valentine's Day and they're over here, you
know, trying to demand your energy and then talking about
the life problems that they're going through on Valentine's
Day. Well, did you even think about
what may be going on in my world tonight?
Maybe I don't want to know. You're about that, honestly, I
feel like I want everyone to feel like, I have like an Open
Door, like kind of policy, but then also, like, we respect my
energy. Like, if you know that these
questions are these concerns could be answered through a
reading, then do not ask me those questions and do not
express those concerns because honestly, as much energy as I
pour out for the collective, I've got to keep some for myself
and it's always in my downtime. Time that people want to come
project bullshit on to me and I am extremely giving person.
And so like I do give like recently had a woman reach out
and if you're listening and this was you like it was no hard
feelings. But it was a trauma dump.
Like, she wrote me and was like, I don't know who to contact my
daughter's. Boyfriend got killed, they were
in a car wreck and like, okay, super traumatic.
I did write a little memo for her daughter.
She's 14 like, okay, like that's traumatic.
As hell. But then again once again, I
don't know you. I don't really owe nothing to
you. Although I did give her like a
channeled message for her daughter, and I'm sure it meant
a lot to her and like, that's cool.
Like I have no ill intent or worries about that.
It's just the fact that like that happens.
So often and a lot of people, it's just because they want to
get around paying for the service.
I think this woman literally was distraught.
Her daughter was in a near-death experience and maybe Be, you
know, money is a factor, right? So like at that time I was just
like, yes, give me a few days and I'll and I'll write
something for your daughter. And you know, she thanked me she
was very, very appreciative but it's the people that ask you
questions, or give you a trauma dump.
And then when you reply, they heart react the message because
they know they invaded, your boundaries and instead of
apologizing or feeling any any type of emotion for the fact
that they're using you? They're just like, oh, fuck you.
I hate when people, I hate when people go into my inbox with
questions and I answer their questions, and then I say, and
for more resource, like I have these podcasts, these are free.
And then, if you want, more than that, I have these, you know,
classes, appointments, whatever. And they just go, oh, okay,
cool. I'll look into it.
And then they continue to ask me questions and they can send you
to tell me, like, about their whole night and what they have
going. Going on and all of these things
and then I don't respond. And it's always the guilt
message of. I'm sorry that I was bothering.
You I just really needed a friend.
It's okay, that you don't respond.
I get that all of the time and it never, I don't know about
anybody listening, but like getting a guilt message for like
not responding to a message when I don't even know, you always
just, like, regardless of why you're doing it.
I that's like a little bit invasive now.
I think that there's this Consider misconception that when
people share a lot about themselves, or they're very open
about themselves. That that means, you want other
people to overshare to you or, you know, tell you too much.
I'll be honest. I love when clients text me,
like later on. And they're like, wow.
Because if you're texting me, I know you had a reading period.
So that's fine, that's cool. We do not text me.
Eight months later like, hey, I was wondering if my twin flame
is going to come back because I've had people Do that and it's
like baby in your reading spirit.
Said, quit fucking worried about this person anyway, so you know,
I love that. I'm getting people now that are
getting readings and they're like, I've been listening to
your podcast? Yes.
Earlier I had someone say that and they were like, literally
just it was just so aligned. And so, like I do love the
messages, but I don't like the hey, here's a picture of my dead
Grandpa. What do you feel from him?
That's Exactly O'Connor. The course.
Common question. And I understand that you all
like want to connect? What like go.
Into meditation learn about yourself, open your own chakra
system, you know, do some work inner work because ancestors in
Spirit guides are like gonna come to you naturally, you don't
have to be a medium to talk to your dead grandfather.
You're not going to be able to talk to Susie skirt, dead
grandfather, or Billy's grandpa, but you can talk to your
grandpa, right? Like it's just very like
conceptual of. Like, if this is your ancestor,
you can have communication with Them.
And it's going to be up to you to, you know, take care of your
body and be in your power and to clear your energy and all of
that to be able to connect with them.
So it's just really invasive when somebody cracks open a
bottle of wine and then trauma dumps on to me and then they're
like well I just feel I just feel depressed.
I know you do like I can tell but it's like.
What does that have to do with me though?
I yeah, I don't know. I don't like any of it.
I feel like people should know better.
I feel like this shouldn't even be stuff that we even have to
say, and we've already said this stuff and then we have to keep
coming back and saying it because like people just like I
don't get it. I don't I will say though I
don't ever get anybody that's like oh my God I listen to the
podcast and then tells me all of the shit like it's never been
pulled it. Like I feel like Listen for like
supporting us in whatever the people that are going to reach
out that listen to the podcast or always dope as fuck.
I've never gotten a I listen to the podcast and I'm never going
to book anything with you and I just want all of your like space
for free honestly. If you're listening to the
podcast after you hear this you can DM both of us a sunflower
Emoji just so we know you got the secret code.
So the secret code of this entire episode is the sunflower.
So y'all know who's listening because I'll know that's what
we're gonna name. The fucking podcast, the
sunflower emoji. Period.
And another thing I feel like you all know that we appreciate
your love and support and we are only venting about this energy
because if not I'm literally going to snap on someone in my
messages. So I'm just venting because like
this is the platform that we've created to, you know, hold space
for what we're working through as well.
But I know many, many, many spiritual practitioners are
right behind this message. Same thing with the scammers.
I do not give a fuck. Do not ever tell.
Me again just report them. Block them custom out, whatever
you want to do, that's your choice.
What I don't like is when people choose not to block or remove
them. So their follower count goes up
that bothers me because I've had people say, well, I don't even
do nothing to them whenever they follow me, I just leave them
there. You know what you can do if you
have, you have a scammer account that's over here messaging you
on Instagram and shit, fucking take a screenshot of the
message, put it on your story, tag me in it.
Have scammer all over the thing because then I will reshare that
to my story so that other people can block the account and go and
block the account, and then move on, don't tell me that.
So, and so, with that name, because I'm not going to go and
look at that profile and they always have me blocked.
So I will never see it and like, It's fucking there's other ways
to just like not be inside. Somebody's inbox I will have
people literally come from Tick Tock to message me on Instagram
to be like, hey I hope you're having a wonderful night.
There's fake accounts of you. What would you like me to do it?
Just really stresses me out because I'm out here, trying to,
like, do the good work, do the good work, and be a good person
and just try to help people. But like it almost, it's like an
attack from like the darkness. To try to hinder you from
continuing on your path. That's what I believe the
scammer program. Like, in this machine Matrix is
right now is the fact that a lot of people have let it decrease
their productivity and their creativity because they know
they're being copied and watched.
And you know I mean a lot of the scammer accounts like I know
they follow me from their main, you know what I mean?
Like they follow me in some way shape or form to.
It's like, how am I going to know that and you know,
Instagram if you look at their account you can look up when it
was Dated it'll tell you what count, or what country they're
in, and every single time, it is literally people in like,
Nigeria, it's crazy. Like I know that they are really
making that money because like the currency exchange if they're
paying these people, and American dollars is fucking
astronomical. So no wonder they're ready to
give you a copy and paste reading for twenty dollars of
American dollars because who knows what that currency
exchanges and their PayPal? They're sending you literally
therefore Fucking PayPal's. That's what blows my mind is.
They're taking payments from people with their real name and
you still have to ask if this is my backup page.
And you still have to tell me that you got scammed, but you
know, how to contact me? So you're here in my inbox but
you got scammed, how? I don't understand and then when
you go and you're like, oh my God, I don't know why it says,
Tracy locks when your name is Gemini.
But I sent money to Tracy. Locks will guess what?
Tracy, locks his smarter than you and go fuck yourself.
No, don't go fuck yourself. That's that's harsh.
Like, but like, you know you being a little dumb right now.
Come on. We need to raise it.
I just think anything that sounds too good to be true.
Mainly on the Internet is too good to be true.
My new favorite thing is a lot of musicians or having like
people are scamming pretending to be their managers and they're
like, yes, this person wants to work with you.
Yeah, they're going to face them.
You like get fucking real like Please get real.
And it's really just Repetitive and it's an everyday battle.
So if you all are tired of hearing about it, imagine how we
feel like getting these messages every week and I know a lot of
people have gotten the memo. They're like, oh, I get them all
the time. I just don't tell you anymore
and I'm like, baby, yes, I love you for that like, because it
really does it stresses me out. I have a million other things to
think about and I don't want to think about someone literally
scamming people with my pictures.
You were talking about managers and then it made me think about
that whole process of talking with like Aaron Carter's
management and like when we would get an email back and like
we're sitting there like think about where we're going to say
and then you being like I have a phone call right now and like
whatever. And it makes me so fucking sad
that we do not have Aaron. And I was thinking earlier
today, actually like what we do if we had known like wood, We
have done it different like would we have tried to get the
interview or because I don't think.
So we had a very specific reason that we were waiting because we
wanted a different version of Aaron and we wanted to like,
spend time in a different energy with him and like point out
different things about him and I think that we still would have
passed up on that. And that's something I've heard
a lot about since we dropped the podcast, talking about Aaron and
like that collaboration, that was going to happen, is I've
gotten a lot of, oh, you guys should have On the interview
because it would have put you on the map.
Can you imagine? And like, that's what everybody
who's ever interviewed. Aaron has gone in the energy of
and what you, what they end up doing, is they ended up getting
all this? Like drama information.
We didn't want that. Like we wanted to know, like
what inspires you like, you talk about this, like spiritual
journey that you went through. Like, what's that spiritual
journey? That you went through?
And like their questions that like, I would love to have
answers to, and I'm sad, we didn't, but I don't think I
would change it. No idea.
Definitely wouldn't want like, you know, him and all of the
trauma and all of that that's like not the side of him that I
wanted to talk to anyways. And so I think unfortunately you
know, it all happened and it's just really it's hard to believe
sometimes like how people don't get their flowers like while
they're alive like how a lot of people were like wow loved Aaron
Carter. But like when he was here Or
something to him. If you opened up his live, there
would just be a stream of negativity and I just don't
really think he deserve that whether he was on drugs, whether
he was combative or chaotic or whatever, it's like, you all
love it. When it's Machine Gun Kelly
doing it, but you know what I mean?
Like, you will love it and certain forms, but then someone
who, you know, Aaron Carter like he grew up fucking Disney
Channel, like them. Kids didn't really stand a
chance like they're just all Programmed in like controlled
from day one, not think Aaron just wasn't going to be
controlled. So he was exiled and made to be
crazy, kind of like they did Kanye.
And now they've just brainwashed and done something to Kanye.
Because that mean I never quiet, he's a Gemini.
He's not quite. He hasn't said, shit, they've
captured him. Um, that's funny.
I was just watching something about Kanye, West earlier, but I
was going to say fuck I had something that I was going to
say because I forgot where I was.
You in that fucking happens man. I don't even know how I really
do hope that anyone that has like a dream or a vision or
whatever like if you want to reach out to someone or you want
to DM someone or collaborate with someone like do that, like
do it in a way that seems so genuine.
That if they ever did read it, they can feel that energy and
that's how I like I've approached.
A lot of things in my life is just like do it and
over-deliver, like be the best version of yourself.
Self be the most genuine version and you know, the highest and
best version of yourself is going to make shit happen.
Like, people pay other people for their services for their
time, for their energy, in many different ways, whether you're a
hairdresser who's really good at what you do, or a freaking
waitress, that makes people feel special, you know, like there's
people in every industry that over-deliver and we're not
always compensated for that. But your energy matters your It
blueprint matters. If you over deliver and you show
up every single time, eventually you're going to be recognized,
eventually, you're going to be heard, you're going to be seeing
whatever it is. And I just think so many people
are like, oh, it's just me. I'm just one person.
What can I do? Like I'm just one human or, you
know, and then you get down on yourself and you literally worry
and here in like just reject the process of uncertainty of being
uncomfortable of trying something new.
New. And that's why I like the Tarot
deck starts with the fool is because literally we all start
out as a novice, some way shape or form and it's not about
knowing everything, it's about the energy, the intention the
frequency that you put into it because that's what's going to
bring in clients or people or support or fans or whatever.
It's like it's not really about the Aesthetics or how you
present it but it's the energy and intention that you have
behind it. Now well and you know that
energy and your intention like if you have your mind on a
specific goal, then you are going to be like putting your
effort in and doing that in a genuine place.
If the goal that you have is genuine and I think that's where
like things go into play to is like what's the reason that
you're trying to do something? Are you trying to do something?
Because you're trying to get a specific monetary value out of
it? Or are you doing something?
Because like that is what like if I don't do this.
I will feel like I'm not fulfilled as a person.
And is that your motivation? Because if you're going for a
money motivation, you're not really gonna do that much
because you're going to have. I feel like you're going to have
a small goal for yourself smaller than like necessary.
And your motivation is to get financed out of it.
You're going to fuck people over in the process, you're going to
take bad deals because although there's money attached to it,
instead of you like listening to your gut, Don things you're
going to collaborate with people that you don't even really like
because they have a following or whatever and so you'll move in
authentically. So like when you're looking at
these goals and stuff analyze that and make yourself like a
plan and have an understanding of what you are expecting out of
it and what you're willing to put into it.
And I think that that's where like a lot of people give up
before their big break through because they're like, oh, this
is not working or oh, this isn't happening quick enough.
And that's unfortunate because so many people have a lot of
potential and I believe that untapped potential turns into
bitterness. So if you know someone who just
held a bitter and their older age, it's because they had a lot
of potential and now they look back on that and they have
regret which makes them bitter. So that's what I tell people.
Like the more you think about it, the less you're what like
willing to make a move towards it because it's going to seem
scary. Like it's going to seem out of
your reach. At that moment because it kind
of is and the only thing that sets you aside from the people
who want to do it in the people are doing it, is that action in
like you're not always going to be motivated, you're not always
going to feel create if you're not always going to feel happy,
go fucking lucky but at the end of the day it's like are you
going to show up or you going to neglect what you know you need
to do well and like Gaara. Home and save your Fairy
Godmother bunny told us. She thought about putting her
podcast, like what was it? Like, I think it was like three
years in or something like that and then she was like, I'm just
not getting what I'm wanting out a bit.
And she ended up pushing through anyways, and it's like,
catapulted, but it took her years of like building this up
and having people on that, people didn't know, and didn't
recognize. And she described with their
energy and then it all increased from there.
And that it wasn't a money motivation.
It was an energy motivation. And so for me, like when I see
examples of like ways that I like the way that somebody has
built their brand and whatever, its that it's moving with
authenticity, it's not fucking people over to get where you
want to get. So, the fact that you and I met
because of her vibing with your energy.
And then, here we are, like, I will always owe bunny having my
best friend. Know what I mean?
Like, that's because of her and I'll never be able to like say
thank you enough for that. And honestly, like, just
everyone that listens to our our podcast after like connecting
with bunny or like finding us, their Tick-Tock or finding us
their social media, like whatever it was and whatever it
is. It's all like, Leading back to
yourself. Like, you've been led to these
types of energies, these types of situations, whatever.
Because there's something within you that's ready to come out.
And that's what I tell people like you almost have to have a
mentor at some point of your journey to get Next Level.
Because you're always going to be scratching at the surface
looking at areas that you're lacking.
You'll be looking at areas where you're fucking up, where you're
not moving quick enough, where you don't know enough and that's
where a mentor keeps you grounded and keeps You on Focus
like we're not focused about the things, you can't do right now.
We're working with what you have.
And I think that sometimes like, as a human on this journey, we
don't realize that we need all layers of the story.
Like we need The Good, the Bad, and all of that to really add
up. And I think so many people get
stuck in those broken cycles and they keep playing the same
broken record over and over again, and it skips at the same
place every fucking time because They're not willing to make a
move they're not willing to make the change, they're not willing
to Cleansing. Let go of and release certain
things about themselves and a lot of it is like you don't see
your own potential. So until you're around people
who are encouraging and seeing that potential for you, you will
always be scratching at the surface and pointing out all the
things you like. Whoo.
And then you have that constant energy of lack.
And so then you have to train yourself to not think of a in a
mindset of like I'm not going to get that, which is full circle,
going back, into doing things like having wrong motivations
because that comes from an energy of luck to of like, well,
if I don't do this, then I won't have that.
And then you make shitty mistakes, you treat people bad,
you lose friends, you like. Then a few Min to move
authentically and you're like, I'm just doing my goal like
you'll eventually reach your goal by treating people.
Good along the way to maybe it takes you a little bit longer to
get there, but it's going to be so much better.
Once you get there and you have this like support system, that's
like really rocked with you as opposed to you having like a
really shit foundation and I think that your foundation, it
has to be formed out of a motivation for how you want your
life to be. Because money comes and goes
success is subjective, you know, happiness, people love all of
that, like it's always going to be changing.
It's always going to be flowing, you're not going to always be
happy, even once you reach your goals, you know?
So I think that taking that pressure off of yourself like
it's got to happen this way or it's got to be that way or I've
got to get there a certain way or it's not right, or they did
it that way. And I need to do it that way.
I think that's where a lot of people get in their own way,
because they're so caught up on the, how the They don't even
know they're why they don't even know why they're doing it.
They just need to know like, like, when they're going to get
there, but they have no fucking clue why they're doing that.
And I think that's how the system.
And the Machine of like, especially America in general,
they keep us, always wanting the next best thing whether it's
like a new iPhone or this that and the other it's like they
change. One little thing that you can
barely notice and everyone needs it, everyone's got to have it
and then there's those people who could care less And I think
that like at times, there's things that they're wanting us
to want for absolutely no reason just to prove that they can, you
know what I mean? So it's like a rebellious act to
like only really want what you want and not be competing are
fighting over things. You really don't need or want at
the end of the day. Well my speaking of like being
sold things that you don't need, I got to tell you so we had
Valentine's day yesterday, right?
The posts of like he got me Balenciaga shoes and like, oh my
God, I got a new Coach bag and whatever to me, I just look at
that shit and it just makes me laugh because I'm like, you're
on here all the time. Talking about how like you need
like help with rent or you need whatever.
And then you're going to tell me that you're over here getting
Balenciaga and Coach it and whatever.
Like I don't understand needing to have To express yourselves,
outwardly in a way that like, you aren't.
I don't, I mean and even when people do have the money, I'm
always like, but why would you buy that?
Like, literally, why would you buy that pair of Crocs?
Because they say Balenciaga. And they look like rocks.
Yeah, absolutely. I was too.
Um, I think that we are thrown into a material world and it's
up to us to unanchored our foundation from the material
realm and like from Um, that making us happy I think
regardless that's why some of the richest people are the most
angry and greedy motherfuckers, you've ever even known to exist.
Because money does not make you anything, but what you already
are it just brings out more of what you already are,
regardless. So it's like, you know, if
you're a generous person and you get money, people are going to
want to take, take take from you or if you're a greedy person and
you get money, then you're going to take, take take from people,
it's like that. It was already in you though,
like, it was already there regardless, it's just the
abundance of the money or whatever brought it to the
surface, but I believe that a court level.
We are who we are, and we want different things for different
reasons. But then we put our own needs
wants and desires aside to try to be like someone else or to
compare and want what someone else has.
And I think that Valentine's Day and things like that, like
Valentine's Day to me is just created to be like, I love you
and I'm going to give you something that shows that rather
than just being a good person and communicating clearly or
picking up after yourself 365 days a week.
There's one day a year that people are like, oh I'm going to
get you flowers. Hmm.
I don't know about it, my husband and I have never
celebrated Valentine's Day. We have always said, if we have
the money that we would have liked bought each other gifts
with and gone out to dinner or whatever, we have an
anniversary, Things fund because our anniversaries for 20 and we
always go on a trip and we literally just put that money
into our anniversary fund and like, that's like our tradition,
if you will, that's that's it. I don't recognize it.
I'm not buying fucking chocolates.
That they couldn't sell on Halloween.
So they repackage and put out for Valentine's Day.
I'm just not doing it. I'm not buying, I don't want
fucking flowers, I don't want a teddy bear.
I'm good off that shit. I don't like go I'm such a lie.
I like saving for things, like, I like saving for goals and
having like financial goals to hit and then having the money
for things. And so to me like the thought of
like, oh, we have to go out to dinner to celebrate this.
Like, I will literally be there like, oh, my god, dude, these
chicken wings, do not taste like $60 right now, you know, at $60
could get me a fucking night somewhere that I could be having
wild freaky sex, right now, you know what I mean?
There you go. That's couple goals, maybe
that's fucking couple goes. So we want to leave you all
with, like, don't think that anything is going to make you
happy, you got to choose to be happy, you got to choose to feel
powerful, you got to choose to feel sexy because you have that
power, your attention, your mind, your mind frame, whatever
it is needs to be directed on your foundation, your power,
your energy. And that's why, like, like she
said earlier, like, we've been winning because we don't, we're
not really wishing anything bad on anyone.
Not competing. We're not hating.
We're not taking we're not trauma.
Dumping like we're just in our own lane and like, no matter
what, even when you're in your own lane, there's people who
always don't get the fucking memo, and they want to try to
Swerve over and act like they run the ship, but it's like you
got to let people know early on what the boundary is like what
it is. And then if you haven't, it's
your own fault, it's your own fault that they're doing that
because you're allowing them and I think just being Sovereign in
your own energy. G and at least knowing what that
frequency is what that energy is, it's going to get you so
far. I agree.
I think that's like the perfect way to leave the episode 2 but
don't forget you guys this sunflower Emoji.
Otherwise, we know that you just you didn't care and you didn't
take note of it. So we love you all.
We will see you next time in Candyland.
Bye.