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Uh huh. 
Yeah, he says. 

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She's so sweet, man. 
Come on over. 

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The rapper lit me like a 
lollipop. 

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Lollipop, lollipop, lollipop, 
lollipop. 

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He want to lit me like a 
lollipop, lollipop, lollipop. 

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He want to swallow my spirit. 
What is up, everybody? 

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Welcome back to Candy Land here.
Excited opening up with some 

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more questions and topics that 
you guys had. 

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I think we're going to make this
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so many and it really helps us 
to know what exactly we're going

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to be going on our little 
tangents about throughout the 

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episode. 
Amen. 

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So let's just dive right into a 
hot question for Jim and I. 

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What are your thoughts on the 
morality of death rituals across

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cultures? 
Should modern societies embrace 

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practices like mummification, 
cannibalism or necromancy if it 

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aligns with their spiritual 
beliefs? 

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Yeah. 
So I think yes, especially if 

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it's something that's connected 
to your culture and there's like

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a personal reason and a personal
connection with that. 

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Completely support that. 
I also support people educating 

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themselves and learning how to 
do new things. 

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I don't know if eating people is
something that I personally want

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to do, but there's tons of 
cultures where they do that. 

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I know that there are a lot of 
closed practices that have 

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specific death rituals that they
have. 

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And so those aren't things that 
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into. 
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interviewed a woman who's in 
Mexico and she was talking about

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the Day of the dead and the 
reason why they do that 

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celebration and how they take 
care of their dead and different

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things. 
And I saw so much beauty in it 

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and so much uniqueness and 
parallels between that and 

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witchcraft. 
I think if you feel drawn to it 

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and it, you should absolutely 
fucking do that. 

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Necromancy. 
I love the concept of 

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necromancy. 
I love learning about it and 

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educating myself. 
The cannibalism is what sticks 

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out in my mind. 
And like, I got questions, like,

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what kind of people are we 
eating? 

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Is there an age range that we 
should be eating? 

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Is it like lamb where we should 
be eating them while they're 

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young? 
Should we be eating them while 

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they're older? 
How do we know that they're not 

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sick? 
You know, I got questions. 

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I mean, maybe that's why society
is fattening everybody. 

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Up. 
I like your theory. 

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We may get to the point where 
we're like global shutdown. 

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Time to eat your sister. 
I feel like a lot of rituals 

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have been misinterpreted 
throughout history and like the 

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documentation that we have on 
it, it isn't. 

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It isn't able to truly be 
processed. 

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I feel like for the purpose that
the society or culture had, like

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our understanding of 
mummification isn't probably 

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what the Egyptians were doing, 
you know, like they were very 

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heavily centered on the 
afterlife for a reason. 

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But I don't believe that they 
left us all of these little 

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clues and bread crumbs and that 
they make sense because 

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technically there's not a lot of
people that can even read 

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hieroglyphics. 
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you would have to be channeling 
them, looking for symbols and 

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synchronicities and utilizing 
your intuition to actually 

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understand them. 
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that's an S doesn't mean that's 
an S it considering they would 

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been speaking Latin. 
I want to know like what things 

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are mistranslated and what was 
it originally supposed to be 

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like? 
If it isn't supposed to be that 

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you're eating people, what is it
that you are supposed to be 

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doing? 
If it's not that you're supposed

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to be doing AB and C to bring 
people's souls back from the 

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dead and try to align them with 
the same physical body, what is 

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it that should have been being 
done and how is there so much 

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misinterpretation and piercing 
things together? 

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I mean, that happened in the 
Bible. 

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Like they're the original 
version of the Bible verses like

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the King James version, which 
was just an interpretation by 

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the King James. 
Like they're. 

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Completely different. 
There's a lot of theories of why

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they stopped teaching Latin and 
like completely have made that a

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lost language. 
And someone told me that English

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was translated as like a barrier
language that's not a full 

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expression of each word. 
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we use, like someone said that 
mortgage, what we think it means

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is like a home ownership. 
It's important. 

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We want a mortgage. 
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death sentence. 
So there's a lot of words that 

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we're using in the American 
language that I believe are 

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actually hindering us with deep 
encoded symbolism and spells 

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that we don't realize. 
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say like, I can't do that or I 
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broke or whatever. 
Like those are binding spells 

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that seem very normal. 
Like it seems very normal to be 

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like, I'm going to work my life 
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I have to work till I die. 
I'm going to work my back off or

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whatever. 
I'm going to break my back. 

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Like those are very common 
things that people are saying 

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that are like spellbinding. 
So I've been told. 

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Like the reason that they have 
like completely disengaged with 

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Latin is because they never 
wanted anyone to actually be 

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able to translate the real 
Bible, the real test text, 

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without whatever was added. 
Speaking of the spellbinding 

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things, people saying, oh, I'm 
broke. 

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I can't do that because I'm 
broke. 

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I can't do that because I have 
no money. 

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Oh, I can't spend this on what I
need because I need to do this. 

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There's so much fear mindset 
about money. 

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Whereas if you know that it's 
coming in and you spend it on 

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the things that you're needing 
or even like small items that 

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you're wanting is like a little 
morale booster. 

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Like you know, that money ends 
up coming back to you so much 

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quicker and easier and you get 
more of it because you don't 

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have this lack mindset and this 
fear about it and you're not 

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speaking into existence. 
Oh, I'm fucking broke. 

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Yeah, there's a lot that we 
speak into existence in the 

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English language that seems 
normalized that is very 

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detrimental to the results that 
you are manifesting. 

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All of that. 
That's all facts. 

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Let me ask you your question. 
If you knew you could sell your 

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soul for a lifetime of happiness
and success, but had to face 

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eternal torment afterward, would
you take the deal? 

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Why do you think so many people 
are tempted by the concept of 

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sacrificing morality for power? 
I truly believe that we are 

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living in a conscious reality 
that people have done this and I

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believe that you become a puppet
for whatever entity, darkness, 

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whatever. 
So just because you sold your 

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soul in one lifetime and you got
that happiness and whatever, now

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in other lifetimes they're going
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Yeah, they may give you money, 
they may give you fame and 

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power, but you're going to be a 
puppet. 

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And I would never want that. 
I am way too stubborn and 

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rebellious to give 2 fucks about
what someone's going to tell me 

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to do. 
And I would rather be poor and 

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like in my own power than give 
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And I truly believe that these 
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with like the kundalini energy 
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the the root chakra of America 
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And a lot of what's happening I 
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recentering of the earth. 
Not that some of it wasn't man 

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made or cause or whatever. 
I believe that we're going 

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through a recentering of earth. 
And I sure as hell would not 

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want to be on the dark side of a
lifetime of torment just for a 

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little bit of fun, 6070 years of
fun. 

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I'm good. 
And if you've ever noticed, and 

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I will, I'll say this outright, 
have you ever noticed the 

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celebrities that look like a 
fresh, a fresh grape and other 

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people look like shriveled up 
prunes, but they're the same 

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age. 
Do the math. 

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It's not just skin care. 
It's not just red light therapy.

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It's not Botox like some shits 
fucking going down. 

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And they were talking about that
in AD injections where they're 

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injecting some kind of serum or 
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you not age. 
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going against the grain of the 
natural process of the body is 

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selling your soul in some way. 
Like, not plastic surgery, 

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nothing like that. 
But I'm saying like the people 

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who look like grapes and the 
people who look like Shiverdale 

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prunes. 
I think there's a difference in 

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whatever they're doing in their 
free time. 

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California, there is this like 
whole web of conspiracies and as

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a conspiracy theorist I did some
light diving. 

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Not deep enough to be the 
expert, but enough to tell you 

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that Diddy's house caught fire 
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Which is awfully fucking 
convenient with them going 

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through everything right now and
looking for more evidence and 

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whatever, and multiple houses of
people who are like, tied to him

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and associated with him. 
Do you know who Heidi and 

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Spencer Pratt are? 
Yes. 

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So their house burnt down and 
they've turned it into this like

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whole thing for abundance for 
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So like, Heidi's like having 
people go and listen to her new 

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song and shout out her new song.
And they are the only 

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celebrities who I've seen 
outright talking about the fires

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and like the actual devastation 
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And their comment section was 
really sad because people were 

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like, you're just rich. 
Like, you can, you know, I wish 

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I was that rich. 
And, you know, my house had 

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burnt down and you can get 
insurance. 

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And they've come out and done 
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we're celebrities and whatever 
and we have money. 

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But like, we have kids and we 
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And this is, you know, these are
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we've we've raised our kids in 
and we have all of these things.

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tone of the way that people were

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approaching them. 
And it just makes me think about

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how easy it is for us to see 
people in certain positions and 

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then not think of them as like 
human or look at them and all of

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the hard work that it's taken 
them to achieve that role. 

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And there are people like them 
who, you know, they did the 

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reality TV thing and then they 
went and they had a family and 

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they were private and they 
completely invested in their 

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spirituality and opened up, you 
know, their stones and, and 

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everything that they do for 
like, you know, their gem 

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business and everything versus 
the like Kim Kardashians who 

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were like, OK, bitch. 
Well, something doesn't add up. 

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And you constantly need to be in
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Speaking of the Kardashians, 
when have they ever been this 

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quiet? 
You all? 

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When have we not seen Kim's ass 
on Instagram every other day Or 

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Khloe's weight loss fucking 
stories. 

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Like where they at? 
They're being quiet as shit. 

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Their PR publicist person has 
said, bitch, shut up. 

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We need to draw no attention to 
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believe they're top five on that
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And honestly, I think that 
people in power do fucked up 

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things because they know there's
no one to stop them. 

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And I think that right now in 
this capitalistic society that 

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we've reached, that's where 
we're at. 

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Like I've saw something that's 
like, well, they can't, they 

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can't fix this because it ruins 
this in industry. 

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They can't fix this problem 
because then it messes up this 

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industry. 
And the people on this side are 

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making all of the money while we
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And I believe that there are 
entities or beings that are not 

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human in powerful positions. 
I agree with that. 

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I believe that. 
And I'm not saying that they're 

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reptilian or lizards or 
whatever, but they might be. 

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I mean, I know for sure 
octopuses are of alien nature. 

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Let's just go ahead and say a 
chameleon is as well. 

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Like anything that can shape 
shift before your eyes, that's 

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not from Earth, that's not an 
Earth species because you don't 

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see a dog shape shifting. 
You don't see human shape 

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shifting unless they have 
something else within their DNAI

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believe the theory that the 
Greek gods mated like with 

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extraterrestrials to create like
Hercules and like other beings 

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that are not of human nature 
that were of human nature but 

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not of human nature. 
They call it like the utopian 

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theory that the Greek gods were 
mating with these beings that 

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were coming down and creating a 
hybrid like being. 

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I believe that. 
And I think that some of those 

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people have just swapped hands 
and swapped hands and kept 

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people in power because I know 
by being around very like rich 

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people in my life that they put 
their kids on payroll. 

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They don't work. 
They do this, they don't work. 

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They invest into this. 
No one works. 

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You know what I mean? 
Like there's like some big 

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person in the family that sets 
everyone else up. 

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And I just don't think that's a 
coincidence. 

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I think that I had read 
something that said millennials 

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are going to be inheriting the 
most wealth that's ever been 

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trans, transitional transition 
from a generation because 

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there's more wealth available 
than there ever has been. 

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Which leads me to believe, once 
again, the dollar doesn't mean 

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anything. 
The only thing that actually 

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means something is like 
resources and land. 

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Other than that, like tomorrow 
they could say purple people 

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eaters are the new currency, go 
find one. 

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You know, like there's no rules.
But I think that so many people 

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have sold their soul and have no
regard to the human race because

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they're no longer human. 
And that's what's fucking up the

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calibration on Earth. 
I also think that people who are

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taking their time to teach their
kids in younger generations 

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things are setting them up to 
have that like wealth and 

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abundance moving forward. 
Because if you teach somebody 

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all of these different things 
and tell them how they can go 

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out and do things for themselves
and improve on things, they're 

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able to bring things in for 
themselves. 

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If you're doing things where 
like, well, I have money and so 

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I'm just going to set everybody 
else up with these things, but 

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you don't actually teach them 
how they can keep that going up.

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That's great. 
You have one more generation of 

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people who have like, like, you 
know, that are going to be 

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taking care of financially. 
Cool. 

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But what happens with that 
bloodline afterwards? 

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You don't teach those kids that 
you're just handing down money 

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to and putting on payroll how 
they can be the successor for 

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you. 
You're not doing anything 

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beneficial for them. 
You're giving them a silver 

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spoon and being like, well, your
kids are going to be fucked, but

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at least you're taken care of. 
I've done my part. 

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I mean, there's a lot to unpack 
with that, but there are a lot 

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of trust fund babies in the 
workforce right now as we speak.

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I agree. 
And they're not nasty. 

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Like these people aren't bad 
people, they just have no desire

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to work because if they've never
had an issue where they knew I 

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don't have enough for this or I 
don't have insurance or I don't 

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have books for school, they 
don't give a fuck. 

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So then they get out here in the
workforce and we have 

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unrealistic expectations. 
And I think that's the offset of

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like the distribution of wealth.
But I have a question for you. 

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I was looking into history 
earlier and we had talked on the

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last episode about women not 
being able to move outside of 

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the marriage due to societal 
norms and standards. 

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But what about the old standard 
that men could not get married 

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or bear children unless they 
owned land or had money? 

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I actually. 
I actually didn't know about 

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that. 
I didn't know that that was a 

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thing. 
We need to run that one back 

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because I'm sick of these broke 
mother fuckers having kids that 

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they don't teach anything they 
don't raise and then it creates 

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another generation of men acting
a fucking fool because they 

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don't got a dad. 
People act like it's mommy 

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issues or daddy issues for women
but none of you all have 

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structure and role models in 
your fucking life and I know 

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that's why you treat women the 
way y'all treat them because 

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back then these men were more 
than happy to write a heartfelt 

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love letter on the front line of
World War 2. 

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But instead I can't even get a 
text back half the time. 

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And people so girly and it's 
like y'all hate trans people and

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y'all are like homophobic but 
y'all are like halfway in the 

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closet. 
Like you're already there, bro. 

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You want women to split 
everything with you? 

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You want to treat them like 
shit. 

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You don't want to respect them. 
You don't want to teach your 

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kids anything. 
You don't want to be a good 

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grounded like and then y'all 
have the audacity to act like 

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it's women with only fans 
fucking everything up or it's 

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women doing this that's fucking 
everything up. 

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No women have decided they're no
longer going to be silenced and 

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they're willing to run up the 
bag whichever way they got to, 

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to stay away from you all, and I
support that. 

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I, I don't need to say anything 
because you just completely put 

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your opinion out there loud and 
fucking clear and that's your 

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opinion is not going to fucking 
change, period. 

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A moment of a moment of silence 
for everybody who just fell. 

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I have a question for you. 
OK. 

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Why is there such a stigma 
around practices like banishment

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spells or shadow work? 
Can embracing dark magic be a 

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healthy part of a spiritual 
journey? 

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Yeah, it's it's fear based 
mindset. 

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Who's to say what magic is good 
magic, what magic is bad magic, 

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how you should be utilizing it? 
If you are doing a banishment 

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spell because you keep on a 
track, you know you're banishing

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a specific type of energy that 
would translate and you doing 

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protection magic if you are. 
What was the other one? 

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There was banishment and shadow 
work I have never heard of. 

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So shadow work is essentially 
you finding the root cause of 

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certain ways that you process 
situations and that you react to

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things, scaling it back and 
figuring out what the root cause

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to that is, and then working on 
healing that trauma so that it 

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no longer effects you in these 
ways. 

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So I don't know how somebody 
could think that that's a 

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negative thing unless people are
approaching it from the mindset 

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that they think counseling is is
or that shadow work is replacing

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like counseling and therapy, 
which it's not. 

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I think that the problem is 
ignorism and people not doing 

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enough research and 
understanding on a topic before 

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they talk about it. 
And unfortunately, people will 

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do that and have half pieces of 
information. 

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Never have talked to a 
practitioner who works in 

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painful workings or in in any 
type of like darker magic, if 

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you will. 
And then they turn around and 

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they regurgitate things. 
I also think that Hollywood and 

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people doing movies and talking 
about shit they're only half 

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educated on so they can go out 
there and make a movie about it 

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and make a bunch of money and 
give false information is a huge

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reason why. 
So ignorance is the fucking 

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answer and I highly support 
people educating themselves. 

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Before you do or don't do 
anything. 

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I don't think that you should be
fucking around energetically. 

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With anything before you have an
understanding, positive, 

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negative, anything in between. 
What's your opinion on like 

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hexes and that energy coming 
back to you? 

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For example, say someone had a 
super abusive husband that was 

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just so bad to them and they 
wanted to put a hex on them. 

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Would you support that or would 
you be against that? 

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I support whatever you think you
need to fucking do, 

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understanding that no matter 
what your intention is, even if 

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you have a good intention, 
there's always cause and effect 

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to anything that you're going to
energetically do, and you need 

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to be prepared for that. 
Like you can. 

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And I talk about this in 
witchcraft classes. 

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You can go out and you can have 
the best fucking intention for 

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something. 
You can do something as simple 

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as a money bowl and being like, 
God damn, I'm going to do some 

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magic. 
I need to bring in more finance 

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this month. 
Whatever. 

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OK, Well, the repercussion to 
that is that you have to go out 

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now. 
You have to fucking work harder.

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All these opportunities are 
coming in to you. 

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You need to figure out daycare 
for your kid because now you 

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have all these fucking hustles 
on your front door and you have 

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to go and you have to figure 
that out. 

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You're doing love spills and you
want so and so. 

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Well, so and so comes with all 
of this baggage and all of this 

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bullshit. 
So now you've got it, but now 

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you've got all of these 
repercussions for that positive 

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or negative that now you need to
deal with the ramifications of. 

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So if you're going to 
purposefully go and 

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energetically fuck somebody'd 
life up because of something 

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that they did, what's the 
ramification for that on you? 

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Are you going to be able to 
sleep with yourself at night? 

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Are you going to have issues? 
Is there, you know, are you 

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going to be fucking paranoid 
now? 

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Are you making yourself sick? 
Are you using ingredients that 

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you shouldn't have fucking used 
and now everything is directed 

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at you? 
Did you tie that to somebody 

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else properly? 
I have a friend who does painful

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workings and I would if some 
shit was going down and I was 

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like, I need this person to like
fucking die. 

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I could reach out to her and 
trust that what she's going is 

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going, that it's going to be 
effective. 

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But I also am aware of the fact 
that she is heavily researched. 

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She is heavily protected, She 
knows exactly what the fuck 

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she's doing and she knows 
exactly what to do with 

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consequences that come back in 
her direction. 

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So again, if you're going to 
fuck around, you're going to 

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find out. 
So how much are you willing to 

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find out? 
I guess I just wonder on a 

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personal scale because I do know
who you're talking about. 

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Like what comes back, you know? 
I mean, I know that's 

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unpredictable, like you don't 
really know, but like this. 

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Person has had like this person 
has done workings while they've 

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been pregnant and lost children 
because of work that they have 

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done and all types of things. 
So like you can have crazy ass 

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shit come back to you and be 
like a soul for a soul fucking 

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deal. 
So like, and that's what I mean 

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when I'm saying like, there's 
ramifications for shit. 

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So like is you fucking up, you 
know, Larry Joe's life because 

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he fucked somebody worth, you 
know, you having to pick a 

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different soul for that's not 
something I'm fucking dabbling 

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in because that's not my 
responsibility to fucking 

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handle. 
I believe that regardless, and 

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this this is goes to my personal
belief, I'm not going to use my 

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energy to negatively affect 
somebody because I believe that 

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if you are a shit, gross fucking
person and that's what you put 

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out in the universe, it may not 
be today, it may not be 

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tomorrow. 
I may be sitting here until 

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you're fucking 90 wondering why 
shit hasn't fucking caught up to

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you, but eventually it will. 
I guess that's like the Tom O 

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tale of like, why do good things
happen to like bad people and 

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why do bad things happen to good
people and just perception. 

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I think a lot of people don't 
realize the karmic energetic 

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ties that they have to certain 
things, people that they're 

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sleeping with. 
This is something I learned the 

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fucking hard way. 
You date the wrong person and 

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you start entangling your energy
and that person is in lack or 

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fear or limiting belief. 
Next thing you know, baby, your 

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bank account you getting, you 
know, you're getting flat tires,

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you're having issues because 
spirit is trying to get your 

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attention. 
Like they're trying to tell you 

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like this person is not good for
you. 

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Like let me let me do things 
that will get your attention. 

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Let me drain your bank account. 
Let me break your water heater, 

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let me fuck your car up, you 
know, whatever it is. 

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And so I think some people are 
on the tail end of like some 

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type of painful magic by just 
fucking with the wrong person, 

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like just being around the wrong
people, kind of like they say 

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like wrong place, wrong time or 
whatever. 

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Like that's how it energetically
feels dating or being around the

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wrong people. 
Agree. 

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I'm right. 
I'm going to give you another 

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question. 
Let me see, how can we 

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differentiate between genuine 
psychics and those who are 

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fraudulent? 
And what role does skepticism 

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play in the spiritual community?
So my biggest red flag with that

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is when a practitioner makes you
feel like you need them, when 

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they tell you things like you 
have an attached entity in your 

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aura and it is $500 to remove 
it, or when they just straight 

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up come to your inbox and 
solicit you. 

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They're mainly always a scammer,
but some legit people do do 

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that. 
Like kind of like you ask for 

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recommendations on Facebook and 
everyone hops on your post. 

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00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:56,280
There are energetic vampire 
psychics out there that are 

455
00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:01,800
praying on people in grief, 
people in like loneliness or in 

456
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:06,240
lower vibrational states. 
Like it's really easy to target 

457
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,880
someone who just went through a 
life altering situation. 

458
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,840
They lost someone unexpectedly, 
they had some tragedy strike 

459
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,280
their family. 
It's very easy to target those 

460
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:21,720
people, and I think that a lot 
of people that are not real 

461
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:26,200
psychics will solicit you and 
tell you that you need them. 

462
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:31,320
I feel like real practitioners 
who are working with the highest

463
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:35,400
and best energy of the situation
would never tell you that you 

464
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,720
need something that can't be 
done by you. 

465
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:42,680
So for example, if I see that 
someone really needs a clearing 

466
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,600
or a cord cutting, I don't tell 
them, oh, you need to go to my 

467
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:49,400
website and book that. 
I say you can go the Dollar Tree

468
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,920
or like the Dollar General and 
get everything that you need. 

469
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,640
If you need help with that, I 
could send you a YouTube video. 

470
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,240
I'm not affiliated with that 
person, but you know, there's a 

471
00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:01,600
lot of resources. 
My biggest problem, and this is 

472
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,200
like no shade to anyone in 
particular, but my biggest thing

473
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,600
is like when someone books a 
reading and then they think that

474
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,040
gives them access to you for 
like ever. 

475
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,480
Like OK well I spent $100.00 
with you. 

476
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,800
So like now I'm going to DM you 
every single week and ask you 

477
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,280
when this is going to change, 
when my situation is going to 

478
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,520
change, when am I going to get a
job, when am I going to make 

479
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,480
money? 
And I have clients like this and

480
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,040
it's always men. 
It's never women, it's always 

481
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,920
men that do that. 
I don't know if it's because 

482
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,080
they're skeptical in the 
beginning to even invest their 

483
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,040
money, but then they don't see 
the value in it long term 

484
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,000
because they're not doing the 
shadow work, they're not doing 

485
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,520
the healing, they're not doing 
the manifestation work, They're 

486
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:39,960
not putting intentions out 
there. 

487
00:27:40,120 --> 00:27:42,800
They are getting a reading and 
expecting a woman to fix the 

488
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,640
problem. 
And that's that don't work for 

489
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,240
me. 
So I do think that there are 

490
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:54,240
energetic intentions that some 
psychics have and then some 

491
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,440
don't, which is why I would 
always encourage people to keep 

492
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,720
your options open to get 
multiple readings, to kind of 

493
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,920
watch someones Instagram or 
social media for six months 

494
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,760
before booking anything if you 
feel hesitant at all. 

495
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,560
Because honestly, I don't want 
clients who don't value my time 

496
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,000
long term. 
And I have clients that 

497
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,160
literally booked a reading a 
year ago that I will get random 

498
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,320
Facebook messages and sometimes 
I'll just open them and read 

499
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,280
them, but I won't reply. 
And then they will keep 

500
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,760
messaging me. 
And that gets on honors, like, 

501
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:32,360
or when you have people who are 
wanting to do what you're doing 

502
00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:34,640
and they're watching your post 
and they're adding and 

503
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,440
soliciting people from your 
post. 

504
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:40,120
Like I've also had that. 
So I do think that discernment 

505
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,800
is super important. 
Like asking yourself is what 

506
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,920
this person telling me does that
resonate with me? 

507
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,760
Because I'll just be honest. 
If a psychic tells someone 

508
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:55,000
there's an entity attached to 
you, 99.9% people just believe 

509
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,600
it. 
They don't even take a step back

510
00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:01,040
and say like do I feel drained? 
Do I feel those ways? 

511
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:02,760
Do I feel like a dark clouds 
over me? 

512
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,400
But even if for one instance 
someone says that to them, and 

513
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:11,000
most fake psychics will say that
most fake psychics will make you

514
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,320
need them, they won't give you 
the resources to solve your own 

515
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,280
issue. 
They won't recommend you getting

516
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,000
your own deck or your own spell 
tools or whatever. 

517
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:23,280
I always recommend people to 
resources to classes, to the 

518
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,520
dollar store to get their own 
stuff. 

519
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:26,920
No, I'm not going to walk you 
through it. 

520
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,800
There's plenty of resources. 
I'll lead you down the the hole.

521
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:35,120
But I am tired of grown adults 
not going to therapy and 

522
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,600
thinking that psychic guidance 
is therapy. 

523
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,800
I think that it's comparable to 
therapy, but I also think that 

524
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,160
if you have your own mental and 
internal struggles, you should 

525
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,760
not project that onto a 
spiritual healer to fix them. 

526
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,000
You need to do the work. 
You need to do the shadow work. 

527
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,920
You need to ground yourself. 
You need to cut toxic ties. 

528
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,320
You need to hit the gym and eat 
better. 

529
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:58,080
Because 99.9% of our issues 
start in our gut, and it's 

530
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:03,760
because we don't eat right. 
Bullshit. 

531
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,200
OK, I'm going to ask you one 
more because you asked me too. 

532
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:08,920
I am on one. 
I have one for you. 

533
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:14,960
OK, ask. 
I am going to ask, why does 

534
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,880
society celebrate women who do 
it all, working full time while 

535
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,520
raising kids, but shame those 
who choose to focus solely on 

536
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,200
their career or decide to not 
have children at all? 

537
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,960
I do not know the answer to that
question. 

538
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:34,200
I think that if people feel 
fulfilled inside of their life, 

539
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,640
regardless of what choice they 
made, who the fuck are you to 

540
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,680
say anything different? 
If if I feel super fulfilled by 

541
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,000
just being at home and doing my 
own thing and baking cookies and

542
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,680
fucking pushing out 20 fucking 
kids and like it's on lock, who 

543
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,320
gives a fuck? 
Same thing with if people want 

544
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,840
to go and they they want to, you
know, put building a career over

545
00:30:54,840 --> 00:31:00,160
having a family or whatever. 
I don't understand people not 

546
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,200
minding their own fucking 
business. 

547
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,840
And it doesn't matter what the 
topic is at hand. 

548
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:11,120
What does what I choose to do 
inside of my life affect you in 

549
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,360
any capacity? 
If you're not fucking or 

550
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,920
financing me, your opinion 
shouldn't be mattered. 

551
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:18,840
Period. 
Men. 

552
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:20,960
Amen. 
Period. 

553
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,480
All right, let me ask, let me 
ask you one. 

554
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,680
You're going to get me heated 
with questions like that because

555
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:36,360
I, I literally like have had 
friends who will shit talk each 

556
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:40,360
other just behind each other's 
back for so and so is doing this

557
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,920
and so and so does that. 
And you know, and why isn't she 

558
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,320
making this choice? 
And why isn't she making that 

559
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:50,880
choice if it's not a concern for
their health or safety? 

560
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,760
Mind your own fucking business, 
OK? 

561
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:02,280
Why are workplaces still 
designed around outdated norms 

562
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,400
that assume an ideal worker has 
no caregiving responsibilities? 

563
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:11,240
And how does this 
disproportionately disadvantage 

564
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,760
women? 
I feel like there's such a 

565
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:19,360
double standard in society 
because the old 9:00 to 5:00 

566
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:23,360
work week was shaped around a 
one person income being able to 

567
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:28,040
provide for all basic needs. 
So the problem with with this 

568
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:33,320
situation is that resources have
been so offset that, you know, a

569
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:37,840
house that was 50 years ago was 
$58,000 starter home. 

570
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,120
You could raise a family 
comfortably in it. 

571
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,360
And then I saw that that same 
house has been assessed at 2.9 

572
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:47,400
million in just 40 years and 
they've done nothing to it, I'm 

573
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,720
sure. 
So I feel like we're in an 

574
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:55,760
outdated society, but we are 
living in modern times where 

575
00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:00,200
there is an emphasis on A2 
income household, but also an 

576
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:04,320
emphasis on having children. 
And for those who don't know, if

577
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,280
you don't have any assistance 
and you don't have any, like 

578
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:11,640
government provided anything, 
just to go have a kid with no 

579
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,600
complications is upward of 
$12,000. 

580
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,280
That is if your baby is 
completely healthy, completely 

581
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,880
good to go and come and you, you
get to go home like right after 

582
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,800
you have that baby. 
That's no overnight stay, that's

583
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,840
no NICU, that's no nothing. 
And I just don't think people 

584
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,640
account for that. 
Like they don't understand that 

585
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:33,080
having a child is not only an 
expense for 18 years, but it's 

586
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,760
12 to $15,000 just up out the 
gate. 

587
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,680
So I think a lot of people are 
not prepared for the sudden 

588
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:44,600
change in their lifestyle. 
And I just don't think society 

589
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,600
even cares. 
Like it makes no sense that the 

590
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,640
median income, like household 
income is like $80,000 in 

591
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,320
America, but just to send your 
kid to like a decent daycare 

592
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,720
five days a week while you go 
work is $800 a month. 

593
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,600
So let's just do the. 
Math or more. 8 hundred $800 a 

594
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:07,200
month for you? 
Getting childcare is fucking 

595
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,120
cheap. 
So we're just going to go on the

596
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:10,960
cheap. 
We'll just say 800. 

597
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:16,159
We'll say 880 * 12 is $10,560 a 
year. 

598
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,840
So you're telling me that 
between me and my husband we're 

599
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:26,920
bringing home around $80,000 and
it's 10,560 after taxed dollars 

600
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:30,400
to pay for childcare? 
No, So I just don't think 

601
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,880
society makes any fucking sense.
I think how it worked in the 

602
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,800
past was that people had 
multiple children, that the 

603
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,520
older ones just ended up raising
the younger ones. 

604
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,920
And I think that people were 
able to manipulate their 

605
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,920
children into free labor, 
whether it was like on the farm 

606
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,880
or in general. 
And I just don't think that's 

607
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,840
like even the case because now 
parents are heavily centered on 

608
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:56,760
giving their kids better than 
they had. 

609
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,560
But what I believe as a 
childless person is you all need

610
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,840
to teach your kids better than 
you learned and stop giving them

611
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,720
everything. 
Let them suffer a little bit. 

612
00:35:04,720 --> 00:35:06,800
They don't need a fucking phone 
at 12 years old. 

613
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,400
I'm sorry. 
I don't care if they play 

614
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,280
sports, I don't care if they go 
to the moon after school. 

615
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,400
I don't care what they do. 
They don't need a phone, period.

616
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,280
I don't care if they go to the 
moon after school. 

617
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:22,440
And then my next point is 
influencer culture, like people 

618
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,120
are influenced to think that 
they need a perfect home, 

619
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:29,200
perfect white cabinets, perfect 
crown molding, perfect floor, 

620
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:33,760
perfect everything all the time.
And I think that we've skipped 

621
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:38,680
chapters because like when our 
parents were in their 30s, they 

622
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,560
were not live. 
They were living in trailers and

623
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,080
apartments and like starter 
homes. 

624
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:46,480
They weren't out here in a crown
molding, you know, 4000 square 

625
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,160
foot home. 
I'm sorry, they're they just 

626
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,360
were not. 
So I don't know what it is about

627
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,520
society standards that have 
exponentially grown towards 

628
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:59,320
luxury, but exponentially went 
backwards on consistency, work 

629
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,480
ethic, respect, morals. 
Because I had a job at 12 years 

630
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,440
old and when it snowed this past
week, not one motherfucker 

631
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,920
knocked on my door and asked if 
they could shovel my driveway. 

632
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,080
Kids, period. 
When I was 12 I worked at a 

633
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,280
grocery store that my aunt owned
and I babysat. 

634
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,800
By 14 I actually could legally 
work and pay taxes so I started 

635
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,200
working at the grocery store 
part time. 

636
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,880
Then I moved to Beef O Brady's 
at 15 and worked at Subway as 

637
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,640
well. 
I've always had two jobs and 

638
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:31,640
babysat. 
So when people tell me like well

639
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,720
my son really wants these Nike 
dunks and my daughter really 

640
00:36:35,720 --> 00:36:38,960
wants Lululemon and drunk 
elephant skin care they can get 

641
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,480
fucked. 
I don't care how much I love my 

642
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:44,520
kid, I'm not going to give them 
luxury items if they don't have 

643
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,760
luxury work ethic. 
That was my point that I was 

644
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:52,200
making about people having 
people having money and just 

645
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:55,440
setting their kids up and giving
them money and being like, here 

646
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,680
you go it. 
If you're not teaching them the 

647
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,760
work ethic behind that so that 
they can keep that going and 

648
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,600
they can keep adding to it. 
Literally all they're fucking 

649
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:09,600
doing is draining a resource and
never having anything that 

650
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,280
they're going to be able to add 
to you. 

651
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,480
And I have, we've talked about 
the working as a kid thing 

652
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:18,040
because we both have busted our 
classes since we were able to do

653
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,000
it and had multiple jobs and 
done multiple things. 

654
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,600
And that's something I was just 
having a conversation with my 

655
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,680
son the other day because I'm 
like, no one you are able to 

656
00:37:26,720 --> 00:37:28,480
work. 
You will be having a job. 

657
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:32,600
I will provide the basic things 
that you fucking need for life. 

658
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,600
Like I'm never going to have him
pay for his food or, you know, 

659
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:39,120
shit like that. 
But if you're wanting something 

660
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:43,240
in addition and you're like, I 
need a $250 bath soap, that's 

661
00:37:43,240 --> 00:37:44,360
cool. 
Get a fucking job. 

662
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,680
If you are wanting to have a 
car, you need to be able to have

663
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,480
the insurance for that. 
You need to be able to figure 

664
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,160
out what that car payment is. 
If you have a car payment or 

665
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,560
saving up to like be able to get
that for yourself. 

666
00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:01,520
Like there's, there's some 
things that should be given and,

667
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:06,200
and like help set up, I feel 
like, but coddling and giving 

668
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,520
everything and providing 
everything doesn't actually 

669
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,960
teach how you're supposed to go 
out into the real fucking world.

670
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,320
Because if I get hit by a 
fucking bus tomorrow, it doesn't

671
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,200
matter how much money I have. 
Whatever. 

672
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,200
If you don't know how to utilize
that and make that last long 

673
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:20,960
term, then you're going to be 
fucked. 

674
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,800
And I did not do my job as a 
parent. 

675
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:30,240
I honestly feel like the 
whiniest, most able bodied 

676
00:38:30,240 --> 00:38:32,240
generation is being raised right
now. 

677
00:38:32,240 --> 00:38:35,440
And I'm not talking like your 
son's age, I'm talking like 1819

678
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,960
year olds. 
And I had saw something that the

679
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:42,240
US government was going to try 
to reinstate like the draft bill

680
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,760
to be able to draft people, 
which I'm all for it. 

681
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,360
I'm not drafting children, but I
think that they should draft 

682
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,400
people in their 20s. 
You know what I mean? 

683
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,120
Like people over here who aren't
paying taxes and aren't doing 

684
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,560
shit, OK, we got a job for you. 
We'll get you going. 

685
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,080
But you know, my grandpa was 
drafted at 14. 

686
00:38:59,240 --> 00:39:01,200
Like that's fucked up. 
That's that's unhinged. 

687
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,160
But they were talking about like
the kids in China can fight a 

688
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,640
bear and climb a a Rockwall at 
12. 

689
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,520
And these kids here want Jordash
every fucking day. 

690
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,600
They don't want to work. 
They don't hit the gym. 

691
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,400
They've never lifted a weight or
a finger. 

692
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,920
They don't help their mom. 
They don't respect their elders.

693
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,000
Like y'all aren't going to stand
a chance if they reinstate that 

694
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,800
bill period. 
Like you better just watch the 

695
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,080
fuck out and go hit a lap real 
quick, you know what I mean? 

696
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:29,200
But like they're talking about 
how they just desensitize the 

697
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,840
generation so much that they 
don't see consequences with 

698
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,400
their actions. 
Like they don't see consequences

699
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,360
putting tattoo stamps all over 
their face and they don't have a

700
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,880
pot to piss in. 
Like these kids are very 

701
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:43,200
ruthless because they don't see 
consequences because they've 

702
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,760
never had any. 
They were the everyone gets a 

703
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,400
trophy generation, whereas our 
generation sit in the corner and

704
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,640
fucking cried when you got last 
place. 

705
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,360
You know like bring it back. 
We not everyone needs a trophy. 

706
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,000
You all didn't win. 
You want to win, try harder work

707
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,120
harder. 
I'm sorry. 

708
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,720
If you want to win, try harder. 
I mean, I'm feeling like a 

709
00:40:03,720 --> 00:40:07,920
little unapologetic about it. 
I mean, yes, 5-6 year olds OK, 

710
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,000
but we get to 8 years old. 
Y'all need to act right? 

711
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:11,520
Y'all need to pull up your 
bootstraps. 

712
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,600
And you lost. 
You did not win the race and you

713
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,960
do not get a prize. 
You want to win the race, get 

714
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,920
out here and bust a move. 
You know, like quit giving 

715
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,400
people everything for nothing. 
That is what's wrong with our 

716
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:24,800
society. 
It's what's wrong with these 

717
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:26,760
lazy ass adults. 
It's what's wrong with people. 

718
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:32,040
It's just people need to realize
that structure and consequences 

719
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:37,480
matter, but not consequences. 
Like, you know you're going to 

720
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,160
die or you got to go to war or 
something. 

721
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,440
I'm not saying that, but I am 
saying that these kids are 

722
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:46,240
fucking soft teenagers. 
And where are my electricians 

723
00:40:46,240 --> 00:40:48,600
and my plumbers? 
Like y'all just going to make 

724
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,040
content for us? 
Like, you know, we need people 

725
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,840
that actually want real jobs out
here because I'm confused. 

726
00:40:54,720 --> 00:40:56,440
I'm confused what we're going to
do in a few years. 

727
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,160
Especially like with electric 
cars because there's no one to 

728
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,600
work on them. 
That's my favorite part. 

729
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:06,280
Well, The thing is that people 
stopped teaching how to do trade

730
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:10,800
things and they stopped telling 
their kids about trade things. 

731
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:15,400
And it, there was a huge push 
for, oh, well, you need to go to

732
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,160
college and this is how you need
to do it. 

733
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,600
And it needs to be structured 
this way. 

734
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:24,480
And I know people my own age who
are like having, you know, they 

735
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,800
had college funds set up for 
them and they're going to have 

736
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,760
college funds for their kids and
whatever. 

737
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:35,400
And and I think that, you know, 
that's fine, but going and 

738
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:39,360
having to figure out how to put 
yourself through that and how 

739
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,600
you're going to afford to put 
yourself through school then 

740
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,160
makes it so you're like, well, 
what am I going to school for? 

741
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:48,280
What is this thing? 
A lot of times if people put 

742
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,080
themselves in the position of 
learning a trade, regardless of 

743
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,680
what it is, learn how to fucking
read a tarot card, it doesn't 

744
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,320
matter. 
But if you put yourself in that 

745
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,600
position to have to learn the 
thing, a lot of times you find 

746
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,880
out, Oh shit, this gives me the 
opportunity to build. 

747
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,600
I'm learning all of these 
different things. 

748
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,480
I'm networking and making 
connections. 

749
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,320
I have the opportunity for, you 
know, financial growth for being

750
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,160
able to have a savings, taking 
care of my family, whatever. 

751
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,840
They realize that they don't 
actually want to go to college 

752
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,480
and do these things. 
And so I just think that there's

753
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,920
been a little bit of gap there. 
Doing trade was actually part of

754
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,360
the conversation that I had with
Mac because I'm like, I don't, I

755
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,360
don't give a fuck if it is a 
trade and you're going and 

756
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,360
you're, you know, so many times 
you have to go and you have to 

757
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,120
apprentice for things before you
can actually do things. 

758
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,120
You can fucking intern an 
apprentice for things while you 

759
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,760
are under the legal age of 
working, which is how I got my 

760
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,080
job at the real estate office. 
I went and I started interning 

761
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:43,920
before I was able to legally 
work and then had two other jobs

762
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,480
when I could work. 
And I learned so many valuable 

763
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:50,720
skills about business and 
marketing and, you know, going 

764
00:42:50,720 --> 00:42:53,400
out and meeting people face to 
face and talking to them, 

765
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,880
wishing your kids to do 
uncomfortable things is part of 

766
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,800
what you're supposed to be doing
as a parent because you're 

767
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:03,400
supposed to be setting them up 
to be able to take care of 

768
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,800
themselves and do things better 
than you do them. 

769
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,440
People just don't know how to 
fucking be parents. 

770
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,640
All that happened is they got 
smacked around a couple times or

771
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:16,040
whatever and never got taught 
these like core basic personal 

772
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,320
disciplines that they're 
supposed to fucking have. 

773
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,920
And I would be asking myself if 
I was a mom right now, Like, can

774
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:24,840
my child fight a bear? 
No. 

775
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:27,960
You know, like, I would just be 
looking at like, what am I 

776
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,160
teaching my child? 
Like, could they survive by 

777
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,040
themselves? 
Could they go out and start a 

778
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,320
fire if they needed to? 
Could they fish? 

779
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:35,720
Could they hunt? 
You know, like, there's so many 

780
00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:38,920
things that dads and 
grandfathers used to pass along 

781
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,280
that I feel like putting the man
and the woman into the workforce

782
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:46,280
was a part of the systematic 
failure to increase the machine 

783
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,440
and increase capitalism. 
Because it was talking to my 

784
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,520
grandmother who made all of my 
mom's clothes when she was 

785
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,520
growing up. 
So back in the 60s and 70s, my 

786
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,120
grandmother made all of my mom's
clothes. 

787
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:57,600
They never bought them from the 
store. 

788
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,440
She bought fabric and then she 
made their clothes. 

789
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,440
And then right before we got 
onto this call, I saw that 

790
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:07,080
Joann's fabric store is filing 
another bankruptcy. 

791
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,280
They've already closed a bunch 
of stores, but now they're 

792
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:14,640
filing Chapter 11 again. 
And I had saw this theory that 

793
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:19,360
the like the government or 
systems above us have 

794
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,840
strategically taken the man out 
of the home with things like 

795
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,720
war, prison, drugs, things like 
that. 

796
00:44:25,720 --> 00:44:29,480
So skills like watching your 
grandfather in the shop fixing 

797
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,760
the truck or, you know, on the 
farm or, you know, welding or 

798
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,400
something like that. 
Like kids are not growing up 

799
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,760
watching their parents do that 
because they're at work or in 

800
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:40,920
jail. 
And then they were talking about

801
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,760
like the homemaker they are 
still requiring the mother to 

802
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,680
home make. 
But it only took like 2 

803
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:52,280
generations, which would be my 
mom and me to completely remove 

804
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:56,240
things like making your own 
clothes or providing you know, 

805
00:44:56,240 --> 00:44:59,040
with canning or vegetables or 
your own garden. 

806
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:02,000
You know, those types of things.
Like they've literally taking 

807
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:06,760
every survival skill out of the 
human culture in America and 

808
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,440
made us dependent on the system.
And another example, someone 

809
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:15,920
drifted a Old Navy sweatshirt 
that said 2003 on the date that 

810
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,600
it was made on the sweater. 
And they were like, it was 

811
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,120
luxury. 
They were like, it is so like 

812
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:25,080
solid cotton, no polyester, no 
feeling like, no filling 

813
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,600
material, like it was just, it 
seemed like it was like Ralph 

814
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:30,240
Lauren or something. 
And they're like, and I looked 

815
00:45:30,240 --> 00:45:33,760
at the tag and it said Old Navy.
And it just shows in the last 20

816
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:37,200
years how things went from I 
only need to buy this once and I

817
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:41,520
got it to now you need 10 of the
same thing and it's 10 times the

818
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,960
price. 
Yeah, facts. 

819
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,920
I'm not about it. 
I don't like it. 

820
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,400
There's definitely a lot 
unfolding, but I would say, like

821
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,880
my advice for everyone is like, 
learn a trade, have a skill, 

822
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:59,440
don't be dependent on the 
machine because the machines are

823
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,640
running thin right now and it's 
trying. 

824
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,440
Like that's why they're taking 
away TikTok because they don't 

825
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,960
want you all to know anything. 
They want you to be influenced 

826
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:11,840
by their brands, their roles, 
their propaganda, their ads. 

827
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:16,400
And I feel like this is the time
more than ever, to think outside

828
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:21,240
the box and think for yourself. 
Agreed. 

829
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:27,120
Human design card. 
Oh, we got 47 for the Chameleon.

830
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,040
We were just talking, and we 
were just talking about 

831
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:38,000
chameleons and octopuses. 
All right, 47. 

832
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:43,000
So the sign is Virgo, the gift 
is versatility, and the shadow 

833
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,440
is bondage. 
At the higher frequencies of 

834
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:50,400
this gift, your fears lose their
devilish friends and you see 

835
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,800
them for what they are. 
Symbols. 

836
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,920
Every symbol in your reality has
an underlying meaning, and with 

837
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,840
every meaning a message. 
It is your mission to decipher 

838
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:05,000
the writings of your walls. 
From here you gain access to all

839
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,200
of life's mysteries. 
You release yourself from the 

840
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:10,720
handcuffs of self-imposed 
limitation. 

841
00:47:11,240 --> 00:47:15,400
A fixed identity, a label, a 
career path, an image. 

842
00:47:15,720 --> 00:47:18,920
You are no thing and no one. 
You are everything. 

843
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:24,360
The sunset and the chameleon, 
the collective unconscious slips

844
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,960
into each individuated 
experience, coloring aspects of 

845
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,520
your lifetime in such a way that
reflects our greatest and 

846
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,360
deepest fears. 
As unique beings within the 

847
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,880
larger whole, we each grapple 
with our own distinct, prominent

848
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,680
shadows, and the more that we 
attempt to deny or repress them,

849
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,520
the more they loom in our 
peripheral. 

850
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,440
What occurs in your outer world 
is an extension of your inner 

851
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,080
landscape. 
What demons are you holding 

852
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,760
hostage? 
Witness them, hold the chains 

853
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:56,000
and set your devils free. 
Making peace with your 

854
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,200
humanness, complete with its 
afflictions and darkness, is the

855
00:47:59,240 --> 00:48:02,880
only route to salvation. 
Your themes are spaciousness, 

856
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:10,280
fluidity, dynamism, and symbols.
Beautiful, beautiful. 

857
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:14,920
Well, we are really going these 
thought provoking questions to 

858
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:19,080
keep us giving you all of the 
taboo experience that you signed

859
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,840
up for. 
So in the future, you can always

860
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:22,840
e-mail us. 
If you go to 

861
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:27,120
lollipoppodcast.com, you can 
send a message directly to us. 

862
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,480
If there's questions, topics you
want us to air out, something 

863
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,520
that's happened in your life and
give a, you know, give feedback 

864
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,800
or whatever, tap in and send 
those when you can. 

865
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,920
And we'll see you next time in 
Candyland. 

866
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,240
Bye everybody. 
Bye. 

867
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:48,480
Uh huh. 
Yeah, he says. 

868
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:50,360
She's so sweet, man. 
Come on. 

869
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,880
Like a rapper live. 
Me like a lollipop. 

870
00:48:54,160 --> 00:49:01,400
Lollipop, lollipop, lollipop, 
lollipop, lollipop, lollipop, 

871
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:05,840
lollipop. 
You want to swallow my spirit?

