1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,360 One thing that I keep saying is that we cannot live in a 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,840 relationship without financial stability. 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:10,080 Women were not built to to to provide. 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:15,600 Women were not built to give. I heard that now when the guys 5 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:20,080 are coming to toast you and their intention is just to sleep 6 00:00:20,080 --> 00:00:24,560 with you, they do susu. Like let's say the guy can put a 7 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:26,800 budget of 3K on this girl's head. 8 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,760 Red flag a guy that insults a woman? 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,720 We ask You say that's who I am. I know who I am. 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,720 I know who God says I. Am who does God says you are. 11 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:40,680 I'm a guy that insults a woman. This generation is so cooked. 12 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:53,840 Hi guys, it's a new week but same assignment to share 13 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:58,080 confessions or dilemmas and then also share our opinions on it. 14 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,440 How do we share opinions? I share mine here while you 15 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,480 share yours through the comments section. 16 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:08,880 My name is Naleka Atipa Ando, this is the PUV podcast and I am 17 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:13,240 going to be your host as usual before I go into the mantra. 18 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:20,760 This is why we do the mantra, so you don't disrespect person that 19 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,440 sends this story. So you don't take what we do for 20 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,440 granted and know that what we are doing is literally changing 21 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,600 lives. Take it for me, we are changing 22 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,640 lives. OK, now this is the mantra. 23 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:34,880 If they posted it on social media. 24 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,680 If they posted it on social media. 25 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,720 If they posted it on social media, then they made it our 26 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:45,520 business as they made it our business, we're going to make it 27 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,920 our business. Yes, of course. 28 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:52,480 Now let's get into the stories we have for this episode. 29 00:01:52,720 --> 00:02:00,800 The first one says dear Kya, I'm living with my mom in Accra with 30 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:04,240 life issues. My mom left to our hometown to 31 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:08,680 see my dad for help 'cause they weren't together for now and had 32 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,480 to join here. After I went, I met a guy who 33 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:15,840 was always asking me out every day, gives me money without 34 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,520 asking him. As times goes on, I got admitted 35 00:02:19,640 --> 00:02:23,920 at the hospital for two days and we were to pay the bills but my 36 00:02:23,920 --> 00:02:26,520 dad didn't show up or any effort. 37 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:32,160 My mom too was broke so this guy came in and paid the bills. 38 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:37,160 He showed me kindness come to our place every day to check up 39 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,080 on me. As I recovered he told me he's 40 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:43,160 in love with me and he wanted me to be his girlfriend. 41 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,600 I didn't say no to him, I accepted him and we took it. 42 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,120 From there we started making love. 43 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:54,400 I spent a day or two at his house, goes to his workplace and 44 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,440 things. One day I called his number 45 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,800 severally but he refused to answer so I tried calling again. 46 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,800 To my surprise a girl picked the call and was like why am I 47 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,640 calling this number? I got scared and I hung up for 48 00:03:07,640 --> 00:03:11,760 him to call me back. He was like it's his friend he 49 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,680 left his phone for him. I didn't say a word because I 50 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:20,000 thought he's saying the truth. Few weeks ago it rained heavily 51 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:23,720 and a friend of mine called me on phone that she just saw the 52 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:27,440 guy on a motorbike with a girl. Is that me? 53 00:03:27,920 --> 00:03:29,800 I got shocked and told her it's not me. 54 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,880 Then we ended the call. I tried to call him that evening 55 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,600 but he did not answer. After an hard time, I tried his 56 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,520 line again several times but he didn't answer again. 57 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,400 He then texted me SMS that I should stop calling him and I 58 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,880 should be careful. So I got curious and wanted to 59 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,800 meet him the next day. The next morning my mom had an 60 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:55,120 emergency call from our landlord and how to get to our car in 24 61 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:56,520 hours. So I left with my mom. 62 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,880 I called him several times, texted him to yet still no 63 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,680 answer. I tried with my mom's line to 64 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:07,400 reach him but when he I said and heard my voice he hung up. 65 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,880 He's still not picking up my calls till now. 66 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,760 I feel for him to right now I don't know what to do. 67 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:17,279 My mom keeps asking me of him, please, what do I do? 68 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,959 I think in this sense, the best thing you can do is to tell your 69 00:04:20,959 --> 00:04:24,520 mom the truth that it feels like the guy lied to you and has 70 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,880 somebody in his life. And right now I think the 71 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:33,960 passing is around and that is the reason why he's doing that. 72 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,040 I need to ask you man some question. 73 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,640 OK? I have multiple questions for 74 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:46,880 guys actually, but this I need to ask why is it that just 75 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:52,600 because you want to sleep with a woman, that isn't materialistic, 76 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,440 right? Like the person is not in 77 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,640 because you are giving them something, but because maybe 78 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:03,080 they genuinely like you and then what you also do for them has 79 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:08,040 pushed the agenda, right? And then not knowing, you say 80 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:12,120 all along what is in your head is to just sleep with her and 81 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:16,480 then go, I heard that now when the guys are coming to toast you 82 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:21,120 and their intention is just to sleep with you, they do so. 83 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:25,440 So like, let's say the guy can put a budget of 3K on this 84 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,160 girl's head just to be able to sleep with it. 85 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,760 Why? Why? 86 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,960 I get that there are girls out there that are willing to, you 87 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,280 know, go through that they don't like you, they just chop your 88 00:05:36,280 --> 00:05:38,560 money. But why do you have to do it to 89 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:41,960 somebody that would actually treat you right? 90 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,480 Why then when you finish you come and cry, fear women, but 91 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,960 then you keep treating the good ones bad and then the bad ones 92 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,520 good and the bad ones shagging you? 93 00:05:52,520 --> 00:06:00,640 Why Explain yourself? This generation is so cooked to 94 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:05,280 the extent that we can't even see it. 95 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,240 It is so difficult to genuinely try and find someone to be with 96 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:14,320 because of all the shenanigans that are going on. 97 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:17,360 When you're even trying to go into something, either you're 98 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,480 scared or a person you're trying to get with is scared and so the 99 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,720 whole thing becomes very scary. Why? 100 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:29,440 I hope that based off of this particular story, you men can 101 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,120 come and say something tangible under the comments section. 102 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:38,240 You won't now blame women for your problems 'cause I don't get 103 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,200 it. Why would you pursue somebody, 104 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:45,040 get the passing, and then all along you already have someone 105 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:46,920 some way. Why? 106 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,840 What is the brain behind that kind of move? 107 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,800 I actually want to understand your train of thoughts when 108 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,640 you're doing all that. Let's love it. 109 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,480 Let's love it, dear. Keep me anonymous. 110 00:07:01,840 --> 00:07:04,360 I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years. 111 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:08,360 He's kind and a caring partner, but I'm struggling with the fact 112 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:11,200 that he doesn't have a steady income. 113 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,240 As a young pastor, he relies on the church for financial 114 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:18,120 support, and sometimes I'm the one who has to provide for him. 115 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,160 The problem is, I'm not earning much either. 116 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:24,120 We are both often left struggling to make ends meet. 117 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:29,080 What makes it harder is that he's thoughtful and sometimes 118 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:33,480 goes without food so I can eat. I'm torn between appreciating 119 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:37,320 his love and feeling frustrated about our financial situation. 120 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,800 I'm starting to wonder if I'm settling for a relationship that 121 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,080 isn't sustainable in the long run. 122 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,520 I need your opinion, what do I do? 123 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:58,360 This is an an issue of OK, so he's a good guy, but the issues 124 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:06,680 are finances. I know some pastors that work 125 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:11,560 like literally work. They work and pastor at the same 126 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:15,520 time. So I don't know why your partner 127 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,600 has decided to depend on the church. 128 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:21,880 So let's just say the church is not doing enough for him and 129 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,760 things are not going well or the church drops him. 130 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,080 What happens? I just think there are certain 131 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:32,440 things that people need to make decisions thinking about what 132 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,039 the future holds. One thing that I keep saying is 133 00:08:35,039 --> 00:08:38,840 that we cannot live in a relationship without financial 134 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,360 stability. Why? 135 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,080 Because there are certain things that both of you would 136 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,560 definitely do together. There are certain times that 137 00:08:44,560 --> 00:08:46,760 your partner will need support. They are certain. 138 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:50,080 See, someone told me something, I think, let me put it here, and 139 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,720 it wasn't a young person. It's an older person and it's a 140 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:57,040 man. He said women were not built to, 141 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,960 to, to provide. Women were not built to give. 142 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:07,800 But it doesn't mean that women cannot give, mind you, women can 143 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:09,840 give. But because it's not something 144 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:14,800 that is built in there, when the we do it for some time, it 145 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,960 becomes frustrating for us because then we are taking off 146 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,840 responsibility. That is not our responsibility 147 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,760 in general. I am not saying that women are 148 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,640 not supposed to take care of their men, pump out their men, 149 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,440 gift them, you know, support them when it's needed. 150 00:09:29,680 --> 00:09:34,120 But I am saying that on the foundational core, it is not the 151 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,800 woman's responsibility to financially take care of the 152 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,600 family. Right? 153 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,880 But then we have grown and evolved into a society where it 154 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:50,480 is crucial for a home to have a double income standard if 155 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:56,600 possible. Now in your case, you are taking 156 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,640 the responsibility that man is supposed to take in the long run 157 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:04,200 in a marriage or in a serious committed relationship. 158 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,960 And so you are straining the woman in you is actually coming 159 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:14,480 out and it's understandable. But what I need you to do is to 160 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:19,960 sit down and talk with your man. So in talk with him that the 161 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:24,240 fact that he leaves food for you to eat now doesn't mean that you 162 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:28,520 can be able to deal with that doesn't mean that you are not 163 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,160 committed to him doesn't mean that you're leaving him because 164 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:32,920 of money. It is different when you are 165 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:37,040 fueled by money. It's different when the person 166 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,240 is doing everything for you, right? 167 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,160 And the person makes an OK kind of income. 168 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,480 I still think is not enough. Or you are assuming that based 169 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,280 off of the fact that the person is not making money to the 170 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,920 future will not work. I'm not saying that it will 171 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:52,920 work, nor do I say that it won't work. 172 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,200 I'm saying that find other options. 173 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,280 Don't jump into working away. Just immediately talk to him 174 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:02,600 one, tell him to find a job that you know can help him pastor. 175 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:06,680 At the same time, talk to him. Let him know that you're worried 176 00:11:06,680 --> 00:11:09,960 about your future with him and see what his response is going 177 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,240 to be. But then also pray about it. 178 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:16,400 Because I also feel like I think recently I've been having a lot 179 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:20,640 of conversations about a praying about your partner, praying 180 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:24,120 about somebody that you are with or you're intending to be with, 181 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:29,280 to to cement whatever is going on for God to come in and see 182 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,080 the orderly in this cooked generation. 183 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,800 This person is my passing. Did you get it? 184 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,680 I think right now I am mastering the act of not mastering. 185 00:11:39,680 --> 00:11:42,160 I am learning the act of praying for your partner. 186 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,200 Not because I'm desperate, but because I don't want to fall 187 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,080 into the hands of the devil. Do you get me? 188 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:51,600 So also pray about it, OK? It is very important. 189 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:55,280 Nobody will see anybody that calls you desperate for praying 190 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:59,480 for your partner. And let me tell the 2021202324 191 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,920 people, 'cause I'm beyond that. Like, I'm older than that. 192 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:08,000 Stop praying for the brightness that you're going to be with. 193 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,200 I'm not saying that when God give me marriage. 194 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,760 No, pray to God because frankly speaking, you don't even know 195 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:16,920 whether the one that you're dating now is your husband or 196 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:21,720 not. And even if you are setting, you 197 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:25,280 still need to pray about it because sometimes your ways are 198 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,880 not the ways of God. And so when you push yourself 199 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,520 and you use your own ways, that's when you end up in places 200 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:34,800 where marriages become very frustrating for you, you know, 201 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,720 in the long run. So the best I can tell the 202 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:42,120 2021222324 and I know that you guys have started dating 203 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,000 already. So it's not me that it's going 204 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,000 to through you. Stop praying about your 205 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,080 partners. In fact, if you're with somebody 206 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,880 right now, I need you to sit in a corner and pray and say, God, 207 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:55,000 if this man is my man, don't make it difficult. 208 00:12:56,240 --> 00:13:00,880 Just pray that father, if this man is supposed to be my husband 209 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,920 now, don't make it difficult. Don't make it so stressful 210 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,200 because sometimes to the stress is to help you know whether you 211 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:12,200 can be able to deal and do all certain things in your marriage, 212 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,520 you understand? So just pray, ladies, let's pray 213 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:20,440 about our partners because the last time I said the men in this 214 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:24,600 generation, yeah, for a young woman, sometimes I get scared 215 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:28,160 because you never know you know what's going on. 216 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:30,240 In fact, it's not even just the men is a woman too. 217 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,280 You never know The young people of this generation, We don't 218 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,480 know what we want. We don't know what's going on. 219 00:13:35,560 --> 00:13:37,200 We're fooled by the wrong things. 220 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:42,000 We allow social media to be our sole decision making too. 221 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:46,440 And it is just crazy. It is just crazy. 222 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:52,800 That's why we Dear Akra I'm a guy in the university level. 223 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:56,160 I went to school and I met a lady who was in a relationship 224 00:13:56,280 --> 00:14:00,840 and I also was I didn't like my woman but she did like her 225 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,400 boyfriend Akra. Fast forward this lady fell in 226 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,360 love with me because of the good treatment I was giving her. 227 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:11,160 That is because her boyfriend was killing her with insults. 228 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,640 She spoke to him severally about that but he wouldn't listen. 229 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,960 Anytime she complaints, the guy keeps telling her that's who he 230 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,280 is. Red flag. 231 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,400 A guy that insults a woman? We ask You say that's who I am. 232 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,480 I know who I am. I know who God says I. 233 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,600 Am who does God says you are? I'm a guy that insults a woman 234 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,560 before doing some. Anytime she complaints the guy 235 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,520 keeps telling her that's who he is and can't change. 236 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:41,320 As times went on we started acting and living like lovers 237 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:45,960 and we do all that love is true. After our first sex experience 238 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:49,000 the lady couldn't hold it and told her boyfriend that's if we 239 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,000 meet. The situation shaped worse and 240 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:53,720 worse between the lady and her boyfriend. 241 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:59,000 I was sorry about that and also I called the guy to plead with 242 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:03,240 him but he wouldn't listen. The lady has tried and tried but 243 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:07,120 the guy was refusing to forgive her so we decided to start 244 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,960 dating seriously. Everything is fine between the 245 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,880 lady and I now that we are serious about what we're doing 246 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,480 and the guy has come back begging and threatening me that 247 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:20,280 if I don't leave his woman he would not let me go just like 248 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:21,920 that. I think about this a lot and I 249 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:25,040 don't know if he's talking about physical or spiritual something. 250 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:29,320 I love the lady and she loves me back, but I'm afraid of my life. 251 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:33,480 She has told him severally that she doesn't want her anymore. 252 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:38,040 Even at this point I still plead on the guy's behalf, but still 253 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,240 the lady says it's me that she wants. 254 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:44,320 Please, what do I do? First of all, you'd need to know 255 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:48,080 what you want. I think first of all, you had a 256 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:50,880 woman you said you didn't like. Instead of breaking up with her, 257 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,080 you still was lingering around her, cheated on her, and then 258 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,000 found somebody you love. Fair. 259 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:01,360 Hopefully you let go of that Lady and then now you fell for 260 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,320 somebody that has a boyfriend that was treating her but you 261 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:07,760 guys ended up liking each other. She ended up leaving her man for 262 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,360 you and before that you went begging the guy, which I don't 263 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:12,920 understand because if she was somebody that you liked, when 264 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,960 the opportunity came in she walked away from the guy. 265 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:17,240 You would have grabbed it and just you know pulled it like 266 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,000 that but he went to beg for the guy. 267 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,400 The guy too is very silly and stupid. 268 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,400 In that time he did not see what he have. 269 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,720 He has and then he lets go of the girl and now he's coming 270 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,600 back because no other woman would tolerate his nonsense. 271 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:38,280 You see when guys go right, and this is for the ladies, some 272 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:44,240 guys, when some guys walk away from a relationship and a lot of 273 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,440 the times is those that feel like they are better than the 274 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,040 women that they are with when they are walking away. 275 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,600 In that instance, they feel like they will get someone better. 276 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:55,080 They feel like, oh, what I'm going to get is better because 277 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,360 me, I'm better than you. Then they go and then they 278 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:03,320 realize that no girl out there or a lot of the girls out there 279 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:07,480 will not tolerate their nasty, stupid, disgusting behavior. 280 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,960 So they come round and back and you know the cowardness in them, 281 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,880 those kind of people when they come back and they beg you don't 282 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:15,520 listen. They start frightening, like 283 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:22,760 they can't do shit. OK, now let's talk about the 284 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:27,680 threats. Just recently in two years, I 285 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:32,200 heard a young man stabbed another young man because of a 286 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,600 young lady. Why? 287 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:37,800 Because a young lady broke up with him and then she moved on 288 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:41,440 and then the guy that she broke up with went to do that 289 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:43,600 nonsense. Now he has been sentenced to 290 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:52,400 death. I need you to take this very 291 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:56,920 serious. Report the guys to the police 292 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,280 that he's threatening you. Make sure you have evidence on 293 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:03,400 the threats and make sure your spiritual life is. 294 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,640 And if you have a spiritual father, speak to your special 295 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:11,080 father about it. And you say free before you go 296 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:22,320 to anyone free free see, let me let me not be the one to no, let 297 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,040 me D because it is important. We talk about Jesus Christ and 298 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:29,320 we talk about God. Listen, you can't walk around in 299 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:33,800 this world empty like that. Walking around empty like that. 300 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:35,440 You don't have any sort of spiritual backing. 301 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:41,040 You're just empty vessel walking around and then something 302 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:43,200 happens to you. That's why you not you're 303 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,600 walking around delivers church. Then they're taking advantage of 304 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:50,240 you. Why not find Jesus for yourself? 305 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,240 This is a recommendation to every personal way. 306 00:18:55,120 --> 00:19:02,240 Why not find Jesus for yourself and then pray into your 307 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:06,640 spiritual bank, OK, that when something is about to happen to 308 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:12,120 you, that demon or that devil or whatever is trying to come to 309 00:19:12,120 --> 00:19:14,800 you, something will stick to this one. 310 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,960 You can't tempt to the personal. You can't go close to the 311 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,000 personal. Why not put yourself in that 312 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:25,920 position? Because even the Bible said no 313 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:27,880 weapon formed against you shall prosper. 314 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:31,960 So if you are strong Gadigwa in spiritual life, who do you think 315 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,480 will come and threaten you that you'll start thinking that 316 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:36,200 spiritually the person will try to harm you. 317 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:47,160 My dear, find Jesus as your spiritual backing and you're 318 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,960 going to be fine. And report the issue to the 319 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,520 police and you're going to be fine. 320 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:56,200 OK? Spiritually they can't do you 321 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:59,240 shaky. Physically they can't do you 322 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,840 shaky. That is where I need us, us to 323 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:06,320 position ourselves that when, when, when we are living our 324 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,280 daily lives. Spiritually you can't do a 325 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,280 shaky. Physically you can't do a shaky 326 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,320 because spiritually we have a backing. 327 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,920 And for me personally, my backing is Jesus Christ. 328 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:17,760 That is my backing. This is me. 329 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,680 So what is your backing that you would be scared that somebody 330 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,240 would spiritually attack you? No, don't be scared. 331 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:24,560 OK? Uh huh. 332 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,680 Let's love it. Let's love it. 333 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:33,320 Dear Ekhia, I'm a guy of 31 years and I'm dating a lady of 334 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:37,400 29 years. I'm dating this lady, let's call 335 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,360 her Adra. When I met her, she told me 336 00:20:39,360 --> 00:20:42,320 she's dating a big man who is at the age of 50 years. 337 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,480 Ekhia, I tried all my best to start life with this lady. 338 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:49,320 Sometimes when she comes around I even floor her car for her, do 339 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:51,720 small shopping to and deliver it for her. 340 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,920 Ekia I've been dating this lady for almost 2 years now. 341 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,520 I'm not in Accra, I stay at history region due to work 342 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,320 issues. Sometimes if I'm coming to her 343 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,120 place she tells me and let's see by the close of the week and 344 00:21:05,120 --> 00:21:08,000 we'll schedule the day you should come. 345 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:13,120 Ekia sick of love? Oh love I don't complain even 346 00:21:13,120 --> 00:21:16,240 send her mom some coins. We had a discussion and I 347 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:18,200 promised that I will pay for her rent. 348 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,400 So she called me and we're chatting and I told her I want 349 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:26,200 one year rent for her and she told me not to pay all but she 350 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:31,400 has 6000 in her account so I should add only 5000 to her 351 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,360 money to add up to pay for the one year for her. 352 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,600 OK I went to the bank to withdraw the 5000. 353 00:21:38,120 --> 00:21:40,400 I've never touched that money for the past two weeks. 354 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,160 Still my Mason called me. He want to travel so I want to 355 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,280 do all the necessary work before going. 356 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:50,680 OK I've handed over the amount to him to complete my project. 357 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:53,680 When she needs it I'll get another money for him. 358 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,560 Until on the May 9th 2025 she called me that she needs the 359 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:02,560 money and I told her that I will send the money to you on Monday. 360 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:09,120 On the 12th of May 20 2012 hold I was busy I work so I couldn't 361 00:22:09,120 --> 00:22:12,360 send the money to him so I called her and informed her that 362 00:22:12,360 --> 00:22:14,000 I will send her the money which I couldn't. 363 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,880 So the following day that's Tuesday, I picked up my ATM card 364 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:22,000 that when I closed from work I withdrawed the 5000 and sent to 365 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,000 her akia. I got to the ATM machine and I 366 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,800 only had 4000 in my account so I sent it to him. 367 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,120 This lady sent the money back and I asked her why. 368 00:22:31,360 --> 00:22:35,080 She told me that I'm not the one who pays for her rental so I 369 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,200 should take my money because I delayed only two days. 370 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,400 She sends me my money. Should I add up the money and 371 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,840 send it to her? Help her brother I need? 372 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,840 This is a sign. This is a sign that that girl is 373 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:51,200 ungrateful. Anyway, that's my my opinion 374 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,120 though. This is a sign that she's 375 00:22:52,120 --> 00:22:55,680 ungrateful. That's because, frankly 376 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,400 speaking, you guys are just dating. 377 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:03,720 You're not married so it was not your ultimate responsibility to 378 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,440 pay half of her rent. You wanted to be of that help to 379 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,800 her and that was OK. That was fine. 380 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,280 But her attitude towards the money, you are communicating 381 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:17,600 based off of what I'm reading and you communicated in those 382 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,800 two days that oh I got busy at work, I forgot. 383 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,000 I understand that she was frustrated because it's rent 384 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,120 issues. I know rent issues in Accra. 385 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,640 It's frustrating. But her attitude, eventually you 386 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,440 give her the money, right? And it was not like she was 387 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,920 moving out of a place based off of destination year. 388 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,800 Wasn't like she was moving out of a place and so the new place 389 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,520 would have been given out if it was her old. 390 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,440 Please she would just tell the landlord that oh I have this and 391 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,000 this will be sent to me at this point. 392 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,240 And she could have handled it another way based off of her 393 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,400 response. She's ungrateful and that is 394 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:55,200 going to be a problem. And because that's 50 year old, 395 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,960 I don't even get it. Were you trying to pay the rent 396 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,480 to compensate for, you know, the 50 year old man so that you can 397 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:04,640 have a see? I don't get, I don't get it. 398 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,960 Was she with a 50 year old man? What was going on Was that man, 399 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,480 I think that man was just a sugar daddy because you know 400 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,520 that arrangement where? Oh, you want to come to my 401 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:14,920 place? OK, let's see. 402 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,200 We can't if my place is available. 403 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:21,120 That's how it sounds to me because generally if I have a 404 00:24:21,120 --> 00:24:24,040 partner and a partner wants to come to my place within the 405 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:27,640 week, and I really know that, OK, my week is already planned. 406 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,480 Friday, I have somewhere to go. Oh, babe, Friday I'll have 407 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,240 somewhere to go. Or you want to come? 408 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:34,840 When do you want to come? Oh, Tuesday. 409 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,200 You know, I'll go to work Wednesday. 410 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:37,440 Oh, yeah. But I'll hang around. 411 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:41,960 Cool, cool, cool, cool. Oh, I want to come Friday. 412 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,320 But Friday, you know, I have an event, so I'll have to leave 413 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:45,680 you. Oh, yeah, I'll be around when 414 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:46,840 you come. Cool, cool. 415 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:52,640 But let's schedule as words. I mean, the conversation could 416 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:54,200 have gone in a different direction. 417 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,680 Not let's schedule. I mean that's what I think 418 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,960 anyway. So comment section please, let's 419 00:24:59,960 --> 00:25:03,360 do something about it. Let's love it. 420 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,920 Let's love it. Dear Ekia, keep me anonymous. 421 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,200 I mean they send this girl who I met at my former SHS. 422 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,600 Fast forward we've been dating for five years. 423 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,960 About a year ago I found a video of her and her so-called bestie 424 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,120 which I warned her about kissing on her phone. 425 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,160 I got angry left her house and two day it's over. 426 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,280 Fast forward her mom talked to me so I forgive her and we 427 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,200 continue dating. This thing is I really love this 428 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,600 girl but when I remember what she did and I want to leave her 429 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,720 I can't remove the pain and the betrayal from my heart. 430 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,320 So now what should I do? You need to be able to forgive 431 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,600 her. That is why the pain is still 432 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,680 there. You've not forgiven her and 433 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:44,760 you're just there out of respect for her mother. 434 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,640 But those kinds of decisions are dangerous. 435 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:52,080 You don't. OK, so someone gave me this 436 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:55,960 advice. A cousin advised me that do not 437 00:25:55,960 --> 00:26:01,680 be with somebody based on an expectation or based on 438 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,040 something like for example, for you. 439 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:08,240 You are there because you love her, but the reason why you are 440 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,600 actually there is because the mother begged you, right? 441 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,800 You need to be there because you want to be there, not because 442 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,200 the mother begged you. You need to be with a partner. 443 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,720 And my follow up response from here is General or Kim. 444 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,080 You can't be with a partner because you're expecting them to 445 00:26:27,120 --> 00:26:29,760 take care of you. You can't be with a partner 446 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:38,440 because your expectation is a monetary no, no, no, no, no. 447 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,200 Understand that the person that you end up being with is a human 448 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,440 being and can mess up in so many ways. 449 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,120 Just that in this time and age, we have a lot of deal Breakers. 450 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,880 We have a lot of I can't stand this. 451 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,360 This is an ick for me. I can't do this. 452 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,920 I don't want that. I have this type of spec. 453 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,320 I have that, you know, we have rules. 454 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,680 We have boxes we want to take. That's fine. 455 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,360 It's OK to have boxes because then it gives you what it gives 456 00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:11,560 you some form of natural expectations like my mom needs 457 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,520 to be respectful, my mom needs to respect me, my mom needs to 458 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,760 love me, my mom needs to be present. 459 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,640 These are basic like things that you would probably not probably 460 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,920 these are basic things that you need to have in a relationship. 461 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,080 So good. But any other secondary 462 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,640 expectations? No, that's this choice and 463 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,520 destroys the relationship before getting in. 464 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,440 Like, for example, I'm going to this this person because the 465 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:42,560 person dries that kind of mentality alone. 466 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,480 It's it's crazy. Those those are the type of like 467 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,800 expectations I'm talking about. Don't expect setting like 468 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,880 there's certain things. Don't make them expectation that 469 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,440 I'm dating this guy because he drives or I'm dating this guy 470 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:58,000 because of that, or I'm dating because what if the car like 471 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:03,280 gets sports? What if the he gets into an 472 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:04,960 accident and he doesn't drive again? 473 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:09,520 What if the car even isn't his the very first day you met him? 474 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,400 You're dating a woman because she's, you know, she's 475 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,800 beautiful. Her beauty is all that got you. 476 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,560 What if she gets an accident and then she gets a mark on the 477 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,760 face? You're dating a girl because of 478 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,960 us. And gentlemen of today, if a 479 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,200 woman and you don't have us, that's a problem. 480 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,960 It's just a handful that will tell you that me, I don't want 481 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,920 us. So I'm not saying wanting us is 482 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,760 bad. Me, me that I'm a woman says I'm 483 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,320 trying to look for us in the gym. 484 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,920 So it's OK. It's fine. 485 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:43,400 It is good when you have it right, but as a man, don't let 486 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,920 your sole purpose of actually being with this girl because be 487 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,840 because of her ass. Because what? 488 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:52,000 What if something happens and she loses me drastically and the 489 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,200 ass goes away? Then you've lost interest in 490 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,120 her. So these are some of the things 491 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,480 I'm saying that there are certain expectations that you do 492 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:03,160 need to have. Now back to expectation that you 493 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,640 don't need to keep the assessing expectation is that you don't 494 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,520 need to keep just be open minded about setting things like a 495 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,800 person's weight, like the person's material things, 496 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,920 because you can't lose them at any time. 497 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:16,920 Be there because you want to build. 498 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,440 Be there because you want to grow with the person. 499 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,640 You be there because you know that this person, you know is my 500 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,040 person and we're going to do this life together in goodness 501 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:30,680 and in vadnais and sickness and in wealth and whatever, but 502 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,640 you're going to be there. That, that that is what I'm 503 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:36,160 talking about. All right, now to your issue. 504 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:40,640 You need to forgive yourself. Forgive her and be there because 505 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,400 you love her and you want things to work, not because the mother 506 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:49,520 begged you. Because I feel like cheating is 507 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:53,880 one of the most crazy things that we talk about when in 508 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,440 relationships, whether male or female. 509 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,720 Cheating should not be a glorified thing. 510 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,640 Cheating should not be something that you glorify. 511 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:07,440 So I say that cheating is a deal breaker for me because I think 512 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:14,000 if you love someone, you don't entertain another person, OK, If 513 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,240 you're doing talking stage, that's fine because you're 514 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,280 talking to someone, you are not officially dating someone. 515 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,040 So talking stage, OK, fine. I mean, I think I've said that 516 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:25,680 over and over again, dependence on the type of talking stage 517 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,280 that you want when you're talking to somebody. 518 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,400 Some people, for some people when they're talking to one 519 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:30,800 person, they don't want to talk to anybody again. 520 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,200 They want to talk to that one person. 521 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,840 If he waits, he waits. If he doesn't remove, right? 522 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,000 And the other people that they would want to talk to multiple 523 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:42,480 people, you know, as time goes on and then pick one in the end 524 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:48,320 that's you dependence on you. But you need to be able to know 525 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,800 that there's certain things that if they happen, how are you 526 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,280 going to handle it? For some people, cheating is a 527 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,960 deal breaker. For me, it is. 528 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:59,800 But I told you in a few episodes ago that I have also come to the 529 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:05,160 realization that cheating can happen based off of certain 530 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,480 reasons. And even though those reasons 531 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,080 are not valid, that is why relationships are work is not 532 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:18,200 just something you work on it. So talk to her, OK? 533 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,520 I'm not saying you should stay because me if you come to me 534 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,640 talking about my partner is cheating and based off the way 535 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,960 you tell me the person is not looking like somebody that is 536 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,120 remorseful about that is ready to work on the relationship that 537 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:32,720 you have. I tell you to work. 538 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:38,920 But if you think that this was just sheer mistake, talk to her. 539 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,920 Learn to forgive her and both of you should move on. 540 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,080 If it's not, please move on because without forgiveness that 541 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,560 relationship will no work. You will always be insecure, 542 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,280 paranoid, disrespectful to what say when it comes to that. 543 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,520 So look at the situation very well and make your decision 544 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,520 based off of that. Thank you very much for watching 545 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:03,000 the episode. I'm really excited to have to 546 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:07,040 talk to you every single time. My name is Maneki Adipa and or 547 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,480 this has been the PV podcast. If you have watched till this 548 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,440 time, why haven't you subscribed? 549 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,520 Please subscribe, like and then share. 550 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,480 Thank you again. Thank you again. 551 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,720 Let's get watching. Let's get sharing and please 552 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,720 share your opinion in the comments section. 553 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,000 I'll see you in the next episode. 554 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:30,160 Bye.