1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,680 And ladies, I am saying this over again. 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:04,720 I have said this again and I'm saying this again. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:08,480 If you're dating a guy and you're cheating on him and 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:12,480 you've cheated for a while and you think your boyfriend doesn't 5 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:17,800 know if you're happy and you know it, clap your hands because 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,000 you're fooling yourself, using your pussy as copying mechanism 7 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,920 until the time that he wants to get married. 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,480 And so I gotta go find some clean girl to be with. 9 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,960 Stop cheating. Oh, Tom. 10 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:47,200 Ah, this one is long. You guys are stressing me the 11 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,680 fuck? Off, you know that, right? 12 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:52,160 Yeah. This is another episode of the 13 00:00:52,160 --> 00:00:53,760 POVA. Today I've got my stress boy, 14 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,120 we're going to do this pressing this thing because you guys are. 15 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,640 Getting on my damn. Nerves. 16 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,640 Yes you are. Don't forget to subscribe like 17 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:03,400 and. Then share This is the POV 18 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:06,360 podcast and I am your host Nanika. 19 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,400 Depart now, somebody. Will be like this girl what she 20 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,240 doing here Basically what I do here is. 21 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,640 That I go through threads on X right? 22 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:19,400 And then I read some dilemmas from even before, even before, 23 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,560 yes, I read the list from you guys and then share my opinion 24 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,280 on it and then allow the comment section to also share their 25 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:30,400 opinion on these stories to help descenders find solution to 26 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,760 their questions or answers to their questions. 27 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,120 And so we're going to leave the stress ball to breathe a little 28 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,840 and then we're going to go straight into the threads that 29 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:42,080 we have for this episode. You know what, I had a thread 30 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,800 planned for the episode and then before we started shooting, I 31 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,400 just said, you know what, let me go and exit. 32 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:48,840 Let me go and see what going on there. 33 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,320 Tell me why medical and philanthropy are being dragged, 34 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,040 specifically philanthropy. Why? 35 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,640 Because she posted that. I just said yes. 36 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,120 Let's go through the threads together now. 37 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,160 As I said before, philanthropy posted that. 38 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,840 I said yes again. And then people on eggs, let me 39 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:09,680 say our gender boys are saying that. 40 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,400 You know what the first one says? 41 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:12,000 Why? What's them? 42 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,480 If you like Marie Monroe, we are focused on our honourables. 43 00:02:16,640 --> 00:02:19,000 They're entertaining us with the drama they are putting up. 44 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,000 And if you don't know what this person is talking about, you 45 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,640 know that there's event thing happening for the nominees, 46 00:02:23,640 --> 00:02:26,400 people that have been nominated to the ministers, for our state, 47 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,000 for our country. And so they are being vetted and 48 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,160 they are treating the whole thing like they are a secondary 49 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:32,920 school dining hole. You understand? 50 00:02:32,920 --> 00:02:34,760 Drama up and down. You know. 51 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,640 And so people are enjoying the entertainment coming out of 52 00:02:37,640 --> 00:02:39,480 that. And so people are saying, no, 53 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:40,960 this guy is saying that. You know what's feel? 54 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,800 I feel like marry this, don't nobody. 55 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,760 We are, we are being entertained by our honourables. 56 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:46,960 Yeah, that's what the person is saying. 57 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:51,040 And this one said you broke up with medical in May 2024 and you 58 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,520 have already said yes in less than 10 months. 59 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,360 MDK. Really so far. 60 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:01,520 Hey Charlie, we are Simone, would you be faithful this time 61 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,200 around? Peace. 62 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:08,040 But wait, at what point in Phila's divorce brouhaha did it 63 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:12,200 appear that Phila McAfee was cheating or wasn't faithful in a 64 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:21,040 relationship or a interesting Your beauty will send? 65 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,960 You but your attitude, you bring your back. 66 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,440 You know that thing where? It's I don't know whether it's 67 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,120 just an African thing or it's just a Ghanaian thing, but it 68 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:34,120 said one more federal back that was smiling, smiling to sing 69 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,400 insane where they are, where they ABP. 70 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:40,280 And so the idea is your attitude will bring you back or your 71 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:45,240 character will bring you back. This one said wow, will I? 72 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:52,680 You said yes to medical again. This is a crazy. 73 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:57,600 Thing. Wow interesting this thread. 74 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:02,000 People are really mad. Like people are angry men take 75 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,520 notes. Women are always entitled to 76 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:06,800 their feelings, regardless of anything. 77 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,680 This one is a missile. This one is not hit at all 78 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,120 because I don't know what you're talking about. 79 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,960 How does does this work with Philammacoffee saying yes to 80 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:18,560 someone again? You know the makeup sex is gonna 81 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,920 be mad. Sankofi and Chi Why? 82 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:26,480 Hey, hey, I will hint something. Hopefully by the time I post 83 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,800 this, there's going to be some answers to the questions because 84 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:34,080 a Oh wow. So Philammacoffee remarrying is, 85 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:37,720 is a problem. Like, is it someone said don't 86 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,440 let medical see this? Yeah, so I'm going to end the 87 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,360 thread here. This thread was not like giddy, 88 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,120 giddy like that. But thinking about it, I think 89 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,520 last week I was saying something about how in as much as in this 90 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:54,040 time and age, divorce has been like it comes. 91 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:55,760 Divorce just happens just like that. 92 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,920 The stigma still stays, the stigma still deep. 93 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,000 People still talk about, you know, a woman that has divorced 94 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:03,880 and then remarried. Remarried. 95 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:07,720 And then I remember saying that it feels like people divorce 96 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:10,120 this year and next year they marry, right? 97 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,040 So it's it's just crazy. And let's also put this in 98 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,000 contest. Maybe fella McAfee said yes into 99 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:22,520 a relationship, not marriage. So yeah, anyway, let's get 100 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:26,400 straight into the stories that we have for this episode. 101 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:32,760 This one says, I would like to share this. 102 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:34,800 I would like you to share this for me. 103 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,760 I'll be waiting for comments. Two years ago, I met a lady 104 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,880 through a friend of mine. She was a student by then, and 105 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:45,240 my friend posted here that she wanted a ride to school. 106 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:49,240 That time I had lost my job fresh, but I was OK. 107 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:54,400 I was driving a Honda Accord so my friend hyped me to this girl. 108 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:59,160 I got a contact but that time I couldn't take her to school and 109 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:02,360 the communication stopped. After some few months we started 110 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,480 talking again and she told me to come visit her at school. 111 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,640 I went. Mind you the day I was going she 112 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:09,840 was away. I was coming. 113 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,800 When I got there I called this girl Sir she never picked. 114 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:16,880 Later she texted me saying she went to her friend's place and 115 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,440 her friend locked her up and went to the club so she couldn't 116 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:21,920 see me. What? 117 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,920 I really got pissed but I had nothing else to do so I slept on 118 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,680 my friends and till the next day around afternoon she texted me 119 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,880 her friend was in and wanted to see me. 120 00:06:33,280 --> 00:06:38,080 As soon as she came she started posting on snap and all that and 121 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,840 told me her friend wanted to come and they came to eat and 122 00:06:41,840 --> 00:06:43,920 had lots of drinks but I never mind. 123 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:48,480 Fast forward we started dating it was all good until I started 124 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:52,160 feeling uneasy about her and all that she had this old man she 125 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,760 claimed she she's just friends with and goes to cook for him 126 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,640 and all she complaints. She completed school now and 127 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:03,120 started doing her service at one of the big companies and that's 128 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,960 when everything changed. Initially she was complaining to 129 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:11,080 me that men they worry her and all that and then the 130 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,520 communication totally changed. When I call her at work she will 131 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:18,320 not pick and she will tell me she's busy and little thing. 132 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,560 She's angry and would hang up and block me. 133 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,600 She's only really nice to me when I send her money or when 134 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,560 she wants money. She doesn't even come to my end 135 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,600 anymore yet gets time to go for weddings and funerals with her 136 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:38,040 so-called boss I sent her. I went to her house. 137 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,560 I went to her house and spoke to her about it and told her things 138 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,640 are different and I wanted us to be like how we were. 139 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:50,840 She said OK but I realized things still haven't changed so 140 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,720 I decided to also move on. Any little thing she would tell 141 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,880 me. Am I not the one who says I want 142 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:58,560 things to work? As if I am the one who needs the 143 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,320 relationship more. I stopped calling her because 144 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,480 for the past six months we haven't talked on phone. 145 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,120 Wow. For the past six months we 146 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,640 haven't talked on phone for two minutes unless maybe she needs 147 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,720 something and acting all nice. I realized it's best to forget 148 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,480 about her and move on. Naturally I'm a generous person 149 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:19,840 and I feel bad when someone asks me for something and I am not 150 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,720 able to give. But this girl when she asks me 151 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:26,320 for money I feel hard to give because I feel she's using me. 152 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:30,000 The last couple of times she asked me for money I refuse to 153 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,280 give and she instantly hung up on me. 154 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:37,320 The problem is I love this girl and I feel she knows I do so 155 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,000 she's just messing with me. What should I do? 156 00:08:41,799 --> 00:08:44,480 I mean, I think, you know, obviously what's going on, that 157 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,640 you're being used, You know, that this girl doesn't like you 158 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:51,320 again. And the best thing you can do 159 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,800 for yourself is to understand that, yeah, it is what it is. 160 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,480 It is time for me to move on because I know one thing, that 161 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:02,840 when people realize that you love them or you like them and 162 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:08,040 they don't feel the same way, some tend to use you. 163 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,600 Some tend to abuse that power they have or that power. 164 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,840 Yeah, that that power they have over you. 165 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:17,440 Let me use it that way. And so I feel like you need to 166 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,360 put more energy. I don't know if you are working 167 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:21,960 again. I don't know if things are still 168 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,000 OK. I think you should at the moment 169 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,680 put your energy into your work or whatever that you know makes 170 00:09:26,680 --> 00:09:28,600 money for you. I think at the moment put all 171 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,440 that energy into building yourself more and then forget 172 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,520 about her. If I were you, I will block her 173 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,520 ass because she doesn't deserve to be on your phone. 174 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:41,240 OK? Yeah hi please keep me 175 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:46,040 anonymous. I am a recent university 176 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,200 graduate gradually doing my service at my alma mater. 177 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,240 I met a lady in her final year and we fell in love about two 178 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,800 months before she graduated. Everything was fine despite some 179 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,440 issues including my financial instability due to my service. 180 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:01,720 I'm afraid I won't be able to take care of her. 181 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,200 I love her deeply and don't want to lose her. 182 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,960 However, I'm concerned because she'll be doing her service in a 183 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,240 place with many people who admire. 184 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:14,760 Even some managers at her internship location have 185 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,600 expressed interest in her. We have arguments and she often 186 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:22,280 says things like if you want to leave you can leave or I know 187 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,960 you don't love me. The comments break my heart. 188 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,560 POV. I'm unsure if our relationship 189 00:10:28,560 --> 00:10:31,520 will last but I love her and want us to go far. 190 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,720 I'm afraid she might meet someone else as she's been 191 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:39,320 meeting many people who show many people who show interest in 192 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:40,600 her. Please help me. 193 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:45,080 Wow I love her deeply but I'm worried about our future 194 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,040 together. She always being approached by 195 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,000 people who show interest in her and she keeps their contact 196 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,960 information which breaks my heart. 197 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,880 I fear she might not be able to commit to me because I'm not 198 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:59,440 financially stable. She often tells me about people 199 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,560 she meets who have money cast and are willing to give her 200 00:11:02,560 --> 00:11:05,040 everything she wants. I'm afraid she might get tired 201 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,240 of waiting for me to provide for her and lose interest. 202 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:12,160 Despite our hopes and dreams of getting married, I am unsure it 203 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,280 should be able to love me for who I am without the material 204 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:20,480 things. I'm scared of losing her to 205 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:26,120 someone who can give her more. I mean, I'm saying this, you 206 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:30,400 know, in in a sense of care, not in a sense of like shaming you 207 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:35,280 or anything. But even if this doesn't work 208 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:39,320 out, you need to be able to, you know, make some money for 209 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:42,000 yourself. Because the truth is, even the 210 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:46,640 Bible says that any man that you know, I don't want to like 211 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,120 misquote or anything, but the idea is that as a man, before 212 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,400 you start finding interest in being with somebody or trying to 213 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,800 build a life with somebody, there are certain things you 214 00:11:55,800 --> 00:12:00,200 need to have. One is, is God 2 is it your your 215 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,160 own place or where you put your head? 216 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:03,760 Three, be able to take care of yourself. 217 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,920 And I'm, I'm not saying this from my head. 218 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:12,920 I was listening to a man of God preach and the information or 219 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,440 the the message that he was giving was towards that 220 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,320 direction and he he quoted the word of God to it. 221 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:20,680 That is one aspect of whatever conversation I'm going to have 222 00:12:20,680 --> 00:12:22,840 with you now. So basically you need to build 223 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,040 yourself. You need to make some money. 224 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:28,720 Now, secondly, that girl is not it because I know I'm thing for 225 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:34,440 sure that when you love somebody right and they don't have it, 226 00:12:35,560 --> 00:12:39,400 you don't put it in your face that their lack of not having it 227 00:12:39,680 --> 00:12:46,160 can make them lose you. Doing that alone should be like 228 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,040 you get it. And The thing is that if you 229 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:51,600 think she can be taken, then she can be taken. 230 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:56,840 People are able to be taken or people are able to take people 231 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,840 that wants to be taken like you get me. 232 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:02,360 So for example, when people say that my partner, what do you 233 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,280 call him, cheated on me or my partner fell in love with 234 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:09,360 someone else. Or if you're with somebody and 235 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,520 you want to fall in love with somebody else, you will. 236 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,960 That is your decision. It is something that you want to 237 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,720 do. It is not like it just fell on 238 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,880 your lap, like you get it. It is because you want to do 239 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:23,080 because if unknowingly you start liking somebody, your sense of 240 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:27,520 having a partner itself needs to kick in and be like, am I not 241 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,520 with, you know, that passing? Why am I thinking about this or 242 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:31,680 why am I heading towards this side? 243 00:13:31,680 --> 00:13:33,920 No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Then it means there's something 244 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,240 wrong with your relationship and you need to go and work on it. 245 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:39,200 And so if she keeps telling you that there are people that are 246 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,600 better than you coming into her life, that alone should trigger 247 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,320 you for something. Do you get me? 248 00:13:45,680 --> 00:13:46,800 Yeah. So look into that. 249 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:47,880 Very well. OK. 250 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:48,480 Yeah. That's lovely. 251 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:53,120 That's lovely. Keep me anonymous. 252 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:57,440 So I met this lady after BC. Are you a child and we're only 253 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,640 friends? Little did we know we've fallen 254 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:03,360 in love with each other because we've spent so much time every 255 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:07,640 day either texting or on call. So we dated from that time. 256 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,600 So we completed SHS. It was a long distance 257 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:15,280 relationship though we met in our SHS days when school vacated 258 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:20,720 just to say hi and bye bye to each other as our schools was 259 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:24,040 close to each other. We dated until after SHS. 260 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,680 She broke up with me with due to a misunderstanding that couldn't 261 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,360 permit us to freely talk for about 3 days. 262 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,560 OK, I tried talking to her during those times but she kept 263 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,560 on giving me attitude so I gave up in three days. 264 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:44,680 Hey Guanimo, Little did I know that she got attached to another 265 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,120 guy and finally go into a relationship with the guy. 266 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:51,560 That relationship with the guy was based on lies she was made 267 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:55,520 to believe. OK, after about two years of 268 00:14:55,520 --> 00:15:01,720 Constance begging and asking her to come back to me, she broke up 269 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:05,520 with a guy after she discovered she was made to believe in lies 270 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,480 and the guy asked her to come back to me. 271 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,480 I accepted her because I really love her. 272 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:13,280 Fast forward two years down the line she has broken up with me, 273 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,880 reasons being that I don't make her a priority. 274 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:21,080 Frankly I didn't know what she meant because I thought that I 275 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,400 really appreciated her and kept her. 276 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:27,160 First in all, I did POVI really love this lady. 277 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:31,320 I am very broken now and I'm finding it hard to live without 278 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:32,520 her. What should I do? 279 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:35,320 You need to come to terms with the reality that you don't have 280 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:41,160 A again because I think you're still in that phase where you 281 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:44,440 wish you could have A. But I need you to come to terms 282 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,600 with the fact that she has walked away from you 2 times. 283 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,440 I want to change. The third time is a charm to the 284 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:56,120 second time is a charm. How many times will this person 285 00:15:56,240 --> 00:16:00,000 break you before you realize that if they come up and leave 286 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:03,080 every single time, then they don't really value whatever they 287 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,600 have with you? Because I believe if somebody 288 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,000 values whatever they have with you and there's a problem, the 289 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:11,960 first thing they do is to talk about. 290 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:16,960 It's not the, you know, just up and go the first time. 291 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:21,840 Apart from, you know, domestic abuse, apart from beatings, 292 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:27,400 that's when the person touch you and you better run any other 293 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:28,840 thing I think can be talked about. 294 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,040 So if it happens once, twice, you guys can sit down and have a 295 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,560 conversation about it and then know your way forward. 296 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:38,000 But after like 2 times. So domestic violence and 297 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:42,680 cheating, yeah, those things after like a few times and you 298 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,280 you think the person is not evolving or changing, then you 299 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,080 can come to A and be like, you know what, baby? 300 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,320 I've given you all the energy I have and I think I can't deal 301 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:51,960 with it again. Do you get it? 302 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,760 But if once then the person disappears. 303 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,920 I don't think the the hat love enough for you. 304 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,520 Yeah, that's that's oh, no, from the top of my head, that's what 305 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,840 I think. Let's love it. 306 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,400 Let's love it. Hi miss, please I need your 307 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,480 help. I just want to ask a brief 308 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:11,720 question before I drop my story. Do you think I should forgive a 309 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:15,119 woman I dated for five years who cheated on me with another guy? 310 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:17,760 But I've confirmed that sex wasn't involved. 311 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:22,119 It started when the guy was forcing himself on him and keep 312 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,599 giving her gifts she didn't ask for. 313 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,960 I saw their WhatsApp conversations and I went further 314 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:31,560 to investigate my own way and found out that she never had 315 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:34,200 sex. Do you think she deserves a 316 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:37,360 second chance? Please help me with an answer. 317 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:41,800 I'll drop the full story later. Hey wow alert. 318 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:50,400 Listen, the issues of cheating in the first story, if if you 319 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,880 have watched the episode, you realize that I said cheating and 320 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,520 then domestic violence are the things that when it happens, you 321 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,640 probably don't have to stay. What do you call it to face it 322 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,560 again? But everybody handles situations 323 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,520 differently. And then sometimes people 324 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:08,600 actually give second chances. And so let's dive into that. 325 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,880 If this is the kind of person. Now, if you're the person that 326 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:15,160 would want to give your partner a second chance after cheating 327 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:19,040 on you, I need to ask you a question that if you are sure 328 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:23,240 that this will not happen again or if you're sure that you can 329 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,240 let go of the pain of being cheated on. 330 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,320 Because you see, when somebody gets cheated on, right, two 331 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:33,320 things happen. One person loses trust, right? 332 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:38,440 The other person, how do I even describe it? 333 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:42,360 The other person feels. And if in this case, if the 334 00:18:42,360 --> 00:18:45,280 person is crazy, the other person feels they can easier can 335 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:48,160 have it, right? Yeah. 336 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,400 So these are the two things that happens on both ends. 337 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,560 Now, the one that got cheated on doesn't trust the one that 338 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:57,160 cheated again. And so the idea is to work 339 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:59,280 through it to be able to trust the person again. 340 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,400 So you that got cheated on, would you be able to work 341 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:04,640 through it? That's one. 342 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,600 Would you be able to work through it to the extent that or 343 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:12,400 in a way that when something triggers you, it won't take you 344 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:16,720 straight to, yeah, she's cheated again and you will take time to 345 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,680 investigate again like you did for this one. 346 00:19:19,360 --> 00:19:23,320 That's the first thing. And on the end of the other 347 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:30,080 person, they would also be on a setting guard where, you know, 348 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,560 the *** caught me cheating. And if I'm doing this again, I'm 349 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:36,880 going to be extra careful or I cheated a *** And I need. 350 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:41,840 To either hide its will or I need to be able to change for 351 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,800 this relationship to work. And it gets hard because then 352 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,720 this person is not trusting. And if this one is pushing so 353 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,200 much to prove that I'm not a cheater again. 354 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,640 And it gets draining for this one. 355 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,200 And this one feels like it's not enough. 356 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:58,720 It's it's it gets crazy. So Are you ready for that 357 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,360 emotional rollercoaster Because you in your right upright, it 358 00:20:02,360 --> 00:20:05,200 feels like you're defending. Hey, you said gifts that she 359 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:06,960 didn't ask for. That's the first one. 360 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,440 But you could have said gifts that she shouldn't have taken. 361 00:20:10,360 --> 00:20:11,760 Have you looked at it from that side? 362 00:20:13,360 --> 00:20:16,040 You said you you did your investigations and sex is not 363 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,160 involved. How did you know? 364 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:20,840 I actually want to know. So please send the story, let me 365 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,440 know. But beyond that, I need you to 366 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:26,480 think about it from the angles I've given you, right and see if 367 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,680 you, you are in the business of forgiving and trusting that 368 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:31,200 easily. All right, Because me I know 369 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:39,000 that it's not easy to trust I've been dating this lady since 2019 370 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,160 university time. It was supposed to be a one 371 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,720 night stand but she gave me suspense that I got more 372 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,680 interested in her. I dated her for more than a year 373 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:55,840 just to hear she was dating RTE exam officer in her class Rep. 374 00:20:55,960 --> 00:21:09,440 Hey three people what the hell. She only said it was the class 375 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:18,600 Rep but have even broken up man man man had to agree 'cause at 376 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:23,720 that time man had no money and 0 confidence to get a girl of her 377 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,520 calibre. Fast forward I was expelled due 378 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:32,400 to not performing but to be sincere I knew the exams officer 379 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,280 was the reason. The lady that here showed me 380 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:39,200 Pepe she came back to tell me let's break up all in the name 381 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:42,000 of she's getting back with the same class ref she said had 382 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:46,600 broken up with her. Imagine being a spelled broke 383 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:51,080 also broken hearted man. Had to develop a strategy to 384 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:55,240 bounce back but the first thing was to destroy that relationship 385 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,600 of dears. How can I lose in such a manner? 386 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:03,560 Within the same year I got to know the lady I was dating was a 387 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:09,000 typical assign car for both streets and church. 388 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:28,280 Hey hey how good feet do I'm still 389 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,960 now man. Had to stay cause getting a free 390 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:34,640 pussy for my mental health. Was it easy to come by? 391 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:51,040 Wow so her cheat with her church president of which I knew she 392 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,480 went to sleep over, go to a party where I knew she was 393 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:58,920 chopped, had couple of church dates where her own siblings 394 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:02,200 said were true, not to talk about her working place after 395 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,320 school. Fast forward, I reapplied for 396 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,920 school, graduated and things started picking up for me. 397 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,200 Lo and behold I was funding her all this while with the Queens I 398 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,920 was earning now. Man, don't make money. 399 00:23:14,120 --> 00:23:20,040 Lest I forgot, I had a couple of abortions while with me, of 400 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,800 which I knew very well one wasn't mine but the other could 401 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:30,200 be mine, with me suspecting that wasn't the only two abortions 402 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:34,040 she had ever made 'cause she showed me the place and how 403 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:37,200 things were done. Regular customer. 404 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,200 The problem here now is my family has gone to like her. 405 00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:03,920 And has got to like a known her as a decent one and wants me to 406 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:08,400 marry her. But I have now also getting a 407 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,280 lot of series of girls willing to die for me. 408 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:15,280 If I am to count at least these girls are like 8IN number. 409 00:24:15,360 --> 00:24:17,400 She's lost the touch that made me like her. 410 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,000 To even make it worse, I suspect she's sleeping with an uncle of 411 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:25,360 mine that talks too good about her when I'm not around. 412 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:34,760 And as a man, when your lady is used before you, you get to 413 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,680 know, to experience. I don't get that part. 414 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:41,360 I mostly travel and not around so she lives with my family. 415 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,120 What should I do? Continue with the marriage, Pay 416 00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:47,520 her off to go or marry her and marry another lady. 417 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,760 I prefer most because all girls don't. 418 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:55,640 Show me shaggy upon shaggy, please. 419 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,920 I'll be in the comment section, the last part of your story. 420 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,560 I don't get it well, but if I'm getting it well, you want to do 421 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,760 a few things. Either break up with her, pay 422 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:11,400 her off, or marry her and marry someone else. 423 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,400 These are the options you have. And then you also stated that 424 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:19,240 the part I didn't understand was your uncle's bit, that he speaks 425 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,640 too well of them. So you're suspecting that he's 426 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,880 sleeping with her. Interesting. 427 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:33,200 Interesting. Well, I would, you see, I'm a 428 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,120 woman. But you see all this description 429 00:25:35,120 --> 00:25:37,840 that you have giving about this girl, It doesn't look good for 430 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,120 her. I mean, you know me, if it 431 00:25:40,120 --> 00:25:42,040 doesn't look good for her, I don't care or gender. 432 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,200 I will give it to you. What? 433 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,040 To what? To let her go. 434 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:52,840 I think you are a man enough or you are man enough to have a 435 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,680 conversation with your family and let them know this the 436 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,560 circumstance of the relationship. 437 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,800 But one thing that I, I, I don't like about this whole situation 438 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,360 is, and I keep saying this, if you're with somebody and you 439 00:26:06,360 --> 00:26:11,760 realize that I can't marry this person, live there because this 440 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,040 is what happens. You drag along because of the 441 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:15,880 fact that you're getting pussy to eat. 442 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,000 Drug along, drug along, drug along drug along. 443 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,640 Now it has it has turned into a thing where you can't live there 444 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,240 because if you live there, either society will call you bad 445 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,640 or probably your family sees in a different way and they like 446 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,560 it. So we can't also look bad in 447 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,640 front of your family. And it's exactly what's going 448 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,200 on. That's why me, I like a clean 449 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:40,440 cats breakup and when I am not together again, I like the idea 450 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,840 of you don't think we are going to work. 451 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,280 Let's go a separate twist. Don't. 452 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,720 Don't let me linger around or stay around. 453 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,760 And ladies, I am saying this over again. 454 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,760 I have said this again and I'm saying this again. 455 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,520 If you're dating a guy and you're cheating on him and 456 00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:00,400 you've cheated for a while and you think your boyfriend doesn't 457 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:05,840 know if you're happy and you know it, clap your hands because 458 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:10,680 you are fooling yourself. He knows and what he's doing is 459 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:16,720 using your pussy to clean his mental health, using your pussy 460 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:21,520 as coping mechanism until the time that he wants to get 461 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,680 married. Then he will realize that that 462 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,880 pussy cannot be my coping mechanism forever. 463 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,600 And so I'm going to go find some clean girl to be with. 464 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,840 Stop cheating. Oh Tom, stop it. 465 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,840 Stop fucking cheating. Because if you if you're with 466 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,920 somebody and don't like the person again, leave. 467 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:54,720 Why are you cheating? Why, my dear, I'll leave this 468 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,000 one to the comments section, but I know what the comments section 469 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,040 would say. That's leave by leaving here. 470 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,360 No, the pay of bids are you can pay. 471 00:28:04,360 --> 00:28:06,520 I'll because of the fact that she's been around to taken 472 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,800 thing, but taken thing across. She was shaking you while she 473 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,160 was still, you know, taking care of her in the process. 474 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:25,680 So this one is long. Please keep me anonymous. 475 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:29,120 I was dating this girl, which was somewhere January, way back 476 00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:31,360 in SHS. We're very close. 477 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:35,360 The vibe was moving on but my financial situation became bad 478 00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:38,760 In January. We all got admission to the 479 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,600 university. She was at Legon and I was at 480 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,400 ATU. Her dad was the rich type and so 481 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,680 he rented an apartment for this girl. 482 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,080 It got to a time I noticed some changes in her. 483 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,520 I'll call her and she wouldn't pick. 484 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,880 She'll give me excuses. Later I found out it was a guy 485 00:28:53,880 --> 00:29:02,720 in the apartment influencing this girl and it was like, if he 486 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,440 doesn't give you money, leave him. 487 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,080 OK, so if I understand this very well, there's a guy in the 488 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,360 apartment that is influencing the girl that if this guy is 489 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,720 Brooke, you should leave him. Interesting. 490 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,160 Your own gender is Brooke shaming you to a woman. 491 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,040 We are now be the attempt that we may like Rick shaming there. 492 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,720 We like Brooke shaming there. It is your own gender that is 493 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,280 doing to you. Now you see the slice. 494 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:34,680 OK let's continue and all those stuff. 495 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:38,480 So just stayed cool. I was there one day and this 496 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,600 girl came from nowhere telling me we should break up. 497 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:45,520 Oh hey I burst into tears but I told myself it is well. 498 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,960 Then I went to apologize my granny did seem. 499 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,160 We came back later. She said she doesn't want to 500 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:56,160 disrespect my granny so she said we are no more. 501 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,600 I told her OK she thought out completing again. 502 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:05,440 So after some months this girl left my Life OK until one day 503 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,640 this girl texted me she's sorry about all that happened. 504 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,240 I should forget about my past or the past. 505 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,360 So we move on. I've also moved on with someone 506 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:19,120 who also understands me. But I want to tell guys to know 507 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:24,880 that when you get the chance. Had a lady cause women no. 508 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:33,000 But you see I feel this. This is a bit disrespectful for 509 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:36,280 you saying that when you get a chance at a woman or hurt women 510 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,680 because or whatever, because you're sending this to a woman 511 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:45,040 because you're seeing me finishing, is that it? 512 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,880 I get that this girl was stupid, right? 513 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,000 I get that this girl was very stupid for what she did. 514 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,040 But if you have sisters, you will not sit in your house and 515 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:59,600 say that because one girl hurt you, you're going to punish all 516 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,240 women. You see, This is why for some 517 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,080 time now, I'm not spoken about this whole idea of 518 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:08,160 generalization because I think people started feeling like I 519 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,720 was talking too much about that. But these are some of the 520 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,760 reasons why I think generalization is one of the 521 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:18,040 most stupid things on earth. Because why is it that one 522 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,360 person has done something to you? 523 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:24,480 But all the species or the, the, the, the whole gender small 524 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,680 thing? Men are wicked. 525 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,200 Men are wicked. But you have a brother that is 526 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:34,360 treating another girl well. Men are wicked, men are wicked. 527 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,200 Fear women fear women. But you have a sister that is 528 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,640 dating someone that is not even treating her well but she's 529 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:46,120 still there. I get it, you wrote this out of 530 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:50,480 emotions, I get it. But at the end of the day you 531 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,400 sent it to a woman. So what? 532 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:59,880 You don't give a shit that is. Yeah, this one, It has entered 533 00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:12,040 me a common cause. What the hell, hey? 534 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:18,280 Charlie, that's actually. Anyway, yeah, I'm going to end 535 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,720 the episode. I'll end it cause this this this 536 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,760 *** like should I start charging you people? 537 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,800 For reading your stories because it's like you don't even give a 538 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:31,320 fuck that I'm a woman. Hey, I didn't ask you. 539 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:36,320 But anyway, thank you very much for watching the episode. 540 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,320 Thank you very much for liking, Thank you very much for sharing 541 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,480 because see, the numbers are coming and we like it. 542 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,760 We want the same energy on YouTube, OK? 543 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,360 Because. The YouTube is not giving what 544 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,080 it's supposed to give. You understand? 545 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,280 Try for me. Yeah, you get it. 546 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,080 Yeah. But anyway, thank you for 547 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,400 watching the episode. I'm excited to sit here every 548 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,640 time with you guys. That's because I know that you 549 00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,640 got me just like I got you. I'll see you in the next 550 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,320 episode, but until then, you can go back and watch the other 551 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,560 episodes that you've not watched. 552 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,840 Valentine is coming. I'm so excited with the 553 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,560 Valentine edition. Bye.