1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,680 Do I dare? To say your boyfriend doesn't 2 00:00:01,680 --> 00:00:03,880 respect you even. His response? 3 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,360 To how? Are you? 4 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,720 How are you and your girl? Hope you guys are getting along 5 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,680 well. I beg you this one day I the. 6 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:16,079 Egg. Jump on this side. 7 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,920 Jump on this side. What do you mean by what did I 8 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:20,160 do for the person? To cheat on me. 9 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:22,760 Not visit whatsoever. You don't have any. 10 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:24,480 Reason to. Cheat on me, Lord will prepare 11 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:25,840 a. Table in front you in the 12 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,800 presence of your enemy, say Kalush. 13 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,320 And say you need to see right now you are. 14 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:34,680 The messes of your woman. You are always. 15 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,040 Getting married, Jesus. The devil can. 16 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:49,480 Lie. When you see me like this, you 17 00:00:49,480 --> 00:00:51,960 know that I automatically have an assignment. 18 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,600 Now what's my assignment is to read some confessions, share 19 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,160 some dilemmas, give you something to think about. 20 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,320 Share your opinion in the comments section while I share 21 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:05,120 mine right here. My name is Nanika and do and 22 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:09,880 this is the POV podcast. Let's get straight into our 23 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:11,880 mantra. If you're home and this is your 24 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,760 first time, we have a mantra and this is how it goes. 25 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,120 If they posted it on social media. 26 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,880 If they posted it on social. Media. 27 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,360 If they posted. It on social media, then they 28 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:24,080 made it. Our. 29 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:28,240 Business and since they made it our business, we go make it our 30 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,640 business. This basically says that they've 31 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:34,400 sent it to us and so we're going to tell them the truth and 32 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,520 nothing but the truth. Whilst doing that, we are not 33 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:41,320 going to be disrespectful, we are not going to insult you or 34 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,320 anything, but we're going to be truthful where we need. 35 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:48,360 To be hard on you. Know that we will be hard on 36 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:49,080 you. All right? 37 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:56,120 OK, so let's get into the very first story of the episode. 38 00:01:56,120 --> 00:02:00,400 Let's love it. Let's love it. 39 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,760 Dear Ikhya, I'm a girl of 21 years and my boyfriend and I 40 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,920 have been dating for two years now. 41 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,160 Everything is good and cool between us but I have trust 42 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:13,600 issues because he's still in contact with his ex which he 43 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:18,120 said she was flirting and their messages are not as normal as 44 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,120 you may think. In one of their chats that was 45 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:23,000 last year August, he was pleading with her if they could 46 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,240 come back together. He said he promised to marry her 47 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,360 and he meant it. I asked him a random question 48 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:34,080 asking if he had made a promise to an ex and and they are no 49 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:38,640 more will he still fulfill the promise he made and he said no. 50 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:43,520 There was 1 chat that the girl asked how was I doing and hope 51 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:47,240 we are getting along well. His reply was please Habeku 52 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:51,000 right now I'm really confused. All his friends and family know 53 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,400 we are together. He always says he ignored 54 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,480 everyone for me but he's making me doubt him. 55 00:02:57,080 --> 00:03:00,920 We promise not to have a bestie but he has one. 56 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:05,120 Please advise me I'm in a dilemma and I don't know what to 57 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:09,280 do. My guy is 24 and I am 21 and 58 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:13,360 right now as I'm speaking they are planning on meeting up when 59 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,760 the ex is back from her trip and also planning meet ups to with a 60 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,920 girl. He claims they are just friends, 61 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:24,760 which he knows they like him. OK, so he's planning trips with 62 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:28,760 girls and he claims that they're just friends, but he knows that 63 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:33,400 those girls like him. First of all, let's clarify 64 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:34,680 something. We don't advise. 65 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,640 We we give our opinion here. OK? 66 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,640 Yeah. Now let's get into your 67 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,400 boyfriend's matter. Do I dare? 68 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:43,960 To say your boyfriend doesn't respect you. 69 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:49,280 Do I dare to say that? I think. 70 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:54,520 He doesn't respect you. Even his response to how are 71 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:55,320 you? How are you and your? 72 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,560 Girl, hope you guys are getting along well I beg you. 73 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:03,840 This one they add. Egg jump on this. 74 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:07,600 Side jump on this side. My dear you. 75 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:12,480 Better start running because that one maybe he's just you 76 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,800 need to pass time or he settled for you. 77 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:19,160 You know, there are some people that when they can't get the 78 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,880 specific type of woman or man, they. 79 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:24,600 Want they settle for? A certain type, you know. 80 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,120 Do you get me? Yeah. 81 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,120 No, don't. Allow somebody to settle for 82 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:29,560 you. They don't. 83 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,520 Treat you well when they they settle for you. 84 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,600 OK, yeah, that's disrespectful to even be planning trips with 85 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,280 people that you know, like you when you have a relationship. 86 00:04:40,280 --> 00:04:42,880 Planning trips or planning? Dates and meets up with your. 87 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,600 Ex. When you have in your trust. 88 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,880 Issues are valid. But don't allow. 89 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,840 Them to become paranoia. So you better start walking 90 00:04:49,840 --> 00:04:51,880 away. Ha, let's. 91 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,760 Love it. Let's love it. 92 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,800 Dear Ekia, I need your opinion. I met a girl one day and we 93 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,440 became friends. First I don't develop any 94 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,560 feelings for her but now I have feelings for her. 95 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,680 When I tell her she says we can't date but I'm her hats 96 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:13,400 Please what should I do? So on love it on on develop that 97 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,360 feelings for her. One of the most. 98 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,440 Difficult things that happens in life is when you have feelings 99 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,160 for somebody and the person doesn't feel the same way. 100 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:25,280 For you, if you don't take care, you will get used because what 101 00:05:25,280 --> 00:05:26,400 happens? Is this? 102 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,560 The person has told you. Clearly what they wants. 103 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:33,360 But the delusional you thinks that when you stay and linger 104 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,640 around and be nice to hear she will like you back. 105 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,440 But what will happen is that you stay, you linger around. 106 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,920 Somebody heard say you will be the rebound after being the 107 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:44,920 rebound. Maybe she will meet someone 108 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:46,000 else. Then you clear up. 109 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,360 You become the friend. So you become that friend that 110 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,880 she falls on all the time. It's me. 111 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,680 She has settled for you. And if you remember in the very 112 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:56,360 first story, I said do not settle for anyone guys. 113 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,480 I'm saying the very first story because if you watch me on 114 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,560 YouTube, you will know that the story is netted twice a days. 115 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,920 I just snippets that I put on TikTok. 116 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:07,520 So go to my YouTube which is the POV podcast and then watch the 117 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,240 full episode. Like 5 stories in one video. 118 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,120 So go. And I show your opinion. 119 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,800 People know what you think about their stories. 120 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,680 Let's. Love it. 121 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,160 Let's love it dear. Keep me anonymous. 122 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:23,720 I met this girl in my hood and was being harassed by some boys. 123 00:06:24,280 --> 00:06:27,640 Those boys were my friends so I went to settle scores and they 124 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:29,720 let her go. Later in the day I met the girl 125 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,360 and apologize for what my friends did. 126 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,560 So in appreciation we exchanged contact. 127 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,480 One month down the line I travelled to Akra to do some 128 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,160 stuff. So this girl was calling and 129 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,280 texting me letting me know she was missing me. 130 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:45,840 Two weeks later I came back to Kumasi and we began seeing each 131 00:06:45,840 --> 00:06:48,120 other. So one faithful evening she 132 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,320 called and confessed her feelings for me and since I had 133 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,360 no one I accepted. But I told her my ex girl 134 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,680 cheated on me so if she thinks she would do same then she 135 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,840 should let me be. But she said she won't cheat. 136 00:07:00,840 --> 00:07:05,160 Three months down she started cheating I saw and ignored. 137 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,520 She continued for extra two months making it five months but 138 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,680 I never gave up on her. I finally gathered courage to 139 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,920 show her all the evidence I have that she's cheating on me and 140 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:19,720 also called for a breakup. She's begging for me forever and 141 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,600 I also love her. What should I do? 142 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:25,240 If cheating is a do breakup for you, I think you you can walk 143 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,360 away. But someone see recently I was 144 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:32,400 having a conversation with someone very special and all he 145 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:35,800 kept saying is in this generation we keep doing. 146 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,160 A person is a cheat, Boo. A business is a cheat Boo. 147 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:39,280 A business is a cheat. Boo. 148 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:43,000 But what is the guarantee that the next person you're going to 149 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:47,120 meet will not cheat on you so. If. 150 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:52,240 Only if the person is remorseful, OK. 151 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:56,120 Then. You guys can talk about it, find 152 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,200 reasons as to why the person cheated. 153 00:07:58,440 --> 00:07:59,920 Is there something you didn't do? 154 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,760 See, mind you, A. Few weeks back something like 155 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,280 this will blow up. Like what do you mean by what 156 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:07,760 did I do for the person to? Cheat on me. 157 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,640 Not this zoom whatsoever. You don't have any reason to. 158 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:14,760 Cheat on me, but think about it this way, you're just asking 159 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,800 questions for your relationship to be better. 160 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:21,560 So if because I feel like the very first one you broke up, you 161 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,440 did not. Even give to thinking you broke 162 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:24,960 up. You come in here means that 163 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,000 you've been thinking about it whether breaking up is the right 164 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,760 thing to do or not. Or you feel like you know, what 165 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:32,200 if I break? Up What's the guarantee that the 166 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:33,480 next person will not cheat on me? 167 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,600 So why not have a conversation with her? 168 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:41,360 Talk to her, see where her mind is and what's happened and I'm 169 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,039 not. Saying that, what happened? 170 00:08:43,039 --> 00:08:45,160 In an is an excuse for what she did. 171 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,120 But maybe that will give you room for. 172 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:51,960 Forgiveness, OK yeah and then when you forgive you can make a 173 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,920 decision whether that's a still be with her or walk away 174 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:58,120 because. That's. 175 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,960 Solely your your decision. I can't make that decision for 176 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,720 you because as I tell you, cheating is a do breaker for me. 177 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:08,360 But then based off of that conversation, I'm thinking 178 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,160 through things. But then one thing. 179 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:15,600 I also know is this when when? People cheat. 180 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,240 They know their reasons for cheating. 181 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,640 When the person is not remorseful and then you forgive, 182 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,920 they will do it again. That's why. 183 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,920 People say that cheating. Spouses don't stop. 184 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:27,320 They cheated, cheated, cheated. So we don't forgive people for 185 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,800 cheating. But then individual cases and 186 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,240 individual responses. That's all I'm going to say. 187 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,600 All right, That's love it. That's love it. 188 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,400 So I've been dating this lady for. 189 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,560 Three years now. Just this month she told me she 190 00:09:41,560 --> 00:09:45,080 don't love me and can't continue dating me after three years old 191 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,000 when I met her. She was having. 192 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:51,520 A shop she was managing so the first year of our relationship I 193 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:55,400 helped her open a second one. Hey Kian, I spend a whole 2 194 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,480 years for trying to make. She a stable. 195 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:02,440 Woman thinking if she's stable I can only focus on myself as 196 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,240 well. I spent every shit. 197 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,920 I make on her. Just last year she asked for 198 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,640 space because she wanted to set up another shop. 199 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:13,080 I was shocked because the first one we made things together but 200 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,680 because of how I love and respect it I I give her space 201 00:10:16,680 --> 00:10:19,720 for six months. No sex, no visits only calls. 202 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,920 Now she's done with the shop. Now she have started going on 203 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:28,960 weekend trips with other men. The sad part is I gave her a 204 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:36,160 promise ring and she took it. Now she's saying she don't feel 205 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:43,880 love for me so let's part ways. I'm so sorry darling. 206 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,480 There's nothing I can say to defend what she has done and 207 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:54,640 there's nothing I don't I I feel like I can say to make you feel 208 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,800 any different. But one thing I can. 209 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,400 Tell you for sure is that sometimes God? 210 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,760 Puts. Certain things in front of us to 211 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:07,320 teach us a lesson, and when we learn that lesson and we move 212 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:11,240 forward, things get better, OK? The Lord will. 213 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,360 Prepare a table in front you in the presence of your enemy, say 214 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,200 Kalush. And at the end of the day, that 215 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:18,640 same. Girl will come back. 216 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:20,840 And tell you bullshit about how she's sorry. 217 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,600 For what she did and. You know, at that time, that's 218 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,520 where you will. Recite what I'm. 219 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,320 Saying is say God has prepared. The table before me in the 220 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,200 presence of my enemies. But what I will? 221 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:36,160 Not do is go back to that enemy. OK, you will be fine. 222 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,360 You will definitely be fine. Listen. 223 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,160 And hear me things. Happen for a reason. 224 00:11:43,680 --> 00:11:47,040 In a moment or in the time, we would think that this God is a. 225 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,720 Wicked God. But know this the God. 226 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,560 That we have in our lives. Hope you have. 227 00:11:51,560 --> 00:11:52,920 God in your life. Because if you have. 228 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,240 God in your life. The God you are saving. 229 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:59,640 Is not a wicked God. He does things for a reason, so 230 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,600 learn your lessons and go. God will put a better. 231 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,840 Person in front of you. OK, don't. 232 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:12,760 Worry you'll be fine. Yeah. 233 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,800 I saw your video about. Allergies please, please. 234 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:17,920 How are you? Able to get your money back? 235 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:21,360 I'm also. Caught in a fiasco, rented in a 236 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,680 room and had only spent one week before travelling. 237 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,320 I spent. Approximately a month out of 238 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,120 town only to return to someone else in my room. 239 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:34,880 I confronted him and he told me I complained about the room not 240 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,560 being well ventilated so he would send me to another room 241 00:12:38,560 --> 00:12:40,120 and miss the inconvenience and all. 242 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,600 I was a bit too tight and not in the right financial state. 243 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,680 Go through the hustle. Of getting a place. 244 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,480 After. Two days of being in the new 245 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,040 room, a gentleman walks in saying that is room too. 246 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:56,840 I got so confused, confronted allergy on it and you blew me 247 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,880 off and. Because I had to. 248 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,160 Go to work. I just dipped without 249 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,200 privileging him with the back and forth. 250 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,680 It's been 2 weeks now. He doesn't pick my calls. 251 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:09,280 I tried reaching rent control and all but my effort haven't 252 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,360 yielded anything positive and later got a dude in the 253 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,200 neighborhood telling me that's what he does and sometimes 254 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,400 brings tags from the hoods to beat some tenants. 255 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:22,160 I remember the day you left vividly in a white truck but you 256 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,560 were a bit feisty for me to approach. 257 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,800 How were you able to get your money back? 258 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:28,840 You saw, you know I track on Pop. 259 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,400 See. Let me tell you something 260 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:33,680 before. I get into this. 261 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:40,160 After I posted that logic. Video Yeah, the agent Victor 262 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:41,200 kept. Calling me do. 263 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:45,600 You know what? He did I did not do anything and 264 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,440 I'm sorry meaning and I told you Sir, you are not complicit. 265 00:13:48,680 --> 00:13:51,520 You know what this man does and then you keep taking people a 266 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,800 day whilst I was there you brought 3A bit two different 267 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,680 people to check the place out knowing very well what this man 268 00:13:57,680 --> 00:13:59,200 does. And so don't tell me to take the 269 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,000 video down. I am not taking it down. 270 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:04,520 Social media keep blasting allergy is the 4th star. 271 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,800 This money I will be like, we'll perform the gifts. 272 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:08,640 Thing. You know why? 273 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,680 Because see another one this. Is not a Concorde. 274 00:14:12,680 --> 00:14:15,640 Story. This is someone telling us what 275 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:17,920 this man has done. What's all this? 276 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:23,320 You rent some a place to somebody and someone walks in 277 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,320 that this is my house. This is where I've paid for How? 278 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:32,960 Wait, John de Mello, you are the MP for Ayawasu W Alaji is an 279 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,840 Ayawasu W. When you were about to be MP, 280 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,880 your campaign, you kept talking about solving rent issues, 281 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,000 dealing with rent issues maybe. I was hoping they will put you, 282 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:45,160 you know, in housing, but they put you in deputy and Greek 283 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,120 minister. But please don't let go this 284 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,440 housing situation because there's a man in your 285 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,440 constituency duping people with his house. 286 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,840 It's a yellow house. He has multiple houses, yellow 287 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,680 building. He owns pride of his school in 288 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:01,880 Jobel, Jolu. His own house that he is living 289 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,880 in is the White House there in Jolu behind Perfect Touch Day. 290 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,800 Go ahead. Find this man, John Demelu. 291 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,720 Find this man. He is doping people. 292 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:18,280 Alaji is a thief, my dear. Yeah, a few. 293 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,680 Things that I did. I kept calling him, calling and 294 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,320 calling and calling every single day. 295 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,640 He was not sleeping, I was calling him. 296 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,440 At some point he blocked me that I couldn't get to him. 297 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:32,840 I went to his house, but I I didn't break any laws. 298 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,360 I went to his house, stood obviously to his house, which 299 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,840 was not part of his property. When he saw me, he started 300 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,480 closing his doors and all that. And the fact that he also knew 301 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,200 that I was in the media space also counted for me. 302 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,800 I think so. I also went to rent control 303 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,040 myself. I worked day. 304 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:52,240 And third day and. For some reason the last time I 305 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:56,000 was doing the video I said this that it may be true or not, but 306 00:15:56,120 --> 00:16:00,200 maybe people are rent control knew what I did and they knew 307 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:01,560 that if they. Don't. 308 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:05,320 If they try, their matter will end up here. 309 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:09,800 So I was taking care. Of very well. 310 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,720 My statements was taking they gave me the hearing dates, but 311 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,040 he gave me the money. Before the hearing dates and I 312 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:18,440 called the lady that took care of me and I told her that the 313 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:25,400 man has given me the money. I I, I I don't know what was 314 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,680 special about me, but I know that there's one thing that I 315 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:29,880 also do. I also pray. 316 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:33,440 So if you can't cut those on his head, there's no gold that is 317 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,720 better than the gold yourself. What are you talking about? 318 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,200 Tell me what you're saying. This man is running me up. 319 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:46,720 He's a thief. Jesu Jesu, Jesu, Jesu Jesu. 320 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:53,160 I am sorry that I've told you the things I did. 321 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,760 Hopefully this. Cry will reach John Tamelu. 322 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,600 Hopefully this cry will reach John Tamel. 323 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:04,400 Honorable. Honorable. 324 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:06,560 If I could go on my niece, I will. 325 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,520 People need your help, people need your help. 326 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:14,400 That man is duping people, stealing from people in the name 327 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:18,480 of I am a landlord. Please please a. 328 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:22,079 Joke, please, please and please again. 329 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:25,520 This is not the first story. I will see about Alhaji. 330 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,440 Because I have posted about it. If you come into the comments 331 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,440 section of the very first video I posted about him, you will 332 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:45,600 know that this man is a thief. Let me do the last story for 333 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:48,600 this episode and we'll go because I've been rallied up. 334 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:52,560 I'm sad that somebody like that is walking free. 335 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:56,960 Walking free. You see that affliction that. 336 00:17:56,960 --> 00:18:01,680 Came on me, called Alaji. It is my prayer that nobody, 337 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:03,640 nobody. Because it's an affliction. 338 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:08,400 He's an affliction that nobody, nobody, nobody. 339 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:12,760 Who go through it? That's a double zinconet. 340 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,400 Him. I'm not. 341 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,360 Saying so obinec. Like somebody went through it or 342 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:19,240 I. Went through it let's. 343 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:29,480 Love it, let's love it. Dear Ekia, I've really messed. 344 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:30,840 Up big. Time I can't. 345 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:33,680 Hold my tears. I'm devastated the thickest. 346 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:36,280 I've cheated on my woman and I get caught. 347 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:39,120 Now she wants to leave me. We already started our. 348 00:18:39,120 --> 00:18:40,920 Marriage plan. This is what happened. 349 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:45,240 I've been with this. Lady for the past seven years 350 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,200 now throughout her schooling and now in fashion school. 351 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:51,880 Because of the nature of her work, she normally sleep and the 352 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:55,160 moment she gets home and I also need someone to talk to. 353 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:59,000 I've complained severally but she always assures me that 354 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,880 things will get better soon. I should be more patients with 355 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:05,360 her. I had this one girl in my DM 356 00:19:05,360 --> 00:19:08,680 that I've been chatting with. She saw the girl's picture on my 357 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:11,960 phone lock screen and asked me about it and I told her she's 358 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:13,320 just a friend. Truly too. 359 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,880 We were just friends as at them. Later on we started dating. 360 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,120 Now things are getting better between my lady and I and she 361 00:19:20,120 --> 00:19:22,720 was planning on ending things with and I was planning on 362 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,440 ending things with the other girl. 363 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:28,080 I wanted to get her something before ending it with her 364 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,520 because I made it known to hear that I'm having a woman. 365 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,920 The other lady gave me her certificate to keep for. 366 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,880 Her I. Placed it where the TV is. 367 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:40,520 My mom visited without telling me and she came to see the girl 368 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:44,600 certificate from there and I told her everything. 369 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:49,440 Now she wants to leave. Sorry, my dear, sorry. 370 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,800 I hope the. Men will keep the same energy in 371 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,800 a comment section when a woman cheats. 372 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:07,800 You see? Earlier I said depending on the 373 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:12,360 situation, you can choose to forgive your partner or not say. 374 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,360 You need to see right now you are at the message. 375 00:20:14,360 --> 00:20:19,920 Of your woman. You are always getting married. 376 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:29,920 Jesus, the devil can lie. This is somebody that. 377 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:33,360 Assures you baby, it's going to be fine, it's just a little 378 00:20:33,360 --> 00:20:36,640 while. And truly, truly, it's getting. 379 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,760 Better you could. Attempt and that is right there. 380 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,240 Now, what do you mean by I want to get a thing, something? 381 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:44,680 We are human beings, so we can't. 382 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:50,800 Judge much, but you are the message of your woman and you 383 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,840 just need to pray to go to touch a heart. 384 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:56,720 But first pray for forgiveness and pray to go to touch a heart 385 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,240 to forgive you. Maybe for penny be take an 386 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,440 elderly person go to here and you know, beg a when don't go in 387 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:07,280 Sapai don't go empty handed. Buy a gift, buy something to go 388 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,200 and beg A and apologize for your behaviour. 389 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:17,240 OK, this is crazy, this is crazy, this is crazy, this is 390 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:22,680 crazy. Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness. 391 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,720 When the devil wants to use your way, When the devil wants to use 392 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:34,960 you, eh, they find grace, waste and means they they find ways he 393 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:36,360 needs. When the devil knows. 394 00:21:36,360 --> 00:21:41,760 To use you. Guys, this episode has. 395 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,560 Been an emotional one. And to the people that come into 396 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:48,000 my comment section and be like, you take things too personal, 397 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,320 you think, what do you think? This is a joke. 398 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,400 This is people's lives. This is real life. 399 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:53,840 So I should joke? Should I play with it? 400 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,080 Listen, I did not just wake up to do this. 401 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,120 I did not just wake up to. Do the POVI did not wake up to 402 00:22:01,120 --> 00:22:02,040 do it. It's a. 403 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:06,840 Calling. It's a calling because this 404 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,640 helps people. So I take it's personal because 405 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:14,240 we are trying to help people. Now I'm doing this for jokes, or 406 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:15,840 for vice, or for followers and numbers. 407 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:16,720 Who? We are. 408 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:20,960 Trying to be helpful to people. Just last week so-called me. 409 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,360 So I sometimes talk to people, to people like we want to talk 410 00:22:23,360 --> 00:22:25,200 to you. We don't want to put you on 411 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:26,440 video. Don't put our story here. 412 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:28,080 We just want to. Talk to you and then I give. 413 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,560 Them the number they can call and then the guy called me and 414 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,520 was telling me about how this girl is doing that and dad, dad, 415 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,840 dad, dad and then we had a full conversation. 416 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,040 Tell me why 2. Days ago he just gave me. 417 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:41,680 Updates. That girl. 418 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,400 What you said. And the conversation we had has 419 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,640 helped me. So tell me why I won't be 420 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,680 personal when it is saving lives. 421 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,360 Tell me why I won't be personal. This is a calling guys. 422 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,000 It's not a joke. Thank you for watching the 423 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:58,360 episode. I'm. 424 00:22:58,360 --> 00:22:59,920 Appreciating that you come here to help. 425 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:01,600 With the calling because it is a calling. 426 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,720 Share your opinion in the comments section. 427 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:04,840 Let's. Continue to help people. 428 00:23:05,120 --> 00:23:08,600 Because you see this life, things happen and people need 429 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,480 the help. And so let's be that help to 430 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,720 those people, because you don't know, maybe tomorrow you will 431 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,440 need it and someone some way. Will be the one to give to you. 432 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,880 So continue to share it. Let people, let people see the 433 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,080 YouTube. Let's grow, let's let's it grow. 434 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,000 Let's let it grow. Let's let's, let's shake, let's 435 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,520 shake. Thank you and. 436 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,880 I'll see you in the next episode if you want to Share your story. 437 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,000 Come to my take told. DM Last week I said or last 438 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,560 episode I said that. Someone is building a website 439 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:40,280 and it's still in progress. Very soon it will be ready and 440 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:42,320 that is what we're going to be sending our stories and I won't 441 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,400 take their DMS again. But for now, let's. 442 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,000 Do it in a TikTok DM. Just TikTok DM, nowhere else. 443 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,480 All right, thank you for watching. 444 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,360 I'll see you in the next episode, but until then, bye.