Do I dare? To say your boyfriend doesn't
respect you even. His response?
To how? Are you?
How are you and your girl? Hope you guys are getting along
well. I beg you this one day I the.
Egg. Jump on this side.
What do you mean by what did I
do for the person? To cheat on me.
Not visit whatsoever. You don't have any.
Reason to. Cheat on me, Lord will prepare
a. Table in front you in the
presence of your enemy, say Kalush.
And say you need to see right now you are.
The messes of your woman. You are always.
Getting married, Jesus. The devil can.
Lie. When you see me like this, you
know that I automatically have an assignment.
Now what's my assignment is to read some confessions, share
some dilemmas, give you something to think about.
Share your opinion in the comments section while I share
mine right here. My name is Nanika and do and
this is the POV podcast. Let's get straight into our
mantra. If you're home and this is your
first time, we have a mantra and this is how it goes.
If they posted it on social media.
If they posted it on social. Media.
If they posted. It on social media, then they
made it. Our.
Business and since they made it our business, we go make it our
business. This basically says that they've
sent it to us and so we're going to tell them the truth and
nothing but the truth. Whilst doing that, we are not
going to be disrespectful, we are not going to insult you or
anything, but we're going to be truthful where we need.
To be hard on you. Know that we will be hard on
you. All right?
OK, so let's get into the very first story of the episode.
Let's love it. Let's love it.
Dear Ikhya, I'm a girl of 21 years and my boyfriend and I
have been dating for two years now.
Everything is good and cool between us but I have trust
issues because he's still in contact with his ex which he
said she was flirting and their messages are not as normal as
you may think. In one of their chats that was
last year August, he was pleading with her if they could
come back together. He said he promised to marry her
and he meant it. I asked him a random question
asking if he had made a promise to an ex and and they are no
more will he still fulfill the promise he made and he said no.
There was 1 chat that the girl asked how was I doing and hope
we are getting along well. His reply was please Habeku
right now I'm really confused. All his friends and family know
we are together. He always says he ignored
everyone for me but he's making me doubt him.
We promise not to have a bestie but he has one.
Please advise me I'm in a dilemma and I don't know what to
do. My guy is 24 and I am 21 and
right now as I'm speaking they are planning on meeting up when
the ex is back from her trip and also planning meet ups to with a
girl. He claims they are just friends,
which he knows they like him. OK, so he's planning trips with
girls and he claims that they're just friends, but he knows that
those girls like him. First of all, let's clarify
something. We don't advise.
We we give our opinion here. OK?
Yeah. Now let's get into your
boyfriend's matter. Do I dare?
To say your boyfriend doesn't respect you.
Do I dare to say that? I think.
He doesn't respect you. Even his response to how are
you? How are you and your?
Girl, hope you guys are getting along well I beg you.
This one they add. Egg jump on this.
Side jump on this side. My dear you.
Better start running because that one maybe he's just you
need to pass time or he settled for you.
You know, there are some people that when they can't get the
specific type of woman or man, they.
Want they settle for? A certain type, you know.
Do you get me? Yeah.
No, don't. Allow somebody to settle for
you. They don't.
Treat you well when they they settle for you.
OK, yeah, that's disrespectful to even be planning trips with
people that you know, like you when you have a relationship.
Planning trips or planning? Dates and meets up with your.
Ex. When you have in your trust.
Issues are valid. But don't allow.
Them to become paranoia. So you better start walking
away. Ha, let's.
Love it. Let's love it.
Dear Ekia, I need your opinion. I met a girl one day and we
became friends. First I don't develop any
feelings for her but now I have feelings for her.
When I tell her she says we can't date but I'm her hats
Please what should I do? So on love it on on develop that
feelings for her. One of the most.
Difficult things that happens in life is when you have feelings
for somebody and the person doesn't feel the same way.
For you, if you don't take care, you will get used because what
happens? Is this?
The person has told you. Clearly what they wants.
But the delusional you thinks that when you stay and linger
around and be nice to hear she will like you back.
But what will happen is that you stay, you linger around.
Somebody heard say you will be the rebound after being the
rebound. Maybe she will meet someone
else. Then you clear up.
You become the friend. So you become that friend that
she falls on all the time. It's me.
She has settled for you. And if you remember in the very
first story, I said do not settle for anyone guys.
I'm saying the very first story because if you watch me on
YouTube, you will know that the story is netted twice a days.
I just snippets that I put on TikTok.
So go to my YouTube which is the POV podcast and then watch the
full episode. Like 5 stories in one video.
So go. And I show your opinion.
People know what you think about their stories.
Let's. Love it.
Let's love it dear. Keep me anonymous.
I met this girl in my hood and was being harassed by some boys.
Those boys were my friends so I went to settle scores and they
let her go. Later in the day I met the girl
and apologize for what my friends did.
So in appreciation we exchanged contact.
One month down the line I travelled to Akra to do some
stuff. So this girl was calling and
texting me letting me know she was missing me.
Two weeks later I came back to Kumasi and we began seeing each
other. So one faithful evening she
called and confessed her feelings for me and since I had
no one I accepted. But I told her my ex girl
cheated on me so if she thinks she would do same then she
should let me be. But she said she won't cheat.
Three months down she started cheating I saw and ignored.
She continued for extra two months making it five months but
I never gave up on her. I finally gathered courage to
show her all the evidence I have that she's cheating on me and
also called for a breakup. She's begging for me forever and
I also love her. What should I do?
If cheating is a do breakup for you, I think you you can walk
away. But someone see recently I was
having a conversation with someone very special and all he
kept saying is in this generation we keep doing.
A person is a cheat, Boo. A business is a cheat Boo.
A business is a cheat. Boo.
But what is the guarantee that the next person you're going to
meet will not cheat on you so. If.
Only if the person is remorseful, OK.
Then. You guys can talk about it, find
reasons as to why the person cheated.
Is there something you didn't do?
See, mind you, A. Few weeks back something like
this will blow up. Like what do you mean by what
did I do for the person to? Cheat on me.
Not this zoom whatsoever. You don't have any reason to.
Cheat on me, but think about it this way, you're just asking
questions for your relationship to be better.
So if because I feel like the very first one you broke up, you
did not. Even give to thinking you broke
up. You come in here means that
you've been thinking about it whether breaking up is the right
thing to do or not. Or you feel like you know, what
if I break? Up What's the guarantee that the
next person will not cheat on me?
So why not have a conversation with her?
Talk to her, see where her mind is and what's happened and I'm
not. Saying that, what happened?
In an is an excuse for what she did.
But maybe that will give you room for.
Forgiveness, OK yeah and then when you forgive you can make a
decision whether that's a still be with her or walk away
because. That's.
Solely your your decision. I can't make that decision for
you because as I tell you, cheating is a do breaker for me.
But then based off of that conversation, I'm thinking
through things. But then one thing.
I also know is this when when? People cheat.
They know their reasons for cheating.
When the person is not remorseful and then you forgive,
they will do it again. That's why.
People say that cheating. Spouses don't stop.
They cheated, cheated, cheated. So we don't forgive people for
cheating. But then individual cases and
individual responses. That's all I'm going to say.
All right, That's love it. That's love it.
So I've been dating this lady for.
Three years now. Just this month she told me she
don't love me and can't continue dating me after three years old
when I met her. She was having.
A shop she was managing so the first year of our relationship I
helped her open a second one. Hey Kian, I spend a whole 2
years for trying to make. She a stable.
Woman thinking if she's stable I can only focus on myself as
well. I spent every shit.
I make on her. Just last year she asked for
space because she wanted to set up another shop.
I was shocked because the first one we made things together but
because of how I love and respect it I I give her space
for six months. No sex, no visits only calls.
Now she's done with the shop. Now she have started going on
weekend trips with other men. The sad part is I gave her a
promise ring and she took it. Now she's saying she don't feel
love for me so let's part ways. I'm so sorry darling.
There's nothing I can say to defend what she has done and
there's nothing I don't I I feel like I can say to make you feel
any different. But one thing I can.
Tell you for sure is that sometimes God?
Puts. Certain things in front of us to
teach us a lesson, and when we learn that lesson and we move
forward, things get better, OK? The Lord will.
Prepare a table in front you in the presence of your enemy, say
Kalush. And at the end of the day, that
same. Girl will come back.
And tell you bullshit about how she's sorry.
For what she did and. You know, at that time, that's
where you will. Recite what I'm.
Saying is say God has prepared. The table before me in the
presence of my enemies. But what I will?
Not do is go back to that enemy. OK, you will be fine.
You will definitely be fine. Listen.
And hear me things. Happen for a reason.
In a moment or in the time, we would think that this God is a.
Wicked God. But know this the God.
That we have in our lives. Hope you have.
God in your life. Because if you have.
God in your life. The God you are saving.
Is not a wicked God. He does things for a reason, so
learn your lessons and go. God will put a better.
Person in front of you. OK, don't.
Worry you'll be fine. Yeah.
I saw your video about. Allergies please, please.
How are you? Able to get your money back?
I'm also. Caught in a fiasco, rented in a
room and had only spent one week before travelling.
I spent. Approximately a month out of
town only to return to someone else in my room.
I confronted him and he told me I complained about the room not
being well ventilated so he would send me to another room
and miss the inconvenience and all.
I was a bit too tight and not in the right financial state.
Go through the hustle. Of getting a place.
After. Two days of being in the new
room, a gentleman walks in saying that is room too.
I got so confused, confronted allergy on it and you blew me
off and. Because I had to.
Go to work. I just dipped without
privileging him with the back and forth.
It's been 2 weeks now. He doesn't pick my calls.
I tried reaching rent control and all but my effort haven't
yielded anything positive and later got a dude in the
neighborhood telling me that's what he does and sometimes
brings tags from the hoods to beat some tenants.
I remember the day you left vividly in a white truck but you
were a bit feisty for me to approach.
How were you able to get your money back?
You saw, you know I track on Pop.
See. Let me tell you something
before. I get into this.
After I posted that logic. Video Yeah, the agent Victor
kept. Calling me do.
You know what? He did I did not do anything and
I'm sorry meaning and I told you Sir, you are not complicit.
You know what this man does and then you keep taking people a
day whilst I was there you brought 3A bit two different
people to check the place out knowing very well what this man
does. And so don't tell me to take the
video down. I am not taking it down.
Social media keep blasting allergy is the 4th star.
This money I will be like, we'll perform the gifts.
Thing. You know why?
Because see another one this. Is not a Concorde.
Story. This is someone telling us what
this man has done. What's all this?
You rent some a place to somebody and someone walks in
that this is my house. This is where I've paid for How?
Wait, John de Mello, you are the MP for Ayawasu W Alaji is an
Ayawasu W. When you were about to be MP,
your campaign, you kept talking about solving rent issues,
dealing with rent issues maybe. I was hoping they will put you,
you know, in housing, but they put you in deputy and Greek
minister. But please don't let go this
housing situation because there's a man in your
constituency duping people with his house.
It's a yellow house. He has multiple houses, yellow
building. He owns pride of his school in
Jobel, Jolu. His own house that he is living
in is the White House there in Jolu behind Perfect Touch Day.
Go ahead. Find this man, John Demelu.
Find this man. He is doping people.
Alaji is a thief, my dear. Yeah, a few.
Things that I did. I kept calling him, calling and
calling and calling every single day.
He was not sleeping, I was calling him.
At some point he blocked me that I couldn't get to him.
I went to his house, but I I didn't break any laws.
I went to his house, stood obviously to his house, which
was not part of his property. When he saw me, he started
closing his doors and all that. And the fact that he also knew
that I was in the media space also counted for me.
I think so. I also went to rent control
myself. I worked day.
And third day and. For some reason the last time I
was doing the video I said this that it may be true or not, but
maybe people are rent control knew what I did and they knew
that if they. Don't.
If they try, their matter will end up here.
So I was taking care. Of very well.
My statements was taking they gave me the hearing dates, but
he gave me the money. Before the hearing dates and I
called the lady that took care of me and I told her that the
man has given me the money. I I, I I don't know what was
special about me, but I know that there's one thing that I
also do. I also pray.
So if you can't cut those on his head, there's no gold that is
better than the gold yourself. What are you talking about?
Tell me what you're saying. This man is running me up.
He's a thief. Jesu Jesu, Jesu, Jesu Jesu.
I am sorry that I've told you the things I did.
Hopefully this. Cry will reach John Tamelu.
Hopefully this cry will reach John Tamel.
Honorable. Honorable.
If I could go on my niece, I will.
People need your help, people need your help.
That man is duping people, stealing from people in the name
of I am a landlord. Please please a.
Joke, please, please and please again.
This is not the first story. I will see about Alhaji.
Because I have posted about it. If you come into the comments
section of the very first video I posted about him, you will
know that this man is a thief. Let me do the last story for
this episode and we'll go because I've been rallied up.
I'm sad that somebody like that is walking free.
Walking free. You see that affliction that.
Came on me, called Alaji. It is my prayer that nobody,
nobody. Because it's an affliction.
He's an affliction that nobody, nobody, nobody.
Who go through it? That's a double zinconet.
Him. I'm not.
Saying so obinec. Like somebody went through it or
I. Went through it let's.
Love it, let's love it. Dear Ekia, I've really messed.
Up big. Time I can't.
Hold my tears. I'm devastated the thickest.
I've cheated on my woman and I get caught.
Now she wants to leave me. We already started our.
Marriage plan. This is what happened.
I've been with this. Lady for the past seven years
now throughout her schooling and now in fashion school.
Because of the nature of her work, she normally sleep and the
moment she gets home and I also need someone to talk to.
I've complained severally but she always assures me that
things will get better soon. I should be more patients with
her. I had this one girl in my DM
that I've been chatting with. She saw the girl's picture on my
phone lock screen and asked me about it and I told her she's
just a friend. Truly too.
We were just friends as at them. Later on we started dating.
Now things are getting better between my lady and I and she
was planning on ending things with and I was planning on
ending things with the other girl.
I wanted to get her something before ending it with her
because I made it known to hear that I'm having a woman.
The other lady gave me her certificate to keep for.
Her I. Placed it where the TV is.
My mom visited without telling me and she came to see the girl
certificate from there and I told her everything.
Now she wants to leave. Sorry, my dear, sorry.
I hope the. Men will keep the same energy in
a comment section when a woman cheats.
You see? Earlier I said depending on the
situation, you can choose to forgive your partner or not say.
You need to see right now you are at the message.
Of your woman. You are always getting married.
Jesus, the devil can lie. This is somebody that.
Assures you baby, it's going to be fine, it's just a little
while. And truly, truly, it's getting.
Better you could. Attempt and that is right there.
Now, what do you mean by I want to get a thing, something?
We are human beings, so we can't.
Judge much, but you are the message of your woman and you
just need to pray to go to touch a heart.
But first pray for forgiveness and pray to go to touch a heart
to forgive you. Maybe for penny be take an
elderly person go to here and you know, beg a when don't go in
Sapai don't go empty handed. Buy a gift, buy something to go
and beg A and apologize for your behaviour.
OK, this is crazy, this is crazy, this is crazy, this is
crazy. Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness.
When the devil wants to use your way, When the devil wants to use
you, eh, they find grace, waste and means they they find ways he
needs. When the devil knows.
To use you. Guys, this episode has.
Been an emotional one. And to the people that come into
my comment section and be like, you take things too personal,
you think, what do you think? This is a joke.
This is people's lives. This is real life.
So I should joke? Should I play with it?
Listen, I did not just wake up to do this.
I did not just wake up to. Do the POVI did not wake up to
do it. It's a.
Calling. It's a calling because this
helps people. So I take it's personal because
we are trying to help people. Now I'm doing this for jokes, or
for vice, or for followers and numbers.
Who? We are.
Trying to be helpful to people. Just last week so-called me.
So I sometimes talk to people, to people like we want to talk
to you. We don't want to put you on
video. Don't put our story here.
We just want to. Talk to you and then I give.
Them the number they can call and then the guy called me and
was telling me about how this girl is doing that and dad, dad,
dad, dad and then we had a full conversation.
Tell me why 2. Days ago he just gave me.
Updates. That girl.
What you said. And the conversation we had has
helped me. So tell me why I won't be
personal when it is saving lives.
Tell me why I won't be personal. This is a calling guys.
It's not a joke. Thank you for watching the
episode. I'm.
Appreciating that you come here to help.
With the calling because it is a calling.
Share your opinion in the comments section.
Let's. Continue to help people.
Because you see this life, things happen and people need
the help. And so let's be that help to
those people, because you don't know, maybe tomorrow you will
need it and someone some way. Will be the one to give to you.
So continue to share it. Let people, let people see the
YouTube. Let's grow, let's let's it grow.
Let's let it grow. Let's let's, let's shake, let's
shake. Thank you and.
I'll see you in the next episode if you want to Share your story.
Come to my take told. DM Last week I said or last
episode I said that. Someone is building a website
and it's still in progress. Very soon it will be ready and
that is what we're going to be sending our stories and I won't
take their DMS again. But for now, let's.
Do it in a TikTok DM. Just TikTok DM, nowhere else.
All right, thank you for watching.
I'll see you in the next episode, but until then, bye.