1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,280 So you see, I'm saying this out of fear. 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:07,680 Are you going to marry him because you're. 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,440 Going to feel bad. Like. 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,760 Because you feel bad, you're going to marry him. 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:20,200 Is that is that am I dreaming You are 2014 years you are 6 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:24,520 parents for a 40 year old man with. 7 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:29,280 Children, if you're Aruba and I'm getting it right, 8 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,920 another. Episode another yapping I guess. 9 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:50,280 This is the PV podcast. Slash DEA where in the first 10 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,840 segment I talked to you about some things that I don't know 11 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,480 social media. It could be a thread, it could 12 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,320 be trending stories. Whatever it is, we talk about 13 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:02,840 it, we move through it and then we head to DAK away viewers 14 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,600 audience sending their stories and then I share my opinion on 15 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,240 it. So you can also share yours in 16 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,160 the comments section. Let's help them solve these 17 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,440 problems because you know they say a problem shared is a 18 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,160 problem. Half solved so. 19 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:18,880 Yeah, that's what we're doing here. 20 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,400 Let's get. Straight into what we need to 21 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,240 yap about this. This time in this. 22 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:29,160 Episode OK so I found this on X where 21 year old. 23 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,160 Former flight attendant has been arrested. 24 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:36,760 After. Police found. 3.3. $1,000,000 25 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,160 trafficking operation that involved selling a new drug that 26 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,640 uses human bone as an ingredient. 27 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,480 I mean, I'm yapping, but do you give? 28 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,600 Me. Like a 21 year old former flight 29 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:52,160 attendant was arrested by police after they found. 30 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:56,600 A $3.3 million trafficking operation. 31 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,640 That. Involved a new. 32 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:02,560 Drug A new type of illicit drug that is, you know, one of the 33 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,880 ingredients they used to make that drug is the human bone. 34 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:11,400 What do they even call it? Kush Yeah, that's crazy, right? 35 00:02:11,640 --> 00:02:14,440 That's crazy. And then another. 36 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:18,400 Thing to going on is. That Patapa went to. 37 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,760 Perform. At Caucasus mother's funeral. 38 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,440 In Swedro in Dana Patapa is a gammy and. 39 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,720 You know it was the one. Time hits, you know, musician, 40 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,120 that kind of thing, right? And then Sakura did erupt on on. 41 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:44,440 Him seeing something like this and then. 42 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,960 Now people are saying. That yeah, Sacordio. 43 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:51,040 Calledits sacorda is a prophet Sacordio calledits he would 44 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:52,720 turn. Into a funeral. 45 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,640 Like performing. Artists, whatever it is, I. 46 00:02:56,640 --> 00:02:59,680 Found that out. However, you split this, I don't 47 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,880 know, but it traded on social media. 48 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,560 And another thing that also trended was Ghanaian 49 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:12,080 entrepreneur Kwame, despite opening up his automobile 50 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:16,080 museum, so basically all his antique cars, all the cars that 51 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,600 he's been able to collect. And all that. 52 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,920 He's opened the museum. And he's there. 53 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,120 Money is good, right? Yeah, money is. 54 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:31,600 Good because without money how you going to do this one it's 55 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:36,080 plentiful yes and then another thing that I also found and I 56 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:41,080 think this one is the most disgusting part of all was when 57 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,480 I saw on one of. These Nigerian. 58 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,880 Blogs that one old man like that. 59 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,600 Hopefully I find the video and I. 60 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,640 Drop it on my side here. 1 old man like that has. 61 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,160 Been. Defiling a. 10 year. 62 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,160 Old girl for. A while. 63 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,400 Right. And then he was. 64 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,640 Finally arrested and. His response is they should 65 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,440 forgive him so that he will go and find a wife. 66 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:06,160 So he thinks the problem is the fact that he doesn't have a 67 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:07,880 woman. He's not thinking about the 68 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,960 problem the the fact that the problem is that he is so his 69 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:12,480 brain. Is not correct. 70 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,880 Deaf. A paedophile? 71 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,519 Yes, he's a paedophile. He got arrested and. 72 00:04:18,519 --> 00:04:19,839 Now he's saying they should forgive him. 73 00:04:20,079 --> 00:04:22,720 They gave him some ass. Whooping they beat him up, but. 74 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,680 In as much as I. Don't fully agree with that part 75 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:26,720 that. They beat him up. 76 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:31,440 I I still think he deserved it. Yes, so that's what's going on 77 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:35,400 on social media Let's the. Street and see the DA care parts 78 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,800 of this and this is it if they posted it on social media. 79 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,200 If they posted. It on social media. 80 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,480 If they posted. It on social media. 81 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,240 They made it our business and my. 82 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:47,600 Business, which means. That they've. 83 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,000 Given me the. Right to read through it and 84 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,880 keep them. Anonymous and then. 85 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,040 Share my opinion. On these stories. 86 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,680 Mind you my opinion. Are not going to be 87 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,800 disrespectful. But in stories that I need. 88 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,400 To be hard. I will be hard. 89 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,320 If I need to be mean, I will be mean. 90 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,600 It's because I love you. That's why. 91 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,200 That's on, period. Let's get straight into the 92 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,440 stories. Let's love it, Let's love it. 93 00:05:15,280 --> 00:05:19,080 Dear Ekia, I'm a girl of 22 years old and I met this guy 94 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:20,760 last. Year, who told me he was 95 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:24,480 divorced with no child. At first I didn't believe it 96 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:26,640 until his mother came in and told me. 97 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:30,560 All was true. And the lady's mother said she 98 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,320 doesn't support the marriage again, so her daughter should 99 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,480 leave and so she also. Left now I'm six months. 100 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,040 Pregnant for him and his family has gone for my marriage list 101 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:44,240 and planning to do the marriage ceremony together with the 102 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:48,240 baby's name ceremony. But I just found out last week 103 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:52,240 that the supposed ex-wife is also four months pregnant for 104 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,000 the man and the guy's family is aware. 105 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,960 Preach. They even stay together in the 106 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:01,480 guy's father's. House, I've told my parents. 107 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,160 That I can't continue with their relationship because I don't 108 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:08,040 want to be a second wife, but my family asked an assistant that 109 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:12,040 because I'm expecting a child with him, I should still be with 110 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:16,000 him and I'm not mentally prepared to be a second wife at. 111 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,480 1st I wasn't. Ready to settle, but this man 112 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,320 told me marriage is an opportunity. 113 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,000 So. If mine has. 114 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,600 Come, I should take it. And she didn't consider my age 115 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:33,680 because marriage is not about age and the guy? 116 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,640 To. If I tell him that I want a 117 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:39,200 breakup or I want to quit, he will emotionally blackmail me 118 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,120 that if I leave him he's going to kill himself. 119 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,360 And I also don't want to be the person why he will quit his 120 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:51,160 marriage and treat his wife bad. Do you know why I'm laughing? 121 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:56,960 I'm sorry I'm laughing, but so you see, I'm saying this out of 122 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,480 fear. Are you going to marry him? 123 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,840 Because. You're going to feel bad. 124 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:06,240 Like. Because you feel bad you are 125 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:10,400 going to marry him. Is that is that Am I dreaming? 126 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:12,360 What? No. 127 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:17,240 No, no, no. No, no, no, no. 128 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,400 You were lied to. You were lied to. 129 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,800 Baby girl, you were lied to. I don't understand why your 130 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,280 family is seeing it as because they are expecting a child. 131 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,360 Because they are expecting a child aren't going to die. 132 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:35,960 You were lied to and manipulated into this. 133 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:44,280 And thank God. Thank God that certain things 134 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:50,560 are coming to light before. I know it's tough. 135 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,560 That's the thing. It's a tough situation you're 136 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,680 in. But are you? 137 00:07:55,680 --> 00:08:00,560 Going to also put your mental health or your mental growth on 138 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,880 a silver platter, on a plate. To. 139 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:08,200 Satisfy your family and a manipulative lying man and his 140 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:18,750 family and leave yourself. Oh, no sacrifices that I'm. 141 00:08:18,790 --> 00:08:20,710 Going to. Say this because maybe I am. 142 00:08:20,710 --> 00:08:23,910 Not in that. Place the family pressure is not 143 00:08:23,910 --> 00:08:29,360 on me, but me. Monpadian can't do it because I 144 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,880 would expect my mother to understand why I won't do it. 145 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,640 And be able to. Talk to the the family side of 146 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,760 it. My dear, you need to pray. 147 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:46,080 Where it has gotten to now I'm literally scared for you. 148 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,080 Let's move on, else I'm going to get into that ritual site. 149 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,840 No Nah, marriage. Is a privilege. 150 00:08:54,680 --> 00:08:56,000 It is a. Privilege. 151 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,560 So you don't do it anyhow. It says a privilege. 152 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:05,080 So you don't do it with anyone in anyhow with reasons that 153 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:06,200 because I'm. Pregnant. 154 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:12,640 It says a privilege. It's a special thing, yeah. 155 00:09:15,560 --> 00:09:17,400 Let's love it. Let's love it. 156 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,200 Dear care, I'm 20. Four years of age and I'm in 157 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:26,000 love with an 18 years girl and we've been dating for 1 1/2 158 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,200 years now. We used to live in the. 159 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,360 Same place before her parents took care to Accra to attend 160 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:32,400 school. Though. 161 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:35,040 We used to talk everyday till now but due to the distance 162 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,800 between us now I don't feel like our relationships. 163 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,040 Still closed. Down before. 164 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:44,200 She always tells. Me to come to across so that we 165 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,800 can settle there. But I'm also. 166 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:48,880 Planning to further my education and I didn't tell her that I 167 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,840 wanted to further my education. So is it good to hide some 168 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:57,240 issues to your partner? Please I need your aid. 24 and 169 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:04,240 his 18 year old he wants. Or am I overthinking it because 170 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:12,240 18 year old dear it's 19? 20/20/20. 23 five years, that's. 171 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:16,200 That's a right or not? Whatever it. 172 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,920 Is right. I was going to walk away from 173 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,200 the. 1819 conversations, but I feel like the one that sent it 174 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:24,880 is older, at least 24. You have a bit of, you know, 175 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:31,880 you're a bit mature. Whatever that's. 176 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,000 In this time in your relationship you need to tell. 177 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,120 Your partner, it should be something that. 178 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,520 If you don't tell her, it's affects the both of you. 179 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:39,760 I don't think you need to. Share. 180 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,520 Everything with your partner. But if you believe that this. 181 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,400 Thing is going to accept affect our relationship for example. 182 00:10:45,680 --> 00:10:48,480 If you're going to go to school in another town, it's going to 183 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,280 affect your relationship if you're going to go to school in. 184 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,080 Accra. Then you're coming. 185 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,960 Into our class, so it's also going to affect your 186 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:56,880 relationship. So I think in terms of your 187 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,680 education, if it's outside down as if you still need. 188 00:10:59,680 --> 00:11:01,760 To tell her God, then she also needs to make. 189 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,360 Certain decisions you understand. 190 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:09,120 But. Overall I think the age gap 18 191 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:17,040 also like is a. Child basically that's love it. 192 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:18,080 That's love it. Dear IKEA, I have a. 193 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:20,360 Story to share. It's happening to me now. 194 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,440 I have a. Girlfriend into bracket my lodge 195 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,160 meet seeing each other every day first. 196 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,320 When I. Made my intentions known to her 197 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,920 that I have feelings for her. She has a guy, but she said she 198 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,800 doesn't love the guy. She is just with. 199 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,840 Him for information from the association. 200 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,560 It's crazy. How can a girl date a guy? 201 00:11:40,560 --> 00:11:42,200 For information. Not even. 202 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,040 For money, something else but information. 203 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,400 Fast forward, she broke up with a guy and we are currently 204 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:49,760 dating. She's 5. 205 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,440 Years older than me. Recently she met a guy on 206 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:56,680 Facebook. He's talking about marriage. 207 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,640 You see what the person has written here? 208 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,440 He said. Recently she met again on 209 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,840 Facebook. Then the emoji that smells 210 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:05,960 upside down. He's talking about marriage. 211 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:09,320 She asked me and I approved but I don't know what. 212 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,280 Will come next. The guy has been chatting here 213 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,560 long course. It's breaking my heart and. 214 00:12:14,560 --> 00:12:16,840 Now she wants me to still stay with her. 215 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:18,040 She's. Talking about. 216 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,800 Marriage stuff and other heartbreaking things. 217 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,480 She so wants me to be giving her money, showing her the same 218 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:25,520 love. I'm confused. 219 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,440 I don't feel comfortable with the calls and other stuff. 220 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:30,200 The guy sends her money sometimes. 221 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:35,440 I'm tired, should I stay? I think this is a Nigerian. 222 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:41,600 A. If ya ruba and I'm getting it 223 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:50,760 right, I'm sorry. What kind of stories am I 224 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:59,880 getting today? If you are IMBO I don't really 225 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:08,040 know insults from IBBO but Olga why this person is. 226 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:11,160 Five years older than you. You see for me. 227 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,680 And the age job is not really like a thing for me if both of 228 00:13:14,680 --> 00:13:15,760 you are mature. Right. 229 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:20,480 But just one it seems like it's a border for herself. 230 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:23,960 She's ready to marry. The first lesson that cancer 231 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:24,960 talks about? Marriage. 232 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:31,520 And you are there. I hear you. 233 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:32,440 But I hope. I hope you. 234 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:39,240 Understand. What I said before, Derek, Yeah, 235 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:42,080 I'm a guy who is currently. In level 400 in one of the 236 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,200 colleges in Ghana, I did my internship with one of my. 237 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,800 Colleagues where we. Used to stay in the same area. 238 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:49,080 This. Girl was my friend. 239 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,800 Since level 100. But during the internship we had 240 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:53,600 feelings for each other. Everything was good till she 241 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,760 started acting weird. I asked for the reason. 242 00:13:56,760 --> 00:14:00,760 Why she was acting that way and she told me to find somewhere 243 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,280 because I wasn't able to help her financially. 244 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,080 I quickly find myself a job. Knowing. 245 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,320 She would stop. Acting weird to me always. 246 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:11,720 But she kept on doing that. I got angry and spit out some 247 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,480 unwanted words telling her she's a prostitute. 248 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,640 OK, you just flipped the script. She was at fault. 249 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:20,080 From the beginning just flipped it. 250 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:23,880 She got furious about that and. Blocked me. 251 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,960 It's been. Two months now and we've started 252 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,160 Vibe Small Small. POV I really. 253 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:32,840 Love this girl and want to spend the rest of my life with her but 254 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,920 her problem is that she showed me a text to her friends and 255 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,680 told them there's no way she can get back together with me. 256 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,760 Please should I? What should I? 257 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,560 Do to be. Near back, I promise if I was 258 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:48,440 the girl, I won't mind you. If you like how if you like 259 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:52,400 break your neck. How do you want to go and be? 260 00:14:52,400 --> 00:15:01,160 With a prostitute, Sir. How you like Olucio, ABI? 261 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:04,120 Because she's Olucio. So why are you going back 262 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,720 anyway? Apologize, Sir, but she says she 263 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,920 can't be with you again. I don't know why you're then 264 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:12,600 she. Can't be. 265 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,680 With you again. OK, then don't, don't force it 266 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,200 because. She can't be with you again, 267 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:19,680 Yeah. So that's it. 268 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:23,200 I'm sorry. I'm being biased with this one. 269 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,000 Because I feel I feel bad for like the girl. 270 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:27,480 Why? Would you call? 271 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,440 Somebody that you've. Been with, slept. 272 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:34,280 With told I love you. That a shower because she's 273 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:35,720 telling you something she's not happy about. 274 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,200 I mean from beginning I just didn't. 275 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,360 Like the fact that she was dwelling solely on the fact that 276 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:41,960 she didn't have money. And gave. 277 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,480 You attitude over. It right? 278 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:54,200 But then you flipped it. Oh dear Aqua, my name is Amma O 279 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:58,480 Baba, I'm 20 of age and I'm. Going through something that I 280 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,600 want to have an opinion from you guys. 281 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:02,560 It's about my. Relationship with my guy who is 282 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:10,960 in his. 40s, You're 20. Yeah, they say somebody has that 283 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:16,600 has double your age. What? 284 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:24,800 Before I feel into this guy's love, it was very difficult for 285 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,520 him to get my heart. He used to be my neighbor and. 286 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:32,000 He always makes me smile anytime that I'm not in the mood, but 287 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,840 not knowing this guy is making a way into my heart. 288 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:40,120 So I also pretend not to get. What he's trying to get from me. 289 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:42,600 For some days he started to send. 290 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,600 Me out and have fun with him. I. 291 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,640 Thought we were just friends and I in a conversation. 292 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,120 I'm seeing you. He used to beg. 293 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:54,200 Me to love him. But I thought. 294 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:59,080 It's just a joke. So as time goes. 295 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,320 On, he continues. Begging sometimes. 296 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:04,560 He would even kneel down just for me to accept him. 297 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:06,400 But. I used to tell. 298 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,319 Him, I'm not interested, this guy continued. 299 00:17:09,319 --> 00:17:12,920 Begging and promised. Marriage to me if I accept him. 300 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,200 So I made that think about it and fell in love with him. 301 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:17,960 He used to take good care of me later. 302 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,880 Investigating about him. I found. 303 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:21,440 Out he is having 2. Kids. 304 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:25,160 But he has divorced his. Kids mummy and I asked him and 305 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,800 he said the truth and that's truth makes me love and trust 306 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,800 him more. We are dating for some years now 307 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:36,080 and he used to talk to my dad and that's exactly what I want 308 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,240 to be doing. But since we started dating I've 309 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,080 never seen or talked to any of his family members. 310 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:45,400 Any time I ask him to tell me about his family members, he 311 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:49,720 refused and throughout the day he would just be like, you're 312 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,600 worrying me a lot. So now. 313 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:54,000 Guys. Please, I'm really. 314 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,480 Tired of this and I don't really know what to do now because I 315 00:17:57,480 --> 00:18:01,240 think he's hiding something from me so please guys help me I need 316 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,280 your help now. And this is. 317 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,680 Part 2. Of it so we have been dating for 318 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:07,600 some years now, not. Hearing from his. 319 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,320 None of his members and now. To he has. 320 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:12,280 Travelled. To his hometown for some two 321 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:17,480 months summer days and I'm the one taking care of him now. 322 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:21,800 He did for me. In some years gone I'm the one 323 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:27,160 paying his rent and sending him 1500 per week I've sent him. 2. 324 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:30,520 Thousand for his birthday gifts. So now I want to stop. 325 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,440 Payments for his rent and sending him money. 326 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:36,320 Guys, I'm very. Worried and he will soon return 327 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,560 from his trip, I want to stop dating him. 328 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:42,040 If he refuse to let me know his family members because I know 329 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,600 now that he started behaving like this then what will happen 330 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,240 when I get pregnant? Guys, I need you. 331 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:53,240 You are 2014 years. You are paying rent for a 40 332 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,920 year old man with. Children. 333 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:07,160 Wow. Woo. 334 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,160 For you know he has no divorce, his wife and Kitsu the two 335 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:22,280 months is for his wife and kids. I'm so worried for you guys. 336 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:39,320 Wow, wow. I'm going to end the episode. 337 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,480 Because I'm. Freaked out or am I 338 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:44,400 overreacting?