So you see, I'm saying this out of fear.
Are you going to marry him because you're.
Going to feel bad. Like.
Because you feel bad, you're going to marry him.
Is that is that am I dreaming You are 2014 years you are
parents for a 40 year old man with.
Children, if you're Aruba and I'm getting it right,
another. Episode another yapping I guess.
This is the PV podcast. Slash DEA where in the first
segment I talked to you about some things that I don't know
social media. It could be a thread, it could
be trending stories. Whatever it is, we talk about
it, we move through it and then we head to DAK away viewers
audience sending their stories and then I share my opinion on
it. So you can also share yours in
the comments section. Let's help them solve these
problems because you know they say a problem shared is a
problem. Half solved so.
Yeah, that's what we're doing here.
Let's get. Straight into what we need to
yap about this. This time in this.
Episode OK so I found this on X where 21 year old.
Former flight attendant has been arrested.
After. Police found. 3.3. $1,000,000
trafficking operation that involved selling a new drug that
uses human bone as an ingredient.
I mean, I'm yapping, but do you give?
Me. Like a 21 year old former flight
attendant was arrested by police after they found.
A $3.3 million trafficking operation.
That. Involved a new.
Drug A new type of illicit drug that is, you know, one of the
ingredients they used to make that drug is the human bone.
What do they even call it? Kush Yeah, that's crazy, right?
That's crazy. And then another.
Thing to going on is. That Patapa went to.
Perform. At Caucasus mother's funeral.
In Swedro in Dana Patapa is a gammy and.
You know it was the one. Time hits, you know, musician,
that kind of thing, right? And then Sakura did erupt on on.
Him seeing something like this and then.
Now people are saying. That yeah, Sacordio.
Calledits sacorda is a prophet Sacordio calledits he would
turn. Into a funeral.
Like performing. Artists, whatever it is, I.
Found that out. However, you split this, I don't
know, but it traded on social media.
And another thing that also trended was Ghanaian
entrepreneur Kwame, despite opening up his automobile
museum, so basically all his antique cars, all the cars that
he's been able to collect. And all that.
He's opened the museum. And he's there.
Money is good, right? Yeah, money is.
Good because without money how you going to do this one it's
plentiful yes and then another thing that I also found and I
think this one is the most disgusting part of all was when
I saw on one of. These Nigerian.
Blogs that one old man like that.
Hopefully I find the video and I.
Drop it on my side here. 1 old man like that has.
Been. Defiling a. 10 year.
Old girl for. A while.
Right. And then he was.
Finally arrested and. His response is they should
forgive him so that he will go and find a wife.
So he thinks the problem is the fact that he doesn't have a
woman. He's not thinking about the
problem the the fact that the problem is that he is so his
brain. Is not correct.
Deaf. A paedophile?
Yes, he's a paedophile. He got arrested and.
Now he's saying they should forgive him.
They gave him some ass. Whooping they beat him up, but.
In as much as I. Don't fully agree with that part
that. They beat him up.
I I still think he deserved it. Yes, so that's what's going on
on social media Let's the. Street and see the DA care parts
of this and this is it if they posted it on social media.
If they posted. It on social media.
They made it our business and my.
Business, which means. That they've.
Given me the. Right to read through it and
keep them. Anonymous and then.
Share my opinion. On these stories.
Mind you my opinion. Are not going to be
disrespectful. But in stories that I need.
To be hard. I will be hard.
If I need to be mean, I will be mean.
It's because I love you. That's why.
That's on, period. Let's get straight into the
stories. Let's love it, Let's love it.
Dear Ekia, I'm a girl of 22 years old and I met this guy
last. Year, who told me he was
divorced with no child. At first I didn't believe it
until his mother came in and told me.
All was true. And the lady's mother said she
doesn't support the marriage again, so her daughter should
leave and so she also. Left now I'm six months.
Pregnant for him and his family has gone for my marriage list
and planning to do the marriage ceremony together with the
baby's name ceremony. But I just found out last week
that the supposed ex-wife is also four months pregnant for
the man and the guy's family is aware.
Preach. They even stay together in the
guy's father's. House, I've told my parents.
That I can't continue with their relationship because I don't
want to be a second wife, but my family asked an assistant that
because I'm expecting a child with him, I should still be with
him and I'm not mentally prepared to be a second wife at.
1st I wasn't. Ready to settle, but this man
told me marriage is an opportunity.
So. If mine has.
Come, I should take it. And she didn't consider my age
because marriage is not about age and the guy?
To. If I tell him that I want a
breakup or I want to quit, he will emotionally blackmail me
that if I leave him he's going to kill himself.
And I also don't want to be the person why he will quit his
marriage and treat his wife bad. Do you know why I'm laughing?
I'm sorry I'm laughing, but so you see, I'm saying this out of
fear. Are you going to marry him?
Because. You're going to feel bad.
Like. Because you feel bad you are
going to marry him. Is that is that Am I dreaming?
What? No.
No, no, no. No, no, no, no.
You were lied to. You were lied to.
Baby girl, you were lied to. I don't understand why your
family is seeing it as because they are expecting a child.
Because they are expecting a child aren't going to die.
You were lied to and manipulated into this.
And thank God. Thank God that certain things
are coming to light before. I know it's tough.
That's the thing. It's a tough situation you're
in. But are you?
Going to also put your mental health or your mental growth on
a silver platter, on a plate. To.
Satisfy your family and a manipulative lying man and his
family and leave yourself. Oh, no sacrifices that I'm.
Going to. Say this because maybe I am.
Not in that. Place the family pressure is not
on me, but me. Monpadian can't do it because I
would expect my mother to understand why I won't do it.
And be able to. Talk to the the family side of
it. My dear, you need to pray.
Where it has gotten to now I'm literally scared for you.
Let's move on, else I'm going to get into that ritual site.
No Nah, marriage. Is a privilege.
It is a. Privilege.
So you don't do it anyhow. It says a privilege.
So you don't do it with anyone in anyhow with reasons that
because I'm. Pregnant.
It says a privilege. It's a special thing, yeah.
Let's love it. Let's love it.
Dear care, I'm 20. Four years of age and I'm in
love with an 18 years girl and we've been dating for 1 1/2
years now. We used to live in the.
Same place before her parents took care to Accra to attend
school. Though.
We used to talk everyday till now but due to the distance
between us now I don't feel like our relationships.
Still closed. Down before.
She always tells. Me to come to across so that we
can settle there. But I'm also.
Planning to further my education and I didn't tell her that I
wanted to further my education. So is it good to hide some
issues to your partner? Please I need your aid. 24 and
his 18 year old he wants. Or am I overthinking it because
18 year old dear it's 19? 20/20/20. 23 five years, that's.
That's a right or not? Whatever it.
Is right. I was going to walk away from
the. 1819 conversations, but I feel like the one that sent it
is older, at least 24. You have a bit of, you know,
you're a bit mature. Whatever that's.
In this time in your relationship you need to tell.
Your partner, it should be something that.
If you don't tell her, it's affects the both of you.
I don't think you need to. Share.
Everything with your partner. But if you believe that this.
Thing is going to accept affect our relationship for example.
If you're going to go to school in another town, it's going to
affect your relationship if you're going to go to school in.
Accra. Then you're coming.
Into our class, so it's also going to affect your
relationship. So I think in terms of your
education, if it's outside down as if you still need.
To tell her God, then she also needs to make.
Certain decisions you understand.
But. Overall I think the age gap 18
also like is a. Child basically that's love it.
That's love it. Dear IKEA, I have a.
Story to share. It's happening to me now.
I have a. Girlfriend into bracket my lodge
meet seeing each other every day first.
When I. Made my intentions known to her
that I have feelings for her. She has a guy, but she said she
doesn't love the guy. She is just with.
Him for information from the association.
It's crazy. How can a girl date a guy?
For information. Not even.
For money, something else but information.
Fast forward, she broke up with a guy and we are currently
dating. She's 5.
Years older than me. Recently she met a guy on
Facebook. He's talking about marriage.
You see what the person has written here?
He said. Recently she met again on
Facebook. Then the emoji that smells
upside down. He's talking about marriage.
She asked me and I approved but I don't know what.
Will come next. The guy has been chatting here
long course. It's breaking my heart and.
Now she wants me to still stay with her.
She's. Talking about.
Marriage stuff and other heartbreaking things.
She so wants me to be giving her money, showing her the same
love. I'm confused.
I don't feel comfortable with the calls and other stuff.
The guy sends her money sometimes.
I'm tired, should I stay? I think this is a Nigerian.
A. If ya ruba and I'm getting it
right, I'm sorry. What kind of stories am I
getting today? If you are IMBO I don't really
know insults from IBBO but Olga why this person is.
Five years older than you. You see for me.
And the age job is not really like a thing for me if both of
you are mature. Right.
But just one it seems like it's a border for herself.
She's ready to marry. The first lesson that cancer
talks about? Marriage.
And you are there. I hear you.
But I hope. I hope you.
Understand. What I said before, Derek, Yeah,
I'm a guy who is currently. In level 400 in one of the
colleges in Ghana, I did my internship with one of my.
Colleagues where we. Used to stay in the same area.
This. Girl was my friend.
Since level 100. But during the internship we had
feelings for each other. Everything was good till she
started acting weird. I asked for the reason.
Why she was acting that way and she told me to find somewhere
because I wasn't able to help her financially.
I quickly find myself a job. Knowing.
She would stop. Acting weird to me always.
But she kept on doing that. I got angry and spit out some
unwanted words telling her she's a prostitute.
OK, you just flipped the script. She was at fault.
From the beginning just flipped it.
She got furious about that and. Blocked me.
It's been. Two months now and we've started
Vibe Small Small. POV I really.
Love this girl and want to spend the rest of my life with her but
her problem is that she showed me a text to her friends and
told them there's no way she can get back together with me.
Please should I? What should I?
Do to be. Near back, I promise if I was
the girl, I won't mind you. If you like how if you like
break your neck. How do you want to go and be?
With a prostitute, Sir. How you like Olucio, ABI?
Because she's Olucio. So why are you going back
anyway? Apologize, Sir, but she says she
can't be with you again. I don't know why you're then
she. Can't be.
With you again. OK, then don't, don't force it
because. She can't be with you again,
Yeah. So that's it.
I'm sorry. I'm being biased with this one.
Because I feel I feel bad for like the girl.
Why? Would you call?
Somebody that you've. Been with, slept.
With told I love you. That a shower because she's
telling you something she's not happy about.
I mean from beginning I just didn't.
Like the fact that she was dwelling solely on the fact that
she didn't have money. And gave.
You attitude over. It right?
But then you flipped it. Oh dear Aqua, my name is Amma O
Baba, I'm 20 of age and I'm. Going through something that I
want to have an opinion from you guys.
It's about my. Relationship with my guy who is
in his. 40s, You're 20. Yeah, they say somebody has that
has double your age. What?
Before I feel into this guy's love, it was very difficult for
him to get my heart. He used to be my neighbor and.
He always makes me smile anytime that I'm not in the mood, but
not knowing this guy is making a way into my heart.
So I also pretend not to get. What he's trying to get from me.
For some days he started to send.
Me out and have fun with him. I.
Thought we were just friends and I in a conversation.
I'm seeing you. He used to beg.
Me to love him. But I thought.
It's just a joke. So as time goes.
On, he continues. Begging sometimes.
He would even kneel down just for me to accept him.
But. I used to tell.
Him, I'm not interested, this guy continued.
Begging and promised. Marriage to me if I accept him.
So I made that think about it and fell in love with him.
He used to take good care of me later.
Investigating about him. I found.
Out he is having 2. Kids.
But he has divorced his. Kids mummy and I asked him and
he said the truth and that's truth makes me love and trust
him more. We are dating for some years now
and he used to talk to my dad and that's exactly what I want
to be doing. But since we started dating I've
never seen or talked to any of his family members.
Any time I ask him to tell me about his family members, he
refused and throughout the day he would just be like, you're
worrying me a lot. So now.
Guys. Please, I'm really.
Tired of this and I don't really know what to do now because I
think he's hiding something from me so please guys help me I need
your help now. And this is.
Part 2. Of it so we have been dating for
some years now, not. Hearing from his.
None of his members and now. To he has.
Travelled. To his hometown for some two
months summer days and I'm the one taking care of him now.
He did for me. In some years gone I'm the one
paying his rent and sending him 1500 per week I've sent him. 2.
Thousand for his birthday gifts. So now I want to stop.
Payments for his rent and sending him money.
Guys, I'm very. Worried and he will soon return
from his trip, I want to stop dating him.
If he refuse to let me know his family members because I know
now that he started behaving like this then what will happen
when I get pregnant? Guys, I need you.
You are 2014 years. You are paying rent for a 40
year old man with. Children.
Wow. Woo.
For you know he has no divorce, his wife and Kitsu the two
months is for his wife and kids. I'm so worried for you guys.
Wow, wow. I'm going to end the episode.
Because I'm. Freaked out or am I
overreacting?