1 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,160 So that's why. I say. 2 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:46,640 Somebody can ask me see, Somebody can ask me see. 3 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:52,600 So somebody read these comments, but people they send me 4 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:59,920 screenshots. Do. 5 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:15,000 You think money relationships? No, I think that I. 6 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,560 Think that money is just is is adding up? 7 00:01:20,960 --> 00:01:24,680 It's supposed to allow, but is it Adna or it's defining our 8 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:29,520 relationship? If you 9 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,680 do, you think you need a minute to think? 10 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:53,200 The money. Money. 11 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,920 No money. Money is important in 12 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,400 relationships, money, whatever, even business, partnership, 13 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:04,800 everything money, right? Do you think in our day and age, 14 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,039 realistically the relative we have, what we are seeing now, do 15 00:02:08,039 --> 00:02:09,800 you think money is ruining relationships? 16 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,320 Personally, personally, I think money is the, is the, is the. 17 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,320 How do you say money is just a component? 18 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:20,480 It's the people, the. People everything activating, 19 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,080 yes. It's everything that the people 20 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,480 that demonstration are intrinsic, right. 21 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,840 So the money just enhances whatever is inside of you. 22 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,160 So if you're the person that always wanted the flashy things 23 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,520 we you go align with somebody because of the money we get. 24 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,680 We all of a suddenly only know the it's because you always have 25 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:42,400 that thing inside of you, right? So the money becomes like the 26 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,440 the bits to whatever your your actions and your inactions. 27 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,320 Yes, right. It's, it's. 28 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,160 It's always. The people are like that. 29 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,880 People, people have things embedded inside of them, but the 30 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,520 money is just something that enhances it. 31 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,520 Like a facilitator? Like a catalyst. 32 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,760 To. A chemical reaction, you know. 33 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,560 I I said this prayer, I think it wasn't at church. 34 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:07,000 I think it was something, and I admire my book so much. 35 00:03:08,920 --> 00:03:11,920 He's so cruel, so simple, so doubts. 36 00:03:11,920 --> 00:03:12,960 We're so. Relatable. 37 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:14,640 Like he's approachable. He's everything. 38 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,720 So I just I just looked at him and I was like, God, please give 39 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:22,840 me the hearts to remain level heavy when I become filthy rich 40 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,800 right. I I believe people always have 41 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:31,040 tendencies but indeed you know we'll see how plenty of people 42 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,600 money to bring them out to practice whether whether they 43 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,680 become super harmful they become super proud or whatever it is. 44 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,360 I think the moment money comes in you see how people how angry 45 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,400 people are coming. How people can just let 46 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:46,880 friendships go because of money. How people can actually kill for 47 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,240 money. How people can. 48 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:52,240 So my problem is we also can see that money is not important in 49 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:55,520 relationships you won't buy we give your own money if you if 50 00:03:55,520 --> 00:04:00,520 you if you there's don't they we did good right. 51 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:06,160 So like how important is money in in like to the point where it 52 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,520 doesn't become the idle? I think that's, I think that 53 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,280 that's where it's familiar, very critical and I was sharing that 54 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:16,200 where money is, is the catalyst that can propel things to work. 55 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,880 Well. And can make things easier or 56 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,560 easier for money. Money, no doubt. 57 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:25,120 Money is every. All not good things. 58 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:26,760 All passing all. Things it's. 59 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:30,720 Important for. Everybody, whether church girl, 60 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:44,280 house girl, the most underlying factor we 61 00:04:44,280 --> 00:04:46,720 look at this the Carter behind the money. 62 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,680 Because money actually is a spirit. 63 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:53,160 It has. There's there's something we 64 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,840 don't think about. When he wasn't kidding. 65 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,000 Money is a spirit. There's. 66 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,240 There's money, there's a backing hand money. 67 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,560 And it's usage. And so if you want to see and 68 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:07,160 people say that if you want to test the man or something, give 69 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,680 them a like look at them when they have money that that 70 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:14,920 clearly shows that money is aspirated, can make or make you 71 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,720 money is aspirated, can determine what you are going to 72 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,360 do and what you are not doing. And so I think that yes, indeed, 73 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:23,920 the money is good at everything, but it is the spirit that we put 74 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:28,200 behind it, the character that we put in and who person or that 75 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,320 individualist that will determine how. 76 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,920 And that obviously money, money can come. 77 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,440 People say that we have money and the money is not yours. 78 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,200 You spend it anyhow. Especially the one you didn't 79 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:39,600 work, yes. So we are working. 80 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,000 We have for money that is yours. You know how to spend it. 81 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,480 So that's that's the character to the money. 82 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,880 That's the spirit behind the. Money. 83 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,160 A woman get arguments? No. 84 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,760 Then she's not going out for a ride. 85 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:07,600 Important in a relation than. Ever. 86 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:12,160 Because I mean you can have a partner that I want you to buy 87 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,280 me this, but she can make as she can make gestures. 88 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,080 I will tell you that she can. Oh, and this is Instagram. 89 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:21,120 She can send you something on IG special or you. 90 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,520 Or. Something she? 91 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,080 She want you to buy she be like, oh, let me keep this here. 92 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,040 Yeah, when I. Make my when I get. 93 00:06:37,840 --> 00:06:40,160 That's the point, she said. Let me keep it this year so that 94 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:45,480 I won't forget. It's a guest so she's not 95 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,240 telling you to go and buy me the heel on the shoe on the on the 96 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:53,640 dress on this. But she's oh, baby, how do you 97 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,840 think I'm looking this. What do you think about this? 98 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:07,480 That's where they might. In. 99 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:18,040 The sense that if you have. More money. 100 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:31,480 The. Money in the money. 101 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,440 You know the the reason why when I time. 102 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,600 It be. Like money is very important. 103 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:39,240 It's like it's it's it's showcases you know everybody 104 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,360 showcasing it on social media. I waste my time, you know this 105 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:48,080 so you know even go somebody do some money with some 5000 106 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:52,600 something like go at whole hotel they will make them do some 107 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,840 things for like aesthetics near and dear go for the for the lady 108 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,560 from. The bedroom, the balloons with 109 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:02,480 your hand, they see, you know then the Saxon in that life. 110 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:06,680 I won't die, bro. If someone. 111 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,480 Takes a video like that post on Instagram post on Tiktok, but 112 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:10,480 girl is thinking you know it's so. 113 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:14,800 Indirect predictive programming. I read about it. 114 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:20,640 You know how The Simpsons, The Simpsons have sort of hold so 115 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,440 many things that? Have happened it. 116 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:26,520 Was like years ago, right? So you see how they put the 117 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,000 whole gay, literally same sex thing in movies. 118 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,320 They started years ago, they started predictive programming. 119 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,640 So they use media. They use media and tell that to 120 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:39,960 show you to test the waters, How are the people going to receive 121 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:41,600 it before they actually push it out. 122 00:08:41,919 --> 00:08:43,880 It's it's a work you can read predictive program, you can 123 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,800 actually read about it. It's crazy like you. 124 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,800 And the algorithms also work in the favour of the predictive 125 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,480 programming. You can constantly see things 126 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,480 about breakouts, breakouts, marriage, marriage, this 127 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:58,280 marriage, that marriage material item, it just informed it just 128 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,000 oriented. It just pushes you into the 129 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:01,960 space. Marriage, we've we've all been 130 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,680 there. At some point we start this 131 00:09:03,680 --> 00:09:07,000 podcast, yes, about the words. But she laughed me at the 132 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:12,680 previous video that you know by like you change them, you need 133 00:09:12,680 --> 00:09:14,840 to meet that person. That changes your experience, 134 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:16,760 right? I think people should actually 135 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:18,600 turn their phones off. And that's true. 136 00:09:19,680 --> 00:09:22,000 Meet people. Talk, have conversations 137 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,640 experienced people, people rely on Twitter for. 138 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,360 Every time. People just. 139 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,280 Lie right now just for the impressions. 140 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,080 I think you shared that video too. 141 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,440 Cry in a range. Right. 142 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,720 Look how big she is, 40. Plus, and she's saying that in 143 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,160 some some girl somewhere who doesn't know nothing. 144 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:50,320 We just listen to that stage. And and when a guy football 145 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,600 comes with a Ranger. You see and every time it's like 146 00:09:54,360 --> 00:10:01,280 and it doesn't give me the attention, right? 147 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,120 And they will see the the nice guys they carry last. 148 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:07,760 It's like, what are you being? You won't come up. 149 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:16,000 She won't come over here. The media is gradually 150 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:19,880 propagating this agenda where it's like if he's not showing 151 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,480 and it's true like. Said something, man said 152 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:28,680 something, Said Intentions. Your intentions be good by the 153 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:31,800 money they confirm. The intention. 154 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:41,560 I love you. How much materialistic. 155 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:47,400 But you love me the last time you bought me some shoes. 156 00:10:48,600 --> 00:11:04,320 Like, how much do you love me? This is Stefan. 157 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:17,840 This is I want to be with Stefan. 158 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:22,800 I want to be with Stefan. I know Stefan is a young guy who 159 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:25,000 started life. I don't expect the fund to take 160 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:40,920 off the fund. Is not. 161 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,200 My dad. See. 162 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,440 See even that, because you see, you see the game is a game. 163 00:11:52,680 --> 00:11:54,840 Even the. People we we are close to them. 164 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,720 We see, we see in our churches that like we think that these 165 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,800 girls are just have expectations of the guys. 166 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:10,520 A. Guy can see your way. 167 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,600 I mean a girl can see your way as a guy. 168 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:14,800 Just guy who are singing in church you are doing this year. 169 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,240 But you see it takes something to. 170 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,760 How how much is your talent weigh? 171 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,320 Yes. How hard I will say that and and 172 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:26,480 I said this and that's why I'm saying that. 173 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,440 So some of us, that's what we are working hard and give up 174 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:33,000 what we can do because we know the life we want to live and we 175 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:37,120 know when we want to come to our lives and so we are working hard 176 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,880 so that we can we can provide at least for them. 177 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:41,960 And our families, I think he said it perfectly. 178 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,120 This, this, this just draws my attention to the fact that now 179 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:47,960 people have largely gotten sectional. 180 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:51,720 You know people. Eddie will buy my wig at the 181 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:55,040 Junior will buy. My yesterday we all found some 182 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,240 time ago we all see this married man. 183 00:12:58,560 --> 00:13:00,360 Everybody cropped the screenshots. 184 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,200 Everybody where the full charts me. 185 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,440 My point is married man is chasing me. 186 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,240 He said he confirmed he's my. Why did you blocked? 187 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:15,040 Why don't you want to like me? Why, if she brought home and she 188 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:21,120 built? Everybody, everybody. 189 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,680 Like. And because everybody has that, 190 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,480 the person, the one girl, that thing. 191 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,320 So Eddie can give me all these things, but it will take time 192 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,560 for him to realize all those things later goes to social 193 00:13:34,560 --> 00:13:49,880 media and then see that. All friends tell you that girls 194 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:58,960 there are going to look at you for time that like. 195 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:12,560 I think there are times where you want to also feel like a 196 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,840 kid. Yeah, you know what likes your 197 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:16,920 mom will show. You something. 198 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,760 So at some point, even you as the guy that you know, OK, I 199 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,720 want to provide, to be honest, one of the best feelings to be 200 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,360 able to provide even when you're not my man's power. 201 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,440 Is his provision. Right. 202 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:36,200 So it's like even you at some point you want, you want that 203 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:37,440 thing you want. You. 204 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,080 Want, right. So like, is it? 205 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:46,440 Is it that we have to spend the rest of our lives chasing money 206 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:52,800 so the money can enable us to? To live the lives you want to 207 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:53,520 live. I. 208 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,000 Think it comes to that now it's come to that. 209 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,080 What if you easily get distracted because now it's 210 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:00,320 become everything you're working for? 211 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,400 That's that's. That's that's, yeah. 212 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,800 It's. It's the ball is the ball. 213 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:06,440 The game is the. Game if you don't get. 214 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:13,880 The money. And it comes, it comes with that 215 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:16,520 growth as well like as you did grow naturally. 216 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:29,960 You know, when I was. Young and one of how money can 217 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:33,040 make things work and make things easier for us, for lives. 218 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,400 And so it doesn't make fast fetch if you think that it's not 219 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,600 appropriate. And of course, why are we still 220 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:39,320 here? It's too important. 221 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:43,600 Yeah, money is propelling relationships. 222 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,840 Money. I mean, if you get our players 223 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:49,960 as men or as guys that let's pray that yes, we'll get women 224 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,560 that even though they would like money and they'll still be 225 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,400 mortgaged and how do that's the point. 226 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:56,160 We shouldn't think that they are women. 227 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:59,800 'Cause they are dead pressure, You won't finish the four 228 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,160 bedrooms you built for the family yards and then then we 229 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,720 can't tell. You there was? 230 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:06,280 There was a. Story. 231 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:09,920 Or whatever this is a real this. Is a real story. 232 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:15,240 I think the guy, the guy wanted something. 233 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,800 The woman wanted a vacation and they had just moved in. 234 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:23,520 So the guy had something and he was like, you know, we need to 235 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:27,400 finish the apartment, 'cause she said she wants a vacation, 236 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:33,440 that's what she wants. The guy thinks you want 237 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:36,400 vacation, so after the vacation you come asleep on the floor. 238 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,640 She doesn't care. She wants the vacation. 239 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,520 So it's just. That all your parties say they 240 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,760 go vacation. Or maybe she said they woke up. 241 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:48,280 She's feeling left out, that feeling of I'm being left out 242 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:52,520 marginalized, like my friends are my friends and my people 243 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,800 are, and it's like the guy did things and because I have the 244 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:58,280 money, all right, But one lady to it is this show. 245 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:00,760 Some UK should be like that, she said. 246 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,319 The guy used to really be health worker. 247 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:08,160 The guy makes money, they go on bits and everything, But she 248 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:09,280 feels like he can make money, yeah? 249 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:11,079 Yeah, I saw that she. Never. 250 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:13,960 She never ever spoke about. OK, this is what I also know. 251 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:15,599 You saw that guy. The back story is the. 252 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:18,760 Guy says students. The lady is 30 something and the 253 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:20,359 guy is a student and then he has two. 254 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:21,440 Kids, So. She's not. 255 00:17:21,599 --> 00:17:22,480 Working. She's not. 256 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,680 Working. Like he can. 257 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:27,560 Do more. To me, and more, she feels like 258 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:34,640 he can. Do more and. 259 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:37,800 The guy says The guy decides to leave. 260 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:50,400 Right now, he's a high What are the odds that somebody, anyone, 261 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,760 who has had babies out of the. But let's just be realistic. 262 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,080 Between the two options who have between. 263 00:17:56,080 --> 00:18:00,440 The two options you will what are the odds that you would 264 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:04,000 actually now enter relationship talking stage before you go you 265 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:09,920 have to already get to but this guy with you know men actually 266 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:15,240 me men, we have to say by after 3540 we right? 267 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,640 Like, really. The women's way then get them 268 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,400 our money. Though then fortunately for some 269 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:28,560 of we you entire relationship with the people get their 270 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:39,800 understanding of money different from the The understanding is 271 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:43,440 different because the person way he grew up and most of those 272 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,720 people have grown up in families where they've seen both parents 273 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,480 share love. So they are more concerned about 274 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:52,000 the love and making sure that whatever you are sharing is 275 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:55,920 authentic and genuine. But the person that largely 276 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:59,680 comes from a family where there's minimal provision we all 277 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,080 the time will be there when legal struggle with people 278 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:06,400 there's there's a lot and you know where group this all the 279 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:11,440 time money they stop. Or. 280 00:19:12,120 --> 00:19:14,840 If you, if you come back from. Job. 281 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,880 We maybe, you know, say both of you time, you know. 282 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,760 I. Just saw this on the road. 283 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,120 Self cook for us. Bro. 284 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:42,000 And I saw this by the room. Who cooked food by myself, who 285 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,560 is on the monkey salary? Bro, there is a money. 286 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:52,760 There are two nannies when you get some 3 bedroom cleaners. 287 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,680 If some come home, if they want your own space, you get your. 288 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:56,720 Study. For that it. 289 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:05,480 Is. So important and as I'm saying 290 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,760 like the people that have seen that like the people who didn't 291 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:11,960 get their own money they see all that then they know how pressure 292 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,840 because it just they look for that authenticity. 293 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:17,720 But that way we you know you know experience that right. 294 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,120 You know if you experience I know see that thing all the. 295 00:20:20,120 --> 00:20:22,360 Time they look at you for this guy. 296 00:20:22,360 --> 00:20:24,640 How if he? Gets the milk, whatever, you 297 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,320 know what I'm saying? This is a very sensitive thing, 298 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:27,920 but I also think it depends on something. 299 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:32,000 It has a bit to do with trauma #1. 300 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:37,080 Some some women didn't grow up. She's going to be first. 301 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,880 You could provide, you could protect and you will show them 302 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,800 you will advise. Some Avengers, so you know. 303 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,440 You know your husband, your husband, father and cool 304 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,680 grandfather like, and some, some. 305 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,960 As he said, some grew up not seeing love being shared. 306 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,920 So it be new. IT be new environmental some 307 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,600 some some people actually they get scared if they love them 308 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,880 like he. Was laughing you? 309 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:04,280 Want to do something? Like I think I'm not not 310 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,720 interject like you get for P way all the time. 311 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,440 You want to spend time with your dad, me and my puppy night the 312 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,520 gypsy guy when they travel a lot. 313 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:14,960 So I didn't see much of it. But The thing is you get for P 314 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,240 way. Dad, I want to spend time. 315 00:21:16,360 --> 00:21:18,160 Oh well, let me give you money to go and buy this. 316 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:26,040 Everything you provision, so every. 317 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:30,640 Time you come meet somebody. Your identity of a man. 318 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,880 Exactly. What I'm saying because it's 319 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:40,840 like. Being like loving and all those 320 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:43,520 things we show. That and do whatever you want. 321 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:44,920 I will tell you this before we filmed. 322 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:52,680 Always pay attention to how your human and that by extension you 323 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,400 are just another man. That be how she if you get a 324 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,640 woman insulting brother she's 3 words away from something you 325 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:04,000 know that be how she did right. So you should always see we all 326 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,480 have friends. The best kind of girls in my 327 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,840 opinion are the ones that have their father's presence. 328 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,760 That's right. I know good life and that's why 329 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,360 the governments are doing everything they can to analyze 330 00:22:14,360 --> 00:22:19,160 men, make sure they break homes. Because see no household will 331 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,600 the father be present will he be able will he provide way their 332 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,280 wisdom. We will see, you see. 333 00:22:24,360 --> 00:22:26,320 It is more you will see. Exactly. 334 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:30,640 The PB house, the scales, you know. 335 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,920 The. Excuse me? 336 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,880 We respect. We respect like it's see. 337 00:22:41,360 --> 00:22:43,680 The mothers play their part. The mothers dream. 338 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,560 The mothers love. The mothers are warm. 339 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,000 You need the leadership you need. 340 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,400 See you go take some girl, she will comment you all your life 341 00:22:52,440 --> 00:23:03,080 because she never had. She never at least once in your 342 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,080 lifetime did a girl that has both parents. 343 00:23:06,120 --> 00:23:09,280 Let's let if this. Is the point. 344 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,400 Then let's look at the fact that if you meet a lady who may not 345 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,960 have the dad around, yes. No. 346 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:26,720 I mean, so how do we as men? Because you see, there's a woman 347 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,600 that may have everything else. No. 348 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:31,840 So no. I mean that. 349 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,360 Is she ready to listen? What is that? 350 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,440 She might not necessarily. People like that are defensive 351 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:42,120 and might not see anything, But as men and as head of the rooms 352 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,520 who know this line as men who are even watching, how do we 353 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:49,600 bring them into our, our, our space to help them understand 354 00:23:50,360 --> 00:23:52,080 this? Like, I'm not saying this for 355 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,160 for us to to residents, I'm not saying this faster. 356 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,920 You're still? Willing to work with that? 357 00:23:57,360 --> 00:23:57,840 No. So it. 358 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,480 Seems amazing. I'm saying this because let's 359 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:01,800 even assume that she's not willing. 360 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,360 Like she no. You see and you see. 361 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,680 People like that are who do not even know they're at fault. 362 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,480 We may bring it up to them, but they may not understand it on 363 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,200 the quality. Of self-awareness being I, I. 364 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:19,360 I see when. You touch your records in a 365 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:20,240 certain way. Can we change them? 366 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:25,320 What do you think we can do? That be first example I I don't 367 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:26,720 like the way you're talking to your dad or phone. 368 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,880 Oh. Come on, OK. 369 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:33,800 Even so, you what be in response. 370 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:38,080 So as guys we also need to bring that into them to understand. 371 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,560 Whether. Or not. 372 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,040 They understand. It's up to them, yeah. 373 00:24:50,120 --> 00:24:52,480 Right. Like the money issue, right? 374 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,600 If you have the resources if he help on the therapy. 375 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:01,400 I have friends that have. See, I have friends that have 376 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,640 told that would you go for therapy? 377 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:14,960 I would be I. 378 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,600 Yeah, but I mean but in wrapping up I. 379 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:31,040 Think money is important like. Work hard, work hard. 380 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,600 Work hard. Like regardless of what you have 381 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,240 to work hard. But I mean like find ways and. 382 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,600 To work hard, don't don't do things that would would would 383 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,680 affect you in the long run. Just work hard. 384 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,400 Work smart, work. Smart. 385 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:48,360 And work hard. Like just work smart. 386 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,920 And the ladies who are also watching and listening to us, 387 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,160 put so much pressure on them, on their men. 388 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:57,160 They're doing their very best. So much pressure on them, you 389 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,360 know you can't, you can't live with him and you can't be 390 00:26:01,360 --> 00:26:03,120 supportive of him. Let him go. 391 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:13,040 And I know men. I know men who are doing like 392 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:33,240 high jobs right now. This year? 393 00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:50,440 This year. Because you lose some job. 394 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:55,880 Some left you. You did a like, let me say this. 395 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,920 You have points where you have to point your life as a guy, all 396 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:05,720 the guys. Who?