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Good morning, everybody. 
Hey everybody that was on spring

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break. 
Welcome back, students, parents 

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of young people. 
I was just telling someone this 

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morning. 
Everybody asked me what I did on

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spring break. 
And as many of you know, when 

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you become a big kid, you don't 
get spring break anymore. 

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So I did nothing. 
I worked. 

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We are in the book of John 
today. 

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So go ahead and grab a Bible. 
There's some in the seats below 

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you. 
You'll see on the screen behind 

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me the verses we're in today as 
well as the page number if you 

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use a black Bible. 
And while you're flipping there 

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a story from my life. 
Today we're talking about PDA. 

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And so here's a story from my 
life. 

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The year was 2014. 
Gordon was 18 years old, just 

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graduated, had the first girl. 
I was going to bring the church 

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with me and we're walking into 
the church that I grew up in. 

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So I've got parents and 
grandparents and family and 

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people who knew me since I was 
little. 

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We're walking in and I was 
holding her hand and we got 

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within sight of people. 
And I do one of these like, oh, 

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hey, and then hands back in my 
pocket. 

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And so I got out of got out of 
anybody seeing me hold her hand 

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and on the way in the church. 
And when, when that's the kit, 

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what I was basically showing by 
doing that is I like you, but 

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how much I'm willing to show 
some version of love, but how 

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much and really what that 
communicates is how much that 

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person has impacted you. 
If someone's impacted you a lot,

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like my wife, I will hold her 
hand and hug her and bring her 

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to church every day. 
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someone, it's natural and 
appropriate to give some level 

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of love or honor or service. 
The question is, how much? 

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How much would you honor them? 
How much would you love them? 

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How much would you serve them? 
The in the book of John so far, 

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through chapters one through 10,
we've been seeing the ministry 

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of Jesus Christ and we've seen 
how much he has impacted people 

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by who he is and by what he's 
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If you've not been with us 
through the series, I would 

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encourage you go to our Spotify 
teaching listen to last week. 

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Josh gave a great recap of the 
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And now in chapter 1112, we're 
kind of transitioning into 

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really the last week of Jesus 
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But what we've been learning is 
about what Jesus has done and 

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therefore who he is, the Son of 
God and the Christ. 

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And if you've been impacted by 
who Jesus is and what he's done,

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it is natural and appropriate to
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service. 
Would you agree? 

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How much? 
That's the question for today. 

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And so we're going to start. 
We're going to go through verses

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one through 11 before we read 
from God's Word, we're going to 

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take a moment to pause and make 
sure our hearts are right. 

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If you come in with sin that you
know of, that you've not asked 

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Him to forgive you of, don't try
to listen to His Word until 

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you've dealt with that first. 
If you come in with anxiety, if 

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you come in distracted, if you 
just know I'm a little bit 

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apathetic or cold today, ask Him
for help. 

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That we could get the most out 
of this teaching today. 

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So brief time to sit and quiet. 
Then I'll read the text and 

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pray. 
John 12, starting in verse 1-6. 

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Days before the Passover, Jesus 
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Lazarus was, whom Jesus had 
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So they gave a dinner for him. 
There Martha served Lazarus was 

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one of those reclining with him 
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Mary therefore took a pound of 
expensive ointment made from 

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pure nard and anointed the feet 
of Jesus and wiped his feet with

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her hair. 
The house was filled with the 

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fragrance of the perfume. 
But Judas Iscariot, one of his 

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disciples, he who was about to 
betray him, said, why was this 

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ointment not sold for 300 
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He said this not because he 
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but because he was a thief, and 
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he used to help himself to what 
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Jesus said, Leave her alone so 
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of my burial. 
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with you, but you do not always 
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When the large crowd of the Jews
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they came not only on account of
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whom he had raised from the 
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So the chief priest made plans 
to put Lazarus to death as well,

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because on account of him, many 
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believing in Jesus. 
Father, thank you for this story

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that's been like held for us, 
for us to remember and from us, 

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for us to learn from. 
We pray we would do that today, 

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that we would learn from this. 
I pray Jesus that you would let 

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us be free to give you much 
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We pray all these things in 
Jesus name, Amen. 

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So what I want to do is just 
give quick overview of the 

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story. 
John is just one of the four 

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gospels, and then you look at 
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just from a little bit different
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And Luke or Mark, Mark, I'm 
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story that's very similar. 
It's in Luke, but it's different

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stories. 
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story and add a few different 
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And it's interesting when you 
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they remember about a scene. 
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see different variants 'cause it
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them. 
And so John has a few things in 

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here that he remembers that you 
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and vice versa. 
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touch on the context or remind 
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Mary, Martha and Lazarus main 
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If you were here a few weeks 
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family well. 
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sisters, he whom you love is ill
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So there's deep friendship. 
Jesus waits a couple days, goes 

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Lazarus has been in a tomb for 
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them from the dead. 
And this is this is today a 

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response to what Jesus has done 
to this family primarily 6 days 

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before the Passover. 
Jesus therefore came to Bethany,

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where Lazarus was, and they gave
a dinner for him there, the way 

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it reads. 
So they gave a dinner for him 

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there. 
This is a dinner held, an honor 

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for Jesus. 
They're throwing a party for him

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to celebrate him and thank him 
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impacted by what he's done and 
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One of the other accounts adds 
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hosting this party. 
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party where many Jews were 
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means he wasn't a leper anymore.
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He's raised the man back to life
and they are holding a dinner 

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and honor for Jesus. 
And if I now just jump down to 

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verse 9/10/11, what you also see
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outside of the house is that 
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coming to see. 
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to come into the party, but they
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want to see Lazarus. 
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Jesus is resurrection. 
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And so the chief priest, the 
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ago, especially last week, they 
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Jesus. 
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They believe he should be 
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suit their own purposes, so that
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They can keep their place. 
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too, which if you think about 
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They are intentionally trying to
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They are being false witnesses. 
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details or they want to mess up 
the details to keep the many 

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Jews who are going away and 
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And so that's going on outside 
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Then back inside the house 
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Right before Martha serving, 
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table. 
Mary therefore took a pound of 

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expensive ointment made from 
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This is like any ladies use 
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OK, the costliest essential oil 
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equivalent of a year's wage. 
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OK, the a mean or average based 
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$50,000. 
Kate basically burned, poured 

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out. 
You can't get it back and 

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worship to Jesus. 
She pours out this, this 

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fragrance of perfume on Jesus, 
the other accounts say on his 

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head. 
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breaking the flask so it cannot 
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She's not interested in keeping 
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She's pouring it all out. 
She breaks it, the other 

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accounts say on his head first 
to anoint him and then she gets 

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down low and wipes his feet with
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This caused such a reaction out 
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But before you paint Judas as 
the only bad guy the other 

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accounts say, and many others or
the disciples, they were 

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indignant at this. 
Judas is the one probably that 

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just piped up and said 
something, but they were all 

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just really thrown off because 
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For Mary to take her hair down, 
For Mary to do the job of the 

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housemaids to get down low and 
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For Mary to pour out something 
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moment. 
This was countercultural. 

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This offended Judas pipes up. 
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You could have done so much 
better things to serve Jesus and

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His Kingdom than this. 
Jesus then in the later verses 

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commends Mary, I love there's a 
line in one of the other 

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accounts where Jesus says, why 
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She has done a beautiful thing. 
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wherever the gospel goes in all 
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told in memory of her. 
Isn't that incredible? 

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Mary gets memorialized. 
This goes down in history. 

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The proof of that statement is 
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Wherever the Gospel goes, this 
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How special, how honorable, Like
how much is Jesus honoring her 

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through her first honoring him. 
Jesus says the poor you always 

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have with you. 
You don't always have me. 

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This is a special moment that 
Mary won't get again, but she 

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takes advantage. 
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him in this moment. 
And so that's basically the gist

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of the story. 
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to highlight about Mary and her 
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You could say her PDA, her 
display of love, service, and 

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honor to Jesus, and all of us 
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If you've been impacted by 
somebody, they deserve a level 

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of honor, service, and love. 
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So let's start with honor. 
If we look at the story, there's

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some specific things we see that
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And so first they're throwing a 
party to honor Jesus. 

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You know how much energy goes 
into throwing a party? 

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Any of you hosted before? 
Any of you done a big party? 

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This is a big party. 
You've got people serving to put

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this on. 
You've got people that are 

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attending the party, OK, 
preferring this over other other

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things they're saying. 
I want to put this first. 

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To honor someone is to show 
them, to show the significance 

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of what they're worth. 
More than myself, more than 

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other things, more than 
tradition. 

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They're they're throwing a party
and making Jesus their honored 

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guest. 
Presumably there's a big table, 

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and who's at the head of the 
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Presumably their honored guest. 
And Lazarus is sitting there 

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enjoying his company and many 
others other things you see in 

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the story. 
It would have been common to get

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like the regular anointing oil 
to anoint an honored guest. 

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Mary doesn't get the regular 
anointing oil, she gets the good

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stuff. 
Which again shows the 

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significance of what Jesus, 
their honored guest, is worth. 

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Mary goes over the top for an 
over the top person in an over 

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the top way. 
This all communicates honor, 

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even by Mary getting low. 
OK, before we talk about her 

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actually washing his feet, just 
the nature of getting low and 

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being at his feet is giving 
honor. 

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It's that of bowing to someone 
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In the store, you see different 
versions of honor. 

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You see Simon the leper hosting,
and you see other people 

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attending. 
But how much? 

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Mary's the one that pushes the 
line way back in what she's 

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willing and able to and free to 
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And so question, what is your 
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How much would you do to honor 
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And I'm just going to, I'm going
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you. 
Where's your line? 

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Where would you say I wouldn't 
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I'll hold her hand when no one's
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hand when I go to church. 
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event to honor Jesus? 
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service is to make much of our 
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Would you come regularly? 
Regularly. 

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Would you Orient your life in a 
way that would let you be here 

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regularly at this event to honor
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Would you come to a worship 
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How long of a worship night? 
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Would you come if it was 2? 
Would you come if it was a three

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hour worship night? 
Would you fill your home with 

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worship? 
Would it? 

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Would it be in the house every 
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What would that tell your kids 
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Would you put energy into 
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event for the honored guest? 
How much would you honor Jesus? 

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Mary's gift was costly too. 
It wasn't the good, wasn't the 

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common stuff. 
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honor Jesus? 
You know, there's a study. 

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Barna says 21% of Christians 
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Only 21% of professing 
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And so will you give the common 
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average of the Christians give? 
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Would you give 15? 
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Would you? 
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the over the top guest? 
Would you make counter cultural 

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choices? 
OK again to let your hair down? 

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To do something that would 
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opinions? 
Would you do count? 

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Make countercultural choices to 
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and what he's worth over what's 
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what other people think is 
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Would you honor Jesus when you 
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Bible that countercultural? 
Would you honor him with what he

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says about marriage? 
Would you honor him with what he

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says about holiness? 
Purity. 

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Would you pay 2 rents until you 
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Where's your line? 
What would you do to show that 

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Jesus is worthy of all honor? 
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and get the common oil? 
There's a verse in Malachi where

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God is speaking through the 
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son honors his father and a 
servant his master. 

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If I then, if I then am a 
Father, where is my honor? 

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If I am a master, where is my 
fear? 

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Says the Lord of hosts to you, O
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These were priests who were 
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That is the literal definition 
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They profess to be believers, 
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polluted sacrifices. 
They they are, they are not 

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honoring him with his whole, 
with their holiness. 

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And by doing that, they are 
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rebuking them saying, where's my
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You say, now I'm bringing it 
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You say that you're a Christian,
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deeply impacted by what Jesus 
did on the cross to forgive me 

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of my sins and give me new life 
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And now I'm your father. 
If you say that, where is my 

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honor? 
How much does your life evidence

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or show that Jesus is your Lord,
that he is your honored guest, 

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that he has deeply impacted you 
so much so that your life is not

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the same? 
There was a story here at Vita I

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was. 
One of my favorite things to do 

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as a pastor is meet with people 
about baptism because what 

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they're saying is I've been so 
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want to stand up and tell 
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I want to honor him. 
I want to tell everybody that 

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he's my Lord now and I commit to
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life. 
So I was meeting, having one of 

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those meetings with someone. 
And at the end we're like, Yep, 

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you got to go ahead. 
You need to be baptized. 

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And he asked me, Gordon, could I
wear a suit? 

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Because I think I was getting 
into like, wear dark clothing, 

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you know, like you're going to 
be wet in front of a bunch of 

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people, the normal stuff. 
And he says, can I wear a suit? 

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I was like, well, first tell, 
tell me why? 

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And he goes on to say, well, 
I've worn a suit on all of my 

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best days. 
You know, you like wear a suit 

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on your wedding day. 
Why wouldn't I wear a suit on 

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this day? 
It's like, yes, you can wear a 

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suit. 
Go for it. 

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Where's your line? 
How much would you do to honor 

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Jesus? 
What about service? 

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When you've been impacted by 
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appropriate to give them 
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How much? 
If someone jumps in front of a 

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bullet for you, wouldn't you be 
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Wouldn't you be willing to do 
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What wouldn't you do for someone
that sacrificed their own life 

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for you? 
In the story, she washes his 

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feet. 
OK, She literally serves him. 

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She unknowingly serves him in a 
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says she's not only washed my 
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burial. 
Jesus knows that he's going to 

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the cross. 
So what Mary, if you think about

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it, what Mary unknowingly does 
is she unknowingly helps advance

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the gospel through her service. 
Jesus had to go to the cross and

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she helped him get there. 
She helps helps advance the 

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gospel by preparing his body for
burial. 

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And this is simply with what she
had on hand. 

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And I say simply what she had on
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This was more than just an 
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This is what many Jews would 
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inheritance into or their 
retirement into. 

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OK, if you don't have a bank to 
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them to hold on to it. 
Go get some really expensive 

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ointment, put it in a jar and 
put it on a high shelf and that 

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can be sold at any time if you 
needed it. 

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It's a rainy day fund, probably.
She goes and gets that, and 

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that's what she uses to wash and
to advance the gospel. 

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It is sacrificial service, not 
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In the story, we see many people
serving, right? 

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Martha's serving Lazarus in his 
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and enjoying his company. 
Host helping host him is 

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serving. 
There's many people serving, but

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Mary just pushes the line. 
What are you willing to do? 

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How how much would you serve him
now as a clarifier, the primary 

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way we serve Jesus today is by 
serving his people and his 

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church. 
OK, Jesus says if you give a cup

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of cold water to one of these 
little ones, it's as if you're 

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you've done it for me. 
OK, He has dialogue with his 

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disciples where they're he's 
like, if you give a coat to me 

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or clothe me or feed me, like 
when? 

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When will we do That said, if 
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it's as if you've done it to me.
One of the ways we serve Jesus 

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is by serving his people. 
And Jesus has chosen the local 

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church as the thing that would 
advance the gospel after the 

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cross until the end when he 
comes back. 

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This is what advances the 
gospel. 

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This is what carries truth 
forward. 

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This is what tells the world 
around us about him. 

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This is what helps care for 
believers among us. 

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So when you serve his people or 
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So would you serve him? 
And at a very basic level, would

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you serve serve him? 
Would you serve in the local 

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church? 
Would you do it regularly? 

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Would you greet, greet in front 
of the door? 

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It's pretty easy. 
Would you scrub a toilet? 

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Would you give 2 hours a week, 6
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You know, some of our worship 
team members, they came early at

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8:00 AM today. 
They're staying late just to 

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practice for the worship night 
that many of us will get to come

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to next week. 
And how about outside of the 

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local church? 
Because that's not all. 

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How about just going out and 
being salt and light in our 

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community? 
Would you serve others? 

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Would you serve other nonprofits
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in our city? 
Would you give towards missions 

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to serve what people are doing 
across the world for him? 

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How much would you do? 
What has he given you? 

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What has he given Mary? 
Would she look across the shelf 

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and say, Nah, there's my line. 
I wouldn't give that. 

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What has he given you? 
And would you give it? 

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If he asked you, would you give 
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Has he given you money again? 
Would you give a portion of that

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back to Him to help serve His 
mission? 

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Would you make a generosity 
budget in your budget? 

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Would you put a category for 
generosity just to be generous 

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to others, to give a cup of cold
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Has He given you a business? 
Would you use that? 

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Would you leverage it for the 
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How much? 
How much profit would you give? 

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How much of its mission or 
purpose or DNA would you 

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leverage for Jesus, not for 
yourself? 

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How much would you give in 
service to Him? 

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Now, I know once once you're 
relatively free to give a lot 

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and service to him. 
You serve in a church, you serve

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elsewhere, you give a tithe. 
You know how much I I know 

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there's usually then like these 
big questions that come like if 

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you asked me to go to China, 
would I If you asked me to do a 

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church plant, would I If you 
asked me to foster a child, 

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would I? 
And those are some of the 

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questions that I don't know, I 
think I used to ask it out of 

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fear not I think it's good to 
wrestle with. 

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Would you? 
If he asked you, would you? 

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You just can't have an 
assumption that he's going to 

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make you live the hardest life. 
OK? 

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Jesus has a good life prepared 
for you. 

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And if he asked you, would you 
trust that that will be good for

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him and good for you? 
You know that song we sing a 

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lot? 
For his glory and my good, Those

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things go together. 
Would you? 

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If he asked you to go somewhere,
would you? 

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I think one of the stories 
that'll get me choked up more 

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than anything is someone that 
sacrifices much to go. 

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And I think it's because it's 
like at the very heart of the 

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Great Commission, go and tell 
and baptize and make disciples. 

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Would you, if he asked you, 
would you let me talk to those 

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of you that you're young, you 
don't have a wife and kids yet? 

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Now, if you have a wife and 
kids, you're not excused from 

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this question, but I'm I'm 
talking primarily to those 

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you're in the most flexible 
available time in your life. 

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OK, This would be the time to go
big. 

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If he asked you, if you're 
considering, if your ears are 

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open, would you give up a summer
instead of doing the prestigious

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internship that'll give you the 
most likelihood for the job that

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you want? 
Would you give that up if he 

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asked you to and just stay and 
serve or go do something 

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completely different to serve? 
Would you? 

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Would you after graduating, say 
I'm going to delay my dream job 

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and I'm going to give 2 years a 
very intentional ministry. 

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I'm going to take a job that's 
so flexible that I can just 

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volunteer so much time to serve 
Jesus and his people. 

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The Mormons do it, think about 
it, and they're compelled by 

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duty and a false religion. 
If you've been impacted by 

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Jesus, he's the only one that 
would go to the cross for you, 

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that would jump in front of a 
bullet. 

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What wouldn't you do to serve 
him if he asked? 

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I grew up in a house where my 
dad was a pastor. 

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My grandpa was a pastor. 
I loved serving in the church. 

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OK, I had a line, maybe further 
than most my age, but every time

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people asked me, are you going 
to go in? 

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Are you just going to be a 
pastor? 

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That was my line. 
Nope, I'm not going to do that. 

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You can chuckle because I when I
actually realized what I wanted 

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to do, I came here for college 
at UFI, started taking classes 

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in communication. 
I got a degree in videography 

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and as I got into videography, 
I'm like this, this is it. 

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This is what I'm passionate 
about. 

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I want to travel and make 
videos. 

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That's my dream. 
And I want to serve Jesus. 

451
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:44,800
Yes, but I'm going to do it 
while traveling and making 

452
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:48,600
videos. 
And then I get to two months out

453
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:53,000
from graduation date, I have an 
interview at what would be my my

454
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,160
preferred marketing agency here 
in town. 

455
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,840
I had an interview set. 
I'm praying about it one 

456
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:02,600
morning, one random ordinary 
morning, and I'm not excited 

457
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,280
about it. 
And I'm confused because this is

458
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,400
supposed to be my dream job. 
This is what I want to do. 

459
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,480
I want to travel and make 
videos, and here's how I can do 

460
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,840
it. 
And I can stay in Gainesville 

461
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,760
and serve in the church. 
And I was confused. 

462
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,400
And so I just asked God again, 
what do you want me to do when I

463
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,920
graduate? 
And I swear to you, I had a 

464
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:25,120
picture come flash across my 
mind, and it was a vivid picture

465
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,880
of an empty suitcase. 
And what do you think God was 

466
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,800
telling me? 
You're not going to travel and 

467
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,200
make videos? 
And the next question out of my 

468
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:38,080
mouth in prayer was God, do you 
want me to work at the church? 

469
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,800
Just work at the church. 
I was serving a ton. 

470
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,320
I was on campus every week 
handing out invites, setting up 

471
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,000
a table. 
I was here setting up chairs, a 

472
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,680
leading a small group. 
Yeah, I was serving a lot. 

473
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,720
I realized the church was 
growing and I had been honestly 

474
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,920
very impacted by Jesus through 
this local church. 

475
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,600
And so I asked, do you want me 
to serve at the church? 

476
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:02,040
And again, I swear to you, a 
vivid picture crosses my mind 

477
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,480
and it's a Lantern. 
And I knew in the Lantern it was

478
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:10,480
anointing oil and it was being 
tipped out over my head, which 

479
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,280
if you know the Old Testament, 
that's that's setting someone 

480
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,960
apart for ministry. 
And so I wrote it down in my 

481
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,400
journal. 
I went about my day. 

482
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,240
By lunch, I'd already forgotten 
it and applied to other jobs. 

483
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,880
And then later that afternoon, I
had a meeting with our lead 

484
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,520
pastor, Tony, just to catch up. 
We caught up for maybe an hour. 

485
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,600
And at the end, there was just 
kind of this pause in the 

486
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,000
conversation and I the IT was 
all coming back to me. 

487
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,640
And I think still I'm being 
bothered by what that dream 

488
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,880
meant. 
So I just asked him, Tony, how 

489
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,360
do you know if a dream is from 
God? 

490
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,720
And he asked me what it was. 
And I told him the first part, 

491
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,880
the empty suitcase. 
And then I noticed he's just 

492
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,200
bawling with tears. 
And he said, Gordon, the reason 

493
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,560
we're actually meeting is 
because the board is met. 

494
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,640
And today was to ask you if you 
would consider coming on staff 

495
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,600
as a pastor. 
The same day that I had that in 

496
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,080
the morning in prayer. 
And then then I start crying. 

497
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,800
And I was like, you haven't even
heard the second part of the 

498
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:16,680
dream and I've not looked back. 
It was hard, honestly. 

499
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,480
It was hard to grieve that other
life. 

500
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:24,240
And I remember it took those two
months of finishing school until

501
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,800
I started. 
Since then I've never looked 

502
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:30,720
back. 
Now what I want clear for all of

503
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,080
you is that full time ministry 
or going overseas is not what 

504
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,640
equals maturity. 
Being willing does. 

505
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:42,560
Would you be willing to if he 
asked a mature Christian, when 

506
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:47,680
Jesus says, hey, I want you to 
do this if he compels you, a 

507
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:53,200
mature Christian says, yes, 
Lord, I'll serve you this much. 

508
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,840
And the last one, love, Jesus 
deserves love. 

509
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,760
When you've been impacted by 
someone, it is natural and 

510
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,160
appropriate. 
And here's the one that if you 

511
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:08,760
if you get honor and you get 
service, this is maybe the one 

512
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:13,520
that'll that'll challenge. 
She broke the jar. 

513
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,080
She what she took her hair and 
wiped his feet. 

514
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,720
Imagine that scene. 
That would be uncomfortable in 

515
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,880
our day. 
That would be uncomfortable in 

516
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:26,120
their day. 
She wipes his feet with her 

517
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,840
hair. 
She breaks the jar. 

518
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,440
That very expensive ointment. 
It's gone. 

519
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,560
Why? 
Because she didn't need it back.

520
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,200
This was just a gift. 
This was a love. 

521
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:44,640
This was Apda for Jesus, for 
love. 

522
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,400
It's less about a particular 
action or behavior. 

523
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,400
It's more about that internal 
feeling, which will look 

524
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:54,800
different for everybody, OK? 
For Martha, we can't assume that

525
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,800
she wasn't loving Jesus. 
She was doing it in her own way.

526
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,240
That's what she felt compelled 
to do. 

527
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,920
For Lazarus, he's sitting at the
table loving Jesus. 

528
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,720
Probably he just raised me to 
life. 

529
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,720
I'm enjoying his company. 
I'm reclining with him at this 

530
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,840
table. 
OK, love is internal and it 

531
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:19,040
expresses itself differently, 
but but if he so compelled you 

532
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,800
to do something that would be 
countercultural, radical, get 

533
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:27,520
the judgment of the Judas and 
the disciples, would you, Would 

534
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,000
you? 
Mary was free enough. 

535
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,440
I think she felt compelled. 
I was trying to think about 

536
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,280
where to fit this in, but let me
fit it in here. 

537
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,760
There's a word in here that was 
really bugging me. 

538
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:43,480
It's in verse 3. 
Mary, therefore, any time I see 

539
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,080
a word that like, you could take
that word out and the sentence 

540
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,600
would still make sense. 
So why is that word in there? 

541
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:50,520
Now? 
This is just the result of 

542
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,080
Gordon chewing. 
I'm not telling you this is 

543
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,560
exactly how it went. 
But this is what I think the way

544
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:59,480
the story goes it, it places 
everybody in the scene and it's 

545
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,880
Martha over here and Martha's 
serving. 

546
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,480
And I picture Mary looking over 
and like, OK, there's Martha. 

547
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,320
And then she looks over at the 
table. 

548
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,400
OK, there's Lazarus. 
He's just reclining. 

549
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:15,080
But I think Mary has this moment
of being compelled to love Jesus

550
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:19,600
in a greater in a greater way. 
She looks at Jesus's feet. 

551
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,600
Nobody's washed them. 
Why is nobody washing the King's

552
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,760
feet? 
Look at what Jesus is. 

553
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,679
Don't you see what he's done for
her family? 

554
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:33,080
Jesus, life and resurrection. 
He's the one that's promising 

555
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,239
eternal life, that we'll be with
him forever. 

556
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,560
He's the Christ, the anointed 
one. 

557
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,639
Why? 
That's what the word Christ 

558
00:34:39,639 --> 00:34:42,440
means, the anointed one sent by 
God from heaven. 

559
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,960
And he's here. 
I'm looking at his flesh. 

560
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,360
Why is nobody anointing his 
head? 

561
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,679
He raised my brother from the 
dead. 

562
00:34:50,679 --> 00:34:53,120
Why is nobody serving? 
Why Lazarus? 

563
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,840
Maybe she's not judging Lazarus.
Maybe he's doing absolutely the 

564
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,880
right thing. 
But Lazarus, you're just sitting

565
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,480
there. 
There's got to be more. 

566
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:06,640
And so Mary, therefore, 
therefore she took the ointment 

567
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:11,200
and she said that this is the 
only natural and appropriate way

568
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:18,080
that I can think of to honor and
serve and love Jesus. 

569
00:35:18,720 --> 00:35:22,360
And so married. 
Therefore, the question is, 

570
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,280
would you be free enough to have
that thought go across your 

571
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:31,600
brain to have that compelling? 
Would you be free enough? 

572
00:35:32,240 --> 00:35:35,080
Or would you say, oh, but what's
Judas going to think? 

573
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,720
What are the disciples? 
This, this like it's not 

574
00:35:39,720 --> 00:35:42,880
cultural to do this. 
That's for the housemaids. 

575
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,160
I'll let I'll let someone else 
do it. 

576
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,040
I'll just go and I'll I'll love 
him by helping Martha in the 

577
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,480
kitchen. 
I'll just stay where I'm at. 

578
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,840
It's comfortable here. 
I'll love him some other time. 

579
00:35:55,240 --> 00:35:58,240
Or would you in a moment like 
this is the moment. 

580
00:35:58,240 --> 00:36:00,640
If Mary doesn't do it now, she 
won't get this opportunity 

581
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,120
again. 
She'll look back on the regret, 

582
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,600
wishing, wishing I had done 
this. 

583
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:11,520
Would you be free enough when 
you have that to therefore to 

584
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:15,760
therefore there is a Have you 
ever felt in a worship set where

585
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:19,360
the whole room is bursting? 
Would you be free enough to join

586
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,120
them? 
Would you therefore lift your 

587
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:27,160
voice and burst too? 
Would you lift your hands? 

588
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:31,080
Would you express or would you 
care about the Judases and the 

589
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:35,320
other disciples? 
What would you be willing to do 

590
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:40,600
to give Jesus the honor, 
service, and love that he 

591
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,880
deserves? 
Let me talk to the the 

592
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,960
professing nominal Christians in
the room. 

593
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,040
Maybe you don't know who you 
are, but there's a category for 

594
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,240
this in Scripture. 
Those that honor him, those that

595
00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:55,080
serve him, but those that don't 
love him. 

596
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,280
This is the one that really sets
it apart. 

597
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,440
Love. 
OK, think about there's a 

598
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,600
there's a verse in Matthew 7 
where people come to Jesus. 

599
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,360
They say, Lord, Lord, haven't we
cast out many demons in your 

600
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,920
name? 
Haven't we served in your name? 

601
00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:14,840
And Jesus says, depart from me, 
you wicked servant. 

602
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,720
I never knew you. 
We didn't have relationship, we 

603
00:37:17,720 --> 00:37:20,480
didn't have love. 
This is the one that sets it 

604
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,640
apart. 
You know the the story of the 

605
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,760
rich young ruler He honored, but
he had a line. 

606
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,440
OK, Jesus, I've done all these 
things from my youth. 

607
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:34,280
I've obeyed all these commands. 
And when Jesus tests him, he 

608
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,320
pushes the line. 
Would you sell everything you 

609
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,720
have and come and follow me? 
There's his line. 

610
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,120
It's possible to honor him but 
not love him, To serve him but 

611
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,840
not love him. 
Do you love them? 

612
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,160
You think about the Marys. 
You think about the Abrahams in 

613
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,840
the Old Testament. 
Who leaves his homeland to obey 

614
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,280
God? 
Who would give up the child of 

615
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,680
promise? 
Who would be willing to if God 

616
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,920
asked him? 
OK, these are the ones that 

617
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:07,040
honor, serve and love. 
What about you? 

618
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:15,840
Where's your line? 
You know, Jesus had a line, was 

619
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,160
tempted with a line. 
You know, Jesus in the Garden of

620
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:24,680
Gethsemane, and I think it's 
good. 

621
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,520
I think it's right that we could
do this. 

622
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:30,720
But we could say he had us on 
our minds, us on his mind. 

623
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,560
He's in the garden and the 
Father has asked him to go all 

624
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:39,480
the way to the cross and to die 
an unjust death to pay for yours

625
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:43,120
and my sins. 
And Jesus is tempted with a 

626
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,720
line, isn't he, Father, Not this
cup? 

627
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:51,080
Is there any other way? 
Is there any other way that I 

628
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,080
could bring them in other than 
the cross? 

629
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,360
And he's agonizing. 
He's sweating blood. 

630
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,160
And then he says there's no 
line. 

631
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,600
There's nothing I wouldn't do to
honor the Father. 

632
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,600
There's nothing I wouldn't do to
serve him, Father, Not my will, 

633
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,520
but yours, with you and me and 
mine. 

634
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,560
Jesus does that, and he does go 
to the cross, and he does die an

635
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:16,600
unjust death, and he does endure
the pain for the joy that was 

636
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,960
set before him, which is that he
would be lifted up and honored 

637
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,520
in heaven forever, the 
everlasting King. 

638
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,800
And we would be able to come in.
And one day we're going to sit 

639
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:30,080
at the table with them, 
reclining, serving, enjoying, 

640
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,600
loving, all because of what 
Jesus has done for us. 

641
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:39,200
If you've been so impacted by 
Jesus, what He's done for you, 

642
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:43,200
and who He is, what will you 
therefore do? 

643
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,920
What has He done for you? 
Has He forgiven you of all your 

644
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,800
sin? 
Has He given you a new life? 

645
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,280
Did He leave heaven so that He 
could come and relate with you 

646
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:59,120
and all of your sufferings? 
Are all the promises for you? 

647
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,520
What has He done for you? 
Who is He to you? 

648
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:09,000
Is He your honored guest? 
If so, Christians. 

649
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:13,800
Jesus is calling you to enjoy 
deeper relationship with Him 

650
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,280
today, deeper relationship with 
Him. 

651
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:24,360
Thus you will be satisfied, you 
are free to unhitch yourself 

652
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:29,480
from the things of this world to
enjoy the life you were intended

653
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,240
to live, that of giving Him 
honor, service and love. 

654
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:40,280
If you're not a Christian, I 
invite you today to throw away 

655
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:45,000
your life, to hate it so that 
you could get a life you could 

656
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:49,440
never dream of. 
There's a verse later in chapter

657
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,200
12. 
We'll finish with this worship 

658
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:52,560
team. 
You can go ahead and come on up.

659
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,440
We'll get to this in a few 
weeks. 

660
00:40:55,440 --> 00:41:00,480
But this is in verse 25. 
Jesus says whoever loves his 

661
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:04,840
life loses it. 
Think of Judas and the 

662
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:09,320
Pharisees. 
Whoever hates his life in this 

663
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,240
world will keep it for eternal 
life. 

664
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:16,960
If anyone serves me, he must 
follow me, and where I am, there

665
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:21,680
will my servant be also. 
If anyone serves me, the Father 

666
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,080
will honor him. 
I invite you to lose your life 

667
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:30,760
and to hate it so that you could
have this life for eternity and 

668
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:34,560
this life here that's free and 
as God intended.

