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Loving Father, we thank you so 
much for your invitation to us 

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today to draw near to You, to 
come to the fount of every 

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blessing, to drink from the 
waters of life freely, and to 

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bring glory and worship in unto 
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Lord, today we want to 
acknowledge how great you are, 

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how good you are to us, how 
merciful and loving. 

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Thank you for your grace. 
Thank you for the hope that you 

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give to those who believe in 
you. 

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Thank you for the gift of your 
beloved Son that kept him of our

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salvation. 
So Father, we thank you for him 

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today. 
We thank you for the offering 

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that we've been able to give to 
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Lord in love. 
Today we bring that to you with 

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simplicity and dedicate it to 
your service and to your 

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Kingdom. 
We thank you for your precious 

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word, Lord, and as the senior 
school and teachers and the 

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children go out, we ask for your
blessing and help for them. 

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We thank you for Billy and for 
the word that he has prepared 

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and the message from yourself. 
Lord, we pray for your blessing.

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We pray for open hearts as we 
hear your word to us today. 

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We pray this in Jesus name, 
Amen. 

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Thank you, Andrew. 
Good morning Church hey are open

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with me in your Bibles to the 
book of Luke, the book of Luke 

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and this morning will be in Luke
chapter 6. 

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Now if you're if you're visiting
or you are new welcome special 

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welcomes you. 
We are on a journey as a church 

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through the gospel of Luke. 
One of the four accounts we have

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of the life of our Lord Jesus 
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at and the gospel of Luke is 
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that Jesus gave, which we'd call
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literally because he he came out
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delivered the sermon to his 
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people who were listening as 
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And so Dan took us through the 
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be looking at the second section
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So let's read. 
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this morning at versus 27 
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through 36. 
So let's let's read the word and

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then we will jump in. 
This is the word of our Lord. 

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But I say to you, who here love 
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who hate you, bless those who 
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abuse you. 
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the cheek offered the other 
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away your cloak, do not withhold
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Give to everyone who begs from 
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away your goods, do not demand 
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And as you wish that others 
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If you love those who love you, 
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For even sinners love those who 
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And if you do good to those who 
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that to you? 
For even sinners do the same. 

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And if you lend to those from 
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credit is that to you? 
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get back the same amount. 
But love your enemies and do 

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good, and lend expecting nothing
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And your reward will be great, 
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High. 
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and the evil. 
Be merciful even as your Father 

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is merciful. 
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Well, if you've seen the movie 
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remember the scene where Forest 
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Jeannie and he says I love you 
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I'm not going to try his voice. 
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Jenny replies to him. 
Forest, you don't know what love

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is. 
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is, it's a word that's thrown 
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in our society. 
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the world, I think highlights 
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obsessed with love. 
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love. 
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100 songs of the year, they 
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had love as a key theme of the 
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The year before, it was 90%. 
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some way to sneak a side plot 
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Like if you go to watch Pearl 
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about Pearl Harbour, you're not 
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Harbour, but you might learn one
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Most people in New Zealand, if 
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at night, you get to choose 
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Love Is blind love on the 
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I think our society is obsessed 
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I think Love Is All around us. 
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culture references because I 
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gives us an insight into the 
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It gives us an insight into, you
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are feeding us, whether we're 
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whether it's going on in the 
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that are feeding us. 
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these movies are successful for 
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searching for something. 
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love and, and, and, and the 
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idea about love, a certain 
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But as we come to these words 
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as he speaks about love, I can't
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he's speaking, like Jeannie when
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know what love is. 
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missed what true biblical love 
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Have we missed what true 
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And that's what we're going to 
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at this. 
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us this morning two ways to 
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He's going to compare and 
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with the love that should 
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his followers. 
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doing in this entire cement on 
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the latter half of Luke chapter 
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He is showing this is the way 
that the world lives and this is

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what it should look like for his
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Jesus Christ. 
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this is the way that the world 
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and happiness and joy. 
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happiness and joy should look 
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And so this week he's going to 
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And then next week we're going 
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look at that in the in the sense
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But this week we're looking at 
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How does the world view love? 
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followers view love? 
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simply is that we should love 
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We should love differently to 
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The love of a believer, the love
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should look remarkably different
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And I will just say at the 
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typically think of romantic 
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Jesus isn't primarily speaking 
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He's focused on how we we view 
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people around us. 
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of love is going to be the kind 
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obviously to our enemies, but 
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spouses, to our children, to our
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He's giving us a new framework 
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So what we're going to do 
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into the middle of the passage 
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love of the world. 
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the world values that the world 
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then ask, OK, what is the kind 
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followers of Jesus? 
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read again versus 32 to 34? 
Jesus sees if you love those who

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love you, what benefit is that 
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For even sinners love those who 
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And if you do good to those who 
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that to you? 
For even sinners do the same. 

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And if you lean to those from 
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credit is that to you? 
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get back the same amount. 
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You'll see three times in this 
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do that. 
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So Jesus is saying that there is
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society or our sinful nature 
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So the world does love, but what
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Well, I think simply the love of
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transactional. 
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inherently transactional. 
Look at the way he sees it, he 

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says. 
The love of the world will love 

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those who love them. 
The love of the world would do 

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good to those who do good to 
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It will lend to those whom they 
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So it's completely dependent. 
I will love those who will love 

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me back. 
I'll do good if I will get good 

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back. 
I'll lend if I get something 

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back and return. 
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focus of this kind of love? 
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And so first and foremost, the 
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receive the ground level. 
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loved. 
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know I'm going to get good in 
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So first and foremost, the love 
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love before it's willing to give
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It's inward focused. 
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And it's interesting because I 
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or you know, if you look at the 
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love, I don't think they're 
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If you ask, you know, someone in
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what is love. 
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say this, but I think when we 
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when we look at our own hearts, 
this is inherent in the way that

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we live and in the way that we 
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When the love that is coming 
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relationship of love breaks 
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The top song in New Zealand at 
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It's called Man I Need. 
You might recognise it from the 

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radio. 
It's it's pretty catchy. 

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But one of the main lyrics in 
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I need. 
Tell me you got something to 

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give. 
I want it, and I think that that

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kind of speaks to that. 
What can I get from you? 

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What have you got for me? 
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I will hand out love. 
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goes the other way. 
If we receive evil, if we 

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receive wrong, what do we want? 
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You know, if you're going to 
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back. 
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satisfying. 
Any action movie you watch, we 

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have this. 
If you've ever read like a Lee 

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Child Reacher book, usually the 
last scene finishes with Jack 

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Reacher, the good guy walking 
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guys in a pool of his own blood.
He's died and justice is done 

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and the reader is satisfied 
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then evil was handed back to the
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This is what we want. 
Jesus is gonna give us different

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vision here. 
And so I think inherent, this is

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the way that the world loves. 
It is a transactional two way 

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relationship. 
It's it's focused on self. 

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When the love end breaks down, 
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And I think inherent in this is 
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primarily not a feeling. 
Sorry, love is primarily a 

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feeling. 
It's not an action. 

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Love is a feeling. 
It's not an action. 

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No, it's not a choice. 
The love. 

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It's a feeling that we have the 
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We have that feeling. 
When that feeling goes away, the

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love goes away. 
That's how it goes, and I think 

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the world will tell us that love
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When the feeling leaves, I no 
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So what? 
What's the problem with this? 

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What's the problem with this 
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And we'll get to it more later. 
I'm going to kind of unpack it 

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all a little bit more later, but
I'll just lay this out. 

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I think the problem is if If 
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If love is if love is 
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This is not love Christian 
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I really enjoy Edward Welch. 
He sees to us in this model 

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we're not loving people. 
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we are needing people. 
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people is not love, it is 
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So we're actually like a Leech. 
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going, I need to get from you 
what what I need out of this 

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relationship. 
This relationship is not you 

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focused. 
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And when I stop getting what I 
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relationship. 
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all does. 
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cynical take, but maybe I'd ask 
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I've been assisting my heart 
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spends a lot of time doing this,
looking to different 

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relationships based off what I 
can get out of it and and I grow

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better when the N word is not 
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So how does the world define 
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It is, it is transactional, it 
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And so I think that's what Jesus
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You love those who love you. 
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the world defines love, I think 
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should we as followers of Jesus,
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How should we love? 
Let's read what She's a sees. 

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Going back to verse 27, he sees.
But I say to you, who here love 

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your enemies, do good to those 
who hate you, bless those who 

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curse you, pray for those who 
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It's the one who strikes you on 
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Also to the one who takes away 
your cloak. 

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Do not withhold your tunic. 
Give to everyone who begs from 

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you and to the one who takes 
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Do not demand them back and as 
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you, do so to them. 
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inward focused, the love that we
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us as followers of Jesus as 
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It's not transactional. 
It's not waiting for something 

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to come inward. 
It is completely outward 

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focused. 
I think Jesus is showing this to

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the extreme right when he sees 
love your enemies. 

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We should love our enemies, do 
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those who curse us and so on. 
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to love your enemies, it just 
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framework of the world. 
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receiving is enmity, hatred, 
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And so yet actually, even when 
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it back with love, goodness, 
blessing, prayer. 

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And he's going to give some 
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in verse 29 and 30. 
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comes in and strikes you on the 
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literally, if someone comes in, 
you're walking down the street, 

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someone slaps you on the cheek. 
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What's your first reaction like?
The blood starts to boil. 

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You want vengeance. 
Maybe you'll assess how big they

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are before you think about 
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But you wouldn't want vengeance,
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You would want or you'd want 
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do something to it. 
We want vengeance. 

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Jesus is no, no, no. 
Turn the other cheek. 

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Literally offer them you. 
You struck my right. 

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Here's my left. 
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takes your cloak, so think about
your outer garment, your your 

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hoodie, your jersey. 
So someone came and I was 

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wearing a hoodie. 
They stole my hoodie. 

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I shouldn't run and try to 
tackle them and get it back. 

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I should be taking off my 
T-shirt and say hey, you forgot 

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this. 
You should take this as well if 

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people big from you. 
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someone's asking you for a loan 
and and they have, there's 

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absolutely no premise that they 
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like, I'm pretty sure I'm not 
getting this money back. 

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Don't be like, no, this isn't a 
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Say no, give them the money, 
give them the line. 

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If someone steals, do not seek 
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What? 
What's the point with all these 

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examples? 
I don't know if they necessarily

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specific instruction. 
He's not saying that we should 

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go and be completely cavalier 
with our money in every 

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situation. 
I think what he's saying here is

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he, he's shocking us to see what
kind of love this is in 

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comparison to the love of the 
world meaning this. 

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We pay no mind to the love that 
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The way that we view the world, 
our first attitude, our first 

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mindset when we see the world, 
when, when we see other people 

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as love, love, love, love. 
How can I bless you? 

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How can I love you? 
Not OK What? 

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What's in it for me? 
Not weighing up a cost benefit 

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analysis. 
Is this gonna be worth my time 

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and my head space? 
No love, Love, love, love and 

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this is a love that shows itself
in action. 

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John season first John 318. 
He says let us not love and word

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and talk, but indeed and in 
truth loving and correction. 

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So Jesus here is calling us to 
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It's not dependent on the love 
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It's not dependent on getting it
back and return to the point 

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that we would even love our 
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And for some of you, I'm aware 
when I say that word enemy, love

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your enemy. 
For some of you, immediately 

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names come to mind. 
Immediately you're like, yes, 

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okay, I got a few people I can 
put in that category pretty 

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comfortably for some, I guess 
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if, when I say enemy, those 
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This instruction from Jesus, it 
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challenge because you've got 
faces, you've got situations, 

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you've got hurt, you've got 
abuse. 

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What you, I don't know what it 
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And what I will say is a few 
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When Jesus says love your 
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to trust. 
You wanna make that clear? 

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To love does not mean to trust. 
O, if you've if there has been 

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abuse, if there has been harm, 
if there has been hurt, it does 

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not mean that the relationship 
must be restored all the way 

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that you're going. 
Yeah, come into my house, hang 

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out with my kids, whatever it 
looks like. 

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He's not saying that, but what 
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That trust is earned, but that 
love can be given. 

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He's speaking here of a heart 
attitude of love. 

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I do not wish the other person 
ill. 

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I want to extend to them the 
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And for others I feel thinking, 
I don't necessarily know if I 

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have any enemies in the way that
he's speaking about this. 

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I don't think this lets us off 
the hook. 

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In fact, they know I know that 
it doesn't for two reasons. 

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Firstly, I will say enemies will
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Enemies will come, I said 
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especially when he's using the 
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mind religious persecution. 
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context, he he talked about the 
blessings and the woes last week

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in verse 22. 
He says blessed are you when 

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people hate you and when they 
exclude you and revile you and 

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spoon your name as evil on 
account of the Son of man. 

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I think especially what Jesus 
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persecution. 
And in this context to these 

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people, he's thinking of people 
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their faith. 
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Scripture as a believer that 
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That policy is in Second Timothy
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All who desire to live a godly 
life and Jesus Christ will be 

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persecuted. 
So if we want to follow Jesus, 

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if we want to follow him with 
our lives, there will come a 

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time where enemies, persecution,
opposition come even just on 

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account of our faith. 
And yet, there are many other 

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times in our life where we will 
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We'll come against opposition. 
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family member or a friendship 
that has broken down, or just 

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harm and hurt from the different
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Enemies will come. 
Opposition will come, but I'd 

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also say this, this, this 
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think what Jesus is giving us 
here is an extreme example to 

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show how he is redefining love. 
This is a, this is a framework 

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for how we should love our 
enemies. 

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But as I said before, our 
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children, our coworkers, our 
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outward seeking that that is not
waiting for love to come first. 

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And so, so maybe right now 
there's different situations, 

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even in this room, marriages 
where there is conflict in you 

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and you're going, I'm not 
apologising for nothing until I 

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get an apology first, until they
realise what what they've done 

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to me. 
I'm not, I'm not acting first in

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love until I feel love. 
I think I deserve to feel love 

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in this marriage or in this 
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I'm gonna wait for that. 
And then, and then we'll see 

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what happens. 
Or there's a coworker you you've

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found out has been talking 
behind your back and you you've 

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just signed. 
Until they apologise, I'm just 

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going to completely ignore them.
They walk past me at work, I'm 

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going to look in the other way. 
Maybe maybe there's a friend 

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that there's been a relationship
breakdown and and you go I'm 

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nothing is going to happen until
they make that first step of 

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resolution. 
Jesus is saying our heart 

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posture and this should always 
be love, love, love, regardless 

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of how much love comes back. 
And this is a hard task that 

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he's calling us to because our 
sinful self wants vengeance. 

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We want justice to be done. 
We feel like we need to receive 

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love. 
Jesus is saying no love, love, 

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love. 
And so if that's the kind of 

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love we're called to, the 
question inevitably comes U, how

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on earth do you expect me to do 
that? 

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How on earth do you expect me to
live in that kind of way? 

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On what basis, Billy, you don't 
understand my situation. 

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You don't understand the hurt 
that has come my way. 

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You don't understand the 
frustration that this person is 

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to me. 
And even if you look at these 

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different diagrams, you you go 
Billy, you notice that in the 

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second one there there's nothing
coming inwards except anger and 

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enmity. 
Maybe you're in a marriage. 

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It's feeling pretty 1 sided and 
a different relationship. 

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You go on what basis of is any 
of this actually possible, 

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actually realistic? 
And to which I would say to you 

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simply, it's not. 
It's not if you just go. 

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I'm gonna pull myself out by the
boots. 

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Bootstraps. 
Ohh. 

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Yeah. 
That that that was challenging. 

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OK, I'm gonna go out. 
I'm gonna try. 

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Love, love, love. 
You could maintain it for a 

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while. 
I think over time you would grow

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bitter, you would grow empty and
frustrated in the different 

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relationships that you're in. 
If you just say I'm just going 

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to go try smash this out, I want
to speak to that on what basis? 

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How so? 
Firstly, we can love our enemies

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because we, as believers of 
Jesus Christ, know ultimately 

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that vengeance belongs to the 
Lord. 

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We know that we do not need to 
get even. 

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We do not need our relationships
to be completely equal. 

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It is not our job to bring about
justice on earth. 

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Pulses and Romans 12 verse 19 Do
not avenge yourselves, because 

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vengeance belongs to the Lord. 
Our job is to love and leave 

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justice to the Lord and know 
ultimately every wrong will be 

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made right. 
And that is not our job. 

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But also, I just want to look at
this as 35 and 36 and highlight 

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a few things for us as we think 
about how are we to love this 

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way. 
This 35 You see his love, your 

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enemies do good and lend, 
expecting nothing in return, and

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your reward will be great, and 
you will be sons of the Most 

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High. 
For He is kind to the ungrateful

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and the evil, being merciful, 
even as your Father is merciful.

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The basis for us to love in this
way is in first understanding 

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that we are recipients of this 
kind of love. 

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The basis for us loving in this 
way is understanding that we are

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recipients of this kind of love.
Look at the end of verse 35. 

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Speaking about God, He says He 
is kind to the ungrateful and 

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the evil. 
Well, who is that? 

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That was us. 
We were the ungrateful. 

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We were the evil. 
And he's actually pointing us 

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here. 
Jesus is that we were first 

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recipients if we put our faith 
and trust in Jesus Christ. 

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We were first recipients of 
God's completely outward focused

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00:25:32,110 --> 00:25:34,110
love. 
I mean, this is the most one 

453
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sided act of love you could ever
imagine. 

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And, and we're actually on the 
the receiving side, we have 

455
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first received the greatest act 
of love when Jesus Christ went 

456
00:25:42,890 --> 00:25:45,960
to the cross to make a sacrifice
for sin so that all who put 

457
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their faith and trust in Jesus 
Christ will have their sins 

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00:25:49,620 --> 00:25:55,110
forgiven, wiped out clean simply
by faith in Jesus Christ, in a 

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right relationship with God. 
Paul puts it this way in Rome's 

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fly verse 10. 
He says for a while we were 

461
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enemies. 
We were reconciled to God by the

462
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death of his Son. 
We were enemies. 

463
00:26:09,050 --> 00:26:15,050
God loved us. 
Now we are to do the same and 

464
00:26:15,060 --> 00:26:18,810
that that's why he says in verse
35, when when we love this way, 

465
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he says, your reward will be 
great and you will be sons of 

466
00:26:22,580 --> 00:26:25,290
the most high. 
He's saying, hey, when we love 

467
00:26:25,300 --> 00:26:28,210
like this, we show ourselves to 
be like our father. 

468
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,150
We're showing the family DN A 
we're showing that we are of God

469
00:26:32,220 --> 00:26:39,440
because we are loving like God. 
And so so why does the world, 

470
00:26:39,790 --> 00:26:41,820
why does the world love the way 
they do? 

471
00:26:41,830 --> 00:26:45,820
Why does the world need this 
love that's coming inwards? 

472
00:26:46,590 --> 00:26:50,700
And I think the world loves the 
way that they do because we were

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designed to be loved. 
We were designed to know God's 

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00:26:56,380 --> 00:27:02,800
love, and the reality is, if we 
don't find it in God, we will 

475
00:27:02,810 --> 00:27:05,320
look for it. 
In fact, we'll demand it from 

476
00:27:05,330 --> 00:27:08,710
other people there. 
There is a gaping need, a gaping

477
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,610
hole in our heart to know the 
love of God. 

478
00:27:10,620 --> 00:27:12,230
We're either gonna look for it 
from God. 

479
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,110
We're gonna demand it from 
somewhere else. 

480
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,530
Edward Welch, who I quoted 
earlier, he he describes that 

481
00:27:20,540 --> 00:27:23,780
that we are living as love tanks
with a leak. 

482
00:27:24,660 --> 00:27:27,450
So you imagine if I've got a 
plastic cup and, and I drill a 

483
00:27:27,460 --> 00:27:30,670
hole in the bottom of the cup 
and then I fill it up with 

484
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,370
water. 
Yeah, it's gonna fill up. 

485
00:27:32,380 --> 00:27:35,770
But overtime, it's just gonna be
leaking out and leaking out and 

486
00:27:35,780 --> 00:27:38,870
leaking out and, and, and after 
not very long, I'm gonna need to

487
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,700
go and, and fill it up again. 
And he's saying when when we 

488
00:27:42,710 --> 00:27:45,620
live our lives looking for what 
we should be looking for this 

489
00:27:45,630 --> 00:27:48,380
way, when we look for it amongst
other people, when we look for 

490
00:27:48,390 --> 00:27:51,090
other people to give us the love
that we need from God, we're 

491
00:27:51,100 --> 00:27:52,510
like these love tanks with the 
leak. 

492
00:27:53,360 --> 00:27:56,290
Yes, they give us this feeling 
of, of love and acceptance, but 

493
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,930
slowly it's going to leak out 
and leak out and leak out 

494
00:27:58,940 --> 00:28:01,870
because it's it's not enough. 
And so we go looking for it 

495
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,050
again and again and again and we
get upset when it's not coming 

496
00:28:05,060 --> 00:28:07,080
in. 
Every relationship needs to give

497
00:28:07,090 --> 00:28:14,590
us something. 
We'll continue to look to be 

498
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,290
filled, but we'll never be full.
And I just want you to 

499
00:28:17,300 --> 00:28:21,050
understand this. 
Only when we know that our 

500
00:28:21,060 --> 00:28:25,010
desire to be fully known and 
fully loved is meant in Jesus 

501
00:28:25,020 --> 00:28:27,870
Christ can we begin to love as 
He teaches us to. 

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00:28:29,790 --> 00:28:34,410
Only when we are no, Only when 
we know this desire that we have

503
00:28:34,420 --> 00:28:38,150
is only met in God, will we stop
looking horizontally for what 

504
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,870
can only be found vertically. 
We're going to stop looking at 

505
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:46,560
every relationship as a need to 
fill our leaky cup. 

506
00:28:48,170 --> 00:28:52,240
And really what we're meant to 
do, I think, is to know truly 

507
00:28:52,250 --> 00:28:55,140
and seek to know that we are 
loved by God and to then bind to

508
00:28:55,150 --> 00:28:59,160
that love comes down to us and 
we bend it and we extend it into

509
00:28:59,170 --> 00:29:04,120
every relationship that we have.
And so we are not leaky cups, 

510
00:29:04,130 --> 00:29:06,780
but we are, we are these these 
systems of water that are 

511
00:29:06,790 --> 00:29:13,110
overflowing into every 
relationship that we have to 

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00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,620
love as we ought. 
We need to know God's love. 

513
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:21,620
It's as simple as that. 
But how? 

514
00:29:21,910 --> 00:29:27,110
How can we know this love? 
How can we truly know the love 

515
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,910
of God? 
And I want you to turn with me 

516
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:33,370
to Ephesians. 
Ephesians is a couple of books 

517
00:29:34,060 --> 00:29:35,490
after Luke and the New 
Testament. 

518
00:29:35,500 --> 00:29:40,000
Ephesians chapter 3 and we're 
going to finish the this morning

519
00:29:41,990 --> 00:29:44,700
because I want us to to think 
about as we come to a close, we 

520
00:29:44,710 --> 00:29:48,880
thinking, OK, if we are to love 
as Jesus teaches us, we must 

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00:29:48,890 --> 00:29:53,800
first know and be filled and be 
satisfied by the love of God. 

522
00:29:53,810 --> 00:29:56,370
What does that mean for us to 
know God's love? 

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00:29:56,380 --> 00:30:00,890
What does it mean for us to be 
satisfied in the end of chapter 

524
00:30:00,940 --> 00:30:03,710
3 of Ephesians? 
Paul praised this incredible 

525
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:08,440
prayer for the Ephesian church 
in the instance of this prayer, 

526
00:30:08,450 --> 00:30:15,090
and I'll read this 17 he sang. 
His prayer is that Christ may 

527
00:30:15,100 --> 00:30:19,070
dwell in your heart through 
faith, and that you being rooted

528
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:23,080
and grounded in love, may have 
strength to comprehend with all 

529
00:30:23,090 --> 00:30:26,470
the Saints what is the breadth 
and length and height and depth,

530
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,950
and to know the love of Christ 
that surpasses knowledge, that 

531
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:38,400
you may be filled with all the 
fullness of God Ull uses 2 words

532
00:30:38,410 --> 00:30:41,860
here. 
He uses the word comprehend and 

533
00:30:41,870 --> 00:30:46,070
he uses the word No. 
We probably use those words 

534
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:47,950
interchangeably, but they're 
different words. 

535
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,590
The word he uses therefore know 
that is an academic knowledge 

536
00:30:51,660 --> 00:30:53,870
that is a I. 
I know this to be true because 

537
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,500
I've read it and I kind of 
understood it. 

538
00:30:56,610 --> 00:30:58,720
But then he uses this word 
comprehend. 

539
00:30:58,730 --> 00:31:00,810
I think a better word would be 
the word grasp. 

540
00:31:01,090 --> 00:31:03,160
Now, this is a knowledge in our 
bones. 

541
00:31:04,300 --> 00:31:06,900
So the common example, we use 
this for young adults this week.

542
00:31:07,010 --> 00:31:09,100
It's one thing to know that 
honey is sweet. 

543
00:31:09,110 --> 00:31:11,040
I could do all the science. 
I could work out. 

544
00:31:11,110 --> 00:31:13,520
Yes, OK, I've done the math. 
I've worked out the chemical 

545
00:31:13,530 --> 00:31:16,090
makeup of honey. 
Honey is sweet, but it's a 

546
00:31:16,100 --> 00:31:17,580
completely other thing, a 
different thing. 

547
00:31:17,590 --> 00:31:20,320
If I gave you a teaspoon of 
honey and told you to taste it 

548
00:31:20,330 --> 00:31:24,220
and you'd go, honey is sweet. 
I knew honey is sweet, but now I

549
00:31:24,230 --> 00:31:27,730
know honey is sweet. 
These are the two different 

550
00:31:27,740 --> 00:31:30,220
types of knowing. 
Paul is praying for here that 

551
00:31:30,230 --> 00:31:34,580
they would know academically, 
but they now would know the love

552
00:31:34,590 --> 00:31:37,980
of Jesus Christ. 
And it's going to tell us a few 

553
00:31:37,990 --> 00:31:38,540
things. 
I think. 

554
00:31:38,550 --> 00:31:41,540
Firstly, it's going to tell us 
that it's awfully easy for us as

555
00:31:41,550 --> 00:31:45,570
Christians to know about the 
love of God and yet at the same 

556
00:31:45,580 --> 00:31:50,210
time not really know it. 
It's awfully easy for us to know

557
00:31:50,220 --> 00:31:53,350
about the love of God and yet 
not really know it. 

558
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,930
He's speaking to Christians here
in Ephesus. 

559
00:31:56,940 --> 00:31:58,330
He's already addressed that in 
the letter. 

560
00:31:58,380 --> 00:32:00,690
These are people who love Jesus.
They, they, they have accepted 

561
00:32:00,700 --> 00:32:03,350
the gospel. 
But Paul saying here, there's 

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00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:06,790
more here for us. 
We know Jesus loves us, but 

563
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,530
often we don't really know at 
any saying it actually should be

564
00:32:09,540 --> 00:32:14,130
a life changing reality that 
shapes the way that we live and 

565
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,550
shapes the way that we love 
others. 

566
00:32:17,500 --> 00:32:20,330
And secondly, I think this is 
showing us that this kind of 

567
00:32:20,340 --> 00:32:24,470
knowledge, this tasting, this 
personal knowing is available to

568
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,400
us. 
It's available to us because 

569
00:32:27,410 --> 00:32:29,320
this is the essence of Paul's 
prayer. 

570
00:32:29,390 --> 00:32:33,440
He's praying that they may know 
this kind of love. 

571
00:32:36,290 --> 00:32:41,060
I I think we spend a lot of our 
lives not truly knowing the love

572
00:32:41,070 --> 00:32:42,900
of God. 
We know about it, but we don't 

573
00:32:42,910 --> 00:32:46,450
know it. 
Oses it's available. 

574
00:32:47,850 --> 00:32:50,180
I think that's the point of this
prayer. 

575
00:32:51,700 --> 00:32:54,890
And so as I close, I want to 
give you a few things to Mull on

576
00:32:56,230 --> 00:32:59,580
about what it looks like for us 
to meditate and know the love of

577
00:32:59,590 --> 00:33:03,370
God and then to go out and 
extend that to other people. 

578
00:33:06,540 --> 00:33:09,370
What does it look like for us to
strive to know God's love? 

579
00:33:10,190 --> 00:33:13,810
First thing I'd encourage you to
do is to meditate on God's love.

580
00:33:13,820 --> 00:33:16,190
And when I say meditate, I'm not
talking about the, you know, 

581
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,760
Eastern meditation where you 
empty your mind of everything 

582
00:33:18,770 --> 00:33:20,900
else. 
Actually, biblical meditation is

583
00:33:20,910 --> 00:33:24,040
filling your mind. 
It's filling your mind with with

584
00:33:24,050 --> 00:33:28,230
truth. 0 Meditate on God's love.
So I'd say that's fine. 

585
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,590
Assam, I'd encourage you. 
Sam 103. 

586
00:33:31,580 --> 00:33:34,250
Sit with Sam 103 with a pen and 
paper. 

587
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:38,470
Set aside maybe 15 minutes, 
thirty minutes, and ask basic 

588
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,070
questions. 
What does this sum tell me about

589
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,490
the love of God? 
That tells me that it is 

590
00:33:44,500 --> 00:33:48,080
steadfast. 
It tells me that it is from 

591
00:33:48,090 --> 00:33:50,830
everlasting to everlasting, so 
it will never stop. 

592
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,130
It tells me that it is higher 
than the heavens are above the 

593
00:33:53,140 --> 00:33:55,990
earth, so it is bigger than I 
can comprehend. 

594
00:33:56,060 --> 00:33:58,190
What does this tell me about the
love of God? 

595
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,610
And then preach that to 
yourself. 

596
00:34:00,820 --> 00:34:04,740
What does this actually mean for
me if this is true, that God 

597
00:34:04,750 --> 00:34:06,970
loves me in this way? 
Think about applying this to 

598
00:34:06,980 --> 00:34:10,800
different areas of your life. 
Sit with it, that it sit on your

599
00:34:10,810 --> 00:34:14,040
heart, and then respond. 
I'd encourage you come back to 

600
00:34:14,050 --> 00:34:19,949
Ephesians chapter 3. 
Ask God that He may help you to 

601
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,320
know His love. 
And this is not OK. 

602
00:34:23,330 --> 00:34:25,489
I'm gonna do this one time and 
then I'm sorted. 

603
00:34:26,199 --> 00:34:29,230
Actually in some 103 they say, 
you know, bless the Lord and 

604
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,820
forget not all his benefits. 
Which means, you know, we're 

605
00:34:31,830 --> 00:34:33,230
very quick to forget these 
things. 

606
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,770
We need to remind ourselves 
everyday. 

607
00:34:36,460 --> 00:34:38,460
And so I'd encourage you to 
build that practise into your 

608
00:34:38,469 --> 00:34:41,110
spiritual life, of reminding 
yourself of what we often 

609
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:44,060
forget, which is that God loves 
us. 

610
00:34:45,790 --> 00:34:48,900
And my period is that from that 
we would go out into our lives, 

611
00:34:48,969 --> 00:34:52,860
not as leaky cups, but as 
overflowing systems of water, 

612
00:34:53,690 --> 00:34:58,660
pouring love into those around 
us, loving our enemies, loving 

613
00:34:58,670 --> 00:35:03,480
our spouses, loving our friends,
loving our family as followers 

614
00:35:03,490 --> 00:35:10,090
of Jesus as we ought to, bending
this love out, displaying this 

615
00:35:10,140 --> 00:35:13,150
love for us. 
O, that's my review. 

616
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,870
And it's, it's been such a 
challenge for me. 

617
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,710
We we will go through seasons in
our life with us where love is 

618
00:35:19,720 --> 00:35:23,640
easy, where it feels like love 
does not demand a lot from us. 

619
00:35:24,390 --> 00:35:27,160
We feel like, you know, the love
is more or less 5050. 

620
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,550
There are gonna be seasons in 
life where it's not like that 

621
00:35:30,260 --> 00:35:33,350
and it's actually going to 
expose our real motives and 

622
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,550
love. 
Are we going to love the way 

623
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,230
that that Jesus calls us to 
love? 

624
00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:41,770
Are we going to be outward 
focused in our relationships? 

625
00:35:42,860 --> 00:35:46,490
So as we close, I might pray for
us this prayer in Ephesians 

626
00:35:46,500 --> 00:35:47,870
chapter 3, and then I'll sit 
down. 

627
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:54,020
Let's pray. 
For this reason I bow my knees 

628
00:35:54,030 --> 00:35:58,290
before the Father, from whom 
every family in heaven and on 

629
00:35:58,300 --> 00:36:01,740
earth is named, that according 
to the riches of His glory He 

630
00:36:01,750 --> 00:36:04,880
may grant you to be strengthened
with power through His Spirit 

631
00:36:04,950 --> 00:36:09,080
and your inner being, so that 
Christ may dwell in your hearts 

632
00:36:09,090 --> 00:36:12,030
through faith. 
That's you being rooted and 

633
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,030
grounded in love, may have 
strength to comprehend with all 

634
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:19,390
the Saints what is the breadth 
and length and height and depth,

635
00:36:19,460 --> 00:36:22,780
and to know the love of Christ 
that surpasses knowledge, that 

636
00:36:22,790 --> 00:36:24,690
you may be filled with all the 
fullness of God. 

637
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,260
Now to him who is able to do far
more abundantly than all we ask,

638
00:36:29,270 --> 00:36:32,740
will think according to the 
power at work within us. 

639
00:36:32,750 --> 00:36:36,300
To Him be glory and the church 
and in Christ Jesus throughout 

640
00:36:36,310 --> 00:36:37,930
all generations, forever and 
ever. 

641
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:39,290
I mean.