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Chapter 10, second Samuel 
chapter 10. 

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Amazing to me that the god of 
Heaven would be willing to 

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stoop. 
As low as Humanity, the fact 

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that Jesus Christ was willing as
the Son of God, to become the 

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son of man and to come down and 
not just that he was willing to 

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come down to this earth and live
with men. 

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Not that he was just willing to 
be born of a as a baby and all 

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of those other things but the 
fact that he was willing to die 

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on the cross for my sins. 
But an amazing thing. 

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The fact that he knew that 
almost 2,000 years later I was 

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going to come along and I was 
Going to be a sinner and I was 

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going to need somebody that can 
save me and the fact that Jesus 

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Christ, knowing that I was going
to sin against him. 

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Still died on the cross for me 
as an amazing thing. 

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And then on top of that, the 
fact that God as God of the 

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universe and boy, I don't know 
if you've ever seen some of 

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these things on Facebook or 
other places where, you know, 

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they start to kind of try to 
describe how massive the 

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universe is and and honestly 
they still have no idea how big 

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the universe is. 
And the fact that there are just

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galaxies upon in galaxies upon 
galaxies and just unlimited 

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number of stars in and planets 
and all kinds of stuff out 

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there. 
And the think the fact that as 

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far as we know, this is the only
place in the entire universe 

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where there is life. 
And God loved us so much that he

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was willing to send his only son
to this tiny little dot of a 

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place in the middle of nothing. 
And save us. 

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And then on top of that, the 
fact that God allows us to come 

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before him not, but not to go 
through some priests or some man

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or have to go through Mary or 
any of these other people, but 

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that we can go directly to God 
ourselves and meet with him 

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every single day. 
And the fact that God as the 

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creator of the universe and as 
the ruler of the universe is 

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willing to stop whatever he's 
doing and come and meet with me.

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That's an amazing thing. 
That's an amazing. 

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Thing that God would do that for
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Second, Samuel chapter ten 
doesn't really have anything to 

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do with our passage this 
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it's an amazing thought that God
would do that for us. 

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But here in second, Samuel 
chapter 10 David and the people 

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of Israel really are facing, 
this really, it's an undesired 

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conflict. 
You know, there was a lot of 

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fighting that that happened. 
Israel had to go out to battle a

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lot, but David was not looking 
for a fight, David was not 

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looking to defend anything. 
He wasn't looking to try to take

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anything, but this fight came to
him and kind of in a weird. 

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And way the king of the children
of Ammon died and David had sent

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Messengers to the King's son to 
convey his condolences and the 

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princes of am and got together 
and concocted this story in 

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their mind saying, you know 
what, David's not doing this. 

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Because he's trying to show a 
sympathy. 

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David's, not doing this because 
he's trying to be our friend. 

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He's doing it because he's 
sending these guys to be spies 

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in our land and he's going to 
use that information that they 

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bring back to then come and 
attack us. 

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And so those princes of the The 
children of Ammon captured the 

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Israelites who were coming to 
give their condolences and they 

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humiliated him in the worst way 
possible. 

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They cut their beards in half, 
they cut their clothes directly 

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in half and then sent them back 
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And of course, I mean the 
ultimate humiliation and David 

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heard about this. 
And so David goes out and meets 

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them where they are so that they
didn't have to show themselves 

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in front of the people. 
And he said, you guys, you just 

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stay here until your beards grow
back and tell you everything is 

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till everything looks normal and
then you can come back to Israel

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but But obviously, that set some
things in motion and that brings

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us to verse number 6. 
I love the way the Bible says 

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this and when the children of 
a.m. and saw that they stank 

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before, David the children of 
Ammon sent and hired the syrians

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of Beth Rahab and the syrians of
Zaba, 20,000 footman, and of 

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King Maca, 1,000 men in ish 
table 12,000 men. 

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And when David heard of it, he 
sent joab and all the host of 

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The Mighty Men, and the children
of Ammon came out and put the 

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battle in Array at the entering,
in of the gate in the syrians of

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Zaba. 
Andrei haben ish table in 

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Mexico, were by themselves in 
the field when Joy of saw that 

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the Want of the battle was 
against him before and behind. 

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He chose of all the men of all 
the choice, men of Israel, and 

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put them in Array against the 
syrians and the rest of the 

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people. 
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abishai, his brother that he 
might put them in Array against 

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the children of Ammon. 
So the children of Ammon gets 

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scared and they say now we've 
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Now we're in hot water. 
Now we better prepare because 

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David's not going to take too 
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And so they went out and they 
Enlisted the help of the syrians

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and they said, hey this battle 
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I know you're an enemy of Israel
to this is a Eight opportunity, 

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we need your help and they hired
thousands and thousands of these

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foot soldiers to go out there 
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And, of course, now that 
required that they were gonna 

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have to face the enemy on two 
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the ammonites, and there was a 
front of the syrians and now 

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they're in front of them and 
they're behind them and so joab.

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Deploys. 
His men he meets his brother the

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leader of the other force and he
gave the gave him this 

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admonition in verse number 12, 
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verse number 11. 
He said if the syrians be too 

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strong for me than thou shalt 
help me but if the children of 

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Ammon be too strong for thee, 
then I will come and help thee 

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and then he gives him this. 
Admonition be of good courage. 

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And let us play the men for our 
people and for the cities of our

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God, and the Lord do that. 
Which seemeth him. 

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Good. 
See, we're in a battle today on 

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a lot of fronts and it's being 
fought in a lot of different 

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ways. 
We're facing spiritual battles, 

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were facing political battles 
were facing emotional battles, a

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whole lot more, and there's a 
lot of That we are, that we are 

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facing this battle on, but one 
of the most important battles, 

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that we face is on the home 
front, in our homes, there's a 

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battle that's raging in every 
single home. 

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And I'm not saying there's all 
kinds of fighting going on or 

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you're pulling out the swords 
every night and duking it out. 

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But there's a battle that is 
facing us in our homes. 

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The devil wants to destroy your 
home, we're in a battle for the 

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spiritual survival of our 
families. 

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Do you realize that the devil 
wants to destroy your home? 

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It would be great if everything 
just went smoothly and all your 

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kids were born angels and they 
stayed that way for the rest of 

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their lives, right? 
Be great. 

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If you married the, the woman of
your dreams and then you floated

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on clouds and unicorns until the
day that you die. 

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But it doesn't usually happen 
that way, right? 

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The truth is, the flesh comes 
along spurred on by the devil 

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and and he fights against 
everything that is good in our 

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homes, it's not a battle. 
You were looking out to fight 

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but the fight comes to your 
front door. 

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Now, most men, The battle to 
Satan for for a couple different

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reasons. 
A number one, is that a lot of 

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times, they send their wives to 
fight the battle on the front 

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lines or number two, they just 
they just roll over and pull up 

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the White Flag. 
You know what? 

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It's a battle. 
I'm probably not going to win 

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anyway so you guys just go do 
what you want to do, and that's 

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the end of it. 
And we just we just turn our 

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families over to Satan and he is
going to destroy them. 

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The Bible says that in First 
Peter, the devil as a roaring 

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lion walketh about seeking whom,
he may push around a little bit 

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seeking whom he may, you know, 
cause the trip every now and 

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then. 
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The Bible says, the devil is 
seeking whom he may devour. 

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He wants to destroy your home, 
that's not how God designed us 

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to be as the leaders of our 
home. 

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Maybe you didn't ask for that 
position, maybe it was one of 

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those things where I didn't 
realize what I was getting into 

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when I got married and had kids,
this is not my personality. 

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This is not my, this is not my 
type of thing, I don't do that 

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but you are the leader in your 
home and you have a 

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responsibility to fight. 
For what God gave you joab as 

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the leader of men turning to his
brother and shared an admonition

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with him that I think will be 
very helpful for us in our homes

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to us as men and fathers today. 
So I want to take just a couple 

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minutes and I say that I mean 
it's going to be a shorter 

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message this morning but I want 
to take a few minutes this 

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morning and share with you three
instructions that are given in 

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this admonition that will help 
us as we stand in the battle. 

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That's what I want to talk about
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Ending in the battle. 
How can we stand up against what

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the devil is trying to do in our
country? 

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How can we stand up against what
the devil is trying to do in our

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homes? 
Joe have gives us a great 

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admonition. 
We're going to look at it this 

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morning but let's pray. 
Father, we love you, give me. 

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Thank you so much for how good 
you are to us. 

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Thank you for an opportunity to 
be here. 

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Thank you for each of the 
father's. 

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I thank you for each of the men 
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I do pray that you would help us
to be the leaders that you need 

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us. 
And want us to be so that we 

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might lead our families in a 
direction that is in a Godly 

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spiritual Direction and away 
from the things of the Devil is 

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trying to do in our homes that 
would destroy any chance of 

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seeing them go on to serve you 
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And God, I pray that you give us
something from you this morning.

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Well, thank you for what you do 
in Jesus name. 

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Amen. 
I want you to keep your finger 

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there in second Samuel chapter 
10, or maybe put a bookmark or 

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something, because we're going 
to come back to it a couple 

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different times. 
But you can turn over to Joshua 

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chapter number one, because the 
first thing that I think we're 

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given in this admonition is to 
take heart. 

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The first part of verse number 
12 says Be Of good courage. 

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Be of good courage. 
Don't be discouraged by the 

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situation. 
Hey, does it seem sometimes? 

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Like all of your work is for 
nothing. 

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I know it does. 
Does it seems sometimes like we 

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sacrifice and pass on things 
that would be enjoyable for us, 

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enjoyable to the flesh so that 
we can give way to the Holy 

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Spirit and seems like we get 
nothing for it. 

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I know it feels that way. 
Sometimes, don't be discouraged 

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by the situation. 
Joshua said this in Joshua 

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chapter 1 and verse 9. 
Actually, the Lord is speaking. 

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The Joshua and telling him this 
have not, I commanded thee, be 

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strong and of a good courage. 
Be not Afraid. 

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Neither be thou dismayed for the
Lord thy God is with thee. 

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Whithersoever thou goest. 
He's saying, hey take, Heart, 

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Take courage Gods with you in 
that battle that you're 

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fighting. 
You can turn over there if you 

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want to. 
But first Chronicles chapter 28,

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David is getting ready to pass 
off of the scene and and as much

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as he wanted to build the temple
for God and for the for this, 

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holy place to be for God. 
God said, David, you're a man of

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war, you've shed blood. 
You cannot be the one that 

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builds my temple but your son 
Solomon will be and so God David

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as he's getting ready to pass 
off the torch so to speak from 

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from from himself and from 
everything that he was able to 

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accomplish for God to his son 
Solomon. 

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He says this in first Chronicles
chapter 28 verse number 20 David

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said to Solomon his son be 
strong and of a good courage and

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do it fear not nor be dismayed 
for the Lord. 

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God, even my God will be with 
thee. 

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He will not fail thee, nor 
forsake thee, until thou has 

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finished. 
All the work for the service of 

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the house of the Lord. 
Hey, take heart! 

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God is with you. 
God wants to see you succeed in 

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that battle, God is for you. 
And I don't mean that in a in a 

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in a way of a Prosperity Gospel 
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You just, you just keep serving 
God and everything's going to be

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fine though. 
There are going to be battles, 

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right? 
There are going to be struggles,

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but God is for you in the fight,
take heart. 

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Be of good courage. 
Don't don't don't shrink back. 

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Don't get discouraged in that 
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There's a legend and obviously, 
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decided he was going to get rid 
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And so he arranged in an auction
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He had envy and deceit and 
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enmity, and thoughtlessness, and
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had used successful, and he had 
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But one piece that was Mark very
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And one of the bidders said why 
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tool? 
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been my most useful tool. 
He said you can you can see that

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it has more aware than the rest 
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It's used as a wedge to get into
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other tools fail and that tool 
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was able to buy that tool of 
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Courage, men, and so Satan 
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this day. 
Obviously, that's just a legend,

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but dr. 
Jerry Falwell said, I've never 

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known God to use a discouraged 
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Hey, I tell I tell people all 
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Hey, Pastor, don't get 
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But listen, I'm not discouraged 
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hard to be discouraged. 
When, you know, who's on our 

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side it's hard to be discouraged
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when God, plus no one makes a 
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And so if you join God's, Side, 
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What do we have to be 
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About what do we have to be 
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There is nothing to fear on this
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God is for us, God is fighting 
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that battle. 
God has great plans for you and 

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your family. 
The Bible says in Jeremiah 

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29:11, for, I know the thoughts 
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the Lord thoughts of peace, and 
not of evil. 

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To give you an expected end. 
He's got a path that he wants 

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every one of us to walk. 
The problem is he doesn't show 

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us the beginning and End of the 
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And so we start walking down 
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a couple steps in front of us 
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And God says, hey that's this is
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Keep walking down that path. 
You keep going on that in my 

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plans that I have for your life.
He's got a plan for you. 

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He's got a plan for your 
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He has a plan for your family 
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He wants to use us. 
Don't let the devil discourage. 

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You don't look around the world 
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him distract you from this. 
Things, which is your primary 

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job of pointing your family to 
Jesus Christ. 

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Turn over to Psalm 27 boy, 
there's lots of Psalms that we 

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can look at. 
I just want to point out a 

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couple of them to you this 
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They're all right. 
In the same place. 

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I think it'd be easy for you to 
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And verse number 13 says this, I
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believed to see the goodness of 
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living verse 14. 
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of good courage and he shall 
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Wait, I say on the Lord and 
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we have. 
And I'm not going to get off on 

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this this morning. 
But one of the problems is we 

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step outside of God's will 
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Why is God not moving? 
We got to do something, we gotta

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move. 
We gotta, we gotta go. 

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Do this like we jump on Out of 
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to do it in our own strength. 
Hey, God is for you be patient. 

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Wait on him, take courage, take 
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He is working. 
You just got to let him do that 

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work. 
Hey, forward by faith. 

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That's our theme this year, 
right? 

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When we, when I set that as a 
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he was really going to put that 
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We're trying to move forward as 
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because it could come tomorrow 
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And we got to find a place. 
And they, we might Be meeting in

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the tent on my property. 
So, we're right, God gave us two

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and a half acres. 
It's nice because we cleared it 

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all out, and it's a perfect spot
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And that might be where we're 
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I don't know. 
I don't know what God has for 

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us, but we got to go forward by 
faith and I'm not worried about 

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it, you know, why? 
Because God is on our side, God 

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wants us to succeed, and I was 
just telling somebody this 

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yesterday, this is not my 
church. 

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This is not your church, it's 
his church. 

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What do I have to worry about 
God? 

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It's your problem. 
You're One that has to find a 

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place for you or church to me, 
not me. 

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This is in your hands, right? 
What do I have to worry about? 

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And the same is true when it 
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God wants your family to succeed
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God, want your kids to grow up 
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What happened? 
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direct them. 
We're trying to push them where 

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we want them to be, instead of 
saying God they're yours, you 

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take care of them, you do with 
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them, right? 
He says this in Psalm 31 just a 

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couple pages over may be on the 
same page for you but some 31 In

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verse 23. 
Oh, love the Lord all. 

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Ye Saints for the Lord. 
Preserve is the faithful and 

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plentifully reward. 
It's a proud doer. 

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Be of good courage and he shall 
strengthen your heart, all ye 

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that hope in the Lord, I know 
things don't look good in our 

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world today and know things are 
not easy, but take heart be of 

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good courage. 
But the second thing and you can

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turn back over to the second 
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The second part of verse 12, he 
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says and let us play them in for
our people and for the cities of

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our God. 
I think what he's saying here is

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toil hard. 
Take, heart, but toil hard. 

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What I think he's saying here is
do your best. 

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Don't give less than 100% of 
your effort. 

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You may not always feel like you
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You may not always feel like 
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decisions and leading your 
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You may not always feel like 
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battles that are going to show 
up in your home and I'm not, and

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I'm not saying in an 
argumentative way and everything

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else the devil is going to fight
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just, you know, it's just not, 
that's not my personality. 

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I'm not a fighter. 
I don't like confrontation, I 

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don't like controversy and I 
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have to play the man, God, 
created men to work. 

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That's how that's who God 
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designed us to be. 
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I'm so glad God made me a man. 
I couldn't be a woman. 

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I don't know how these people 
Cross over and become women. 

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I really don't because I would 
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I can tell you that much but I'm
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know? 
And and, and God gives us that 

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desire. 
What he made you to be who you 

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who he wanted you to be right? 
The Bible says, in Genesis male 

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and female created, he them, 
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He didn't create someone to be a
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a male, who should have been a 
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have been a male and all those 
other things, he created you, 

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who he wanted you to be. 
And I gotta go find my identity.

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I gotta, I gotta do all this 
other kind of stuff. 

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You find your identity in Jesus 
Christ, and when you find him, 

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you know, exactly who he created
you to be, you don't have to go,

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try to be something else. 
You don't try to manufacture 

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something, you don't have to try
to change something, God created

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you who he wanted you to be. 
And if he created you a man, he 

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created you to be a leader. 
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I'm sorry. 
He created you to be that way. 

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Play the man he says I don't 
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and maybe I wish. 
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want to do this or not. 
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You got to just go play a man. 
You got to go be a man for your 

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P, be of good courage. 
And at least pretend to be a man

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in front of these guys. 
Are you going to make them 

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scared to write? 
But toil hard. 

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He tells them first, we have to 
toil hard in prayer. 

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See a man that's not praying for
his family as setting up his 

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family to fail. 
And I know prayers hard work. 

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That's why. 
So few people do it, even as a 

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pastor, I find it hard to pray. 
Sometimes, you know, 

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circumstances, come up made. 
Sometimes you don't feel like 

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praying when there's a lot of 
pressure, but it takes a lot of 

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time and effort and 
concentration, right? 

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I kneel down to pray and, and I 
don't know if it's the devil or 

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what, but all kinds of thoughts 
come into my head and oh, oh 

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man, it's something I need to 
do. 

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Oh I need to write that down so 
I don't forget that in all I got

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to do this and all that and it 
takes work to concentrate on, 

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praying takes Work to 
concentrate on praying for your 

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family. 
I don't think there's anything 

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scarier to the devil than a man 
that's on his knees in prayer 

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before God, we sing that we sing
the chorus, I'm a soldier 

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winning Battles, by fighting on 
my knees. 

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Do you believe that? 
And if you believe that then are

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you doing it? 
We have to toil hard in prayer 

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but also we have to toil hard in
example. 

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And I know that's probably not 
the most elegant eloquent way to

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say that. 
But what I mean by that is you 

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have to work hard, to be an 
example to those in your house. 

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Turn over the First Kings, 
chapter 15, when you are the 

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leader. 
When you are, the example, you 

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don't get a day off taking a day
off, makes you a hypocrite and 

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there's nothing hypocrisies. 
See, is the quickest way to send

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your children, right down the 
road to the Devil's Playground. 

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You want to see your children 
off into the world and never 

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step foot in church. 
Again, be one thing at church. 

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And another thing at home, me 
one thing when you're around 

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people who expect you to act a 
certain way and be another thing

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at home, that's that is the 
quickest way to send your 

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children right down the road to 
the Devils house. 

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Hypocrisy is an excuse that a 
lot of people use about. 

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I don't, I'm not going to 
church. 

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Those people are a bunch of 
Hypocrites. 

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Hey, there's Hypocrites 
everywhere and there are lots of

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Hypocrites in the church, but 
that's not an excuse for you to 

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not be in church. 
It's not an excuse for you to 

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not be in God's house. 
It's not an excuse for you to 

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just give up on the things of 
God. 

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You don't be a hypocrite and 
pray that the guy next to you is

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not going to be a hypocrite and 
pretty soon. 

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You have a whole church full of 
people who aren't Hypocrites and

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who really are trying to serve 
God. 

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But your kids see you you are 
the example whether you want to 

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be an example or not. 
And they are watching you and 

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they see how you are a church, 
and they see how you are at 

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home. 
They hear the things that you 

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say you should be doing and the 
way that you should be living 

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and then they see the things 
that you watch. 

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They hear the things that you 
listen to You are an example, 

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whether you want to be an 
example or not? 

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Are you a good example or are 
you a bad example? 

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And it takes a lot of work to be
a good example, but we have to 

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work hard at it. 
I want to show you one verse of 

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a great passage here in First 
Kings, chapter 15 verse 11. 

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And I just, I don't have time to
set the whole thing up, but you 

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can understand exactly what 
we're seeing here. 

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The Bible says, in First Kings 
chapter 15 and verse 11 and they

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said did that, which was right 
in the eyes of the Lord as did 

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David. 
His father, let me ask you a 

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question and I want you to chew 
on for a little while. 

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What it be a blessing. 
Or a curse. 

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To have your son grow up in be 
exactly like you. 

444
00:21:51,300 --> 00:21:53,900
But it'd be a blessing or a 
curse to have your son grow up 

445
00:21:53,900 --> 00:21:59,100
and be exactly like you David 
could say well I want my son to 

446
00:21:59,100 --> 00:22:04,300
be like me I made some mistakes.
Wish I did but I want my son to 

447
00:22:04,300 --> 00:22:07,500
grow up and be like me and look 
what God says in verse 11 ASA. 

448
00:22:07,500 --> 00:22:11,500
Did that which was right in the 
eyes of the Lord adds did David 

449
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,900
his father. 
The story told of a father who 

450
00:22:14,900 --> 00:22:18,200
spent time every day at the 
tavern and he always wanted his 

451
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,800
son never to drink. 
Don't ever drink son and he'd 

452
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,600
walk out. 
Go to the tavern almost every 

453
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:27,400
single day and one snowy 
afternoon as he walked out, the 

454
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,700
front door and started to make 
his way toward that Tavern, he 

455
00:22:30,700 --> 00:22:33,700
noticed that his son was walking
in those footsteps that he was 

456
00:22:33,700 --> 00:22:37,000
making in the snow. 
And that man said, you know 

457
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:40,600
what, something hit me, right? 
Then he turned around, he went 

458
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:41,900
back. 
And he picked up his son and he 

459
00:22:41,900 --> 00:22:44,300
hugged him and he never set foot
in that Tavern again. 

460
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,300
Whether you like it or not, 
whether you want to be or not, 

461
00:22:47,300 --> 00:22:49,900
you are an example and you have 
to work hard to make sure you 

462
00:22:49,900 --> 00:22:53,600
are a good one. 
Young people are watching you. 

463
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,700
The admonition back in second, 
Samuel chapter 10 was to take 

464
00:22:58,700 --> 00:23:04,300
heart, to toil hard. 
And lastly, trust him trust God.

465
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:09,500
the last part of verse number 12
says and the Lord do that which 

466
00:23:09,500 --> 00:23:13,700
seemeth him good, you know, a 
job was saying We can take 

467
00:23:13,700 --> 00:23:16,200
courage, we can be of good 
courage. 

468
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,200
We can play the man for our 
people, but at the end of the 

469
00:23:19,208 --> 00:23:24,200
day, it's all in God's hands. 
At the end of the day, just 

470
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,800
trust him to do. 
What's best? 

471
00:23:26,900 --> 00:23:29,200
That's leaving the results to 
him. 

472
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,600
We can do our best, not to get 
discouraged, we can do our best 

473
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,600
to play the men and work hard, 
but we just have to trust God 

474
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:39,200
that he'll bring the results. 
Martin Luther spent three days. 

475
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:43,500
One on one time when he was 
going through a just a dark dark

476
00:23:43,500 --> 00:23:46,300
time in his life black 
depression over something that 

477
00:23:46,300 --> 00:23:49,200
it had gone wrong. 
And on the third day, his wife 

478
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,300
came downstairs. 
She and she was dressed in 

479
00:23:51,300 --> 00:23:53,600
mourning clothes. 
She was dressed in all black, 

480
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,700
she had her face covered. 
She had a little veil over her 

481
00:23:55,700 --> 00:23:58,700
face and And Luther hadn't even 
heard that anybody died. 

482
00:23:58,700 --> 00:24:00,500
So he asked her, she said he 
asked her. 

483
00:24:00,508 --> 00:24:02,900
That question, who died? 
Who's dead? 

484
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,700
She said, God. 
Martin Luther obviously was 

485
00:24:08,700 --> 00:24:11,000
taking a back. 
He said, what do you mean God's 

486
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,400
dead? 
God can't die. 

487
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,800
She looked at her husband and 
she said, well the way you've 

488
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:21,400
been acting I was sure he had. 
You know, sometimes we just need

489
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:26,100
to trust God and stop acting 
like God's Dead, God's not dead,

490
00:24:26,700 --> 00:24:28,900
right? 
God, still working in your life 

491
00:24:28,900 --> 00:24:32,500
if you allow him to do it, God 
still on your side. 

492
00:24:32,500 --> 00:24:36,300
If you join his side, right? 
God still wants you to succeed. 

493
00:24:36,300 --> 00:24:38,600
There's a lot of times when it 
just doesn't seem like doing it.

494
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,100
God's way is working. 
Turn over to Psalm 68. 

495
00:24:42,300 --> 00:24:44,900
I think often it seems like the 
world and the Flesh and the 

496
00:24:44,900 --> 00:24:48,700
devil are so powerful that 
there's no way that we can win. 

497
00:24:48,900 --> 00:24:54,600
but psalm 16 verse 12 says this,
Through God, we shall do 

498
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,100
valiantly for. 
He it is that shall tread down 

499
00:24:57,100 --> 00:25:00,500
our enemies and I'm telling you 
is the same thing that I said 

500
00:25:00,500 --> 00:25:03,000
just a few minutes ago is that 
we try to do this in our own 

501
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,500
strength and we get discouraged,
we try to do it on our own 

502
00:25:05,500 --> 00:25:07,300
power. 
We try to finagle things to make

503
00:25:07,300 --> 00:25:09,400
them work out the way that we 
want them to work out. 

504
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,300
When what God is saying is just 
turn it over to me. 

505
00:25:13,100 --> 00:25:15,700
I told this to the young people 
when I was, when we were at camp

506
00:25:15,700 --> 00:25:19,200
this past week, or at the Family
Camp, and I had an opportunity 

507
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:23,200
to do a devotion for, for the, 
for one of the Tonight directed 

508
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,500
specifically to a lot of the 
young people that were in there 

509
00:25:25,900 --> 00:25:30,200
and I gave them some of my 
testimony and essentially what I

510
00:25:30,208 --> 00:25:33,300
had done with my life, but hey, 
I wonder did you God's will? 

511
00:25:33,300 --> 00:25:36,500
I wanted God to be pleased with 
my life, but I had all my plans 

512
00:25:36,500 --> 00:25:39,000
laid out and I was giving God, a
piece of paper. 

513
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,000
And I said, God sign this at the
bottom so that I can tell 

514
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:43,800
everybody. 
This is your will for my life. 

515
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,600
This is what I want to do. 
This is where I want to go. 

516
00:25:46,700 --> 00:25:48,800
This is who I want to marry. 
This is what I want to 

517
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,900
accomplish sign it so that I can
tell everybody this is what you 

518
00:25:51,908 --> 00:25:53,400
want me. 
To do with my life. 

519
00:25:54,100 --> 00:25:57,000
And God threw a wrench in my 
plans and changed everything. 

520
00:25:58,300 --> 00:26:01,000
And essentially what I came to 
the conclusion was that God was 

521
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,000
not looking for me to give him a
piece of paper with everything 

522
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,700
that I wanted to do. 
So he could sign it. 

523
00:26:05,700 --> 00:26:08,400
He wanted a blank piece of paper
with my signature at the bottom 

524
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,600
so he could fill in all the 
details for my life. 

525
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:15,200
He just wants to have control. 
He just wants us to turn 

526
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,300
everything over to him and I'm 
telling you this God has written

527
00:26:18,300 --> 00:26:21,600
a story of my life that I never 
would have imagined that I could

528
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,700
write. 
I never would have written it 

529
00:26:23,700 --> 00:26:27,200
the way that he has. 
I'm so glad that he took the 

530
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,700
pen. 
I'm glad I gave him the pain to 

531
00:26:29,700 --> 00:26:32,700
my life and let him write the 
story because there's so many 

532
00:26:32,700 --> 00:26:35,500
things that would never be what 
they are today. 

533
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,400
I would never be as happy as I 
am today. 

534
00:26:39,500 --> 00:26:44,100
Had a God not gotten the pain of
my life, but so many of us as 

535
00:26:44,100 --> 00:26:47,000
God is trying to pull that pain 
and say, hey, I want to write a,

536
00:26:47,100 --> 00:26:50,000
I want to write a story that 
that you don't even comprehend 

537
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,500
right now. 
We said, no, it's my pain. 

538
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,300
Give me that and God's trying to
pull it away from us. 

539
00:26:54,300 --> 00:26:57,800
And he says, all right fine. 
Go write your own story story 

540
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,800
that I could write for you is 
way better than you can even 

541
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,800
imagine. 
And so we write our little drab 

542
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,600
details about how our life 
should go. 

543
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,700
And all this is so wonderful, 
not knowing that God had 

544
00:27:07,700 --> 00:27:10,200
something that was 10 times 
beyond what we could even ask or

545
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,000
think. 
I just want you to turn it over 

546
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,300
to him. 
Oh my family is I got this 

547
00:27:16,300 --> 00:27:18,700
struggles with this kid and I 
got the show goes with that kid,

548
00:27:18,700 --> 00:27:19,800
and I just don't know what to 
do. 

549
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,900
I'm pulling my hair out and give
it to God. 

550
00:27:24,100 --> 00:27:27,800
Turn it over to him, stop trying
to do it in your own strength. 

551
00:27:28,300 --> 00:27:30,400
Stop trying to be the 
manipulator. 

552
00:27:30,500 --> 00:27:35,000
Stop trying to write the story. 
Let God do it through God, we 

553
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,600
shall do valiantly. 
He says, for he, it is that 

554
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,300
shall tread down our enemies 
over in. 

555
00:27:40,300 --> 00:27:43,200
First John, chapter 4 and verse.
Number 4, he says you are of God

556
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,800
little children have have have 
overcome them because greater is

557
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,400
he that is in you than he that 
is in the world. 

558
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,800
I want you to look at one last 
passage in John chapter 16. 

559
00:27:58,100 --> 00:28:00,900
Trust him. 
Let God handle it. 

560
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:07,200
Because I'll tell you this. 
He's a whole lot better at being

561
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:12,000
God than we are. 
Todd's a whole lot better at 

562
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,300
being God than I am. 
We try to play God a lot, don't 

563
00:28:15,300 --> 00:28:17,400
we are? 
We've never say I'm more 

564
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,000
powerful than God. 
I can handle, God, should have 

565
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,100
done this. 
We would never say that a lot, 

566
00:28:22,100 --> 00:28:26,600
but sometimes in our mind, all, 
man, if only God had Right. 

567
00:28:27,900 --> 00:28:30,700
He's a whole lot better at being
God than we are, but the Bible 

568
00:28:30,700 --> 00:28:35,200
says this in John, 16:33 these 
things I have spoken unto you 

569
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,200
that in me, ye might have peace 
the world ye shall have 

570
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,700
tribulation, that's not May, or 
might it shall? 

571
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,200
That's a guarantee. 
You're going to face difficult 

572
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,400
times in the world. 
Ye shall have tribulation, but 

573
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,300
Be of good cheer. 
I've overcome the world. 

574
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:58,400
So he's our father. 
If you're saved and you can rest

575
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,300
assured of the fact that he 
wants the best for us. 

576
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,900
He wants the best for his 
children, he wants to use us if 

577
00:29:04,900 --> 00:29:09,200
we let him. 
I heard a story about a group of

578
00:29:09,208 --> 00:29:12,700
botanist that notice through a 
pair of binoculars are very rare

579
00:29:12,700 --> 00:29:15,600
and beautiful flower. 
That was laying deep in the 

580
00:29:15,608 --> 00:29:20,100
Ravine and this young boy was 
watching nearby in the scientist

581
00:29:20,100 --> 00:29:23,000
told them that they'd pay him 
very well for a young boy if he 

582
00:29:23,008 --> 00:29:26,100
had agreed to be lowered over 
the edge of that, Cliff to 

583
00:29:26,100 --> 00:29:29,700
retrieve that flower. 
The young boy, I thought about 

584
00:29:29,700 --> 00:29:31,700
it for a minute, he said, hang 
on, I'll be right back. 

585
00:29:33,100 --> 00:29:35,600
A short time later. 
He turned he was followed by a 

586
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,800
gray-haired man and he went up 
to those botanist in the boy 

587
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,400
said to the botanist. 
He said I'll go over that cliff 

588
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:46,300
and get that flower. 
If this man holds the Rope, he's

589
00:29:46,300 --> 00:29:49,500
my dad. 
And you know, honestly, that's 

590
00:29:49,500 --> 00:29:53,000
just what we need to do with. 
God is our heavenly father. 

591
00:29:53,900 --> 00:29:55,900
Well, I don't know if God can 
hold the Rope or not. 

592
00:29:55,900 --> 00:29:58,000
I just don't know if I can trust
him. 

593
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,500
Right? 
We would never say that out 

594
00:30:00,500 --> 00:30:03,000
loud, but we say that with our 
actions a whole lot. 

595
00:30:04,100 --> 00:30:07,200
Well, I'll just doesn't 
understand the situation that 

596
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,600
I'm in with my family. 
He just doesn't know it sounds. 

597
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:15,100
So foolish to say it out loud, 
but we live that way. 

598
00:30:15,100 --> 00:30:20,400
So often. 
Right often we find ourselves in

599
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:24,900
a battle that we never desired. 
Perhaps we're facing an enemy on

600
00:30:24,900 --> 00:30:27,000
more than one front 
simultaneously. 

601
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:32,900
David found that when he sent 
joab and abishai out. 

602
00:30:33,900 --> 00:30:35,900
To fight against the ammonites 
and syrians. 

603
00:30:37,500 --> 00:30:39,400
George gave some great 
admonition. 

604
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,600
Hey, I'm shy take heart. 
Be of good courage. 

605
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:48,300
They have a shy God put us in 
the position of leaders. 

606
00:30:48,500 --> 00:30:50,500
I know you didn't ask for it and
I didn't ask for it. 

607
00:30:50,500 --> 00:30:52,000
But this is where we find 
ourselves. 

608
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,200
Let's go out and play the man. 
Let's toil hard. 

609
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:59,400
Let's give it everything we got.
But at the end of the day, we 

610
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:03,900
have to trust him. 
We just have to trust him and 

611
00:31:03,900 --> 00:31:07,200
all will be well, you read the 
rest of that story. 

612
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,500
I don't have time to do that. 
In second Samuel chapter 10, 

613
00:31:10,500 --> 00:31:12,500
this morning which you read 
through the rest of that story. 

614
00:31:13,300 --> 00:31:16,400
Enjoy the knavish. 
I did very well and it came down

615
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,800
to the point where the ammonites
and the syrians became the 

616
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,900
slaves of the Israelites for a 
long time. 

617
00:31:20,900 --> 00:31:25,700
After that, hey, they did their 
best but they left the rest of 

618
00:31:25,700 --> 00:31:28,300
God. 
And there's a there's a there's 

619
00:31:28,300 --> 00:31:34,300
a delicate balance between faith
and works and I find myself in 

620
00:31:34,300 --> 00:31:38,300
that position a lot. 
God expects us to work, but he 

621
00:31:38,300 --> 00:31:40,500
also expects us to have faith 
and where is that balance? 

622
00:31:40,500 --> 00:31:42,300
How much do you work? 
And how much of it is Faith? 

623
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,700
But we're looking, we're looking
for a building right now. 

624
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,500
How much do we get out there and
pound the streets? 

625
00:31:46,500 --> 00:31:47,900
And go out there and try to find
a place for us. 

626
00:31:47,900 --> 00:31:50,700
Is just stepping back and 
saying, God is in your hands at 

627
00:31:50,700 --> 00:31:53,500
your church. 
We need a building, right? 

628
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,200
I think he expects us to do 
both. 

629
00:31:56,300 --> 00:31:58,800
Right? 
Hey Faith and works. 

630
00:31:59,300 --> 00:32:04,000
Go hand in hand, right? 
We trust God but then we have to

631
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:07,500
go out and do the work we work. 
But we trust God. 

632
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:12,000
They go hand-in-hand and the 
more we trust God the more we'll

633
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,400
know exactly the amount of work 
that we should put into it. 

634
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,300
The more we work, the more work 
we put into it, the more I think

635
00:32:17,300 --> 00:32:19,400
God says, hey, they're serious 
about this thing. 

636
00:32:19,900 --> 00:32:22,500
Let me help him on the back 
side, right? 

637
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,600
Faith and works. 
They go hand in hand. 

638
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,100
But God expects us as Christians
and especially as men who are 

639
00:32:29,100 --> 00:32:33,300
leading homes and his men who 
are in a church that's trying to

640
00:32:33,300 --> 00:32:37,700
make a difference in this 
community, we just have to trust

641
00:32:37,700 --> 00:32:41,000
God. 
We got to take courage, got a 

642
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,300
toil hard and we just got to 
trust it. 

643
00:32:43,700 --> 00:32:46,900
And you know what, got to work, 
all things out for us. 

644
00:32:48,100 --> 00:32:51,900
God wants you to succeed in your
family. 

645
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,900
He's not fighting against you. 
We're fighting against him. 

646
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,800
All right. 
If God had his way every kid 

647
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,600
would grow up and be the 
greatest Christian, every kid 

648
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,800
would grow up and do what his 
will is for their life. 

649
00:33:05,900 --> 00:33:07,400
Every kid would grow up and 
serve him. 

650
00:33:08,300 --> 00:33:09,900
We just need to get out of her 
own way. 

651
00:33:09,900 --> 00:33:12,900
Like I do that work. 
Let's pray. 

652
00:33:12,900 --> 00:33:13,700
Father, we love you. 
Give me. 

653
00:33:13,700 --> 00:33:15,400
Thank you so much for your 
goodness to us. 

654
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,400
Thank you so much for an 
opportunity to preach your word 

655
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,300
this morning and to hear your 
word this morning. 

656
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,400
I do, pray that if there is 
somebody in here, that's 

657
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,100
discouraged this morning because
they're not seeing things go the

658
00:33:27,100 --> 00:33:32,200
way that they planned or hoped. 
That you'd encourage them that 

659
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,600
they'd be able to take heart, 
knowing the fact that you want 

660
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,900
them to succeed, you want them 
to win the battle, you want them

661
00:33:37,900 --> 00:33:41,100
to win the fight. but it should 
help us to do our part and work 

662
00:33:41,100 --> 00:33:43,200
hard but got at the end of the 
day I pray that you'd help us to

663
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:47,700
turn it all over to you and we 
just trust you trust the word of

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God, trust the plan of God, For 
our lives. 

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And so we have children. 
I pray that that we would not 

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lose one child to the world here
this morning and I pray that 

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every single child and every 
single family in this church 

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would grow up and do your will 
for their lives. 

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I pray that they'd find the ones
that you want them to marry. 

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I pray that they would know 
exactly what it is that you want

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them to do and they do it. 
That's what you want. 

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That's your heart. 
Now, I pray that you would help 

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us as men and fathers to lead 
our families in a Direction 

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that's pleasing to you. 
And where things need to change.

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I pray that you give us the 
courage in the boldness to 

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change it. 
Well, thank you for what you do 

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in Jesus name. 
Amen.