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All right, we are continuing our
series on the life of David and 

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finally we get to finally talk 
about David, although he is just

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a minor character in this story,
but we we first meet David in a 

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job interview. 
One of the most important 

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questions you ask yourself is 
what kind of answers are they 

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looking for? 
The people interviewing you? 

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Because you can give the exact 
same answers and be seen 

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completely different, seen 
completely differently depending

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on the interviewer. 
For example, when my wife 

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Christine was interviewing, she 
applied to two different school 

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districts, Hawthorne and 
Torrance, and she didn't have 

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direct school experience in the 
school system, but she took, she

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put together like a pretty, in 
my opinion, pretty awesome 

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portfolio, like a physical 
portfolio. 

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And it it, you know, had her 
accomplishments, her work 

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experience and, and there was 
even a little section in the 

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back that even her time as a 
wedding planner, Hawthorne 

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really loved whatever she put 
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And, and she they hired her. 
And then later on her boss said,

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you know, you didn't have any 
experience, but you have to 

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write tools. 
I knew I could, I could train 

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you. 
But Torrance, Christine said 

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that within the first couple of 
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going to select her. 
Torrance was looking for 

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experience. 
So same person, same resume. 

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One saw her as the right 
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Why? 
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they're looking for, right? 
You're looking for experience. 

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Are you looking for the right 
tools? 

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It really depended on that. 
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on Saul, and largely it was 
about what God was not looking 

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for. 
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little sentence in one of the 
verses that highlights what God 

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was looking for. 
God is looking for a man after 

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his own heart, basically 
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But that raises a question, what
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What kind of heart does God 
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Because a man after his own 
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So unless we understand God's 
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it means to go after it. 
And in today's passage, God 

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shows us in this passage at 
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that God is looking for. 
So that's a question we want to 

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answer today. 
How can we have a heart that is 

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after God's own heart? 
How can we have a heart that is 

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after God's own heart? 
Number one, stop trusting our or

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appearance. 
We need a heart that is no 

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longer trusting in outward 
appearance only. 

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Let's read verses one through 
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It is a lot of verses, so please
try to pay attention and read 

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with me first Samuel chapter 16 
verses one through 12. 

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The Lord said to Samuel, how 
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Saul since I have rejected him 
as king over Israel? 

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Fill your horn with oil and 
gold. 

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I am sending you to Jesse of 
Bethlehem because I have 

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selected for myself a king from 
his sons. 

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Samuel asked How can I go so I 
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The Lord answered, Take a young 
cow with you and say I have come

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to sacrifice to the Lord. 
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sacrifice and I will let you 
know what you are to do. 

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You are to anoint for me the one
I indicate to you. 

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Samuel did what the Lord 
directed and went to Bethlehem. 

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When the elders of the town met 
him, they trembled and asked, Do

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you come in peace? 
In peace, he replied, I've come 

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to sacrifice to the Lord. 
Consecrate yourselves and come 

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with me to the sacrifice. 
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his sons and invited them to the
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When they arrived, Samuel saw 
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Lord's anointed 1 is here before
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But the Lord said to Samuel, do 
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his stature, because I have 
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Humans do not see what the Lord 
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visible, but the Lord sees the 
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Jesse called Abinadab and 
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The Lord hasn't chosen this one 
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Then Jesse presented Shama, but 
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chosen this one either. 
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his sons to him, Samuel told 
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of these. 
Samuel asked him, Are these all 

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the sons you have? 
There is still the youngest, he 

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answered, But right now he's 
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Samuel told Jesse, send for him.
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he gets here. 
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He had a beautiful eyes and a 
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Then the Lord said, anoint him, 
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Now the youngest is not named, 
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David, the to be second king of 
Israel, having a heart that is 

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after God's own heart begins 
with us stopping when we stop 

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trusting in what we can see in 
this story clearly, Samuel said,

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aha, this guy is the one. 
This guy has to be the one. 

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He has the look, he's the 
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This guy has to be it. 
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didn't. 
We don't know that, you know, if

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he felt like his first was the 
one, but he certainly felt like,

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OK, well, it has to be within 
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I'm sure there was a lot of work
to do. 

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You have to dress them up, clean
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you know what, David, it's too 
far away. 

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We got to go get him. 
He's probably smells like poop. 

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All right, the first seven, 
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be considered. 
And, and let's go back to verse 

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He already made this mistake 
with Saul. 

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Not that, you know, of course 
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the mistake was that he was 
impressed by outside appearance.

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In Chapter 9, verse 2, it's, you
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it's one of the passages that we
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It says it describes Saul, 
right? 

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And it says Saul was more 
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He was also the tallest. 
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description. 
And the verse 7 God says, OK, 

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you still haven't learned your 
lesson. 

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Do not look at his appearance or
his stature because I have 

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rejected him. 
Humans do not see what the Lord 

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sees, for humans see what is 
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heart. 
So Samuel is corrected by the 

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Lord again. 
And then just a few verses later

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we see Jesse making the same 
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Next we we find out here, right?
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says here, are these all the 
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No, they're still the youngest. 
Jesse is making the same 

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mistake. 
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operating under the same 
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What looks impressive must be 
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And this is not just their 
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This is not like, oh, look at 
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Look at Samuel. 
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This is a human problem. 
This is our problem. 

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We value image, we value 
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We value charisma, influence 
gifting, We value looks. 

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Think of the people we hold in 
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People that are, you know, 
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People who are famous 
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they have these outward 
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Is it a coincidence that every 
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TV era have been 6 feet or over?
510 is the shortest since then. 

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Donald Trump is 6. 
Three. 

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Look at all the actors. 
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There are someones that are not 
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Jack Black is right around my 
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than me, but he's immensely 
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He sings, he dances, he's funny,
he's so talented, he writes 

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music. 
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characteristics to make up for 
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For the most part, people who 
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tall. 
You could look it up. 

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CEO's are tall, pastors are 
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right? 
My height fits perfectly with 

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the size of our church, right? 
That's how they do a seminary. 

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All right? 
Tall ones, mega church, shorter 

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ones, small church. 
That's how they divide you up. 

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Although we may not never say 
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assumption that we kind of take 
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What's visible is valuable in 
being impressive means they're 

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trustworthy. 
If they're successful, it means 

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they're godly. 
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in judgement. 
This is not just, oops, I looked

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at the outside again. 
What just what we've seen, Jesse

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and Samuel, what we see in our 
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It's not a mistake is idolatry 
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judging this way, it means we 
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what can be seen. 
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what's visible is what matters, 
then there are a few things that

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might be true also true in your 
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If you believe that being 
impressive matters, then you're 

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going to live life thinking I 
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Look at my achievements, look at
my kids, look at my wealth, look

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where I am compared to others. 
Those things start to matter and

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you have this false narrative 
saying, telling you if I look 

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successful, I'm OK, if people 
respect me, I'm secure. 

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If I'm impressive, then I have 
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And this is true for me as well.
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especially true for me. 
About 10 years ago, I was guest 

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speaking at a church and 
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came to me. 
It was a mixed youth and maybe 

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young adults group. 
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came to me afterwards to thank 
me for, for speaking at his 

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church, which is unusual. 
Usually senior pastor doesn't 

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care who speaks at the English 
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So I was like, oh, and I, you 
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what church I went. 
I said was a church called South

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Bay Michigan Church. 
He said, oh, who's the senior 

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pastor there? 
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Of course, I could have said me,
but that, you know, that makes 

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things awkward for him. 
So I just said, oh, yeah, we 

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have a senior pastor. 
I just say, yes, you look kind 

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of confused. 
And then he, he offered me a 

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job. 
He said, you know what? 

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There's an opening. 
If you're interested, you know, 

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you know, talk to me. 
I have a opening, a youth pastor

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job. 
He offered me a job as a youth 

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pastor. 
Clearly he heard, he heard my 

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story, man. 
And he thought, ah, youth 

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pastor, I was very offended and 
I didn't even know why I left 

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thinking like, oh, like girls, 
like what a jerk. 

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Like I don't know why. 
I just did not feel OK. 

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And it didn't even hit me until 
way later that that moment 

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exposed something in me, exposed
something in me that I didn't 

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want to just serve God. 
I also wanted to be someone 

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that's impressive because what 
was impressive about me at that 

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point of my life 10 years ago 
puts me at 35. 

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What, that I had a Church of 
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That I had a kind of a new car, 
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So no, that's not impressive 
that I was married with a couple

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kids. 
The most things I had in my 

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life, most things I achieved, my
grades, the school I went to, 

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the seminary, everything was 
just normal. 

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Nothing stood out. 
There was one thing that stood 

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out in my life at age 35. 
It was my job title, senior 

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pastor. 
When I told somebody that I was 

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a senior pastor, it was like, 
whoa already whoa. 

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And people were impressed. 
Now, of course, I did not start 

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this church. 
Let me be clear. 

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I did not start this church to 
have a job title, OK? 

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But when I did get the title, I 
experienced how people treated 

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me differently. 
It was the only thing that made 

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me stand out. 
And this pastor, he destroyed it

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by saying I'm a youth pastor. 
That's why I was offended. 

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This is sinful. 
Someone messed up with myself 

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worth. 
That's why I was upset. 

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Someone indirectly told me that 
I was worth less. 

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And when we have this kind of 
identity that what's visible is 

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valuable, that being impressive 
or standing out is needed to 

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have worth, then it really 
effects all aspects of your 

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life. 
It affects how quickly develop 

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opinion on others. 
It also affects your decision 

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making. 
Like it affects who you date. 

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It affects who you choose to 
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I don't know how many times 
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seeing this guy or I'm seeing 
this girl. 

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Oh, you know, he has this job 
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He's romantic. 
Well, I also ask like, OK, how 

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about does he have like a worn 
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Not because he bought a use, but
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Does he have faith in God? 
Does he serve? 

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It also effects church 
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then when we choose leaders, 
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We choose successful people. 
It's not a accident that the 

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vast majority of the people you 
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the church, they're usually the 
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pretty close to it. 
If you value these things, you 

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make decisions based on these 
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It affects how you parent you. 
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to have these external 
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When your child has something 
that makes them stick out in a 

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good way, of course, then we we 
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it so that so that the child 
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Here's a tutor, here's a coach. 
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things out, catching on. 
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If I'm better at something than 
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worth or even worse. 
Oh, my parents love me a lot 

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when I'm better, when I'm good 
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It'll affect this. 
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our life. 
OK, so this is God rejecting 

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what we naturally value. 
So this is what not to do. 

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But then how do we form this 
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How do we actually form the kind
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Which brings us to point #2 we 
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hidden seasons. 
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means. 
Let's read verse 13. 

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Really the second point is 
really 13 and beyond 13 until, 

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you know, next 10 chapters 
perhaps. 

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But we're not going to read 10 
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verse 13. 
So Samuel took the horn of oil 

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and anointed him David in the 
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And the Spirit of the Lord came 
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day forward or that day forward.
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Rama. 
God chooses who the seven sons 

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that was paraded in front of 
Samuel or the one that was in 

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that was hidden. 
The young teenager, the one that

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smells like poop that the 
parents were probably hiding 

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from Samuel, the hidden 1 was 
chosen. 

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You may feel like you're 
uninvited, forgotten, 

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overlooked, but you are never 
unseen by God. 

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God gives his spirit to David. 
David gets anointed with oil by 

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Samuel to be the next king of 
Israel, and the Spirit of the 

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Lord comes upon David. 
If you never read First Samuel 

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before, if you never watched any
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you would assume chapter 16, 
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A couple chapters before, right?
Saul. 

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God, through Samuel, rejects 
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You're not going to be king. 
I'm going to pick somebody who's

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after his own heart. 
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meet David. 
He's anointed. 

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Logically, if you don't know, if
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chapter 17, we would expect, ah,
we would expect David on the 

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throne. 
We're going to have a teenage 

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king. 
He's anointed by God. 

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The Spirit of God is with them 
and he's going to reign. 

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But that doesn't happen. 
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Goliath. 
Following chapter is other 

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things. 
He's in the King's court and 

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majority of chapters after that 
is David just running away 

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because Saul's trying to kill 
him. 

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David is around 15 or 16 at this
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He does not become king until 
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It takes for David to be king. 
Now why does God do this? 

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This is actually a pattern in 
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We noticed this, this pattern of
blessing throughout the 

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scriptures. 
We think it's calling. 

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The Spirit of God came and boom,
immediate fulfillment. 

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We think we get saved. 
Spirit of God comes, Holy 

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Spirit, boom, our life is 
perfect. 

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It's great, but that's not the 
formula that we see. 

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It's calling and then it's 
waiting, suffering, then 

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fulfillment. 
And during the waiting and 

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suffering, that's the time God 
forms us. 

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God forms us during the time of 
hiddenness, the time of waiting 

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where nothing is going on and 
sometimes even suffering. 

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Then we reach fulfillment. 
We just learned about Samuel's 

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mom Hannah a couple sermons ago.
She had to suffer with 

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barrenness before all the 
blessings came. 

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She was taunted by arrival for 
years before the blessings came.

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Moses the same way, 40 years in 
the palace, 40 years as a 

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shepherd, then God used him to 
rescue Israelites out of 

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slavery. 
We all want and expect immediate

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blessing. 
We don't want any of the 

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formation stuff. 
We want to skip over the 

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waiting, the hiddenness, the 
suffering. 

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We just want something 
immediately. 

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But God does His real work in 
your heart. 

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God forms your heart, shapes 
your heart in that time of 

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hiddenness, waiting and 
suffering. 

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The truth is our hearts need to 
be formed. 

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It needs humility, it needs 
dependence. 

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Your heart needs to trust in 
God. 

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It needs to learn how to endure 
during hard times. 

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And how do you get these things 
is when you see God in those 

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time of hiddenness now of what 
David actually did during those 

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times where he was shepherding 
and, and all that. 

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We're going to talk about that a
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But in this passages today, we 
see evidence that his heart was 

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being formed the entire time, 
even though he was just 15. 

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That is, God was already working
in his heart and he was already 

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being formed while being a lowly
shepherd. 

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Let's move to 11 and 12 real 
quick slide before this. 

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Now let's think about this 
situation. 

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Samuel is a famous guy. 
He's the prophet of Israel. 

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You could say that he's more 
powerful even than the king. 

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Maybe in human eyes, king and 
the prophet, but in the 

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spiritual eyes, well, God tells 
the prophet what to do. 

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God fired fall through Samuel. 
So I would argue that Samuel is 

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perhaps the most powerful person
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he shows up, people were very 
scared. 

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Does he come to judge us? 
Anyway, Samuel comes, he's a 

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celebrity, He is famous. 
And then we know that there was 

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food. 
He says we won't sit down to 

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eat. 
OK, there's food. 

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I'm assuming the seven boys are 
wearing their best clothes. 

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They need to shower real quick. 
They're doing their hair. 

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Best food is provided. 
It's probably, like, looks like 

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a party. 
And then they're like, oh, OK, 

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it's not all of your sons, you 
know, bring your youngest boy. 

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And then David shows up. 
He's a teenager. 

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He might be just a year or so 
older than my older son. 

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He shows up working hard, 
shepherding all day, and then 

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there's this party and there's 
this awesome food that people 

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are eating. 
I guarantee you it was not 

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peanut butter and Jelly 
sandwiches. 

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It was best of what they had. 
It's the prophet Samuel. 

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Everyone's dressed up. 
Something great is going on. 

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What will be your reaction? 
If it was any of my kids? 

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Like, what's going on? 
You just eating all this good 

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food without me? 
That's not fair. 

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Like, it'll be all kinds of 
stuff going on. 

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But look at David's reaction 
verse 12. 

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So Jesse sent for him. 
It's a weird thing to say. 

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He had beautiful eyes and 
healthy handsome appearance. 

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Wait a minute, did it? 
Samuel just gave rebuked. 

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It's like a lie up. 
This guy is the one. 

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Look how tired always buff. 
This is the next king and God 

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rebuked him to not look at the 
our appearance. 

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God looks to the heart. 
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What a handsome boy. 
So it was very confusing. 

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You would expect some kind of 
contrast, right? 

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That God, you know, like if it's
that he looked despicable like 

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that would make more sense to 
me. 

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Oh, that makes sense. 
But he had beautiful eyes. 

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That's kind of weird thing to 
say anyway, but and he was 

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healthy and he was handsome. 
Now, I, I looked at many 

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commentaries and like, explain 
to me what, what the why, you 

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know, and, and there is really 
two schools of thought. 

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One is and I, I think both, both
could be right or both could be 

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true at the same time. 
Actually, one is. 

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It's kind of like, well, this 
kid is good looking. 

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That kid is good looking. 
Why him over him? 

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Well, because God lives to the 
heart, not all good looking. 

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Both kids are created equal. 
It's kind of like that, that 

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kind of thought, right? 
Good looking, good looking. 

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Why him? 
Well, because he has the heart. 

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OK. 
Or it's describing David. 

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After he realizes that he was 
not invited, he walks in, 

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there's food, everyone's dressed
up. 

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It looks really important. 
And he realizes, oh, all of this

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was happening while I was 
working by myself. 

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Most 15 year olds will be mopey,
whiny. 

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I knew you didn't love me, mom. 
But he had beautiful eyes. 

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It was mopey eyes. 
He, he had something about him 

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that still looked healthy. 
It was still describing his 

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physical features, but despite 
the situation, he looked 

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healthy. 
What does this mean? 

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It means David, in the years 
that he was shepherding, 

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remember that's the lowest of 
jobs. 

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His brothers probably have 
better jobs. 

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It's usually given to the 
youngest, the lowest. 

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In those times, David learned 
how to be content without 

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recognition. 
He learned how to be happy, 

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fulfilled while being considered
the lowest. 

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He was OK with that. 
This is evidence that David 

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learned to trust God without 
affirmation. 

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To me, it's evidence that they 
was. 

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David was able to find an 
identity in God apart from 

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status. 
His status was lowest in the 

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family. 
He was able to still find 

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identity. 
Some of us are in that season 

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now, the season of David tending
sheep while everyone else is 

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having a party with Samuel. 
You feel overlooked. 

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You feel stuck, you feel like 
people are just passing you by. 

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You feel like nothing is 
happening. 

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It's just a grind. 
Work, come home, work, come 

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home. 
It's just a grind. 

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Just seems like everyone else's 
life is a party and yours is 

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not. 
We all have those seasons and 

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this passage is reminding us. 
God is not ignoring you, He is 

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forming you. 
Your hidden season should not be

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wasted. 
It is not pointless. 

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It is not meaningless. 
God wants to form you in that 

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season. 
He wants you to find your 

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identity apart from your 
achievements. 

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He doesn't want you. 
He doesn't want you to live life

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trying to stand out to find 
worth. 

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He wants you to be content 
because you have God. 

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He wants you to trust in God 
even when life is not going your

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way. 
As I end this sermon, I don't 

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want you to go home and think, 
OK, fall is the bad heart. 

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David is the good heart. 
All right, be like David. 

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Let's go. 
That's not that's not it. 

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Because if you know David's 
story, he also his heart does 

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not remain somebody who's after 
God's heart forever. 

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We all have a sinful heart and 
always wants to turn the wrong 

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way. 
The point is not go home and fix

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yourself and come back with a 
good heart. 

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The point is our hearts are 
always wrong and we cannot fix 

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ourselves. 
What we need is someone to 

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rescue us from this heart. 
What we need is a better king 

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than King David. 
We need the King of kings. 

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We need Jesus Christ. 
We need a king who doesn't just 

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evaluate our hearts, but we need
a king that rescues our hearts. 

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We need the King of kings. 
We must trust the King of Kings 

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who has the perfect heart. 
Jesus lived the perfect life we 

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couldn't and He died for our 
sinful hearts. 

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And through Jesus Christ, what 
He has accomplished on the 

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cross, we are able to have a new
heart. 

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Does that mean we are perfect? 
No, but what that does is we it 

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gives us the right to come back 
to God anytime and repent. 

456
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:59,280
Our hearts are renewed. 
It could be renewed daily, 

457
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,680
anytime, because the work has 
already been done. 

458
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,200
The perfect work has already 
been accomplished for you. 

459
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,760
You can go to your God anytime. 
Main point. 

460
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:18,280
A heart after God's own heart is
formed when we stop trusting and

461
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,280
what we see and trust God to 
shape us. 

462
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:22,400
Let's pray.
