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Turn in your Bibles to 1st John 
chapter 4. 

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I would encourage you to turn 
there because we have 15 verses 

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that we will be reading this 
morning as part of our text. 

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And, and I know sometimes it's a
little weird when we're standing

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together and we're reading and 
you're just looking and stuff. 

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So I would encourage you to turn
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Page 1023 If you're using one of
our own Bibles there the first 

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John chapter 4 we spent a couple
weeks in Acts One and two 

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talking about the Holy Spirit 
coming to and dwell followers of

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Christ and the radical 
difference that this makes in 

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our lives as we're now empowered
by the Holy Spirit's and we are 

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equipped for the tasks and life 
that God has in store for us 

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when we live life filled with 
the spirit, the old ways will 

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will fall away and we find a 
list of new character traits in 

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Galatians chapter 5 and these 
character traits are called the 

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fruits of the spirits. 
If we walk by the spirit, then 

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our lives will produce these 
character traits. 

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These fruits Lovejoy, peace, 
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faithfulness, gentleness and 
self-control. 

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So we're looking at the fruit of
the Spirit because it seems like

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it would be a good place for us 
to go after we spent some time, 

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I spent a couple weeks examining
Pentecost and and the beginnings

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of the early church. 
So as we begin this series, it's

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important that we understand the
nature and source of our fruits.

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You see, it could be easy for us
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scale to measure ourselves and 
see where do I measure up? 

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Am I good with this? 
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Oh, I'm really lacking in this 
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That's not really how the fruit 
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a scale, but rather this is 
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It's not fruit of our own 
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We can't will them into being. 
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our own willpower. 
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submit our lives to the Holy 
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control us. 
The more time we spend with Him 

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in prayer, in the Word, with His
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our hearts turn into the rich 
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produce the fruits of the 
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A life not submitted to the Holy
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virtues, though. 
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transforms us and turns us from 
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So here we are at the beginning 
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virtue in that list, and the 
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Love has been denuded of its 
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We use it in all sorts of ways. 
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love Chipotle, I love Mexican 
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I also love my wife and my kids.
These are all the same thing, 

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right? 
No, they're not. 

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Of course not. 
We use context to help us 

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understand what is meant when we
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Now the Greeks, they had several
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So they can they can pick the 
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fit the right context. 
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Storgay is a familial love that 
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trials. 
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between close friends and 
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Scripture often translates the 
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We will refer to Philadelphia as
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That is, unless you're a Chiefs 
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If you're a Chiefs fan, there is
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Philadelphia. 
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Eros is romantic and sexual love
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this word. 
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Agape is sacrificial, selfless, 
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It's the highest form of love 
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Last month I taught you the 
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the is the Greek counterparts to
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The best description of love 
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Testament is of course found in 
First Corinthians 13, the love 

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chapter. 
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wedding, stuff like that. 
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presented as the greatest and 
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It says you can be the most 
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gifted person, but if you don't 
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It means nothing to have all 
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So love is set apart as greater 
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that we can have. 
So love, though, it isn't simply

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a state of being or an emotion. 
Back to the 90's, the the great 

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poet TobyMac informed us that 
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I know somebody was tracking 
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Come on, somebody. 
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OK, thank you, Emily. 
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Love is active. 
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it responds with a helping hand.
Not everybody's going to go home

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this afternoon and start 
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I know, right. 
All, all you who grew up on that

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in the 90s, if you're able, 
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first John chapter 4? 
First John 4 will begin at verse

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7, reading through 21. 
Beloved, let us love one 

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another, for love is from God, 
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of God and knows God. 
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not know God because God is 
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In this the love of God was made
manifest among us, that God sent

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His only Son into the world so 
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In this is love, not that we 
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loved us and sent His Son to be 
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Beloved, if God so loved us, we 
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No one has ever seen God. 
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abides in US and His love is 
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By this we know that we abide in
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because He has given us of His 
spirits, and we have seen and 

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testified that the Father has 
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Professes that Jesus is the Son 
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God abides in him and He and 
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So we have come to know and to 
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for us. 
God is loving. 

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Whoever abides in love abides in
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By this is love perfected with 
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confidence. 
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are we in this world. 
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perfect love casts out fear, for
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And whoever fears has not been 
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We love because He first loved 
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If anyone says I love God and 
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For he who does not love his 
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cannot love God, whom he has not
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In this command we have from 
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Whoever loves God must also love
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You may be seated as we begin 
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morning, we start with the 
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Why should we love others? 
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really matter in the grand 
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John said. 
John said we love each other 

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because that's what God has 
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our relationship to God who is 
himself love. 

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Verse eight said anyone who does
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because God is love. 
God is love. 

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I mentioned this a few weeks 
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unlike all the other gods in 
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himself specifically by love. 
Exodus 34, You'll remember I 

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read this Exodus 34, six through
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As God is introducing himself, 
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He's telling Moses this. 
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before and proclaimed the Lord. 
The Lord, a God merciful and 

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gracious, slow to anger and 
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faithfulness, keeping steadfast 
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iniquity in transgression and 
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There are so-called gods and 
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be called the gods or goddesses 
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actually gods or goddesses of 
lust and desire is really what 

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those are about our God. 
He's unique in that he has 

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identified himself with love and
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Love is the basis for his 
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his love for them and their love
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So when John wrote this letter 
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loving, though of course he 
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Of course, he could have said 
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No, John said. 
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Love is his very nature. 
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being. 
So the fact that God is love has

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an impact on us. 
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that in turn we love others. 
We we love others because God is

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love. 
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dole that love out to others 
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To know the love of God is to 
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our interactions. 
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receive a greater depth of love 
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them, but the aim of our 
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love. 
In John 13 verses 34 through 35,

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Jesus was talking to his 
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notice on the screen a new 
commandment I give you that you 

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love one another just as I have 
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You also are to love one 
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By this all people will know 
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have love for one another. 
So this this is to say that love

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is the mark of Jesus disciples. 
People will know that we're 

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Jesus disciples because of our 
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That's the next points. 
The mark of Jesus disciples is 

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love. 
So none of us none of us is a 

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perfect representation of Jesus 
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out for any mistake that that 
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follow Jesus. 
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What does bring conviction to 
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who we are and proves who Jesus 
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It's our love for other people. 
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serves as a sign that we are 
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exists. 
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basis and rationale for our 
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So now we look at God's love 
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God's love was demonstrated in 
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The love of God was made 
manifest among us, that God sent

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his only Son into the world so 
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And this is love, not that we 
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loved us and sent his Son to be 
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So first of all, God's love was 
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His love was demonstrated in 
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Jesus was the revelation of 
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Now it may sound a little 
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We've heard this before. 
But it's always good to remind 

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ourselves of this, right? 
The Father sent his Son into the

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world in order to bring 
salvation through the Son's 

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death on the cross. 
If you ask any earthly father, 

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they'll tell you they would 
rather take the place of their 

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child's suffering every time. 
They would rather take the place

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of their child's suffering. 
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intuitively, we want to prevent 
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Yet God the Father's love for us
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Jesus to die to pay the penalty 
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The Father knew what was on the 
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He knew what was on the other 
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love for us that carried the 
Godhead through this horrible 

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moment in history. 
The Romans 5/8 informs us of the

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depth of God's love. 
Romans 5/8 says, But God showed 

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his love for us and that while 
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us. 
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love for us sinners by sending 
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This is truly God's Amazing 
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My sin, it costs something and 
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to be paid right now under the 
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Under the Old Testament law, 
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penalty for its sin. 
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Jesus, Jesus spilled his blood 
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to pay the price that we 
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A verse 10 read in this isn't 
love, not that we have loved 

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God, but that he loved us and 
sent his Son to be the 

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propitiation for our sins. 
Now I suspect you probably don't

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go around using that word 
propitiation. 

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I would also venture to say that
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what that word actually means, 
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But to say that Jesus was the 
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say that he was the atoning 
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He was the appeasement for the 
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Not because of his own sin, of 
course, because he didn't have 

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any sin of his own, but he was 
the propitiation. 

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He was the appeasement for our 
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for us. 
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in Jesus. 
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So God's love is demonstrated in
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Verse 11 read If God so loved 
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another. 
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reasonable thing to do. 
If God loved us, God, the holy 

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Creator of the universe, the one
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space, the one who sits above 
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It's he who has phenomenal 
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into this itty bitty living 
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one who holds all power, clothed
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into this world. 
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It's a wonder of wonders for 
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stop with us, right? 
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We must love each other. 
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If God loved us, then we love 
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understand. 
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through here, so I'll do my best
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text is trying to say. 
I'll read it again here. 

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No one has ever seen God. 
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18 says no one has ever seen 
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If we love one another, God 
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perfected in us by this. 
We know that we abide in Him and

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He and us because He has given 
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seen and testified that the 
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the Savior of the world. 
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the Son of God, God abides in 
him and He and God. 

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So we've come to no one to 
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for us. 
God is love, and whoever abides 

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in love abides in God, and God 
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By this is love perfected with 
us, so we may have confidence 

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for the day of judgment, because
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world. 
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perfect love casts out fear, for
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Whoever fears has not been 
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So we can sum up this portion of
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statement. 
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our confidence. 
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our confidence. 
Verse 12 said no one has seen 

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God. 
God is spirits. 

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We can't actually see God not in
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But the invisible God abides in 
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He he resides inside of us and 
John loves this word abide. 

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He, he uses the word abide 6 
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in this passage. 
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there's this famous passage that
the scholars love to talk about 

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in John 15 where he talks about 
abiding in him and, and him 

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abiding in US. 
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discussion about what it means. 
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I like to say that abiding is 
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You see, there are all sorts of 
places that we can make our 

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home. 
For example, I could make my 

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home in fear or lust or or 
desires, or I can make my home 

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in God. 
That is what abiding is. 

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John calls us to abide or live 
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Him, then then love is the 
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Of our home in God when we abide
in him. 

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Love is the evidence of our home
in God. 

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Now we're shaped by the places 
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We'll have certain cultural 
practices and and we'll adopt 

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the language in ways of the 
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For example, should you 
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someone from the land Down 
Under, their accent is a clear 

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giveaway that their home was it 
was in another place or may 

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still be in another place. 
They start using words like boot

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and bonnet and you think they're
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they're actually talking about 
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The ways and language of of our 
dear Aussie friends are evidence

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of their home having been in 
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They've been shaped by their 
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Now if my home is in God, then I
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home, just as our Aussie friends
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When we are living in God, 
living in Christ, we will be 

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shaped by Him. 
It's as though I'll have a God 

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like accent and people will 
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my home is in God. 
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moment. 
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God is invisible. 
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making the invisible visible. 
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evidence to a world, to the 
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When we love him, we're making 
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which leads to the next points, 
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When God is our home, the Spirit
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removes any fear at the judgment
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Sounds like we went from nice 
fluffy stuff talking about love 

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right to judgment. 
But hold on, it's not as bad as 

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it may initially sound. 
You see, I've often heard people

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talk, take part of this verse 
18, perfect love casts out fear.

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We love to throw this out there,
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And what they're trying to say 
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afraid. 
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That is a verse taken out of 
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No, you don't need to live in 
fear. 

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We don't need to be afraid, but 
we have God's presence for that.

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Actually, when the text says 
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it's revealing a progression. 
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Making our home in God will will
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I had these cool little arrows. 
Hopefully they show up. 

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So when we make our home in God,
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then mature love will lead to 
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judgment seat of Christ. 
So we we make our home in God. 

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Oh here, let me go this way. 
Make our home in God. 

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That brings us to mature love, 
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grows in us. 
That removes fear at the 

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judgment seat of Christ. 
This isn't the removal of fear 

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in everyday life. 
It's the removal of fear at the 

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judgment seat of Christ. 
You see, the judgment seat of 

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Christ is the moment after Jesus
returns, when Christians from 

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all of time stand before God to 
be judged. 

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This is actually a good 
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Essentially, it's a good 
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The judgement seat of Christ is 
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And it's actually more, more 
characteristic of an athlete who

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is standing on a podium and 
they're awaiting to receive a 

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medal or, or to receive a 
trophy. 

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Or back in, back in biblical 
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receive a, a crown of branches. 
Basically is, is what it was. 

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This was, this was their reward.
So the judgement seat of Christ 

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is a time of reward. 
We will receive or not receive 

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rewards depending on how we've 
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Did we choose to build our lives
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Things that can easily be burned
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Or did we choose instead to 
build our lives with things that

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won't decay with with precious 
stones and gold and silver? 

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You see, whatever we choose, 
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judgement seat of Christ and, 
and the hope for each of us is 

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that our works won't be burned 
up as we will have spent our 

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lives and resources in a way 
that reaps heavenly rewards. 

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And those rewards we just sang 
about it didn't even know we 

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were going to sing about. 
But those rewards are crowns, he

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said. 
That's that hymn, Holy, holy, 

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holy, he said, casting down our 
golden crowns. 

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We'll receive those crowns, 
those rewards. 

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Then it'll be our joy to lay 
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So if I had mature love, I will 
have spent my life in valuable 

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ways and I'll look forward to 
the judgment. 

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Or sometimes this is called the 
Bhima seat of Christ. 

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That perfect or mature love I've
walked in will will cut, will be

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caused to remove any fear for 
this occasion. 

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If, however, a Christian has 
chosen to build their life with 

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the worthless things of this 
world and hasn't attained to 

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mature love, then that person 
may perhaps look with 

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trepidation and fear on this 
occasion and not be as excited 

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to come before our Savior. 
So next, as we wrap up the 

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passage, we have the foundation 
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The foundation and command to 
love. 

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Looking at verses 19 through 21,
it says we love because He first

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loved us. 
If anyone says I love God and 

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hates his brother, he is a liar.
For he who does not love his 

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brother whom he has seen, cannot
love God whom he has not seen. 

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And this commandment we have 
from him, whoever loves God must

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also love his brother. 
So he loved us first. 

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He loved us first. 
This is the foundation of love, 

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right? 
God is love and 1st loved us. 

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We can't earn his love we we 
don't deserve it. 

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God simply chose to set his love
on us. 

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In Matthew 22 as well as in Mark
and Luke's gospels, the 

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Pharisees approach Jesus. 
See Jesus had just silenced the 

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Sadducees as as the Sadducees 
were asking him questions about 

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marriage. 
Well, who are we going to be 

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married to when, when we're in 
heaven? 

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And Jesus is basically the 
little saying, you fools, you're

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not going to be married in 
heaven. 

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So the Pharisees, all right, OK,
we got it. 

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We got the right question. 
These Sadducees, they, they, 

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they don't really quite have it 
all together, but we have the 

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perfect thing, Jesus. 
Which of the laws is most 

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important? 
Which one we have all these 

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laws, Which one is most 
important? 

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And Jesus says, you shall love 
the Lord your God with all your 

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hearts, and with all your soul 
and with all your mind. 

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This is the great and 1st 
commandments. 

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And a second is like it. 
You shall love your neighbor as 

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yourself. 
On these two and the prophets, 

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Jesus was 2 wise for their 
games. 

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He said all of the law, all of 
it boils down to two things. 

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We call this just essentially 
the great commandment. 

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The great commandment 
technically refers to just the 

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first part, but whenever we talk
about it, we lump both of these 

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things together. 
The great commandment is to love

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God and love people. 
Love God, love people. 

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That's it all done. 
We can go home. 

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It's that simple right? 
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of work to to grow in our love 
both for God and people. 

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You see the 1st 4 commandments 
are about our relationship with 

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God, maintaining our 
relationship with Him. 

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And then the next six of the 
commandments are about our 

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relationships with people 
guidelines, if you will, to how 

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to love others well, don't lie 
to them. 

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Don't don't covet your 
neighbor's wife, don't steal 

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from them. 
You know, these, these are just 

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good things to do as a human 
being, right? 

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So here in verse 20 John wrote, 
if anyone says I love God and 

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hates his brother, he is a liar.
For he who does not love his 

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brother whom he has seen, cannot
love God, whom he has not seen. 

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We can't love God and hate our 
brother or sister. 

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If we say we love God but don't 
love our brother, then we make 

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ourselves liars. 
Our lives are shown to be 

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inconsistent with the love for 
God. 

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We haven't even seen God, like 
actually seen God, right? 

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We haven't even seen God, but we
say we love him. 

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So how is it that we can 
possibly say we love him when we

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can't even love the people that 
we come into contact each day? 

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If we love God, then we will 
love others. 

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So all of this begs the 
question, what keeps us from 

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love? 
What is it? 

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What is it that actually keeps 
us from loving other people? 

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Banu, sorry, I forgot to tell 
you. 

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I'm skipping that slide, but 
guess not. 

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Hey, you put it up there. 
Let's go there. 

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Go ahead and show that. 
So have you ever seen this? 

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Everyone brings joy to this 
office. 

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Someone they enter, someone they
leave. 

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I'm so glad you're laughing. 
Thank you. 

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I had cut it because I was like,
oh, I don't want to be too edgy 

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here, but love is kind of like 
that. 

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Some people, when they enter our
presence, it's easy to love them

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when they leave, it's a little 
easier to love them when they 

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leave. 
Some people are just hard to get

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along with. 
Rights, different personalities 

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and character traits. 
A number of things that that 

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come into play in our capacity 
to love others. 

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Well, in ministry, we have this 
little designation for for 

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people like this. 
We call them EG Rs. 

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Perhaps you know this, maybe you
don't. 

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EGR extra grace required. 
Some situations are just 

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difficult, some people can be 
difficult, and loving people 

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through difficult situations can
be really hard. 

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And in these times, we need an 
extra bit of grace to navigate 

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those moments. 
And in those moments when I 

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might be dealing with an EGR, 
then I pray especially hard for 

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the Holy Spirit to fill me up 
and for everything that comes 

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out of me to be the Holy Spirit,
to be God's working and not 

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drew. 
So some personalities just don't

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mesh. 
But beyond that, what is it that

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keeps us from loving others? 
Well, first of all, there's the 

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works of the flesh. 
The works of the flesh. 

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Interestingly, in this same 
section of Scripture where we 

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find the fruit of the spirits, 
the verses preceding the fruit 

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of the spirit there in Galatians
5, the verses preceding it 

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actually list what you could 
call maybe fruits of the flesh, 

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the works of the flesh. 
And it lists all these things 

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that that don't really apply to 
our conversation really about 

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loving others. 
Well, it lists a number of 

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things such as sexual 
immorality, impurity, 

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sensuality, idolatry, sorcery. 
These are these are qualities 

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that are more related to 1's own
self. 

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But then what follows those is a
list of items that are 

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especially pertinent to our 
discussion on loving other 

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people, Paul says. 
He lists enmity, strife, 

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jealousy, fits of anger, 
rivalries, dissensions, 

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divisions, envy, these things. 
These are the works of the flesh

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that prevent us from loving 
others. 

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There was that word enmity. 
What does enmity mean? 

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Well, enmity is being opposed or
hostile towards someone. 

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It's basically enmity is like 
having an enemy. 

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Strife is anger or bitterness, 
in a word, conflict. 

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Then there's jealousy, fits of 
anger, rivalries, dissensions, 

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divisions, and envy. 
You, you understand basically 

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what those things are. 
All these things can and do work

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against us. 
Satan loves to use these tools 

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to get people's, to get people 
off track and at odds with each 

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other. 
And also he loves to get us to 

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stop loving others. 
If the enemy can get us to stop 

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loving other people, then he is 
being successful in his job. 

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So the works of the flesh 
prevent us from loving others. 

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The last thing, if we could sum 
it all up, the thing that 

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prevents us from loving others 
is me. 

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I'm the problem. 
Well, not me actually, but self 

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rights. 
Jesus said we have to deny 

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ourselves, take up our cross and
follow Him. 

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So self is the thing that we 
have to watch out for. 

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That's your last points a little
bit. 

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A lot of loving others is about 
denying ourselves. 

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Denying my pride, denying my 
selfishness, my arrogance, the 

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belief that I'm owed something 
in every situation, my belief 

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that everything is about me. 
I have to die to my flesh daily.

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I have to say Holy Spirit. 
Holy Spirit, fill me up, take 

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control of my life as I deny 
myself. 

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I may sometimes find that love 
means choosing to let an offence

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go sometimes the first Peter 4/8
Peter wrote. 

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Above all, keep loving one 
another earnestly. 

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Since love covers a multitude or
sins, when someone does 

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something that offends me, love 
may mean that my response is 

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just like Elsa's, and that is, I
know somebody's with me, let it 

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go. 
Sometimes My response when 

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somebody offends me. 
Should we break out in song 

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right now? 
No, I guess it won't. 

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Sometimes when somebody offends 
me, my love for them will call 

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me. 
Just let it go. 

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Let love cover it. 
That's not always the case. 

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Some offenses are simply too big
to be ignored, and we have to 

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address those. 
But sometimes love means letting

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love cover over an offence. 
So where are you this morning? 

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Where do you need to extend 
love? 

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Is there an EGR in your life? 
Someone you need a little extra 

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grace to interact with them. 
You need the Holy Spirit to come

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into you and and just fill you 
so that you can act in love. 

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Who do you need to show love to?
Is there? 

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Is there someone who you may 
need to extend grace and let 

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love cover an offence or two, or
10? 

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Is your life characterized by 
mature love leading to joy at 

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the thoughts of meeting your 
Savior, at the judgement of 

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Christ? 
Let's all clothe ourselves in 

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love as we each continue to grow
in the faith. 

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Let's bow our heads and close 
our eyes. 

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And as we do this, let's take a 
moment to just look in our 

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hearts to see what's. 
The Holy Spirit would say into 

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our hearts, pause for just a 
quiet moments of quiet. 

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Say, God, show me, is there an 
area where I need to demonstrate

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your love where I have not been 
diligent about loving other 

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people? 
Let Him bring that to your 

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thoughts and then say God, would
you grow that in me? 

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Moment of quiet as we just rest 
of the Lord. 

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Holy Spirit, we thank you that 
it is not our job, our duty to 

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grow the fruit of the Spirit, 
but that as we spend time in 

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you, as we, as we make you our 
home, we abide in you. 

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Then you will work your 
supernatural power in us to grow

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these these fruits in us. 
So, Spirit, would you make us 

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loving? 
Help us see others through the 

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lens of love. 
Not just feelings or emotions, 

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but actions. 
We thank you for teaching us 

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from your word this morning. 
We pray. 

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Amen.
