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1st Corinthians 16 If you're 
using one of our Bibles there in

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front of you, it's found on page
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962. 
We live in a culture that's 

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often assumes a man is 
worthless, that he's emotionally

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unintelligent, right? 
Over the years, many television 

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shows have depicted men as the 
idiots in their storyline. 

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Barney Fife was just the 
beginning, back in the 60s. 

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Since then, there have been many
others. 

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Archie Bunker, Homer Simpson, 
Joey from Friends, Al Bundy and 

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Ray Romano, and Everybody Loves 
Raymond just to name a few. 

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There's a lot more than that. 
These are just some of the 

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classic examples of male 
buffoons in television, men 

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inserted into the story for 
comedic relief, basically. 

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Now, fortunately, men, we don't 
have to follow the examples set 

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before us in our entertainment. 
God has given us some good 

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advice through the apostle Paul.
And so this morning we're going 

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to look at that. 
Now we have a very short text 

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this morning, but it is a 
decently long message. 

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If I'd kept everything I had, if
I kept everything I had, it was 

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probably going to be an hour, 
but I think I've probably cut 

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out a good 15 minutes. 
So hopefully this isn't too much

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coming at you this morning. 
But if you're able, would you 

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stand as we read God's Word this
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1st Corinthians 16 will be at 
verse 13. 

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Be watchful, stand firm in the 
faith, act like men, be strong. 

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Let all that you do be done in 
love. 

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You may be seated. 
Now we're obviously in Paul's 

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first letter to the Church of 
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And by the way, I should 
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take notes I have and you didn't
grab one of the bulletins or 

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note sheets, you might want to 
grab it because there's a lot of

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verses listed on the note sheets
to help you as we navigate 

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things this morning. 
So we're obviously in Paul's 

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first letter to the Church of 
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And this church is notorious for
all their perversions. 

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They they're perversions of the 
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They're perversions of marriage.
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ordered way. 
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worship, they had many problems.
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this letter to the church at 
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So Paul's first exhortation to 
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He says be watchful. 
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to be awake or or vigilant. 
Are we good, baby? 

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Hopefully, yes. 
OK, I was a little in a rush 

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when I did this yesterday. 
We're to be awake, we're to be 

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vigilant. 
We're we're going to have a 

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heightened level of awareness to
the things around us. 

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The picture in my mind is that 
of someone watching over a 

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business or location a night 
watchman. 

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The night watchman's job is to 
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suspicious that is happening and
and order to prevent theft or 

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some other unwanted behavior or 
or trespassing where people 

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shouldn't be. 
That's the night watchman's job.

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He's on high alerts for anything
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Even the slightest thing that 
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hopefully catch the night 
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Now there are 6 things that we 
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Six things. 
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for is Satan. 
Watch out for Satan first. 

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Peter 5/8 says. 
Be sober minded. 

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Be watchful. 
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prowls around like a roaring 
lion, seeking whom he may 

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devour. 
Satan hates you. 

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Satan wants to destroy you. 
He is hungry and you're on the 

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menu. 
So watch out for him. 

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Now how do we do that? 
Like I say that and you're 

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probably like, OK, what does 
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How does one actually watch out 
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Is it is it like, oh, you're 
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see Satan walking the other way 
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Or is it that casual meeting 
somebody for the first time and,

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and realizing that they're evil?
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Well, actually, I can't say 
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it's possible you might meet 
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actually, right, Because we are 
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So you might meet someone who is
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to watch out for Satan is to 
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That is temptation. 
Watch out for temptation. 

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He has three particularly 
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distract us from God's working. 
Those tools are the lust of the 

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flesh, the lust of the eyes, and
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Satan knows the things that we 
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then he needs to go through our 
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Now James, the brother of Jesus,
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person is tempted. 
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own desires. 
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James has in mind here is it's a
fishing illustration actually is

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what he's using. 
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The fish sees the bait and the 
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desire. 
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thing, this bait that's in front
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The fish just immediately goes 
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It bites, right? 
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these things inside of us, these
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check, can get us into trouble. 
Temptation comes from inside. 

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It's not a strictly external 
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Sometimes we think, oh, this 
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situation tempted me. 
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Whatever the case may be, the 
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But James in James 114 tells us 
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with our own desires. 
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And that temptation can lead to 
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So Satan will exploit those 
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So be watchful for Satan. 
Be watchful for temptation. 

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Next, be watchful for apathy and
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Apathy and an indifference. 
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prevent the growth of God's 
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Apathy and indifference are a 
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he doesn't have to do anything 
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The person who's apathetic and 
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isn't doing anything to expand 
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In Revelation 3, John wrote to 
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He wrote, I know your works. 
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alive, but you are dead. 
Wake up and strengthen what 

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remains and is about to die. 
For I have not found your works 

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complete in the sight of my God.
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a lot going on there. 
Apparently they had a reputation

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for being alive. 
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are dead. 
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It's there's not anything deep 
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They weren't actually doing 
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They appeared to be, but they 
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They'd become spiritually 
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By the way, it's reasonable to 
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something for God that you will 
receive the attention of the 

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enemy, right? 
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successful in the Christian 
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So if you're being successful, 
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And if by chance you're not 
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then it's possible. 
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started to creep in. 
So it's time that you tick Satan

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off and just start living for 
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that you are so that you tick 
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He will still stay on you. 
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ticked off. 
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you. 
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I don't have to worry about them
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anything. 
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We don't want to be apathetic. 
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Watch out for false teachers. 
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that false Christ's false 
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would come and attempt to 
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So how do we know what a false 
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Well, we can spot a false 
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What do they say about Jesus? 

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If they teach anything that's 
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about Jesus, then that might be 
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Do they preach the gospel? 
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faith in Christ's redeeming work
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Anything more or less is a false
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Does the teacher exhibit the 
character qualities that glorify

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the Lord? 
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look at the fruits, the fruit of
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their fruits if you will, are 
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You might have a false teacher, 
somebody that you don't want to 

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follow. 
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that in the FBI, those who 
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with counterfeit currency, they 
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Some of you may already know 
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They look at the original. 
That's their focus. 

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They don't devote themselves to 
looking at all the other forms 

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of counterfeit currency that are
out there because there's a lot.

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They focus on knowing all the 
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does authentic currency look 
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What does it feel like? 
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So then when they come across a 
counterfeit, they know it 

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instinctively. 
They just know that it's a 

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counterfeit. 
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says. 
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says, then when we come across a
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false teaching. 
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our mind. 
Something should happen and we 

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say hold on. 
That doesn't jive with what I 

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know scripture to reveal. 
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for anything I say. 
If what I say doesn't jive with 

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Scripture, please let me know. 
Obviously, my goal is always to 

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represent Scripture accurately, 
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everything that you hear from 
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We always must be like the 
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Scriptures to see what's the 
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So these first four things that 
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negative, but there's two 
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for. 
Let's be watchful in prayer. 

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Devote yourself to prayer. 
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like to call my declaration of 
dependence upon God. 

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It's my declaration of 
dependence upon God. 

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That is what prayer is. 
It's it's a way for me to pursue

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my relationship with God, to be 
recharging him, and it's 

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intended to be the heartbeat of 
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It strengthens my relationship 
with him and it strengthens my 

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defenses against Satan. 
The last thing we're to be 

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watchful for is the Lord's 
return, the Lord's return. 

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There are two fantastic motives 
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Christ. 
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cross, but the second is the 
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Jesus is coming back. 
He's going to return and set up 

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an earthly Kingdom. 
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than simply life here on this 
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for Him. 
We're to be looking for and 

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anticipating the day of Christ's
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So secondly, stand firm in the 
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Stand firm in the faith was the 
next phrase that Paul used. 

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Saving faith and faith in God's 
working aren't what Paul is 

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referring to here. 
When scripture uses the definite

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article that is the word the in 
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it has something in particular 
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The words the faith refer to the
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we consider truth. 
These are doctrines that are 

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considered non negotiable and 
which form the basis of historic

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Christianity. 
Examples of this include the 

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inspiration of scripture, the 
deed of Jesus, his incarnation, 

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death and resurrection, and 
salvation by grace alone through

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faith in Christ alone. 
These things are core doctrines.

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This is what we refer to as the 
faith. 

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In his commentary on this 
passage, the commentator Jane 

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Charles Hodge cautioned 
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consider every point of doctrine
open for discussion. 

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There are some people who who 
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doctrine and debates every 
single point. 

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No, it's good. 
It's good to have healthy good 

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debate about about doctrine 
because that that helps you know

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what you believe and why you 
believe it and making sure that 

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scripture itself affirms what 
you believe. 

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Now, throughout history, the 
church has had numerous debates 

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or councils to codify what 
essential Christian doctrine is.

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This was important, especially 
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development, because people 
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points and they there were 
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Jesus was and, and whether there
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things like that. 
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these councils to discuss these 
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Scripture has revealed to us. 
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they're not up for debate. 
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church may may say I don't 
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believe he actually existed. 
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That is actually apologetics. 
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different category. 
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someone to understand these 
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So this is what it means to 
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We stand in these beliefs. 
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important to know what the truth
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issues. 
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Ephesians 4, verse 14. 
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longer be children tossed to and
fro by the waves and carried 

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about by every wind of doctrine,
by human cunning, by craftiness 

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and deceitful schemes. 
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ideas and and concepts. 
It's it's just part of my 

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personality. 
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something novel, something 
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bit of time researching that 
thing to learn about it and and 

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at least gain a surface level 
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revolve around. 
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it's kind of like the Athenians 
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Paul. 
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they were known to be highly 
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thinking. 
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famous moments, his moments at 
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there said, hey, Paul, come, 
come speak to us. 

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We want to hear about this 
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talking about. 
What is this, this novelty, this

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novel idea that you're Speaking 
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It was foreign to to their Greek
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But new ideas and thoughts can 
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about. 
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be the place where Satan loves 
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truth, to chip away at it. 
And oh, this sounds really good.

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Maybe this is actually truth 
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something at face value, when 
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to understand it. 
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the objects of our faith, if he 
can get us to have little things

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that aren't quite accurate in 
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to keeping us unproductive. 
So it's important for us to have

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sound doctrine from God's word. 
The Corinthians had a lot of 

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screwed up thinking and this 
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addressed to fix some of their 
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This letter is so dense because 
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to address with them. 
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eaten away at their view of God 
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First Corinthians chapter 3 
verse 18 reads Let no one 

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deceive himself. 
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he is wise in this age, let him 
become a fool that he may 

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become. 
Wise. 

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Let him become a fool, that he 
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It sounds like nonsense, right? 
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perspective. 
The world looks at God's ways as

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foolish. 
Why would you live that way when

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you can do all these other 
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life on your own terms however 
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But the reality is, is that the 
wisdom of this world is actually

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futile and and it doesn't stand 
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We need to stand firm in the 
faith and fight for what has 

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been handed down to us over the 
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Third, act like men. 
Be mature in courage. 

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I wanted to qualify that 
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Act like men so that we 
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when Paul is writing and he says
act like men. 

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Unfortunately, in our culture 
today, exhorting the male 

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species to act like men is 
likely to earn you all sorts of 

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insults and side eyed glances. 
The use of such words invokes 

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accusations of misogyny and 
toxic masculinity. 

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Mainstream culture would argue 
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behaviors viewed as masculine. 
Normative things like playing 

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sports, lifting weights, 
shooting guns, fighting, perhaps

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even walking around and grunting
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You know, he was so funny, young
people, I don't know. 

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If you know who he is, go check 
him out. 

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What was the show? 
Home. 

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Home improvement, Right? 
Yes. 

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OK, So what Paul has in mind 
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mature courage. 
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qualities as self-control and 
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The immature person, however, 
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but rather acts out of a lack of
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They're hesitant and controlled 
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The root word that could 
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manizing, be be acting like a 
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derived from the Greek word 
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man in Greek. 
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translation of the Hebrew 
Scriptures, uses this word in to

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refer in particular to to 
soldiers to encourage them to 

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have courage and and strengthen 
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Sometimes being obedient is 
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Sometimes when God calls you to 
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faith. 
It requires courage to step into

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something sometimes like to step
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It has required a lot of courage
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place to be a lead pastor. 
Sometimes it's hard to be 

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obedient. 
So, so Paul is saying be 

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courageous. 
God is going to empower you as 

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you step into this space and and
you step forward in obedience. 

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Over and over in the Old 
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strong and courageous. 
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throughout, especially Moses 
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to to hand off the baton over 
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strong and courageous. 
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statement, be strong and 
courageous. 

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They keep reiterating that over 
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And what reason do we have to be
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It's the Lord's presence, the 
Lord working on behalf of his 

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followers. 
You're not in this alone. 

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Be strong and courageous because
God is with you. 

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He is working in you and around 
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Second Timothy 316 and 17. 
Many of you will no doubt 

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recognize this passage. 
All Scripture is breathed out by

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God and is profitable for 
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correction, and for training in 
righteousness that the man of 

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God may be complete, equipped 
for every good work. 

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Paul told Timothy Scripture was 
inspired by God and and 

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scripture is useful. 
The ultimate purpose of it is to

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to make you mature, to make you 
complete so that as you grow up,

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as you mature in the faith, then
you're ready for whatever God 

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has in front of you. 
You are ready to step into that 

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new thing, to step forward in 
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Next, be strong. 
Be strong. 

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You know there may be some 
rumours going around of your 

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pastor recently lifting 
relatively heavy weights and 

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squatting numbers he hasn't done
in decades. 

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If you're not on Facebook and 
haven't seen that then I 

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apologise. 
I'm not usually one to talk 

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about numbers, but I just had a 
had a great moment a couple 

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weeks ago. 
I can validate that those rumors

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are true. 
Likely, unless somebody's 

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throwing around really huge 
numbers, then I can't 

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necessarily affirm those. 
But as fun as it is to be 

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physically strong, that's great.
It's fun. 

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That's not what Paul has in 
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Paul is not talking about being 
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Paul wants the the Corinthians 
to have inner spiritual 

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strength. 
That's what Paul has in mind. 

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The person who has matured in 
the faith is spiritually strong.

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They're able to withstand 
whatever comes against them, 

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whatever trials come against 
them. 

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They've been through life. 
They've bent, they've been 

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around the block a few times. 
They are strong in the faith. 

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They know God is in control. 
God's not letting go of them. 

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They're spiritually strong. 
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faithful. 
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Holy Spirit's working in us. 
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spirits working and in turn He 
will strengthen us. 

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In Ephesians 6, as Paul was 
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God, he began the section by 
saying, finally, be strong in 

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the Lord and in the strength of 
his might. 

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God's about to give you all 
these tools. 

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In Ephesians 6, he's about to 
give you all these tools for 

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living the Christian life in the
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But this isn't your working, he 
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It's God's working. 
It's God's strength in you. 

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That's what it is. 
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Paul wrote to his young protege 
and told him how to live out his

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faith. 
Second Timothy 2 verses one and 

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two. 
You then my child, be 

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strengthened by the grace that 
is in Christ Jesus and what you 

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have heard from me in the 
presence of many witnesses and 

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trust to faithful men who would 
be able to teach others also. 

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Again, Paul says your strength, 
it's not in you, it's found in 

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the grace of Christ working in 
you. 

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But I love that Paul doesn't 
stop there. 

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He then says, well, Timothy, 
you, you've heard this from me. 

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I've invested this into you and 
into other other men. 

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Now be sure to pass this on to 
other faithful men so that they 

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can then pass it on as well. 
Don't let this thing that I gave

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you die with you. 
Keep passing it on. 

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This is discipleship, Paul 
investing himself into multiple 

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men who then turn around and do 
the same. 

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In 2nd Corinthians 12, Paul 
brought a bit of clarity to what

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it means to be strong in the 
Lord. 

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There, Paul outlines all these 
experiences that he'd had. 

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He'd had visions, he'd had 
revelations. 

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He he was taken up into heaven. 
Well, really, he's not even 

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actually sure if he was 
physically taken into heaven or 

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if it's just just a vision or 
out of body experience or, or 

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what it is. 
He's experienced all these 

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amazing things and, and he says 
he can't tell us about it. 

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He says, I could tell you the 
truth of these situations, but 

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I'm not going to do that because
in fact, the things I've 

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experienced and have only led to
just this sense of awe and 

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being, being able to see all 
these things that God is able to

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do. 
And so because of what I've 

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experienced, God sent me this 
thorn in the side, the thorn in 

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the flesh, this thing to humble 
me and keep me down so that I 

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didn't become proud and 
boastful. 

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And this, this thorn in the 
flesh was so horrible. 

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I, I pleaded with God several 
times. 

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I asked God, can you please 
remove this? 

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But God, God says my grace in, 
in 2nd Corinthians 12, my grace 

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is sufficient for you, for my 
power is made perfect in 

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weakness. 
And Paul says, therefore I will 

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boast all the more gladly of my 
weaknesses, so that the power of

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Christ may rest upon me. 
Do you catch this? 

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Paul was glad to be weak in 
himself. 

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He didn't want personal fleshly 
strength, which I can't help but

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wonder if he had a bit of 
because because he was fairly 

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athletic. 
I think probably scriptures. 

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He he loves athletic 
illustrations. 

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So, you know, I, I think he may 
have had some strength as well, 

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but Paul knew. 
But Paul knew that at the end of

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his rope, that was where God's 
awesome power was demonstrated. 

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God's grace would come shining 
through and it would show itself

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to be sufficient for every 
moment in his life. 

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At that point, Paul could say 
that he was proud of his 

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weakness because Christ was 
demonstrated in his weaknesses. 

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When we find strength in 
ourselves, we're venturing into 

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dangerous territory. 
Strengthen myself is the entry 

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way to pride, which will tear 
you up when you give yourself 

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over to it. 
You know, you know the verses. 

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Pride goes before the fall. 
God opposes the proud but gives 

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grace to the humble. 
Pride isn't where we want to 

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find ourselves. 
When we end up in pride, then we

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make ourselves an enemy of God. 
Pride can sneak in when you 

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least expect it. 
In Galatians 61, Paul told the 

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church at Galatia what to do 
when someone's caught in sin. 

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He says, brothers, if anyone is 
is caught in any transgression, 

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you who are spiritual should 
restore him in the spirit of 

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gentleness. 
Keep watch on yourself, lest you

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too be tempted. 
The warning here is for even the

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spiritually mature, those who 
have been around in the faith 

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for many years, they, they have 
grown up. 

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They are no longer on just the 
milk of the word, but they're, 

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they're consuming solid food 
from the word. 

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Even those people watch out. 
Be careful when you are 

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confronting someone's sin. 
Be careful. 

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Check yourself first. 
Make sure that you don't have 

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any sin in your heart that that 
you need to attend to. 

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And this is important so that 
we're not tempted to become 

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arrogant or puffed up by finding
strengthen in ourselves or in 

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the while in the process of 
confronting someone else's sin. 

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Oh look how good I am, look how 
mature I am, and look how much 

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sin you have in your life. 
No, that is not what Paul wants 

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us to be doing. 
So keep watch on yourself lest 

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you also be tempted. 
Our strength must be in God and 

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not ourselves. 
Lastly #5 act in love. 

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Act in love. 
What might the outcome be if 

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Paul stopped with verse 13 and 
he didn't include the words of 

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verse 14? 
He says be watchful, look out 

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for the enemy, stand firm in the
faith. 

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That is, don't let anything move
you or dissuade you. 

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Be courageous and act like men. 
Be strong. 

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What if Paul had stopped there? 
If we only had Paul's first four

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exhortations, then, then we 
could end up being militant, 

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hardened, unforgiving. 
A Christian who has all these 

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things but not love is 
incomplete. 

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Love brings a softer side to our
character. 

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It's the perfect complement to 
each of these principles. 

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With love, our firmness doesn't 
become rigidity. 

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With love, our strength doesn't 
become domineering. 

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With love, the courage we 
display in our lives is properly

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guided and considerate. 
And when cold in love, the right

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doctrine in our lives doesn't 
turn into dogmatic legalism. 

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As we pour love over these 4 
commands, we escape the trap of 

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self righteousness. 
We walk in grace, devoid of any 

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00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,880
arrogance that may desire to 
creep into our hearts. 

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In Ephesians 4, Paul addressed 
those who are tossed around by 

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different doctrines and in verse
14 he told the Ephesian church 

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and us how to address these 
situations. 

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When someone follows after some 
sort of untruth, something that 

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is doesn't jive with what 
scripture says. 

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He says his advice was was to 
speak the truth in love. 

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Speaking of the truth is great, 
but it needs to be accompanied 

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by love. 
We have to hold these two things

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in balance. 
If we speak only truth, then we 

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00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:40,040
can come off as proud, 
judgmental and legalistic, and 

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this can lead to an environment 
that is unforgiving. 

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00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:52,920
On the other hand, all grace, 
all love, it can lead to moral 

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00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,320
indifference and potentially 
enables harmful behaviors. 

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00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,640
Someone whose outlook is all 
grace is devoid of any real 

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00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,720
foundation. 
They can just float back and 

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00:37:02,720 --> 00:37:04,680
forth from this belief to that 
one. 

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Whatever their heart desires, 
they have no real anchor for 

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00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:16,240
their soul. 
Live however you want, I love 

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00:37:16,240 --> 00:37:17,600
you, you can do whatever you 
want. 

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That is not what love is but 
biblical grace and truth however

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00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:34,880
is life transforming. 
It's biblical truth but it's 

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covered in love and grace and 
says this is the truth. 

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00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:50,720
Now go walk in that. 
The other night we had an elders

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meeting and and talking about 
someone Mike Findley said a 

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00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,760
certain author and I think I 
would say theologian that he 

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00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:06,160
follows online is like AI love 
this picture a velvet covered 

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00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:11,880
brick. 
This this this gentleman can can

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00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,040
communicate truth. 
That's the brick part, of 

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00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:22,600
course, but they do it in such a
manner that you don't even 

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00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,640
realize that you've just been 
clobbered by a brick. 

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00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:35,640
They do it gently. 
They do it with grace and in 

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love. 
Men, rather than follow the 

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00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,840
horrible examples that we have 
set before us in our 

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00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:54,000
entertainment, let's follow the 
model set before us here in 

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Scripture. 
Be watchful, stand firm in the 

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00:39:00,720 --> 00:39:07,920
faith, be courageous as you act 
like a man, be strengthened by 

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00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:16,120
the Holy Spirit's and let all 
that you do be done in love. 

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00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,800
Let's bow our heads and close 
our eyes. 

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God, we thank you for the 
opportunity to look into your 

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00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:36,720
word. 
We thank you that we can look 

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00:39:36,720 --> 00:39:41,960
into your word and God and we 
can see how you want us as as 

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men, as fathers to live. 
God, I pray that each man in 

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00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:55,520
this place this morning would 
not be discouraged because of 

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00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:59,760
what he's heard, but that each 
man would see, OK, hey, here are

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00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,640
the things that I need to do. 
Here's how, Here's how I can 

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00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,800
live. 
Here's what it means to be a 

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godly man, to be a godly father.
And we ponder these things. 

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God, I pray that each man in 
this place would just pick one 

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thing. 
What is 1 area where I can grow?

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So God, we pray for the Holy 
Spirit's working. 

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We pray that you would empower 
us to live, to live this 

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00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,200
Christian life in the way that 
you have called us to live. 

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00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:56,080
God that we would, we would be 
able to step forward, encourage 

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to be obedient to you no matter 
what you are calling us to. 

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00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,720
So we offer these things to you.
It's in Jesus name we pray, 

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Amen.
