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Hello and welcome to the Planner
Pals Podcast, a podcast hosted 

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by two true planner pals. 
My name is Mark and I go by Mark

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Your pages. 
And I'm Jess or Jessie Curran 

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and I feel like a bit of a fraud
right now, to be honest, because

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I know how helpful using my 
planner is. 

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But right now I just like don't 
wanna look at it. 

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I don't wanna, I don't wanna do 
it, Mark. 

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I don't know why, because it's 
like I have I have things to do 

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and I need to write down my 
plans and I need to make 

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progress on all of them. 
But there's just like something 

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that's been like, no, we're not 
journaling right now. 

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I'm just gonna be a low key 
hater on that and just do none 

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of it. 
Are you keeping your stuff 

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somewhere else right now? 
Like if you found another love 

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or you just like I just can't 
with anything, right? 

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I wish I had found another 
solution to this. 

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Like I'm just not feeling. 
I don't know. 

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Is it like inspired? 
I mean, here you see Parks and 

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Recreation. 
It's like that scene where 

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Andy's like I'm. 
Fine, it's just that life is 

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pointless and nothing matters 
and I'm always tired. 

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Also, I can't sleep, I'm 
overeating, none of my old 

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hobbies interest me. 
It's literally that I am that 

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about my journal right now and I
don't have another solution, 

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which is very problematic 
because as in I have things to 

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plan, I have things to write 
down, I have things to keep top 

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log and I'm like you used to 
work for me, why isn't it 

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working right now? 
I've definitely been there 

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before as well, but I always try
to find ways to bring myself 

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back in. 
So maybe today I could give you 

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a little bit of advice on some 
things you could possibly do to 

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help bring yourself back to your
glorious bullet journal. 

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I would love it because yeah, 
I'm just, I feel like I'm just 

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in a bit of a slump, honestly. 
Like, and it usually happens 

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around this time of year as 
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It's it's always April. 
I like set up for April. 

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I'm like, well, yeah, I guess. 
I guess I did it. 

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Check the box. 
I set up April. 

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Now I have to use it. 
Honestly, I think it's just that

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first quarter slump is kind of 
what I call it. 

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I think we know when you start 
off the year, you have your 

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journal or your planner picked 
out, you create that new videos 

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we always do and you're all 
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And I think you just get into 
using it and then you're 

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suddenly like, well, maybe 
something isn't quite right or I

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don't, do I need to change 
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I mean, I just changed my whole 
office around because I was 

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like, oh, I haven't changed it 
in a while and I have this new 

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direction or thing that I want 
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So I think it kind of goes hand 
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It happens to everyone. 
Just so you're not alone, we 

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know that plenty of planner pals
have been here before. 

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Some of my advice, I've done 
this before. 

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This was a number of years ago 
where I was just kind of like, I

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think maybe I'm done with bullet
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Like it wasn't kind of fitting 
my need. 

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And I stopped using it for about
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And it's a very dangerous thing.
This is very risky to do because

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as we know with any type of 
habit, you know, as soon as you 

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kind of fall out of it or there 
isn't any interest anymore, you 

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might forget about it. 
But I went without it for a week

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and then I kind of started to 
figure out like, wait a second, 

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my bullet journal is actually 
really helpful. 

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All these things I'm struggling 
with could have all been solved 

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with my bullet journal. 
So I don't know how you feel 

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about that if you're not 
touching your bullet journal at 

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all right now or if you're just 
kind of dabbling with it or what

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it is. 
But you know, going without, 

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it's that whole, like without 
it, the heart grows fonder or 

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whatever that saying is. 
Ever since makes the heart grow 

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fonder. 
That was literally what I was 

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thinking. 
I'm just like, yeah, maybe we, 

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we just we're not breaking up. 
We're just on a break thing. 

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There's like maybe some time 
away from it would kind of 

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remotivate me to actually get 
back in and use it, kind of like

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highlight the importance of it 
and remotivate me to get back 

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into it so I can be like back on
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Like, yeah, let's just make the 
problem worse so that then it's 

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like, OK, actually, yeah, you do
need that solution. 

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Let's get back into it. 
It could possibly work with 

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people. 
I mean, even if it's not even a 

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full week off, because if that 
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someone, maybe it would just be 
like a couple of days without. 

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Like do we just need like a 
teeny vacation from each other? 

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It's a little bit of a risky 
thing because I know myself if I

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don't do anything for about a 
week or so, I will never touch 

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it again. 
It's also the ADHD in me that 

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also causes that problem. 
But I have experience with this 

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one where I was just like, I 
need to do something different 

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and I tried it and I really 
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And I was like bullet journal is
just always there for me. 

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I can always count on it. 
It's so it's a little bit of a 

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risky thing, but I don't know, I
think you could potentially do 

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it. 
Can you imagine if I give you 

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this advice, Jess, and then you 
like never use a bullet journal 

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again. 
You're your career ends because 

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Mark give you really bad advice.
I mean, it's certainly be 

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something. 
Can you imagine the video? 

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It's like I took bad planner 
advice and now I'm like $50.00 

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in debt. 
I don't know why I went fifty. 

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I was going to say 50 million. 
I'm like, that's too much. 

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So let's just like scale it 
back, $50.00 in debt doesn't 

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seem like that bad. 
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you've got a point there. 
And also I liked your point 

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earlier about the idea of like 
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Like when we get into our 
journals for the start of the 

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new year, I mean, like, we're 
just going to sprinkle new all 

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over this new journal for the 
new year with your new layouts 

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and your new goals and 
everything feels fresh and 

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awesome. 
And actually, a video I was 

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watching the other day kind of 
talked about this, that, you 

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know, why do so many people kind
of slump on their goals when it 

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comes to about March? 
And that's because it's no 

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longer new. 
Like it's not that kind of new 

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and exciting thing anymore. 
And you're kind of starting to 

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realize, like, OK, well, you 
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now. 
I kind of got to do the thing, 

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whatever their goal is, you 
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But if I've set the goal for the
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left until the end of the year. 
So I could kind of just put it 

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off and you kind of get into 
this low motivated state kind of

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slumpy and not working on your 
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So maybe that's kind of what my 
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new feeling has kind of worn 
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Maybe I just need to try 
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Maybe not necessarily a 
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maybe something different in by 
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talking about it, I was just 
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structures might just be feeling
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I was going to say, I mean, 
something else that I've done 

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that it's been helpful, 
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burnt out on it as I just kind 
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the very first or this is a 
great thing to go back to your 

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very first bullet journal and 
take a look and kind of get some

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inspiration back from there. 
Like what was I doing in that 

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journal that it got me so 
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now I've been doing it for 7/8, 
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That's something that I've 
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I've kind of taken it back to 
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very overwhelmed with the amount
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do inside of there. 
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through if I need like a little 
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Mark, when you were like all 
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How do I get some of that back? 
Yeah, just kind of like trying 

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to get re inspired from your 
past self because I find that 

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finding inspiration for planners
can be very useful for getting 

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remotivated to get into it. 
Especially if there's like, you 

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know, a particular problem you 
want to solve and you find some 

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potential solutions and you're 
just kind of treating it like a 

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bit of an experiment that can be
kind of fun, bring a bit of joy 

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back to it. 
But like looking back on your 

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past journals, I mean, like, OK,
well this worked for me 

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previously. 
Like maybe I could use that as a

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way to re motivate myself, re 
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reignite the passion. 
A lot of raise now, that's what 

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was news. 
Now it's raise. 

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We're hitting the full spectrum 
of all of this. 

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I think it really just comes 
down to it though is like you're

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retrying to ignite that spark. 
Like you said, I think we all 

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will go through this at some 
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Are planners or honestly 
anything new that you try? 

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Everything new is exciting, no 
doubt about it, but it is trying

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to go back to like, well, what 
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Is it just because it was 
something different, something 

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hooked you though? 
I mean, think about how many 

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different type of planners or 
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probably tried in your life. 
You know, maybe we just time box

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it into the past eight years. 
It's kind of like what we talked

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about in that previous episode, 
like if something doesn't work 

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out for you, we tend to not use 
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So it's just this idea that like
you've probably worked out a lot

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of those kinks overtime. 
So even going back and looking 

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at that, you come up with new 
ideas to approach those problems

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as you may have solved them 
before, but you have all of this

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knowledge now that's like, oh, I
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you know? 
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yourself a bit of a challenge 
too in a way to go and be like, 

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OK, let me try to solve this 
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kind of just hitting on point to
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you've just solved so many of 
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You're just in such this like 
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Dare I say it that you're 
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of the ideal state? 
Yeah, Have you seen The Good 

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Place? 
I don't want to spoil The Good 

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Place for anybody, but when 
they're, you know, they go up to

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the Good Place and people just 
like everything is boring 

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because everything is perfect 
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So maybe it's a bit of that. 
It's like I have kind of problem

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solved to the extent in my 
journal that now I've kind of 

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like not solved all my problems 
because I definitely got 

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problems. 
Oh, but in terms of my plan of 

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problems, maybe I just feel like
I don't have any new problems to

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solve. 
Because that's the thing about 

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people like we actually, we, we 
thrive on having problems to 

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solve. 
You might be thinking about that

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like Jessica, I don't want 
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Why would you say this is a 
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But without problems and without
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creativity in that way, we get 
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So maybe I'm just, I'm bored 
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problem to solve. 
I should take on a new problem. 

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I'm not going to take on any 
more problems. 

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I said I've got problems. 
Maybe I just need to think about

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how my journal can help me solve
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So I know I kind of asked you 
before about this because you're

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not really using anything else. 
So how are you going about your 

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day-to-day currently, just out 
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In a shambles as a 
scatterbrained mess. 

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You know, as I said before, I'm 
like, oh, have I really found a 

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solution to it? 
Obviously something must be 

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happening because like the house
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I think that I think I know 
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Actually. 
I did a video for Notion and 

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then got super excited about the
idea of bringing my whole life 

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into Notion, like setting up my 
PKM. 

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It's like my personal knowledge 
management system kind of a 

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thing and taking notes in there 
and organizing my content 

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schedule and all of this kind of
thing and integrating stuff 

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together and got really excited 
about that. 

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So now my journals just like am 
IA joke to you. 

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Did you not want me anymore? 
I'm like, sorry, you don't 

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excite me like Notion does right
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It's very much like the scumbag 
boyfriend names like me looking 

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at Notion like, oh, and my 
bullet journal's just like 

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bitch. 
I mean, I've been the same exact

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spot as you with us. 
So we just got Microsoft Loop at

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work and I've been looking at 
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It's essentially Notion. 
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Notion mixed together, but it 
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Microsoft 365 suite. 
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And I literally this entire week
I've been talking to my boss 

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about different things and I was
like, I've been using that a lot

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more than my bullet journal over
the past few weeks. 

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She's like, wait a second, what 
do you mean? 

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shortcuts. 
I just type a forward slash and 

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I can add a table. 
I don't have to draw anything 

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out or make anything happen. 
I have tasks. 

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I just forward slash task and it
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I just fill it in and I send it 
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it's there. 
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day that I have things that are 
due. 

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It's doing so much for me. 
And I was like, Oh my gosh, this

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could potentially be a problem. 
Now I will let you know like I 

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have found a solution for myself
to it because I was, I would be 

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real nervous. 
Just I'm not gonna lie to you. 

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I was like, I created like a 
double page spread and I used 

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1/3 of it. 
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a page and a whole other page 
that I designed that I just 

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didn't use because that week was
like the first week I was really

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utilizing it and getting really 
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And so I kind of took it back a 
few steps and was like, OK, we 

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have to figure out how these two
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The excitement of Microsoft Loop
is really important because my 

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team is fully digital. 
A lot of that work happens. 

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You and I have talked about it 
too, especially with like how 

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we're planning content and kind 
of making those things happen. 

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But there is value and we know 
go to writing things down or 

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even rewriting it, you know, so 
that could be something maybe to

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take a look at like you don't 
give up on notion. 

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You're excited about it. 
It's potentially working for 

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you. 
But kind of do that self 

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reflection. 
Is it doing everything for you? 

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You know, maybe it is like this 
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you. 
Like, I don't know, the planter 

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pals are just probably screaming
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Don't do dare abandoning a log 
planning. 

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Yeah, I quit Bullet Journal and 
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thing. 
But I think that's a good point.

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It's like, you know, how can we 
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coexist? 
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uninspired or demotivated by my 
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something else has just got me 
more excited about it. 

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Like, you know, Notion right now
is a very exciting space for me 

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because I'm, you know, planning 
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wedding planning digitally, 
which I started making a wedding

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journal and I'm I'm still 
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it does feel like just a rehash 
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doing digitally anyway. 
So it's like, is there a point 

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to this? 
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you're gonna make a video about 
it. 

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Like, am I literally just making
a journal for a video? 

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I'm kind of trying to keep it as
a memory keeper so it feels like

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it has more of a point. 
But right now I'm feeling a 

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little like about it. 
We'll see how that goes. 

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It's it's interesting because 
that could be a lot of it. 

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You just said that like you have
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You're planning for that. 
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plan for weddings analog 
definitely do they have books 

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for and no, you can't think my 
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too, but so much happens online.
You're emailing people, you're 

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kind of organizing those things.
You can easily populate 

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everything now just, you know, 
seating charts if you want to. 

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I mean, how you can get ChatGPT 
probably to like put people in 

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perfect places if you really 
needed them to, right? 

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Like so much has just made so 
much easier through technology. 

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But I think it's just finding 
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actually writing down and doing.
Maybe for you just maybe it's 

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not even like writing it down. 
Maybe it is going to be 

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something like sketching, right?
Maybe something more like visual

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notes or something like that 
could be something and that is 

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like gives it purpose, but 
you're kind of just kind of 

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almost reflecting on what you're
doing digitally versus trying to

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capture both because then it's 
repetition and and that's not 

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fun to do necessarily. 
Yeah, I think also like thinking

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about like reasons behind a 
slump. 

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So why would somebody be in a 
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And possibly one that might be 
related to my issue is not 

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liking the way my layouts look, 
because I know that that's a big

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one. 
If I don't like the way my 

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layouts look, I'm not inclined 
to use them and I just don't 

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want to get any can use them at 
all. 

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And I'm thinking that that's 
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become. 
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when I was tentatively thinking 
like, oh, maybe this isn't 

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really like the vibe. 
Maybe the aesthetic isn't on 

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fleek. 
I know we don't use on fleek 

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anymore. 
I don't care. 

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I'm old. 
Maybe I should have just kind of

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evaluated that in the moment and
possibly redone my April. 

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I've never actually redone a 
setup though before. 

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I usually just like grip my 
teeth and bear it. 

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Is that it? 
I don't know if it's grit or 

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grin. 
Do I grin my teeth? 

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Do I grit them? 
I grip my teeth. 

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Yeah, maybe I should have just 
like not gripped my teeth and 

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bear it like I usually do and 
just remade the layouts possibly

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to something that looked a 
little bit more. 

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I'm not gonna say appealing 
because the layouts aren't 

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necessarily ugly. 
I just don't think that they 

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like have offered a lot of 
inspiration to use them, you 

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know? 
I'm the type of person honestly 

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just I would never like redo a 
whole entire spread because I 

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didn't like the way that it 
looked. 

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I am the grit your teeth and 
just deal with it. 

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And you're gonna look at that 
every day and you're gonna know 

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that you're never gonna do do 
that again because you hate it 

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so incredibly much. 
There's been so many times where

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that's happened where I'm just 
like, I hate this whole thing, 

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but I'm gonna use it anyway 
because I have to. 

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It's like the sunk cost fallacy.
It's like, no, I took the time, 

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effort and energy to set this up
and I'm gosh Dang well gonna use

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it. 
Yeah, and I really do think it's

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it. 
I'm like, I don't know why this 

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whole like punishment thing is 
like a popular thing. 

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I'm like, punish yourself by 
using it. 

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Punish yourself by not using 
your bullet journal. 

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So you remember how much you 
love your bullet journal. 

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But I just think some sometimes 
we react to those things a lot 

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better, you know? 
I mean, if it's not causing you 

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mental or physical harm, then 
yeah, you let it ride. 

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Like, if it's really weighing on
you and you can't sleep and like

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you hate every second of your 
day, by all means RIP that piece

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of paper out. 
I don't not usually condone 

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that, but like your mental 
health is more important than 

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that piece of paper. 
But I think for the most part 

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though, like we can find ways to
make it work. 

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And if not, you just don't do 
it. 

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Or I've done this too. 
Like sometimes if I'm really not

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loving it, like I'll just grab 
one of those desk pads from 

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Archer and Olive and just use 
that and be like, I'm just daily

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logging. 
There's no stamps, there's no 

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markers, there's no nothing. 
And just do that because I'm 

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like, you are going to do what I
want you to do and nothing else.

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And I'm happy about it. 
Yeah, look at you. 

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You have you have a pre made To 
Do List that is That is perfect.

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It's so hideous. 
It has columns that say do call 

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an e-mail and anytime I use it, 
because I just need to get 

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things out of my head, I just 
cross out colon cross e-mail and

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do do so It's a do do do. 
I think lots of stuff to do. 

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This has lasted me quite a while
because there are many pages, 

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but anytime I'm just like the 
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I just whip this this bad boy 
out, use this sad. 

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It's so limp sad look and see 
creature To Do List, but at 

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least at work. 
I mean my biggest thing, like 

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what kind of penny are you using
on that? 

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Because we know we can't do 
anything fancy on those types of

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notepads. 
Absolutely not. 

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It is a regular ballpoint type 
pen, but it's that thing, right?

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If we're trying to plan like 
with the purpose of planning and

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go back to that, I like to start
with purpose first. 

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It just helps me kind of align 
my thinking. 

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But purpose first, getting the 
thoughts out of your head onto 

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paper so that you can sort 
through them. 

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Do the stuff you need to 
prioritize first. 

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Maybe if your journal isn't 
doing that for you right now, 

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use something else. 
So in pops the sad To Do List, 

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the sad floppy To Do List, but 
it's still it fulfills the 

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function, you know? 
Sometimes you just have to kind 

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of turn your brain off and that 
could be another thing too, just

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because I know that you do like 
to think about things and solve 

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those problems and do that. 
That could also be burning you 

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out as well Because like you 
said, if you are trying to think

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about your wedding planner and 
what that looks like as long 

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along with what needs to go 
inside of that, like that's 

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double duty right there. 
Like it has to look great 

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because it needs to look great 
for me to use it, but also it 

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needs to be functional. 
Hold all that information. 

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I think it's the same thing. 
Like sometimes you just almost 

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put yourself on autopilot and 
like, that floppy little sea 

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creature I think is fulfilling a
need right now until you're just

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like, yeah, I need something 
more than this. 

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OK, let's go back to the bullet 
journal because I can create 

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what I need out of that. 
Yeah, I think that that's the 

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thing like even though I'm kind 
of slumping with my bullet 

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journal right now, which is very
much like a function first kind 

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of space function first, but 
must be pretty otherwise you 

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won't use it and then the 
function won't be fulfilled, 

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that kind of a thing. 
Other the other journals that I 

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have at the moment though that 
are going well are things like 

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my reading journal, because that
one isn't so much about 

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function, it's about fun. 
And I'm really enjoying that. 

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I'm enjoying being creative in 
there and writing out my little 

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blurbs about the books I'm 
reading and such, which 

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previously I haven't really 
enjoyed doing so much. 

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But this year I made it more 
collagey. 

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So it's just it feels kind of 
new and exciting and each of the

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little boxes that I do for any 
piece of media a little bit 

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different to each other. 
So maybe I just need to bring 

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some of that kind of novelty 
into my journal so it doesn't 

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feel as stale, so I can still 
fulfill the purpose but make it 

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feel more fun. 
Because you've kind of moved 

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away from a lot of the more 
decorative work of yesteryear, 

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right? 
Yeah, I don't do if I'm gonna do

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decoration. 
I typically don't do drawing 

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heavy decoration because it was 
just starting to take up more 

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time, effort and energy than it 
was really worse. 

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Like I didn't mind doing it, but
it wasn't really where my kind 

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of passion lied, I suppose with 
my bullet journal. 

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In my bullet journal, it was 
more exciting to think about 

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like different structures of 
layouts and how you could kind 

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of organize information. 
I'm like literally talking about

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this. 
I'm getting very excited about 

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my bullet journal. 
But like how you can organize 

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information in a way that meant 
that it clicked better with your

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brain and thus you could get 
more done. 

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So it's like, oh, hey, if we 
think about a, you know, habit 

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tracker, for instance, you know,
this month I tried many calendar

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habit trackers and I fell off on
that and it didn't work. 

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So next month I'm going to try a
vertical style habit tracker 

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where everything's just kind of 
like color for habits and rows 

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for the days and see how that 
works. 

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That kind of trial and error 
process and kind of, you know, 

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treating it more like a science 
experiment. 

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That is what my everyday journal
is about, that kind of problem 

446
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,000
solving aspect, which I quite 
like. 

447
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,000
And now I'm excited about it 
just a little bit more again. 

448
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,120
I mean, that's my favorite part.
That's why I do something 

449
00:20:00,120 --> 00:20:02,640
different every single week 
because it keeps being excited 

450
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,360
about using different stationary
things inside of it. 

451
00:20:05,360 --> 00:20:07,920
And definitely, you know, a 
number of years ago when I was 

452
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:12,280
really experimenting and trying 
new things that I used to. 

453
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,320
I don't do it anymore, but I 
used to kind of rate the success

454
00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:19,160
of my bullet journal by the 
popularity of it on Instagram. 

455
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,880
Like if I created like a really 
cool layout with different type 

456
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,400
of trackers and things on it and
it got a lot of attention, I'd 

457
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,520
be like, oh, this is a good 
spread. 

458
00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:28,680
I mean, now I know that's a bit 
different. 

459
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,480
I know it's not exactly can be 
correlated to that because also 

460
00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:35,400
Instagram is not fantastic right
now for any type of engagement 

461
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,200
really except for the ones that 
we're creating for ourselves. 

462
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,760
But just being able to use it 
and be happy about it and really

463
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,640
getting to that end of the week,
you'd be like, yeah, I 

464
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,520
accomplished something. 
Whether or not you even need it 

465
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,880
right then, you know, maybe 
there are opportunities for you 

466
00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:52,400
to bring little pieces of what's
happening to create that 

467
00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,440
excitement. 
You know, maybe, yes, you have 

468
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:56,920
your entire wedding journal, but
maybe there's a really cool 

469
00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:00,040
thing you can just add into it, 
like copy and paste little 

470
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,560
components to be like, oh, this 
is really exciting because I get

471
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,080
to explore here while 
simultaneously, you know, being 

472
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:09,000
functional and productive about 
the day-to-day things that I'm 

473
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,400
doing too. 
That could be an option. 

474
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,480
I know that this has been a 
problem for other people and 

475
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:15,200
maybe that's also part of my 
issue, but this idea of like, if

476
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,360
I can't do it perfectly, then it
shouldn't even do it type of a 

477
00:21:18,360 --> 00:21:21,240
thing. 
And recently because I have been

478
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,240
getting really into the idea of 
printed headers. 

479
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,280
So just like typing it up on 
Microsoft Office or something 

480
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,080
and then printing it off, 
sticking it in because it's 

481
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,960
printed on sticker paper has 
been so great for being able to 

482
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,720
use different styles of 
lettering that I just don't want

483
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,840
to put the time, effort, energy 
into doing myself. 

484
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,560
So it's been very nice for that.
But one of the issues that I 

485
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,440
found is that I went and 
purchased more of the sticker 

486
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,200
paper that I had gotten 
previously, but they changed 

487
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,920
something about it and now the 
new sticker paper is Smudge 

488
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,320
City. 
It's. 

489
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,480
So bad, like the transfer that 
you get from one page to 

490
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,800
another, like the pages don't 
even have to like really rub up 

491
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,320
against each other is just by 
sandwiching them. 

492
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,160
It's like, oh look, ghost 
lettering. 

493
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,800
It's like, it's like the worst 
version of ghosting because it's

494
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,520
not from the other side of the 
page, it's on your page mark. 

495
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,840
Yeah, it's on the opposite side.
Is it inkjet or is it a laser 

496
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,800
printer? 
It's an inkjet printer, and 

497
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:15,320
while the paper that I used to 
get was inkjet safe, I guess 

498
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,600
they've changed something about 
it and now it's inkjet not so 

499
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,760
safe. 
What is up with people changing 

500
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,600
their paper types on us and not 
telling us? 

501
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:28,240
I know it's just rude that that 
will get me into a slump so damn

502
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,280
quickly, as if the paper in my 
journal has changed from what I 

503
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,680
have previously known. 
I'm just like, why you do this? 

504
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,200
I had my perfect like fleet of 
pens that I like to use in this 

505
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,760
notebook and now I can't use 
them because they all smudge. 

506
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,560
Well, it's just something that 
when you build it into your 

507
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,800
repertoire and you build a lot 
of things around it, especially 

508
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,200
like you're saying, I'm printing
out headers and using them often

509
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,160
and doing all of that, when all 
of a sudden it doesn't work for 

510
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,760
you, It does throw a wrench into
your flow and just kind of like,

511
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,080
this isn't what I want. 
It's just everything starts 

512
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,800
stacking on top of each other. 
Like your anger is just there. 

513
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,120
You're like, well, my paper 
isn't doing what it used to do. 

514
00:23:02,120 --> 00:23:04,040
I don't know why I can't use 
these pens now. 

515
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:05,960
I'm trying to stick in these 
headers with this paper I've 

516
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:07,600
used before. 
And now you're transferring the 

517
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,400
paper. 
Now it's fugly and smugly and 

518
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,800
nasty over here. 
I don't want you turn the, you 

519
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,880
know, it just kind of builds on 
itself. 

520
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,760
And I think that's another 
reason, too. 

521
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,440
Sometimes, like, you just got to
step back. 

522
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,160
You got to say, OK, what pens do
work? 

523
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,360
I know that these are trusted in
here. 

524
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,560
Don't go inks, don't go any of 
these other things. 

525
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,600
I mean, for the past few weeks 
in my bullet journal, I've been 

526
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:34,080
using my fountain pens and they 
have been ghost bleeding. 

527
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,280
I don't know the right word. 
Like I can see it and it's not 

528
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:41,000
just a little bit like it's like
I don't know and I'm not happy 

529
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:42,960
about it. 
And so I was like, OK, Mark, 

530
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,240
well, you love using fountain 
pens like we know this, but this

531
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,000
past few weeks, like something's
up here. 

532
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,960
It's just not the same norm that
it had been before. 

533
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,200
And I grabbed just a regular gel
pen, one of my favorites, those 

534
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,880
signals DX's. 
And I was like, remember, 

535
00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,000
remember the good old days like 
you just wrote with this really 

536
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,320
nice five point gel pen and you 
didn't have to worry about any 

537
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,480
of that. 
Oh, look how thin the lines are.

538
00:24:06,120 --> 00:24:09,720
And it was almost just like, OK,
well, I've invested a lot inside

539
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:13,200
of fountain pens to use them, 
but it just wasn't making me 

540
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,760
happy at that point. 
Honestly, it wasn't making me 

541
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,680
happy at all, especially with 
the week to week. 

542
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,320
And I'd go to set up the next 
week and then now I can't use 

543
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,680
that page. 
And so it's just like, oh, 

544
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,600
you're not making me happy right
now. 

545
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,400
So I kind of what I was saying 
before, like I just say, OK, go 

546
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:32,240
back to the basics, like start 
over basically and then build 

547
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,240
upon that. 
Maybe you'll learn something 

548
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,640
new. 
Maybe you'll find a new piece of

549
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:40,760
excitement around doing that, 
you know, getting back to like 1

550
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,520
mild liner and one pen and kind 
of creating with that as a 

551
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,920
challenge within itself. 
Mild liner, ridiculous. 

552
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,160
I would never. 
OK, maybe when I first started I

553
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:51,760
was very excited about mild 
liners. 

554
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,440
But I think that's a good point 
though, like oftentimes the 

555
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,480
materials we use in our journal,
you know, smudge ass stick of 

556
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,160
paper aside kind of a thing, but
the pen that you like to write 

557
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,400
with and the things that you 
like to decorate with and all of

558
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,760
that kind of stuff. 
Over time, as our journaling 

559
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,760
practice evolves, we can, you 
know, change the things that 

560
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,800
we're using and that means we 
have like different preferences 

561
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,760
and stuff like this. 
So maybe it is if you're finding

562
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,800
yourself in like a bit of a 
slump with your journal. 

563
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,320
Can I just go back to things 
that I know wholeheartedly I 

564
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,880
enjoy using to kind of bring 
that enthusiasm and re motivate 

565
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:26,440
myself to get back into it? 
So what old is new, You know, 

566
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,520
it's just that idea like every 
time that I do AD stash, every 

567
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:33,320
time that I reorganize my pens, 
I'm always like, oh, I remember 

568
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,320
using this one. 
This was really fun. 

569
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,760
Or if I actually just started to
do more swatches of a lot of my 

570
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,600
stationary too in a different 
journal and I was like, oh, this

571
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,320
is really fun and I'm using them
again. 

572
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,280
And I was like, wait, I haven't 
used color pencil in a while. 

573
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,240
And it's just refinding those 
things. 

574
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,960
Even though it's all out for me.
I have it out for a purpose, but

575
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,120
it's not serving a purpose 
because I don't touch it. 

576
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,800
So it's sometimes just like re 
engaging with that or refinding 

577
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,560
your excitement about it too is 
you know, that's enough 

578
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,320
sometimes just to give you a 
little a little spark. 

579
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:03,920
Yeah. 
I think another thing that it 

580
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,360
can also kind of be helpful is 
giving yourself like a very kind

581
00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:09,920
of boxed challenge is what I'm 
going to call it. 

582
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,960
It's like got very fixed kind of
parameters that you can use. 

583
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,560
Like, OK, I'm going to set up my
weekly this week, but I'm only 

584
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,560
allowed to use one pin. 
Or I'm going to set up my 

585
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,400
journal this week, but I'm only 
allowed to use like these two 

586
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,160
colors. 
Like how am I going to go about 

587
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,120
that? 
That was something I did quite a

588
00:26:24,120 --> 00:26:25,920
while ago now. 
I did it as a little video 

589
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,280
series on the channel. 
We had a different kind of 

590
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,320
challenge each week for the 
weekly setup. 

591
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,320
I remember one of them and the 
one that got like the most likes

592
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,040
on Instagram was when I used 
colors I hated. 

593
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,920
I was like, why are you liking 
this? 

594
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,560
These colors are hideous. 
Stop liking this picture. 

595
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,640
I was just saying, I mean, you 
could definitely engage your 

596
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,000
community for sure. 
We know that they love to give 

597
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,600
you ideas. 
I think letting them challenge 

598
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,720
you too. 
Years ago I did one time I was 

599
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,920
like, all right, you all get to 
pick the stationery. 

600
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,200
And I was like, OK, here's the 
three pens, and I'd have them 

601
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,640
vote on the three pens and be 
like, OK, here's the three 

602
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,120
sticker sets that we have. 
Which one are we using? 

603
00:27:00,360 --> 00:27:03,120
And just that little like, kind 
of collage of things together is

604
00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:05,760
super helpful. 
I'm going to work on a video 

605
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:09,920
coming up where I let ChatGPT 
design my weekly page for me. 

606
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,000
I know other people have 
probably done that as well. 

607
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,600
Think you might have done a 
video on that too. 

608
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,400
But that was even exciting 
because I was like, I would 

609
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,720
never do this type of stuff 
inside of here. 

610
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,840
And it was also me then like 
interpreting what it was saying 

611
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,360
and thinking about how would I 
do that in my style though? 

612
00:27:25,360 --> 00:27:27,280
So it's what we were talking 
about before. 

613
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,480
You're like giving yourselves 
these new challenges to try to 

614
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:34,720
go into to get you excited about
the materials because you know 

615
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,200
that the foundation of it is 
already there. 

616
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,360
That works, but it's how do you 
kind of find the excitement 

617
00:27:40,360 --> 00:27:43,000
again to get in there? 
Yeah, I think another factor 

618
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,320
that goes into slumps a lot of 
the time for people is just 

619
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,200
things feeling like too 
overwhelming, almost just like, 

620
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:51,280
OK, yeah, I've like set all 
these things up because I got 

621
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,120
really excited about setting up 
my journal. 

622
00:27:53,120 --> 00:27:55,320
And now I have a tracker for 
this and a page for that and a 

623
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,960
log over here and whatever else.
And then when it comes to 

624
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,880
actually using it, it's like, 
cool, now I'm overwhelmed and I 

625
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,000
don't want to do any of this, so
I'm just going to neglect my 

626
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,160
journal and make that a never me
problem type of a thing. 

627
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,840
Thankfully, this time around 
that's not what my personal 

628
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,480
slump is about. 
But like, if that is part of the

629
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,040
reason somebody else is in a 
slump, simplifying can be a 

630
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,400
really great way to get back 
into your notebooks. 

631
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,680
Yeah, I think that's just a 
really kind of the golden rule 

632
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,280
there is like you're doing too 
much, just pull it back. 

633
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,600
You know that it is. 
I think all of us have those 

634
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,320
moments and deep down we know 
that it's a lot and we need to 

635
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,040
like not go so crazy with it. 
It's the hardest part is to say 

636
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,440
pull back, especially when 
you've been doing it for so 

637
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,280
long. 
Especially like for us, like I 

638
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,680
feel like we definitely have a 
style. 

639
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:41,080
So when people see our photos or
our videos, they kind of know 

640
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,520
that it's us. 
So sometimes it's like if you go

641
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,000
in a totally different 
direction, it's like, well, 

642
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,600
wait, who? 
Who is this? 

643
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,520
This doesn't, I don't know who 
this is. 

644
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,600
Like you said that one time I 
used to change my thumbnails on 

645
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,120
YouTube a lot and I was like, 
this video isn't doing great. 

646
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,800
And you're like, Mark, for the 
past 50 videos, you use this one

647
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,960
thumbnail style and then you 
changed it. 

648
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,320
People probably don't know that 
it's your video by that. 

649
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,600
And I think I was like, oh, OK, 
it's like, well, this worked. 

650
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,760
But I was really excited to try 
something different though. 

651
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,320
Like I'm tired of doing the same
thing all the time. 

652
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,280
And it's just that's just a 
really hard thing to be like, 

653
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,200
OK, I'm going to intend change 
something. 

654
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,280
Let me go ahead and grab on to 
the rails. 

655
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,360
Because people might in some 
cases, depending on the content,

656
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,640
probably more than like what it 
looks like might kind of go a 

657
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,400
little hard on you to be like, 
this isn't what I came here for.

658
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,680
So like, get back to doing your 
one trick Little Pony. 

659
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,600
Literally that I've been feeling
kind of the same about my 

660
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,640
content recently, especially 
when it comes to like monthly 

661
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,320
plan with me videos type of a 
thing. 

662
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,480
I think mainly this time around,
because I just have more of them

663
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,040
because I'm doing a monthly 
setup in my journal, a monthly 

664
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,800
setup in the reading journal. 
And at least for the first half 

665
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,520
of the year, we've been doing a 
monthly set up in the giveaway 

666
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,280
journal, which was given away 
back in like November last year 

667
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,880
is gone. 
It's it's got a new home now. 

668
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:00,240
But because it's like, OK, cool,
look, hey, another one and 

669
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,320
here's a monthly log and here's 
a habit tracker. 

670
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,600
And I'm just like, gosh, this is
boring. 

671
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,200
I mean, people watch it. 
So obviously it's not boring for

672
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:09,760
them. 
But me as the creator, I'm just 

673
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:14,640
like, oh look, it's you again. 
We've seen that through a lot. 

674
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:18,920
I was thinking about last year 
or the year before when Amanda, 

675
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,680
Rach Lee, you could tell that 
she was kind of like getting 

676
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,880
tired and wanting to kind of 
grow outside of bullet 

677
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,800
journaling. 
This might be before the doodle 

678
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,120
planners though, because now I 
feel like she has to be locked 

679
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,880
in like it's bread and butter. 
That's money S like she can't 

680
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,400
all of a sudden stop journaling 
now and she's creating it. 

681
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,240
I think we see that a lot in 
other Youtubers and other niches

682
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,320
and genres too, where people 
just produce, produce, produce, 

683
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,920
produce and they're just like, I
need a break. 

684
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,680
Like I'm doing 2 to 3 videos a 
week and I've done that for the 

685
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,840
past five years. 
I'm going to post once a week or

686
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:51,880
once a month or hopefully it 
never happens, but just retire 

687
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,040
from it all together. 
I mean, I feel like you got to 

688
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,960
make a crap load of money to be 
able to retire from YouTube. 

689
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,040
But you know, the idea though, 
is this like I'm not going to 

690
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,440
come back to this because I've 
just done it so much. 

691
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,680
I need change in my life. 
And so I feel like a lot of the 

692
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,880
times that's the decision too, 
that you have to like, really 

693
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,880
kind of live with. 
But I think you can find 

694
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,440
different ways to do it. 
Like Amanda, I think is a really

695
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,880
good example of that where she 
was just doing the same thing 

696
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,240
all the time. 
She's found different ways to 

697
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,160
get herself excited about it 
again and put it in a space 

698
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:25,920
where she feels good and 
comfortable about it. 

699
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,760
Like, I feel like that's a 
healthy place to be, especially 

700
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,080
when you're feeling overwhelmed,
kind of burned out. 

701
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,600
I think that's also just like an
interesting conversation. 

702
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,440
Point is, when do you know like 
it's time to retire from not 

703
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,800
necessarily your line of work, 
but maybe from like your, the 

704
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:43,280
planner you're using, like how, 
how do you know spiritually, 

705
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,280
emotionally, physically that 
it's time for you to step away 

706
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,680
and do something else? 
I don't think I'm there with 

707
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,320
bullet journaling. 
Fear not, planner pals, but 

708
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,600
there might come a time where 
I'm like, you know what bullet 

709
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,560
journaling has like run its 
course for me. 

710
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,480
I can't at this stage see that 
date. 

711
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,560
Like I don't know when that 
would happen because I know it 

712
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,280
works for me. 
Even though I'm in a slump right

713
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,840
now, I know I will work my way 
this for eight years or whatnot.

714
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,880
We've we've had moments like 
this before, but there might 

715
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:12,840
come a time where it doesn't 
work anymore. 

716
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,240
How do we identify that? 
I'm curious. 

717
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,160
I've seen it happen in. 
This community a lot where 

718
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:22,080
people will start maybe in 
school or college and then they 

719
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,080
graduate and they go into the 
workforce and then they just 

720
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,400
don't keep a journal anymore 
because different tools maybe or

721
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,280
really didn't kind of work out 
for them. 

722
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:34,360
I feel like we see that happen a
good amount and it's just it's 

723
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,880
sad because we've gotten to know
them over amount of time. 

724
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,600
But the other cool thing though 
too, not to like pivot in the 

725
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,080
opposite direction, but I've 
been getting a lot of comments 

726
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,200
on videos recently where I've 
been talking about fountain pens

727
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,560
or I've been talking about 
bullet journaling or things like

728
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,080
that, where people have said, I 
used to do this 5-6 years ago 

729
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,200
when I stopped. 
Maybe it's time for me to pick 

730
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,600
it back up. 
Like my life, my situation is 

731
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,440
kind of calling for it. 
I think it's absolutely OK and 

732
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,920
very valid to just know right 
now in my time in life, I don't 

733
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,080
need that. 
You know, like maybe if I had a 

734
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,560
different job or did something a
bit different where, you know, I

735
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,840
wasn't writing down notes all 
the time or tasks for myself, 

736
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,400
you know, if I didn't need to 
write down a ton of stuff, I 

737
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,440
feel like I don't know that I 
would necessarily use it. 

738
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,720
Like my job requires it. 
And I know that that works for 

739
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,880
me, so that's why I use it. 
But I feel like if there was 

740
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,280
ever a change where like it just
didn't fit my need anymore, then

741
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,000
I would just have to be like, 
all right, like pause on this 

742
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,400
for right now. 
We need to find something 

743
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,040
different. 
No, I don't know. 

744
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,040
I'm trying to think about like a
good example for work, like what

745
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,840
would take me away from using my
bullet journal, even though 

746
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,600
Microsoft Loop is doing that. 
But that's just because it's 

747
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,440
new. 
But it's just one of those 

748
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:44,160
things where you're just like, 
yeah, not it's not working for 

749
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:45,320
me. 
I don't know. 

750
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,960
It would be a hard decision, but
I feel like you would. 

751
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,920
You would keep doing what you've
been doing. 

752
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,400
And I feel like you would just 
realize that you're using it 

753
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,800
less and less and you're feeling
forced to use it. 

754
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,960
And then eventually your mind 
would just be like, this isn't 

755
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,520
it? 
Like, it's OK, Let it. 

756
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:01,640
Let it go. 
Let it go. 

757
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:02,560
Goodbye. 
Yeah. 

758
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,360
If you love. 
Something set it free kind of 

759
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:05,920
thing. 
I love that idea of like, you 

760
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,679
know, even if you do end up 
letting it go, whether it be 

761
00:34:08,679 --> 00:34:10,719
like, you know, bull journaling 
or any other kind of planning 

762
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,239
system or whatnot, that doesn't 
mean you can't come back. 

763
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,960
Like you kind of mentioned this 
idea of people saying, oh, yeah,

764
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,760
I used to do this five years ago
or whatnot. 

765
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,639
Now I'm thinking like maybe I'll
come back to a type of a thing 

766
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,960
because we do go through seasons
of life where particular like 

767
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,760
planners or styles of planning 
or whatnot are going to gel with

768
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,000
us more. 
I think that the nice part about

769
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,239
bullet journaling for me in 
particular is that because it is

770
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,320
effectively a DIY system, you 
know, you, you draw up your own 

771
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:36,840
layouts. 
I was actually thinking about it

772
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,159
the other day. 
It's like, I feel like it's the 

773
00:34:38,159 --> 00:34:41,120
most masochistic of the planning
systems because you do have to 

774
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,960
do everything yourself. 
Like, wow, I could just use a 

775
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,600
pre printed planner that has all
of these pre printed structures 

776
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,760
for me, but then I would be 
locked into that system and that

777
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,600
doesn't gel with me as a person.
But anyway, it's like because I 

778
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,199
have gone through life changes 
and stuff, but I was using a 

779
00:34:56,199 --> 00:34:59,960
system that is so because it's 
DIY, it meant it could change 

780
00:34:59,960 --> 00:35:01,760
with me. 
Maybe I'm just getting to a 

781
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,320
point where it's like even 
though maybe my life situation 

782
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,080
hasn't super changed outside of 
the fact that I'm like, you 

783
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,760
know, planning a wedding or 
whatnot, that too shall pass 

784
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,320
come later this year, that'll 
all be over. 

785
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,600
But maybe there are just other 
systems that would work better 

786
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:21,080
for me right this second, even 
though things like, you know, 

787
00:35:21,240 --> 00:35:24,280
comparing right now to last year
where the bullet journal was 

788
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,440
just totally fine. 
Things aren't that different on 

789
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,840
the surface. 
But maybe it's just like me and 

790
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,600
my needs are a little bit 
different. 

791
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,040
Do you know what those needs 
are? 

792
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,440
Or should we ask the planner 
pals for potential ideas on 

793
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,760
things that maybe work better 
for them? 

794
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,760
Yeah, no, I I'm not. 
Too sure, because like right now

795
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:44,040
it's very like seeing the forest
through the trees type of a 

796
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:45,320
thing. 
Like I'm just so stuck in the 

797
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,640
thick of it that I'm like, I 
don't know what to do here. 

798
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,760
And it's probably one of those 
things things like I've made 

799
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,400
enough videos on giving advice 
about being in a slump and 

800
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,840
routinizing your journal and 
such. 

801
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,280
It's going to be Jessica, take 
your own advice. 

802
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,840
But I would love to know if you 
guys have any suggestions for 

803
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,640
like, you know, people who are 
in a plan of slump or you know, 

804
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,000
you're not feeling inspired by 
your planning system. 

805
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,440
What kind of recommendations 
would you give them to get out 

806
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,680
of it yet re motivated, re 
inspired to use your journal? 

807
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,240
Let us know in the comments or 
you can e-mail us at 

808
00:36:14,240 --> 00:36:17,840
plannerofhousepodcast@gmail.com 
or hit us up on Instagram at 

809
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,240
Planner of House Podcast. 
I say it over and over again. 

810
00:36:20,240 --> 00:36:22,640
But I feel like the comments 
section is going to be this 

811
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,560
beautiful resource for all of us
and you know, pin that be like 

812
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,680
next time I'm feeling like I'm 
in a slump, I'm going to the 

813
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,920
comments section of that video 
because we know the planner pals

814
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,480
are gonna pull through 100% on 
this one. 

815
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:35,920
Yeah, your advice is always 
very. 

816
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,280
Much appreciated because like I 
said, I'm just I'm not feeling 

817
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,360
it right now. 
I know it will pass but I would 

818
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,880
like it to pass as quickly as 
possible because I know it. 

819
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,720
I know my journal can be helpful
for me. 

820
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,080
I just need to feel the push to 
get in and use it. 

821
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,840
Well, we'll come back to this. 
Topic in a future episode 

822
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,920
because we have to know how you 
got out of it was it the advice 

823
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,920
of the planter pals did you just
whip yourself back out of it 

824
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,200
because you knew that it was 
going to be there we all Phase I

825
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,600
think that's the big thing we 
all phase in and out of things 

826
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,840
and we will figure it out but 
you're going to I'm like you 

827
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,960
have to hit rock bottom to be 
able to come back out but I feel

828
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:12,080
like you're already there though
so like positivity is definitely

829
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,120
in the future yeah I'm sure that
the. 

830
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,880
Next episode that follows up on 
this is going to be a lot more 

831
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,520
like cheerful. 
It's supposed to me just being 

832
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,800
down Buzz Betty be like I hate 
my journal. 

833
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,120
It doesn't work for me anymore. 
Everything is awful. 

834
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,120
I'm just going to get rid of all
of my notebooks. 

835
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:27,520
I'm not going to get rid of my 
notebooks. 

836
00:37:27,720 --> 00:37:30,000
This is this is going nowhere. 
You know, I don't think we have 

837
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,520
to worry at. 
All about this episode being a 

838
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:33,920
little bit more of the somber 
side. 

839
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,080
I think the what I know the 
planter pilots love about what 

840
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,120
we talk about is that this is 
real life. 

841
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,800
You know, we are while we are, 
you know, influencers online or,

842
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,440
you know, creators online. 
And we seem to always have those

843
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,640
answers, like we are people too 
that come across these same 

844
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,840
problems. 
And I think sharing that also 

845
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,920
lets other people know. 
And that's why when we say like,

846
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,160
share your thoughts in the 
comments too, it's because 

847
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,280
everyone at some point is going 
to come across this. 

848
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,680
You likely have. 
So definitely let us know what's

849
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,200
brought you out of it. 
So it'll be a really good time. 

850
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,080
All right, planner pals. 
Well, thank you so much for 

851
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,680
hanging out with us today. 
Can't wait to check out those 

852
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,880
comments and we will talk to you
next time. 

853
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:09,440
See you.
