1 00:00:35,710 --> 00:00:36,910 Hi, everybody. Welcome. 2 00:00:37,630 --> 00:00:39,830 Glad you're here today. Thanks for spending your time 3 00:00:39,830 --> 00:00:42,480 with us here today. This is the virtual life 4 00:00:42,480 --> 00:00:45,240 broadcast. This is the first one for 5 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,880 January. So we'll be working with this in 6 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,680 January already, already into the new year. 7 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,560 I know it's, it just flies by, right? 8 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:01,800 Anyway, we'll be doing one more of these on January 25th. 9 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,120 We'll be doing the final virtual life broadcast. 10 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,480 We won't be presenting our normal presentations. 11 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,800 We'll be doing short little snippets from presenters who've 12 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,720 presented on the virtual life broadcast previously. 13 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,720 You know, we've done this for a long time. 14 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,040 We used to here in Las Vegas, we used to do it live. 15 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,760 We'd rent out a hotel, that hotel that would have lots of 16 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,440 meeting space for us and we bring in food and we'd have a, 17 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,960 we'd have a whole bunch of people and we bring in all of 18 00:01:28,960 --> 00:01:32,080 our equipment and broadcast it live every month. 19 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,200 And we did that for almost 15 years. 20 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,720 So we've done this for quite some time. 21 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,200 I'm, I'm very honored to be here with you. 22 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:43,040 Probably to, to take this to the next step. 23 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,640 We will be doing a monthly event, by the way, a monthly 24 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:50,880 free event that will sort of replaces, but in a different, in 25 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,560 a different way. We're going to make it more 26 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,200 direct. We're going to focus it a little 27 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,600 bit different. There'll also be other parts of 28 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,600 it that will blend in with the podcast that we're doing as well 29 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,440 every two weeks. So anyway, there'll be things of 30 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,360 that nature that is going to be called Spirit Cast and that will 31 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,680 also bring a monthly message from the group. 32 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,840 So welcome to Spirit Cast. We'll start with that coming up. 33 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:16,680 I'll make an announcement about when and where and what that's 34 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,280 going to look like a little time later. 35 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,720 Right now we're just moving into this website and if you haven't 36 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,960 seen it, I'm just really proud of the whole thing. 37 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,280 I've had a lot to do with it myself, but I wanted to show it 38 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,920 to you really quick. If you haven't been here before, 39 00:02:29,920 --> 00:02:33,760 you can register right here with this beautiful little register 40 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,440 button. Only takes a second. 41 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:39,000 If you have just login, just click the login button. 42 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:44,560 It'll help you pretty quick, and once you do, you're going to see 43 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,160 this actually takes you up here to your avatar. 44 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,440 So that tells you you're logged in many times when you first 45 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,840 come to the site, you're automatically logged in anyway 46 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,240 and you don't know it. So we wanted to tell you about 47 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:00,560 that also here. You can also just click on this 48 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,080 and this will automatically take you to where we just were a 49 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,960 second ago. This is your backstage page. 50 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,400 This is basically tells you where all your events are, all 51 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,840 the different things that you can do, different downloads that 52 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,240 you're going to have every month you're going to get a new free 53 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:18,800 download. This is the one for this month 54 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:23,400 and the light master if you want to join up different things 55 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:26,280 there and all the free events will be in this one spot over 56 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,000 here. So you'll have these 57 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,120 automatically. And of course, light master you 58 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,040 have to purchase if you're there, but there's a there's a 59 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,000 lot to this. Also on the very front page. 60 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:40,160 If you just Scroll down for just a second, you'll see a new video 61 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:44,000 of me telling you how things work on the site and you'll see 62 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,120 a special video for light masters or for people 63 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,480 considering to be light masters of what that's going to be like 64 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:53,800 and how were things will differ a little bit on this website. 65 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,080 And then further down you'll see other videos of explaining how 66 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:01,600 we work etcetera, etcetera and the promos of the products that 67 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,840 we're going to be working with. We have quite a lot that we're 68 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:09,720 offering here on on the new site entirely. 69 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,720 So there's a tremendous amount here that we put together. 70 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,640 We hope you enjoy it. And the Light Master program 71 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:20,320 itself has just started. Light Master 2025 has just 72 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,720 begun. It's going to focus the whole 73 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:26,600 year is going to focus on higher vibrational tools about they 74 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,360 keep talking about living in the 5th dimension and the fact that 75 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:33,600 it's already here, but we don't know how to anchor it because we 76 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,480 keep using old third dimensional tools and 3rd dimensional ways 77 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,960 of working with it. So what they're doing now is 78 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:44,680 done, 2025 especially, we're going to be focusing on 5th 79 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:48,480 dimensional tools, basically anchoring higher vibrational 80 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,760 things, looking at things a different way. 81 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,040 We're also going to be working a lot with the threes. 82 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,720 The group has always talked about the threes being the base 83 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:00,120 of the universe. Excuse me. 84 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,520 We're going to be working a lot with that and there are also 85 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:09,360 some new modalities which are coming up, probably going to be 86 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,480 grounding in light. Most everything comes through in 87 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:15,760 light master in the beginning. So anyway, there's just some 88 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:17,800 really fascinating things coming up. 89 00:05:17,840 --> 00:05:19,880 I'm looking forward to a lot, so come join us. 90 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:23,240 If you've been thinking about it, you can quit at any time. 91 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,480 There's different ways you can get in different amounts. 92 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:30,560 You can pledge to be able to put it into your budget to where it 93 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,280 fits for you. Come play, come see what that, 94 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,560 see what that's about if you've been thinking about it. 95 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,840 OK, and that's light Master. And you'll find a big link right 96 00:05:39,840 --> 00:05:42,320 here on the front page. It'll take you to the whole 97 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,800 thing and show you what it's all about, where you can sign up, 98 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:50,960 what the whole process is. OK, nice commercial. 99 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,360 Well, I need to tell you about the fun things that we're doing 100 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:56,880 because we're doing so many different things on the new 101 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:57,640 website. Now. 102 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,480 There's just a there's a lot to be working with there, but the, 103 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:06,720 the best value that we have for the money and the highest level 104 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,760 work that we do is in light master. 105 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,960 So there's even light master intro, light master one and two 106 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:16,960 if you're want to catch up with things, because we do use a lot 107 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:22,160 of words that the that the group has coined words that they 108 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,640 basically made-up to describe something. 109 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,720 And we've made special videos about what these are so that 110 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,800 you'll understand what the group talks about when they talk about 111 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:36,840 the 11 dimensions that we exist in, when they talk about many of 112 00:06:36,840 --> 00:06:39,920 the aspects of the of the Taurus, different things of that 113 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,280 nature. So anyway, those are all there 114 00:06:42,280 --> 00:06:44,120 too. So we've got a lots of way to 115 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:45,880 come play. We will. 116 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,720 We will be doing that. I'm going to bring Reagan. 117 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,600 Then we're going to go into the channel for the day. 118 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:56,440 From the group, I can tell you that they want to talk about 119 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,480 family. I know that has different 120 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,880 connotations for different people, but they want to give 121 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:08,040 you their view of family and how that is reflected in our world 122 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,360 here and how we can use that. OK. 123 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,800 All right, everybody. Thanks for being with us. 124 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:16,160 This is Meg Adamson. I'm thrilled to be thrilled to 125 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,280 be bringing her on here. Aspabo. 126 00:07:25,890 --> 00:07:29,370 Hi, everybody. So nice to be here with you in 127 00:07:29,370 --> 00:07:35,450 this last month of 2024. So I have a special segment for 128 00:07:35,450 --> 00:07:38,210 you this month. I want to talk about the concept 129 00:07:38,210 --> 00:07:44,450 of mirroring and right before the holidays and crossing over 130 00:07:44,450 --> 00:07:49,320 into a new year, I really wanted to chat about the concept of 131 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:51,760 mirroring and I'll explain that in a minute. 132 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,560 We'll dive in. Plus, I wanted to give you some 133 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:58,920 really powerful suggestions to keep handy just in case your 134 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:05,400 family gatherings are a bit stressful or your work and your 135 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,200 To Do List are extra long this month. 136 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:13,440 So let's jump in. What is mirroring? 137 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,680 There's actually 2 branches of mirroring. 138 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:22,080 First is the literal. When you mirror someone's body 139 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:25,920 language, their gestures, their attitude, and their speech, this 140 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:31,280 kind of literal mirroring is often used to create connection, 141 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:37,520 to create rapport. It creates sameness to your 142 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:42,880 brain and we are always picking up what are called micro 143 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:46,000 impressions from each other. Those are just sort of silent, 144 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,200 energetic. There's always that innate 145 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,600 intelligence within you, your subconscious mind. 146 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:54,040 It's always listening and you've got a part of your brain we call 147 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,160 the critical factor that's always associating data. 148 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:01,840 So as we take you in, whoever's in front of us, people around 149 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,560 us, as we take that data in, it's actually being weighed 150 00:09:05,560 --> 00:09:09,840 against all of our memories so that we know how to respond. 151 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,400 The subconscious mind is going to know friend or tiger. 152 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:22,000 And so as we mirror another, it starts to create a connection, 153 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:27,200 starts to slowly build rapport. And so when you get together 154 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:30,360 with groups or with family or with friends or with work 155 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:35,440 colleagues at office parties, if you tend to be more quiet, more 156 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,360 of an introvert or feel a little self-conscious or a little 157 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:42,480 uncomfortable and busy get togethers and settings, you can 158 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:47,120 use this technique of mirroring to ease yourself into creating 159 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,400 connection with other people. So for example, if someone 160 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:55,720 stands with their hands clasped in their lap, you can or rather 161 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,280 say they sit with their hands clasped in their lap, or they 162 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,200 stand and their hands are just crossed over each other in front 163 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,120 of their abdomen. You can do the same. 164 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:06,640 You can sit with your hands clasped in your lap, or you can 165 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,040 stand with your hands in front of your abdomen. 166 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:15,560 When someone speaks with a softer tone, you can speak with 167 00:10:15,560 --> 00:10:19,800 a softer tone and mirror that. When someone's body language is 168 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:23,080 clear that they like personal space, some people like to speak 169 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:24,920 really close, especially in loud settings. 170 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,600 Other people will tell you where their comfort zone is because 171 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,760 they'll move back, they'll take a step back and they'll prefer 172 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:34,360 to watch you and listen versus have you so close they can't see 173 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,160 you. You can mirror that. 174 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:43,880 It creates an environment that says we're alike. 175 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:50,160 There's comfort here. And the interesting thing and 176 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,200 kind of beautiful thing is that it doesn't take a long time to 177 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,080 actually create a connection between people. 178 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,240 So if you try it, what you'll start to see is the other 179 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,800 person's body language starts to soften. 180 00:11:03,680 --> 00:11:07,320 Maybe they smile a little, maybe they make direct eye contact and 181 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:11,640 hold it a little longer. They let you know that this is 182 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:16,120 comfortable for them. So that's what you're doing. 183 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,840 In essence, you're creating that comfortable environment for them 184 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:24,680 and therefore for yourself. But I want to talk about the 185 00:11:24,680 --> 00:11:27,760 other branch of mirroring because this is the one that 186 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,440 starts to get complicated and misconstrued. 187 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,720 And the other branch of mirroring is more innate, it's 188 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:38,720 internal. And this has been kind of mixed 189 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,600 up in spirituality in my opinion. 190 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,960 This form of mirroring, it's actually a belief, and maybe 191 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:49,080 you've heard this before, belief that others behaviour is about 192 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:53,320 us, not them. And I really want to challenge 193 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,480 that. Mirroring is the concept that 194 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:02,200 what others do, that you have a reaction to actually lives 195 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:05,520 inside of you. Therefore what bothers you, you 196 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,120 should be checking within yourself. 197 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:12,720 So for example, and this is very nuanced so stay with me, so for 198 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:16,280 example, someone constantly makes you wrong whenever you 199 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,000 bring up your feelings around something. 200 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:21,440 Let's just use that as an example in mirroring. 201 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:26,960 In the old belief it would say, well there must be a part of you 202 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:29,760 that feels responsible or guilty for them to behave this way 203 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,200 around you. In other words, they're 204 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:37,080 mirroring on the outside what is occurring for you on the inside. 205 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:41,120 And I disagree with that wholeheartedly. 206 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:43,360 To me that doesn't feel accurate. 207 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,760 And it can also be kind of damaging and tone deaf by making 208 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,600 you responsible for other people's behaviours. 209 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:55,000 Now in society, we have been so conditioned to look outside of 210 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,080 ourselves for our worth, for our value. 211 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:03,000 Do something, get something, be a good girl, behave properly, 212 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:10,040 receive love, receive credit, receive accomplishment. 213 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:18,160 So or with with boys, beat, man up, don't cry, behave a certain 214 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,440 way, model a certain behavior, expect something in return. 215 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:26,000 You will get respected. So we learn things in a way that 216 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:30,280 actually doesn't make the other person respect you or love you 217 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:36,800 or fill in the blank 24/7. Now you might learn that if I 218 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,440 behave a certain way, I get something back and it's all 219 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,840 unconscious. Sounds manipulative, but it's 220 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:46,200 all unconscious. However, what if that someone is 221 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:49,440 having a bad day of their own and you do something and they 222 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,520 don't really see it, they don't really hear it, they can't give 223 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,800 you what you need? Well, now we're in a mess. 224 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:59,640 So we are so conditioned to outsource our love and our 225 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,920 value. However, mirroring says if 226 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:07,240 someone behaves in a certain way then you must have that within 227 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:08,640 you and that's why it's bothering you. 228 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:14,960 That has overtime been turned into how am I responsible for 229 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:18,400 that? But you aren't right in that 230 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:22,440 scenario. When someone refuses to validate 231 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:25,520 your feelings, If you want to speak about your feelings and 232 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:28,440 they get defensive and they turn that around and they get angry 233 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,200 so that they are right and you are wrong. 234 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:35,040 So when someone refuses to validate your feelings in order 235 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:41,160 for them to be right, needing to make you wrong, that's not about 236 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,320 what you look at internally for you. 237 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:48,760 That's speaking volumes about their lack of self work. 238 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,320 No judgement, unconscious, keep that in mind. 239 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:57,120 But they haven't learned how to be able to listen without 240 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:02,560 feeling attacked and to not take it personally, but rather hear 241 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:07,480 it as an opening for dialogue. That requires emotional 242 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:12,360 maturity, that requires emotional regulation versus 243 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:16,320 self-defense. Where spirituality really 244 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,640 complicates things is in merging the two concepts together. 245 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:22,960 The concept of energy, energy matching and mirroring. 246 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:24,760 And they are not the same concept. 247 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,160 There is a big difference between the two. 248 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:34,320 Energy matching is when we're in a circumstance and we ponder why 249 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:39,520 hear the word ponder, not judge, Ponder why this might be present 250 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,400 for us. Why? 251 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,480 Why is this happening this way for me? 252 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:49,200 So my partner reacts this way anytime I want to talk about how 253 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:52,480 I feel. He or she gets defensive and 254 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,720 rather than listen and respond from a heart centered space, 255 00:15:55,720 --> 00:16:00,960 they respond with defensiveness. How is this an energy match for 256 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:06,040 me right now? Notice match does not equate to 257 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:09,600 responsibility. You are never responsible for 258 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,640 another person's behaviour, ever. 259 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,680 But you can investigate what you've been telling yourself 260 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:20,040 about your relationship, what your beliefs are, if you feel 261 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,640 more positive about it, or if you've built up more negative 262 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:26,040 beliefs that would help create that dynamic. 263 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:29,960 That does not mean you are responsible for their behaviour. 264 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,320 Mirroring doesn't open to contemplation and that's the 265 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:38,280 issue that I have with it. Mirroring says you are 266 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:41,400 responsible for every hurtful action or rude things someone 267 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,280 else does. It makes you question your worth 268 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:48,120 and compound very unnecessary self death. 269 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,640 When someone behaves poorly around you, it's indicative of 270 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,480 their own past wounding, their own pain. 271 00:16:55,480 --> 00:17:01,520 You can hear it and see it their own insecurity, and that was 272 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:06,160 never your burden to carry. But if you're both trying to 273 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:11,319 heal self esteem programming from the past, it makes it the 274 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:16,079 perfect experience for you to see your reaction to them and 275 00:17:16,079 --> 00:17:20,800 that that is all yours. How you respond is all about 276 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,520 you. How they behave is all about 277 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,720 them. So you can literally witness 278 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:30,440 your life from the lens of personal power, which is I get 279 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:33,440 to feel how I want to feel about myself. 280 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:39,560 No matter where I am, no matter who I'm with, no matter how 281 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:44,320 they're feeling, no matter how they're behaving, no matter how 282 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:48,040 people in the grocery store or are behaving, no matter how my 283 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:53,560 partner is behaving that day, I get to feel about myself, how I 284 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:57,840 choose to, how I want to. And that takes work. 285 00:17:59,120 --> 00:18:03,360 Because when we are aligned right, we have to learn. 286 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,400 I get to learn emotional maturity and resilience. 287 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,720 Then. Then in that alignment, I can 288 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:14,240 have compassion for someone who isn't behaving well while not 289 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,480 making it at all about my worth or my value. 290 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:23,920 Nothing that happens in life is ever about your personal value. 291 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:28,040 I can't say that enough times, but we have been conditioned to 292 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:32,120 believe that since we were small and we didn't have the resources 293 00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:35,920 to deal with things. And so it felt very personal. 294 00:18:36,120 --> 00:18:41,240 Or parents, guardians, teachers, authority figures. 295 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,960 They made it personal because they hadn't done their work. 296 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,520 So you had a critical parent that said, why can't you dot dot 297 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,720 dot? Can't you see you are dot dot 298 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:55,000 dot? So we grow up still responding 299 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:58,440 in a very childlike way. Again, all unconscious. 300 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:02,360 That child who believes something is wrong with them is 301 00:19:02,360 --> 00:19:05,640 now actively being defensive when you want to talk about your 302 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,800 feelings. But their wounds aren't yours to 303 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:12,600 heal. But if their wounding triggers 304 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:17,360 yours, you can absolutely do something about healing yours. 305 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:21,880 That's understanding the energetic match going on, and 306 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:26,560 that is very different from accepting responsibility of all 307 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:29,880 the circumstances that mirroring indicates. 308 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,720 When you do that, understanding the energetic match going on, 309 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:39,600 healing your own wounds, you start to model something very, 310 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:43,160 very different. You start to model what I call 311 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,000 not picking it up. Someone can respond in a 312 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,560 negative way and you simply don't pick it up. 313 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,480 You can have compassion for other people, but not fix them, 314 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:56,800 not take responsibility for them, not save them, and on the 315 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,880 opposite scale, not shut down, not feel gas lit. 316 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:04,520 You can learn to maintain your own alignment, taking 317 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,280 responsibility for yourself, and that's when something really 318 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,480 magical starts to happen when you do that. 319 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,960 Two things start to happen. First, you feel a whole lot 320 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,800 better no matter who you're around, because you get to 321 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:22,120 manage you and you get to learn tools to manage you. 322 00:20:22,120 --> 00:20:24,120 If you notice that you're being triggered. 323 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,800 So that has nothing to do with anyone else. 324 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:30,560 And therefore you can never be powerless ever, because you 325 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,840 can't control the outside world. You can't control what everybody 326 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:37,600 says and does around you, but you certainly can manage you. 327 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:43,120 And 2nd, what you'll start to notice if you practice that over 328 00:20:43,120 --> 00:20:45,760 time, people start to calibrate to you. 329 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,080 You start to become the dominant frequency in the room and it 330 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:54,280 feels really good. And So what happens? 331 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:59,480 Their behavior starts to change, not because you tried to make 332 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,920 them change their behavior, but because you manage your own 333 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:06,760 alignment that's also energetic matching. 334 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:11,720 It's just you managing you. And that feels so liberating and 335 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:16,360 so freeing and so good that it starts to influence others to 336 00:21:16,360 --> 00:21:20,440 model it not for you, for them, for themselves. 337 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,240 They want that feeling. They want that strength. 338 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:27,200 They want what looks like. How are you managing even though 339 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:28,880 everything outside of you is crazy? 340 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:33,240 How are you managing? You start to do your own work 341 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,120 and model that and they calibrate to it. 342 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:40,040 This is the truth. This is actually the real truth, 343 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,840 in my opinion, behind personal development. 344 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:45,440 All personal development. It's you managing you so well 345 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,120 that everything around you calibrates to that same 346 00:21:48,120 --> 00:21:50,760 frequency of joy and of happiness and of peace. 347 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,600 I think that's the most important work we can be doing 348 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,200 ever in our lifetime. But this month specifically, 349 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,720 going into the holidays and all the things that the holidays 350 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,720 mean, for some people, it's a really busy, stressful time. 351 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,720 For other people, it's a lonely, sad time. 352 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,800 For other people, they're really trying their best. 353 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:10,280 Some people don't celebrate at all. 354 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,840 Some people do celebrate, but they feel overwhelmed with how 355 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:17,120 much they have to do on top of what was already a very busy 356 00:22:17,120 --> 00:22:19,280 life. If you have a job, if you have 357 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,920 kids, if you have to go to this party and that party and this 358 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:28,000 dance recital and this Christmas pageant and all of these things. 359 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,440 So we need tools. We need to be able to manage 360 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,600 ourselves. We need to learn to not pick it 361 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,240 up when something around us is happening and not take 362 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,560 responsibility for it. We need to learn how to respond 363 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,760 in a way that we can be compassionate, not take 364 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:52,080 responsibility for others, but take full responsibility for 365 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:57,720 ourselves and stay out of the dynamic of blame and 366 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,520 defensiveness and wanting someone else to change. 367 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:08,040 And one of the best ways to maintain that, in my opinion, is 368 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,800 you've got to learn how how to deal with your subconscious 369 00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:12,680 mind. If you think of your 370 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:18,440 subconscious mind as this, it is this infinite intelligence. 371 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:24,440 It is this infinite power, but it has zero direction. 372 00:23:25,360 --> 00:23:30,080 It's only job is to take what's impressed upon it and carry it 373 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:34,920 out. You, you're perfectly built, but 374 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,320 you just, you don't know it, right? 375 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,880 You have your conscious thinking mind and that's as far as we 376 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,280 really got. So everything must be because I 377 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,360 see it. So show me the evidence of it 378 00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:46,240 and then I'll believe it. It doesn't work like that. 379 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,800 It's the reverse of that. My conscious thinking mind is 380 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:53,000 only going to tell me what I believe to be true, which 381 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,440 actually most of the time is questionable. 382 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,280 But if I don't have a relationship with my 383 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:03,520 subconscious mind, if I'm not instructing it every single day, 384 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,520 then I feel like I'm being blown around in the wind by anything 385 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:11,840 that's coming at me that shows up as evidence in the world. 386 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:18,160 Small microcosm, Large macrocosm in my life with my partner in my 387 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:23,440 small sphere or in the world. But when you align that 388 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,960 subconscious and conscious and then you leave room for super 389 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:31,440 conscious mind, then you've got resources and you've got power 390 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,400 and you've got responsibility and you've got freedom and 391 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,000 you've got understanding and you've got tools and you've got 392 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,640 personal power. And that becomes an 393 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,200 extraordinary way to live your life. 394 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:47,600 That's when people start to say, you always seem happy. 395 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,200 How do things keep working out for you? 396 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,280 Why do you seem to just have the right intuition at the right 397 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,120 time? Why does why doesn't that bother 398 00:24:56,120 --> 00:24:58,000 you when this happens or this happens? 399 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,160 How do you manage yourself? Why do you seem so healthy? 400 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,480 It's your work and there's a path to doing that work. 401 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,800 There's an understanding and it's in that alignment of those 402 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,560 3 conscious, subconscious, and super conscious mind. 403 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,320 So I want to leave you with a few things that I wrote 404 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:22,680 specifically for this month. Read them. 405 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,080 Read them to yourself if you can. 406 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:29,360 Take 3 deep breaths, close your eyes, let your body shift out of 407 00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:33,360 stress and into resources, into parasympathetic Dr. and then 408 00:25:33,360 --> 00:25:37,000 open your eyes and read them slowly with conviction. 409 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,240 Mean them. Feel that in your gut when you 410 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,280 say them to it. Last thing at night, because 411 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:47,400 science has shown the last thing that you read or think about 412 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:53,240 before you go to sleep, you wake up and step into the next day. 413 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:59,000 So be intentional about it. Start to create a relationship 414 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,160 with you because with that, there isn't anywhere that you 415 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,800 can't go. So what I what I want to share 416 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:09,200 with you is there are five that I've written and the first is 417 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:13,400 the innate intelligence within me knows the perfect path for me 418 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:18,360 and orchestrates all the pieces in the most effortless, peaceful 419 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,200 and joyful way. Which is it? 420 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,360 What does that feel like to live like that? 421 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,400 The next, I am always under direct inspiration. 422 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,600 I make right decisions quickly and easily for myself. 423 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,080 The third. I can enjoy being around others 424 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:41,400 while maintaining my own peaceful and powerful alignment. 425 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,440 The 4th. Every day my infinite 426 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:50,560 intelligence opens the way for the Divine plan of my life to 427 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:54,840 manifest. This perfect plan includes 428 00:26:54,840 --> 00:27:00,040 health, wealth, love and perfect self-expression. 429 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:07,840 And the last I now I'm an irresistible magnet for all that 430 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,600 is truly mine from infinite intelligence. 431 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:17,160 If you start to read those 10 minutes before you go to sleep, 432 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,320 10 minutes when you wake up the next morning, you're going to 433 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,480 start to change your life. Use them. 434 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,680 Start to program your subconscious mind. 435 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:32,720 Remember that you have infinite power within you, but it's 436 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:36,840 waiting for direction. You have to learn how to direct 437 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:41,280 it. And with that, I wish you the 438 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:45,520 most blessed holidays. If you celebrate, no matter if 439 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:49,960 your home is full or if you will be enjoying some quiet time, 440 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:55,680 self-care time. I wish you every happiness and 441 00:27:55,680 --> 00:28:00,560 all of the universe's blessings. Thank you for this magical time 442 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,040 that we spend together. And if you're seeing this video 443 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:08,120 but you're not on my mailing list, I encourage you to sign up 444 00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:10,520 to stay in touch with me. You can find that at 445 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:16,320 megadamsonhypnotherapy.com, www.megm, e.g. 446 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:22,160 Adamson, Adamson, hypnotherapy.com. 447 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,960 When you do that, you will also receive a free download for 448 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,080 stress, absolutely free from the moment you sign up. 449 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,840 And if you love having these kinds of conversations, this 450 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:39,360 kind of content, I'm going to be diving so deeply into all of 451 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,520 this, plus the tools, plus the resources, plus the practice, 452 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,680 the understanding and the alignment which creates those 453 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,680 breakthroughs, creates that whole new identity. 454 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,080 Starting January 4th in a new program I'm offering called 455 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,680 Identity and Manifestation Work. If you have any questions just 456 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,760 reach out to me and if I can ever help you, I've got things 457 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:01,320 that you want to heal from your past. 458 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,040 Just reach out, send me an e-mail through my website. 459 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,480 I'm here. Happy. 460 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:11,360 Happy holidays, blessings. Bye for now. 461 00:29:27,860 --> 00:29:29,820 Thank you, Meg. Awesome. 462 00:29:31,300 --> 00:29:35,140 Always amazed me how it did, how it just seems to flow together. 463 00:29:35,140 --> 00:29:37,740 I'm sure you know, I'm sure somebody's in control because 464 00:29:37,780 --> 00:29:41,100 I'm sure not. I'm going to be bringing in the 465 00:29:41,100 --> 00:29:44,000 group here for the final message for the day. 466 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,480 Thanks for being with us here. Hope you have a wonderful, 467 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,160 wonderful month. Join us again for the final 468 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:55,000 virtual life broadcast on January 25th and we will take it 469 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,880 from there. As Bob, everybody, 470 00:30:11,340 --> 00:30:13,980 great things to your ones. I am observer. 471 00:30:14,820 --> 00:30:18,900 I join you this day with a great observation of humanity. 472 00:30:19,580 --> 00:30:23,520 But things are moving in a very powerful direction now. 473 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,720 We tell you there are ups and downs. 474 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:29,040 There are all the challenges ahead, obviously the things that 475 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,720 you have worked so hard for. And we tell you some of these 476 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,400 are being greatly, greatly resisted. 477 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:40,480 The rise of the feminine itself has moved, as we said it has. 478 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:46,240 It has brought new energies to this planet, new ideas, but it's 479 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,040 also brought fear. For those that have felt that 480 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,560 the masculine must be a superior energy in some way. 481 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,560 For those that felt that there must be a competition between 482 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,920 the masculine and the feminine and felt very threatened by the 483 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:06,400 feminine energy coming in and actually moving a lot of energy 484 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:11,320 in the way that it did, well, that is cause for concern 485 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,280 because what happened here is the masculine energy is grabbed 486 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:19,040 hold very hard and strong only for a short time. 487 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,160 Please understand nothing lasts forever. 488 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,160 There is a turn going on that will simply turn again. 489 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,880 Watch for the pendulum to swing in the opposite direction. 490 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,840 Humans are wonderful animals full of love and that's the 491 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:39,160 piece to keep in mind. You have all these incredible 492 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,920 energies and these memories from home, dear ones. 493 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:47,000 So let us speak this day since we are in this what is series. 494 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,080 The what is that we wish to speak of today is what is family 495 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,200 or you have many different visions of it. 496 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,160 When the keeper was first starting this work, he kept 497 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,800 talking about family. He kept talking about the 498 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,320 lightworker family. He kept talking about the 499 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:07,520 spiritual family of other people around him and some people had 500 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,840 negative reactions for that when simply said, well, you know, 501 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,880 you've obviously had a different experience with family than they 502 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,680 did. People that have brought up with 503 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,200 very negative experiences and lack of support around family. 504 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:25,520 That is only one very small level of family of which we wish 505 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,960 to speak this day. For the reality is, all of your 506 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:37,360 attempts at relationships in all areas are simply reflections of 507 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:41,080 trying to remember the things that you automatically have at 508 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:46,200 home now. Humans are fascinating beings. 509 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,800 All of you are working with new energies. 510 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,760 We've just brought a new aspect of ourselves in. 511 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,720 You will hear from her another time, but the reality is that 512 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,360 there are many things that are just moving at the speed of 513 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,080 light right now. And as this happens, we'd like 514 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:10,400 to take you home for just a moment now, you've been playing 515 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,280 the game of pretending to be a human. 516 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:17,040 Your spirit has been divided up into eleven different aspects, 517 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,480 all caring parts of yourself, all caring parts of your 518 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:25,040 personality, all caring parts of your core personality, which is 519 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:28,760 the true you. So they're all you in different 520 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,000 aspects now. They've learned different 521 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,840 things, they've been moved in different ways. 522 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,400 Their body suit has been taught different things. 523 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,960 So they have different aspects of where they are, sometimes 524 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,440 even opposites from where you might be. 525 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,880 But that allows the spirit to change in a lot of different 526 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,040 ways. So here's what happens. 527 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:54,640 Let's just say, for instance, that you go home for a moment 528 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,440 and you're walking down this street and you know you're home. 529 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,720 You know you're not in your physical body. 530 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,840 You know you've died and you know you're walking down this 531 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,520 street and all of a sudden you see someone coming from the 532 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:14,760 opposite direction. First thing first, you check 533 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,880 yourself to see who you are that you are presenting. 534 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,719 You do have a bodysuit if you think you have a body suit. 535 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,280 So you check your bodysuit. Oh, I'm, I'm OK, I'm good. 536 00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:30,600 And you go forward and as you start to perceive this person, 537 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,679 there's this whole welling of your heart that starts to 538 00:34:34,679 --> 00:34:39,080 manifest for you. And you can't explain it. 539 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,280 Your brain is searching like crazy to figure out where you 540 00:34:42,679 --> 00:34:47,239 might have known this person or what this was about, but your 541 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:51,000 heart just is exploding with this energy that you're feeling 542 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,960 for this person. You just want to grab them and 543 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,080 hug them and be a part of them in any way that they will allow 544 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,800 and yet you're just walking past them on the street. 545 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:06,120 You don't know what this is. In that moment, they turn and 546 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:15,480 look at you, and in that moment you are flooded with memories of 547 00:35:15,720 --> 00:35:20,320 sometimes past lifetimes, but more of experiences that you 548 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,680 have experienced on the other side of the veil. 549 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,480 For when you integrate in that way, you basically share 550 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,560 memories. You share experiences. 551 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:31,880 That's what happens to you when you go home. 552 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:36,200 All 11 of you that experience life in slightly different ways 553 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,640 come together and blend it all together in this perfection, 554 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:46,680 magical thing that is family. Now what is family on the other 555 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,760 side? Well, dear ones, you, you are 556 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,680 not new to this earth. Many of you have been here 557 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:56,480 thousands of times or similar experiences. 558 00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:01,680 As we've mentioned, some of you go back to some of the original 559 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,320 Earth's. You're in the fourth Earth right 560 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,840 now. Some of you go back even further 561 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,320 than that. So the the reality is you've 562 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,480 experienced this game of pretending to be separate before 563 00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:18,040 and most of the time you experience things with 564 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:23,040 relationships. Here with a limited vision, you 565 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:27,760 have massive amnesia. You are not able to remember who 566 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,200 you are and where you came from and what you experienced in the 567 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:37,000 last times out. So as such you tend to find 568 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,480 yourself redoing things or doing the same things that you did 569 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,560 before, learning the lessons quicker usually. 570 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:46,040 But nonetheless you seem to have to start over in different ways. 571 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:50,400 That can be very frustrating for new spirits pretending to be 572 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,640 human. But the reality is you start 573 00:36:53,720 --> 00:36:55,840 working with this really well now. 574 00:36:55,840 --> 00:37:01,320 From the other side of the veil, you have core essence. 575 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:06,880 It's very difficult to describe exactly what that is, because 576 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,520 you're all blended, a part of each other. 577 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,960 It's not like we can pull one thing out and say this is you 578 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:18,640 and this is Fred and this is Murtha and all these different 579 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:24,400 strange energies you do. That's how you play the game of 580 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,520 pretending to be separate from each other. 581 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:31,000 You have physical bodies that can represent that, but we do 582 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,560 not because you're all part of each other. 583 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,360 You influence each other all the time. 584 00:37:37,240 --> 00:37:43,000 So interestingly enough, that is your core family, and yet there 585 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:47,920 are certain aspects that are almost closer to you than other 586 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:51,160 ones. Now, this is difficult because 587 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:57,720 this indicates a space situation in at home which doesn't really 588 00:37:57,720 --> 00:38:01,160 exist, but we're giving you illustrations that you might be 589 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:07,000 able to understand. So what happens is that you have 590 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,520 a connection with someone who you're trying to connect with, 591 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,400 but they're way out here. Well, that simply means that you 592 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,680 have to work through that connection, but you make the 593 00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,320 connection. They're part of you. 594 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,600 You just have to remember them, almost as if you have to 595 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,560 remember their phone number or something. 596 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:26,760 So that's really part of it. And yet there's these beings 597 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:31,000 that are right here experiencing what you are experiencing. 598 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,480 Those we call original spiritual family. 599 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:40,120 Now, there are times on planet Earth when you actually 600 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,520 intersect your reality with theirs. 601 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:48,520 So you may be seeing some of your original spiritual family 602 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,720 come back into your life. Most of the time they will come 603 00:38:51,720 --> 00:38:54,880 in for short times because sometimes they can upset a lot 604 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,000 of things, which they tend to do. 605 00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,760 But the reality is many times they'll come back into your 606 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,800 life, they'll intersect your life, they will bump you if 607 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,480 you're not in a good situation. They'll let you see yourself 608 00:39:06,720 --> 00:39:09,160 from a perspective of love and then move on. 609 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,920 And most of the time, and it's not that that happens all the 610 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,400 time, sometimes they will stay. Sometimes they'll be part of 611 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:18,760 your life for the rest of your life. 612 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,120 But for the most part, you're going to have people that will 613 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,280 intercede your life, that know you well. 614 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,000 These were the people, the original spiritual family, which 615 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:35,400 many times will, as we say, we'll cross your path at 616 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:40,040 specific times, usually on a path to their own place, to 617 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,880 their own, to their own dreams, to their own work. 618 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,760 So this is one of the things that we see happening a lot. 619 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,360 On top of that, there are so many of these very intimate 620 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:57,920 parts of you that exist around you all the time, almost like a 621 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:02,240 magnetic attraction because you're all slightly vibrating 622 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:06,080 differently. Which is what kind of makes up 623 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:11,560 the whole of what is everything vibrates at a slightly different 624 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,840 frequency. Yes, you have ranges of 625 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:16,440 frequency that you often inhabit. 626 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,720 You break some of those down into colors that you call, but 627 00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:22,160 the the reality is there's so many more. 628 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:27,440 But those vibrational ranges are basically what you exist in. 629 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,840 So the other thing that happens many times is sometimes you'll 630 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:37,160 be passing someone or meeting someone for the first time and 631 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,960 you'll feel this deep, deep, deep connection. 632 00:40:41,720 --> 00:40:45,160 Well, it can be very confusing sometimes. 633 00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,720 It was a contract that was passed because many contracts 634 00:40:48,720 --> 00:40:55,840 are skipped for lack of motion. It's frustrating for us to watch 635 00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,280 on this side of the veil. We see many wonderful contracts 636 00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,600 being set up and at the same time, when they activate, people 637 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:06,240 tend to walk away. So yes. 638 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,120 So these are the connections to family. 639 00:41:10,720 --> 00:41:13,760 Now, when you come down here and you pretend to be human, you 640 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,520 also choose a family. Not really. 641 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:21,440 You choose a primary parental contract, not really a family. 642 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,120 Because you're entering into the planet of free choice. 643 00:41:25,720 --> 00:41:30,240 It is possible that you may not end up with both parents that 644 00:41:30,240 --> 00:41:33,160 you chose. So you choose one primary 645 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:37,360 parental contract, one that you know, you can connect with, and 646 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,720 you trust her to find the perfect partner for you. 647 00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:45,520 Many times people get very lucky, very lucky. 648 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:49,760 Other times, not so much. Other times, there are times 649 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:54,200 when about 20% of the planet, now I'm actually 23% of the 650 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:59,880 planet, are in backup plans. These are when you have set on 651 00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:03,040 your side of the veil. We're talking about family on 652 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:07,000 your side of the veil. Now, before you came in, you set 653 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:12,320 up a contract to have this person be your father, and he 654 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,520 was going to teach you. You were going to look up to him 655 00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,680 and you were going to just emulate him in every way 656 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,480 possible. It was it was going to be very 657 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:24,480 intense, OK. And all of a sudden he's not 658 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,960 there. They decided not to have any 659 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,800 more children. There was an accident. 660 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:34,640 He died. Whatever took place that Ave. 661 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,680 closed down before you came in. So what happens is many times 662 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,520 you will choose an alternate path. 663 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:46,320 Now many times that alternate path has other things to it that 664 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,800 you are not really familiar with. 665 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,120 So sometimes when you put yourself into a backup plan, 666 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,160 most of the time that means you're the black sheep in the 667 00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,400 family. You may have brothers and 668 00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,760 sisters that all seem to get along pretty well, but you're 669 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,680 the oddball 1. You think a little bit 670 00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:07,240 differently than everybody else. It's also entirely possible that 671 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:12,800 mother or father, usually mother in this situation can actually 672 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:17,560 be afraid and concerned because she has now has this baby and 673 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:21,320 she can't connect with the baby. She basically doesn't have the 674 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,920 natural vibrational connection that you would normally have 675 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:29,320 with the baby. Very common, and that is made on 676 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,080 your side of the veil. But in the very beginning, it 677 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:37,520 sometimes leads to a little mistrust that sets into a 678 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,280 relationship. Sometimes it can go on for a 679 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,920 person's lifetime. So on your side of the veil, 680 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:49,320 family means all these things. Sometimes these are 681 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,120 opportunities to learn. Sometimes they're great support. 682 00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,680 Sometimes family is all about love. 683 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,160 Wonderful. Sometimes you signed up for a 684 00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,960 little of both. Sometimes you said, you know, 685 00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,240 I'm going to be in this family with you and you're going to be, 686 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,920 we're going, we're going to be learning from these incredible 687 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,880 parents. We're very lucky to get this 688 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:12,320 spot. Will you also bug me and, and, 689 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,520 and, and steal some money from me or do something from me? 690 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:19,640 So, yeah, we set up all kinds of contracts and different things 691 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,560 inside of these perfect arrangements, obviously. 692 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:28,200 So enjoy the journey above all. But contracts on your side of 693 00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,560 the veil relationships are built always. 694 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,840 Now, when you start with a vibrational relationship, it 695 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,360 usually means that you have a deeper connection. 696 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,520 That was the person that you chose from the other side of the 697 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,040 veil that was no longer available. 698 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:50,960 So many of you, 23% of you have actually taken an alternate Plan 699 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:55,240 B contract on your birth and in here. 700 00:44:55,240 --> 00:44:58,680 Why would you do that? Well, there's a very good reason 701 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:06,440 he wanted to be here now. It was critical for you to be 702 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:10,960 here now. There's a very important aspects 703 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,000 of this. As we mentioned, the new reality 704 00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:17,000 is stepping up. You're moving very quickly now 705 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,960 into a higher vibrational state. Please do not judge that by the 706 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:25,720 news or by things that are happening in politics or things 707 00:45:25,720 --> 00:45:29,280 that are happening in all these crazy third dimensional world. 708 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,920 But look at it from the higher aspect of how you can connect 709 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:39,280 and what is in your reality around you right now. 710 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:45,280 Because you create that and in the 5th dimension you create 711 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:48,320 much more of it. You basically can extend this in 712 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,760 ways that you didn't dream possible. 713 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,560 There's many aspects of being able to work with this in a 714 00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:59,800 higher vibrational state to build a comfortable life full of 715 00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,160 excitement, full of expansion, full of creativity. 716 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,560 This is truly where you're stepping in this. 717 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:12,520 Now, where does family fit into all of this? 718 00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:18,080 Well #1 Your original spiritual family will always be your 719 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:22,000 original spiritual family. They will always love you no 720 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:27,480 matter what you do. Does that true with family 721 00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,560 that's down here? Not always, not always. 722 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,000 Well, you've got other things here. 723 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,120 You've got finality, You've got, you've got other things that 724 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,440 you're dealing with here. So you've got the the duality 725 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:40,960 that you've been growing up with. 726 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,960 You're not anchored in triality yet, which is where we're going 727 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,040 as we step into a higher vibrational state. 728 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:50,560 Everything is anchored in threes. 729 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,920 We'll show you much of this going forward into the into the 730 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,360 work that we're going to be bringing in about a lot of this 731 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,880 aspect. So with this, you step forward. 732 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:07,600 You step into a new reality in a different way, and your original 733 00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:12,480 spiritual family is called in at the most incredible times. 734 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:17,880 Sometimes they don't intercede in your world in a normal way. 735 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:24,600 There are times when an original spiritual family member inhabits 736 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:31,880 a body for a few moments to walk in front of you in a busy St. to 737 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:36,480 catch your eye for a second, to smile, and to move on. 738 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:42,680 In that embrace, they basically caught your attention. 739 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:47,160 They planted a seed of home and remembrance and may have 740 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:52,920 actually even changed your life. That happens a lot on planet 741 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:57,240 Earth right now. You may be one of these people 742 00:47:57,720 --> 00:47:59,400 that will be doing this with others. 743 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:05,120 So also as you walk through the streets and you find yourself 744 00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,640 coming eye to eye with someone, smile. 745 00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:14,000 Plant that seed intentionally. Let that go whenever possible. 746 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:19,080 You'll find so many things starting to awaken with new 747 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,320 attributes. It is time, dear ones. 748 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:27,000 So the families themselves, Well, many times you've built 749 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:32,120 families around things as well. For instance, you may have a 750 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,520 family that you have around your spirituality. 751 00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,880 You may have a family that you have around your work. 752 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,040 If you really like your work and you really like the people you 753 00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,560 work with, they're a family. You see them every day. 754 00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,200 You probably spend more time with them than you do with your 755 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,680 family at home. So you become a family of sorts. 756 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,280 And yes, you're going to have a crazy uncle and yes, you're 757 00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,000 going to have all those things that's family. 758 00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:01,120 And you allow this to open up and play this game because these 759 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:06,080 are built right now more than ever before. 760 00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:12,120 Reaching out and connecting in any ways possible can be huge. 761 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:17,720 There are so many attributes, dear ones, that are intending to 762 00:49:17,720 --> 00:49:22,440 separate people on planet Earth. It is an intentional move for 763 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:26,280 power takeover. It is being aided by technology 764 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:30,160 that you're unaware of. But the most important part is 765 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,880 you're aware of it now. So even though the technology's 766 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:38,720 there, the reality is nobody can really make anybody do anything. 767 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:43,320 They can suggest a lot, and many times that's really what's 768 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,320 happening. But the reality is you're 769 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:50,320 awakening from the dream. And once you fully anchor in the 770 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:54,320 higher vibrations, the more that you anchor in your 5th 771 00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:59,000 dimensional world, the less that you can even notice this, 772 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,840 because this does not exist on that level. 773 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:09,320 There's no third leg, it's only one or the other, and neither 774 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,320 one work. Take a breath. 775 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:20,760 Good. The family is an important 776 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:24,960 aspect of where you're going. You will feel them all the time 777 00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,720 from home. And we hope that at some point 778 00:50:28,720 --> 00:50:32,880 after you leave this physical body and you return home, that 779 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:37,640 you're walking down a lonely street, that you see someone off 780 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:42,880 in the distance. And as they get closer, you may 781 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:48,480 realize it may be us. Allow that to enter your heart. 782 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:54,160 Know that you're never alone or walking this street with you. 783 00:50:56,280 --> 00:51:01,240 Enjoy the journey dear ones. With that we leave you for now 784 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:05,960 we are complete. Treat each other with respect, 785 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,200 nurture one another, play well together. 786 00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:15,320 I am observer and I do like to watch Spapa dear ones. 787 00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:44,720 The.