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Hello and stop. 
What do you how do you look? 

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Come on now. 
Hello and welcome to this 

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episode of FOB and Friends. 
My name is Anne. 

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Don't ask why, I just put an eye
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With me this week is Armino. 
Hello. 

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And some run. 
Listen. 

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Going. 
We got a little caught up. 

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You got caught up with life. 
I got I got went on vacation, 

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you know, I didn't I was like, I
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sapphire seas of. 
Church and Caicos. 

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Wow, should I work so hard on 
that little podcast? 

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I need to go on a vacation. 
I feel like you guys both went 

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on vacation. 
I'm the only one who has not 

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gone on vacation. 
Where'd you go? 

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I. 
Didn't go anywhere. 

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I thought you went. 
In the last two months, I 

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didn't. 
Go anywhere. 

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You didn't go to Cali. 
That doesn't I don't count that 

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as vacation that that was just 
like I'm going to see the in 

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laws just hanging out with fam, 
you know, kind of. 

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That's like me going to saying 
that's a vacation. 

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Yeah, but you're, you're. 
Black black out my the actual 

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location. 
I guess you're right. 

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Like. 
Going to Connecticut is not 

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going to be bleep out that 
Logan. 

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No, that's fine, it's a steak. 
But my thing is, you told the 

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it's a state, we're fine. 
I gave a city so. 

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But listen, Believe about the 
city. 

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That's not a that's not a 
vacation however. 

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Turks and Caicos some bro. 
Vacation. 

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It's a vacation. 
I have a vacation coming up. 

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Oh, where? 
Going to Francais, I'm going. 

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To be wait wait wait, are you 
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Hold on, hold on. 
I need to do my France 

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impression of like the Miss 
Universe. 

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I gotta do it. 
That's how she sounds. 

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Really. 
I'm going to France. 

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Going to a Shadi Shadi. 
Kiski Shadi in France. 

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Doska Shadi, a friend. 
I wish I had a Shadi in France. 

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Yeah, they, they, it's, it's 
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France in like the. 
South Sunny Leone, yeah. 

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Can you please like land? 
Can you please land and go? 

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Oh, I will, I will and I will. 
No, yeah, we're it's just going,

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we're going to Lyon. 
We're going to Lyon, France. 

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And then that's gonna be like 4 
days and then five days in Pati.

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You're going for like 10 days to
France and no no. 

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Is the entire thing a wedding or
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No, just the Lyon part. 
The Leon part's the wedding. 

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Oh, and then we're just going to
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Saudi. 
That sounds beautiful. 

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You need to have croissants. 
You don't have that hot 

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chocolate that's like full 
chocolate chocolate. 

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Chocolate, I was told by my 
French friend, the guy who's 

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getting married, he's did say 
that he like you might as well 

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not speak French there because 
people will judge you so 

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hardcore and they get so snotty 
about like I'm. 

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Sorry, they don't like 
Americans. 

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No, they don't like Americans 
who try to pretend to speak 

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French. 
But wait a minute, I thought 

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they also didn't like. 
Americans. 

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Well, but but not even trying to
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They don't like either. 
They just don't like you. 

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They don't like if you try and 
speak the language, but they 

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also are like, wow, you come to 
our country, I don't know how to

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speak English and you're like, 
OK. 

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Yeah, 'cause I, it'd be like a 
croissant, right? 

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And then I, my friend, would be 
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croissant. 
And I'm just like croissant. 

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I I just say croissant. 
Croissant. 

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Croissant, croissant, croissant.
It was like our moms right Chai,

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croissant and Chai. 
My mom still says for tortilla. 

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She says tortillas, tortillas. 
She's like tortillas under no 

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tortilla. 
It's tortillas. 

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Tortillas is so awesome. 
I think you said tortillas, 

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Ananda. 
Tortillas, Ananda. 

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What's so cute? 
So why do you have a vacation to

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Paris? 
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I'm going in May, end of May May
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because beginning of May is my 
wife's best friends Shadi and 

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that's gonna be and that's a 
Hindu Shadi which is gonna be 

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like a week long of activities. 
Then we're gonna come back and 

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then the very next day we're 
gonna be flying out to France, 

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so. 
It's gonna be where is that 

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Chabi in Cali? 
That's in Cali. 

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Oh wow. 
Oh yeah. 

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Oh yeah, Jet setting around 
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Annoying. 
I have a big Hindu wedding too 

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beginning of June in Cali. 
Whoa. 

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Yeah. 
I have a wedding in Cali too. 

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Whoa, you do. 
Whoa. 

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Trifecta there. 
You go. 

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I know I'm in. 
Cali then. 

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I wish. 
No, I'm gonna. 

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That's Good Friday weekend, 
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That's April. 
Oh, April. 

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May. 
June. 

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Yeah, look at. 
That. 

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How do we plan this? 
I know we're so good at 

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planning. 
We staggered just enough so we 

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wouldn't have to see each other.
Yeah, just enough. 

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Hopefully we can get some 
episodes in between your guys's 

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vacays. 
So where are you going next, 

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Amma? 
Dominican and April. 

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You all suck balls. 
I'm going to an all inclusive 

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resort. 
Dang. 

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Look at us. 
We're. 

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Gonna have to. 
We're gonna have to calculate 

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the amount of traveling we're 
doing with all the flights. 

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How many miles? 
OK, you wanna know my travel 

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plans? 
Not vacation, because it's not 

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vacation. 
I'm coming up for Eid. 

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Yay. 
Hey. 

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I'm gonna go to California. 
Great. 

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You're not gonna be there. 
And I mean something. 

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No, no, I'm gonna be there in 
the morning. 

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I'm gonna be there in the 
morning. 

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But then you leave. 
Then I work from 1:00 to 1:00 to

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like 3 or 4. 
Oh, OK, whatever. 

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And then I go to Cali for a 
wedding. 

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I don't count that as vacation. 
No, it's not. 

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It's not. 
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again in May. 
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Two parter the the third part, 
the second part part you know of

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the wedding and then I literally
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for one of Oasis like good 
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So really all my vacation money 
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to said locations sucks. 
I would like to go to the 

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Dominican. 
Speaking of vacation. 

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So today, oh, blur out the name 
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tea tea kettle. 
Number 2 was like looking at a 

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video. 
He's like, I don't want to go on

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a when we went on a cruise last 
year and he's like, I want to go

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on a cruise and I was like, so 
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So there's that. 
And he's like, but Daddy does. 

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And he pulled out. 
He pulled out his voice's wallet

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and was like, look, I just took 
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look, Daddy does. 
And I was like, I wish. 

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That's hard. 
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worked, that I can just book a 
cruise for the sake of credit 

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card debt. 
Yeah, I wish. 

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Interest on it? 
Like 20% interest, yeah, so. 

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That's funny how he knows that. 
Yeah, it's so funny. 

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They think money is like a card.
It's all in the card. 

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It's all just a card, but you 
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Nobody does anything for it. 
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And I'm like, I wish they're 
paying off debt. 

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Yeah, we, Chris and I just went 
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discuss our next vacations. 
I wish I could discuss next 

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vacations. 
I'm not. 

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I'm trying to just like get to 
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We're like, where do we want to 
go next? 

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No, it's just for now. 
How about come in a a weekend to

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me? 
That's not impossible. 

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Also, that's just now XANA and I
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the tea kettles we are start 
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then you are in a better 
position because your tea 

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kettles will be older and you'll
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we're going to be the ones that 
are home and like so. 

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How come Zan and your wife we 
have not come and visited me 

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either. 
Somewhere it's coming. 

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We're coming. 
Yeah, it was. 

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It's been coming for the last 
five years. 

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No, we're coming, don't worry. 
Somebody thinks that living by a

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an an international amusement 
park means that everyone's gonna

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come visit her. 
That's pretty much what it does 

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mean. 
It does. 

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It does. 
Everyone's like, oh, so I 

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actually have a trip to Set 
amusement park. 

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I guess I'll see you. 
Exactly. 

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Are you not like at this point 
Disneyed out or are you still 

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like all about Disney? 
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think Disney, they they're 
thinking you're doing an all day

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thing. 
You are like having to sweat it 

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out at a park and stay in lines 
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stuff. 
It's very different from if you 

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have an annual pass and live 
down here and go to Disney. 

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It's not like we're spending. 
We spend a lot of money on an 

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annual pass, yes, but it's not 
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a short amount of time where we 
like we have to do everything in

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three days or 40s or however 
long you're coming to do a 

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vacation. 
We go for like and we just like,

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for example, went yesterday. 
We just go for like 2 hours. 

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Yeah, it's very casual. 
We just go for two. 

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Hours we go for like a walk. 
We literally walk around and we 

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if, if there's, we tell the 
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less wait time, we'll get on the
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And if it's anything more than 
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And they're fine with that 
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taking a walk around the park 
and see like legitimately it's, 

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it's we're not nobody's buying 
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No one's buying food. 
No one's. 

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So it's like just a a reason to 
go out and. 

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See, like she can get a little 
bit of Dole Whips. 

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I can. 
And churros. 

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Yeah. 
And the, you know, the Disney 

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churros, for some reason they 
put that the in it, 'cause it's 

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good. 
Yeah, it's good. 

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They're better than normal 
churros. 

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That's sprinkle that. 
Speaking of churros, they it's 

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the Flower and Garden Festival 
happening right now every. 

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Time I come visit Summer. 
It's the flower garden. 

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First of all, it's the best 
festival because a it's. 

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And there's absolutely different
food stalls. 

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Exactly. 
So guess what? 

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That's what I did yesterday was 
walk around Epcot. 

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They have like specialty foods. 
And drinks like. 

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Mocktails that you can get at 
different countries. 

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At Epcot. 
And stuff. 

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I went to brunch cot. 
What's the booth? 

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All right, that's the booth. 
That sounds like a bad word. 

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I know, right? 
I would like crunch pot but 

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they. 
Had a cinnamon toast crunch 

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French toast with this vanilla 
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of it. 
Delish delish. 

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Then they had Butte. 
In India. 

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No, I don't go to that booth. 
No, they had booked. 

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It was like. 
Is that in Mexico? 

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No, it was like kind of on its, 
I don't know what where it was, 

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I mean it. 
Was in Mexico. 

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No, it wasn't in Mexico. 
I can tell you that it was 

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closer to Canada. 
Interesting. 

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But I didn't get to go to all 
the I didn't. 

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Obviously that's not the point. 
We go where? 

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Like, hey, here we are. 
And the one time Chris and I 

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went, we we like watched a bunch
of tik Toks and planned out the 

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best rated foods and we hit up 
every stall that had like that's

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pretty. 
Much what I do. 

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It was awesome. 
That's what I do. 

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I've watched my videos and I'm 
gonna go have those. 

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Boots. 
But you know what we wouldn't be

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doing now 'cause it's rums on. 
Yeah, he can't do any of that, 

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Can't do any of those mocktails.
I will tell you this right now. 

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We went yesterday right before 
Rosa opened. 

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Oh so oh always was like, Oh 
yeah, always went. 

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He got his avocado toast with 
marinated tomatoes. 

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He got the cinnamon. 
He got the Cinnamon Toast Crunch

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French toast. 
He got the well. 

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Reserved. 
He got the charcuterie board. 

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Did he go to Morocco and get 
that mint lemonade? 

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No, we didn't. 
Walk that all that way. 

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See. 
Wow, two hours Took us just 

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there in like the beginning of 
Epcot essentially. 

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That's my favorite park. 
That's my favorite park too. 

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Yeah, 'cause it's very relaxing.
It is. 

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As an adult, like it's a lot of 
room. 

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You can walk around. 
They have nice rides, they have 

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good food, but like even if you 
don't want to do a ride, you can

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just walk and you're like, oh, 
this is a nice scenery. 

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I'm hearing good food. 
Right now it's very pretty. 

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It's like that's the Flower 
Garden Festival. 

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They make it so beautiful. 
You know, some guess what today 

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was 65°. 
Well, it was. 

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Did the snow finally melt? 
A little bit barely, it looked 

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like some monsoons on the road 
in different areas because those

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big snow mounds are melting. 
So it was like rivers. 

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I've stepped in one by accident 
on a long walk. 

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It was terrible. 
Well, I hope the weather just 

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continues to get stay in that 
temp and it's. 

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Like the officially the daylight
save, Daylight saving time 

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happened too. 
So we're getting longer days, 

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longer sunlight. 
I need some vitamin CDI, need 

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DD. 
DI mean you probably need you 

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need you need vitamin C as well,
but that's not from the. 

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Sun, I always get that confused.
I don't know why C&D are so just

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so close to each. 
Other think of like vitamin D, 

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like the day. 
OK, hey, yo, I'm gonna remember 

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that. 
And C like citrus. 

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This is why you This is why you 
did the big buku studying right 

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here. 
This is why. 

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That's how I passed. 
I was like, let me make stupid 

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ways to remember everything. 
Hey it works. 

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It works. 
So what? 

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How's everybody's Ramadan going?
Should we give the diplomatic 

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answer or the more realistic? 
Mashallah, Mashallah, let's 

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let's, let's do the. 
Realistic. 

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We're here for realistic 
answers. 

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We're not here to have our 
listeners listen to. 

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Fasting, I mean. 
I'm not either. 

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I'm not either. 
I'm not either. 

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Does it feel free? 
Well, I did. 

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I did do it this weekend. 
I didn't do it this weekend 

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'cause I went back home. 
So when I go back home, I do it 

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your. 
Mom also makes. 

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But also look if I woke up and 
there was a fullest ahead he 

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fully made for me and then if 
thar was just fully done in the 

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most amazing way like your mom 
does, then doing Rosa would be a

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different story. 
But when I do Rosa by myself at 

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home, I wake up in the morning 
have one picking huh. 

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Well now that I don't even have 
that so maybe I have a glass of 

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something to drink. 
Then I go back to sleep and then

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what? 
Do I open my fast with a 

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Clementine and then I just eat 
dinner? 

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It's not very fun. 
You know what though? 

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But that's how you should do it.
Nothing too crazy, nothing too 

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fancy, basically. 
Essentially no Papore, no 

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samose, no fruit chart, no roll 
of stuff, no patties. 

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Eat like normally. 
You're supposed to eat like 

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normal, but that's takes away. 
This is this is TMI too. 

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And this might be a little TMI, 
but but I've also been like for 

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the last maybe three or four 
months now, I've been trying to 

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eat better, like having not 
necessarily going on a diet, but

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just eating better, just 
generally. 

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So I've noticed that when I went
back home this weekend, my I had

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loose motion a lot because of 
the because of the transition of

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going from eating Greek yogurt 
with granola in the morning to 

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then eating bouillon and, you 
know, like, wait a minute and 

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Janet. 
Janet. 

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Janet is gonna kill you. 
You go. 

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Home Often, though, it's not 
like you never go home and have 

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that food. 
No, I but I think I don't know 

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what it is. 
I don't know what happened. 

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It's because I went back home is
I went back home twice during 

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rooms like the first week of 
rooms on and now this past 

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weekend and both times loose 
motion. 

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But when I go when I came back 
here, I was fine. 

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I'm good. 
Because you're not eating 

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picori, it's the fried food. 
It's the fried stuff. 

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Yeah. 
Even my, even though my mom 

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tries not to put a lot of oil, 
she tries to like air fry a lot 

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of stuff still. 
I don't know. 

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It just doesn't, you know, when 
you have an adjustment, when 

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you're trying to do, like I 
said, granola with Greek yogurt 

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in the morning and then going to
eat Ande omelets. 

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When you're having, when you're 
doing like a Mediterranean diet 

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the right way, you're like, I'm 
eating fresh salmon with, with. 

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Couscous. 
And fresh tomato. 

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And then you go to Mom's house 
and you have like naked all 

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ghoshed with like a Jodi Ghosh 
or whatever you're eating and 

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you're like, you're going to 
shit yourself like. 

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Good. 
Like that's just what's going to

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happen. 
Like your, your, your bacteria 

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on your bowels are like, we're 
not prepared. 

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I had all that probiotics from 
that Greek, you know, from all 

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that good stuff, and now it's. 
Where'd it go? 

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It's. 
Flushed out of here and gone 

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and. 
Then my esophagus burns every. 

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My mom made a Johnny Alu or 
something the other day. 

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She's like a doll and it looked 
delicious. 

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I felt like there was a fire in 
my chest that night. 

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I was gonna throw up. 
I thought it was like, like, I 

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don't know, acid was just going 
to come straight out of my 

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mouth. 
I was like, the next day Chris 

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was like, do you want to eat 
this? 

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I said I cannot. 
Like it's not. 

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I can't eat it. 
I'll throw it up. 

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I was so delicious on the way 
down though. 

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It is delicious. 
I'm sure. 

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Just don't eat like that. 
I think you're right. 

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Eid is going to consist of maybe
something going on with all of 

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us, I'm not sure. 
I'm sure, I'm sure there's. 

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Some in the in the evening, in 
the evening. 

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Friday. 
On the Friday nights. 

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Yeah. 
Friday. 

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That's Friday. 
So I'm glad that we're all on 

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the same page, that none of us 
are, really. 

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It's none of us. 
I don't know. 

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Look, we'll just be honest, you 
know, it's hard, but. 

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I don't have like, I have to 
have a lot of patience in my 

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day. 
Like I have to deal with people 

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who are maybe sometimes very 
upset yelling at me. 

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I don't have much of a break 
anyway. 

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And so if I'm not eating or 
drinking and then I have to deal

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with that at like 3:00 PM, it's 
not my best self. 

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Right, you're like on your. 
No, I'm in an outpatient clinic,

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so I'm not but in not. 
But the point is, is like I have

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to be on my mind has to be sharp
and my mind is not sharp. 

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Even if I eat normally, by noon 
my mind is no longer a sharp. 

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I have no excuse. 
You know what good for? 

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You I love, I love that honesty 
though 'cause I have no excuse 

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either. 
Like, but legitimately like at 

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least during the summer months, 
I could say, OK, it's really 

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long and in the past guys, I'll 
just say it as well. 

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Passed out. 
I think the last time I actually

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did like proper Rosa was when I 
was like 18. 

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So it's been a while, but so I'm
not gonna lie here, there's no 

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God knows. 
God knows. 

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But I can tell you when it's 
like summer months, I'm going to

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tell you right now, I'm going to
vomit, I'm going to pass out. 

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And that's what's happened to me
in the past. 

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Like I've legit just been 
migraines and all. 

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I'm like, I can't do this right.
I, I, it's too much Now it's 

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winter months. 
So maybe I could. 

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Maybe I did some. 
I did. 

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I did a fast this month. 
Like I was like, I can do it. 

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It was a Sunday. 
It was a snowstorm on Monday. 

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I was like, I have time. 
I can really put into it. 

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I did a fast and I was, I'm 
like, it's really great if you 

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can be home because I I was 
working, but I was home. 

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It makes it easier as like 
especially going back home, it 

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makes it easier when you know 
that other people around you are

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doing it too. 
Like Maz Gossam, my mom, my dad,

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it. 
It just promotes the idea that, 

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well, if everyone else is doing 
it, then why not? 

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I could do it too. 
What's my excuse then? 

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Right. 
But then, yeah, it is when I'm 

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back here in New York, one of 
my, I don't know, like, well, 

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like. 
When you're working and you work

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from home, a lot of that, I 
really think it makes it easier 

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because you can take them 5 
minutes and go lay on the bed or

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you know, go in the sink and 
could be really quick if you 

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have to. 
Like you just have the ability 

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to do that. 
Whereas at work, like I can't, 

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you can't and that's not well, I
could, but like I don't have 

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time sometimes. 
So back-to-back. 

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And that's not fair to them. 
Why would I hurt my patients 

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with my breath, you know, So 
fasting breath is the worst. 

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The bacteria is going heavy in 
there very. 

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Heavy. 
No, I mean that's the truth. 

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00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:23,960
Hey guys. 
Oh my God. 

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So today, actually, we were 
Facetiming with my inlaws, and I

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think I heard my mother-in-law 
tell Tea kettle #2 like, and 

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one, you're gonna, you should, 
you know, you're gonna just fast

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when they do, Rosie and all 
that. 

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And Tea Kettle number two goes. 
That's not for kids. 

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No, that's for mommies and 
daddies. 

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I will say when we were kids and
we fasted with like little 

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little, I like the way mom did 
it. 

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She was like you fast until noon
and then you break the fast and 

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then you fast again till dinner 
and I was like so we eat 3 meals

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a day. 
So now. 

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Snacking in between, but it was 
very nice way to be like, you're

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involved too, but also you're 
too little. 

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Yeah, you need to eat. 
I mean, I, I don't, I mean, 

424
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again, Oasis. 
Oasis is doing it. 

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He's been doing it. 
Always, always. 

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Doesn't. 
Yeah, he does. 

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He's done a pretty, except for 
like a couple of days of a 

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dental appointment, he has done 
all of them, but you know, 

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nobody else is so. 
Due to dentist appointment, when

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you're fasting without all that 
water guzzling in the back of 

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your throat, you're breaking 
fast. 

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But that's why he's like, I 
can't fast they're. 

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You're like, you're like, you're
like Hordor in Game of Thrones. 

434
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Like you can't drink this. 
You can't. 

435
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Yeah, exactly in your. 
Mouth and you're like, why not 

436
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,640
like you're you're no, I'm not 
going there. 

437
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,120
Your throat like is like when 
you're trying not to swallow. 

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Oh my. 
Goodness. 

439
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Terrible. 
No, you can't. 

440
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,200
You have to. 
You can't fast that day. 

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00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,880
Yeah, technically a tiny bit of 
water passage is OK. 

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00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,760
But it's like more than a tiny 
bit with a dentist. 

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00:24:22,120 --> 00:24:26,120
No, a dentist, they're they're 
spraying you down, Yeah. 

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Especially pretty much. 
If that was like you cheating 

445
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your fast, you would be drinking
a glass of water. 

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You're like. 
It's have you guys seen that 

447
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video of it's like this Imam and
a caller calls in and it's in 

448
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and it's in Arabic, but there's 
the subtitles there and it's 

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like, do I still have fast if I 
accidentally slipped and water 

450
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,160
went in my mouth and an apple 
and a shawarma and. 

451
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,200
My favorite part of that was 
when he said I have 3 liters of 

452
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,640
water accidentally, just like 3 
liters. 

453
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,440
But it's like. 
It accidentally hit my mouth is 

454
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,800
my fast still, you know, and the
the the guy's face on the screen

455
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:12,560
is legit. 
Like are you? 

456
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:16,080
Done, are you? 
Did I really just get this call?

457
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,720
I remember being as a kid 
terrified to like brush my teeth

458
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,880
if any water was accidentally go
down my throat. 

459
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,280
I I break up my fast, you're so 
scared. 

460
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:31,280
You're like, oh, no, this time 
when I fasted, I was like, it is

461
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,840
what it is, Kuli. 
I have to Kuli has to do it. 

462
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,720
It's a little bit slips down 
there. 

463
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,240
If you're, if you're, if you're 
like, you know, doing a little 

464
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,200
floss and it goes down your 
throat, it's OK. 

465
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:46,320
Listen, God's my witness when I 
did do Rose I legit Listerine 

466
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,600
throughout the day. 
You can't do the Listerine, no. 

467
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,680
No, no, it was like this and 
then, you know, it took it out, 

468
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,720
but I looked. 
Through those that's. 

469
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,200
Cheating. 
Yeah, that's cheating. 

470
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:00,840
I didn't do that. 
That's. 

471
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,160
Eating something like. 
No, I. 

472
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,760
Just I was always scared with 
gum. 

473
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,400
Gum was always my scared thing. 
I was like, what if I just cheat

474
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,480
gum? 
No, you can't sugar you. 

475
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,720
What if it's sugar free gum? 
No, because you're still taking 

476
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,840
in. 
But you could do listen again, 

477
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,800
who am I to say no? 
I don't a do it #1 and #2 when I

478
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,840
say. 
Have gum during the profits 

479
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,240
time. 
No, how do they know? 

480
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:29,240
What does it say in in hadees 
like chewing? 

481
00:26:29,360 --> 00:26:31,520
Cause what's the limit? 
What if you use a meswok? 

482
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,800
What if you taste the wood? 
Isn't that tasting something? 

483
00:26:34,360 --> 00:26:36,440
Look it up. 
Look it up. 

484
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,400
His hands over there picking his
twos. 

485
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,280
He's. 
Picking. 

486
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,480
His little meswok. 
Look, Eid. 

487
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,160
Eid is upon us. 
In, in, in. 

488
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:51,600
AI have lights, I have lights, I
have a little mice and lights. 

489
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,400
Not lights. 
God forbid. 

490
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,840
OK. 
I have lice. 

491
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,960
God forbid now I'm itching my 
head. 

492
00:26:59,960 --> 00:27:01,720
No, but I have a a moon. 
Tree. 

493
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,800
Is it a tree or like a moon? 
No, no, it's a well, it looks 

494
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,600
like a, you know, it's like a 
fake Christmas tree in the shape

495
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:08,800
of a moon. 
It's a Christmas tree in the 

496
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:09,600
shape of a moon. 
Yeah. 

497
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:11,760
Except it's not what you mean 
like the Topper is. 

498
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,120
It is. 
It No, no, no. 

499
00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:15,960
It's a It's a It's a Christmas 
tree in the shape of a. 

500
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:20,760
It's a shrub with with lights 
and ornaments. 

501
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,240
What are the ornaments? 
Just golden, circular brown, 

502
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,520
yes. 
OK. 

503
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,200
And then it's not a tree. 
It's not a star on top of the 

504
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:30,840
tree, right? 
It's dangling down. 

505
00:27:31,120 --> 00:27:32,800
So it's a star that dangles 
down. 

506
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,280
Wow, that's pretty. 
Yes. 

507
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,800
So we have a seed tree. 
Did you put presents under the E

508
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:40,880
tree? 
We will be. 

509
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:41,960
I will. 
Yeah, no. 

510
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,880
Put envelopes in the E tree and 
and each envelope is part of 

511
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:46,560
their Ed. 
That's your. 

512
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,400
Gift Alamea will be bringing 
some gifts and for Bukhra Eid 

513
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,960
the Bukhra will be. 
I don't like Bukhra. 

514
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,760
Oh well. 
I like Bukhra Eid but I don't. 

515
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,960
I don't like bucket Eid. 
She isn't like the concept of 

516
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,120
bukra. 
Eve no, I don't like the idea 

517
00:28:04,120 --> 00:28:07,760
that we like send like cute 
pictures of Bukra and like we're

518
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,320
like, oh, happy celebrations and
like little stuffed like cute 

519
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:12,640
we're. 
Eating them. 

520
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,960
Listen, I don't, I don't I don't
I, I send. 

521
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,280
My it's sad. 
I send my bukra to a place that 

522
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,240
that. 
That's far away. 

523
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:25,280
That's far away and that take 
the poor people will eat from. 

524
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,080
Yes, that's how we should do it.
But hot take, the older I get, 

525
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,680
the more vegetarian I want to 
become. 

526
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:36,160
I just, it's grossing me out. 
I mean, it's grossing me out. 

527
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,080
I actually. 
Where it's coming from, what's 

528
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,440
going on, really. 
I don't like it, really. 

529
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,840
Yeah. 
It's like, the more I'm like, I 

530
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,600
think I could do it. 
I don't need to eat meat. 

531
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,920
Like I like a lot of vegetables.
Like I like mushrooms. 

532
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,680
Like if I need to substitute it 
to be like meaty, I don't care 

533
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,640
for burgers or like, I don't, 
you know, like I like, I just 

534
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,360
don't care. 
Like I like me, but I'm like the

535
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,800
older I get, the more I'm like, 
I don't Do I need this? 

536
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,520
No. 
The only beef, I like chicken, 

537
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,200
fine. 
I'll eat chicken, but like the 

538
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,760
only beef type I like is when I 
go to like a Korean BBQ or 

539
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:16,120
Japanese BBQ place and it's like
those things like marinated. 

540
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,400
I love that. 
Yeah, you know, you're not a 

541
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:20,720
beef eater. 
I know. 

542
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,760
But Zan, yes. 
No, I was just saying because 

543
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,880
it's funny you say that because 
I legitimately had that same 

544
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:31,880
thought couple months ago too 
where I was like I could because

545
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:37,320
Merva she is a huge beef eater, 
which is weird. 

546
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,560
It's she actually doesn't like 
chicken at all. 

547
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,920
She just prefers beef which is 
fine. 

548
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,280
But I to me, I've never been a 
beef eater. 

549
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,400
I've always been a chicken 
eater. 

550
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,160
I always prefer chicken right? 
Yeah. 

551
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:52,360
So it's like balance on the two 
and on top of the fact where a 

552
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,080
couple months ago I was like, 
you know what, just like you, I 

553
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,440
could probably be a vegetarian. 
I'll be completely fine. 

554
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,680
I don't think I'll be fine. 
I love veggies. 

555
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:04,440
I love my vegetables. 
Yeah, like if I have a piece of 

556
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:09,840
meat and like if I want steak, 
let's say I want steak, like I 

557
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:15,240
want really good delectable, 
like it's worth my cut of steak 

558
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,320
or else like I don't care about 
it. 

559
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,080
Chicken, I just don't care. 
Like I'll eat chicken because 

560
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,440
it's there, but it's not like 
I'm eating it. 

561
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,440
Like this is so delicious to me.
I don't know. 

562
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,880
It's just kind of like there 
with you as a placeholder. 

563
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,880
So I think if I can make 
something delectable with 

564
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:36,480
vegetable, like I know you don't
like mushrooms, chums, I really 

565
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,040
like mushrooms. 
Something. 

566
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,080
As it get older. 
I don't mind them. 

567
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,160
It has to be cooked in a certain
way though. 

568
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:46,520
Like I can't have Interestingly 
enough, I can have like, I don't

569
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,320
know, I I can have mushrooms 
though. 

570
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,600
It just has to be cooked in a 
very certain way. 

571
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,480
So like I really like different 
kinds of mushrooms. 

572
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,160
Like there's like Lion's maid 
mushroom, which if you saute it 

573
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:02,800
in butter, like it tastes like, 
tastes kind of like meat and 

574
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,240
it's really good. 
And so like, I'm kind of like, I

575
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:09,080
could just switch. 
But I think so much of our 

576
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:14,080
culture, as evidenced by Buckra 
Eve, is surrounded by the 

577
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,440
consumption of meat. 
It's just hard to to step away 

578
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,400
from that. 
I mean, there's certain things, 

579
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,280
like could I kind of keep it 
away for a lot? 

580
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,720
Yes, I think I could keep it 
away. 

581
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,680
I think eventually I'd be like, 
I just want to eat some sort of 

582
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,320
chicken or something, or beef. 
Or I think I could do once a 

583
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,080
week. 
Yeah. 

584
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,760
Oh yeah, yeah. 
Once a week I could do it. 

585
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,880
I probably cook more meat for 
the sake of my kids. 

586
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,800
The kids protein. 
Yeah, it's hard to find protein 

587
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:44,920
outside of meat in like that 
isn't like artificial proteins, 

588
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:46,440
which I'm not the biggest fan of
either. 

589
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,920
Well, I also am like, maybe we 
as adults can find protein in 

590
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,000
different ways like you have, 
like, I don't know, you'll find 

591
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,240
it your eggs or whatever. 
You'll find different ways you 

592
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,520
can get protein in there. 
Like I can tell you, and not all

593
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,600
kids are picky. 
My kids are picky and I'm not 

594
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,760
going to be able to find as many
items that they're going to eat 

595
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,920
that has that. 
And look, sometimes a McDonald's

596
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,720
chicken nugget, the worst kind 
of meat there is, is the most 

597
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,560
delectable. 
Is the most delectable and 

598
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,040
sometimes I'm craving one of 
those things so. 

599
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,480
Yeah, sometimes I want that, 
that dank, that Mcdank, you 

600
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,840
know? 
Yeah, no, that was me with 

601
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,880
McDonald's. 
I had McDonald's on Friday too, 

602
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,720
because I was like, I haven't 
had McDonald's in like a year, I

603
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,720
feel like. 
So I was like, I'm going to just

604
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,640
go all out. 
I got my Mcchicken, I got my 

605
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,920
chicken nookies. 
I was eating on the car where 

606
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,640
I'd back home. 
Oh, that's great. 

607
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,560
You know, one thing that I did 
let go, if anything, and not I 

608
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,760
want to say completely let go, 
but I've been slowly letting it 

609
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,680
go is cheese. 
It was something where I love 

610
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,560
cheese. 
I love, love, love cheese. 

611
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:52,440
But then for some reason in the 
last year, it was funny cuz a 

612
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,120
podcast I listened to, they 
brought it up too. 

613
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,000
They're like, well, what would 
happen if you just not eat 

614
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,560
pizza? 
And I'm like, I could actually, 

615
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,280
I'm OK with not eating pizza for
the next couple years and I'm OK

616
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,520
with that in terms of like just 
cheese products and like, and 

617
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,520
like recently even with the 
McDonald's or even with the my 

618
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,040
own burgers that I've been 
making, no cheese. 

619
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,760
And it's kind of like, I just, I
like it. 

620
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,160
I like the fact that, you know, 
you're getting rid of some of 

621
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,200
the stuff and I don't know, it 
just it's I. 

622
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,520
Don't know, I do like my cheese.
I'm. 

623
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,080
Not talking about just pizzas or
something like that. 

624
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,560
I'm talking about even just 
taking, again, something I have 

625
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,120
in my fridge is like string 
cheese. 

626
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,640
So even like taking a string 
cheese and eating that like I 

627
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,920
like that. 
I like cheese too much to 

628
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:40,880
eliminate it, but I think that 
like heavy cheeses I do avoid 

629
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:45,640
like I don't have like heavy Mac
and cheeses, no or like anything

630
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,080
like that. 
No. 

631
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:50,120
Anyway, this is this is all just
like preference at this point. 

632
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,360
All of this came to be because 
of Summer's Eid tree, and it's 

633
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:57,360
because we're talking about Eid.
Yes, and and and Rams on. 

634
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:00,440
And we're talking about the 
opposite of fasting, which is 

635
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:00,920
what? 
What? 

636
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,280
What would we rather consume 
straight? 

637
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,360
Up, exactly, Straight up 
gluttony. 

638
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,440
You're so right. 
It's what we're doing. 

639
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,840
God forgive us. 
And our fasters, if you're 

640
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,560
listening, I'm. 
So sorry, we're not the role 

641
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,679
models for you. 
No, I would exit out of this 

642
00:34:21,679 --> 00:34:23,560
pocket. 
No, don't exit out. 

643
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,480
You need to understand that 
there are people out there who 

644
00:34:26,679 --> 00:34:28,600
that is just 'cause we don't 
fast. 

645
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,960
You know, Zan, you did some 
amna, I did none. 

646
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,639
I haven't done any in the last 
many years now. 

647
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:42,000
But you're. 30 Let's not like 
add 30 to my age from 18. 

648
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:43,560
Guys, it's been a, it's been a 
long. 

649
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,000
But it's been a minute. 
All right? 

650
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:49,840
It's been a minute. 
But let's add 20, all right? 

651
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,560
Yeah, let's add 20. 
Let's not add, you know. 30-40 

652
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:59,680
years it's been for birthday. 
But that doesn't mean we're bad 

653
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,600
people. 
It doesn't mean we're bad 

654
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,240
Muslims and and, and no, it 
doesn't. 

655
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,400
I believe full fact. 
At the end of the day, all you 

656
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:12,680
got to be is a good person and 
my. 

657
00:35:12,720 --> 00:35:16,040
Relationship within it comes 
from within. 

658
00:35:16,240 --> 00:35:18,920
It comes from within. 
It comes from within. 

659
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,720
In the movie Huck, we're not 
going to do a Bollywood 

660
00:35:22,720 --> 00:35:28,920
breakdown, she says. 
That you cannot determine my 

661
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,200
personal relationship with my 
God. 

662
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,280
Exactly. 
Exactly. 

663
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,080
Exactly. 
It's a very good movie guys, I 

664
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,480
would highly recommend even 
though we will not cover it on 

665
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,360
this AMNA. 
Doesn't want to do a Bollywood 

666
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,920
breakdown of the movie Hut 
'cause it's too sad but I heard 

667
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,200
it's amazing to go watch it. 
Because if we, if we talked 

668
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,480
about it, we really couldn't 
make too many jokes. 

669
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,680
But maybe sometimes it's not a 
bad thing to not have a joke. 

670
00:35:55,080 --> 00:36:00,360
On this podcast, I never. 
Never. 

671
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,400
Never, never speaking. 
No, but. 

672
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:07,960
But if anything, I do love, I 
love Ramzan and E just for the 

673
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,680
because it is our Christmas, I 
guess you would call it as the 

674
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,080
equivalent. 
It is like leading up to like a 

675
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,200
holiday. 
It feels, you know, we have 

676
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,120
family come together. 
We always see each other every 

677
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,440
year because of it. 
You know, it's, it's I like the,

678
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,280
the family aspect. 
I love that we all get together 

679
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,640
going to, you know, where we, I 
don't even know if we're going 

680
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,400
to be talking about Iftar 
stories, right? 

681
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,920
But like Iftar stories, knowing 
that we would go to the Masjid 

682
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,280
every weekend and we get to see 
like family and friends that we 

683
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,760
haven't seen in a long time and 
be like, oh, it's all just 

684
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,440
camaraderie. 
We're all coming together and it

685
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:49,120
all culminates to Eid, you know?
I will say the best Eid I've had

686
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:55,480
best eaten the Maz that I've I 
was present for had no family. 

687
00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:00,960
It had drama. 
Damn, OK, that was the only 

688
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:02,720
where were we that. 
Was by myself. 

689
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,600
None of my siblings showed up. 
It was me, mom and dad. 

690
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,760
OK? 
And all my siblings were gone 

691
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,000
somewhere. 
I don't know why but they 

692
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,040
weren't there and that was the 
one eaten. 

693
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:17,480
The maz where a woman confronted
her husband's mistress. 

694
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,040
I remember this but I wasn't 
there. 

695
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:25,480
Before the namaz. 
Before the namaz we saw tappers 

696
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:30,800
being smacked. 
OK, she started yelling in 

697
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,200
Punjabi. 
Not to hate on the Punjabis, but

698
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,000
it was Punjabi. 
Started yelling. 

699
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,440
It makes it more Masalai. 
Calling her a whore. 

700
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:44,120
Kutti kamini. 
Even worse word in the prayer 

701
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:48,520
area. 
This was smacking this woman 

702
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:52,760
being like you slept with my 
husband and I was sitting there 

703
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,320
like a kid on Christmas like I 
was just like, this is the best 

704
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,400
thing I've ever seen in my life.
Except we we weren't eating. 

705
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:03,600
It was before the namaz 
happened. 

706
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:08,400
They were escorted out and my 
mom was appalled. 

707
00:38:08,720 --> 00:38:10,480
My dad thought it was the best 
thing ever. 

708
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,480
I never texting my summer Sabina
gotcha immediately being like 

709
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,720
guess what you guys missed and 
they were very upset I. 

710
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,720
Remember this because I remember
being like why this is I 

711
00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:25,240
probably was married and doing 
ES up in with my in laws. 

712
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,080
I think you were at college or 
something. 

713
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,960
It was before, like maybe it was
very early, maybe you're right, 

714
00:38:30,240 --> 00:38:34,960
but no one was there. 
And I saw this with my Minona's.

715
00:38:35,720 --> 00:38:37,760
Oh nice, I saw it. 
That's insane. 

716
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:41,840
They were a catfight broke out. 
It was awesome. 

717
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,840
Oh my God, and. 
You know, I really think it 

718
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:48,320
captured me as a person that 
that was like the best Eid ever,

719
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:52,520
for it was not the 
wholesomeness. 

720
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,320
I have a similar story, but I 
guess it didn't happen during 

721
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,120
Ramzan or it might have No, no, 
no, no, it was definitely during

722
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,560
Juma namas. 
So it's it's not related, but in

723
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,400
it's similar in the sense that I
just remember being in that 

724
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,200
we're all so you it happened 
before the prayer for you. 

725
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,000
It was during the prayer for us.
So we're. 

726
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,600
Sitting. 
During the namas, we're doing 

727
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,920
the namas and the lady comes in 
and she starts yelling and it 

728
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,680
was a white lady. 
She starts yelling and screaming

729
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:22,160
being like who's the MFR that 
parked in my part in my driveway

730
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,240
and da da, da, da da. 
And nobody's obviously 

731
00:39:24,240 --> 00:39:26,280
everyone's doing namas. 
So we couldn't nobody saying 

732
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:29,520
anything, right? 
Your mom just keeps, he had like

733
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,200
this like blinders on. 
I'm just like, I got to get this

734
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:33,040
done. 
I got to get this done. 

735
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:36,840
But then she comes up to the 
imam and starts like shaking 

736
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,400
him. 
I've been like, how come 

737
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,760
nobody's talking to me? 
How come nobody wants to talk to

738
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,000
me right now? 
I need somebody to address this 

739
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:47,320
problem right now, right now. 
And then one of the uncles then 

740
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,920
broke his namaz, his prayer to 
didn't be like, hey, come with 

741
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:52,240
me, come with me. 
We'll talk to the side. 

742
00:39:52,240 --> 00:39:54,000
And they brought her off. 
But the fact that she was just 

743
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,680
shaking the imam. 
I mean. 

744
00:39:55,720 --> 00:39:56,560
That's true. 
Like going. 

745
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:02,640
She's she was a bigot, she's 
bigoted and like ignorant and 

746
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,920
uninformed. 
And that's also where I 

747
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,240
understand you don't wanna break
namaz, but that's where namaz is

748
00:40:08,240 --> 00:40:10,120
interrupted. 
No one's paying attention. 

749
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,760
You need to break and handle a 
situation. 

750
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:16,960
No one's a Buddhist monk, OK? 
No one is. 

751
00:40:17,240 --> 00:40:20,200
No one is in a state of Nirvana 
when they're reading. 

752
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,720
None of those people. 
And you're Masjid was sitting 

753
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,240
doing namaz and like full 
meditative focus. 

754
00:40:27,240 --> 00:40:29,480
No. 
And everyone were When 

755
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:34,160
somebody's walking in and saying
who, what is in my parking spot,

756
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,720
that's gonna break that 
meditation. 

757
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:41,280
No, that's what I'm saying. 
You're no one has the will 

758
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,720
except people who are highly 
skilled and none of those people

759
00:40:45,720 --> 00:40:48,280
were present at that namaz. 
We don't have that. 

760
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,600
That was not there. 
No. 

761
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:53,680
That's no, no, that is, that is 
crazy. 

762
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,080
No, this was before namaz. 
They had the decency, she had 

763
00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:00,280
the decency to confront before 
the namaz, not during the namaz 

764
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,440
not or after, because she knew 
that we would all want to 

765
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,080
celebrate after. 
So she she had the decency to 

766
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:10,400
confront before during Ramzan so
that she could be forgiven for. 

767
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:15,920
It wasn't Ramzan, it was Eid. 
The beginning, sorry, before no,

768
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,520
but it was EE. 
The laws, yeah, but yeah. 

769
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:25,040
Well I have a story that is E 
related that I found on Reddit. 

770
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:28,280
So this is a toxic Pakistani 
mother-in-law. 

771
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:34,400
Ruined all my EDS. 
OK all it says all but I can say

772
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:35,920
that I don't think it's been 
all. 

773
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,000
So let's go into this. 
Impossible. 

774
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,600
It's your mother-in-law. 
This was. 

775
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,800
Written and so I've been married
for two years now. 

776
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,120
It was a love marriage and we 
were both very happy. 

777
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:51,120
Before the wedding we decided we
would live separately in my town

778
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:56,160
due to my job instead of his. 
His town 3 hours away right? 

779
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:59,080
OK makes sense. 
His parents are very old and 

780
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,080
weren't happy about it but 
eventually agreed. 

781
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,480
My brother-in-law lives with his
wife and kids in the in laws 

782
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,440
house where we also have our own
room to stay for visits. 

783
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,680
After the wedding. 
My mother-in-law started being 

784
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:14,440
weirdly attached to things she 
gifted me and always wanted to 

785
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,440
decide when and what I would 
wear. 

786
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:21,400
Usually she'd demand I'd wear 
clothes she gifted me nothing 

787
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,040
else in the first few months. 
I obeyed. 

788
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,560
I'm the only daughter-in-law of 
three who grew up in Europe, has

789
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,000
a master's degree and works. 
Essentially what she's saying is

790
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:32,760
her two sister in laws are a 
bunch of Jahil's. 

791
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:36,640
The others came from Pakistan 
and don't work. 

792
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,040
Legit. 
That's pretty much what she's 

793
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,920
saying right there. 
I don't like that, but continue.

794
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,560
I don't like her, her framing 
there that I'm the only one 

795
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:46,360
that's educated. 
Yeah, that's essentially what 

796
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,680
she's saying, but let's. 
Little It's a little ridiculous.

797
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,560
After a few times I decided to 
wear whatever I wanted to 

798
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:58,920
because that's how I was raised.
Time passes by and after 7 or 8 

799
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,240
months on her first Eid, my 
mother-in-law comes to our room,

800
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,520
doesn't knock, bursts in and 
tells me what to wear and brings

801
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,840
the gold she has gifted me but 
was always kept in her bank 

802
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,040
locker. 
So this is gold that was gifted 

803
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:16,160
to her, never in her possession.
Mother-in-law kept it in her own

804
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,200
bank locker. 
I ended up wearing a different 

805
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,440
dress and only the earrings but 
not the necklace. 

806
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,720
So mother in law's in a bad mood
the whole day and makes the fuss

807
00:43:25,720 --> 00:43:27,320
about how I didn't listen to 
her. 

808
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,680
After the event we are ready to 
go home so I take off the gold 

809
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,760
she gifted me and put it in my 
bag. 

810
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,400
When saying bye she asked where 
the gold was and how I had the 

811
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,880
audacity to pack it without 
asking her. 

812
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:44,120
She calls me a thief the next 
day and continues to insult me 

813
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:48,040
and my parents by calling us 
cheap thieves who stole her gold

814
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,960
and her son. 
She continues to say I probably 

815
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,160
wear mini skirts. 
I mean who cares. 

816
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,440
And then I'm so and then I'm so 
buttamiz. 

817
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:02,120
I didn't show her the other 
presents I got as from my 

818
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:06,480
wedding. 
As time passes I forgive her and

819
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,400
the family dynamics are starting
to normalize. 

820
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:13,160
After one year of this for the 
forgiveness I decided to give 

821
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:15,600
back all the clothes and gold 
she's ever gifted me because 

822
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,200
they were at that point an 
insult to me. 

823
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,960
She constantly tried to convince
me that I should wear it but I 

824
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,320
always refused. 
On the next Eid comes around and

825
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,320
she wants she's trying to force 
me to wear the gold. 

826
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:31,800
I refuse and she loses it again 
and has a huge tantrum by having

827
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,560
a manic episode. 
She then goes on to insult 

828
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,960
insult me in front of the entire
family, about 20 people, and 

829
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,920
then throws me out of the house 
and tells me to leave because 

830
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,560
I've disrespected her. 
Where OK, where's her husband 

831
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:48,560
and all this so. 
I went down and I asked. 

832
00:44:48,720 --> 00:44:51,280
Somebody asked that question, 
the obvious question here, 

833
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,400
where's your husband? 
Has he mysteriously disappeared?

834
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,040
Yeah. 
And so. 

835
00:44:56,240 --> 00:44:59,320
Like why hasn't he stepped in? 
Apparently she love marriage. 

836
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:03,240
She wrote back and said very 
supportive and helps me keep in 

837
00:45:03,240 --> 00:45:05,200
my distance and protects me like
a wall. 

838
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,200
Should have mentioned that. 
But yeah, obviously it does take

839
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,840
a toll on him as well to be 
stuck in between like that. 

840
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,600
Somebody asked. 
First of all, the person who. 

841
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,080
Why? 
Why would you ever see that 

842
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:20,280
person again? 
Am I allowed to say the the the 

843
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,080
username of the person that 
asked the question? 

844
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,000
Yeah, I think so. 
Yeah, I think so. 

845
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:34,680
Kayla pela Mela tayla Oh. 
God, so classic. 

846
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,560
So then it's asked, does he 
stand up for you when you're 

847
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,800
being disrespected in his house 
by his family? 

848
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:45,880
So that was not answered, but 
essentially it sounds like does.

849
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,920
Maybe half heartedly. 
So now this mother-in-law has 

850
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,320
been crying about how the start 
in law of hers has ruined the 

851
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,720
family and cannot forget, you 
know a tiny mistake of hers. 

852
00:45:56,720 --> 00:45:58,440
I don't want to ever see her 
again. 

853
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,440
What can I do to avoid? 
I don't know, maybe never go. 

854
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,120
I mean, that is what it is. 
Divorce your husband. 

855
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:09,360
Divorce your husband. 
If he's not, he needs to be the 

856
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,960
one to say we're not seeing my 
mom anymore. 

857
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:15,120
Yeah, you can see all she does 
is disrespect you. 

858
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,360
And if he can't do that and he's
like, no, it's my mom, he's my 

859
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,120
mom, but your mom threw me out 
of the house. 

860
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:23,440
That's crazy. 
Correct. 

861
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,400
That's my thing, she threw out. 
Of the house. 

862
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:28,640
What kind of soy boy is this 
guy? 

863
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,400
You know, like he should. 
Soy boy he. 

864
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,920
Has to like, speak up, right? 
Why? 

865
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,320
Yeah, like. 
It sounds like he does based off

866
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:43,280
of her responsive like the. 
Wall I don't think I think maybe

867
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:47,200
he's like, what are you doing? 
But then if you're still going 

868
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,680
and still doing the same thing 
over, like, what is it? 

869
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,960
If like the a person who does 
the same thing over again and 

870
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,160
expects a different result is 
insane. 

871
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,080
Yeah, right. 
Like it's insane. 

872
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,280
Like why are you? 
Fool me once, shame on you, fool

873
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:07,040
me twice kind of thing. 
Yeah, So I'm, I'm just saying 

874
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,080
like he should have like this 
should be a no. 

875
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,680
I know we like talk a lot about 
no contact and we have to, but 

876
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,280
this is ridiculous. 
Basically, it's complete busy 

877
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,680
over and over again. 
No, it is a limit. 

878
00:47:20,240 --> 00:47:22,840
Like if she was just like, oh, 
like only on holidays, she's 

879
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,800
like, oh, maybe wear this, 
'cause I got this for you and 

880
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,960
you wore it once in a while, but
she was never screaming at you 

881
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,200
or whatever. 
That's one thing. 

882
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,560
But she just constantly berating
you. 

883
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,000
Yeah, yeah, you're right. 
I think that at the end of the 

884
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,120
day, there's only so much a 
person can handle. 

885
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:41,240
I think that if somebody was 
constantly like, if they even 

886
00:47:41,240 --> 00:47:44,200
burst into my room like that, 
I'd be like, Oh my goodness, get

887
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,800
out. 
Yeah. 

888
00:47:47,240 --> 00:47:48,920
Bursting. 
The bursting in the room was the

889
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,200
best, the worst thing. 
You're like, what are you doing?

890
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,720
Yeah, exactly. 
Like are you OK? 

891
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,880
Are you but also you're a love 
marriage you'd never like? 

892
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,920
That's also another thing like 
This is why you have to know 

893
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:04,440
your person's family to some 
extent. 

894
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:08,560
Yes, I agree. 
And this is where I actually 

895
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:12,640
agree with that 100% on do you 
have to know to some extent the 

896
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,000
family that you're going to be 
going into as both sides 

897
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,560
because? 
Both sides, because if they're 

898
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:22,040
if they're close to their 
family, then you definitely need

899
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:25,440
to if they don't talk to their 
family ever, whatever, that's 

900
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,200
different. 
But if you're again, if they're 

901
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,320
involved in their your, their 
family, you will be involved in 

902
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:35,120
their family. 
There's actually a so damn a 

903
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:38,160
really good drama out right now 
and I know it's like, oh, box 

904
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,240
sunny drama, baby budgie. 
No baby, not baby budgie. 

905
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,720
By the way, Zen, there's a 
there's a drama called Baby 

906
00:48:44,720 --> 00:48:48,000
Budgie. 
But I want to tell my mom about 

907
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,160
it. 
Your mom, she probably knows. 

908
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:50,840
No, your mom. 
Probably knows about it. 

909
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:52,680
She. 
Probably has seen it. 

910
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:53,560
And has seen it. 
Yeah. 

911
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:57,400
My mom like, loved that drama. 
Yeah, she loves baby. 

912
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,800
She still watches. 
There's like season 2 happening 

913
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:00,760
right now. 
Baby budgie. 

914
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,680
That's how popular it is. 
And Bucks. 

915
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,640
And dramas. 
You know, watch the whole thing 

916
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,360
with mom. 
Sabina Yeah, watch it, baby 

917
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,400
Budgie. 
Yeah, she watched the whole 

918
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:14,600
thing. 
I was like, I'd rather not watch

919
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:18,040
Baby Budgie please. 
There are so many better dramas 

920
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,000
out there than Baby Budgie. 
Anyway, so. 

921
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:24,120
There's a drama though called 
and it's actually really good. 

922
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,840
So if you it's kind of 
frustrates you so much though 

923
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:29,880
when you watch it, but it's a 
really, it's like it's showing a

924
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,560
good storyline here. 
It's called Kafil and I didn't 

925
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,080
know what that meant, so I had 
to look it up. 

926
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:38,240
But it's about it's it's I think
it means protector. 

927
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:42,400
So it's like starts off in like 
apparently like early 90s type 

928
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:45,120
thing, maybe even earlier than 
that. 

929
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,320
You know, it's a dad and he has 
three kids and, you know, a 

930
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,960
family, mom, dad, mother-in-law,
whatever. 

931
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:52,600
They all live in the same house.
Not mother-in-law. 

932
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,760
His mother. 
The dad chose to be, he has 2 

933
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,160
girls and a son. 
And the dad chose to be just 

934
00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:00,280
really good to his kids and like
really loves them. 

935
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:04,360
Really all of this and she goes 
to like some college parties, 

936
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,080
sees this guy mean girl, 
whatever. 

937
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:11,040
He writes this little note to 
her and it's like that's it's 

938
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,960
just a little note. 
But the mom I guess found the 

939
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:17,200
note and like got freaked out. 
This some like that she got her 

940
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,480
married to. 
Her. 

941
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:23,760
Really good friend's brother and
they never looked into the 

942
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,640
family 'cause they were like, 
oh, this is your friend's 

943
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,360
brother. 
Your friend is really good. 

944
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,880
She lives in America. 
She's always talked so highly of

945
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,840
her family. 
Don't need to look into it. 

946
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,960
Well, the brother ends up being 
like a terrible person and she 

947
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,840
stays with him. 
And the father is like, you 

948
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,800
know, you see him like, no, you 
get a divorce. 

949
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,360
Like you need to get out of this
marriage. 

950
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,000
So why didn't? 
Why didn't she? 

951
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:51,200
She didn't because she was too 
afraid to to get out of it. 

952
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:54,040
And then she ended up getting 
pregnant and now they kind of 

953
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,960
fast forwarded to current, 
present day. 

954
00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,920
It's pissing me. 
Off, I know, but it gets you so 

955
00:50:59,960 --> 00:51:02,480
angry because. 
You're why are you having kids 

956
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,560
with this person? 
Exactly why are you having kids 

957
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,240
but I. 
You're like, now you're you're 

958
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,720
adding to your own misery. 
Your father gave you the 

959
00:51:08,720 --> 00:51:10,960
permission to get divorced. 
Just get divorced. 

960
00:51:11,240 --> 00:51:13,880
So you see this thing so 
frustrating. 

961
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,520
She ends up you see like 20 
years go by type situation. 

962
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,000
I don't know how many years, but
it's current. 

963
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:22,720
It's present day, essentially 
2026 is what they're showing. 

964
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:27,200
Still husband's terrible. 
She's trying to, you know, live 

965
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:30,760
life, has four kids. 
But you know, what's crazy is 

966
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,320
the the kids are obviously in 
this. 

967
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,680
They see this trauma. 
They have a lot of terrible 

968
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,040
things they've seen in front of 
them. 

969
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,040
They are like begging their mom 
to get out of it. 

970
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,400
They're like, we can, you know, 
help. 

971
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,560
Now the son is stand, you know, 
she has a son. 

972
00:51:45,720 --> 00:51:50,280
He stands up for her. 
But you know, many comments I 

973
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:53,440
was seeing, like when you, when 
I watch it and there's so many 

974
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:57,040
comments from like the YouTube 
or whatever, how many people are

975
00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:02,080
saying this is the story of my 
own mom of like sticking in a 

976
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,880
marriage because of maybe 
pressure from family, you know, 

977
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,600
not knowing what to do. 
What would happen if I got out? 

978
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:12,120
What would people say? 
So many people are like this 

979
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,040
drama showing the story of my 
own mom. 

980
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,840
And when I watch it, I'm like, 
oh, why are you in this? 

981
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:18,600
You're educated, you can get 
out. 

982
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,520
Your dad was, you know, they 
show now and present day the 

983
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:27,000
dad's passed away and he was her
protector so. 

984
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,200
It's very sad. 
And I mean, like, this is now 

985
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:35,280
getting into like, why you stay 
with people like this and all of

986
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,120
that stuff. 
But no, yeah, no. 

987
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,560
Why are we talking about this 
drama though? 

988
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,120
But we're talking about the 
drama cause. 

989
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:43,280
Yeah, why? 
Just go and get why, Why? 

990
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,200
How did this come in up? 
Again, well, 'cause you 

991
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,760
mentioned like, you know, get 
out of it or know the family. 

992
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:49,640
Know the family. 
Know to the family. 

993
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,880
And in this case, that was a 
huge part of what she said to 

994
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,360
her parents and her mom 
especially. 

995
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:59,320
She was like, you didn't look 
into the family when she when 

996
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:02,720
she first got married, right? 
You see her having panic attacks

997
00:53:02,720 --> 00:53:04,000
actually. 
So she's like, you didn't look 

998
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:09,600
into the people that I got 
married to and you just went 

999
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:12,480
with the word of, you know, but 
that's. 

1000
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:16,720
Tragic because she was. 
It was an arranged marriage in 

1001
00:53:16,720 --> 00:53:18,760
this drama. 
That's an arranged marriage. 

1002
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:22,440
OK, so she. 
That's someone else that failed 

1003
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,600
her. 
Yes, that's her parents failing 

1004
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,240
her. 
This woman, this highly educated

1005
00:53:27,240 --> 00:53:30,240
master's degree European woman 
that you're talking about in 

1006
00:53:30,240 --> 00:53:35,160
this Reddit story, She'll Clay, 
who says she's very independent.

1007
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,280
You know, it's, it's easy to say
you're independent. 

1008
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,440
You're gonna marry for love. 
But like, this is part of it. 

1009
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:45,240
You can't hide. 
That's where I'm like, now you, 

1010
00:53:45,240 --> 00:53:49,160
you're you to to say that this 
was out of your hands is also 

1011
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:50,920
infantilizing that person. 
Yeah. 

1012
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:56,120
Like, you had the ability to be 
like, meet this woman beforehand

1013
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,920
and see, like, cat, like, no 
one's perfect from the 

1014
00:53:59,920 --> 00:54:00,800
beginning. 
No. 

1015
00:54:01,240 --> 00:54:03,280
Especially if she was like, oh, 
this is my gold. 

1016
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,080
I'm going to give you this gold 
or oh, please wear this or wear 

1017
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:06,840
that. 
I don't know. 

1018
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:08,480
Wouldn't that have caught up to 
you? 

1019
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,400
You would think. 
You would think, unless they 

1020
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:12,840
never really had much 
interaction. 

1021
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,640
But you would think I guess. 
I guess, but that's that's the 

1022
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:18,200
thing. 
Well, it's this. 

1023
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,880
Heart. 
That's a bad Eid, yeah. 

1024
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:22,600
That's a. 
Really bad. 

1025
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,120
That's a really bad Eid. 
It's a bad Eid. 

1026
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,640
That is a bad Eid. 
Have you witnessed the craziness

1027
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:29,560
though? 
Pretty good Eid. 

1028
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,040
When it doesn't involve you, 
it's great. 

1029
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,800
When you're watching it happen, 
you see that girl get kicked out

1030
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,640
and you're like, Oh my God, 
yeah. 

1031
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,400
Text text, text text text. 
Text text, text text. 

1032
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,760
Look what I just saw, except 
that not that girl. 

1033
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:48,840
Sorry to that girl. 
Oh my goodness. 

1034
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,000
All right, this was a very sad 
note. 

1035
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,640
Thanks, Tom. 
You know what I realized? 

1036
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,760
You know what I realized? 
As we get older, our parents do 

1037
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:58,480
this, too. 
They're always like, do you want

1038
00:54:58,480 --> 00:54:59,840
to hear something? 
And you're like, what? 

1039
00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:01,840
And they tell you the saddest 
thing you've ever. 

1040
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,800
Heard no, but this drama's 
really always like. 

1041
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:07,000
Like, listen, I'm just saying 
they're always, they always tell

1042
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,720
you that they're like this 
person died and you're like, OK,

1043
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,240
thank you for telling me that 
this person died. 

1044
00:55:12,240 --> 00:55:15,160
They're like, I it's sad. 
I feel like as we get older, we 

1045
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,480
just, we think about the sad 
things more and we're like, hey,

1046
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,280
did you hear about this terribly
tragic thing that I watched 

1047
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:23,800
instead of like a very happy 
thing? 

1048
00:55:24,720 --> 00:55:26,840
OK, well right now I'm catch. 
Yourself. 

1049
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,680
Doing this drama is not baby 
budgie, but it's really good, 

1050
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:32,440
OK? 
Nothing can be baby buddy. 

1051
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,240
Nothing can obviously be baby 
buddy if you have everybody 

1052
00:55:35,240 --> 00:55:38,360
watching this drama, but this 
drama is actually really good 

1053
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,200
and now we're at a really 
pivotal point. 

1054
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,160
OK, I hope for that woman's 
sake. 

1055
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,400
She gets out of that marriage. 
She does. 

1056
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:52,160
In the drama, she does right, 
But on a happier note, we have a

1057
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:56,040
few movies on the docket for 
Bollywood Breakdown. 

1058
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:57,640
Oh yeah. 
Break it down. 

1059
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:02,840
Oh yeah. 1 It's a classic 
because we always love the 

1060
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,600
classics. 
Here it's Kuch Kuch Hota. 

1061
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:07,960
We got, which I'm very excited 
for. 

1062
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,440
I've that it is a movie I 
haven't seen since I was a kid, 

1063
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:15,080
so I am excited. 
I just recently watched it like 

1064
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:16,840
6 months I was. 
Going to say I watched it like 

1065
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:18,360
yeah. 
I've only seen it once. 

1066
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,280
Only seen it once. 
It's so good. 

1067
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:25,200
I love that movie and then the 
next one I said. 

1068
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:28,320
I thought personally we should 
try and watch a new movie 

1069
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:32,080
because we should. 
We should have some commentary 

1070
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,760
on some of the new films on the 
block. 

1071
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,360
Yeah, we're leaving out a big 
portion of our audience from 

1072
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,680
India that listens to us and 
they just. 

1073
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,120
Listens to us from India. 
That's what I need to know. 

1074
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,960
They probably hate us there. 
Are there are listeners out 

1075
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:47,080
there? 
There's there's some. 

1076
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,600
They're probably like, look, who
are these ullus that are talking

1077
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:50,880
serious. 
But yeah. 

1078
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:55,720
Who keep re shredding the same 
old 2000s Bollywood movies, you 

1079
00:56:55,720 --> 00:56:57,240
know it's like. 
Well, maybe that's why we're 

1080
00:56:57,240 --> 00:57:00,720
doing a 2025. 
We're gonna do a 2025, baby. 

1081
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:02,560
I think it's 2025. 
Yeah. 

1082
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,200
Thunder. 
I don't want to watch that 

1083
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:06,600
movie. 
I'm gonna say it right now. 

1084
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,160
We have to. 
We have to. 

1085
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:10,000
No we have to full anti fox 
song. 

1086
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:12,320
It is. 
And that's why we're gonna. 

1087
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:14,480
We're gonna knock. 
It they're trying to like, tell 

1088
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,080
me what Liotti is about, they 
don't even listen. 

1089
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:18,480
How do they know what Liotti is 
about? 

1090
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:20,600
I know even more about Liotti 
than they do. 

1091
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,840
This is the commentary you got 
to bring to the breakdown. 

1092
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:25,280
And it's so topical, especially 
what's. 

1093
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:27,480
Going on then you hang out this.
Is gonna be great. 

1094
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:28,680
Is it me? 
Listen. 

1095
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:31,920
On top of that what Bollywood 
movie is not anti fox on right 

1096
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:33,600
now to be? 
Every single one of them. 

1097
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,600
They're a bunch of them. 
Who says that's why? 

1098
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,160
Yeah. 
So we got to cover. 

1099
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:39,360
We got to do a little bit of 
covering. 

1100
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:44,120
This was like the biggest top 
grossing film of the year, OK. 

1101
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,200
And it does. 
The one song that they 

1102
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:49,640
introduced the Pakistani villain
is in Arabic, which I really 

1103
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:50,720
liked. 
But it's a good song. 

1104
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:55,120
It is a good song. 
But the song is fire slaps. 

1105
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,080
It does. 
Slaps. 

1106
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:58,960
It does. 
I was like I was. 

1107
00:57:58,960 --> 00:57:59,520
Doing the. 
Dance. 

1108
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:02,560
Oh, no, totally. 
Can I just talk about that song 

1109
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,760
real quick? 
It's in Arabic, but it's 

1110
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:08,080
supposed to be Balochi and I'm 
like Disney, you're representing

1111
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:09,680
the Balochis through Arabic. 
I don't. 

1112
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,840
It's like. 
It's well, the beat is Balochi 

1113
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:16,120
the beat. 
That's a bitch, I guess. 

1114
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,960
'Cause you wanna do the dance. 
I I will always do the dance 

1115
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:22,920
with it. 
But the the lyrics couldn't tell

1116
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,200
you, couldn't tell you. 
I wouldn't be able. 

1117
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,040
To tell. 
Arabic lyrics, even if it wasn't

1118
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,800
Balochi, the point is. 
And I don't know in Pakistan 

1119
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,840
what region speaks Arabic. 
I don't think there is. 

1120
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:33,920
I don't. 
Think much? 

1121
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:36,400
I don't think there's any. 
Which is why. 

1122
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:39,800
This is an ignorant filmmaker 
who doesn't know better, you 

1123
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:41,640
know? 
You're watching some ignorance. 

1124
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:42,320
I don't. 
Wanna. 

1125
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:46,480
But we gotta do it. 
We have to listen. 

1126
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:51,080
The reason why is because these 
are big Bollywood, you know, box

1127
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,320
office hits. 
The indie ones, which may not 

1128
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:58,120
be, are very sad. 
They're never happy indie films.

1129
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:01,480
They're always like like I, I 
saw a movie recently like that 

1130
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,200
was popular called Pupbard. 
Oh. 

1131
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,000
I did I I just heard about that,
but I didn't. 

1132
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,280
Watch it. 
Yeah, but like, we're going to 

1133
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:09,920
talk about a woman who gets 
abused. 

1134
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,080
You can't. 
Crack a joke here and there. 

1135
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:17,600
No jokes. 
Like if we did, it would be real

1136
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,680
insensitive if we are doing 
that. 

1137
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:21,480
So we got to watch some, you 
know. 

1138
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:25,200
If you can give me a good name 
of an indie flick that is not 

1139
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:29,160
anti Pakistan sentiment of big 
Bollywood, tell me. 

1140
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,920
Everything right now coming out 
of Bollywood is anti. 

1141
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:36,880
Except. 
That's what I mean, because I, 

1142
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:41,040
yeah, it's so topical, You know,
this is, this is we're in the 

1143
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,640
climate right now. 
This is great. 

1144
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:45,920
This is gonna be commentary. 
We gotta represent a little bit.

1145
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:47,880
Represent. 
We have we're. 

1146
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:49,920
Not. 
Representing anything. 

1147
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,160
We're representing no three 
brain cells talking, yeah. 

1148
00:59:54,920 --> 01:00:00,320
And if we do have any Pakistani 
from Pakistan and or Indian 

1149
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:03,080
listeners, we're going to have 
some major commentary then 

1150
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:05,000
please they're. 
Both going to be mad. 

1151
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,040
They're both going to be mad. 
Both sides, because the 

1152
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:08,960
Pakistani people are like, 
you're not even Pakistani. 

1153
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,600
You're you don't even live here.
And the Indians are going to be 

1154
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:14,680
like, look at these Pakistanis, 
Jasoos. 

1155
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:18,320
Yeah. 
Like I'm like the worst Jasoos 

1156
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:25,120
freaking get caught real quick. 
We're going to be black 

1157
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,960
meanwhile, like we're the ones 
talking about how we're avoiding

1158
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:39,600
cheese in our diet. 
Yeah, exactly. 

1159
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:40,720
We. 
Want to? 

1160
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:44,560
We're such masterminds trying to
dismantle the propaganda. 

1161
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:47,160
We're like, you know what? 
I could. 

1162
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,920
Well, we can't even. 
I'm vegetarian. 

1163
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,280
What is properly without having 
loose motion? 

1164
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:53,080
Loose. 
Motion. 

1165
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:57,040
Oh God, this is going to be a 
this is going to be a a hot take

1166
01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:00,240
episode. 
We'll see. 

1167
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,000
But there's gonna be 25 first, 
which is going to be a nice 

1168
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:06,040
pallid cleanser. 
Can we just get rid of the run 

1169
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,040
there first? 
Summer. 

1170
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,080
Oh, you want to do it first? 
Yeah, just get it over with. 

1171
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:15,000
I can't stand that. 
I also can't stand Ranveer Singh

1172
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:16,680
saying it. 
I'm saying I. 

1173
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:21,040
Was gonna I was gonna I was 
gonna say I think he does the 

1174
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:25,880
cocaine, but from what from he 
keeps from what I. 

1175
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,840
He would be like. 
Defamation from what? 

1176
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:31,760
Some of. 
That allegedly. 

1177
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:35,400
In the Grapevine he does some. 
Allegedly. 

1178
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:43,400
I'm in love with alcohol, so 
maybe we'll see that that nice. 

1179
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:51,480
We're getting a little anxious. 
This podcast was just talking 

1180
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:53,400
her way out of doing the 
Bollywood break. 

1181
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:57,840
I had that in my play, the plan 
the whole time. 

1182
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:00,360
She's like, how do I argue 
against? 

1183
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:04,360
Look, those two movies were big 
super hit Baton Javan and I 

1184
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:10,320
thought both were crap, yes. 
They were. 

1185
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:13,680
They were full on. 
Bull full of bull so. 

1186
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:18,800
Bull. 
Was it Juwan or? 

1187
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,120
He was bald. 
One of them. 

1188
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:23,160
He's bald. 
No, no, no, he wasn't bald. 

1189
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:25,920
It was the one with the John 
Abraham. 

1190
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:27,520
What's that one? 
Is that Patan? 

1191
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:31,320
That's Patan. 
Patan was the one that I walked 

1192
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:32,160
into. 
The No. 

1193
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,320
I watched 10 minutes of it and I
walked right. 

1194
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:36,920
Out No. 
Patan is John Abraham or Javan 

1195
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:38,600
is John Abraham. 
Yeah, no. 

1196
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:40,600
Javan is not John. 
I get them confused. 

1197
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:44,800
I watched Javan in the theaters 
with someone who was enthralled 

1198
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:47,680
the whole time and I was 
literally could not. 

1199
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:51,000
I was like this is so bad I 
couldn't handle. 

1200
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,160
It so you know. 
Like, why are they singing in 

1201
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:57,880
this jail? 
Why are, why is he like, it was 

1202
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:00,560
terrible and then he's bald and 
then he fights like a tiger or 

1203
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:02,640
there's a tiger somewhere, 
right? 

1204
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:04,360
No, I think you're, I remember 
one. 

1205
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:07,160
I've seen both and they're both 
horrendous. 

1206
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:11,000
And they're very violent. 
They're so horrendous. 

1207
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:13,880
And then I just think to myself,
what? 

1208
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:16,760
What is this? 
But they made a lot of money. 

1209
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:19,360
People want to see the violence.
They want to, but yet they're 

1210
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:22,440
not watching some of Han's 
violence because his violence is

1211
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:25,720
not worth it anymore, I guess. 
I don't know something wrong, I 

1212
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:28,040
just know that I don't care for 
any of it. 

1213
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:30,360
And yet we have to do it for the
people. 

1214
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:32,960
People don't even listen to us 
anymore. 

1215
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:37,360
Wow, what a great note to end 
on. 

1216
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:43,360
Follow us on Papa Friends on 
Instagram. 

1217
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:53,400
Listen to us on Spotify, 
YouTube, Google Play, Apple 

1218
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:57,040
Store, Podcast. 
Rate US four to five stars or 

1219
01:03:57,040 --> 01:04:00,160
don't or don't listen. 
Or just. 

1220
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:01,960
Don't to the I want you to 
listen. 

1221
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,920
To us, but you don't. 
To the one listener out there, 

1222
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:07,640
AKA my husband. 
Oh my God, no. 

1223
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,280
My hope. 
You have a good rest of. 

1224
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:10,960
Your my husband listens to us 
too. 

1225
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:13,760
I swear, I think we have our 
listeners just from our spouses.

1226
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:19,840
Yeah, that's good enough for us.
All right, people, then lead us 

1227
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:24,040
out. 
We'll see you later later.