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Thank you for listening to the 
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Delete all people to know love 
and live New Life in Jesus 

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Christ. 
We hope that you enjoy this 

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message. 
I'm Micah one of the pastor's 

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here if I didn't get a chance to
meet you and you didn't get a 

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bag and it's your first time, 
get one on the way out, I'll be 

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out there, some of our other 
staff and be out there. 

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That's just our way of saying 
we're so happy. 

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You're here. 
Here, we don't take it for 

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granted that you're here. 
Look, if you're new to this 

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church thing, we don't take it 
for granted. 

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We know it's not easy on a 
Sunday, to come to a place where

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people claim they worship with 
God that exists, right? 

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There's a lot of us in this room
that believe that. 

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And so, we just want you to feel
comfortable, we want you to feel

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like you can enjoy and God can 
work in your life and we are so 

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happy, you're here. 
So we've been in see you in a 

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series titled, what if? 
And we're in week 3 this week, I

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would venture to say, we've all 
asked this. 

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What if question, right? 
Four times of our life, we ask 

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questions. 
Like what if I'm not enough? 

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What if what if the light at the
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far? 
And it's gets farther and 

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farther away as I live my life. 
What if all my chances are up, 

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these are questions that we 
often ask. 

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So here's the idea, the big 
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What if we went to God with 
these questions? 

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Like if we have these questions,
if they're going to be there 

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whether we like it or not, what 
if we brought them to God and 

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said God, what do you say about 
these questions? 

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These questions that we have, 
what do you say, all-knowing God

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of the universe? 
Verse. 

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What do you say? 
What if we put the ball in his 

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court and said you take care of 
my? 

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What? 
If questions? 

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I'll trust you. 
So that's what we're going to do

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today over the last few weeks 
we've been doing that by looking

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in the body. 
The book of the Bible called 

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Exodus following the life of a 
guy who's a prophet named Moses 

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and Moses, his life is 
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We've seen Moses go from a baby 
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river because his mother feared 
for his life where he finds 

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himself in the Egyptian, royal 
family, pharaohs family, he 

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grows Up in the royal family. 
And then he murders an Egyptian 

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and we see him chased out of 
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And that's where the famous 
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happens in God, meets him there.
Talk about some ups and downs, 

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right? 
Like if anybody had, what if 

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questions it was, this guy 
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So that's what we've been doing.
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We find ourselves in chapter 17 
and exit is up to this point. 

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God has done some amazing 
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God has literally brought them 
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Israel. 
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He even brought them through the
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So, we heard that story last 
week, that God literally, and we

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believe that God literally 
parted the sea and allowed these

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people to walk through just 
mind-blowing stuff. 

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He gave them food from Heaven. 
If you've ever heard the word 

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Mana, maybe you've heard that in
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that just literally means that 
in this time in Exodus, that God

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sent Birds down from heaven, 
just dropped them down, and they

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went and ate and then food came 
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It's unbelievable, the stuff. 
That's happened. 

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So put yourself in their shoes 
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God has finally brought you to a
place of Peace. 

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God is finally got you to a 
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maybe along the way. 
I got mad at this guy Moses, you

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know, who was in the desert for 
40 years and came back and said,

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hey I'm going to free you and 
you're like, who are you? 

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You know, but maybe you're 
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peace. 
I have some peace, my family's. 

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Okay, I have water to drink, we 
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Well, let's look at Exodus 17 8 
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I want to That here. 
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still at resident the Warriors 
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commanded, Joshua choose some 
men to go out and fight the army

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of amalek for us tomorrow. 
I will stand at the top of the 

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hill holding the staff of God in
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So Joshua did what Moses had 
commanded and fought the army of

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amalek. 
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climb to the top of the nearby 
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As long as Moses held up the 
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Israelites had the advantage. 
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hand, the amalekites gain the 
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Moses, his arm soon became so 
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He could no longer hold them up.
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for him to sit on then they 
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holding up his hands. 
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this until sunset all night. 
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the army of amalek in battle. 
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instructed, Moses, write this 
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reminder and read it aloud to 
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I will erase the memory of 
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Moses built an altar there and 
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means the Lord is my banner. 
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fists against the Lord's, 
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So now the Lord will be at war 
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generation. 
So, man, if you're the 

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Israelites here, what are you 
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Gosh, like, God, finally brought
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finally have some peace. 
I finally have some peace and 

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quiet and then out of nowhere, 
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attack us. 
Like what the heck? 

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Right? 
And that's probably not that far

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off to Israel. 
Lights. 

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We're really confused because it
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What's really interesting about 
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that it's the first time in 
Exodus, we see the Israelites 

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fight after leaving Egypt. 
And a lot of times in scripture 

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when you're reading your Bible 
and you see a first it's really 

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good to lean in. 
It's a moment where we want to 

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we always want to lean in the 
scripture, but in these moments 

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it's good to go, okay? 
God probably has something 

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really specific here to teach 
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And what does he say now in this
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battles. 
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seemingly came out of nowhere, 
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So right out of the gate, 
there's two things we know that 

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a true from this passage this 
Battles are coming and we will 

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win or lose based on who we 
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So we know this battles are 
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Battles are coming and we will 
win or lose based on who we 

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surround ourselves with two, 
things battles are coming we 

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will win or lose based on who we
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say something real quick. 
The overarching theme of the 

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story is not. 
I'm going to surprise you. 

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Here is not How to do help the 
Christian Community, the 

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overarching theme of the story 
is not how to love your 

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neighbor. 
The overarching theme of the 

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story is how to let God fight 
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That's the overarching theme of 
the story and you may ask well 

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from this statement here it 
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preach a sermon on Christian 
relationships not dating 

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relationships but communal 
relationships that you're right.

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I'm really glad. 
You asked me that question. 

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Because Moses couldn't hold the 
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How do you get a sermon on 
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He could not hold the staff, 
which was their Victory. 

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He couldn't hold it without 
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This is what I love God. 
Strategically, guys. 

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In strategically set the world 
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will be made known. 
That's the most important thing 

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for him. 
Most important thing for his 

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glory to be made known because 
it's the best thing anyone could

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ever ask for but he set it up in
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Let's look at how Jesus puts it.
He set it up in such a way that 

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his glory will be made known 
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Loving one, another absolutely 
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Jesus says this, your love for 
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world that you are my disciples.
Wow I think we can gather from 

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that that statement their 
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Here's my heart today Church. 
Going to make it through this 

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without crying because I didn't 
in the 9:30. 

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I love our church and I love our
people and over the last few 

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months I've been. 
So my mind has been so blown. 

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By the way, you have loved one 
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By the way you have loved our 
staff by the way, you have loved

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our community, absolutely 
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So when I speak to you, I'm 
speaking to a group of people in

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9:30 and now and 11 who love 
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And that's not the patch on the 
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case we could walk out and say 
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We're done, right, 
relationships, done. 

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We got it, figured out. 
Here's the reality. 

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Leti, there's always more depth 
to be had and it's not just 

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about having these loving 
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But it's about having 
relationships that stand the 

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test of time. 
It's about having relationships 

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that not just deepen our own 
personal love, but deep in one 

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another's. 
Love and not just do that but 

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proclaim the glory of God in our
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Amen. 11:00. 
Let's go battle ready 

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relationships. 
That's what we call these kind 

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of relationships battle-ready 
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How do we face our battles with 
one another relationships that 

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stand the test of time. 
Let's jump back into the story 

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here. 
So Moses sees the amalekites 

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coming to fight him. 
He commands this youngish man, 

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Joshua to fight who Scholars? 
Think was probably around 40, 

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but we know Moses was extremely 
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So let's call him young today. 
He has this great plan, right? 

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He says you go and fight Joshua,
you go and fight. 

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I'm going to Stand at the top of
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Anybody got friends like that. 
Anybody got friends that are 

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like hey I think it's a great 
idea to go climb to the top of 

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this waterfall and just Swan 
Dive off. 

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Right. 
I think that's a great idea and 

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you climb to the top and your 
feet hurt because you didn't 

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wear the right sandals and they 
have all the rights Andals and 

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you get to the top and they're 
taking a video of you and you're

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like, whoa! 
You're going first. 

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This was your idea. 
No, no I just got you up here 

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and if any body in this room 
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I'm I tend to be that person to 
get you amped up. 

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Do you? 
Go and get you on top of the 

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mountain, and then be, like, go 
for it, you got it because in 

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some circles, we call that 
empowerment. 

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But anyways, here's the reality 
Moses did that? 

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Because he knew their power was 
in his staff. 

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Well, not in the staff, but was 
in, what the staff resembles, 

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what the staff recognize we've 
seen over the story. 

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When when God calls Moses to lay
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signifies his surrender to God 
and His saying, your people will

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be led by you and you alone. 
And so the, the Going to the top

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of the mountain, makes more 
sense. 

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When we realize that in verse 
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And so, here's the first 
observation I want to make today

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battle-ready relationships, are 
intentional, notice something 

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here, wasn't, until they got to 
the top of the mountain, in the 

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battle had started. 
That they saw Moses needed help.

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So think about that for a 
moment, what if they had not 

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been there? 
What if they not been there God 

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is faithful and God would have 
fulfilled his promise and his 

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people. 
But what would have happened? 

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That leads me to think this 
Christian Community and you can 

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write this down. 
If you're taking notes, 

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Christian Community is not for 
emergencies, it's for 

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sustainability Community with 
one. 

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Another is not just for times 
that are tough Community for one

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another with one. 
Another deep relationships is 

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for a deep sustainable, love 
that walks with us, week after 

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week and day after day and year 
after year. 

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So Anything comes, we're 
battle-ready, right? 

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We're battle-tested. 
Here's the thing, I know from 

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from preparing there's probably 
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room. 
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relationships too easy. 
There's those who finds 

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roulette, find relationships, 
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And I want to tell you, both are
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Let me speak first to my 
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find it too easy because I'm one
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If you know me, you know, that I
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if you're not familiar with 
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That means that I probably have 
lots of relationships, but that 

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doesn't mean they're all deep. 
So, for me, it's dangerous 

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because I'm really good at 
making friends, but that doesn't

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mean I'm gonna remember your 
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Like, let's be honest. 
That doesn't mean that doesn't 

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mean that I don't love you, but 
have I chosen to really step 

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into you your life? 
It's dangerous. 

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You may have three thousand 
friends on Facebook, but who's 

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going to stop and change your 
tire for you, right? 

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You're going to call one of 
those 3000, friends. 

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You nigga, you gonna call the 
random dude from Sopia that 

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follows you on Facebook and he's
going to come and help you 

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nothing wrong with that. 
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It doesn't always mean you have 
deep relationships, there's more

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depth to be had, let me talk to 
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singled out or extroverts, 
because they deserve it. 

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But introvert, to listen to me. 
You were made and everyone in 

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this room, you were made for 
Community. 

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You were made this God that we 
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is so good that he set us up in 
such a way in And in his core of

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who he is one of the one of the 
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community. 
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the Trinity, right? 
The the father Son and the Holy 

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Spirit Before Time began, I'm 
not going to go into Super 

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detail there, don't worry but 
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was in perfect communion and so 
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want them to be like we are I 
want them to know. 

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I want them to know me and also 
know me through the way, they 

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love one another. 
That's the way he set this whole

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thing up, battle-ready 
relationships are found in that 

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found in our understanding of 
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I want to say this really quick.
You can do it. 

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Those of you in this room, 
that's a mica, you don't 

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understand. 
I don't want a thousand more 

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problems, right? 
Have 99 problems. 

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And a friend is not one, and 
that's fine. 

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The older I get, the more I 
understand and I'm with you, a 

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lot of times church ministry. 
If you're not careful can do 

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that to. 
You can cause you to get callous

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towards people. 
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I'm not saying all introverts do
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saying, you may be there and I 
want you to know this, I'm not 

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asking you to get 1,000 friends.
I'm Asking you who's the core 

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people in your life, that know 
you, that know you from the 

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inside out that are ready to 
step into your situation with 

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you ready to love you, who are 
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So, here's the word for 
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the word unique community. 
And I don't know if you like 

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that, and I don't care because 
it's not up to us. 

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This is a calling from God, 
which God has made us in. 

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Such a way to say you need 
Community. 

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When you were born, you needed 
other People with you to walk, 

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you long to keep you alive and 
unique Community. 

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Now in your old age now you feel
like man, I got this. 

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I'm grown. 
I'm an adult man. 

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I got it figured out. 
No, you don't, and that's 

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awesome. 
That's awesome. 

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Because that's where we turn to 
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Let's look at chap, that's look 
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further. 
As long as Moses held up the 

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staff in his hand, the 
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but whenever he dropped his 
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advantage, Moses, his arms soon 
became so tired, he could no 

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longer hold them up. 
So Aaron and Hur found a stone 

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for him to sit on then they 
stood on each side of Moses 

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holding up his hand so His Hands
Held steady until sunset as a 

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result, Joshua overwhelmed. 
The army of amalek in battle. 

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So wasn't enough, right? 
It wasn't enough that they were 

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there. 
They were they were intentional 

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that got them there. 
They're intentionality got them 

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there. 
Listen to me students in the 

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front row. 
Love you guys. 

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They're intentionality. 
Got them there. 

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But that wasn't enough, they had
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decision to love their brother. 
They had to make a decision to 

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do something about what God saw 
and allowed them to see through 

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their intentionality. 
You ever been there? 

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You ever see a friend in any, 
maybe you're having coffee 

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together and somewhere in the 
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I've been Somewhere In The Mists
of the conversation, you start 

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talking and you're like all of a
sudden you hear that your 

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friends you kind of zoned out 
and maybe you hear your friends,

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just saying some wild stuff and 
you're just like, you're having 

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this inner dialogue and you're 
like, what, what? 

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And you're, maybe also in a 
quiet coffee, shops, or like, 

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quiet down, like you were 
saying, some wild stuff. 

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Like you are airing Your mess 
out in that moment, your maybe 

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like, okay, maybe tomorrow. 
I'm not going to answer their 

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phone to call. 
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this is we are no longer friends
with this person but if you're a

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good friend, what do you do? 
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And you say, I'm going to sit 
here, I'm going to finish this 

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meal, I'm going to continue on, 
I'm gonna call them in the 

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morning. 
I'm gonna have a conversation 

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with them about what's going on 
in their life. 

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That's where it moves from 
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committed. 
Battle ready? 

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Relationships are this? 
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This are committed. 
If we're talking about 

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commitment here, we need to talk
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What's at stake. 
If if I'm calling you to have 

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committed relationships with one
another, there has to be 

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something that's keeping you and
that's dangerous for you. 

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If you need to commit to it, 
right? 

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There's nothing to commit to if 
there's not something that 

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happens if you don't commit to 
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That's really basic. 
So for Moses and Aaron and Hur 

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here, they knew that if they 
didn't help one another, if they

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did it get arm and arm together.
We're not going to say that they

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would have lost the battle but 
they probably would have lost a 

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lot of men. 
They probably would have lost a 

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lot of women and children. 
They probably would have lost a 

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lot of their Nation. 
If they did it make this 

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decision there, they their 
life's were literally at stake. 

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So, what's at stake for our 
life? 

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Had this quote here, it's really
interesting. 

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According to the National 
Institute on Aging, the health 

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risks of prolonged isolation are
equivalent to smoking 15 

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cigarettes a day. 
Social isolation and loneliness 

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have been estimated to shorten. 
A person's life span by as many 

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as 15 years. 
Our lives are quite literally a 

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steak and I don't mean to get 
super heavy for no reason, but I

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get heavy because that's 
reality. 

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A life's are at stake. 
And here's what I love. 

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Like I know there are lives are 
at stake and it seems insane to 

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say that because of 
relationships and the importance

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of them. 
But here's an idea that I 

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thought of this week that just 
encourage me so much are very 

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loneliness proves proves to us 
from our inner inward being of 

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who we are our soul. 
It proves to us that we are made

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for Community. 
Listen, if you never got lonely,

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if you and I never got lonely, 
and we could live our whole 

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lives on our own, We would most 
likely not be made for 

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community, and that's not how 
God made us. 

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But look the very reality that 
we get lonely, the very reality 

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is that that we need people in 
our life proves that we are made

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for this. 
Listen, I'm not just saying 

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because I'm a pastor that you 
need Community. 

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I'm saying it because it's who 
we are from our from our 

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innermost be. 
We are longing to be with others

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longing to be with others. 
It's who we are. 

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I see two things if we're 
talking about this commitment 

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here. 
There's two Two things happening

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in this passage first Moses had 
to what he had to allow them to 

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help him. 
He had to be there and he had to

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say, I need your help. 
We don't know if he really said 

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that if they saw it, but either 
way, he had to allow them to 

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help him. 
That's the first thing that has 

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to happen. 
Did you know that? 

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There's a difference between 
vulnerability and transparency? 

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There's a difference there. 
I'm transparent, right? 

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I'm a person who, if you meet me
out front, I'll tell you 

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everything you want to know, but
that doesn't mean I'm gonna let 

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you in. 
Like I may say. 

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Yep. 
That's me. 

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That's me. 
I'll go to the counselor and say

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yep. 
Uh-huh. 

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But that doesn't mean I'm 
letting him say but let's try to

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fix it, right? 
Let's do something about it. 

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That's what vulnerability is 
Moses. 

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Here we can assume was not just 
transparent. 

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He was allowing his brothers to 
open him up and say, I'm a 

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totally inadequate. 
We see that through Moses, his 

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life, his life was built upon 
this inadequacy. 

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Like, how can that make any 
sense? 

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Why are you preaching that? 
How is that? 

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Good news, because God is, All 
we need, he's everything we 

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need. 
The more we realize we're in 

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adequate, the more. 
We realize we need God. 

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And the more we finally see God,
and we stop acting like we have 

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it all. 
Together are an adequacy proves 

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that God is good and know, that 
seems crazy, but there's the 

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other side of the story, not 
only do we need to be 

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vulnerable. 
But Aaron and Hur, they had to 

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be ready to help. 
They first saw the need then. 

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They went searching for a way to
help him and they found a rock, 

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but they didn't stop there. 
And I want to get honest for a 

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second with some faithful 
well-meaning Christians in the 

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room. 
I'm gonna get honest for a 

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second. 
How often, how often do we do 

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this? 
How often do we? 

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We put a chair out, a rock and 
we say. 

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All right buddy, sit down. 
Sister. 

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Sit down. 
And then we do this. 

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See ya. 
We walk off. 

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We oftentimes our chair. 
Iraq is, is the word of God? 

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Oftentimes, it's, it's a prayer 
and listen. 

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The word of God is the words of 
Life. 

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The Bible has the words of life 
in it prayer. 

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Is a work that's powerful more 
powerful than you and I will 

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probably ever understand and if 
we would take it and use it 

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more, oh, the things we would 
see in our life. 

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But what I'm saying, is, what if
we gave them that? 

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What if we said, okay, take a 
seat, right? 

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Take a seat, take a word, take a
prayer and then let me get a 

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brother with me. 
And let's sit right here and 

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let's hold your arms up and just
say look to Jesus. 

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What if we as Christians, stop 
just giving blanket fixes and we

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said, I'm gonna walk with you. 
I'm gonna walk with you, I'm 

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gonna help you. 
Keep your eyes on Jesus. 

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So we need to be vulnerable. 
You have to be able to sit in 

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the seat, and then you need 
people next to you, who, when 

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you need to sit in the seat can 
sit next to you, and hold your 

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arms up and say, I'm hurting to 
listen, Erin and her. 

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Imagine the pain, they must have
felt right. 

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Imagine the pain, it says until 
sunset until sunset. 

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They sat there, they probably 
thought, Division, I know what's

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happening. 
I know God. 

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I know what you said. 
I know you would probably win 

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this battle, but it hurts like 
my arms are dying. 

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We see the victory happening, 
but it's really hard. 

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We need one another. 
I want to ask you this. 

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Are you ready to do? 
Whatever it takes to see someone

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win. 
Think about that for a second. 

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Are you ready to do? 
Whatever it takes to see someone

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00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:45,000
else win. 
Leads me to another observation 

452
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,300
today, battle-ready 
relationships are purposeful. 

453
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,500
I'm not if you knew this but who
you surround yourself with 

454
00:22:50,500 --> 00:22:53,700
matters? 
Whether you like it or not 

455
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:57,100
relationships, serve a purpose, 
whether you like it or not, I've

456
00:22:57,100 --> 00:23:00,300
said that probably a thousand 
times a day Relationship. 

457
00:23:00,300 --> 00:23:04,800
Serve a purpose. 
Listen relationships, either. 

458
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,200
And that I just believe this to 
be true either push us towards 

459
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:08,800
Jesus. 
Christian relationships, pushed 

460
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,000
us towards Jesus, they keep us 
forever. 

461
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,100
And I'm being generous, he's a 
lot of people in this, In This 

462
00:23:14,100 --> 00:23:16,300
Crowd, made see me after, and 
say, they don't just keep you 

463
00:23:16,308 --> 00:23:17,800
where you're at, they pull you 
back. 

464
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,400
So, I'm being generous today, at
least at the, at minimum, they 

465
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:25,300
keep you where, Or they push you
towards Jesus. 

466
00:23:25,700 --> 00:23:29,400
God intended. 
God has an intended purpose for 

467
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,900
his people. 
He desires on a relationships. 

468
00:23:31,900 --> 00:23:35,900
Would push us to become more 
like Jesus. 

469
00:23:35,900 --> 00:23:40,000
Look, we are way more malleable.
Way more shapeable when were 

470
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:44,000
multiple, if those are words 
than we could ever imagine. 

471
00:23:44,700 --> 00:23:48,500
So the people we choose to do 
life with not just minister to 

472
00:23:48,500 --> 00:23:51,300
but do life with and let's speak
into our life, they can change 

473
00:23:51,300 --> 00:23:52,300
the way we think. 
Ink. 

474
00:23:52,700 --> 00:23:56,600
And when you, we know this, to 
be fact, when you change the way

475
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,500
you think you ultimately change 
the way you act people can 

476
00:23:59,500 --> 00:24:01,300
change you, man, and that's 
good. 

477
00:24:01,300 --> 00:24:03,300
And that's scary. 
That's two things. 

478
00:24:03,300 --> 00:24:05,700
They're battle-ready 
relationships. 

479
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,100
They look like this. 
This purposeful idea, they look 

480
00:24:08,100 --> 00:24:12,600
like a group of people, a church
who has one win that already 

481
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,900
relationships in a church model.
Look like a group of people 

482
00:24:16,100 --> 00:24:18,100
bounding themselves together. 
Not worried about a building, 

483
00:24:18,100 --> 00:24:21,800
but worried about being arm and 
arm and looking to Jesus and st.

484
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:26,600
You Irwin is mine, went often I 
do this when I'm going on a way 

485
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,400
to maybe have coffee with 
someone. 

486
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,500
I'm about to have a hard 
conversation. 

487
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:34,300
I tell myself a lot of times in 
marriage, I say this, I say 

488
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:39,800
Micah be prepared to take an l 
and those who don't know the 

489
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,600
modern sayings and today, that 
just means loss be prepared to 

490
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,300
take a loss. 
I tell myself that all the time.

491
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:51,300
Why? 
Because this relationships, this

492
00:24:51,300 --> 00:24:55,000
relationship the their win is my
win. 

493
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:59,300
And I care more at that point 
about God getting the glory in 

494
00:24:59,308 --> 00:25:01,800
their life and about seeing them
look more like Jesus than I do 

495
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,700
winning a church, a church 
following. 

496
00:25:04,700 --> 00:25:07,000
Jesus looks more like a bunch of
people who are set. 

497
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,400
I'm ready to be wrong. 
You just say, I'm ready to be 

498
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,700
wrong. 
I'm ready to lose every 

499
00:25:11,700 --> 00:25:13,900
argument. 
If it means that you come to 

500
00:25:13,908 --> 00:25:16,600
know Jesus, if it means that you
get closer to Jesus, and I'm not

501
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,200
saying we just need to E 
flippantly walking around having

502
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,400
no truth. 
I'm talking about when we're in 

503
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,100
our pride and we have this 
desire to prove to someone who 

504
00:25:25,100 --> 00:25:26,700
we are. 
We have this desire to prove 

505
00:25:26,700 --> 00:25:29,300
that that person's wrong and God
says, no reconcile. 

506
00:25:29,300 --> 00:25:30,800
Turn the other cheek, you don't 
have to be right? 

507
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,600
I'm right. 
I'm truth. 

508
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,700
Let me ask you this, who is 
winning because of the 

509
00:25:37,708 --> 00:25:42,200
relationship with you. 
Who's winning who's winning. 

510
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,600
If you can't think of anybody 
don't get discouraged, this 

511
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,500
could be true for you. 
Someone could win because of 

512
00:25:48,500 --> 00:25:51,600
their relationship with you. 
What is winning looking more 

513
00:25:51,700 --> 00:25:55,100
like Jesus, who can look back 
and say this person or that 

514
00:25:55,100 --> 00:25:59,600
person was with me and loved me 
so well, and they are the reason

515
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,500
in the Holy Spirit walking with 
me. 

516
00:26:01,500 --> 00:26:04,300
They're the reason that I am who
I am today. 

517
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,000
They are the reason who can, who
can say that of you. 

518
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,600
So I want to, I want to do this,
I want to acknowledge something.

519
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,100
We've talked about some pretty 
heavy stuff because it's a heavy

520
00:26:15,100 --> 00:26:17,200
reality, but I want to know 
something. 

521
00:26:17,500 --> 00:26:20,600
It's impossible. 
It's impossible to have 

522
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,300
battle-ready relationships. 
On our own. 

523
00:26:26,100 --> 00:26:28,200
It's impossible to have 
battle-ready relationships. 

524
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:32,700
These kind of christ-centered 
relationships on our own without

525
00:26:32,700 --> 00:26:35,900
Jesus. 
Look, you can, you can see here 

526
00:26:35,900 --> 00:26:37,300
all the work that has to go into
this. 

527
00:26:37,300 --> 00:26:39,100
I just want to run through a 
couple of these things. 

528
00:26:39,100 --> 00:26:41,700
Let's go through the list. 
You have to love others, more 

529
00:26:41,700 --> 00:26:45,800
than yourself. 
You have to put others before 

530
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,000
yourself. 
So you're not just love them 

531
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,500
mentally, but you have to do you
have to position yourself in a 

532
00:26:50,508 --> 00:26:52,400
way where they're over here and 
you're behind. 

533
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,500
You say, you win. 
I want to see you look more like

534
00:26:55,500 --> 00:26:58,200
Christ and this is one. 
I'm not going to get an amen on.

535
00:26:58,500 --> 00:27:00,900
You have to give flawed people 
the ability to speak in your 

536
00:27:00,900 --> 00:27:02,600
life. 
That's tough. 

537
00:27:03,100 --> 00:27:05,400
You have to give people who are 
flawed just like you, the 

538
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,700
ability to speak into your life.
It's impossible. 

539
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,800
It's impossible. 
So I set you up for failure. 

540
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,300
If I haven't given you this last
observation here, let's look at 

541
00:27:15,300 --> 00:27:18,100
it. 
Battle ready? 

542
00:27:18,100 --> 00:27:19,800
Relationships? 
Are Jesus focused. 

543
00:27:20,900 --> 00:27:24,800
So the staff that, that, that 
signified, the Lord's victory 

544
00:27:25,700 --> 00:27:29,000
for Moses and Aaron and Hur as 
as long as they held it, it gave

545
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,900
them victory victory was in 
their hands and all they had to 

546
00:27:31,900 --> 00:27:34,500
do was hold it up. 
All they have to do is say God, 

547
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,500
you are my victory. 
You are the win here, you 

548
00:27:37,500 --> 00:27:39,900
deserve the glory. 
You got us out of Egypt. 

549
00:27:39,900 --> 00:27:42,900
We just want to see you 
glorified, all he had to do was,

550
00:27:42,900 --> 00:27:46,200
lift it up for us for us? 
This is the easiest Sunday 

551
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:50,300
school answer ever, for us. 
We have Jesus, those of us who 

552
00:27:50,300 --> 00:27:54,200
have Place our faith in Jesus. 
We have Victory living in US. 

553
00:27:54,300 --> 00:27:58,400
Amen. 
Victory living in us at any 

554
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,200
given moment at any given time. 
I can attain that Victory and 

555
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,000
say, yes, I have Victory. 
I have victory. 

556
00:28:06,900 --> 00:28:11,800
I have Victory in Jesus. 
A lot of us in this room who 

557
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,700
have that new life, understand 
what it's like. 

558
00:28:15,700 --> 00:28:17,500
We love to talk about this thing
new life. 

559
00:28:18,100 --> 00:28:20,700
What that means is that a lot of
us in this room have said, 

560
00:28:20,700 --> 00:28:23,900
Jesus, you are my everything, 
and you're the best thing. 

561
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,800
You're the only thing. 
The first and foremost, I want 

562
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,200
you to get the glory. 
And then what happens, what 

563
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,900
happens you do that one Sunday 
night or, and then you wake up 

564
00:28:31,900 --> 00:28:34,200
the next day and you go to work 
and you're loving the person 

565
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,600
that you hated last week, makes 
no. 

566
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,500
It makes no sense. 
You're loving the person that 

567
00:28:39,500 --> 00:28:42,900
you despise and you're like, oh 
wow, God changed me and it 

568
00:28:42,900 --> 00:28:45,900
doesn't have to make sense. 
This is a little side. 

569
00:28:45,900 --> 00:28:48,400
Note, we need to stop trying to 
make sense of God. 

570
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,100
We need to start. 
It's not our job to make sense 

571
00:28:51,100 --> 00:28:52,800
of God. 
We're going to spend eternity 

572
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:54,500
trying to figure it out and we 
will search. 

573
00:28:54,500 --> 00:28:56,800
The word. 
We will try to understand truth 

574
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,900
and we will put truth on on the 
banner of Our Lives all the 

575
00:28:59,900 --> 00:29:01,500
time. 
But listen, we need to stop 

576
00:29:01,500 --> 00:29:04,400
trying to figure it out and we 
need to start just trusting God 

577
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,500
and saying God I want to live in
wonder. 

578
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,800
And all of you, if you look all 
through the Psalms all through 

579
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,800
the Old Testaments, the power 
was found in fear. 

580
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,100
It says, in Proverbs that, the 
fear of God is the Fountain of 

581
00:29:16,100 --> 00:29:18,800
Life. 
What that means is that all of 

582
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,700
God, the say, the, the god you 
were big and I'm small as a 

583
00:29:22,700 --> 00:29:24,000
Fountain of Life. 
Why? 

584
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,000
Because we get outside of 
ourselves for a moment, for 

585
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,600
just, for a moment. 
And finally, we are aligned with

586
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,100
Heaven. 
We're like, okay, this is what 

587
00:29:31,100 --> 00:29:35,900
the universe screams about. 
We cannot have healthy Christian

588
00:29:35,900 --> 00:29:39,900
Community in relationships. 
Without that look, you cannot 

589
00:29:39,900 --> 00:29:43,700
love people without Jesus into 
story and that's good because 

590
00:29:43,700 --> 00:29:47,300
Jesus is Arms Wide Open. 
Come to me, come to me, I'll 

591
00:29:47,300 --> 00:29:48,900
give you New Life. 
I'll teach you how to love. 

592
00:29:48,900 --> 00:29:52,400
Like I love, I'll teach you how 
to do what I do. 

593
00:29:52,500 --> 00:29:56,500
I'll give you my burden. 
I'll give you my yoke. 

594
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,100
I'll give you my plan for your 
life. 

595
00:29:59,300 --> 00:30:01,400
Just trust me. 
You don't have it figured out. 

596
00:30:01,700 --> 00:30:04,600
That's what these kind of Ships 
are stem from. 

597
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:13,500
So as we close today, I love 
this idea and you know, I would 

598
00:30:13,500 --> 00:30:15,600
love to just come right out the 
gate with this but you know a 

599
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:19,800
good speaker holds his greatest 
news at the end and keeps you 

600
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:23,300
hanging on. 
But I want you to know that in 

601
00:30:23,300 --> 00:30:27,700
this story, as Moses stood on a 
mountain, with the staff and 

602
00:30:27,700 --> 00:30:31,100
that signified, God's Victory. 
Jesus stands on the mountain. 

603
00:30:31,700 --> 00:30:34,700
Jesus stands on a mountain and 
he's holding a banner, like a, 

604
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,600
like, a dad at a soccer game. 
He's holding a banner that just 

605
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,200
says, I love you. 
I have your Victory! 

606
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,000
I love you. 
And so, when we have this chair 

607
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,600
out and we're letting people sit
and we're holding their arms up.

608
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,700
We're like, hey, just look to 
death, look to God, look to him,

609
00:30:47,700 --> 00:30:51,800
he loves you. 
He cares for you, he wants you. 

610
00:30:52,700 --> 00:30:54,300
He just wants you to see his 
face. 

611
00:30:54,500 --> 00:30:57,600
He just wants you to see that 
he's worthy of everything, he 

612
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,200
wants you to see that he loves 
you, and you have no idea how 

613
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,300
much had happened and you just 
looking to his love, man. 

614
00:31:03,300 --> 00:31:06,900
We try to figure things out. 
We try to understand it and we 

615
00:31:06,900 --> 00:31:10,100
try to worry about how to act 
out his love, but look, what if 

616
00:31:10,100 --> 00:31:13,200
we spent more time in his love, 
then we did trying to figure it 

617
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,900
out and trying to act it out 
because look, I believe that 

618
00:31:15,900 --> 00:31:18,300
when you get in his presence 
that's when you become powerful.

619
00:31:18,500 --> 00:31:20,500
That's when you go into the 
world and you're like, man, I 

620
00:31:20,500 --> 00:31:21,900
don't care. 
Like we sang earlier. 

621
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,300
David said, I became courageous 
because of my love for God. 

622
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,000
He became less powerful when he 
turned his face from God. 

623
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,800
If you look at the life of 
David, our power is in the face 

624
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,300
of God, because his face is 
good, and it's enough. 

625
00:31:34,300 --> 00:31:36,700
That's all we need. 
It's what we've been longing for

626
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:41,400
since birth. 
Our relationships guys 

627
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:46,100
Riverbend, there's so much more 
depth to be had as a church. 

628
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,000
Look, God is with us and there 
are great. 

629
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:53,100
Things ahead and God has the 
best things ahead for eternity. 

630
00:31:54,300 --> 00:31:58,600
but it's gonna take us loving 
one, another really well as you 

631
00:31:58,608 --> 00:32:03,700
already have done, It's gonna 
take arm and arms. 

632
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,400
It's gonna take. 
Hey, I want to go deeper. 

633
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,300
I want to go deeper with you. 
I want to know you. 

634
00:32:09,300 --> 00:32:11,700
I want you to know me. 
I want to be known, it's going 

635
00:32:11,700 --> 00:32:13,800
to take join in a small group. 
It's going to take serving 

636
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,900
inside outside of the church, 
you've got to get to know people

637
00:32:18,300 --> 00:32:21,000
because in that is where we see 
the presence of God in the 

638
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,300
world. 
Finally sees this, God, we love 

639
00:32:24,100 --> 00:32:25,300
through our love for one 
another. 

640
00:32:25,300 --> 00:32:31,100
Here's some questions. 
I want to ask as we close First,

641
00:32:31,100 --> 00:32:34,500
is this where you going? 
There's a lot of people in this 

642
00:32:34,500 --> 00:32:38,600
room who are not there yet with 
Jesus. 

643
00:32:39,700 --> 00:32:41,600
You just don't have your faith 
in him. 

644
00:32:41,900 --> 00:32:46,700
You don't really understand him.
And I want you to know that that

645
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,500
we call this an altar here and 
it really just just means it's a

646
00:32:50,500 --> 00:32:53,400
place to signify what God is 
doing in your heart. 

647
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:57,100
And like, there's so much room 
here to come and lay that down. 

648
00:32:57,100 --> 00:33:00,100
Lay your life down and stand up 
a new person, because Jesus is 

649
00:33:00,100 --> 00:33:03,400
just there with a banner saying.
I just love you and then you 

650
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:08,500
stand up with a purpose. 
We can't lead purposeful 

651
00:33:08,500 --> 00:33:11,300
relationships. 
If we don't have that inward 

652
00:33:11,300 --> 00:33:16,700
purpose that we don't seek the 
glory of God in our life. when I

653
00:33:16,708 --> 00:33:21,100
ask you this, who's going with 
you, Who's going with you? 

654
00:33:21,300 --> 00:33:22,900
Who do you have in your life 
that are going with? 

655
00:33:22,900 --> 00:33:26,000
You better? 
That say I believe in the same 

656
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,700
thing you believe my win is your
win I believe in Jesus going 

657
00:33:29,700 --> 00:33:32,500
forth in our city who's going 
with you and let me finish this 

658
00:33:32,500 --> 00:33:36,100
way. 
Whose arm do you need to hold 

659
00:33:36,100 --> 00:33:39,000
up? 
when I want to say that maybe 

660
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,900
you think of people, maybe you 
think of people in your small 

661
00:33:40,900 --> 00:33:45,300
group, Maybe you think. 
Okay, I know that that person I 

662
00:33:45,308 --> 00:33:47,100
need to love really well. 
Maybe you're that person that 

663
00:33:47,100 --> 00:33:49,500
needs to be loved really well, 
and you need to allow others to 

664
00:33:49,500 --> 00:33:51,900
love you. 
Who's armed, you need to hold 

665
00:33:51,900 --> 00:33:53,700
out. 
So here's we're going to do. 

666
00:33:53,700 --> 00:33:55,300
We're going to, we're going to 
worship. 

667
00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:00,300
And again this altar is open as 
it always is come come talk to 

668
00:34:00,300 --> 00:34:01,000
me. 
I'll be over here. 

669
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,700
Come talk to someone you know in
the room who loves Jesus and 

670
00:34:03,700 --> 00:34:07,400
just let God work. 
Let God do whatever he wants to 

671
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,400
do in your life church. 
God has so much for us. 

672
00:34:10,500 --> 00:34:13,900
He has a depth of relationships 
and a depth of his presence that

673
00:34:13,900 --> 00:34:16,000
we haven't even understood yet. 
Amen. 

674
00:34:17,500 --> 00:34:20,000
God is with us and wants to work
in our life. 

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Let me pray for us. 
Jesus. 

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Love you, God. 
You are the center, all our 

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relationships fall on you. 
God, we're going to let one 

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another down. 
We're going to hurt one, 

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another, we're difficult, we're 
difficult people. 

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But you love us. 
And we've been saved by grace, 

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and we've been changed by grace,
and your life. 

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So, Jesus Lord, would you 
reconcile hearts in this room 

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who were are not reconciled 
together? 

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would you bring people closer 
together not just for the sake 

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in that, we feel good about it 
but For Your Glory so that we 

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could actually be a perfect 
representation of Heaven for our

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city for the people, we love the
most God, would you unify people

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this morning? 
Would you unify around a 

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mission? 
We thank you, God, finally. 

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Just that you're here. 
I thank you that we didn't have 

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to Usher you, and now we didn't 
have to burn incense and we 

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don't have to bang symbols 
together to get you awake. 

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God, you've been here. 
You've been waiting. 

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You filled your spirit and all 
these chairs before. 

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People came in this room, you 
are the best thing. 

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You're the best thing. 
Be the center of our world. 

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Be the center of our universe. 
Be the center of our hearts. 

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God work in our life this week. 
We just love you and pray. 

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All this in your holy and 
Powerful name. 

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Amen. 
Thank you for listening to the 

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river. 
Bend Church podcast. 

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Learn more about who we are as a
church and how to connect you 

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can head over to our website 
Riverbend Church dot life.

