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Thank you for listening to 
Riverbend Church's podcast. 

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To find out more about this 
message or Riverbend Church, 

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connect with us online at 
Riverbend Church dot live. 

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Absolutely love that story about
Matt and Betsy and and Jason. 

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I remember very vividly Jace 
coming up to me and said he 

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brought his jar of water that 
morning of being baptized and, 

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and, and asked if he could pour 
it in. 

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And I was like, absolutely. 
So if you were baptized the 

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morning that Jace was baptized, 
congratulations, you also got 

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baptized in Jace's Jarred water.
Also, if you if, if some of you 

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husband's out there, if you 
didn't know why last January, 

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you your wife wouldn't let you 
eat sugar now you found out. 

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So I love that line to where 
Jace asked Betsy Mom won't miss 

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Julie let you eat sugar. 
But you know it was it was 

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absolutely amazing just to see 
God work in their lives. 

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Absolutely amazing to see God 
work in the lives of, of so many

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different ones of us over last 
year's 21 days of prayer and 

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fasting. 
And I hope that you find the 

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these stories and these 
testimonies encouraging because 

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what God has done in, in, in 
their lives, God wants to do in,

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in, in your life and in my life.
And that's why we are in this 

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season of 21 days of prayer and 
fasting. 

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If you're if you're new with us 
this morning, my name is Ben. 

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If we haven't had the chance to 
meet yet and get to serve as the

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lead pastor and we are in fact 
in a season to where we call 21 

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days of prayer and fasting. 
We started last Sunday and 

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essentially we are choosing to 
intentionally go without 

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something. 
For some that's that that's 

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that's food all together. 
For some that's a meal, for 

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others that that social media. 
For others, that that may be a 

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type of food like sugar. 
It can be anything, but instead 

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of concentrating on what we're 
going without, we are doing 

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that. 
We're choosing to intentionally 

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go without something in order so
that we can make more room for 

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God in our lives to, to replace 
the time that we spend typically

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doing something where there's 
eating a meal or, or, or 

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scrolling social media, to 
intentionally spend that time 

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with God in prayer and, and 
reading his word. 

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So you may be asking if you're 
new to Riverbend, like why, why,

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why go through all of this? 
Why, Why do that? 

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You know, why? 
Why focus so much on a, on an 

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intentional season of, of 
prayer? 

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Why go without food for a 
certain amount of time or a meal

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or, or something that we 
normally go through? 

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Why? 
Why write and print and and and 

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give away devotionals to, to, to
help God during these 21 days? 

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Why replace Danny's doughnuts 
with apples and bananas? 

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If you're new to Riverbend and 
you didn't know anything about 

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Danny's doughnuts, man, you 
don't know. 

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Come back and come back at the 
end of this month. 

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But why are we doing all this? 
I think it's really important 

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that we come back to the why, 
right? 

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Because my prayer, our prayer, 
our desire and our hope for you 

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and, and, and whether you're 
with us in the room or online, 

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is that you would be able to 
look back over this season, over

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this specific season of life. 
You'll be able to look back over

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it with, with a fondness and, 
and, and, and realizing that 

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over these 21 days that there is
a closeness to God that you've 

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never experienced before. 
You're experiencing God like 

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you've never experienced him 
before that you would be able to

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look back over the season and 
you would absolutely be able to 

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say, man, I lived well. 
That was a season of my life in 

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which I lived well. 
And those two words live well. 

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We talked last week about how 
there's no shortage of opinions 

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or definitions of what that 
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But at the end of the day, the 
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terms of defining what living 
well really means and what it 

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looks like is God's. 
If you have a, if you have your 

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note sheet with you, I want to 
show you something. 

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It's actually serving as the 
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truth throughout this series. 
And we believe that it's really 

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what God's definition of living 
well actually looks like. 

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And this is going to be carrying
us through the months of January

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and then on into next month as 
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To live well is to live God's 
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Firm in faith, steady in trials,
and anchored in hope. 

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Firm in faith, steady and 
trials, and anchored in hope. 

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Now for us to discover, for you 
and I to discover what it means 

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to live God's way, then we've 
got to know God's Word. 

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And throughout the months of 
January and February, we're 

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going to be diving in and 
walking through a book of the 

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Bible called First Peter. 
It's called First Peter. 

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And Peter is going to guide us 
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what living God's way looks 
like, whether it's being firm in

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faith or steady in trials or, or
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And if you have a Bible with 
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find First Peter chapter 1. 
And this morning we're going to 

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be starting in verse 13. 
We're going to be picking it up 

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in verse 13. 
If you don't have a Bible with 

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you, then no worries. 
The passage that we're going to 

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be walking through this morning 
is actually at the top of your 

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note sheet. 
And it's going to be on the 

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screen behind me just so that we
can all, we can all be on the 

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same page here. 
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there give you a little bit of 
important context about the book

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of first Peter. 
The author of first Peter is a 

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guy by the name of of Peter. 
Peter, if you didn't know Peter 

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was one of Jesus closest friends
home on this earth. 

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And if you're curious, right 
after first Peter comes the book

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of second Peter. 
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thing that you need to know 
about the book of first Peter is

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the book that we now have as 
first Peter was originally 

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written as a letter and it was 
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circulated by persecuted 
Christians around 60 AD in Asia 

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Minor. 
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the was the was the major 
military force, the major global

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power of that day. 
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persecution that came across the
church came across Christians. 

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So Peter is writing this letter 
that we now have as a book, and 

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it was circulated by these early
persecuted Christians. 

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But the third thing that you 
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first Peter is it was not 
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It was not written to people who
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It was not written to people 
that everything's just seemingly

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falls into place and goes their 
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It was actually written to a 
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knew what trials were, that knew
what hardships were that it was 

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written. 
It was written to the to the 

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broken. 
It was written to some to to 

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people that sometimes felt 
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It was written to the embattled.
It was written to, it was 

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written to us. 
So if you're with us this 

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morning in the room or online 
and you're that first group to 

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where life always seems to fall 
into place and you got your act 

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together and man, it just always
turns up aces for you. 

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We invite you back next week. 
This week isn't for you, but for

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the rest of us. 
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I want to dive into first Peter 
Chapter 1 and what we're going 

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to be doing this morning is 
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passage and we're going to be 
almost like splitting it into 

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two. 
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first Peter chapter one, verse 
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It says, therefore, preparing 
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sober minded, set your hope 
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brought to you at the revelation
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You see this verse right here, 
verse 13 is actually going to 

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serve kind of as the launching 
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And what I mean by that is if 
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know that everything that we 
talked about kind of boiled down

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to that one word, trust. 
Trust. 

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Who do I trust to, to, to, to 
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Because as we talked about last 
week, where our attention is or,

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or where we place our attention,
that will inevitably guide our 

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steps. 
Who do I trust to put as King of

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my life when I I've got to trust
God that He knows the ways in 

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which I need to grow and the 
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But I also have to trust God 
that He will allow not an inch 

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more than is needed in terms of 
trials that will grow me closer 

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to Him. 
Trusting that with God, if I'm a

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follower of Jesus, everything 
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greater than everything that is 
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Is that word trust this morning?
I think one of the key words 

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that we need to kind of hone in 
on, especially as we go into 

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verses 1415 and 16, is the word 
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More specifically, right 
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So if you have a note sheet with
you and you're taking notes with

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us, I want to walk through four 
things that we need right 

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definition for. 
Here's the first one is Peter is

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going to go on to start and say 
therefore, therefore that word 

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starting off verse 13. 
Therefore write this out. 

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We get to live in what others 
can only look forward to. 

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We get to live in what others 
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Now, if you ever see the word, 
therefore in the Bible, it's 

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really, really important to pay 
attention to what comes right 

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before it. 
And, and, and the thought that 

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comes right before verse 13 
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1, 10. 
This is what Peter writes 

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concerning this salvation. 
The prophets who prophesied 

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about the grace that was to be 
yours searched and inquired 

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carefully, inquiring what person
or time the Spirit of Christ in 

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them was indicating when he 
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Christ in the subsequent 
glories, it was revealed to them

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that they were serving not 
themselves, but you in the 

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things that have now been 
announced to you through those 

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who preach the good news to you 
by the Holy Spirit sent from 

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heaven. 
Check this out things into which

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angels long to look. 
You see what we get to, what we 

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are living in now is what others
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Let me say that a different way.
In your Bible, there's 66 books 

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of your Bible. 
You got the Old Testament. 

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You got the New Testament, 39 
books of the Old Testament, 27 

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books of the New Testament, from
Genesis to Malachi, those 39 

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books of the Old Testament, 
we're all looking ahead at a 

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promised Savior. 
That means that from from Noah 

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to, to Abraham to to Joseph to 
Moses and Joshua and Ruth and 

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David and Solomon to to Esther 
and Isaiah and Jeremiah and 

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Daniel, they were all looking 
ahead at this prophesied at this

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upcoming Messiah. 
They were all their hope was 

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always looking ahead. 
These 39 books of the Old 

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Testament, it's almost like 
collectively they are screaming 

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together. 
When the Savior gets here, He 

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will rescue us. 
Now we here in 2026, we who are 

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living on the other side of the 
empty tomb, we're living on the 

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other side of the empty tomb. 
So we get to live in what they 

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could only look forward to. 
And here's what I would say in 

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terms of why that matters is, 
isn't it so easy for us to take 

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for granted what has been done 
for us and given to us? 

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And I think it's very important 
that we come back and we start 

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this conversation, this message 
this morning with a reminder of 

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all that Jesus has done for us 
and all that Jesus has given us.

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It's the therefore that starts 
off everything. 

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Second phrase this morning is 
this therefore preparing your 

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minds for action. 
And here's what I would tell you

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about preparing your minds for 
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Faith is always active, never 
passive. 

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Faith is always active, never 
passive. 

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Let me kind of walk you through 
some distinctive differences 

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between the two. 
A passive faith. 

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A passive faith believes that 
God can act, but waits without 

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movement. 
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truth intellectually, but their 
behavior remains unsane, 

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unchanged. 
So did you know that you can 

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believe something in your head 
and it not affects your feet? 

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It not affects your mouth? 
A passive faith agrees with 

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something intellectually, yet 
remains unchanged in behavior. 

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A passive faith says God will 
handle it while avoiding 

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obedience, risk, and 
responsibility. 

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That's a passive faith. 
Act of faith. 

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Act of faith believes that God 
will act. 

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And because will God will act, 
I'm going to step forward in 

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obedience and in trust. 
Act of faith aligns belief with 

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obedience and moves even when 
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And an act of faith says because
I trust God, I'm going to act. 

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Because I trust God, I'm going 
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This isn't your notes, but it'd 
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this note. 
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faith walks. 
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faith walks. 
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or not you're, I think all of 
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but our reality that you're 
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passive faith, then that's a 
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of apply to your life. 
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There's a huge difference. 
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I think it's important for us to
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prepare your minds for what for 
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Third definition that we need is
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minded. 
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living intentionally. 
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living intentionally. 
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whether you're new to church, 
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church, whether you're looking 
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Whether you're young or whether 
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the Bible cover to cover 
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whether like maybe this is your 
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I think we would all agree that 
the stakes of every day are so 

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high, aren't they? 
The the stakes are so high every

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single day. 
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mean. 
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it's just like a peaceful heart.
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a healthy mind. 
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just the the well-being here and
now, but but the eternity of our

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spouse or our family or our 
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The stakes are so, so high every
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And maybe I'm the only one. 
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I'm the only one. 
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minded. 
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need to realize, we need to 
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the stakes are so high that we 
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intentionality, which means that
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the things that numb me, dumb 
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can see clearly, so that I can 
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can lead in the direction that 
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up underneath our belt and or to
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being holy is set your hope 
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That means no safety Nets. 

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That means no backup plans. 
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That means no backup plans. 
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The ships not going back, no 
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know that I'm guilty of and I I 
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place that are very guilty of is
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miracles while we live by a 
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listen, I'm not turning back 
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of resolve. 
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if we find out that Jesus was 
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did not do what the Bible tells 
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saddened person looking to like 
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our life. 
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people with no source of hope 
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No source of hope. 
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mind that I understand that I am
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this side of the empty tomb of a
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the Holy Spirit. 
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called to live an active type of
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see clearly and intentionally 
removing the distractions out of

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my life because I realized that 
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living in a no turning back type
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for what comes next. 
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obedience. 
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rest of what Peter's going to 
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and 16. 
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Peter writes this in verse 14. 
As obedient children, as we keep

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everything that we just talked 
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of our mind, those right 
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So as obedient children, do not 
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your former ignorance, but as he
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be holy in all your conduct 
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be holy, for I am holy. 
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over those first few words. 
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want to circle those or 
underline those on your note 

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sheet, maybe even highlight 
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them in your Bible. 
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children. 
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Those are huge. 
Did you know that if you've if 

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you've asked Jesus to forgive 
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Asked him to take control of 
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following him for the rest of 
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Did you know that that God 
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stranger or an outsider? 
God doesn't even greet you 

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necessarily as a as a friend. 
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daughter, as children and as 
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It means that you are accepted 
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Now, a lot of times we start to 
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of obedience because I think 
that we may have things a little

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bit twisted in the way that we 
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I wrote this in your notes. 
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Our obedience to God as our 
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relationship not out of fear and
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Think about this. 
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a, if you had a, a great 
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I've been very, very blessed to 
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in the family that I've been 
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which is which is Wayne and but 
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How cool is that? 
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who John Wayne was? 
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John Wayne Wallace. 
I will always be the son of John

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Wayne Wallace, always be the son
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There's nothing that I can do 
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I don't, I don't look to please 
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of him and I don't look to 
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try to earn something. 
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his love or his favour. 
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because it comes out of 
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You see, the most definitely is 
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when we approach God. 
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It is greater than we can 
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obedience and live by his words 
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us, but not in a way in which 
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and try to earn that love. 
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Peter telling us to be obedient 
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For us to discover that there 
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It means that because of Jesus 
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called to be different. 
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different. 
We are different, so we're 

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called to be different. 
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last week, giving asking Jesus 
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asking the Holy Spirit of God to
come into your life to help take

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control of your life and guide 
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following God with your whole 
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The Bible uses a term called 
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Born again. 
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is something that you've already
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about or Matt and Betsy were 
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If that's the step in obedience 
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you've been born again. 
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Now being a new creation, of 
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have a new identity. 
You have a new Social Security 

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card that your, that your credit
history is automatically like, 

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you know, erased that bad credit
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It it means that you are 
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It means that it means with the 
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the Holy Spirit of God is 
transforming you from the inside

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out. 
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transform you from the inside 
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were, that, that, that were, 
that were flashy and appealing 

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and, and, and, and drawing your 
attention and, and your 

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affection and your devotion 
before Jesus, They, they kind of

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lose that luster. 
You're, you're, you're a new 

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person because of Jesus. 
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because of Jesus, then we're 
called not to go back to our 

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former ways of, of, of living. 
You see, you and I, we have been

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made new. 
So we don't, we don't return to 

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the former ways of doing life. 
In your notes I gave you, I gave

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you 2 words. 
The first one, first one is a 

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Greek word. 
The reason I gave you this Greek

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word is because we know that the
New Testament was written in the

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Greek language. 
Here's that Greek word hagios. 

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Hagios, It literally means to be
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So when Peter is writing in 
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verses 15 and 16, this is the 
word that he is using to be set 

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apart. 
Now what does it mean for you 

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and I? 
What does it look like for you 

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and I to be set apart? 
It means that there was or there

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is a way in which seems right. 
There was a way in which we were

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once driven by our opinions and 
our perspectives and maybe 

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cultural norms, by what looked 
good and seemed good and felt 

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good before Jesus and, and, and 
that way of doing life. 

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A, a way that is centered around
personal perspectives and 

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opinions and cultural norms. 
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what looks good and seems good 
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That that is the norm by which 
people live life that are 

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unbelievers, that that have not 
surrendered their lives to 

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Jesus. 
And what Peter's telling us 

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here, what Peter's telling us 
here is we are to be set apart 

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from the normal standard of 
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and culture, from an unbelieving
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Here's why. 
It's because if we have been 

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made new, then we are to live 
new. 

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If we've been made different, 
then we are to live different. 

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And it's all because we now 
have. 

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If you've surrendered your life 
to Jesus, we now have a new 

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standard of living. 
And the standard of living is a 

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biblical standard. 
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we now have a biblical ethic. 
It means that what my thoughts 

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about sexuality and identity 
and, and, and marriage and 

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relationships and finances and, 
and, and integrity, they're all 

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anchored in a biblical ethic. 
What God's word says, not 

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necessarily what my culture 
says, not necessarily what my 

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family may say, not necessarily 
what may seem good, feel good, 

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none of that. 
We are called to live different 

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because we are different. 
Now here's the catch. 

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Many times it's very easy for 
Christians to take that whole 

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issue of being holy and to veer 
off course. 

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And the best way that I can show
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veer off course is that second 
word that I gave you in your 

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notes sheet. 
And it's actually a Hebrew word,

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parash. 
Parash. 

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This comes from directly from 
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Parash means to literally 
separate. 

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Now at first glance, to be set 
apart and to separate look 

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pretty similar, don't they? 
But the more we dive into it, 

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the more we see that they're 
actually completely different. 

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You see, to separate often means
that we withdraw. 

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To be set apart means that we 
live in the midst of. 

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To separate focuses in more on 
what we are not a part of. 

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To be set apart focuses more in 
on who we belong to. 

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00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,880
The reason that that's so 
important is because if we focus

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so much on to separate, guess 
what happens? 

451
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We become judge mental, We 
become legalistic, we become 

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Pharisaical, we become little 
Pharisees. 

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00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:46,040
For that reason, it is no wonder
that parash is actually the 

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Hebrew word in which Pharisee 
comes from. 

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00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:56,400
You see, there's a Hebrew word 
for holiness, Kadesh or kadosh. 

456
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And in kadosh Peter is going to 
cite when he says for the Lord 

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who is called for God, who has 
called you holy, has said be 

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00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:10,000
holy for I am holy. 
Back in first Peter 116, he's 

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citing Leviticus 1144. 
In Leviticus 1144 the word 

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kadosh is there holy. 
Be holy, for I am holy kadosh. 

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00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:28,640
But over time, it became very, 
very easy for the people to 

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00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:32,520
begin to veer off course from a 
kadosh to a Paresh. 

463
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,720
And what I would tell you, 
church is in our pursuit of 

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holiness, that pursuit cannot 
veer off course into becoming 

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00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:47,760
legalistic and becoming 
judgmental and becoming weird 

466
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,720
for weird's sake. 
It is actually living on 

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00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,240
purpose. 
It is actually living on 

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00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,280
mission. 
Like I said, a Paresh or to live

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00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:03,200
separate from focuses much more 
in on what we are not a part of.

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00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:09,120
Whereas A Hagios, a holy aspect 
to be set apart that focuses 

471
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:13,800
much more in on who we belong to
or set another way. 

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00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:18,120
Here's the second thing in your 
notes is holiness is not just 

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00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,960
about our distance from an 
unbelieving world and culture. 

474
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,320
It's more about our closeness to
our to our holy God. 

475
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,200
Holiness is not just about our 
distance from an unbelieving 

476
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,360
world and culture, it's more 
about our closeness to a holy 

477
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:35,640
God. 
For this reason, did you know 

478
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,320
that you can separate yourself 
from all things unholy and still

479
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:43,920
not live holy? 
Now make no mistake about it, as

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00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:48,080
followers of Jesus, there are 
most definitely things that we 

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00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,600
should have no part of. 
There are most definitely things

482
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,600
that we should have no part of. 
We should have no part of 

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00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,080
pornography. 
We should have no part of sex 

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00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,120
outside of marriage. 
We should have no part of 

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00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,920
identity confusion. 
We should have no part of 

486
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,360
holding on to grudges and 
unforgiveness. 

487
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,240
We should have no part of 
celebrating somebody else's 

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00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,160
downfall. 
We should have no part of 

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00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,920
vulgarity. 
And we should we We could go on 

490
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,760
and on and on about the things 
that we should have no part of. 

491
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,880
But we should have no part of 
those things, not because we are

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00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,720
superior or holier in thou, but 
because they are no longer 

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00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,960
compatible with who God has now 
made us to be. 

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00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:33,640
So how do we live this new life?
How do we grow in this new 

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00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,160
identity of who God has made us 
to be? 

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00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,280
It all goes back to 
relationship. 

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00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,400
It all goes back to the more 
time realizing that, the more 

498
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:50,480
time that I spend time with God 
in prayer, reading His Word, and

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00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,200
actually allowing Him to guide 
my choices and decisions each 

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00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:56,680
and every day. 
Guess what? 

501
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:02,320
I'm not only grow closer to Him,
but His character begins to rub 

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00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,560
off on me. 
And the things that I once were 

503
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,280
drawn to, I'm no longer drawn to
because I'm drawn to the things 

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00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,080
of God, not the things of this 
world. 

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00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,000
You see, holiness is not just 
about the distance from an 

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00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,880
unbelieving world or culture. 
And one of the things that you 

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00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,320
know as well as I do, this isn't
breaking news. 

508
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:25,560
Most of the time, Christians are
known more for what they are 

509
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,920
against rather than what they 
are for. 

510
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,360
I think a lot of times it's 
because we exchange the to be 

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00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,280
set apart from the for the to 
separate. 

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00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:42,000
But you cannot underestimate the
fact that to grow in holiness, 

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00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,920
It's not so much about a 
distance from an unbelieving 

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00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,040
world and culture. 
It's actually about more more 

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00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:53,280
closeness to our holy God. 
As we turn a corner and head 

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00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,800
down the final stretch this 
morning, there's one last thing 

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00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,360
that I want to spend a little 
bit of time walking through and 

518
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:03,360
it is huge. 
It's huge. 

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00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:07,680
And this may my, my hope is is 
this last part that we're about 

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00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,960
to talk about. 
It frees you up, it encourages 

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00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,800
you and it propels you. 
Here it is. 

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00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,000
Holiness is not a goal to be 
achieved. 

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00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,280
It's a life to step into. 
It's not a goal to achieve. 

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00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,360
It's a life to step into. 
Set another way. 

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00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,440
There will never be a point in 
time to where you and I or any 

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00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:33,000
of us can ever look in our 
mirror and go, man finally made 

527
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,159
it. 
I am holy. 

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00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:41,480
If you do know that you now 
struggle with pride and lying, 

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00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,320
therefore you're not holy. 
There will never be a point in 

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00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:49,679
time to where you or or or me or
any of us will ever be able to 

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00:34:49,679 --> 00:34:51,639
look in the mirror and go, man, 
I have finally made it. 

532
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:58,720
I am now holy. 
Listen, I, I, there's a part of 

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00:34:58,720 --> 00:35:04,080
me that that wishes that we 
could, we could kind of end our 

534
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,160
time with a, with a 10 step 
program for holiness. 

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00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,720
But that's not what Holiness is.
Holiness is not about a ten step

536
00:35:10,720 --> 00:35:12,200
program. 
Holiness is actually about a 

537
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,840
daily pursuit. 
And if we're really to get real 

538
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,200
and honest with ourselves, it's 
not just a daily pursuit. 

539
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:18,840
It is a moment by moment 
pursuit. 

540
00:35:19,720 --> 00:35:24,200
Holiness is not a goal to 
achieve. 

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00:35:25,240 --> 00:35:32,760
It is a life to step into. 
It is basically waking up, even 

542
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,400
though we'll never be able to 
wake up. 

543
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,440
Look ourselves in the mirror and
go, man, I finally made it 

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00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,320
today. 
I'm holy. 

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00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,240
I'll check that box. 
I hope everybody notices. 

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00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,640
I am now holy. 
We'll never achieve that because

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00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,040
holiness is not a goal to 
achieve. 

548
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,280
But what we can do is we can 
wake up each morning with a 

549
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:53,040
simple prayer and go, God, I 
want to pursue holiness today. 

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00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,600
God, would you? 
Would you guide me in making 

551
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:05,200
decisions and choices that align
with Your Word and Your will and

552
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,760
Your ways? 
God, Would you? 

553
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:13,600
Would you open my eyes and open 
my my ears and open, open my 

554
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,720
mind to God? 
There may be some things that 

555
00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:21,760
I'm involved with right now that
are not compatible with who You 

556
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,600
have made me. 
Now that I am born again, God, 

557
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:29,880
would you reveal those things to
me so that I can take those 

558
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,160
things off? 
And when I take those things 

559
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,720
off, God, I can pick up your way
for me. 

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00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:42,640
God, would you? 
Would you help me to see people 

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00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:46,000
and to hear people and to treat 
people the way that you see and 

562
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:51,160
hear and treat people? 
God, I want to dedicate this day

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00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,720
to you. 
That's the pursuit of holiness. 

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00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,240
That's the pursuit of holiness. 
That is a life to step into. 

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00:36:58,240 --> 00:37:01,840
And here's the great news 
church, that step can happen. 

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00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:06,480
It can start this morning. 
It can start this morning to 

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00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,520
kind of prime the pump of maybe 
some things that we need to to 

568
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,200
hand over to God. 
I want to walk you through two 

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00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,880
key questions this morning. 
Number one, what does obedience 

570
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,240
look like for me today? 
What does obedience look like 

571
00:37:20,240 --> 00:37:23,800
for me today? 
You know, I'm, I'm more and more

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00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:28,400
convinced that the vast majority
of us, whether we're in the room

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00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:34,640
or join us online, we come into 
this morning, we come into the 

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00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,560
service having a pretty good 
idea of what God wants us to do.

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00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,520
We're just very hesitant and 
fearful to do it. 

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00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,680
So what does obedience look like
for you today? 

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00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,840
Here's the second one. 
Where is God inviting me to walk

578
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:54,520
differently today? 
Again, we are to live different,

579
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,960
not just to be weird. 
We are to live different because

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00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:02,560
we now are different. 
You, you know, this, this 

581
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:07,280
process of God transforming us 
from the inside out. 

582
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:12,240
It's, it's, it's revealing the 
things in our lives that are no 

583
00:38:12,240 --> 00:38:15,400
longer compatible with this new 
life. 

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00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,920
And it's also revealing the 
things that are that are missing

585
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:23,280
in our lives that that aren't 
compatible with this new life. 

586
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,400
So here's the question, where is
God inviting me to walk 

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00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,440
differently today? 
In just a moment, we're going to

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00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,440
pray and we'll stand and we'll 
sing again. 

589
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,000
And I just want to give you the 
opportunity to respond. 

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00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,720
Remember how I said that 
holiness is, is really a life to

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00:38:40,720 --> 00:38:43,440
step into. 
And that life to step into can 

592
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:47,520
start today. 
It always, always, always, 

593
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,000
always. 
It always starts with surrender,

594
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:55,120
and surrender is simply this. 
As God, I'm going to bow my knee

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00:38:55,120 --> 00:39:00,000
to you and I acknowledge you as 
God, and I acknowledge that you 

596
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,680
can do things in and through me 
that no one else can. 

597
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,320
God, you love me like no one 
else does. 

598
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,800
God, you desire good for me like
no one else does. 

599
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:15,920
God, would you show me the parts
of me that don't match up with 

600
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:19,360
you? 
It, it, it starts with bowing 

601
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,360
the knee. 
And when we bow the knee there, 

602
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,920
there's a there's a moment, 
there's a time of confession and

603
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:30,120
confession basically is just 
saying, God, you go to the 

604
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,120
deepest parts of me to do your 
deepest work in me. 

605
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,520
And God, if you show me anything
in my life that's not compatible

606
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,440
with you, God, I want to, I want
to confess that before you as 

607
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:46,880
sin and then after confession. 
So it's surrender and then it's 

608
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,120
confession and then it's God. 
Would you guide me? 

609
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:54,360
And we're going to give you the 
opportunity to do that in just a

610
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:58,080
moment. 
So we do that by we're going to,

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00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:02,360
in just a moment, pray and stand
and sing and open up this front.

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00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,400
If you want to come and talk and
pray with a pastor, that's what 

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00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,200
we're here for. 
If you want to just come and 

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00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:11,800
kneel and pray here to where you
say, hey, right here, January 

615
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,280
18th, 2026. 
I'm not looking to achieve 

616
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,400
holiness, but I'm looking to 
step into a life of pursuing 

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00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,920
holiness starting now. 
Then we encourage you to come 

618
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,760
and pray. 
And do that business with God. 

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00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,120
Pray with me. 
God, we love you and we thank 

620
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,240
you for your word and for your 
love. 

621
00:40:29,720 --> 00:40:35,560
God, you desire good for us. 
God, when you call us to be holy

622
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:39,960
God, I pray that you would help 
us to understand that the basis 

623
00:40:40,240 --> 00:40:43,440
of our obedience is is 
relationship with you. 

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00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:48,040
God, we don't do it because 
we're afraid of you or we're 

625
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,600
trying to earn your favor or 
your love. 

626
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,720
God, we do it because we 
acknowledge you as our heavenly 

627
00:40:53,720 --> 00:40:58,200
Father. 
God, I pray that if there's 

628
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:03,080
anyone in here this morning that
God, that there's some things 

629
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,320
that you're working in our 
lives. 

630
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,720
God, there's a step of faith 
that you have called us to 

631
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:12,480
actively take. 
God, I pray that we would be 

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00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:17,880
obedient to take that that step.
God, if there's anything in our 

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00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:25,720
lives that is incompatible with 
the new US that you created all 

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00:41:25,720 --> 00:41:30,960
the calls of Jesus, God, I pray 
that you would allow that to 

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00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:36,000
rise to the top of our minds. 
And God, that we would hand that

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00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:39,320
over to you. 
We would confess that as sin and

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00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:45,120
ask that you forgive that sin. 
God, I pray that you would work 

638
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,080
and that you would move in 
freedom and empower during this 

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00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:50,520
time. 
And it's in Jesus name that we 

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00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:51,920
pray. 
Amen. 

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00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,800
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