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Thank you so much for listening 
to Riverbend Churches podcast. 

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Riverbend Church exists to bring
people to Jesus, grow 

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generations in Jesus, and send 
disciples for Jesus. 

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We hope that you enjoy this 
message. 

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We have been in a series called 
Joseph, and we've been walking 

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through the life and the 
narrative of a guy whose story 

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is given to us in the book of 
Genesis, God by the name of 

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Joseph. 
If you call Riverbend home or 

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you've been with us throughout 
this series, whether in the room

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or online, you've been 
journeying with us throughout 

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these weeks. 
We got this week and we got next

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week to where we'll be closing 
out our Joseph series. 

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We didn't go into this in our 
into our 930 service, but I'll 

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tell you as 11:00, our next 
series is called The Unseen 

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World to where we're going to be
talking about spiritual warfare.

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So it's something that you most 
definitely do not, do not, do 

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not want to miss. 
But let me go ahead and kick 

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things off, ask you just to 
contemplate a question really 

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quick. 
Has there ever been a time, a 

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situation, a circumstance in 
your life to where there was 

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deep pain, there was a lot of 
hurt, but then the more that 

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situation or circumstance 
unfolded, the beauty that came 

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out of that caused all the pain 
and the hurt to pale in 

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comparison. 
Now let me go ahead and tell you

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as a guy, as a dude, you're 
guy's men. 

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We, we got to think a minute for
that to to the ladies, 

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especially the moms in the room.
You know exactly what I'm 

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talking about. 
You know exactly what I'm 

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talking about. 
Like if just thinking back to 

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the birth of that little baby, 
you know, thinking about maybe 

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the, the weeks or months of, of 
morning sickness or just the, 

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the restless nights just 
struggling to get comfortable 

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or, or, or the pain, the overall
pains involved in labor and 

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delivery. 
And if you're a guy in here, do 

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not say I had bronchitis once. 
So I know what it's like. 

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Because ladies, if you want to 
slap them, that's pre forgiven. 

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So, but I mean, correct me if 
I'm wrong, mom's like the moment

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that they handed you that 
newborn baby, man, everything 

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changed, right? 
Everything paled in comparison. 

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Like it, it doesn't mean that it
doesn't mean that you weren't 

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sick all those mornings or all 
those days. 

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And it doesn't mean that that 
that you were well rested and 

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that you were comfortable for 
all those months. 

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And it certainly doesn't mean 
that you didn't go through a lot

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of intense pain during labor. 
It just means that when you held

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that newborn baby, the, the, the
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that baby caused all the pain to
pale in comparison, right? 

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And I wonder, I wonder if you 
and I, I wonder if we together, 

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if there's some things that we 
were, were holding on to the, 

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the points of pain and the 
points of, of hurt and trauma 

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that keep us from living in what
God has for us today. 

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You see, I firmly believe that 
that God wants to provide 

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breakthrough for every single 
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And that's going to look 
different for every single one 

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of us. 
But I firmly believe that God 

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wants to provide breakthrough 
for every single one of us. 

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But pain, isn't it true that 
like, pain has such a loud voice

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and it has such a loud voice in 
our mind to where it almost 

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becomes all-encompassing and 
there's such a gravitational 

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pull backwards to relive that 
source of pain over and over and

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over. 
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that we've been talking about is
there are certain things in our 

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lives that threaten to break us.
And I would say that giving into

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those loud voices to revisit 
yesterday's pains, to live 

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there, to set up shop there is 
actually one of the greatest 

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deterrents from us living in the
blessings that God has for us 

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today. 
Or if you've been with us 

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throughout the series, this the 
the big idea, the truth that 

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we've been revolving around 
throughout the series will sound

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familiar to you. 
If you're new to the series and 

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you're taking notes with us 
here, it is One of the things we

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commonly come back to throughout
the series is what can easily 

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break you, God turns in to 
breakthrough. 

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What can easily break you, God 
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And here's what I would tell 
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Nothing threatens there's 
nothing that threatens our 

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living in the breakthrough that 
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Then giving in to the voices of 
yesterday's pains and, and, and 

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not only revisiting those, but 
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the midst of yesterday's pains. 
So how do we as a people, how do

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we as a people, how do we, I 
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how do we kind of tune out the 
voices of yesterday's pains in 

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order to live in the blessings 
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today? 
Well, if you've been with us 

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throughout the series, we've 
been going through the life of a

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God by the name of Joseph. 
And if you have a Bible with 

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you, I encourage you to find 
Genesis chapter 41 with me, 

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Genesis chapter 41. 
And in Genesis chapter 41, we're

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going to be looking at just two 
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Genesis 41 verses 50 and 51, 
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Here's what Genesis 4150 says. 
Before the year the famine came,

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two sons were born to Joseph. 
As an act, the daughter of 

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Potiphar, priest of own, bore 
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Joseph called the name of the 
first Manasseh, for he said, God

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has made me forget all my 
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house. 
So what in the world did these 

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two verses, these two seemingly 
random verses, what in the world

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did these have to do with us 
moving forward in what God has 

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for us? 
Well, if you're new to this 

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series, we've been really kind 
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Joseph asking and these 
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primary questions. 
What does it tell me about 

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Joseph? 
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And what does this tell me about
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Let's tackle that first one 
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If you're taking notes with us, 
what this tells me about Joseph 

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is #1 Joseph's current blessings
far outweighed his past pains. 

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His current blessings far 
outweighed his past pains. 

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His current blessings far 
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Now, I think it's probably 
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some historical background in 
what's going on here. 

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You see in Joseph's day and in 
his age, it was very, very 

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common that a parent would name 
their child on the basis of a 

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situation or circumstance of 
what that parent was going 

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through at that time. 
So for example, Jacob, who we 

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know is Joseph's dad, Jacob had 
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born. 
Joseph, Jacob named Joseph, 

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Joseph because Joseph literally 
means increaser or God will add.

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So it doesn't take a rocket 
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got 10 other boys, we'll name 
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That means increaser. 
God's going to add 1. 

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That's why Joseph was named 
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God. 
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Adam literally means man or 
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Our oldest son, we have three 
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Our oldest son, Landon, we named
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Landon because Landon literally 
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My dad has never changed a 
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he's about to get a lot of 
practice. 

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So Landon for short, you see, 
names in that day and age had a 

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lot of significance. 
They had a lot of weight. 

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As a matter of fact. 
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the Old Testament and you come 
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chapter and you're like, man, I 
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pronounce that name. 
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And Bob saith unto the Lord. 
I'll tell you something that's 

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pretty fascinating. 
If you ever like as you're going

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through the Old Testament, as 
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Bible, when you come up on some 
like really weird sounding 

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names, if you look up what they 
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fascinating. 
You'll get much more of a depth 

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of what's going on in the 
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So Joseph had Joseph had had two
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The first one, the oldest ones 
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So what does Manasseh mean? 
Manasseh means God has caused me

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to forget. 
God has caused me to forget. 

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Now, the way that that word 
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mean that through all of 
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hurt, his trauma, his betrayal, 
all of it, it doesn't mean that 

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God wiped his memory of it. 
It doesn't mean that God erased 

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his memory of all of that that 
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What it does mean is that that 
that all that God had blessed 

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him with, that everything that 
he had gone through, man that 

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paled in comparison. 
It completely paled in 

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comparison. 
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But here's the thing, I don't 
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Joseph. 
I don't think that it, it came 

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easy for Joseph because like we 
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we've been reminding ourselves 
throughout this series, Joseph 

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was a real man with real 
feelings, real emotions, real 

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hurts, real pains, all the 
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He wasn't some fictitious 
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He was a real man. 
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natural for Joseph just to look 
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and sit there and go. 
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You see, I think that there was 
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it. 
Let me show you what I mean. 

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Second thing that we learn about
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He embraced the blessings in 
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to the pains behind him. 
Joseph embrace the blessings in 

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front of him rather than cling 
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Like we said, God did not erase 
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So for example, it is 1000% true
that is a 17 year old Joseph was

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beaten, betrayed, thrown into a 
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the very brothers that he once 
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It is 100% true that Joseph was 
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misconduct by his master's wife 
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It is 100% true that Joseph was 
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it's probably sinking to those 
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But it's also 100% true that God
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the way. 
It's also 100% true that God 

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prepared Joseph every step of 
the way for what he had prepared

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for Joseph. 
It's also 100% true that God 

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through Joseph, interpreted 
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And Pharaoh exalted Joseph to 
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of the prison and Potiphar and 
his lying wife, but over all the

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people of Egypt except for 
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And it was also true that 
Joseph, while in Egypt, he had a

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wife. 
God gave him a wife, and God 

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gave them sons. 
He had a family of his own. 

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Listen, Joseph only had enough 
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He could have lived in his 
yesterday, or he could have 

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lived in his today. 
Joseph chose to intentionally 

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embrace the blessings in front 
of him rather than cling to the 

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pains behind him. 
How did he do that? 

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You know how we said that 
Manasseh literally means God has

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caused me to forget? 
Do you know that there's also a 

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different translation for 
Manasseh? 

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Manasseh can also be translated 
a different way. 

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It's not only God has caused me 
to forget. 

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It is also not only God has 
caused me for to forget, but to 

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let go of something. 
Manasseh literally means to let 

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go of something. 
Listen, not in a not in some 

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like Bible superhero way at all.
Not in an uncompassionate way at

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all, but Joseph realized that he
only had enough bandwidth to 

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live into one, live in one day. 
He could live in yesterday's 

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hurts and pains, or he could 
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So in order to live in today's 
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yesterday's hurts and pains. 
So that's what it tells us about

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Joseph. 
Here's the second question. 

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What does it tell us about God? 
These two seemingly random 

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verses, verses 50 and 51 of 
Genesis 41. 

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First thing it tells us. 
God's plans for me are always 

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for my good. 
God's plans for me are always 

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for my good. 
God's plans for you are always 

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for your good. 
God's plans for us are always 

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for our good. 
Not because I'm good, not 

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because you're good, not because
we're good, but because God is 

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good. 
OK. 

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God's plans for you are for 
good, not because you're good, 

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but because he's good. 
Don't fall into the trap of 

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determining or trying to 
distinguish if God is good or 

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not based off of your personal 
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How easy is it to go? 
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or man, life is tough? 
I'm not so sure about God's 

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goodness anymore, man. 
That that's some shaky sand that

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you're building your theology 
and that you're building your 

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faith and that you're building 
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You may say, well then it 
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I get it, I really do. 
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I'm not going to ask that you 
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that, but see if you can track 
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If you're a parent in the room, 
you know that the best thing for

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your kid is not just to allow 
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The best thing for your kid is 
to establish a bedtime for them.

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The best thing for your kid is 
to to make them go to school and

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if you're the parent of a middle
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your kid and the best thing for 
all of us is make them take a 

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shower pack out of pulse. 
Now listen, if it was up to your

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kid, if it was up to your kid, 
your, your kids going to just be

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eating like Cheetos and drinking
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hours of the night online or, or
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And they certainly don't want to
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So they so they won't go to 
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shower like they're allergic to 
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But listen, as a parent, you 
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kid. 
So you establish these 

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boundaries right now, what you 
know is established for the 

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ultimate good of your kid. 
Your kid doesn't always see it 

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that way. 
Your kid doesn't feel it that 

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way. 
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parent, you know that it's for 
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Here's the point. 
Did you know that God will call 

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us to do hard things and He will
guide us through hard seasons 

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that may not seem good, may not 
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good, but it doesn't mean that 
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doesn't desire good for us. 
There are ways in which God, as 

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a perfect heavenly Father, is 
working all things for the good,

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even when we can't quite 
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don't quite like it and when we 
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God is always working things for
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He desires our ultimate good, 
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Second thing that we know about 
God is God alone has the power 

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to redeem my deepest wounds. 
God alone has the power to 

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redeem my deepest wounds. 
Give you a moment to jot that 

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down. 
Then I want to unpack that. 

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You know how we're able to look 
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Joseph from start to finish. 
If you were to start at the very

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beginning, you can turn to 
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you're introduced to a 17 year 
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And you can read all the way 
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Genesis 50. 
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was with him and how God guided 
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And we're, we're able to not 
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of Joseph's life, we're able to 
have like Joseph's life, we're 

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able to see it from start to 
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And that's a complete game 
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different portions of Joseph's 
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So, for example, our hearts 
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old kid that he's betrayed by 
his brothers and sold into 

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slavery by them. 
However, our hearts may be 

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broken, but that broken 
heartedness is still tempered by

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the fact that we're able to read
ahead and go, hey, Joseph, hold 

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on man, because God is going to 
use this for your good and for 

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his glory. 
He's going to elevate you to the

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palace in Egypt. 
Or we can read about how Joe 

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Joseph was falsely accused by 
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when she pursued him, when she 
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compromise. 
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because she was hurt and because
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made-up a lie and twisted the 
whole narrative and said, no, it

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was Joseph that hit on me and 
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me. 
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And there was no recourse. 
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prison. 
And we can just get angry at the

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injustice of that, but our anger
at that injustice is still 

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tempered by the fact that we 
just want to almost say, man, 

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just hold on, Joseph, hold on. 
God is going to use the prison 

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to prepare you for, for the 
palace that he has prepared for 

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you. 
Or you know, how sad is it that 

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Joseph finally encounters 2 guys
from the Royal Court, a Baker 

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and A and a cupbearer and he 
tells them he goes hey listen 

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would y'all just just just 
remember my name, Remember my 

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name and remember my case 
because I was unjustly brought 

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here. 
I'm in justly imprisoned here. 

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And the cupbearer, he gets into 
the palace and the next thing we

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hear about that guy's, he forgot
about Joseph. 

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And Joseph there in a, in a 
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forgotten. 
But our heart still goes out to 

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him because we're like, hey, 
Joseph, just hold on, man. 

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God is preparing you for what he
has prepared for you and he's 

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about to elevate you to the 
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Why are we able to do that? 
Because we know the whole story,

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right? 
We'll think about it this way. 

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Because God exists out of what 
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He's able to look at my life and
your life and our lives the same

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way that we're able to look at 
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That's not meant to confuse you.
It's actually meant to comfort 

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you that there are certain 
things that God will allow into 

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our lives to prepare us for what
He has prepared for us, and He 

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wants to take past hurts and 
pains and and trauma to redeem 

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those things. 
Here's what I mean by that. 

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Who else do you think could be 
most powerfully used by God to 

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speak hope into the life of 
someone who has lost their 

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spouse than someone who has lost
their spouse? 

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Who else do you think could be 
more you? 

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Most you powerfully used by God 
to speak hope into the life of 

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someone who's struggling with 
addiction than someone who has 

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been freed by the chains of 
addiction through the cross of 

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Jesus. 
Who else do you think could be 

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used most powerfully by God to 
speak hope into the life of 

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someone who has experienced 
abuse than someone than a 

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daughter or a son of God that 
has walked that painful path but

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has found healing by the blood 
of the cross? 

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You see, our past pain, our past
hurt, our past trauma, It 

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doesn't have to be wasted. 
God never calls us to forget it.

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God never calls us, hey, just 
like move on from it. 

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He wants to redeem it. 
So this is what it tells us 

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about God. 
What does all of this? 

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What are these two verses? 
What does it tell me about me #1

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I cannot move forward in what 
God has for me while clinging to

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my past. 
I cannot move forward and what 

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God has for me while clinging to
my past. 

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Give you a moment, jot that 
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Let then let me unpack it. 
This does not say you just need 

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to get over it. 
This does not say you'll ever 

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seen the bumper stickers like 
let go and let God or let God 

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and let go. 
It doesn't matter the order. 

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Both of them are really bad 
theology and very unloving and 

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in compassion uncompassionate. 
So uncompassionate or in 

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compassionate we don't know. 
Both of them are wrong and 

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unloving. 
Cannot move forward and what God

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has for me while clinging to my 
past. 

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It does not mean that we do not 
have past hurts, pains, traumas,

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wounds and scars. 
It just means that we refuse to 

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be defined by those things. 
You see, there's some of us in 

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here we are experiencing even 
now in this moment. 

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It could be the passing of a 
loved one. 

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It could be the betrayal of a 
friend. 

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It could be a lot of doubts. 
It could be anything, 

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everything. 
There could be a lot of anger. 

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There could be a lot of fear. 
There could be a lot of doubt in

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your life. 
It could be anything and 

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everything from your past, the 
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That gravitational pull is 
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And here's where I would tell 
you is if you have given those 

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areas of your life, those pain 
points of your life over to 

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Jesus, said Jesus, and you know 
that I'm struggling so mightily 

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in this way. 
Would you meet me at a place 

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deep within my soul that only 
your Holy Spirit can go? 

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His answer every single time is 
a resounding yes. 

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And here's what that yes means. 
That means that through the 

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blood of Jesus, He has already 
won the victory. 

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You see, when we fight against 
those voices that pull us 

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backwards to define ourselves by
the past hurt, pain, and trauma,

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we're not fighting for victory. 
We're fighting from victory 

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because Jesus has already won 
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It doesn't mean that we don't 
fight. 

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It doesn't mean that we don't 
grieve. 

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It doesn't mean that we don't 
cry. 

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It doesn't mean that we don't 
weep. 

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It doesn't mean that we don't 
weep. 

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We don't have a lot of pent up 
emotions about. 

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It just means that we don't 
allow that past pain, hurt, and 

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trauma to define us, to define 
us. 

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And just like Joseph, did you 
know that you and I, we only 

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have enough bandwidth to live in
one day. 

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We can live, we can choose to 
live in today and all that God 

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has ahead of us, or we can 
choose to be trapped by the 

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past, by yesterday. 
We cannot live in both. 

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We cannot live in both today and
yesterday. 

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So maybe today jotted this note 
down. 

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Maybe today as we're talking 
about Manasseh, your Manasseh 

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prayer goes something a little 
bit like this. 

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God, I need to let go of my past
so that I can move forward and 

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all that you have for me. 
It doesn't mean letting go of 

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your past. 
It doesn't mean, hey, you just 

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need to get over it. 
You just need to move on. 

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God, I need your blood, the 
blood of the cross to cover my 

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past. 
I don't want to. 

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I don't want to allow my past to
define me anymore. 

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God, I know that you desire good
for me. 

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And if you can use my past 
hurts, pains and trauma for the 

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good, for my good and for your 
glory, God, I'm all yours. 

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Second thing that this passage 
tells us about Joseph is this is

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I'm living for the day when I 
can look back and say it was 

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worth it all. 
It was worth it all. 

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Listen, even in this room, our 
930 service was full of men and 

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women that are experiencing a 
lot of hurt, a lot of struggle. 

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You've been praying for years 
and years and years. 

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You may, you may find yourself 
in here this morning like we had

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people in the 930 service in the
room and online that you're 

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struggling. 
You're fighting those chains of 

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addiction. 
You're struggling like with all 

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that is within you, to walk in 
alignment with God's will and 

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his ways and his word. 
You're struggling to fight for 

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your family that you're walking 
and God's will for your family. 

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And here's what I would tell 
you, don't give up. 

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And the struggle is worth it. 
As your pastor and as your 

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friend, I want to remind you of 
something. 

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Two things actually, in one 
sentence #1 the best is yet to 

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come. 
The best is yet to come. 

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And it will all be worth it. 
It will all be worth it. 

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I cannot wait for us to 
experience all that God has for 

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us and to look back over all 
that we've been through. 

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And we can reminisce over past 
hurts and pains and trauma 

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together, but to look together 
at that and go, you know what? 

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It was worth it all. 
God, you did something so 

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amazing out of something so hard
and so gross and so evil, but it

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was worth it all. 
Look at all the glory that you 

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get from this. 
So maybe your Manasseh type of 

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prayer is God. 
Would you give me the strength 

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and the faith to discover? 
Would you give me the strength 

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and the faith to discover that 
the that the blessings that you 

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have in front of me make the 
pain that you have behind me all

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worth it? 
Would you give me the strength 

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and the faith to discover that 
the blessings that you have in 

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front of me are greater than the
pains that you have behind me? 

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If you've been with us over the 
past several weeks throughout 

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this series, one of the things 
that we do at the end of our 

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time together is we kind of turn
it to the personal. 

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We walk through three key 
questions together as a church 

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and I basically just challenge 
you, Hey, I want you to think 

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about these three key questions.
Pray about them in your, in your

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time, where you are right now. 
And then respond. 

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Here's what we're going to do. 
If you look at the bottom of 

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your note sheet there, there are
some key questions there. 

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And I want to just invite you, 
take this, take this note sheet 

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home with you. 
And I I pray that you would pray

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through these questions that you
would you would invite the Holy 

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Spirit into these three 
questions to reveal to you what 

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needs to be revealed to you to 
grow you where you need to grow 

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through these three key 
questions. 

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It just in your time alone with 
God this week. 

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But I want to circle back to 
that last light, Manasseh type 

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of prayer, the one to where we 
say, God, would you give me the 

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strength and the faith to 
discover that the, that that the

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blessings ahead of me are far 
greater than the pains behind 

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me, that it was worth it, that 
God is, is, is is going to be 

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worth it all? 
I'm going to spend a little bit 

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of time on that one because did 
you know when, when we go into a

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heart posture, an attitude of 
our heart, an attitude of our 

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mind, when we go into that type 
of heart posture, do you know 

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that we're closely walking in 
the footsteps of Jesus and the 

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heart posture that he put on at 
the very end of his life? 

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Remember how Jesus, right before
he was betrayed by one of his 

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best friends, Judas, he goes out
and he prays in the Garden of 

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Gethsemane. 
And, and, and it's not just like

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this kneel prayer, like God 
bless the gift and the giver. 

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You know, some like rote prayer.
The Bible tells us that he's 

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praying so intently that like he
begins to sweat drops of blood 

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that it actually burst the 
capillaries in his forehead, 

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which is a real medical 
condition under mass distress. 

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And what what was this prayer? 
If you grew up in church, you 

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know that essentially his prayer
was Father, if there's any other

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way, let this cup pass from me. 
In other words, Father, I know 

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what's about to happen. 
But if there's any other way 

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that could happen in any other 
way, please let it be made 

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known. 
But that's not where he stopped 

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his prayer. 
He ends it with but not my will,

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but your will be done. 
I want to show you something 

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about the cross of Jesus and it 
comes to us from the book of 

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Hebrews, Hebrews chapter 12, 
verse 2. 

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Check out what the writer of 
Hebrews says. 

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He says as we look to Jesus, the
founder and perfector of our 

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faith, who for the joy that was 
set before him endure the cross,

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despising the shame, and is 
seated at the right hand of the 

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throne of God. 
Here's what this means. 

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For the joy that was set before 
him, endure the cross. 

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What in the world is that about?
It doesn't mean that the the the

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the crown of thorns didn't hurt.
It doesn't mean that, as he had 

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nails driven into his wrists and
into his ankles, that they did 

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not hurt. 
It doesn't mean that as he was 

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laughed at and scoffed at and 
spit at and he was hung, 

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humiliated for just the 
entertainment of anybody that 

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wanted to walk by hanging on a 
cross. 

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It doesn't mean that none of 
that hurt. 

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What it does mean, however, is 
as he is seated at the right 

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hand of the throne of God, 
because we know that Jesus 

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didn't stay dead. 
He was resurrected from the dead

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three days later. 
He is seated at the right hand 

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of the right hand of the throne 
of God going, it was all worth 

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it. 
It was all worth it. 

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And I love how we get a picture 
of the resurrected Jesus to 

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where he appears to his 
disciples and especially Thomas.

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And he goes, Thomas, put your 
hand in my wrist. 

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In other words, the resurrected 
Jesus still maintain the scars. 

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And I think the scars are there 
as a reminder. 

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It was all worth it. 
It was all Jesus went through, 

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everything that he went through 
so that your sins and my sins 

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can be forgiven and so that we 
can be made right with God. 

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It was all worth it. 
So when we begin to pray, God, 

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give me the faith and give me 
the strength to discover that 

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the blessings that you have 
ahead of me are far greater than

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the pains that are behind me. 
In many ways, we're following in

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the footsteps of Jesus. 
So in just a few moments we're 

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going to partake of the Lord's 
Supper together to where we we 

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we take of the bread and we take
of the cup. 

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But before we get there, I want 
to show you something that the 

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apostle Paul warns us about and 
taking the Lord's Supper. 

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This is in First Corinthians 
Chapter 11. 

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Paul wrote, Whoever therefore 
eats the bread or drinks the cup

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of the Lord in an unworthy 
manner will be guilty concerning

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the body and the blood of the 
Lord. 

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Let a person examine himself 
then, and so eat of the bread 

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and drink of the cup. 
For anyone who eats and drinks 

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without discerning the body eats
and drinks judgment on himself. 

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So Church, here's the big 
question. 

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How in the world do we make sure
that we're not about to take the

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bread and the cup in an unworthy
manner? 

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Well, it has everything to do 
with we have to examine ourself.

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So here's what I want to invite 
you to do before we take the 

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bread, before we take the cup, I
just want to invite you just 

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across the room. 
If you would bow your heads and,

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and close your eyes. 
And this is not some religious 

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00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,800
sacred posture. 
It's not that, you know, we get 

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00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,080
heaven's attention when we bow 
our heads and close our eyes. 

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00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,640
We bow our heads and close our 
eyes to be able to tune out all 

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distractions around us. 
And I would just, I would just 

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00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:51,400
say make every effort not to 
move during this moment because 

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you don't want to distract the 
people around you. 

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But with your head bowed and 
with your eyes closed, it's just

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a picture. 
It's just, it's just you and God

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in this moment. 
And I want you to ask God. 

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00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,640
Take a few moments to ask God. 
God, is there anything in my 

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life that is not pleasing to 
you? 

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00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,240
Is there anything in my life 
that shouldn't be in my life? 

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00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:25,320
Give Him access to every part of
you, the deepest parts of you, 

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00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,600
the darkest parts of you. 
Listen, He already knows them 

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00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,400
anyway. 
Give Him access to those deep 

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00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,880
parts. 
God, would you reveal to me any 

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00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,320
part of my life that is 
displeasing to you? 

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That's not an alignment with 
you? 

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And when He reveals those things
to us, when He causes those 

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00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:50,000
things to rise to the surface of
our minds, he's not doing it 

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because he's angry with you. 
He's doing it because he's 

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calling you to confess those 
things to him as sin. 

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If you were with us last week, 
we talked about how the the two 

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ways in which we fast track our 
relationship with God is being 

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quick to forgive and practicing 
regular confession. 

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God's not revealing these things
to you about you because He 

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00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,000
hates you. 
He's revealing these things to 

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00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:20,199
you, about you because He loves 
you and He's pointing out to you

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spiritual cancer in your life 
and confession to Him is the 

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only cure. 
So confess it as sin before Him 

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and ask Him to forgive it, and 
then ask Him to cleanse you. 

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God, I don't want to take the 
bread in the cup in an unworthy 

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manner. 
God, whatever it looks like for 

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00:34:50,290 --> 00:34:55,159
me to take the bread in the cup 
in a worthy manner, God, the 

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answer is yes. 
God, we thank you for knowing 

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00:35:08,490 --> 00:35:12,850
everything that there is to know
about us and still choosing to 

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00:35:12,850 --> 00:35:17,810
love us anyway. 
Because God, we understand that 

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your love for us is not based on
who we are or what we do. 

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It's based on who you are. 
So God, as you have revealed 

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00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:33,240
things to us about us this 
morning, God, would you remind 

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00:35:33,240 --> 00:35:36,680
us that they're not because it's
not because you hate us, It's 

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actually because you love us. 
And you've brought these things 

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00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,800
you, you've caused these things 
that are inconsistent in our 

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lives, inconsistent with who you
are and what you would have for 

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us. 
You brought sin to the to the 

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top of our minds so that we can 
hand that sin over to you and 

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call it what it is, sin and ask 
that you take it and ask that 

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00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:01,680
you forgive us and ask that you 
cleanse us and clean us from the

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inside. 
God, I pray that you would over 

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the next few moments as we take 
the bread, as we take the cup, 

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00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,800
God, that you're to remind us of
your incredible love for each 

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00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,680
and everyone of us, and not just
your love for us, but your love 

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00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,480
for the people in which you, 
every single person that you 

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00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:27,240
bring into our lives. 
So God, I pray that you would 

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00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:32,000
focus our hearts, focus our 
minds, focus our lives on you 

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00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,280
during these moments. 
And it's in Jesus name that we 

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00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:43,280
pray, Amen. 
So the Bible tells us that on 

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00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,600
that night, the Passover night, 
Jesus disciples, they met with 

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00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,520
Jesus in the upper room and 
these guys, they've done the 

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00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,000
Passover meal couple times 
already. 

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00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,160
But there was something 
different about this night. 

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On this night, Jesus took the 
bread and it said that he broke 

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the bread. 
And as he broke it, I can 

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00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,680
imagine he looks around the 
room, probably looks at every 

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00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,880
single one of the people in that
room that night, straight in the

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eyes. 
And then he said, this is my 

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00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:34,600
body, which is broken for you. 
And even though I'm sure that in

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the moment, just as disciples, 
they didn't quite get what he 

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00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:44,520
was talking about, they had no 
way of knowing what was just a 

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00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,920
few hours away. 
But before they departed that 

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00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:54,280
room, Jesus took the cup. 
And I can imagine these guys, 

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00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:59,680
they had, they've been a part of
this Passover meal for years. 

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00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,360
And for the past couple years 
they've been a part of the 

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00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:08,080
Passover meal with Jesus. 
And the person over the meal, 

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00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,000
they would take that cup and 
they would hold this cup up and 

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00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,920
then they would go through the 
Passover rituals. 

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00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,480
But again, there was something 
different about that night. 

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00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:21,560
That night Jesus took the cup 
and I believe that he looked 

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00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:26,440
them in the eyes and he said, 
this is my blood which is given,

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00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:40,160
which is poured out for you. 
God, in times like this, we are 

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so aware of how inadequate our 
words are. 

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But God, from the deepest parts 
of us, from those guttural parts

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00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:55,200
of us, Lord, we say thank you. 
Thank you for dying in our 

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place. 
Thank you for sending your son 

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00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,360
into this world to die in our 
place. 

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00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:08,360
Everything that he went through 
for me, everything that he went 

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00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:15,040
through for us, God, we thank 
you. 

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00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,720
God, we pray that you would 
continue to challenge us to live

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00:39:20,720 --> 00:39:25,040
differently because of it. 
Got to keep our eyes focused on 

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00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:30,920
you and your love for us and how
that changes everything, and 

628
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,960
your love for the people around 
us and how that changes 

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00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,520
everything. 
God, we pray that you would 

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00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:46,200
continue to guide us, to grow 
us, to use us, and to prepare 

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00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,720
us. 
God, I pray that you would 

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00:39:48,720 --> 00:39:54,760
redeem our deepest hurts in our 
past for our good and for your 

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00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,680
glory. 
Can I pray that you will 

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continue to guide us. 
And it's in Jesus name that we 

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pray. 
Amen. 

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