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Thank you for listening to 
Riverbend Church's podcast. 

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To find out more about this 
message or Riverbend Church, 

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connect with us online at 
Riverbend Church dot live. 

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The Fleming so thankful that 
they were able to share their 

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story with us, Darcy and Tommy 
and of course heart and really, 

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if you got anything from their 
story, really the main character

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of their story is God and and 
their reliance on him. 

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One of the things that that that
we love to do is just be able 

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when people are telling their 
story, their God's story to 

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people is we love just to kind 
of promote that. 

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Darcy actually just came out 
with a book, Me But Mighty 

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starring God and heart with 
that. 

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Highly recommend that you pick 
that up. 

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Sweet, sweet book. 
You know, one of the things 

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that, that, that part of that 
interview is they did start 

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praying for not just heart's 
finger, but also Heart's heart. 

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And Heart had been asking a lot 
of questions about what it means

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to follow Jesus. 
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those questions with a child, 
with a, with a kid can be really

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tricky. 
And Julie does an incredible job

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of, of, of basically giving 
tools to parents to help them 

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take the ball and move it 
forward and to help them have 

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conversations with their kids. 
And a couple months ago, if you 

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were here with us, you may 
remember that we got the honor 

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and privilege of being able to 
baptize Heart. 

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So love just being a part of 
their story. 

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We are, in case you didn't know,
we are just on the very front 

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edge kicking off today, actually
tonight at 6:00, our 21 days of 

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prayer and fasting. 
And if you've been with us for 

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for a few years and you've been 
a part of 21 days of prayer and 

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fasting here at Riverbend, you 
know what a powerful, powerful 

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time that is. 
And over the course of this 

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month, you're going to be seeing
more stories like this play out 

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about how people just 
specifically prayed to God about

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something and how God really 
just blew them away and answered

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above and beyond what they could
possibly ever imagine or hope 

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for. 
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would tell you as, as, as your 
pastor is a lot of things that 

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we're able to do now that or the
prayers that God answered during

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these seasons four years ago. 
So 21 days of prayer and 

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fasting. 
We very much invite you into 

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into this time is kind of where 
we're going to be aiming our 

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message series throughout this 
month and then on into next 

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month. 
We also want to provide 

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resources for you that are going
to help you to be able to just 

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spend some more time with God 
and to experience him like never

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before. 
And maybe you've never been a 

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part of a fast and and that's 
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And I would say that 2026 is a 
perfect time for you to begin. 

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Some of the resources that we 
make available to you is number 

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one. 
We want to invite you back here 

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tonight, 6 O clock. 
We're going to have just a night

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of worship, a night of worship 
and a night of prayer from six 

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to seven just to kind of kick 
off the season. 

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And then on top of that, you may
have noticed in the lobbies as 

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you came in, we developed 
devotional gods in house 

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devotional gods. 
So we developed one for adults, 

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Nathan developed one for 
students, and then Julie 

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developed one for kids and 
families. 

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And these are on the tables in 
the main lobbies, in the rear 

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lobby, in the main lobby up 
front for you to pick up and for

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you to walk through and for you 
to journey through. 

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They, they go side by side with 
the same scripture references. 

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And we just think it's going to 
be a very, very powerful tool 

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for you and your family during 
this time and during this 

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season. 
So really excited about about 

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being able to kick this off. 
With that said, if you are new 

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to Riverbend, thank you so much 
for choosing to be with us. 

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I hope that your 2026 has 
started off well. 

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If we haven't had the chance to 
meet yet, my name is Ben get to 

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serve as the lead pastor here. 
We'd love to get to meet you. 

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We'd love to get to know you 
would actually love to to be 

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able to connect you with some 
people, maybe similar age stage.

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That's what that connect card is
for that you received on your 

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way in. 
That Connect card also allows 

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us, if you're new to Riverbend, 
it also allows us to know where 

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to ship a small thank you gift 
out into the mail to you. 

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So again, thank you so much for 
choosing to be with us. 

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But whether you're new to 
Riverbend or call Riverbend 

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home, like I said, I hope that 
your 2026 has already started 

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off well, regardless of who you 
are, regardless of your 

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background, regardless of all 
the different variables and the 

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factors out there. 
I know that if we were to 

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summarize kind of our goals, our
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would be if we were to boil it 
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would be to just simply live 
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We just want to live well. 
Here's the here's the issue with

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wanting to live well. 
However, there's a discrepancy 

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between what you may think is 
living well and the person next 

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to you or the person in front of
you or the person behind you may

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think is living well. 
So for some, living well maybe 

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to to gain name recognition, to 
gain likes and followers and 

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notoriety online social media, 
maybe. 

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Maybe you're in a business 
that's dependent upon that. 

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While likes, followers, 
notoriety, name recognition. 

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For others that may be your 
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For some, living well would 
involve maybe a promotion, maybe

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maybe a raise at work. 
While for others they hear that 

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and they automatically start 
thinking about how those things 

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inevitably come with sacrificing
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For some, living well may 
involve having a getting a new 

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car or truck or house or boat. 
While for others you may 

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automatically start thinking 
your your brain may 

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automatically start thinking to 
increased insurance cost and gas

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cost and upkeep cost. 
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living well. 
They they all vary. 

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The issue is not the goal for us
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to want to live well. 
The issue is having the right 

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definition of what it means to 
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I don't know your church 
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You may be very new to church. 
You, you may you may have 

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started 2026 off thinking, you 
know what, I'm going to give God

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a shot. 
I've I've tried doing it my own 

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way for so long. 
I'm going to give God a shot. 

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And if that's you and welcome, 
we just so happen to believe 

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that God himself has a 
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us to live well. 
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serving as the main truth or the
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So if you, if you're taking 
notes with us, it's on the back 

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of the bulletin. 
If you're taking notes with us, 

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I want to get you to jot this 
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To live well is to live God's 
way, firm in faith, steady in 

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trials, anchored in hope. 
To live well is to live God's 

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way, firm in faith, steady in 
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And what we're going to do 
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going to allow God's word and 
specifically a small book 

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towards the end of your Bible 
called First Peter to guide us 

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in what it means to live God's 
way and how we are to be firm in

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faith and steady in trials and 
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So if you have a Bible with you,
I invite you to find the book of

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first Peter, like I said, is 
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Bible. 
Just kind of give you a quick 

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pastor tip. 
If you find the book of second 

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Peter, you've gone too far. 
Flip back a couple pages. 

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You'll find first Peter as 
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Peter, give you some context on 
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Peter before diving in. 
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Pastor Todd did an awesome job 
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and to remind us who this guy 
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And if you weren't able to be 
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highly encourage you spend some 
time in this week to come kind 

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of go back through, walk back 
through, listen back through 

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that message. 
But in a nutshell, Peter was one

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of Jesus's chosen 12 apostles. 
And of those chosen 12 he had an

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inner circle of three and Peter 
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Peter was one of Jesus closest 
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So Peter knew Jesus like like no
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He was one of Jesus chosen 12 
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and resurrected from the dead 
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Peter finds himself in the 
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anchoring the church, this new 
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city of Jerusalem. 
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history, you know that the Roman
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Christians in Jerusalem like a 
sledgehammer and then the 

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Christians had to disperse all 
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It's called the Diaspora. 
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the Christians scattered from 
Jerusalem, guess what they took 

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with them? 
They took the gospel of Jesus 

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with them. 
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time and, and stage in history 
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powerful, very, very evil. 
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Christians wherever they found 
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So the book of first Peter, if 
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context, Peter wrote the book of
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Christians. 
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circulated by persecuted 
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Minor around 60 to 62 AD. 
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historical context because if 
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about like, you know, golden 
brick roads and like flowers 

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and, and, and, and everything is
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you're going to find a lot of 
affinity towards what Peter's 

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actually going to write here. 
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though we may not be facing the 
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Christians were in 60 to 62 AD, 
we still grapple with what it 

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means for us actually to live by
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focused. 
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then it's very difficult, I 
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for us to actually live in hope.
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faith focused, I want to, I want
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We're going to read just for a 
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1, verses 3 through 9 this 
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This where Peter starts off. 
He says blessed be the God and 

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Father of our Lord Jesus Christ 
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He has caused us to be born 
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the resurrection of Jesus Christ
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that is imperishable, undefiled,
and unfading, kept in heaven for

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you, who by God's power are 
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a salvation ready to be revealed
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Verse 6. 
In this you rejoice, though now 

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for a little while, if 
necessary, you have been grieved

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by various trials, so that the 
tested genuineness of your 

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faith, more precious than gold 
that perishes, though it is 

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tested by fire, may, may be 
found to result in praise and 

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glory and honor at the 
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Verse 8, though you have not 
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Though you do not now see him, 
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with him, that is with joy that 
is inexpressible and filled with

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glory, obtaining the outcome of 
your faith, the salvation of 

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your souls. 
Now here's what I want to do in 

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our time together this morning 
is I want to unpack that for us.

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And I want to 1st talk about how
we can be faith focused, what it

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means for us to be faith focused
and, and, and, and what is 

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required of us to be faith 
focused in order that we may 

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live in hope that, that the, 
that the trials and the issues 

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and all the stuff that's going 
on in our lives right now. 

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Don't rob us of our faith or 
don't rob us of our hope. 

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If you're taking notes with us, 
looking first of all at what it 

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means for us to be faith 
focused, we have to remember 

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this, that whatever captures my 
attention eventually guides my 

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steps. 
Whatever captures my attention 

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eventually guides my steps. 
Whatever captures my attention 

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eventually guides my steps. 
Tell a quick story. 

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We, we lived in Jacksonville. 
We had a, we had a boxer, a dog,

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not a man that fought. 
We had a, we had a boxer named 

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Cooper. 
Cooper got a picture of Cooper. 

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Cooper was man, he was, he's 
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dumb, Really, really dumb. 
So anyway, I called up a dog 

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trainer, a very highly 
recommended dog trainer to come 

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over to our house to do an in 
house session of obedience 

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training with with Cooper. 
Like I said, this guy, highly, 

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highly recommended, comes over 
to our house and man, he is 

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pulling out all the stops. 
He's giving Cooper commands and 

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Cooper's not listening. 
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match for Cooper's dumbness. 
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resort, as a last resort, the 
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hey, I want to try one last 
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And he sees that we have an 
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chair. 
He, we, we have an Ottoman in 

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our living room. 
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on the Ottoman. 
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Cooper up on the Ottoman. 
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it. 
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give Cooper a command. 
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Cooper followed the command. 
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world? 
We have a magic Ottoman. 

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So I asked, I asked the guy like
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leave, I was like, hey, man, 
like what is it about this 

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Ottoman that, that, that like 
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our dumb dog. 
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to tell you something. 
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the Ottoman at all. 
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getting Cooper off of his feet, 
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that then I can give him command
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his attention. 
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can get a dog's attention, then 
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And then from there he taught us
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an E collar on Cooper. 
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don't know what that is. 
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going, oh, that is so medieval. 
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electrocute him. 
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what it does is it sends a 
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and it's almost like a tap to 
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the dog. 
You can give the dog commands. 

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Now, not to sound demeaning to 
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Here's what I want to remind us 
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Very front edge 2026, the 
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back and review again and read 
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I think that this is a Holy 
Spirit E collar. 

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I think there's a Holy Spirit 
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miss this. 
Don't miss this because it's so 

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easy for us to gloss over. 
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started. 
Blessed be the God and the 

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Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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Blessed be the God and the 
Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

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Do not miss that. 
That is huge because here's what

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I know. 
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everything that is ahead of you,
everything that you're in the 

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midst of right now, it is all 
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And it is all about you and I 
acknowledging God for who He 

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really is. 
We cannot start 2026 with any 

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measure of success without this 
small little tidbit of a worship

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service that Paul's or that 
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Blessed be the God and Father of
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That's where it's got to start, 
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ourselves that whatever captures
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guide my steps. 
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object of your attention, don't 
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girl eventually guides your 
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If a title or a promotion or 
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attention, don't be surprised 
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guides your steps. 
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serious about God transforming 
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directing our steps into a new 
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His will, His ways, then God has
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point of our attention, our 
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Whatever God's our steps, or 
whatever captures our heart, 

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captures our attention, will 
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I love how Peter starts this off
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worship service, but that's not 
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Check this out back half of 
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According to his great mercy, 
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to a living hope through the 
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from the dead. 
If you and I are to live faith 

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focused, we have to remember 
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second point. 
Here we go is I am not who I 

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used to be because there's a new
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Notice it doesn't say I'm not 
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a good resolution. 
I'm not who I used to be because

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I learned from my mistakes. 
I'm not who I used to be because

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I have good intentions. 
No, no, I'm not who I used to be

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because there's a new king over 
my life. 

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Let me get you to think in these
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Every single person with us in 
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single life has one throne, has 
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life, in and over that life. 
And what that means is when push

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comes to shove, there's one 
voice of authority that dictates

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the decisions and the choices 
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Whoever sits on that one throne 
in our life, whoever has that 

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singular voice of authority 
dictates the decisions and the 

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choices that we make. 
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You and I, every single one of 
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actually have been given the 
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who sits on that throne. 
For some of us, it may be your 

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spouse, For some of you, it may 
be your family, maybe your kids.

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For some of you, it may be your 
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It may be a boss, it may be a 
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It may be it may be a best 
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For some of us, I think that 
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scenario. 
It's ourselves, it's what we 

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think, it's our preferences. 
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We put ourselves on that throne,
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On that throne you may say, OK 
Ben, first of all, that sounds 

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really churchy. 
Second of all, why in the world 

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would I do that? 
Why would I put Jesus on that 

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throne instead of myself? 
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Number one is because you and I,
we need to understand and we 

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need to remember that there is a
God that created us and loved us

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so much that he sent Jesus, his 
only son, into this world to 

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down a cross so that we can be 
forgiven of our sins. 

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And this Jesus came into the 
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life and, and, and he healed 
and, and he performed miracles 

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and he pointed people to a 
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they can have a relationship 
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And, and in the midst of his 
teachings, he even predicted his

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own execution and resurrection 
from the dead. 

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And sure enough, he was 
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He was murdered on a cross. 
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was dead, three days later, he 
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And that grave is still empty. 
As a matter of fact, you and I, 

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we can go to Israel right now. 
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where people think that the 
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They're not even sure which 
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There's various empty holes in 
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Do you know why they didn't 
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Because there was nobody in it 
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He's not there. 
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then anything is possible. 
And he did rise from the dead. 

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And I just so happen to think 
that it's a really good idea to 

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go with the one that called his 
own shot and that he was going 

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to be murdered and resurrected 
himself from the dead. 

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I just think that's a really 
good idea #2 how's your way been

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working for you? 
How's my way been working for 

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me? 
It hasn't. 

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So we settle for lesser things 
like New Year's resolution, New 

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Year, New me, when we really 
just find out that just because 

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a calendar flips over doesn't 
mean that we leave our past in 

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the in a previous year. 
We need a savior. 

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And you, you may say, well, Ben,
why in the world would God do 

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that for me? 
Ben, if you knew me, I wouldn't 

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do that for me. 
Why would he do that for me? 

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Because He loves you and because
He's merciful and He's gracious 

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and He's kind. 
And catch this, He's not 

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finished with you. 
You are not too far gone. 

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If you were here with us this 
morning or with us online, it 

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doesn't matter what's in your 
past, what you've done, what 

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you've been about, how much you 
know, how little you know. 

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God is not finished with you 
yet, and the only way for us to 

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live a full own true 
transformational life is to be 

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born again, to lay down, to 
surrender our lives to Jesus and

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go Jesus, I can't do it. 
You take my brokenness and give 

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me your healing. 
You take my sin and you give me 

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your holiness and your 
righteousness. 

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And the Bible teaches us that 
we'll be born again. 

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And that is the only way that we
have hope for living a 

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transformed life. 
I'm different now not because I 

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have gained education, because 
I've read a lot, because I have 

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good intentions, because I have 
good ideas, but because there's 

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a new king over my life. 
But the third element for us 

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that we have to understand in 
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to go back to what Peter said in
first Peter, starting in verse 

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four, he talks about an 
inheritance that is 

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imperishable, undefiled and 
unfading, kept in heaven for 

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you, who by God's power being 
guarded through faith for a 

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salvation ready to be revealed 
in the last time. 

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This is what we're reminded of. 
Third and final point of this 

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section of our notes is what 
lies ahead of me is far greater 

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than what lies behind me. 
What lies ahead of me is far 

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greater than what lies behind 
me. 

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When Peter talks about 
inheritance here, he's using, 

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he's kind of tapping into an Old
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Testament concept of inheritance
and basically that verbiage and 

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that concept was simply this. 
All that the father has, the 

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descendants would be given. 
It is same thing for you. 

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All that the father has, the 
descendants, the children would 

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be given. 
Here's the keyword and what I 

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just said. 
Given, not earned. 

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It's given. 
Given not based off of anything 

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that you've done or anything 
that you've accomplished or even

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your own potential, but given 
because you were a son or 

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daughter of the Most High God. 
Isn't it interesting how much 

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time we spend like worrying and 
stressing out over things that 

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will eventually dull and fade 
and and wear out? 

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Listen, I'm not at all saying 
that the things that that are in

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your life, the issues and the 
trials and the storms and the 

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concerns in your life, I'm not 
saying they're meaningless. 

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I'm not even, I'm not saying 
that they're worthless and I'm 

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certainly not even saying that 
they're not worthy of giving 

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over to God in prayer. 
As a matter of fact, if it's a 

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big enough for you, if it's a 
big enough deal for us to worry 

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about, it's a big enough deal 
for us to give over to God in 

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prayer. 
What I am saying is a lot of 

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times we lose sight of the 
things that we cannot lose 

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because we're worried about not 
gaining the things that will 

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eventually wear out. 
And here's what I would 

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encourage you with is there's 
absolutely nothing. 

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Come what may, there's 
absolutely nothing. 

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If you've surrendered your life 
to Jesus Christ, there's nothing

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that can ever change the fact 
that you are a son or daughter 

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of God Almighty. 
The fact that that that you are,

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that your, that your sins have 
been forgiven and that you will 

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spend eternity with him face to 
face, your eternity is secured. 

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Nothing will ever change that. 
So we can say from a very real 

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and a very authentic and a very,
very genuine point of view, what

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lies ahead of me is far greater 
than anything that lies behind 

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me. 
That helps me. 

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Those three reminders help me to
be faith focused. 

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We need those reminders in order
to understand what it means to 

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live and to walk by faith. 
Here's why that's so important. 

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Here's why that's so important 
is if you and I, if we are going

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to live in hope and if hope is 
always future tense and it is 

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and we have things that are 
going on in our lives, storms or

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trials or issues or 
complications or whatever we may

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call them that they will never, 
none of those things will ever 

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last forever and they won't. 
Then what do we need to know 

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about hope or what do we need to
know about our current 

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situations that do not rob us of
our future hope? 

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You follow me. 
What do we need to know about 

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our current situations, whatever
that situation or circumstance 

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may be? 
What do we need to know about 

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those situations that they will 
not rob us that knowing these 

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three essential truths will keep
us from being robbed of our 

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future hope? 
Well, let's turn back to Peter 

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first. 
Peter chapter 1 read with me 

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starting in verse 6. 
In this you rejoice, though now 

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00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,560
for a little while if necessary,
you've been grieved by various 

447
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,560
trials, so that the tested 
genuineness of your faith, more 

448
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,920
precious than gold that 
perishes, though it is tested by

449
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,760
fire, may be found to result in 
praise and glory and honor at 

450
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:27,600
the revelation of Jesus Christ. 
Though you have not seen Him, 

451
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,120
you love Him. 
Though you do not now see Him, 

452
00:28:31,120 --> 00:28:33,480
you believe in Him and rejoice 
with joy. 

453
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,800
That is inexpressible and filled
with glory, obtaining the 

454
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:42,240
outcome of your faith, the 
salvation of your souls. 

455
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:47,240
So what are three reminders that
you and I here, January 11th, 

456
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:52,280
2025, need to hold on to about 
what we are currently going 

457
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:57,120
through so that what we're 
currently going through does not

458
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:04,080
rob us of our future hope as we 
kind of turn towards the final 

459
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,160
lap of our time together this 
morning. 

460
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,680
If you're taking notes with us, 
here's the first thing. 

461
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,520
This isn't earth shattering. 
And as a matter of fact, I'm 

462
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,600
sure that I'm just reminding you
of something that you already 

463
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:14,760
know. 
Here it is. 

464
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,480
God's never surprised by our 
trials. 

465
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,720
God's never surprised by our 
trials. 

466
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:25,440
Again, my guess is this morning,
you probably are already 

467
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:29,320
familiar with that truth that 
God that what surprises me 

468
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:34,240
doesn't surprise God, that 
wasn't that that what surprises 

469
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:39,360
me doesn't surprise God. 
Let let's kind of put some feet 

470
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:45,160
on that to to take it more into 
the into the personal that that 

471
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:50,160
boatload of questions that was 
just recently dumped on you and 

472
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:54,200
your spouse. 
God wasn't surprised by that. 

473
00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:03,880
The downturn in business that 
has now led to a lot of doubts 

474
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,040
about future plans. 
God wasn't surprised by that. 

475
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,680
The change of a relationship 
status. 

476
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:16,360
God wasn't surprised by that. 
You may go well, Ben, OK, I get 

477
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:17,800
it. 
God's not surprised by what 

478
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,720
surprises me. 
What's the big deal? 

479
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,720
It's a huge deal. 
You see, God's not surprised by 

480
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,440
what? 
By what surprises you. 

481
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:30,400
Neither is God surprised by 
where that leads you. 

482
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:35,000
You see, your story is not 
unraveling. 

483
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,480
Your story is still being 
written. 

484
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:41,920
And the author of your story is 
still God. 

485
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:46,360
He is loving, He is merciful, He
is good, He is kind. 

486
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,520
Again, your story is not 
unraveling. 

487
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:55,080
Your story is being written. 
Let me kind of go a layer deeper

488
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,720
on that thought. 
Number 2, Not only is God not 

489
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:02,280
surprised by our trials, God 
never wastes our trials. 

490
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,840
God never wastes our trials. 
There is nothing that you and I 

491
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:10,360
will ever go through simply 
because God's bored or simply 

492
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,000
because we just chalk it up to, 
well, that's life. 

493
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:16,000
There's no such thing in the 
Kingdom of God. 

494
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,280
There's no such thing as 
gratuitous suffering or 

495
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:25,560
suffering without a point. 
God uses all things, all things 

496
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:32,480
for our good and for His glory. 
Let me get you to look at the 

497
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,640
top of your note sheet, at the 
passage at the top. 

498
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,360
And if you have a Bible with you
have, if you have a Bible, you 

499
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,680
can circle what I'm about to ask
you to circle on your note 

500
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,000
sheet. 
You can circle it in your Bible.

501
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,960
It's 2 words that change 
everything in this text. 

502
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:48,800
It's the words if necessary, if 
necessary. 

503
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,840
In this you rejoice. 
Now, though now for a little 

504
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:58,080
while, if necessary, you've been
grieved by various trials. 

505
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:02,360
Let me tell you what if 
necessary means. 

506
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:08,240
If necessary means that God, in 
his infinite wisdom and His 

507
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:13,400
goodness, He knows not only how 
we need to grow in our 

508
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:18,360
relationship with Him, but the 
ways in which we will grow in 

509
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:26,160
our relationship with Him. 
If necessary, If necessary means

510
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:31,280
that God allows certain things 
to grow us, to come into our 

511
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:35,480
lives, to grow us closer to Him 
and nothing more. 

512
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,000
You see, I think that there's a 
lot of us that we get in the 

513
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,720
midst of a trial or a storm or, 
or something in life and we sit 

514
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,080
there and go, God, can you just 
ease off? 

515
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:47,960
Why do you got to keep pouring 
it all? 

516
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:52,640
Listen that God knows what it 
will take to grow you closer to 

517
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,200
Him and the ways that you can 
only grow close to Him. 

518
00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:00,760
But He also knows because He is 
a good and loving Father, He 

519
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:06,720
will allow certain things and 
not an inch more if necessary. 

520
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:13,680
Means that even though I may not
understand the methods, I trust 

521
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,720
the heart of God to do what 
seems like it hurts. 

522
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:22,960
But I trust knowing that God is 
actually using what hurts to 

523
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:28,200
bring about my ultimate healing.
Let me get you to think of some 

524
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,600
storms and trials in your life. 
Maybe there's something going on

525
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,160
in your life even now. 
Let me get you to to to reframe 

526
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:36,760
what's going on in your life 
right now. 

527
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:43,160
Think of God as that world class
master surgeon and in a in, in 

528
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:47,680
any, any surgery, a surgeon is 
going to make strategic cuts and

529
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:51,960
incisions not to inflict pain, 
but to bring about healing. 

530
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,920
Maybe what God is allowing us to
go through now, maybe what God's

531
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,000
allowing you or your family to 
walk through right now. 

532
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:04,840
You feel the pain of the cut and
the incision, but think of it 

533
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,960
this way, the cuts and the 
incisions are necessary on you, 

534
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:13,520
are necessary to remove the 
harmful and the deadly cancer 

535
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:18,199
from within you. 
You see, God is not allowing 

536
00:34:18,199 --> 00:34:22,000
these storms and trials to 
afflict you in a way of 

537
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,880
punishment, but in a way of 
bringing you back to Him. 

538
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,360
He never wastes anything in our 
lives. 

539
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,120
Third thing that we need to keep
in mind about what we're 

540
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:40,080
currently going through is God 
has saved us and is saving us. 

541
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,520
Let me kind of quickly kind of 
walk through this. 

542
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,360
If there's been a time and 
moment in your life to where you

543
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,920
ask Jesus to forgive you of your
sins based off of what He did 

544
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,560
for you on the cross, that you 
asked Him to take control of 

545
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,320
your life and you committed to 
following Him for the rest of 

546
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,480
your life, you were at that very
moment you were saved. 

547
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,880
In other words, if 15 seconds 
after that moment of surrender 

548
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:09,280
you had died, you would have 
opened your eyes and seen Jesus 

549
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,520
face to face in heaven for all 
of eternity. 

550
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:18,520
That is secured. 
That is you, God having saved 

551
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,440
you. 
If you want the big theological 

552
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:24,800
word, for whatever reason, it's 
the word justification that if 

553
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,240
you've surrendered your life to 
Jesus, we have been justified 

554
00:35:28,240 --> 00:35:30,960
before God. 
But not only have we been 

555
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,920
justified, and not only has God 
saved us, but God is saving us. 

556
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:40,600
You see, every single day that 
we walk with God, we spend time 

557
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,000
with God in prayer and in his 
word, and every single day that 

558
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:48,920
we walk with Jesus is another 
day that we're becoming more and

559
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,080
more like Jesus. 
And becoming more and more like 

560
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:56,640
Jesus means that it's a new day 
for Jesus to kind of chip away 

561
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,720
and knock off the core of our 
main issue. 

562
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:01,800
Do you know what the core of our
main issue is? 

563
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,800
It's us. 
So every day that I walk with 

564
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,800
Jesus is a new day that I'm 
becoming more like Jesus. 

565
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:12,160
And in that way, he is saving 
us. 

566
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,920
There's an old adage out there 
that says, listen, if you think 

567
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,040
I'm a jerk now, you should have 
met me five years ago. 

568
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,560
The big theological word there 
is sanctification. 

569
00:36:21,720 --> 00:36:27,200
We are being sanctified and all 
of us need to continue being 

570
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,880
sanctified. 
You see, we have been saved and 

571
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:35,640
we are being saved. 
So never allow what's going on 

572
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:41,200
in your life right now to rob 
you of that future hope. 

573
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:46,240
What is that future hope is 
simply this. 

574
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:52,080
Go back to first Peter 17 to 
result in praise and glory and 

575
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,160
honor at the revelation of Jesus
Christ. 

576
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:59,000
Right now, every single one of 
us, we worship Jesus. 

577
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,960
We love Jesus by faith, not by 
sight. 

578
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,120
There's not a single one of us 
that have seen Jesus face to 

579
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,960
face this past week. 
I was, I was sick, I was in bed 

580
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:13,360
for four days and after cough 
medicine and Nyquil, I think I 

581
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:19,960
may have seen something. 
It wasn't Jesus, it wasn't 

582
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,680
Jesus. 
None of us have seen Jesus with 

583
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,320
our own eyes. 
But one day we will. 

584
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:30,720
One day we will all see Jesus 
with our own eyes, face to face.

585
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:36,160
And here is what I want so badly
to be able to do. 

586
00:37:36,720 --> 00:37:40,720
I want so badly to be able to 
when I see Jesus face to face, 

587
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,520
if I'm able to get any words out
at all. 

588
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:49,840
Which is highly doubtful. 
I want to see Jesus face to face

589
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,760
and to fall down at his feet and
to say thank you, thank you, 

590
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,920
thank you. 
This is what you gave your life 

591
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:59,080
for. 
And anything good that ever came

592
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,040
out of my life is all a result 
of you. 

593
00:38:02,240 --> 00:38:07,760
It's never me, it's all you. 
All glory and honor and praise 

594
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:13,400
all go to you Jesus. 
And living with that end in mind

595
00:38:14,240 --> 00:38:19,080
helps me navigate whatever I may
be going through today. 

596
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,440
So here's what I want to do as 
we close out. 

597
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,880
I want to turn it to the Super 
personal and I want to walk us 

598
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,760
through four key questions very,
very quickly this morning. 

599
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,560
Here's the first one. 
I want you to wrestle with these

600
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,600
this morning. 
I want you to continue wrestling

601
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,600
with them this week. 
What or who has captured my 

602
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,920
attention? 
What is the object of your 

603
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:48,080
desire? 
What or who has captured your 

604
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:52,800
attention? 
It could be a future version of 

605
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,800
you. 
It could be a a relationship. 

606
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,200
It could be a a promotion or a 
title. 

607
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,680
It could be you in a different 
setting. 

608
00:39:03,720 --> 00:39:07,040
Remember, what captures my 
attention eventually guides my 

609
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,920
steps. 
I can think of no better way to 

610
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:15,280
start off 2026 then asking 
Jesus. 

611
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,320
Jesus, would you recapture my 
attention? 

612
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:22,920
Would you put Holy Spirit 
blinders on me to where when I 

613
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,520
look straight ahead, I just see 
you. 

614
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:29,040
When I look to my left, to my 
right, I just see you. 

615
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:34,040
Because Jesus above everything 
else, I want you to guide my 

616
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,440
steps. 
Nobody else. 

617
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,880
Not myself, not a company, not a
group of friends. 

618
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,600
I want you, Jesus, to guide my 
steps. 

619
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,560
But in order for that to happen,
Jesus has to become the object 

620
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,560
of our attention, our affection,
and our devotion. 

621
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,720
Second question, what or who is 
king over my life? 

622
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,560
What or who is king over my 
life? 

623
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:01,000
Here on a Sunday morning at 
church, it's easy to go, whoa, 

624
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:07,560
Jesus, I'm going to ask that we 
kind of look really, really deep

625
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,920
within us. 
Be really, really honest with 

626
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,360
ourselves about ourselves. 
Who is ultimately, when push 

627
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,280
comes to shove, who's ultimately
making the call in our life? 

628
00:40:16,720 --> 00:40:21,560
Who has ultimate authority in 
our life when we want to go a 

629
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,960
certain way, when we want to 
make a certain decision or a 

630
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,520
choice, yet the Bible says 
something else. 

631
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:33,640
Do we allow the Bible to to win 
when we have somebody else in 

632
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:37,080
our life that that is pressuring
us to go a certain way and to 

633
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:41,000
make a certain call? 
Yet that's different from what 

634
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,520
the Bible tells me. 
Do I allow the Bible to win? 

635
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,680
Who is sitting on the throne of 
my life? 

636
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:53,560
Who is the king of my life #3 in
what ways have I allowed my 

637
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,880
trials to define me rather than 
refine me? 

638
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,320
That's a big one. 
In what ways have I allowed my 

639
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,400
trials, the things that I'm 
going through, the things that I

640
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:06,760
have gone through to define me 
rather than refine me. 

641
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,880
There's a lot of times that I'm 
convinced and it's so easy for 

642
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:16,400
us to do. 
We get stuck in the trial, we 

643
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:20,240
get stuck in that trial and we 
allow that trial to define us. 

644
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,720
This is what's been taken away 
from me. 

645
00:41:23,720 --> 00:41:26,400
This is what wasn't granted to 
me. 

646
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,000
This is the road that I've 
walked. 

647
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:32,880
This is the journey that I've 
gone down that that's that's a 

648
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:38,680
trial that has defined me. 
A trial that refunds me is God 

649
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,560
led me through that season and 
out of that season. 

650
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,640
I would never want to walk that 
road again. 

651
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:47,720
But out of that season I am so 
grateful because this is who He 

652
00:41:47,720 --> 00:41:52,200
now has caused me to become. 
You see, the difference between 

653
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:56,000
define and refine is the 
difference between victim and 

654
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,600
victor. 
What trials have I allowed to 

655
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,240
define me rather than refine me 
and then last question for us 

656
00:42:03,240 --> 00:42:05,720
this morning. 
What would it look like for me 

657
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,880
to let go and lean fully into 
the hope of Jesus. 

658
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:13,800
I am so 100% convinced that 
there are men, there are women, 

659
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:17,280
there are kids, there are 
students with us this morning in

660
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,360
the room online called Riverbend
home may be new to Riverbend 

661
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:27,520
that God has a calling on your 
life that that these 21 days are

662
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:31,240
not about asking God, God, what 
do you want me to do? 

663
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:35,200
He's already made that clear. 
You know what God wants you to 

664
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,400
do. 
You're just scared and hesitant 

665
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,760
to do it. 
My hope and my prayer is though 

666
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:45,240
over these next 21 days, it 
would be OK God, I'm going to 

667
00:42:45,240 --> 00:42:49,200
let go of my fear and my 
hesitation and I'm going to lean

668
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,880
fully back into your hope 
through obedience. 

669
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,160
I'm going to follow you no 
matter what. 

670
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What would it look like if you 
were to let go and to lean fully

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back into the hope of Jesus this
morning? 

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Here's what we're about to do. 
I'm going to pray over us. 

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And this prayer after, after we 
pray, we're going to open up the

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front just for a time for us to 
come down and be able to pray 

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together. 
Maybe you want to come down and 

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pray on your own. 
Maybe you want to bring somebody

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with you, or maybe you want to 
pray with a pastor. 

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Anything and everything will be 
an option for you, but we want 

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to give you the opportunity to 
start 2026 in a mode of here I 

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am God, do whatever you want to 
in my life. 

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God, I love you and I trust you.
What areas do you need to trust 

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him in this morning? 
Let's pray. 

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God, we thank you for your word.
God, we thank you for your 

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presence with us. 
God, we thank you that you call 

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us to live by faith and and 
everything that that means. 

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God how it reframes what we may 
be currently going through. 

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God, I pray that you would 
remind us that the only way for 

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real and true and lasting and 
genuine and authentic 

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transformation to take place is 
by making you king of our life. 

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God, if that's the step that we 
need to take this morning, God, 

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I pray that we would come down 
and God that we would ask you to

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take your rightful position on 
the throne of our lives this 

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morning. 
God, maybe this morning we need 

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to be reminded that what lies 
ahead of us is much greater than

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what lies behind us. 
God, if there's an area of our 

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life that you still need to save
us from, that you're still, that

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you're still working on, God, we
want to give those areas over to

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you and we want to give you full
permission to go into the deep 

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places of our souls and to do 
the deep work of your spirit. 

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God, whatever you're calling us 
to God, I pray that we'll be 

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faithful and obedient to respond
to you, to surrender to you, and

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to trust you. 
And it's in Jesus name that we 

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pray. 
Amen. 

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Thank you for listening to 
Riverbend Church's podcast. 

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message or Riverbend Church, 

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