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If we have not met before, my 
name is John Whitaker and I get 

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the honor of teaching out of 
Titus Chapter 3. 

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This morning we have been 
walking through the book of 

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Titus as a church, thinking 
through what it means to be a 

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well ordered church. 
We're going to look at Titus 

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Three One through 7 from that 
vantage point today as we begin 

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just to kind of get our mind 
thinking in the direction that 

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this text takes us. 
I just want to ask you like, 

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have you ever had this 
experience where somebody kind 

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of walked up to you and chuckled
a little bit and was like, oh 

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man, you need to go look in the 
mirror? 

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Ever had this experience? 
Usually it means you got 

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something on your face or 
something's amiss, right? 

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And it's like, oh, you need to 
go look in the mirror. 

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A couple weeks ago, my 
son-in-law and daughter were out

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siding in her new hunting rifle 
South of Kuna out in the desert.

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We had all the grandkids while 
they were out there doing that, 

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and when they were done, they 
came back to pick up the 

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grandkids. 
My daughter walks in. 

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It was a windy day out in the 
desert. 

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Maybe she had put on some lotion
before she went out, I don't 

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know. 
But when she walked in the door,

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her face was completely covered 
in dust and sand from the 

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desert, right? 
And it's like, oh, man, you need

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to go look in the mirror and 
look at yourself, right? 

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Ever had this experience? 
Or maybe maybe it's more someone

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doesn't tell you that, but 
you've been out and about 

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running errands, doing what you 
got to do, interacting with 

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people. 
You come home and you walk into 

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the bathroom and you see 
yourself in the mirror. 

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And in that moment you're like, 
oh, man, I went out looking like

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that, right? 
Ever have this experience? 

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It happened to be on Friday. 
I had a really busy week. 

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I was out of town Wednesday and 
Thursday. 

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We had all six of the grandkids 
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and I had to go pick up two of 
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And so I got up and I thought, 
you know what, I'm just going 

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to, I'll skip the shower and 
I'll do before I have to do 

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anything public and I'll go pick
up the my 2 granddaughters. 

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So I go pick up my 2 
granddaughters and I take care 

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of some stuff around the house. 
And then I tell my wife, all 

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right, I'm going to run to the 
post office and I'm going to go 

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to the bank. 
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I, you know, hopped in the 
truck, grabbed my dog, took him 

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with me. 
I'm driving into Kuna to hit the

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the post office in the bank and 
stop by my daughter's house on 

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the way there to help her with 
something real quick. 

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Go to the post office box, go to
the bank, get back in the truck,

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adjust the rearview mirror. 
And as I look in the mirror, I 

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look over my dog and I'm like, 
oh buddy, we should not have 

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gone out looking like this. 
Normally I have fairly short 

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hair, right? 
But I was due for a haircut. 

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I hadn't showered. 
My hair was kind of sticking out

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all over the place. 
And I'm like, oh, man, I really 

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should have looked in the mirror
before I went out and about. 

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Well, after first service, you 
know, I shared that in first 

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service. 
After first service, my daughter

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says, yeah, when you stop by 
your house on the way to the 

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post office, I noticed your hair
was looking pretty like. 

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And I thought, should I tell 
them? 

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And I didn't want to embarrass 
you. 

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And I'm like, Ashley, you let me
go out into public looking like 

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that to the post office box, 
right? 

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Like, I should have looked in 
the mirror. 

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And I was like, I should have 
showered before I ran my 

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errands, right? 
Reason I bring that up is 

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because of this, one of the 
dominant metaphors that the 

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Bible uses for itself is a 
mirror. 

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It's a mirror for our soul, a 
mirror for our person. 

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And today, Titus chapter 3 
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provides us as a church, as the 
people of God, an opportunity to

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look in the mirror and to take 
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look at ourselves and say, man, 
who am I particularly? 

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Who am I in relationship to the 
people that don't yet know 

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Jesus? 
You see, one of the things 

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that's really easy for us to 
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easily to forget is that like 
being part of a church, being a 

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Christian and part of a church 
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the rest of our life than just 
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morning. 
That being the church is not 

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just a service you go to on a 
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It's being part of a people that
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And as such, we have a different
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We have a different set of 
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We have different standards, 
different ways of thinking and 

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behaving than people who aren't 
part of the people of God, who 

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aren't part of his, his 
congregation, his people. 

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Right. 
And this text out of Titus 

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chapter 3 verses one through 7, 
is an opportunity for us as the 

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people of God to look into the 
mirror of his word and say, OK, 

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how am I doing? 
And in some regards, it actually

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feels a little bit like weighty.
In fact, I was talking to my son

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earlier in the week about this 
passage and that I'm preaching 

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that this Sunday, and I was 
sharing with him some of the 

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things this text says. 
And my son, he's 29. 

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His response was that that's 
just not really where we're at 

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right now as a culture. 
It's not really, we're not 

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really good at that. 
And so I want to invite you with

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me this morning to look into the
mirror of God's Word and just be

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honest. 
Take an honest look at yourself 

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as a part of God's people, 
particularly in view of this 

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question, how are we supposed to
relate to the people who are 

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outside of the church? 
How are we supposed to interact 

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in public with those who don't 
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That's the question that this 
text is addressing this morning.

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So Titus chapter 3 picking up in
verse one, Titus has just been 

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told at the end of chapter 2 by 
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things with all authority. 
And in that context, Paul says 

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to Titus, remind them to be 
subject to rulers and authority.

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Remind them when he says them, 
he's talking about us, he's 

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talking about the churches, 
talking about the people of God.

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Remind them as Christians, as 
part of the people of God, to be

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subject, that is, to arrange 
themselves under, to be 

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submissive to rulers like 
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governors, national rulers, to 
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and to authorities in general, 
to whoever's in charge, like be 

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subject, be submissive to 
whoever's in charge, like your 

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boss or your teachers or the 
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whoever's in charge, right? 
Like arrange yourself under them

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and be submissive to them. 
Excuse me? 

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And then he says this line, to 
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Wait, wait, isn't obedience for 
small kids to be obedient as the

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people of God, to follow the 
rules, to listen to those who 

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are in charge, to do what they 
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to obey those in charge. 
And remember, he's speaking this

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to us as the people of God about
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relationship with those who 
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listen to them and to follow 
their rules and their policies 

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and their procedures. 
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every good work, to be prepared 
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whatever you can to be helpful, 
benevolent, kind, to meet needs 

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wherever they need to be met. 
Be those kinds of people and it 

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reminds me of what Peter says in
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following where Peter writing to
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the the outside world, those who
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outside the church look at the 
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suspicion as if their beliefs 
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different. 
I don't get those people. 

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I can't figure out why they 
think that in in, in, in a 

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culture where the the church and
Christians and Christian ideas 

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are kind of marginalized or seem
out of place and outside Peter 

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in first Peter chapter 2 says 
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good. 
That's Peter's, one of his 

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primary vices to to Christians 
needing to kind of like live 

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their faith in public. 
Be known for doing good, being 

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helpful, being useful, being 
good neighbors. 

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That's what we have here. 
Be ready for not just some, but 

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every good deed. 
Where can you meet a need that 

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needs to be met in relationship 
to your neighbors or your 

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coworkers or whoever else it is.
Be ready for every good work. 

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And then he says in verse 2 to 
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one, to run no one down, to 
speak badly about no one, to 

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gossip about people, to run no 
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We're talking about people who 
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Don't run them down. 
Don't slander them. 

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Don't gossip about them to 
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Don't be contentious. 
In other words, don't be hard to

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get along with. 
Don't be argumentative and 

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quarrelsome. 
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Be the kind of person who other 
people are like, man, I always 

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appreciate when they're around 
because they're just helpful and

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they're they're not 
argumentative and they're easy 

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to work with. 
Be that kind of person, Be 

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peaceable. 
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The word gentle most 
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forbearing. 
In other words, to be able to 

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put up with people, put up with 
people who are maybe hard to get

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along with or difficult. 
Be forbearing, be patient. 

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And then he says showing every 
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And literally that word 
consideration, that's the word 

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that's more often translated, 
gentle, showing all gentleness 

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to everybody. 
Be gentle, don't be a bull in 

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the China shop. 
Don't be a bully, right? 

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Like don't always have to get 
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Don't always, you know, fight to
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Just be willing to defer and and
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the feelings of other people. 
Just be willing to let some 

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things go. 
Be gentle to everybody and we 

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just heard Connor give some 
announcements about various ways

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as a church that we want to, you
know, do various outreaches, the

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homeless outreach. 
We want to be mission and we 

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want to be doing some things to 
reach out to people hopefully to

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to give opportunities to share 
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Right. 
And all those things are good 

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and important. 
But here in these first couple 

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verses of Titus 3, when Paul is 
giving Titus instructions for 

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how to organize the church, the 
churches in relationship to 

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unbelievers and those outside 
the church, notice he doesn't 

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focus on outreach events. 
He doesn't focus on, you know, 

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specific projects. 
Not that those things are bad 

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and not that we shouldn't do 
them, but what he focuses on is 

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our own way of being with those 
outside of the church, our own 

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way of interacting with people 
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In other words, our public life 
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Our public life matters to God. 
Our public life matters to being

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and living as the people of God.
Our our public life matters to 

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being the light of the world. 
If we want to be the light of 

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the world, then the things Paul 
just wrote here in Titus 3-1 and

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two matters. 
To be the kind of people who are

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ready to be helpful and doing 
good and be good neighbors, 

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right? 
To be the kind of people who 

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aren't argumentative, but 
peaceable and easy to get along 

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with. 
To be the kind of people who 

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don't constantly run other 
people's down and say negative 

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things about other people. 
All that matters. 

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It matters in person. 
It matters online. 

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It matters if we're going to be 
the light of the world in this 

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world. 
So think about, just take a 

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second and think about where you
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Maybe. 
Maybe it's an apartment. 

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Picture your apartment complex 
and maybe picture the people who

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live in the apartments right 
near you and around you. 

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Maybe it's your neighborhood, 
your subdivision. 

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Think about your house. 
Picture your house. 

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Just imagine it. 
Picture your neighbors on the 

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right and on the left. 
Imagine where you live, like the

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way you are in your neighborhood
or your apartment matters to 

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being a faithful follower of 
Jesus. 

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Like when your neighbors go to 
work the next morning and and 

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all of a sudden people start 
talking about their neighbors, 

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what might they say about you? 
And would it be the kind of 

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thing that would honor Jesus or 
would it be man, my neighbor is 

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just so difficult to get along 
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My neighbor is just like just 
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Like in the neighbor lottery, I 
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would your supervisor say about 
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She's always ready to help. 

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wrote in Titus 3-1 and two? 
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teachers at your kids school. 
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your kids school. 
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your public life with people? 
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comments you read. 
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I'm like, and some of y'all call
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Contentious, slandering, 
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that I would ever want to meet 
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If we want to be the light of 
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Jesus in this world, then how we
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unbelievers we interact with day
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lot more than maybe a one off 
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that we we volunteer for or 
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And I can sort of anticipate the
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heard it. 
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But you don't know my neighbor. 
You don't know what he's like or

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what she's like. 
You don't know my boss. 

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You don't know my Co workers. 
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They're hard to get along with. 
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I get it. 
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Jesus. 
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We too, we too were once 
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We too, once didn't actually 
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We too didn't once know maybe 
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We too didn't always make good 
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We too did some stupid things 
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We too were once disobedient. 
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people that didn't obey the 
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We once were deceived, had silly
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Now we look at and think, man, I
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think that way. 
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We once thought that way. 
We once had some crazy ideas. 

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We once were enslaved to various
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doing. 
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spending our life in malice. 
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Malice is like ill will. 
Malice is like, you know, I sure

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hope they get theirs. 
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people. 
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We, we looked at people and 
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I sure hope, right? 
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could have what everyone else 
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So as we look in the mirror and 
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person I'm supposed to be in 
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what, we once were outside too, 
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God either. 
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Here's what happened. 
But when the kindness of God our

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Savior appeared and his love for
all mankind, when that appeared,

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when God's kindness and the 
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the stage of history, and God 
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stage of history. 
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he do? 
He saved us. 

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He saved us. 
He rescued us and delivered us 

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from all these kinds of ways we 
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He delivered us from being those
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the truth, who had crazy ideas, 
who weren't obedient, who were 

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driven by our own desires, 
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He saved us and rescued us from 
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The only reason that maybe we're
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of the church and we can look at
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and scratch our head sometimes 
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appeared in our life and He 
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changed us. 
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were so great, right? 
He did so because we were so 

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perfect. 
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need anybody a part of my 
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need her because, you know, 
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He saved us not on the basis of 
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because our resume, you know, 
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and made us so great. 
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deeds which we had done in 
righteousness, but in accordance

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with his mercy, in accordance 
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God took pity on us. 
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mercy. 
God took pity on us. 

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He, he knew we were confused. 
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He knew we had made mistakes. 
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pity on us. 
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and delivered us and saved us. 
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us through or by the washing of 
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Holy Spirit. 
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Like in the early church, when 
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Jesus, first thing they did was 
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Often times when you read the 
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day, they put their faith in 
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that concrete, tangible act, 
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We're renewed. 
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We're not the same person. 
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washed us and made us new and 
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And the text goes on and says 
verse 6 whom he that is God 

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richly poured up out upon us 
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that God now has filled us with 
his very spirit, given us new 

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life, given us new ability, 
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us a new mind to think 
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Why? 
Because God washed us, renewed 

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us and made us new God the 
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because of the Son. 
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involved in making us new 
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So that verse 7, so that being 
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means to be like pardoned. 
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guilty to being granted A 
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justified. 
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verdict of not guilty, God 
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love, mercy, grace for people 
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really have done wrong to be 
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crimes against God. 
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heirs according to the hope of 
eternal life. 

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We, we have this glorious 
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we're going to get to enjoy, and
we get to inherit that as God's 

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children, God's sons and 
daughters, simply because God 

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justified us by his grace. 
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grace, because God took pity on 
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So why in the world should we 
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patient and forbearing and kind 
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yet know God? 
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Because God was kind and patient
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That's why the question that 
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ask as we look in the mirror and
want to take an honest, good, 

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hard look at ourselves. 
The question this text is really

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begging us to ask ourselves is 
in my interactions with the 

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unbelievers that I interact with
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in my interactions with 
unbelievers, does it display the

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kindness of God that I've 
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Do my interactions with those 
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does it reflect back into the 
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compassion, mercy, and kindness 
of God that God showed us as his

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sons and daughters in saving us?
That's what this text is calling

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us like. 
Be subject to ruling 

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authorities. 
Be obedient. 

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Be ready for every good deed. 
Slander no one. 

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Don't be contentious and 
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Be patient and forbearing. 
Show all gentleness to 

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everybody. 
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Because God did that for you. 
God did that for you. 

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So do my interactions with the 
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at the bank, at the grocery 
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my waitress, with my Co workers,
with the people in my school or 

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my kids school. 
Do my interactions with all 

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these people display the 
kindness of God that we've 

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experienced in salvation? 
So because we've been saved, we 

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submit to those in charge. 
Because we've been saved, we 

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obey the rules and the 
regulations that come into our 

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life. 
Because we've been saved, we're 

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ready and willing for every good
deed that our neighbor might 

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need for us. 
Even if our neighbor has been a 

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jerk in the past, we're ready to
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Yeah. 
What can I do for you? 

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What do you need? 
Because we've been slaved, we 

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slander no one. 
Even in our comments section on 

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our news feeds, we slander no 
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Because we've been saved, we're 
patient and forbearing with all 

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people. 
Because we've been saved, we 

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show gentleness and deference to
all the people we interact with 

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on a regular basis. 
Do our interactions with the 

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unbelievers in our life? 
Do they display and reflect the 

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wisdom and the kindness and the 
goodness of God that we 

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ourselves have experienced when 
God saved us? 

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That's the question of Titus 
chapter 3, one through 7. 

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