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As you guys are turning to Titus
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kind of a preview of, of where 
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We're going to cover some things
that have already come up in our

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study of Titus and really have 
come up numerous times, not only

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in our study of Titus, but also 
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beginning of the year in our 
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And this is a, a, a good thing. 
As I, as I began to study for, 

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for this moment, I thought to 
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covered some of these topics, 
some of these warnings, some of 

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these encouragements. 
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encourage you in is that 
oftentimes the word will cover 

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things that are really 
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It reminds me of a reference 
point I have as a parent, not 

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only of parenting children, but 
also thinking back to my own 

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mother. 
She used to say this phrase to 

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me. 
Maybe you can relate to it. 

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Something you are hearing 
actively as a as a, a young 

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person or a parent. 
How many of you remember the 

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phrase? 
How many times do I have to tell

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you? 
You know, you've got those 

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reoccurring lessons that need to
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I know for, for us in our 
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heard my wife say to the kids, 
how many times do I have to tell

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you to close the door when you 
leave? 

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And during the summer, it was 
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You're letting flies in. 
Now we're getting season change.

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Doors are still staying open. 
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out as there's all sorts of 
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these, the instincts of children
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door. 
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How many times I have to tell 
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how many times do I have to tell
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some instruction for the church.
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it's actually going to come to 
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going to tell them. 
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at a warning or, or, or a moment
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be addressed so it doesn't 
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But Paul is also going to tell 
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you have to do as a parent, 
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all the time and forever. 
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how many times I'm going to tell
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be learned because they they 
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But parents, friends, husbands, 
wives, there, there are things 

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you have to say all the time and
forever. 

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There are things that you have 
to tell your kids, I love you. 

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I, I, I, I want to encourage you
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you. 
I want to serve you. 

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Those things have to be said all
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And today we're going to look at
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Paul reminding Titus that he 
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church. 
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got to say all the time as a 
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to hear it all the time in a 
good way. 

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In the second category, another 
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have to tell you, I don't want 
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So with with that lens, I want 
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Titus chapter 3, starting in 
verse 8. 

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He says this is a faithful 
saying and these things I want 

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to affirm constantly. 
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this a lot. 
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the time in and through Titus, 
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God should be careful to 
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These are good and profitable to
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So this is the first category. 
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to say all the time, Paul to 
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region of Crete. 
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things that we need to remind 
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Affirm them constantly. 
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second category. 
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you this, Verse 9. 
But avoid foolish disputes, 

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genealogies, contentions and 
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they are unprofitable and 
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And now he's going to come to 
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After all of our study in Titus 
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Timothy, he says in verse 10 
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the 1st and 2nd admonition, 
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warped and sinning being self 
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And we'll stop there. 
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close of this letter to next 
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But here are your categories. 
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overlay over the year that we've
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epistles, first Timothy and 
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And if you could just remember 
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need to be continually reminded 
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life of warning. 
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Paul has been saying. 
Live out the gospel and leave 

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out the rest. 
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where where Paul is trying to 
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most important, affirm it 
constantly remind these people 

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live out the gospel and over and
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pastor them away from 
distracting things, things that 

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are not essential to to loving 
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salvation, expressing the the, 
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Leave all of that stuff out. 
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where we're going and really 
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these letters for the last year 
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how we live out the gospel and 
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And the, the first part of this 
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So we read it again. 
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statement. 
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faithful saying or trustworthy 
saying, which was the the title 

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of our entire time in first 
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the stuff that is good helpful 
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And he says for the faithful 
saying, for the trustworthy 

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parts of doctrine and the things
we study and the things you need

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to go out and do, I want you to 
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It's really important as we get 
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open the Bible every week. 
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week is to highlight the 
faithful truth that is good and 

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profitable. 
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affirm, to preach it, to remind 
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And what is the faithful thing 
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Titus, to remind the believers. 
It says this that those who have

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believed in God should be 
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There is a point to your 
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Those of you who have believed 
it is not so that you can simply

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have good theology and assurance
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also that you would cling to or 
in other translations where it 

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says maintain good works, it 
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good. 
Your life between salvation and 

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heaven has a purpose. 
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saved not by works, but by grace
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God has prepared for you 
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And that is the faithful saying 
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the church in Crete of and that 
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Boise ID United States of 
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ourselves what is the 
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of everything that we do. 
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It's a faithful saying to hold, 
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And I, I just want to pause one 
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of this on the heels of what we 
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And so there's nothing more 
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nothing more worth your time 
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So remember where we left off 
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Read it with me. 
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of why we open the book and why 
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these doors and do good. 
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gospel truth, starting in verse 
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For we ourselves were also once 
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serving various lusts and 
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envy, hateful and hating one 
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This is the beginning of that 
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reminding Titus of that we 
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is faithful. 
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the gospel message that hangs 
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you are here as a believer saved
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listening to the message that 
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It starts with the trustworthy 
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that we have all done things to 
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goodwill of God to our, of, of 
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And and it's turned into evil 
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that the gospel good news starts
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we need a savior. 
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other of that all the time. 
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So that we have a reference 
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flows from. 
It flows from our need for God's

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goodness to invade our lives 
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And this is what it says, verse 
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But when the kindness and the 
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man appeared, not by works of 
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done, but by according to His 
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goodness, not by works of 
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It starts with us in desperate 
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And because God is good, He 
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regeneration and the renewing of
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out on us abundantly through 
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That having been justified by 
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have to remind each other to do 
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and sitting and listening to the
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doing and doing. 
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trustworthy saying that we've 
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We've been brought into a good 
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grace, that we should be come 
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eternal life. 
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We are supposed to remind each 
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we're supposed to be about. 
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you now we are supposed to be 
about good. 

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We're supposed to be do gooders 
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God has prepared all of you who 
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give him glory, shine the light 
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doing good to others. 
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the message. 
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faithful saying that every good 
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hearts and your minds and your 
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By the grace of God, you are 
saved to do good works in that 

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order, and it's very important 
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some of us think that, you know,
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your salvation is up to you. 
We are standing on the good news

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gospel message that Jesus has 
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And because of that, we now have
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And this is what, before we go 
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distractions that sometimes 
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involved in, let us just affirm 
constantly, we were made to do 

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good by the power of God's 
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He gives us the strength to do 
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And there is no good in your 
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There's not one thing that you 
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others that is not standing on 
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the gospel. 
In other words, all good work is

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gospel work. 
It has to be received healthy in

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your hearts, renewed in your 
mind, and whatever calls God 

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calls you to do good. 
After you've received the free 

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gift, it's because it has been 
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So just join me on a thought 
experiment of all the great ways

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that you might find yourself 
walking in some opportunities to

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do good this week. 
And we we just, you know, get a 

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reminder every time we go into 
the sometimes the darkness of 

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the season, it it's holidays and
there's all sorts of people who 

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just need help. 
There's not one charitable gift 

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that you can do to someone else 
that should not come from an A 

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flow of God's goodness in your 
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So you think about the goodness 
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It all flows from God serving 
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First, look what Jesus says to 
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13, that the final hours before 
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cross to pay for the sins of 
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In his final hours, he gives 
them an object lesson and washes

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their feet. 
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your Lord and Teacher have 
washed your feet, you also ought

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to wash one another's feet. 
For I've given you an example 

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that you should do as I have 
done to you, all of your service

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to one another and the specific 
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husbands right now. 
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you heard to love your wife like
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himself for her? 
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serving and sacrificing your 
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reference point of Jesus doing 
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self-righteous pride or you will
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way they should go. 
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Well Jesus taught us to pray. 
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that you have now a Father that 
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you like the Heavenly Father has
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There is no service that can be 
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work. 
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prison and caring for people. 
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the, the power of forgiveness? 
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work on your part? 
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looking on the, the, the sermon 
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going to love. 
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turning into forgiveness of 
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thinking how on earth can I 
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does not require you to start 
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Be kind to one another. 
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hearted, forgiving one another. 
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Even as Christ forgave you, 
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struggle to think through what 
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toward God. 
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your sin, and He cries out. 
Father, forgive them. 

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for your own life. 
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to do good, you are struggling 
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that needs to be revived in your
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We can continue. 
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generosity. 
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tithes and offerings. 
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to be generous to people in your
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hospitality, to share resources.
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the Mount message where Jesus 
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double Jesus. 
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see how awesome and good we are.
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because we come into this 
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from God that we can't even 
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He who did not spare his own 
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all. 
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freely give us all things? 
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power of the gospel that God so 
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Son to hang on a cross for your 
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material goods? 
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in the sermon on the plane that 
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cloak, give them your tunic? 
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what God has given you, you can 
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you try to be generous without 
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life as a gift of grace, it will
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religion where God owes you 
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supposed to be in debt to you. 
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loving and encouraging one 
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When you leave this place and 
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hand or just prayer for the hard
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someone comes to you heartbroken
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hard that it's hard to make 
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them a word of encouragement to 
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How on earth can you do that? 
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it to the to the church in Rome,
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things work together for good to
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are called according to his 
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good things if you know and 
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because of the gospel. 
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tragedy that turned into the 
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person who never sinned paying 
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us. 
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moment, is when the perfect Son 
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two common criminals and was 
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at and say, well, it worked out 
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that we could become 
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of that first Easter morning in 
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that death turns into life. 
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into glory. 
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trusting God, He will not 
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He will bring you to the perfect
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will for your life. 
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in that because we have the 
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truthful, trustworthy word in 
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songs this morning about the 
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those who come and say, I've put
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to forgive my sins and write my 
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May your life live that out as a
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believe in forgiveness. 
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generosity and service, and you 
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received it. 
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laser focus. 
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Live out the gospel. 
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all of the reasons that Paul is 
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have sound doctrine to defend 
good teaching so that when you 

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have good and healthy view of 
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will become a good and healthy 
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So this first section is to live
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That is the focus of our time in
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That is the focus of you 
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to receive and to live. 
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How many times do I have to tell
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Leave out all of the things that
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and now that you understand 
heaven and you've sins have been

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forgiven. 
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weird stuff. 
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2000 years. 
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Timothy. 
It happened in Crete with Titus.

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It happens in 21st century 
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layer upon layer of all of these
distractions that don't actually

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help us become more like Jesus. 
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disputes, genealogies, 
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law, why they are unprofitable 
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They do not profit your life in 
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God that saved you and to bring 
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Him to those that he has you as 
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think all of this can be summed 
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foolish dispute. 
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number of times throughout the 
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pastor epistles, there's so many
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understand it in their context 
and try to understand it in our 

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context. 
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The human heart 2000 years ago 
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loves to debate. 
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around topics that seem to go on
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You know, I've, I've heard it 
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culture. 
How many of you ever turned on 

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the news or seen in the digital 
algorithm two people dividing 

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opposite sides in a way that 
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You can turn on Fox to get the 
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to get the opinions you like. 
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the actual breaking news. 
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debate rages on. 
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they're going to come right back
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where the last ones left off. 
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argue a foolish debate that 
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And it's not just something that
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It's something that can happen 
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theology. 
Meaning just because you're 

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arguing over what the Bible's 
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church should function or the 
Christian view on certain things

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does not mean you are saved from
it turning into something that 

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is useless. 
The Bible can become something 

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that distracts you from the 
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things that are endless in their
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And he says it's unprofitable. 
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he told Timothy in first Timothy
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to wholesome words, even the 
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and to the doctrine which 
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proud, knowing nothing, but is 
obsessed with disputes and 

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arguments over words from which 
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And here's the danger of this It
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It's actually bad fruit, he 
says, from which come envy and 

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strife and reviling evil 
suspicions, useless wranglings 

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of men, of corrupt minds and 
destitute of the truth, who 

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suppose that godliness is a 
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From such, withdraw yourselves. 
We'll come back to that because 

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we actually just read. 
He gave even more concrete 

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details to Titus. 
Don't just withdraw. 

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But here's how many times you 
should put up with someone who 

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is distracting the gospel and 
how to live it out with endless 

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disputes that turn into all this
bad fruit. 

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And that's what we need to look 
for in some of the ways we try 

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to understand what's worth our 
time and what isn't worth our 

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time. 
What is the result of some of 

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the debates that you can find 
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disputing? 
And here's the fundamental 

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question that underlies that one
Does this bring you closer in 

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love with what God has done for 
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Does this bring you more hope 
with what was accomplished on 

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that first Easter morning when 
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Does this give you more 
confidence that you are awaiting

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a a return of Jesus for the day 
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heaven and a new earth where the
light and momentary afflictions 

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are far outweighed by the weight
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And if the answer is, you know, 
this is all stuff that kind of 

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just stirs up my heart and 
bothers me and makes me dislike 

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people, then it's probably a 
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When we were looking at the 
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of this whole passage of 
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things are good and profitable, 
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place of arguing, disputing, and
he says it's useless and 

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unprofitable. 
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both categories is the gospel. 
Is this helping us build our 

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confidence in Jesus for doctrine
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And if you find yourself or if 
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these sacred places, a church 
service where we want to preach 

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the gospel and encourage one 
another. 

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A community group of Calvary 
Boise. 

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We want to get into the word to 
to to encourage each other with 

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hope and confidence in Jesus so 
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If we find someone who 
continually goes into the sacred

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places and makes it about 
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issue that has no end and is 
profiting no one. 

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This is the answer to how many 
times we should tell you. 

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It says in chapter 3, verse 10, 
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1st and 2nd admonition. 
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blueprint for what to do. 
It says you reject the divisive 

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person after one or two 
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And So what does it mean to 
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You can overlay this with some 
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reference point to what to do 
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rails. 
In first Timothy chapter 6, he 

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says withdraw yourself. 
Second Timothy says from such 

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turn away and now in Titus, he 
says have nothing to do with 

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them. 
So I think just on a personal 

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level, as we think about the 
algorithm in the news feed and 

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the people that are part of your
life that just seem to to 

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trouble your heart with 
nonsense. 

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The big idea is to remove the 
influence. 

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Some of you might have to hit 
unsubscribe and change the 

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channel. 
Maybe take a break from the 

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Internet and television for a 
minute and get back to the 

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things in your life that 
actually bring you closer to the

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love of God. 
So that you can be closer to the

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love of people and in the sacred
place of getting together to 

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break bread and worship and open
the Word. 

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If you have that at the dinner 
table, If you have that in homes

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of Calvary communities, If you 
have that in prayer circles and 

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Bible studies. 
If you have that with a circle 

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of friends. 
Here's what this is saying. 

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When, when you find the person 
and if you've been around church

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long enough, you've probably all
interacted with the person that 

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comes in. 
And no matter what you're 

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looking at, the topic always 
diverts to their pet interest or

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that one thing that they can't 
Unsee. 

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It is OK to pull them aside and 
say, hey, I want to let you know

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that you're distracting the 
group from loving Jesus a little

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bit more. 
And I don't want you to do that 

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anymore. 
And that means that you have to 

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be willing and courageous to do 
that. 

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And it says that you can do that
twice. 

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Now, I don't think this is a law
like 2 strikes and you're out 

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and you have one year in between
your strikes. 

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But this is the heart of it. 
You want to pull somebody aside 

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and say, hey, for the sake of 
everybody else, we're here just 

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to stir each other up, to love 
God and love one another more. 

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I'm going to ask you to put that
topic on hold, to study it on 

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your own time. 
And if that person is willing, 

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then you've won The person and 
the group is good. 

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And if they're not, then you do 
need to, for the sake of the 

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group, say hey. 
Until you figure that thing out,

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please. 
We're just going to focus our 

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time on the gospel and how to 
live it out. 

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And I want to encourage you 
because most of you, at least 

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right now, are portraying 
yourselves as people who want to

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listen quietly and kindly. 
And it's probably not your 

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favorite idea on how to to 
organize a group with the the 

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the troublemakers actually 
getting talked to. 

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So here's the encouragement. 
It says, here's what you need to

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know. 
People like this, it says in 

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verse 11, know that such a 
person is warped and sinning and

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they're self condemned. 
So I know in my heart when it's 

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time to tell someone that they 
need to, you know, sit on the 

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sidelines until they can figure 
it out. 

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It almost feels unloving or 
unwelcoming, but it's actually 

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not. 
It says what you've found is the

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person is actually sinning. 
It's actually a sin that needs 

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to be confronted, just as 
stealing and lying would be 

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confronted. 
A person who is gossiping or is 

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continually stirring the pot and
distracting people and turning 

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conversations into envy and 
strife, that should be dealt 

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with as someone who's in sin. 
And it's not bad to confront 

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someone when they're in the 
midst of sinning. 

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It also says that they've 
condemned themselves, that 

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they've chosen to be such a 
person after one and two 

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warnings that they are 
condemning themselves. 

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You're just acknowledging the 
path that they've chosen and so 

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I encourage you to be open to 
caring for a group by talking to

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a person and how that is 
understood in your doing. 

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Just remember this. 
It also says they're warped, 

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someone who has a warped mind 
and they can't Unsee the thing 

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that they look at every topic 
through the lens of. 

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I once heard a quote that said 
is if everything you touch makes

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your finger hurt, it's not that 
you're surrounded by dangerous 

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objects, it's that your finger 
is broken. 

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And I think the same can be true
of the way that we view the 

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world is if everything is making
your brain hurt and your heart 

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race, it's not that the world is
broken or the Bible study is 

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broken or the church is broken. 
Your mind in the way of your 

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thinking might be amiss. 
And so take a break and we'll 

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pray for you, but we're not 
going to allow the circle of 

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people who want to pray and seek
Jesus and love him and love one 

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another be distracted. 
They're they're condemning 

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themselves in their warped mind 
and their sin. 

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And here's what I'll say as we, 
as we close this, even this is a

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picture of the Gospel 
confronting someone who is, is 

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disruptive and in sin and even 
condemning themselves to do 

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that. 
You stand on the gospel because 

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it says that God sent his son 
into the world, that whoever 

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would believe on him, John 
chapter 3, verse 16, would not 

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perish, would but would be 
saved. 

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And then he says in verse 17, he
did not send his son to condemn 

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the, the, the mission of Jesus 
coming into the world was not to

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take all of the sinners and say,
what were you thinking? 

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It was to love people and the 
kindness leading to repentance. 

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It was not a condemning mission.
It was a loving mission. 

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And yet it goes on to say John 
chapter 3, verse 19, this is 

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condemnation, that light has 
come into the world and men love

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darkness rather than light 
because their deeds are evil. 

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And when people are obsessed not
with the gospel, but with 

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peripheral ideas about God or 
about the things that they're 

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thinking about, they, they've 
got the wrong focus and they're 

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until the heart change and the 
mind change, they are choosing 

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their own path. 
And so we do this as a way to 

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protect people, protect our 
time, our sacred time and the 

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word, and also allow people to 
have a moment with God where 

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their heart can be worked on. 
And so let's put it all together

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very simply. 
The focus of preaching and 

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studying the word and your 
devotional time is to live out 

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the gospel. 
And as you do that, you live in 

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a world that has so many 
distractions and so many side 

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conversations. 
And the goal for our gathering 

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and and our time in such a place
as this is to leave out the rest

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is to be undistracted from the 
simple truth that we stand on 

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God's love saving sinners like 
we once were renewing our hearts

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so that we can be lights in the 
dark. 

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Live for that and leave out the 
rest and and he says remind you 

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guys of this all the time. 
Titus remind Crete in our time 

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in the word for the last year. 
This is the focus of good 

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doctrine and how do we affirm it
constantly. 

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What a great picture of why we 
do what we do every Sunday. 

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Is there a greater way to 
constantly remember what we need

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to be all about than by ending 
every time in the Word, by 

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passing out the bread and the 
cup? 

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Lest any message that is ever 
preached from behind this pulpit

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is ever received as some good 
work that you need to figure 

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out. 
And until you can do better, 

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just don't come back. 
Every time we open the word and 

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every message that is preached 
ends by saying, and it all 

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started right here. 
God so loved the world that He 

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sent His Son to hang on a cross.
And we remember His body and His

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blood given for us so that our 
sin could be washed clean. 

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Remember this as often as you 
gather and it says, whenever we 

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take this, we proclaim His death
until he returns. 

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Built into every time we end our
service. 

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We are remembering that death 
did not hold him. 

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He now sits at the right hand of
the Father. 

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He is now coming again. 
We leave this place with 

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whatever good work that God has 
for us to serve someone, to 

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forgive someone, to love 
someone. 

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We remember that it is all 
flowing from the confidence that

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we have that death has been 
defeated, that we are going to 

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the the perfect heavens and 
earth. 

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Jesus is coming again, and 
whatever he has for us, we do in

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his name because it was done 
first to us. 

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And so I'll just ask the 
question one more time. 

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How many times do I have to tell
you that God loves you, that 

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your debt has been paid, your 
sins are forgiven, It is by 

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grace and not works. 
Your name is written in the book

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of life. 
You are going to heaven and he's

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coming again. 
The dead who are in Christ will 

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raise 1st and then we'll all 
meet Him in the clouds. 

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There is nothing that this world
can throw at us that we cannot 

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overcome by the power of Jesus, 
because death itself has lost 

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its sting. 
And that is something that I 

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will tell you every time we 
gather. 

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