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episode in. Oh my goodness, I'm just going
to say this right now. I've been so excited to talk to
this individual, not just because he's one of my favorite
monsters. And as you guys know, I keep
bringing some monsters onto the platform and if you don't know
what the monsters are, check out the mon app, it's a great sex,
positive Community Live real-time chats and you get to
connect with people, like my guess, Mac of free, the Kink
Mac. I am just so excited.
I am so elated and just so excited to talk about free, the
Kink, most importantly why we're going to, you know, talk about
our subject at hand because a lot of bullshit has been going
on. So first of all, Mac of ftk,
welcome to the show. Welcome to the show.
So, Frida King dedicated to Bringing organization's
resources opportunities to the Forefront of the BDSM and
alternative lifestyle Community. You guys have been around.
And for quite a bit and it seems like Facebook is where your
community is really big. So let's talk about it.
What is free, the Kink? Why?
You know what? Just got you started and you
know where do you all fit into it mac?
Oh thank you very much for that. Lovely introduction.
Miss a fire and I just want to say that pleasure is actually
all mine has I mean the queen of podcasts you're a Pioneer in it.
You were on audio before anyone even knew what a damn podcast
was so it's my honor to be here free the Kink ftk.
You know we started out I've almost six years ago now, I
think we just celebrated our fifth year anniversary,
actually, you know, my beautiful slave, the kinky Smurf and I we
we just felt. There's, we were own part of a
lot of groups. All those groups, you know, you
couldn't, they all had their Echo Chambers and we wanted to
create a place in, which all voices, could be heard all
voice. It didn't matter, especially the
ones that others didn't agree with, okay, because that's where
you find has new people come into BDSM.
If they don't find a lot of voices, they fall in line with
an echo chamber. That may not even be They are,
you know, if I, if I was starting over today and I had to
say, vet a new submissive for myself.
I'd say here's what I want you to do.
Here's 200 resources before we even start talking.
Go find out who you are, find out what you really like, you
know, because it's so for the longest time even when you know,
you would search information and there wasn't a whole lot out
there. So that's what we wanted to
create. Yeah.
You know what's crazy to me. It's you know again we're we're
going to talk about the bullshit that's going on with the And
bands. And why is there this seemingly
war on sex positivity? Because the more and more you
look at it and I was looking at the statistics before you and I
got started on the conversation but what I was realizing that
you know, everybody's talking about how you know the Internet
is just flooded with porn but only 4% 4% takes up the space of
born of the internet. Everything else is political
bullshit. Your Entertainment.
News whatever. So then it's like communities,
like ftk through the Kink you don't comes into play and it's
like you do offer a very safe haven.
I you know, you look at the website, you look at your
Facebook group, I mean what you're hitting almost 35,000
active followers if I'm not mistaken.
So in our 12 communities right now, we have almost 70,000.
She's awesome but you know we're still tiny.
We're tiny compared to. What's out?
And you're right. The problem is it look here's
the thing. They're always trying to shut
down the speech. Yes.
Okay. Freedom of speech and freedom of
expression and let's assume that 4% let's blow that out to our.
Let's say it's 80%. Okay, there's this little thing
called supply and demand. There wouldn't be the porn if
the porn wasn't desired, you know what I mean?
The reason and poor comes in all flavors, not all porn is
raunchy. There's love porn.
There's raunchy porn. I'm a crazy saying this.
I like it wild. My poor would definitely not be
for most people. But there's a reason, you know.
And so many people thoughts are like, oh, let's just, let's get
into this. We talk about the let's talk
about Louisiana for me because people don't understand some
things. Yes.
And I'm gonna I'm gonna bring up for bills right now if you don't
mind please. Okay.
There are three bills out there that I bet.
Most of your listeners probably haven't heard of and it's they
do it on purpose, the earn it act to see Sam Act, and the
Cooper Davis act, these three acts.
Okay, are going through and they've been trying to get these
Friends years. These these laws are essentially
end communication privacy and they're doing it under the guise
of all has always to protect the children, right?
You know this after, you know, that's what it was always about
the band, The the verification Down, Louisiana.
So what the goal with these bills are, is the basically all
messages between, email, text messenger, end-to-end, encrypted
messages. So the kind of message that you
have with your doctor. Okay, we'll all now, have to be
algorithm, we monitored for certain keywords red flags.
Who decides those four key words, the government, okay?
It essentially ends private communication.
You know, if you look there was another time and it's always,
it's always with the spin. And you know why, most people
don't know about it is because they put it out, the guise of
protecting children. Who the hell doesn't want to
protect children? We all want to protect children.
So, we just say, yeah, it's a good thing but we don't look at
the fact you're back to the patriarch That's a fine example
but let's talk about another bill about five years ago.
That happened that I know you'll know about it was all passed
under the guise to Bill's Sessa Foster.
Oh my God. Okay.
These home for those who don't know, it's us a faucet.
First of all is like Voldemort in the world of adult
entertainment, sex positivity because there's so much under
lining censorship that goes along with it.
And again, I understand like you said, Ed, we're trying to
protect children, but also there are cracks in the system, you
know, with these porn bands going on, like a person like me
who is very tech savvy and you know, my father, he my dad, he
grew. He taught me Internet safety
because that's what he did for a living.
He works on computers. So it's like I knew everything
about VPN scrambling my location and all that.
So it's like when you're talking about these porn bands, That
they're putting on in this Festival, you know, specify say
where they were really trying to like say no, it's not just going
to be one state. We want the entire States United
States to basically, not by porn that they wanted to make porn
harder to accept. You know, to be accessible like
taking it. Not just out of stores.
But also, you know, trying to put like one big red flag and
scrambling people's accounts and saying that you cannot access
But again, that's you know, cutting into the levels of free
speech and media. And let's face it, is it really
free Wayne. Now we're having keywords being
taken out, and like you said, you got the driver's license
verification. So, now, the people's actual
true identities are compromised, so 100%, you know, and then it
just How's it you know, that it's the most interesting thing
for that meat for me must have fire is the Geo.
A the government accountability office which you can find a geo
geo a.gov that report came out. I'm sure you saw it since in and
you know incest the fossils five years of being in into
existence, there's been 12 cases that have been prosecuted under
that one of those cases just won Miss Sapphire is for actual sex
trafficking. The other 11 are Cases and
lawsuits against platforms. And you know what, the end
result of that was the confiscation of over 100 million
dollars from platforms. So you tell me that this me,
come on but what it did do it hit the sex worker industry, so
hard. So many sex workers have been
put into and we don't have to get into that, but we do know
that. I mean, they have been made so
much more vulnerable. Salts are up.
Rapes her up, murders are up incredible.
Because now, I mean before says the Vasa, these professionals
have the opportunity to screen vet communicate about bad
potential Predators. Yes, that's all been taken away
and stripped away from these people for a profession, that's
older than anything else, older than anything else.
And not to mention it's a billion dollar industry in which
most of that money funds. What we're living in right now?
That's the shit that they don't want to tell you.
So then it's like, for organizations like yourself
because that's next The list and we're already seeing that with
social media bands left and right through Twitter through
Instagram I mean our IP to you know the mother of all internet
porn fuck I just blanked on the day I was going to say read it
but that's next. Oh my God.
What was that website? That every Tumblr, Tumblr.
Wow. Tumblr, my brain.
I'm a little hungover. Y'all I'm, I'm powering through
But like, all these things, all these things, you know, it's
just one by one. And you know, when people are
saying like, oh, you're being overdramatic.
Like you don't just change up the code.
I'm like, no, they're latching onto ways.
I can only say corn for so long, you know, sex with a 3 and an X
and talking about, you know, sex positivity or sex posi and
changing around 2 SE G, GS 4. So long, you know, people, like
you said, people's livelihoods are at this.
So it's like, we need Community, like, you offer, we need
communities like moan, you know, for people to really just get
their proper education on when it comes to you sexual wellness.
It's not just porn and I think, you know, they really have to
take a look at it. What is considered poor
nowadays? I think that she the biggest
Free The Kinks core mission is freedom of sexuality because it
sexuality is an expression of who you are and there's nothing
to be ashamed of and the moral, the moral people out there that
use that as their Crux, here's the here's the problem, like
what the Louisiana law, we get you as entity K, whereas threat
of being shut down every day because we're on social media as
you. Well know, I mean, the ride can
be over in an instant and we had to rebuild somewhere else all
over again. But this law in Louisiana, If
there's a hundreds of people who are part of the movement who
have had serious impacts, but through the 60s, 70s, 80s are,
there are the key people who everyone remembers Goldstein,
Flint haffner Hoff and you know there's and they all paid real
prices for freedom of speech. And we we fought this battle for
freedom of sexuality for adult entertainment.
You know is something that is never going to go away.
We're always going to like porn. We're always gonna want to go to
strip clubs and the reality is we always are going to want.
Brothels in the ability to have sex workers and they're never
going to be a stop it. But here's the thing throughout
history, it's a beginning of an unseemly man.
Larry Flynt's book. Milos Forman makes a statement
that rocks my world. Every time I hear, it's actually
my favorite part of the book, not even all of Larry Flynt's
life. It's me with whores, quote, and
he talks about this throughout history.
When a tyrannical government was to control its population,
right? What's the three things that
have to happen? They take your freedom of speech
and expression away, your freedom of privacy and your
freedom, the right to bear. Arms to protect yourself and
they always. And then once they accomplish
that, the next thing is, when they start to attack, who they
always go for first within the population, those who they
deemed perverts, okay? And so, when you take something
like this Louisiana law, you know that now that everyone who
wants to watch porn has to put their ID and it goes into a
database. The top companies in the tech
companies in the world get hacked, then tell me this
fucking thing isn't going to get hacked.
Exactly. And the government has full
access to it. You got me?
Fucked up. That is the one-way Street to
hell my friend. I was literally just talking
about this on my last episode. I think it was with it was not
mr. SK, it was with Anya and we were
talking about how just not even recently.
I want to say maybe it was about two years ago, that there is law
in place. That basically says jobs are not
allowed to fire you based off of your sexual Your sexual
preference or activities outside of the work environment.
Now, of course, there are companies that are still trying
to fight this and say, you know fuck that you don't want them to
represent our country. But if you think about it, if a
leak happens that's going to put a lot of, you know, jobs in
Jeopardy. It's not like religious people
don't whack off the porn. It's not like political figures
and other public figures healthcare workers don't indulge
in porn. And again, what's considered,
poor nowadays, I think is a little bit more, you know, way
brought her on the Spectrum. I think, you know, putting a
general conversation on just p&v sex or, you know, a blowjob
video. No porn is anything at this
point. If you got to think about it and
what's turning somebody on sometimes, it's not even nudity.
It's not a job. Let me look the crazy thing
about this Louisiana law though is if and I'm not a lawyer, let
me preface with I'm not overturning and when I read
these damn laws and I'm reading a lot of laws lately because ftk
really wants to move more towards opening up more channels
to speak for these things. You got to, you got to be a damn
rocket science to understand. Half the ship.
You think, create that way on purpose but you know when you're
looking at this, you look at this law ftk doesn't have a
single video of sale. Like sexual activity on overall
education, but the way the law is written.
It says 35th more than 30% of is sexual content.
All of my stuff is sexual education kind.
Yeah, I mean, every damn article.
So technically under their law me fucking I'll shut my website
down before I let them. Do all fucking move to some
other country. I don't care, because I'm not
going to have my members, have to put in their drivers license,
to be able to come learn how to go home tonight and spank their
partner without breaking their tailbone and that's what we do.
Pharrell. And again, it's like, it's
gonna, it's still causing a spiral effect.
And then just, you know, recently I want to say this past
week. Now, Utah is following
Louisiana's footsteps. And now, they want to, I was
reading this on PBS and I'll add the link, you know, to the
Bayou, for all these sources that I've gotten.
But they basically are again, verifying the ages of their
users. And it took effect just this
past Wednesday. Today is the 27th episodes
dropping on the 20th. Of course, you're born, you're
probably listening between the 28th into Memorial Day weekend.
So anyways it just passed on Wednesday that they are.
Requiring you know adult websites to verify the ages of
their users and they're saying that it's a part.
It's part of their job as a society.
And you know one of the Republican sponsors is basically
saying I'm not going to blame All society's ills on
pornography, but I don't think it's helpful when a kid is
forming their expressions of sex and gender to all of this filth
and loot depictions on their mind.
I'm sorry, but it starts with the home, when you do not talk
to your child about sex, they're gonna go and fuck around and
find out somewhere else. Can we can we bring up Pulpit
here? So you could preach?
I mean, Jesus, when I was a kid, I, you know what?
I got caught doing, stag of my dads.
Hustler Magazine's, okay, and I got my ass whooped for it, you
know, right? By the way, there's 18 states,
18 states right now that are following Louisiana, sing 18
states, and half of them have this thing.
There's no votes being taken by the People.
By the way, you know, this is just going through getting done,
just like every goddamn thing else, right?
And so 18 states and I don't know, books and you know how
this is gonna try and this was a bipartisan Bill and, you know,
and you know, I'm just I'm, I am over it all together.
I feel you both sides. They All they want is control
over us and if you know you look at what they can do with this
data, okay, if you decide to start speaking out about certain
something a certain subject, that's I mean you could take a
take your pick of the Hot Topics today.
There's tons of them if some facts would because, you know,
on these laws like earn it and now there's state rights to
access this data to buy the AG's.
So what if the state decides because no State targets anyone?
I know, but let's just say a state within the target.
A certain group of Of people. Well, now they can go to this
database because again, if the government decides, what
keywords are going to flag what messages, I can assure you,
these people will be on a flag 99.9% of as they'll come up with
a reason why that word has to be in there.
Fixing, you know what happens? Yeah.
And we only do they know who you are and we see it already use
that as leverage to shut people up when thousand percent and we
already see that with the data tracking on our smartphones.
Like, I'm so sick of people saying, like I don't have social
media because I don't want to be found.
I'm like, but you own a smartphone, right?
So everything that you do, that's not even social media
related. They got everything, they got
the lowdown on, you. They know you're pouring habits,
they know, you know, your food habits, they know where you're
going, how you're going, where you come in and go in.
Because if you use Google Maps, it will literally show your
Journeys for the past whenever you activated the maps.
You people don't even realize when you turn location services
off, they still track you. Exactly.
You know, exactly these
companies know more about you than, you know, about you and I
can predict your next move. This is why advertisers by all
this data because they could, they could predict your next
move for the next six months. I know what you're going to buy,
eat where you're going to go. Who you gonna see?
They know what your religious and political beliefs are when
you're sitting there talking with your spouse or your best
friend, and private over a nice fat joint on the back porch, you
think your private you're not private know, everything is
being gobbled up and that's the scary part of it.
Because now again whenever I talk to, you know, my friends in
porn and a lot of them, you know, who were the old heads,
you know, in the Golden Era of porn which is of course the 70s
and 80s 80s especially because oh my God, yes, that I got
started in porn at the time that I did because I don't have to
worry about Out the social media bullshit.
I'm tired of it. You know, I'm tired of flagging
accounts left and right, but if you think about it, it's like
Some things were better protected because identities
weren't found your favorite porn star and they have him and gone.
And you never knew their real name unless they know no changed
identities. And said I'm going to go into
mainstream but she don't even have that.
Now, we're porn stars and other adult performers and M adult
entertainers are trying to, you know, hide their identities.
But they can't because of the technology that we have today,
you Type in someone's name and you could get their address
their phone number and in everything.
So just like an assay for the crime against adult entertainers
would knots on the rise with more of these bands because
people have to put in verification, Yeah.
Actually I wouldn't want an adult when adult Entertainer
wants to retire and go and live their life.
You know. They used to go to do that
because you know you're not going to recognize someone if
they do a few different things. But now it's all right there,
you know exactly where they're going, what they're doing and
it's a sad day in hell, that's been around for a long time.
My biggest concern is when the government starts putting in
laws like this and restricting the opportunity for freedom of
speech and expression. It's Not doing anything illegal.
What they're doing is perfectly legal work but yet you're
targeting them and you're doing it under the guise of what we
all know is bullshit and you can only do that because it's sex,
it's ridiculous. You know if it was anything else
you can't do shit. The biggest drug dealers on the
world are not cartels. They are Pharmaceuticals.
You wouldn't do this shit to them you know but they'll do it
to sex and because they don't want to talk about it even
though that For overall health and mental health.
Your sexual expression is key to a happy life.
I've been with my wife, the kinky Smurf for 20 years, I miss
after. Let me tell you something.
I never once have looked across the counter and said, oh my God,
I'm so glad I learned how to balance a checkbook with you.
I look across the counter and I say, 20 years later and I am
chasing this myth around the house.
I come here. I want a piece of that ass and
that's what's kept us. We have been through some of the
toughest times you can possibly imagine but because that passion
was there, To we never ever. I mean, all of my friends from
who got married at same time, I did her divorced but you know,
I'm still right now trying to chase this.
Girl, when I get off of here, I'm gonna go find this girl, you
know, that's what makes healthy relationships and doesn't have
to be marriage. Friends with benefits are
whatever policies that relate that intimacy and that passion.
And it's so beyond, just here, let me jump in between your
legs, you know, there's so much that can go into the freedom of
sexuality and expression and we've got to be able to share
that with people. It's a learned experience and I
think people tend to forget that.
So the more that you start Banning sex sex on the internet,
you are now taking away. Like you said, and you made a
very key Point May is mental health awareness month.
We're drawing it to a close but you know, you've seen it that I
people enter sex surrogacy, they by prostitutes, they buy sex
workers because it's sometimes a little bit cheaper than therapy
and for them. That is therapy.
So not all sex and sex, acts are bad and that's the problem with
these legislators. That keep saying we're gonna ban
porn. We're gonna ban sex work and
make it seem like it's the devil.
I mean it is what it is sex, work is work and it is work on
some work levels, it is a communication type of style of
work. It is a therapeutic style of
work. Hell it is.
Checks and balances like if you want to talk about some money,
money management porn is where it's at 100%.
Okay, there's no, I don't have a cent.
I'm not gonna sit up here and say like yeah, there's, you
know, in every industry we got some dumb asses, but if you
think about it, I'm like, you talk to a sex worker about
money, honey, they're gonna Finance the fuck out of there
the entire business, okay? Like I'm kind of low-key jealous
as I work by behind the scenes. You know, I have gotten monetary
offers or the most outrageous things that I just never felt
personally comfortable with. But I'm like, if you are able to
Market your entire body, there is somebody out there that is
willing to finance your house. Just based off of the fact that
you and I may be having a conversation.
You might see me overindulge in lunch and that's turning you the
fuck on. I'm making a monetary exchange
off of my body. Off of my body.
But yet you're telling me I can't that my body is not my
body, that's what you're telling sex workers that their bodies
are their bodies and they are not allowed to reap the benefits
of their own self. You know, you brought up, you
brought up the financial aspect of it for adult entertainers,
sex workers. And let me tell you something
ftk loot unlimited, which is my parent company.
All of us that are in the sex trade.
I have an article coming out then and next week, you may want
to check it out. It's about the discrimination
against sex sexual cold legal companies and the banking
system, because they make it so hard if you're looking for an
adult Entertainer. And you, when you have a
company, you A lot of banks won't even take your money.
They won't open account. They will let you fun things.
I won't let you get it. Try, good.
Try Togo getting an investment outside of the adult
entertainment history for an adult.
In a dairy products, shout out to my girl, a lot of Evans, she
is a porn vet and Avid Avid speakers, especially talking
about this very thing. I believe she went to the White
House. A couple weeks ago to talk about
the dangers of why, you know, stopping pornographers, adult
entertainers from Justice. Simply baking is you know
detrimental to absolutely because it's like yes we all
want to secretly hoard money. I get it.
You know, we all want to secretly hoard money in our
homes but even our homes are our home.
Fronts are not safe enough to do so anymore.
But when you're telling a professional again professionals
working in this industry that the money that they have earned
over the past, 20, 30, 40, fucking years.
All of a sudden doesn't matter. What is that going to say for
other people later on down in the road?
Because if it starts with sex is not just going to end with sex,
it's going to trickle down to everything else that's basically
saying that I your money, your job doesn't matter and this is
just the beginning. Are they going to do that to
teachers later on and they're going to do that to healthcare
professionals? All you make too much money but
it's not good money. You work for the Mart of
pharmaceutical company but it's not good money.
Like it's the most the funny thing about that is the IRS will
come. Come out and say we don't care
how you got your money. If you if you got your money
from you know working the streets, we still want you to
report it. Okay.
But you don't even give us a legal way of doing so it only
way for a for most people in the adult Learners are if they want
to keep it clean is to break the law.
If you're if you're if you were if you're a working girl or
working guy if you're if you're in the sex workers industry
that's not legal. So if you want to be able to
report it, you got to do what you got to break the law, sort
of felonious company, something like a cleaning crew or
something. So you can actually Put your
money in pay taxes, pay your bills, have a mortgage.
These people are no different than a restaurant worker.
They do the same things. You want your money as a
government. Give them a vehicle in a way to
do it. That part that not very exact
part. It just, it makes no sense to
me. So, with that being said, mag
like, what do you think the future of ftk and other sex
positive communities? Like what are you going to do
you You know, if more of these bands keep coming up in States,
especially where you're most active users are, what steps are
precautions have you already taken as far as like this
censorship going on for the users that may be affected in.
You know, one of those 18 states that are already taken the band.
Like what are the substitute we're about to take for that?
So ftk future is changing quite a bit.
We are always going to provide spaces for empowerment education
and Community but we will we will not be able to provide
those if they win. And I'm not in this is this is a
war on sexuality and I'm sorry it is and so the loudest voices,
the people who are willing to be the loudest voices, I don't give
a shit. You can come from it.
You can take, you can't cancel me, you can't turn me off.
I work for myself. You shut one system down on me.
I'll find another ftk is Going to get very loud here very
quickly. We want to focus more on
bringing the attention, especially to the people, you
know, look, I'm not a sex worker, but I support sex
workers because I'm a consumer. I love going to the ranch.
Okay, here we go. The ranch, me and Hillary go,
the ranch. And she, I gotta, I'm not that
rich baby. You can't have them all her ass
is in there. Like I want all of them.
The consumer of the product adult Entertainer.
Sex workers can only fight this fight so much if we're going to
win this fight, the consumer, the fucking product has to.
Finally stand up, say, shut up, leave us alone and let us have
our sex workers. Let us have our daughter Tamar.
I love you all, but you guys don't have enough power.
Okay, to fight this fight alone, you need the consumer of the
product is finally step up. I know for a lot of y'all, it's
embarrassing to say you like, to go to S, why there was the best
time of your fucking life. And, you know, it You've never
had that before. Okay.
You, when you look porn, we say all that porn is not education.
It is not. But you know what it is.
It's fucking inspiration. When you're looking to try
something new, look at that. Okay, let's try that.
Now obviously my ass don't have that equipment and I'm not that
good of shape, but we're gonna try a version of that tonight,
baby. I'm Sumer has to step up on that
note. We're going to take a quick sexy
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But seriously, we were talking about before the break, using
these tools as enhancements. Because, again, yes, there is
adult content that is educational, but the fact that
matter is, you know, a lot of these companies don't even want
to be associated with the word porn, and that makes me actually
sad. It makes me kind of sad that a
lot of companies want to say we rather thrive in sexual Wellness
then using the word porn. And I think personally, yeah, I
I blame I blame what's going on right now with our government
with the censoring into. Why all of a sudden, the word
porn is such a taboo word and it breaks my heart.
You know, it breaks my heart that I I've worked in this
industry. For 15 years.
And both porn and in radio, and seeing that evolution of all,
you can't see porn on this ad or you can't say porn for this
company. Like, yeah, we know that we have
adults having sex, but we don't want to call it porn.
Call it erotica, call it this. And I also, it makes me feel
bad. It feels disingenuine, sometimes
where I have to talk to companies that feel like porn
the such like a dirty shameful word.
And it's like, how do we Reclaim that how do we reclaim that as a
society of, you know, sex positivity because now that that
dies in you can't say sex positivity, but porn is bad.
I know, right? It's and people are coming up
with more and more worse, distance themselves, and
distance their brand away from porn.
And you know, part of that too is going to become his and ftk.
We need to do a better job at that to we, I love porn.
I don't actually watch a lot of porn because Hillary Hillary,
and I have this thing, man. You know, it's kind of funny
will start a porn. It'll run for like three minutes
and then do whatever. I don't know.
What else happens. I'm already were already in it
somewhere, someone sucking licking, touch us up, you know
where were that? Were that couple and some good
nothing here. Anson.
That's an enhancement, it's an enhancement, you know, but we're
going to have to like, I think we should do a better job at
promoting as TK to have reviews, but any time we use the word
porn on anything in our Facebook groups.
It gets we get a flag, get the flag.
Like I would love to be able to. I like what I do, you know what?
I really love to do is I would love to talk to adult
entertainers about the work that they do and how that can go into
education into ftk people can learn from it.
I'm still trying to figure how to do that without Facebook
shutting me down, every five minutes and that takes us right
back to where we started in this whole thing is, we can't say
anything without getting sensor so I think a lot of people are
trying to find words they can use.
But like you said, how long is that going to have to last at
some point people like mirrors got to say fuck it.
I guess they shut me down. They shut me down.
I'll have to find another way. Maybe maybe Miss Sapphire.
Let me come on once a week and talk to people.
I don't know. That's all we're going to do.
We're going to have to take more risk like we risk.
Yeah. Like I said, You're always
invited to the sapphire, cookout, I don't cook but honey,
I can provide a mean dessert if you get my drift, but you are
always, always, always fucking welcome back because like I
said, when you and I connected on the monad, I just immediately
I gravitated to your voice and then researching about free the
kink in, you know, just looking at what you do and provide I
really want people to understand it's like yeah, don't let the
word King fool you. We do talk about Kink but again,
you're Offering a safe haven for folks who are probably deprived
in their cities and their towns and their, you know, bunkers on
the hill yet, these sexual experiences like you.
And I get because of where we live, you know, we live in
cities of sin, you know, we live in cities, where sex is
accessible accessible more accessible.
So, when you're taking down communities like yourself, it's
like You're doing a disservice to society, you know as we keep
saying and I think the ongoing theme of this episode, it's like
your sexual Journey should be a healing positive enhancement to
your life, what I do. But yeah, what I do behind
closed doors. What you do behind closed doors
if you're not going out and killing people after you, you
know, sexually satisfy somebody. Who am I to judge?
If you're not coughing hostak consensual adult, that is the
only requirements. You know, well-informed
consensual adults doing what they want to do, that makes them
happy things that make them pleasure, 25 years ago, Miss
Sapphire. If you would have said to me
mac, try a golden shower. Well you're a crazy way to talk
about that's nasty. I've done all that, right?
It's one of my top 5 favorites. Well damn, okay, well they are
you scared? I'm wild out over here.
I love it. You know.
So I mean this is if and if I would have had a chance to find
a way to even find it or experience it, how would I have
even known? I would have even known well,
like I said, you know, don't knock it till you, try it.
But I don't know me and bodily fluids.
That's a whole different topic but and in that and that's
awesome, you know, right? I mean that's how it's supposed
to be. And that's why wedding before we
end this and I'll weave Touch of acid is still the number one
thing. People need to do in these
Dynamics, is vet to your little heart is vetted out, okay?
Because if you don't, that's how you get hurt.
That's how don't let there be a misunderstanding anywhere.
Okay, what would you say for, you know, people like ourselves
who are, you know, going through the struggles of, you know, just
trying to provide good quality, sex positive content, but they
are getting discouraged by, you know, the very same things that
we've been talking about. Do you have any tips for folks,
or You know, any resources where they can come on over and say
like here, this is the space where you can go and you know,
be your natural self 100%. So look, there's a lot of places
and I get it. I get it more than you can
possibly some days. I'm just like, fucking I moved
to the mountains and be done with it.
I don't really want to deal with it, but we know we can't do
that. So first thing I think is always
take that breath. You know, provide some self love
to yourself, getting the right headspace and then try to
remember why you're doing the first place.
What was your original goals and it's those still matter to you,
you got to keep I never fight, man.
He got to keep doing it. Organization organizations doing
is, I guess, TK come over to the mo nap and follow him a sapphire
over there. So you know what she is have
rooms and other people that you're like, find that community
of people who you relate to, you know, has my dear friend cash
dances, you got find your tribe and then be in places where your
tribe is that and people who are going to accept you for who you
are because that gives you Fuel and nourishment to go out there
and fight the fight. You have to fight, you know,
because you got to fill up that cup man, you gotta fill up your
cup if you just keep drinking. I let other folks drink from
your cup without putting some time into and filling it up.
You don't wear out 100% ftk Mac. I always call you both because I
mean shit, you embody everything.
You know you've made this space just what it is and just you
know I just I am so grateful that I the sex positive Stars
aligned because I don't think I would have heard about your
organization. Had it not been for the monat
you know how did not make a kale.
Yeah. See.
Really thank you. I might have to send you.
This are check but seriously it's you know I am just so
thankful for what you bring to the table, I am really like
manifesting it that you and I are gonna do something together
in person and kind of just bring more, you know, communal support
together with that said, 100%. What's going on next for ftk in
Mac like what can people look forward to you?
How can they get connected with you?
Now's your time to shine and you can I hear you before we say
that on the team is sapphire Hillary and I love you to death
we love you to death. You're so awesome and you have
been fighting longer than most people have even known.
There was a fight to be had, so whatever ftk can ever do for
you. We're right here.
Will support it will, promote it will do whatever we need to do.
Anyone who wants to find ftk, can finance a free the kink.com.
You know, you can go onto Facebook group.
Our main Facebook group is free, the Kink we have 12 total.
So No matter what you're into, we even have a group called
Little Fort which in April, of next year we're having Littles
in Las Vegas which is going to be a conference three-day
conference in Vegas for Littles. You have to be 21 plus because
we're going wild out, you got tickets.
I know you're not a daddy, your as a d type in it.
That's okay. You can still come and have fun.
It's going to be a Candyland game fee.
Wow. So it's going to be kind of cool
might have to do like a live podcast broadcast because that
sound when that be fun, that sounds interesting.
They just put me in a little radio corner.
I would love to interview the little before the, you know,
they go into punishment because that's the communities that I
have yet to tap into, you know, lately.
I've been tapping into the cuckold community on sapphires
are place. So now I got to tap into the
littles. So if your little listening,
tapping, can I put your girl? I want to, I want to talk to
you. Let's get into the air.
As, you know, we've been sharing, we've been sharing your
play and ftk for the last 34 weeks, now, and ironic Weekly
basis. So we know the littles, they're
there. They're finding it now you got.
It doesn't thing, you know, everybody needs.
Everybody needs a place to come and learn.
And your podcast is a great place to thank you for having
me. Thank you for just being
available. Always is down for whatever and
I definitely want to bring you back for more conversations
because Mac, I feel like you and I could just talk about anything
underneath the sign, and I hope just you earbuds listening.
Just got a taste of again, not just the censorship.
It but also the fact of why it is so important that we have
people like mac and the community space of ftk around
and why you should get connected.
If you're feeling kind of lost in your own sexual journey, and
speaking about sexual Journeys, my next guest which are dropping
on the fourth. We're going to talk about the
religious aspect of this one dynamic duo, the fly Duo
production crew. You may know them as sex tech
and chill but they're going to come on and talk.
About their Journey about leaving Jehovah's Witness and
just rediscovering themselves in a sexual exploitation unlike any
other. So, again, all these these
people that I bring on weekly please, please follow support.
Share it. Spread it around.
It may not be for you, so give it to somebody else, but it
takes a whole ass Community. It takes a whole ass movement to
overthrow this bullshit that we are talking about right now.
It's things like this. That fucking matter.
And that's why we have to stick together in this fight.
So Mac hundred percent. Thank you just truly, truly.
Thank you. Thank you, boys.
Thank you. Thank you so much.
All right here, buys that is all for now, but of course, you can
reach me at Miz radio, Sapphire.com at Miz radio,
Sapphire on Instagram. No Twitter at sapphires are play
on Instagram as well. And if you are tired of me
saying all these things, just go to the link link on this
episode. I sewed, I'm going to put Max
links in so y'all can talk and stalk him.
Follow him, you don't give them some love, give them some
suggestions. This man is so easy to talk to,
so please bring them onto your platforms.
With that said, safe sex is the best hot sex till next week
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