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You know, this person in particular is just near and dear
to my heart. Gosh, I could say a lot about
this person, but I'm just gonna let you talk to the person
themselves. So everybody, everybody, Welcome
Back. Nia AKA how on the go and not
just speaking on behalf. Half of whole on the go, but
also you have been up to some really dope shit lately.
And you are now the social sex curator for Make Love Not porn.
And if you guys are wondering, like, damn, Make Love Not porn.
Sounds awfully familiar. We're gonna get into it.
So everybody earbuds monsters, wherever the hell you're
listening from. Welcome Nia.
Hi, thank you so much for having me again.
It's been It's benefited. It's been a cool minute.
Yeah, honestly I was looking back.
I was like, damn, it's literally been almost a year.
No. Actually it's been a year.
It's been a year since you did two episodes with me.
And I mean, we talk on the regular basis but we have been
super, super fucking busy lately.
So like I'm just glad we were able to do this but also just
congratulations. Like honestly I think this is
really good fit for you and I've been following you For hot mini.
I've been following Make Love Not porn for a hot minute as
well. But I have to say, honestly, I
did not know as much as I thought.
I knew about the company until you and I started talking some
more and thank you for just on behalf of them joining my little
old platform like thank, you know, of course, you know, I
really appreciate all the all the well wishes and look at
things. I've just been really you know,
trying to find out where my expertise expertise and a love
for just like sexuality and you know things like that could fit
into like my everyday life and work.
And I'm honestly so lucky that I was able to find a job at Make
Love Not for it. And I honestly really love what
I do for them. So super excited to talk about
it. Yeah, yeah.
So walk us through what exactly? Is As social sex curator and
then also, what is ml&p? Yeah, so Make Love Not porn is a
social sex website. I know a lot of people are like,
what is social. Mmm, I think you could think of
it in a couple of ways. Social sex, if we think about
sex in general, it is a social activity, right?
Of course, it can be done by yourself, but more times than
not, you do have sex with other people.
And what is so special about Make Love Not porn, is that it
is a way for people to express their sexuality and their
sensuality with other people in a real-life way Make Love Not
porn, is kind of like a social media platform where you can
comment on videos, you can rent videos and you can actually
interact with the people who are sharing their sex moments.
I like that now. Also, I would have to say
because right now, we have this Great Divide.
I was just recently talking about this with another
organization earlier this week. And there's this Great Divide
between curated sex versus pornography.
And when I'm talking about is, you know, contracted folks in
porn. So, like the big names, like
evil angel, which I work for Playboy, even PornHub.
You know, regardless of where you stand on PornHub, that is,
you know, they do have contracted stars but then you
have social media sites, like only fans and he'll even Make
Love Not porn regardless, you know of what it is at the end of
the day, it is part of sex tag that is online.
Using the tools of social media. You have this Great Divide where
the word pornography has become such a dirty word.
Yes. And I'm glad that she said that
because you also just reminded me.
I did not answer. No, no, that's fine.
That's fine. But you know why you're making
it known? Because again, like I said,
there's a divide I want to know and you know me I'm going to I
want to know the nitty-gritty. I'm not going to sugarcoat this
because you know as somebody who does work in pornography, I've
worked in porn as well as you know, mainstream radio my entire
career for 13 years. Is always like here.
We are in this day and age where social media has really taken
over all platforms. Yeah, it's it's really
interesting especially because as someone who has done sex work
in the past, it's very interesting to see kind of like
how sex has been pushed to the like the Forefront of
conversation especially when it comes to the internet and social
media. But with that being said, As a
social sites curator my job is similar to you.
I review videos and you know it's very it's definitely never
boring. It's it's fine, it's cool.
But it's also very intimate and a way where one you could
literally. Now of course, the most of these
people aren't strangers to me anymore.
But you have these strangers people that I don't know who I
am reviewing and you know, looking through.
These intimate moments like they're going to share on Make
Love Not torrents website. And with that, what we do is
make sure, you know, all the basic stuff is in their legal
documents are in order that things are consenting and
essential making sure that people's identities and just
like, you know, privacy is intact.
And then of course, just like the legalities making sure
there's no, copyrighted audio and video, and stuff like that
in the, in the videos that they submit to us.
And what I really like, Out. That is that because of the fact
that it's myself in and two other curators on the team?
What I really like about that is that because we are so small and
like our team is so intimate. We are able to like really like
deep dive to make sure that what we're seeing.
And what we're putting out is genuine it aligns with our, you
know, with our company's belief systems and our values.
Mmm. And it is like, literally
showcasing what we mean by social sites like that.
And also, you know, going over a year guidelines.
I was looking on the website so one they have the words curated
Fair, all flavors, welcome submit your own and I love first
of all that it's all flavors because let's be honest again.
Bring it back to what I was saying before, there is a
difference between this whole social media, socially curated
set. We are seeing online now versus
pornography. I feel like, even working in
pornography, we are extremely limited on what is being shown
on the more larger scale? You know, why is it that trans
men and women are seen as almost like a Gonzo thing, or it's like
a special edition in porn versus like when you're looking at
these real porn sites like even Oh my God black.com you know and
MN + ml + P. Where it's like it's everyone,
you know, you get all the flavors, if you will, you get
the whole you know, sexuality salad.
And I wonder why there's this divide almost like, okay?
We're in this day and age where They're queer people in the
world having sex. Yeah.
Why are we not having these conversations or why we only
marketing marketing, it on a larger scale during certain
times of the year and not all year, right?
And I think that's something that's, that's really been kind
of more brought to my attention since I've been working with
Make Love Not foreign. Is that mainstream porn content.
Its Just like any other you know, pop culture media you're
gonna do what is trending you're gonna go with what people like
what the demand is, whereas like sites like black touch or Make
Love Not porn. Want people to come as some
stuff and express their sexuality, in whatever way that
is because at the end of the day, you and I both know what we
see in mainstream porn isn't for everyone, but you might be able
to find it but you're gonna have to dig for it.
Right? Yeah.
I really like you're gonna have to figure Out whatever system,
what other, whatever algorithm, whatever words, they use to find
that thing that you're looking for.
And that's why I really love Make Love, Not porn because you
know, I don't know if you got a chance to look at our
lectionary, which is like our hashtag lists.
They are not the same and I'm the tags that you would see on
mainstream porn. And I really appreciate that
because it makes it more realistic and more honest than
Tableau or like some sort of like Fetishization.
Almost like the act of the sex itself.
What do you call? You know?
The curators. Are they all carry a curators?
Are they actors? Are they actresses?
You know, again you're bringing realism back to eroticism which
I have to say is becoming a social boom to because again,
there is a divide between those who are pleasure curators versus
pornography Stars. I think a porn star is someone
who makes about 510 other films, there aren't of the same genre,
you know, they're doing a plethora of films, that's what
makes even a Hollywood star, a Hollywood star.
So when you having these social sex, you know, curators are they
actors? Are they actresses?
What are they, what would they be categorized as?
Yeah. So just to clarify, so the
social sex carriers are myself and then the other to be on my
team. The videos and then we call the
folks who submit videos to Make Love Not porn stars.
So while I will also say in that same breath that we do have lots
of Make Love Not porn stars, who create content for other
websites, like only fans and PornHub.
And the way that we kind of try to make sure that there's no
overlap into the content that folks, you know, produce for
others. ER sites is that, whatever
videos they submit to us, are exclusive to make, love, not
born and that they're not posted anywhere else.
Because once you do that, then it's like it kind of takes away.
The magic of what is Make Love Not foreign, right?
What you said you are, seeing a sense of realism, you're seeing
a sense of honesty and like real raw, Sexual Energy.
Being exchanged between people in a way that of course,
probably does exist on these other platforms.
But Is curated specifically for our website.
I have to say it's almost like a morality type of horn bringing
that the you nose in it. It's a good thing too.
It's so interesting because right now we got these terms,
like, ethical poured and it's like in theory porn is gonna be
ethical. If you got consenting adults
there there by their, uh, you know, their own volition,
they're doing the things that they want to do.
They have autonomy over their own ADI.
However, I think what the key word here is, it's not the
ethical part, it's the pornography part porn is
different than a homemade sex video, right?
Like it's you decided you know what, we're having a good time.
We're having fun. I think we should film this and
that's what you do porn is like, we're hiring these people.
They're getting paid. This is what we want to see.
You might have little bit of creative Direction but in
reality it's like the director came in and told you this is
what we're filming. Is that what you're cool with
great? So much for paying you out for
this team, not to mention, they're not minding their p's
and q's when certain terms are thrown into context.
Sure there might be a socially Scott, you know, construct of
the title but let's be real. I'm editing movies that are fist
her ass pound this bitch, you know, All-Star tranny, you know,
all these degrading terms versus the clips that I see.
See which are you know, lovemaking there isn't you know,
a I did not briefly, I only saw a couple because, you know, you
have to pay to play but there are some of the titles where I
don't see anything of ebony. Uh-huh.
I don't see Asian. I don't see those types of
breakdowns where their stereotypical, and I love that.
It is. That's one of the things that I
think is really also helpful because I think that while all
those things, of course, exists on, Make Love Not horns website.
It's not the main attractor of what is going to break somebody
to watch the video. Of course, we have, like, a
bunch of different times for that, like, you know, American
European black but of course we want people.
Able to put whatever they feel comfortable sharing and
identifying in those in those videos and there's sometimes
videos where we tag them and all we'll put is just like the act
and maybe how they filmed it. Like mmh HD or 4K like iPhone,
you know, like it's we want people to come for the content.
Not necessarily the person, of course people have their
favorites and people that they go to watch their videos often
but we want people to actually enjoy the act and what is
happening or what's Shared and not so much like the descriptors
are like and what have you seen? Like you said, I have seen some
people who were former Talent Danny wild I believe he's a
director with you guys or an actor.
I Make Love Not porn star. Yeah.
Yes. So you know I noticed that he
was like, you know, front and center is like wait a second.
I remember him from doing some very extreme stuff but also he
started going into the The ethical porn side, and I think
he's been ill not side for now. Almost 10 years at this point,
which is very interesting. So, I do love how there is, you
know, the former and the latter of sex workers.
I do love how this is becoming a safe space.
Would you say this is also like a stepping stone for the couples
or the individuals out there who have never really consumed porn?
You know, now that they want to get into erotica because I don't
want to again mistake. Your Say, for being porn, but
for seeking adult content, adult entertainment because that's
what it is. But if they are seeking a more,
you know, erotic approach, would you say that this is like the
stepping stone for people to get their feet wet into adult
eroticism? You know, I think yes.
And no, I think, what's one of the things that I will say is
that with Make Love Not War. Born it is a good place for
people to discover themselves. I think we've heard a lot even
talked about how a lot of people who were trying to embrace and
come in so their sexuality and be comfortable in their
sexuality and up going to only fans and I think we can even see
that with only fans specifically now because you know only fence
been around for a while but Even only fans now is having the same
type of - downturn like corn is where people.
If someone says only fans, the first thing that somebody has to
say about it is usually - like it's never in a positive light.
And I think What Make Love Not corn, does a great job of doing
is making sure that we kind of stay on in this like positive.
This very sex-positive space of exploring and understanding
sexuality as in regards to Well for like, you know, with your
partners. Hmm and yeah we just like we
really try to maintain that like conversation of sex positivity
throughout. I'm chuckling because I'm
actually looking at the directory.
I wanted to share some of these titles.
Okay. One bendy talking about the
flexibility, drink responsibly. Now, first of all, I have to say
thank you for this because one folks, believe it or not, have
becoming more are becoming More sober and I was reading an
article, I can't. I cannot remember if it was the
Mashable, Vice one of the more socially aware blogs, but they
were talking about was with, you know, folks becoming more sober
and dry. They also found a very
triggering for adult content to have alcoholic consumption or we
conception without a label on it and yeah, so I find it great
that. Now we have We have a drink
responsibly, and I think all porn sites or all erotic sites.
Should have those type of trigger warnings because there's
a shift there, such if now that people are becoming of a dry
sober life, where they can even view that.
Portrayal on screen, not to mention.
Drinking responsibly cannot consent when you're not drinking
responsibly so it's great that events.
Thank you. Yeah.
Vibrato I'm sorry bringing karaoke skills to the bedroom in
these videos. Oh man.
Oh my goodness, that's a great. I love this.
No, it's perfect. Y'all have to check this out.
Rope Alicia's. Don't move where you're being
restrained. So close.
So, talking about edging, I like that.
Oh my God, but I love it. I love it.
It's something. Has more safe.
So again, you were saying that no, you wouldn't recommend this
as a stepping stone. Why would she not recommend it
as a stepping stone? I think a lot of times which we
often see when folks are like coming to us and they ask us
questions. One of the first questions is,
how can I make money on your website?
Mmm, and we, of course, people can make money off of the videos
and it might not necessarily people see people's, you know,
main source of income. But yes, you can make money from
Make Love Not War. He owes.
However, our website is not intended for people to
exclusively, make money that already.
Kind of tells us the mindset of where people might be.
If the only thought of you producing any type of sexual
content or erotic content is for you to make money off of it, so
your wedding for these curators. Yes, we want.
We are. Yeah, as curators one of our
jobs is to scream. Screen.
Sorry, you as the curator again. Yeah, as we are, we are there to
kind of screen, folks, intentions.
And then also, when we're like watching these videos where
we're looking, as we, you know, we watch it from start to
finish. Hmm.
So we're seeing how these videos are kind of made, right?
Because you can definitely tell the difference as I'm sure most
of us can when you're watching a video where someone Is kind of
doing it for performance rather than actually like enjoying it
and actually getting pleasure from what like what they're
doing and so we've had you know we projected videos like we
don't just put anything on there and I've had many times where
I'm like this video looks great. It's beautiful but it looks like
it was specifically produced for you know something else, you
know thank you for clarifying because I was going to ask, you
know, are those guidelines because again you are not
Driving on making pornographic content.
You are thriving on making real narrative, narrator ISM
narrative narratives to you know the content that's being made.
So this is a loving content site.
This is not a porn site once again, and I'm going to keep
reiterating this because I want people to understand that there
is a difference. Hmm, you are not bringing
fantasy to content, right? And And again like you know we
also can't tell someone what is real world sex to that, right?
We're not that person. And that's again.
Why? I really love Make Love Not
foreign is because if we do get a video that we're like, you
know, this might be, like, bordering on the line of like,
maybe more like porn. Hmm.
The, I will email the person directly and be like, hey, can
you send us a video of you kind of talking and just explaining
like the inspiration for your filming?
Spit like this video submission and usually we'll get some a
club not porn stars. So just kind of give like a
brief like 1 minute 2 minute video in the intro.
That's just like, hey, you know, I or me and my partner, we're
just really feeling spicy. And we wanted to, like, maybe do
a little role play or like, you know, we were inspired by this
movie, we watched and we wanted to try that out.
And this is what we do came of it and just, that little
explanation gives us that context to be like, hey, you
know what, I can see how this is real world sex for you.
I would love to share that that expression of real-world sex on
our website. Okay, so speaking of the real
world sex is, I do see, you know, you do have clearly it
kinky tag weight through. So again bringing it back into
the pornographic side of Kink BDSM you have pet play, you
know, with pup and you know, then you have the borderline
cosplay into furry is MM, you know, into FreePlay Do You
exclude those because again, those can be Be conceptualized
as Kink Fetish Fantasy. But too many folks in the king
spaces that is there a real life, that's what they they do.
Day in and day out. They are service bottoms.
They are real furries day in and day out, they are about, you
know, being in cages in pup Play 24/7, some, like, believe it or
not, y'all. You might think I'm bullshitting
you and saying like, There are people who work 24/7 as this but
there are, so just your site offer that or is that one of the
things that are like, no, we have to put that out of the real
world context. Play know, we have, we have
many, the assignment Kink videos on our website.
We've got folks doing rope. We've got folks doing impact
play. I've seen videos with wax play.
I've seen videos As with folks who wear diapers, like, okay,
I've got, we've got caught anything, you're looking for
more than likely, we do have. And I think that's what's really
awesome. And I think something that you
will appreciate, is that we actually have a lot of poly am
folks on our site. And so it's really cool because
not only are folks sharing their real-world sex with us.
They're also sharing their relationships with us and
they're like, oh, you know, my partner came from out of town
and this is like we decided to, you know, Record something or
you know, where long distance and this is what it's like for
us. And I think it's really awesome
because that's where the social aspect comes in where we're
sharing more than just the sex, we're sharing the story.
We're sharing the relationships that people also have in these
videos. I got a little Fanny flutter, if
y'all know what if Annie flutter is look that shit up, I love
that. I absolutely love that.
What do you think the future of Make Love Not porn is going
Honestly, as much as I want to be like, Make Love Not porn.
Is about to like bust it up and they are about to bust it up.
Like we are making so much progress, you know, our CEO
Cindy, Gallup does a lot of podcasts and talks.
And I feel like every almost at this point, every week,
something resurfaces of something that she says.
And it just like it gives me that, like, glimmer of like,
okay, yes, people are still listening.
They want to see where they want to hear more and I still see
though that like we are still stuck in the shadows as you
would say of like this like sex tech space, the space of being
put in the same category as born or like something, that is not
as curated and specified. So this degree and it makes me a
little bit upset, you know, we have a lot of setbacks with
censorship especially on the internet and social media and
even just like General advertising like, on, you know,
via email or Things like that and I think it's unfair because
like I said before this is more than just the sex aspect, it's
the social aspect like people are able to connect with other
like-minded individuals who are also sexually liberated who are
also a part of this like sexual Revolution that we're seeing
right now when it comes to expressing your sexuality, in
the social way, people are much more comfortable now than
previous generations. Generations with being like yeah
I make it on the internet and there's like probably a million
other people who are naked on the internet.
So what about it? And I think that's what makes
Make Love. Not born.
So awesome is because it's like yeah people are able to do that
without the fear of being judged because you can still have your
anonymity. You can still produce this this,
you know, sexual content, and sensual content without people
feeling pressured, to almost like advertise themselves.
Or commodify even their sex. Speaking of Sydney, Gallup, one
of my favorite quotes that I found of hers is this, our
parents bring us up to have good manners.
A work ethic that sense of responsibility accountability,
nobody ever brings up to behave. Well, in bed, they should
because in bed values, like empathy, sensitivity generosity,
kindness and honesty are as important as they are in.
Every other area of Our Lives where we're actively taught to
exercise those values and he's absolutely right.
I mean, again we've talked about this so many times before with
me being a sex educator, a community health educator.
How even speaking with adults, the lack of sexual knowledge is
very scary, not to mention the way that the claim is Is sex
knowledge is through pornography, right?
And again, it's fair to say that the majority of us have received
our sexual knowledge, and our, our sexual literacy through
pornography or in or you know, sex on the internet and say
perform or just sex on TV on TV. Yeah.
Through media and I think what makes Make Love Not the corn
soy. Some again it's just not the way
that we have these videos, curated, and even the videos
that we see coming through our educational, like we had a video
about how to properly choke your partner.
We've had a video on how to properly, you know, go through
consent and communicate with your partner, before a scene
that involves rope or impacts play.
We've even had folks talk about having HSV and ways to have sex
with your partner during a flare up.
Like, this is information that is super useful to everyone.
And unfortunately, because of the fact that whole corn is the
way that it is Does that content exists?
It probably does, but it's not what people are out there
looking for know, not what people are.
Yeah, it's not what people are are searching for because that's
not what's considered to be sexy, or I was just about to
say, because like the fact of the matter is, as so many people
have told me over the years. As I, you know, you don't with,
with age, I get more mature, you know, some people have told me
was that after No, it's a fire zoo plays.
Not like how you used to be and I'm like white careless, you
know, it folk it was driven on sexual edutainment but it became
more sexual and less educated and more entertainment, you
know, like it became too repetitive and that's not me,
you know, through my sex cautionary tales, if you will, I
was trying to educate y'all. I'm saying, like don't be like
me. And doing all these
non-consensual things, or questionable things, that where
I had a question my own morality is, I've never, you know,
regretted anything and sex. But there are some things where
I look back and I'm like, oh, I shouldn't have done that.
You know, I could have sold been a ho and not put myself in a
questionable situation or a dangerous situation.
My narrative didn't have to go in that route per se.
So I would like to see that more in adult entertainment.
That's what adult entertainment is.
Adults, will be an adult responsible adults?
No. Absolutely.
And you know, that's how I do my education, as also, through
personal experience which again in turn, makes it a social
Experience. I am not alone and these
experiences every time that I share a hotel or, you know, a
dating experience or a sexual experience.
I have all the people that are following along or like are
hearing these. Things are like, oh my gosh,
that is happened to me. Brian, no one has ever seen, you
know, maybe outwardly shared these things because maybe they
found shames, maybe they felt embarrassed, maybe they thought
they were the only one who's experiencing things and didn't
want to seem like You know, maybe the odd man out, but it's
when you put the social context back in two sec's and even sex
education, sex, I always say the sex.
Education is a lifelong learning process.
It doesn't stop waited to have your.
Yeah. It is always evolving.
That's why I'm right. I am.
So I'm so deeply rooted and I truly truly, honestly believe
because this is the way that I was brought up when people ask
me like, you know, when did your parents talk to you about sex,
then I said through various stages.
Growing up. That's the way sex education
should be because sex is ever so evolving.
There's things that my parents I had to teach about my own
sexuality and my own sexual preference to be like, no, dad,
you can't not acknowledge that you are teaching and coaching
non-binary and trans kids. They know exactly who the fuck
they are. We didn't understand that, 20
30, 40 60 years ago, right? We're understanding it now,
right? And with that we are evolving
where sex is now. So widespread use the internet
and social media that we can't help but have to have these
conversations, right? Because you know, I've been
watching the new documentary series generation born, which is
on Discovery plus and Cindy makes them Hearing some talks
about Make Love Not born on there.
And, you know, one of the things that they had mentioned was how
Twitter while it isn't considered a porn site is one of
the largest social platforms that has sexual content on it.
A not, just anyone can access that.
Yeah, anybody can access that you don't have to be 18 to be
able to access Twitter, still with just a few teeny clicks.
You can be on Twitter and I'm, you know, back in the tumbler
Daisy. Was Tumblr.
You know, the humbler and you can see sexual content on Tumblr
as well. It's like these things need to
have like these conversations need to be happening and should
have been happening because as the internet continues to grow
and expand. And now we're starting to, you
know, even more so mix, the real world to the virtual world sex
is going to keep changing. And we're going to have to keep
up that I am wearing had to learn about the terminologies.
We got to learn about the fact that what we saw even five years
ago, Is not socially acceptable. Now.
It's like there's a reason why when I'm accusing porn.
And I keep telling people like, listen, there's a reason why I
have to cut out the shit. The piss, the fisting, why I
have to talk about how big an asshole can gate, or you know,
whether or not this terminology is safe for television, there
are some ethics important. People don't understand.
There is, you know, control at hand with 225 sevens.
As I keep advocating for people, if you say that, you are a porn
star, or if you're saying that, you make adult entertainment for
a living and you don't know what a 2257 is.
Please stop saying that, you're an adult content creator, right?
And then again this kind of goes back into the the whole like
anyone can make sexual content, right?
Because we've Only fans and fans lie and you know, many, many
many. Yeah, folks are posting content.
Now, you don't need to have 2257.
So do that you could just be anybody and post those things on
there. But that doesn't give you those
protections that you need. It doesn't give you for a lack
of better term. That like that safety, that
Belinda t as like a porn actor. It's really important, right?
Because like you are putting your most vulnerable.
Self, when you are producing any type of sexual content, whether
it be, you know, erotica like, you know, voice voice, the
radhika, or video, or even just photos, like, you really have to
protect yourself now, especially, because of how the
internet is basically, as wild wild west.
You don't know what what can happen, where things go where
they end up like yeah it's unregulated very unregulated
speed more regulation where The line That Make Love Not porn.
Crosses, are there any lines? Where a protection?
Where people need to maybe reconsider?
Because when people say, like, how do I get into born or how do
I get into, you know, adult entertainment?
I always tell them, like, first of all, you got to understand,
once you have it on the internet and is not on your control.
Is there for life? It gets replicated.
I've been seeing, you know, movies that I've edited in the
past like week within the next day or on 56c porn freehub
sites. Yeah, with Make Love, Not
pouring. Like I mentioned earlier, you
know, we make we like specify that the concept of the video is
being submitted to us, are only made for our website.
And that's actually a question that we get often.
Whew. It's like how can I kind of
maintain my anonymity? How can I protect myself while
also submitting videos to the site?
You know we got folks who you know, maybe might film from the
neck down or just, you know, very specific areas where they
can't be identified. We have folks who wear masks, we
have folks to blur out their faces, you know, doing music
over the voices. So no one can hear you that kind
of thing. And then also we have those
Protections in place where our videos can Not be, you know,
recorded and replicated. And we make sure that we, of
course, folks have to make this decision.
This is a decision. You have to make on your own
just about that, that that one little piece of the back like,
you know, just if you're putting anything on the internet, just
know things on the internet are there but we also fully respect
or Make Love Not porn stars and if one of them is like, you
know, I don't think I want my videos up anymore.
I want to take them down, we will take them down.
I was just about to ask you. You know, allow videos to be
taking down because I know sometimes, once it's out there,
it's out there. And again, it's like, if you do
not have a strong, hold on, duplication, you may think it's
like deleted everywhere, but I've seen episodes of sapphires
are played that, I deleted on my host sites but you know, this is
distributed on other. You know, third fourth party,
that things where we were like, hey, I need you to remove that
episode and I'm like, well, Well.
It's deleted from my main but I cannot go out to the other sites
that already have it Paper. Trails with paper trail.
That's it. Unfortunately.
Yeah. So you know, we're really quick
about that and we want folks to be autonomous and have their
privacy and we respect that for our members and our Make Love
Not porn stars. So as soon as they ask or
request for their information to be removed from our site or
their videos to be taken down, we do that immediately.
No questions asked. And yeah.
Like I said, folks are welcome to come back if they, if they
like, of course, we always welcome back and we're sad when
they leave. But, you know, we That people
just like anything else in life. People have different seasons
and different you know, needs and things that they have to
prioritize. And we're always around whatever
they're ready. I love that.
Well, oh my goodness.
You know Nya, thank you. First and foremost for speaking
on behalf of Make Love Not porn. Thank you.
Making love not porn for, you know, just giving me, you know,
my person over here. I was gonna say, Mike Weir,
baby, but it's just like, no, like you are Like my my fellow
just twin flame and just thank you for everything that you do
in this industry and just first and foremost it's just again I
think it's really dope. That we have a platform like
Make Love Not porn to really kind of revolutionize.
The ways social set it is changing the narration because
unfortunately there is this Great Divide with social media
insects representation which does matter just like you know,
gender and Nick representation matters.
Like we need the voices out there.
We cannot just have sex tech be about why folks.
We cannot have you know sex being only portrayed through the
white lenses. We need it through all lenses so
thank you for giving people as space to freely you know
sexually explore through social commentary so thank you for
that. Thank you, thank you.
So if you know folks want to get in touch with you Sir, Make Love
Not porn or you yourself directly.
Where can they get in touch? Yes, you can follow us on
Instagram and Twitter. We are at Make Love Not porn and
please feel free to check out our website as well.
Make Love Not porn dot TV. You know we've got different
membership tears and we even have our birthday bundle, where
you can get like a large sum of credits.
If you want to splurge and if you want to follow me, I am on I
am at home on the go, that's a tri aux on the GE aux and as
always, it was a pleasure. Thank you for having me again.
Always always and remember that. Safe sex is the best.
Hot sex till next time. Good night.
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