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Warning, the following program 
is not for the weak-hearted. 

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Those were closed minded when 
General you're scared to learn. 

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What's behind closed. 
Doors here at sapphires are 

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clay. 
I want you to pour the wine. 

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Grab somebody that you want to 
hold onto or better yet. 

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Get the vibration stimulated 
through your body. 

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Get ready for one, hell of an 
eargasm in five, four, three, 

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two, one, what is up? 
All you sexy motherfuckers out 

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there in radioland it sugar. 
Real sapphire and oh my 

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goodness. 
First of all, first of all pride

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month, I know some of y'all 
earbuds are like soft. 

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This is the first year you never
really did a lot for Pride this 

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year as far as orgasms. 
Well, I got to say, listen, I'm 

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gay 24/7. 
Why do I need to feed into the 

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corporate bullshit of just pride
month or just black history 

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month to say, I am black and 
queer. 

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Listen, we want gay voices we 
get that 365 here on Syfy as of 

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yore. 
I play it to all the spectrums, 

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you get my gas almost every week
and then you get some other 

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folks who are freaky kinky. 
Some are queer. 

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Some are not queer somewhere, 
just really fucking open-minded.

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So, instead of jumping down my 
throat saying why do not feed in

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to the Beast, why we just move 
the fuck forward into July. 

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Okay, first of all, Juneteenth 
came and went, I'm kind of 

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irritated because my ass had to 
work on my day of independence. 

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But ironically, I got the white 
people. 

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Pendants day off. 
I got the Monday and the Tuesday

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off and listen. 
It was only down to the fact 

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that I was down to one station. 
So yes, thank you. 

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Thank you. 
But at the same time I should 

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have had, Juneteenth off. 
Okay, period done. 

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But with that said, I am so 
excited to bring on this mon 

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Stir of a guess. 
Yes, I said monster because this

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is how this amazing being and I 
came to know each other. 

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I'm telling you, the mon app is 
where it's at. 

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This is where I've been getting 
some of the top-tier guess that 

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you all have been loving in 2023
and my next guest, I mean I'll 

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even know what to say other than
she's a handful, a handful of 

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beauty, a handful of knowledge, 
ladies and gentlemen, ladies and

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gentlemen, all the are plays. 
Welcome James Murray AKA boosted

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their bread. 
Hello hello. 

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How are you? 
Oh man. 

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You listen. 
I feel like this has been a long

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time coming. 
I absolutely love your chance. 

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Thank you. 
Thank you, thank you. 

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It has been a long time coming 
because we've been connected now

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for for quite some time. 
A little over a year. 

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I feel yeah. 
Yeah almost too. 

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So you know it was well well 
overdue let's just say that well

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overdue. 
Absolutely. 

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And like they say you know the 
best thing As comes to those who

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wait and listen, I am so excited
and especially because this 

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episode in speaking of was kind 
of inspired by a recent chat 

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that you did at the beginning of
pride month on the mon app, and 

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then simultaneously on 
Instagram. 

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Okay. 
Damn. 

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That is a damn good. 
You know, kind of thought that 

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we were, you know, talking about
another friend of mine. 

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She's a nurse and was doing a 
survey on Instagram. 

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And that really got my wheels 
turning and I'm like wait a 

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second. 
How can I miss that? 

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Fire say that she is a lover of 
the ladies and has never really 

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done a strictly lesbian. 
Feminine Sapphic episode. 

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I mean my name is sapphire. 
Yes, I'm surprised. 

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I am quite surprised. 
Listen, I'm beating myself in 

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the head as we speak. 
Oh my goodness. 

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No, no, no. 
We kind of get that going. 

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We do we do. 
So yes. 

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This is all about the Sapphic. 
Love the Sapphic. 

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Being we're going to talk about 
everything, under the umbrella 

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of lesbian sex, but let me 
introduce you. 

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Miss J. 
Murrey boob scenario. 

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Let's just introduce you. 
First and foremost, European 

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sexual certified sexologist. 
If you are a beginner and a 

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coach who helps women couples 
and the lgbtq+, I a community, 

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not to mention. 
You just are an advocate of 

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living your best and healthiest 
sex life. 

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I'm wearing on Instagram, your 
videos, your Fireside Chats. 

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If you will, you know, you 
really do break it down and what

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it is to be a queer black woman,
embracing their sexuality. 

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So walk us through the Journey 
tell us about How did boobs 

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Canary come to be the way that 
it is now? 

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Listen, it is a long journey. 
Okay, patient is the word of the

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day, because that's what it took
for me to get to this point. 

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Like, I didn't just pop out the 
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person, but because I was raised
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So I was raised in a very 
religious, very Christian and 

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Baptist upbringing. 
And when I say I went to church,

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I went to church every day of 
the week for something 

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different. 
OK, like they don't stop the 

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fun. 
Like it was us. 

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Board meetings, and bible study.
And then you gotta go because 

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this is the elders meeting this 
day and so everybody knew who I 

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was, so I was that type of 
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And so I always knew I was 
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Even think that I was attracted 
to women first, but because of 

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that Christian and religious 
upbringing, always thought it 

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was wrong, you know, because 
that's what was preached that's 

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what society around me at that 
time was telling me, so, Doing 

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hit from it. 
And then I also had a very rude 

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introduction to sucks. 
So it kind of closed off my 

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relationship completely with sex
throughout that that normal time

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and adolescents, we're we're 
like seeking things and we're, 

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you know, we're experimenting 
here. 

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We're not sure exactly what 
right one, but we know like it's

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exciting. 
I'm getting a rise out of it so 

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let's keep doing it. 
Like that period of time was 

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more so So let's read erotica, 
you know, it was more. 

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So I need to recreate that that 
spark from sex that everybody 

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else gets because I don't have 
it, you know, so in not having 

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it and having, you know, that 
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And like that, that negative 
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it. 
I was like this. 

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Can't be it for me. 
You know, I'm just starting out 

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Brian and read him that erotica.
And I got Doctors like Zane and 

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air drums icky. 
And, you know, I was I was 

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getting there. 
The Cadillac of erotica, a black

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erotica, if you will, I mean, if
you are a queer black person and

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you have you have never 
experienced vein and purple 

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panties had me in a bunch. 
Y'all can't see my reaction but 

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I likes took a step back because
that way as the my first 

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introduction in college was 
purple panties. 

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And then really yes. 
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Alpha five, fucking the sisters 
Almighty. 

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Okay, okay, so give you 
perspective, I was reading this 

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middle school, high school. 
So this was very much 

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cultivating. 
My relationship again or my 

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re-entry. 
Into, like, what, I know sex to 

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be because you have to 
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I'm like this drop dead, 
gorgeous woman, but for items of

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very attractive she is. 
I'm saying like, you know, 

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body-wise I'm mature very early,
so I've always had that male 

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attention that some female seek 
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Sometimes, you know what I mean?
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Like if I go and walk down the 
street, there's going to be 

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horns. 
It's going to be people hanging 

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out the window. 
It's almost inevitable and it's 

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been that way for the majority 
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So again, like I had to 
reintroduce myself to what? 

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X is going to look like for me 
and so literature help me do 

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that. 
My college Journey. 

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Help me do that finding out you 
know it's okay to just be me you

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know and my mom wasn't even okay
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You know she had this idea 
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the oldest sibling that was 
raised in the household you know

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because my brother lived with 
another family but she had this 

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idea for my life that I had to 
grow up and marry Prestigious 

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man and I had to have this 
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Mom. 
I don't really want that, you 

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know, like nothing hurts more. 
I feel for a parent to because 

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I've always said, like my life 
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Suit, and tie has never really 
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I've graduated from college. 
And you know, many, as you know,

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I live my life, very 
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Don't know how I get down. 
Why are they proud of it? 

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I think they're proud of the 
radio aspect but as far as like,

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how I conduct myself in my sex 
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Yeah, of course. 
They want their daughter to be a

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little bit more reserved, if you
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So I definitely feel you on that
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Yes, and that's that's that's 
where she was for a very long 

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time, but it got to a point 
where the interest was already 

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there, but I was just at a point
in life, where it's like if you 

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don't do it, when are you I do 
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You know I heard this this quote
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dress rehearsal. 
You know this is your final act.

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So you know you can't say hey 
wait a minute. 

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I want to go and redo this again
because I didn't get to do. 

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You know the lesbian things I 
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I wanted I wanted really wanted 
to do that but I didn't get to 

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do it because I was scared. 
You know what people were going 

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to say what people are going to 
do and I just got to the point 

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was like fuck it, you know, like
they're going to talk about you,

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whether your Doing good, whether
you're doing bad weather. 

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You're crying with you over here
happy and laughing. 

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So just do what makes you feel 
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And this girl came on to me at 
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It was like I swear to God I'm 
Simon and I was just like you're

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there. 
I'm here I'm in that mode just 

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say fuck it. 
So let's just do it and that was

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my first girl experience. 
And do you mind, if I ask, do 

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you mind, if I ask how old you 
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Hmm. 
C3. 

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I think about us. 
Oh wow, I was asked to college 

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for me. 
Wow, so you were a lesbian after

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graduation? 
Yeah, basically, okay. 

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Yes, because if you want to be 
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sexual experience was with a 
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Interesting. 
So like I said, the interest has

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always been there, right? 
But I'm just never acted on it. 

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Got you. 
You. 

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And then, when did pansexuality 
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That was later down the line, 
because even in my talk, that 

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morning that you brought up, I 
said that I've changed my label 

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a couple of times to kind of 
find what fits me, because I 

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started out. 
And I was like, okay, well maybe

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I am bisexual because I know I 
like men. 

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I know, I like women. 
I was okay, that that fits but 

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then I ran into a transgender 
and I was like, well, I find you

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highly attractive you know, 
like, I was like I don't know if

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that qualifies as bisexual 
anymore. 

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Like what am I like? 
I was in that odd space you 

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know, where you just as a queer 
person you don't know how to 

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identify sometimes and I was 
just like I'm me but I can't go 

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around just saying hey I'm just 
I'm just me. 

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I felt like I feel like the 
personally as I talked about it 

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in your chat you know getting 
the Discrimination being 

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polyamorous with a man. 
I mean we all mostly see suit 

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and tie on my social Idea 
because we live together, but I 

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also do have a girlfriend and 
she's on my in social media, but

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she's also not one to be on 
social media all the time. 

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So therefore, it's like and it's
science. 

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I've not it's not like I'm 
embarrassed by her by any means 

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but I protect I'm a little bit 
more protective of the women. 

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I'm in a relationship with 
because you know I can't trust 

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you love fuckboys of the 
internet who like to slide in or

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follow. 
Whoa, the ladies who are might 

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be associated with them, the 
bedroom. 

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That is a real thing. 
Like yeah, I love my girlfriend,

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she's hot as fuck. 
And when I do share, you know, 

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yes please drool away, you know,
that's why I tagged her but 

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there's gonna be a factor that 
y'all need to stop on the 

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Internet is wine. 
Just because somebody is seen 

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with the man, and I've been 
seeing this a lot during pride 

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month on social media just 
because you see somebody who may

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associate themselves as being 
gay, but they might be be dating

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a man or a male presenting 
figure. 

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Please do not assume that they 
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Okay, stop saying like oh I 
guess you're out of that phase. 

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No, I'm not out of the face. 
My man very much nose and y'all 

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earbuds know I have full 
heartedly said, if my man were 

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to die. 
And even though I do sometimes 

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have, you know, sexual 
excursions with my girlfriend's 

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boyfriend because he's part of 
our poly tried. 

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I don't need to fuck anymore. 
Dick for the rest of my life. 

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Okay, like I hate to say it but 
main did, you know, did main 

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kind of ruin it in. 
Make me lean more to the 

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feminine side. 
Yes or no yes or no. 

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After just a certain time in my 
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it. 
I was sick of Dick. 

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Yeah yeah I've reached that 
point myself you definitely 

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reach your point after so many 
bad. 

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I'm not going to say bad sexual 
experiences but like Like they 

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weren't as pleasing as I would 
have liked them to be that 

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repeatedly and it kind of falls 
into that pattern of like just 

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the same thing. 
Different different day you know

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different body you kind of do 
get tired of it you know and 

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then just you know the added 
factor of like not every man is 

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going to comply with the fact 
that their girl is not 100% 

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straight. 
Bye. 

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I could open that for a lifetime
because so many men actors 

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though they want that until they
actually have it or know what it

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takes to get that and they don't
want it, they don't want to put 

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in the work that it requires 
that. 

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I that I and then it's, yeah, 
there's just so many different 

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factors with that. 
Say, have you found it harder 

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being, you know, as you are a 
sexologist, you know, sex coach 

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educator when it comes to 
dating? 

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Have you found it harder to 
connect with men because of the 

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fact that one you have to 
divulge the fact that you are a 

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sex educator? 
So you're going to come correct 

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on a lot of the times when they 
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sex-positive and then have you 
also found you know it just 

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being disheartening. 
When you're dealing with a guy 

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you may really like them but 
they don't like the queer side 

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of you. 
Yes. 

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So I've dealt with book I always
have to Should do sex on the 

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first date. 
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when I see couples and they're 
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until like 34th day to talk 
about it. 

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Like no, get that out the way 
you know, it's part of the 

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introduction like I'm meeting 
you. 

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So I have to meet all aspects of
you. 

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That don't mean, I have to go 
into the nitty-gritty of what I 

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want to do to you but I least 
need to bring it up because I 

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need to know what type of person
you are. 

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And that's going to tell me. 
Okay am I wasting my time? 

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Because if I get to the fourth 
date and then I'm like okay I'm 

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a sexologist This is what I do 
for work and you're 

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uncomfortable with that, I've 
wasted my time, mmm. 

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So you have to bring that up 
like, very, very early and be 

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very, very kind of firming that.
Absolutely. 

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It can also go the other way. 
They're like, oh, well, you're 

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sexologist. 
What are you going to teach me? 

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And let's do this. 
Let's do that. 

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It's like know if I have to do 
that, you need to go and sign up

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for a consultation. 
Because this thing that exactly 

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Exactly. 
Just it's hard. 

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Yeah, it's definitely. 
Like, I hate to say, it's like 

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coming out of the pandemic. 
Especially now I feel like 

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dating has been just absolute 
trash a just complete bullshit. 

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It's brought out the fuck 
Behavior. 

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Not just fuck boy, but it's just
brought out a lot of fuck 

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behavior on both spectrums. 
I don't care how you identify 

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people are just becoming trash 
about what The fuck they want 

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and it's because we have time to
sit and think about it. 

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We had too much time. 
Like, I always say I was joke 

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and say, we had too much time 
indoors because it kind of is 

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like everybody's going on right 
now. 

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Like, okay, outsides back open. 
Let me do the first dumb thing. 

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I can think of, oh wait, that 
wasn't extreme enough. 

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It didn't get enough attention. 
Let's do one another dumb thing 

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and it's just like, well, why? 
Well, I don't know. 

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I just I'm outside again. 
Okay, if you know like it's like

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the manners Respect it just goes
out the door and I would like to

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say like, you know, even from 
the woman's standpoint here, we 

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are as women talking freely and 
open about sex and it's like, 

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there are still lesbians out in 
the world that are just. 

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As bad as men who lutely black 
personally. 

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For me, if I'm dating with like 
dealing with studs, especially, 

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I don't know what it is. 
I can't bag myself a stud and in

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terminology. 
No. 

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Absolutely. 
Not every time, every time, it's

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always like, oh, I know you're 
not like, gay gay, but I know 

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you're not also straight, but I 
also just can't handle this and 

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I'm like, well damn. 
And for the terminology you 

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guys, all right? 
As much as I love mine on melon,

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ated folk. 
Okay, y'all got Butch. 

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Yeah you got started. 
Okay. 

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Yes. 
Like let me make this very clear

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and say shout out to my girl. 
On Instagram Slippery When Wet, 

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she did a post about it a couple
months ago because, you know, we

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had to, we had to revisit that I
really want to make it clear a 

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black lesbian, who is more, 
masculine presenting, or 

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non-binary but also, you know 
kind of androgynous identifying 

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that is your stud. 
Okay. 

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The equivalent would be a Butch 
for folks who are not in the 

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Black community. 
And this is not me trying to 

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make a race term. 
This is just me stating the 

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facts. 
Yeah, I was gonna say that's 

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that's what's kind of been 
embedded in history, a little 

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for us like the, the lgbtq 
history of things because back 

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when it wasn't as open minded, 
you know, everything wasn't as 

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open as it is and it wasn't as 
open to come out to your family 

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and friends. 
That was what we refer to each 

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other as. 
And so then language has carried

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through, so you can't really 
kind of Change that. 

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Now, I know we've gotten into 
Today's time, we got all these 

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new terminology and things but 
that's something that's kind of 

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rooted in embedded in the 
history of the LGBT culture. 

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So I would leave that one as it 
is, please please. 

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And if you really want to 
question it, just go back into 

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the Harlem Renaissance because 
Harlem Renaissance for us in the

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black community and Black 
Culture that that's our stone 

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wall, okay? 
Stonewall Yes again, Pride was 

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made by two women to trans women
to trans women. 

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In of color. 
Okay, let's not forget that 

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history as much as we like to 
say Stonewall and all these 

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white gay liberals. 
No, no, no, no, no. 

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You do not have stone wall 
without our girl, March 2 p. 

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Hm, okay. 
You would not have that. 

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You would not have part of the 
sexual Reggie, you know, 

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Revolution as much as we love to
stand, you know, Gloria Steinem 

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in the sexual Revolution. 
Shane and you know, so she ate 

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her with the pride culture to 
like there were black lesbians 

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in the Forefront. 
There were black Trends 

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identifying folks out there on 
the front lines as well at 

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Stonewall can, we can we please 
put some respect on that. 

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With that said, I don't know if 
you've heard about this but a 

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couple weeks ago, 
baltimore-based University at 

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John Hopkins. 
They are getting backlash from 

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lesbians because now they're 
defining us lesbians as non man,

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according to their website non 
man-on-man, I quote, and I 

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quote, they said their 
glossaries new definition of a 

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lesbian came under attack as the
as University Define the term as

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a non man attracted to non men. 
This update was meant to be 

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non-inclusive to non-binary 
individuals who might still 

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identify as lesbians. 
That brings me to my next point.

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Don't stop saying that 
non-binary folks. 

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Cannot be lesbian gay. 
Queer. 

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It's all under the fucking 
Spectrum, just because they 

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don't associate with their 
masculinity, or their femininity

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in full does not mean who they 
are attracted, to is no less. 

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There are non-binary lesbians 
who are non-binary trans. 

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There are non-binary folks, 
period out there. 

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That that went like, Are we 
there really? 

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I mean, cuz I've even had to 
explain to my mom. 

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My mom in particular that I've 
dated a stud and she had no 

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intention of being a man as 
masculine presenting as she was.

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She had no intention of ever 
being a man. 

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She did not want to change 
anything about her body, you 

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know, she was happy to present 
the way she presented dressed 

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the way she dressed. 
But she had no interest in ever 

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being a man and for some people 
they find that really hard to 

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grasp right. 
Extremely hard. 

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Hi or my favorite is, you know, 
you got the lesbian, who may be 

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married have kids with the man, 
but they are still very much 

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lesbian. 
Again, bringing it, you know, 

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back to even my personal life. 
It's like, yes. 

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I want babies with Suit and Tie.
So suit-and-tie understands the 

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at the end, all be all, I'm 
gonna always be more attracted 

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to a woman and he will 
full-heartedly, you know, 

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support that, it's not that I 
have a hatred against men. 

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It's just I like what I like and
as you know, a masculine 

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presenting lesbian, unless 
you've you ask them stop judging

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them, by the way, they dress. 
Absolutely. 

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The clothes are just closed at 
the end of the day. 

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Absolutely because I can tell 
you close off. 

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Majority of them are very 
feminine in the biggest. 

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Her boom, boom. 
I mean we hate to generalize it 

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but yes let me use studies out 
there. 

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Listen, y'all more sensitive 
than my nipples. 

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Okay, but that's with respect, 
that's respect, if your English.

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So look enjoyable, respect 
enjoyable respect, but like I 

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said, I still can't bag y'all, I
don't know. 

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I would love a stud girlfriend. 
I would love that people 

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heartedly I like to try it you 
know like to try to say that I 

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could be a little masculine but 
I can. 

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I'm so list. 
I'm so lipstick and that might 

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be the reason why I can't bag me
instead. 

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They're just like, I need the 
heels. 

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I'm not going to wear heels 
every goddamn day. 

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I got busted a sneeze. 
I got my ankles. 

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I can do it though. 
Like, well, I will buy a hill 

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before I buy like, okay, you 
know that's just me though. 

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Yes, yes, no. 
Like I I don't know why but I 

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would love to date like a 
feminine presenting woman. 

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They just don't, I don't know, 
maybe it's because I'm too 

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feminine and it just like no. 
Girl, we could be friends. 

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I always attract the studs. 
The closest I've had to it as a 

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stem and I do like a good stem. 
Its Chinese a little bit of 

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both. 
If y'all are little lost in the 

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sauce, it's it's a little 
mixture. 

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It's a little mixture of the 
Femme and the stud and together.

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Ooh, Lord have mercy their own. 
They Rubble, the stems Doge. 

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The Sam's. 
They are dangerous. 

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Y'all know what the fuck you do 
to us. 

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You can't be eating pussy that 
good and then try to get up and 

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give me, you know, masculinity 
down at the bottom and then fam 

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on top. 
Y'all know what the fuck you 

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did? 
I just love it Heartbreakers. 

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That's what. 
Y'all are. 

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Heartbreakers Heartbreaker. 
I want you to give us the the 

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literary definition of what a 
lesbian is. 

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Versus what you think a lesbian 
is a see, the literary 

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definition is woman who date's 
and enjoys pleasurable 

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experiences from other women. 
Now, my definition is, I think 

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it's a little more than that. 
I think that some women you 

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don't even have to have like a 
sexual relationship. 

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I think. 
As long as you can have that 

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emotional connection with 
another woman. 

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Hmm. 
You know, have that close 

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intimate. 
It's would you kind of we all 

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seek it? 
You know that close intimate 

445
00:26:58,900 --> 00:27:02,600
connection between our partners?
I feel like that can be 

446
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,600
considered lesbian because a lot
of women are attracted to what 

447
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:10,400
lesbians do you know a lot of 
heterosexual women love lesbian 

448
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,200
porn or love lesbian erotica 
because like I said you don't 

449
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:19,000
necessarily have to be engaged 
with a woman to be considered 

450
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,400
lesbian to me. 
I know you. 

451
00:27:21,500 --> 00:27:24,600
Yes. 
I Fully I get that. 

452
00:27:24,700 --> 00:27:28,000
And I mean, like, you talk to 
women and it's like, I love 

453
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,600
being with women. 
I might not be like fully gay, 

454
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,500
but I would date my friend 
because she makes me feel 

455
00:27:33,500 --> 00:27:36,700
comfortable. 
And I mean we're all, I feel 

456
00:27:36,700 --> 00:27:40,900
like Ian friendships, I think 
there are some times where there

457
00:27:40,900 --> 00:27:46,500
are some lesbian lines, that may
be crossed, you know, early on, 

458
00:27:46,500 --> 00:27:50,600
in stages hell. 
I mean, I used to kiss my girl, 

459
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,600
friends, before I started really
kissing guys. 

460
00:27:52,700 --> 00:27:56,600
Sighs. 
Yeah, you know college I was my 

461
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,200
best friend will come over, and 
we could cuddle and take naps 

462
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:03,700
like nothing sexual meant. 
It's just that that Embrace 

463
00:28:03,700 --> 00:28:05,300
that, that moment is what we 
needed. 

464
00:28:05,300 --> 00:28:10,600
Yes, though, it can get a little
confusing because I definitely 

465
00:28:10,700 --> 00:28:16,000
will for some, yes, yes, has 
that ever happened to you? 

466
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:22,000
That's the only thing it's like 
as much as I would love to say, 

467
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,100
I love Having my girlfriend's. 
I don't have a lot of 

468
00:28:25,100 --> 00:28:29,400
girlfriends to begin with now in
my adulthood like before. 

469
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,800
Yes, that's all I've had. 
But now it's like, I really want

470
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,800
girls that I'm not fucking to be
friends and I find it hard 

471
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,900
sometimes to kind of blend with 
women who just want to be 

472
00:28:40,900 --> 00:28:44,200
friends because they think that 
I'm always hitting on the other 

473
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:45,400
one. 
Like, no. 

474
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,600
I actually really just want to 
hang out like, right? 

475
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,400
Yeah if something happens how 
yes you know I'll be down for it

476
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,100
but it's Like sometimes I just 
actually want a girlfriend. 

477
00:28:56,100 --> 00:28:59,300
Who's not my girlfriend, right? 
You just want genuine 

478
00:28:59,300 --> 00:29:00,800
friendship? 
Yes. 

479
00:29:00,900 --> 00:29:03,200
Yeah. 
Yeah, it's so hard. 

480
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,600
It is kind of hard. 
I will say, because I went to 

481
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:12,700
brunch with a girlfriend and it 
was very hard, like, to leave it

482
00:29:12,700 --> 00:29:17,300
on that friendship table. 
I had two friends on my phone, 

483
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:23,200
boom, it was, it was not going 
to be just like I can Take one 

484
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,300
that kind of firm right now. 
So I needed to stay at the 

485
00:29:26,300 --> 00:29:28,400
friendship level and I just 
know. 

486
00:29:28,500 --> 00:29:31,700
Patience patience is the word of
the day, patience is the word 

487
00:29:31,700 --> 00:29:35,100
but you know why? 
Listen, avoid mimosas and bottom

488
00:29:35,100 --> 00:29:38,700
is branch, that just brings out 
this a fake lesbian Behavior. 

489
00:29:39,700 --> 00:29:47,800
Listen a bottomless mimosas, and
I'm done, whatever, whatever is 

490
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,400
done at that moment, you have 
met the other side and once 

491
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,500
that's out awakens, you are on 
your own. 

492
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,400
That's like the word that is the
absolute worst especially like 

493
00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:01,500
when I was experimenting in my 
20s, there is one girl, I'm 

494
00:30:01,500 --> 00:30:03,900
trying to say it so I don't like
because I know she's sometimes 

495
00:30:03,900 --> 00:30:06,500
listens but you know what fuck 
it was my bestie. 

496
00:30:06,700 --> 00:30:08,400
Okay. 
A lot of y'all know from the 

497
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:12,300
early days of Instagram like you
know I had my bestie and then 

498
00:30:12,300 --> 00:30:15,800
she moved away and I mean, the 
whole premise of how bestie and 

499
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,000
I met, she kind of cheated on 
her girlfriend. 

500
00:30:18,100 --> 00:30:24,400
The first night we met okay, 
damn near like It was a hi, I'm 

501
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,100
so-and-so. 
And next thing, I know, I think 

502
00:30:27,100 --> 00:30:29,800
it was like, 20, 30 minutes 
later we're making out hardcore.

503
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,700
Damn near fucking on a pool 
table. 

504
00:30:32,300 --> 00:30:36,800
Really, I believe my friends for
introducing us because I was 

505
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,100
like y'all. 
Y'all should have never just 

506
00:30:40,100 --> 00:30:43,300
know. 
Y'all should have never said it 

507
00:30:43,300 --> 00:30:45,800
was instant. 
It was instant and for a while. 

508
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,700
I didn't mind being the other 
woman, you know, I don't mind 

509
00:30:48,700 --> 00:30:52,900
hanging out with the girlfriend 
being completely clueless that I

510
00:30:52,900 --> 00:30:56,600
may have fucked her girlfriend 
two hours prior to us, you know,

511
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,600
having a graduation dinner for 
your girlfriend. 

512
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,300
Oh my goodness. 
Going to Vegas with her and 

513
00:31:03,300 --> 00:31:06,800
trying to sneak a little quickie
in the in the bathroom or 

514
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,200
wherever we could. 
So our friends hey, you know, be

515
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,400
passed out in the living room or
something. 

516
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,300
Those are dangerous. 
Those are the dangerous 

517
00:31:17,300 --> 00:31:19,300
dangerous relationships with 
friends. 

518
00:31:19,300 --> 00:31:22,000
So I kind of see where I put my 
foot in the mouth. 

519
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,700
I can see why Why women don't 
want to be friends with me 

520
00:31:24,700 --> 00:31:26,800
because they're just like, 
you're gonna try to fuck me. 

521
00:31:29,500 --> 00:31:31,600
I'm sorry. 
I don't believe in ugly friends.

522
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:35,300
I don't, that's not what I 
gravitate, okay. 

523
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,100
A Time. 
Listen you are going to be 

524
00:31:39,100 --> 00:31:42,100
attractive, okay? 
Like you just going to have to 

525
00:31:42,100 --> 00:31:44,900
stay my friend. 
Like even me and my friend now 

526
00:31:44,900 --> 00:31:48,200
my closest friend she was like 
Jen I attractive as you are. 

527
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,100
I keep telling myself, I can't 
fuck you. 

528
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,800
Not even when it's not even one,
right? 

529
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,500
As she has to repeatedly keep 
telling her something. 

530
00:31:57,700 --> 00:32:01,200
So she has these conversations 
and I'm just like no toys, no, 

531
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,400
toy don't toy. 
My God. 

532
00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:06,800
Now this is the one that's been 
on your cut your lives a couple.

533
00:32:06,900 --> 00:32:09,200
Of times, right? 
Oh I'm definitely sense. 

534
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:13,100
I was like they fucking yes, 
that is my best friend. 

535
00:32:13,100 --> 00:32:14,700
Yeah. 
She's one of my closest friends 

536
00:32:14,700 --> 00:32:17,000
Tuesday. 
So yes, we've had this 

537
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,100
conversation many times such 
June. 

538
00:32:19,500 --> 00:32:21,500
You know, if we have a went 
there just know. 

539
00:32:21,500 --> 00:32:24,300
I would go there and I'm like, 
yeah, but we got to stay friends

540
00:32:24,300 --> 00:32:26,900
because if we go there it won't 
be this level of friendship. 

541
00:32:26,900 --> 00:32:29,200
She was like nah I won't. 
So we got to stay friends. 

542
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,700
Wait, wait, why the hell not 
white? 

543
00:32:31,700 --> 00:32:34,400
Let's talk about that because 
again, this is all about the 

544
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,000
Sapphic love. 
I don't understand this This, 

545
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,100
this is this. 
This is the part that confuses 

546
00:32:39,100 --> 00:32:41,600
me. 
I would feel that if you fuck 

547
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:46,200
the, the besties, if you fucked 
your closest girlfriends, you 

548
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:50,900
would think that would just kind
of be like, The ceiling of the 

549
00:32:50,900 --> 00:32:55,500
deal. 
But they were so emotional, you 

550
00:32:55,500 --> 00:32:59,700
could be emotional and still be 
like, listen bitch, get the fuck

551
00:32:59,700 --> 00:33:03,100
dressed like let's go to brunch,
let's go shopping, let's go get 

552
00:33:03,100 --> 00:33:05,300
you some day. 
That's the type of friend that I

553
00:33:05,300 --> 00:33:08,300
am. 
Do you does not work that way? 

554
00:33:08,300 --> 00:33:12,500
Well at least with me it has not
worked that way with women. 

555
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:18,300
Damn it has not and I've tried 
my best to like separate that 

556
00:33:18,300 --> 00:33:22,700
line but once I cross it with 
women, There's No Going Back. 

557
00:33:23,500 --> 00:33:27,400
And it's not even on me, like, I
can do because I can separate 

558
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:33,400
the emotional from sex. 
So I can do the, you know, we do

559
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,100
it Friday, Saturday. 
Hey, okay. 

560
00:33:36,100 --> 00:33:38,400
I don't even know what you're 
talking about, you know, type 

561
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:39,500
with it. 
Like, what do you say? 

562
00:33:40,900 --> 00:33:44,100
We skip that this week, you 
know, and I'll be perfectly 

563
00:33:44,100 --> 00:33:48,300
fine, but like it always somehow
comes back around it, like the 

564
00:33:48,300 --> 00:33:51,700
other person's like, I just 
can't do it so I stay away from 

565
00:33:51,700 --> 00:33:52,700
it. 
Mmm. 

566
00:33:53,700 --> 00:33:55,000
That's that's what's best for 
me. 

567
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,800
I mean, listen to each their own
and it's is about, you know, 

568
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:00,900
protecting and securing the 
friendships. 

569
00:34:01,100 --> 00:34:03,500
But sometimes I'm like, what 
curiosity? 

570
00:34:03,500 --> 00:34:06,100
Just just happened. 
Just talk about it. 

571
00:34:06,100 --> 00:34:10,199
If y'all can be so vulnerable 
about the dick, in the escapades

572
00:34:10,199 --> 00:34:13,400
that you may have with other 
people, you would think that you

573
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:14,600
could have it with your clothes 
clothes. 

574
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,000
Girlfriend, who just had may 
happen to be lesbian, who that 

575
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,100
you might just happen to be 
attracted with like, don't use 

576
00:34:21,100 --> 00:34:22,500
me as an experiment, I'm gonna 
know. 

577
00:34:22,500 --> 00:34:24,900
Right. 
Off the bat like but if you are 

578
00:34:24,900 --> 00:34:29,500
genuinely feeling your friend, 
your clothes girlfriend and you 

579
00:34:29,507 --> 00:34:32,900
might be questioning, I would 
say personally that should be 

580
00:34:32,900 --> 00:34:36,400
your best experience because at 
least it's with somebody that 

581
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:41,100
you one trust one that you know 
you can feel vulnerable with 

582
00:34:41,300 --> 00:34:44,800
trust and vulnerability. 
Do come hand-in-hand yes they do

583
00:34:44,900 --> 00:34:48,800
but I really think it's okay if 
it's like if you're that close 

584
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:52,500
of a friend experiment with the 
friend and I get it again, this 

585
00:34:52,500 --> 00:34:57,500
is not You forcing every, every 
woman, listening to just go out 

586
00:34:57,500 --> 00:35:01,600
and get that Sapphic urge out, 
but if you have that rapport 

587
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:06,600
with your friend, maybe test the
waters, I don't disagree. 

588
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:11,800
Test the waters a little bit. 
Are you finding it hard to 

589
00:35:11,808 --> 00:35:14,600
communicate to your partner of 
what you want and need? 

590
00:35:14,700 --> 00:35:16,500
Maybe you're sick of the old 
flick. 

591
00:35:16,500 --> 00:35:19,300
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Now back to the show, Let's talk

608
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:17,000
about the sexiness or the myths 
that people may tend to say 

609
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,100
about lesbian sex. 
What are some of the myths that 

610
00:36:20,100 --> 00:36:22,600
you have heard? 
Especially you know, in your 

611
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:29,100
practices have you may have 
heard about lesbian sex Hmm. 

612
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,200
Good or bad either or yeah, give
it give it to us. 

613
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,700
Okay? 
So I do hate the the 

614
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:45,400
misconception of bisexual women 
in the LGBT community. 

615
00:36:45,700 --> 00:36:49,500
Have a good one, I identify as 
bisexual. 

616
00:36:49,500 --> 00:36:52,600
There was a lot of, I got a lot 
of backlash from that like just 

617
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,400
identifying is that. 
So I do hate that because if 

618
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,700
we're going to be open and we 
want wanting to be accepted by 

619
00:36:59,700 --> 00:37:03,700
others, we have to also be 
Opting in our own community and 

620
00:37:03,700 --> 00:37:09,000
we self-hate in the community a 
lot, a lot. 

621
00:37:09,300 --> 00:37:12,500
And I just that really, really, 
really, really bothers me 

622
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,300
because I see it a lot and 
different forms. 

623
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,100
Yeah, I don't understand that 
either, and I'm glad that you 

624
00:37:18,100 --> 00:37:22,300
brought that up because my guest
next week is a bisexual man and 

625
00:37:22,300 --> 00:37:25,600
so we're going to get into the 
bisexuality part of from a man's

626
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:30,600
aspect because I have 
definitely, you know, I've 

627
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,300
talked about this numerous times
and I refuse to take the episode

628
00:37:33,300 --> 00:37:38,200
Down because I do believe in, 
you know, acknowledging when you

629
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,900
fuck up and making a mistake and
you let people grow with you and

630
00:37:41,900 --> 00:37:44,700
I feel like throughout the 
history of sapphires are play an

631
00:37:44,700 --> 00:37:47,800
erotic City radio, I have 
definitely put my foot in my 

632
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,700
mouth several times, even on, 
you know, people in my own 

633
00:37:50,700 --> 00:37:54,600
Community because I would say, 
if you're bisexual, especially 

634
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:58,300
main, they're gay. 
But it's like, no, I've 

635
00:37:58,300 --> 00:38:03,200
experimented with bisexual men. 
Men and women, mmm-hmm they like

636
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,700
what they like? 
Yeah, they do. 

637
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,200
And sometimes it's not about, 
you know, the tools down there, 

638
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,300
it's the connection that's made 
even with lesbians. 

639
00:38:13,300 --> 00:38:17,900
I feel like we all have this 
misconception that all lesbians 

640
00:38:17,900 --> 00:38:21,700
are fucking horn, dogs. 
That all lesbians are pygmies or

641
00:38:21,700 --> 00:38:25,600
that they're just, you know, 
done with dating men altogether,

642
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,800
or they're haters. 
The main that smiley choose to 

643
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,900
go the Sapphic route, Light 
nanana nanana nanana. 

644
00:38:32,100 --> 00:38:36,900
Sometimes a lesbian is just born
being attracted to women and 

645
00:38:36,900 --> 00:38:38,400
that's it. 
Yeah. 

646
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,400
And had to, you know, assault 
her, you know, no one got left 

647
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:50,100
at the aisle or cheated on her. 
No, I'm glad you brought that up

648
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,700
if you're with a woman who hurt 
you, so bad that you had to go 

649
00:38:55,700 --> 00:38:58,800
to women. 
I nobody hurt me. 

650
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,300
Listen. 
If anything, it was bad sex, 

651
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,100
okay? 
It wasn't had nothing to do with

652
00:39:06,100 --> 00:39:10,100
the emotions of you hurting me 
over this person hurting me, 

653
00:39:10,100 --> 00:39:13,800
because, as we've said earlier, 
women will hurt you just as much

654
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,000
as men will hurt you. 
It does not change based on 

655
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:23,000
gender and sex does changed 
tremendously. 

656
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:28,900
And and that it look that's the 
positive, you know, with women, 

657
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,800
I know My body was capable of 
doing where they did and I was 

658
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:39,900
just like well this is what take
bit and I was like you know I 

659
00:39:39,908 --> 00:39:44,600
need to tell other people about 
it is that Marathon sex you all.

660
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,700
It's the I don't have to wave 
for you know completion. 

661
00:39:49,300 --> 00:39:51,500
Hmm. 
Hmm, take breaks. 

662
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:56,400
So yeah, we take breaks but I 
don't have to wait for something

663
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,300
to refill. 
No. 

664
00:40:00,100 --> 00:40:05,700
As hard as long as I want it to 
be hard, there's enough foreplay

665
00:40:05,700 --> 00:40:10,100
like their sizes. 
I can actually choose. 

666
00:40:10,100 --> 00:40:14,200
I know where it's coming from. 
You know, I know that it's been 

667
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:17,100
thoroughly checked because we 
don't say, you know, clean and 

668
00:40:17,100 --> 00:40:20,600
dirty unless you're talking 
about showers, but I know where,

669
00:40:20,700 --> 00:40:22,800
I know where the produce is 
coming from. 

670
00:40:23,100 --> 00:40:26,300
Yes, I know the produce was 
thoroughly checked. 

671
00:40:26,700 --> 00:40:28,400
Mm-hmm. 
Yes. 

672
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,400
And then you just open the door.
I choose the tool, they're not 

673
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:37,900
afraid to explore like you know 
there's a lot of positives with 

674
00:40:37,900 --> 00:40:41,100
lesbian sex. 
Let's talk about those positives

675
00:40:41,100 --> 00:40:44,200
because I feel like again 
there's a lot of - you know - 80

676
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,900
when it comes to lesbian sex 
side. 

677
00:40:46,100 --> 00:40:50,100
Oh well you're technically not a
virgin I'm like wait a second. 

678
00:40:50,100 --> 00:40:54,200
Penetration is penetration 
fingers, tongue feet? 

679
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,300
Other body orifices if it's 
penetrating the vagina, I'm 

680
00:40:57,300 --> 00:41:02,400
sorry we're not virgins. 
Okay, like, we need to stop 

681
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:06,500
getting that of the head or that
your dick is the cure to 

682
00:41:06,500 --> 00:41:10,600
lesbianism. 
That's so insulting and a little

683
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,300
bit rapey. 
Okay. 

684
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,300
It's a little rapey and I'm not 
just saying that because, you 

685
00:41:17,300 --> 00:41:23,400
know, cancer culture is real. 
No y'all really men with penises

686
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:27,100
we like to go after lesbians at 
a gay club where it's supposed 

687
00:41:27,100 --> 00:41:30,800
to be the safe space mmm-hmm. 
Okay. 

688
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,900
Please stop. 
Assuming that if you go to a gay

689
00:41:33,900 --> 00:41:38,800
club that it's okay to initiate 
in threesomes and I haven't I 

690
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:43,900
took that especially in Atlanta,
it's very very I'll say 

691
00:41:43,900 --> 00:41:49,000
prominent for a lot of the gay 
clubs there. 

692
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:54,200
You will see a lot of 
heterosexual men just you know 

693
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:57,800
dancing just is free and we are 
with our friends and the next 

694
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,200
thing you know, they're right 
here behind you because you are 

695
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:04,100
you can tell who's who's part of
the community who's not. 

696
00:42:04,100 --> 00:42:06,300
And I'm okay, dancing with a gay
guy. 

697
00:42:06,300 --> 00:42:08,900
I have no problem as though. 
We're stripping Great. 

698
00:42:08,900 --> 00:42:11,400
I have no problem with that 
because that's a night, you're 

699
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,400
going home with him, I'm going 
home with her. 

700
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,500
That's cool. 
But there are heterosexual men 

701
00:42:16,500 --> 00:42:21,900
that literally standing corners 
and like, prey on you in those 

702
00:42:21,900 --> 00:42:24,900
spaces. 
And that's not okay, like, 

703
00:42:24,900 --> 00:42:28,900
that's truly not okay, it makes 
it makes the whole trajectory of

704
00:42:28,900 --> 00:42:32,000
the environment change. 
It really does. 

705
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,600
Like, stop doing that. 
If you're interested in stop. 

706
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,500
Yes, please immediately, like 
you have, you have spaces? 

707
00:42:39,500 --> 00:42:42,500
To go and find women 
respectively. 

708
00:42:42,500 --> 00:42:45,300
I'm not saying go creep at them 
at the street clubs either. 

709
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,700
If a woman's not interested, 
she's not interested. 

710
00:42:48,700 --> 00:42:52,500
If a woman is lesbian and even 
says, well, I'm a lesbian stop 

711
00:42:52,500 --> 00:42:55,200
with your bullshit-ass line 
saying, well, I can change you 

712
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,000
but oh, you can you can bring 
your girl, no kids. 

713
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,100
Again, I've said it before in 
several interviews and I've 

714
00:43:03,100 --> 00:43:08,100
coined it here, I'm not into 
dick and disappointment, okay. 

715
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,200
Dick and disappointment, your 
dick is bringing the 

716
00:43:11,207 --> 00:43:15,000
disappointment to the girl that 
I met associate with. 

717
00:43:17,300 --> 00:43:23,100
Okay, dick is not the end-all 
be-all cure for lesbianism and I

718
00:43:23,107 --> 00:43:26,000
think that's what makes it so 
different. 

719
00:43:26,300 --> 00:43:31,100
Is that with lesbian sex, the 
concentration isn't just on 

720
00:43:31,100 --> 00:43:33,300
penetration, who, let's get into
that. 

721
00:43:33,300 --> 00:43:37,200
Let's get into the positive. 
Yes, and I think that's where it

722
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:42,900
differs because with 
heterosexual, sex penis, owners 

723
00:43:42,900 --> 00:43:47,600
are trying to think penetration 
and with Being sense. 

724
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,600
It's like you actually get to 
explore the Realms of sex like 

725
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,400
of the experience of it. 
You know, there's four Flay, 

726
00:43:55,700 --> 00:43:59,500
there's all role you know 
because oral is sex, you know it

727
00:43:59,500 --> 00:44:03,100
can't be the foreplay in the sex
like you got to still get me 

728
00:44:03,100 --> 00:44:07,500
ready to get there and then 
there's the main the main 

729
00:44:07,700 --> 00:44:10,100
entree, you know. 
Like we don't sit down at dinner

730
00:44:10,100 --> 00:44:11,600
table, okay. 
Where's the Andre? 

731
00:44:12,100 --> 00:44:16,500
So like sex is the same way. 
But like with lesbians, it's 

732
00:44:16,500 --> 00:44:20,700
almost It's like we take the 
time to enjoy it versus rushing,

733
00:44:20,700 --> 00:44:23,700
through the experience, just for
The Rush of the orgasm. 

734
00:44:23,900 --> 00:44:29,100
Hmm, we you know right into it 
you enjoy what was going on? 

735
00:44:29,100 --> 00:44:32,500
We actually take time to enjoy 
what I Partners doing what we're

736
00:44:32,500 --> 00:44:35,300
doing to our partners, you know?
She's just a pleasurable 

737
00:44:35,300 --> 00:44:38,800
experience for those who might 
be listening and being like I 

738
00:44:38,808 --> 00:44:42,400
would really want to get into 
lesbian sex, but I'm kind of 

739
00:44:42,500 --> 00:44:46,500
nervous of how to approach. 
Lesbian sex, what's the best 

740
00:44:46,500 --> 00:44:50,100
way? 
The first time he first time he 

741
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:55,100
a newbie you know a new you know
new found women going into 

742
00:44:55,100 --> 00:44:56,800
another experience with another 
woman. 

743
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:01,000
Like what would you say is the 
biggest takeaway that they can 

744
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:05,000
have to the best Sapphic 
experience? 

745
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:10,400
See, times I look different now 
because I had to go out and 

746
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,000
actually find these women. 
Whereas nowadays we have social 

747
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:18,000
media where they can find you 
utilize that Utilize that. 

748
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,600
And if you're at the stage where
you have somebody, I'm going to 

749
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:25,200
say, do what you would want done
to you, you know, our first 

750
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,300
instinct, when we get with 
someone, we showed them, or we 

751
00:45:28,300 --> 00:45:29,700
treat them how we want to be 
treated. 

752
00:45:29,700 --> 00:45:32,700
So, do the same thing, you know,
don't change that. 

753
00:45:32,700 --> 00:45:37,000
I had to walk a friend of mine 
through her first experience and

754
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,700
I was like, don't don't 
overthink this like you have 

755
00:45:39,700 --> 00:45:44,500
evolved but you, you know, you 
know, your body go in there with

756
00:45:44,500 --> 00:45:47,700
that mindset, if you don't know,
or haven't Had that conversation

757
00:45:47,700 --> 00:45:51,100
with that person to know you 
know do what you want done and 

758
00:45:51,100 --> 00:45:54,100
from there trust me they're 
going to guide you the rest of 

759
00:45:54,100 --> 00:45:57,900
the way and you'll be okay. 
I'm glad that you mentioned that

760
00:45:57,900 --> 00:46:04,100
because I've definitely in my 
more recent feminine energy 

761
00:46:04,100 --> 00:46:09,200
exchanges as like to call it. 
There have been a lot of women 

762
00:46:09,300 --> 00:46:13,600
that will Express that they're 
attracted to me or attracted to 

763
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:15,300
two women. 
Then it comes down to the 

764
00:46:15,300 --> 00:46:19,300
nitty-gritty of fucking and it's
like well I don't know what to 

765
00:46:19,300 --> 00:46:23,300
do and then they can't 
reciprocate when I ask them. 

766
00:46:23,300 --> 00:46:26,300
Well what do you like done with 
your pussy? 

767
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,400
Hmm. 
Do you masturbate and then when 

768
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:34,300
I find out they don't it's like 
oh It I kind of feel bad because

769
00:46:34,300 --> 00:46:37,600
I'm I've always said that I'm a 
little bit more harsh two main 

770
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,900
than winning in the bedroom 
because I get it. 

771
00:46:41,100 --> 00:46:45,600
It's a little bit pressuring if 
you know, I'm doing all the 

772
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,400
things and maybe I'm doing it 
really well and then I'm like, 

773
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:54,300
okay laying on my back. 
Are you going to reciprocate 

774
00:46:54,500 --> 00:46:56,300
because I'm worried sit on your 
face right away. 

775
00:46:56,300 --> 00:46:59,700
Unless if you ask me to, you 
know, I'm not going to like 

776
00:46:59,700 --> 00:47:02,100
busted all out. 
You know, I'm gonna slow. 

777
00:47:02,300 --> 00:47:05,400
We ease into it. 
Maybe like a little finger here.

778
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,500
All you want my dildo? 
Okay, well, let's see if you can

779
00:47:08,500 --> 00:47:11,900
handle, you know, the, the 
chocolate, you know, because 

780
00:47:11,900 --> 00:47:15,400
she's a little big, it's little 
big and thick, it's a little 

781
00:47:15,700 --> 00:47:21,700
intimidating, you know, but to 
just kind of sit there and I'm 

782
00:47:21,700 --> 00:47:25,700
just looking at you and after a 
while the candle starts to melt 

783
00:47:25,700 --> 00:47:29,300
and you start to fade away and 
I'm like, girl, are you gonna 

784
00:47:29,300 --> 00:47:31,700
fuck me back? 
Yeah. 

785
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:38,200
I'm just letting you know, I 
would be so irritated with it, I

786
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,700
feel so light. 
That was the roof. 

787
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,300
This was at my last place at my 
little Loft. 

788
00:47:44,300 --> 00:47:47,200
My mini loss compared to my big 
loss that I used to have. 

789
00:47:48,100 --> 00:47:51,700
And I know, she doesn't listen 
to the show, so I can just out 

790
00:47:51,700 --> 00:47:54,300
at all the way. 
She basically, she fucked the 

791
00:47:54,300 --> 00:47:56,600
whole. 
Like she went around the whole, 

792
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,200
the poly tribe. 
Like we all had dates with her 

793
00:47:59,900 --> 00:48:02,100
and my girlfriend and I we are 
very light. 

794
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:06,400
Like very understanding women. 
We don't shit talk but it's like

795
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:12,700
I had asked my girlfriend like 
listen, so I had relations we 

796
00:48:12,700 --> 00:48:15,500
have so on little solo time in 
him. 

797
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,200
Was it a little one-sided? 
And she's like oh my God. 

798
00:48:19,300 --> 00:48:23,500
Yes it was and I said how did 
you navigate that? 

799
00:48:23,500 --> 00:48:26,600
Because I never wanted a girl to
leave so quick for my house. 

800
00:48:27,500 --> 00:48:28,900
But I didn't want to be that 
asshole. 

801
00:48:28,900 --> 00:48:32,400
The kicker at it, 2:00 in the 
morning as a female. 

802
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:37,400
So I let her stay the night but 
I was like Ready for the 

803
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,400
morning. 
And I was so ready. 

804
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,300
I was so ready. 
I did the whole like, alarm 

805
00:48:42,300 --> 00:48:44,400
clock at 5:30. 
I didn't give a fuck. 

806
00:48:44,900 --> 00:48:46,800
I don't give a fuck. 
I was like, I need you. 

807
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:51,200
I need you gone. 
Like, please, like I cooked you 

808
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,400
dinner. 
I cooked dinner. 

809
00:48:53,700 --> 00:48:55,800
I, you brought me a nice 
whiskey. 

810
00:48:56,400 --> 00:49:02,800
I fucked you for three hours. 
And no, secretion no 

811
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:09,200
reciprocation, no reciprocation.
And it was that it was right 

812
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:10,000
there. 
In that moment. 

813
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:13,900
I was like, oh, evil sides can 
come out at any point. 

814
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:18,000
Yeah, it is a female. 
We gotta treat the woman with 

815
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:22,400
respect because I would not want
this handled but to my ladies 

816
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,800
out there, please stop baiting 
us. 

817
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:30,300
That is a form of queerbaiting. 
yes, I've been made it before 

818
00:49:30,300 --> 00:49:34,700
and Please don't do that. 
Please. 

819
00:49:35,300 --> 00:49:38,200
That is what like, like the 
equivalent to blue balls. 

820
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:42,200
It's almost kind of like the 
black blue clit is they say 

821
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:45,300
like, as we can get that, what 
is it blue bulbs? 

822
00:49:45,300 --> 00:49:50,200
Because yellow color blue clip 
syndrome like if the clit is to 

823
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,200
throbbing like I don't want to 
wear pants. 

824
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:56,600
I don't already wear panties so 
it's like you try walking around

825
00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,000
with a sensitive click that was 
like the main reason why I got 

826
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,600
rid of my clit piercing is 
because it is very sensitive. 

827
00:50:03,700 --> 00:50:06,300
So now you're talking about 
sensitivity because of depravity

828
00:50:06,300 --> 00:50:14,900
of sex, Yeah, we're there 
because I did the same thing for

829
00:50:14,900 --> 00:50:21,700
the same reason and I've been 
there is the worst so it is. 

830
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:26,400
So listen ladies, stop just just
beat be honest and true with 

831
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,900
your intentions. 
I rather you tell me that you're

832
00:50:28,900 --> 00:50:31,700
not experiencing that 
department, and that you are 

833
00:50:31,700 --> 00:50:36,400
willing to explore in that 
department, then just full-on 

834
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:41,300
agreeing. 
Like Listen, if I say I'm going 

835
00:50:41,300 --> 00:50:43,100
to eat your pussy, I'm going to 
eat your pussy. 

836
00:50:47,700 --> 00:50:51,700
That is it. 
You can't like I think you were 

837
00:50:51,700 --> 00:50:56,300
in the room during my birthday 
spanking chat and I said that 

838
00:50:56,300 --> 00:50:58,800
this pussy is Black Diamond 
pussy. 

839
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,800
This is like going skiing on a 
black diamond and unless if you 

840
00:51:02,808 --> 00:51:05,800
are experienced, you should not 
be writing the mountain. 

841
00:51:06,500 --> 00:51:09,000
Yes. 
Oh my gosh, that is the best way

842
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:13,700
to put it. 
The way to put it because like I

843
00:51:13,707 --> 00:51:19,500
mean you have it, okay for those
who can't grasp how it feels, 

844
00:51:19,500 --> 00:51:23,600
it's like getting it's like 
somebody actually engaging in 

845
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:26,400
conversation with you. 
You're hitting it off. 

846
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,000
They're hitting all your numbers
you're going to date. 

847
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,000
It's like the perfect date. 
You get them in the bedroom and 

848
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,900
then it's just can't get up. 
That's that's about the 

849
00:51:35,900 --> 00:51:40,100
equivalent to how it feels to be
in a room, you know. 

850
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:42,700
No, with a woman that's gonna we
call him. 

851
00:51:42,700 --> 00:51:49,100
Hello, princesses hoof. 
But like, you do nothing, like 

852
00:51:49,100 --> 00:51:52,500
you're not even gonna grab it, 
like you're not gonna touch a 

853
00:51:52,500 --> 00:51:58,700
want to suck on some titties. 
Yeah, or even gravity know 

854
00:51:58,900 --> 00:52:03,800
anything. 
That's the joy of like Sapphic, 

855
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,600
sex. 
Lesbian sex is a beautiful 

856
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:08,300
thing. 
Like we said, it's a lot of 

857
00:52:08,300 --> 00:52:10,700
exploring. 
I feel like with penis. 

858
00:52:11,300 --> 00:52:15,800
The only surprise is, you know, 
the Growers versus, you know, 

859
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:20,500
the already there's weird 
lesbian with the female, the 

860
00:52:20,500 --> 00:52:22,900
vulva. 
Expands it's like a butterfly. 

861
00:52:22,900 --> 00:52:26,200
There's different layers. 
There's many different textures.

862
00:52:26,900 --> 00:52:30,700
Some are Harry, some are not 
Harry, some are barely Harry. 

863
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,800
Some of them are fat. 
Some of them are are sticking 

864
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,100
out. 
Yeah. 

865
00:52:36,100 --> 00:52:41,900
These shapes so many variations 
and I like food so it's like if 

866
00:52:41,900 --> 00:52:45,100
you give me something that I've 
never tasted in my life and you 

867
00:52:45,100 --> 00:52:47,700
busted It Wide Open, please. 
Yes. 

868
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:56,100
Let me get my straw. 
Okay cuz It'd be like that. 

869
00:52:56,700 --> 00:53:01,200
No, but seriously like I love 
the variation of sex with women 

870
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:04,400
like it's it's almost like it's 
a completely different 

871
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:05,600
experience. 
Every time you go into the 

872
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:08,600
bedroom, have you told you know 
what you're going to get here, 

873
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:12,200
you know I know it's sex with 
you but like what are we going 

874
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:13,800
to use today? 
Like how we're going to do it 

875
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,300
today? 
You know like what position 

876
00:53:15,300 --> 00:53:17,900
we're going to try. 
Like you know you get to mix and

877
00:53:17,900 --> 00:53:23,200
match and you don't get as much 
of that to me at least I can't 

878
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:24,000
speak for everybody. 
D. 

879
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:28,300
But to me at least and the 
heterosexual Partnerships that 

880
00:53:28,300 --> 00:53:31,000
I've had, you don't get that 
variation as much. 

881
00:53:31,100 --> 00:53:34,400
Yeah, like I have to the only 
variation that I really play it 

882
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:38,400
out is, is yes, I do have sex a 
lot in my relationship, you 

883
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:42,100
know, with my man. 
And there's a Dom sub Dynamic. 

884
00:53:42,100 --> 00:53:47,000
That's like now because we live 
together, it's not the same, but

885
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,700
we like to revisit every time 
but it's not like we're not 

886
00:53:49,700 --> 00:53:51,600
intimate, but you get me with a 
woman. 

887
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:57,000
It's like I have the power To 
flip on a masculine and a 

888
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,100
feminine approach of what I want
to do with that woman. 

889
00:54:01,500 --> 00:54:04,900
I love to strap up because I do 
have penis envy. 

890
00:54:05,100 --> 00:54:09,800
I wish I knew what a pussy 
actually really felt like during

891
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:16,000
penetration. 
To I have all my gosh. 

892
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,700
I have thought about that many 
many times I'm like, you know, 

893
00:54:18,700 --> 00:54:23,600
you can finger one and kind of 
get the idea but like I said, no

894
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,000
one. 
What an actual line? 

895
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:29,600
Dick fails when I gets grip? 
I would love to know the right 

896
00:54:30,500 --> 00:54:33,100
because it's funny when it's, 
you know, the the pussy is 

897
00:54:33,100 --> 00:54:35,800
gripping on the dildo. 
Like you do feel a little like, 

898
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:39,400
tensity pull and yeah, that 
might like slap against the clit

899
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,900
if you have the the strap 
positioned, right? 

900
00:54:41,900 --> 00:54:45,700
Or you have like a vibrator on 
it but it's not the same. 

901
00:54:45,700 --> 00:54:50,100
It's not the same. 
But last longer it lasts longer 

902
00:54:51,300 --> 00:54:53,100
It does. 
And I will say, the only thing 

903
00:54:53,100 --> 00:54:56,500
that I found myself missing like
feeling-wise. 

904
00:54:56,500 --> 00:55:00,800
The most, did you know how, like
it rest in between the two 

905
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,600
cheeks in the morning, when 
you're cuddling? 

906
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,700
Yeah, and you can kind of feel 
the morning would come up. 

907
00:55:05,700 --> 00:55:10,100
That is the only thing I would 
have to say, I genuinely missed 

908
00:55:10,100 --> 00:55:14,100
in a lesbian relationship. 
Yay, outside of that. 

909
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:18,300
No, the morning wood is the 
finger slip in between her 

910
00:55:18,300 --> 00:55:20,900
thighs or like gripping the 
boobs. 

911
00:55:21,100 --> 00:55:23,800
In a certain position. 
It's not longer just like all 

912
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:24,700
the boobs are there. 
No. 

913
00:55:24,700 --> 00:55:27,000
Like, I'm gripping. 
Like you awake. 

914
00:55:27,300 --> 00:55:29,500
These nipples ready? 
Okay, cool. 

915
00:55:29,700 --> 00:55:32,100
We in it. 
We in it to win it. 

916
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:37,200
Oh yeah. 
Oh, it's that shit right there. 

917
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,800
If only you were closer, I'm 
just going to put it right out 

918
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:41,200
there. 
That's it. 

919
00:55:41,300 --> 00:55:44,100
I'm just putting it out there. 
Sapphires, always question on 

920
00:55:44,107 --> 00:55:48,000
the lady guys. 
I'm just saying it'd be a great 

921
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:49,400
time. 
It be a glorious time. 

922
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:53,800
I feel pleasurable experience. 
I love that. 

923
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:57,300
What are some of your tips for 
women out there? 

924
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:03,300
They want to just dive in like 
dive in on toys sex. 

925
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:08,000
Give me your top three. 
Like if you had to in wrapping 

926
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,100
just like, give it out there for
the women out there. 

927
00:56:11,500 --> 00:56:13,600
First one going to say is go at 
your own pace. 

928
00:56:15,700 --> 00:56:19,000
A lot of times we go off of what
we hear people talk about and 

929
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,600
you know, like even today you 
can be In his pockets back and 

930
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:23,800
you like, oh, I want to go out 
here. 

931
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:25,600
Have sex with go with you on 
base. 

932
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:29,300
You may not be ready to just 
jump into it, you know, try it. 

933
00:56:29,300 --> 00:56:33,600
Like I said, try a sex toy 
first, you know, or maybe watch 

934
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:37,000
a couple pool, you know, ethical
porn, that's plenty out there 

935
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:40,600
now, you know, watch a couple 
flips and see how you feel. 

936
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:43,100
You don't see how it makes you 
feel see what turns you on about

937
00:56:43,100 --> 00:56:44,900
it. 
Then you can say, okay well 

938
00:56:44,900 --> 00:56:48,100
maybe I want to experiment and I
got somebody close to me, you 

939
00:56:48,100 --> 00:56:53,200
know, and then second thing I'm 
gonna say is To do it feels good

940
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,200
to you like it's your life 
again. 

941
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:59,400
It's not a dress rehearsal. 
Like once this is over, that's 

942
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,000
it. 
Do what's best for you? 

943
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,500
Because people are going to talk
about you, whether you gave with

944
00:57:04,500 --> 00:57:07,300
you straight, whether you clear,
what do you hear? 

945
00:57:07,300 --> 00:57:09,700
You not hear, you're going to 
talk about you, regardless. 

946
00:57:09,700 --> 00:57:11,500
So you might as well do what you
want? 

947
00:57:11,500 --> 00:57:13,100
Let them talk about you. 
Anyway. 

948
00:57:13,500 --> 00:57:17,300
Absolutely, what feels good for 
you. 

949
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,900
You won't identify Square to it.
Don't wait. 

950
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,200
Wait, there's no perfect time. 
There's no right time. 

951
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,600
Do it now. 
Do it when it's best for you. 

952
00:57:26,900 --> 00:57:34,500
And I will have to say Lastly, 
masturbate. 

953
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:41,500
Oh Like, there's so many women 
and men, surprisingly, did I 

954
00:57:41,500 --> 00:57:43,800
come across that don't touch 
themselves, they don't know 

955
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,600
their own body. 
Like, you can't expect me to 

956
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:48,600
want to explore you more than 
you've explored. 

957
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:51,200
You, I need to know what to do. 
You know? 

958
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,000
That is your body. 
That is your temple. 

959
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:56,200
That is your sacred place. 
Where your soul lies and breast 

960
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,600
learn it inside and out. 
So that when you go to lay with 

961
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,100
somebody, you say that wasn't 
next day, it's a pleasurable 

962
00:58:02,100 --> 00:58:04,400
experience for me. 
You can tell them exactly what 

963
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:07,400
they did wrong and they Then 
tell them how to get it, right? 

964
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:09,400
Hmm. 
You don't do that. 

965
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,500
You don't take that time to 
spend with you, you're not gonna

966
00:58:11,500 --> 00:58:14,500
know. 
And that's all I got. 

967
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,800
I'm glad that you said that 
because earlier in our sexy 

968
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:20,400
break, I know, I didn't like 
tell you, I was taking the sexy 

969
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:23,000
break, but you heard the 
advertisement earlier in this 

970
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:28,500
episode talking about Afterglow,
XO actor, blue Afterglow, let me

971
00:58:28,500 --> 00:58:34,000
tell you as far as like queer 
lesbian lightweight tips and 

972
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:38,400
tricks and how to masturbate. 
This is the the place like I've 

973
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:41,800
been plugging it in for months 
now and I was so glad that they 

974
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,300
gave me the affiliation but if 
Go to Afterglow and you can sign

975
00:58:45,300 --> 00:58:47,400
up for that that seven-day free 
child. 

976
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,000
Let me tell you, it's going to 
be great. 

977
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:53,000
So x0 Afterglow, use the code 
Sapphire, seven days free. 

978
00:58:53,300 --> 00:58:57,200
Y'all won't be disappointed but 
seriously for the lesbians or 

979
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:03,000
the women who are curious about 
lesbian sex, please utilize XO 

980
00:59:03,100 --> 00:59:08,800
Afterglow.com because Hmm, 
chef's kiss. 

981
00:59:09,100 --> 00:59:12,400
Yes, it will definitely help. 
Oh, Miss J murrey. 

982
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,200
I am so again, just thank you so
much. 

983
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,200
I can't believe how like time 
just flew by. 

984
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,300
On this interview I have to 
bring you back because there's 

985
00:59:20,300 --> 00:59:22,200
just so much that we can talk 
about. 

986
00:59:22,300 --> 00:59:25,500
This is big enough. 
Where can people find you? 

987
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,100
What is coming up for you and 
boobs to nari? 

988
00:59:28,500 --> 00:59:31,100
Give us it. 
Give it to look at it. 

989
00:59:31,100 --> 00:59:34,200
Tongue Tied again, give it to 
us, just give it all to Weiss. 

990
00:59:35,300 --> 00:59:39,900
So I'm pretty much boobs canary 
on everything, Instagram, 

991
00:59:39,900 --> 00:59:44,400
Twitter, YouTube, Facebook. 
You can also find me at the 

992
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:51,000
booba fool sexpert booba full is
be Ood is Fue El for those who 

993
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,600
can't spell it. 
Thank you for that. 

994
00:59:54,700 --> 00:59:59,500
Yes, I do have some workshops 
coming up this month because 

995
00:59:59,500 --> 01:00:02,300
July's, my birthday month. 
So we're going to get into the 

996
01:00:02,300 --> 01:00:05,900
things that I like to do. 
So we're going to do it. 

997
01:00:06,100 --> 01:00:08,000
Oral workshop. 
And I'm also going to do a 

998
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:13,500
writing Workshop, so that's 
coming up this month and coming 

999
01:00:13,500 --> 01:00:17,100
up in September. 
I have my pinky adult game night

1000
01:00:17,100 --> 01:00:22,600
in Atlanta so if you insert you 
know adult games but with a 

1001
01:00:22,607 --> 01:00:25,900
kinky spin come on out. 
That's what I'm talking about. 

1002
01:00:25,900 --> 01:00:29,100
So y'all please go and follow my
girl J. 

1003
01:00:29,100 --> 01:00:31,900
Murrey AK boobs canary on 
everything. 

1004
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:35,300
Of course, everything to get in 
touch with her is going to be 

1005
01:00:35,300 --> 01:00:37,800
linked in the The bio of this 
episode. 

1006
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:41,500
So y'all won't have to miss a 
single minute of what she has to

1007
01:00:41,500 --> 01:00:42,900
bring. 
And you got to catch her on the 

1008
01:00:42,908 --> 01:00:47,100
Mona because when she's on there
honey she brings a whole fucking

1009
01:00:47,100 --> 01:00:51,100
Vibe if y'all like drawn here 
trust me her solo on her own 

1010
01:00:51,100 --> 01:00:54,000
things. 
Hmm, it's plentiful. 

1011
01:00:54,300 --> 01:00:58,800
It's plentiful already. 
Yes, it is. 

1012
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,200
Oh my goodness. 
Well, thank you so much for 

1013
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,800
joining the show. 
Oh, my goodness, like, again, 

1014
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:07,000
Sapphic love, who would have 
thought Talking about lesbians 

1015
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:11,400
just goes by that fast cause we 
can go for hours and hours. 

1016
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:19,000
Oh listen, literally. 
And with us so much fun this way

1017
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:20,800
is like I said, please come 
back. 

1018
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:23,600
We would love to have you back 
on and a couple months and 

1019
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:25,200
whatnot. 
And of course, I know I'm going 

1020
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:28,500
to see you on the moon spaces. 
Of course, of course always. 

1021
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:31,500
And for the Airbus up there. 
Yes, there is more. 

1022
01:01:31,500 --> 01:01:35,900
Sapphires your play coming next 
week with my boy Gregory. 

1023
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:39,300
Veronica. 
If you guys say that name sounds

1024
01:01:39,300 --> 01:01:44,500
familiar, I did go on to his 
podcast a couple weeks ago. 

1025
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:46,800
I believe it was called alphabet
radio. 

1026
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:50,800
Yes, alphabet radio talking 
about being queer in the radio 

1027
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:52,400
industry. 
And now y'all are going to get a

1028
01:01:52,408 --> 01:01:57,900
taste of what it's like to be a 
bisexual man and the challenges 

1029
01:01:57,900 --> 01:02:00,800
he has faced not just in the 
radio industry but also in his 

1030
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:03,300
dating life. 
So that will be of course next 

1031
01:02:03,300 --> 01:02:05,900
week with that said, remember 
that safes. 

1032
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:10,900
Sex is the best hot sauce till 
next time, good night. 

1033
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:13,800
That was the show. 
All you sexy motherfuckers out 

1034
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:15,800
there. 
Remember to follow abney's radio

1035
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:18,500
Sapphire and sapphires are play 
on Instagram. 

1036
01:02:18,500 --> 01:02:20,500
One, Samir, orgasms of the past 
and future. 

1037
01:02:20,500 --> 01:02:24,100
Make sure to follow on Apple 
podcasts, anchor Spotify iHeart 

1038
01:02:24,100 --> 01:02:26,500
radio and all streaming 
platforms.