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Now, why am I talking about social media?
Opening up the show. I have a very special guest
today. Her name is Lala, she is the
owner and Creator power source behind, Lala's bedtime Tales,
which is audio, erotica, y'all? Yes, black-owned, may, I just
emphasize on that black-owned female looking gorgeous and
voluptuous as other please. Welcome Lala everybody.
Welcome, welcome. Lala.
Oh thank you. Hi everybody.
Yeah, it's Lala you reached out to me and I was like oh my God.
Yes, absolutely please. I love audio erotica.
I love when people reach out to me, so it's the best of both
worlds. Thank you so much for coming on.
Yes, absolutely. Yes, I love your energy.
So I was like, I need to get her up and get on.
Let's match The Vibes. Match The Vibes so la Lata.
Everybody about what Lala's bedtime Tales is about, what is
it? Separate?
You Know, audio erotica really had a boom during the pandemic.
We really saw a rise. You know, I want to say like,
Midsummer of 2020, like, it's always been around but I feel
like more businesses have been popping up.
You got Dipsy, you got here Jane.
I've had here Jane on the show. I think there's a couple others
but it's just like now. Nobody's getting into this.
You have phone sex operators where now teasing is no longer
about visual. Everybody's getting into that
audio. So what made you step into this
vast category especially as a black woman?
So when we step into this category, was it actually
normalized sex for me? I know a lot of people out
there, have read the coldest winter ever and for a lot of
people that was their first sex education tool.
So I wanted to make sure that people had access to the mental
institution So health benefits of listening to erotica, because
I know for me, it's helped me through some of my most
stressful days and it even helped me after some Trump
traumatic events that occurred. So I might, let me give the gift
of eroticism to people through sensory awareness and that's
through hearing an audio and I feel like, oftentimes people
enjoy audio more so than visual because they can put themselves
better in the place of the character rather than just
watching it and then your mind can Century map and go wherever
Ever, you want to go with that from just listening to it but
it's just when you're watching it, you see, you might not see
people who look like you, whether it be sighs, inclusive
are racially inclusive or even sexual orientation are whatever
lifestyle that you might live. So being able to listen to it
helps you envision yourself in it and play off their own
fantasies in your head. It's funny that you mentioned
that because just the other day on the moon app, I was hosting a
room, all about the bedroom soundtrack.
And I really said, you know, when you tap in to me, Use the
egg or just any type of audio amsr even it does kind of tickle
your fancy. Some people are like, why am I
getting oddly turned onto the crunchy and leaves or somebody
softly Whispering into this? Like somebody right now is
getting turned on? That's, you know, it's just like
it does happen to your psyche, a lot and it Taps into the same.
I want to say almost the same triggers that fear dies, where
we're almost turned donned by a certain fear or that
anticipation of someone coming around the corner.
It just, you know, it Taps into that and I love how eroticism
TAPS in, to a different vibe, like you said, with sexuality,
because now you're in control. Yes, you can't control what you
see. But you can control what you
hear. Yeah, exactly.
I am not interested. Come to my I'll guess.
And also I think was cool too. And so, speaking of when you
talked about the SMI and the leaves crunching, I'm one of
those people like I don't watch people.
Do you like seafood mukbangs? And I was just turning me on,
like, the sound of them crunchy. And then I will listen to
meditation with water, and I'd be, like, why is this turning me
on? So I looked it up and it's
irrelevant, which is actually a popular Kink.
This people getting turned on by sound and maybe erotica.
Sometimes it's just nature and sometimes like you said, just
random stuff and some are and crunching a cheetah.
Isn't he, like, sexually stimulating know that made me
explore more. So when you talk about, you
know, bringing lot laws bedtime Tales.
It's strictly just your audio or do people submit like, how does
it work? If somebody wants to tap into
this. So right now, currently I write
stories, I write like short stories are about 45 minutes to
60 minutes and then I play them behind sound effects.
And music eventually, I do want to expand where I allow people
to submit stories and also do some other voice actors come on
and tell stories to widen it, and give it more variety.
Well, I'm just gonna say, I volunteer as tribute, I am not a
writer, but honey, I if you need an extra voice, I will put on
The Voice. Probably love that during June
for pride month, I was trying to find like different voices like
to do like On girl and difference of my head and I
couldn't find anyone. So that is good to know.
You got me on lock now you got me connected.
So what if for you and I know some other people might be
connecting the same way because you said you know drama that
like through audio erotica that helped you overcome your trauma
and without like, stepping into that boundary, what is it for
you? That it kind of saved you or
even enhanced your sex life as you look back.
So for me, how it helped was, it showed me a lot of erotic,
especially in literature, it puts female pleasure, first
time. That's typically why females
enjoy erotica over porn, is because it puts female pleasure
first. And then also, I was able to
see, like, healthy romantic relationships, like it was more
so where the woman was being doted on the man was doing
everything in his power to make sure she felt loved.
Make sure she felt pleasure and he enjoyed his sexual.
Experience because she got off on hers and so that normalize
the fact that hey, it doesn't have to be scary, it doesn't
have to be abusive and it doesn't have to be a not fun
experience because these women are in these books being praised
for owning their sexuality and they were loving it and so that
made me put me into a world that was different than what I was
experiencing at that time when I think also about audio erotica.
I also think about the old erotica books from back in the
day and I feel like now there Is a shift.
It's not your mother's typical. Now, romantic novels like, we're
getting into some real ass fucking, yes, I don't know.
It's like for me, I like to hear.
I don't find it corny at all. If I'm hearing the moans and the
sounds and, you know, as it's painting the picture through,
you know, words or lyricism, because even listening to dirty
spoken word, it takes me to a whole different atmosphere, you
know? So I got it.
First of all, I got to take a listen to some Lala's Tails
because I was looking at the pictures I was looking at your
description, and I'm just like, oh yeah, this is different.
This is definitely different than the other laid businesses,
and I don't know if that's also, because right now, I'm seeing a
shift with black owned businesses in the wellness,
sexual Wellness Community, but you are tapping into.
I don't want to say the Urban Market because I feel like
that's kind of light we races when they say to us.
You want to say Urban to, right? It's like, okay, just call for
what it is. It's a black market, yes.
Okay, it's black sex. You could say black, you are
tapping into black folks because when it comes to eroticism, I
feel like we're still trying to find our space, our place and
where we fit in with sexuality, do you feel that?
Yes. Absolutely.
And I think a lot of that goes back to historically with
slavery as well and Ah, how that, how the pow, the
oppressors took our sexuality and afro synchronism, and they
weaponized it against us and in a way to survive, you try to fit
in a box that the majority crates forget.
And so, they either over-sexualized us or they had
us in this depiction of what most people consider.
Like, the Miami, which is what you see on Gone With the Wind.
And so in that, I feel like a lot of times the police
ourselves Our police to others to make us fit in that box for
safety and survival reasons. And so now as a culture just
coming out of that, it's kind of becoming like a struggle and
then also to like I feel like most African-Americans are
touched by the black church, is someone in their life.
And there's a lot of Purity taught which is more shame and
fear taught based education around sexuality and Sexual
Health, then pleasure and positivity.
So I think that also makes it hard.
So we're kind of trying to battle our past of generational
kind of like issues will help how the I'm trying to think of a
positive number positive work but a better politically correct
word the pressures put on us and how the black church kind of
carried that on and how breaking away from that.
Because I did talk to a sex therapist recently.
The actually talked about how she was counseling girls in
their mid-20s, are about to get married and their parents made
them so good. Rate affects almost married and
didn't understand like, how am I going to do this?
When I get in my marriage was just supposed to be fun for the
right time to do it. They were still afraid.
It is kind of fascinating how that happens to his.
It's like we push the culture, especially in Black Culture, get
married first, have the babies, but then you look at the
statistics, of course, which are always against us.
You know, people keep saying like, oh, you know, pregnancy is
still high amongst the black community when it actually
really He isn't it's not okay you know unwanted pregnancies
and even teenage pregnancies in the black community has
significantly decreased but there's such a sexual stigma
against diet. You add that guy in the fear of
the fact that you have girls out here.
We called loose running around Wild and Free and I'm like you
can be loose and still empowering your body.
Exactly. What are we teaching?
The message here and then you step into the category of
sexuality. Okay, well, Then we place,
folks, like ourselves in a box where where the freaks were the
hose and we're not allowed to reclaim it, we're different.
Yeah. So then it makes you think like
overall, okay, where is the space and protection for us when
it comes to Black sexuality, or when it comes to, you know,
businesses like yourself who are targeting specifically the black
women who are oppressed sexually, how can you make them?
Not feel like these. Sexual freaks.
You know, in the degrading manner, when everybody else is
calling us freaks for consuming it.
Yes, it's for framing. The thought process of it is
definitely re owning and reclaiming it kind of like what
we did with the N word it's just reclaiming Andre owning our
sexuality and going back to Our Roots like even the first ever
black drag queen back in the 1800's was an African.
So it's just going bad relooking at that doing the history
lessons behind that. Audrey Lord has a lot of amazing
stuff. That means we should go back and
look at in womanism in general. Just really looking at it.
And then using that as an educational tool to redefine how
we look at black sexuality, I think it within itself is
empowering of it and then us reclaim their like we don't have
to be over sexualized. And we don't have to be seen as
not sexual beings. We can be in the middle like
everyone else. And we can do to stop that
thought process and communication because I was
talking about talk to my other friend, with dating and how It's
okay to be a little bit more aggressive and shooting her
shot. And she's I was like a lot of
by, you know, our white sisters do that.
And it's not seen as bad. And she's like, well, I, you
know, it's just different for them.
I'm like, it's different for them because we put that
narrative out there, that part we're doing it.
Yes, if we're doing it, then it becomes a normal and it becomes
more complex Espina that mindset to because you know, September
is a lot of things for sexuality.
I just found out that there's this thing about September is
take a man. On a date month.
Yeah. And that's becoming like a
divide in Black Twitter right now of whether or not, you know,
that's acceptable because there is that mindset and I have to
say like, again, we're not seeing far from our topic, which
is all about Flex sexuality in the spaces that we own.
Because this ties in, I really just We've always been we've
always been sexual and lyrics and lyricism, okay?
Women telling guys, with the fuck they want, you know, Lil
Kim, the Foxy Brown's. But now I'm seeing this Dynamic
shift with black women, where we're demanding our reparations,
through our coochie. And I'm like, what message are
you trying to say? I can't 100% get back to this?
You know what I mean? Like, this is why people in
sexual spaces do not As black women in Maine and queer.
Folk the same at time. Yeah.
Like, listen. Go out and make your money off
your coochie, please. But Billy do not put it in the
name of reparations. Okay.
Keep the fetishization out of that, because yes, I understand
there's, you know, the fin Dom and you know, there are
dominatrixes out there who, you know, seek out week white men or
what a white clients. It's who will grovel and say,
you know, they're going to pay the reparations and pay what's
owed, that's fine but don't put us all in that category.
Hey Rooney, for the sex positive folk who are like listen I'm all
about you know, I'm a fucking give me some money but I make my
own money to, I'm not lazy. You know, I agree with that.
I've seen that too and I'll be scrolling.
It's like it's doing the exact opposite.
Like okay, listen city girls and making the stallion and cardi B.
Like can y'all just I can't y'all need to cool it down.
Please dial it back. Okay, like we we had our foot in
the door. People were listening.
Yeah. Now, I don't know.
Oh my God. It's just a weird shift in Black
erotica, right now I just Cannot get down with it all like talk
about here. Yeah.
It's like talk about wet ass pussy, but talk about how
phenomenal and Powerful the pussy is at all times.
Yes. Okay.
Stop demanding and demand through the power of pussy.
Yeah, if that makes sense. Yeah, that does.
I definitely agree with that. Oh, I'm glad because it's just
like it annoys me sometimes and it's like I don't want to say
this is why Again, black Mane may be turned off to us, because
it shouldn't be that way. Because if they can be just as
sexual, why can't we? Yes, exactly.
But also to tear playing some of those, I'm saying a lot on
spiritual word and the shape room, some of the black, male
relationship, talk show. And I feel like that too.
Is also putting a bad message after I listened to some stuff
and I'm like, wait, are you talking about and no, no.
The hotel. The hotel could shut it down.
Okay. I don't need a man telling me,
as a black woman. What I should be doing with my
black pussy. Exactly.
I agree because you don't want to hear what I want you to do
with your black dick. Exactly.
I agree 1,000 per second if so where is the negative stigma on
that? And then it's like you come into
the spaces of again, audio erotica.
A safe haven for black women and now I'm noticing Noticing there
are main trying to come it up in that and they're doing it for
all the wrong reasons and I'm like, there's no Romanticism.
Not every woman wants to be fucked, another, not every
vagina wants to be penetrated the way that you want it to be.
Exactly. Exactly 100%.
And I think that's like the power of why I do see here, more
and gravitate my body, more towards the feminine energy that
erotica brings because when a man steps into it and even
though I am dating a man, Or love with the man.
It just doesn't hit the same. Yes, there's actually been a lot
of Articles I've even read. Just about erotic literature
engineer in general. They talk about how women
writers write the best sex. Yeah.
Even they write the best sexy, whether it's em on em, like,
whatever John wrote, women tend to write the best sex.
And so I think that's because a lot of times typically women
approach sex from an intimacy, respect as well.
We don't just focus on the actual sexual act and we focus
on every component that goes into it.
What is your advice for men out there?
Who really want to switch it up and, you know, want to tap into
their feminine power. But they also feel like they're
not allowed to because I feel like every man should be allowed
to tap into their feminine side with their partners and I feel
like we don't talk about vulnerability enough.
Yeah, until it's like, smack. Dab in the face.
Like, I love hearing that. Couples are now not just
watching porn together but listening to porn together.
Yeah. Or they're recording themselves
not you know video but audio and I'm like, oh I need to do that.
I'm not used to do that for ear play purposes.
You don't have to get consent and all but you know now I'm
kind of like oh I would want to record my sex and give myself a
play-by-play with my partner next.
I hope you're taking notes in there.
You got to tell my man off are, you know, I really I feel like
audio eroticism now has like open the doors for especially
for couples who don't want to watch porn, but they don't want
to watch themselves and they also don't want to consume maybe
in reading about it. So they feel that the audio
itself would enhance. So for men out there R who want
to please now or I am talking about the male lead
relationships to their female cotton counterparts are vulva
counterpart owner. She hydrosis not so much.
My same-sex will get into you in a second because I feel also.
The Dynamics are different when you have the same genders in the
same room but for men who are trying to ease their lady in to
eroticism, what would you suggest that they do especially
on the levels of eroticism? With audio.
I think something sexy would be is them recording themselves,
telling them how to touch themselves.
Like I feel like if they record kind of like, do it like a sexy
playlist but their voice over it and tell him think about me and
this fantasy while you touch yourself and give them
directions on how to touch themselves kind of doing like
mutual masturbation but through the ears.
And then also too I think for men, It is, it's a lot about
communication, right? Like, I know a lot of my male
friends are like, oh well, I don't want to ask about that or
talk about that fantasy or desire and come off looking like
a creep. But I'm like, I promise you not
attend times. She'll probably be like, oh my
gosh. I wanted to try that, too.
So, don't be afraid to communicate that.
And then also, too. I feel like, um, mix it up by
doing like vacations, which it doesn't have to be like, you
have to actually go away, anywhere, cleaning and stuff,
and then never stop dating the Singer wit like whether it's a
long-term relationship. Are you just been having like
when I was younger I used to have consistent fuck buddies.
Like I'd be like kind of in a monogamous relationship with
these fuck buddies like we would just only exclusively have sex
with each other, but we didn't feel the restraints of a
relationship and so sometimes it's fun.
It's do like sex days, switch it up like do it somewhere,
different learning, our new role playing what in and stuff like
that. So I think that's two is don't
be afraid to ask what you want in the bedroom, even asked some
milk. So, I know sometimes you guys
are geared away and you I want to scare your partner away and
then just do different sects days.
Like I don't love it. Like playing a little sex date,
a little sex seemed like that since it's aren't you?
That I love that. It always have to be the woman
coming, you know, doing it all vice versa to.
It doesn't always have to be the man.
Like, ladies. I think we do need to start
truly, truly speaking up for what the fuck we want in the
bedroom? Yes.
Okay. And that even goes from our
queer folks to because especially non-binary.
Three, asexuals, you know, even though you might not have a
sexual mindset, please speak up and what you want to enhance
your relationship and know that your relationship doesn't always
have to be sex centered. Sometimes the sexiest things in
a relationship, don't have to be sexual.
Yes, exactly. Sometimes, you know, the
simplest things that we do in our relationships day in and day
out. Become the sexiest thing.
Yeah. Cleaning the dishes after thank
you, do I Of it. When my man cleaned up the
kitchen, I'm looking out a nice kitchen this morning.
It's great, didn't have to ask, you know, he's helping me with
the bathroom like we're cleaning together and it's sexy to me
that he's taking that initiative and vice versa like your
partner. It's a partnership coming into
Hannah and just speaking for what you want.
And again bringing it back to eroticism through oral
stimulation and I'm talking about are not eared.
I'm not talking about the mouth. Okay, or your ears eroticism
hearing those affirmations of love hearing the Gratitude
hearing what your partner truly wants day in and day out.
That's A build-up to your erotic fantasies right there.
Yes. Speaking folks need to learn how
to talk and be vulnerable. I'm always using that word
vulnerable. If somebody wants to make a
drinking game out of this pie, I cast please kids like
vulnerability and communication are the two things I'm always
talking about? Yeah, no matter what, so for you
with your partners, do you ever read off your stories?
That's like a test? Do you test your crack?
So my current partner right now, they actually read all my
stories for me before I recorded them.
Ye shall give me something and sometimes I will sneak and
little parts of our sex life. In it, like, in this past story
that call her dirty girl and that's something I like to be
called in the bedroom. You know, I'm gonna ask you for
a little, you know, and ask you for some taste.
You gotta give the earbuds to taste a why they need some La in
their life. Yes, absolutely.
Yeah. Not to cut you off there because
now I could see it like, ladies and gentlemen, you can't see it,
but this girl is gleaming ear to ear.
It is radiant she got a glow now, she can't Look at her, she
can't. She's speechless.
She can't even speak now. Yes, so like I drop little Jones
from there, like, hell no. And I'm like, oh, you went
there. I see is something that, you
know, and so it's just fun stuff like that.
And, um, I also used in also, to, I don't use names or
anything, but I think that's my old sexual experiences when I'm
writing and I'll drop those in there as well.
And one of my, my past excess, he was like oh I listen to one
of your stories and it sounded awfully familiar.
Laugh about it but I love that. I love that.
Yeah. But um, it was just yeah.
Just all right. And I feel like anyone to can
like it kind of helps to what Dirty Talk.
Hmm. So the more erotic literature, I
listened to our read, it made me really into dirty talk and so
that's one of my biggest things. So I think four players should
happen all day and one of the ways to do that is sending like
sexy messages to your partner. Can you please see that again?
What you just said. Said about foreplay for Summer
Place. Should happen all day.
Thank you. Okay cuz you know when we're
talking about the physicality of foreplay, I was just doing a
radio segment for an l.a. station on here.
And you know, they were asking me what like is the longest that
you should do for play? And I said, well basically it's
like a tie I believe I said 8 and 13 minutes eight minutes for
females and 13 minutes for the guys because too long it's gonna
it's gonna blow the shit up. Yeah.
But when you do, Play. We also tend to forget like you
said, it's an all-day thing from that, good morning, text all the
way through that. Lunchtime text.
I'm thinking about you to all the sudden, I'm on my way home.
It's just saying, I'm on my way home.
You should say desserts marinating.
Oh yeah, I love that. Okay.
Dessert will be ready when you get home tonight.
We're gonna have dessert and then dinner.
Exactly built that. Anticipation something cute.
The Sexual Energy going guys. It doesn't have to be
physicality, ladies and gentlemen, it doesn't even have
to be photos of yourself. My man, and I, we do for play
throughout the day where he'll send me little Pinterest,
erotica, art, cartoons, the other night, he was showing me
different pictures of these beautiful gorgeous black women.
Just I mean in all types of nasty, I mean showing me covered
coated faces. In big titties dripping.
Oh yeah. Okay, or just like in the
bathtub. It was just oh, just painting
out a picture and I'm like, yeah, I'll see you want this
tonight. Okay, cool.
I think we can provide, I think we can strategize on this.
I can't guarantee my boobs will sit up as perky as hers but yes,
coat my face. Okay?
Yes. Yes, you know, just a little ebb
and flow that I think is the best sending we pay phones, have
audio. messaging now, Send off that message instead of just
typing it out, let your partner hear the breathing of
anticipation and wanting and desire.
Give them a little sexy voice know.
Just to say, I'm thinking about you from last night, I'd love
round 3, 4 5, Give them that. Nice tone.
Yeah, I'm giving you the radio voice.
Now give a little something something, I feel like little
foreplay does go a long way. I feel personally.
It's gas and dance. It's the best.
So going back to your business and what set you aside?
What would you say, why people should get on the train of
LaLa's bedtime, tales versus other audio, erotica, apps apps
out there. So it's a few reasons, um, and
makes like my whole platform. I makes education with
entertainment. I bring on guest blog
contributors and I Interviews with licensed therapist and
medical professionals to make sure I'm getting out
comprehensive and accurate information.
I try to make sure it's female and then especially black women
if I can, add that layer because I feel like you don't see often
enough enough. People that look like us in the
medical profession and therapy and I feel like it's, he saw
more of us that make us more open to going and seeking those
Services. Because for my own personal
experience I think it's just different and more relatable,
when You can get a provider that looks like your information from
a provider that looks like you. And then also what sets me apart
is oftentimes like with Dipsy and you get a lot of the sound
effects of the moaning and the sexual noises but not always
like the storyline and then on podcast I've listened to you get
the story but you don't get a lot of the moaning or the music.
And so I brought that together as best as possible.
And so I give you the storyline and then I also give The music
and I gave you the sound effects with it.
So, that's what sets me apart is.
I'm mixing for sexual health education with the
entertainment. I love that years ago.
I used to call it sexual edutainment because I want to
make sure that you are turned on, but you're going to learn
something and be entertained at the same time.
And so that's always being like sapphires are played like
mission is just to, you know, provide are guy zooms through
sexual and Amen. People like sexuality Taemin.
What the hell? So we're in like-minded Souls.
I love that. I love that and bring it back to
Mountain to mental Wellness because it's important.
It's very important. Especially in our community,
that we continue the conversations and normalizing
black mental Wellness. Yes.
And black self-care. You know, we hear it all the
time. We heard it.
You know, showcased in insecure. You know, Molly in d.c. used to
have their self-care Sundays and we hear it on the blog's all the
time. Yes.
I highly suggest people start adding audio.
Erotica to that self-care doesn't just have to be, I'ma be
in the bathtub listening to my favorite, you know, music,
listen to your favorite erotica. Yes, Syd.
That's a champagne Mimosa, with the little drip of orange juice
that Splash. Okay.
And let the bubbles of the body. The Bubble Up Inside you.
I don't know what I was going with their, the bubbles of the
champagne mixed in with the bubbles of your bubble bath.
I guess your body. There you go pop.
There we go. Making it pop, I love that.
Yes. But I want I want people to
especially like bringing it black black, bring it back.
I need my black women and my black queers out there to
understand that it is. Okay to feel sexy, it is okay to
step out and Let your freak flag fly.
I want to see more people talking about BDSM.
Yes. Especially Bobby, D sub.
I want people to step outside the box.
And, you know, it's not just about the Mandingo dick that I
see at the strip club because I feel like, you know, like,
listen, I'm not gonna disrespect Zane because Zane did the way
she did, but she did have a lot of that, I know exactly what
you're talking, you know, it's like, I'm not trying to, like
degrade ourselves. Yes.
But you know Zane only tapped in briefly to a certain side of
black female erotica. Yeah, you know and even with
purple panties, which was her you know, lesbian eroticism.
There was still that aspect where was like you're catering
to straight women, who are you? Curious about women but you
weren't really tapping into the studs.
You weren't really tapping in to our and bees who are non-binary
and, you know, do not Have a certain aspect of feminine and
masculine any there, just them. You know, we didn't tap into
that but now we're seeing it more with folks, like yourself
providing that I was reading some of your stuff that you put
down for pride and I'm like, damn, she's got a tap-in some
more with some queer sex. Yes.
Because and yeah, that's my goal to is to get more of that
perspective in my writing as well as like everyone.
You have friends, family members that I And if I in the queer
community and so when I'm writing some of my parts to
discuss that I reach out and I asked my friends, I'm like, tell
me about it, I'll be like tell me like one of your sexiest
stories and all this stuff and they'll do it and that's how I
get information. So it's definitely important to
give voice. And as also to is why when I
write, when I finally write a girl-on-girl, a specific I want
someone of that Community to come in and tell that story.
Saying when I do my lawn now I want someone in that Community
to come in and tell that story. Absolutely.
Because those voices are so important to hear and I was
also, when you look at like Hollywood and stuff, like when
they get people, not of that cult read that, that group, our
community, that marginalized Community to come and do it.
It's just like, why why? You know, I was actually kind of
heartbroken. You watch P Valley, right?
No, I need to get started, but oh, my gosh.
Okay, so I don't want to spoil too too much and I don't want to
How much for the earbuds we haven't seen season 2, which
just ended, but I was truly truly heartbroken to find out
that Martyrs character in real life was straight.
And now, people are questioning his sexuality because of how
graphic, like the things that you can take away and probably
put two and two together is that this season Happy Valley really
tapped in to an uncomfortable level for some folks of blacks,
Sexuality, especially amongst Main and, you know, possible
transgendered women. Now, uncle Clifford doesn't
identify as trans, but, you know, just happen to their
feminine energy. To where it could be.
Is he trans? You know?
Is you know, what is this Dynamic?
And I thought it was beautiful but then you know you got
rappers like Plies and Bootsy, oh my gosh.
Who just got busy. Oh my God.
Lucy. You know why?
It low-key. I think he's gay and it's just
like he finds the comfort in suppressing gay sex.
Yeah, cuz he does he does protested a little too much way
too much when you get that strongly.
You know that strongly like anti something.
I'm like what what is the back by, right?
And if it makes you that uncomfortable, why do you keep
coming back week after week? Because this motherfucking
little Literally, with some of the entire episode of P Valley
every week and I'm like motherfucking, if you are that
uncomfortable turn it off. So, clearly, something turns you
on, exactly. He's liking it.
Yeah. If you can give me a whole
fucking rundown of, you know, Uncle Clifford and murder.
Smash and cheeks. Yeah.
A little small detail. But again you see it on the
Black Box? You can't?
Excuse me? Yeah.
Okay. The first time they have sex and
you were talking about Uncomfortable you are but you
came back the following week to comment some more.
You like this shit and it's okay.
I'm not trying to out you my brother.
I'm trying to tell you like it's okay to be gay.
Yes, it's okay. It's okay.
It's okay if it turned him on
it's okay. I completely understand.
Yes. And if it turns you on as a
straight man like that doesn't mean you're gonna go out and
smash the man's ass cheeks. That's just something that turns
you on. Exactly.
Yeah, I think that's also why I do like audio eroticism to
because it does allow people to get turned on in ways that they
probably would never be able to in their real life.
Yeah bringing it all back it does paint a different picture
because you know, even when I was questioning my sexuality I
was always so intuitive to the male and female but more so the
response that the female was getting.
Yes. I was never really like if I
look back on it I was really never turned on by the man.
Fucking it was always the response of the female or, you
know, just like admiring the vulva and the boobs of the porn
that was being shown. I could give a fuck left about
the guy that's pumping I 100%, I agree with you.
I I like that to about when I watch porn.
I'm like I can't get off unless you know it's a female with her
her boobs and everything like that turns me on and
pornography. Yes.
And then he's just like again when you take it out to the
audio side of it it's like I don't want to hear a man, come.
I want to hear the woman's. Yeah.
Shortness of breath. And the ammonia moans or even
how she gets animal is? Ticking growls, you know, when
Jax really, I don't know. It's just like men have just a
one dulcet tone. I feel sometimes unless it's
like a gay porn or you know someone who's just not afraid to
be vocal. I'm like always like no.
No, no, no. Let me hear the female now or
let me get the leg. Really twink Ashish got it.
Like guy in the porn. Let me hear him.
It's just something about that. It's a softness to it.
So Often aside as software software side is sex.
So, let's see. There was something else I
wanted to get more into when it talks about, you know, black
sexuality and where we are. Now as someone who is a provider
in these spaces, what would you want to see more with black
sexuality? Like where do you think we can
go from here? Because yes we're tapping in
more with, you know, shout out to be condoms who has an
excellent, you know. Excellent Mission.
And just the fact that they are really tapping into the stores
that you know the black markets are at like thank you.
Yeah. Like when they caught the deal
with Walmart and Target and I was like finally we have condoms
for ourselves. Yep.
You know now let's get into more black owned sex toys.
Yes. Not Jess.
Black toy sex providers. Yes.
I want to see more audio Erotica.
So when I found out of your business and you reaching out to
me, I was like holy shit. I don't think I think at this
point and I could be wrong, but I feel like you are the only
black female lead business on this side.
But I could be wrong, I would have to look more into it.
But the ones that I've seen they have not been they have
typically been white women. Mmm, you're right.
Not I think about it like yes, haven't really seen you?
Yeah, it's like yes these, You Know audio providers.
Do have black voices? Yes, but it's also a very Niche.
Yes, you know, I don't see a lot of people on the Spectrum.
I don't see my All figured women like yourself la la.
Yeah. You know, not to single that
out, but it is a part of representation that matters.
Yes. Just like, you know, in these
black sexuality spaces, not every person that partakes in
polyamory or BDSM or any other alternative lifestyle is this
you know Amazonian woman or she's a supermodel you know yes
we tap in more to the spectrum of people who Or just normal,
not even. Oh, naturally face, I love that.
I love that aspect or black touch, black touches, another
porn company all black from their curators to, you know, the
actors, the actresses, those who write the scripts.
I think it's great that here, we have a porn company that is for
us. Yeah, that is amazing.
I hadn't heard a black touch. I know I've heard of like King
Noir and his wife. Oh yes, Jetson and Jasmine.
You had them on a computer. It's good, it's good.
Black touch I got in touch with them last year actually and
again it's a great just form of real porn.
It's none of this like bullshit. It's real couples, real Partners
going at it solo. And it's Tastefully dying and
it's not like, you know, some running, the bill porn company
from back in the day like the quality is very very chefs kiss.
But yeah, it's moving forward. What would you want to see more
in these spaces that are evolving?
Like what could we do more what could we do more as a black
community and what can you know, our our white counterparts are
non melanin. Folks what can they do as
Allyship to help get these voices across.
So my number one, what I would love to see, more of which I am
seeing a little bit. More Oz is more talk about Kink
exploration and fetishes within within the black community.
And also a more of an Embrace of different gender expressions,
and gender orientations, I think that's huge for the black
community and being welcomed with it.
And then also too. I think like very pretty much
covered it, like the black sex toy.
Where are the black main focus of pornography and then which
nine people of color, I think actually supporting is a huge
part as well as not making it just like an itch, but when you
do the black voices actually getting black input in those
stories and then also I feel like every company should have
like a diverse board. So when you get to To that point
to where you can grow have people at the top that can give
voice to other communities. So it can be a diversity of
thought process in mind set. So you're not pumping out the
same content and slapping a different gender identity on it.
Sexual orientation are raised and being like you're, you know,
inclusive when it's not actually telling those people story.
Absolutely. Oh my goodness, Lala, thank you
so much before I let you go. I want people to get in touch
with you. If people have ideas, are they
able to submit that, you know, to you and what?
Not? Absolutely.
So you can submit it. I would love that to so many of
your story ideas. To me, you can slide into my
bbm's and Instagram at La La's bedtime, tales and are, you can
reach out to me on my website, www.house.gov/paul to link that
in this episode because I really want people to touch it.
Touch reach. Out and get in touch with you
because I really truly feel that you are on to something big.
I'd even ask you. How long has Lala's bedtimes
Tales been out? The law has been timetoast will
turn one years old this month. So I started at the end of
August at the end of September, my bad in a September in 2021.
And so I've been doing this for almost a year now.
So about a year so that's congratulations.
And I am just extremely excited for It's the calm because I see
the community building around you.
And again, I'm just so fortunate and happy that you reached out.
And whenever you need, honey, I'm there, like please slide in
my DMs whenever you need something and I would love to
come onto your platform to because I truly just love Wayne
folks, like us can get together and just kind of spread this
really good. Message out there to say like,
hey, black erotica is here to stay and look at the many
different forms that it's not just porn.
It's not just sex toys, it's audio, it's podcast, it's
building Community. The fact that you even are able
to talk about mental health with your craft.
It's needed. Yeah, you're doing the work in.
This is the work that is needed. So I just want to say, thank
you. Thank you, thank you for coming
out today and just sharing this. Thank you.
Yes. And thank you so much for having
me. I absolutely loved it.
It was a black. I love you and everything that
you do. Oh, thank you.
Thank you. All right.
Well, Divides. That's all for now.
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enjoy undress. Beckons me towards him with the
curve of his index finger. Once in front of him, he pushes
me down onto the bed, causing me to bounce, back to the iron
headboard. His big naked body covers mine.
He straddles me with his erection linking warm sticky
pre-comp, on my stomach, as he ties my arms, to the headboard
with his necktie undress, passionately kisses.
My mouth, our tongues, Beating for control as he causes my
pussy to clinch and Agony as a girl's water.
What arousal, you releases my lips with a tug of my bottom
lip. This shows my panties into my
mouth, making me taste the salty tanginess of my arousal.
Oh shit, this man has the pride beyond my ability to touch and
speak. This is a new and sexy
experience. Nonetheless, my heart tap dances
against my chest in daunting. Excitement.
I'm just purposely pins me to the mattress with a weight of
his heavy muscular frame. He teases me with his tongue by
licking Far East Central ribbons of me by my jaw line around the
show of my ear and gently nips on my earlobe, he sucks on my
neck, causing me to quiver as my hot wet or clinches awaiting
sexual release. Undressed lazily Trails is
talking across my clavicle and down to my heavy, full b cup.
Breath, my nipple stand painfully erect desperately
wanting, and needing his touch. He takes my right nipple between
us. Full pal, feasting on it.
Like a man who hasn't eaten in days while he performs my left
breast, plucking, rolling and pinching my left nipple until
it's so so hard and so sensitive.
He abandons my right to subject. My overly sensitive left the
same erotic torture undress, doesn't stop the nipple play
until they're so sensitive and so erect that his blowing on
them, since a sharp tug of pleasure to the dampness between
my thigh, he leisurely, travels his tongue down, my slender
torso, dipping his tongue, into my belly button, causing my Body
to clever under his moves, lower on the bed stroking, licking and
nibbling on my hip. And Mound between my legs
talking, both my legs effortlessly over his shoulders.
He rolls my body up on my shoulders, holding my slick,
pussy lips wide. It begins.
Flicking me from bottom to top. He fucks my pussy with his
tongue as he swirls my wetness around my clitoris applying.
Just the right amount of pleasure to it causing me to let
out a muffled scream through the fabric, in my mouth I'm dressed
of hours. My pussy relentlessly far better
than any of my fantasies taking his sweet time.
As he works me over into sexual Oblivion making me read between
his lips and fingers. He began sucking on my clitoris
and trowels my wetness from my hot core to my tight.
Puckered Asshole, I feel a burning sensation as he slowly
insert one wet finger into my asshole.
I feel my eyes go wide as he smiles against my clitoris.
I fling my head back and surrender as my orgasm tears,
from my body, as he sucks on my clitoris and finger fucks the
hell out of my asshole. Before I can catch my breath and
recover from my first-ever earth-shattering orgasm on
dresses, on time, my arms from the headboard of the bed and
leading Of course, the hotel's, balcony.
I'm so weak and compliant for my previous orgasm, that I can't
bulk in this man. So I feel the night's cold air.
Make my overly sensitive and tight.
Nipples perk up. I shake my head as he ties me
with his necktie to The Rolling of the hotel room balcony.
I feel exposed turned on and nervous as he bends me over
pulls my hips, back towards him and slams, his massive manhood
and Enemy before I can protest causing me to whimper and
painful sexual Delight. I feel my breasts jiggle as he
deeply penetrates my soaking wet pussy.
Ruthlessly, he leans over 19, the thong out of my mouth, that
was muffling my grounds and Mom undress.
Slaps, my ass covering my house from The Sting with his hand and
Whispers. You have to be quiet darling.
You wouldn't want us. To get caught and have headline
splashed across the gossip, sites that reads Rising pop
start jailed for freaky sex on my hotel balcony.
I don't think that would go over well for your music career and
image heat weeks my nipples thirsting erratically as I bite
down on my bottom left to hold back my screams of pleasure.
Despite the cold weather, our bodies are slick with sweat.
The only sounds in the air are wax flick noises from Pounding
into my arouse pussy and skin-on-skin contact from the
way he fucking so dirty. His breath gets harsher in my
ear. As he bites down on my shoulder
fleeing us into sexual ecstasy. I Feel Home draw blood from my
shoulder and I almost fall down while he unties my arms.
He picks me up and I breathe in the musky scent of our sex in
the air in the comforting scent of his woodsy.
And orange zest smell like at the re path.
He carries me back into the hotel Bridal style and Lifeline
went body on the bed. Undress, crashes down beside me
stroking, my cheek and Tenderly, kissing my forehead.
That was incredible. We have to do it again.
I pant looking at the ceiling. I'm just box out of laughs and
says, I can't deny. That was fucking amazing.
Your body is so Responsive and your pussy gets so wet and tight
around my dick. You felt like a fucking velvet
glove Pop Princess. I'm sure I can keep you occupied
these next few weeks. Ice cream on the inside throwing
myself on top of him to Pepper his face with kisses.
This was going to be one wild time in my life as I embrace my
role as undresses personal sex slave until I left this
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