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Stay tuned for a little special 
eargasm from Lala herself and 

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visit Lala's bedtime. 
Tales.com enjoy this episode 

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warning. 
The following program is not for

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the weak-hearted those who are 
close minded when General, 

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you're scared to learn. 
What's behind closed. 

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Doors here at sapphires are 
play. 

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I want you to pour the wine. 
Grab somebody that you want to 

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hold onto or better yet. 
Get the vibration stimulated 

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through your body. 
Get ready for one, hell of an 

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eargasm in five. 
Four, three, two, one. 

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What is up? 
All you sexy motherfuckers out 

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there in radioland is you girls 
Sapphire and I got a special 

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guest today. 
Now, first of all, first of all,

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if anybody wants to come on to 
Sapphires your plate, it's 

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really simple. 
Sliding my DM's, a saw fires 

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near play at Miz radio Sapphire.
Please do not reach out to 

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anybody by the name, Sapphire 
and Twitter because that's not 

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me. 
My Twitter has been gone for 

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almost a goddamn year, okay. 
It's still So please stop saying

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that you saw me on Twitter 
because no the fuck you didn't 

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or you could hit me up on the 
phone app. 

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Now, why am I talking about 
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Opening up the show. 
I have a very special guest 

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today. 
Her name is Lala, she is the 

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owner and Creator power source 
behind, Lala's bedtime Tales, 

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which is audio, erotica, y'all? 
Yes, black-owned, may, I just 

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emphasize on that black-owned 
female looking gorgeous and 

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voluptuous as other please. 
Welcome Lala everybody. 

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Welcome, welcome. 
Lala. 

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Oh thank you. 
Hi everybody. 

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Yeah, it's Lala you reached out 
to me and I was like oh my God. 

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Yes, absolutely please. 
I love audio erotica. 

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I love when people reach out to 
me, so it's the best of both 

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worlds. 
Thank you so much for coming on.

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Yes, absolutely. 
Yes, I love your energy. 

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So I was like, I need to get her
up and get on. 

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Let's match The Vibes. 
Match The Vibes so la Lata. 

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Everybody about what Lala's 
bedtime Tales is about, what is 

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it? 
Separate? 

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You Know, audio erotica really 
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We really saw a rise. 
You know, I want to say like, 

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Midsummer of 2020, like, it's 
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like more businesses have been 
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You got Dipsy, you got here 
Jane. 

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I've had here Jane on the show. 
I think there's a couple others 

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but it's just like now. 
Nobody's getting into this. 

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You have phone sex operators 
where now teasing is no longer 

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about visual. 
Everybody's getting into that 

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audio. 
So what made you step into this 

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vast category especially as a 
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So when we step into this 
category, was it actually 

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normalized sex for me? 
I know a lot of people out 

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there, have read the coldest 
winter ever and for a lot of 

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people that was their first sex 
education tool. 

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So I wanted to make sure that 
people had access to the mental 

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institution So health benefits 
of listening to erotica, because

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I know for me, it's helped me 
through some of my most 

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stressful days and it even 
helped me after some Trump 

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traumatic events that occurred. 
So I might, let me give the gift

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of eroticism to people through 
sensory awareness and that's 

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through hearing an audio and I 
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enjoy audio more so than visual 
because they can put themselves 

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better in the place of the 
character rather than just 

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watching it and then your mind 
can Century map and go wherever 

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Ever, you want to go with that 
from just listening to it but 

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it's just when you're watching 
it, you see, you might not see 

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people who look like you, 
whether it be sighs, inclusive 

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are racially inclusive or even 
sexual orientation are whatever 

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lifestyle that you might live. 
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helps you envision yourself in 
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fantasies in your head. 
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that because just the other day 
on the moon app, I was hosting a

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room, all about the bedroom 
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And I really said, you know, 
when you tap in to me, Use the 

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egg or just any type of audio 
amsr even it does kind of tickle

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your fancy. 
Some people are like, why am I 

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getting oddly turned onto the 
crunchy and leaves or somebody 

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softly Whispering into this? 
Like somebody right now is 

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getting turned on? 
That's, you know, it's just like

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it does happen to your psyche, a
lot and it Taps into the same. 

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I want to say almost the same 
triggers that fear dies, where 

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we're almost turned donned by a 
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anticipation of someone coming 
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It just, you know, it Taps into 
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TAPS in, to a different vibe, 
like you said, with sexuality, 

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because now you're in control. 
Yes, you can't control what you 

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see. 
But you can control what you 

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hear. 
Yeah, exactly. 

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I am not interested. 
Come to my I'll guess. 

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And also I think was cool too. 
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talked about the SMI and the 
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those people like I don't watch 
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Do you like seafood mukbangs? 
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like, the sound of them crunchy.
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meditation with water, and I'd 
be, like, why is this turning me

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on? 
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irrelevant, which is actually a 
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This people getting turned on by
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Sometimes it's just nature and 
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random stuff and some are and 
crunching a cheetah. 

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Isn't he, like, sexually 
stimulating know that made me 

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explore more. 
So when you talk about, you 

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know, bringing lot laws bedtime 
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It's strictly just your audio or
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it work? 
If somebody wants to tap into 

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this. 
So right now, currently I write 

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stories, I write like short 
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60 minutes and then I play them 
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And music eventually, I do want 
to expand where I allow people 

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to submit stories and also do 
some other voice actors come on 

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and tell stories to widen it, 
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Well, I'm just gonna say, I 
volunteer as tribute, I am not a

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writer, but honey, I if you need
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The Voice. 
Probably love that during June 

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for pride month, I was trying to
find like different voices like 

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to do like On girl and 
difference of my head and I 

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couldn't find anyone. 
So that is good to know. 

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You got me on lock now you got 
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So what if for you and I know 
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connecting the same way because 
you said you know drama that 

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like through audio erotica that 
helped you overcome your trauma 

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and without like, stepping into 
that boundary, what is it for 

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you? 
That it kind of saved you or 

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even enhanced your sex life as 
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So for me, how it helped was, it
showed me a lot of erotic, 

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especially in literature, it 
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time. 
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enjoy erotica over porn, is 
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first. 
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see, like, healthy romantic 
relationships, like it was more 

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so where the woman was being 
doted on the man was doing 

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everything in his power to make 
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Make sure she felt pleasure and 
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Experience because she got off 
on hers and so that normalize 

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the fact that hey, it doesn't 
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have to be abusive and it 
doesn't have to be a not fun 

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experience because these women 
are in these books being praised

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for owning their sexuality and 
they were loving it and so that 

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made me put me into a world that
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experiencing at that time when I
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I also think about the old 
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day and I feel like now there Is
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It's not your mother's typical. 
Now, romantic novels like, we're

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getting into some real ass 
fucking, yes, I don't know. 

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It's like for me, I like to 
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I don't find it corny at all. 
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sounds and, you know, as it's 
painting the picture through, 

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you know, words or lyricism, 
because even listening to dirty 

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spoken word, it takes me to a 
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know? 
So I got it. 

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First of all, I got to take a 
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because I was looking at the 
pictures I was looking at your 

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description, and I'm just like, 
oh yeah, this is different. 

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This is definitely different 
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and I don't know if that's also,
because right now, I'm seeing a 

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shift with black owned 
businesses in the wellness, 

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sexual Wellness Community, but 
you are tapping into. 

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I don't want to say the Urban 
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that's kind of light we races 
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You want to say Urban to, right?
It's like, okay, just call for 

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what it is. 
It's a black market, yes. 

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Okay, it's black sex. 
You could say black, you are 

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tapping into black folks because
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feel like we're still trying to 
find our space, our place and 

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where we fit in with sexuality, 
do you feel that? 

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Yes. 
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And I think a lot of that goes 
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slavery as well and Ah, how 
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oppressors took our sexuality 
and afro synchronism, and they 

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weaponized it against us and in 
a way to survive, you try to fit

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in a box that the majority 
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And so, they either 
over-sexualized us or they had 

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us in this depiction of what 
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Like, the Miami, which is what 
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And so in that, I feel like a 
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ourselves Our police to others 
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safety and survival reasons. 
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coming out of that, it's kind of
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then also to like I feel like 
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touched by the black church, is 
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And there's a lot of Purity 
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fear taught based education 
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Health, then pleasure and 
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So I think that also makes it 
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So we're kind of trying to 
battle our past of generational 

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kind of like issues will help 
how the I'm trying to think of a

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positive number positive work 
but a better politically correct

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word the pressures put on us and
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carried that on and how breaking
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Because I did talk to a sex 
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The actually talked about how 
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their mid-20s, are about to get 
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them so good. 
Rate affects almost married and 

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didn't understand like, how am I
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When I get in my marriage was 
just supposed to be fun for the 

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right time to do it. 
They were still afraid. 

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It is kind of fascinating how 
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It's like we push the culture, 
especially in Black Culture, get

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married first, have the babies, 
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statistics, of course, which are
always against us. 

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You know, people keep saying 
like, oh, you know, pregnancy is

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still high amongst the black 
community when it actually 

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really He isn't it's not okay 
you know unwanted pregnancies 

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and even teenage pregnancies in 
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significantly decreased but 
there's such a sexual stigma 

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against diet. 
You add that guy in the fear of 

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the fact that you have girls out
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We called loose running around 
Wild and Free and I'm like you 

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can be loose and still 
empowering your body. 

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Exactly. 
What are we teaching? 

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The message here and then you 
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sexuality. 
Okay, well, Then we place, 

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folks, like ourselves in a box 
where where the freaks were the 

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hose and we're not allowed to 
reclaim it, we're different. 

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Yeah. 
So then it makes you think like 

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overall, okay, where is the 
space and protection for us when

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it comes to Black sexuality, or 
when it comes to, you know, 

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businesses like yourself who are
targeting specifically the black

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women who are oppressed 
sexually, how can you make them?

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Not feel like these. 
Sexual freaks. 

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You know, in the degrading 
manner, when everybody else is 

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calling us freaks for consuming 
it. 

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Yes, it's for framing. 
The thought process of it is 

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definitely re owning and 
reclaiming it kind of like what 

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we did with the N word it's just
reclaiming Andre owning our 

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sexuality and going back to Our 
Roots like even the first ever 

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black drag queen back in the 
1800's was an African. 

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So it's just going bad relooking
at that doing the history 

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lessons behind that. 
Audrey Lord has a lot of amazing

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stuff. 
That means we should go back and

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look at in womanism in general. 
Just really looking at it. 

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And then using that as an 
educational tool to redefine how

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we look at black sexuality, I 
think it within itself is 

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empowering of it and then us 
reclaim their like we don't have

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to be over sexualized. 
And we don't have to be seen as 

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not sexual beings. 
We can be in the middle like 

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everyone else. 
And we can do to stop that 

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thought process and 
communication because I was 

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talking about talk to my other 
friend, with dating and how It's

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okay to be a little bit more 
aggressive and shooting her 

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shot. 
And she's I was like a lot of 

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by, you know, our white sisters 
do that. 

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And it's not seen as bad. 
And she's like, well, I, you 

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know, it's just different for 
them. 

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I'm like, it's different for 
them because we put that 

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narrative out there, that part 
we're doing it. 

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Yes, if we're doing it, then it 
becomes a normal and it becomes 

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more complex Espina that mindset
to because you know, September 

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is a lot of things for 
sexuality. 

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I just found out that there's 
this thing about September is 

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take a man. 
On a date month. 

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Yeah. 
And that's becoming like a 

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divide in Black Twitter right 
now of whether or not, you know,

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that's acceptable because there 
is that mindset and I have to 

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say like, again, we're not 
seeing far from our topic, which

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is all about Flex sexuality in 
the spaces that we own. 

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Because this ties in, I really 
just We've always been we've 

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always been sexual and lyrics 
and lyricism, okay? 

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Women telling guys, with the 
fuck they want, you know, Lil 

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Kim, the Foxy Brown's. 
But now I'm seeing this Dynamic 

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shift with black women, where 
we're demanding our reparations,

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through our coochie. 
And I'm like, what message are 

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you trying to say? 
I can't 100% get back to this? 

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You know what I mean? 
Like, this is why people in 

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sexual spaces do not As black 
women in Maine and queer. 

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Folk the same at time. 
Yeah. 

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Like, listen. 
Go out and make your money off 

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your coochie, please. 
But Billy do not put it in the 

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name of reparations. 
Okay. 

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Keep the fetishization out of 
that, because yes, I understand 

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there's, you know, the fin Dom 
and you know, there are 

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dominatrixes out there who, you 
know, seek out week white men or

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what a white clients. 
It's who will grovel and say, 

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you know, they're going to pay 
the reparations and pay what's 

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owed, that's fine but don't put 
us all in that category. 

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Hey Rooney, for the sex positive
folk who are like listen I'm all

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about you know, I'm a fucking 
give me some money but I make my

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own money to, I'm not lazy. 
You know, I agree with that. 

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I've seen that too and I'll be 
scrolling. 

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It's like it's doing the exact 
opposite. 

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Like okay, listen city girls and
making the stallion and cardi B.

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Like can y'all just I can't 
y'all need to cool it down. 

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Please dial it back. 
Okay, like we we had our foot in

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the door. 
People were listening. 

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Yeah. 
Now, I don't know. 

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Oh my God. 
It's just a weird shift in Black

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erotica, right now I just Cannot
get down with it all like talk 

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about here. 
Yeah. 

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It's like talk about wet ass 
pussy, but talk about how 

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phenomenal and Powerful the 
pussy is at all times. 

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Yes. 
Okay. 

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Stop demanding and demand 
through the power of pussy. 

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Yeah, if that makes sense. 
Yeah, that does. 

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I definitely agree with that. 
Oh, I'm glad because it's just 

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like it annoys me sometimes and 
it's like I don't want to say 

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this is why Again, black Mane 
may be turned off to us, because

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it shouldn't be that way. 
Because if they can be just as 

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sexual, why can't we? 
Yes, exactly. 

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But also to tear playing some of
those, I'm saying a lot on 

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spiritual word and the shape 
room, some of the black, male 

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relationship, talk show. 
And I feel like that too. 

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Is also putting a bad message 
after I listened to some stuff 

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and I'm like, wait, are you 
talking about and no, no. 

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The hotel. 
The hotel could shut it down. 

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Okay. 
I don't need a man telling me, 

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as a black woman. 
What I should be doing with my 

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black pussy. 
Exactly. 

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I agree because you don't want 
to hear what I want you to do 

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with your black dick. 
Exactly. 

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I agree 1,000 per second if so 
where is the negative stigma on 

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that? 
And then it's like you come into

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the spaces of again, audio 
erotica. 

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A safe haven for black women and
now I'm noticing Noticing there 

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are main trying to come it up in
that and they're doing it for 

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all the wrong reasons and I'm 
like, there's no Romanticism. 

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Not every woman wants to be 
fucked, another, not every 

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vagina wants to be penetrated 
the way that you want it to be. 

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Exactly. 
Exactly 100%. 

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And I think that's like the 
power of why I do see here, more

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and gravitate my body, more 
towards the feminine energy that

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erotica brings because when a 
man steps into it and even 

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though I am dating a man, Or 
love with the man. 

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It just doesn't hit the same. 
Yes, there's actually been a lot

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of Articles I've even read. 
Just about erotic literature 

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engineer in general. 
They talk about how women 

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writers write the best sex. 
Yeah. 

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Even they write the best sexy, 
whether it's em on em, like, 

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whatever John wrote, women tend 
to write the best sex. 

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And so I think that's because a 
lot of times typically women 

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approach sex from an intimacy, 
respect as well. 

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We don't just focus on the 
actual sexual act and we focus 

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on every component that goes 
into it. 

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What is your advice for men out 
there? 

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Who really want to switch it up 
and, you know, want to tap into 

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their feminine power. 
But they also feel like they're 

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not allowed to because I feel 
like every man should be allowed

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to tap into their feminine side 
with their partners and I feel 

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like we don't talk about 
vulnerability enough. 

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Yeah, until it's like, smack. 
Dab in the face. 

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Like, I love hearing that. 
Couples are now not just 

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watching porn together but 
listening to porn together. 

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Yeah. 
Or they're recording themselves 

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not you know video but audio and
I'm like, oh I need to do that. 

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I'm not used to do that for ear 
play purposes. 

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You don't have to get consent 
and all but you know now I'm 

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kind of like oh I would want to 
record my sex and give myself a 

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play-by-play with my partner 
next. 

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I hope you're taking notes in 
there. 

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You got to tell my man off are, 
you know, I really I feel like 

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audio eroticism now has like 
open the doors for especially 

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for couples who don't want to 
watch porn, but they don't want 

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to watch themselves and they 
also don't want to consume maybe

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in reading about it. 
So they feel that the audio 

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itself would enhance. 
So for men out there R who want 

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to please now or I am talking 
about the male lead 

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relationships to their female 
cotton counterparts are vulva 

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counterpart owner. 
She hydrosis not so much. 

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My same-sex will get into you in
a second because I feel also. 

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The Dynamics are different when 
you have the same genders in the

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same room but for men who are 
trying to ease their lady in to 

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eroticism, what would you 
suggest that they do especially 

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on the levels of eroticism? 
With audio. 

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I think something sexy would be 
is them recording themselves, 

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telling them how to touch 
themselves. 

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Like I feel like if they record 
kind of like, do it like a sexy 

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playlist but their voice over it
and tell him think about me and 

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this fantasy while you touch 
yourself and give them 

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directions on how to touch 
themselves kind of doing like 

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mutual masturbation but through 
the ears. 

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And then also too I think for 
men, It is, it's a lot about 

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communication, right? 
Like, I know a lot of my male 

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friends are like, oh well, I 
don't want to ask about that or 

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talk about that fantasy or 
desire and come off looking like

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a creep. 
But I'm like, I promise you not 

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attend times. 
She'll probably be like, oh my 

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gosh. 
I wanted to try that, too. 

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So, don't be afraid to 
communicate that. 

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And then also, too. 
I feel like, um, mix it up by 

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doing like vacations, which it 
doesn't have to be like, you 

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have to actually go away, 
anywhere, cleaning and stuff, 

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and then never stop dating the 
Singer wit like whether it's a 

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long-term relationship. 
Are you just been having like 

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when I was younger I used to 
have consistent fuck buddies. 

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Like I'd be like kind of in a 
monogamous relationship with 

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these fuck buddies like we would
just only exclusively have sex 

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with each other, but we didn't 
feel the restraints of a 

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relationship and so sometimes 
it's fun. 

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It's do like sex days, switch it
up like do it somewhere, 

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different learning, our new role
playing what in and stuff like 

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that. 
So I think that's two is don't 

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be afraid to ask what you want 
in the bedroom, even asked some 

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milk. 
So, I know sometimes you guys 

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are geared away and you I want 
to scare your partner away and 

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then just do different sects 
days. 

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Like I don't love it. 
Like playing a little sex date, 

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a little sex seemed like that 
since it's aren't you? 

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That I love that. 
It always have to be the woman 

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coming, you know, doing it all 
vice versa to. 

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It doesn't always have to be the
man. 

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Like, ladies. 
I think we do need to start 

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truly, truly speaking up for 
what the fuck we want in the 

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bedroom? 
Yes. 

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Okay. 
And that even goes from our 

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queer folks to because 
especially non-binary. 

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Three, asexuals, you know, even 
though you might not have a 

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sexual mindset, please speak up 
and what you want to enhance 

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your relationship and know that 
your relationship doesn't always

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have to be sex centered. 
Sometimes the sexiest things in 

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a relationship, don't have to be
sexual. 

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Yes, exactly. 
Sometimes, you know, the 

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simplest things that we do in 
our relationships day in and day

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out. 
Become the sexiest thing. 

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Yeah. 
Cleaning the dishes after thank 

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you, do I Of it. 
When my man cleaned up the 

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kitchen, I'm looking out a nice 
kitchen this morning. 

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It's great, didn't have to ask, 
you know, he's helping me with 

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the bathroom like we're cleaning
together and it's sexy to me 

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that he's taking that initiative
and vice versa like your 

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partner. 
It's a partnership coming into 

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Hannah and just speaking for 
what you want. 

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And again bringing it back to 
eroticism through oral 

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stimulation and I'm talking 
about are not eared. 

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I'm not talking about the mouth.
Okay, or your ears eroticism 

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hearing those affirmations of 
love hearing the Gratitude 

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hearing what your partner truly 
wants day in and day out. 

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That's A build-up to your erotic
fantasies right there. 

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Yes. 
Speaking folks need to learn how

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to talk and be vulnerable. 
I'm always using that word 

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vulnerable. 
If somebody wants to make a 

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drinking game out of this pie, I
cast please kids like 

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vulnerability and communication 
are the two things I'm always 

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talking about? 
Yeah, no matter what, so for you

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with your partners, do you ever 
read off your stories? 

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That's like a test? 
Do you test your crack? 

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So my current partner right now,
they actually read all my 

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stories for me before I recorded
them. 

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Ye shall give me something and 
sometimes I will sneak and 

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little parts of our sex life. 
In it, like, in this past story 

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that call her dirty girl and 
that's something I like to be 

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called in the bedroom. 
You know, I'm gonna ask you for 

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a little, you know, and ask you 
for some taste. 

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You gotta give the earbuds to 
taste a why they need some La in

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their life. 
Yes, absolutely. 

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Yeah. 
Not to cut you off there because

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now I could see it like, ladies 
and gentlemen, you can't see it,

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but this girl is gleaming ear to
ear. 

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It is radiant she got a glow 
now, she can't Look at her, she 

448
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:21,600
can't. 
She's speechless. 

449
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:26,700
She can't even speak now. 
Yes, so like I drop little Jones

450
00:25:26,700 --> 00:25:29,100
from there, like, hell no. 
And I'm like, oh, you went 

451
00:25:29,100 --> 00:25:30,600
there. 
I see is something that, you 

452
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,100
know, and so it's just fun stuff
like that. 

453
00:25:33,100 --> 00:25:37,600
And, um, I also used in also, 
to, I don't use names or 

454
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,700
anything, but I think that's my 
old sexual experiences when I'm 

455
00:25:40,700 --> 00:25:43,400
writing and I'll drop those in 
there as well. 

456
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:47,700
And one of my, my past excess, 
he was like oh I listen to one 

457
00:25:47,700 --> 00:25:49,800
of your stories and it sounded 
awfully familiar. 

458
00:25:50,500 --> 00:25:54,000
Laugh about it but I love that. 
I love that. 

459
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,000
Yeah. 
But um, it was just yeah. 

460
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,300
Just all right. 
And I feel like anyone to can 

461
00:25:59,300 --> 00:26:01,300
like it kind of helps to what 
Dirty Talk. 

462
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,800
Hmm. 
So the more erotic literature, I

463
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:10,200
listened to our read, it made me
really into dirty talk and so 

464
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,700
that's one of my biggest things.
So I think four players should 

465
00:26:12,700 --> 00:26:15,800
happen all day and one of the 
ways to do that is sending like 

466
00:26:15,900 --> 00:26:19,600
sexy messages to your partner. 
Can you please see that again? 

467
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,100
What you just said. 
Said about foreplay for Summer 

468
00:26:22,100 --> 00:26:23,700
Place. 
Should happen all day. 

469
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,500
Thank you. 
Okay cuz you know when we're 

470
00:26:28,500 --> 00:26:32,200
talking about the physicality of
foreplay, I was just doing a 

471
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,500
radio segment for an l.a. 
station on here. 

472
00:26:34,900 --> 00:26:38,600
And you know, they were asking 
me what like is the longest that

473
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:42,300
you should do for play? 
And I said, well basically it's 

474
00:26:42,300 --> 00:26:45,700
like a tie I believe I said 8 
and 13 minutes eight minutes for

475
00:26:45,700 --> 00:26:50,800
females and 13 minutes for the 
guys because too long it's gonna

476
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,100
it's gonna blow the shit up. 
Yeah. 

477
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:58,000
But when you do, Play. 
We also tend to forget like you 

478
00:26:58,008 --> 00:27:02,400
said, it's an all-day thing from
that, good morning, text all the

479
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,200
way through that. 
Lunchtime text. 

480
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,900
I'm thinking about you to all 
the sudden, I'm on my way home. 

481
00:27:08,100 --> 00:27:09,700
It's just saying, I'm on my way 
home. 

482
00:27:09,700 --> 00:27:12,100
You should say desserts 
marinating. 

483
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,700
Oh yeah, I love that. 
Okay. 

484
00:27:15,100 --> 00:27:18,800
Dessert will be ready when you 
get home tonight. 

485
00:27:18,900 --> 00:27:21,300
We're gonna have dessert and 
then dinner. 

486
00:27:21,900 --> 00:27:24,900
Exactly built that. 
Anticipation something cute. 

487
00:27:25,100 --> 00:27:28,600
The Sexual Energy going guys. 
It doesn't have to be 

488
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,800
physicality, ladies and 
gentlemen, it doesn't even have 

489
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,500
to be photos of yourself. 
My man, and I, we do for play 

490
00:27:35,500 --> 00:27:38,600
throughout the day where he'll 
send me little Pinterest, 

491
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:43,400
erotica, art, cartoons, the 
other night, he was showing me 

492
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:47,200
different pictures of these 
beautiful gorgeous black women. 

493
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:53,900
Just I mean in all types of 
nasty, I mean showing me covered

494
00:27:53,900 --> 00:27:57,200
coated faces. 
In big titties dripping. 

495
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,000
Oh yeah. 
Okay, or just like in the 

496
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,000
bathtub. 
It was just oh, just painting 

497
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,300
out a picture and I'm like, 
yeah, I'll see you want this 

498
00:28:04,300 --> 00:28:06,100
tonight. 
Okay, cool. 

499
00:28:06,300 --> 00:28:10,100
I think we can provide, I think 
we can strategize on this. 

500
00:28:10,100 --> 00:28:15,100
I can't guarantee my boobs will 
sit up as perky as hers but yes,

501
00:28:15,100 --> 00:28:16,700
coat my face. 
Okay? 

502
00:28:16,700 --> 00:28:19,200
Yes. 
Yes, you know, just a little ebb

503
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:24,600
and flow that I think is the 
best sending we pay phones, have

504
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:31,300
audio. messaging now, Send off 
that message instead of just 

505
00:28:31,300 --> 00:28:36,000
typing it out, let your partner 
hear the breathing of 

506
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,500
anticipation and wanting and 
desire. 

507
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,400
Give them a little sexy voice 
know. 

508
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:45,700
Just to say, I'm thinking about 
you from last night, I'd love 

509
00:28:45,700 --> 00:28:50,500
round 3, 4 5, Give them that. 
Nice tone. 

510
00:28:50,500 --> 00:28:51,900
Yeah, I'm giving you the radio 
voice. 

511
00:28:51,900 --> 00:28:57,400
Now give a little something 
something, I feel like little 

512
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,700
foreplay does go a long way. 
I feel personally. 

513
00:29:02,300 --> 00:29:04,500
It's gas and dance. 
It's the best. 

514
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:10,300
So going back to your business 
and what set you aside? 

515
00:29:10,300 --> 00:29:13,500
What would you say, why people 
should get on the train of 

516
00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:18,700
LaLa's bedtime, tales versus 
other audio, erotica, apps apps 

517
00:29:18,700 --> 00:29:23,900
out there. 
So it's a few reasons, um, and 

518
00:29:23,900 --> 00:29:26,700
makes like my whole platform. 
I makes education with 

519
00:29:26,700 --> 00:29:30,600
entertainment. 
I bring on guest blog 

520
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,900
contributors and I Interviews 
with licensed therapist and 

521
00:29:34,900 --> 00:29:37,500
medical professionals to make 
sure I'm getting out 

522
00:29:37,500 --> 00:29:41,400
comprehensive and accurate 
information. 

523
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,700
I try to make sure it's female 
and then especially black women 

524
00:29:45,700 --> 00:29:48,700
if I can, add that layer because
I feel like you don't see often 

525
00:29:48,700 --> 00:29:52,100
enough enough. 
People that look like us in the 

526
00:29:52,100 --> 00:29:54,600
medical profession and therapy 
and I feel like it's, he saw 

527
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,600
more of us that make us more 
open to going and seeking those 

528
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,400
Services. 
Because for my own personal 

529
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,600
experience I think it's just 
different and more relatable, 

530
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,300
when You can get a provider that
looks like your information from

531
00:30:05,300 --> 00:30:09,800
a provider that looks like you. 
And then also what sets me apart

532
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:14,200
is oftentimes like with Dipsy 
and you get a lot of the sound 

533
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,800
effects of the moaning and the 
sexual noises but not always 

534
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:21,700
like the storyline and then on 
podcast I've listened to you get

535
00:30:21,700 --> 00:30:25,500
the story but you don't get a 
lot of the moaning or the music.

536
00:30:25,500 --> 00:30:28,400
And so I brought that together 
as best as possible. 

537
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:32,500
And so I give you the storyline 
and then I also give The music 

538
00:30:32,500 --> 00:30:34,300
and I gave you the sound effects
with it. 

539
00:30:34,500 --> 00:30:37,400
So, that's what sets me apart 
is. 

540
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,700
I'm mixing for sexual health 
education with the 

541
00:30:39,700 --> 00:30:43,500
entertainment. 
I love that years ago. 

542
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:47,800
I used to call it sexual 
edutainment because I want to 

543
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,900
make sure that you are turned 
on, but you're going to learn 

544
00:30:50,900 --> 00:30:53,400
something and be entertained at 
the same time. 

545
00:30:53,700 --> 00:30:57,400
And so that's always being like 
sapphires are played like 

546
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,800
mission is just to, you know, 
provide are guy zooms through 

547
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,000
sexual and Amen. 
People like sexuality Taemin. 

548
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,600
What the hell? 
So we're in like-minded Souls. 

549
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,100
I love that. 
I love that and bring it back to

550
00:31:09,100 --> 00:31:13,700
Mountain to mental Wellness 
because it's important. 

551
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,300
It's very important. 
Especially in our community, 

552
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:21,100
that we continue the 
conversations and normalizing 

553
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,600
black mental Wellness. 
Yes. 

554
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,200
And black self-care. 
You know, we hear it all the 

555
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:28,200
time. 
We heard it. 

556
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:33,900
You know, showcased in insecure.
You know, Molly in d.c. used to 

557
00:31:33,900 --> 00:31:37,000
have their self-care Sundays and
we hear it on the blog's all the

558
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,800
time. 
Yes. 

559
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,000
I highly suggest people start 
adding audio. 

560
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:47,000
Erotica to that self-care 
doesn't just have to be, I'ma be

561
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,300
in the bathtub listening to my 
favorite, you know, music, 

562
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,900
listen to your favorite erotica.
Yes, Syd. 

563
00:31:53,900 --> 00:31:57,300
That's a champagne Mimosa, with 
the little drip of orange juice 

564
00:31:57,300 --> 00:31:59,300
that Splash. 
Okay. 

565
00:31:59,500 --> 00:32:03,600
And let the bubbles of the body.
The Bubble Up Inside you. 

566
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,400
I don't know what I was going 
with their, the bubbles of the 

567
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,600
champagne mixed in with the 
bubbles of your bubble bath. 

568
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,700
I guess your body. 
There you go pop. 

569
00:32:11,700 --> 00:32:14,700
There we go. 
Making it pop, I love that. 

570
00:32:14,700 --> 00:32:17,000
Yes. 
But I want I want people to 

571
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,800
especially like bringing it 
black black, bring it back. 

572
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,500
I need my black women and my 
black queers out there to 

573
00:32:25,500 --> 00:32:30,200
understand that it is. 
Okay to feel sexy, it is okay to

574
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,800
step out and Let your freak flag
fly. 

575
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,500
I want to see more people 
talking about BDSM. 

576
00:32:38,100 --> 00:32:40,500
Yes. 
Especially Bobby, D sub. 

577
00:32:40,500 --> 00:32:42,600
I want people to step outside 
the box. 

578
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:48,000
And, you know, it's not just 
about the Mandingo dick that I 

579
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,200
see at the strip club because I 
feel like, you know, like, 

580
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:55,400
listen, I'm not gonna disrespect
Zane because Zane did the way 

581
00:32:55,700 --> 00:32:58,100
she did, but she did have a lot 
of that, I know exactly what 

582
00:32:58,100 --> 00:33:00,900
you're talking, you know, it's 
like, I'm not trying to, like 

583
00:33:00,900 --> 00:33:02,000
degrade ourselves. 
Yes. 

584
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:07,800
But you know Zane only tapped in
briefly to a certain side of 

585
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,900
black female erotica. 
Yeah, you know and even with 

586
00:33:10,900 --> 00:33:15,200
purple panties, which was her 
you know, lesbian eroticism. 

587
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,700
There was still that aspect 
where was like you're catering 

588
00:33:18,700 --> 00:33:23,200
to straight women, who are you? 
Curious about women but you 

589
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,300
weren't really tapping into the 
studs. 

590
00:33:25,300 --> 00:33:29,700
You weren't really tapping in to
our and bees who are non-binary 

591
00:33:30,100 --> 00:33:35,300
and, you know, do not Have a 
certain aspect of feminine and 

592
00:33:35,300 --> 00:33:40,600
masculine any there, just them. 
You know, we didn't tap into 

593
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,800
that but now we're seeing it 
more with folks, like yourself 

594
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,600
providing that I was reading 
some of your stuff that you put 

595
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,600
down for pride and I'm like, 
damn, she's got a tap-in some 

596
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,400
more with some queer sex. 
Yes. 

597
00:33:54,500 --> 00:34:01,500
Because and yeah, that's my goal
to is to get more of that 

598
00:34:01,500 --> 00:34:05,700
perspective in my writing as 
well as like everyone. 

599
00:34:05,700 --> 00:34:09,500
You have friends, family members
that I And if I in the queer 

600
00:34:09,500 --> 00:34:13,600
community and so when I'm 
writing some of my parts to 

601
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:17,400
discuss that I reach out and I 
asked my friends, I'm like, tell

602
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,800
me about it, I'll be like tell 
me like one of your sexiest 

603
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,600
stories and all this stuff and 
they'll do it and that's how I 

604
00:34:22,607 --> 00:34:24,900
get information. 
So it's definitely important to 

605
00:34:24,900 --> 00:34:28,600
give voice. 
And as also to is why when I 

606
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:33,699
write, when I finally write a 
girl-on-girl, a specific I want 

607
00:34:33,699 --> 00:34:38,300
someone of that Community to 
come in and tell that story. 

608
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,400
Saying when I do my lawn now I 
want someone in that Community 

609
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,800
to come in and tell that story. 
Absolutely. 

610
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:47,000
Because those voices are so 
important to hear and I was 

611
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,000
also, when you look at like 
Hollywood and stuff, like when 

612
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:53,600
they get people, not of that 
cult read that, that group, our 

613
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,100
community, that marginalized 
Community to come and do it. 

614
00:34:56,100 --> 00:34:59,100
It's just like, why why? 
You know, I was actually kind of

615
00:34:59,100 --> 00:35:02,400
heartbroken. 
You watch P Valley, right? 

616
00:35:02,700 --> 00:35:05,000
No, I need to get started, but 
oh, my gosh. 

617
00:35:05,100 --> 00:35:08,300
Okay, so I don't want to spoil 
too too much and I don't want to

618
00:35:08,500 --> 00:35:11,500
How much for the earbuds we 
haven't seen season 2, which 

619
00:35:11,500 --> 00:35:16,200
just ended, but I was truly 
truly heartbroken to find out 

620
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,900
that Martyrs character in real 
life was straight. 

621
00:35:20,500 --> 00:35:26,000
And now, people are questioning 
his sexuality because of how 

622
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,700
graphic, like the things that 
you can take away and probably 

623
00:35:29,700 --> 00:35:33,600
put two and two together is that
this season Happy Valley really 

624
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:38,200
tapped in to an uncomfortable 
level for some folks of blacks, 

625
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:42,900
Sexuality, especially amongst 
Main and, you know, possible 

626
00:35:42,900 --> 00:35:46,500
transgendered women. 
Now, uncle Clifford doesn't 

627
00:35:46,500 --> 00:35:51,400
identify as trans, but, you 
know, just happen to their 

628
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,700
feminine energy. 
To where it could be. 

629
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,500
Is he trans? 
You know? 

630
00:35:57,500 --> 00:36:00,000
Is you know, what is this 
Dynamic? 

631
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,500
And I thought it was beautiful 
but then you know you got 

632
00:36:02,500 --> 00:36:07,400
rappers like Plies and Bootsy, 
oh my gosh. 

633
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,600
Who just got busy. 
Oh my God. 

634
00:36:10,700 --> 00:36:11,900
Lucy. 
You know why? 

635
00:36:11,900 --> 00:36:15,100
It low-key. 
I think he's gay and it's just 

636
00:36:15,100 --> 00:36:20,600
like he finds the comfort in 
suppressing gay sex. 

637
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,800
Yeah, cuz he does he does 
protested a little too much way 

638
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,700
too much when you get that 
strongly. 

639
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,200
You know that strongly like anti
something. 

640
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,800
I'm like what what is the back 
by, right? 

641
00:36:32,900 --> 00:36:35,600
And if it makes you that 
uncomfortable, why do you keep 

642
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,900
coming back week after week? 
Because this motherfucking 

643
00:36:37,900 --> 00:36:43,200
little Literally, with some of 
the entire episode of P Valley 

644
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,500
every week and I'm like 
motherfucking, if you are that 

645
00:36:45,500 --> 00:36:48,600
uncomfortable turn it off. 
So, clearly, something turns you

646
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,600
on, exactly. 
He's liking it. 

647
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,700
Yeah. 
If you can give me a whole 

648
00:36:53,700 --> 00:36:57,200
fucking rundown of, you know, 
Uncle Clifford and murder. 

649
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,100
Smash and cheeks. 
Yeah. 

650
00:36:59,100 --> 00:37:01,700
A little small detail. 
But again you see it on the 

651
00:37:01,700 --> 00:37:03,000
Black Box? 
You can't? 

652
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,200
Excuse me? 
Yeah. 

653
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,400
Okay. 
The first time they have sex and

654
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,500
you were talking about 
Uncomfortable you are but you 

655
00:37:09,500 --> 00:37:12,500
came back the following week to 
comment some more. 

656
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,400
You like this shit and it's 
okay. 

657
00:37:15,900 --> 00:37:17,600
I'm not trying to out you my 
brother. 

658
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,700
I'm trying to tell you like it's
okay to be gay. 

659
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:23,800
Yes, it's okay. 
It's okay. 

660
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,700
It's okay. 
It's okay if it turned him on 

661
00:37:26,700 --> 00:37:28,600
it's okay. 
I completely understand. 

662
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,500
Yes. 
And if it turns you on as a 

663
00:37:30,500 --> 00:37:33,800
straight man like that doesn't 
mean you're gonna go out and 

664
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,100
smash the man's ass cheeks. 
That's just something that turns

665
00:37:37,100 --> 00:37:38,900
you on. 
Exactly. 

666
00:37:38,900 --> 00:37:43,100
Yeah, I think that's also why I 
do like audio eroticism to 

667
00:37:43,100 --> 00:37:46,800
because it does allow people to 
get turned on in ways that they 

668
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,900
probably would never be able to 
in their real life. 

669
00:37:50,500 --> 00:37:53,600
Yeah bringing it all back it 
does paint a different picture 

670
00:37:53,800 --> 00:38:00,200
because you know, even when I 
was questioning my sexuality I 

671
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:05,400
was always so intuitive to the 
male and female but more so the 

672
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,200
response that the female was 
getting. 

673
00:38:07,900 --> 00:38:10,500
Yes. 
I was never really like if I 

674
00:38:10,500 --> 00:38:14,900
look back on it I was really 
never turned on by the man. 

675
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,000
Fucking it was always the 
response of the female or, you 

676
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:23,900
know, just like admiring the 
vulva and the boobs of the porn 

677
00:38:23,900 --> 00:38:26,800
that was being shown. 
I could give a fuck left about 

678
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:31,900
the guy that's pumping I 100%, I
agree with you. 

679
00:38:31,900 --> 00:38:36,100
I I like that to about when I 
watch porn. 

680
00:38:36,100 --> 00:38:39,800
I'm like I can't get off unless 
you know it's a female with her 

681
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,600
her boobs and everything like 
that turns me on and 

682
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,300
pornography. 
Yes. 

683
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,900
And then he's just like again 
when you take it out to the 

684
00:38:47,900 --> 00:38:51,500
audio side of it it's like I 
don't want to hear a man, come. 

685
00:38:51,500 --> 00:38:53,700
I want to hear the woman's. 
Yeah. 

686
00:38:53,700 --> 00:38:58,100
Shortness of breath. 
And the ammonia moans or even 

687
00:38:58,100 --> 00:39:01,000
how she gets animal is? 
Ticking growls, you know, when 

688
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,700
Jax really, I don't know. 
It's just like men have just a 

689
00:39:04,700 --> 00:39:09,400
one dulcet tone. 
I feel sometimes unless it's 

690
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,100
like a gay porn or you know 
someone who's just not afraid to

691
00:39:13,107 --> 00:39:16,600
be vocal. 
I'm like always like no. 

692
00:39:17,300 --> 00:39:20,200
No, no, no. 
Let me hear the female now or 

693
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,600
let me get the leg. 
Really twink Ashish got it. 

694
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,600
Like guy in the porn. 
Let me hear him. 

695
00:39:26,300 --> 00:39:28,800
It's just something about that. 
It's a softness to it. 

696
00:39:28,900 --> 00:39:32,200
So Often aside as software 
software side is sex. 

697
00:39:32,900 --> 00:39:35,600
So, let's see. 
There was something else I 

698
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,300
wanted to get more into when it 
talks about, you know, black 

699
00:39:39,300 --> 00:39:44,000
sexuality and where we are. 
Now as someone who is a provider

700
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:48,000
in these spaces, what would you 
want to see more with black 

701
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,000
sexuality? 
Like where do you think we can 

702
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:53,700
go from here? 
Because yes we're tapping in 

703
00:39:53,700 --> 00:39:57,600
more with, you know, shout out 
to be condoms who has an 

704
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:01,500
excellent, you know. 
Excellent Mission. 

705
00:40:01,500 --> 00:40:05,000
And just the fact that they are 
really tapping into the stores 

706
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:09,900
that you know the black markets 
are at like thank you. 

707
00:40:10,100 --> 00:40:11,800
Yeah. 
Like when they caught the deal 

708
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,600
with Walmart and Target and I 
was like finally we have condoms

709
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:17,400
for ourselves. 
Yep. 

710
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:22,000
You know now let's get into more
black owned sex toys. 

711
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,700
Yes. 
Not Jess. 

712
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,400
Black toy sex providers. 
Yes. 

713
00:40:27,700 --> 00:40:29,900
I want to see more audio 
Erotica. 

714
00:40:29,900 --> 00:40:32,500
So when I found out of your 
business and you reaching out to

715
00:40:32,500 --> 00:40:35,900
me, I was like holy shit. 
I don't think I think at this 

716
00:40:35,900 --> 00:40:39,800
point and I could be wrong, but 
I feel like you are the only 

717
00:40:39,900 --> 00:40:44,100
black female lead business on 
this side. 

718
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:49,100
But I could be wrong, I would 
have to look more into it. 

719
00:40:49,100 --> 00:40:53,400
But the ones that I've seen they
have not been they have 

720
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,900
typically been white women. 
Mmm, you're right. 

721
00:40:57,900 --> 00:41:00,400
Not I think about it like yes, 
haven't really seen you? 

722
00:41:00,500 --> 00:41:03,700
Yeah, it's like yes these, You 
Know audio providers. 

723
00:41:03,700 --> 00:41:08,800
Do have black voices? 
Yes, but it's also a very Niche.

724
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,200
Yes, you know, I don't see a lot
of people on the Spectrum. 

725
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:17,000
I don't see my All figured women
like yourself la la. 

726
00:41:17,500 --> 00:41:18,900
Yeah. 
You know, not to single that 

727
00:41:18,900 --> 00:41:22,400
out, but it is a part of 
representation that matters. 

728
00:41:22,900 --> 00:41:24,900
Yes. 
Just like, you know, in these 

729
00:41:24,900 --> 00:41:28,700
black sexuality spaces, not 
every person that partakes in 

730
00:41:28,700 --> 00:41:34,700
polyamory or BDSM or any other 
alternative lifestyle is this 

731
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:40,700
you know Amazonian woman or 
she's a supermodel you know yes 

732
00:41:40,700 --> 00:41:45,800
we tap in more to the spectrum 
of people who Or just normal, 

733
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,200
not even. 
Oh, naturally face, I love that.

734
00:41:49,300 --> 00:41:53,800
I love that aspect or black 
touch, black touches, another 

735
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:59,900
porn company all black from 
their curators to, you know, the

736
00:41:59,900 --> 00:42:02,300
actors, the actresses, those who
write the scripts. 

737
00:42:02,300 --> 00:42:06,800
I think it's great that here, we
have a porn company that is for 

738
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,500
us. 
Yeah, that is amazing. 

739
00:42:09,500 --> 00:42:12,000
I hadn't heard a black touch. 
I know I've heard of like King 

740
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,000
Noir and his wife. 
Oh yes, Jetson and Jasmine. 

741
00:42:15,100 --> 00:42:23,100
You had them on a computer. 
It's good, it's good. 

742
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:27,400
Black touch I got in touch with 
them last year actually and 

743
00:42:27,500 --> 00:42:31,600
again it's a great just form of 
real porn. 

744
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:36,000
It's none of this like bullshit.
It's real couples, real Partners

745
00:42:36,300 --> 00:42:41,200
going at it solo. 
And it's Tastefully dying and 

746
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,400
it's not like, you know, some 
running, the bill porn company 

747
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:50,100
from back in the day like the 
quality is very very chefs kiss.

748
00:42:51,500 --> 00:42:54,100
But yeah, it's moving forward. 
What would you want to see more 

749
00:42:54,100 --> 00:42:56,200
in these spaces that are 
evolving? 

750
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,100
Like what could we do more what 
could we do more as a black 

751
00:43:00,100 --> 00:43:05,300
community and what can you know,
our our white counterparts are 

752
00:43:05,300 --> 00:43:07,700
non melanin. 
Folks what can they do as 

753
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,800
Allyship to help get these 
voices across. 

754
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:15,500
So my number one, what I would 
love to see, more of which I am 

755
00:43:15,500 --> 00:43:18,000
seeing a little bit. 
More Oz is more talk about Kink 

756
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:22,800
exploration and fetishes within 
within the black community. 

757
00:43:23,300 --> 00:43:28,400
And also a more of an Embrace of
different gender expressions, 

758
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,600
and gender orientations, I think
that's huge for the black 

759
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,700
community and being welcomed 
with it. 

760
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:38,900
And then also too. 
I think like very pretty much 

761
00:43:38,900 --> 00:43:41,000
covered it, like the black sex 
toy. 

762
00:43:41,100 --> 00:43:47,800
Where are the black main focus 
of pornography and then which 

763
00:43:48,900 --> 00:43:54,300
nine people of color, I think 
actually supporting is a huge 

764
00:43:54,300 --> 00:43:59,800
part as well as not making it 
just like an itch, but when you 

765
00:43:59,808 --> 00:44:03,300
do the black voices actually 
getting black input in those 

766
00:44:03,300 --> 00:44:09,200
stories and then also I feel 
like every company should have 

767
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,900
like a diverse board. 
So when you get to To that point

768
00:44:11,900 --> 00:44:15,800
to where you can grow have 
people at the top that can give 

769
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,500
voice to other communities. 
So it can be a diversity of 

770
00:44:19,500 --> 00:44:22,500
thought process in mind set. 
So you're not pumping out the 

771
00:44:22,500 --> 00:44:27,200
same content and slapping a 
different gender identity on it.

772
00:44:27,300 --> 00:44:30,600
Sexual orientation are raised 
and being like you're, you know,

773
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,800
inclusive when it's not actually
telling those people story. 

774
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,800
Absolutely. 
Oh my goodness, Lala, thank you 

775
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,400
so much before I let you go. 
I want people to get in touch 

776
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,500
with you. 
If people have ideas, are they 

777
00:44:43,500 --> 00:44:46,800
able to submit that, you know, 
to you and what? 

778
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,500
Not? 
Absolutely. 

779
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,500
So you can submit it. 
I would love that to so many of 

780
00:44:51,500 --> 00:44:55,100
your story ideas. 
To me, you can slide into my 

781
00:44:55,100 --> 00:44:59,300
bbm's and Instagram at La La's 
bedtime, tales and are, you can 

782
00:44:59,300 --> 00:45:06,000
reach out to me on my website, 
www.house.gov/paul to link that 

783
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,900
in this episode because I really
want people to touch it. 

784
00:45:09,900 --> 00:45:12,500
Touch reach. 
Out and get in touch with you 

785
00:45:12,500 --> 00:45:16,200
because I really truly feel that
you are on to something big. 

786
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:19,200
I'd even ask you. 
How long has Lala's bedtimes 

787
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:22,800
Tales been out? 
The law has been timetoast will 

788
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:26,500
turn one years old this month. 
So I started at the end of 

789
00:45:26,500 --> 00:45:30,900
August at the end of September, 
my bad in a September in 2021. 

790
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,400
And so I've been doing this for 
almost a year now. 

791
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:38,200
So about a year so that's 
congratulations. 

792
00:45:38,500 --> 00:45:42,700
And I am just extremely excited 
for It's the calm because I see 

793
00:45:42,700 --> 00:45:44,600
the community building around 
you. 

794
00:45:44,900 --> 00:45:48,500
And again, I'm just so fortunate
and happy that you reached out. 

795
00:45:48,500 --> 00:45:51,600
And whenever you need, honey, 
I'm there, like please slide in 

796
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,200
my DMs whenever you need 
something and I would love to 

797
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:59,000
come onto your platform to 
because I truly just love Wayne 

798
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,800
folks, like us can get together 
and just kind of spread this 

799
00:46:02,100 --> 00:46:04,200
really good. 
Message out there to say like, 

800
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:08,000
hey, black erotica is here to 
stay and look at the many 

801
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,900
different forms that it's not 
just porn. 

802
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:15,300
It's not just sex toys, it's 
audio, it's podcast, it's 

803
00:46:15,300 --> 00:46:18,200
building Community. 
The fact that you even are able 

804
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,900
to talk about mental health with
your craft. 

805
00:46:21,300 --> 00:46:24,300
It's needed. 
Yeah, you're doing the work in. 

806
00:46:24,300 --> 00:46:26,700
This is the work that is needed.
So I just want to say, thank 

807
00:46:26,700 --> 00:46:28,900
you. 
Thank you, thank you for coming 

808
00:46:28,900 --> 00:46:31,600
out today and just sharing this.
Thank you. 

809
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,500
Yes. 
And thank you so much for having

810
00:46:33,500 --> 00:46:34,400
me. 
I absolutely loved it. 

811
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,500
It was a black. 
I love you and everything that 

812
00:46:37,500 --> 00:46:39,200
you do. 
Oh, thank you. 

813
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:40,800
Thank you. 
All right. 

814
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,300
Well, Divides. 
That's all for now. 

815
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,000
But remember safe sex is the 
best hot sex. 

816
00:46:46,300 --> 00:46:50,100
If you ever need me you can go 
to at Miz radio, Sapphire.com 

817
00:46:50,300 --> 00:46:53,600
get all the podcasts, your all 
every ear play. 

818
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,000
You can read just relive all the
eargasm. 

819
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:59,100
'S of course, drop me a line at 
Miz radio, Sapphire. 

820
00:46:59,300 --> 00:47:03,700
And at sapphires are play all on
Instagram and until next time, 

821
00:47:03,900 --> 00:47:06,800
good night. 
I just want to let you earbuds 

822
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,800
know that Allah Allah has 
provided just a little tease to 

823
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,100
bring you to your knees. 
If you want more of these are 

824
00:47:12,100 --> 00:47:15,500
guys them's. 
Go to La La's bedtime, Tales.com

825
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,300
enjoy undress. 
Beckons me towards him with the 

826
00:47:18,300 --> 00:47:21,800
curve of his index finger. 
Once in front of him, he pushes 

827
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:25,200
me down onto the bed, causing me
to bounce, back to the iron 

828
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,700
headboard. 
His big naked body covers mine. 

829
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,200
He straddles me with his 
erection linking warm sticky 

830
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:36,100
pre-comp, on my stomach, as he 
ties my arms, to the headboard 

831
00:47:36,100 --> 00:47:39,200
with his necktie undress, 
passionately kisses. 

832
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:43,000
My mouth, our tongues, Beating 
for control as he causes my 

833
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,400
pussy to clinch and Agony as a 
girl's water. 

834
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,600
What arousal, you releases my 
lips with a tug of my bottom 

835
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,100
lip. 
This shows my panties into my 

836
00:47:53,100 --> 00:47:57,000
mouth, making me taste the salty
tanginess of my arousal. 

837
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:02,500
Oh shit, this man has the pride 
beyond my ability to touch and 

838
00:48:02,500 --> 00:48:05,500
speak. 
This is a new and sexy 

839
00:48:05,500 --> 00:48:08,900
experience. 
Nonetheless, my heart tap dances

840
00:48:08,900 --> 00:48:12,000
against my chest in daunting. 
Excitement. 

841
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,700
I'm just purposely pins me to 
the mattress with a weight of 

842
00:48:15,700 --> 00:48:20,000
his heavy muscular frame. 
He teases me with his tongue by 

843
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:24,400
licking Far East Central ribbons
of me by my jaw line around the 

844
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:29,300
show of my ear and gently nips 
on my earlobe, he sucks on my 

845
00:48:29,300 --> 00:48:36,600
neck, causing me to quiver as my
hot wet or clinches awaiting 

846
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:41,400
sexual release. 
Undressed lazily Trails is 

847
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:46,100
talking across my clavicle and 
down to my heavy, full b cup. 

848
00:48:46,100 --> 00:48:50,600
Breath, my nipple stand 
painfully erect desperately 

849
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:55,200
wanting, and needing his touch. 
He takes my right nipple between

850
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,800
us. 
Full pal, feasting on it. 

851
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:02,100
Like a man who hasn't eaten in 
days while he performs my left 

852
00:49:02,100 --> 00:49:07,400
breast, plucking, rolling and 
pinching my left nipple until 

853
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:10,900
it's so so hard and so 
sensitive. 

854
00:49:10,900 --> 00:49:14,700
He abandons my right to subject.
My overly sensitive left the 

855
00:49:14,700 --> 00:49:21,000
same erotic torture undress, 
doesn't stop the nipple play 

856
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:25,500
until they're so sensitive and 
so erect that his blowing on 

857
00:49:25,500 --> 00:49:29,700
them, since a sharp tug of 
pleasure to the dampness between

858
00:49:29,700 --> 00:49:34,300
my thigh, he leisurely, travels 
his tongue down, my slender 

859
00:49:34,300 --> 00:49:38,700
torso, dipping his tongue, into 
my belly button, causing my Body

860
00:49:38,700 --> 00:49:44,800
to clever under his moves, lower
on the bed stroking, licking and

861
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:48,200
nibbling on my hip. 
And Mound between my legs 

862
00:49:48,900 --> 00:49:52,100
talking, both my legs 
effortlessly over his shoulders.

863
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:56,500
He rolls my body up on my 
shoulders, holding my slick, 

864
00:49:56,500 --> 00:49:58,700
pussy lips wide. 
It begins. 

865
00:49:58,700 --> 00:50:04,000
Flicking me from bottom to top. 
He fucks my pussy with his 

866
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:08,200
tongue as he swirls my wetness 
around my clitoris applying. 

867
00:50:08,300 --> 00:50:12,400
Just the right amount of 
pleasure to it causing me to let

868
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:16,700
out a muffled scream through the
fabric, in my mouth I'm dressed 

869
00:50:16,700 --> 00:50:19,900
of hours. 
My pussy relentlessly far better

870
00:50:19,900 --> 00:50:24,400
than any of my fantasies taking 
his sweet time. 

871
00:50:24,700 --> 00:50:29,500
As he works me over into sexual 
Oblivion making me read between 

872
00:50:29,500 --> 00:50:33,400
his lips and fingers. 
He began sucking on my clitoris 

873
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,400
and trowels my wetness from my 
hot core to my tight. 

874
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:41,600
Puckered Asshole, I feel a 
burning sensation as he slowly 

875
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,300
insert one wet finger into my 
asshole. 

876
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:48,100
I feel my eyes go wide as he 
smiles against my clitoris. 

877
00:50:48,300 --> 00:50:52,300
I fling my head back and 
surrender as my orgasm tears, 

878
00:50:52,300 --> 00:50:56,300
from my body, as he sucks on my 
clitoris and finger fucks the 

879
00:50:56,300 --> 00:51:00,200
hell out of my asshole. 
Before I can catch my breath and

880
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:04,400
recover from my first-ever 
earth-shattering orgasm on 

881
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,800
dresses, on time, my arms from 
the headboard of the bed and 

882
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:09,900
leading Of course, the hotel's, 
balcony. 

883
00:51:10,500 --> 00:51:15,000
I'm so weak and compliant for my
previous orgasm, that I can't 

884
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,900
bulk in this man. 
So I feel the night's cold air. 

885
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,700
Make my overly sensitive and 
tight. 

886
00:51:20,700 --> 00:51:25,100
Nipples perk up. 
I shake my head as he ties me 

887
00:51:25,100 --> 00:51:28,100
with his necktie to The Rolling 
of the hotel room balcony. 

888
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:33,100
I feel exposed turned on and 
nervous as he bends me over 

889
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:37,900
pulls my hips, back towards him 
and slams, his massive manhood 

890
00:51:37,900 --> 00:51:41,500
and Enemy before I can protest 
causing me to whimper and 

891
00:51:41,500 --> 00:51:45,500
painful sexual Delight. 
I feel my breasts jiggle as he 

892
00:51:45,500 --> 00:51:50,300
deeply penetrates my soaking wet
pussy. 

893
00:51:50,300 --> 00:51:55,300
Ruthlessly, he leans over 19, 
the thong out of my mouth, that 

894
00:51:55,300 --> 00:51:59,400
was muffling my grounds and Mom 
undress. 

895
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:03,800
Slaps, my ass covering my house 
from The Sting with his hand and

896
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,900
Whispers. 
You have to be quiet darling. 

897
00:52:06,900 --> 00:52:10,500
You wouldn't want us. 
To get caught and have headline 

898
00:52:10,500 --> 00:52:13,800
splashed across the gossip, 
sites that reads Rising pop 

899
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,300
start jailed for freaky sex on 
my hotel balcony. 

900
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:20,800
I don't think that would go over
well for your music career and 

901
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:25,200
image heat weeks my nipples 
thirsting erratically as I bite 

902
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:29,200
down on my bottom left to hold 
back my screams of pleasure. 

903
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:33,900
Despite the cold weather, our 
bodies are slick with sweat. 

904
00:52:33,900 --> 00:52:38,800
The only sounds in the air are 
wax flick noises from Pounding 

905
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:43,600
into my arouse pussy and 
skin-on-skin contact from the 

906
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:49,600
way he fucking so dirty. 
His breath gets harsher in my 

907
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,900
ear. 
As he bites down on my shoulder 

908
00:52:51,900 --> 00:52:56,600
fleeing us into sexual ecstasy. 
I Feel Home draw blood from my 

909
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:00,600
shoulder and I almost fall down 
while he unties my arms. 

910
00:53:00,900 --> 00:53:05,100
He picks me up and I breathe in 
the musky scent of our sex in 

911
00:53:05,100 --> 00:53:08,000
the air in the comforting scent 
of his woodsy. 

912
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:12,500
And orange zest smell like at 
the re path. 

913
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:16,400
He carries me back into the 
hotel Bridal style and Lifeline 

914
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:20,800
went body on the bed. 
Undress, crashes down beside me 

915
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,100
stroking, my cheek and Tenderly,
kissing my forehead. 

916
00:53:25,100 --> 00:53:28,300
That was incredible. 
We have to do it again. 

917
00:53:28,300 --> 00:53:33,700
I pant looking at the ceiling. 
I'm just box out of laughs and 

918
00:53:33,700 --> 00:53:36,900
says, I can't deny. 
That was fucking amazing. 

919
00:53:37,100 --> 00:53:42,500
Your body is so Responsive and 
your pussy gets so wet and tight

920
00:53:42,500 --> 00:53:46,500
around my dick. 
You felt like a fucking velvet 

921
00:53:46,500 --> 00:53:50,300
glove Pop Princess. 
I'm sure I can keep you occupied

922
00:53:50,300 --> 00:53:53,900
these next few weeks. 
Ice cream on the inside throwing

923
00:53:53,900 --> 00:53:56,900
myself on top of him to Pepper 
his face with kisses. 

924
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:01,400
This was going to be one wild 
time in my life as I embrace my 

925
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:05,600
role as undresses personal sex 
slave until I left this 

926
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:09,500
godforsaken town. 
That was the show, all you sexy 

927
00:54:09,500 --> 00:54:11,800
motherfuckers out there. 
Remember to follow, Adam is 

928
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:14,900
Radio Sapphire and sapphires are
play on Instagram. 

929
00:54:14,900 --> 00:54:17,700
One Samir gazans of the past and
future make sure to follow on 

930
00:54:17,700 --> 00:54:21,800
Apple podcast, anchor Spotify, 
iHeartRadio and all streaming 

931
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:22,800
platforms.