1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,600 Warning, the following program is not for the weak hearted, 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,800 those who are close minded or in general you're scared to learn 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:10,720 what's behind closed doors. Here at Sapphires Airplay. 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,840 I want you to pour the wine, grab somebody that you want to 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,880 hold on to, or better yet, get the vibration stimulated through 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:19,960 your body. Get ready for one hell of an 7 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:29,400 orgasm in 54321. What is up on my sexy 8 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:31,680 motherfuckers out there in radioland it's your girl 9 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:36,480 sapphire back at it with another episode of sapphire 0 play now 10 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,480 you know how this goes down we got a beautiful lady got a 11 00:00:39,480 --> 00:00:43,280 beautiful entity You know they got the entity on their their 12 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:48,480 you know their breasts yes I'm talking about Jason wiggle 13 00:00:48,480 --> 00:00:50,880 wiggle wiggle. Now, if you don't know who this 14 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,720 delectable creature is, let me just say urban X nominee, Urban 15 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,240 X awards are taking place August 17th. 16 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:01,720 That's for all your urban. I hate the word urban, but you 17 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:03,720 know what I mean. Like it's all your your 18 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:09,360 melanated, yes, the melanated populated, you know, the melanin 19 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,680 popular starlets and stars of the adult industry gathering in 20 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,200 one place. And hopefully, hopefully they 21 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:19,120 don't pull another BET where they're just pulling left and 22 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:20,880 right. All these great, you know, 23 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,520 awards for black excellence. So celebrating black excellence, 24 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:29,080 None other than Miss Lady Cinder bringing out the frat boys. 25 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:35,400 And let me just tell you, we love it. 26 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,840 We love it. They love it, yes. 27 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,360 Now let me just tell you guys, there's been some behind it. 28 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,800 I never talk about behind the scenes snafus. 29 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,840 Lady Cinder and I have been recording or trying to record 30 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,080 for the past 45 minutes. I don't know about y'all, but 31 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:56,680 August has shown its asshole. Complete asshole. 32 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:03,880 No ma'am, That part, that part. So, you know, and if you don't 33 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,120 know what we're talking about, CP time, well, you're listening 34 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,919 to a black podcast. That means color people's time. 35 00:02:09,199 --> 00:02:12,880 We don't show up on time. You say a party starts at 12, 36 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,680 they're going to show up at 6:00, OK, You don't show up at 37 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,000 6:00 and. Call that early and call that. 38 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,880 Early. You'll be late for your own damn 39 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:22,800 funeral. OK, if you're showing up at my 40 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:26,800 wedding at the time, I if I'm not ready to come out at my own 41 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,720 wedding, y'all just going to have to sit there, Sit there and 42 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,600 marinate until I'm ready. That's what it is. 43 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,760 But lady center was not sitting in juice is marinating. 44 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:41,720 No, she was ready, I was ready. Coffee ready, ready. 45 00:02:41,920 --> 00:02:45,560 Didn't have a hit of weed and then what happens the Internet 46 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,120 how to show its asshole but we here now we here. 47 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,920 It showed this whole sphincter, not even the asshole it showed 48 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,920 the muscles up in. Asshole, it's like you want some 49 00:02:54,920 --> 00:03:00,400 problems. Bitch I got your problems a 50 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:03,160 prolapse Internet man lady center. 51 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,760 I feel like you and I just already know each other and yet 52 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:13,520 we have not met in. Person we really are, please. 53 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,320 Oh, I won't sue you, girl. I will. 54 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,360 I'm going to welcome it all, OK? Listen, I'm gay as hell. 55 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,600 You might see me fiance to a man. 56 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:24,920 Listen. Polyamorous. 57 00:03:24,920 --> 00:03:27,840 Bisexual. I got it all and I love the 58 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:32,400 ladies. Omnisexual. 59 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,520 Yes. You know, it's kind of like you 60 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,560 just sniff your own kind. You're like smells like 61 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:44,400 polyamory. Or the hard. 62 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,960 Way you know what? That's, I don't know, it sounds 63 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,720 like Urban XI might be tackled by many women. 64 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,880 I mean, go go fuck me. I mean, go, go Zombie. 65 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,600 Watch. Go go Zombie is going to get my 66 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,480 ass for saying that. Yeah, she changed it. 67 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,000 We just had her on Airplay. She said she wants to tackle me. 68 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,040 I said I welcome it full heartedly. 69 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,360 I'm scared to see her in person. I'm excited. 70 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,640 I'm excited. But now I got you, so I got 2. 71 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:18,519 Sweetest, kindest person ever. See, I can't, I can't take it 72 00:04:18,519 --> 00:04:20,600 with. There's something about, and 73 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:23,960 let's talk about this because you know, we're just going to 74 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:27,040 get into it all. So lady sender, you're a femdom. 75 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:33,040 You are a sideshow performer. You've only been in this side of 76 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,200 the adult entertainment pool for three years. 77 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:39,120 But you, you breathe and live, live all of this. 78 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:44,800 BDSM is your lifestyle. And now, you know, I love to 79 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:48,400 call out people. It's like people hate call out 80 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,320 culture. But I'm like, no, no, no, no, 81 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,160 no, it's not calling out. It needs to happen. 82 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:58,400 The rise of, yeah, like the rise of black fandom has been rising. 83 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,000 And if you're like, what does this mean? 84 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,320 Just go on your Twitter. If you still have Twitter and X, 85 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,720 whatever the fuck you want to call it, There's a lot of women 86 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,720 out there. They didn't pay their bills. 87 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:13,240 It's Twitter. There's a lot of women out there 88 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,920 that are claiming femdom and I do see it amongst my sisters. 89 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,920 And I'm like, OK, what sets you apart? 90 00:05:20,280 --> 00:05:23,800 What sets y'all apart as a true femdom? 91 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:28,120 And I got to ask as an OG, somebody who's been living and 92 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,720 breathing this lifestyle and, and femdom is not like a new 93 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:38,840 term, but we are now seeing it more than ever, more than ever. 94 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:43,680 What you got to say about it? Well, I'm I'm corrected because 95 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:52,640 there's Finn Dom FINDOM and then there's Fem Dom FEMCOM. 96 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:56,560 Put some respect on it. So we're seeing a rise of Finn 97 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,600 Dom, and that's a whole bunch of cute little bitches with middle 98 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:05,560 fingers being like, yeah, fuck you and no one cares. 99 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:12,080 Like a fandom more often than not is going to have some 100 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,120 practical skills they might be interested in. 101 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:20,080 Fandom I'm into it. Like goes into it. 102 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,240 Like there's a bunch of us that are into it and everything. 103 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,400 But fandom is financial domination. 104 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,400 Fandom is female domination. I'm glad that you said that 105 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:34,120 because I myself, I do find myself getting very confused 106 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:39,640 online because I do see, you know, parts of thin Dom with 107 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,560 femdom and then they don't want to collaborate. 108 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,040 They're like no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, just because I'm 109 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,600 demanding a pay pig. No, I'm a femdom. 110 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,920 It's like no, but you're demanding money to be drained 111 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:58,320 from some pathetic soul on the Internet and you're demanding 112 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,920 money that's thin Dom. That's just like the only fan 113 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:07,480 creators that are showing pussy to say I'm not a sex worker, you 114 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:13,200 are flashing pussy. I got thoughts. 115 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:19,120 OK, so here we go. I started out as this dungeon 116 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,840 that's a legendary dungeon in LA called Sanctuary. 117 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:24,880 There's this one girl. Not going to name her name 118 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:33,480 because fuck the hell, sorry. I had issues with her. 119 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:37,040 It's fine, but she was really reluctant to call herself a 120 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,800 fucking sex worker and kind of look down on any other sex 121 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:41,080 worker. And I'm like, bitch, you're a 122 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,200 dumb nature. You're facilitating a 123 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,840 motherfucker's nut, OK? You're still a sex worker. 124 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:51,440 There's no answer butts about. It you know, OK, actually I got 125 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:55,080 questions because I've actually and I've been to the sanctuary 126 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:56,840 at least once before it closed down. 127 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,640 Now I know that it's resurfacing. 128 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,760 It's still wait wait, which one was someone that just like 129 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:07,760 closed in the reopen? So yes, sanctuary LAX folds. 130 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,320 They had their one location right LAX and then they closed 131 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,640 for a few months because they were dealing with like, you 132 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,360 know, landlord shit, right? And then they moved to El 133 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:20,760 Segundo and I was there right at the end where they're closing. 134 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,440 And then while they were closed, which is when I got in the 135 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,840 content because I was like, what the fuck am I supposed to do? 136 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,720 I just started working at the Dom and now my gun to disclose 137 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,640 and I don't know how to do this shit because I just started 138 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:34,840 working it. And so then I got the content 139 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:39,559 and then section were reopened and everything and like the 140 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:43,039 location is different and I want to go into another junction that 141 00:08:43,039 --> 00:08:46,880 I wanted working at in between the the opening and closing of 142 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:51,480 it. But yeah, so you know, yeah, 143 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,200 it's, it's just. Yeah, it's, I've heard many 144 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,960 different things and this is not to shine on the community. 145 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,480 ABDSMI, do I do openly talk about this as someone who is 146 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,800 polyamorous, does dabble in the lifestyle like I do have. 147 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,040 As I told you before, I have a Dom, that's my fiance. 148 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,080 I have a girlfriend who's also a bit. 149 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,960 Maybe we could cope, yeah. I would love that, absolutely 150 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,080 would love that. And I know he will be listening 151 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:22,440 to this and he will also be saying I kind of like that he, 152 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:24,720 you know, it's. Oh my God, we will negotiate it 153 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,480 and we will work it. Out I love it because I would 154 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,680 love to be double teamed. I think the last and only time I 155 00:09:30,680 --> 00:09:34,680 went to LAALAXI think I was suspended. 156 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:38,160 Now I might hear it in church like a no that wasn't that 157 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,760 place. But I remember vividly going to 158 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:45,400 a dungeon, only one, because I'm very like, selective of where I 159 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,280 play. But I just remember, you know, 160 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,800 dungeons are not scary. And I want people to understand, 161 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,240 like, dungeons are not a scary thing. 162 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,520 It can be a scary thing. Yeah, it can be a scary thing 163 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,480 depending upon what you're looking for. 164 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:02,080 But also, I talk about this a lot and I'm so glad that you 165 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,920 joined the show and especially you are based in LA. 166 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:10,960 There's not a lot of us when it comes to fem doming. 167 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:16,440 Again, fem doming, there's not a lot of like places for black 168 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:20,560 folks to feel secure to play in areas. 169 00:10:20,560 --> 00:10:24,520 And that's for me, like why Sanctuary LAX and all those 170 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:28,120 like, And it kind of scared me because the most of the time I 171 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,040 only know and my my Dom is white. 172 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,280 You know, my fiance is white. I'm in an interracial 173 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,880 relationship and I still get these looks from time to time, 174 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,560 like, oh, you won't let this white man beat you. 175 00:10:37,560 --> 00:10:41,760 It's like, Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah, Nah. 176 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:47,320 Oh, let's talk about these thoughts because the black BDS 177 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:51,080 scene, BDSM scene in LA, Would you say it's kind of like, OK. 178 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:57,760 So I'm gonna just say it and I'm gonna say my whole ass chest 179 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:05,920 BDSM is white and Loki high key kind of racist because there is 180 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:12,920 this whole overarching look of BDSM and society and how it has 181 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:17,640 been purported throughout society and the fact of how the 182 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,800 culture got started. It's subversive underground. 183 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,840 It was white people being able to not be able to do this and 184 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:27,600 they completely forgot that underground subversive nature is 185 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,000 black. It's minority because we were 186 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,640 the original underground, unwanted this that other didn't 187 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:34,320 fit in like we the original soul. 188 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,120 You could call yourself running away because Oh my God, I like 189 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:38,720 this and I'm so bad because I like it. 190 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:40,440 I'm like my mommy and daddy don't love me anymore. 191 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,280 Fuck you. We're the original. 192 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,960 We couldn't exist on this earth because nobody wants like fuck 193 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:46,520 you. No. 194 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:51,640 But when you go to a dungeon, there is a particular look. 195 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,840 It's black leather, it's latex. It's pale skin. 196 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,640 It's all this. It's blonde hair. 197 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,200 It's dark, dark hair. It's red hair. 198 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:05,720 Why exactly? It's like it's the cheerleader 199 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,560 who turned you down. It's the principal who was a 200 00:12:08,560 --> 00:12:11,360 little too rough on you. It's like the dude of the 201 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,560 fedora. It's none of these things are 202 00:12:14,560 --> 00:12:20,560 harkening to blackness. And like I said, minorities, 203 00:12:20,560 --> 00:12:24,600 Black people in particular are the original subversive culture, 204 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:27,040 subversive nature. We don't fit in. 205 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:33,240 We are the underground original so to and they won't costly make 206 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:36,280 us feel like we don't fit in. We don't play the part, we don't 207 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,520 look the part, we don't know what they know. 208 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:42,400 Or they have this weird way of thinking that just because a 209 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:47,240 piece of chocolate goes into a room full of a sea of white 210 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:51,520 dough that that chocolate chip is theirs. 211 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,640 Because there have been times where I feel like I'm on the 212 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:59,280 menu and my ass was not on the menu and that's why I rarely 213 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:02,600 play in public spaces. So I have to say shout out to 214 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:07,000 you and you know, other black thumb Doms out there who feel 215 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:11,360 comfortable in playing in public amongst white people because. 216 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:12,840 Nobody going to tell me about me but me. 217 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,400 Oh oh. Not ever. 218 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:21,200 Oh my goodness. I'm sorry I was not raised to 219 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,160 give a fuck about somebody elses opinion on me. 220 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:26,320 Like it's nice if you have an opinion on me, good, bad and 221 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:29,840 different, whatever cool you have that opinion. 222 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:31,560 What's that got to do with me? It's of me. 223 00:13:31,560 --> 00:13:33,000 What the fuck does that to do with me? 224 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:36,120 Like, and I tried very hard to remember that when I get down 225 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,160 and shit like that, like oh, so so doesn't like me. 226 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:42,600 It's like, OK, and they didn't like me yesterday, they didn't 227 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,480 like me now, but I'm still doing shit. 228 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,400 I'm still being neat. So like, the fuck does that have 229 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:48,920 to do with anything? Like I don't care. 230 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,680 So I got to remember that from time to time because you know, I 231 00:13:51,680 --> 00:13:53,440 mean, you mean shit like shit gets to me. 232 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,640 Like no one wants to be just like like you rather go through 233 00:13:56,640 --> 00:14:00,440 like being like, but I can't do that. 234 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,600 Like I sound like this. I sound mad aggressive. 235 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:06,360 I sound intense. I am intense to like say or do 236 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,000 and people are going to jive with it or not. 237 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:10,920 OK, two things that you said earlier. 238 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,720 You said, you know, the people who walk into these dungeons are 239 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,520 your typical cheerleader, the cheerleader that didn't want to 240 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,960 fuck you, the nerd that didn't want to fuck you, or we should 241 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:24,000 say the incel like nerd because now that's a thing. 242 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,640 That is a look. The Incel. 243 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:30,400 The incel, you know, and the incels that are very like 244 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:36,320 borderline into the race play borderline into racism. 245 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,400 That's that's the branding that comes involved. 246 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:41,640 But then also, you just said something now. 247 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:46,640 And yeah, you do come off as intense, but I like it. 248 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:50,720 You don't come off as intense to a way you're not approachable. 249 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,560 I have people tell me I'm not approachable all the time. 250 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,880 Like especially when I'm just sitting someplace and I'm just 251 00:14:56,880 --> 00:15:00,720 like people tell me I'm a bitch, I'm intimidating. 252 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:05,640 I'm just that other. I'm like, what do you mean I, I. 253 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,520 Can't wait to be like tackled by you. 254 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:12,120 As I said, I think that you it is it is that black alternative 255 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:16,640 look, but it's like, would you say that to a white counterpart? 256 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,160 Would you just go up to your white counterpart and be like 257 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:20,840 you look so intense. Let's fuck. 258 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,040 No, but they do it to me all the time. 259 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,240 For real. For real. 260 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:29,320 Like. I can't tell you how many calls 261 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:33,600 I get where they're just like so like OK, one or two. 262 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:36,640 Would you ever let me be dominant? 263 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,840 No, go ask him nothing. Fucking dumb ass bitch. 264 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:41,960 That stupid ass shit fuck fucking cut your fucking finger 265 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,040 off for you to write that shit to me, you fucking dumb ass 266 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:48,320 fucking. And then the other thing is that 267 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:52,480 so like, how much is it the fuck OK? 268 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:56,160 How many other dominatrixes are you asking if you can fuck me? 269 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,520 Can, can we please? Can we please talk about that? 270 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:04,560 Like BDSM, yes there's a sexual component in it, but a lot of 271 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:10,640 the times you don't ask a Dom to fuck, you don't ask a Dom that. 272 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:14,000 Fucks up the power dynamic of the whole thing. 273 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:18,960 Like like close female naked male. 274 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,400 Are you going to ask her to fuck the woman? 275 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:23,560 What? No, that's a whole fetish. 276 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,280 The woman stays completely clothed, is teasing the man, and 277 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:28,160 he's naked and being completely abdominant. 278 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,920 Like you're really going to ask this woman who's completely 279 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:33,840 buttoned the fuck down to fucking where we're going to RIP 280 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:38,800 a hole in the fucking pants too? Like what the fuck stupid head 281 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,240 ass game somewhere else. Leave me the fuck? 282 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,720 Alone. And again, as I said this in my 283 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:49,120 conversation with Gogo and with all the sex workers, to be 284 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,960 honest, I have yet to have a content creator come on here and 285 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:56,280 argue the fact that if they were showing their genitalia 286 00:16:56,280 --> 00:17:00,080 somewhere on a public platform that thrives on sex and they are 287 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:05,079 receiving monetary value for sex, that makes you a sex worker 288 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,640 again if you are doing BDSM. Not even that. 289 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:16,280 If you are facilitating someone else's orgasm, you're a sex 290 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:20,359 worker. If you're arousing someone with 291 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:24,599 the intent of them getting off or having knowing that they're 292 00:17:24,599 --> 00:17:27,000 going to have sexual thoughts about what is the fuck you're 293 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,920 doing and you're making money off of that, that's sex work. 294 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:31,400 Like, I'm sorry. Would you say? 295 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,440 Those shut up and take it. Would you say even like, and 296 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,680 here's the biggest argument I guess you could say is would you 297 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:42,680 say even if you are, you know, in your thumb Dom you're 298 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:47,480 receiving money, Thumb Domness, receiving money, carrying out a 299 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:51,360 non sexual act of BDSM, would you still call yourself a sex 300 00:17:51,360 --> 00:17:54,320 worker? Yeah, because they're aroused. 301 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,840 Like I'm facilitating your arousal. 302 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:00,000 That's sex work. Like what? 303 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:04,480 I'm getting paid to turn you on. Just because it's non sexual to 304 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,480 someone else, like it's feet or something, that doesn't mean 305 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,120 it's not sex. That is sex to that person 306 00:18:10,120 --> 00:18:14,360 because that's their thing. And if you have someone who's 307 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:18,400 obsessed with peanut butter and shit and they they get off it 308 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:21,720 and you give them peanut butter, I'm sorry you just became 309 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,000 obsessed with them. You saw that person peanut 310 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,600 butter and you knew what the fuck it was going to do to them. 311 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:27,240 It's not like you had no clue what the fuck peanut butter was 312 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,480 going to do. They told you, hey, I'll get off 313 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:31,600 the peanut butter and I'm going to think about you sending this 314 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,200 to me. So, you know, like, could you 315 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,400 hand me this peanut butter? And you're like, yeah, thanks 316 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,880 for the money. You're a sex worker. 317 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:40,880 I'm you, you don't have to be a lifelong sex work, but for that 318 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:44,680 moment you fucking sold to sex. If you guys are not watching my 319 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,400 reaction, first of all, you must got to watch it on YouTube and 320 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,120 Spotify in order to do this. Anybody that's like I only am 321 00:18:51,120 --> 00:18:54,440 able to listen Everybody's like I'm always I'm only allowed to 322 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:55,600 listen. You just got to switch your 323 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:57,040 providers. That's really what it is. 324 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,120 And I feel like now I have to put up these captions because 325 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,520 every time someone calls me out when you know what you just did 326 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:07,480 with laying the line out and I'm shaking my head in agreeance. 327 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,880 I want people to understand. Like, I'm not saying this 328 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:15,320 because I have no business, OK? You have the business. 329 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:19,600 You have the right to say this. And it's 1000% true. 330 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:23,600 And I really want people to stop shunning sex work. 331 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:32,320 And not just shunning, but like having such a down thought on 332 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,520 it, like just like looking down on it so wholeheartedly that it 333 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,520 endangers people in various deeper sectors of it. 334 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:43,160 Because when you make someone who does something minute look 335 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,720 like the same as someone who does something intense, then the 336 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:48,280 person who does the more intense aspect doesn't feel safe enough 337 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:51,520 to report anything that happens to them because like, well, I'm 338 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,120 dirty because I do this. And like if something happened 339 00:19:54,120 --> 00:19:55,520 to them, then they wouldn't even feel conflict. 340 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,120 You don't make someone feel sick. 341 00:19:57,120 --> 00:20:00,440 You don't give them any chance to be respected as a human being 342 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,640 that happens to have a job that. Is this name? 343 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,080 It's not. Your job to judge anybody's job 344 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,400 because there is someone that's occupying that job. 345 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,240 There's someone that made that job a necessity. 346 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,920 So if you're going to look down on anybody, maybe that person. 347 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:17,320 But I don't think that's the case because like sex work is a 348 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,840 means to an end. It cuts out the mess. 349 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,360 Like anyone who goes to like an escort, prostitute, whatever you 350 00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:28,280 want to call it, they want that human interaction without the 351 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:31,000 mess of having like, you know, going on a date and doing all 352 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,440 this stuff and dealing with the nagging or whatever the fuck 353 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,680 they want to call it. They want to cut clean, dry 354 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,200 interaction, know what the fuck they're going to go in getting, 355 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,120 get that, have a good time, spend their money and then go 356 00:20:41,120 --> 00:20:43,280 back to their fucking life and then do it again watching for 357 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:47,800 Pete as he fit. Same with our if you have this 358 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,200 wife that will look at you all crazy because you want to smell 359 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:55,120 her socks, OK, you get to safely go to someone who's not going to 360 00:20:55,120 --> 00:20:57,400 judge you for that. But rub those stinky socks all 361 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,800 in your face like you sniffle, bury them in their tits like you 362 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,400 sniff them way out like, and you're not going to be judged. 363 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:06,080 And you can have that safety and catharsis of indulging in 364 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:09,120 yourself safely with someone who understands you. 365 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:14,480 Emphasis on that safety, please. Emphasis on the safety, because 366 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,960 that's the problem too. We should be safe for both 367 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:20,040 sides, the person going and the person for Friday. 368 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,240 Like that's the whole point of this. 369 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,000 Everybody gets to indulge in their shit safely. 370 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:29,600 I, I, God, I, I'm just like, I want to hug you so much because 371 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,120 you are making so many good points. 372 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,880 Like seriously, you are making such good points. 373 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,960 And again, the word safety always come to mind for me. 374 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,200 Communication and safety. Anybody who listens to any 375 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:44,680 episode of Sapphire's Ear Play, those are the two biggest things 376 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,040 I try to advocate. For and that's how you know 377 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,720 you're in the world of BDSM because anybody who's really 378 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,600 truly and not a predator in this shit, because there are those 379 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,280 raining as fucking decent people that know what the fuck they 380 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,040 doing and have big followings and shit even in the loan 381 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,240 anyway. But yeah, so like, there are 382 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:06,920 people perpetrating all sorts of fallacies in this shit and 383 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,320 anyone who actually knows what this is about knows 384 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:14,240 communication, consent, safety gives you the freedom to do this 385 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:18,760 shit full body. Like that's why Subs should be 386 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,160 held with sub reverence and honor because they're giving 387 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,680 themselves over to you mind, body and soul. 388 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,520 You guys letting you do what you want to them. 389 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,800 They are letting you do that. You can control whatever the 390 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:31,440 fuck you want. They are letting you do that to 391 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,600 them. People think that who the fuck 392 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,920 would be doing this? Exactly, and people think that 393 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:39,040 emissives are such a weak thing. It's like, no, as a sub, I'm a 394 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,480 sub and I come off as a very big dumb person. 395 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:46,680 I'm like, no, no. I don't I got a topic for you 396 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,320 after you did. I will I will tell it to you 397 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,200 right now so we don't forget it because please. 398 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,320 But the fact that black women aren't allowed to be submissive? 399 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,400 Oh my God. Yes, I have a whole bunch of 400 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,040 black female submissive friends and they always get asked if 401 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:02,520 they're a dominant. Would they Dom somebody just 402 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,920 because they look that way? One's a trans woman. 1 is just a 403 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:09,240 tall statue as black woman. Like they they're both just tall 404 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:10,760 statue as women. Actually, because of their 405 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,120 height and their demeanor and their skin tone, that they're 406 00:23:13,120 --> 00:23:15,120 supposed to be dominant. I want to get into this because 407 00:23:15,120 --> 00:23:17,360 it's very rare. It's a very weird thing that I 408 00:23:17,360 --> 00:23:19,920 could talk about that. So I want to get into that 409 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:22,560 because it's a very weird thing that I can come onto the 410 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,320 platform, say that I'm a sub and people will understand, you know 411 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:31,480 how degrading it is as a black woman that we cannot be seen 412 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:37,440 other than aggressive, strong, dominant, not, and like you 413 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,680 said, not every black woman. It's the magical Negro trope 414 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,080 that's been reported throughout filming history. 415 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:47,600 Recording history throughout time like I, we are not allowed 416 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,600 to have any weakness, any chink in our armor. 417 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,840 If we do, it's supposed to be a building stone to lead to some 418 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:54,880 greater strength. That will happen. 419 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,520 Later and it doesn't need to have that to. 420 00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,120 Be have frailty. I just want to get off like the 421 00:24:00,120 --> 00:24:03,360 next person, OK? I'm not trying to cure World 422 00:24:03,360 --> 00:24:06,160 Peace with my pussy, though I would love to. 423 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,440 I would love my pussy to be able to. 424 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,320 It's not my job, you know? I'm just trying to get off and 425 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,800 have a good time. The labor of society is not on 426 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,800 your shoulders just inherently because you're black. 427 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,360 Thank. You and I hope you know what, 428 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:26,400 Please emphasize on that. It is not our job, Black people. 429 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,760 It is not our job to cure any disparity. 430 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,800 Anyone else's trauma? I'm sorry. 431 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:37,160 Your trauma is not my fucking business unless I choose to make 432 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,320 it my business. You don't get to throw your 433 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:42,680 fucking trauma at me because you think I'm strong enough to take 434 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,920 it. You ask my permission before you 435 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:50,320 do. That shit is a thing in every 436 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:51,920 aspect of life. And it should. 437 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,160 Be time people just start venting to you and shit and it's 438 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,200 like, whoa, whoa, you don't know where I'm at in my life, where 439 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,200 I'm at in my day. Like you don't know what I've 440 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,040 gone through. Like can you check and be like, 441 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:02,840 hey, like I got a whole bunch of shit on my head. 442 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,280 Can can I like talk to you for a second? 443 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,680 I'll be like, you know what, what is it? 444 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,240 Maybe I don't know, but I'll try, you know, but like give 445 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,720 somebody the opportunity to be like, yo, I'm strong enough for 446 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:13,560 this. No, I'm not. 447 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:17,280 Like let's like see what they got in them before you just go 448 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,160 shit at them. Exactly, and that's why I'm 449 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,760 like, we have to learn consent early on and if we learned it 450 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,480 more early on in life I think people would be a lot better 451 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,360 off. Even if you're not, you know, 452 00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:32,480 into sex. Asexuals know what consent is. 453 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:37,560 Children with the right proper parenting and rearing know what 454 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,000 consent means. It starts at the early age where 455 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,320 the kid is forced to kiss grandma or hug, you know, Uncle 456 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:51,720 Joe, and they say no, don't push the child to go hug the family 457 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:56,400 member. I have for the longest time have 458 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:00,320 always asked a child, hey can I give you a hug? 459 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,800 If they hesitate, hey can I get a thumbs up? 460 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:05,360 Can I get a high pot? Because that hesitation is a no. 461 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,720 They don't have the words to do it comfortably, but that is a 462 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:09,720 no. Exactly. 463 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,960 If it's not an enthusiastic fuck yes it's a no thank you. 464 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,800 I was always taught and that's the same. 465 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,880 I was taught, you know, listen, you don't have to hug everybody. 466 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,320 You could say hi and that's it. And if they persist, stranger 467 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,720 danger, that's it, stranger danger. 468 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,680 And I think we tend to forget that as we become older and we 469 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,360 get involved in, you know, actions like BDSM. 470 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,720 And we tend to forget the Dom sub role. 471 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,320 Like I said earlier, Subs are always seen as these weak 472 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,840 entities in life when exactly we're not that. 473 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,160 Again, I'm proud to say that I'm a sub or a switch depending upon 474 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:51,360 who I'm sexually aroused with. But I will say 9 times out of 475 00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:56,600 10, I am very submissive, very submissive in my private life, 476 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:02,520 in my public life. I always say it like like when 477 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,120 it comes to professional shit, the most people who have the 478 00:27:05,120 --> 00:27:08,760 money to see us professionally cannot be submissive. 479 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,880 In their day-to-day life. They are submissive. 480 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,120 They are allowing themselves to be submissive to you because of 481 00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:15,400 trust and because they want to relax. 482 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,120 They want to get out of themselves for a minute and just 483 00:27:18,120 --> 00:27:20,520 have the thoughts taken out of their head. 484 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,240 They want to have someone think for them. 485 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,160 They want to have someone be for it, and they're trusting you and 486 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,600 entrusting you with that and like giving you a chance to 487 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,400 honor them. And you're fucking demeaning it 488 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,720 by being like, Oh yeah, you're a bitch. 489 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,440 You're it's like, yeah, call them a bitch, but know why the 490 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:40,600 fuck you're doing it. That brings me up into my next. 491 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,720 I always say it's like, I want to hurt you. 492 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,760 I don't want to hurt, you know, like I don't want to cause you 493 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,320 lifelong trauma. Like this is supposed to be fun. 494 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,520 This is cathartic. This is you indulging in your 495 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,480 shit. You just feel like a piece of 496 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,200 shit just because you jerk off. This is the same shit. 497 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,640 It's it's. It's the same shit A. 498 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:58,760 Different. Method. 499 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:03,200 But that's why we had to call out the the little, you know, 500 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:07,800 the people of social media, when you see the fendoms on social 501 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:12,080 media or fendoms, right? They think all it takes is a 502 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,000 little shit talking, a little push of the breath. 503 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:16,800 Just being cute and having a middle finger. 504 00:28:17,120 --> 00:28:19,360 It's not that. It's not that. 505 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,360 Like you just said, it's supposed to be a healing 506 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,400 experience. Healing experience. 507 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,280 Yes, some people like a little. I've had people cry after a 508 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:34,520 session and like dude, the first time I had that happen where 509 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,760 someone just like and they hugged me and they just like 510 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,680 thank you and I, I felt tears. I'm like, it's like, like you 511 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,840 don't want to put yourself in the in the head space. 512 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,280 Like I'm a therapist. I'm helping you. 513 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,640 I'm sure like no, but like if you're open to the fact that you 514 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,400 can help people work through shit, because I don't think BDSM 515 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,040 should be used to work through shit. 516 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,360 If it happens to happen, cool. Because I think it's unhealthy 517 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,800 to be like, I have trauma. I've been abused, I've been 518 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,600 this, that and other. I'm going to work through it by 519 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,720 being abused. Like that's not healthy. 520 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,800 You need to talk to somebody else and work through some shit. 521 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,520 But if you happen to find healing through it, that's 522 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,040 powerful. It is you unleashing who you 523 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,960 truly are and accepting yourself and realizing your power and 524 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,280 your strength and what you can do and what you're capable of 525 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,960 and just who the fuck you are and finding your people that 526 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,120 understand you. Took the words out of my mouth 527 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:30,280 because literally it is so alarming. 528 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:36,120 It is alarming that the rhetoric that is used constantly in BDSM 529 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,040 is that people are fucked up. Black women don't love them 530 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,200 themselves. You know, the submissives, they 531 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,720 don't love themselves. If there's all this negative 532 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,400 connotation, it's like, no, no, no, no. 533 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,640 Have you talked to anybody? And ask them why they 534 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:55,200 participate in such extremities. And even if it's not an 535 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,920 extremity to you, it might not be to them. 536 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,040 This is the only way that they can heal. 537 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:05,000 And again, emphasis on the fact that yes, your mistress, your 538 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:09,000 goddess, you know your queen, your God, whoever you are 539 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,720 submitting yourselves to, they aren't your therapist. 540 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:15,680 Unless if they have licensed therapist on their business 541 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,360 card, they are not your therapist. 542 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,880 It is not a therapy. Session listening ear if they 543 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:25,280 allow it. But that's about it, and if they 544 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,120 are trying to do that, maybe you need to reconsider your services 545 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:28,600 with. Somebody. 546 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:34,760 Yes, because even like, how do you feel about the hypnotizing 547 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:39,320 of submissives? OK, I, I, I do hypno, I'm real 548 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:45,880 good at it, but like I only do it to people who want it. 549 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,120 Like I'm not trying to hypnotize anyone. 550 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:51,680 Everyone into every little thing. 551 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:56,480 And I very particular about the things that I do the hypnosis on 552 00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:01,480 and like how I do it and it's more manifestation than anything 553 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:05,880 else and me playing into what you already want to happen. 554 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:13,040 Can you give us an example? OK, I'm going to want you to 555 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:18,480 look very deeply into my eyes. Listen to my voice and the words 556 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:23,840 that I'm telling you. Put your hand down and pay close 557 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,720 attention. What is it you want out of your 558 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:32,600 day? Tell me the first thing that 559 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,520 comes to your mind. What's the first thing you want 560 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,840 out of your day? Don't pleasure. 561 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:42,280 Look around, stare into my eyes and tell me what it is you want 562 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,000 out of your day. Peace. 563 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:50,880 And pleasure. Then I want you the second we 564 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:55,000 are done, the second you finish every last thing you need to do, 565 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,640 I want you to focus entirely on yourself. 566 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,440 I want you to do the thing that brings you the most pleasure. 567 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:10,960 And I want you to take an extra 5 minutes, an extra 10 minutes. 568 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,080 And I want you to give in to yourself. 569 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,680 And you're going to think of my voice and you're going to think 570 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:24,360 of my eyes haunting you, following you, and you close 571 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:28,360 yours because I am all-encompassing. 572 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:35,160 That's a little bit. I don't know about y'all, but 573 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:43,320 Splooch, OK, No, actually, not going to lie, that was that's 574 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,160 never been done to me before. I'm a. 10th person I don't know. 575 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,520 I like it like when. I was a kid. 576 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:54,520 Other kids would be like, I'm like, I'm just, I just make eye 577 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,040 contact a lot because I was never taught to be like afraid 578 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:58,760 of eye contact. So I just look at people when 579 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:00,120 I'm talking to them and I'm just like, yo. 580 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,760 And I don't break eye contact because I'm not uncomfortable 581 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,040 with it. So and other people are. 582 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,240 So they think I'm being like intimidating or trying to stare 583 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:08,800 them down. I'm like, no, I'm paying 584 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,400 attention to you because you're talking to me. 585 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,680 I love that because I do the same thing. 586 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,200 It's like if I'm having a conversation with you, I'd 587 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,560 rather be looking directly at the source, you know? 588 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,720 That's why I think some people it, it's funny for me now going 589 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:27,600 from radio and going into visuals because I'm such a 590 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,720 verbal person. So when I'm looking at you, some 591 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,600 people get a little bit uncomfortable because they're 592 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,360 like, whoa, what's all this icon? 593 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:39,080 I'm like, would you want me to be watching television and not 594 00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:40,240 paying attention? To you Like you. 595 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,360 Uh huh. Yeah. 596 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,680 No, that was good, right? You can't have a conversation. 597 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,160 I'm doing a hypnosis thing and people do get uncomfortable. 598 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,600 I'm like no, no, no, I didn't say take your eyes away from 599 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,680 mine. Don't look anywhere else. 600 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,240 Don't focus on anything but my voice. 601 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:06,560 Look at my lips, watch me as I feel like everything can still 602 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:11,159 sit in it. Don't let anything that's that's 603 00:34:11,199 --> 00:34:13,880 the hypnosis. Act like it's just letting 604 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,320 someone not be uncomfortable. Like sit in it. 605 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,840 Whatever you're feeling, I'm causing it and you know I'm 606 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,760 causing it and you're going to rest in it. 607 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:27,199 I don't know about y'all again, it's intense. 608 00:34:27,679 --> 00:34:29,320 It's an intense interview and I'm loving I'm a. 609 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,320 Really intense person. I just have to come to grips 610 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,320 with it because I'm loving it in a few months and I used to. 611 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,639 Think the double is a lie? I'm really. 612 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,040 Go with the flu and I'm like, like, I'm just chill as no chill 613 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,600 having ass motherfucker you're ever going to meet. 614 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,360 I love. It I'm sorry, I'm chill as like 615 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,760 I will go with the flow, but I'm going to ask questions. 616 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,960 I'm going to do like I need to know why I'm going with it and 617 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,880 then I'll go with it. Yes, this is going to 618 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,920 arbitrarily do some shit like I got questions. 619 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,199 I'm going if your questions, if your answers are stupid, I'm 620 00:34:54,199 --> 00:34:55,520 going to tell you like, you know, that's really dumb. 621 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:57,680 I don't think I'm going to do that. 622 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,080 I'll rock with you, but I ain't doing that like you know so. 623 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,880 Boom. So as someone who's carrying 624 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:08,080 out, you know, the orders, how do you take care of yourself? 625 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:09,920 Like there's always this question of like, how do you 626 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:13,360 take care of the sub aftercare? But what do we do about Dom? 627 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,800 How do you self-care after carrying out your intense 628 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:22,360 training? Like honestly, because we were 629 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,640 talking about this before, I'm a sadomascus. 630 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,520 Like I'm not really a switch because like I used to think 631 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,840 that maybe I was a switch and then I used to think I was maybe 632 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,440 a service top and stuff because I like, I enjoyed topping, but 633 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,240 like it wasn't really my thing and stuff. 634 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,680 And then I met like someone who was like a true masochist and I 635 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,360 got to go ham. And I was like, Oh no, I'm just 636 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,280 sadistic and I'm really sick and fucked up. 637 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:43,760 And then I learned how to modulate it. 638 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,400 And then I started having fun with like, catering to other 639 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,200 people's like, you know, wants and like making their fantasies 640 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,960 a reality. Because then it's like games I 641 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:52,800 can play, like, OK, how can I do this? 642 00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:57,440 And then still let you be out of yourself and me give you the 643 00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,400 thoughts, but like, get you what you want. 644 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,720 And you know, I just came like a game to me, but like, I forgot 645 00:36:03,720 --> 00:36:06,160 where I was going with that. Oh it was talking about the 646 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,960 aftercare as a Dom for you. Yeah, Aftercare. 647 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,640 Yeah. So being a Sadomascus and 648 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:15,320 everything like when I used to like pick up play like Threshold 649 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,680 which is like down street from my house. 650 00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:17,880 Probably shouldn't send it anyway. 651 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:23,080 Everybody's like, I thought. That was like the hardest 652 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:26,200 dungeon I used to play it like I would go do some pickup play. 653 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,080 I would top a whole bunch of people and stuff and be like, 654 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,640 OK, let's go. Like because I don't submit, but 655 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,480 I love pain. Like it's funny to me, like 656 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,760 dolls are taught me and be like, yeah, you can't eat them. 657 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,760 I'm like, OK, bitch, just do it. Like I've been beating with meat 658 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,720 tenderizers. I've been round housekeeping the 659 00:36:42,720 --> 00:36:45,400 ass where I've gotten air. Like I've been beating with 660 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,000 needle paddles. Like I got video of it like my 661 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,880 butt bloody spirit everywhere. Oh my God. 662 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,560 The whole time because it's just cathartic and funny to me and it 663 00:36:54,560 --> 00:37:00,240 just feels good. So like if OK, I thought the 664 00:37:00,240 --> 00:37:04,680 shit was fucking up again. OK, like like I really do think 665 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,000 like what it takes to be a good Dominic to know what a 666 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,600 submissive is going through. And so you should at least test 667 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,720 out your toys and shit. And like I'm an extreme case 668 00:37:13,720 --> 00:37:17,640 because I'm down to be have shit beating out of me because I 669 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,800 think it's funny and it feels good. 670 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,160 But like that's what I used to do to combat Dom drop and now I 671 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:28,720 don't really have that and I I don't really get Dom drop as a I 672 00:37:28,720 --> 00:37:33,520 recognize right now I probably do, but like I'm still working 673 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,600 out how to combat it while doing this because. 674 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,120 For people who don't know what I'm. 675 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,160 Kind of going to be kind of known. 676 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,600 So I can't really do pick a play at the dungeon anymore because 677 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,320 there's just a bunch of people trying to get free sessions out 678 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:50,840 of me. And the first time I I realized 679 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,360 that happened to me, like I went to the dungeon with some friends 680 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,400 that I used to go with and stuff and I just did to pick a play 681 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,080 and I was negotiating with the person and like we stayed in 682 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,920 contact and everything because I was doing, you know, routine 683 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,480 check insurance on them stuff, you know, just like a few weeks 684 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,720 down the line, something like, hey, yo, you're so good with 685 00:38:05,720 --> 00:38:07,320 everything because we were saying some crazy shit and 686 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,320 whatever, you know, and they're like, yeah. 687 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,800 And like they slipped up and said something and I was just 688 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:16,000 like, wait, you, you know about that? 689 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,800 Like the clips and you know who I am like. 690 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,600 So they did their research. They're like, yeah, no, I didn't 691 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:27,600 know. I was like, oh, I was like, did 692 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:29,920 I just get taken on there? I'm like, I kind of, I'm not 693 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:34,880 kind of used like yo, like so rather than just like, you know, 694 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,000 I'm good at what I do. And rather than just book me, 695 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:42,280 you saw me there and decided to act like you didn't know who I 696 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,120 was and like it was just an organic meeting. 697 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,640 And like we just got along really well. 698 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,880 We just happened to have overlying kinks and shit like 699 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:49,680 that. Because I found out later, like 700 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,840 all the stuff that we did wasn't even always their thing. 701 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,320 Like they just knew I liked it because I post a lot what I'm 702 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,960 into on. My Oh no, no, no. 703 00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:01,200 Everything like that and I was just like, I feel preyed on, 704 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,160 like oh like this doesn't feel good. 705 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:04,800 I don't. So I don't really do pick up 706 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,560 play anymore. I was going to say that at 707 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:07,800 least. Two years since I've done some 708 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,320 pick up play. That sounds very, very risque. 709 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:14,680 You know, for someone of, you know, your notoriety, and this 710 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,920 is something that we don't talk about often is, you know, 711 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,840 assuming if you are in sex work and you see somebody at a party 712 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,760 or you see somebody at dungeons, because that's that happens. 713 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,640 I it's happened to me. I've seen, you know, some people 714 00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:32,040 that I worked with and I'm not going to, you know, say anything 715 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:34,160 until after the fact because I have good rapport. 716 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:39,400 But also, it's like if you knew that's causing that predatory 717 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,160 behaviour that we were talking about earlier, it's that they 718 00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:46,120 sought you out, they knew who you were, then they're going to 719 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:49,760 play dumb. And then again, they're causing 720 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:53,640 more harm to themselves because they're doing what you like, but 721 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,280 they're not performing what they like. 722 00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:01,240 So now you don't know what kind of mental stability that might 723 00:40:01,240 --> 00:40:03,760 have fucked up in their head. And that's why. 724 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:07,880 People you exactly and I'm like, yeah, and I'm glad I'm someone 725 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,760 who like does check insurance for like a while based off like 726 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,160 how intense the session is and everything because, you know, 727 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,560 feeling can arise whenever they arise. 728 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,440 You you could be cool with something one day and then like 729 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:18,800 2 months from now not be cool with it. 730 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,520 Absolutely. I'm being more quiet now because 731 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,240 my boyfriend just told me he could hear me down the hall so 732 00:40:22,240 --> 00:40:25,960 I'm like OK. You're fine. 733 00:40:27,240 --> 00:40:29,920 Like but like feelings going to rise like whenever. 734 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:33,600 So you know, that's okay if anything is wrong or bad or 735 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,480 whatever, but like you have to give space for that to happen. 736 00:40:36,720 --> 00:40:38,680 And really do I check it on people? 737 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:42,400 But like, you find out weird shit like that. 738 00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,600 It, it brings it back to again, the communication because again, 739 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,960 if you're not communicating any type of issues, that's why 740 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,400 negotiations happen. You know, again, people don't 741 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:59,000 just go to a dungeon, say I want my ass beat and then grab the 742 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,000 first person they see and say beat my ass. 743 00:41:01,240 --> 00:41:04,840 Yeah, there's, there's got to be some type of conversation. 744 00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,320 And if you are going to play parties where they're just 745 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,960 beating ass and not talking about it, maybe. 746 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,600 That's not OK. No, no, that's not a true. 747 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,080 I'm sorry, that's some 50 Shades of Grey type shit and that's 748 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,400 bullshit and it's not it. Yeah, and I'm sorry. 749 00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,880 And not talking about like it's. Strictly predatory it is. 750 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:27,080 Anybody who lives by the 50 Shades of Grey, even if you say 751 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,040 it like to the most vanilla person and you're trying to 752 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,920 explain to them your lifestyle, I'll be like, yeah, it's kind of 753 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:36,160 50 Shades of Grey, but without the predatory behavior. 754 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:42,440 I'm just, I'm just lying. So you remember when you saw 755 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:43,880 those handcuffs under your parents bed? 756 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,080 It's like that. Right. 757 00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:51,480 Yeah, don't, don't be quoting. Yeah, don't be quoting Miss EL 758 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:56,000 James for any to any sex work. Under the sun? 759 00:41:56,240 --> 00:41:57,920 No, don't even pull the cookbook from her. 760 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,960 No, if you're going to a munch, the first thing you would need 761 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,880 to not say is 50 Shades of Grey Brought me here, no. 762 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,080 Done Anybody who mentions 50 days a great munches like I 763 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,760 remember that like years ago when that first came out and 764 00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,040 they mentioned like every 50 just a day and I think I was 765 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,680 like. Oh yeah, I know. 766 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,480 Oh, I got to talk to somebody over there. 767 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,680 Right. Even when I was, like, stepping 768 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:25,560 on to the scene and realizing, like, BDSM and that realm of 769 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:30,080 kink was something I wanted to carry through everybody, Like 770 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,040 once that book came out, even my mom would come to me. 771 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,400 And she's like, do you know about this? 772 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,520 You know about that? And I'm like, yeah, but this is, 773 00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:41,000 this is just mommy porn written like a kindergartner. 774 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:45,320 Like, no, no, I wanted to praise that. 775 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:51,400 Even well written like and like I he touched my hand and like I 776 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:55,880 got wet because like he had handcuffs and like Oh my God the 777 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,480 room was red. I've never seen the color red 778 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:02,240 before. Like bitch, you're stupid. 779 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:07,000 You and sad to say not every Dom is a multi millionaire 780 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,160 billionaire. OK, some of them, they can 781 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,440 barely hold 2, two quarters in between their knees, but we 782 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,360 should go to them because they're safety. 783 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,600 Know what the fuck they're talking about? 784 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:24,040 Oh my God, Oh my God, just get it out the door. 785 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:29,040 Y'all get it out the door now people are probably come in and 786 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,800 say well we we wanted to talk about urban X so we might as 787 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,520 well talk about some urban X stuff. 788 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,360 You're nominated. What are the categories that you 789 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:41,320 are nominated? I'm nominated for hottest fetish 790 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:47,120 star. Hottest OK to to you. 791 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,680 I like to ask this question now and again. 792 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,320 Fetish. When you think of the word 793 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,240 fetish, what does that come to mind for you? 794 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:05,800 For me, fetish is it's what you need sexually that you can't do 795 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,720 without. That gets you there. 796 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:13,000 So for you. Like that's the strictest 797 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,160 different dictionary definition of fetish. 798 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,560 And that's what it means because I literally have a tattoo that 799 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,320 says words have meaning. So I'm like one of those 800 00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:24,160 people's like, hey, I know like the gist of it. 801 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:28,640 I know how to paraphrase it. But let me give you the exact 802 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,520 definition because I want you to know exactly what it means, not 803 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,560 what it means to me. Because you need to know exactly 804 00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,120 what the fuck you're talking about right now when you're 805 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,440 saying this shit to me. So I'm going to Google this 806 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,440 definition for you because I know what it means, but I can't 807 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:41,400 explain to you the exact dictionary definition. 808 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,000 Oh no, do. That right now, because you got 809 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,680 fucked up. So I'm that person that would be 810 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,440 Googling words during a whole disagreement and I you know 811 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,200 what? But I like that I rather have 812 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,640 somebody. If I'm giving up my control to 813 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:57,200 somebody, I rather them just openly say, I don't know, let me 814 00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:01,240 research. Then just assuming automatically 815 00:45:01,240 --> 00:45:04,640 and being so enthused. That's the word that we like to 816 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:09,960 use around the the community. It's being you're so enthused 817 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,360 but you are not educated. You just lost through the sauce. 818 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,720 Yeah, you can't do that and. It's like that's not helpful to 819 00:45:17,720 --> 00:45:21,560 anyone because someone has to be in control and be sane and 820 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:26,120 rational. 1000 per say. You can't both be lost in the 821 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,960 sauce. Like that's how people get hurt. 822 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,880 Everything that we do in BDSM is dangerous. 823 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,760 People can actually die and get seriously psychologically fucked 824 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,920 up from literally every single thing that we do. 825 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,520 And we've heard it in the media. For sexual gratification. 826 00:45:41,720 --> 00:45:45,960 And you've heard it in media, like there are cases of erotic 827 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:51,520 officiation asphyxiation. David Carradine from the Kill 828 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:55,240 Bill movies. He was infamously, you know, 829 00:45:56,320 --> 00:46:00,640 unfortunately, he he was unalived due to the erotic 830 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:05,560 officiation fetish that he had. So again, it's like that's why I 831 00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,760 asked like to you or just even somebody that's listening, you 832 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:12,520 should rethink and and think about talking about your 833 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:16,040 fetishes and talking about your kinks, because your kinks can be 834 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,200 your fetishes. Your fetishes can be your kinks 835 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:22,600 or they don't have to be. They don't have to be, but you 836 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,760 have to be. Exactly because they're they 837 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,320 don't have to overlap because a kink is just something you like. 838 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:28,920 A fetish is something you can't do without. 839 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,160 Like you need that to have a good time sexually. 840 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,160 And that's why it's like such a cool category. 841 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,960 Like I had to admit to myself that like, because I was doing 842 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:42,440 like all the promo and shit for it because it's a fans voted 843 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,400 award and everything. And I kept saying hottest fetish 844 00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:49,120 creator and I was like no, it says * like. 845 00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,480 And I was like, damn, I can't call myself a star, damn my 846 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,120 imposters and drove a show and fuck. 847 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,960 You know, that is funny that you said that because the star talk 848 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,080 is one of the things that we were talking about. 849 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,880 I want to say I talked about this with Gogo Zombie and Lasha 850 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:07,240 Lane most recently. But you know, the star versus 851 00:47:07,240 --> 00:47:10,080 the creator, you know, title. So you would say that you are 852 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:14,080 fetish creator not star because you haven't made movies, 853 00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:18,160 correct? Because I've done some program 854 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,320 stuff, but like, it's just like the vanilla porn category. 855 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,400 I mean, no, because the one I did with Daisy and Cotty, we 856 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,800 were both switching and stuff for each other in it. 857 00:47:26,720 --> 00:47:27,680 I know. Oh yeah. 858 00:47:27,720 --> 00:47:30,320 OK, so real quick. I'll tell full circle story real 859 00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,280 quick and then remind me what we were talking about before 860 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,360 because I have a terrible. Memory. 861 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,880 I love it. So literally when I was working 862 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:40,560 at Sanctuary, I, we had a booth at AVN and that was, I started 863 00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,840 in June and that, and that was around December and stuff or 864 00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:45,880 January. No, January. 865 00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:47,480 Yeah, because that's whenever he ends. 866 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,080 And so that's like 6-8 months later. 867 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:55,720 I met Daisy at that. I was passing around business 868 00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:58,080 cards and everything and I saw her and I was like, hey, so 869 00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,880 we're doing demos over there. It'd be really great if you play 870 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:04,400 because I'm a really big fan and like give you like a demo and, 871 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,360 and she was like, yeah, I'll come back for sure. 872 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,760 I sat at the booth and I was just like Daisy said she was 873 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,120 going to come. She said she was going and she 874 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:13,080 didn't come that day, but the next day she came with her now 875 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,800 husband and everything and she brought cameras and everything 876 00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:17,360 and I got to give her demo and everything. 877 00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:19,680 My boss was super happy and I was like, Oh my God. 878 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,640 Then cut to like a few months later, I'm nominated in a 879 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:28,160 category with her for Avian Awards for Fave da May, just 880 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,520 having started in June, nominated. 881 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:34,000 And then a few months after that, I shot the scene with her 882 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,000 for Crash Pad where we're topping each other. 883 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,640 And we literally at the end of that scene, we're sitting on the 884 00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,840 couch and I'm just like, you fuck the shit out of me. 885 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,040 She's like, I had to go have lunch with my parents after 886 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:44,080 this. My legs are shaking. 887 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,440 You fuck the shit out of me, right? 888 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:46,480 We're just sitting down. I'm just like. 889 00:48:50,240 --> 00:48:54,360 I love that now that is a full circle moment because again 890 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,720 Daisy Ducati, y'all don't know who that is. 891 00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,720 Please go do your research. Shout out to Daisy legend 892 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:05,280 sweetheart. My God, sweet. 893 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:06,360 One of the sweetest. Beautiful. 894 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:09,680 She's so amazing and she's just so light up a room and like 895 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:12,760 just. And I love just I again, I love 896 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,160 how you have this black alternative look. 897 00:49:15,240 --> 00:49:18,920 She has this alternative look. And that's what I love about the 898 00:49:19,240 --> 00:49:23,880 whole kink Dom, you know, scene, the BDSM scene, especially for, 899 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:27,200 you know, black performers. We are really showing like, 900 00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,680 listen, we can listen, we showing out like we can listen 901 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,600 to the heavy metal, we can listen to the drum and bass and 902 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,720 we might watch some fucked up serial killer thing, but we all 903 00:49:37,720 --> 00:49:39,960 have something in common. Our pussies get wet for 904 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:45,560 something. OK yes Costa Mayhem. 905 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,280 Black people are involved too. So again, bringing it to the 906 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:53,120 Urban X Awards, again, Fetish, you have this fans, you know 907 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:56,040 award which is very big. Sometimes I feel like the fan 908 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:59,560 awards don't get enough love, but it is up to the fans. 909 00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,200 It comes down to the fans. I feel like that makes you 910 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:03,280 better. It does. 911 00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,280 It's. Great, like your peers and 912 00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:09,080 everything like that, obviously, but like people are going out 913 00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:10,520 there like there's this one dude. 914 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:14,440 I met him in a space with Wreck It Ralph and Freya von Dune when 915 00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:15,960 they used to do their spaces and everything. 916 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:19,040 And they were like some of the first people that ever gave me a 917 00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,680 mic and everything and listened and got to see the knowledge I 918 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,560 have and everything like that. And I had like 400 followers 919 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,160 when I first went their space. And then by the time of January, 920 00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:32,040 I had like 4000 when I went to the ABN thing and like I met 921 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:36,240 this dude Isaac there and he has supported me the entire time 922 00:50:36,240 --> 00:50:38,800 over the past three years, everything. 923 00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:43,240 He votes me this every fucking day, every other day, whatever 924 00:50:43,240 --> 00:50:45,520 it was he was posting, he voted for me. 925 00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:47,000 Like I voted for you and everybody else. 926 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,120 I voted for you and this person. I voted for you and this and I 927 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:50,240 was retweeting. I was like, thank you. 928 00:50:50,240 --> 00:50:53,120 I like coming up with something to say some other way to say 929 00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:54,960 thank you because I was just so flabbergasted. 930 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:58,080 He's the sweetest person and like you don't have to like 931 00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:01,360 support monetarily. Like he just he shows out every 932 00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:04,920 time for every fucking award. He boasts every time and you 933 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:08,080 make sure and he will write the best comments under everything. 934 00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,480 He's like, Oh my God, you're just living And he's the 935 00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,960 sweetest like and I'm like, I've never met this man a day in my 936 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:15,960 life. But he is such a supporter 937 00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,400 through and through. And it's like it's that makes 938 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:21,640 fan awards so fucking. Cool, you know, you have to like 939 00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,760 you have to give it to your fans and and you know, being in the 940 00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,080 sex industry, your fans are what makes or breaks you. 941 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:31,000 It really does. It's it's a lot of difference 942 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,240 going into the mainstream and then going and stepping into the 943 00:51:34,240 --> 00:51:39,480 porn world and what like witnessing how fans are treated 944 00:51:39,720 --> 00:51:41,560 compared to mainstream celebrities. 945 00:51:41,720 --> 00:51:45,000 You go to like I went to the AB Ms. the first this first year 946 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,680 because I was nominated and again fan award. 947 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,120 It was great for best sex podcast. 948 00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,680 We lost, but you know what? It was the notoriety. 949 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,040 I lost it. You know, but it's still like an 950 00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:58,520 honor. It's still an honor, right? 951 00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:01,920 To be nominated, to put your name out there, just people to 952 00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:03,240 get to know you. There you go. 953 00:52:03,240 --> 00:52:07,600 It's like you put AVN nominated Urban X, nominate anything that 954 00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:08,520 is of that statue. Boom. 955 00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,160 Yeah. My rates went up. 956 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:15,280 Boom, you have to, you have to, but I want people to understand 957 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:21,160 especially in your line of work femdoms, even though you are 958 00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:25,440 known for having this like hard personality, y'all go harder for 959 00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,280 the fans that put you on that platform. 960 00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:31,360 And like you said, it could be the Joe Schmo that might not be 961 00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:35,320 able to buy all the clips, but he's retweeting your posts. 962 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,160 He's sending people in every other way imaginable. 963 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,600 And so I just want people to understand, be kind to your 964 00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:46,560 friend, be kind to the fans, but also fans, you guys have to take 965 00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:49,280 this into consideration, and I'm sure you get this a lot too. 966 00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:55,520 The boundaries, the boundaries need to be laid out and people 967 00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,160 will come in my DMS after they see a certain person on the show 968 00:52:58,160 --> 00:52:59,840 and they'll be like, oh, can I have their number? 969 00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:03,600 Like the hell no. You can get the information that 970 00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,360 you have. If they want to talk to you, 971 00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:10,160 they will talk to you. OK, You can DM them, write them 972 00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:13,920 a nice e-mail, you know, gift them something on their whip. 973 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:18,160 Ask nicely, please and thank you and pay for the content. 974 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:25,360 Stop asking for freebies. Exactly because like I'm, I'm 975 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,680 really fortunate that my like fans, I'm always reluctant to 976 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:31,320 say that because like I said, imposter syndrome out the ass. 977 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,240 But. Like my fans, they know I will 978 00:53:35,240 --> 00:53:37,760 check them. I'm like, who the fuck did you 979 00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,600 just say that shit to? Who you trying to fuck? 980 00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:46,040 You lost your stupid head ass. No, no, no, no, fix that and 981 00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:49,480 I'll fucking be like hey, you, you forgot to add Goddess, you 982 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:51,160 forgot to say this. What was that again? 983 00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:53,320 And I'm like, oh, sorry, you know, you, you look really 984 00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,720 pretty. I'm like, yeah, thank you. 985 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:56,840 That's that's better. I was. 986 00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,000 That come correctly, come correctly. 987 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,680 You don't come to somebody'd house and you bring an empty 988 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:02,720 plate. You don't do that. 989 00:54:02,720 --> 00:54:05,560 You don't go to people's houses empty handed. 990 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,520 You come with something, even if it's a goddamn napkin, okay? 991 00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:14,200 Because if you one thing, if I recorded like super sexual ass 992 00:54:14,240 --> 00:54:16,560 comments and stuff, because like, if that's your niche, 993 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:18,560 that's your niche, but that ain't what I'm playing to. 994 00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,240 I'm not going to be like, Oh yeah, Daddy's sitting here. 995 00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:22,880 No. Are you stupid? 996 00:54:23,240 --> 00:54:25,160 You're going to call. You're going to call her daddy 997 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:28,040 first? OK, The hell I. 998 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,320 Love being called daddy, that should make me wet as fuck. 999 00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:38,360 When eyes can get a straight man to call me daddy, I am God. 1000 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:41,640 Well damn, I said. Daddy send her. 1001 00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:46,800 I whispered it though. You'll hear it later in the. 1002 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:51,480 Eyes and call me daddy. Daddy, I don't even call anybody 1003 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,640 daddy besides my daddy. So my fiance is going to laugh 1004 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:56,520 at this because I don't call anybody daddy. 1005 00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:04,120 She broke me all. We, we have a date now because 1006 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,800 boss lady, I took her to the dungeon that I used to like hang 1007 00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,680 out all the time. And she's like, you're one of 1008 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:11,880 those few women that can make people you like me. 1009 00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:14,720 I would squirt it everywhere. Oh my God, Like it was a whole 1010 00:55:14,720 --> 00:55:16,520 thing. So all of us have to go to the 1011 00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:18,600 dungeon and I wasn't feeding everybody's ass. 1012 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:26,520 Y'all, y'all you know what listen, I'm gonna need my 1013 00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:28,840 guests. I'm gonna need to stop my guests 1014 00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:32,800 to soliciting like themselves to me because like I I did not do 1015 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:35,520 anything to cinder before. I didn't tell Cinder, you know, 1016 00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:37,120 you can freely just flirt with me on this show. 1017 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:39,840 I didn't do this. I didn't do it y'all. 1018 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:41,000 I'm. Just like this. 1019 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,880 OK, go go, go go. Zombie did not bring. 1020 00:55:44,240 --> 00:55:45,040 It out to. Me. 1021 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,240 I guess I do. All I did was sit here and be 1022 00:55:47,240 --> 00:55:48,320 pretty. That's it. 1023 00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:49,520 And ask questions. You. 1024 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,440 Know you know what you did wrong. 1025 00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:53,480 Right. What did I do wrong? 1026 00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,720 Go Go and I are both Scorpios. Our birthdays are four days 1027 00:55:56,720 --> 00:55:59,960 apart. And I'm an Aries, I just have 1028 00:55:59,960 --> 00:56:02,600 ways. My mama's an Aries, Yeah. 1029 00:56:02,720 --> 00:56:05,720 You in trouble? No, I should be telling you. 1030 00:56:05,720 --> 00:56:08,520 You in trouble because Arie Aries? 1031 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,640 Everybody likes to shit on the Aries OK but one thing you will 1032 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:15,280 never shit on an Aries. We are the warriors or goddesses 1033 00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:18,160 of the bedroom like my. Mother is an Aries. 1034 00:56:18,240 --> 00:56:21,080 She's April 12th. Trust me, I am well aware. 1035 00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:23,560 I like being compared to your Mama. 1036 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,800 Like. This So now you got to call me 1037 00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:30,600 Mama, Big Mama. I will beat you over and call 1038 00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,640 you Mama. Get the dance in the air, Mama. 1039 00:56:38,720 --> 00:56:41,840 I did, I love this. I hope y'all are enjoying this 1040 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:43,120 conversation. I have to call you Mama. 1041 00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,320 Y'all, I don't. Know I wear lots of makeup 1042 00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:48,600 because I want to see that shit too. 1043 00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:53,520 Oh, this may, oh, these lips. It's hard to come off like it's 1044 00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:54,520 hard. Don't worry, it's not 1045 00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:58,000 impossible. I'll get. 1046 00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,560 You everything else will, you know, come off easily. 1047 00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:01,960 Everything else comes off easily. 1048 00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:02,960 I like to cry. I'll. 1049 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:04,120 Get it off. I cry. 1050 00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:05,760 I cry prettyly. I'll get it off. 1051 00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:07,920 You'll get it off. It's a challenge. 1052 00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:10,080 It's a challenge. I know which color I'm wearing 1053 00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:13,560 on Sunday. Face in the mattress, Don't make 1054 00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:17,240 me strap you too. Yes please. 1055 00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:20,840 I'm a slept first. I'm a slut for it. 1056 00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:23,600 I was. My log in the crash pad so you 1057 00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:25,240 can see that scene with Daisy if you don't have. 1058 00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,160 A yes please. I I need the cheat codes, the 1059 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,960 links. I need to see this because I if 1060 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:32,640 I'm getting. Myself in to see the scene I did 1061 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,040 with Valentine about Betty on there too. 1062 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,400 Y'all again, another guest is taking me. 1063 00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:43,120 Just I have no more words. I think this interview is over. 1064 00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,840 I think I need to go and practice what I've been 1065 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,440 hypnotized to do probably 20 more times. 1066 00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:51,560 And you'll do it to your videos too. 1067 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,120 Think of me. Oh, I will think of you. 1068 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:03,600 Oh my God, y'all Lady Cinder, Lady Cinder. 1069 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,120 I don't even know. Oh my goodness. 1070 00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:08,280 Like thank you. Thank you for your presence. 1071 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,840 I I want to bring you back. I say this to every guest, but 1072 00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,000 it's the it's the female guest for me that just keep coming 1073 00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:18,800 back for more This I just can't get enough. 1074 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:20,840 That's what it is. And I wear my blue lipstick next 1075 00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,560 time too. I'm AI used to use the hashtag 1076 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,720 every single time. Blue is my red lip because I 1077 00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,040 wore it religiously. Cobalt blue. 1078 00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:31,480 See. Yes, please. 1079 00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:32,560 I need to see. It's a date. 1080 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:35,320 It's a date. Like, hey, I don't know who's 1081 00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,760 going to bum rush you on Urban X, but you just get ready. 1082 00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:40,840 You see this purple hair? Wait, wait, wait. 1083 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:47,120 We got I'm over here, like covering the screen as if we 1084 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:50,720 ain't trying to get taken down. Now she's the homo's idiot. 1085 00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:52,800 I'm over here like, like, how do I block? 1086 00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,720 I'm over here trying to block, block a screen. 1087 00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:08,520 I can't even block. Lady Cinder, I have to say thank 1088 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:12,440 you for being such an amazing, amazing being on this show 1089 00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,600 today. Where can people get in touch 1090 00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:16,040 with you? Where can they find you? 1091 00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:23,040 Where can they just like to you? If you want and give me money 1092 00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,560 you can check out my loyal fans and my only fans. 1093 00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:31,280 My loyal fans is Lady Cinder. My only fans is Cinder 11/10 and 1094 00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:34,240 then you can go to crashpadtheseries.com and see 1095 00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,840 those scenes I was talking about with Valentine's on Betty and 1096 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:40,920 Daisy, Ducati and myself. And then you want to catch me on 1097 00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:42,520 the free cheap shit because you're broke. 1098 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:44,960 You can find me on Twitter, you fucking degenerate. 1099 00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,320 Lady Cinder 1110 whatever. And Instagram is Lady under 1100 00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:53,040 score Cinder 1110 and TikTok is Lady Cinder 11/10 as well. 1101 00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:56,720 Boom, 1110 is my birthday. 1110 is the birthday, so don't you 1102 00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:58,720 forget those you nasty pieces of. 1103 01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,360 See, I can't do it. See, I can't. 1104 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:05,400 I can't do it. Every time somebody's like being 1105 01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:06,800 mean. Sapphire is like no. 1106 01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,760 Don't make me put a lace on you and make you do it. 1107 01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,280 I mean, if you strapped me it'd be different, but you know, 1108 01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,000 you're not that far. I know that don't. 1109 01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:18,840 Threaten me with a good time. Don't threaten me with a nice 1110 01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:25,640 time. I'm just saying, well, you know, 1111 01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:28,120 you would get that. See again twice in a row. 1112 01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:31,800 This is 2 episodes in a row that the earplugs are getting where 1113 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,760 I'm flabbergasted to sign off. OK, so again, I'm going to keep 1114 01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,280 this. I'm keeping this in because 1115 01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,600 again, you know it's real when Sapphire can't even like sign 1116 01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:45,320 off on her own things. Of course I'm Megan Sapphire. 1117 01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:50,240 You can find me at MSRADIOSAPPH ire.com. 1118 01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,120 That's also Miz Radio Sapphire on the Instagrams. 1119 01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:58,240 No I don't have Twitter stop ask me TikTok fuck you and of course 1120 01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:01,520 subscribe to sapphires your play on YouTube. 1121 01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:06,440 With that said, y'all remember that safe sex is the best hot 1122 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,560 sex. Till next time, good night. 1123 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,840 That was the show all you sexy motherfuckers out there. 1124 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:19,400 Remember to follow at Miss Radio Sapphire and Sapphires Ear Play 1125 01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:21,640 on Instagram. 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